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Never mistake a cancer's kindness for weakness. We are very very strong when we need to be. And don't even try to lie to my face we can easily see the truth in your eyes. Its our natural gift.
I always hear that people say cancer is dependend and clingy. Cancers are afraid of being clingy and dependend. They secretly hope, that the people they love are loyal to them and stick to them, but they won't show it. I'm a cancer sun and cancer rising, I met immature cancer men who were a little bit clingy and sticky, but most of the women are too proud. If they don't get the attention they deserve, they cut you off in an ice cold way and maybe suffer silently. I met so many geminis, libras and capricorns who where much more clingy. Cancers maybe have a strong grip with their knives, but if you bore them they ''cut you off'' like nothing.
@@xThatBoiChris he is sometimes seeing my messages sometimes ignoring me. One year back he asked me to do nose piercing so recently I got piercing I messaged him my pic he instantly saw the photos but not replying back. What should I do?
I'm a cancer that needs his space I ain't clingy I don't like being smothered lol.we all ain't the same I like to have fun but gotta take care of my responsibilities first then play
Me too I like being alone. But I can be clingy if I really like you. But I feel like you should appreciate it. So if you treat me all messed up because of it I'll cut you lose because just because I'm clingy don't mean it's something weak about me I just like you a lot.
FAMILY MATTERS THE MOST hi, I’m sorry to bother you but can I ask you a question? Why would a cancer cut someone off if they didn’t do anything wrong to them? I became intimate with a cancer man, we had a great time but day later he had stress in his life and he cut me off and stopped talking to me...later on he told me he needs some Time to himself but he miss me and I’m on his mind...however when I met him on the street by accident he was very aloof and acted in a strange way like he wanted to void me and he told me he will be in touch...it hurts me to see this and I don’t understand it...
Well but never cut ex wife off right. No matter how many times their's ex wife cheated on them but they still stick with and spy and jealous about ex wife new partner.
we do have multiple personalities and people truly do have to stick around and see our sides...thats why I cant stand when someone think they know me..like no my mama dont even know me.....lol
Yes and something that often happens to me : people feel entitled to my kindness and once I decide I don't want to do something , they get outraged lol . Especially leos , everytime I have a bad fight with someone and checks their sign they turn to be a Leo Xd
What is your definition of bullshit? I have always wanted to know why cancers get so angry over the petiest of things? Just genuinely curious.. it's comes off like they build a strawman of you and make you admit to whatever bothers them about the other person.... why would anyone want to be controlled. That's how I see it anyways. Attention, must have control, slap ya in the face mid sentence into a real deep convo...
@Diamon.so true. its true most people don't see how disrespectful themselves are. until u do the same "pettiest thing" back and they feel disrespected. like bish whut.
@@aredartswings with the cancer people fail to realized that they are sensitive so if your the type of person to crack a joke but not think about what you say before you say it 9 times out of ten you’ve hurt that cancers feeling but just won’t kno it pretty much they mentally take notes on how many times you’ve hurt them till they except you for who you are then that’s when they get evil
If you make me FEEL BAD NUMEROUS TIMES, you’re out. Why ? If I like you- in a romantic way, as a friend or you are my family, I do my best to always be there for you and make you feel as best as possible. I’ll be loyal as hell and I’ll always give my best to you. ALWAYS So if you don’t appreciate it, if you make me feel bad, if you neglect me or simply take it for granted, you’re out as I’ll always remember what you did and I never forget. You might get the second chance if I see you being honest and pretty apologetic. But remember - I remember and I have my eye on you. Next time you make me feel bad again, bye. And there’s no coming back
An evolved Cancer won't necessarily cut you off. Numbers still in tact it's just that WE move different now. All of the bs that may have work years ago is ashes.
This is what I be trying to protect people from! Which is why I give them so many chances, cause if you earn my wrath and those WORDS.... you won't wanna be my friend anymore lol Some of the things we say you just can't come back from.
Cancers will always give you two or three chances or more if needed but once we are DONE we will start being distant on purpose. And that’s when we know are truly done. And even if we cut you off and we had great times together we will still kind of hold on to the memories but never ever coming back.
I miss my Capricorn friend. We were really close. He was the best and had so much class. He really helped me understand a committed friendship (I would never cut him off). Platonic friend Soulmates are real. He passed away 10 years ago. Miss you Mo. ❤🙏🕯
Cancerians maybe moody but they're very friendly to strangers, bd very passionate people. They're generous, like to joke, can take a joke to a certain extent. They make good fruends , their friendship can last forever, but when the fruend walks away without a reason, they tend to blame themself for the friend walking away from them . They're very loving and protective towards their family and close friends .
This is the truth. Just know when a cancer checks out emotionally- its over. And even IF we allow that person to come back they're really gonna have to work very VERY hard to be in our good graces.
Cancers need to mature ..grow up ..when in a relationship .. If you say you love someone .. Dont deceive that person ..if there is a problem .. Reach out dont run .. Talk. Dont hide ..
@@Redacted24-r2hwhat is manipulative about being straight forward. Some situations require you to think. Everything is not meant to be felt. Feelings change, facts do not.
@@kandigranger1450 And I find it offensive that people assume Cancerians only feel and don't think. When, if you really understand astrological signs, you should know that, in addition to Cancerians being highly emotionally adept; we are also one of the most analytical/thinking signs.
@@kandigranger1450 Also, if you watched the video and think, and listen to the part about how Cancerians usually forgive people too many times; you would come to the realization that the person being cut off knows exactly what they did. There is no need for an explanation when I've forgiven after the thirtieth time.
I'm a cancer and I know my faults. I also know people have good and bad sides, we're not perfect, no one's perfect, except the Mighty One, and we all know who he is, Our Maker !!🙏🙏🙏
I'm a cancer and it's true that we cut off people, but it's not because we are in a bad mood... you see... since we are really emotional and intuitive sign, we know how to cope with emotions pretty well so, when we have a bad day, we try to stay away from people, so we don't say something that we could regret. And if you pissed us off on that day we're just be like, ok I'm super emotional rn ... he\she pissed me off ... not cool, but maybe I'm taking it too seriously so let's wait... (maybe we can snap off back at you, but we'll regret it instantly if we love you) The reason for cutting you off is actually, when we just don't want to take your bullshit anymore you know ... cancers are very kind people and we'll give you a chance after chance after chance after chance ... we give you honestly more chances than you sometimes deserve. Other signs would just walk up to you and say fuck you I'm not putting with that bullshit :D So if a cancer cuts you off it's because you are toxic for them, you are draining them emotionaly or you have done something that they can never ever forget. And yeah we definitely have our bad side, but it's rare to see it. I don't know how about others, but it's really hard to make me mad, I'll always try to understand where u are coming from u know, I'll try to calm you down and just talk... but let me just say YES we are sensitive, but if you hurt us or make us really angry... bitch you better run.. and fast, cus we're not little defenseless cancers we'll turn into a wolf and bite your head off xD
Once again you hit it word for word . My girlfriend is a Capricorn we have been together 20 and a half years most of our ups and downs and trust me we have had plenty it's made our relationship stronger as the years went by. She has came to understand me and of course I get her. I have went through my whole life by feeling my way through not by seeing at all. She s a News Year Baby but through all these years we have remained together this whole time. Of course we were a lot younger 20 years ago but she said that no one made here feel love making , I have learned to communicate better. I thought everyone could speak or show feelings non verbally but no. We talk through everything and find a solution for our problems. Especially now we are older and wiser. But we have made it work for us . Thanks again for sharing the video.
