Cancers wants consistency but yet they are very fickle. The one I dealt with was emotionally draining and so toxic. He was hard to love. So yeah I'm giving him all the space. He can stay away I have no intention to fix something that's so much work.
They are douchheebags fr! Very self centered mf😂 like this one right after our short phone call ignored my messages. What a looser. Never dating a cancer again. I gave him 2-3 days of my attention now cutting him cold turkey.
Some Cancers are full of sh*t. They do NOT like to take accountability or extend grace… smh it’s really sad, but very telling! People have to have space to unfold & to learn each other, but whatever… I’m not on a trial period, it’s literally NOT my fault & honestly if you wanna walk away when I’ve been EXTREMELY good to you then IM the one that’s DONE! Period.
I agree with this Video my ex was a Cancer and she bailed saying she need space to focus on herself, she was ghost for 10 months, I text her that what do she expect to do to fulfill my sexual needs, so she called and said she see me in her future and wanted to know if I was involved with somebody, I let her back in my life and she ghost again smfh
Cancer men and women are different. I'm a cancer woman and hate cancer men. They cheat. I am with a capricorn man which I prefer way more. We balance each other out.
I mean the want Always to be Seen as this strong Zodiac sign and when you treat them Like a strong Person they are Like hey thats rude am a softy, this Zodiac Signs Always want to be understood but will never ever try to understand you.sure the are capibale of giving great Love but they are such a irratating Zodiac sign the want to be accepted all the time vor their Bad sides and this would be okay Bit the never Accept a Bad Side in a another Person. The are such easy to manipulate people, i mean they never question their Families doings ...i am sure there are some really nice cancers Out there, but i never meet a real carring cancer the say the are carring but deep down the give a fuck about you, the Always Love people which are talking sweet Talk and the never Change Bad habbits because cancer is afraid of Change ... Sure the have a soft Spot and yeah ITS nice to be around a cancer which Shares this soft Spot, Bit you have Always to guess every mood right and the will Not das what borders Them, the will das you have to be Open Bit the will give a Shit about there own advicec or give a cancer a advice basicly He or she will BE yeah aww thank you but WE all know the say thank you Bit deep down the are Like fuck your advice only my parents can give me Life advice
Great video , I’m a cancer ♋️ we are very emotional people and yes we do get misread a lot but a lot of people don’t understand how the crab 🦀 operates!!! They go back in the shell to basically recharge and not everyone can deal with that ! But we are very loving and loyal nobody can take that away frm us
I was in a relationship with a cancer woman and she demanded my love and attention because we were going through a rough patch, then I opened my heart to her, laid out my emotions and love, and when I did, she started ignoring me, pushing me away, lying about it, then we broke up. I can't help but resent her because I spent the last 2 month making a fool of myself to give her what she wants and she treated me like shit. I'm a Capricorn by the way
Cancer is cold AS Shit AS a Gemini i can truly say the Same, Same Story Teil people some mistakes in both Sides but cancer is Not willing to change so.ething so the use you for their pleasent because they want to enjoy you Bit deep INSIDE you are Long dead dir them
Damn I think I hurt a cancer man's feelings.. Or he isn't interested.. One or the other.. I'm so confused. I want to talk to him.. But I don't know what to do.
&... I sent him a friend request on FB. He didn't add me. Also i said happy birthday. He didn't say anything.. &.. He's been online. This Leo woman is very confused.
Yeah right because it's all about being closed and not expressing feelings and hoping the other one does all the healing work...this is for a mother child relationship and not a loving relationship
Hello Lamar!! I love the video. But cancers also need to take responsibility on their part of the situation. The ones I know will play the victim when confronted about things that they have done to you. I do understand space because being a Aquarius and being married to a Capricorn I totally get solitude and space but however cancers need to provide understanding and truth to those that need it from them as well. It can't be one sided and double standard only when it comes to them. I mean they can be very selfish and self centered people at times!!! Well thanks for another great video. God Bless.
I am a Capricorn ♑️ sun and have a Libra ♎️ moon I had a whirlwind romance with a cancer man where he swept me off my feet. I followed him to his home country in Italy and as spontaneous as it sounds it was arranged for me to stay with him for two months. as he was planning on returning to the states two months following. We couldn’t wait to be together so I agreed We had this undeniable connection and we understood our souls. I had been in a long term relationship of 7 on and off years. As he has not ever had a serious relationship. But somehow we could feel we wanted to be each others last. He completely swept me off my feet but things in his home started to turn dark he was always stressing about his hate for his country and caused me a lot of negativity during our first month as he had his family issues and his own demons I decided to change my return date and cut those two months in half. When I had arrived to Italy he had a promise ring waiting for me which he later denying taking back after it mysteriously disappeared. He later went crazy and either himself his psychotic mother or schizophrenic sister who I was staying with planted some of his clothes in my luggage. As a result he rambles through my things days before my departure and fought me to look through my things I had some promiscuous lingerie that I had planned on wearing for him that I never did due to his neglectful behavior towards me I noticed he was a selfish lover and I never did have the confidence to wear any of it. In my mind when he randomly freaked out looking through my things I felt embarrassed about the lingerie so in my mind I was confused as to what he was looking for only to find one of his sweaters and or shirts in a hidden department. Through this rampage of his he hit me in my face with his hand and the luggage he grabbed me by my neck and held me down when he forced to look through my things he kicked me off of my luggage it’s still so traumatic and recent to even speak of this event I remember his step father stepping in and me just crying asking why he did this psychotic thing to me not the violence but plotting some kind of revenge to hate me and victimize himself. He yelled up and down about calling the police and it was just an insane situation Oddly enough his mother and sister believed me everyone and I felt safe but very hurt and confused. Did they do this to destroy us did he plan this? Although I’d only known him for a few months I felt I knew him all my life and this wasn’t like him. I wonder if he suffers from mental issues or anything else but I’ll never know because he locked him his room and refused I ever come near him again I will never understand what happened that day. I recently came back home and am completely destroyed by his actions. I never got closure and he completely blocked me off everything and told all of his friends who I had the pleasure of meeting to do the same and said the most vile things about me. His last message to me was that I should get mental help and it’s very apparent I have all of these issues. He never apologized to me for anything only accused me and victimized himself to the world. He believes he did nothing wrong. I loved him with all I had and followed my heart and never did anything to betray his trust i don’t think someone would stop their life for two months leave the country for someone just to steal a piece of clothing it makes absolutely no sense and I feel I was set up. As a victim of the situation I find myself asking him to forgive me as if did something wrong. I went out there for love and to grow our relationship. He knew me and I knew him now we feel as if we never knew each other. I’m so hurt that he caused me all of this disillusion and pain I wonder if he’ll ever acknowledge it and come back to me as bad as it sounds. As I slept with his sister in her room the last few nights she comforted me and told me to not cry for a man like that I was and am so confused They all cut ties with me and never spoke to me again. It’s been less than a week that these events took place and if only I could write it all out that entire month drained me and he stole my soul I find myself needing to seek therapy.
I know my experience is very specific but can anyone relate of give me closure to this cancer man behavior I can hardly sleep or eat knowing he cut me off after we had a life planned. He comes back to states in a few months and I wanted nothing but it to work. Many ask why I would want someone who would treat me that way so coward like but I can’t help but go with my heart and know what I felt when I knew he wanted to be with me for real. It was an insane switch that I just can’t grasp :,(
@@Donbanks45 It's hard to gain a cancer's heart if they don't share the same feeling as you it's like having 1 chance out of 100 to succeed but if you are exes than maybe with time you can reach her back if she still likes you of course. Juste give her time
@@Donbanks45Thing is Cancers read ppls vibes so you don't actually have to do anything directly wrong to us. If your vibe is off or you fail the vibe test just enough for us to never want to F with you in particular
Man when you said a cancer doesn't always do things straight forward they tend to walk sideways.... I felt that lol I felt that hard I just had a flash back of every argument iv ever had with my cancer and if that isn't the very definition lol
Yes, the Cancer I know said and I quote: My cut off game is strong. I have references." He thought I rejected him because I did not do what he wanted, but yet he has failed to take ownership in his part of the experience. As a Scorpio I say, "Whatever!!" Middle finger up dude! Grow up!
Cancer♋ here,spot on.I'm caring ,loving and affectionate.I don't like being taken for granted.I'm forgiving if you keep doing it I'm done.Enough is enough .Cut Off
I'ma Capricorn dealing with a Cancer woman right now. She's also done from the look and feel of things for continuous behavior she didn't like from me. I've cried and pleaded to her and tried proving myself and communicating to fix and own up to what I've caused. Can that "I'm done" be reversed if I just give her space and time? I've been getting little communication over the past 2 months.
