SASSY ANSWERS to BURNING QUESTIONS: Skydive? Top Values? Divorce? Fav Meals? Difficult Days? PART 2

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  • @SassyMashaVlogs
    @SassyMashaVlogs  3 роки тому +284

    Thank you again for all these questions! Honestly some of these helped me clear my head and give myself answers as I was speaking, so thank you for this reflecting opportunity! :) Hugs
    00:00 Hello again
    00:28 Sky diving?
    02:08 Asmr life difference
    04:33 Felling like yourself again
    07:54 Advice on what to do in life
    09:42 Mila activities
    11:27 Difficult days
    12:55 Favorite meals
    13:41 Family vlogs taken down
    14:28 Marriage after baby
    16:09 How am I so calm
    18:37 Ex divorce
    21:21 Top values in life

    • @happytobealivelulu1587
      @happytobealivelulu1587 3 роки тому +5

      Jesus Christ loves you and has a plan for your life 🙏

    • @happytobealivelulu1587
      @happytobealivelulu1587 3 роки тому +3

      "When you go through deep waters and great trouble, I will be with you. When you go through the fire of oppression, you will not be burned up- the flames will not consume you".
      ISAIAH 43:2

    • @rachelchannels
      @rachelchannels 3 роки тому +3

      I love you so much, I'm your fan but I have to study! Aw, I still smoke and I have DDA but I be more better watching your videos of ASMR and I love everything you do. I had a badly divorce and I was alone and depressed but I'm okay now. I love you so so much! ( No Hate ) 😔👍

    • @kandiwilliams2535
      @kandiwilliams2535 3 роки тому +6

      Spot on Maria about the analytics and who is watching kids on YT and the internet. This is something that more ppl should speak about.... very scary!!! You are so bright and caring... have enjoyed listening to you for years.. ty!

    • @bs-vo1ii
      @bs-vo1ii 3 роки тому +2

      I totally understand with the family videos, MANY people have said the same thing. Creeps. Anywho- I hope you still take videos for yourselves!

  • @Emma.Evolve
    @Emma.Evolve 3 роки тому +469

    I’m so sorry that it has to come to taking the videos down. That sh*t make me so mad! It’s crazy how these creeps find ways to violate your space... thank you for the time they were up! Appreciated the laughter and joy you all had and shared with us ❣️

    • @MT-zm1yb
      @MT-zm1yb 3 роки тому +78

      Made me sick to my stomach at the thought. Humans can be so vile

    • @Yvonne_ennovY
      @Yvonne_ennovY 3 роки тому +4

      I agree 100% Emma Evolve!

    • @smithiebird07
      @smithiebird07 3 роки тому +31

      Well said. As she was talking about that, I felt my hackles go up. Just pure primordial mom-rage.

    • @katsotiriou3264
      @katsotiriou3264 3 роки тому +25

      I completely agree nothing is sacred anymore or respected makes me sick that there are people out there who are so gross

    • @rachelsmyth9854
      @rachelsmyth9854 3 роки тому +25

      agreed. I never knew the analytics went that in depth!

  • @50hellkat2
    @50hellkat2 3 роки тому +287

    Maria your advice and genuine empathy for that woman who asked about how long it takes to get back to normal after having a baby was PERFECT.

    • @kasl624
      @kasl624 3 роки тому +5

      Agreed 100% ❤️

    • @asmrwithnat4747
      @asmrwithnat4747 3 роки тому +7

      Yes! So perfectly put. The new season of life really got me.

    • @linden5165
      @linden5165 3 роки тому +5

      I FELT it 🥰

    • @autumnrossi9719
      @autumnrossi9719 3 роки тому +6

      I was thinking the exact same thing, I welled up at that part for sure

    • @shawna.m
      @shawna.m 3 роки тому +5

      I cried

  • @JAZ1630
    @JAZ1630 3 роки тому +362

    As a mother I absolutely loved your family vlogs and miss them a lot. It so sad you had to remove them. I 100% respect and understand your decision though it’s sad there are those kind of people in the world.

    • @mg-zh3vw
      @mg-zh3vw 3 роки тому +25

      is she talking about p*dos? sorry im just confused:( thats so gross

    • @moldybongwater_
      @moldybongwater_ 3 роки тому +24

      @@mg-zh3vw most likely

    • @rachelsmyth9854
      @rachelsmyth9854 3 роки тому +1

      totally agreed

    • @mg-zh3vw
      @mg-zh3vw 3 роки тому +21

      @@moldybongwater_ thats so disgusting and disappointing 😔

    • @Scosian
      @Scosian 3 роки тому +2

      I didn’t know she had family vlogs x

  • @Thelifewithlacey
    @Thelifewithlacey 3 роки тому +54

    I totally understand taking down the family vlogs. Scary to think of all the daily family vloggers exploiting their kids and knowing their analytics.

