The Prodigal Spouse

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  • @RestoringRelationships
    @RestoringRelationships  2 роки тому +14

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  • @hellenwilliams9752
    @hellenwilliams9752 3 роки тому +136

    I am that prodigal spouse and I can tell you that despite the years that have passed God has never stopped drawing me. There has been no inner peace. That’s not how it’s looked to the observer but I speak from a place of experience and can assure you this guy’s message is so accurate X

    • @mamasworldview
      @mamasworldview 3 роки тому +21

      Amen and I second that as another prodigal spouse.

    • @reannineteer
      @reannineteer 2 роки тому +9

      Hellen, thank you for being honest and sharing this. It means a lot that you are humble enough to say this.

    • @ThereIsHopeWithGod
      @ThereIsHopeWithGod Рік тому +5

      But you're continuing to stay away from your original covenant spouse in rebellion? If you say you have no inner peace, how?

    • @ThereIsHopeWithGod
      @ThereIsHopeWithGod Рік тому +4

      @@mamasworldview Then return to your original covenant spouse. I'm not understanding...you are saying you agree, but continue in rebellion & a lack of inner peace?

    • @RedditSaidWhat
      @RedditSaidWhat Рік тому +4

      Thank you for sharing this. I know it's an old comment but it gives me hope!

  • @damarisonofrei6015
    @damarisonofrei6015 4 роки тому +240

    I have been standing and believing that God will restore my marriage
    It’s been about 3 years and even though my husband is in a relationship I am not giving up
    God is pro marriage and pro restoration
    It’s hard and I have days when I struggle with my faith
    Please keep me in your prayers

    • @washi89776
      @washi89776 4 роки тому +14

      The patience and the faith you have is truly amazing. I have been praying for almost 3 months now for my relationship to restore and I am already on the verge of giving you. Stay strong like you are now. Truly appreciate your patience.❤️

    • @michellerostant5621
      @michellerostant5621 4 роки тому +12

      @@washi89776 Please don't give up.... It's hard every hard, but trust God hes able to do the impossible...

    • @josephvincent6966
      @josephvincent6966 4 роки тому +18

      Praying for God to Restore our 20 year marital covenant after and during 3 year separation. I was lost in the world and dismissed tbe idea of seeking professional help.But have submitted myself to God's Will and he has shown me how I should have been and what I should have done while we lived together. We are both in the WORD just not as a unit.
      I pray that God will grant restoration to our marriage and allow me to love my wife has the scripture states as Jesus loved the church. I know only God can bring the change to all hearts and renew our marriage. Amen

    • @josephvincent6966
      @josephvincent6966 4 роки тому +5

      @Damaris Onoferi Keep the FAITH as Long as you are able? I will be praying for you in hopes that your hearts desire is GOD'S WILL🙏✌🙏💪🙏❤

    • @mikeedwards9405
      @mikeedwards9405 4 роки тому +11

      I have been praying to restore my marriage for 3months now and sometimes the fight wares me down am almost giving up but such a strong testimony like yours gives me hope and reason to keep on trusting in God... Yesterday a friend told me that her friend reconciled with her husband after 6 years of separation and it gave me joy and hope and more trust in God... Keep on praying and holding on

  • @PB-oe7gm
    @PB-oe7gm 4 роки тому +134

    I’ve watched this 3 times. Praying for restoration of my marriage of 28 yrs. Thank you!

    • @andreacobian7289
      @andreacobian7289 3 роки тому +6

      I’m praying with you sis

    • @courtneykirk478
      @courtneykirk478 3 роки тому +3

      I will pray too. Huuuuuuuuuug.

    • @evmikewilliams9021
      @evmikewilliams9021 3 роки тому +11

      Praying for restoration of my 36 year marriage 🙏

    • @courtneykirk478
      @courtneykirk478 3 роки тому +4

      @@evmikewilliams9021 I will pray. Huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuug. Hold on to God and Christ, sweetheart.

    • @courtneykirk478
      @courtneykirk478 3 роки тому +5

      @@kevinharris1462 It is tough Mr. Kevin, but I believe that all will turn out well for you and your family as well as for the people above. We do not know how, when it looks so very dark, for I too have seen darkness, but the relief came. I will pray an effectual prayer for you and everyone above. I will pray as hard as I can to get through. I will talk to God and Jesus now, honey. Just allow for Jesus to comfort you right now, and let God fix everything. Huuuuuuuuuuuug.

  • @johnjaso385
    @johnjaso385 4 роки тому +153

    Have to pause for a minute to text out my comment. I woke up this morning in turmoil. And this video was on my feed.
    I listened first thing and my entire mind and heart shifted towards the Lord.
    Thank you for your service brother.
    I’ve been separated now for 70 days from my wife. She wants a divorce, and I don’t. I’ve been praying earnestly for restoration. We haven’t said a word to each other in 70 days. I miss her and love her. The Lord is working on me as you talk about on this video.
    Please pray for us . Thank you again. And may the Lord always be praised.

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому +3

      mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

    • @heisthelion
      @heisthelion 4 роки тому +3

      Praying for you

    • @kenty6580
      @kenty6580 4 роки тому +3

      Father God i just want to thank you for your goodness your love your faithfulness that jesus gave it all up for us on the cross and we turn from our ways our selfs and towards you thank you Abba Father the holy spirit is drawing both this man nd his wife closer to you a thank you you are softing both there hearts and healing there wounds that you are showing them the things you want for them if its your will Father i declare reconciliation restoration may you keep them safe from the evil one

    • @lushandcompanylifestyle
      @lushandcompanylifestyle 3 роки тому +1

      Praying for you

    • @Leadingladydar
      @Leadingladydar 3 роки тому

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I pray God give you the desires of your heart. Stay encouraged! I
      Pray God restore your marriage

  • @hopebuckley2126
    @hopebuckley2126 2 роки тому +42

    I declare my husband of 22 years will come back to Christ and away from the woman he’s had an affair with, no matter if we work out or not. His soul is most important to me. It’s been a year now. Waiting on God to move. He did come by Monday night but it wasn’t time. Bad thing is we go to our 1st divorce hearing Tuesday. Y’all please pray for Jon 😢

