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I have never believed this more in my life. After the past 4 years of doing "lone-wolf" Christianity with absolutely no support, encouragement, and accountability from other believers, my spiritual life has dried out and died out dramatically from the flame that used to burn passionately inside me. I will never undermine this wisdom again. Thank you Pastor John.
AWDTH1111 Having a similar realization. God stirs his spirit in us to the greatest and fullest extent in the fellowship of the saints. It's the Lord's will that this is so and resisting it is ultimately resisting Him. Thanks for sharing .
AWDTH1111 I'm in the same boat! I have only just graduated highschool, so I'm still living at home, and my family doesn't go to church. It's been really hard to walk with God and fight temptation alone.
I professed belief and then decided it wasn't for me a few days after back in Ninth grade. Up until almost two years ago, I considered myself to not be a Christian. While I have friends that are Christian, and especially one very nice friend who helped me attend church after I came back to Jesus, no one in my immediate family is religious and I have several nonreligious/ex-Christian friends that professed Christianity before I ever did and when I met them. I felt like a lone wolf. . .or rather, a lone sheep in a field of intimidating wolves. I learned a lot through the guidance of the Holy Spirit these past few years. I am very fortunate to have good friends and a good church I can go to for fellowship, because for a while my lack of it did not always help. Whenever I would be forced to stay away from fellowship because of circumstances, it would always drain me.
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Since I have begun my walk with Christ, I have had VERY few friends. Some days it feels like I don’t have any. But very slowly, God has started to introduce new relationships in my life. The word “friend “ is a very overused and mis-used word these days. Please don’t base your Christian life on how many “friends” you have. Work on being close with Jesus and He will supply ALL of your needs.
Easy to say though. I do find that Christians are no different than secularist people. They only want fellowship with individuals that share interests, habits and socioeconomic status.
What if you have no Christian friends............ Or friends for that matter.......? ☹️ I've found that Christians are just like everyone else when it comes to friendships... people like to be friends with people who they have in common with or people with 'great' personalities. For someone like me who is quite shy, awkward, quiet and 'dull', no one seems to want to be friends with me. I have lots of Christian acquaintances (from prayer groups, bible studies etc.) but when it comes to friendships... no one was ever interested. Christians are supposed to be outcasts of this world because we don't belong in this world. Yet I feel like an outcast among outcasts. But at least I have a true friend in Christ who is there for me no matter what. I might not have had Christian friends... but Christ is the one who is sustaining me and my faith. I depend on Him alone. I don't know why I just wrote that lol. Too much personal info to be sharing with strangers on the internet.
That definitely makes it hard. But I'm sure that wherever you are there are people around you that want to love and serve Jesus. Have you tried connecting with a bible-believing church in your area? Praying for you.
I know what you mean. I ended up with wild friends after attending church for years, because the worldly friends actually phoned me and wanted to talk and spend time with me. Now, I have just started attending church again. They're very polite and welcoming and have Christ exalting services, but no one seems like a "friend" -- someone you can call and chat with. The politeness is so ... stiff and formal. The difference NOW, however, is that I am determined to BE a friend, be supportive, ask for phone numbers so I can offer to babysit, etc. This time, even though I'm shy and introverted and prefer to follow other's lead, I am determined to give and give and give and not expect anything in return. Because ... when I stopped going to church (and no one called me or cared), I ended up on dangerous ground! I need the church. To love the church, really love them, is the only way, because otherwise I'll just forever wish they would love me the way that I refuse to love them, first.
I also feel like this when it comes to christian friends but I noticed that I myself have not put in the effort that I want others to put in when it comes to getting to know me. So now I want to be proactive and focus on how I can treat others how I want them to treat me. It's hard if you're introverted or shy but it's definitely worth it.
Dango Daikazoku I'll be your friend.😁 Trust me when I say a lot of Christians (including me) are in a similar situation. Praying that God will help you by bringing people your way who'll be true "brothers" and "sisters".
I have a hard time with relationships because I don't know how to really open up to others. It's a personality defect and I end up with a lot of shallow aquaintance type relationships, but no true deep friendships. I feel like God gives me opportunities but I just don't want to try to cultivate any or risk rejection. It's something that I struggle with and I hate it. Good friends are worth more than gold.
Hi, my name is Moissés, I am a christian brazilian guy. I am looking for christian friends to help me learn the english lenguage and improve my speaking, and at the same time we can do it in a easy and fun way while we talk about the word of the Lord! That is my phone number to whatsapp: +55 11 96915-3231
If you do not have friends and they have all turned against you and no one loves you God loves you with an unconditional love. Only God can say when you die. God gives life and takes it away. God can preserve your life until he is ready to take you home. And even then i shall not die but i shall live says the Lord God almighty. With or without friends God keeps you alive until he ( God) is ready to take you to be with him for all eternity. Amen and amen!
Hi, my name is Moissés, I am a christian brazilian guy. I am looking for christian friends to help me learn the english lenguage and improve my speaking, and at the same time we can do it in a easy and fun way while we talk about the word of the Lord! That is my phone number to whatsapp: +55 11 96915-3231
I have had a lonely childhood for well over 20 plus years, I felt making friends with my peers was impossible. Being mildly autistic didn't help out either and as a result I idolized many characters. But by God's grace, I saw the fruit of making older friends by the time I turned 19 or 20. Now I have been blessed with a young adults group and fellowship with them, pray, and living life with them has really grounded me to never give up in seeking community amongst fellow believers. Without my Christian friends, I don't know where I would be in my life. I thank God for his grace in this and to know more of who Christ is with the friends he has given me.
I came out of jehovah witness so i lost all my "friends". I began visiting some churches but i find them so weak. There are so many church goers but not real christians and that brakes my heart. The pastors screaming and chanting people raising their hand but all of that is meaningless to me. So i have to make it on my own i study on my own, pray on my own, i made the lords supper on my own. After all im not really on my own the holy spirit is my guide and teacher. I have many pastors as well here in youtube and i listen to them. I hope that i could find my real brothers and serve with them. Until then i fight alone with my guide and my master Jesuschrist.
HighLighterlines finally someone who experience same situation as me. So happy so glad to hear about your salvation. Never worry about standing alone, because Jesus sticks closer than a brother and this only matters. It's so much helpful having genuine followers of Christ as friends who can encourage you and you can encourage them, but if you don't have them just make sure to abide in Jesus. My pastor once told me that it's important to attend church regulary because otherwise it's like a single burning coal lying far away from the group, its light will soon die. But I don't agree. What is impossible with men, is possible with God.
HighLighterlines. I know exactly how you feel. I was saved baptised when I was very young. Went to Pentecostal church my child hood years. Ive only met a handful of people who are truly filled with the spirit and want to talk about Jesus and his power. You cant wait to see them because you strengthen each other praising Jesus. Only a few in my 42 years. Most want to change the subject and don't want to talk about Jesus or the realty of hell. Thats what Jesus meant when he said few will find it. Most are sun and wed church goers and don't even believe in Jesus as being real and alive. Say "Jesus" and you'll know who believes and who doesn't. Hold fast. You cant even imagine the glory and what awaits u in the Kingdom for your true belief in Christ, our lord.
same here. me and my husband worshipping the Lord through spirit and in truth. its hard to say this but im not well satisfied with those churches around me. worldy churcher. its not really of Christ. first, i thought i was just being judgmental but the Holy Spirit also revealed to us what is right. most preachers today will lead their members into fleshly desires. and the saddest part is, me and my husband find it weird for both of us. living in a world that full of lies! really we struggle in a some situation more often. but thank God for always allowing us,teaching us, convicting about our sins everyday. tru the work of the Holy Spirit, my heart is changing to be more like Christ.
Hey brother if your looking for a perfect church you will never find one. Find a church close to you and get to know some of the people there. Maybe they need some one like you to wake them up and get them going. You my not think it or feel it but you have somthing to offer others my friend we all do. I understand what your feeling brother. It's not good to be alone. Maybe share the gospel with random people and invite others to go with you. Your right there is allot of Christians that are asleep in the light but sometines it takes guys like us lone wolf's to make the difference in our brother's in sister's and motivate each other. God bless you my friend
I am in the same boat, everyone at work is not a Christian, at least the social people. It is hard to be a light in the middle of darkness. I have had two real and close christian brothers in the past 17 yrs, that was before I moved away 10+yrs ago. People at church seem to have their clicks or work a whole bunch of hours. It is depressing when you are all alone in this life. I talk to nonchristian people a lot, though often time i can't talk long due to some of things they desire to talk about. Often times one tries to test and see if i am genuine. It is a very hard road and it make you question yourself or question whether how many that call themselves brothers and sisters are who they claim to be. Either way this is not what God would have it to be.
I’m 24 in China I have seen some Christian at the compass but I just feel like I wouldn’t fit in with them but I’ll trust in my Lord who saved me from my sin🙏🙏
This is so true. I haven't had alot of friends growing up and it's was super lonely. Although when I got older I am finding it good people in my life I can call friends. So blessed to have a small circle . It hurts when people isolate and I worry about people who don't want to be around their fellows. If your reading this please know God cares about you and he died on the cross to free us from having to live in isolation.