You described ME to the inth degree. I’m a Cancer & everything you discussed except clingy. I’m had to learn that lesson a long time ago & got over it. EVERYTHING ELSE you totally nailed about me. I put up with far more BS than the average person, however, it’s always that one thing out of the blue that I don’t even see coming that will cause me to be done. Once I’m done it’s a true & complete wrap. I give no explanations or apologies when done. I’m just done!
When I cut someone off it usually is always permanent! I might let some back in but they always end up going back to their old ways so I cut them off for good!
I love your voice so much it’s so soothing. I’m an emotional wreck because my cancer cut me off for the first time. I’m really regretting it but he also has fault and I really hope he also is thinking about what he did. Anyways thank you for the accuracy about a cancer. I’m realizing more and more that I need to understand him better even though he’s not very verbal about his feelings. I assume to much and this is why I’m in this situation and listening to your videos. God bless you and thank you for the guidance. ❤️
What's your zodiac sign? Because I can absolutely relate to this.. my cancer cheated on me and ever since I've been assuming he's still doing it because I trusted him and he hurt me deeply.
iLuv Visa nnnnno sweeeeetie i much rather loooook at it like this hey mayn 😆😆😆 n not like this shall we say 😳😳😳 ive got everything i could ever ask for u know lol so i am HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY LOL x0x0 loves yah
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Yooooo!!!! watching this my entire short/long feeling life just flashed before my life. Lamarr U R Goood! 🙌🙌🙌😂😂😂 I think ur like one of the only people to understand the multiple sides of my energy. i feel like I have a friend watching this lol 😂💙💙💙
So true! Please don't make Cancers the joke and hurt their feelings. They are so great at joking back while telling the truth about u u may not want others 2 know about! But u started it tho!!! 😏😏😏😏😏
Some ppl forget at one point they felt comfortable enough to tell us any and everything without fear of judgement. It's just that warm, chill non-threatening aura most Cancers tend to give off. Mouths can be venomous when they're forced to be.
The shaman walk my brother is a Cap and we get along really well. He’s so calm and always knows how to handle my many emotions. I love Earth signs for this. Most of them are so grounded and it helps me feel safe and understood. They take my emotions and help me see the practical side to things. Not all Earth signs are like this though.
Dear Cancers, Get yourself a Virgo that will ride for you and do NOT cut them off when you get in your feelings... Why? Because good Virgos will support you, genuinely love you, and nurture you - even when it gets difficult. Us Virgos always stay too long and will deal with your BS long after we should've ended it. Virgo will make you work/ progress. It ain't gon be easy. Get you one and hold on.
I just cut a Virgo because we can't be together 💔 the amount of pain I feel right now is just too much, I have never loved someone so much...but If I don't cut him out I won't be able to get over him... if we stay in contact I'll keep waiting for him...forever. 💔
My best friend is a virgo 😍😍 she is dependable asf she be with my up and downs like a G we also respect each others opinions and need for space we know how to work with me and me with her
Yup I had a Taurus female “friend” who was a lesbian so I thought but every once in a while she would make a comment to me inappropriately! She even started going off on me over nonsense and I had a feeling she probably had feelings for me but I’m gay and definitely not interested in women like that and especially a lesbian but I cut her off after a fallout and years later she reached out on social media and everything seemed cool and I forgave her and we even went on a trip together and she went off again and I completely cut her off and it’s for life now she will never have a chance to be my “friend” again! She’s absolutely done and I have no regrets at all !!!
All facts..im experiencing a capricorn right now & you have giving me much understanding of the dynamics of the two. I was almost at the cut off stage before i watched your vid on cancer & capricorn compatibility. We learn so much from eachother but get on eachothers LAST nerve & i feel..lol..that its worth it..thanks
As a Cancer I have learned to trust my intuition and that way I don’t get involved if I sense that I am not completely comfortable with a person or a situation. I can bow out with kindness and grace.
I'm Cancer sun Capricorn moon and Pisces rising. F up contradiction on emotions. But everything is true. Once decided to cut off, that's for life. So be careful.
Renard Ryan That’s your Capricorn moon making you do and not the cancerian trait. Capricorn moon are very strong emotionally nothing can change their minds or hearts !
It seems like it took you sooooo much energy to even do this video- so like the relationship with a cancer man but it’s sooooo worth it. Thanks for the video . 💯✔️
I am scorpio I love inconditionally, the only way u never get hearth broken is when u give dont think about receive . But if they heart u and didnt want your love Bless them with kindness and respectful behaviour and goodby to them Dont let no one use u Be a teacher and student in same time Love is beautiful Let's don't hate each other and try to undress each other When people tell you they problem understand them and listen carefully And learn from that like a student U teach them a listen no one teach them Teach them how u understand them and learn from your mistake and how they make u a better person by telling g u the problem God bless u Pls remember love is beautiful
Lamarr you are 1000% accurate on this portrayal of Cancer! I'm a Capricorn Moon so I see how much we have in common. one of my closest friends is a Capricorn.
Focus on why you needed to attract such an overly needy emotional person in to you life. Do you need such a co-dependant? You learned you don't probably. Celebrate your triumph!
I am a cancer and im getting out of a relationship n i needed this video for some clarification💗💗💭💭💭 we can definitley let ppl walk over us trying to be so understanding and emotionally attached but like u said once our emotions are done theres nothing else no feelings no nothing
lol this reading is funny. But I guess not so fun for the people I cut off. But any-who, so right. What you see is not always what you get. Sometimes we cut people off and don’t know it. Overbearing people eventually get cut off.
Dini_ Photograpy can you explain why some scorps can be so cold even when you’ve been a real person. It’s as if they only approach u to vent about themselves etc well one scorp I know. Ugh
Emily A Honestly all Scorpios are different. And in my 20+ years of being one, its pretty tough. There is so much we hold in both for ourselves and for other ppl. I believe we are misunderstood alot. Do to our ways of expressing or being too straightforward. I like to describe Scorps ways as taking in (everything) with great passion, building with mysterious intensity, and releasing with strong emotion and desire that we tend to hide. But can be a very zealous sign. I adore having the qualities of being Mars in Scorpio. I am more subtle and calm, and have a controlled stronger sense of purpose. Also helps to keep my spiritual energies in balance. I enjoy being around people and I bless those who understand me. Not all Scorpios are the same. I hope my reply is helpful.
Dini_ Photograpy thanks. I guess as for me, Taurus female. I’ve been kind and open and I feel as though my fathers wife (scorp) is just so cold towards me or on purpose gave me a green face mask when I asked for powder to put in my shoe. ( English isn’t her first language) but she can read just thought it was a subtle fuck you, to me and yeah anyways thanks
@Emily A..have a very similar situation. With my boyfriend family member . A scorpio..she do a lot of side shit. I know what it's about. She has a issue with me not being talkative...or not being as out going as her. She take it personal but I am not a person who do a lot of talking unless I am comfortable or connected. She do a lot of indirect shit while being nice. I just stay away. I tried twice to have a connection with her..but I believe due to us having a gap of seeing each other it just don't work. I am cool with that. I just be very short and get out of her presents. I am a cancer so I can feel when tension around me. I also like to cut thru the bullshit. I like to be clear of the intention then move on. Scorpio are horrible when dealing with issues. They like to live in this vindictive state. Something I tried to teach my mom ,cousin,and boyfriend to not to do.
A cancer lady I was seeing for a while has cut me off now because she said she wasn’t ready for anything serious even though she said differently previous weeks before that. I don’t know what I done but I hope I didn’t make her feel anything like this internally or emotionally. I will miss her...