  • @bumbleroo92
    @bumbleroo92 3 роки тому +261

    Oh my goodness! The part about the family Vlogs 😱 I catch your drift and omg I didn't even think about the creeps out there 😡 protect yourself and your family, mama! We love the Vlogs but your safety and comfort is most important! **virtual hugggsss**

    • @miarose8239
      @miarose8239 3 роки тому

      What was she talking about? I'm just confused

    • @bumbleroo92
      @bumbleroo92 3 роки тому +13

      @@miarose8239 I can't speak to the specific things she's observed necessarily, but suffice it to say there are creeps/dangerous people out there, especially when videos include small children 😡

    • @pammyb1316
      @pammyb1316 3 роки тому +4

      How sad that is.. wow I dont blame her one bit. We live in a sick world unfortunately .

    • @BurntOakSix
      @BurntOakSix 3 роки тому +5

      I caught what she was saying... I was horrified :(

  • @chloec6935
    @chloec6935 3 роки тому +108

    This might sound weird but I mean it as the biggest compliment ever: I realised watching this video that Maria has the same kind of grace and compassion as Princess Diana. So valuable and rare!

    • @auroramathi
      @auroramathi 3 роки тому +5

      wow, I agree.

    • @mmmmdani
      @mmmmdani 3 роки тому +6

      Both Cancers! ♋️

    • @abigailclemens7833
      @abigailclemens7833 3 роки тому +1

      @@mmmmdani i was gonna say!

    • @SheisGraceful
      @SheisGraceful 3 роки тому +4

      This is crazy. I just thought about it, exited the full screen mode and saw your comment!

  • @manuelamootsy6871
    @manuelamootsy6871 3 роки тому +28

    When she said "things scare me" that's a red flag on whose been watching them, and for how long. Being proactive in protecting your family especially as a UA-cam star, and a social media mogul, is a must. You truly are the ASMR queen. Be safe, be blessed.

  • @itsblitzzz
    @itsblitzzz 3 роки тому +285

    lollllll I have literally never wanted to sky dive but.....as someone who wears contacts and glasses this has convinced me I definitely never want to 😂

    • @clarisasoto9531
      @clarisasoto9531 3 роки тому

      I agree 😂

    • @MsWill92
      @MsWill92 3 роки тому +5

      I jumped in contacts with no problems!

    • @lbarnes05
      @lbarnes05 3 роки тому

      Hahaha! Same

    • @Evie534
      @Evie534 3 роки тому

      I jumped in contacts with zero issues. Glasses would be bad, I'm sure

  • @HayleyChit
    @HayleyChit 3 роки тому +138

    I swear I gain 20 IQ points every time I watch one of your sit-down-and-chat/ reflection videos! I love the way your mind works, and how well you're able to articulate your thoughts. You've been so open throughout the years about having had a difficult time in school, but as someone who always found school to be very easy and thought grades = intelligence for a long time, I just have to say... I LOVE how you think, and you have added so much value to my life by sharing your insight with us over the years ❤️I'm 27 now, but started watching your videos when I was 19, and I truly believe you've helped change the way I think for the better. THAT cannot be taught in school 😉and I appreciate you so much.

    • @lenah6731
      @lenah6731 3 роки тому +6

      Such a beautiful comment

    • @storeboughtramonaflowers
      @storeboughtramonaflowers 3 роки тому +6

      I'm in the exact boat, 10 years watching and I reflect on SO many things she said in her past/advice she's given so often. I am so very fond of Maria.

  • @xoJassy
    @xoJassy 3 роки тому +211

    Girl! I clicked so fast! I paused the Crown and everything 😂

    • @CherylCombs3917
      @CherylCombs3917 3 роки тому +11

      I paused a true crime documentary as soon as I got the notification 😂😂

    • @tamasv9825
      @tamasv9825 3 роки тому +19

      You just switching to to one queen to another queen🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @gigibautista7770
      @gigibautista7770 3 роки тому +3

      You paused the crown???? Damn 🤣🖤

    • @Blueberrypancakes888
      @Blueberrypancakes888 3 роки тому +1

      This.

  • @fionarhiannonpitbullextrao5786
    @fionarhiannonpitbullextrao5786 3 роки тому +87

    Maria, I fully respect the decision to take down the family videos. I 1,000,000,000% support your decision, you need to protect your daughter at all costs. You are a good mom, you love little Mila, and I totally get it. We all understand.