I'm sorry, but I don't think you need Christian friends, maybe no friends at all. I'm going through a rough season right now. My best friend, a person who I called brother, has distanced himself from me, and I've never felt agony like this before. I think though, God wants me to truly rely on his word, which I think he is allowing right now in order to bring me closer to him. So, I'm going to distance myself for awhile now, work on my relationship with Christ and see what happens in a few months. Pray for me brothers and sisters as I will for you. God bless
I’m in the exact same position. My best friend who I though of as a brother has distanced himself from me. Him and my other best friend have started dating and the agony and hurt that I feel watching my two best friends disappear is so heartbreaking, but just like you I also believe that God wants me to truly rely on his word. I’m a new Christian, and I’ve always gone to church with them, I think God wants me to make my choice in following him. I truly believe this is my opportunity to become closer to him! I will be praying for you and your journey as well
It's really tough out there in this world... Stay strong, pray, read your Bible and remember that even if nobody else loves you, Jesus does and he died for you!
The title of this video insinuates that a Christian can have a possible opportunity to backslide. I'm glad that God gives us the tools we need to stay strong in our faith
My father thinks he's strong in the faith and that he's never backslidden, but he backslides with every red traffic light, slow driver and cold meal. "Backslide" is just a terrible term for it.
Lilac Milkshake agreed. Backsliding is referring to what the prodigal son did. He truly didn't understand his Father's love or what He had in store for Him. He thought he knew better but then realized he needed to return to His Father. Christians may have a moment that this occurs in their lives but this doesn't negate the working out of their salvation. It's part of the growth of trusting Jesus. We may have moments of imperfection. Just because we repent and place our trust in Jesus doesn't mean we are always going to desire God and live perfect lives. In fact it will become a war like it says in Galatians. That's how we grow
His name is John Piper, one of my most favorite preachers alive today. Like Jack said, J-Mac is good, Steve Lawson etc. You can never go wrong with a Calvinist preacher. Soli Deo Gloria.
Bless you!! Great teacher. I love Piper, but I would say stick to your Bible for now and pray for the Holy Spirit to teach you and give you a firm foundation.
vahid mortazavi True that stick to your Bible, do not put anything above it , let it be your number one source but I do believe he will be a great help to you in being rooted in Christ. So desiringgod.com is a good cite to visit and he has hundreds of books that you can read to add to your Bible reading. I truly pray that the Holy Spirit will open your eyes to see all that God is and Love him for Who He is. and also the app called HOLY Bible is a great source for daily encouraging verses if you don't already know about it.
My friends have been in heaven for 10 years now. We had a good 6 year friendship on earth till it was time for God too call them home. I can honestly say that finding true friends again is like finding a unicorn or a needle in a haystack. So now I enjoy my electronics and hobbies me and my friends enjoyed doing. Life is what you make of it you can make be a good thing or a had thing choice is yours?
I totally misunderstood the title. "You will die without good friends" - I literally superimposed the terms and interpreted it as, "At the end of life, you will have no good friends". It actually means, "Without good friends, you will slowly die". Its a great sermon but the grammatical structure of the video title can be misleading.
Hi, my name is Moissés, I am a christian brazilian guy. I am looking for christian friends to help me learn the english lenguage and improve my speaking, and at the same time we can do it in a easy and fun way while we talk about the word of the Lord! My fone number to whatsapp: +55 11 96915-3231
Hi, my name is Moissés, I am a christian brazilian guy. I am looking for christian friends to help me learn the english lenguage and improve my speaking, and at the same time we can do it in a easy and fun way while we talk about the word of the Lord! That is my phone number to whatsapp: +55 11 96915-3231
@@sarahe.4738 Hi, my name is Moissés, I am a christian brazilian guy. I am looking for christian friends to help me learn the english lenguage and improve my speaking, and at the same time we can do it in a easy and fun way while we talk about the word of the Lord! That is my phone number to whatsapp: +55 11 96915-3231
I once had a number of Christian friends. Eventually those people moved on and forgot me. Too many Christians are like people in the world when it comes to friendship. Not in terms of aggregious behavior but in terms of Christ like love for others, and pursuing eternal bonds.
Not everyone will appreciate true genuine believing friends pointing them back to the True Jesus of the Bible ! They prefer to have their ears tickled by prosperity preachers!!! They rather choose the broadway than the narrow path that leads to Eternal Life in Christ.
I'm 14 and I have these friends that are christians but they don't follow the word of Christ and don't obbey to him wholeheartedly.Idk what to do bc if I say I don't want to be friends with them bc they're not truly following God's words then everyone will start bullying and saying that I'm selfish and all that
Have you tried telling them what they've done wrong? Back up your claims by comparing their actions to what the Word says. If they don't respond, tell someone you know, who knows them, who would listen. But yes, don't follow or be pressured by what they do that you know is wrong. Keep yourself apart and be an example of to them of the Godliness you want to see in them.
Pls read this... i went to a private christian school... all those kids will turn the moment they hit college in a matter a seconds... some of them will get into sins that atheist wont even touch... staying strong may at times feel rigid but the joys and the growth are priceless and will be eternal. what your friends offer you will last a moment.
What happens when a "believer" shuns godly friendship, accountability, and fellowship in general? What if he doesn't even listen to his own wife? Instead he leans to ungodly friends, and "worldly believers?" He isn't growing, knows he isn't growing, and not doing anything about it?
those are signs that he might not have true saving faith. if he is a member of a biblical church , the commandments of Matthew 18 should be followed if he is obviously in sin with no desire to repent
msdeety Hey there! Those signs could mean he isn't genuinely saved. He needs to be encouraged to examine himself to know if he's truly in the faith. On the other hand, it could be he's saved but backsliding. He could be going through a 'season' of spiritual dryness. And that's where Hebrews 3:12-13 & Galatians 6:1 comes in. You should correct & admonish him in love & gentleness. Your church, pastor & spiritual leaders should also be carried along.. as the other comment points out. In all of these things.. keep a watch on your own heart. Dont let anger or bitterness creep in. Your attitude through the process matters a lot too. Stay in love. God bless!
How do you gets them? I thought I had really good friends for years and they have betrayed me. Even in the church. As time goes on and our culture gets worse, more people seem to be going the way of the world. It's only by God's grace I'm able to go on and function with joy. I'm desperate for good friends and fellowship.
He does not. From what I've gathered, I think he believes that God perfectly foreordains not only that believers will be preserved until the end in their salvation in Christ, but also God perfectly foreordains *how* (or the means) that that will come to pass. This appears to be one of those means.
Salvation is not an "opportunity ". Jesus did not die to make salvation possible. He finished it all at the cross. There is nothing we need to add to the cross.
Jay Sexton Satan invented osas(once saved always saved) in the garden of Eden. God said if you eat of it (disobey me)you will die. Satan said no your osas you wont die just disobey God... And false teachers are teaching the same doctrine of devils today *Gen. 2:17 -“… for when you eat of it [if you disobey Me] you will surely die.” *Ezek. 33:18 -“If a righteous man turns from his righteousness and does evil, he will die for it and his righteousness will be remembered no more” **Heb 3:12 - Take heed, ""brethren"", lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. *Luke 15:24 -“For this [wayward] son of mine was dead and is alive again. God is not forced to save anyone. The parable of the unforgiving servant and the Way Jesus rebukes 5 of the 7 churches where His Spirit is in Revelation 2 and 3 is clear as day that we can lose salvation. And many many more. The parable of the unforgiving servant the man was forgiven and His debt was wiped clear. That means the sin he could not pay for was wiped clear. The wages of that sin was death but the King👑 paid it for him. After be begged for mercy... Then the forgiven man whose debt was cleared because he was saved. Went out and did not forgive others... So the Just King 👑 literally says bring him before me I will re-apply all your debt to you now and you will pay every last cent and there will be weepeing and gnashing of teeth... The wages of sin is Death that man that was once forgiven and cleared went to hell. In Revelation Jesus rebukes the church of Ephesus and says you have left your first love. He says Repent and do the first works or I will come and remove your Lampstand. If Jesus removes your lampstand He takes His Spirit from you and you will be in darkness. The foolish virgins also had no lit lamps when Jesus came back even though they were patiently and eagerly awaiting his return but notice they were lit at first. But they went out! However they went to the merchants. (The men the hirleings to buy more of their oil. They didnt Goto God to buy oil . Jesus says in rev 3 Buy of me white raiment to clothe your nakedness and eyesalve to anoint your eyes that you may see. Gold tried in the fire. That's His Pure word. The psalmist says His word is like silver refined in a furnace of clay He rebukes other churches where His Spirit is saying I will fight against you with the words of my mouth and says unless you do the first works. (Meaning how they were when they first got saved) He goes on saying I will spew the lukewarm out. He says I chasten and rebuke those whom I love therefore be zealous and repent. Rev. 3:19 Jesus loves all 7 churches otherwise he wouldn't rebuke them. Ephesus is the church of Ephesians that Paul started. But Jesus says they left there first love around 70A.D. Its very possible to lose salvation. Paul says "Brethren' Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. Hebrews 3:12 Now read Romans 11 it says we were vraftwd in by Faith. And tge original branches were torn off by unbelief. Then the Holy Spirit speaks to all those grafted in by Faith. Which means your born again attached to the Vine of Christ by grace through FAITH. He says be not highmimded (thinking the same thing cant happen to you) But Fear. For if you continue doing Good in Faith and not unvelief. you will be saved but if not you also shall be cut off. See For yourself. Romans 11 17 And if some of the branches be broken off, and thou, being a wild olive tree, wert grafted in among them, and with them partakest of the root and fatness of the olive tree; 18 Boast not against the branches. But if thou boast, thou bearest not the root, but the root thee. 19 Thou wilt say then, The branches were broken off, that I might be grafted in. 20 Well; because of unbelief they were broken off, and thou standest by faith. Be not highminded, but fear: 21 For if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee. 22 Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward thee, goodness, if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou also shalt be cut off.
