I definately can relate to this comment! 24/7 "fucking worthless bitch or cunt" as I supported him 100%. He "borrowed th3 money -$15000+ from me. I made side by side payments for 7 months... bought every bit of food snuff beer and his other bad habits. His clothes, blankets and sheets and towels and washcloths. All baby and cleaning wipes paper plates bowls silverware cups cooking items etc I paid for shingles and tar paper to roof the building as the ceiling leaks and bleach to kill the black mold in the walls the ceiling attic etc new waterproof flooring and paint and tons of cleaning supplies. I paid for all his fuel for farming and logging and paid 1269.00 for a logging permit I paid for EVERYTHING... and he has not paid for a single can of pop for me. This was supposed to ALL be a loan... I have yet to see any sort of attempt to pay me back and it's been a year. I was in a leg cast and broken finger from abuse. Have completely destroyed 2 pairs of prescription glasses that were smashed into my face then stomped on on the floorr... he drilled into my head that Noone likes me including any of his friends, my friends and especially my own family. An entire 15 months of this and he makes me want to just die. But he won't win. In 3 weeks I'm leaving for Las Vegas without him. He won't get another penny out of me... even if his life depends on it! I'm just DONE!!!
How Are U all doing today? I Hope that you all Are okay . Remember that you have the power to heal! ❤ i believe everyone deserves love . Peace be with U all May the universe bless U all
I was abused when I was 9 by my ex. He always hit me and nearly broke my arm. I always had bruises up and down my body from him. I no longer talk to him anymore and when I do its just texting now. I'm glad to finally have a song I can relate to❤ ty
I'm a survivor of DV with diagnosed PTSD. Thank you for this song its beautiful and resignates so much! I could listen to it all day ❤ #id rather have nobody then someone like you! Amen 🙏 1year out and will happily be on my own forever
I relate to this so much. This is my story. I told my husband the same exact things you say in this song. I found it because my husband sent it to me. He was on the run from the law because I finally called them last Friday. It hasn't even been a week. I can still feel the bruises he left last Friday. They haven't healed yet. He was running to Texas and a perfect stranger showed him this song and disappeared. He showed it to me. I've had it on repeat all day. Thank you. You hit the nail right on the head with this song.
I hope you get your kids get back into your care . I have no kids everyday i get beat and i can only imagine having kids and not being able to let go THIS SONG HITS ME HARD . EVEN WOMAN BEAT UP WOMAN ITS NOT JUST MEN ... THESE PEOPLE HAVE ISSUES I LIVE IN A NIGHTMARE EVERYDAY
Its takes so much strength to get over being in a abused relationship. Sometimes it's hard to get away from the one that thinks it's OK to put his hands on a woman. Unless you have Bern through something like that then NO ONE WONT EVER UNDERSTAND OR NO HOW IT FEELS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP RIP FOR THE WOMAN THAT DIDT THAT WERE KILLED BY A BF OR HUSBAND❤❤❤❤
Never going back amen 🙏 I was In abuse relationship 9 years ago. God save me!! God is good 🙏 🙏🙏🙏 never going back to old me god broke those chains. Pray for anyone in that struggle have hope hang on god change your life he did with mine!! All glory goes to you god amen 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🪽🪽🪽
This is relatable and thank you for raising some awareness, we need this song for more awareness. I've been a victim for 9 months started when i was 17 yrs till 18yrs. When even my family tried to make me aware that he is a bad guy but i ignored since i 'loved him' (since thats not love by treating me like that since probably I was blinded by love ) but thankfully I am with my family, and taking care for my health.❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for this. I was in a 5yr relationship that was domestic violence to me and his own child and SA to me. As a survivor I will never go back or put me or my child though that ever again. I am stronger now than I was then but I pray every day my daughter doesn't go through this
Hard lesson to learn, but i am never gonna sacrifice my health and love, cause someone cant love and wants alot of attention outside the relationship. Selflove, selfrespect and boundaries to toxic people.