In my experience as a water sign, ♏ here, we need to learn to be wise with our emotional resources. Our giving and loving natures are beautiful, so we have to be careful with who we invest our emotions in. I have over invested in people in terms of energy, gifts and time who don't give a f*** about my emotional needs and end up getting resentful that they don't reciprocate the same way. I hate being hurt and taken for granted, but we need to own our parts in that kind of dynamic, too.
Am a cancer and if am ignoring you, disappear because I have cut you off and there's no reason I'd want to have you back. Literally you must have reached the forbidden line and bruh I'd not look back. And if you open up and a cancer changes to the negative side, it's because what you just said, you should have said it from the beginning, not getting me to a certain point and dragging me back unnecessarily. Cancer are loving and dangerous. Am saying it from a personal perspective.
You don’t have to do anything for a cancer man to cut you off they just do it anyways... abs WHY would ANYONE wait years for someone that’s just pathetic
You all just say Cancerian thinks other people can read their minds but people don’t really think about the chances they’ve given and they’ve given their opinions but people don’t learn. So obviously when something similar happens, cancerians think that the other person would know what they would want at that situation cuz that’s how people get close to each other, knowing each other. Cancerian like to be treated the same way they treat. They know your favourite things, they know how to heal you, they know how to make you feel like the most important person in the world. Is it too much to ask the same or least ask to be understood? Nah I don’t think so. They try so hard and give everything they have when they love someone and care about someone. They are the ones who would give up their own comforts to hand it to you but people only take advantage of them mostly. They mirror your characters. Be nice to a Cancerian, they’ll be the sweetest person and would give you everything they have. You just expect them to treat you and nurture when you don’t treat them like that.
True sometimes. I have a brother who is Cancer and strangely he ended up having a daughter with a Gemini woman. My friend didn't even know him for long and he draws something nice for her from prison. But me I had to beg for something nice. I'm a Gemini woman and because of my brother I've ran from Cancer man for years. Now I'm with one and giving it one last try. Can't handle the ghosting. Clear communication defines me and for me if I don't have all a man's affection and attention and have to keep fighting for him to be 100 with me, I won't keep trying as much as I love him. I see it as a man either wants real love or fake love from hoes. Time says it all and I have lots of time.
I don’t even know what I did… we were just fine, I went to his house 4 days ago and had a great time,he even told me he wanted me to meet his son and made plans to travel to another city in two weeks……. TWO DAYS LATER ,I Call him and he’s not answering or replying!!! I just said in a text “ I hope you’re okay, whatever you’re going through, contact me when you’re ready to chat😊” because I don’t have time for that shyt but id be lying if I said I wasn’t confused or hurt.
Same boat, we were going to go on a date, and then never heard from him again. I replied the same way. Like hey, I care about you, I don't want to lose you, but I need you to talk to me. 😢 I'm so heartbroken. I'm a Leo.
This has honestly helped me.. has givin me a stable sense ever since after my break up.. I’ve been looking for answers and you helped me with it thank you.....
As a leo… NO WAY in the world am I waiting on anyone 😂… You ghost, message received and I’m gone. NEXT…. 3 months later they ALWAYS come crawling back but by then… I’m done
My bf is a cancer and I’m a Capricorn you are SPOT ON! My bf requires an apology first before he speaks to me if he’s mad n if he played a part in the cause of the fight he won’t apologize right away. N he’ll let u in a little first but not all the way until he’s 100% comfortable
I’m a Capricorn dating a cancer now .. July to October we done told each other we love each to now he mad about idk what!!! Blocked me on ig but didn’t block my number .. 🙄🙄 like wth I’m confused
Ya So boring .Wait for weeks and months .Then what? He will do same again . We have nothing else than wait for Cancer mood swings. Duh !!! They are crazy silent.
Sometimes Aquarius ♒️ has poor verbal boundaries and can come off as emotionally detached. They will habitually line step and not care. Which is fine, but Cancers are hypersensitive to actions and words. So that's when the friction starts. Aquarius is also very logical, cancer are more emotionally charged. Aquarius gets over things faster and also doesn't take things too seriously. Cancer is the opposite. Clashing of the titans.
♋️ female, married to a male ♎️ I’ve forgiven multiple times for repeatedly breaking promises and disrespecting boundaries. Following each incident I’ve tried to resolve the issues via talking it out, but my emotions are brushed aside or ignored, and he typically just deflects, often bringing up some Petty, small, irrelevant to the issues, stuff from the past and then likes to pretend everything is fine. I finally blew up and went into flip mode (something he’s done numerous times, but for which I apologized & he rarely does) and he left, had been gone for days & said he needs “time”, but isn’t “running away from me”, & tonight said he’ll “see me tomorrow”. I’m like nope, you will not, we are done and I’ve deleted his number, all our photos, packed up all his things and it’s a wrap
My girlfriend is a cancer. She is hot and cold like daily. The person I speak to the night before isn't the person I speak to the next morning. For example my text message right now isn't read, but she would have taken her phone with her when she got up. But if I do ask she would tell me she had alot on her mind or she doesn't know why she suddenly is moody. Our relationship has been mainly over the phone. We have met a few times and it went super well. She asked me to come over and meet her family and that's like in 2 weeks but the girl I encounter on certain days is like a stranger. One day romantic..the next day ice cold..
Consistency and stability is everything for us. If you put us or our emotions in an unstable or uncertain place, we'll get protective of our feelings and bail. We normally won't say why we're bailing so good luck guessing Lol
@@kingdrift1136 she's probably met someone else while you were making her do all the chasing. It could also be that she doesn't trust your feelings for her. If she fears getting hurt, she'll avoid you. You may have to put the effort in here.
Yes! Consistency is KEY! Like dam just do what you say you're gonna do and stick to it. Even if you mess up, acknowledge that you messed up and say you'll resume doing better. We'll work with you. I have a libra moon so I am always willing to compromise with the one I love.
I’m a Cancer Sun with an Aries moon so my temperament is ALL fucked up lol….I had to watch this video to get better understanding of why I do people the way that I do them when I’m upset. This was a great explanation. I like to feel wanted, never needed but I believe most people (sans Earth signs) interpret it as need. After a while I just withdraw and if I feel no need to reconnect then I detach. I’ve literally treated people I’ve known for years as a whole new person without any remorse 🥴
I didn’t do anything wrong with a cancer man I was getting to know he txt me said hi how’s it going and in seconds he had blocked me I have cancer in Venus and do Carry some of the traits but I would never do something like that I have no problem telling a person what I think
We had a small argument, prior to them ignoring messages. Spoke but barely..got real cold like a capricorn. Now I know to give space next time. My daughter is the sameway..she withdraws and need space but I draw her in with food 😂
I’m Cancer and met a Cancer neighbor who helped me start my car up, this was the 1st time we met so we talk and laughed for hours outside, he told me a lot of personal stuff especially about his family, so 2 days later I was coming in with groceries and he said hi neighbor and I said hi but the following week he completely ignoring me, he even parking behind the apartment complex now, I guess to avoid me. As a Cancer I don’t know what I did but it’s too funny. 😬
Dear universe i am already happy with my life thank you for that and please send me a nice guy who has all his shits together and treats me with love and respect. Just someone to love and who is looking for the same to have an awesome life together. Keep the cancerian games for someone who can handle it...thank you your loving scorpio 🙂
Thank you so much I really needed this, he’s ignoring me because I accused him of someone and this was the second time I have did this. I know that I am being too judgmental. I apologized for my actions sincerely because he’s the only man that has ever let me be myself. I don’t have to be so freaking bougie....just be me. I told him that’s what I love about him is his realness. I was upset because we first started seeing each other he never stated that he was already seeing someone had been for about four years. So that hurt me pretty bad. I ignored him stated what I was and wasn’t going to put up with that I’m beautiful enough for you to treat me right. He stated he was sorry and first time he said dam baby I love you. No one has ever put me in my place like that. This last time he hit back hard like I stated to him he was mad because I called him out on his bs. I’m giving him space if he comes back I will treat him 101% right. My only last problem is why does he always pull on me in an aggressive upset manner or like he’s scolding me. Told me I better never share myself with another man held my face with both of his hands really tight saying look at me. Why does he do this🥺 I stay in the house a lot because I’m a homebody when I actually go somewhere he’ll ask me how long am I gonna be there why?!