I hope he's just using this phrase to be provocative. We are kept "saved" by Christ. If my eternal salvation depended on my Christian friends or worse, my friends depended on my being their friend what a sad state we'd be in. Christ keeps us, Christ preserves us, His word feeds us. Like I said I hope he's just trying to provoke to get us to watch.
I suspect it is both meant and also meant to be provocative. I've listened to a lot of Piper, so I think he is already assuming his listeners know that we are saved by Christ, and by no one apart from Christ - I am sure he agrees with you there - but he would say that God works through MEANS, that He uses instruments to accomplish his purposes, and one of those very important instruments for keeping you saved is your Christian friends. Read Hebrews 3:12-13 for context (he quotes verse 13 early in the video), and note for example (God keeping by means) that Jude says both we are kept by God and we also keep ourselves. A possibly illustrative metaphor: our Great Physician keeps us well by prescribing us medicine, and some of that medicine is our Christian friends. To borrow from Ephesians 4, in Christ our fellow members of His body hold the body together and make it grow (Ephesians 4:11-16).
he not trying to provoke . perserverance in the faith is part of true salvation and there are many means god uses to keep true believers grounded in the faith , including friends. its ultimately not because of them but God does use them
His theological position is pretty clear elsewhere. We'll waste a lot of time pausing to add the theological disclaimer of the five Solas to every point of the gospel. If anyone's earned the right to skip it it's him.
Charles Bennett Satan invented osas(once saved always saved) in the garden of Eden. God said if you eat of it (disobey me)you will die. Satan said no your osas you wont die just disobey God... And false teachers are teaching the same doctrine of devils today *Gen. 2:17 -“… for when you eat of it [if you disobey Me] you will surely die.” *Ezek. 33:18 -“If a righteous man turns from his righteousness and does evil, he will die for it and his righteousness will be remembered no more” **Heb 3:12 - Take heed, ""brethren"", lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. *Luke 15:24 -“For this [wayward] son of mine was dead and is alive again. God is not forced to save anyone. The parable of the unforgiving servant and the Way Jesus rebukes 5 of the 7 churches where His Spirit is in Revelation 2 and 3 is clear as day that we can lose salvation. And many many more. The parable of the unforgiving servant the man was forgiven and His debt was wiped clear. That means the sin he could not pay for was wiped clear. The wages of that sin was death but the King👑 paid it for him. After be begged for mercy... Then the forgiven man whose debt was cleared because he was saved. Went out and did not forgive others... So the Just King 👑 literally says bring him before me I will re-apply all your debt to you now and you will pay every last cent and there will be weepeing and gnashing of teeth... The wages of sin is Death that man that was once forgiven and cleared went to hell. In Revelation Jesus rebukes the church of Ephesus and says you have left your first love. He says Repent and do the first works or I will come and remove your Lampstand. If Jesus removes your lampstand He takes His Spirit from you and you will be in darkness. The foolish virgins also had no lit lamps when Jesus came back even though they were patiently and eagerly awaiting his return but notice they were lit at first. But they went out! However they went to the merchants. (The men the hirleings to buy more of their oil. They didnt Goto God to buy oil . Jesus says in rev 3 Buy of me white raiment to clothe your nakedness and eyesalve to anoint your eyes that you may see. Gold tried in the fire. That's His Pure word. The psalmist says His word is like silver refined in a furnace of clay He rebukes other churches where His Spirit is saying I will fight against you with the words of my mouth and says unless you do the first works. (Meaning how they were when they first got saved) He goes on saying I will spew the lukewarm out. He says I chasten and rebuke those whom I love therefore be zealous and repent. Rev. 3:19 Jesus loves all 7 churches otherwise he wouldn't rebuke them. Ephesus is the church of Ephesians that Paul started. But Jesus says they left there first love around 70A.D. Its very possible to lose salvation. Paul says "Brethren' Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. Hebrews 3:12 Now read Romans 11 it says we were vraftwd in by Faith. And tge original branches were torn off by unbelief. Then the Holy Spirit speaks to all those grafted in by Faith. Which means your born again attached to the Vine of Christ by grace through FAITH. He says be not highmimded (thinking the same thing cant happen to you) But Fear. For if you continue doing Good in Faith and not unvelief. you will be saved but if not you also shall be cut off. See For yourself. Romans 11 17 And if some of the branches be broken off, and thou, being a wild olive tree, wert grafted in among them, and with them partakest of the root and fatness of the olive tree; 18 Boast not against the branches. But if thou boast, thou bearest not the root, but the root thee. 19 Thou wilt say then, The branches were broken off, that I might be grafted in. 20 Well; because of unbelief they were broken off, and thou standest by faith. Be not highminded, but fear: 21 For if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee. 22 Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward thee, goodness, if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou also shalt be cut off.
My friend group of 7 years has drifting away over thenpast 3 months and im a loyal guy and im trying to hang in there but it hurts my soul thinking its over.
My issue is that I’m isolated but not completely. I do have people but I just don’t see Christians who would pour into people. It isn’t a 1 way streak when disciples seek people and it should be us seeking our disciples. I hear wayyyy to many excuses why you can’t be encouraging to one another. I’m going to be speaking to my small group about this because it does feel isolating when you don’t have it. It’s very disappointing that we see more churches of favoritism than churches of God.
I don't really have any friends and I honestly feel fine with it. I spend my time hearing sermons and reading the Bible, playing music, small talk with acquaintances here and there... I prefer it that way. Have to disagree with this.
I've been waiting and waiting. Talking to other Christians online and they say "I'll pray God sends you a friend". Why would you pray for God to send someone a friend when you could easily reach out to that person an be their friend?!?!
Yes, but what becomes of a companion of fools? This issue is a non-starter until I find some men who aren't fools. These men disqualified themselves the moment they deny God with their words and actions.
One of the people that tricked me and dumped me in the most painfull of manners was a so called " christian friend" I am a christian and was dumped by another christian!!!! Don't believe that lie that christians are your only friends. God is your only friend.
I have been isolated for 8 years and I've spend much of my time praying and getting closer to God. However I wonder if this is God's work or not? What if it's evils work? How do you know?
I think it's really up for the Holy Spirit to confirm. But don't forget our calling. Preach the gospel to every creature! You may be isolated right now, but it's not good if you don't take time of your day to share the grace and salvation Christ has given you. Remember, We were called to save souls. God bless you🙏🏽
Ele começa citando Hebreus 3:13, que diz: "Mas exortem-se todos os dias, desde que seja chamado" hoje ", para que nenhum de vocês seja endurecido pela fraude do pecado". Porque você está sendo enganado todos os dias. A carne está mentindo para você, o mundo e o diabo também. Todos os programas de TV, mídias sociais e publicidade estão todos mentidos. Todo dia. Por isso, devemos exortar um ao outro todos os dias. Devemos estabelecer relacionamentos que imponham isso. Se você acha que não precisa disso, não sabe o que está fazendo de novo. Este é o seu chamado; dizer coisas que se mantêm acreditando. Não importa sua ocupação ou vocação.
I resent that Piper assumes that God will just provide Christians with other Christian friends, or Christian acquaintances at least who care about the spiritual health of their fellow brother/sister. Piper has been too blessed with friends to understand how widely broken the church is. I struggle with same sex attraction and ungodly relationships with members of the same sex because over the years I found no love within the church. Occasionally a pastor might treat you like a new project, but that ends... I wonder what God thinks of all this. Is he angry at Christians with amazing outgoing personas and abundant social circles in the church who ignore the liners and misfits? I’m increasingly doubtful 😞
Why Piper has this pleasure in condemn people instead of guiding them into the gospel. When he read the letter of the woman in fornication and seek some help saying those things will create a fake repentance, since the main thing that they will develope is that people come to Christ just because they were terrified of hell. We can't use fear as tool to preach the gospel because people will never learn to love Jesus properly and what we have in place is a legalism based on the terror of hell. Piper has good messages but I always find that his approach is awful, hell exists and we must preach about it but we cannot use that as a mechanism to manipulate others into God. If you are into counseling we know that this kind of approach it's a common mistake that makes people worst.
“Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye. The issue with Piper is that he always condem people, it's his approach, old people tend to have this behavior, it's called prejudice and this kind of approach makes people reject God instead of understanding the good news of the Gospel.
Guess many of us will just die then. The title is extremely stupid and I imagine that the message is not too far off. Last time I checked, The Lord was supposed to be our keeper.
Take it to the next step. Talk to them on the phone. Text and email has driven a wedge between people being real and close friends. At least the phone makes you know you are connecting with another human being. We have free long distance these days yet nobody talks. Its beyond me.