  • @user-ds5wz7ob4x
    @user-ds5wz7ob4x 3 роки тому +52

    When you answered Christina’s question it felt so genuine, human, and empathetic. It felt real and although I’ve never been through something like that your kindness shines bright

  • @katarzynakoza4411
    @katarzynakoza4411 3 роки тому +112

    You're wise woman. I think your honesty, especially considering motherhood, anxiety etc. can help many people. Your ASMR helps a lot, obiously, but you just being yourself, with your struggles is everything. You're great. Thank you for both of your channels. Greetings from Warsaw!

    • @Noella_Rouge
      @Noella_Rouge 3 роки тому +3

      This is soo true! These videos inspire me so much!

  • @mareek4471
    @mareek4471 3 роки тому +50

    I've always struggled with accepting love from anyone, like it's not something natural for me, but the way this woman approaches every question so dearly and genuinely feels for each person makes me feel so safe and warm inside

  • @lemonnade65
    @lemonnade65 3 роки тому +62

    I think the way you guys are raising Mila is wonderful - you clearly think about her and consider the best ways for her to develop and achieve her fullest potential, and that takes time and selflessness. Not all parents/adults are so dedicated and rather ask the children to accommodate to all their norms/attitudes. I remember you explainin long time ago how you let Mila help you prepare the meals even though it would take longer and things would be messier, but it would give her a sense of pride and importance, and she would be more eager to eat as well :) You should be proud!

    • @kaybee9210
      @kaybee9210 3 роки тому +3

      Agreed! I'm expecting my first child and I hope to be as good a mom as Maria. I truly am in awe of their little family.

  • @kelly21147
    @kelly21147 3 роки тому +44

    I'm not pregnant, have no kids - why do i feel so comforted from Maria's answer to Christina? 😅

  • @jessitschu1015
    @jessitschu1015 3 роки тому +10

    14:00 wow I’m so sorry to hear that. I think about the family channels that do full time vlogs and it really is scary. It’s important that we protect our children.

  • @mikanmandarin
    @mikanmandarin 3 роки тому +305

    Part two ALREADY?? We are SPOILED ROTTEN omg!!!

  • @savan1mal
    @savan1mal 3 роки тому +76

    It has been such a gift to get to know you over the past 9 or 10 years! I cannot believe it has been that long. You have brought so much peace to so many lives, and I appreciate you for all that you are. I feel like we are so similar. It would be awesome to meet you someday! Love you, Maria!

    • @Noella_Rouge
      @Noella_Rouge 3 роки тому +4

      Truer words have never been spoken! She is such a gem!

  • @Madelope
    @Madelope 3 роки тому +23

    You definitely are the big sister to the ASMR community!! It’s so cool to think you really started something that almost the entire WORLD has adopted. Simply amazing

  • @iamrobbyd
    @iamrobbyd 3 роки тому +67

    you’re the first asmrtist i discovered like 6 years ago and you always help me recenter, calm down, rest, and enjoy the little things in life. sending you ALL THE LOVE 💗💗💗💗

  • @myheartisahunter
    @myheartisahunter 3 роки тому +17

    It absolutely amazes me how beautiful your soul is. Every time. Sometimes I cry a little just because your kindness is so beautiful.
    Masha, you deserve only the best things in life and I wish you to have them all. Thank you.

  • @arielacrtz5105
    @arielacrtz5105 3 роки тому +48

    A 25 min video on my 30 min lunch????? The stars have aligned 😭😭 im genuinely so happy 😭💕💕

  • @luanacastorina3717
    @luanacastorina3717 3 роки тому +37

    Listening to you speak feels like talking to a friend. Thank you for being so careful in the way you speak and the words you choose.

  • @UniversoulLady
    @UniversoulLady 3 роки тому +32

    I think you should protect your family at all costs. The internet is a scary place so if it makes you feel safer not to share your family vlogs, don't do it. We support you either way!

  • @ashleyburgess
    @ashleyburgess 3 роки тому +2

    I first discovered you when my almost 7 year old was a little baby. I was feeling every way but normal, my narcolepsy symptoms started to become unmanageable, and you helped me through that rough time. Now my son crawls in to bed with me when he has a hard time sleeping and asks if we can listen to the blonde lady who whispers. I truly think he listened to you so much as a baby that you are his comfort now. It’s just subconscious for him. So now we plan “sleepovers” when Dad is on nights. We set up the pillows comfy in my bed and we prop up the phone and he picks one of your videos. I love when he says “this part makes my forehead feel mushy.” He gets the tingles just like me and it’s wonderful to see life come full circle for us, and you have a major part in that!

