@@nukita718 Eighteen is old enough to be considered an adult. If she hasn't realized how foolish she is at eighteen, and still haven't figured it out at twenty five, the law doesn't need to be changed because some people never get smart or don't get their sht together before thirty. There are people who are mature at fourteen but it doesn't mean we should wonder if the age of adulthood should be lowered. Infantilising adults and babying kids when they should know better is how people like her are created.
@@sianaiseh, 18 year old aren't even far from 15 year olds, my friends haven't changed aside from maturing in some aspects of life, I think they need to be let go so they could figure themselves out a bit young, but then again they're still stupid enough to get into shit and not understanding the consequences that will lead after it because they're allowed to make decisions like that at 18. Maybe they could just make some activities or actions restricted to 21 or 23 year olds?? Sexual activity is fine ig but being a porn model is something else
@Deep Patel I think you just missed the point that the whole post talks about men being miserable for watching pork of any kind, paid or for free. So by her standards you are just a lousy sad little man. You're welcome.
I agree but I`m not sure that it`s only men subscribing, it`s probably mostly men but I feel that for this generation subscribing to your friends OF is pretty much like becoming someone`s Facebook friend was for the previous generation and everyone does it. That`s my impression from listening to younger people talking about it.
Fast money is the new wave for stability I suppose... Yet in the real world it takes a lot of time. The fact that OF is promoted alot for women to contribute to porn for money is odd.
I firmly believe that being pro-s#xwork is being anti-woman. How, in what world, can promoting women (or anyone, for the matter) to be a rentable body to use for gratification be anything but awful? Its just promoting the idea that its an okay perception to have regarding another human being, and it is indeed horrifying
Honestly I could see children becoming resentful of a parent who does pornography. Especially if it causes them hell in the future. Or even if they just find it disgusting.
that's already a reality, you know. some kids getting bullied in school when their mates bring in pictures of the onlyfans mom spreading her cheeks on video
You know, OP, what I have to wonder is: what’s worse, a parent that did only fans and got their child bullied, or a parent that believes it’s not child abuse to give their child sugar and cannot explain to their child why sugar is a poisonous drug? I never, ever heard a single one of my classmates call out another classmate for their parent having been in porn. Of course, I’ve heard “your mom’s a hoe,” but that’s not “LOL your mom did porn and I’ve seen it.” You know what I heard all the time? How fucking disgusting I was for having been morbidly obese. I remember once asking in my health class “if sugar is so bad, why are we also told we need sugar for brain function?” and I was LAUGHED AT. If a thin person had asked the same question, I doubt they’d have received the same flack. Of course, the teacher didn’t have enough understanding of science to explain that while the brain needs glucose, that glucose can be created from proteins during a process known as gluconeogenesis, which creates glucose from protein, but only if we don’t consume carbohydrates, or consume very little in the way of carbohydrates. I had to learn that on my own. Now that I know what I know about the deadly effects of sugar, and especially fructose, it’s almost hard not to be resentful of my parent that worked for Pepsi for a decade. My parents let me drink that stuff. I get the feeling that at least an OF parent is less likely to allow their child to partake in their… line of work, when compared to a parent working for a soda company, fast food company, ice cream stand, processed food factory, etc harmful “foods.”
When people choose the “crying in a Ferrari”, I always wonder why crying isn’t the first problem they try to address. I have a feeling that our generation as a whole seems to have lost hope in the idea of finding true happiness. When that doesn’t even seem like a possibility, you’ll set goals for what our culture says is the closest approximation, money.
The further we stray from God as a society, the more impossible true happiness and life seems because the only way to reach it is through Jesus. I say that as someone who have struggled for 14 years with depression and anxiety. Once I truly gave my life to Christ, that's when I started living and got set free from everything. Jesus said "I am the way, the truth, and the life" and that his yolk is easy while the yolk of the world is heavy. People are dragging themselves around with a heavy yolk in a world where happiness seems pure utopia, not knowing that it is actually easily achievable through Christ
It's funny that a generation who talks the most about mental health is the same who says money is more important than mental health when their life choices are questioned
You find happiness through following your purpose. We were all put on this earth for a purpose. The problem is that everybody is seeing money as their purpose or general self gratification. That’s an empty road to go down. If you make your purpose into somehow helping people, you’ll be a lot more fulfilled.
With a career as a lawyer, she could be laughing in a Ferrari (or her children if she'll have any), but chose crying instead, which is a worse option imo XD
As a single mum of two, working full time but still unable to afford a car. I haven’t even thought of going on only fans even though a friend had suggested I give it a try bcaz of the “success” she’s having. I respect myself too much, I respect my children too much and I respect my parents too much to even consider! We need to speak against this industry from the roof tops. Just because u can and it’s easy, doesn’t mean you should. Can we also interview the men that pay for these services.
I agree with what you say, i can understand a man paying for sex with an escort or hooker where there is a physical service, but we have a generation of weak, simp type young men who make these girls rich by paying to watch them on video, i don't get it, although you can't blame her i suppose if she is making large amounts of money.
To interview the men would be as depressing as interviewing drug addicts, those men are very lonely, isolated and desperate, and the women profit off of the mens blatant struggles to cope with their loneliness. That's often why we call it "lonely fans". You should be aware, a growing large percentage of men cant get a relationship, women are picky, we know the majority of men never get picked, they are deemed unattractive and feel invisible to women on day 1, and society shows it does not care, in fact society benefits from allowing women to fleece these men for all their money as these women waste this money just as fast on vanity items and overpriced junk. Make no mistake, if we painted a scenario where women were getting taken advantage of by some "super sexy man", he would get lynched and rightly so, but when women blatantly do it to men, so many people refuse to blame her for her disgusting behaviour.
Well it wouldn’t be worth it for you because you most likely don’t have a big following. So you might make no money off only fans. But for 1 million a month, you’d drop your clothes for a couple of months and then retire.
@@olympusentertainment2638 The point i was trying to make about this girl's case was that it's money for old rope, if i as a male could take my clothes off and random women paid me lot's of money and i could pack in my job and buy nice cars etc who could "blame me." If men are stupid enough to pay her that's up to them.
The onlyfans sphere is dangerous because it sucks in mostly young women in a tough place who think they can better their life this way and don't understand that most of the creators on onlyfans are not even in the top 5%, they're that 95% that you never hear of that doesn't break out. When they finally figure that out they're earned no cash, have no dignity but have a bunch of porn floating around the internet with no way of deleting it.
(I’m not for OF, but I believe you’re mathematically off and may be looking at this problem from the wrong direction). Aren’t there only 3 million creators and about 190-something million users? How can that be “mostly young women”? If Only Fans is mostly women, are there really that many gay and bi femcels? How does that work? Perhaps I’m being a contrarian here, but what would the existence of porn matter if nobody cared about it or wanted it anymore? I believe the problem with porn is the consumer. Demonizing porn is like demonizing alcohol. Are you familiar with the horrors of the prohibition? I don’t drink anymore, haven’t had a sip of drinking alcohol in over a year now, but holy fuck, if it gets outright banned, I won’t stand for that. Same with sugar. I so barely consume sugar now. It’s POISON. …shouldn’t be consumed but shouldn’t be completely banned. Change the consumer, to change the product market, to kill the product.
@@ZacksRockingLifestyle No matter what you say things like drugs are bad. Ppl may say banning drugs makes things worse but legalizing and promoting drugs will produce a far worse outcome
@@ZacksRockingLifestyle Limiting things that promote toxic behavior is the better option. Let's not act like porn addiction isn't making the society far worse. When legalized and promoted it'll be 10x worse. Can't even read a manga without suggestive adds popping up. Ppl claim to be against sex trafficking, grooming, etc but still want to make a safe haven for such industries cuz they're benefitting from it. Let's not make excuses, these industries do more harm than good. And it will do greater harm when legalized.
I will say, since there are so many creators, people are talking like once you put something out there, it's automatically out in the internet forever. Only way that happens is if someone takes your content and consciously posts it on a third party site. The smaller following you have, the less likely that is to happen. I'm in no way advocating for OF, but this idea that "once you post (no matter how small your following is), it's on the internet forever" is a little misleading. Reality is, the larger following, the more money you make, the higher the chance your content is on the internet forever. Elle Brooke? Oh yes, that stuff is on there forever, no doubt. Jane from Idaho with 48 subscribers? I mean maybe, but maybe not.
I think the worst part is not only are people considering onlyfans as a legit career, it's also that it's become a social trend. I've heard too many teens/young women pressuring other women their age to do onlyfans to ''fit in with other women''. Now it's considered socially acceptable, same level as casually drinking wine everyday, and you *must* do that as a way to prove to others you *are* a beautiful woman. People give each other so little compliments that to be considered beautiful, they need the likes and money of men in order to feel rewarded and appreciated. How is that feminist?
It's shocking to me how the mainstream 'feminism' of today considers a genuine compliment from a man on the tube 'harassment' but men using your body for sex work liberating! One word: INSANE.
We gassed them up too hard and now the compliments of beautiful aren’t enough. I remember when I was in my 20s shorties would swoon if you called them beautiful even if they weren’t into you. Now even when they’re into you it’s a disingenuous “awww thanks.” I’m not even bitter about it. When you hear it all the time it sounds like white noise.
@@adamssmasherwhat are you on about, he is completely right, and I say this as someone with a girlfriend of 3 years. You don't have to be some Casanova to recognise the realities of the modern dating world...the amount of attention / validation the average young woman gets nowadays via the internet and dating apps, is insane.
@@acornsrighthand mmhh that’s understandable unless you take classes about the earth. Tbh I always wanted to go to space. But I knew I wouldn’t make it due to my motion sickness lol.
She’ll realize the consequences of being unable to love someone cuz of her sexual trauma soon. As a former stripper for half a decade, it’s impossible to understand until it’s too late.
There's many pornstars who are happily married. Don't wanna be an asshole but sounds like you're projecting. Acting like your trauma is a common thing is a way that people sometimes try to cope with it. It sounds to me like your experience was similar as a vegan working in a butchery. You think sex work is wrong but still did it so it traumatized you, people who don't think that wouldn't go through the same experience.
I am also a former stripper (mid 20s to early 30s) and this was 20+ years ago for me. I also then did full service sex work for a hot second haphazardly for 2 years. You're correct. I'm in my mid 40s, I have not really had any truly healthy relationships and am now choosing to be celibate because I gave myself away sexually for so god damn much of life thinking I was "liberated". Nope. I was traumatised creating further trauma and under valuing who I am and what I offer. Once a stripper, always a stripper saying is a saying for a reason. It is basically something that will haunt you for a long time.
Our generation is not doomed...stupidity has always existed it's just amplified now because of social media. Its important to keep in mind that statistically speaking most people are normal but normal is not social media friendly. Only the most extreme and flashy examples of stupidity and our culture get shown on social media because lets face it's ragefuel. A lot people say shit like "L generation this generation is so bad" but actively participate in that by enabling the crazy shitty people within to go viral and be platformed. The internet would have you think every 20 something year old is raging narcissist when thats not reality. Sure theres narcissist like the people in that interview but also people who for some reason think they're better than the rest of the people born around the same time as them. "Im not like everybody else" is self centered as can be but nobody likes to acknowledge that. TL;DR This generation is fine, it's just the horrible people get platformed and shown off the most. Judging a person based on the year they were born is retarded
Each generation raises the next. That's how we got to this point. Morality being chipped away at over decades. There was always stupidity, but there wasn't always the acceptance of debauchery. People had more deterrents to seeking out and watching/participating in pornography. Now it's easily acceptable and glamorized. Anyways, culturally we are fucked. Young people are on their phones 24/7 and you don't think they are heavily influenced by these people? Kids don't wanna be a firefighter or nurse anymore. They all wanna be influencers.