“No servant can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to one, and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.” Luke 16:13
if you continue in this sin , and reject Christ and his word, and dont care what he says , and have no desire to repent , knowing full well that this is sin , you are showing true signs of not belonging to Christ and therefore you are going to hell having never been saved in the first place. i think that is the correct way to understand it
Definitely not ,John Piper adheres to fundamental reformed theology teachings ,John Piper warning about hell was the equivalent of when Jesus said unless you repent you will likewise perish ,yet you would not accuse Jesus of works salvation ?I hope that helps
JPL1o618 "For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.” Romans 8:13 Paul wrote this to the church in Rome which means he was speaking to born again Christians. He told them if you live according to the flesh you will go to Hell (die). This is exactly what Piper is saying. "If you continue in this sin, you'll go to Hell" "If you live according to the flesh you will die". These statements are essentially saying the same thing so if you have a problem with what Piper said in this video it should follow that you likewise have a problem with Paul's words to the church in Rome.
Exactly Davis ,I was trying to think of such an example ,hopefully our friend can realise his bad judgement and be encouraged in the knowledge of the truth
Davis Farnell If you believed on Christ you live according to the Spirit, not by your actions but by the law of the Spirit where there is no condemnation. Those that walk according to the flesh are unbelievers and under the law of sin and death. Paul is not talking about your daily deeds, he's talking about salvation which has zero to do with your performance. "There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death. For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh: That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit." Romans 8:1-4 KJV "But to him that worketh NOT, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness." Romans 4:5 KJV Calvinism/Lordship Salvation that Piper preaches is a false works gospel that keeps men under the law of sin. You guys are carnally minded, measuring your fleshly deeds for salvation. Repent means a change of heart and mind to have faith in what Jesus did for you, not what you're doing. Sanctification != Salvation. These are two seperate doctrines.
lul the country I live in have total christian population of about 4%, yeah I am not gonna find these "godly" friends anytime xD, plus friends can be exhausting anyway..
Oh pain, where is thy sting. Though my lips speak, sound and fury. Yet I will hope in Christ. I too live in a country that has less godliness in it. But I choose Christ, all the same. Ode to joy........
Live HOLY, if you have been born again by the Holy Spirit of God, you cannot lose your salvation. (Ephesians 1:13-14) When God saves a person, he is kept by His power. (1 Peter 1:3-5) Those who are truly saved will persevere to the end. Jesus promises those who believe in Him, (repent and believe the Gospel by faith) will have eternal life. (John 3:16) If one has eternal life, how can it be no longer eternal? If a person seems to have lost his salvation, it's because he was never saved to begin with.
Tape Omatic Satan invented osas(once saved always saved) in the garden of Eden. God said if you eat of it (disobey me)you will die. Satan said no your osas you wont die just disobey God... And false teachers are teaching the same doctrine of devils today *Gen. 2:17 -“… for when you eat of it [if you disobey Me] you will surely die.” *Ezek. 33:18 -“If a righteous man turns from his righteousness and does evil, he will die for it and his righteousness will be remembered no more” **Heb 3:12 - Take heed, ""brethren"", lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. *Luke 15:24 -“For this [wayward] son of mine was dead and is alive again. God is not forced to save anyone. The parable of the unforgiving servant and the Way Jesus rebukes 5 of the 7 churches where His Spirit is in Revelation 2 and 3 is clear as day that we can lose salvation. And many many more. The parable of the unforgiving servant the man was forgiven and His debt was wiped clear. That means the sin he could not pay for was wiped clear. The wages of that sin was death but the King👑 paid it for him. After be begged for mercy... Then the forgiven man whose debt was cleared because he was saved. Went out and did not forgive others... So the Just King 👑 literally says bring him before me I will re-apply all your debt to you now and you will pay every last cent and there will be weepeing and gnashing of teeth... The wages of sin is Death that man that was once forgiven and cleared went to hell. In Revelation Jesus rebukes the church of Ephesus and says you have left your first love. He says Repent and do the first works or I will come and remove your Lampstand. If Jesus removes your lampstand He takes His Spirit from you and you will be in darkness. The foolish virgins also had no lit lamps when Jesus came back even though they were patiently and eagerly awaiting his return but notice they were lit at first. But they went out! However they went to the merchants. (The men the hirleings to buy more of their oil. They didnt Goto God to buy oil . Jesus says in rev 3 Buy of me white raiment to clothe your nakedness and eyesalve to anoint your eyes that you may see. Gold tried in the fire. That's His Pure word. The psalmist says His word is like silver refined in a furnace of clay He rebukes other churches where His Spirit is saying I will fight against you with the words of my mouth and says unless you do the first works. (Meaning how they were when they first got saved) He goes on saying I will spew the lukewarm out. He says I chasten and rebuke those whom I love therefore be zealous and repent. Rev. 3:19 Jesus loves all 7 churches otherwise he wouldn't rebuke them. Ephesus is the church of Ephesians that Paul started. But Jesus says they left there first love around 70A.D. Its very possible to lose salvation. Paul says "Brethren' Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. Hebrews 3:12 Now read Romans 11 it says we were vraftwd in by Faith. And tge original branches were torn off by unbelief. Then the Holy Spirit speaks to all those grafted in by Faith. Which means your born again attached to the Vine of Christ by grace through FAITH. He says be not highmimded (thinking the same thing cant happen to you) But Fear. For if you continue doing Good in Faith and not unvelief. you will be saved but if not you also shall be cut off. See For yourself. Romans 11 17 And if some of the branches be broken off, and thou, being a wild olive tree, wert grafted in among them, and with them partakest of the root and fatness of the olive tree; 18 Boast not against the branches. But if thou boast, thou bearest not the root, but the root thee. 19 Thou wilt say then, The branches were broken off, that I might be grafted in. 20 Well; because of unbelief they were broken off, and thou standest by faith. Be not highminded, but fear: 21 For if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee. 22 Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward thee, goodness, if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou also shalt be cut off.
I have never believed this more in my life. After the past 4 years of doing "lone-wolf" Christianity with absolutely no support, encouragement, and accountability from other believers, my spiritual life has dried out and died out dramatically from the flame that used to burn passionately inside me. I will never undermine this wisdom again. Thank you Pastor John.
AWDTH1111 Having a similar realization. God stirs his spirit in us to the greatest and fullest extent in the fellowship of the saints. It's the Lord's will that this is so and resisting it is ultimately resisting Him.
Thanks for sharing .
AWDTH1111 I'm in the same boat! I have only just graduated highschool, so I'm still living at home, and my family doesn't go to church. It's been really hard to walk with God and fight temptation alone.
I professed belief and then decided it wasn't for me a few days after back in Ninth grade. Up until almost two years ago, I considered myself to not be a Christian.
While I have friends that are Christian, and especially one very nice friend who helped me attend church after I came back to Jesus, no one in my immediate family is religious and I have several nonreligious/ex-Christian friends that professed Christianity before I ever did and when I met them.
I felt like a lone wolf. . .or rather, a lone sheep in a field of intimidating wolves. I learned a lot through the guidance of the Holy Spirit these past few years.
I am very fortunate to have good friends and a good church I can go to for fellowship, because for a while my lack of it did not always help. Whenever I would be forced to stay away from fellowship because of circumstances, it would always drain me.
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If you have internet connection, why not join a christian forum?
Since I have begun my walk with Christ, I have had VERY few friends. Some days it feels like I don’t have any. But very slowly, God has started to introduce new relationships in my life. The word “friend “ is a very overused and mis-used word these days. Please don’t base your Christian life on how many “friends” you have. Work on being close with Jesus and He will supply ALL of your needs.
God bless you
@The Narrow Gate Ministries God bless you :) As long as JESUS CHRIST is with you, you have got everything you need.
Easy to say though. I do find that Christians are no different than secularist people. They only want fellowship with individuals that share interests, habits and socioeconomic status.
What if you have no Christian friends............
Or friends for that matter.......? ☹️ I've found that Christians are just like everyone else when it comes to friendships... people like to be friends with people who they have in common with or people with 'great' personalities. For someone like me who is quite shy, awkward, quiet and 'dull', no one seems to want to be friends with me. I have lots of Christian acquaintances (from prayer groups, bible studies etc.) but when it comes to friendships... no one was ever interested. Christians are supposed to be outcasts of this world because we don't belong in this world. Yet I feel like an outcast among outcasts.
But at least I have a true friend in Christ who is there for me no matter what. I might not have had Christian friends... but Christ is the one who is sustaining me and my faith. I depend on Him alone.
I don't know why I just wrote that lol. Too much personal info to be sharing with strangers on the internet.
Thanks for sharing. Have you asked? I have definitely prayed for godly friends :-)
That definitely makes it hard. But I'm sure that wherever you are there are people around you that want to love and serve Jesus. Have you tried connecting with a bible-believing church in your area?
Praying for you.
I know what you mean. I ended up with wild friends after attending church for years, because the worldly friends actually phoned me and wanted to talk and spend time with me. Now, I have just started attending church again. They're very polite and welcoming and have Christ exalting services, but no one seems like a "friend" -- someone you can call and chat with. The politeness is so ... stiff and formal. The difference NOW, however, is that I am determined to BE a friend, be supportive, ask for phone numbers so I can offer to babysit, etc. This time, even though I'm shy and introverted and prefer to follow other's lead, I am determined to give and give and give and not expect anything in return.
Because ... when I stopped going to church (and no one called me or cared), I ended up on dangerous ground! I need the church. To love the church, really love them, is the only way, because otherwise I'll just forever wish they would love me the way that I refuse to love them, first.