  • @syrenka9983
    @syrenka9983 3 роки тому +146

    I saw a cooment under one of your family vlogs warning you about putting your daughter in front of the camera in a diaper, and I thought, wow, people always have something to complain, its just a child! But it pains me, that you have seen that your videos have been abused, which I suppose is what you meant to say.. I am horrified and can not begin to imagine how that feels for you as parents.

    • @opeth7021
      @opeth7021 3 роки тому +2

      what happened?

    • @opeth7021
      @opeth7021 3 роки тому

      @@User-kz7ly2nb5b i hate humanity

  • @texasgirl5411
    @texasgirl5411 3 роки тому +11

    My eyes got teary when I heard the family vlogs. I’m A new mom of twins and that just mortified me. Can definitely relate to when people say they go into “mama bear mode” and wanting to protect their kids. So sorry that’s even an issue. Sending hugs. Xoxo

  • @haleycolaizzi2798
    @haleycolaizzi2798 3 роки тому +8

    Motherhood was the biggest challenge for me. I'm in love with my daughter who is almost 2, but wow, it was a huge struggle in the beginning. A support system is the biggest thing that can help. 💜

  • @michaelasomers7929
    @michaelasomers7929 3 роки тому +42

    i love your comment sections, you’ve created such a positive and supportive little corner of the internet

  • @lexii8211
    @lexii8211 3 роки тому +149

    OMG PART TWO 2 DAYS LATER?! 🥳 This momma is ready for baby’s nap time lmfao

  • @Stayandcee
    @Stayandcee 3 роки тому +1

    Jesus, postpartum depression is SO real. I am not a mom but have witnessed all my friends suffer and I will forever be there to empathize and support them through it ALL because I can not imagine my body doing ANY of that.

  • @pockyeatingpanda
    @pockyeatingpanda 3 роки тому +239

    Omg Maria talking about how happy she was to get divorced reminds me of those photos of Nicole Kidman smiling with her arms spread out in the sun after she divorced Tom Cruise 😆

    • @bs-vo1ii
      @bs-vo1ii 3 роки тому +11

      Every time I hear someone is getting divorced or is divorced recently I congratulate them! I'm sure some look at me weird but normally its not a good situation they were in anyway

    • @opeth7021
      @opeth7021 3 роки тому +4

      they were married?

    • @mariesabine2385
      @mariesabine2385 3 роки тому +2

      @@opeth7021 Yes they were! The 90s were an interesting decade lol

    • @opeth7021
      @opeth7021 3 роки тому

      @@mariesabine2385 i wish i was a 90's kid haha

    • @Nicole-kj2ze
      @Nicole-kj2ze 3 роки тому

      I was thinking of those same photos!

  • @lildoodle6081
    @lildoodle6081 3 роки тому +9

    Please make more videos like this! I’ve been neglecting cleaning my apartment for two months but today I put this video on while I got to work!!! I’ve done so much cleaning so far. Thank you 🥰

  • @SabrinaJohns
    @SabrinaJohns 3 роки тому +6

    Maria, the connection you have through the camera is one of the strongest connections I have ever seen from a UA-camr. It literally feels like I'm just catching up with a good friend! You are such a beautiful soul ❤️

  • @addiethomas8494
    @addiethomas8494 3 роки тому +4

    It makes me really sad that you felt the need to delete your family blogs because of others. I totally support you in making the decision to protect your family, I also admire you taking a drastic step to keep you and your family safe, I’m sure deleting those was hard. It sucks that we live in a world where this is even an issue...I hope things are well! I’ve watched you for almost ten years. Lots of love. ♥️

  • @littlelady.24
    @littlelady.24 3 роки тому +8

    I love her sweet personality also when she makes her ""sassy answer or sassy talks"" I love her realness. This woman is an inspiration😍
    I'm so thankful she chose to give us a tiny bit of her life to us with her asmr channel and with on this channel

  • @MakityBakity
    @MakityBakity 3 роки тому +15

    ASMR has been such an integral part of my mental health, especially in the pandemic. Thank you so much for all you do! :)

  • @timiahunt3465
    @timiahunt3465 3 роки тому +22

    I LOVE these videos. They still have triggers even though it’s not specifically an ASMR video! You’re my fave ASMRtist! Keep up the great work!!!