Thank you for the song one of my friends sent it to me awhile back and I just listened to it and honestly I have been through domestic abuse bruises, cuts and even nearly lost my life trying to do the right thing when I was with my abuser
I'm so proud of you for holding on. I'm sorry you were treated wrong... more proof as to why God is the only one that can truly love you unconditionally 🙏 @Hy_chu_official we would love you to pray with you, or be your encouragement. God bless you queen
Feel u so much I didn't think I would make it out alive but I did and I'm so thankful over 3 years free now my x destroyed everything about the person I once was still putting fragments back together but I'm so proud of the woman I am today struggle with ptsd and all the trauma I went through but every day I keep going I'm sorry you or anyone had to go through that it's a long road to come back from just know your life matters everything that came out of there mouth was a lie and u will make it through u are a warrior
@@analicialachance50 no one deserves it and I'm glad you have come so far and I would also like to thank you for the encouraging words I appreciate it ☺️ and I have ptsd as well as anxiety and major depressive disorder from everything that happened to me and despite it I'm trying to help others here in my hometown as well as others around the world
It's easier said than done but if we expect God to forgive us can we need to forgive each other because the devil wants us to hate and to live with that resentment to the day that we die and Fry. So we need to let go and let God. Easier said than done. LET GO AND LET GOD!
I'm so sorry you went through this. I encourage you to follow us and be apart of our community @Hy_chu_official We love you, and no matter what you went through. God loves you and wants to build a relationship with you 🙏
This song gave me the motivation to walk away from a 14yr marriage 😢 i related to these words it just hit me the first time i heard it then over and over got up packed up me and my baby and ran out haveent looked back since 6months ago
Ive been thier and always went back i was yong and stupid then but the last time i said i never go back and i didy he was a liser and abuser 😢 thank u this is great
This song is accurate it gets worse the longer you stay and it can be hard to leave because you feel your heart is with that person it's called having a trauma bond
Im a survivor i was 17 now im 28 and still suffer i just cant trust any guy because of what he did to me I'm lucky to get away but unfortunately im sure our daughter will ask questions i hate my body because of him 11 years down line now suffer with severe anxiety and severe depression all because of him but i was made out to be a liar even when i had all the proof joys of living where i am police did nothing 😞
I'm so sorry for what you went through. Unfortunately, there are a lot of disrespectful men out there. Follow us on Instagram and be a part of healing @Hy_chu_official. God desires to heal your heart and build a close relationship with you. He loves you so much and would never hurt you 🙏🫶
the justice system might as well rename themselves the injustice system also the police here did nothing either (I don't have a partner but both my parents are Psychopaths)
@Madison0193 honestly they came out and saw the damage he did to me and they went and saw him he admitted to the lot and he didn't get arrested he got away with it all my mum wanted to kill him but i told her to leave it with the police but clearly i was wrong to believe they'd do anything 😔
My hole live I've been abused abusive left out of family friends kids life's time you don't get back or have no time to do things with never take things for granted God blessed 3:13
Just left a domestic situation. Always told myself he wouls never hit me. But the day came and i asked dor a divorce because i was done with him controlling my every move and all the money that came in and having to ask if i could do something or go somewhere and he hit me. I was to stunned to do anything. Now im sittinf her questioning if i had made the right choice to have the cops called and charges pressed or the divorce.
I was abused mentally and physically in front of my kids when they were small busted eyes , stabbed, choked, busted nose and he cheated on me all the time
So sorry that you went through that. God truly loves you and wants to have a relationship with you. ❤ I pray you're in a better position now. And if you're not, we're always here to support and encourage you. Follow us on Instagram or reach out to us @Hy_chu_official
I was there as well, brother. I would love to talk to you. Follow my Instagram and we'll talk, brother. Love you, there is healing for you, let's process some things 🙏 Hy_chu_official
🙏🏽💯 20 years!! And it's Not Just Physical abuse!! To all Ladies who STAND THEIR GROUND, I praise you. But let's be honest here, Women can be abusing Men, maybe not as bad but if she isn't physically abusing him, she is bringing him to his lowest. I am not here for any agree to disagree replies. I'm stating the facts.