I also feel like this when it comes to christian friends but I noticed that I myself have not put in the effort that I want others to put in when it comes to getting to know me. So now I want to be proactive and focus on how I can treat others how I want them to treat me. It's hard if you're introverted or shy but it's definitely worth it.
Dango Daikazoku I'll be your friend.😁
Trust me when I say a lot of Christians (including me) are in a similar situation.
Praying that God will help you by bringing people your way who'll be true "brothers" and "sisters".
Plz pray that I make new friends in my youth group :((( (it’s a year later and I’ve made friends! Thank you God)
Sure Abby! Please pray for me as well tht I make christian friends :))
Made me happy to hear!
That's nice! I also wish to make friends with people in my youth group...
Iron sharpens iron. It's hard truth and the word of God is sharper than any two edge sword.
I have a hard time with relationships because I don't know how to really open up to others. It's a personality defect and I end up with a lot of shallow aquaintance type relationships, but no true deep friendships. I feel like God gives me opportunities but I just don't want to try to cultivate any or risk rejection. It's something that I struggle with and I hate it. Good friends are worth more than gold.
Hi, my name is Moissés, I am a christian brazilian guy. I am looking for christian friends to help me learn the english lenguage and improve my speaking, and at the same time we can do it in a easy and fun way while we talk about the word of the Lord!
That is my phone number to whatsapp:
+55 11 96915-3231
Karla, I hope you have found a good friend or two by now.
If you do not have friends and they have all turned against you and no one loves you God loves you with an unconditional love. Only God can say when you die. God gives life and takes it away. God can preserve your life until he is ready to take you home. And even then i shall not die but i shall live says the Lord God almighty. With or without friends God keeps you alive until he ( God) is ready to take you to be with him for all eternity. Amen and amen!
Hi, my name is Moissés, I am a christian brazilian guy. I am looking for christian friends to help me learn the english lenguage and improve my speaking, and at the same time we can do it in a easy and fun way while we talk about the word of the Lord!
That is my phone number to whatsapp:
+55 11 96915-3231
Amen
One can perish and still draw breath. The medical term for it is dysphoria.
I have had a lonely childhood for well over 20 plus years, I felt making friends with my peers was impossible. Being mildly autistic didn't help out either and as a result I idolized many characters. But by God's grace, I saw the fruit of making older friends by the time I turned 19 or 20. Now I have been blessed with a young adults group and fellowship with them, pray, and living life with them has really grounded me to never give up in seeking community amongst fellow believers. Without my Christian friends, I don't know where I would be in my life. I thank God for his grace in this and to know more of who Christ is with the friends he has given me.
If I don’t have Good friends but God is my only Good friend than that is more than I deserve and it makes me the most fortunate girl on the planet
I came out of jehovah witness so i lost all my "friends". I began visiting some churches but i find them so weak. There are so many church goers but not real christians and that brakes my heart. The pastors screaming and chanting people raising their hand but all of that is meaningless to me. So i have to make it on my own i study on my own, pray on my own, i made the lords supper on my own. After all im not really on my own the holy spirit is my guide and teacher. I have many pastors as well here in youtube and i listen to them. I hope that i could find my real brothers and serve with them. Until then i fight alone with my guide and my master Jesuschrist.
HighLighterlines finally someone who experience same situation as me. So happy so glad to hear about your salvation. Never worry about standing alone, because Jesus sticks closer than a brother and this only matters. It's so much helpful having genuine followers of Christ as friends who can encourage you and you can encourage them, but if you don't have them just make sure to abide in Jesus.
My pastor once told me that it's important to attend church regulary because otherwise it's like a single burning coal lying far away from the group, its light will soon die. But I don't agree. What is impossible with men, is possible with God.
HighLighterlines. I know exactly how you feel. I was saved baptised when I was very young. Went to Pentecostal church my child hood years. Ive only met a handful of people who are truly filled with the spirit and want to talk about Jesus and his power. You cant wait to see them because you strengthen each other praising Jesus. Only a few in my 42 years. Most want to change the subject and don't want to talk about Jesus or the realty of hell. Thats what Jesus meant when he said few will find it. Most are sun and wed church goers and don't even believe in Jesus as being real and alive. Say "Jesus" and you'll know who believes and who doesn't. Hold fast. You cant even imagine the glory and what awaits u in the Kingdom for your true belief in Christ, our lord.
same here. me and my husband worshipping the Lord through spirit and in truth. its hard to say this but im not well satisfied with those churches around me. worldy churcher. its not really of Christ. first, i thought i was just being judgmental but the Holy Spirit also revealed to us what is right. most preachers today will lead their members into fleshly desires. and the saddest part is, me and my husband find it weird for both of us. living in a world that full of lies! really we struggle in a some situation more often. but thank God for always allowing us,teaching us, convicting about our sins everyday. tru the work of the Holy Spirit, my heart is changing to be more like Christ.
@@daisyroyaleszamudioreyesna5237 "feed my sheep" is our call!
Hey brother if your looking for a perfect church you will never find one. Find a church close to you and get to know some of the people there. Maybe they need some one like you to wake them up and get them going. You my not think it or feel it but you have somthing to offer others my friend we all do. I understand what your feeling brother. It's not good to be alone. Maybe share the gospel with random people and invite others to go with you. Your right there is allot of Christians that are asleep in the light but sometines it takes guys like us lone wolf's to make the difference in our brother's in sister's and motivate each other. God bless you my friend
"You don't know what you're up against" amen
I am in the same boat, everyone at work is not a Christian, at least the social people. It is hard to be a light in the middle of darkness. I have had two real and close christian brothers in the past 17 yrs, that was before I moved away 10+yrs ago. People at church seem to have their clicks or work a whole bunch of hours.
It is depressing when you are all alone in this life. I talk to nonchristian people a lot, though often time i can't talk long due to some of things they desire to talk about. Often times one tries to test and see if i am genuine.
It is a very hard road and it make you question yourself or question whether how many that call themselves brothers and sisters are who they claim to be.
Either way this is not what God would have it to be.
I’m 24 in China I have seen some Christian at the compass but I just feel like I wouldn’t fit in with them but I’ll trust in my Lord who saved me from my sin🙏🙏
To be clear, co-workers and workbuddies are not real friends, they are dogs who will turn on you as soon as you're shown to have weakness.
Listening to this message makes me not even have any friends. Being alone, It will never discourage you or disappoint you or fail you.
This is so true. I haven't had alot of friends growing up and it's was super lonely. Although when I got older I am finding it good people in my life I can call friends. So blessed to have a small circle . It hurts when people isolate and I worry about people who don't want to be around their fellows. If your reading this please know God cares about you and he died on the cross to free us from having to live in isolation.
thank you Lord for the loved ones you have given us may we exhort one another everyday like we should
I'm sorry, but I don't think you need Christian friends, maybe no friends at all. I'm going through a rough season right now. My best friend, a person who I called brother, has distanced himself from me, and I've never felt agony like this before. I think though, God wants me to truly rely on his word, which I think he is allowing right now in order to bring me closer to him. So, I'm going to distance myself for awhile now, work on my relationship with Christ and see what happens in a few months. Pray for me brothers and sisters as I will for you. God bless
I’m in the exact same position. My best friend who I though of as a brother has distanced himself from me. Him and my other best friend have started dating and the agony and hurt that I feel watching my two best friends disappear is so heartbreaking, but just like you I also believe that God wants me to truly rely on his word. I’m a new Christian, and I’ve always gone to church with them, I think God wants me to make my choice in following him. I truly believe this is my opportunity to become closer to him! I will be praying for you and your journey as well
@@emmabrowning2580 God bless you and I will he praying for healing and strength for you as well.
Stay strong brother🙏🙏
It's really tough out there in this world... Stay strong, pray, read your Bible and remember that even if nobody else loves you, Jesus does and he died for you!
I love this servant of God's messages.
As our LORD JESUS daily taught & as most eork on jobs daily! It continues to be my CRY for daily fellowship !
After years of living in sin, I choose to walk away from my Egypt.
In Christ alone amen.
Praise God.. I Love his energy!
The title of this video insinuates that a Christian can have a possible opportunity to backslide. I'm glad that God gives us the tools we need to stay strong in our faith
My father thinks he's strong in the faith and that he's never backslidden, but he backslides with every red traffic light, slow driver and cold meal. "Backslide" is just a terrible term for it.
Dominic Polverino as a lonely Christian, I agree with the title 1000000%
Lilac Milkshake agreed. Backsliding is referring to what the prodigal son did. He truly didn't understand his Father's love or what He had in store for Him. He thought he knew better but then realized he needed to return to His Father. Christians may have a moment that this occurs in their lives but this doesn't negate the working out of their salvation. It's part of the growth of trusting Jesus. We may have moments of imperfection. Just because we repent and place our trust in Jesus doesn't mean we are always going to desire God and live perfect lives. In fact it will become a war like it says in Galatians. That's how we grow
Feels like all the people I could connect with always keep me at arm’s length.