Its easy to read people i dont think it has so much to do with being a cancer as it has to do with viewing past actions and present actions of a person and using your knowledge and judgment of that person to predict their intentions. But yes i am a cancer.
All this is real frustrating they actions really hurt ppl it seems like it’s the cancer men that go through all this and do all this stuff because the cancer man ik damn show do this.. hell my mom and best friend a cancer and they don’t do tht.. shit I have admitted my wrongs and apologized for some I did or the way I have acted to fix shit right then and there once I have calmed down enough to talk and tell you what I’m upset about and they still will go weeks or months with not talking... I been dealing with this for a couple of years as a friend and some what of a lover but at this point I’m starting to give up... they loose a lot of good friends and women with the way they act all this tells you is that cancers don’t know how to communicate ain’t nothing wrong with being in your feelings and letting it show but damn at least let the person know what they do to upset you tht way y’all both can talk about it and both admit when y’all wrong.
I am a cancer man. The way you apologized. I won't probably accept it. We don't give a shit about prideful people. You are not really apologizing. Give it up. You want him to convince he is wrong. That's enough.
Great video dear... Thank you for this video and information... It will help many.... My experience with cancer man I'm mentioning here.... Cancer Sign is an emotionally beautiful zodiac sign.... They have a sensitive heart... extremely sensitive lovely sweet 💓.... But really very moody... It is extremely moody and very less compatible with zodiac signs who speak truth and are courageous like Leo and Capricorn.... Their mood swings are really difficult to handle and please don't mind but also I feel that they are manipulators... They can easily lie and also hate confrontation on lies or any actions... They are intelligent smart hardworking but also very moody to handle.... Also they are not Frank to mention the reason why they are upset... Personally I had a real trouble time dealing mood swings of specially cancer man....
Cancer woman here. Was with a cancer man. He left for it seemed everything he could think of. His loss! I don't kiss butt! I was good to him. Funny thing he left most of his stuff here! Smh. He's playing himself playing these games. Dealing with a Taurus now.....might have to dump him soon too!🤦🏾♀️ They like to ghost ppl. No time for games.
I'm a Cancer woman and I've got 2 Cancer exes, and they've all cheated like wtf? HAHAHA but they've got their karma and trying to get me back. Not anymore. I've shut down my emotions for them like 1 sec. 😂
I met cancer woman at the bar. Chemistry was amazing between us. We added on Facebook. She did treat me with a beer just like a hook and bait which I took it. I tried reaching out to her but she ghosted me for week so I unfriended her from my friends list. Havent contacted her for a month. I am a typical Libra
Jaydeep Patel were so misunderstood. I’m a Libra too and what they don’t understand is if we’re trying to give you our time TAKE THAT SHIT. Because it’s hard for us to commit
I'd be interested to know how they deal if the script was flipped, such as if they've wronged another person, especially a Taurus or a Scorpio who are just as unforgiving and dishes out the same consequences that they dish. Some Cancerians are so self-absorbed and unempathetic and they may feel blind sighted when they're cut off for their toxic behaviors and they cannot let go of you.
Cancers we can make anyone love us but we really hate people easily if they hurt us. We give people a few chances after the third time we get disgusted and just ghost the person. Disrespect or not affection or lying is never acceptable. Crabs thr cancer women we are extremely strong and dangerous when mad. Don’t fuck with me when I’m mad.
MY CANCER MAN BROKE UP WITH ME FOR NO DAMN REASON THEN BLOCKED ME FROM SOCIAL MEDIA 😒 I'M A ARIES WOMAN TBH I WANNA FIGHT HIS ASS SO I TEXT HIM AND HE TOLD ME TO STOP TEXTING HIM & LEAVE HIM DF ALONE 😔
@nikki9276 From time to time, I think about him, but then I realized I'm glad we're not together because I accomplished so much without him. Now I have a better job and car, so in a way, it was a blessing 🙌🏾 You will be OK ❤️
I'm dating one now it's been 3 weeks since we last talked he leaves me on seen first time it happened he said he was going thru stuff did I let him be but now I being ignored for 3 weeks like wtf sent him a text to make sure he's ok 2 days ago I know he read it then I got on fb and he's watching my stories I'm an Aquarius woman this might just have to end I'm not that nice of a person
I'm a scorpio.. and I loved him so much.. six years and now nothing.. haven't talked in almost two weeks.. I'm always the one trying to fix things because I couldn't go a whole day or three days was the most that we haven't talked.. and the reason I always fixed it was because I was scared of THIS that we wouldn't talk anymore and I loved him too much.. now it's going on almost two weeks and he's probably expecting me to beg and cry for him but boy.. you'll be waiting forever because cancers are just too much for me at this point.
I don’t know if the cancer man Im friends with is cutting people off because of things they did…?! He usually does it when he feels overwhelmed by whatever (can be his ex partner even) and his addiction habits. When he’s in phases of addiction of different sorts he cuts off anyone who might be a hinder for his bad habits. He cuts people off at anytime no matter consequences and it doesn’t matter if it’s work or love or friend related connections. It’s absolutely absurd!!! Very childish behavior that’s had major consequences for a lot of people around him including his children. 😞
I told him that I felt kinda Wow since meeting him. He said he was Still Wowwed too. I think he's falling as hard as I am but I'm bothered as I let myself be vulnerable with him. I stated my boundaries in telling him I want a man that knows what he wants and who can handle my intensity. Was all going great and he pulls back. It's a worry as I was ghosted before by a Cancer. Hmmm... now giving him space as I don't know what else to do.
They still So mad still on me since 2014 now it’s 2023 ! I gave them space and I told him I’m sorry your family they don’t want to add me on Facebook they act different when I see them in family ! I don’t care anymore it’s their loss ! They are my foster for me ! Call my mom goes wrong ! Ps I did nothing wrong to them they hurt me first ! I love your videos I watch them over and over ! I also watch the new videos ! I also have a lot of cancer in my birth chart to !
Hey Lamar I don’t know if you might see this but I really appreciate the video it helped me a lot I was told this from another person but hearing it from second person it really got me sure of what I needed to do. I I want him to open up to me but I know he’s sensitive and careful but an order for that to happen I do have to put my heart on my sleeve and I plan on doing that
I was recently blocked and dismissed by a 🦀 who started stalking me from different phone numbers. I had to threaten to get him fired from his job in order for him to back off.🤬
They’re so weird! And extremely immature about five months ago I blocked access from that person being able to message me so they blocked me . (I guess he thought that I was going to be hurt by that but I was actually relieved because they’re an emotional mess they bring drama and confusion to your life). Only to find out that he’s stalking me from fake pages . I would never consider Cancer as a mate. They’re sociopaths.
I got a cancer who was best friend then one day boom distant, cold, won’t say anything ghosted blocked me everything Won’t say what’s wrong and it’s been over a year now and still have no reason Wtl happened with this girl
I believe you when you say its like a trial period getting back in a Cancers good graces. I don't know what to do..when to reach out or wait on her. She's so hard for me to get...and im a Libra. I'm good at figuring ppl out. Damn it man. Lol
But what if a cancer ends the relationship asks to be friends? *Granted I did confront him and ask him if he was good several time or if he had other priorities. And he did apologize for not speaking up about that and he wanted to focus more on his brothers rn, etc.. (we set boundaries- more like he asked me to do less than what I did before; give him less snacks, he'll answer and never ghost me, etc..). Yet he never texts first, and seems extremely moody or down in person when I happen to see him. I have started to kinda back off and withdraw more of myself away. *I'm extremely sensitive to people's emotions so I can tell. But idk he wasn't fully open with me and I guess he was afraid of getting hurt so it made me confused and question him in the first place. Cancer men are confusing ;;
Girl I swear. I'm actually with the cancer right now and that is exactly how I'm feeling they are definitely confusing and I know that I didn't do anything wrong all I did was try to love him and I wanted to be with him clearly he wasn't ready for a fabulous piscean Queen as myself and he pretty much blew it how sad and he may not realize it right now I know sooner or later he will regret it
I’m a cancer women this is very accurate about cancers slight us or allow us to loose trust in you & it may takes years to let you in again if at all. And we will. Ever truly trust you again once you betray us unfortunately.
