if you truly thought he was awesome the way he is, you'd be happy that he finally found himself and is able to blossom through a, i'm guessing much wanted and needed, second puberty! it's quite a wonderful thing and more often than not tied to many happy feelings :D being trans wouldn't be so hard if it weren't for systemic discrimination and people trying to drag us down whereever we go. medical transition saves lifes and i hope someday you will see the beauty of it too for those who's journey was set on this path.
@@skilldeadly8888 It's not trendy, people now just have more means to get what they need in some countries without them getting literally killed. Of course that will make detransitioning cases pop up more often. It's like being surprised that more people get into car accidents if a population has a higher number of cars. I'm not sure if you understand how hard it is to get access to trans healthcare such as HRT, even in countries where it's not criminalized. The process is long and you talk to many psychological and medical proffessionals. It's not an easy desicion, being trans and deciding to socially and medically transition is potentially saying goodbye to safety in a lot of places and many loved ones. Trans healthcare decreases suicide attempts by over 40%. The imagined possibility of a lot more detransitioning cases in 20 years is overshadowed by the fact that trans healthcare saves lifes. Alive we at least get the chance to regret something.
@@arronthomas68 It's truly astonishing how you seem to think you know better than the person in the video about their own happiness and identity. Your analogy comparing a young trans man's journey to substance abuse is not only misguided but deeply offensive. Unlike your baseless assumptions, this young man is living his truth and showing more courage and authenticity than most people ever will. Watching someone embrace their true self is far from "abuse" or "predatory." In fact, the real abuse comes from forcing people into boxes that don't fit them. This young man radiates joy and confidence, which is a clear sign of someone who is thriving, not miserable. You wish no harm, yet your words are harmful. They perpetuate stigma and misunderstanding that can cause real pain and suffering. The medical community supports and understands the benefits of gender-affirming care, which has been shown to significantly improve the mental health and well-being of transgender individuals. Your comment reveals more about your ignorance and unwillingness to understand than it does about the life of the young man in the video. Perhaps instead of spreading negativity, you could take a moment to listen, learn, and appreciate the diversity of human experience. The trend you speak of isn't going away in 3-5 years because it's not a trend-it's people living their authentic lives. It's time to accept that and move on.
@@SleepInVomit yes, there is when you take testosteron (or estrogen if you are a trans woman), it starts a second puberty that ofc wouldn't be possible without the hormone therapy. your body goes through a second puberty and once it did, some changes from the hormone therapy are irreversible exactly BECAUSE your body went through that new puberty. also, it's definetly not a now type of thinking because a lot of trans people have to sacrifice things in the now. safety, friends and family (if they are hateful), sometimes even financial stability. those aren't things you give up just for funsies. it took me over 3 years of thinking and making sure i'm really trans until i came out to my family and for a person to start their medical transition, they have to talk to many doctors and therapists. those talks very much include reflecting about the future. i hope you start having more compassion for the things you may not fully understand. we dont ask anybody to fully get it, just treat us like you would any other human being, with respect and dignity.
@queeralcove 🙏❤ to be clear I am not against living as the opposite gender. It's just the medications and surgeries that scare the crap out of me from what my frnd experienced. I dont trust dr.s and big pharma.
i'm also 8 months on T and it's been a blast! so happy to hear that your experience has also been so positive :3 keep being you man
Blessings on your journey, brother! I love your positivity and admire your desire to share your journey with the world!
nice hat! i wish you the best of luck on your journey :)
Poor kid. :( i think ur awesome the way u are. Wish u could love yourself without going through all that.
if you truly thought he was awesome the way he is, you'd be happy that he finally found himself and is able to blossom through a, i'm guessing much wanted and needed, second puberty! it's quite a wonderful thing and more often than not tied to many happy feelings :D being trans wouldn't be so hard if it weren't for systemic discrimination and people trying to drag us down whereever we go. medical transition saves lifes and i hope someday you will see the beauty of it too for those who's journey was set on this path.
@@skilldeadly8888 It's not trendy, people now just have more means to get what they need in some countries without them getting literally killed. Of course that will make detransitioning cases pop up more often. It's like being surprised that more people get into car accidents if a population has a higher number of cars. I'm not sure if you understand how hard it is to get access to trans healthcare such as HRT, even in countries where it's not criminalized. The process is long and you talk to many psychological and medical proffessionals. It's not an easy desicion, being trans and deciding to socially and medically transition is potentially saying goodbye to safety in a lot of places and many loved ones. Trans healthcare decreases suicide attempts by over 40%. The imagined possibility of a lot more detransitioning cases in 20 years is overshadowed by the fact that trans healthcare saves lifes. Alive we at least get the chance to regret something.
@@arronthomas68 It's truly astonishing how you seem to think you know better than the person in the video about their own happiness and identity. Your analogy comparing a young trans man's journey to substance abuse is not only misguided but deeply offensive. Unlike your baseless assumptions, this young man is living his truth and showing more courage and authenticity than most people ever will.
Watching someone embrace their true self is far from "abuse" or "predatory." In fact, the real abuse comes from forcing people into boxes that don't fit them. This young man radiates joy and confidence, which is a clear sign of someone who is thriving, not miserable.
You wish no harm, yet your words are harmful. They perpetuate stigma and misunderstanding that can cause real pain and suffering. The medical community supports and understands the benefits of gender-affirming care, which has been shown to significantly improve the mental health and well-being of transgender individuals.
Your comment reveals more about your ignorance and unwillingness to understand than it does about the life of the young man in the video. Perhaps instead of spreading negativity, you could take a moment to listen, learn, and appreciate the diversity of human experience. The trend you speak of isn't going away in 3-5 years because it's not a trend-it's people living their authentic lives. It's time to accept that and move on.
@@SleepInVomit yes, there is when you take testosteron (or estrogen if you are a trans woman), it starts a second puberty that ofc wouldn't be possible without the hormone therapy. your body goes through a second puberty and once it did, some changes from the hormone therapy are irreversible exactly BECAUSE your body went through that new puberty. also, it's definetly not a now type of thinking because a lot of trans people have to sacrifice things in the now. safety, friends and family (if they are hateful), sometimes even financial stability. those aren't things you give up just for funsies. it took me over 3 years of thinking and making sure i'm really trans until i came out to my family and for a person to start their medical transition, they have to talk to many doctors and therapists. those talks very much include reflecting about the future. i hope you start having more compassion for the things you may not fully understand. we dont ask anybody to fully get it, just treat us like you would any other human being, with respect and dignity.
@queeralcove 🙏❤ to be clear I am not against living as the opposite gender. It's just the medications and surgeries that scare the crap out of me from what my frnd experienced. I dont trust dr.s and big pharma.
This got to the wrong side of UA-cam 💀
Most of the world is the “wrong side of youtube” you just don’t like when people outside your echo chamber say things you disagree with