@@MySeeds24 had a gf and fell insanely in love with a cancer girl at work. had plenty of time to break up with gf and took too long. my reason at the time for being spineless was on the day me and cancer girl first kissed I made my decision to finally dump gf. Later that nite gf was crying and told me about getting molested by the neighbor as a child. I felt horrible for her and I couldn't break up with her now. So I put off breaking up with her. Meantime pressure was building up with cancer girl. Months pass and I decide to dump her again, then I rescue this cat on the RR tracks outside of work in winter time. GF adopts the cat. Now I felt obligated to stay with her longer. Pressure builds and big blow up at work happens. I told boss Id take some time off and thats been it. She never would see me again. She'd call all the time to torture me. She did for it years. I'd tell her not to call if she wouldn't see me. I'd even threaten to totally embarrass her if she'd con't to call and one time I did. She'd still call and refuse to see me. Its so weird. She'll call and act like were best friends and I'll point this out and point out how she's demented though she's so charming and funny some how she never answers and changes the subject. She didn't call for a few years though now she started again a couple times last year and now a couple times this year. Sorry about the rant. You asked.
I can’t stand cancers. I’m a Gemini so I know we’re difficult too but in friendships and relationships I try to repair and reconcile with the individuals I’ve hurt, so there’s no bad blood but cancers are super conditional... fuck up with them and they dispose of you, no matter the amount of history between the two of you.
Amelia Johnson yep thats the real tea 😂😂😂😂😂my motherinlaw is a gemini and she always trying to repair things with her friends and telling me to forgive people i be like not in a million years she see it as petty i see it as being crossed and tested😂😂😂
Before they drop you they then told you a million times that they don't like this or that I think a lot of times people just don't take it seriously. I have cut people off then when we talk years later...lol..they act like I never warn them. When I listen to them speak I can tell they never took me seriously. I remember dating a guy for 2 years . I would tell him that this and that bother me. He will tell me how he will work on it. Turn around do the same shit in a different way. This went on for awhile. When I finally said fuck it and told him. Let's just be friends. He was shock. He went around telling people that I am crazy and just dump him for no reason. About 5years later I seen him in Starbucks. We had a long conversation he admit that he finally got it. He said it took him awhile but he understood where I came from. I lie to you not by the end of the conversation he did something that was similar to the reason why we broke up. That was our conversation.
I love your videos. I light up when I see a new upload from you ♡ my momma is a Cancer. She's snippy, mean, a sucka, a sappy mess all at the same time lol my man is a Cancer moon and clingy. Both cut me off then come back all lovey dovey the next moment. They have mood swings and can be freakishly dark lol When a Cancer cuts you off its quick, no thought and comes from a pissed off place. But they come back with strong squishy love ♡♡♡ weirdos ♡
Flvcko Veli lmao so true. My mom too and I am always telling her to skip the cut off and just get to the love. I always pick on her like you don't mean that when she tries to be mean. She calls me to complain about my siblings but I'm listening to her but thinking to myself it's you mom you! lol drama
Once I cut you off? It's pretty much a done deal. No squishy love comeback is not even happening! 🙅🏾 I've cut my own mama off! Why? She was totally outta pocket. She finally apologize. But, I still don't get to close to her like that. I'm good! ✌🏾👌🏾
Mary D No dont be like that to your mom i know its hard. However still she is your mother.💗 you never know how long shes gonna live? Not to scare you but i am just being honest.
Gemini sun cancer moon and I can honestly relate to this so much, once I feel someone is taken me for granted, slowly drifting away I’ll cut them off and never talk to them again
for me: 1: need space to de-stress or deal with personal needs. Your boy is rather introverted and needs to recharge. This can also be me analyzing filth and removing it or planning how to deal with it. 2: Emotionally I have become distant. Whether it be a characteristic that you have that I don't agree with or we may have broken up or I have been betrayed, I have probably addressed this issue with said person and it is not getting better. Which then returns back to number one, removing filth. I have no tolerance for drama and will cut it off immediately.
Im a cancer but im very understanding. and forgiving but if i feel you having a bad day im like ok i fall back leave you alone . I will give you chances but if your just being mean spirited I'll cut you off. Im a bit clingy but im working on that.
Well that’s pretty damn accurate, I’m a Cancer Sun, Libra Moon and Sagittarius rising , Due to our sensitive nature we do snip quite frequently , with Libra I balance it out of which I am grateful , my Sagittarius personality mixes with the cancer humour and sometimes you have to dial it back, Cancers are warm, loving, caring people but if you do something horrible to us then you will get cut off simply because we expect what we give back to people and it’s a lot. We are Cancer and proud we only surround ourselves with good people positive not negative people. Thanks I loved this, the two best people ever in my life are Capricorn’s much love N
I like the ending, don’t take a crab for guaranteed cuz once a crab cuts you off, you gonna miss them!.... yup! That’s sooooo true , 💯🦀🌊here and I will do this anytime once I smell or see some shadiness
As a cancer guy I can honestly say we can get pushed too far the thing is I think people also underestimate us and they just keep pushing and there is a point of no return I've cut a lot of people off in my life and I don't regret it I've had my heart broken and I've been taking advantage of too many times in my life and people just think I'm a pushover but after you cut them out 1 of 3 things happen #1 they act like what did I do #2 they do absolutely everything they can to get back on your good side and #3 they start hating you and do anything they can to destroy you or your love once.
I’m a cancer that had to recently cut a female Sagittarius off I have been talking to not that long...I kinda of emotionally reacted and took all the Valentine’s Day stuff I bought for her and after her constantly cancelling on me and not talking to me or appreciating me being there for her and her family and her disrespecting my mother ,I smeared chocolate syrup, icing, rose petals, dead flowers, etc. all over her porch and left it there for her when she got home from work only to have her try to make me feel bad about my emotions again 🤷🏽♀️ I will never apologize for having emotions and I could’ve did wayyyyy worse but I wish her the best... I thought she was the one. Still miss her but us cancers come out stronger than everrrr I don’t think I can ever be with a Sagittarius I tried to understand her sign to a T even by watching UA-cam videos to better help her but I was a doormat and put in wayyyy too much effort...opposites don’t always attract 😢
My man I'm also a Cancer man who dated Sagattarius for almost two years she would tell me she loved me then next day act like a ice queen. I always found myself do things for her all she would do is complain. She never kept her word I got to the point where I kept it real with her. I called her two faced,selfish,heartless she got offended try to play the guilt trip on me. I will never date a Sag.
Facts being June cancer in just done with people cutting myself scarring myself and never being appreciated it is just I finally made decision to do all that devotion for people who really need it at least I can see them smile and safe
Thanks Lamar...This was excellent. The Capricorn man I love is cutting me off right now. I shall see if he comes around or if I'm going to cut him off for ignoring me....So true.
Not true. I’m a cancer and attract clingy. I like my space. Very sweet caring. BUT will bite you if you cross me because you think I’m NAIVE. NOW ITS TRUE, once the emotions are detached, the relationship is done.Lots of people are intimidated by the fact that we don’t need anyones company to validate our existence because we embrace & appreciate our own company, which brings peace with it. . Sure we will forgive you, but we won’t welcome your company. Lol, if we do welcome your company after you burned us, you will feel so condemned you will volunteer to escort yourself out without us asking you to leave and that excuses us from feeling guilty.We love people, but don’t need their approval for our existence. Are highly sensitive to crap and can tolerate it but in the end you’ll realize it’s returned & served to you on a silver platter
Now you are right if we get weird vibes, can’t put finger on it, we will talk to you, laugh with you, BUT at an arms length, then CUT you off at a moments notice.
Shelondria NChrist I thought it was just me. I attract clingy and I need my space in my shell to process. It’s like please get the hell off of me damn.
dont back me into a corner. It's easier to cut you off than to have a big confrontation. If u continually make me feel bad I'd rather just avoid you forever, and never deal with you again. If you're important enough, I will explain it to you...what it is that hurts me...but then I'm done cuz if you know and do it anyways...well, that says enuf right there.