    • @Wicked_89
      @Wicked_89 Рік тому +2

      Prayers and healing I’m going threw the same thing with my wife .. 10 years married and 13 together .. I hope your marriage can be fix because god wouldn’t want that.. prayers your way

  • @ec6166
    @ec6166 4 роки тому +60

    I've been standing for my prodigal spouse for two years now. I have given him and our marriage to God long ago and I set out to put God first in my life and let God be my husband(as the bible says) at this time. God has given me peace beyond understanding and has grown my compassion for my prodigal beyond what I thought was possible. I've learned not to condemn but to have compassion. I am not perfect so, at times when I try to see what is going on with him, it doesn't disrupt my peace as it had initially. God has done a mighty work in me and I look forward to Him continuing to grow me into the person He wants me to be. Glory to God! "Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart"-Psalm 37

  • @katiecook5702
    @katiecook5702 4 роки тому +83

    I declare in the authority of Jesus Christ that my spouse Jason returns to Christ and leaves the strange woman. I bless those who curse me. I ask that God brings discipline on them. I bless the strange woman in her new job and in her home and in her motherhood and that God returns her to HIM and them back to her own husband. Amen! Thank you for this wonderful video.

  • @TheRohio
    @TheRohio 3 роки тому +36

    I am Prodigal and the Lord led me to this teaching. Praying for restoration and that the Lord will bring about divine healing. 🙏

  • @erinsavedbygrace
    @erinsavedbygrace 3 роки тому +26

    This is so good.
    1. Proclamation
    2. Declaration of Authority - I declare by the authority of Jesus Christ that *insert spouse's name * will return. They will return to the Lord.
    3. Bless your spouse and whoever they're with
    4. Let God heal you. Christ will walk through you
    Don't get in the way. Let God do and be who He is! Amen🙏🏾

  • @littlemisstwiggy4529
    @littlemisstwiggy4529 2 роки тому +38

    I’m so glad these videos exist. I’m dealing with abandonment from my husband & our son is without his father. He’s been gone for over 8months with zero contact. He did say he was filing for a divorce in June telling me he was going to give me what I want. After I found out about this other woman he had just met. He’s not filed. My husband is a believer. So I really do feel like it’s just a matter of time. Time for me to heal and grow up & closer to God becoming the woman God has created me to be.
    Praying for all of our prodigal spouses & loved ones.

    • @kendrachambers7763
      @kendrachambers7763 2 роки тому +1

      Amen

    • @jerishecacoffee1931
      @jerishecacoffee1931 10 місяців тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @littlemisstwiggy4529
      @littlemisstwiggy4529 10 місяців тому +3

      He's still with the other woman. Living in a hoarders house with her mom & boyfriend, He's not a father to our son with very little interaction or involvement or interest shown to be. He's gained a lot of weight and is unemployed. But the other woman keeps him in line and she's the best thing that ever happened to him. Our divorce went through 2 weeks ago. I'm tired.
      But I know God is good.

    • @Immanuel.777
      @Immanuel.777 10 місяців тому

      @@littlemisstwiggy4529 I’m living it for a few years now, what ever the outcome Jesus is all we need and he’s coming back for us any moment.
      Watchman river ( UA-cam) 🙏✝️❤️🕊️

    • @Pyrrhic537
      @Pyrrhic537 9 місяців тому

      ​@littlemisstwiggy4529 Sorry to hear that but at least you know it's not your fault. Hope he steps up contact for your son. He might come running back to you when the other women gets sick of his unemployment and weight gain.

  • @edisagreen6626
    @edisagreen6626 4 роки тому +114

    This message is so powerful and amazing! Why is this never addressed in church!? Why is standing for your marriage and real issues in marriage never talked about in church?! The preachers preach to flee fornication and get married but standing for your marriage is not a message in church. It's almost like a taboo. That's so wrong. Thank you so much for doing this video. God bless you! 🙏

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому +3

      Edisa thank you, we’re so grateful that people find this teaching helpful. If you’d like, join our upcoming small group mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

    • @chrystaljohnson713
      @chrystaljohnson713 4 роки тому

      💗

    • @debm5830
      @debm5830 4 роки тому +6

      Agree! I don't know anyone in my community who doesn't think I should'move on!' so many are divorced and remarried and my standing is somehow offensive. No priest has ever recommend I stand. It IS like it's taboo!

    • @kimjd2
      @kimjd2 4 роки тому +10

      I couldn’t agree more with your comments. I am so frustrated with the church. I am standing for my marriage for 2 years now and most people think I’m an idiot! I feel empowered to help people stand!

    • @TheOilers41
      @TheOilers41 4 роки тому +4

      Kim Dykman,there is no shame in hope.

  • @cic-jakevanddalgeemyers.2739
    @cic-jakevanddalgeemyers.2739 Рік тому +6

    GOD IS THE ULTIMATE MATCH MAKER.....

  • @johnjaso385
    @johnjaso385 4 роки тому +52

    Might I add, I am listening for a second time today.

    • @godsinkministries
      @godsinkministries 4 роки тому +4

      Ditto...I've listened at least 4 times now!

    • @tangerine3683
      @tangerine3683 4 роки тому +6

      Same here. Very sound advice and I'm taking it. I've tried to take it in my own hands too many times when I had always heard Gods voice like a whisper telling me to give it to him completely. I won't let my emotions hinder what God is trying to fix anymore. This video popped up right on time, God keeps speaking to me. I'm trusting him.

    • @zilphaliz7948
      @zilphaliz7948 4 роки тому +2

      Me too I can't get enough of this. It helps me get up and continue to stand when I think am done done done

    • @ArtThrill
      @ArtThrill 4 роки тому

      @@zilphaliz7948 ul come back here with a testimony.

