The No Contact Rule: No Contact Works even when you have to talk
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- A lot of people ask me about the No Contact Rule. I have been asked how the no contact rule can be used when you have to talk to the other person. Whether that be because you have children in common and are coparenting or you work together, this AskChazzEllis Video will help you use the No Contact Rule on anyone.
Perfecting the No-Contact Method
101: Getting Started: When you are not getting what you want from a relationship, sometimes the only thing left to do is to completely cut off contact. This may be the only way to send a message to the other person that you are serious about what you want and will tolerate anything less. Unfortunately, many people are not successful at using the no contact method because they haven’t planned ahead and have created no real strategy to carry out it out. This premium video will show you how to use the strategy called pre-nocontact that will help you prepare yourself for the difficulties that will surely come when you employ no contact. Using pre-nocontact to get started will make you much more likely to be successful.
102: Maintaining: Once you are in the no contact method, you are going to go through several ups and downs and you must have a strategy to carry you through and help you to maintain. You will probably get a bit discouraged and feel that the no contact method isn’t working. This premium video will show you how to employ tactics that will help you to deal with some of the pitfalls that generally cause one to abandon the no contact method. You can use these methods even if you did not use the pre-nocontact method and you have already run into some issues because of it.
103: Getting What You Want or Letting Go: A lot of people use the no contact method but have no idea what to do next. The other person is either going to give you what you want or not. The issue that most people run into is what to do after a conclusion has been reached. If you don’t get what you want, are you going to stay or go? If you do get what you want, then what next? These are questions that will come up when the no contact method is complete but then it will be a little too late to know what to do with the answers. Unfortunately, life doesn’t always give us a chance to stop and work out all of the details on the spot. This premium video will show you what to expect from the no contact method and give you a solid plan for what to do next in case of several different outcomes.
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What if there is unfinished business????
Hahaha no contact going strong for about 3 months. Let me say this: my peace of mind is PARAMOUNT PERIOD. And I will no longer be disrespected he has absolutely no Avenue to contact me. When minor asks for father I let her call and then I hang up he can not initiate contact. He has completely lost that privilege.
Shiiiiiii’ man I bought my son a celly when he was 6 so his father can call him and set dates with him to relay to me.... my son is 15 now lol!
Same here, but he still insist on calling ME instead of our son.
My son has a cellphone she takes it and tries to force me to contact her she even text that to me that he is on punishment so you can call me I'm like why he always on punishment when with u
I did no personal contact with my child's dad. He was extremely manipulative and would use the child to contact me then turn the conversation to something personal or to attack. Its EXHAUSTING mentally. These types cant take rejection.
Strictly Business...💯☑️
I'm tell you when I'm done I'm done the damage is too much
My ex and I have gotten a lot better. I had my kids memorize their dad phone number at 4&5 years old. Call yo daddy. Only communication is related to kids. I don’t micromanage his relationship w our kids.
Grey Gray rock them..yes Gray Rock on the narcissistic people and toxic people
A small conversation has led into conversation about me that's none of your business. Don't ask the child some people do that.. don't put your kids in Adult situations..
I tried to avoid him completely. I wanted to have him pick her up Friday and drop her off Monday at school. He wasn’t having that😔
Oh yea my ex is a narcissist and thinks after 5 yrs being divorced he still can try to run my life lol...Everything about the kids is business...I refuse to speak to him over the phone..I send him extra info like you suggested...if he does come to me to talk I keep it short and act busy...this is possible
Lol, dang what you and your baby mama got going on lol
Can you use no contact if you live together? If so, how do you do that? Also should you do no contact if you’ve cheated?
If you're involved the information is right there for the taking.. be involved .
Don't ask me how s*** went b**** wasn't you there, oh my bad....
You have described my past relationship in this video...it took a while but he finally pull his s*** together and it's being the neutral parent that I can appreciate..
Yes I agree I threw it but the b**** can't catch... It took him a long time a long time for him to be Happy with himself...
How to handle a moody bf ? He gets mad at every little thing.
Remove yourself from the situation sis. Life is too short to be walking on eggshells and not being able to have happiness.
NEXT!!
What if they want to watch a movie or tv show you used to watch together? And if not, how to state it to them..
no.contact.at.all. f u c k t h e m o vi e
What I going thru now,it a form of control
Thank you for this! I’m getting ready to deal with this same situation.