Vikeing Blade herp derp why haven’t I tried that 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤦♂️
Sorry, what I said sounded insensitive. I was just trying to give advice. I apologize. If you want, we could be friends! :)
Vikeing Blade idk about that. Appreciate the offer tho, but I have enough friends
from doing nothing but sitting and meditating and finding the alignment within me
for 3 years Its true
i havea flame but the faith may wander
What a heartfelt, resounding message. This goes so much deeper than just being honest or being bold, this is about love. Thank you DG for everything
Who is the pastor in this video. I'm a recent subscriber and I am also new to Christ. Please let me know where I can find more of his stuff. Amazing
vahid mortazavi vahid, subscribe to this channel and you will find some great Word.
His name is John Piper, one of my most favorite preachers alive today. Like Jack said, J-Mac is good, Steve Lawson etc. You can never go wrong with a Calvinist preacher. Soli Deo Gloria.
May God bless you young brother,all of those recommended teachers are good aswell .
Bless you!! Great teacher. I love Piper, but I would say stick to your Bible for now and pray for the Holy Spirit to teach you and give you a firm foundation.
vahid mortazavi True that stick to your Bible, do not put anything above it , let it be your number one source but I do believe he will be a great help to you in being rooted in Christ. So desiringgod.com is a good cite to visit and he has hundreds of books that you can read to add to your Bible reading. I truly pray that the Holy Spirit will open your eyes to see all that God is and Love him for Who He is. and also the app called HOLY Bible is a great source for daily encouraging verses if you don't already know about it.
My friends have been in heaven for 10 years now. We had a good 6 year friendship on earth till it was time for God too call them home. I can honestly say that finding true friends again is like finding a unicorn or a needle in a haystack. So now I enjoy my electronics and hobbies me and my friends enjoyed doing. Life is what you make of it you can make be a good thing or a had thing choice is yours?
I totally misunderstood the title. "You will die without good friends" - I literally superimposed the terms and interpreted it as, "At the end of life, you will have no good friends". It actually means, "Without good friends, you will slowly die".
Its a great sermon but the grammatical structure of the video title can be misleading.
Same here.
Johan Cha Same
Yep, that's why I had to watch it.
Me too
I want friends!!😔
Me too
Hi, my name is Moissés, I am a christian brazilian guy. I am looking for christian friends to help me learn the english lenguage and improve my speaking, and at the same time we can do it in a easy and fun way while we talk about the word of the Lord!
My fone number to whatsapp:
+55 11 96915-3231
Hi, my name is Moissés, I am a christian brazilian guy. I am looking for christian friends to help me learn the english lenguage and improve my speaking, and at the same time we can do it in a easy and fun way while we talk about the word of the Lord!
That is my phone number to whatsapp:
+55 11 96915-3231
@@sarahe.4738 Hi, my name is Moissés, I am a christian brazilian guy. I am looking for christian friends to help me learn the english lenguage and improve my speaking, and at the same time we can do it in a easy and fun way while we talk about the word of the Lord!
That is my phone number to whatsapp:
+55 11 96915-3231
@@moissesfalcao5077 Could you write your email address?
Praise Jesus FOREVER ALWAYS
I once had a number of Christian friends. Eventually those people moved on and forgot me. Too many Christians are like people in the world when it comes to friendship. Not in terms of aggregious behavior but in terms of Christ like love for others, and pursuing eternal bonds.
Thank you Pastor John Piper, God Bless You!🙏🕆🔥
Not everyone will appreciate true genuine believing friends pointing them back to the True Jesus of the Bible !
They prefer to have their ears tickled by prosperity preachers!!!
They rather choose the broadway than the narrow path that leads to Eternal Life in Christ.
Like sharpens like
Bad company corrupts good character
So moving... Please pray for me. I could use it. :
I just prayed for you. Hope you're doing well.
We can be friends. My whatsapp number: +55 11 969153231
Christian friends are good but the best friend we have is Jesus. The closest human attachment you should have is probably a godly pastor
I’m trying so hard to reach out and be cool with people but I can’t seem to make connections:( I’m my own friend.
7 holiday seasons with no friends. Being single Christian, makes it hard to have friends. They are mostly married
I trust nature more than I trust people
I'm 14 and I have these friends that are christians but they don't follow the word of Christ and don't obbey to him wholeheartedly.Idk what to do bc if I say I don't want to be friends with them bc they're not truly following God's words then everyone will start bullying and saying that I'm selfish and all that
Have you tried telling them what they've done wrong? Back up your claims by comparing their actions to what the Word says.
If they don't respond, tell someone you know, who knows them, who would listen.
But yes, don't follow or be pressured by what they do that you know is wrong. Keep yourself apart and be an example of to them of the Godliness you want to see in them.
Pls read this... i went to a private christian school... all those kids will turn the moment they hit college in a matter a seconds... some of them will get into sins that atheist wont even touch... staying strong may at times feel rigid but the joys and the growth are priceless and will be eternal. what your friends offer you will last a moment.
id say like 10% of my class remained faithful
The title says it all
The hardest place to find Christian friends is in the church.
Incredible truth real truth here. 🙏🏼😊❤️
Genius counsel.....bravo
Appreciate you ❤️🙏
What happens when a "believer" shuns godly friendship, accountability, and fellowship in general? What if he doesn't even listen to his own wife? Instead he leans to ungodly friends, and "worldly believers?" He isn't growing, knows he isn't growing, and not doing anything about it?
those are signs that he might not have true saving faith. if he is a member of a biblical church , the commandments of Matthew 18 should be followed if he is obviously in sin with no desire to repent
msdeety Hey there! Those signs could mean he isn't genuinely saved. He needs to be encouraged to examine himself to know if he's truly in the faith.
On the other hand, it could be he's saved but backsliding. He could be going through a 'season' of spiritual dryness. And that's where Hebrews 3:12-13 & Galatians 6:1 comes in. You should correct & admonish him in love & gentleness. Your church, pastor & spiritual leaders should also be carried along.. as the other comment points out.
In all of these things.. keep a watch on your own heart. Dont let anger or bitterness creep in. Your attitude through the process matters a lot too. Stay in love. God bless!
How are things going now?
@@RepentfollowJesus I divorced him. Uncovered a world of secrecy and lies. It was painful, but I'm better for it.
How do you gets them? I thought I had really good friends for years and they have betrayed me. Even in the church. As time goes on and our culture gets worse, more people seem to be going the way of the world. It's only by God's grace I'm able to go on and function with joy. I'm desperate for good friends and fellowship.
Jesus has given us each other. Does John believe that you can lose your salvation?
Jay Sexton I'd think the answer is no to that question.
I was informed that he was a Calvinist so no, he doesn't believe that you could lose your salvation.
He does not. From what I've gathered, I think he believes that God perfectly foreordains not only that believers will be preserved until the end in their salvation in Christ, but also God perfectly foreordains *how* (or the means) that that will come to pass. This appears to be one of those means.
Salvation is not an "opportunity ". Jesus did not die to make salvation possible. He finished it all at the cross. There is nothing we need to add to the cross.
Jay Sexton Satan invented osas(once saved always saved) in the garden of Eden.
God said if you eat of it (disobey me)you will die.
Satan said no your osas you wont die just disobey God... And false teachers are teaching the same doctrine of devils today
*Gen. 2:17 -“… for when you eat of it [if you disobey Me] you will surely die.”
*Ezek. 33:18 -“If a righteous man turns from his righteousness and does evil, he will die for it and his righteousness will be remembered no more”
**Heb 3:12 - Take heed, ""brethren"", lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God.
*Luke 15:24 -“For this [wayward] son of mine was dead and is alive again.
God is not forced to save anyone. The parable of the unforgiving servant and the Way Jesus rebukes 5 of the 7 churches where His Spirit is in Revelation 2 and 3 is clear as day that we can lose salvation. And many many more.
The parable of the unforgiving servant the man was forgiven and His debt was wiped clear. That means the sin he could not pay for was wiped clear. The wages of that sin was death but the King👑 paid it for him. After be begged for mercy...
Then the forgiven man whose debt was cleared because he was saved. Went out and did not forgive others... So the Just King 👑 literally says bring him before me I will re-apply all your debt to you now and you will pay every last cent and there will be weepeing and gnashing of teeth... The wages of sin is Death that man that was once forgiven and cleared went to hell.
In Revelation Jesus rebukes the church of Ephesus and says you have left your first love.
He says Repent and do the first works or I will come and remove your Lampstand.
If Jesus removes your lampstand He takes His Spirit from you and you will be in darkness.
The foolish virgins also had no lit lamps when Jesus came back even though they were patiently and eagerly awaiting his return but notice they were lit at first. But they went out!
However they went to the merchants. (The men the hirleings to buy more of their oil. They didnt Goto God to buy oil . Jesus says in rev 3 Buy of me white raiment to clothe your nakedness and eyesalve to anoint your eyes that you may see. Gold tried in the fire. That's His Pure word.
The psalmist says His word is like silver refined in a furnace of clay
He rebukes other churches where His Spirit is saying I will fight against you with the words of my mouth and says unless you do the first works. (Meaning how they were when they first got saved)
He goes on saying I will spew the lukewarm out. He says I chasten and rebuke those whom I love therefore be zealous and repent. Rev. 3:19
Jesus loves all 7 churches otherwise he wouldn't rebuke them.
Ephesus is the church of Ephesians that Paul started. But Jesus says they left there first love around 70A.D.
Its very possible to lose salvation.