Just Junk Sometimes it's really that I absolutely h8 drama. H8 it. Like I'm not gonna even waste energy on one word. I'll just leave. Ppl can go entertain themselves w/ h8, negativity, wever it is. Word. Just depends...
Just Junk facts I'll give you a warning by communicating with you why I felt that way and if you do it again then I know you have no respect for me and you don't belong in my life I give respect and I should receive it if not goodbye family friends dog 🐶 cat 🐱 idc
People make mistakes, and people repeat them. If you cannot understand that, then all you Cancers will be single for life. Just because you told the other person you don't like something, doesn't mean they won't forget one day and trigger you. At which point you just cut people off? Makes 0 sense to me but then again who are we kidding, Cancer isn't a astrological sign that uses logic often. That happens when a person devotes everything in life to emotional swings.
I feel like cancers are worse depending on what they have been through if they have a dark past or have been traumatized and you betrayed them your azz is grass and it can get really wicked for you
Don't feel sad when the other zodiacs say shit about you. They are just mad that when you turn at a certain age you read them like a book. They are not as nearly perspective as you and sadly those who don't like that gift will never like you.
Honestly I'm a cancer sun Mars Venus and mercury and the main reason I will cut someone off is just simply if they bore me. Going with how you said we sometimes feel inadequate because of that I will put up with a lot of I like you, if your boring I won't want to waste my energy on you
Well why my cancer man is acting detached.. less interested when I give him love, I'm attached to him & in love with him.,, we talk everyday but now he's acting different. And I'm an Aquarius women.
Any cancer who can give me tip how to gey back with cancer My bestie told i can be friendly with u but I don't want to be your friend How i get her back?
I’m Gemini and my best friend is Cancer and we are so harmonious together like peas in a pod lol but my Cancer partner is a whole different story, huge manipulator, emotionally drains me to a point where I really don’t give a hoots about him anymore, So clingy,can’t visit my family, visit my friends, shopping on my own etc sick of his grumpy moody bs not just one day but everyday, and I thought being a Gemini would be more moody then their negative grumpy backside. Anyway thank you Lamar😊
Sharon T I'm the Cancer and my ex husband was the Gemini. I find that my ex would literally be two different people. It's not a mood thing it's two completely different people. The Gemini was fun but gave off selfishness and not reliable almost wishy washy for anything for me. But would suck the life out of me for his well being. Other than that. Fun as a party buddy not a responsible partner for me.
Shelly Long wow he must be a Gemini sun with different moon and rising. Gemini’s are not selfish but are very loving and caring people, Yeah we can be unreliable at times but it’s never our intention to do that. I’m not saying all Gemini’s are the same in general because some have different Moon and rising etc😊But who knows maybe you have Gemini in your birth chart and your partner has Cancer in his lol😊👌🏽
I find the Gemini and cancer a lot alike but there reasoning are different. OK like my gemini home girl. She will come around me and talk and talk...but she will get upset when I hide in my shell. People don't realize cancers have to hide to process shit. She will get upset but let it go afterwhile. A gemini will change characters or flee off to do something new. They both disappear for there own reason. I
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Never mistake a cancer's kindness for weakness. We are very very strong when we need to be. And don't even try to lie to my face we can easily see the truth in your eyes. Its our natural gift.
Mega Dave super true
Stubbornness is not synonymous with STRENGTH.
BIG DIFFERENCE.
Cruelty, evil, grudges, disloyalty, abandonment is not strength, ever.
@I Am I oh man i kno you didn''t put those names together in one sentence!. and who da fuck are you? you stalkin me boy ;) sup daddy
@@dannac_8888 SOOOOO true here......you describe exactly -- the way they are...
Fuck is wrong with yall!. Stop playing wit us.
Spot on. We may be emotional and cut people off who hurt us but we are also capable of complete forgiveness if you prove yourself Trustworthy again.
Mel Berry i love you ❤️ your spot on!
Amen 7-11 baby
Soooo many people don't get this. If you're trustworthy and you SHOW consistency- you got us!
To know that. An feel it i believe i can get that back!
Noooo cancer people are nasty cheaters and females are wicked
As a cancer I feel unappreciated. There are people I do and do and do for. Then the moment I say no I see a grown ass person have a temper tantrum.
luvpinkchic14 cut them off bye, you owe nothing
Yes! People feel so entitled to us
Girl yes
Same with me
That's your perception, they aren't have a temper tantrum trust me.
If we come back and cut you off again, it’s because yes we love you but you’re still the same person we cut off in the first place.
I always hear that people say cancer is dependend and clingy. Cancers are afraid of being clingy and dependend. They secretly hope, that the people they love are loyal to them and stick to them, but they won't show it. I'm a cancer sun and cancer rising, I met immature cancer men who were a little bit clingy and sticky, but most of the women are too proud. If they don't get the attention they deserve, they cut you off in an ice cold way and maybe suffer silently. I met so many geminis, libras and capricorns who where much more clingy. Cancers maybe have a strong grip with their knives, but if you bore them they ''cut you off'' like nothing.
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Yes!!
My mom and cousin are cancer....and when they get pissed....they are pissed for along time
Benisha McFerrin true lol we do hold grudges.
And can go days, weeks, months and years without uttering a word to someone who hurt us.
We hold grudges and it doesn't help that Cancers have a good memory
Yes we do....!!
This man told a great truth about cancers. When we emotionally detach it's a wrap & it's like you dont exist.
How to get cancer man back when he ignores me n giving me silent treatment?
@@Sunshine-ci2uu definitely text him/her first because me as a cancer male hate texting first but deep inside I’m dying trying to talk to you
@@xThatBoiChris hey please help me
@@xThatBoiChris he is sometimes seeing my messages sometimes ignoring me. One year back he asked me to do nose piercing so recently I got piercing I messaged him my pic he instantly saw the photos but not replying back. What should I do?
My god yes!
I'm a cancer that needs his space I ain't clingy I don't like being smothered lol.we all ain't the same I like to have fun but gotta take care of my responsibilities first then play
Me 2...👍👍👍👍
I relate to this so much
same here
Me too I like being alone. But I can be clingy if I really like you. But I feel like you should appreciate it. So if you treat me all messed up because of it I'll cut you lose because just because I'm clingy don't mean it's something weak about me I just like you a lot.
FAMILY MATTERS THE MOST hi, I’m sorry to bother you but can I ask you a question? Why would a cancer cut someone off if they didn’t do anything wrong to them? I became intimate with a cancer man, we had a great time but day later he had stress in his life and he cut me off and stopped talking to me...later on he told me he needs some Time to himself but he miss me and I’m on his mind...however when I met him on the street by accident he was very aloof and acted in a strange way like he wanted to void me and he told me he will be in touch...it hurts me to see this and I don’t understand it...
Once you're cut off. You're cut the hell off for life. IDC if I miss you that's it and it helps me sleep well at night.
Petty Shay Amen.
Petty Shay exactly !!!
Yes!!
Well but never cut ex wife off right. No matter how many times their's ex wife cheated on them but they still stick with and spy and jealous about ex wife new partner.
Petty Shay not true I’m Pisces and my ex is always coming to me
You ain't lying our intuition never fails us
Yup libra rejected me 😭 im gonna make her regret
When a cancer considers you as a real friend, it's for life, even if we don't talk often.
we do have multiple personalities and people truly do have to stick around and see our sides...thats why I cant stand when someone think they know me..like no my mama dont even know me.....lol
Yes and something that often happens to me : people feel entitled to my kindness and once I decide I don't want to do something , they get outraged lol . Especially leos , everytime I have a bad fight with someone and checks their sign they turn to be a Leo Xd
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Wissale Ch my best friend is a Leo lmao, we fight like cats and dogs but will fight anybody who messes with him
Lmao, I say that all the time!!