@@loserplanet I blame that more on failing parents than anything. I'm Gen Z, born in 1998, and I have no interest in being an influencer. My parents raised me very religious and valuing "traditional" things like moral alignment, marriage, family, etc. My sister is 16 and raised the same way too so it's not like just being on social media in itself rots the brain. Kids are very impressionable and too many parents don't wanna do the right thing and instead let the internet raise their kid. I completely agree with you about porn and it's glamorization
I'm pretty sure previous generations didn't have to deal with countless incidents of teenagers twerking in grocery isles, or filming themselves dancing for TikTok in the middle of parking lots. Previous generations were also not rewarded for their stupidity with clicks and monetization. I think you're forgetting that stupidity is like a virus; the more you're exposed to it, the more likely it is to infect you. And it's fair to say that this generation has been exposed to more stupidity than any generation before us. All of that to say; people are definitely getting stupider.
They do, if a dude were to admit he pays for that content he would become the laughing stock of the block, "what kind of loser pays monthly to get intimacy from a woman that doesnt even knows he exist".
@@genesisalexandria7506 true, but girls don't have the luxury of anonimity. Once your face is on OF, you're one google search away from anyone and everyone knowing. Guys can at least participate without having the whole world know about it. It is what it is.
@@alexutzcel understandable but the girls make the choice to do onlyfans, there are some girls who don't show their face but some do. I'd advice against both paying for onlyfans or doing onlyfans but humans have their own impulsion to do what pleases them if they aren't of a faith, or strong in faith in a higher being etc etc.
@@genesisalexandria7506 you'd be surprised. Many men hide it in front of other women but among themselves talk about these things. My partner became a porn addict and I became involved in these circles online of men and women who follow all of this content and their partners and such. You'd be soo surprised with the numbers
I am from a third world country and I can understand where these "I would rather be rich and miserable" people are coming from. I don't think most of them are materialistic. Being poor and happy is a really hard thing to achieve. If you don't have food to eat, a house of your own to call home, access to healthcare and education, you probably aren't gonna be very happy. I wish developing countries could still rely on big families and communities but the reality is most of us have to work harder to not just succeed but also survive. People here simply do not have the luxury to participate in their communities. In developed countries as well, the current job market and the overall economic condition are in shambles, so I do understand those people.
@@Kaybye555 you speak from, I'm assuming, a very privileged POV. I hope, for your sake, you'll never have to be so poor that you'll do anything for money and food.
It is better to have first world problems then third world problems. Everyone should strive to only deal with first world problems.. and there's nothing wrong with that, it is a gift -- sometime people forget that.
I agree, I feel like first world people don’t understand the struggles of poorer countries. They can’t imagine the lives of the people who struggle to buy food or keep a rooftop over their heads. These so called full families that exist only because you’re expected to endure whatever violence occurs at home because “they’re your parents and love you”, or they married forever, they can’t split up even if they hate each other and hurt them and their children… man, I’ve seen some very messed up cases where you really are grateful for the parent going away from their children.
I just find it interesting how as a generation we’re so obsessed with being rich and making as much money as we can with as little effort as possible but in the same sentence we’ll say ‘eat the rich’ and have this us vs them mentality… sounds like jealousy to me
The rich are born into their wealth, and continue to garner it through exploitation of the working class both in periphery and core countries. They avoid taxation, they are ascended from the middle class individual. It is us vs them. This girl just sells her pussy online she isn't even comparable to them.
Older generations also were all in for the money it's simply linked to our survival, there were royal families before that had all the luxuries and many of other people has attempted to become like those families, some people even tried to kill the most rich families to get being voted as an leader (which is what a royal family was at the time) to have all the luxuries.
Regarding the title "I Think Our Generation Might Be Doomed", you have given me huge HUGE HUUUGGGEEE hope that things can be turned around. Your videos are fantastice. I blame my generation (the Baby Boomers) for starting all of this mess. My parent's generation, the World War II generation was mostly about discipline, dedication, hard work, self-sacrifice, patriotism, family and church. The Baby Boomers were/are largely about self-indulgence, selfishness and laziness. But you personally have given me a lot of hope and optimism for the future. Please keep going!!!
@@patricklewis9787 Few people of any era actually STRIVE to be better. It only takes a FEW to change the world for the better - it only took a few to change it for the worse! We CAN get it back to sanity; don't give up on your generation - you're better than mine was 🙂
@@patricklewis9787 I'll certainly take your word for it, but I'm sorry to hear that. I've been around the block a few times, and I can tell you for certain that striving to be like Patience would do anyone, of any age, a world of good. Patience positively glows with the qualities that make life wonderful. I'll bet my house that her life will be happy, successful and quite beautiful. I'm praying for exactly that.
@@nikemaraje5 To a great degree, the Baby Boomers rejected the values of their parents, the World War II generation. For example sexual propiety. Which brought us directly to OnlyFans.
I feel a tiny bit bad for women like this, whose whole personality and lifestyle and sense of self worth is based on their desirability. Because it won't last, and they will have spent decades learning how to hone something and rely solely on it, and then it will be gone. How do they cope? How will they function? Their template for their own value and their value to other people just won't work anymore. They'll have money, but what else? Thats scary
@rebecca538 desirability is vague but 30 is the "wall" because biologically your chance of successfully giving birth drops dramatically and continues to drop every year and even if you've no interest in having children your looks dimish(obviously some women age very well and dont become old crones as soon as they hit 30 lol), as a generalisation men age "better" than women so even physically women 30+ aren't seen as attractive as their 20-25 Yr old peers and men who are 35 are more than capable of dating 20-25 Yr olds.
They don't think that far enough ahead. But yes, for anyone with an ounce of introspection, the thought of basing your whole Identity/value off of something completely transient, is pretty terrifying.
The problem with the pursuit of happiness is that we will do whatever it takes to get happy and then stay happy. No matter how it hurts those around us, much less ourselves. Happiness is also a very finite emotion that takes a lot of effort to obtain. It's much better to find contentment and to sustain contentment, and it's not circumstantially based. Take it from a sahm of three kids three and under. Contentment is also cheaper. 😉
@@skeinofadifferentcolor2090 am realizing this now and wish for a "mediocre" life in the country working at a dollar general or something like that. I've been so ambitious all my life, I feel that I just want enough for me and my cat and if a husband enters the picture, maybe an adopted daughter. Perhaps live off the land eventually. Sustainable, content, and happy. All I need is my food, my supplements, and my kitty to be content. And I feel that way.
@@skeinofadifferentcolor2090 This is false comparison. We are comparing the terms happiness vs contentment NOT the pursuit of happiness vs contentment. A basic thesaurus demonstrates that happiness and contentment are synonymous with one other. If someone asked me how is my marriage? I could say I am content with it or I am happy with it. Same thing.
@@dathip pursuit of happiness indicates lack of contentment. If you truly were happy/content in your present situation you would not chase after things that you think would make you happier. That is why learning to be content regardless of your situation is vital. Just because they are synonymous in the thesaurus does not mean they carry the same meaning. Middle English (in the sense ‘lucky’): from the noun hap1 + -y1. late Middle English: via Old French from Latin contentus ‘satisfied’, past participle of continere.
In a way I kinda feel bad for them. Your basically constantly competing with ur body and looks so when u reach a age ur body starts changing... then what?
I believe its people like us who aim to be better that will survive this brainwashed society that we live in, it's like an apocalypse that seems like a blessing only for time to show its negatives later down the line
This is not the first generation in history to indulge in mass sexual promiscuity nor will it be the last. Everything will repeat hence why I don't get all the worry over "a doomed generation".
yea it will be hard now but Ethan if you really grind hard and be resilient eventually this nonsense will pass and the survivors will be in a very good place in life
@Gem Star Exactly. Everything is not okay. Everything should not be accepted and facilitated. That's how we got to this degenerate, disgusting culture we have in the West. For the left to be doing this is expected. But people on the right being okay with this is so disappointing and frustrating.
What's there to be surprised? These children who are growing up with their fathers are not growing up to be saints are they?,I am all for both parents being at home ,but I am not going to expect a woman or a man to turn out great because both of their parents are at home, Jeffrey Dahmer had a father and still ate people,so delete your comment,it doesn't make any sense, you men really put yourself on a pedestal in the lives of women and children, when you really don't do much compared to the mothers, your presence is pretty much like a picture on the wall, just there ,I thought y'all said,it's the job of a woman to raise kids, so then what the heck is your use? You shouldn't have brought her dad into this situation if that's what the mentality is
I was thinking the same in that I was wondering when he father passed away. This is probably just a generalisation, but it seems that so many women like this didn't have father figures around m.. So, I guess that daddy issues thing.
I’ve dated 2 onlyfans girls this year and they purposely kept it a secret from me because they’re aware of how people look down on anyone being on onlyfans. They told me afterwards and I asked why they didn’t tell me from the start and their reason was because they wanted me to focus on their personality and not their job.
@@genevieveohara5360 well tbh the last one I dated just seemed more comfortable with her body. She did lingerie modelling, so she walked around the house in lingerie all the time. The thing I find hardest with dating women nowadays is that their mental health is in a bad place and that makes dating difficult
@@governmentnameunknown8960 I couldn’t imagine dating an OnlyFans girl who not only does lingerie modelling but also filming videos of her getting railed by guys.
the effects of onlyfans or ''adult content'' is not immediate it will be years until we see the results when they retire and decide to have children that's when it hits also 90 percent of their creators don't get a lot of money or no money at all its only the top creators that gets a looot of money
Let's see how she feels in 20 years because truly priorities freaking change 🙄 I can't imagine being "on the payroll" of my daughter's OnlyFans account knowing what she's doing for that money. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should 🤢
25 years old is practically still a kid. I say that as a 25 year old myself. Being a lawyer would have secured her a sustainable future 10-20+ years down the road. Getting into the adult entertainment industry, she better have a backup plan for when her time in the limelight inevitably runs out. And be putting aside some savings.
Could not disagree more. Marriage needs to be prioritized over a career. You call a 25 year old a kid but I guarantee you expect 18 year olds to be sexually active. This is not sustainable and its the exact pipeline that produced Onlyfans.
@@joyfulchristina @joyfulchristina Point is she still has lots of life left to live, and I'm not sure she's considered the *full* consequences her line of work will have on the rest of her life (having kids, future romantic relationships, jobs). She seems to be brushing it off because she's financially well off *for now.* Her way of valuing short term results of OF vs the longterm payoff of a proper career shows a very immature way of thinking. She's talking like she knows everything when she has lots of life experience yet to gain. This shit will follow you everywhere, and it never goes away, especially in today's digital age.
Elle Brooks (OnlyFan woman that was on Piers Morgan) what is going to happen to her when her physical beauty fades? She better go back to law school and get that degree.
Honestly, she could probably "retire" right now. Doubt she's thinking about any ramifications, huge sums of money can really distort your views. That's true for anyone.
@@arnoldasbucys7786 I'm sure if she's still doing it by 30, she'll still look good and probably not even care about a relationship. If she does want one, yeah, it'll be pretty messy trying to make it work with just about anyone she's dating.
@ChefBoi, ardeeznutz¿ sadly, women's beauty doesn't last forever, BUT their physical beauty lasts a lifetime. It's unfortunate, but it happens to the beat of us
Tbh, as a zoomer myself I think our generation is fine, most people I know in my age range are pretty chill and normal, yea alot do agree that maybe they should be on their phone less and not be so addicted to social media/gaming but most are coming around to it and trying to at least limit some of their usage especially as they get older. it’s just the internet provides incentives for a small minority of clout chases to just be completely unhinged, so we always see examples of girls like this or pranksters just committing crimes for attention, when I really don’t know anyone like this in real life.
Yeah, I agree with you! Most people I know are nothing like this, even the ones who are considering only fans. Most people just want to be able to get enough sleep and have enough time to do fun things in between work.
You're probably right, but not me. I don't find her attractive at all. That kind of mannish face and fake boobs and ultra-bleached-blonde thing ... I know it makes millions of others horny but to me, it's a massive turn-off. Seriously, if that is 0.01% example of OnlyFans success, then I'm happy not to waste a single dollar there.
It's not as simple as your kids being embarrassed that you have nudes or hardcore pornographic content on the internet. But what kind of message are you sending them about intimacy and sex? That it's transactional? That it's a public affair, not private? That it's performance art wholly removed from you as a person? How will that affect how they form relationships?
There is so much irony is being found as an act of feminism when things like the Miss American pageant and Playboy magazines were boycotted in the early feminist movement because women were tried of being sexualised by men and have their value reduced to only being a means of sexual pleasure.
