Seeing your father in the ER as a young child may be upsetting but it's not a trauma in the clinical sense of the word. The nurses did a nice job reassuring her and explaining it to her in a way she could understand.
Absolutely. I was in a car accident with my grandma and grandpa, it killed my grandma, killed the lady that hit us, almost killed me and my grandfather. It was my grandma's birthday, and a day before my 8th birthday. My mother didn't stay by my side in the emergency room, she went to my grandfather. I didn't blame her, not one iota. Like you said, she did her best. I asked her why, she said she couldn't because she couldn't bare to see her baby in pain. It would've been more traumatic for me to see her in so much pain from seeing me in pain. No one should ever judge a mother by her actions during a traumatic event, especially if that person has never been in that situation.
Exactly, I don’t know who exactly they expected were going to pick her children up from school? Maybe they still think it’s the 1960s when the local town vagrant could watch your kids for a bottle of something strong.
Becky and Sandra are the types of nurses I love caring for me. Just caring and compassionate people. I hope Becky finds herself with whatever makes her happy. Sandra, I hope she gets the peace she deserves.
I enjoy these videos. The doctors and nurses are so professional and compassionate. It seems to be hit or miss here in the states but mostly good nurses. I spent 27 days in hospital back in 2015…… diverticulitis, then C-dif……. Crazy time. Then finally had part of large intestines removed ( left hemi colectomy). Coming from a medical family, I was self advocating and continue to be that way. Very blessed. Yes tell your loved ones, you love them. 💜💜
The last words my Dad and I said to each other before he surely passed , was I love you" , 2 weeks later I got the phone call that my dad had a massive heart attack and died . In so glad , ' I love you' were the last words , Dad and I said to each other before goodbye , you never know when saying good bye to someone , really is 'the last goodbye '. ❤😢
We have a few. One is Boston med! If you go to that one you’ll see the other ones. There’s one in Texas and one in phoenix Arizona. I just can’t remember the name of them. They’re old ones like this one, but they’re still good.❤
Excellent show. My oldest at 10 was not told I could die from Sepsis and our relationship suffered for the last 27 years. It would have been better for our whole family if he was told and could see how ill I was. Keeping children in the dark with medical care isn’t a good idea. Their minds make up scenarios that scar them for many years. 😢
35:52 I soooo understand what she means, and I wish I could have met her in another life. But she's in a different country, so all I can say is that she's a genuinely lovely person, and I hope she finds someone who loves life as much she does
Bless Nurse Sandra. My only child was killed when he was 8 years old. I DID curl up into a little bowl. I was a firefighter/paramedic n his death crushed all of me n I couldn’t do it anymore. I greatly admire Sandra for being so strong.
I am so so so sorry for you. 😢😢😢 That must be the hardest experience a person can face. I wish you peace and a reason to go on with life. You deserve it so much. All the best for you. ❤
I absolutely love that UK allows children in to see there family members. My brother and I were never given the chance to see our grandfather when he went in hospital. He was there for a week and passed in surgery. We could of had another week with him but that was taken away by stupid ass rules.
The old gentleman passing along his words of wisdom about the nurse's hair was amusing. In his culture most of the women use products to make their black hair shiny. I've looked into those products for my hair, but they are expensive and I already use products specifically for curly hair and they are not cheap so I'll stop there lol
Stairs are so much more of a hassle for the elderly. They should not be staying in double storey houses. Rather go into a ground floor unit or single house if there finances allow it.
Disagree. When I was 12 in 1968, mom was dying in the hospital from leukemia in 1968. My sister was 15 and my brother was 9. Towards the end they wouldn't let us see her. They were afraid we'd be upset by how she looked and how she was in pain. I would loke to have seen her more.
I didn’t know they had dating apps in the 70’s😮? I was an older student to become an RN. I was a singer and then a mom and then went to college to become a nurse because I always wanted to be one! I still got 25 years in before I retired at 65 years old 😊. I retired because of my back. I didn’t want to be a trauma nurse though…I wanted to be an oncology nurse and that’s what I did ❤
Not a dating app - apps certainly weren't around at that time. It must've been dating service staffed by humans. You'd probably have to call their business number, tell a human employee your data, that employee would then look through files of other people signed up to that service and find a few who might fit.
@@mickieswendsen1302 Way to much voyeurism in healthcare in the USA "we seen thousands of penises we don't care seeing yours" or the "You do not have anything I haven't seen before" Oh and the biggest one "It is no big deal, I have seen them all the time" After the female nurse says that line, I ask her a question that NO female nurse has answered... "If it is no big deal to see it, why is it a big deal not to see it?"