Its true, if some one wronged me, i need to see that this person know exactly what the mistake they did, and apologize, and change behavior, ive been experieminting with a leo and a gimini with this for the past 3 years, for the leo they have the happit of not admitting the mistake they did, however they can change thier behavior after they realise it within them self, but they don't tend to apologize for whatever pain/loss they caused you before that, on the other side gimini can realise exactly what wrong they are doing to you and keep doing it any way, literally they have no back, they only change their behavior if they felt threatened and feard a backlash, otherwise they will walk over you, thankfully, giminis are kind of sissy, and dont hold much grudges, so you can fu** them on a daily basis every time they wrong you untill thier behavior change becouse it cause them discomfort,
This is true for Leo. Which is one of the reasons I left mine. I respect integrity. If you do something wrong- admit it. It makes you look stronger to me. Or if you did something a way and know you could've done better- admit it and make changes. I respect this soooooooooo much. I do this. I don't care about "embarrassing" myself. I actually don't even look at it that way. I don't always do things right either. And when I know I could've done better OR it is brought to my attention in a certain way (you can't be yelling at me) I will admit it and apologize and try to find a compromise so that we can find a way to meet in the middle (Libra Moon). I do this. I feel it's the most loving way to handle your significant other.
I had this cancer man as a batchmate. He gave me mixed signals . He liked me but did not talk to me but also told me that he’d wanna stay and study with me . When i reached out to another partner he got possessive over it . He himself isn’t in a relationship with me but is getting mad at me for talking to other men. After I found I was blocked for no reason and I had been ignored for the whole night. I woke up in the morning and texted him really mean stuff like you were always out of my league. Now I’m blocked from each and every place ://
I'm a Leo woman and the guy I was talking to just as friends, his gf called and he wanted me to go into another room and hide. He's a Cancer male btw. I'm like nope i'm out just out of respect of his situation, then he fans me to leave as I was already leaving anyhow. I see him and he does not say anything to me, i'm like "ok that's weird, shouldn't he be the one apologizing?
Hi Lamarr love ❤️ ur insight I’m a Leo woman with Saturn in Cancer I attract a lot of cancer men they like that I’m dependable however I keep them as friends for this very reason they don’t own their end of the bargain I enjoy their friendship and allow them to lust cuz ain’t shit poppin 😂
I’m an Aries and I like a cancer guy. He is ignoring me and I’ve asked him what’s wrong he said it has nothing to do with me. I stared ignoring him and he double texted me and now he’s ignoring me what should I do? I haven’t been completely honest to him about me liking him should I just tell him that I like him? I know he liked me like a couple days ago but now I’m not too sure if he still does
You should tell him that you like him If you hide it he will give you space If he run away from after confronting that you like him it's just because he is feeling insecure and that's because of you ignoring him in the past
It’s crazy bc my cancer ♋️ man has def started acting funny and stopped coming by and being distant: I tried to break up and he cried to get me back. I’m so confused
Yes i took a crab on a date nov 18 said happy thanksgiving on nov 23 and aint heard from her since only thing that got in her way was me fostering my neice... now she has her teenager sons.. which i have no problems.. if she come back she does ... im retired from trying love ...about to return this christmas gift
Somedays my Cancer friend who is my crush actually says that he wants to talk to ne for hours but sleeps while talking n the other day he doesn't text at all. It's so frustrating. I don't understand if he likes me or not. Should I text him first or not. I am an Aries btw. My ego is on another level.😂😂
I am the same i am an aries and i like a cancer girl she claims she likes me but she very distant and admits she isnt very talkative but wants me patience with her that she will want a relationship with me i believe in giving people time and space but when i like to talk to her at any moment i like but at times she distant but she views my stories on i.g but not reply to my messages i think she doesnt like me the way i like her
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Life is too short to wait for all of cancer’s processing and reflection 💤 drain!
Amen. It’s kind of demonic smh
They are selfish and immature!
This!!!!!
Foreal! This mf literally wants to be chased and he is a male. Plus after a phone call he ignores what a 🗑. Hell no
I'm dealing with a female cancer friend and she's flaky and moody
cancers tend to make people feel like everything is your fault and then boom they shut u out like
When we block/ignore, consider it over. Cancerians never look back.
Lol it's not true...I am Pisces ♓..I called him, he started talking...and we started dating
@@amritachowdhury3596 lol then he wasn’t over yet 😆
Cancer here...not true! @ least not for me because when I calm down I'll sometimes (or most of the time) look back w/a different prospective!
If a cancer still like you we won't cut you off immediately but mess up again oooo mess up again we are gone
Ffs
Cancers wants consistency but yet they are very fickle. The one I dealt with was emotionally draining and so toxic. He was hard to love. So yeah I'm giving him all the space. He can stay away I have no intention to fix something that's so much work.
They are douchheebags fr! Very self centered mf😂 like this one right after our short phone call ignored my messages. What a looser. Never dating a cancer again. I gave him 2-3 days of my attention now cutting him cold turkey.
Some Cancers are full of sh*t. They do NOT like to take accountability or extend grace… smh it’s really sad, but very telling! People have to have space to unfold & to learn each other, but whatever… I’m not on a trial period, it’s literally NOT my fault & honestly if you wanna walk away when I’ve been EXTREMELY good to you then IM the one that’s DONE! Period.
Wordddd
Agreed, they are hard to date.
Lol aww did we hurt u 😭😂♋️
@@spoiledbrat3149 point proven.
I agree with this Video my ex was a Cancer and she bailed saying she need space to focus on herself, she was ghost for 10 months, I text her that what do she expect to do to fulfill my sexual needs, so she called and said she see me in her future and wanted to know if I was involved with somebody, I let her back in my life and she ghost again smfh
Getting cut off by a cancer is the gift that keeps on giving.
Exactly stay away from us bc we most likely seriously don't care for you in particular neither
Years?!!!! Hell no. I am not that patient! Girl bye!
DAT part 😂
Facts 🤣
Dead ass. True dat
hahahahah lmao
Bye 👋
Cancer man relationship, never ever again.
One bad crab doesn't ruin the whole bunch
I agree.
Same
100% AGREE!! NEVER AGAIN
Cancer men and women are different. I'm a cancer woman and hate cancer men. They cheat. I am with a capricorn man which I prefer way more. We balance each other out.
Omg they never say what's wrong ..you just have to guess
🤬 so true
I can say being a cancer, sometimes we truly do not know what has irritated it is, but it is hard for us to get over it
True they are Like you have to be Open Bit they have No guts to be Open Air Change things
@@Dannyboy261 I understand. I can be like that sometimes myself and I'm a Capricorn.
I mean the want Always to be Seen as this strong Zodiac sign and when you treat them Like a strong Person they are Like hey thats rude am a softy, this Zodiac Signs Always want to be understood but will never ever try to understand you.sure the are capibale of giving great Love but they are such a irratating Zodiac sign the want to be accepted all the time vor their Bad sides and this would be okay Bit the never Accept a Bad Side in a another Person. The are such easy to manipulate people, i mean they never question their Families doings ...i am sure there are some really nice cancers Out there, but i never meet a real carring cancer the say the are carring but deep down the give a fuck about you, the Always Love people which are talking sweet Talk and the never Change Bad habbits because cancer is afraid of Change ... Sure the have a soft Spot and yeah ITS nice to be around a cancer which Shares this soft Spot, Bit you have Always to guess every mood right and the will Not das what borders Them, the will das you have to be Open Bit the will give a Shit about there own advicec or give a cancer a advice basicly He or she will BE yeah aww thank you but WE all know the say thank you Bit deep down the are Like fuck your advice only my parents can give me Life advice
Great video , I’m a cancer ♋️ we are very emotional people and yes we do get misread a lot but a lot of people don’t understand how the crab 🦀 operates!!! They go back in the shell to basically recharge and not everyone can deal with that ! But we are very loving and loyal nobody can take that away frm us
I was in a relationship with a cancer woman and she demanded my love and attention because we were going through a rough patch, then I opened my heart to her, laid out my emotions and love, and when I did, she started ignoring me, pushing me away, lying about it, then we broke up.
I can't help but resent her because I spent the last 2 month making a fool of myself to give her what she wants and she treated me like shit.
I'm a Capricorn by the way
Brah on everything.
So, all of them are the same. Same shit happened with me brother.
Cancer is cold AS Shit AS a Gemini i can truly say the Same, Same Story Teil people some mistakes in both Sides but cancer is Not willing to change so.ething so the use you for their pleasent because they want to enjoy you Bit deep INSIDE you are Long dead dir them
Same with cancer men ....
Same here
Spot on. When I’m done......I’m pretty much done.
Soo tru am Cancerian Ty for caring enuf to share bout our sign we r so misunderstood
How to apologise to them?