I'm a Cancer man and what he says is true. We'll put up with a ton of BS until a certain point and then cut the other person out of our lives forever.
What is your definition of bullshit? I have always wanted to know why cancers get so angry over the petiest of things? Just genuinely curious.. it's comes off like they build a strawman of you and make you admit to whatever bothers them about the other person.... why would anyone want to be controlled. That's how I see it anyways. Attention, must have control, slap ya in the face mid sentence into a real deep convo...
@Diamon. I dont think ive read something so true in my life 😂 "pettiest things" are usually the last straw, cherry on top etc
@Diamon.so true. its true most people don't see how disrespectful themselves are. until u do the same "pettiest thing" back and they feel disrespected. like bish whut.
@@aredartswings with the cancer people fail to realized that they are sensitive so if your the type of person to crack a joke but not think about what you say before you say it 9 times out of ten you’ve hurt that cancers feeling but just won’t kno it pretty much they mentally take notes on how many times you’ve hurt them till they except you for who you are then that’s when they get evil
I love being a Cancer. We can usually get along with any sign. And we are very intuitive and we sense emotions of others.
Weather you have any emotions or not. We can tell
Cancers are the most flighty zodiac sign I've ever met. This is my experience.
If you make me FEEL BAD NUMEROUS TIMES, you’re out. Why ?
If I like you- in a romantic way, as a friend or you are my family, I do my best to always be there for you and make you feel as best as possible. I’ll be loyal as hell and I’ll always give my best to you. ALWAYS
So if you don’t appreciate it, if you make me feel bad, if you neglect me or simply take it for granted, you’re out as I’ll always remember what you did and I never forget. You might get the second chance if I see you being honest and pretty apologetic.
But remember - I remember and I have my eye on you. Next time you make me feel bad again, bye. And there’s no coming back
An evolved Cancer won't necessarily cut you off. Numbers still in tact it's just that WE move different now. All of the bs that may have work years ago is ashes.
every cancer I know is about that life they will hurt your feelings have you in a corner crying...lol deadly mouth
sugafoot820 we have a sharp tongue when we need to, it happens if we’ve given you chance after chance and we feel like you’ve stepped all over us
oh I know ...lol I seen it to many times
That's me 2!
Is it sharper than scorpio moon's tongue ?
This is what I be trying to protect people from! Which is why I give them so many chances, cause if you earn my wrath and those WORDS.... you won't wanna be my friend anymore lol Some of the things we say you just can't come back from.
Cancers will always give you two or three chances or more if needed but once we are DONE we will start being distant on purpose. And that’s when we know are truly done. And even if we cut you off and we had great times together we will still kind of hold on to the memories but never ever coming back.
Once a Cancer's gone you gonna miss them 14th July 💕
Im the 14th
MEE TOOOO 14th July💓
I’m the 13th 😳
Im the 13th 😁👋
June 23rd here❤♋
He aint lying about them text messages. I will look at it and leave it on read.
annoyed
Its a cancer thing I do it too and I'm a man
@Raetooreal Ayyy theres no hope we are done
Franchesca Clark you are so gorgeous!
Love SickMisfit cancers very often are sociopaths and narcissists and I know it as I’m a cancer myself. difficult borderline personalities
I miss my Capricorn friend. We were really close. He was the best and had so much class. He really helped me understand a committed friendship (I would never cut him off). Platonic friend Soulmates are real. He passed away 10 years ago. Miss you Mo. ❤🙏🕯
Cancerians maybe moody but they're very friendly to strangers, bd very passionate people. They're generous, like to joke, can take a joke to a certain extent. They make good fruends , their friendship can last forever, but when the fruend walks away without a reason, they tend to blame themself for the friend walking away from them . They're very loving and protective towards their family and close friends .
This is the truth. Just know when a cancer checks out emotionally- its over. And even IF we allow that person to come back they're really gonna have to work very VERY hard to be in our good graces.
This is so right on. I keep a pair of scissor. I can only take so much
Jordan4thqrt N92 💯 I agree
Cancers need to mature ..grow up ..when in a relationship .. If you say you love someone .. Dont deceive that person ..if there is a problem .. Reach out dont run .. Talk. Dont hide ..
This is my problem, when I'm hurt I ghost ppl instead of communicating
That's exactly what a manipulator would say.....
NOPE. DONE means DONE! 😂
@@Redacted24-r2hwhat is manipulative about being straight forward. Some situations require you to think. Everything is not meant to be felt. Feelings change, facts do not.
@@kandigranger1450 And I find it offensive that people assume Cancerians only feel and don't think. When, if you really understand astrological signs, you should know that, in addition to Cancerians being highly emotionally adept; we are also one of the most analytical/thinking signs.
@@kandigranger1450 Also, if you watched the video and think, and listen to the part about how Cancerians usually forgive people too many times; you would come to the realization that the person being cut off knows exactly what they did. There is no need for an explanation when I've forgiven after the thirtieth time.
I'm a cancer and I know my faults. I also know people have good and bad sides, we're not perfect, no one's perfect, except the Mighty One, and we all know who he is, Our Maker !!🙏🙏🙏
I'm a cancer and it's true that we cut off people, but it's not because we are in a bad mood... you see... since we are really emotional and intuitive sign, we know how to cope with emotions pretty well so, when we have a bad day, we try to stay away from people, so we don't say something that we could regret. And if you pissed us off on that day we're just be like, ok I'm super emotional rn ... he\she pissed me off ... not cool, but maybe I'm taking it too seriously so let's wait... (maybe we can snap off back at you, but we'll regret it instantly if we love you)
The reason for cutting you off is actually, when we just don't want to take your bullshit anymore you know ... cancers are very kind people and we'll give you a chance after chance after chance after chance ... we give you honestly more chances than you sometimes deserve. Other signs would just walk up to you and say fuck you I'm not putting with that bullshit :D So if a cancer cuts you off it's because you are toxic for them, you are draining them emotionaly or you have done something that they can never ever forget.
And yeah we definitely have our bad side, but it's rare to see it. I don't know how about others, but it's really hard to make me mad, I'll always try to understand where u are coming from u know, I'll try to calm you down and just talk... but let me just say YES we are sensitive, but if you hurt us or make us really angry... bitch you better run.. and fast, cus we're not little defenseless cancers we'll turn into a wolf and bite your head off xD
Once again you hit it word for word . My girlfriend is a Capricorn we have been together 20 and a half years most of our ups and downs and trust me we have had plenty it's made our relationship stronger as the years went by. She has came to understand me and of course I get her. I have went through my whole life by feeling my way through not by seeing at all. She s a News Year Baby but through all these years we have remained together this whole time. Of course we were a lot younger 20 years ago but she said that no one made here feel love making , I have learned to communicate better. I thought everyone could speak or show feelings non verbally but no. We talk through everything and find a solution for our problems. Especially now we are older and wiser. But we have made it work for us . Thanks again for sharing the video.
You described ME to the inth degree.
I’m a Cancer & everything you discussed except clingy. I’m had to learn that lesson a long time ago & got over it. EVERYTHING ELSE you totally nailed about me. I put up with far more BS than the average person, however, it’s always that one thing out of the blue that I don’t even see coming that will cause me to be done. Once I’m done it’s a true & complete wrap. I give no explanations or apologies when done. I’m just done!
When I cut someone off it usually is always permanent! I might let some back in but they always end up going back to their old ways so I cut them off for good!