I know the nurse meant to funny but she was so wrong to ask the child who did they love more and to remember who buys them more things! Parents are struggling to keep a roof over their children’s head, food in their belly, and clothing on their backs. Grandparents usually have their homes they spent like 40k for and here we are paying twice that in rent because we can’t afford to buy a home. We are paying an astronomical amount for utilities and groceries. We can’t always buy the game or toys they want the time. You should never measure love with gifts.
Some woman are already fighting for the mother role for children they carried and birthed against their mom or mom in law. Possessions can disappear in a blink a mothers love is eternal
Unless a child is the patient themselves, the further they’re kept away from hospitals, the better. It’s way too traumatising for them to see their loved ones in obvious pain with various tubes and equipment around them. Perhaps this lady had no choice but surely there’s a children’s area where they could wait away from resus?
……hospital workers’ aren’t available for child care. Nothing wrong with children being visitors’, when a relative is hospitalised. It’s up to a parent to explain to their child/children what’s happening to the patient. I grew up visiting a hospital, playing in its’ gardens’, from a 6yo, as my sister was a Nursing/Theatre sister there, & my mother was the President of Hospital’s Committee………
@@elizabethroberts6215Sorry, but can’t agree on this one. The children were not playing in the garden in this video and it was, in my opinion, unnecessary to frighten a child who is so young. It obviously did effect her in a negative way as she was in tears. Imagine if there had been a patient in an even worse condition , covered in blood and screaming in pain on their way to resus or in the next cubicle- do you think that’s a scene any young child should be witness to?
I couldn't believe I was seeing her with her kids there. I was shocked when she brought them, especially the girl, into see their father, bound up, with wires and tubes everywhere. Horrifying for a small child. It can be horrifying for adults. Even if her father were about to die, that's NOT a memory a child should be burdened with.
Well, maybe she had her kids with her when she got the call. It can be very difficult to get childcare on such short notice. I’m sure she was just anxious to get to her husband’s side with him being seriously hurt
As a mother, I would have felt it necessary to arrange for child care BEFORE going down to the emergency center. They will be working to stabilize my husband first before they would let me in. So I would have time to get there. So I seem to be in disagreement with a majority here.
I, for one, absolutely agree. And I would also ONLY do this if I spoke to the hospital and if I couldn't find child care, I'd either ask them to tell my husband or I'd bring them but I wouldn't let them see their father...even stable, it'd be traumatic at that age
How many people do you think are waiting by the phone, ready to drop everything this very second to pick two children up, one in a car seat, so I can race off to see my seriously injured husband?
Seeing your father in the ER as a young child may be upsetting but it's not a trauma in the clinical sense of the word. The nurses did a nice job reassuring her and explaining it to her in a way she could understand.
Thank you
Trauma refers not to the external event, but to the internal reaction to the event.
The single nurse & one who lost her son were great. Felt for the tree surgeon & Parkinsons pt deeply. Wonderful program..
There’s a lot of unnecessary judgment on the mom here. Everyone does the best they can and I think she did fine.
Absolutely. I was in a car accident with my grandma and grandpa, it killed my grandma, killed the lady that hit us, almost killed me and my grandfather. It was my grandma's birthday, and a day before my 8th birthday. My mother didn't stay by my side in the emergency room, she went to my grandfather. I didn't blame her, not one iota. Like you said, she did her best. I asked her why, she said she couldn't because she couldn't bare to see her baby in pain. It would've been more traumatic for me to see her in so much pain from seeing me in pain. No one should ever judge a mother by her actions during a traumatic event, especially if that person has never been in that situation.
Exactly, I don’t know who exactly they expected were going to pick her children up from school? Maybe they still think it’s the 1960s when the local town vagrant could watch your kids for a bottle of something strong.
Becky and Sandra are the types of nurses I love caring for me. Just caring and compassionate people. I hope Becky finds herself with whatever makes her happy. Sandra, I hope she gets the peace she deserves.
I enjoy these videos. The doctors and nurses are so professional and compassionate. It seems to be hit or miss here in the states but mostly good nurses. I spent 27 days in hospital back in 2015…… diverticulitis, then C-dif……. Crazy time. Then finally had part of large intestines removed ( left hemi colectomy). Coming from a medical family, I was self advocating and continue to be that way.
Very blessed. Yes tell your loved ones, you love them. 💜💜
The last words my Dad and I said to each other before he surely passed , was I love you" , 2 weeks later I got the phone call that my dad had a massive heart attack and died .
