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Most of the world is the “wrong side of youtube” you just don’t like when people outside your echo chamber say things you disagree with

if you truly thought he was awesome the way he is, you'd be happy that he finally found himself and is able to blossom through a, i'm guessing much wanted and needed, second puberty! it's quite a wonderful thing and more often than not tied to many happy feelings :D being trans wouldn't be so hard if it weren't for systemic discrimination and people trying to drag us down whereever we go. medical transition saves lifes and i hope someday you will see the beauty of it too for those who's journey was set on this path.

@@skilldeadly8888 It's not trendy, people now just have more means to get what they need in some countries without them getting literally killed. Of course that will make detransitioning cases pop up more often. It's like being surprised that more people get into car accidents if a population has a higher number of cars. I'm not sure if you understand how hard it is to get access to trans healthcare such as HRT, even in countries where it's not criminalized. The process is long and you talk to many psychological and medical proffessionals. It's not an easy desicion, being trans and deciding to socially and medically transition is potentially saying goodbye to safety in a lot of places and many loved ones. Trans healthcare decreases suicide attempts by over 40%. The imagined possibility of a lot more detransitioning cases in 20 years is overshadowed by the fact that trans healthcare saves lifes. Alive we at least get the chance to regret something.

​@@arronthomas68 It's truly astonishing how you seem to think you know better than the person in the video about their own happiness and identity. Your analogy comparing a young trans man's journey to substance abuse is not only misguided but deeply offensive. Unlike your baseless assumptions, this young man is living his truth and showing more courage and authenticity than most people ever will. Watching someone embrace their true self is far from "abuse" or "predatory." In fact, the real abuse comes from forcing people into boxes that don't fit them. This young man radiates joy and confidence, which is a clear sign of someone who is thriving, not miserable. You wish no harm, yet your words are harmful. They perpetuate stigma and misunderstanding that can cause real pain and suffering. The medical community supports and understands the benefits of gender-affirming care, which has been shown to significantly improve the mental health and well-being of transgender individuals. Your comment reveals more about your ignorance and unwillingness to understand than it does about the life of the young man in the video. Perhaps instead of spreading negativity, you could take a moment to listen, learn, and appreciate the diversity of human experience. The trend you speak of isn't going away in 3-5 years because it's not a trend-it's people living their authentic lives. It's time to accept that and move on.

@@SleepInVomit yes, there is when you take testosteron (or estrogen if you are a trans woman), it starts a second puberty that ofc wouldn't be possible without the hormone therapy. your body goes through a second puberty and once it did, some changes from the hormone therapy are irreversible exactly BECAUSE your body went through that new puberty. also, it's definetly not a now type of thinking because a lot of trans people have to sacrifice things in the now. safety, friends and family (if they are hateful), sometimes even financial stability. those aren't things you give up just for funsies. it took me over 3 years of thinking and making sure i'm really trans until i came out to my family and for a person to start their medical transition, they have to talk to many doctors and therapists. those talks very much include reflecting about the future. i hope you start having more compassion for the things you may not fully understand. we dont ask anybody to fully get it, just treat us like you would any other human being, with respect and dignity.

​@queeralcove 🙏❤ to be clear I am not against living as the opposite gender. It's just the medications and surgeries that scare the crap out of me from what my frnd experienced. I dont trust dr.s and big pharma.

All but birth certificate

Lots of things i could say, but im just gonna ask why did you care to leave a comment on this and criticize him for no reason

girl did you have a stroke wtf are you saying

You asssume that people reject these ideas because we fear, are uncomfortable with or are frightened by "discovering new information" or have personal issues that we need to reflect on. That's a huge assumption to make. It never occurs to you that some people have just come to a different conclusion than you after looking at the information. You should also consider that disagreement is not a personal attack, and that other people are entitled to critique and reject these ideas, because they're not just about you and your personal 'identity', but about all of us and how we're defined, including in policy and law. The rest of your comment was unneccesary. We all know supposed 'trans' people are just people like anyone else. That's not the issue. The issue is these ideas and how the effect all of our lives and rights.