  • @hoolia
    @hoolia 3 роки тому +39

    two sasha masha vids in a few days, I’m living my best life

  • @SleepingWayASMR
    @SleepingWayASMR 3 роки тому +2

    Maria...it has been an honor to have seen you grow on your channel and as a person all these years. I remember those tough times during some of your early vlogs about your divorce/ex and to know you are soo much happier and you look and feel it too, it just makes me so happy for you. Literally you are glowing and your genuine personality is infectious to watch. Thank you for being a positive light in the Asmr community. You are loved. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @GirlinPursesuit
    @GirlinPursesuit 3 роки тому +3

    Maria, you have this incredible gift of making people feel like you're looking at them right in the eye over coffee and truly listening, feeling, and empathizing with them. Thank you for that, I love you and all of your content!

  • @danlakinjr9769
    @danlakinjr9769 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you I love you, and your videos!!! You make me feel calm and peaceful

  • @kayleavansolkema8752
    @kayleavansolkema8752 3 роки тому +2

    For Cristina who asked when she would start feeling like herself again after giving birth… Maria you gave beautiful, amazing advice! You hit the nail on the head. It is a new season of life and it’s weird to be so different and happy about it but also mourning the freedom of your past

  • @nillabilla7313
    @nillabilla7313 3 роки тому +7

    As a mother, I know exactly what you meant by the family vlog things. I do miss seeing little Mila do things though! She is so cute and so smart ❤️

  • @enchantedcastleasmr
    @enchantedcastleasmr 3 роки тому +7

    I love how these Q&A videos feel like a friendly conversation! 🥰

  • @itsjustjem5948
    @itsjustjem5948 3 роки тому +2

    As a fellow mum to a 2 year old it calms me to know that all mums have the same struggles with emotions... never alone! I literally love your life tips and thought processes in difficult times... thank you for these videos! ❤️

  • @ara.4497
    @ara.4497 2 роки тому +1

    Wow. Everytime I see one of these where you share your perspectives on things, am struck by how wise and intelligent you are... I say both because I think of wisdom as more of a spiritual or insightful quality, and intelligence as more applied knowledge one has sought and acquired proactively. So as for the wisdom aspect, I guess it feels like you’re an old soul as they say. Like it’s so layered as to give the feeling that it’s from many lifetimes of experience, and I love that you use it so effectively in your desire to be supportive of others - while remaining very forthright and realistic in that support. It’s very touching and liberating for people I think... At least that’s how I perceive it. Thank you for taking the time to do this for your viewers.

  • @Sandra-RC9Gx7
    @Sandra-RC9Gx7 3 роки тому +4

    I just adore you, Maria. I will definitely not wear my glasses if I should go sky diving.😉 Your genuine concern and loving sincerity towards us touches my heart so deeply. You are such a special lady. Love ya💜💜

  • @kellyanne1525
    @kellyanne1525 3 роки тому +13

    Ugh I truly love these sit down chatty videos. It’s still so relaxing to watch. Maria your such a light 🤗🍀🤎

  • @tara4336
    @tara4336 3 роки тому +10

    Maria, I can feel your empathy and love through the screen 💕✨ thank you for this

  • @AP-pb7br
    @AP-pb7br 3 роки тому +3

    I love how you can talk about difficult things while staying so grounded. This video brought me comfort and I really think of you as my friend. It’s so nice to see you being so happy at this time in your life. Alice

  • @sydneytaylor1551
    @sydneytaylor1551 3 роки тому +8

    ur so comforting it’s unreal. u might as well be my second mom💖

  • @tanairydehoyos1523
    @tanairydehoyos1523 3 роки тому +12

    i loveeeed part 1 and 2, i think you should do more in the future. you’re such an amazing person and you can really see how genuine and sweet you are. I see you as like another mother but also a big sister at the same time. Love you and all your videos Maria!❤️

  • @KikMa93
    @KikMa93 3 роки тому +3

    You helped me through my bachelor and now I'm writing the Master thesis listening to your videos. Love you

  • @tiffanyjack1240
    @tiffanyjack1240 3 роки тому +9

    Hi Maria!! I asked the favorite meal question!!! I tried your spaghetti squash recipe years ago and that has been one of my favorites (no one else likes squash in my house so I make both halves for me lol) I love these videos, it’s so nice to hear from you in a relaxed “off the cuff” way!

    • @debbieomi
      @debbieomi 3 роки тому +1

      Ha! I started reading this right as Masha gave your question. How weird! lol

  • @commonunicorn1975
    @commonunicorn1975 3 роки тому +7

    Your regular speaking voice is so relaxing.