Aprit Goyal they can firgive you with time but not sure they comming back to you
Oh hell NO!. HE AIN'T ALL THAT! Idc how much I love him.
😂😂😂😂
I’m a cancer and he’s not lying at all take notes 💪🏽
Cancer is actually my most Loved and hated Zodiac Signs of all i never meet sich an Loving ICE cold Person all in one
Damn I think I hurt a cancer man's feelings.. Or he isn't interested.. One or the other.. I'm so confused.
I want to talk to him.. But I don't know what to do.
&... I sent him a friend request on FB. He didn't add me. Also i said happy birthday. He didn't say anything.. &.. He's been online. This Leo woman is very confused.
@@metalchick82foeva I'm a cancer woman and , and just talk to him.
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@@metalchick82foeva move on!
Yeah no can't deal with that ♉ don't like games 😤✌️
♉♉♉
Exactly ♉♉♉
♉ we straight af.
Fr♉️♉️
Facts.... Im a cancer, i thought everybody knew how to read people, I guess not, thanks for clearing that up
Original Autochthonous so did I not fully understanding the abilities I have as a cancer woman🤷🏽♀️
Yeah right because it's all about being closed and not expressing feelings and hoping the other one does all the healing work...this is for a mother child relationship and not a loving relationship
@@magicvibes79 why you hating on us girl😂😂
That’s weird to think that
Cut them off ignore them back and block them is that's simple 💯 you should ignore them from the start 💯
Lolz
Hello Lamar!! I love the video. But cancers also need to take responsibility on their part of the situation. The ones I know will play the victim when confronted about things that they have done to you. I do understand space because being a Aquarius and being married to a Capricorn I totally get solitude and space but however cancers need to provide understanding and truth to those that need it from them as well. It can't be one sided and double standard only when it comes to them. I mean they can be very selfish and self centered people at times!!! Well thanks for another great video. God Bless.
The truth and I am a cancer
Kina Mai it’s so so so true 💯
I am a Capricorn ♑️ sun and have a Libra ♎️ moon
I had a whirlwind romance with a cancer man where he swept me off my feet. I followed him to his home country in Italy and as spontaneous as it sounds it was arranged for me to stay with him for two months. as he was planning on returning to the states two months following. We couldn’t wait to be together so I agreed
We had this undeniable connection and we understood our souls. I had been in a long term relationship of 7 on and off years. As he has not ever had a serious relationship. But somehow we could feel we wanted to be each others last. He completely swept me off my feet but things in his home started to turn dark he was always stressing about his hate for his country and caused me a lot of negativity during our first month as he had his family issues and his own demons I decided to change my return date and cut those two months in half.
When I had arrived to Italy he had a promise ring waiting for me which he later denying taking back after it mysteriously disappeared.
He later went crazy and either himself his psychotic mother or schizophrenic sister who I was staying with planted some of his clothes in my luggage. As a result he rambles through my things days before my departure and fought me to look through my things
I had some promiscuous lingerie that I had planned on wearing for him that I never did due to his neglectful behavior towards me I noticed he was a selfish lover and I never did have the confidence to wear any of it.
In my mind when he randomly freaked out looking through my things I felt embarrassed about the lingerie so in my mind I was confused as to what he was looking for only to find one of his sweaters and or shirts in a hidden department. Through this rampage of his he hit me in my face with his hand and the luggage he grabbed me by my neck and held me down when he forced to look through my things he kicked me off of my luggage it’s still so traumatic and recent to even speak of this event
I remember his step father stepping in and me just crying asking why he did this psychotic thing to me not the violence but plotting some kind of revenge to hate me and victimize himself.
He yelled up and down about calling the police and it was just an insane situation
Oddly enough his mother and sister believed me everyone and I felt safe but very hurt and confused. Did they do this to destroy us did he plan this?
Although I’d only known him for a few months I felt I knew him all my life and this wasn’t like him. I wonder if he suffers from mental issues or anything else but I’ll never know because he locked him his room and refused I ever come near him again
I will never understand what happened that day. I recently came back home and am completely destroyed by his actions. I never got closure and he completely blocked me off everything and told all of his friends who I had the pleasure of meeting to do the same and said the most vile things about me. His last message to me was that I should get mental help and it’s very apparent I have all of these issues. He never apologized to me for anything only accused me and victimized himself to the world. He believes he did nothing wrong. I loved him with all I had and followed my heart and never did anything to betray his trust i don’t think someone would stop their life for two months leave the country for someone just to steal a piece of clothing it makes absolutely no sense and I feel I was set up. As a victim of the situation I find myself asking him to forgive me as if did something wrong. I went out there for love and to grow our relationship.
He knew me and I knew him now we feel as if we never knew each other. I’m so hurt that he caused me all of this disillusion and pain
I wonder if he’ll ever acknowledge it and come back to me as bad as it sounds.
As I slept with his sister in her room the last few nights she comforted me and told me to not cry for a man like that
I was and am so confused
They all cut ties with me and never spoke to me again. It’s been less than a week that these events took place and if only I could write it all out that entire month drained me and he stole my soul
I find myself needing to seek therapy.
I know my experience is very specific but can anyone relate of give me closure to this cancer man behavior I can hardly sleep or eat knowing he cut me off after we had a life planned. He comes back to states in a few months and I wanted nothing but it to work. Many ask why I would want someone who would treat me that way so coward like but I can’t help but go with my heart and know what I felt when I knew he wanted to be with me for real. It was an insane switch that I just can’t grasp :,(
You just describe my ex. He played victim so well and he didn't want to take responsibility
In my personal opinion if a cancer man or woman ignores you this means they don't like you or don't want to be your friend. That's simple
But say you never done anything towards cancer woman like wtf I love this girl with my heart I been trying to contact her
@@Donbanks45 It's hard to gain a cancer's heart if they don't share the same feeling as you it's like having 1 chance out of 100 to succeed but if you are exes than maybe with time you can reach her back if she still likes you of course. Juste give her time
@@Donbanks45Thing is Cancers read ppls vibes so you don't actually have to do anything directly wrong to us. If your vibe is off or you fail the vibe test just enough for us to never want to F with you in particular
If we cut you off we will not let you back in when we are done we are done.
damn i wish i had the same energy as a capricorn. some of yall dont really deserve us whether ur done ur not
@@himesetsu1001 lol the love we give caps don't deserve us
Man when you said a cancer doesn't always do things straight forward they tend to walk sideways.... I felt that lol I felt that hard I just had a flash back of every argument iv ever had with my cancer and if that isn't the very definition lol
Yes, the Cancer I know said and I quote: My cut off game is strong. I have references." He thought I rejected him because I did not do what he wanted, but yet he has failed to take ownership in his part of the experience. As a Scorpio I say, "Whatever!!" Middle finger up dude! Grow up!
I'm also a scorpio female.. I feel the same way.. they are just too immature for grown men.
Facts
Yet, a post on youtube
Yup
Very immature set of human
Cancer♋ here,spot on.I'm caring ,loving and affectionate.I don't like being taken for granted.I'm forgiving if you keep doing it I'm done.Enough is enough .Cut Off
I'ma Capricorn dealing with a Cancer woman right now. She's also done from the look and feel of things for continuous behavior she didn't like from me. I've cried and pleaded to her and tried proving myself and communicating to fix and own up to what I've caused. Can that "I'm done" be reversed if I just give her space and time? I've been getting little communication over the past 2 months.
How to make cancer man forgive?
@@gop305 What's the status with your cancer woman? I'm really liking a capricorn so I'm rooting for you guys
In my experience as a water sign,
♏ here, we need to learn to be wise with our emotional resources. Our giving and loving natures are beautiful, so we have to be careful with who we invest our emotions in. I have over invested in people in terms of energy, gifts and time who don't give a f*** about my emotional needs and end up getting resentful that they don't reciprocate the same way. I hate being hurt and taken for granted, but we need to own our parts in that kind of dynamic, too.
They need to grow up and take ownership / accountability when they hurt people .. Sweet my ass
Lolz
😂😂
So stay consistent and give them space but dont away completely
Velvet Rose very true
It gets tiring
@@neisygonzalez571 😂😂😂
That’s confusing lol
Am a cancer and if am ignoring you, disappear because I have cut you off and there's no reason I'd want to have you back. Literally you must have reached the forbidden line and bruh I'd not look back. And if you open up and a cancer changes to the negative side, it's because what you just said, you should have said it from the beginning, not getting me to a certain point and dragging me back unnecessarily. Cancer are loving and dangerous. Am saying it from a personal perspective.