    • @kenyanaw.3108
      @kenyanaw.3108 4 роки тому +1

      I'm reading the comments here...so many seem lost here and misquote or take out of context the Bible...seek the Lord while he may be found (isaiah 55:6-7) knock and the doors shall be opened ask and it shall be given (matthew 7:7)...all by His Grace and the Holy spirit...set your intentions on loving yourself more and not on the prodigal as they "may" never return (give them to God) seek God for whats next for you...read psalm 23 it helped me tremendously in my wilderness as I witnessed the lord cause me to lay down in green pastures and provided for me in abundance more than ever before...lastly my ex husband who I suspect to be a narcissist/bdp told me that biblically he could remarry but I could not and yes he is remarried and he has carried on as if me and our 3 sons never were. I am no longer bitter or angry I have simply accepted my "exodus" to God be the glory! I pray Gods peace for each and every hurting person on this feed...God Bless!

  • @Desirae383
    @Desirae383 3 роки тому +16

    I have been praying Luke 15 over my husband this entire evil mess. Praying the wicked relationship he is in ends and that both families are restored for the glory of God. Renew our marriage. Restore our family.

  • @griceldahinckley2161
    @griceldahinckley2161 4 роки тому +29

    This is my story. My husband has walked away from our family and our marriage. On October he said he was not happy and asked for a divorce and left our home. He moved in with a younger girl he met at work. She is a counselor at the prison he worked at and counseled him to divorce me. He thinks the grass is greener. I pray daily for him to awaken and come back to our god, family and our marriage. Our daughter is hurting because of her daddy betrayal.

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому +1

      Gricelda so sorry for what you’re going through and for your pain. If we can support you through our small group, let us know and sign up here: mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

    • @tangerine3683
      @tangerine3683 4 роки тому +4

      I'm so sorry. My husband walked out on me and my children as well. I stay praying for restoration. This video really opened my eyes. We need to give it to God completely and trust him. You and your family are in my prayers 🧡

    • @childofgod345
      @childofgod345 4 роки тому +8

      Fasting and prayer my sister, I’m going through the same pain, but I’m praying 🧎‍♀️ fasting prayer and watch GOD WORK, I don’t care what it look like NEVER EVER GIVE UP NEVER, listen to me never give up ever

    • @belindaputnam7353
      @belindaputnam7353 4 роки тому +4

      Don’t give up.. God is with you.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 3 роки тому

      She sounds like a counselor from the pit. Do warfare. This is warfare. An attack from the enemy. Is your husband a follower of Christ?

  • @mw87675
    @mw87675 Рік тому +7

    Jesus this is so deep and powerful. Sheds so much light.

  • @toddbarton8997
    @toddbarton8997 3 роки тому +10

    You will never know just how much hope you've given me during the truly darkest time of my life.

  • @timkobe487
    @timkobe487 2 роки тому +14

    This whole presentation confirms precisely what I have been praying and professing! I'm taking a lot of flack from other people, giving their advice and opinions. I'm standing firm. As best I can. She has broken my heart. I am wounded-severly. God, give me strength. Endurance. Correct me. Guide & protect my bride.
    Please help YOUR children.
    Let Your name be glorified in this relationship. In the name of Jesus, The Christ. Amen!

    • @JohnOliverY
      @JohnOliverY 2 роки тому +1

      Praying for you Tim… keep praying

    • @DrewAmoroso
      @DrewAmoroso 10 місяців тому

      Keep praying for her. Jesus proclaimed to his disciples before his death, Go out and spread the Good news. This life is about growing believers and leading people to Christ. May your relationship glorify the Heavenly Father. In Jesus name; amen

  • @bryant071
    @bryant071 27 днів тому

    Lord I needed this. That prayer made me bust out in tears. Thank you and god bless

  • @laurenmosley8335
    @laurenmosley8335 4 роки тому +33

    Spot on. God has purged and cleansed me of things I didn’t even know where there. I’m so so thankful. I cried all day for about 6 months straight to the point I thought something was mentally wrong with me, God was cleansing me. Now I stand in intercession for my husband and I actually have a deeper love for him now then I did before all this mess started.

  • @cari5337
    @cari5337 4 роки тому +32

    My husband has been gone since Jan and he moved in with his girlfriend now has his own apartment in her complex 😞 in the middle of a divorce I did not want. Trusting God to turn it all around.

    • @jojobean5382
      @jojobean5382 4 роки тому +1

      Prayed for you.

    • @hstrazza1
      @hstrazza1 4 роки тому +5

      Going through the same thing.. prayed so much, still pray. We just got divorced a few days ago.. its still surreal to me.. only God could restore us. Just trying to still believe..

    • @jbpkcekb
      @jbpkcekb 4 роки тому +2

      We stand with you in your prayers. Love you 💕

    • @jayec.2845
      @jayec.2845 4 роки тому +1

      💕💖💕I stand with you sis

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому

      Cari, that is so painful, we’re so sorry that you’re in this season. We’re starting an online small group to help hurting spouses. Please check it out, or let us know if there are other ways we could support you mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

  • @belindaputnam7353
    @belindaputnam7353 4 роки тому +4

    My husband of 24 years filed for divorce in September of this year. We are both followers of Christ. I am so devastated as he seems so happy

  • @jenniferevanna8675
    @jenniferevanna8675 4 роки тому +21

    Thank you for this teaching.
    Please pray for restoration of my marriage. My husband and I have separated 3 weeks ago. I am praying that God will do a miracle and reverse these circumstances heading toward divorce. Within these 3 weeks he has already done things to sabotage our vows. No matter what he is doing and what people are telling me, I believe God is telling me to hold onto my marriage because no matter how damaged it is, God is able to heal and restore. 🙏🏼

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому

      Jennifer so sorry for what you’re going through. We want to help, check out our small group (starting soon) mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

    • @belindaputnam7353
      @belindaputnam7353 4 роки тому

      Hello Jennifer. I was just wondering how you are doing. I am in the same situation as you.