as a woman just validating what you’ve said… men are taught they can’t be abused and to admit it means they arnt ‘ man’ enough…….this is a lie everyone seems to believe… thankyou for being man enough to not be shamed into a false narrative ❤❤
I'd rather be hit,then memional torment and I'd rather someone fight for me with me over me and feel like someone will ever love me as much as I do them unconditional but I know I have that with my kids or at least I hope so at least them and my family
I'm currently serving probation for beening a domestic violent partner when I got caught up they nailed me with assault with weapon felony can carry 21 & a half years in state pin but got deferred sentence and 3 years on probation with no mess ups than I can get off at a year and a half I'm almost at my two year mark I got almost a year left I did mess up again by doing drugs and drinking on probation so I have to serve the whole three years. If I mess up anymore I go to state pin
Hit me up brotha! God loves u, I'm grateful your not booked the rest of your life. There is forgiveness fam. Me and my team would love to pray with u 🙏 909-677-3187 @Hy_chu_official
Dealing with PTSD because of abuse honestly i dont want to wake up tomorrow i have so many scars physical and mental i just want to die in my sleep cos then its not my fault for leaving mum
I feel the same way but you have to fight! Don’t let them do this to you! I know it’s hard. I have the physical and mental scars too but we can get back to a happier self and learn to love ourself again. Please reach out for help! Too many lives are lost because of suicide and lack of self worth. You mean more to people than you realize. We are not a burden we are human and need help finding ourselves again. There are people who care you just have to look and ask for help ❤
Please contact me! Queen, you are worth so much. I know it's a tough season. But please know it's not forever. You are needed here. God truly loves you, give me a call or follow me. Me and my team would love to pray with you 🙏🫶 909-677-3187 @Hy_chu_official
I was abused. Broken collar bone and ribs. Black eyes and bruises all over. All those heal but the hurtful words never go away.
I definately can relate to this comment! 24/7 "fucking worthless bitch or cunt" as I supported him 100%. He "borrowed th3 money -$15000+ from me. I made side by side payments for 7 months... bought every bit of food snuff beer and his other bad habits. His clothes, blankets and sheets and towels and washcloths. All baby and cleaning wipes paper plates bowls silverware cups cooking items etc I paid for shingles and tar paper to roof the building as the ceiling leaks and bleach to kill the black mold in the walls the ceiling attic etc new waterproof flooring and paint and tons of cleaning supplies. I paid for all his fuel for farming and logging and paid 1269.00 for a logging permit I paid for EVERYTHING... and he has not paid for a single can of pop for me. This was supposed to ALL be a loan... I have yet to see any sort of attempt to pay me back and it's been a year. I was in a leg cast and broken finger from abuse. Have completely destroyed 2 pairs of prescription glasses that were smashed into my face then stomped on on the floorr... he drilled into my head that Noone likes me including any of his friends, my friends and especially my own family. An entire 15 months of this and he makes me want to just die. But he won't win. In 3 weeks I'm leaving for Las Vegas without him. He won't get another penny out of me... even if his life depends on it! I'm just DONE!!!
I feel this I almost died a month ago
You are important
How Are U all doing today? I Hope that you all Are okay . Remember that you have the power to heal! ❤ i believe everyone deserves love . Peace be with U all
May the universe bless U all
Your right I hope your okay now
I was abused when I was 9 by my ex. He always hit me and nearly broke my arm. I always had bruises up and down my body from him. I no longer talk to him anymore and when I do its just texting now. I'm glad to finally have a song I can relate to❤ ty
I'm a survivor of DV with diagnosed PTSD. Thank you for this song its beautiful and resignates so much! I could listen to it all day ❤
#id rather have nobody then someone like you! Amen 🙏 1year out and will happily be on my own forever
I relate to this so much. This is my story. I told my husband the same exact things you say in this song. I found it because my husband sent it to me. He was on the run from the law because I finally called them last Friday. It hasn't even been a week. I can still feel the bruises he left last Friday. They haven't healed yet. He was running to Texas and a perfect stranger showed him this song and disappeared. He showed it to me. I've had it on repeat all day. Thank you. You hit the nail right on the head with this song.
3 years ago I went though domestic violence, I was bashed and lost my kids in my care still fighting them to come home I hate it
I’ll be keeping you in my prayers I’m so sorry your going through that, i can relate 😔
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I hope you get your kids get back into your care .
I have no kids everyday i get beat and i can only imagine having kids and not being able to let go
THIS SONG HITS ME HARD .