You don’t have to do anything for a cancer man to cut you off they just do it anyways... abs WHY would ANYONE wait years for someone that’s just pathetic
You all just say Cancerian thinks other people can read their minds but people don’t really think about the chances they’ve given and they’ve given their opinions but people don’t learn. So obviously when something similar happens, cancerians think that the other person would know what they would want at that situation cuz that’s how people get close to each other, knowing each other. Cancerian like to be treated the same way they treat. They know your favourite things, they know how to heal you, they know how to make you feel like the most important person in the world. Is it too much to ask the same or least ask to be understood? Nah I don’t think so. They try so hard and give everything they have when they love someone and care about someone. They are the ones who would give up their own comforts to hand it to you but people only take advantage of them mostly. They mirror your characters. Be nice to a Cancerian, they’ll be the sweetest person and would give you everything they have. You just expect them to treat you and nurture when you don’t treat them like that.
True sometimes. I have a brother who is Cancer and strangely he ended up having a daughter with a Gemini woman. My friend didn't even know him for long and he draws something nice for her from prison. But me I had to beg for something nice. I'm a Gemini woman and because of my brother I've ran from Cancer man for years. Now I'm with one and giving it one last try. Can't handle the ghosting. Clear communication defines me and for me if I don't have all a man's affection and attention and have to keep fighting for him to be 100 with me, I won't keep trying as much as I love him. I see it as a man either wants real love or fake love from hoes. Time says it all and I have lots of time.
Yess
This is so on spot. 😢
Spot on, i had tears while reading this.
100%!
I don’t even know what I did… we were just fine, I went to his house 4 days ago and had a great time,he even told me he wanted me to meet his son and made plans to travel to another city in two weeks……. TWO DAYS LATER ,I Call him and he’s not answering or replying!!!
I just said in a text “ I hope you’re okay, whatever you’re going through, contact me when you’re ready to chat😊” because I don’t have time for that shyt but id be lying if I said I wasn’t confused or hurt.
Same thing happened to me. I also responded the same as you.
Same boat, we were going to go on a date, and then never heard from him again. I replied the same way. Like hey, I care about you, I don't want to lose you, but I need you to talk to me. 😢 I'm so heartbroken. I'm a Leo.
This has honestly helped me.. has givin me a stable sense ever since after my break up.. I’ve been looking for answers and you helped me with it thank you.....
As a leo… NO WAY in the world am I waiting on anyone 😂… You ghost, message received and I’m gone. NEXT…. 3 months later they ALWAYS come crawling back but by then… I’m done
My bf is a cancer and I’m a Capricorn you are SPOT ON! My bf requires an apology first before he speaks to me if he’s mad n if he played a part in the cause of the fight he won’t apologize right away. N he’ll let u in a little first but not all the way until he’s 100% comfortable
Yesssss! Very true I'm a capricorn too
I’m a Capricorn dating a cancer now .. July to October we done told each other we love each to now he mad about idk what!!! Blocked me on ig but didn’t block my number .. 🙄🙄 like wth I’m confused
@@jaib3937 girl I’m going through the same shit right now if you wanna talk about it , Cause I’m stressed out , drop ya ig!
@@itsyagirltrap5274 Same here :OOOOOO They need a mental health center bruh! Hahah
I'm a cancer woman and you are 100% correct.
AQUARIUS don't have time for any type of game so if you try to ignore me one time then you meet next in the world 😂😂😂 I don't play no emotional games
Ya So boring .Wait for weeks and months .Then what? He will do same again . We have nothing else than wait for Cancer mood swings. Duh !!!
They are crazy silent.
Sometimes Aquarius ♒️ has poor verbal boundaries and can come off as emotionally detached. They will habitually line step and not care. Which is fine, but Cancers are hypersensitive to actions and words. So that's when the friction starts. Aquarius is also very logical, cancer are more emotionally charged. Aquarius gets over things faster and also doesn't take things too seriously. Cancer is the opposite.
Clashing of the titans.
Ima cancer and aquarius women always like me first, I don't be feeling them until I actually chill with them. They make good F buddies but not wifeys
♋️ female, married to a male ♎️ I’ve forgiven multiple times for repeatedly breaking promises and disrespecting boundaries. Following each incident I’ve tried to resolve the issues via talking it out, but my emotions are brushed aside or ignored, and he typically just deflects, often bringing up some Petty, small, irrelevant to the issues, stuff from the past and then likes to pretend everything is fine. I finally blew up and went into flip mode (something he’s done numerous times, but for which I apologized & he rarely does) and he left, had been gone for days & said he needs “time”, but isn’t “running away from me”, & tonight said he’ll “see me tomorrow”. I’m like nope, you will not, we are done and I’ve deleted his number, all our photos, packed up all his things and it’s a wrap
Yep,That's who we are .Once it flipped,lights out.Done😀
I hope you 2 got back together?
My girlfriend is a cancer. She is hot and cold like daily. The person I speak to the night before isn't the person I speak to the next morning. For example my text message right now isn't read, but she would have taken her phone with her when she got up. But if I do ask she would tell me she had alot on her mind or she doesn't know why she suddenly is moody. Our relationship has been mainly over the phone. We have met a few times and it went super well. She asked me to come over and meet her family and that's like in 2 weeks but the girl I encounter on certain days is like a stranger. One day romantic..the next day ice cold..
Run!
Yea I just stop showing mine attention I’m a Pisces we don’t kiss ass 🏃🏾♂️✌🏾
i definitely agree what you said lamar, im a cancer moon and once a cancer is over with someone... its tough to trust someone who hurt caners
Consistency and stability is everything for us. If you put us or our emotions in an unstable or uncertain place, we'll get protective of our feelings and bail. We normally won't say why we're bailing so good luck guessing Lol
Why would cancer girl who likes me try to get my attention and when I finally ask her out she ignores me? I thought this is what she wanted
@@kingdrift1136 she's probably met someone else while you were making her do all the chasing. It could also be that she doesn't trust your feelings for her. If she fears getting hurt, she'll avoid you. You may have to put the effort in here.
@@MissNancyLondon I already asked her out and she ignored it. What else can I do without seeming so needy?
Yes! Consistency is KEY! Like dam just do what you say you're gonna do and stick to it. Even if you mess up, acknowledge that you messed up and say you'll resume doing better. We'll work with you. I have a libra moon so I am always willing to compromise with the one I love.
Really not mature by bailing it's why communication is key and compromise
I’m a Cancer Sun with an Aries moon so my temperament is ALL fucked up lol….I had to watch this video to get better understanding of why I do people the way that I do them when I’m upset. This was a great explanation. I like to feel wanted, never needed but I believe most people (sans Earth signs) interpret it as need. After a while I just withdraw and if I feel no need to reconnect then I detach. I’ve literally treated people I’ve known for years as a whole new person without any remorse 🥴
Omg you’re spot on, when i cut off someone it will take me months or years to come back. Gives us plenty of space
That’s not normal! That’s how you miss out on good people!
@@niecyh2313 exactly!!! Months??? Years??? Noooo 👎👎👎
If I hurt a cancer women and she goes away and then I realise that I was wrong, hw do we make up to them?
@@arpitgoyal6518 show to her you’re sorry.
@@mae88b.16 I tried many times. But the thing is she doesn't feel comfortable talking in any way.
I love how you speak and the sound of your voice.
Cheers
Alessa
I didn’t do anything wrong with a cancer man I was getting to know he txt me said hi how’s it going and in seconds he had blocked me I have cancer in Venus and do Carry some of the traits but I would never do something like that I have no problem telling a person what I think
When we are done we are done we like gifts but if we give you too many chances and fail it is done
We had a small argument, prior to them ignoring messages. Spoke but barely..got real cold like a capricorn. Now I know to give space next time. My daughter is the sameway..she withdraws and need space but I draw her in with food 😂
I’m not apologizing for anything and he better keep me blocked!