Paul says "Brethren'
Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. Hebrews 3:12
Now read Romans 11 it says we were vraftwd in by Faith. And tge original branches were torn off by unbelief. Then the Holy Spirit speaks to all those grafted in by Faith. Which means your born again attached to the Vine of Christ by grace through FAITH.
He says be not highmimded (thinking the same thing cant happen to you)
But Fear. For if you continue doing Good in Faith and not unvelief. you will be saved but if not you also shall be cut off.
See For yourself.
Romans 11
17 And if some of the branches be broken off, and thou, being a wild olive tree, wert grafted in among them, and with them partakest of the root and fatness of the olive tree;
18 Boast not against the branches. But if thou boast, thou bearest not the root, but the root thee.
19 Thou wilt say then, The branches were broken off, that I might be grafted in.
20 Well; because of unbelief they were broken off, and thou standest by faith. Be not highminded, but fear:
21 For if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee.
22 Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward thee, goodness, if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou also shalt be cut off.
I hope he's just using this phrase to be provocative. We are kept "saved" by Christ. If my eternal salvation depended on my Christian friends or worse, my friends depended on my being their friend what a sad state we'd be in. Christ keeps us, Christ preserves us, His word feeds us. Like I said I hope he's just trying to provoke to get us to watch.
I suspect it is both meant and also meant to be provocative. I've listened to a lot of Piper, so I think he is already assuming his listeners know that we are saved by Christ, and by no one apart from Christ - I am sure he agrees with you there - but he would say that God works through MEANS, that He uses instruments to accomplish his purposes, and one of those very important instruments for keeping you saved is your Christian friends. Read Hebrews 3:12-13 for context (he quotes verse 13 early in the video), and note for example (God keeping by means) that Jude says both we are kept by God and we also keep ourselves. A possibly illustrative metaphor: our Great Physician keeps us well by prescribing us medicine, and some of that medicine is our Christian friends. To borrow from Ephesians 4, in Christ our fellow members of His body hold the body together and make it grow (Ephesians 4:11-16).
he not trying to provoke .
perserverance in the faith is part of true salvation and there are many means god uses to keep true believers grounded in the faith , including friends. its ultimately not because of them but God does use them
+Alexandra Lee better answer , didnt see it lol
His theological position is pretty clear elsewhere. We'll waste a lot of time pausing to add the theological disclaimer of the five Solas to every point of the gospel. If anyone's earned the right to skip it it's him.
Charles Bennett Satan invented osas(once saved always saved) in the garden of Eden.
God said if you eat of it (disobey me)you will die.
Satan said no your osas you wont die just disobey God... And false teachers are teaching the same doctrine of devils today
*Gen. 2:17 -“… for when you eat of it [if you disobey Me] you will surely die.”
*Ezek. 33:18 -“If a righteous man turns from his righteousness and does evil, he will die for it and his righteousness will be remembered no more”
**Heb 3:12 - Take heed, ""brethren"", lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God.
*Luke 15:24 -“For this [wayward] son of mine was dead and is alive again.
God is not forced to save anyone. The parable of the unforgiving servant and the Way Jesus rebukes 5 of the 7 churches where His Spirit is in Revelation 2 and 3 is clear as day that we can lose salvation. And many many more.
The parable of the unforgiving servant the man was forgiven and His debt was wiped clear. That means the sin he could not pay for was wiped clear. The wages of that sin was death but the King👑 paid it for him. After be begged for mercy...
Then the forgiven man whose debt was cleared because he was saved. Went out and did not forgive others... So the Just King 👑 literally says bring him before me I will re-apply all your debt to you now and you will pay every last cent and there will be weepeing and gnashing of teeth... The wages of sin is Death that man that was once forgiven and cleared went to hell.
In Revelation Jesus rebukes the church of Ephesus and says you have left your first love.
He says Repent and do the first works or I will come and remove your Lampstand.
If Jesus removes your lampstand He takes His Spirit from you and you will be in darkness.
The foolish virgins also had no lit lamps when Jesus came back even though they were patiently and eagerly awaiting his return but notice they were lit at first. But they went out!
However they went to the merchants. (The men the hirleings to buy more of their oil. They didnt Goto God to buy oil . Jesus says in rev 3 Buy of me white raiment to clothe your nakedness and eyesalve to anoint your eyes that you may see. Gold tried in the fire. That's His Pure word.
The psalmist says His word is like silver refined in a furnace of clay
He rebukes other churches where His Spirit is saying I will fight against you with the words of my mouth and says unless you do the first works. (Meaning how they were when they first got saved)
He goes on saying I will spew the lukewarm out. He says I chasten and rebuke those whom I love therefore be zealous and repent. Rev. 3:19
Jesus loves all 7 churches otherwise he wouldn't rebuke them.
Ephesus is the church of Ephesians that Paul started. But Jesus says they left there first love around 70A.D.
Its very possible to lose salvation.
Paul says "Brethren'
Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. Hebrews 3:12
Now read Romans 11 it says we were vraftwd in by Faith. And tge original branches were torn off by unbelief. Then the Holy Spirit speaks to all those grafted in by Faith. Which means your born again attached to the Vine of Christ by grace through FAITH.
He says be not highmimded (thinking the same thing cant happen to you)
But Fear. For if you continue doing Good in Faith and not unvelief. you will be saved but if not you also shall be cut off.
See For yourself.
Romans 11
17 And if some of the branches be broken off, and thou, being a wild olive tree, wert grafted in among them, and with them partakest of the root and fatness of the olive tree;
18 Boast not against the branches. But if thou boast, thou bearest not the root, but the root thee.
19 Thou wilt say then, The branches were broken off, that I might be grafted in.
20 Well; because of unbelief they were broken off, and thou standest by faith. Be not highminded, but fear:
21 For if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee.
22 Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward thee, goodness, if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou also shalt be cut off.
My friend group of 7 years has drifting away over thenpast 3 months and im a loyal guy and im trying to hang in there but it hurts my soul thinking its over.
SIR THIS TEXT TEACHING IS ABOUTLEY REMARKABLE,ITS IN THY GOSPELS ABOUT THE RED.....THIS WAS READ... THANKS AGAIN GOD BLESS
My issue is that I’m isolated but not completely. I do have people but I just don’t see Christians who would pour into people. It isn’t a 1 way streak when disciples seek people and it should be us seeking our disciples. I hear wayyyy to many excuses why you can’t be encouraging to one another. I’m going to be speaking to my small group about this because it does feel isolating when you don’t have it. It’s very disappointing that we see more churches of favoritism than churches of God.
At least you have a small group.
John Piper. I'd also suggest listening to Zac Poonen!
I don't really have any friends and I honestly feel fine with it. I spend my time hearing sermons and reading the Bible, playing music, small talk with acquaintances here and there... I prefer it that way. Have to disagree with this.
Ceej k its not like that for some of us but your right God is there for you :)
I've been waiting and waiting. Talking to other Christians online and they say "I'll pray God sends you a friend". Why would you pray for God to send someone a friend when you could easily reach out to that person an be their friend?!?!
Valid point.
idk why im watching this. I have never had friends
I'm trying my dude.
I don’t have much friends either 😔
just like me!can we be friends please?
I can be your friend. I want to be friend of anyone who are Christian. My whatsapp number: +55 11 969153231
Yes, but what becomes of a companion of fools? This issue is a non-starter until I find some men who aren't fools. These men disqualified themselves the moment they deny God with their words and actions.
I have no friends. In social isolation & don't know how to fix it.
Yes I do know but I don't have close relation talking to God not much.
Ok i have no friends so...
I can be your friend. I want to be friend of anyone who are Christian. My whatsapp number: +55 11 969153231
One of the people that tricked me and dumped me in the most painfull of manners was a so called " christian friend" I am a christian and was dumped by another christian!!!! Don't believe that lie that christians are your only friends. God is your only friend.
I have been isolated for 8 years and I've spend much of my time praying and getting closer to God. However I wonder if this is God's work or not? What if it's evils work? How do you know?
me too. ive learned we need community
I think it's really up for the Holy Spirit to confirm. But don't forget our calling. Preach the gospel to every creature! You may be isolated right now, but it's not good if you don't take time of your day to share the grace and salvation Christ has given you. Remember, We were called to save souls. God bless you🙏🏽
@@abbygigi8345 Me too. I have been out of church for almost ,2 years & feel lost w/o spiritual support.
IN THAT CASE I WOULD BE DEAD SINCE 7/4/52 ... "YE SHALL BE HATED OF ALL MEN FOR MY NAME'S SAKE."
wow and amen
Who want to be Christian friends? Serious inquiries
Tradution legends in portuguese, please😞😭
Ele começa citando Hebreus 3:13, que diz: "Mas exortem-se todos os dias, desde que seja chamado" hoje ", para que nenhum de vocês seja endurecido pela fraude do pecado". Porque você está sendo enganado todos os dias. A carne está mentindo para você, o mundo e o diabo também. Todos os programas de TV, mídias sociais e publicidade estão todos mentidos. Todo dia. Por isso, devemos exortar um ao outro todos os dias. Devemos estabelecer relacionamentos que imponham isso. Se você acha que não precisa disso, não sabe o que está fazendo de novo. Este é o seu chamado; dizer coisas que se mantêm acreditando. Não importa sua ocupação ou vocação.
@DesiringGod:
Can you give me permission to download this video message,
translate it into Serbian language, and post on UA-cam??