    • @childofgod345
      @childofgod345 4 роки тому

      Hold on to your marriage Jennifer, pray don’t listen to people but pray to GOD,he got the last say never give up never ever ever give up, hold on and pray fasting is the key and prayer, never give up never

    • @googlecritic2773
      @googlecritic2773 3 роки тому

      How is your marriage going?

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 3 роки тому

      I understand your pain. It can get excruciating. May the Lord be your comforter and reconcile you in due season.

  • @lovely9507
    @lovely9507 4 роки тому +19

    Please continue with your wonderful videos. It helps so much! You are God-sent!

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому +1

      mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

    • @lovely9507
      @lovely9507 4 роки тому

      Restoring Relationships thank you 🙏 so much. I’m not married, not in a relationship either but my heart is aching... listening to you helps me to heal and walk closer with God. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. May God bless you and your family always!

  • @donnastinson8657
    @donnastinson8657 4 роки тому +15

    Omg, you helped set me free today. Today is the first time I understood " WHY? " . FIRST TIME ! I'M CRYING FROM THE INSIDE OUT!

  • @carole1878
    @carole1878 3 роки тому +1

    I discover God with this crisis. Still have one thing to overcome. May he help me.

  • @arenholdhooper2685
    @arenholdhooper2685 2 роки тому +1

    Covenant cannot can not be broken..... Mark 10:11-12

  • @et4878
    @et4878 4 роки тому +7

    I wish I had this 30 years ago. Would have saved me from many sleepless pacing nights. Will use to help others. God bless you!

  • @kenty6580
    @kenty6580 4 роки тому +3

    So many suffering in heartache. Romans 8.18 what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory he will reveal to us later. Use the word rebuke the enemy stay strong keep your eyes on the lord

  • @helenlamons4244
    @helenlamons4244 4 роки тому +43

    This popped up on my phone and I needed it so much! My husband left me and my kids and it’s so hard

    • @valyork6780
      @valyork6780 4 роки тому +2

      Me too, I know its hard. Stay in prayer.

    • @helenlamons4244
      @helenlamons4244 4 роки тому

      Val York thank you! I’m just confused because he constantly says he doesn’t want a divorce, my in-laws also play a huge role in this as well

    • @cari5337
      @cari5337 4 роки тому

      Same he left in Jan we have a 1 and 3 yr old

    • @mariw2185
      @mariw2185 4 роки тому +2

      Praying for you. My husband mentally left in March and physically left at the end of April. We have a 9 month old. It’s so sad. Praying everyday. I will keep you in prayer too.

    • @bwash6743
      @bwash6743 4 роки тому +5

      Look up Gerald and Yvette Ministries. Their testimony is so helpful.

  • @stefanydower1350
    @stefanydower1350 4 роки тому +10

    One of the BEST videos I have ever seen on the Prodigal Spouse - thank YOU! Praying for all prodigals to come back to the Father's HOUSE!

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you Stefany. We’re so grateful to serve in this way. If you’re interested, check out our upcoming small group mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

    • @stefanydower1350
      @stefanydower1350 4 роки тому

      @@RestoringRelationships Thank YOU! God bless. I'll let my friends know, too!

  • @nancylovett2399
    @nancylovett2399 4 роки тому +4

    I have a prodigal spouse, but I've been one as well. Not in adultery with another person, as he does, but in being unloving and bitter, pushing him away. Once I let that wall of stone come down because of distrust and his adultery, I broke. I wanted to die! Then I remembered, God seems to allow me to go through this, to draw me to Himself! I've begun praying, reading, researching. I've hardly cried this past week. God is healing me. Now I can see with clarity what I should have done, would have done, if I'd followed God's plan. I would have remarried him when we came back together 7 yrs ago and loved him and submitted to him! Lord, if you give us another chance, I will follow Your direction!

  • @trishamorris5097
    @trishamorris5097 3 роки тому +4

    This video was released 1 month after my husband and I separated. For 11 months I was in emotional and mental turmoil up until a month ago when God revealed to me it's not about me, it's not about my husband, but it's about HIM. I actually first stumbled upon "The Prodigal Spouse - The Answer", watched it in it's entirety, then sent it to my husband. Now I'm watching Part 1, and everything this man said we should do during this season, I did; but also everything he said we SHOULDN'T do during this season, I did that too. I could have been saved from 11 months of torture had I seen this video then because even those who had walked with the Lord for some time, couldn't give me the simplest of answers like this man did on how to cope during this season. After I finally got it that it was about HIM, was when I realized how to fully surrender. I have been the most content ever since despite my circumstances. To God be the glory🙏! Thank you sir for all that you are doing to help those like myself in need of plain english wise Godly counsel.

  • @aliciagonzalez8006
    @aliciagonzalez8006 4 роки тому +8

    My phone was scrolling on its own and ended up here on this video. I was meant to see this. Thank you for sharing! ❤️

  • @AnalystAyi
    @AnalystAyi 4 роки тому +3

    Amennnnnn! Hallelujah! I stand in agreement with this message! By the Authority and Blood of Christ Jesus, I declare a complete Redemption and Restoration of my marriage and he shall return Repented ! Amen 🙏🏽

  • @lesliemoore2644
    @lesliemoore2644 4 роки тому +17

    Such an amazing word , confirms the very things the Lord has been showing me. Oh how I pray for my husband to come to the Lord and be in relationship with Him ❤️ the lover of his soul

    • @nachis3
      @nachis3 4 роки тому +1

      It’s going to happen. Proclaim it!!