I’m Cancer and met a Cancer neighbor who helped me start my car up, this was the 1st time we met so we talk and laughed for hours outside, he told me a lot of personal stuff especially about his family, so 2 days later I was coming in with groceries and he said hi neighbor and I said hi but the following week he completely ignoring me, he even parking behind the apartment complex now, I guess to avoid me. As a Cancer I don’t know what I did but it’s too funny. 😬
If he’s married and you’re a woman , he’s wife probably saw this shit and gave him a spanking
Dear universe i am already happy with my life thank you for that and please send me a nice guy who has all his shits together and treats me with love and respect. Just someone to love and who is looking for the same to have an awesome life together. Keep the cancerian games for someone who can handle it...thank you your loving scorpio 🙂
😂😂😂🤣🤣
Well good luck with that coz u ain't getting anyone😂😂
Thank you so much I really needed this, he’s ignoring me because I accused him of someone and this was the second time I have did this. I know that I am being too judgmental. I apologized for my actions sincerely because he’s the only man that has ever let me be myself. I don’t have to be so freaking bougie....just be me. I told him that’s what I love about him is his realness. I was upset because we first started seeing each other he never stated that he was already seeing someone had been for about four years. So that hurt me pretty bad. I ignored him stated what I was and wasn’t going to put up with that I’m beautiful enough for you to treat me right. He stated he was sorry and first time he said dam baby I love you. No one has ever put me in my place like that. This last time he hit back hard like I stated to him he was mad because I called him out on his bs. I’m giving him space if he comes back I will treat him 101% right. My only last problem is why does he always pull on me in an aggressive upset manner or like he’s scolding me. Told me I better never share myself with another man held my face with both of his hands really tight saying look at me. Why does he do this🥺 I stay in the house a lot because I’m a homebody when I actually go somewhere he’ll ask me how long am I gonna be there why?!
Update?
Its easy to read people i dont think it has so much to do with being a cancer as it has to do with viewing past actions and present actions of a person and using your knowledge and judgment of that person to predict their intentions. But yes i am a cancer.
Spot on for Cancer. Everyone takes notes if you are dating or married to a cancer. Thank you. Peace
Are cancerian actually able to commit to anything?😂
All this is real frustrating they actions really hurt ppl it seems like it’s the cancer men that go through all this and do all this stuff because the cancer man ik damn show do this.. hell my mom and best friend a cancer and they don’t do tht.. shit I have admitted my wrongs and apologized for some I did or the way I have acted to fix shit right then and there once I have calmed down enough to talk and tell you what I’m upset about and they still will go weeks or months with not talking... I been dealing with this for a couple of years as a friend and some what of a lover but at this point I’m starting to give up... they loose a lot of good friends and women with the way they act all this tells you is that cancers don’t know how to communicate ain’t nothing wrong with being in your feelings and letting it show but damn at least let the person know what they do to upset you tht way y’all both can talk about it and both admit when y’all wrong.
Fuck them if they can't tell u what's up and they just leave let them be ull meet somebody else better
Agreed I'm a Virgo, and Cancers are annoying to deal with. Maybe I should date a Taurus.
I am a cancer man. The way you apologized. I won't probably accept it. We don't give a shit about prideful people. You are not really apologizing. Give it up. You want him to convince he is wrong. That's enough.
Great video dear... Thank you for this video and information... It will help many....
My experience with cancer man I'm mentioning here....
Cancer Sign is an emotionally beautiful zodiac sign.... They have a sensitive heart... extremely sensitive lovely sweet 💓.... But really very moody... It is extremely moody and very less compatible with zodiac signs who speak truth and are courageous like Leo and Capricorn....
Their mood swings are really difficult to handle and please don't mind but also I feel that they are manipulators... They can easily lie and also hate confrontation on lies or any actions...
They are intelligent smart hardworking but also very moody to handle.... Also they are not Frank to mention the reason why they are upset...
Personally I had a real trouble time dealing mood swings of specially cancer man....
I flipped out on my friend due to a miscommunication. Hoping she forgives me because she is a blessing in my life
Cancer woman here. Was with a cancer man. He left for it seemed everything he could think of. His loss! I don't kiss butt! I was good to him. Funny thing he left most of his stuff here! Smh. He's playing himself playing these games. Dealing with a Taurus now.....might have to dump him soon too!🤦🏾♀️ They like to ghost ppl. No time for games.
I'm a Cancer woman and I've got 2 Cancer exes, and they've all cheated like wtf? HAHAHA but they've got their karma and trying to get me back. Not anymore. I've shut down my emotions for them like 1 sec. 😂
Hi hi 😁 Aquarius ♒️ here Thanks for making this Video u really help me understand my cancer ♋️boyfriend
Girl as another Aquarius how do you have the patience 😭
Remain ghosted most likely forever that's what you can do
I met cancer woman at the bar. Chemistry was amazing between us. We added on Facebook. She did treat me with a beer just like a hook and bait which I took it. I tried reaching out to her but she ghosted me for week so I unfriended her from my friends list.
Havent contacted her for a month.
I am a typical Libra
Jaydeep Patel were so misunderstood. I’m a Libra too and what they don’t understand is if we’re trying to give you our time TAKE THAT SHIT. Because it’s hard for us to commit
Libra and cancer is such a mess never again would I date a libra
Good it ain’t worth it!
Same thing I'm a Libra
Cancer water and libra air make a strong Hurricane
I'd be interested to know how they deal if the script was flipped, such as if they've wronged another person, especially a Taurus or a Scorpio who are just as unforgiving and dishes out the same consequences that they dish. Some Cancerians are so self-absorbed and unempathetic and they may feel blind sighted when they're cut off for their toxic behaviors and they cannot let go of you.
Don’t wait for the cancer when you hurt us we will never come back unless you beg us and be honest with lots of gifts and honesty
This was very very insightful.
Lol I just blocked him. Ain’t nobody for time for that.
Cancers we can make anyone love us but we really hate people easily if they hurt us. We give people a few chances after the third time we get disgusted and just ghost the person. Disrespect or not affection or lying is never acceptable. Crabs thr cancer women we are extremely strong and dangerous when mad. Don’t fuck with me when I’m mad.
You are an amazing astrologist better than anyone I ever heard ❤❤
MY CANCER MAN BROKE UP WITH ME FOR NO DAMN REASON THEN BLOCKED ME FROM SOCIAL MEDIA 😒 I'M A ARIES WOMAN TBH I WANNA FIGHT HIS ASS SO I TEXT HIM AND HE TOLD ME TO STOP TEXTING HIM & LEAVE HIM DF ALONE 😔
I’m going through the same thing
@nikki9276 From time to time, I think about him, but then I realized I'm glad we're not together because I accomplished so much without him. Now I have a better job and car, so in a way, it was a blessing 🙌🏾 You will be OK ❤️
I'm dating one now it's been 3 weeks since we last talked he leaves me on seen first time it happened he said he was going thru stuff did I let him be but now I being ignored for 3 weeks like wtf sent him a text to make sure he's ok 2 days ago I know he read it then I got on fb and he's watching my stories I'm an Aquarius woman this might just have to end I'm not that nice of a person
This will continue. I'm over it. They aren't worth the wait or trying to figure out.
Literally the same-thing I’m going thru right now! ugh I’m tawwwdd
@@stellabellafontay9366 exactly all facts
This is CRAZY that we are all going through the same things ! I’m an aqua woman dealing with a cancer !
I'm a scorpio.. and I loved him so much.. six years and now nothing.. haven't talked in almost two weeks.. I'm always the one trying to fix things because I couldn't go a whole day or three days was the most that we haven't talked.. and the reason I always fixed it was because I was scared of THIS that we wouldn't talk anymore and I loved him too much.. now it's going on almost two weeks and he's probably expecting me to beg and cry for him but boy.. you'll be waiting forever because cancers are just too much for me at this point.
You are on point brother 💯%👌🏾👍🏽👍🏽
I don’t know if the cancer man Im friends with is cutting people off because of things they did…?! He usually does it when he feels overwhelmed by whatever (can be his ex partner even) and his addiction habits. When he’s in phases of addiction of different sorts he cuts off anyone who might be a hinder for his bad habits. He cuts people off at anytime no matter consequences and it doesn’t matter if it’s work or love or friend related connections. It’s absolutely absurd!!! Very childish behavior that’s had major consequences for a lot of people around him including his children. 😞
He cuts me off 2 months now. I love him so much. I don't want to lose him. I hope he can forgive me.
Did he forgive you?
@@mechiel_7 🤣🤣
@@mechiel_7nope we will not forget
Cancer should also take responsibility of other bahaviors not as well as they are always being adjusted
I told him that I felt kinda Wow since meeting him. He said he was Still Wowwed too. I think he's falling as hard as I am but I'm bothered as I let myself be vulnerable with him. I stated my boundaries in telling him I want a man that knows what he wants and who can handle my intensity. Was all going great and he pulls back. It's a worry as I was ghosted before by a Cancer. Hmmm... now giving him space as I don't know what else to do.