EVEN WOMAN BEAT UP WOMAN ITS NOT JUST MEN ... THESE PEOPLE HAVE ISSUES I LIVE IN A NIGHTMARE EVERYDAY
Keep your head up @samannthamatthews I'm going thru it too
@@joycelinnhalff it's so hard
Thank you for this song i was a victim of domestic violence but i am now a survivor i will never go back
Amen! To God be the glory 🙏
Me I am a surveyor to.
Always remember that you are beautiful and amazing and always remember your worth. 😊❤
Its takes so much strength to get over being in a abused relationship. Sometimes it's hard to get away from the one that thinks it's OK to put his hands on a woman. Unless you have Bern through something like that then NO ONE WONT EVER UNDERSTAND OR NO HOW IT FEELS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP
RIP FOR THE WOMAN THAT DIDT THAT WERE KILLED BY A BF OR HUSBAND❤❤❤❤
Omg 😢
Never going back amen 🙏 I was In abuse relationship 9 years ago. God save me!! God is good 🙏 🙏🙏🙏 never going back to old me god broke those chains. Pray for anyone in that struggle have hope hang on god change your life he did with mine!! All glory goes to you god amen 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🪽🪽🪽
God is so good, isn't he? I'm proud of you Woman of God that you've made it this far. God bless you and your journey!! 🙏🙏✝️
Yes our god is good🙌
Amen
@@hychuofficial337❤this so deep
This is relatable and thank you for raising some awareness, we need this song for more awareness. I've been a victim for 9 months started when i was 17 yrs till 18yrs. When even my family tried to make me aware that he is a bad guy but i ignored since i 'loved him' (since thats not love by treating me like that since probably I was blinded by love ) but thankfully I am with my family, and taking care for my health.❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for this. I was in a 5yr relationship that was domestic violence to me and his own child and SA to me. As a survivor I will never go back or put me or my child though that ever again. I am stronger now than I was then but I pray every day my daughter doesn't go through this
Rabbit hole brought me here and im glad. New sub. Thank you from a Survivor
Hard lesson to learn, but i am never gonna sacrifice my health and love, cause someone cant love and wants alot of attention outside the relationship. Selflove, selfrespect and boundaries to toxic people.
Thank you for the song one of my friends sent it to me awhile back and I just listened to it and honestly I have been through domestic abuse bruises, cuts and even nearly lost my life trying to do the right thing when I was with my abuser
I'm so proud of you for holding on. I'm sorry you were treated wrong... more proof as to why God is the only one that can truly love you unconditionally 🙏 @Hy_chu_official we would love you to pray with you, or be your encouragement. God bless you queen
Feel u so much I didn't think I would make it out alive but I did and I'm so thankful over 3 years free now my x destroyed everything about the person I once was still putting fragments back together but I'm so proud of the woman I am today struggle with ptsd and all the trauma I went through but every day I keep going I'm sorry you or anyone had to go through that it's a long road to come back from just know your life matters everything that came out of there mouth was a lie and u will make it through u are a warrior
@@hychuofficial337 I'd greatly appreciate it thank you rn I actually help others who have been through what I have here where I'm at
@@analicialachance50 no one deserves it and I'm glad you have come so far and I would also like to thank you for the encouraging words I appreciate it ☺️ and I have ptsd as well as anxiety and major depressive disorder from everything that happened to me and despite it I'm trying to help others here in my hometown as well as others around the world
I go through emotional abuse where everything is my fault
I would to pray for you brother! Please reach out @Hy_chu_official
As do I, but it's life. We just have to learn to live day by day and find our own happiness within ourselves
There is healing, I know it's tough sometimes. Please get into contact with me on instagram @Hy_chu_official
Always remember your worth xxx
I feel there
It's easier said than done but if we expect God to forgive us can we need to forgive each other because the devil wants us to hate and to live with that resentment to the day that we die and Fry. So we need to let go and let God. Easier said than done. LET GO AND LET GOD!
I was abused by my baby daddy and it was constant pain I still deal with flashbacks and nightmares on a daily and nightly basis
I'm so sorry you went through this. I encourage you to follow us and be apart of our community @Hy_chu_official
We love you, and no matter what you went through. God loves you and wants to build a relationship with you 🙏
Yeah… 😞💔 so hard to say goodbye…😢
Wow. I just found you after listening to Jaktekz new song. I've felt that. Incredible.