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому

      Leslie consider joining our upcoming small group mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

    • @parinazaz4044
      @parinazaz4044 4 роки тому

      Amen

    • @SisterGee1
      @SisterGee1 4 роки тому +3

      I stand in agreement with you Leslie! 🙏🏾As much as I want restoration with my husband and I have praying for that, but over arching that is definitely that he comes to Christ.☝🏿 Without Him in the centre of our marriage it can never work.👋🏾 I have been saying to Father unless he's born again, water baptized, holy ghost filled how can we come back together? We've be just heading for another storm.💔 It's been a year since I found out about his affairs😩 and nearly 8 months since I asked him to leave as he showed no remorse, and continued in his adultery. I've been through a rollercoaster of emotions but this message has come at the perfect time🙌🏿. I now know how to proceed. God bless this Ministry 🙏🏾💕

  • @19jiraiya
    @19jiraiya 4 роки тому +14

    This message is a blessing. Thank you for this. Been 6 months separated from my wife but I have not given up on my prayers and trusting god in the process

  • @Deder111
    @Deder111 4 роки тому +3

    Alcoholism was spouses choice , separated 5.5 yrs . This has been a message to help and show me , family & friends all turned away as spouse blamed my church for separation ,the reason our two grown sons judged me that I put God first . thank you for this insight

  • @merynco
    @merynco 4 роки тому +4

    Continue my stand and know my prodigal spouse will return a NEW CREATURE IN CHRIST JESUS. Keep praying all. 🙏🙏🙏 wedding anniversary 4/2/1977 divorce 2019. This is a spiritual battle. God cleans and rebuilds us as we wait. 🙌🔥🕊

  • @deidrahughes
    @deidrahughes 3 роки тому +2

    When you are in the midst of it, sometimes all you can see is your own pain. It feels like you are in the middle of the storm and it's hard to determine what you are being hit with because it's coming from all angles. Perspective is like an anchor in the midst of that storm. I can't change the storm but I can feel secure and confident in knowing it will pass and I will not be lost in it. I still have to work on not responding from my pain but from truth. I am on the path to freedom and I've been given a promise for restoration. Until that day I'm working on loving unconditionally

  • @bwash6743
    @bwash6743 4 роки тому +13

    This is based so much on Biblical truth! I am so thankful to hear this! Thank you for being solid on the Word!

  • @resianleperes1120
    @resianleperes1120 4 роки тому +32

    It's three weeks now since I lost my relationship.. I'm still trusting God for restoration 😭😭😭

    • @positive3530
      @positive3530 4 роки тому +2

      Trust he is going to come through

    • @damarisonofrei6015
      @damarisonofrei6015 4 роки тому +8

      Resian Leperes
      3 weeks or like me 3 years .... it’s still painful but God.... is for marriage so we stand believing that He CAN

    • @belindaputnam7353
      @belindaputnam7353 4 роки тому

      isaiah 64 was super good but it has a lot more fun to play than it was for the game I luv luv this one ☝️ I am soooo

    • @johnjaso385
      @johnjaso385 4 роки тому

      Belinda Putnam what ?

    • @donnaroberts7940
      @donnaroberts7940 4 роки тому +10

      Me too🙋🏼‍♀️😭 it's so hard. People say move on because he's moved on. I thought I heard God say He would restore. My Faith is being tested but no matter the outcome, I cannot walk away from God ❤

  • @MrsYoung-in9ov
    @MrsYoung-in9ov 3 роки тому +2

    8:40 I think you just brought breakthrough to my battle with fear and anxiety 🤯

  • @pneumz9614
    @pneumz9614 4 роки тому +13

    This is an absolutely anointed message! Thank you for sharing. I posted this to our Standers United for Marriage Restoration Facebook page tonight and people are watching it multiple times and taking notes! Thank you for some much needed understanding and encouragement to people who are faithfully standing for marriage restoration.

  • @edisagreen6626
    @edisagreen6626 4 роки тому +10

    Just 7 minutes into the video and I already think this is amazing!👏👏

  • @starr6850
    @starr6850 4 роки тому +2

    wheeeeeewwww chile, I thsnk you JEHOVAH for helping me through this season.

  • @rosepinkgacha3107
    @rosepinkgacha3107 4 роки тому +9

    For 7yrs I have been living with a prodigal husband. Just last week God boldly told me to leave him so that he can deal with him without my interference because the situation was affecting my spiritual life,God has delivered me from the obsession of controlling him or trying to fix things. Immediately I made the decision to leave the peace of God just embraced in a way I couldn't have imagined. I am so happy, my sister even said to me "you have re-defined divorce for me. I have never seen someone going through separation looking so happy and positive" I have known for a long time that God wanted me to leave but I kept holding on it... Now I'm thinking, why did I wait this long?

    • @cordeaniaknox4158
      @cordeaniaknox4158 3 роки тому +3

      This is what I’m going through. Feb 28th God told me to let him go. It was hard and I didn’t act right away. He ended up leaving after a physical altercation. After listening to this I now realize this is about my husband and his relationship with God

    • @intentionalhome
      @intentionalhome 3 роки тому +1

      @@cordeaniaknox4158 same here. I just focus on me and my children always standing in the gap praying for my husband and declaring life over him. In God's time he will restore us as He first restore my husband back to Him. It really is peace joy and love just to be in love with Christ. I have been changed for the better in more ways than one.

    • @TheChristianCollegeClub
      @TheChristianCollegeClub Рік тому

      OMG this is ME! so did you separate physically?

  • @patriciarowland8230
    @patriciarowland8230 3 роки тому +1

    Still praying and expecting 37 yrs

  • @aliciahawthorne553
    @aliciahawthorne553 4 роки тому +7

    This word is amazing. It is truly a God given word. Thank you for allowing God to use you. I was with my husband for 14 years. He cheated and **TO ME** seems like he is living his best life...better without me. This teaching opened my eyes to so much more. Thank you!

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому

      Alicia check out our resources and support group here mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

  • @babymorrison02
    @babymorrison02 2 місяці тому

    sooo good. God bless you. thank you for encouraging me and reminding me to take my hands off of this. in the name of Jesus’ i pray for my hubby to accept Jesus Christ as His Lord and savior & for him to repent & for our relationship to be restored. the glory is God’s alone! 🥹🤍

  • @vincentohara1579
    @vincentohara1579 3 роки тому +2

    I cannot believe how much you have shown me my own situation through the Lord.

    • @lumiere1368
      @lumiere1368 3 роки тому

      Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. I have a broken relationship for 3years, but now I we are back together through his help. He can really help you as he helped me.