  • @xcrunner3291
    @xcrunner3291 3 роки тому +1

    2 VIDEOS?!?! Well aren’t we all just so spoiled! Thank you Maria! The other night I thought about how I would to watch a Q&A video from Maria, either on her Gentle Whispering channel or here on Sassy Masha. I am so happy!!!😂Thank you Maria! You are so so appreciated and I adore you.💕I have learned so much from you over the years, I am the oldest of three girls so I see you as a big sister.💕I have been watching for at least 9 years now. I am so grateful to have you and your videos in my life. Thank you for everything you do! I hope you and your family are well!❤️

  • @emmanelsdotter823
    @emmanelsdotter823 3 роки тому +2

    Maria, you just have such beautiful insight!! I'd love if you did these videos often! They're like big-sister-sassy-Masha and they're amazing!! Thank you for sowing into our lives 💛

  • @sephsweird
    @sephsweird 3 роки тому +7

    You are so real and wise, I really loved your answers and you're just such a wonderful human😊 💞

  • @leannesmith5818
    @leannesmith5818 3 роки тому +1

    Honesty, integrity, empathy this lady has it all

  • @raynapatel8875
    @raynapatel8875 3 роки тому +8

    Maria, thank u so much for granting me relaxation for the past 7 years! I look forward to your videos more than anyone!

  • @debbieomi
    @debbieomi 3 роки тому +9

    I remember the one time you did a livestream and greeted me by telling me you recognized my "beautiful" eyes from many years in your comments. I felt like such a fangirl! lol
    It makes me so angry that you were made to feel unsafe about your family.
    Thank you for being you, Masha!

  • @ScottyColoradoKid
    @ScottyColoradoKid 3 роки тому +21

    I cant stop laughing about the eyediving!! I also like wine in the morning ;-)) Been with you 8 years now; You really are like the sister I never had

  • @prinkeyb3566
    @prinkeyb3566 3 роки тому +5

    That whole segment leading to @12:50.. thank you! I will try to apply that cause like you said I too can be an A hole to the people around me. Thank you. ♥️

    • @MyNameisMessenger
      @MyNameisMessenger 3 роки тому +2

      That’s a great and humble attitude. ❤️ Very rare to see that on here.

    • @prinkeyb3566
      @prinkeyb3566 3 роки тому +1

      @@MyNameisMessenger 🤗 🤗

  • @KOwens-ul6sy
    @KOwens-ul6sy 3 роки тому +1

    That question from Christina, I’m right there with you. Maria, you answered the question so well. Becoming a mother/parent is brutal and beautiful. It is so hard, no getting around that. You’re going to be okay (speaking to myself here too). Bless you, sis. Love you, Maria! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @10DeeB
    @10DeeB 3 роки тому +7

    I think that's one of the best things I've heard anyone teach their child, especially good for a daughter and it's adorable - Mila calling out 'adventures!' in russian - she is a lucky, lucky girl. I'm going to adopt it too, in russian as it sounds more adventurous :D

  • @katherrine_xoxomarie780
    @katherrine_xoxomarie780 3 роки тому

    Since having my son especially him crawling and walking I have no issues falling asleep like I did before lol
    Because before having my son, I would watch your Asmr videos every night for the past 2 years.
    But now that I get tired running after my son and I fall asleep so fast because of exhaustion. I truly enjoy watching your second channel of just you being you. I just love it. Now I watch your asmr videos when I cook or have some free time. But watching you being you brings a smile to my face. Especially seeing you be a mother, your daughter mila is insanely adorable. Love you Mari!

  • @zenzalei
    @zenzalei 3 роки тому

    So sad and enraging about having to take your family videos down. It was a joy to see all the adventures you had when your parents came to visit, and beautiful to see Mila explore the world. My favorite was the one where she sorted eggs at the end, real mother-daughter stuff and I marveled at her hand-eye coordination. A shame that it's not safe to share happiness with the world at large, when you set such a good example of what family life could be. But I get it and support you in it, and feel privileged to have been able to see them when they were up.

  • @Fly00kk
    @Fly00kk 3 роки тому +3

    You talking about magic and adventure reminded me of whispers of the heart, a ghibli movie, that made me travel back to my childhood and when I saw magic in every corner! Is so important to have that in life! Especially for children but for adults to! Thank you for that! ❤️🥰

  • @kristysensei
    @kristysensei 3 роки тому

    it's so comforting to hear how you speak about early motherhood. as a deeply emotional and sensitive person, I'm very nervous/afraid of having kids and how that will absolutely mess with my head/emotions, and I feel like I never hear anyone discuss that so I just deduce that parenthood is not for me or is just going to be inordinately hard for me. hearing you speak of it this way is so real and not sugar coated and when I do decide to have kids, I know I will never forget your words

  • @neonMETEOR
    @neonMETEOR 4 місяці тому

    I’ve started watching these videos, even ones I’ve watched before, when getting ready for work to ground me and soothe any anxiety, and I laugh and cry with you. I appreciate your videos so much!