Interesting she described some of the things she did as “grotesque”. For all her breezy bluster, I think she knows what she’s doing is degrading and shameful. She’s sealed her legacy doing this. She’d have to have reconstructive surgery and change her name to pursue a career in law now.
My daughter was getting picked on by an older boy on their school bus. I told my daughter to say “your mom is on onlyfans and your family still needs food stamps” next time the boy harassed harassed her . My daughter did say that, and the boy shut up quickly from embarrassment because it turned out both statements were true. The older kid hasn’t bothered her since.
Aww that is sad though. Seems like a classic case of a neglected child with self esteem issues lashing out at people to make themselves feel better. Hopefully he can get some counseling.
@@rosielele And the alternative is what now? Should she have told a teacher (because that always works out great)? Should she just lay there like a door mat? Should I have gotten on the bus myself and told the boy his mother is an unsuccessful, virtual stripper in person? Nothing will stop a bully other than standing up for yourself.
The fact that she said "way worse" is such a tell- she knows it's not really good for her deep down. Maybe the craziest part is about her mum doing "admin work". Wtf. The whole "cry in a Ferrari" thing is just insane. It's just mind-blowing that people like her, who aren't a good example of a healthy mindset, get more airtime than professionals qualified in giving advice on relationships, religion, life in general.
The ferrari comment is mad. Ferrari are rich mans cars. Rich as in, you've got a successful career as a lawyer and have worked your way through your 20s, 30s and 40s to build real wealth and also garner respect from everyone around you. She's 25 and hasn't realised she's going to lose the majority of her fans (and income) when she hits 30. Onlyfans just can't be a lifelong career for women due to the rapid fall off of looks past a certain age. Love is what keeps marriages lasting decades, not surface attraction which is what the entire hoes world revolves around
You can love your children no matter what they do, but as a decent parent there are some things you have to draw a line in the sand with your children, that you will not support certain choices, and I feel onlyfans is one of those things.
"Cry in a Ferrari" was a smart comeback on her part. Regardless on what we think of her career, she made very quotable lines that out-manuvered his question whilst being respectful on other's opinions. That's the real reason she's the top porn star. If she agreed she felt shameful, she would've got attacked. If she became too prideful and complained about people's hate on her lifestyle, we would've hated her. The less addressed issue is, her reward is exceptionally good for the sacrifice because she is the top of the top. The rest of the girls will probably only cover part of their monthly rent for their dignity.
It used to be where it would be considered slightly acceptable to be a stripper if you were using it to pay your way through school. Now it is considered ok to drop the school part and pursue the sex work full-time. As a parent now (whose mom a long time ago told me she was okay with me being the stripper to put my way through school) I couldn't imagine being supportive of either scenario for my own daughter. Societal, I think we have become innundated with narcissistic selfish toxic people. I really wish more parents had raised their children to think about the good and change they could do for the world rather than what they take from thet world. The problem is the society as a whole prefers the latter as they are consumers and consumers help make profits. 😢
Good Lord, are you morally reprehensible if you tell your daughter you support her becoming a stripper to pay her way through school. What about helping her find a job and support her in getting it? What about financially supporting her yourself? I'd do damn bake sales on the side of the road before I told my child to put herself out for gross old men to leer at her for the sake of success.
@@silentassasin-q8l I'm not accusing the commenter of supporting it, just expressing disgust that the idea was ever considered acceptable or promoted mother-to-daughter.
In the old days if you wanted to be a good person and get a woman to be naked in front of you you had to court her, show her affection and that you could provide a good life for her. You had to show her you were a man wroth being with. Well now, naked women, naked women everywhere! And now, somehow that makes the special occasion of taking your beloveds clothes off and laying with her that much less special. Oh the horror.
In the old days your parents would arrange the marriage and you would have a woman (most likely your cousin) naked in front of you without lifting a finger. You younger folks just don't get it.
😂 you think women had any choice? Nah man. They were sold by their families for bushels of wheat, so who gave a fuck about the life the girl was going to endure with her now husband. Her family could care less bc they need the money so why on earth would you think it could’ve been the woman’s choice to let a man into her life. Women weren’t afforded that until recently
As someone who grew up with wealthy family members, it's really sad the amount of self-destruction, depression, and sadness surrounding these people. I thank the universe everyday I live a balanced and fulfilled life 🙏🏼
Money doesn't buy happiness but being poor doesnt make you happier either. There are many aspects that don't involve money. Take it from me, i don't have money or happiness. Neither are going to give me purpose, if and until i find that I'm doomed.
I dunno man. I don't worry about money but I'm not very happy, truthfully. But my issues come from myself, my self esteem, etc. Psychological things. I assure you having money isn't the cure to all of your problems
No one said that being poor makes you happy though. Patience even specifically stated in the video that people in poorer countries are happy because they have strong family connections and sense of purpose in life. That is what brings happiness, not money or the lack of it. The point is that you can be happy rich or poor, and you can be miserable rich or poor.
Oh my goodness!!! Thank you!! I got so much hate for saying that this lady was wrong for taking pride in saying such things, Jesus Christ! Our generation is in shambles
People just don't think long term. Everything is about short term gratification, long term gratification is alien to them. It's been a constant reminder to keep thinking long term instead of ending up like these people.
Ironically, my mindset has been drastically changed by the discussions around the new little mermaid movie (this will relate to this video in a second, bear with me as I explain). The new movie was advertised as a girl who doesn't go to the land for a boy anymore, but it seemed to miss the mark on the original movie. Ariel always loved land, she went to land not because of a boy but because a witch took advantage of her naivity around love. Still, Ariel uses her own agency to achieve her wants and desires. In the orignal, love and self-sacrifice for someone you deeply care about is important. Sacrificing your own wants and desires and giving them up for others in a life of servitude and compassion is a big theme in the little mermaid. You can't have your cake and eat it too is also a message, where Ariel gives up her voice for legs and still uses her opportunities to get to know Eric, enjoy land and achieve her dreams. When I was a young teen on Tumblr, I viewed the disney princess movies through a similar lense as the modern one; the princess always needed to be rescued, especially Ariel. But after the heavier discussions around the remakes, it's simply not true. I have come to learn the importance of living a life of servitude for those around me, for those I love. I find greater fulfillment and purpose in helping those around me, in nurturing loving relationships instead of career goals (and I'm a civil engineer) or getting the best clothes or doing whatever I want. My mental health has sky-rocketed. I'm more empowered than ever. It's a shame the values of femininity have been lost in the face of "women can be as cold-hearted as men, and greed and selfishness are good values to have."
The assumption this girl is making is that any self-respecting man would want to procreate with her later on. She is so narcissistic and probably a divorce case waiting to happen. And it's sad because one day she'll realize she earned her money by cheapening herself. Any good man she could have gotten has long moved on to traditional, conservative women, and she'll be sad. All of us ladies eventually hit the wall.
Women like these go for men who don’t have that self respect. Somehow, they find good hardworking men who will put up with them as they do not view themselves highly. It’s quite unfortunate.
@@ne0nmancer she won't want that man. She will want a very good looking 6'2" high earner who can just easily get an 18 year old who's nevee been a porn star. She can get a man, just not the one she wants.
I'd say that the relation between money and happiness is a downwards opening parabola. If you're completely destitute, you'll be very unhappy if you can't even afford food or a roof to go over your head. But if you're obscenely rich, there seems to be a tendency to go completely insane to the point of self-destruction, case in point: hollywood celebrities, Epst*in Island, etc...
Instead of imagining your kids knowing you were on OF imagine your parents were on OF. Think of how embarrassing that would be for you and now think of your kids.
I agree 100% with your statement regarding the "Kardashian effect" They have alot to answer for in regards to todays standard of beauty and materialism. Never watched a full episode of that nonsense and never will. In many ways that family have ruined the world or perhaps that's been their ultimate plan all along?! 🤔
Onlyfans models when they can't get a partner, runs out of money but is no longer good looking and they can't make money, don't have kids to take care of you or to talk to you, no job will hire you Other than that it's all sunshine and rainbows
this is (one of) my (many) problem(s) with conservatives: they will extol the endless virtues of capitalism but when someone makes money doing onlyfans they suddenly clutch their pearls. how is it any different from people's bodies being exploited in other industries? i used to work at UPS unloading 53-foot trailers: it was hard physical labor that i still have back problems from. was i not being exploited by that company then? are amazon workers not being exploited? apple employees? what about all the hands that assemble your phones? are they not being exploited? any worker who does dangerous, grueling labor solely for a paycheck is being exploited. why does OF get singled out here? and any time workers form a union or strike to protest shitty labor practices, conservatives get all dismissive: "get back to work, sweetie!" "what a bunch of spoiled babies!" "sound like a buncha communists to me!" etc etc. in the U.S. we've turned everything into a market: religion, journalism, health care, politics. it's all done for money. people have gotten rich flooding communities with opioids and the right says nothing about it. people have gotten massively wealthy selling jesus and conservatives think it's great but a woman claps her cheeks online for some $ and suddenly our culture is in decay.
I'm 34 and things I thought were a good idea when I was 25 are things I would NEVER do today. You dont really, truly think about what your future self would think ten years from now when youre 25. You're still very self absorbed and in the now when you're 25. That is just how it is. You're a newly hatched adult and your world view is still very egocentric. The broader perspective, the more humbling mature adult idea of the world starts truly coming into view at the tail end of your 20s. I was 28 when I, for the first time ever, even considered asking my parents what the 20s were like for them. I had just always assumed that my parents always had had their shit together and made all the correct decisions while I was a huge, massive disappointment. It never even crossed my mind to talk to them about it. And when i did, i learned that they had been just as stupid, selfabsorbed and chaotic as me. That the put together, prepared and calm people i have always known, was soemthing they perfected for decades. There are so many things you dont consider when you're 25 and to throw your whole life into a hole for quick money in exchange for yohr dignity, is somwthing that will haunt you for the rest of your life. The closest i ever got to this type of shit was to tip toe into drawing erotica. I thought it would be awesome and it wasn't the same as pornography, right? I did exactly ONE gig as an erotica illustrator and then i quickly realized that, that is not for me. Still, I sometimes get asked at cons to sign the book I helped illustrate. I do it with a smile, but if i could, i would love to go back in time and tell my younger self to not take that job. Barely anyone has read that book and it is very underground, but I still wish it didnt exist out there. I cant imagine the girls who actually sell their bodies for cash online. It will never go away and it will be the first thing to pop up when your name is searched. Like fucking hell... there is a life after the 20s and its a lot more serious and important than you think.
There was a very big only fan creator talking about how her relationship with her parent turned sour after becoming an only fan. Her mother used her for her money and her father & brother doesn't want to see her. Her child is already been looked down upon because of her mother's job and the mother is strugglng to find someone to date. Also I love how the generation that complains most about captialism is the generation that all want to get rich quick.
Imagine your parents work very hard to raise you right , put all that money into raising you and sending you to school etc. While other people around the world don't get these privileges. And she turns around and becomes a porn star... while some wish they had the funds to educate themselves to escape that kind of life or worse....SAD.
I think money can be sort of a stepping stone to happiness. Do I think it’s the source? Absolutely not. But I think it definitely supplements and supports the source
What we dont have is lots of voices coming out and telling the joy of having a family rather than this materialistic nonsense. As a father, nothing gives me more pleasure than seeing my sleeping babies (5 and 7) each evening before i go to bed. Providing for them and their mother so they can have the opportunities that i didnt have
Nice video. I think there are two statements we can make in response to your question at the end. Having more money can make your life more comfortable and, in that sense, it can make you happy by solving the day to day problems that come with living in society. So many people are depressed and distraught because they feel heavy burnout trying to struggle against the cost of living. It's deeply demoralizing to feel like you simply can't afford to live. Money is the cure to that plight. But if you pursue money at the cost of relationships, family, community and your passions you can end up wanting the things that money can't buy. Being rich and feeling alone is a special kind of hell.