    • @lumiere1368
      @lumiere1368 3 роки тому

      Text him on Whatzapp now

    • @lumiere1368
      @lumiere1368 3 роки тому

      ➕2 3 4 9 0 3 0 0 2 4 3 6 4,,,,,,

    • @lumiere1368
      @lumiere1368 3 роки тому

      He can make your relationship healthy and fill with love and happinesses

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  3 роки тому

      www.walkingthroughcalvary.com/prodigal-spouse.html

  • @Marisar79
    @Marisar79 4 роки тому +11

    I listen to all his videos over and over all day, everyday!!!! He is brilliant and he helps me understand everything so clearly that i never realized before ❤️🙏🏽

  • @carrasco8180
    @carrasco8180 4 роки тому +13

    I Thank God for using you in such a wonderful way to help those that are going thru this season in there lives. God bless you and your ministry. I have experienced every step and situation you described with my prodigal husband and it's been 4 1/2 years and still hoping , praying and walking by faith in the Lord for my complete restoration of marriage and family . I can't wait ...!!!because My God is faithful and it will be on his time which will be perfect. Hallelujah..!!!

  • @iamlailamiray
    @iamlailamiray 3 роки тому +2

    Maybe God wanted me to watch this. Thank you for the message. I'll be praying for him , for both of us, for restoration, for complete healing within our hearts. To fully trust God and do His ways without asking, without condition and without time frame.

  • @Beehive65
    @Beehive65 4 роки тому +4

    Absolutely one of the best videos I’ve ever seen on relationship restoration. It was so good I watched it 3 times. This information is current, and useful. You will gain new insight on Gods word and how to apply the Biblical principles into your life. And you will also get a deeper understanding on why it is so important to stay out of the way while God is working to heal your relationship. Thank you so much for this message, it has truly blessed me.

  • @MNagid
    @MNagid 4 роки тому +7

    This is some of the best content I have come across on this subject - absolutely rock solid and spiritually and biblically spot on...Thank you Dominic for these excellent teachings please do not stop your work in producing these resources

  • @jking309
    @jking309 4 роки тому +5

    This is the BEST video and explanation that I’ve seen in all 3 years of dealing with my prodigal.

  • @theresaburkhart2159
    @theresaburkhart2159 4 місяці тому

    Thank you 🙏❤️😔

  • @deesavedbyGodsgrace
    @deesavedbyGodsgrace Рік тому

    I declare by the blood of Jesus that my brother's husband scales fall off and his soul be redeem by God! He is operating under the influence of Lucifer, as I observe he's very conscious on his physical apperance. His salvation is more important, going back in the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ. Thank you Sir for giving us this poweful message from the Lord! Im convicted and is 100% guarantee that the God of Israel is moving!

  • @davidprice3383
    @davidprice3383 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your message. Abba Father you love us and I pray that you would work mightily in the lives of our family. May our flesh not get in the way of your work Jesus. We give you all of the glory. We give you Jesus all of the praise.

  • @efthimios
    @efthimios 2 роки тому +1

    Hands down the best message and prayer thank you bless you love you as I watched this over and over as I cry and sad and dispair for my wife and daughter

  • @Blue47-c1n
    @Blue47-c1n 4 роки тому +5

    It's been 2weeks i lost my relationship.He left me for another woman but
    I'm still praying to God to restore my relationship. I'm praying that He finds the Lord and come find me again 🙏🙏

  • @LinhNguyen-nq5di
    @LinhNguyen-nq5di 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you, Mr. Herbst! This is the most spiritually revealing lesson I've heard. It's frightening because it explains the irrational behavior of my ex-spouse from a spiritual realm perspective. And because of that, it puts the fear of God in me to walk in the light myself. I was captivated - in a good way of course - by every word in this video because it mirrored what I've been/am going through as I put my hope in Christ for the restoration of my marriage. At first, I did act in my flesh to no avail. I've learned to not to put my hope in her, but in Jesus Christ alone, and He has given me peace.

  • @WholeNess773
    @WholeNess773 4 роки тому +2

    Amazing, God you’re good! Lol i have so much joy, peace and thanksgiving. What a journey you’ve been taking me through.

  • @Bee_613
    @Bee_613 4 роки тому +3

    GOD BLESS YOU! this video has helped me so much! Everything you talked about is what is going on. All my Family is telling me to move on send divorce papers. But GOD is telling me to pray! And the enemy is telling me “ look your prayers aren’t working!” He hasn’t come back! Thank you thank you! Please pray over my marriage amen!

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому +1

      Brandi join our small group, if you feel called. Sign up here: mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

    • @houseofisrael2355
      @houseofisrael2355 4 роки тому +1

      Don’t give up!!! Listen to God.

    • @Bee_613
      @Bee_613 4 роки тому

      D3SIR33 smith thank you dear!

    • @Bee_613
      @Bee_613 4 роки тому

      Restoring Relationships I already did! :) when I watched part 2 I knew you were of God!

  • @Seven.And.The.RaggedTiger
    @Seven.And.The.RaggedTiger 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you,God Bless You,and my wife.. this has been over a year(since April 2020),she was still in home,we were living together*definitely a difficult thing to do), but she left home tonight and I pray she'll come back home soon,I do understand now what I need to do and how much,even not realizing it,that I was getting in God's way of handling this. I promise to let go and let God take this,I promise to humble myself and not interfere,I just would love for her to atleast be here,thats better than not having her around at all

  • @heatherlynn3438
    @heatherlynn3438 4 роки тому +53

    Sometimes when a “spouse” leaves, it’s Gods Deliverance from EVIL

    • @johnjaso385
      @johnjaso385 4 роки тому +18

      Yes it’s true. But we should still pray for our spouse. And hope for restoration.

    • @heatherlynn3438
      @heatherlynn3438 4 роки тому +15

      John Jaso That’s a separate issue from my statement. Yes! I agree with you! I just don’t think people should always pray for them to come back!