The worst part about cutting people off is that it's hard to not care about that grudge that person might have or vice versa
I love your voice so much it’s so soothing. I’m an emotional wreck because my cancer cut me off for the first time. I’m really regretting it but he also has fault and I really hope he also is thinking about what he did. Anyways thank you for the accuracy about a cancer. I’m realizing more and more that I need to understand him better even though he’s not very verbal about his feelings. I assume to much and this is why I’m in this situation and listening to your videos. God bless you and thank you for the guidance. ❤️
What's your zodiac sign? Because I can absolutely relate to this.. my cancer cheated on me and ever since I've been assuming he's still doing it because I trusted him and he hurt me deeply.
We're so complex ...how did you figure us out??? 😳😳😳😳😳😳🙇🏾♀️♋️
iLuv Visa nnnnno sweeeeetie i much rather loooook at it like this hey mayn 😆😆😆 n not like this shall we say 😳😳😳 ive got everything i could ever ask for u know lol so i am HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY LOL x0x0 loves yah
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We love love LOVE to give...until we feel that you love to take. Then we are DONE.
This is100% true, I will put up with so much but once you’ve crossed the line you are eradicated from my life.
You’re speaking FACTS all around this whole video was one of the best ones regarding Cancers I’ve seen to date!!! Thanks made me smile and laugh lol
I'm glad I watched this cause honey you aint felt cut off until your cut of by a Cancer. It hurts!this video is 💯 #SagiGal
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I am so thankful that we can emotionally cut them off. We can take alot, but we know that limit and we feel okay about it.
I’m a Taurus and I love cancers.
Emily A it be hard tho. I’m a Taurus too
Lol One of my closest friends is a Taurus! We are a water sign where you are a Earth sign.
We love u to
I’m a cancer and love Taurus
Love you too💕
Yesss this is so true ...tread lightly ..treat others like you would want to be treated...how hard is that to understand?? Yep you gotta go!
iLuv Visa I don't really know why people do what they hate to others . That is in the law of God
Yooooo!!!! watching this my entire short/long feeling life just flashed before my life. Lamarr U R Goood! 🙌🙌🙌😂😂😂 I think ur like one of the only people to understand the multiple sides of my energy. i feel like I have a friend watching this lol 😂💙💙💙
So true! Please don't make Cancers the joke and hurt their feelings. They are so great at joking back while telling the truth about u u may not want others 2 know about! But u started it tho!!! 😏😏😏😏😏
😂🤣LOL !
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Some ppl forget at one point they felt comfortable enough to tell us any and everything without fear of judgement. It's just that warm, chill non-threatening aura most Cancers tend to give off. Mouths can be venomous when they're forced to be.
WADE WALKER 🤣🤣🤣 riiiight we definitely have a savage mouthpiece
So true ..
I love capricorns. I respect capricorns. Thank you for this love video.
The shaman walk my brother is a Cap and we get along really well. He’s so calm and always knows how to handle my many emotions. I love Earth signs for this. Most of them are so grounded and it helps me feel safe and understood. They take my emotions and help me see the practical side to things. Not all Earth signs are like this though.
Dear Cancers, Get yourself a Virgo that will ride for you and do NOT cut them off when you get in your feelings... Why? Because good Virgos will support you, genuinely love you, and nurture you - even when it gets difficult. Us Virgos always stay too long and will deal with your BS long after we should've ended it. Virgo will make you work/ progress. It ain't gon be easy. Get you one and hold on.
Jeremy Kennan ok
I was a virgo woth a cancer and i got my heart broken for staying so now I decided to never love again
I just cut a Virgo because we can't be together 💔 the amount of pain I feel right now is just too much, I have never loved someone so much...but If I don't cut him out I won't be able to get over him... if we stay in contact I'll keep waiting for him...forever. 💔
My best friend is a virgo 😍😍 she is dependable asf she be with my up and downs like a G we also respect each others opinions and need for space we know how to work with me and me with her
Nooo tooo Virgo’s!!
Yup I had a Taurus female “friend” who was a lesbian so I thought but every once in a while she would make a comment to me inappropriately! She even started going off on me over nonsense and I had a feeling she probably had feelings for me but I’m gay and definitely not interested in women like that and especially a lesbian but I cut her off after a fallout and years later she reached out on social media and everything seemed cool and I forgave her and we even went on a trip together and she went off again and I completely cut her off and it’s for life now she will never have a chance to be my “friend” again! She’s absolutely done and I have no regrets at all !!!
So what if you've done none of that, everything was clicking and great, then boom..... he disappears?
All facts..im experiencing a capricorn right now & you have giving me much understanding of the dynamics of the two. I was almost at the cut off stage before i watched your vid on cancer & capricorn compatibility. We learn so much from eachother but get on eachothers LAST nerve & i feel..lol..that its worth it..thanks
When you said you're a Capricorn...i instantly subscribed. I'm a cancer i love Capricorns. I vibe so well with them.
I have gave 30 years to parents friends and spouses for about 3 years I have finally detached from everybody it’s hard for a cancer
As a Cancer I have learned to trust my intuition and that way I don’t get involved if I sense that I am not completely comfortable with a person or a situation. I can bow out with kindness and grace.
This gave me the feels. You nailed me 100%. THANK U ❤️
I'm Cancer sun Capricorn moon and Pisces rising. F up contradiction on emotions. But everything is true. Once decided to cut off, that's for life. So be careful.
Renard Ryan That’s your Capricorn moon making you do and not the cancerian trait. Capricorn moon are very strong emotionally nothing can change their minds or hearts !
It seems like it took you sooooo much energy to even do this video- so like the relationship with a cancer man but it’s sooooo worth it. Thanks for the video . 💯✔️
I am scorpio
I love inconditionally, the only way u never get hearth broken is when u give dont think about receive .
But if they heart u and didnt want your love
Bless them with kindness and respectful behaviour and goodby to them
Dont let no one use u
Be a teacher and student in same time
Love is beautiful
Let's don't hate each other and try to undress each other
When people tell you they problem understand them and listen carefully
And learn from that like a student
U teach them a listen no one teach them
Teach them how u understand them and learn from your mistake and how they make u a better person by telling g u the problem
God bless u
Pls remember love is beautiful
On point I just cut somebody off and they don’t even know it 🤷🏽♀️
Lamarr you are 1000% accurate on this portrayal of Cancer! I'm a Capricorn Moon so I see how much we have in common. one of my closest friends is a Capricorn.
I think my cancers done with me for good:( I’ve been getting ignored for about 8 months
eleni tsiknidi Cancer can go longer than that 🤔
Focus on why you needed to attract such an overly needy emotional person in to you life. Do you need such a co-dependant? You learned you don't probably. Celebrate your triumph!
Lmao yeah they are done with you
Move on another will come that will be 10 times better
This video is so spot on. How have you figured us out so well?!
I only look at your videos they always make sense and you are always on point thank you ❤❤❤❤
I am a cancer and im getting out of a relationship n i needed this video for some clarification💗💗💭💭💭 we can definitley let ppl walk over us trying to be so understanding and emotionally attached but like u said once our emotions are done theres nothing else no feelings no nothing
There's no coming back in, They crossed the line one too many times.
My husband is a capricorn and I'm a cancer. I feel we make the best combo because we balance each other out
lol this reading is funny. But I guess not so fun for the people I cut off. But any-who, so right. What you see is not always what you get. Sometimes we cut people off and don’t know it. Overbearing people eventually get cut off.
That sigh thoo😄
Even I sighed n rolled my eyes a bit
Im Scorpio but I adore me my crab
Love ur vids!