In so glad , ' I love you' were the last words , Dad and I said to each other before goodbye , you never know when saying good bye to someone , really is 'the last goodbye '. ❤😢
God bless both of these men and their families.
Please be very careful, Mr Tree surgeon! You've got a lot of family depending on you 😅👍💗
❤❤❤I love this show we need one in America thank you to all the health care workers out there
We have a few. One is Boston med! If you go to that one you’ll see the other ones. There’s one in Texas and one in phoenix Arizona. I just can’t remember the name of them. They’re old ones like this one, but they’re still good.❤
Love watching all of theses videos of real people that share their love life God bless them all
How lucky that the older couple are soul mates.
You nurses are the best! To all the family and patients your strong
Excellent show. My oldest at 10 was not told I could die from Sepsis and our relationship suffered for the last 27 years. It would have been better for our whole family if he was told and could see how ill I was. Keeping children in the dark with medical care isn’t a good idea. Their minds make up scenarios that scar them for many years. 😢
35:52 I soooo understand what she means, and I wish I could have met her in another life. But she's in a different country, so all I can say is that she's a genuinely lovely person, and I hope she finds someone who loves life as much she does
An Arborist. Wish him well and his family. A friend of mine, fell bad head injury and has never been the same.
Bless Nurse Sandra. My only child was killed when he was 8 years old. I DID curl up into a little bowl. I was a firefighter/paramedic n his death crushed all of me n I couldn’t do it anymore. I greatly admire Sandra for being so strong.
I am so so so sorry for you. 😢😢😢 That must be the hardest experience a person can face. I wish you peace and a reason to go on with life. You deserve it so much. All the best for you. ❤
I hope that young man healwd fully.
I was thinking that polka dots must be popular in the UK, and I finally realized it’s a uniform. Ha!
What you don't understand, maybe their Mum didn't have anyone to watch the kids.
Some people’s critical thinking gene has been replaced by the judge all mothers gene, sadly.
Oh nurse Becky have I got a Canadian young man for you!!
I absolutely love that UK allows children in to see there family members. My brother and I were never given the chance to see our grandfather when he went in hospital. He was there for a week and passed in surgery. We could of had another week with him but that was taken away by stupid ass rules.
Nurse Becky is absolutely beautiful! Amazing smile and gorgeous eyes she will make a man very lucky one day!
The old gentleman passing along his words of wisdom about the nurse's hair was amusing. In his culture most of the women use products to make their black hair shiny. I've looked into those products for my hair, but they are expensive and I already use products specifically for curly hair and they are not cheap so I'll stop there lol
So much judgement here about people’s behaviour in emergency situations. Mean & unnecessary.
my mum passed away from lung cancer when i was 8
Stairs are so much more of a hassle for the elderly. They should not be staying in double storey houses. Rather go into a ground floor unit or single house if there finances allow it.
Disagree. When I was 12 in 1968, mom was dying in the hospital from leukemia in 1968. My sister was 15 and my brother was 9. Towards the end they wouldn't let us see her. They were afraid we'd be upset by how she looked and how she was in pain. I would loke to have seen her more.
1956, great year to be born. Sorry you lost your mother at such a young age. ❤
@SianPrice-q7r thank you.
The tree surgeons should have safety equipment like linemen.
The EMTs that brought him into ER said his safety harness failed and that’s when he fell!! 😮
He did, but it malfunctioned 😢
He did. It failed.
The little man with the sore toe is looking for a wife for his son, I think!😂
I didn’t know they had dating apps in the 70’s😮?
I was an older student to become an RN. I was a singer and then a mom and then went to college to become a nurse because I always wanted to be one! I still got 25 years in before I retired at 65 years old 😊. I retired because of my back. I didn’t want to be a trauma nurse though…I wanted to be an oncology nurse and that’s what I did ❤
Not a dating app - apps certainly weren't around at that time. It must've been dating service staffed by humans. You'd probably have to call their business number, tell a human employee your data, that employee would then look through files of other people signed up to that service and find a few who might fit.
With the tree surgeon unable to work and he was the only income... Is there a workers compensation fund in the UK? Disability fund?
This show would be perfect awsom if they would leave out background music or sounds
She'll be a doctor some day...
Don’t worry Becky, you’re perfect, and I’ll share with you. So cute, don’t know why they’re not beating your door down?
That silly old man asking a young woman if she's married made my skin crawl.
@heyjude2505 why would the old man's conversation make your skin crawl? He made no passes just nervous conversation.
His culture is pretty focused on marriage.