  • @thenewusual7405
    @thenewusual7405 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for your honest, integrity, and respect Maria!!!!!! Ever since I found you I fell madly in love with ASMR. Of course, you being the source of this love. Your demeanor and calmness, your voice and magical hand gestures. I couldn’t imagine a world without you in it! I value your challenges and struggles because that’s what made you who you are today. You have made a life that is perfect because of these imperfections and you share this with us. We are so blessed! I want to see more of the family, but I too am familiar with man’s depravity and you need to put your family’s safety first. Always. I will 100% support you, and I hope one day to run into you and maybe have a chat. Or a glass of wine 🤪 I think that would make my life 😍 you are kind, generous, talented, and obviously special. If the creator of the world or higher power could do one more thing right, it would make another you! LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU Masha. Have a superb day xoxoxoxo 💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @MonicaEvans1
    @MonicaEvans1 3 роки тому +1

    I feel like I’m sitting down with a friend, getting advice and just hearing about life. Thanks Maria for helping me feel less alone tonight. ❤️

  • @K8ieC18
    @K8ieC18 3 роки тому +3

    she’s so comforting

  • @lexipeters1355
    @lexipeters1355 3 роки тому

    Thank you for being honest and validating that it’s ok to not always LOVE or enjoy parenthood. I think a lot of people find it so taboo when parents talk about wanting a break or not always wanting to be around their children. Parenthood is so hard, but very rewarding as you mentioned. Mama of 3 boys here and I miss me sometimes!

  • @jessa67
    @jessa67 3 роки тому +1

    Just to add to what you were saying to Christina, this is so true. Motherhood is a wallop in the face and it can feel so overwhelming. But then as your kids get older, all those expectations you had of the FUNNESS and JOY of having kids, happens! When you're through the tricky toddler stages and the relentlessness of parenting small kids... age 6-7 plus kids are brilliant! I mean, you obviously will feel this before 6-7 years! But as they get older and more independent the balance between it being hard work and fun/amazing tips way more in favour of fun and amazing. We are sold a lie that motherhood is fulfulling and joyous as if there are no other sides to it. This needs to stop. Motherhood is beautiful and amazing but it's really, really hard and will challenge you to your core. Xxx

  • @caseyelizabeth7591
    @caseyelizabeth7591 3 роки тому +15

    I just adore you Maria! You are just the sweetest, most genuine creator💛 thank you for all you do for us!

  • @lunar_moth
    @lunar_moth 3 роки тому +4

    I think your advice about finding your path career-wise is excellent. Growing up, I was extremely poor. I lived in a very small town with no opportunities, and even though I had a loving mother, there was a lot of abuse from other sources in my life. All I wanted was to get out. I got excellent grades and moved away at 18 to go to university. But unfortunately, I lost myself along the way. All I could think about up until that point was surviving; I never stopped to think about what I would do afterwards. To this day, I still struggle with the question "what do you want out of life?" and I just turned 30. But narrowing down what I DON'T want has helped a lot. I don't want to go back to living in poverty. I don't want to work at a job that will take advantage of me. I don't want to sacrifice my creativity if I can help it. I'm certainly not working at my dream job, and I feel like I have a lot of growing left to do, but whenever I'm stuck thinking "what do I want?", I'm becoming more comfortable not knowing the exact answer.
    Also, it was so heartwarming to hear about how happy you were when you finally took the step to get divorced from your ex. I totally understand not wanting to badmouth an ex partner, but I remember watching your videos during that time and I think we all noticed an immediate change when you became single. It's good for people to hear stories like this, and go realize that breaking up with someone or separating from a spouse isn't a failure, and it isn't the end of the world. That it can actually be the beginning of a new and exciting chapter in your life.

  • @krazylg123
    @krazylg123 3 роки тому +2

    It’s amazing to see all this wisdom you’ve acquired these past few years. As someone who’s just entering adulthood, it’s really nice to hear your assuring words and advice. Hugs 🤗💕

  • @georgialouise8356
    @georgialouise8356 3 роки тому +7

    literally never been this early! maria you literally make my days feel happy and bright. thank you for all you do and we all love you.

    • @hb6839
      @hb6839 3 роки тому

      Omg you in your dp look almost exactly like a Pakistani celebrity named Hania Amir, check her out!