    • @johnjaso385
      @johnjaso385 4 роки тому +4

      Heather Lynn I understand. Sorry if I wasn’t sensitive to your comment. Peace ✌🏼

    • @heatherlynn3438
      @heatherlynn3438 4 роки тому +3

      John Jaso 😎👍

    • @jesuslover3543
      @jesuslover3543 4 роки тому +3

      Heather Lynn Amen!

  • @anitracoppage5665
    @anitracoppage5665 4 роки тому +34

    Thank you for this my husband and I went into marriage wanting God in the center but he started cheating and we went to marriage counseling through the church. The second time was an emotional affair he left me and our 3kids to be with her. He also didn't want to follow Christ anymore cause he didn't want to be held accountable for his actions. His heart is definitely cold I tried to always save him but since he left I've stayed out the way cause I know it is spiritual and I don't want to get in the way with what he is trying to do.

    • @positive3530
      @positive3530 4 роки тому +4

      God is gonna do great things just trust

    • @anitracoppage5665
      @anitracoppage5665 4 роки тому

      @@positive3530 thank you

    • @princeosaro25
      @princeosaro25 4 роки тому +1

      I'm so sorry for what you're going through. It is well with you through Jesus Christ. Amen

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому +1

      Anitra we’re so sorry for what you and your children are going through. If you feel called to, please join our small group (starting soon) mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

    • @born2win262
      @born2win262 4 роки тому

      Will pray for you sister. Only God can save him. Just pray for him.

  • @melaniepelton618
    @melaniepelton618 4 роки тому +4

    Glory to God.. you are so anointed by the Holy spirit.i prayed 🙏 and God revealed everything that you have said.I found this video afterwards and its confirmed everything God has told me in the Spirit. We are surely part of one body of Christ and God is using you Pastor so mightily. GOD BLESS YOU IN YOUR MINISTRY you are helping so many

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому

      Melanie thank you, so glad you find this helpful.
      You may also find our upcoming program helpful: www.walkingthroughcalvary.com/prodigal-spouse.html

  • @Margeauxrette
    @Margeauxrette 3 роки тому +2

    PASTOR!!!!! You are PREACHING!!! My God. I am 13 minutes in and you are just speaking truth sir! This is my situation. This is my life right now. My prodical spouse has now left the house but he’s been battling and been out of the presence of God for a long time. God has asked me to stand, fight and be a prayer warrior for my spouse and family but watching this video has brought me full circle! It all makes sense now. This really has nothing to do with me. Praying for my prodigal spouse that he would return back to God. He has such a massive destiny in Christ to fulfil and also us as a couple that the enemy has sought to destroy him! But GOD is GREATER than anything! We overcome because he has fist overcome!
    Thank you for this wisdom pastor! I’m so excited I didn’t even wait for the video to finish before I’ve commented.
    Have you written a book? Please write one on this topic!
    Thank you Holy Spirit for leading me to this video!
    Wow! God is really at work 🙏🏾

  • @thetrdrlg
    @thetrdrlg 2 роки тому +1

    The Lord has been leading me to study Jonah… and now this.. great message. Thank you.

  • @efthimios
    @efthimios 2 роки тому +1

    Wha a beautiful message !!! It’s exactly right you have to forgive and love and strive not to break up your home

  • @tyrinp6882
    @tyrinp6882 4 роки тому +3

    My god, this is exactly on point in my situation, I’ve tried it all and no change, but I now know the fight is not mine.... I thank you sir for sharing your knowledge which will assist us in this warfare 🙏

  • @maviskimbroughreynolds3616
    @maviskimbroughreynolds3616 2 роки тому +1

    I am elated after listening to this inow know that I have to take myself out the way and let God I am in devorce court hoping for a change of heart on my husband part thanks in advance for your prayer

  • @marcowagner3930
    @marcowagner3930 Рік тому +1

    Most of the time the prodigal spouse is in Limerence. Its a sooo addicted Feeling, that they will do Things that they would never do, If they can think clear. But Limerence Always ends. And this is the Hope and Chance for a possibility of restoration

  • @heisthelion
    @heisthelion 4 роки тому +2

    All I can say is thank you YASHUA for this word. My husband now ex husband has abandoned us as well. 21 years of continual torment from this demonic witchcraft. Please pray for my girls and I.

  • @veganmorelife7403
    @veganmorelife7403 4 роки тому +1

    The spirit makes me feel very comfortable with this message . The truth is the truth

  • @mamasworldview
    @mamasworldview 3 роки тому +1

    So good! Preach!!

  • @odessa1011
    @odessa1011 3 роки тому +1

    Now THIS is Christian Marriage Counseling! God bless you for spreading truth and showing the way! AMEN!!!
    🙌🏻🎶

  • @MaturityMe
    @MaturityMe 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you! God knew I needed to hear this. Amen!

  • @MsSugarDyme
    @MsSugarDyme 3 роки тому +2

    This is the best teaching and series I have ever seen on this subject. God bless you ❤

  • @tc8970
    @tc8970 4 роки тому +9

    This word is for me. My husband left our home and our 3 daughters in January and moved in with the OW whom I just only found out about last month and now has no communication with me or the girls since I found out about them. Praying day in and out for restoration and reconciliation in our union.

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому

      TC, so sorry for what you’re going through. Please sign up for the waitlist to learn more about how we can help: www.walkingthroughcalvary.com

    • @kenyanaw.3108
      @kenyanaw.3108 4 роки тому

      I'm reading the comments here...so many seem lost here and misquote or take out of context the Bible...seek the Lord while he may be found (isaiah 55:6-7) knock and the doors shall be opened ask and it shall be given (matthew 7:7)...all by His Grace and the Holy spirit...set your intentions on loving yourself more and not on the prodigal as they "may" never return (give them to God) seek God for whats next for you...read psalm 23 it helped me tremendously in my wilderness as I witnessed the lord cause me to lay down in green pastures and provided for me in abundance more than ever before...lastly my ex husband who I suspect to be a narcissist/bdp told me that biblically he could remarry but I could not and yes he is remarried and he has carried on as if me and our 3 sons never were. I am no longer bitter or angry I have simply accepted my "exodus" to God be the glory! I pray Gods peace for each and every hurting person on this feed...God Bless!