I think you're right, kids are cruel and this will effect the children of these models. I'm not trying to even shame anyone, but when I was a kid I went to a private school for a few years but I was the poorest kid in my class and I got made fun of because my dad cleaned pools. I can't even imagine if someone wanted to make fun of someone and all they had to do was find a naked picture of their mom and post it all over the school...
oh dude i can't even imagine how i would have coped if that happened to me well first of all i would bluntly tell my mother i am never going back to school again because it's one thing to get a school to get 1 or 2 kids to stop teasing and insulting someone but try getting an entire school to stop exactly good fucking luck if i was in that situation i would point blankly refuse to go back to school and would drop out on the spot
Dropping out of University to do OnlyFans is really stupid. Once she's not young and hot, she'll have no back up plan. Society has forgotten that biology hits harder on women far earlier than on men. Oh well, society has forgotten biology at all.
I firmly believe that, in vacuum, there's nothing wrong with being an Onlyfans model. If you're comfortable with showing off and got people willing to buy, all the power to you. I think the issues start to arise when you mix in other social factors running rampant out there. Narcissism, loneliness, materialism, and just a general lack of empathy make it really hard for either creator or consumer to have a very healthy mindset about this sort of thing. You get gross parasocial relationships, weird objectification, and a detachment from reality that pop up. I just think it's a very unhealthy thing for people to be involved with.
i think being an onlyfans model is as moral as being a drug dealer. Sure you dont force neyone into it, bit you are an enabler of very harmfull behaviour and pray on the weak minded and lonely. Im not a really a Nihilist and therefore believe that there is some kind of morality. And being an onlyfans model or a subscriber is morally corrypt. A virtuos person works to bring others up not keep them in the same terrible place or worse. Feel free to disagree
The successful business model here is that she invest her earnings wisely (not buy Ferraris 🚗). She will age out of OF and then she can retire early. Being a lawyer has a certain cachet but most lawyers do middling boring work. Lots of them hate their jobs and it isn’t actually all that respected a profession by average people. In fact most people think highly of lawyers because they think they make a lot of money which she is doing already with her unique talents. The kids thing could be a problem but who knows? Not many people having kids these day and maybe she will be another.
"i was born to do this" i think refers to some people who are just physically very sensitive and mainly called a nymphomaniac. i dated a lady like that for a while and she often said things like "i hear my body much stronger than avarage person".she didnt worry about much christian morals and was very open to pretty much anything , though she never had a trauma and was very fun loving, extravert, cheerful person. also she was very selfaware, and knew she could pull a wealthy man whenever she pleases beacuse of her looks, and she could keep secured because of her "talent". thoigh she never did porn or onlyfans, but im sure that if she would have any of personal content leaked she would probobally be more concerned if she looks good in it, beacuse she was also a hardcore narcissist. so its nurture plus nature.
@@kevinsamson1693 kinky women were always romantised in films and culture when their freedom of choice was compromised, now they are in control of their own wealth and its a problem. its giving medival vibes to me
@@marenkendall7413no, just realistic how people change. All the women said the same thing when I was young. And later, most changed their mind. Same with dudes even. Only difference now is, saying basic facts is seen as "cringe". "oh no, he said a statistical truth that women want kids." you know how many adult stars say what she did? And they all end up with kids. Hell, I said the same thing at 25. I did NOT WANT KIDS. I was vehement about it. Only difference is, you can still say things to men. Say it to a woman now, and people become sensitive.
I think lower depression rates in underdevelopped countries have more to do with having outside needs than anything else. If you have to worry about how to buy your children clothes, you won't wallow in misery. If you have outside problems, problems that you can at least try to solve with hard work, then you're less likely to dwell on your mental/spiritual problems. Another thing is that if you don't have the money for a psychologist, then you'll never get diagnosed. Edit: I've just remembered a great line from a pastor in my community: "Money should be a tool, and never a goal."
The love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. The sad thing is, eventually the money will run out, the young age, the nice looks, all of it, will evaporate one day. By then it will be too late to reestablish yourself.
I kind of appreciate her honesty and ability to accept herself as she is. There's not many people nowadays that can do that so it is refreshing to see every so often someone who is actually acknowledging their truth and if that's what made them successful they kind of just work with it they don't have to apologize for that. Something I almost forgot to mention as well and this goes hand-in-hand with the being successful part actually liking your job. She's genuinely seems like someone who actually enjoys her job I think that's another thing about our generation it's one thing for us to be successful and all of that but as I mentioned we want stability so it's not just getting rich it's also do we love what we're doing? Because what's the point of getting rich if you're not enjoying what you're doing?
Personally, as a millenial my stance on OnlyFans has broadened in the past year; in the sense that I don't judge those who do it as harshly as I did in the past. Reason being is that there are outside forces that aren't fighting fair either. The Education-Industrial complex and student loans being at almost $2Trillion now, car notes are looking like mortgages nowadays, home prices and thus the mortgages on them (while they have dropped somewhat recently) are several times more than what the homeowners make in a year, which didn't used to be. So now, I understand if people (because it's not just women on OF and the like) want to go the OF route for a little while just to get their pockets right.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 valid points - thank you! I couldn’t agree with the “money don’t buy happiness” (among others) because sure yeah, I guess not. But, it gives you the resources necessary to attain happiness. I grew up in poverty, I know this! All of a sudden it’s a problem when women want to capitalize on their own sexiness.
Honestly Patience, I think things are going to reverse & the kids who's parents either did not make it big or did not get involved with OF are going to be teased by those who's parents did just because there are more females doing an OF account than are not. I'm not a fan of OF personally and will not join into that world myself, but I do understand the curiosity about joining the community. Thank you for covering this topic & yes I think women need to be made aware of both the pros and cons of the business.
As an 20 year old male, i see all the vain people in my age group and it just makes me depressed. I think about if i fall in love with a girl, and i find out that she has an onlyfans, i wouldn't know what to do with myself honestly. It isn't even about children, it's about personal dignity
I think class needs to be accounted into all of this. My impression is that most people creating and consuming the only fans content are middle class people who are not satisfied with their lives and keep imagining moving up the class ladder, into the heights where they will not have to work anymore. Lower class/poor people have actual long lasting existential problems and don't have the luxury of abandoning their law degree in order to move into something as short lived as online porn.
Yep, well put. People like to pretend class no longer matters to them, but it actually IS a defining factor for a good number. And spot on that people in real poverty cannot afford to make these kinds of decisions; they have REAL problems to deal with.
I actually respect this girl. I know the extreme confidence is a marketing ploy, but I like that she's standing her ground and even doubling down when they try to shame her for her choices. I wouldn't choose the same, but I respect the mindset.
I have kids and I didn't attend Freaknik. At the time I wasn't thinking about having children, I was thinking about my morals and my integrity, now it's coming back to bite them BECAUSE they have children and they're fighting to not have the doc come to light. You have to care about YOURSELF first.
She's young, wil quit OF at some point, find herself a nice rich husband and will be living a sweet life after that again .. She's a winner! Bold and brave people own this world!
A lot of girls start OF knowing only the .001% of creators and thinking that it is easy. The reality is that it is extremely oversaturated and they are going to earn 20$ a month and quit, and their "content" is going to be online forever. It is like the female version of guys starting to stream on Twitch thinking that they are the next XQC.
This is why shame is not always a bad thing. Having a sense of shame and modesty says a lot about you and instantly gives you value. You may be proud of this now but you will regret it later.
"I'm over 18, I can do whatever I want"
This statement got people making the worst kind of decisions
I still dont get how 18 is considered legal.
@@nukita718 Eighteen is old enough to be considered an adult. If she hasn't realized how foolish she is at eighteen, and still haven't figured it out at twenty five, the law doesn't need to be changed because some people never get smart or don't get their sht together before thirty. There are people who are mature at fourteen but it doesn't mean we should wonder if the age of adulthood should be lowered. Infantilising adults and babying kids when they should know better is how people like her are created.
Ya like i know theyre of legal age but geezuz theyre still young! 18 is NOTHING
23 and I still don't think I make the best decisions😄🙌🏾
@@sianaiseh, 18 year old aren't even far from 15 year olds, my friends haven't changed aside from maturing in some aspects of life, I think they need to be let go so they could figure themselves out a bit young, but then again they're still stupid enough to get into shit and not understanding the consequences that will lead after it because they're allowed to make decisions like that at 18. Maybe they could just make some activities or actions restricted to 21 or 23 year olds?? Sexual activity is fine ig but being a porn model is something else
Paying for onlyfans has to be one of the most embarassing things a man can do.
Agree
i have seen sad men on reddit beg for the onlyfans of whatever hot girl is posted
Why even pay for it when there's literally prn available free ong😭. You gotta have a special type of beta energy for that
@Deep Patel I think you just missed the point that the whole post talks about men being miserable for watching pork of any kind, paid or for free. So by her standards you are just a lousy sad little man. You're welcome.
I agree but I`m not sure that it`s only men subscribing, it`s probably mostly men but I feel that for this generation subscribing to your friends OF is pretty much like becoming someone`s Facebook friend was for the previous generation and everyone does it. That`s my impression from listening to younger people talking about it.
Thank you for making this! "Just because you CAN... doesn't mean you SHOULD"
Totally agree, I learned that maxim from my dad in the 60s
Very True!
Exactly! This is my life motto
Capitalism supports this, blame that
@@Ivan-xk4uy sorry but you are wrong. This is due to power without wisdom. Wisdom comes with age and experience (if you try)
It is horrifying to hear someone talk so positively about the pornography business, Lord have mercy.
Fast money is the new wave for stability I suppose... Yet in the real world it takes a lot of time. The fact that OF is promoted alot for women to contribute to porn for money is odd.
I firmly believe that being pro-s#xwork is being anti-woman. How, in what world, can promoting women (or anyone, for the matter) to be a rentable body to use for gratification be anything but awful? Its just promoting the idea that its an okay perception to have regarding another human being, and it is indeed horrifying
Sold her soul to devil, she's done
@@impposter560 💯
@@impposter560 I COMPLETELY agree.
Honestly I could see children becoming resentful of a parent who does pornography. Especially if it causes them hell in the future. Or even if they just find it disgusting.
Yup, I sure would be sooo embarrassed if my friends were watching my mom do these things online
Those kids didn't ask for it
that's already a reality, you know. some kids getting bullied in school when their mates bring in pictures of the onlyfans mom spreading her cheeks on video
You know, OP, what I have to wonder is: what’s worse, a parent that did only fans and got their child bullied, or a parent that believes it’s not child abuse to give their child sugar and cannot explain to their child why sugar is a poisonous drug?
I never, ever heard a single one of my classmates call out another classmate for their parent having been in porn.
Of course, I’ve heard “your mom’s a hoe,” but that’s not “LOL your mom did porn and I’ve seen it.”
You know what I heard all the time? How fucking disgusting I was for having been morbidly obese. I remember once asking in my health class “if sugar is so bad, why are we also told we need sugar for brain function?” and I was LAUGHED AT. If a thin person had asked the same question, I doubt they’d have received the same flack. Of course, the teacher didn’t have enough understanding of science to explain that while the brain needs glucose, that glucose can be created from proteins during a process known as gluconeogenesis, which creates glucose from protein, but only if we don’t consume carbohydrates, or consume very little in the way of carbohydrates.
I had to learn that on my own.
Now that I know what I know about the deadly effects of sugar, and especially fructose, it’s almost hard not to be resentful of my parent that worked for Pepsi for a decade.
My parents let me drink that stuff. I get the feeling that at least an OF parent is less likely to allow their child to partake in their… line of work, when compared to a parent working for a soda company, fast food company, ice cream stand, processed food factory, etc harmful “foods.”
@@justsomeguywithnoeyes7303 source, please
When people choose the “crying in a Ferrari”, I always wonder why crying isn’t the first problem they try to address. I have a feeling that our generation as a whole seems to have lost hope in the idea of finding true happiness. When that doesn’t even seem like a possibility, you’ll set goals for what our culture says is the closest approximation, money.
The further we stray from God as a society, the more impossible true happiness and life seems because the only way to reach it is through Jesus. I say that as someone who have struggled for 14 years with depression and anxiety. Once I truly gave my life to Christ, that's when I started living and got set free from everything. Jesus said "I am the way, the truth, and the life" and that his yolk is easy while the yolk of the world is heavy. People are dragging themselves around with a heavy yolk in a world where happiness seems pure utopia, not knowing that it is actually easily achievable through Christ
It's funny that a generation who talks the most about mental health is the same who says money is more important than mental health when their life choices are questioned
You find happiness through following your purpose. We were all put on this earth for a purpose.