Dini_ Photograpy can you explain why some scorps can be so cold even when you’ve been a real person. It’s as if they only approach u to vent about themselves etc well one scorp I know. Ugh
Emily A Honestly all Scorpios are different. And in my 20+ years of being one, its pretty tough. There is so much we hold in both for ourselves and for other ppl. I believe we are misunderstood alot. Do to our ways of expressing or being too straightforward. I like to describe Scorps ways as taking in (everything) with great passion, building with mysterious intensity, and releasing with strong emotion and desire that we tend to hide. But can be a very zealous sign.
I adore having the qualities of being Mars in Scorpio. I am more subtle and calm, and have a controlled stronger sense of purpose. Also helps to keep my spiritual energies in balance. I enjoy being around people and I bless those who understand me.
Not all Scorpios are the same.
I hope my reply is helpful.
Dini_ Photograpy thanks. I guess as for me, Taurus female. I’ve been kind and open and I feel as though my fathers wife (scorp) is just so cold towards me or on purpose gave me a green face mask when I asked for powder to put in my shoe. ( English isn’t her first language) but she can read just thought it was a subtle fuck you, to me and yeah anyways thanks
@Emily A..have a very similar situation. With my boyfriend family member . A scorpio..she do a lot of side shit. I know what it's about. She has a issue with me not being talkative...or not being as out going as her. She take it personal but I am not a person who do a lot of talking unless I am comfortable or connected. She do a lot of indirect shit while being nice. I just stay away. I tried twice to have a connection with her..but I believe due to us having a gap of seeing each other it just don't work. I am cool with that. I just be very short and get out of her presents. I am a cancer so I can feel when tension around me. I also like to cut thru the bullshit. I like to be clear of the intention then move on. Scorpio are horrible when dealing with issues. They like to live in this vindictive state. Something I tried to teach my mom ,cousin,and boyfriend to not to do.
Diana A LMAO I died too when I heard that. I was wondering if he did something recently to a Cancerian cause that sigh was just like wow 👀😂.
A cancer lady I was seeing for a while has cut me off now because she said she wasn’t ready for anything serious even though she said differently previous weeks before that. I don’t know what I done but I hope I didn’t make her feel anything like this internally or emotionally. I will miss her...
That watching the text and not replying is true lol
this me all the time...then reply back days later like I never missed a beat to let you know you not that important
i got cut off 17 years ago and still seeking answers. this is a great topic.
mustaffa1611 what did you do??
@@MySeeds24 had a gf and fell insanely in love with a cancer girl at work. had plenty of time to break up with gf and took too long. my reason at the time for being spineless was on the day me and cancer girl first kissed I made my decision to finally dump gf. Later that nite gf was crying and told me about getting molested by the neighbor as a child. I felt horrible for her and I couldn't break up with her now. So I put off breaking up with her. Meantime pressure was building up with cancer girl. Months pass and I decide to dump her again, then I rescue this cat on the RR tracks outside of work in winter time. GF adopts the cat. Now I felt obligated to stay with her longer. Pressure builds and big blow up at work happens. I told boss Id take some time off and thats been it. She never would see me again. She'd call all the time to torture me. She did for it years. I'd tell her not to call if she wouldn't see me. I'd even threaten to totally embarrass her if she'd con't to call and one time I did. She'd still call and refuse to see me. Its so weird. She'll call and act like were best friends and I'll point this out and point out how she's demented though she's so charming and funny some how she never answers and changes the subject. She didn't call for a few years though now she started again a couple times last year and now a couple times this year. Sorry about the rant. You asked.
I can’t stand cancers. I’m a Gemini so I know we’re difficult too but in friendships and relationships I try to repair and reconcile with the individuals I’ve hurt, so there’s no bad blood but cancers are super conditional... fuck up with them and they dispose of you, no matter the amount of history between the two of you.
Amelia Johnson yep thats the real tea 😂😂😂😂😂my motherinlaw is a gemini and she always trying to repair things with her friends and telling me to forgive people i be like not in a million years she see it as petty i see it as being crossed and tested😂😂😂
Before they drop you they then told you a million times that they don't like this or that
I think a lot of times people just don't take it seriously. I have cut people off then when we talk years later...lol..they act like I never warn them. When I listen to them speak I can tell they never took me seriously.
I remember dating a guy for 2 years . I would tell him that this and that bother me. He will tell me how he will work on it. Turn around do the same shit in a different way. This went on for awhile. When I finally said fuck it and told him. Let's just be friends. He was shock. He went around telling people that I am crazy and just dump him for no reason. About 5years later I seen him in Starbucks. We had a long conversation he admit that he finally got it. He said it took him awhile but he understood where I came from. I lie to you not by the end of the conversation he did something that was similar to the reason why we broke up. That was our conversation.
I think its applaudable to be able to cut off without hesitation! Don't fuck up bbn
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I love your videos. I light up when I see a new upload from you ♡ my momma is a Cancer. She's snippy, mean, a sucka, a sappy mess all at the same time lol my man is a Cancer moon and clingy. Both cut me off then come back all lovey dovey the next moment. They have mood swings and can be freakishly dark lol When a Cancer cuts you off its quick, no thought and comes from a pissed off place. But they come back with strong squishy love ♡♡♡ weirdos ♡
OnlyYouCanBeYou lol yooooo my mom cut her own mom off like they are funny when they cut people off it's crazy 😂
Flvcko Veli lmao so true. My mom too and I am always telling her to skip the cut off and just get to the love. I always pick on her like you don't mean that when she tries to be mean. She calls me to complain about my siblings but I'm listening to her but thinking to myself it's you mom you! lol drama
Once I cut you off? It's pretty much a done deal. No squishy love comeback is not even happening! 🙅🏾 I've cut my own mama off! Why? She was totally outta pocket. She finally apologize. But, I still don't get to close to her like that. I'm good! ✌🏾👌🏾
Mary D
No dont be like that to your mom i know its hard. However still she is your mother.💗 you never know how long shes gonna live? Not to scare you but i am just being honest.
Being a capricorn sucks you I'm so dry asf with people I can't make any friends or have a good healthy bond even tho I bring so much consistency.
Gemini sun cancer moon and I can honestly relate to this so much, once I feel someone is taken me for granted, slowly drifting away I’ll cut them off and never talk to them again
Thanks for making me feel so understood.
Why do cancer men disappear so much ?
Auburn Dobbs THANK YOU
for me:
1: need space to de-stress or deal with personal needs. Your boy is rather introverted and needs to recharge. This can also be me analyzing filth and removing it or planning how to deal with it.
2: Emotionally I have become distant. Whether it be a characteristic that you have that I don't agree with or we may have broken up or I have been betrayed, I have probably addressed this issue with said person and it is not getting better. Which then returns back to number one, removing filth. I have no tolerance for drama and will cut it off immediately.
Im a cancer but im very understanding. and forgiving but if i feel you having a bad day im like ok i fall back leave you alone . I will give you chances but if your just being mean spirited I'll cut you off. Im a bit clingy but im working on that.
Well that’s pretty damn accurate, I’m a Cancer Sun, Libra Moon and Sagittarius rising , Due to our sensitive nature we do snip quite frequently , with Libra I balance it out of which I am grateful , my Sagittarius personality mixes with the cancer humour and sometimes you have to dial it back, Cancers are warm, loving, caring people but if you do something horrible to us then you will get cut off simply because we expect what we give back to people and it’s a lot. We are Cancer and proud we only surround ourselves with good people positive not negative people. Thanks I loved this, the two best people ever in my life are Capricorn’s much love N
I love how you really get us Cancers. Love my cappys ❤
I loved your delivery!
I like the ending, don’t take a crab for guaranteed cuz once a crab cuts you off, you gonna miss them!.... yup! That’s sooooo true , 💯🦀🌊here and I will do this anytime once I smell or see some shadiness
I felt all this, thank you so much. I’m a cancer that recently cut someone dear to me off.