I did nothing to my cancer but he pulled away and I’m so confused 😂
Same here🤣
They still So mad still on me since 2014 now it’s 2023 ! I gave them space and I told him I’m sorry your family they don’t want to add me on Facebook they act different when I see them in family ! I don’t care anymore it’s their loss ! They are my foster for me ! Call my mom goes wrong ! Ps I did nothing wrong to them they hurt me first ! I love your videos I watch them over and over ! I also watch the new videos ! I also have a lot of cancer in my birth chart to !
Hey Lamar I don’t know if you might see this but I really appreciate the video it helped me a lot I was told this from another person but hearing it from second person it really got me sure of what I needed to do. I
I want him to open up to me but I know he’s sensitive and careful but an order for that to happen I do have to put my heart on my sleeve and I plan on doing that
Dated a cancer man and got tired of the mood.
Me too😂, cancer man are so hard to loved & understand...
I was recently blocked and dismissed by a 🦀 who started stalking me from different phone numbers. I had to threaten to get him fired from his job in order for him to back off.🤬
They’re so weird! And extremely immature about five months ago I blocked access from that person being able to message me so they blocked me . (I guess he thought that I was going to be hurt by that but I was actually relieved because they’re an emotional mess they bring drama and confusion to your life). Only to find out that he’s stalking me from fake pages . I would never consider Cancer as a mate. They’re sociopaths.
My first cancer man hella possessive even in the talking stage 2nd one CUT ME OFF 😂😂 there’s no middle ground idc
I got a cancer who was best friend then one day boom distant, cold, won’t say anything ghosted blocked me everything
Won’t say what’s wrong and it’s been over a year now and still have no reason Wtl happened with this girl
I believe you when you say its like a trial period getting back in a Cancers good graces. I don't know what to do..when to reach out or wait on her. She's so hard for me to get...and im a Libra. I'm good at figuring ppl out. Damn it man. Lol
But what if a cancer ends the relationship asks to be friends? *Granted I did confront him and ask him if he was good several time or if he had other priorities. And he did apologize for not speaking up about that and he wanted to focus more on his brothers rn, etc.. (we set boundaries- more like he asked me to do less than what I did before; give him less snacks, he'll answer and never ghost me, etc..). Yet he never texts first, and seems extremely moody or down in person when I happen to see him. I have started to kinda back off and withdraw more of myself away. *I'm extremely sensitive to people's emotions so I can tell. But idk he wasn't fully open with me and I guess he was afraid of getting hurt so it made me confused and question him in the first place. Cancer men are confusing ;;
Girl I swear. I'm actually with the cancer right now and that is exactly how I'm feeling they are definitely confusing and I know that I didn't do anything wrong all I did was try to love him and I wanted to be with him clearly he wasn't ready for a fabulous piscean Queen as myself and he pretty much blew it how sad and he may not realize it right now I know sooner or later he will regret it
I’m a cancer women this is very accurate about cancers slight us or allow us to loose trust in you & it may takes years to let you in again if at all. And we will. Ever truly trust you again once you betray us unfortunately.
Why do I love Cancers and Capricorns so much? Must be Cardinal sign thing
I hate cancer men I’m a Leo woman and yuck yuck yucky so emoooooootionaalll
Smh No tell me More! Are they that bad?
Me too! They identify with a feminine energy too much I can’t deal with that
Its true, if some one wronged me, i need to see that this person know exactly what the mistake they did, and apologize, and change behavior, ive been experieminting with a leo and a gimini with this for the past 3 years, for the leo they have the happit of not admitting the mistake they did, however they can change thier behavior after they realise it within them self, but they don't tend to apologize for whatever pain/loss they caused you before that, on the other side gimini can realise exactly what wrong they are doing to you and keep doing it any way, literally they have no back, they only change their behavior if they felt threatened and feard a backlash, otherwise they will walk over you, thankfully, giminis are kind of sissy, and dont hold much grudges, so you can fu** them on a daily basis every time they wrong you untill thier behavior change becouse it cause them discomfort,
I'm a double leo woman with a cancer moon man. You are right about us Leo's. I'll realize what I did, but be too embarrassed to apologize sometimes.
This is true for Leo. Which is one of the reasons I left mine. I respect integrity. If you do something wrong- admit it. It makes you look stronger to me. Or if you did something a way and know you could've done better- admit it and make changes. I respect this soooooooooo much. I do this. I don't care about "embarrassing" myself. I actually don't even look at it that way. I don't always do things right either. And when I know I could've done better OR it is brought to my attention in a certain way (you can't be yelling at me) I will admit it and apologize and try to find a compromise so that we can find a way to meet in the middle (Libra Moon). I do this. I feel it's the most loving way to handle your significant other.
@@thatromanian4921 Thank you for being transparent about it.
Lol I'm a gemini u right 🤣
I'm a Libra with Venus in Scorpio. I've got no time to wait around for no Cancer woman.
They ain’t shit 🤣
Cancer hurt your little heart ?🥺
@@Blnted2 at least we got one
@@himesetsu1001 heyyyy now we have hearts. They just don’t work right sometimes lol
@@LionEatsCats0034 lmfaooo good one , i still like cancers no matter how weird they can get hehe
I had this cancer man as a batchmate. He gave me mixed signals . He liked me but did not talk to me but also told me that he’d wanna stay and study with me . When i reached out to another partner he got possessive over it . He himself isn’t in a relationship with me but is getting mad at me for talking to other men.
After I found I was blocked for no reason and I had been ignored for the whole night. I woke up in the morning and texted him really mean stuff like you were always out of my league. Now I’m blocked from each and every place ://
I'm a Leo woman and the guy I was talking to just as friends, his gf called and he wanted me to go into another room and hide. He's a Cancer male btw. I'm like nope i'm out just out of respect of his situation, then he fans me to leave as I was already leaving anyhow. I see him and he does not say anything to me, i'm like "ok that's weird, shouldn't he be the one apologizing?
I just dumped him too much drama
I dont agree that cancer has the ability to read someone else's mind but I think the Virgos have the ability.
Cancers have the ability were just silent with it ....we are very psychic 🔮 and we try to block it because we have feeeling and it hurts
I'm a Virgo and I agree. We're wonderful mind readers
Nah Cancer and the other water signs Scorpio and Pisces are the most psychic of all
I give this video a ten and four stars❤❤❤❤
This actually helped
Hi Lamarr love ❤️ ur insight I’m a Leo woman with Saturn in Cancer I attract a lot of cancer men they like that I’m dependable however I keep them as friends for this very reason they don’t own their end of the bargain I enjoy their friendship and allow them to lust cuz ain’t shit poppin 😂
My venus and mars is in cancer so this definitely resonates with me
I get it but he apologized to me for a misunderstanding said I love you and then hasn’t said a word in six days.
He reach back out
@@Humblejaxson1986 ha no never did I met my fiancé a month later he proposed almost a month ago fuck that guy
I’m an Aries and I like a cancer guy. He is ignoring me and I’ve asked him what’s wrong he said it has nothing to do with me. I stared ignoring him and he double texted me and now he’s ignoring me what should I do? I haven’t been completely honest to him about me liking him should I just tell him that I like him? I know he liked me like a couple days ago but now I’m not too sure if he still does
You should be honest and tell him how you feel
Nooooooo just don’t , he will run away trust me , cuz I did this hahahah
@@missytaurus2258 omg so true
You should tell him that you like him
If you hide it he will give you space
If he run away from after confronting that you like him it's just because he is feeling insecure and that's because of you ignoring him in the past
On point as always
If you done be done , that’s means not watching me on social media either … NEEEEXT
It’s crazy bc my cancer ♋️ man has def started acting funny and stopped coming by and being distant: I tried to break up and he cried to get me back. I’m so confused
Yes i took a crab on a date nov 18 said happy thanksgiving on nov 23 and aint heard from her since only thing that got in her way was me fostering my neice... now she has her teenager sons.. which i have no problems.. if she come back she does ... im retired from trying love ...about to return this christmas gift
Somedays my Cancer friend who is my crush actually says that he wants to talk to ne for hours but sleeps while talking n the other day he doesn't text at all. It's so frustrating. I don't understand if he likes me or not. Should I text him first or not. I am an Aries btw. My ego is on another level.😂😂
I am the same i am an aries and i like a cancer girl she claims she likes me but she very distant and admits she isnt very talkative but wants me patience with her that she will want a relationship with me i believe in giving people time and space but when i like to talk to her at any moment i like but at times she distant but she views my stories on i.g but not reply to my messages i think she doesnt like me the way i like her