The problem is that everybody is seeing money as their purpose or general self gratification. That’s an empty road to go down. If you make your purpose into somehow helping people, you’ll be a lot more fulfilled.
guy sitting across from her probably has a ferrari... and she is telling him about it... the level of delusion is amazing on this one..🤯🤯🤯
With a career as a lawyer, she could be laughing in a Ferrari (or her children if she'll have any), but chose crying instead, which is a worse option imo XD
As a single mum of two, working full time but still unable to afford a car. I haven’t even thought of going on only fans even though a friend had suggested I give it a try bcaz of the “success” she’s having. I respect myself too much, I respect my children too much and I respect my parents too much to even consider! We need to speak against this industry from the roof tops. Just because u can and it’s easy, doesn’t mean you should. Can we also interview the men that pay for these services.
I agree with what you say, i can understand a man paying for sex with an escort or hooker where there is a physical service, but we have a generation of weak, simp type young men who make these girls rich by paying to watch them on video, i don't get it, although you can't blame her i suppose if she is making large amounts of money.
To interview the men would be as depressing as interviewing drug addicts, those men are very lonely, isolated and desperate, and the women profit off of the mens blatant struggles to cope with their loneliness. That's often why we call it "lonely fans".
You should be aware, a growing large percentage of men cant get a relationship, women are picky, we know the majority of men never get picked, they are deemed unattractive and feel invisible to women on day 1, and society shows it does not care, in fact society benefits from allowing women to fleece these men for all their money as these women waste this money just as fast on vanity items and overpriced junk.
Make no mistake, if we painted a scenario where women were getting taken advantage of by some "super sexy man", he would get lynched and rightly so, but when women blatantly do it to men, so many people refuse to blame her for her disgusting behaviour.
Well it wouldn’t be worth it for you because you most likely don’t have a big following. So you might make no money off only fans. But for 1 million a month, you’d drop your clothes for a couple of months and then retire.
@@gavinsmith9022 '' You can't blame her '' 😂😂, by your logic you can't blame drug dealers because people take drugs.
@@olympusentertainment2638 The point i was trying to make about this girl's case was that it's money for old rope, if i as a male could take my clothes off and random women paid me lot's of money and i could pack in my job and buy nice cars etc who could "blame me." If men are stupid enough to pay her that's up to them.
The onlyfans sphere is dangerous because it sucks in mostly young women in a tough place who think they can better their life this way and don't understand that most of the creators on onlyfans are not even in the top 5%, they're that 95% that you never hear of that doesn't break out. When they finally figure that out they're earned no cash, have no dignity but have a bunch of porn floating around the internet with no way of deleting it.
(I’m not for OF, but I believe you’re mathematically off and may be looking at this problem from the wrong direction).
Aren’t there only 3 million creators and about 190-something million users?
How can that be “mostly young women”? If Only Fans is mostly women, are there really that many gay and bi femcels?
How does that work?
Perhaps I’m being a contrarian here, but what would the existence of porn matter if nobody cared about it or wanted it anymore? I believe the problem with porn is the consumer. Demonizing porn is like demonizing alcohol. Are you familiar with the horrors of the prohibition? I don’t drink anymore, haven’t had a sip of drinking alcohol in over a year now, but holy fuck, if it gets outright banned, I won’t stand for that. Same with sugar. I so barely consume sugar now. It’s POISON. …shouldn’t be consumed but shouldn’t be completely banned.
Change the consumer, to change the product market, to kill the product.
@@ZacksRockingLifestyle No matter what you say things like drugs are bad. Ppl may say banning drugs makes things worse but legalizing and promoting drugs will produce a far worse outcome
@@ZacksRockingLifestyle Limiting things that promote toxic behavior is the better option. Let's not act like porn addiction isn't making the society far worse. When legalized and promoted it'll be 10x worse. Can't even read a manga without suggestive adds popping up.
Ppl claim to be against sex trafficking, grooming, etc but still want to make a safe haven for such industries cuz they're benefitting from it. Let's not make excuses, these industries do more harm than good. And it will do greater harm when legalized.
Exactly. Most OF models only make 200 a month. That’s not much to have your nudes out there forever.
I will say, since there are so many creators, people are talking like once you put something out there, it's automatically out in the internet forever.
Only way that happens is if someone takes your content and consciously posts it on a third party site. The smaller following you have, the less likely that is to happen.
I'm in no way advocating for OF, but this idea that "once you post (no matter how small your following is), it's on the internet forever" is a little misleading.
Reality is, the larger following, the more money you make, the higher the chance your content is on the internet forever. Elle Brooke? Oh yes, that stuff is on there forever, no doubt. Jane from Idaho with 48 subscribers? I mean maybe, but maybe not.
I wasn’t expecting Blaire White to appear. Thank you and Blaire for pointing out the narcissism of today’s culture.
You spoiled it for me😂
I hope at least some people liked this comment for its ironic value.
I didn't either. I really like Blaire and I think it's cool that she's popping up everywhere!
@@buffalowings4247 Shows u how easy modern women have in life. they can have steady income from looking good on camera
@@blakeavila4409 Shows u how easy modern women have in life. they can have steady income from looking good on camera
I think the worst part is not only are people considering onlyfans as a legit career, it's also that it's become a social trend. I've heard too many teens/young women pressuring other women their age to do onlyfans to ''fit in with other women''. Now it's considered socially acceptable, same level as casually drinking wine everyday, and you *must* do that as a way to prove to others you *are* a beautiful woman. People give each other so little compliments that to be considered beautiful, they need the likes and money of men in order to feel rewarded and appreciated. How is that feminist?
It's shocking to me how the mainstream 'feminism' of today considers a genuine compliment from a man on the tube 'harassment' but men using your body for sex work liberating! One word: INSANE.
This right here!!^
We gassed them up too hard and now the compliments of beautiful aren’t enough. I remember when I was in my 20s shorties would swoon if you called them beautiful even if they weren’t into you. Now even when they’re into you it’s a disingenuous “awww thanks.”
I’m not even bitter about it. When you hear it all the time it sounds like white noise.
@@Crazyhead432sounds like you don't know how to talk to women
"i'm not bitter about it" sure, keep lying to yourself 😄
@@adamssmasherwhat are you on about, he is completely right, and I say this as someone with a girlfriend of 3 years. You don't have to be some Casanova to recognise the realities of the modern dating world...the amount of attention / validation the average young woman gets nowadays via the internet and dating apps, is insane.
I already thought we were doom since people thought the earth is flat.
I mean it's not that obvious and most people haven't seen it from space.
Or that socialism is a good idea
@@acornsrighthand mmhh that’s understandable unless you take classes about the earth. Tbh I always wanted to go to space. But I knew I wouldn’t make it due to my motion sickness lol.
People thought that since the dawn of time and was only disproved in ancient Greece or is that the joke lol
@@Mole-Esther I know back then people thought the sky was the heavens. But this our generation and we should know better.
Like my dad always used to say: "Money doesn't make happy, however, it does make life more comfortable."
She’ll realize the consequences of being unable to love someone cuz of her sexual trauma soon. As a former stripper for half a decade, it’s impossible to understand until it’s too late.
I hope you're okay and recover from what you've been through. Take care of yourself; you can still find love and happiness ❤🙂❤
There's many pornstars who are happily married. Don't wanna be an asshole but sounds like you're projecting. Acting like your trauma is a common thing is a way that people sometimes try to cope with it. It sounds to me like your experience was similar as a vegan working in a butchery. You think sex work is wrong but still did it so it traumatized you, people who don't think that wouldn't go through the same experience.
I am also a former stripper (mid 20s to early 30s) and this was 20+ years ago for me. I also then did full service sex work for a hot second haphazardly for 2 years. You're correct. I'm in my mid 40s, I have not really had any truly healthy relationships and am now choosing to be celibate because I gave myself away sexually for so god damn much of life thinking I was "liberated". Nope. I was traumatised creating further trauma and under valuing who I am and what I offer.
Once a stripper, always a stripper saying is a saying for a reason. It is basically something that will haunt you for a long time.
@@VanessaChats lol choosing to be celibate, honey youre washed up, youre not choosing to be celibate, youre being forced to 😂
May I ask, do you see a therapist?
Our generation is not doomed...stupidity has always existed it's just amplified now because of social media. Its important to keep in mind that statistically speaking most people are normal but normal is not social media friendly. Only the most extreme and flashy examples of stupidity and our culture get shown on social media because lets face it's ragefuel. A lot people say shit like "L generation this generation is so bad" but actively participate in that by enabling the crazy shitty people within to go viral and be platformed. The internet would have you think every 20 something year old is raging narcissist when thats not reality. Sure theres narcissist like the people in that interview but also people who for some reason think they're better than the rest of the people born around the same time as them. "Im not like everybody else" is self centered as can be but nobody likes to acknowledge that.
TL;DR This generation is fine, it's just the horrible people get platformed and shown off the most. Judging a person based on the year they were born is retarded
Each generation raises the next. That's how we got to this point. Morality being chipped away at over decades. There was always stupidity, but there wasn't always the acceptance of debauchery. People had more deterrents to seeking out and watching/participating in pornography. Now it's easily acceptable and glamorized. Anyways, culturally we are fucked. Young people are on their phones 24/7 and you don't think they are heavily influenced by these people? Kids don't wanna be a firefighter or nurse anymore. They all wanna be influencers.
@@loserplanet I blame that more on failing parents than anything. I'm Gen Z, born in 1998, and I have no interest in being an influencer. My parents raised me very religious and valuing "traditional" things like moral alignment, marriage, family, etc. My sister is 16 and raised the same way too so it's not like just being on social media in itself rots the brain. Kids are very impressionable and too many parents don't wanna do the right thing and instead let the internet raise their kid. I completely agree with you about porn and it's glamorization
I'm pretty sure previous generations didn't have to deal with countless incidents of teenagers twerking in grocery isles, or filming themselves dancing for TikTok in the middle of parking lots.
Previous generations were also not rewarded for their stupidity with clicks and monetization. I think you're forgetting that stupidity is like a virus; the more you're exposed to it, the more likely it is to infect you. And it's fair to say that this generation has been exposed to more stupidity than any generation before us.
All of that to say; people are definitely getting stupider.
Impressive. Very nice. Let's see Paul Allen's optimism and positivity .
this generation barely knows wich countries are from where, yeah its doomed
In all fairness, I wish the subscribers to these onlyfans girls get as much scrutiny at the girls.But that will never happen
They do, if a dude were to admit he pays for that content he would become the laughing stock of the block, "what kind of loser pays monthly to get intimacy from a woman that doesnt even knows he exist".
@@genesisalexandria7506 true, but girls don't have the luxury of anonimity. Once your face is on OF, you're one google search away from anyone and everyone knowing. Guys can at least participate without having the whole world know about it. It is what it is.
@@alexutzcel understandable but the girls make the choice to do onlyfans, there are some girls who don't show their face but some do. I'd advice against both paying for onlyfans or doing onlyfans but humans have their own impulsion to do what pleases them if they aren't of a faith, or strong in faith in a higher being etc etc.
@@genesisalexandria7506 you'd be surprised. Many men hide it in front of other women but among themselves talk about these things. My partner became a porn addict and I became involved in these circles online of men and women who follow all of this content and their partners and such. You'd be soo surprised with the numbers
@Aless Yeah, but they get all the money. That's the trade-off, it's not unfair to the women.
I am from a third world country and I can understand where these "I would rather be rich and miserable" people are coming from. I don't think most of them are materialistic. Being poor and happy is a really hard thing to achieve. If you don't have food to eat, a house of your own to call home, access to healthcare and education, you probably aren't gonna be very happy. I wish developing countries could still rely on big families and communities but the reality is most of us have to work harder to not just succeed but also survive. People here simply do not have the luxury to participate in their communities. In developed countries as well, the current job market and the overall economic condition are in shambles, so I do understand those people.