    • @veganmorelife7403
      @veganmorelife7403 4 роки тому

      What ended up happening?

    • @alessandrazanette09
      @alessandrazanette09 Рік тому

      ​@@kenyanaw.3108◄ 1 Corinthians 6:9 ►
      Audio Crossref Comment Greek
      Verse (Click for Chapter)
      New International Version
      Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men
      No remarrying the Bible is clear, it is always adultery, the other verse says porneia in Greek, sexual immorality, this is the word used to justify divorce, it is not adultery, Joseph wanted to secretly divorce Maria, b she was pregnant, before getting married, that is the only reason accepted by God, sexual inmorality before getting married..

  • @ideeg7205
    @ideeg7205 3 роки тому +2

    Amen! This blessed me and know God let me to this channel. Thank you so much for your ministry. I continue to let God be God in my marriage restoration season and I seen transformation in myself & my husband. He will do what He promised.

  • @SweetHeart-cx1lx
    @SweetHeart-cx1lx Рік тому

    Thank you for this message,..its gives so much hope for my husband and i for the communication and restoration of our marriage...i believe for GOD'S INTERVENTION AND MIRACLE...I DECLARE AND CLAIM THE VICTORY IN JESUS POWERFUL NAME 🙏 AMEN

  • @claudinejonas7793
    @claudinejonas7793 3 роки тому +1

    Awesome! You are the mouthpiece of God the Father.

  • @pamshellenberger8914
    @pamshellenberger8914 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much for this teaching! I'm at the place in my stand that I totally understand what you are saying. Your step by step instruction is a breath of fresh air to my soul. I have been praying for his salvation for a while but this shows me how to get out of God's way and what my job is. God bless you and your ministry!

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому

      Pam thank you so much. If you’re interested in our resources, visit mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

  • @chrystaljohnson713
    @chrystaljohnson713 4 роки тому +3

    One of the best videos explaining this experience..

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому

      Chrystal make sure you’re on the list to learn more information about the upcoming program and counseling to walk through healing. More information coming soon! mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

  • @Susan-yq8pf
    @Susan-yq8pf 4 роки тому +1

    Wow I just opened up UA-cam and saw this title . Went to something else and came back to it . Praise the lord. This has blessed my soul. My soul says yes lord I will surrender. If I surrender to God he will do his will.

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому

      Susan you may find our new small group helpful, you can sign up to find out more here mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

  • @mamasworldview
    @mamasworldview 3 роки тому

    The Holy spirit draws us, the enemy spirit drives us. Wow! So true!

  • @findingtruth9046
    @findingtruth9046 2 роки тому +3

    He is not religious, never was. He is not a Christian either, I started following Jesus after our divorce. Is there Hope? I heard “let it go” in my sleep.

    • @kklempn16
      @kklempn16 2 роки тому +1

      There’s always hope in Jesus. Study & pray
      1 Corinthians 7:14
      “For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife. . .
      Your prayers and obedience to God will restore the marriage. Trust God & the Holy Spirit to transform both of you. Nothing is to hard or impossible for our Abba Father ❤

    • @JohnOliverY
      @JohnOliverY 2 роки тому

      I understand

  • @michelleamos632
    @michelleamos632 2 роки тому

    This is the best teaching I have ever seen on this complicated issue..... thank you so much. It has given me a lot to think and pray about. ....

  • @Tyeshajimenez11
    @Tyeshajimenez11 4 роки тому +3

    Wow you broke this message down so well!!!May God Bless you and your Family....Amen

  • @mariafernandes5944
    @mariafernandes5944 4 роки тому +3

    i declare in the authority of the Lord Jesus Christ that my husband will come home leaving the strange woman from his life . Amen

  • @robertojrponce2839
    @robertojrponce2839 4 роки тому +1

    Praying for healing and restoration of my marriage. Enlighten the minds of my wife to go home now. Soften her hearts to go home now.

  • @pamelarichards464
    @pamelarichards464 2 роки тому

    Hallelujah to the Lamb of God! Blessings

  • @paintertom123
    @paintertom123 3 роки тому +2

    Yes yes I needed this , this morning … thank you 🙏🏻

  • @shawandabeasley142
    @shawandabeasley142 4 роки тому +8

    I have been praying and standing for restoration of my marriage for 2 years, we are now divorced and its hard, this OW wants me and everyone to think that they are so happy and they are not, but God has revealed so much to me about her, shes still married to her husband and shes into witchcraft and im praying God intervenes and set him free from her and her lies, her schemes and manipulation and i saw a picture of my ex husband and he looked terrible and very unhappy, prayers needed for me and him...

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому

      mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

    • @livingbytheword-baltimore
      @livingbytheword-baltimore 4 роки тому +3

      I'm in a similar situation, praying with you my sister! If you haven't heard of Prophetess Mattie Nottage, please search mattienottagetv here on UA-cam. Great teaching and deliverance ministry and so much more. Shalom!

    • @shawandabeasley142
      @shawandabeasley142 4 роки тому

      @@livingbytheword-baltimore Thank u, im at the point of giving up on him and reconciliation of our marriage, this OW has a strong hold on him and nothing is changing with him, he continues to ignore me and act like I don't exist, but its ok, nothing good comes from leaving your wife and family for a married woman, i will continue to pray for him and his salvation

    • @chrystaljohnson713
      @chrystaljohnson713 4 роки тому +2

      Watch Meltoria Woodside and Yvette Benton they help teach wives how to fight both have powerful testimonies!!

  • @holly111
    @holly111 4 роки тому +2

    No words for how much this has helped me. Thank you and God bless you.

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  4 роки тому

      Holly you may also find our upcoming small group helpful. mailchi.mp/bfsf.org/prodigalspouse

  • @kathleengale4470
    @kathleengale4470 4 роки тому +1

    He is a true counselor!