This song gave me the motivation to walk away from a 14yr marriage 😢 i related to these words it just hit me the first time i heard it then over and over got up packed up me and my baby and ran out haveent looked back since 6months ago
It's about time someone created a song like this❤❤❤
Tired of the truth not being told! 💯🫶🙏
@@hychuofficial337 you should team up Sky Dxddy.....
Amen .. I’m blessed thank you for letting me go there are different types of abusive, he cheated , lied .. Freedom I have now .. 🙏
I'm a domestic violence survivor of 17 years I love this song ❤❤❤
Ive been thier and always went back i was yong and stupid then but the last time i said i never go back and i didy he was a liser and abuser 😢 thank u this is great
This is the first time I heard the song. It hit me hard.
God loves ou and understands you hey you matter and you are beautifully and wonderfully made in the image of God❤❤ you are enough!!
I just pray truth be said not hald back and respected and worth as much as I know I am
This song is accurate it gets worse the longer you stay and it can be hard to leave because you feel your heart is with that person it's called having a trauma bond
I needed this and Narcist song by that one lady 💔
Words,some hands and controling
Awesome message 🙏🏼🙌🏼 and of course love the song itself
I wasn't only in a physically abusive relationship it was also mentally and emotionally as a freshman in highschool
I'm so sorry. That's tough queen. Please follow me @Hy_chu_official
We would love to support you and pray with you! God wanted you to see this for a reason. Let him heal your heart
Im a survivor i was 17 now im 28 and still suffer i just cant trust any guy because of what he did to me I'm lucky to get away but unfortunately im sure our daughter will ask questions i hate my body because of him 11 years down line now suffer with severe anxiety and severe depression all because of him but i was made out to be a liar even when i had all the proof joys of living where i am police did nothing 😞
I'm so sorry for what you went through. Unfortunately, there are a lot of disrespectful men out there. Follow us on Instagram and be a part of healing @Hy_chu_official. God desires to heal your heart and build a close relationship with you. He loves you so much and would never hurt you 🙏🫶
the justice system might as well rename themselves the injustice system also the police here did nothing either (I don't have a partner but both my parents are Psychopaths)
my dad is a Psychopath, my mother is a Covert Narcissist Psychopath
@Madison0193 honestly they came out and saw the damage he did to me and they went and saw him he admitted to the lot and he didn't get arrested he got away with it all my mum wanted to kill him but i told her to leave it with the police but clearly i was wrong to believe they'd do anything 😔
@@staceygrainger7688 Wow he admitted to what he did? And still got away? Psychopaths defend other Psychopaths FR, those cops should be fired
damn... when a song hits home...
Yes, keep sharing and keep the word going 👍
2 weeks out had broken arm , bruises , sa , finger had to have surgery , head stiched up and now I’m just a empty shell he’s took it all from me
Domestic is not only hitting but grab or sexual abuse. Thank you for sharing. My exes where physical abusive
I'm sorry for the experience queen. I pray complete healing sis. Thank u for sharing and being bold 🙏
@@hychuofficial337 thank you. God gave me a great man.
@@hychuofficial337 I have severe moderate carpal tunnel. I am 24 years old
Thank you
My hole live I've been abused abusive left out of family friends kids life's time you don't get back or have no time to do things with never take things for granted God blessed 3:13
Keep sharing
thats clean man. keep going G
I am proud person become 12 years on from dv marriage my life is best it can be without him God save my life god 🙏 is amazing amen
I was in abusive relationship of 5 years with my children's dad he kept on saying sorry, i finally got out of it but all the triggers come back of it
I really needed this song, thank you
To God be the glory fr 🙏🙏
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The lyrics to this are amazing
I love how you involve God
Just left a domestic situation. Always told myself he wouls never hit me. But the day came and i asked dor a divorce because i was done with him controlling my every move and all the money that came in and having to ask if i could do something or go somewhere and he hit me. I was to stunned to do anything. Now im sittinf her questioning if i had made the right choice to have the cops called and charges pressed or the divorce.