But there is sp much grey are between poor (don't have a roof and food) and rich. Most people do not NEED to sell their bodies for extra cash
@@Kaybye555 you speak from, I'm assuming, a very privileged POV.
I hope, for your sake, you'll never have to be so poor that you'll do anything for money and food.
It is better to have first world problems then third world problems. Everyone should strive to only deal with first world problems.. and there's nothing wrong with that, it is a gift -- sometime people forget that.
Working hard is the natural state of man. People in first world countries forget this.
I agree, I feel like first world people don’t understand the struggles of poorer countries. They can’t imagine the lives of the people who struggle to buy food or keep a rooftop over their heads. These so called full families that exist only because you’re expected to endure whatever violence occurs at home because “they’re your parents and love you”, or they married forever, they can’t split up even if they hate each other and hurt them and their children… man, I’ve seen some very messed up cases where you really are grateful for the parent going away from their children.
I just find it interesting how as a generation we’re so obsessed with being rich and making as much money as we can with as little effort as possible but in the same sentence we’ll say ‘eat the rich’ and have this us vs them mentality… sounds like jealousy to me
The rich are born into their wealth, and continue to garner it through exploitation of the working class both in periphery and core countries. They avoid taxation, they are ascended from the middle class individual. It is us vs them. This girl just sells her pussy online she isn't even comparable to them.
Money can change a person. People kill for money. You can buy a person's life with money. It is life.
That's exactly what it is. Most people can't stand seeing other people succeed.
Older generations also were all in for the money it's simply linked to our survival, there were royal families before that had all the luxuries and many of other people has attempted to become like those families, some people even tried to kill the most rich families to get being voted as an leader (which is what a royal family was at the time) to have all the luxuries.
Regarding the title "I Think Our Generation Might Be Doomed", you have given me huge HUGE HUUUGGGEEE hope that things can be turned around. Your videos are fantastice. I blame my generation (the Baby Boomers) for starting all of this mess. My parent's generation, the World War II generation was mostly about discipline, dedication, hard work, self-sacrifice, patriotism, family and church. The Baby Boomers were/are largely about self-indulgence, selfishness and laziness. But you personally have given me a lot of hope and optimism for the future. Please keep going!!!
If only you knew how few people her/my age actually strive to be like this
@@patricklewis9787 Few people of any era actually STRIVE to be better. It only takes a FEW to change the world for the better - it only took a few to change it for the worse! We CAN get it back to sanity; don't give up on your generation - you're better than mine was 🙂
@@patricklewis9787 I'll certainly take your word for it, but I'm sorry to hear that. I've been around the block a few times, and I can tell you for certain that striving to be like Patience would do anyone, of any age, a world of good. Patience positively glows with the qualities that make life wonderful. I'll bet my house that her life will be happy, successful and quite beautiful. I'm praying for exactly that.
Why Baby Boomers ?
They're not the parents of Gen Z
@@nikemaraje5 To a great degree, the Baby Boomers rejected the values of their parents, the World War II generation. For example sexual propiety. Which brought us directly to OnlyFans.
I feel a tiny bit bad for women like this, whose whole personality and lifestyle and sense of self worth is based on their desirability. Because it won't last, and they will have spent decades learning how to hone something and rely solely on it, and then it will be gone. How do they cope? How will they function? Their template for their own value and their value to other people just won't work anymore. They'll have money, but what else? Thats scary
They'll have so much surgery it'll be very sad to see.
She's like this at 25... She's got 5 years of this and then she hits the wall.. Shes doomed
@@PrimeNPC 5 years? Does a woman's desirability end when she's 30 does it?
@rebecca538 desirability is vague but 30 is the "wall" because biologically your chance of successfully giving birth drops dramatically and continues to drop every year and even if you've no interest in having children your looks dimish(obviously some women age very well and dont become old crones as soon as they hit 30 lol), as a generalisation men age "better" than women so even physically women 30+ aren't seen as attractive as their 20-25 Yr old peers and men who are 35 are more than capable of dating 20-25 Yr olds.
They don't think that far enough ahead. But yes, for anyone with an ounce of introspection, the thought of basing your whole Identity/value off of something completely transient, is pretty terrifying.
The problem with the pursuit of happiness is that we will do whatever it takes to get happy and then stay happy. No matter how it hurts those around us, much less ourselves.
Happiness is also a very finite emotion that takes a lot of effort to obtain. It's much better to find contentment and to sustain contentment, and it's not circumstantially based.
Take it from a sahm of three kids three and under. Contentment is also cheaper. 😉
Happiness is synonymous with contentment. What are you talking about?
@@dathip contentment is learning to be happy with what you already have.
The pursuit of happiness is to never learn contentment.
@@skeinofadifferentcolor2090 am realizing this now and wish for a "mediocre" life in the country working at a dollar general or something like that. I've been so ambitious all my life, I feel that I just want enough for me and my cat and if a husband enters the picture, maybe an adopted daughter. Perhaps live off the land eventually. Sustainable, content, and happy. All I need is my food, my supplements, and my kitty to be content. And I feel that way.
@@skeinofadifferentcolor2090 This is false comparison. We are comparing the terms happiness vs contentment NOT the pursuit of happiness vs contentment. A basic thesaurus demonstrates that happiness and contentment are synonymous with one other. If someone asked me how is my marriage? I could say I am content with it or I am happy with it. Same thing.
@@dathip pursuit of happiness indicates lack of contentment. If you truly were happy/content in your present situation you would not chase after things that you think would make you happier. That is why learning to be content regardless of your situation is vital. Just because they are synonymous in the thesaurus does not mean they carry the same meaning.
Middle English (in the sense ‘lucky’): from the noun hap1 + -y1.
late Middle English: via Old French from Latin contentus ‘satisfied’, past participle of continere.
In a way I kinda feel bad for them. Your basically constantly competing with ur body and looks so when u reach a age ur body starts changing... then what?
then they'll keep getting surgery, destroying their bodies even further.
Yeah i pretty much agree, However many might go the amouranth route where they invest in other things
@@whospari you can always go the AI route and be "young" forever. Not like the stupid buyers are gonna know the difference once AI gets good enough.
@Just Some Guy with No Eyes yeah but dont scare me im praying we stop tryna make ai better by then 💀😭
@@justsomeguywithnoeyes7303 I think someone has done that already cant remember where I heard it tho so not verified.
I believe its people like us who aim to be better that will survive this brainwashed society that we live in, it's like an apocalypse that seems like a blessing only for time to show its negatives later down the line
Omg yess it does feel like apocalypse
This is not the first generation in history to indulge in mass sexual promiscuity nor will it be the last. Everything will repeat hence why I don't get all the worry over "a doomed generation".
Be careful of that I am on the right path and all of others suck perspective. If can the brain dead leftists teach us anything is just that.
There won’t be a society to survive in if everyone lets it die.
yea it will be hard now but Ethan if you really grind hard and be resilient eventually this nonsense will pass and the survivors will be in a very good place in life
This is why I don't believe in the "adults can do what they want" mantra.
Nope, just because you can doesn't mean you should
Yeah too many things get " normalised" these days 🙄🤦♀️
@Gem Star Exactly. Everything is not okay. Everything should not be accepted and facilitated. That's how we got to this degenerate, disgusting culture we have in the West. For the left to be doing this is expected. But people on the right being okay with this is so disappointing and frustrating.
Father is dead, mother is an enabler. Is anyone surprised?
Yup, most and If I'm feeling too truthful, I dare say all women who do onlyfans just need therapy and help finding an actual fulling life
What's there to be surprised? These children who are growing up with their fathers are not growing up to be saints are they?,I am all for both parents being at home ,but I am not going to expect a woman or a man to turn out great because both of their parents are at home, Jeffrey Dahmer had a father and still ate people,so delete your comment,it doesn't make any sense, you men really put yourself on a pedestal in the lives of women and children, when you really don't do much compared to the mothers, your presence is pretty much like a picture on the wall, just there ,I thought y'all said,it's the job of a woman to raise kids, so then what the heck is your use? You shouldn't have brought her dad into this situation if that's what the mentality is
It's sad how her father is dead and he can't advise her
Kim K vibes
I was thinking the same in that I was wondering when he father passed away. This is probably just a generalisation, but it seems that so many women like this didn't have father figures around m.. So, I guess that daddy issues thing.
Thinking money is more important than happiness is just a sign you've never been happy. It's the next best thing.
I’ve dated 2 onlyfans girls this year and they purposely kept it a secret from me because they’re aware of how people look down on anyone being on onlyfans.
They told me afterwards and I asked why they didn’t tell me from the start and their reason was because they wanted me to focus on their personality and not their job.
How was it
@@genevieveohara5360 well tbh the last one I dated just seemed more comfortable with her body. She did lingerie modelling, so she walked around the house in lingerie all the time.
The thing I find hardest with dating women nowadays is that their mental health is in a bad place and that makes dating difficult
@@governmentnameunknown8960 I couldn’t imagine dating an OnlyFans girl who not only does lingerie modelling but also filming videos of her getting railed by guys.
She was the girl who gave blowies behind the science lab.
😂 Everyone in her year group said she was "absolutely made to do this". I think you are probably right.
the effects of onlyfans or ''adult content'' is not immediate it will be years until we see the results when they retire and decide to have children that's when it hits also 90 percent of their creators don't get a lot of money or no money at all its only the top creators that gets a looot of money
Let's see how she feels in 20 years because truly priorities freaking change 🙄
I can't imagine being "on the payroll" of my daughter's OnlyFans account knowing what she's doing for that money. Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should 🤢
25 years old is practically still a kid. I say that as a 25 year old myself. Being a lawyer would have secured her a sustainable future 10-20+ years down the road. Getting into the adult entertainment industry, she better have a backup plan for when her time in the limelight inevitably runs out. And be putting aside some savings.
25 years old is not practically a kid. Our society isn’t doing itself any favors by extending childhood so long.
@@joyfulchristina 100%
Could not disagree more. Marriage needs to be prioritized over a career. You call a 25 year old a kid but I guarantee you expect 18 year olds to be sexually active. This is not sustainable and its the exact pipeline that produced Onlyfans.
@@joyfulchristina @joyfulchristina Point is she still has lots of life left to live, and I'm not sure she's considered the *full* consequences her line of work will have on the rest of her life (having kids, future romantic relationships, jobs). She seems to be brushing it off because she's financially well off *for now.* Her way of valuing short term results of OF vs the longterm payoff of a proper career shows a very immature way of thinking. She's talking like she knows everything when she has lots of life experience yet to gain. This shit will follow you everywhere, and it never goes away, especially in today's digital age.
@@blakeavila4409 Huh???
Elle Brooks (OnlyFan woman that was on Piers Morgan) what is going to happen to her when her physical beauty fades? She better go back to law school and get that degree.
Honestly, she could probably "retire" right now. Doubt she's thinking about any ramifications, huge sums of money can really distort your views. That's true for anyone.
She already 25y. Give her another 6 years. And then what? Old and jaded woman with no success to find mate. becuz of internet and attitude
@@arnoldasbucys7786 I'm sure if she's still doing it by 30, she'll still look good and probably not even care about a relationship. If she does want one, yeah, it'll be pretty messy trying to make it work with just about anyone she's dating.
@ChefBoi, ardeeznutz¿ sadly, women's beauty doesn't last forever, BUT their physical beauty lasts a lifetime. It's unfortunate, but it happens to the beat of us
@@josie9583 ? So which is it, beauty lasts a lifetime or fades?
Tbh, as a zoomer myself I think our generation is fine, most people I know in my age range are pretty chill and normal, yea alot do agree that maybe they should be on their phone less and not be so addicted to social media/gaming but most are coming around to it and trying to at least limit some of their usage especially as they get older. it’s just the internet provides incentives for a small minority of clout chases to just be completely unhinged, so we always see examples of girls like this or pranksters just committing crimes for attention, when I really don’t know anyone like this in real life.
Yeah, I agree with you! Most people I know are nothing like this, even the ones who are considering only fans. Most people just want to be able to get enough sleep and have enough time to do fun things in between work.
She definitely got more OF followers after that interview.
How you know? Decided to visit her OF to "research"? 😂
@@PhilHug1 I’m sure many did 😂 that was probably her plan lol
@@thecreativemillenial exactly why she said “I do much worse than a stripper”.