As a cancer guy I can honestly say we can get pushed too far the thing is I think people also underestimate us and they just keep pushing and there is a point of no return I've cut a lot of people off in my life and I don't regret it I've had my heart broken and I've been taking advantage of too many times in my life and people just think I'm a pushover but after you cut them out 1 of 3 things happen #1 they act like what did I do #2 they do absolutely everything they can to get back on your good side and #3 they start hating you and do anything they can to destroy you or your love once.
I'm a Cancer too my brotha and I give them the world but once they violate and I cut them off they threaten to put me in jail or something else crazy.
Honda's and Music facts
Great job describing us
I’m a cancer that had to recently cut a female Sagittarius off I have been talking to not that long...I kinda of emotionally reacted and took all the Valentine’s Day stuff I bought for her and after her constantly cancelling on me and not talking to me or appreciating me being there for her and her family and her disrespecting my mother ,I smeared chocolate syrup, icing, rose petals, dead flowers, etc. all over her porch and left it there for her when she got home from work only to have her try to make me feel bad about my emotions again 🤷🏽♀️ I will never apologize for having emotions and I could’ve did wayyyyy worse but I wish her the best... I thought she was the one. Still miss her but us cancers come out stronger than everrrr I don’t think I can ever be with a Sagittarius I tried to understand her sign to a T even by watching UA-cam videos to better help her but I was a doormat and put in wayyyy too much effort...opposites don’t always attract 😢
My man I'm also a Cancer man who dated Sagattarius for almost two years she would tell me she loved me then next day act like a ice queen. I always found myself do things for her all she would do is complain. She never kept her word I got to the point where I kept it real with her. I called her two faced,selfish,heartless she got offended try to play the guilt trip on me. I will never date a Sag.
Facts being June cancer in just done with people cutting myself scarring myself and never being appreciated it is just I finally made decision to do all that devotion for people who really need it at least I can see them smile and safe
Thanks Lamar...This was excellent. The Capricorn man I love is cutting me off right now. I shall see if he comes around or if I'm going to cut him off for ignoring me....So true.
I responded to a cancer guys message and he read it and didn’t respond but keeps liking my pictures on Instagram and watching my stories.
Something I would do. He might be thinking about how he wants to respond. Him liking your pics is a good thing tho.
Not true. I’m a cancer and attract clingy. I like my space. Very sweet caring. BUT will bite you if you
cross me because you think I’m NAIVE. NOW ITS TRUE, once the emotions are detached, the relationship is done.Lots of people are intimidated by the fact that we don’t need anyones company to
validate our existence because we embrace & appreciate our own company, which brings peace with it. . Sure we will forgive you, but we won’t welcome your company. Lol, if we do welcome your company after you burned us, you will feel so condemned you will volunteer to escort yourself out without us asking you to leave and that excuses us from feeling guilty.We love people, but don’t need their approval for our existence. Are highly sensitive to crap and can tolerate it but in the end you’ll realize it’s returned & served to you on a silver platter
Now you are right if we get weird vibes, can’t put finger on it, we will talk to you, laugh with you, BUT at an arms length, then CUT you off at a moments notice.
Shelondria NChrist
I thought it was just me. I attract clingy and I need my space in my shell to process. It’s like please get the hell off of me damn.
Lol, I know.I think because we hear with our eyes, see with our ears,feel with our heart,but move on intuition and not on the basis of just words.....
Shelondria NChrist Etty so true.
You are very talented ❤❤❤
dont back me into a corner. It's easier to cut you off than to have a big confrontation. If u continually make me feel bad I'd rather just avoid you forever, and never deal with you again. If you're important enough, I will explain it to you...what it is that hurts me...but then I'm done cuz if you know and do it anyways...well, that says enuf right there.
Just Junk Sometimes it's really that I absolutely h8 drama. H8 it. Like I'm not gonna even waste energy on one word. I'll just leave. Ppl can go entertain themselves w/ h8, negativity, wever it is. Word. Just depends...
Just Junk facts I'll give you a warning by communicating with you why I felt that way and if you do it again then I know you have no respect for me and you don't belong in my life I give respect and I should receive it if not goodbye family friends dog 🐶 cat 🐱 idc
I agree 100% it dosent always have to be about drama we can leave in peace...but if people wanna start we can start also thats just us
this is so true for me
People make mistakes, and people repeat them.
If you cannot understand that, then all you Cancers will be single for life.
Just because you told the other person you don't like something, doesn't mean they won't forget one day and trigger you. At which point you just cut people off?
Makes 0 sense to me but then again who are we kidding, Cancer isn't a astrological sign that uses logic often. That happens when a person devotes everything in life to emotional swings.
I feel like cancers are worse depending on what they have been through if they have a dark past or have been traumatized and you betrayed them your azz is grass and it can get really wicked for you
Don't feel sad when the other zodiacs say shit about you. They are just mad that when you turn at a certain age you read them like a book. They are not as nearly perspective as you and sadly those who don't like that gift will never like you.
Honestly I'm a cancer sun Mars Venus and mercury and the main reason I will cut someone off is just simply if they bore me. Going with how you said we sometimes feel inadequate because of that I will put up with a lot of I like you, if your boring I won't want to waste my energy on you
Wow!… I would love to get a reading from you you are so on point
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I'm a cancer and man this was 100% true!
You got yourself a new subbie thank you for video! 🌞♋
Well why my cancer man is acting detached.. less interested when I give him love, I'm attached to him & in love with him.,, we talk everyday but now he's acting different. And I'm an Aquarius women.
CocoDiamondDaze I want the answer to this as well!!!! I am head over heals in love with my cancer and he gets distant. 💔
Make him laugh or take him out somewhere and ask him what's wrong let him know that you're okay with what he's response is
He probably just needed some space.
omg sameee
@@crescentmoondesigns7515Why you say this? Are you a Cancer?
Any cancer who can give me tip how to gey back with cancer
My bestie told i can be friendly with u but I don't want to be your friend
How i get her back?
I’m Gemini and my best friend is Cancer and we are so harmonious together like peas in a pod lol but my Cancer partner is a whole different story, huge manipulator, emotionally drains me to a point where I really don’t give a hoots about him anymore, So clingy,can’t visit my family, visit my friends, shopping on my own etc sick of his grumpy moody bs not just one day but everyday, and I thought being a Gemini would be more moody then their negative grumpy backside. Anyway thank you Lamar😊
Sharon T I'm the Cancer and my ex husband was the Gemini. I find that my ex would literally be two different people. It's not a mood thing it's two completely different people. The Gemini was fun but gave off selfishness and not reliable almost wishy washy for anything for me. But would suck the life out of me for his well being. Other than that. Fun as a party buddy not a responsible partner for me.
Shelly Long wow he must be a Gemini sun with different moon and rising. Gemini’s are not selfish but are very loving and caring people, Yeah we can be unreliable at times but it’s never our intention to do that. I’m not saying all Gemini’s are the same in general because some have different Moon and rising etc😊But who knows maybe you have Gemini in your birth chart and your partner has Cancer in his lol😊👌🏽
This sounds like my current partner... he's a Libra but with a Gemini moon and I'm a Cancer with a Cap moon...
I find the Gemini and cancer a lot alike but there reasoning are different. OK like my gemini home girl. She will come around me and talk and talk...but she will get upset when I hide in my shell. People don't realize cancers have to hide to process shit. She will get upset but let it go afterwhile. A gemini will change characters or flee off to do something new. They both disappear for there own reason.
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That has nothing to do with a sign that's abuse, glad your good now.