Hey sis! I would love to pray with you and support you with my team during this time! Dm @Hy_chu_official
Survivvor 2 the fullest -n- those words are so true😢
I've lost count of all the domestic violence refuges I've been in broken bones mind and soul 😢
Great song thank you
I was abused mentally and physically in front of my kids when they were small busted eyes , stabbed, choked, busted nose and he cheated on me all the time
So sorry that you went through that. God truly loves you and wants to have a relationship with you. ❤ I pray you're in a better position now. And if you're not, we're always here to support and encourage you. Follow us on Instagram or reach out to us @Hy_chu_official
Im sorry you went thru that stay strong !!
Thank you for this 🖤
Male victim here 10 years ago now and still struggling to carry on daily. Just feel down 24/7 tbh.
I was there as well, brother. I would love to talk to you. Follow my Instagram and we'll talk, brother. Love you, there is healing for you, let's process some things 🙏 Hy_chu_official
Love this!!
I was abused. He abused his ex wife and now me… and both of us were the “crazy ones”
🙏🏽💯 20 years!! And it's Not Just Physical abuse!! To all Ladies who STAND THEIR GROUND, I praise you.
But let's be honest here, Women can be abusing Men, maybe not as bad but if she isn't physically abusing him, she is bringing him to his lowest.
I am not here for any agree to disagree replies. I'm stating the facts.
as a woman just validating what you’ve said… men are taught they can’t be abused and to admit it means they arnt ‘ man’ enough…….this is a lie everyone seems to believe… thankyou for being man enough to not be shamed into a false narrative ❤❤
Never going back
Great song
When will it stop,why do we want whats hurts us the most . .just daydreaming about how it shouldve been .missing what we never had
I keep asking myself this everyday. I start to wonder if it's not love anymore but obsessive want or need to be with that person.
Especially with kids involved.
ReLate 😢
I just got away from physical mental and emotional abuse almost 2 years ago with my kids we kicked him out
Tells all his family im a bad person but im not i literally just talk and im in the wrong
There is healing sis! Follow me @Hy_chu_official
Two years ago I went thru back back dv from two different guy now I'm happy engaged ready for loved knowing he knows I want love b he patient with me
Been in a abuse relationship it took my lil boy ..
....time after time
I love you
@katieellis3758 All love back 🫶🙂
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I'd rather be hit,then memional torment and I'd rather someone fight for me with me over me and feel like someone will ever love me as much as I do them unconditional but I know I have that with my kids or at least I hope so at least them and my family
👍👍👍👍
I'm currently serving probation for beening a domestic violent partner when I got caught up they nailed me with assault with weapon felony can carry 21 & a half years in state pin but got deferred sentence and 3 years on probation with no mess ups than I can get off at a year and a half I'm almost at my two year mark I got almost a year left I did mess up again by doing drugs and drinking on probation so I have to serve the whole three years. If I mess up anymore I go to state pin
I originally caught the charge because I was drinking and doing drugs
Hit me up brotha! God loves u, I'm grateful your not booked the rest of your life. There is forgiveness fam. Me and my team would love to pray with u 🙏 909-677-3187
@Hy_chu_official
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Yeah me to
Dealing with PTSD because of abuse honestly i dont want to wake up tomorrow i have so many scars physical and mental i just want to die in my sleep cos then its not my fault for leaving mum
I feel the same way but you have to fight! Don’t let them do this to you! I know it’s hard. I have the physical and mental scars too but we can get back to a happier self and learn to love ourself again. Please reach out for help! Too many lives are lost because of suicide and lack of self worth. You mean more to people than you realize. We are not a burden we are human and need help finding ourselves again. There are people who care you just have to look and ask for help ❤
Please contact me! Queen, you are worth so much. I know it's a tough season. But please know it's not forever. You are needed here. God truly loves you, give me a call or follow me. Me and my team would love to pray with you 🙏🫶 909-677-3187
@Hy_chu_official
@hychuofficial337 God abandoned me a long time ago im happy that u still have God in ur life but for me God is gone.
😔
I'm in abusive relationship he so controlling toward me
had 2 baby's beat out of me that I had to watch suffer and die then had to Bury 😢
I was by my dad but his house so I was blamed for reacting
Collab
Follow me @Hy_chu_official
31 days
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@hychuofficial337 31 days since I left my abuser well now 32
Amen!!!
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