You're probably right, but not me. I don't find her attractive at all. That kind of mannish face and fake boobs and ultra-bleached-blonde thing ... I know it makes millions of others horny but to me, it's a massive turn-off. Seriously, if that is 0.01% example of OnlyFans success, then I'm happy not to waste a single dollar there.
To be fair its a damn good marketing move.
It's not as simple as your kids being embarrassed that you have nudes or hardcore pornographic content on the internet. But what kind of message are you sending them about intimacy and sex? That it's transactional? That it's a public affair, not private? That it's performance art wholly removed from you as a person? How will that affect how they form relationships?
shush don't you see she's empowered
@@birgbirg111 Empowered and not worth the dog crap on the bottom of my boot......😆
I did say this world has gone insane before.
And righted itself again.
There is so much irony is being found as an act of feminism when things like the Miss American pageant and Playboy magazines were boycotted in the early feminist movement because women were tried of being sexualised by men and have their value reduced to only being a means of sexual pleasure.
This! I'm still in disbelief.
Interesting she described some of the things she did as “grotesque”. For all her breezy bluster, I think she knows what she’s doing is degrading and shameful. She’s sealed her legacy doing this. She’d have to have reconstructive surgery and change her name to pursue a career in law now.
My daughter was getting picked on by an older boy on their school bus. I told my daughter to say “your mom is on onlyfans and your family still needs food stamps” next time the boy harassed harassed her . My daughter did say that, and the boy shut up quickly from embarrassment because it turned out both statements were true. The older kid hasn’t bothered her since.
Aww that is sad though. Seems like a classic case of a neglected child with self esteem issues lashing out at people to make themselves feel better. Hopefully he can get some counseling.
Also I'm sorry your daughter got bullied. Glad she stood up for herself.
@@rosielele And the alternative is what now? Should she have told a teacher (because that always works out great)? Should she just lay there like a door mat? Should I have gotten on the bus myself and told the boy his mother is an unsuccessful, virtual stripper in person? Nothing will stop a bully other than standing up for yourself.
@@davemccage7918that’s a tough situation but u are now blaming the kid for things that are completely out of his control. That’s worse in my opinion.
@@tikifreaky5204 see above response.
They need to interview struggling OF creators
I just want to say, I love it when you call us your dears.
Money is no substitute for happiness, nor does it give life meaning. It’s a means to an end, not the end in and of itself.
The fact that she said "way worse" is such a tell- she knows it's not really good for her deep down. Maybe the craziest part is about her mum doing "admin work". Wtf. The whole "cry in a Ferrari" thing is just insane. It's just mind-blowing that people like her, who aren't a good example of a healthy mindset, get more airtime than professionals qualified in giving advice on relationships, religion, life in general.
The ferrari comment is mad. Ferrari are rich mans cars. Rich as in, you've got a successful career as a lawyer and have worked your way through your 20s, 30s and 40s to build real wealth and also garner respect from everyone around you. She's 25 and hasn't realised she's going to lose the majority of her fans (and income) when she hits 30. Onlyfans just can't be a lifelong career for women due to the rapid fall off of looks past a certain age. Love is what keeps marriages lasting decades, not surface attraction which is what the entire hoes world revolves around
You can love your children no matter what they do, but as a decent parent there are some things you have to draw a line in the sand with your children, that you will not support certain choices, and I feel onlyfans is one of those things.
"Cry in a Ferrari" was a smart comeback on her part. Regardless on what we think of her career, she made very quotable lines that out-manuvered his question whilst being respectful on other's opinions. That's the real reason she's the top porn star. If she agreed she felt shameful, she would've got attacked. If she became too prideful and complained about people's hate on her lifestyle, we would've hated her.
The less addressed issue is, her reward is exceptionally good for the sacrifice because she is the top of the top. The rest of the girls will probably only cover part of their monthly rent for their dignity.
It used to be where it would be considered slightly acceptable to be a stripper if you were using it to pay your way through school. Now it is considered ok to drop the school part and pursue the sex work full-time.
As a parent now (whose mom a long time ago told me she was okay with me being the stripper to put my way through school) I couldn't imagine being supportive of either scenario for my own daughter.
Societal, I think we have become innundated with narcissistic selfish toxic people. I really wish more parents had raised their children to think about the good and change they could do for the world rather than what they take from thet world. The problem is the society as a whole prefers the latter as they are consumers and consumers help make profits. 😢
Good Lord, are you morally reprehensible if you tell your daughter you support her becoming a stripper to pay her way through school. What about helping her find a job and support her in getting it? What about financially supporting her yourself? I'd do damn bake sales on the side of the road before I told my child to put herself out for gross old men to leer at her for the sake of success.
@autumnhobbit She clear as day said she couldn’t imagine being supportive of that for her daughter
@@silentassasin-q8l I'm not accusing the commenter of supporting it, just expressing disgust that the idea was ever considered acceptable or promoted mother-to-daughter.
You and Blare on point as usual 😊
In the old days if you wanted to be a good person and get a woman to be naked in front of you you had to court her, show her affection and that you could provide a good life for her. You had to show her you were a man wroth being with. Well now, naked women, naked women everywhere! And now, somehow that makes the special occasion of taking your beloveds clothes off and laying with her that much less special. Oh the horror.
In the old days your parents would arrange the marriage and you would have a woman (most likely your cousin) naked in front of you without lifting a finger. You younger folks just don't get it.
😂 you think women had any choice? Nah man. They were sold by their families for bushels of wheat, so who gave a fuck about the life the girl was going to endure with her now husband. Her family could care less bc they need the money so why on earth would you think it could’ve been the woman’s choice to let a man into her life. Women weren’t afforded that until recently
As someone who grew up with wealthy family members, it's really sad the amount of self-destruction, depression, and sadness surrounding these people. I thank the universe everyday I live a balanced and fulfilled life 🙏🏼
Money doesn't buy happiness but being poor doesnt make you happier either. There are many aspects that don't involve money. Take it from me, i don't have money or happiness. Neither are going to give me purpose, if and until i find that I'm doomed.
"Money don't buy happiness, but calm fears"
Life is short to be feeling miserable. Happiness can happen by helping others.
I dunno man. I don't worry about money but I'm not very happy, truthfully. But my issues come from myself, my self esteem, etc. Psychological things. I assure you having money isn't the cure to all of your problems
No one said that being poor makes you happy though. Patience even specifically stated in the video that people in poorer countries are happy because they have strong family connections and sense of purpose in life. That is what brings happiness, not money or the lack of it.
The point is that you can be happy rich or poor, and you can be miserable rich or poor.
@@thelemurofmadagascar9183 Amen to this!
Oh my goodness!!! Thank you!! I got so much hate for saying that this lady was wrong for taking pride in saying such things, Jesus Christ! Our generation is in shambles
People just don't think long term. Everything is about short term gratification, long term gratification is alien to them. It's been a constant reminder to keep thinking long term instead of ending up like these people.
Ironically, my mindset has been drastically changed by the discussions around the new little mermaid movie (this will relate to this video in a second, bear with me as I explain). The new movie was advertised as a girl who doesn't go to the land for a boy anymore, but it seemed to miss the mark on the original movie. Ariel always loved land, she went to land not because of a boy but because a witch took advantage of her naivity around love. Still, Ariel uses her own agency to achieve her wants and desires. In the orignal, love and self-sacrifice for someone you deeply care about is important. Sacrificing your own wants and desires and giving them up for others in a life of servitude and compassion is a big theme in the little mermaid. You can't have your cake and eat it too is also a message, where Ariel gives up her voice for legs and still uses her opportunities to get to know Eric, enjoy land and achieve her dreams. When I was a young teen on Tumblr, I viewed the disney princess movies through a similar lense as the modern one; the princess always needed to be rescued, especially Ariel. But after the heavier discussions around the remakes, it's simply not true. I have come to learn the importance of living a life of servitude for those around me, for those I love. I find greater fulfillment and purpose in helping those around me, in nurturing loving relationships instead of career goals (and I'm a civil engineer) or getting the best clothes or doing whatever I want. My mental health has sky-rocketed. I'm more empowered than ever. It's a shame the values of femininity have been lost in the face of "women can be as cold-hearted as men, and greed and selfishness are good values to have."
Thanks for your comment. God bless you.
Well id rather discuss why are men viewed "cold hearted, greedy and selfish"???? that's what should be worked on
The assumption this girl is making is that any self-respecting man would want to procreate with her later on. She is so narcissistic and probably a divorce case waiting to happen. And it's sad because one day she'll realize she earned her money by cheapening herself. Any good man she could have gotten has long moved on to traditional, conservative women, and she'll be sad. All of us ladies eventually hit the wall.
Women like these go for men who don’t have that self respect. Somehow, they find good hardworking men who will put up with them as they do not view themselves highly. It’s quite unfortunate.
She'll probably marry a porn addict and she's not gonna like. It won't go well
@@MysticOceanDollies She'll find a beta STEM major nerd in no time.
@@ne0nmancer she won't want that man. She will want a very good looking 6'2" high earner who can just easily get an 18 year old who's nevee been a porn star. She can get a man, just not the one she wants.
@@MysticOceanDollies and she will be completely turned off by him.
I'd say that the relation between money and happiness is a downwards opening parabola.
If you're completely destitute, you'll be very unhappy if you can't even afford food or a roof to go over your head. But if you're obscenely rich, there seems to be a tendency to go completely insane to the point of self-destruction, case in point: hollywood celebrities, Epst*in Island, etc...
This is exactly why I personally would rather have a medium income than be rich or poor.
Instead of imagining your kids knowing you were on OF imagine your parents were on OF. Think of how embarrassing that would be for you and now think of your kids.
I agree 100% with your statement regarding the "Kardashian effect"
They have alot to answer for in regards to todays standard of beauty and materialism. Never watched a full episode of that nonsense and never will. In many ways that family have ruined the world or perhaps that's been their ultimate plan all along?! 🤔
People don’t even say, money can’t buy happiness anymore.
That’s how far gone this generation is.
Onlyfans models when they can't get a partner, runs out of money but is no longer good looking and they can't make money, don't have kids to take care of you or to talk to you, no job will hire you
Other than that it's all sunshine and rainbows
I remember people being concerned over kids wanting to be footballers and musicians. Sobering to think where we are now.
I love your English, and delivery, Patience 😂❤. Much love from South Sudan 🇸🇸.
this is (one of) my (many) problem(s) with conservatives: they will extol the endless virtues of capitalism but when someone makes money doing onlyfans they suddenly clutch their pearls. how is it any different from people's bodies being exploited in other industries? i used to work at UPS unloading 53-foot trailers: it was hard physical labor that i still have back problems from. was i not being exploited by that company then? are amazon workers not being exploited? apple employees? what about all the hands that assemble your phones? are they not being exploited? any worker who does dangerous, grueling labor solely for a paycheck is being exploited. why does OF get singled out here? and any time workers form a union or strike to protest shitty labor practices, conservatives get all dismissive: "get back to work, sweetie!" "what a bunch of spoiled babies!" "sound like a buncha communists to me!" etc etc. in the U.S. we've turned everything into a market: religion, journalism, health care, politics. it's all done for money. people have gotten rich flooding communities with opioids and the right says nothing about it. people have gotten massively wealthy selling jesus and conservatives think it's great but a woman claps her cheeks online for some $ and suddenly our culture is in decay.
I'm 34 and things I thought were a good idea when I was 25 are things I would NEVER do today. You dont really, truly think about what your future self would think ten years from now when youre 25. You're still very self absorbed and in the now when you're 25. That is just how it is. You're a newly hatched adult and your world view is still very egocentric. The broader perspective, the more humbling mature adult idea of the world starts truly coming into view at the tail end of your 20s.
I was 28 when I, for the first time ever, even considered asking my parents what the 20s were like for them. I had just always assumed that my parents always had had their shit together and made all the correct decisions while I was a huge, massive disappointment. It never even crossed my mind to talk to them about it. And when i did, i learned that they had been just as stupid, selfabsorbed and chaotic as me. That the put together, prepared and calm people i have always known, was soemthing they perfected for decades.