  • @usernameisunavailable8270
    @usernameisunavailable8270 3 роки тому

    Maria, you have such a great way with words. I have found lately that it is more exhausting to be angry and have other negatives emotions than to just let it go. Especially if it's something that is small and insignificant. You are right about your emotions influencing other people's emotions. And it's just a big domino effect. And I'm tired of being tired, so I just am slowly learning to let the little things go. At least things I can't control. I feel more calm and content that way. It doesnt always work, and it is okay to have a bad day or feel negative emotions cause it's natural and we're human of course. But to feel it for a brief moment, and then letting it go, is so freeing. As they say, it is what it is. Xoxo Thank you for your wisdom. ❤

  • @elenab.7523
    @elenab.7523 3 роки тому

    I really appreciate you so so much.I feel in the way you talk that you want to show other people that have anxiety, fears etc. that you have too and is perfectly normal and this makes us humans..and the parts where you speak about motherhood and life with a toddler..as a mother of a suuuper energic toddler of 2 years and 4 months I soooo feel the exactly same way about everyting you said...I really wish you all the best, because you can see it in the way you talk that you have such a beautiful mind, and it feels like you are also very fragile...Hoping someday to have a friend like you.

  • @ashlynpounds4292
    @ashlynpounds4292 3 роки тому

    As a new mom with not many friends, I have been struggling with severe post partum depression. It's so refreshing to hear that other woman have a hard time too and understand! You said everything so perfectly. It is definitely scary knowing your life will never be the same.

  • @pammyb1316
    @pammyb1316 3 роки тому

    Wow Maria - I am so sorry to see you take the v blogs down but I completely understand it. We live in a scary world and you must protect your daughter at all costs. Thank you for all you do do for us!

  • @brittanyrenick8920
    @brittanyrenick8920 3 роки тому

    There's many reasons I love your videos but the respect you have for yourself and others is one of the main reasons! You show respect in many ways but I feel like so many asmrtists have let their videos get sleezy and sloppy. Trying so hard to be provocative. But you have kept it respectful to all people and beliefs.

  • @RedisFun2
    @RedisFun2 3 роки тому

    Omg... This!! @11:27 It takes a good heart to recognize and admit how one's own mood is affecting others!

  • @kimmyaguilar7604
    @kimmyaguilar7604 3 роки тому +1

    Same exact values!
    These videos- part 1&2 are some of my favorite you’ve done
    Thank you!

  • @abbyisl609
    @abbyisl609 3 роки тому +2

    I could watch a two hour long video of you just talking. I love your voice. Thank you so much for the beautiful videos

  • @kaitlynbaziw2833
    @kaitlynbaziw2833 3 роки тому

    You talking about how you like to add alittle adventure to each day is literally mom goals and life goals!.

  • @gabrieltanguay9695
    @gabrieltanguay9695 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you for sharing, Maria! Has anyone ever told you that you look like Kirsten Dunst? She’s my favorite actress, and you’re my favorite ASMRtist!

    • @shesatweeze1735
      @shesatweeze1735 3 роки тому +2

      Wow I’ve never thought that but she really does!

  • @youtubeexplorer4570
    @youtubeexplorer4570 3 роки тому +2

    I love seeing the relaxed and I guess more “candid” Maria ❤️❤️

  • @hannahkathleen1876
    @hannahkathleen1876 3 роки тому +1

    Good job! Love you girlfriend! I've watched you from the beginning and I appreciate how down to earth you are and how relatable I feel with you thank-you Maria!!!

  • @lindenvanalstine3189
    @lindenvanalstine3189 3 роки тому +1

    I love you! I’ve been watching you for about 8 years now, you were my first asmrtist discovery and you are the best. Wish we could meet someday! Thanks for all you do 🥰

  • @mikemorrisonmusic
    @mikemorrisonmusic 3 роки тому

    You were the first asmrtist for me. Watching your towel folding video many years ago made me realize I wasn’t alone. I’ve always experienced tingles when certain people would speak or whisper and I couldn’t pinpoint why or what that feeling was. Spasibo for everything you do. 😌

  • @lenah6731
    @lenah6731 3 роки тому +15

    Two videos in two days? WE ARE BLESSED

  • @mikeshea2456
    @mikeshea2456 3 роки тому

    I both love and appreciate how honest, open, and vulnerable you made yourself for these Q&A videos. You've been a big part of our lives for so long, and yet it still seems like we're always learning something new about you.
    Thank you for always being a constant in my life, and for just being you.

  • @abigaila.0917
    @abigaila.0917 3 роки тому

    Even your normal voice is so relaxing and calming! This video just feels like sitting on the couch with your friend and catching up after a long time apart

  • @snarfus5000
    @snarfus5000 3 роки тому

    So beautiful to hear how happy you were after divorcing your first husband. I can imagine the freedom and utter joy you felt. Good for you.