@William WALLIS! I still need permission..
@William WALLIS! I've tried 5/28/2020... no answer yet..
I wanna be your friend. My whatsapp number: +55 11 969153231
I resent that Piper assumes that God will just provide Christians with other Christian friends, or Christian acquaintances at least who care about the spiritual health of their fellow brother/sister. Piper has been too blessed with friends to understand how widely broken the church is. I struggle with same sex attraction and ungodly relationships with members of the same sex because over the years I found no love within the church. Occasionally a pastor might treat you like a new project, but that ends... I wonder what God thinks of all this. Is he angry at Christians with amazing outgoing personas and abundant social circles in the church who ignore the liners and misfits? I’m increasingly doubtful 😞
Where can I get Pastor John's full sermons online?
What’s the full sermon?
Anyone wants to be friends?
@D I am down to be friends
Yea
I don't get this. He told her aged 6 she was heading for hell? I hope I've misunderstood this. I like John Piper but find this strange
even movies the best Christian content.
the set is swept three times before each of several rehearsals
not reality
life is messy
where i can find that vers in the Bible , if anyone knows please tell me. peace
1:43 mason?
This title is wrong
What was the passage he used?
Why Piper has this pleasure in condemn people instead of guiding them into the gospel. When he read the letter of the woman in fornication and seek some help saying those things will create a fake repentance, since the main thing that they will develope is that people come to Christ just because they were terrified of hell. We can't use fear as tool to preach the gospel because people will never learn to love Jesus properly and what we have in place is a legalism based on the terror of hell.
Piper has good messages but I always find that his approach is awful, hell exists and we must preach about it but we cannot use that as a mechanism to manipulate others into God.
If you are into counseling we know that this kind of approach it's a common mistake that makes people worst.
“Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.
The issue with Piper is that he always condem people, it's his approach, old people tend to have this behavior, it's called prejudice and this kind of approach makes people reject God instead of understanding the good news of the Gospel.
Guess many of us will just die then. The title is extremely stupid and I imagine that the message is not too far off.
Last time I checked, The Lord was supposed to be our keeper.
Thank thank you
Exactly
I ain't got no Christan friends all Virtual.
God bless you and keep you close to Him! :) May he strengthen and protect you!
Take it to the next step. Talk to them on the phone. Text and email has driven a wedge between people being real and close friends. At least the phone makes you know you are connecting with another human being. We have free long distance these days yet nobody talks. Its beyond me.
I LOVE CHRISTIANITY and Hinduism
Err..do u love the IDEA of christianity, or do u love JESUS? im confused.
That doesn't go together...
“No servant can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to one, and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.” Luke 16:13
God said to have no other God's but Him. You have to choose. Jesus is the way to Heaven.
Why is God better?
Joyce A because he is God. Do you know who God is ?
Step 1: Turn off your tv. Ditch the bad input. This guy assumes it is a necessary part of life. It's not.
Hey and somebody turned my cabbage patch doll into a garbage pail kid my spell check sux
"if you continue in this sin, you'll go to hell." If that isn't works salvation I don't know what is.
if you continue in this sin , and reject Christ and his word, and dont care what he says , and have no desire to repent , knowing full well that this is sin , you are showing true signs of not belonging to Christ and therefore you are going to hell having never been saved in the first place. i think that is the correct way to understand it
Definitely not ,John Piper adheres to fundamental reformed theology teachings ,John Piper warning about hell was the equivalent of when Jesus said unless you repent you will likewise perish ,yet you would not accuse Jesus of works salvation ?I hope that helps
JPL1o618
"For if you live according to the flesh you will die, but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live.”
Romans 8:13
Paul wrote this to the church in Rome which means he was speaking to born again Christians. He told them if you live according to the flesh you will go to Hell (die). This is exactly what Piper is saying.
"If you continue in this sin, you'll go to Hell"
"If you live according to the flesh you will die".
These statements are essentially saying the same thing so if you have a problem with what Piper said in this video it should follow that you likewise have a problem with Paul's words to the church in Rome.
Exactly Davis ,I was trying to think of such an example ,hopefully our friend can realise his bad judgement and be encouraged in the knowledge of the truth
Davis Farnell If you believed on Christ you live according to the Spirit, not by your actions but by the law of the Spirit where there is no condemnation. Those that walk according to the flesh are unbelievers and under the law of sin and death. Paul is not talking about your daily deeds, he's talking about salvation which has zero to do with your performance.
"There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death. For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh: That the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit." Romans 8:1-4 KJV
"But to him that worketh NOT, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness."
Romans 4:5 KJV
Calvinism/Lordship Salvation that Piper preaches is a false works gospel that keeps men under the law of sin. You guys are carnally minded, measuring your fleshly deeds for salvation. Repent means a change of heart and mind to have faith in what Jesus did for you, not what you're doing. Sanctification != Salvation. These are two seperate doctrines.
lul the country I live in have total christian population of about 4%, yeah I am not gonna find these "godly" friends anytime xD, plus friends can be exhausting anyway..
Oh pain, where is thy sting.
Though my lips speak, sound and fury. Yet I will hope in Christ.
I too live in a country that has less godliness in it.
But I choose Christ, all the same.
Ode to joy........
you certainly can lose your salvation
Live HOLY, if you have been born again by the Holy Spirit of God, you cannot lose your salvation. (Ephesians 1:13-14) When God saves a person, he is kept by His power. (1 Peter 1:3-5) Those who are truly saved will persevere to the end. Jesus promises those who believe in Him, (repent and believe the Gospel by faith) will have eternal life. (John 3:16) If one has eternal life, how can it be no longer eternal? If a person seems to have lost his salvation, it's because he was never saved to begin with.
Tape Omatic Satan invented osas(once saved always saved) in the garden of Eden.
God said if you eat of it (disobey me)you will die.
Satan said no your osas you wont die just disobey God... And false teachers are teaching the same doctrine of devils today
*Gen. 2:17 -“… for when you eat of it [if you disobey Me] you will surely die.”
*Ezek. 33:18 -“If a righteous man turns from his righteousness and does evil, he will die for it and his righteousness will be remembered no more”
**Heb 3:12 - Take heed, ""brethren"", lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God.
*Luke 15:24 -“For this [wayward] son of mine was dead and is alive again.
God is not forced to save anyone. The parable of the unforgiving servant and the Way Jesus rebukes 5 of the 7 churches where His Spirit is in Revelation 2 and 3 is clear as day that we can lose salvation. And many many more.
The parable of the unforgiving servant the man was forgiven and His debt was wiped clear. That means the sin he could not pay for was wiped clear. The wages of that sin was death but the King👑 paid it for him. After be begged for mercy...
Then the forgiven man whose debt was cleared because he was saved. Went out and did not forgive others... So the Just King 👑 literally says bring him before me I will re-apply all your debt to you now and you will pay every last cent and there will be weepeing and gnashing of teeth... The wages of sin is Death that man that was once forgiven and cleared went to hell.
In Revelation Jesus rebukes the church of Ephesus and says you have left your first love.
He says Repent and do the first works or I will come and remove your Lampstand.
If Jesus removes your lampstand He takes His Spirit from you and you will be in darkness.
The foolish virgins also had no lit lamps when Jesus came back even though they were patiently and eagerly awaiting his return but notice they were lit at first. But they went out!
However they went to the merchants. (The men the hirleings to buy more of their oil. They didnt Goto God to buy oil . Jesus says in rev 3 Buy of me white raiment to clothe your nakedness and eyesalve to anoint your eyes that you may see. Gold tried in the fire. That's His Pure word.
The psalmist says His word is like silver refined in a furnace of clay
He rebukes other churches where His Spirit is saying I will fight against you with the words of my mouth and says unless you do the first works. (Meaning how they were when they first got saved)
He goes on saying I will spew the lukewarm out. He says I chasten and rebuke those whom I love therefore be zealous and repent. Rev. 3:19
Jesus loves all 7 churches otherwise he wouldn't rebuke them.
Ephesus is the church of Ephesians that Paul started. But Jesus says they left there first love around 70A.D.
Its very possible to lose salvation.
Paul says "Brethren'
Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God. Hebrews 3:12
Now read Romans 11 it says we were vraftwd in by Faith. And tge original branches were torn off by unbelief. Then the Holy Spirit speaks to all those grafted in by Faith. Which means your born again attached to the Vine of Christ by grace through FAITH.
He says be not highmimded (thinking the same thing cant happen to you)
But Fear. For if you continue doing Good in Faith and not unvelief. you will be saved but if not you also shall be cut off.
See For yourself.
Romans 11
17 And if some of the branches be broken off, and thou, being a wild olive tree, wert grafted in among them, and with them partakest of the root and fatness of the olive tree;
18 Boast not against the branches. But if thou boast, thou bearest not the root, but the root thee.
19 Thou wilt say then, The branches were broken off, that I might be grafted in.
20 Well; because of unbelief they were broken off, and thou standest by faith. Be not highminded, but fear:
21 For if God spared not the natural branches, take heed lest he also spare not thee.
22 Behold therefore the goodness and severity of God: on them which fell, severity; but toward thee, goodness, if thou continue in his goodness: otherwise thou also shalt be cut off.
Faith and good works go hand in hand You can’t earn Jesus Christ he gave himself to us