There are so many things you dont consider when you're 25 and to throw your whole life into a hole for quick money in exchange for yohr dignity, is somwthing that will haunt you for the rest of your life. The closest i ever got to this type of shit was to tip toe into drawing erotica. I thought it would be awesome and it wasn't the same as pornography, right? I did exactly ONE gig as an erotica illustrator and then i quickly realized that, that is not for me.
Still, I sometimes get asked at cons to sign the book I helped illustrate. I do it with a smile, but if i could, i would love to go back in time and tell my younger self to not take that job. Barely anyone has read that book and it is very underground, but I still wish it didnt exist out there.
I cant imagine the girls who actually sell their bodies for cash online. It will never go away and it will be the first thing to pop up when your name is searched. Like fucking hell... there is a life after the 20s and its a lot more serious and important than you think.
There was a very big only fan creator talking about how her relationship with her parent turned sour after becoming an only fan. Her mother used her for her money and her father & brother doesn't want to see her. Her child is already been looked down upon because of her mother's job and the mother is strugglng to find someone to date. Also I love how the generation that complains most about captialism is the generation that all want to get rich quick.
Rules for thee. not for me
@@morgannyan2738 Yep. Do what I do not what I say.
It used to be a straight up scandal when someone was found out to be using a dating website back in the day, now everybody seems to use them to date.
"Her mother is on her payroll"...
Damn.
It's so tragic on so many levels.
Imagine your parents work very hard to raise you right , put all that money into raising you and sending you to school etc. While other people around the world don't get these privileges. And she turns around and becomes a porn star... while some wish they had the funds to educate themselves to escape that kind of life or worse....SAD.
I think money can be sort of a stepping stone to happiness. Do I think it’s the source? Absolutely not. But I think it definitely supplements and supports the source
What we dont have is lots of voices coming out and telling the joy of having a family rather than this materialistic nonsense.
As a father, nothing gives me more pleasure than seeing my sleeping babies (5 and 7) each evening before i go to bed. Providing for them and their mother so they can have the opportunities that i didnt have
That's so beautiful. Thank you for sharing. 🙂
respect man
Thank you for your youthful wisdom.
It's very cringe how she talks about how her accomplishment is gaining a following
This career is based on her youth. So what happens when she's 29/30 and the fans dry up? They'll be on to the next 18, 21, 25 year old.
Nice video. I think there are two statements we can make in response to your question at the end.
Having more money can make your life more comfortable and, in that sense, it can make you happy by solving the day to day problems that come with living in society. So many people are depressed and distraught because they feel heavy burnout trying to struggle against the cost of living. It's deeply demoralizing to feel like you simply can't afford to live. Money is the cure to that plight.
But if you pursue money at the cost of relationships, family, community and your passions you can end up wanting the things that money can't buy. Being rich and feeling alone is a special kind of hell.
Well.
As a person with alexithymia, I must thank you. After 27 years on earth, I finally managed to identify the feeling of despair.
I think you're right, kids are cruel and this will effect the children of these models. I'm not trying to even shame anyone, but when I was a kid I went to a private school for a few years but I was the poorest kid in my class and I got made fun of because my dad cleaned pools. I can't even imagine if someone wanted to make fun of someone and all they had to do was find a naked picture of their mom and post it all over the school...
oh dude i can't even imagine how i would have coped if that happened to me well first of all i would bluntly tell my mother i am never going back to school again because it's one thing to get a school to get 1 or 2 kids to stop teasing and insulting someone but try getting an entire school to stop exactly good fucking luck
if i was in that situation i would point blankly refuse to go back to school and would drop out on the spot
Ms. Patience, you rare very articulate...Sound reasoning. We need more women like you in this generation. Thanks for making your submissions
Dropping out of University to do OnlyFans is really stupid. Once she's not young and hot, she'll have no back up plan. Society has forgotten that biology hits harder on women far earlier than on men. Oh well, society has forgotten biology at all.
Yes, unfortunately.
I firmly believe that, in vacuum, there's nothing wrong with being an Onlyfans model. If you're comfortable with showing off and got people willing to buy, all the power to you.
I think the issues start to arise when you mix in other social factors running rampant out there. Narcissism, loneliness, materialism, and just a general lack of empathy make it really hard for either creator or consumer to have a very healthy mindset about this sort of thing. You get gross parasocial relationships, weird objectification, and a detachment from reality that pop up.
I just think it's a very unhealthy thing for people to be involved with.
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There is something wrong with being an only fans model, but you wouldn't think so,if you don't have any self respect
i think being an onlyfans model is as moral as being a drug dealer. Sure you dont force neyone into it, bit you are an enabler of very harmfull behaviour and pray on the weak minded and lonely.
Im not a really a Nihilist and therefore believe that there is some kind of morality. And being an onlyfans model or a subscriber is morally corrypt.
A virtuos person works to bring others up not keep them in the same terrible place or worse.
Feel free to disagree
The potential issue is whether this will be sustainable for the next 30 or 40 years
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There's nothing wrong with it in and of itself.
The successful business model here is that she invest her earnings wisely (not buy Ferraris 🚗). She will age out of OF and then she can retire early. Being a lawyer has a certain cachet but most lawyers do middling boring work. Lots of them hate their jobs and it isn’t actually all that respected a profession by average people. In fact most people think highly of lawyers because they think they make a lot of money which she is doing already with her unique talents. The kids thing could be a problem but who knows? Not many people having kids these day and maybe she will be another.
She was becoming a lawyer. She was already morally grey.
Our generation not MIGHT be doomed, it just IS. From other news, water is wet.
We're only doomed for sure if the people like us give up. We gotta defy the partisan bickering and stick with common sense and ethics.
All exposes how easy modern women have in life. they can have steady income from looking good on camera
This new generation is doomed!
- every previous generation
8:40 Nope, a study shows suicide rates rise as you move down income bracket
"i was born to do this" i think refers to some people who are just physically very sensitive and mainly called a nymphomaniac. i dated a lady like that for a while and she often said things like "i hear my body much stronger than avarage person".she didnt worry about much christian morals and was very open to pretty much anything , though she never had a trauma and was very fun loving, extravert, cheerful person. also she was very selfaware, and knew she could pull a wealthy man whenever she pleases beacuse of her looks, and she could keep secured because of her "talent". thoigh she never did porn or onlyfans, but im sure that if she would have any of personal content leaked she would probobally be more concerned if she looks good in it, beacuse she was also a hardcore narcissist. so its nurture plus nature.
Shows u how easy modern women have in life. they can have steady income from looking good on camera
@@kevinsamson1693 kinky women were always romantised in films and culture when their freedom of choice was compromised, now they are in control of their own wealth and its a problem. its giving medival vibes to me
The way he responded to her saying she is 25 and doesn't want kids with "well you will" cringed me tf out
Because of you listen, she herself said that she might. So it was a relevant statement
He sometimes cringe me
Yeah that was a pretty typical forcing words down the throat Piers move haha
@@marenkendall7413no, just realistic how people change. All the women said the same thing when I was young. And later, most changed their mind. Same with dudes even. Only difference now is, saying basic facts is seen as "cringe". "oh no, he said a statistical truth that women want kids." you know how many adult stars say what she did? And they all end up with kids.
Hell, I said the same thing at 25. I did NOT WANT KIDS. I was vehement about it. Only difference is, you can still say things to men. Say it to a woman now, and people become sensitive.
@@Kaybye555listening.... Oof... That's a hard one for people these days.
I think lower depression rates in underdevelopped countries have more to do with having outside needs than anything else. If you have to worry about how to buy your children clothes, you won't wallow in misery. If you have outside problems, problems that you can at least try to solve with hard work, then you're less likely to dwell on your mental/spiritual problems. Another thing is that if you don't have the money for a psychologist, then you'll never get diagnosed.
Edit: I've just remembered a great line from a pastor in my community: "Money should be a tool, and never a goal."
People actually think that blonde thing, being cocky is attractive. Wow! beauty standards have really slipped
The love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. The sad thing is, eventually the money will run out, the young age, the nice looks, all of it, will evaporate one day. By then it will be too late to reestablish yourself.
Women have fought for years for respect and these women have ruined it .
I kind of appreciate her honesty and ability to accept herself as she is. There's not many people nowadays that can do that so it is refreshing to see every so often someone who is actually acknowledging their truth and if that's what made them successful they kind of just work with it they don't have to apologize for that. Something I almost forgot to mention as well and this goes hand-in-hand with the being successful part actually liking your job. She's genuinely seems like someone who actually enjoys her job I think that's another thing about our generation it's one thing for us to be successful and all of that but as I mentioned we want stability so it's not just getting rich it's also do we love what we're doing? Because what's the point of getting rich if you're not enjoying what you're doing?
Personally, as a millenial my stance on OnlyFans has broadened in the past year; in the sense that I don't judge those who do it as harshly as I did in the past. Reason being is that there are outside forces that aren't fighting fair either. The Education-Industrial complex and student loans being at almost $2Trillion now, car notes are looking like mortgages nowadays, home prices and thus the mortgages on them (while they have dropped somewhat recently) are several times more than what the homeowners make in a year, which didn't used to be. So now, I understand if people (because it's not just women on OF and the like) want to go the OF route for a little while just to get their pockets right.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 valid points - thank you! I couldn’t agree with the “money don’t buy happiness” (among others) because sure yeah, I guess not. But, it gives you the resources necessary to attain happiness. I grew up in poverty, I know this! All of a sudden it’s a problem when women want to capitalize on their own sexiness.
Very true, these woman/men are taking desperate measures.
Honestly Patience,
I think things are going to reverse & the kids who's parents either did not make it big or did not get involved with OF are going to be teased by those who's parents did just because there are more females doing an OF account than are not. I'm not a fan of OF personally and will not join into that world myself, but I do understand the curiosity about joining the community. Thank you for covering this topic & yes I think women need to be made aware of both the pros and cons of the business.
"May you have enough to meet your needs but remain humble in your want." That was part of the prayer at our wedding, and I think it's very wise.
As an 20 year old male, i see all the vain people in my age group and it just makes me depressed. I think about if i fall in love with a girl, and i find out that she has an onlyfans, i wouldn't know what to do with myself honestly. It isn't even about children, it's about personal dignity
I had been once told by a once wealthy man who now lives poorly in contentment that money does not bring happiness, it purchases it.
I think class needs to be accounted into all of this. My impression is that most people creating and consuming the only fans content are middle class people who are not satisfied with their lives and keep imagining moving up the class ladder, into the heights where they will not have to work anymore. Lower class/poor people have actual long lasting existential problems and don't have the luxury of abandoning their law degree in order to move into something as short lived as online porn.
Yep, well put. People like to pretend class no longer matters to them, but it actually IS a defining factor for a good number. And spot on that people in real poverty cannot afford to make these kinds of decisions; they have REAL problems to deal with.
With people like you Patience, the world will STILL have hope!!!
I actually respect this girl. I know the extreme confidence is a marketing ploy, but I like that she's standing her ground and even doubling down when they try to shame her for her choices. I wouldn't choose the same, but I respect the mindset.
I agree, while I wouldn't necessarily recommend the career choice, I think her attitude towards pursuing her ambitions is commendable.
I have kids and I didn't attend Freaknik. At the time I wasn't thinking about having children, I was thinking about my morals and my integrity, now it's coming back to bite them BECAUSE they have children and they're fighting to not have the doc come to light. You have to care about YOURSELF first.
wow the fact that she admit she's doing grotesque stuff online ☠️💀 with no shame at all
She's young, wil quit OF at some point, find herself a nice rich husband and will be living a sweet life after that again .. She's a winner! Bold and brave people own this world!
sells nude pictures of herself online. So bold, so brave
If I met this woman not knowing what she did, I would find her extremely irritating. In fact I do now she strikes me as terrible company.
A lot of girls start OF knowing only the .001% of creators and thinking that it is easy. The reality is that it is extremely oversaturated and they are going to earn 20$ a month and quit, and their "content" is going to be online forever. It is like the female version of guys starting to stream on Twitch thinking that they are the next XQC.
This is why shame is not always a bad thing. Having a sense of shame and modesty says a lot about you and instantly gives you value. You may be proud of this now but you will regret it later.