​@Mel-wn9gb well stated when you disagree boom it either leads to condescending comments that your illiterate or a called a bigot, a dinosaur. When did having mental core morbidities become the norm.

Nah, hormones have been prescribed since the 60s saying it's sketchy when there's decades of research is just unnecessary. You're allowed to be ignorant about something you haven't researched or experienced but don't act like an authority making up facts. It's not helpful and all it does is undermine your opinion. Whether you're lying intentionally or just repeating something you've heard somewhere, you come off like you feel other people shouldn't go on hormones because it makes you feel uncomfortable rather than there being any scientific reasoning behind your concern. Trans people who feel that hormones are necessary to their own comfort and health does not negatively impact you in any way. Telling trans people they're hurting themselves while they're doing something that makes them feel normal does not help anyone.

That’s like me saying “you don’t have to be gay, find uniqueness and live a life of celibacy”. I’m sure you can get therapy and eventually feel comfortable living without your gay thoughts. Sounds nice? No. That would be hateful and toxic. Sounds like the call is coming from inside the house.

When I first heard of the term cis I was upset for about one day. Then I got over it. I suggest you try to figure out why you feel the way you do about the term.

"Cis" is not a slur. It's a term used to describe people who are not trans. It is used because trans people are not an exception to "normal", and all cis means is that you're not trans. When you try to make that term seem like an attack on you, I have questions about how you see trans people in relation to "normalcy", which itself is a man-made concept. Besides, I think I'd rather have the "slurs" used against me relate to a matter-of-fact description of what I am than to be called "tranny", "trooner", "heshe", "faggot", or "groomer".

Cisgender is a term that has nothing to do with "sissy", I actually wonder if it may predate that notion. I don't know. I've been hearing the word and using the word cis for two decades and only just this week saw another man comment that cis and sissy sound similar. To me they very much do not. But that could be the accents I live around. You would have to do a fair bit of mental gymnastics to make the connection. I like in New Zealand, originally from UK so there's a lot of accents 😂. Also I'm speaking as someone who HAS ACTUALLY been called sissy as an insult / attempt at a slur. They are not the same. When you are actually called a slur you will know about it. It is horrible. Anyways cis is not a slur. When I hear it I just think "oh a non trans person, cool, got it." Or I think nothing at all. The vast majority of people do not care.

@@theythemgae9025 Just because a vast majority of people don't think or care about a subject, that doesn't mean the subject is not important or relevant. There's a reason that people have recently been labelled as 'cis' and it's not simply to describe the alleged state of being 'not trans'. That's not a definition or the definition of 'cis'. 'Cisgender' means we have a supposed 'gender' that 'corresponds' with our sex. The term is designed to normalize and naturalize the concept of 'gender' as though it's an innate aspect of all humans. It's not. It's literal sex stereotyping, which is sexism - an ideology, not a fact.

@ georgeharrison2795 Cis is not a term used to denigrate men. That seems like a very odd thing to say IMO. "Cis" is an antonym of "trans". The prefix "cis" comes from Latin, it means "On this side of". It's referring to someone who identifies as the same gender they were assigned at birth. Cisgender refers to both men and women who identify as the same gender they were assigned at birth. "Trans" is an antonym of "cis". The prefix "trans" comes from Latin, it means "across, beyond, through, on the other side of". It's referring to someone who identifies as a gender other than the one they were assigned at birth. Transgender refers to both men and women who identify as a gender other than the one they were assigned at birth.

Average 14 year old finds out about trans peoples existence:

Matthew 6:5-7

I will pray for you. Pray to the horned one. May they guide you to the light. ❤

Those comments aren't weird, its a reality that many young people are facing because they're falsely told that they need to change their gender to find solace instead of being helped to work through the mental struggles. As multiple commenters have already said, transitioning is being pushed so heavily on people who are already in a vunerable headspace as is. To me, that's predatory. Call it "false concern", I call it sad.