I hope Becky found her someone.❤
7:05 The way they showed him respect, dignity and kept him covered was amazing, not something they do in the USA for male patients...
Poor nursing skill
@@mickieswendsen1302 Way to much voyeurism in healthcare in the USA
"we seen thousands of penises we don't care seeing yours"
or the "You do not have anything I haven't seen before"
Oh and the biggest one "It is no big deal, I have seen them all the time"
After the female nurse says that line, I ask her a question that NO female nurse has answered...
"If it is no big deal to see it, why is it a big deal not to see it?"
Is the young boy the tree guys son??? Why didn’t he not get to visit with dad?
A new one?
Yes, it was. I hope you have a great day my friend ❤️🙂⚘️.
I know the nurse meant to funny but she was so wrong to ask the child who did they love more and to remember who buys them more things! Parents are struggling to keep a roof over their children’s head, food in their belly, and clothing on their backs. Grandparents usually have their homes they spent like 40k for and here we are paying twice that in rent because we can’t afford to buy a home. We are paying an astronomical amount for utilities and groceries. We can’t always buy the game or toys they want the time. You should never measure love with gifts.
Some woman are already fighting for the mother role for children they carried and birthed against their mom or mom in law. Possessions can disappear in a blink a mothers love is eternal
Unless a child is the patient themselves, the further they’re kept away from hospitals, the better. It’s way too traumatising for them to see their loved ones in obvious pain with various tubes and equipment around them. Perhaps this lady had no choice but surely there’s a children’s area where they could wait away from resus?
……hospital workers’ aren’t available for child care. Nothing wrong with children being visitors’, when a relative is hospitalised. It’s up to a parent to explain to their child/children what’s happening to the patient. I grew up visiting a hospital, playing in its’ gardens’, from a 6yo, as my sister was a Nursing/Theatre sister there, & my mother was the President of Hospital’s Committee………
@@elizabethroberts6215Sorry, but can’t agree on this one. The children were not playing in the garden in this video and it was, in my opinion, unnecessary to frighten a child who is so young. It obviously did effect her in a negative way as she was in tears. Imagine if there had been a patient in an even worse condition , covered in blood and screaming in pain on their way to resus or in the next cubicle- do you think that’s a scene any young child should be witness to?
I couldn't believe I was seeing her with her kids there. I was shocked when she brought them, especially the girl, into see their father, bound up, with wires and tubes everywhere. Horrifying for a small child. It can be horrifying for adults. Even if her father were about to die, that's NOT a memory a child should be burdened with.
Especially when only the one exists and the other child gets ignored
Well, maybe she had her kids with her when she got the call. It can be very difficult to get childcare on such short notice. I’m sure she was just anxious to get to her husband’s side with him being seriously hurt
As a mother, I would have felt it necessary to arrange for child care BEFORE going down to the emergency center. They will be working to stabilize my husband first before they would let me in. So I would have time to get there. So I seem to be in disagreement with a majority here.
I, for one, absolutely agree. And I would also ONLY do this if I spoke to the hospital and if I couldn't find child care, I'd either ask them to tell my husband or I'd bring them but I wouldn't let them see their father...even stable, it'd be traumatic at that age
It might be the last time for them to say I love you, or say goodbye. Depriving them of that can be way more traumatic.
How many people do you think are waiting by the phone, ready to drop everything this very second to pick two children up, one in a car seat, so I can race off to see my seriously injured husband?
To each his own.
In th USA nurses make much more money than cops
Why did that mother leave her upset little girl out in the hall with a random nurse?
And why did she not care about the boy ? Was it her husbands son ? She was quite ignorant to him, and only cared about the girls feelings.
Yes, it’s her husband’s son. She talks about it around 13:00. She had two boys, he had one, and then they had Abigail together.
@@inge191157I felt so bad for the son. Ignored by her
Wow Facebook mean posting boomers really have taken over UA-cam.
Wife needs to let husband sleep. Goodness sake
It seems to me there’s a lot of wasted time, where you could be helping more patients.
Really? You work there, do you? What you're seeing on this programs are snippets of life there.
Und ich glaube, einige Menschen bräuchten überhaupt nicht ins Krankenhaus zu gehen!!! Die könnten sich auch zu Hause ein Pflaster drauf machen!!!!!
@@angelikascholten9983 Hallo, können Sie bitte die Massensatzzeichenhaltung einstellen? Das ist nicht artgerecht. Danke.
Believe me, they're VERY busy!!
And heal up all wrong, or get an infection? How many keep, or can obtain plaster supplies in their home without delay??