7 ways to change your BAD reputation & ERASE false rumors!
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- Опубліковано 30 чер 2024
- 7 ways to change your bad reputation & erase false rumors!
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1. Accountability ( for genuine mistakes)
2. Where can you improve. (Why was it easy for people to believe - dressing, talking, behavior, lifestyle, over sharing)
3. Dont become a pick me. (Some people will never forget your reputation/ mistakes, that makes them feel better about themselves. Dont be desperate in changing your image, then people will believe more in that reputation. Be real about your past, accept and proclaim a changed character)
4. Denounce the lie. ( be assertive and clarify misunderstandings/confront)
5. Change your life. (Different people, haters, toxic habits, toxic mindsets, bad choices, toxic environment. Be bold to find a place where you can thrive)
6. Level up (therapy, looks, books, body language, change your behavior/ demeanor, how you carry yourself, connect to the lord)
7. Not care too much. (Do it for yourself, not for others.)
False rumors/misconstrued facts is a big issue for me. Satan is always trying to cast doubt on my integrity and character. The one thing I have learned to do is be transparent about the things that matter. When people choose to ignore the truth that is revealed to them about me, to believe a lie about me, it makes me more wise in how to manuever when I recognize the behavior, so I don't waste time allowing my feelings to be hurt. Honestly, jealousy is a very strong spirit on people, and many of us evoke it in others more than most. Not to sound arrogant, but my experience with this spirit has taught me to NOT engage it, and trust that my light will always shine brighter than the lie, so walk with your head high, not feeling the need to defend every lie. Because it's just the way this world is, it hates the Light. And there is nothing you can or SHOULD do about that, except to continue walking in it!
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For me it’s become more about my right to take pride in what I have done and do to support myself and not letting others trample over me…I’ve been subjected to a lot of humiliating tactics by even my utility providers…I refuse to let them….then I get bullied and threatened because I’m just a stupid low income single mom stereotyped and the only reason it is like this is because of something I had no knowledge was even happening…I get treated like garbage for doing the right thing and leaving an abusive marriage and raising two sons on my own…I never dated because I didn’t want my sons to deal with more abandonment by getting attached to another guy being around and then leaving because in todays society, men don’t settle down with one woman…it’s just how it is…now I’m older 45…and not attractive anymore so it’s just the way it is….something breaks on my vehicle…I fix it….my home needs repaired…I do it…now I have to fix things that the city is demanding get done by a professional…,but I can’t hire anyone regardless of $ in hand to pay ….because they know exactly who I am and know all about me…but I still don’t know what they’re talking about….ive no record….so…really …,it’s come down to my demand for respect and not being treated like dog shite for no reason I know of…I ask no one for anything and they act like my money isn’t good enough so really….its a pride thing now…I won’t back down and leave …so I guess I’m gonna be learning hvac now…they want me to hire someone but told them they aren’t allowed to do any work for me by the city and the gas company….im gonna do the work myself anyway and if they don’t like it…then they’ll have to explain why they are blocking my ability to have it all fixed then ..I have the right to heat and cool my home regardless of what it looks like…if I have the money to pay for it.,.then what’s the problem!? I don’t even get assistance because of the toxic shaming! So my son and I have to suffer because my husband wanted to abuse us and neglect us and have girlfriends as well while i support him!? Nope! I’ll do it on my own then..and I’m punished for it.
Yes please do a video about colors and fashion. When I was a teenager someone saw something and I don't what they saw but it spread through my religious community like wildfire that I had a baby. Up until 7 years ago people were still asking my mom about me and this mystery child. I moved thousands of miles away from this. It followed me. The world is big but it's small too. I will let my Heavenly Father redeem me himself. He knows and I know there is no child, never was. I've said that and so did my mom, people didn't believe us. This is such a great topic. ❤
My God people can be so evil
very insightful! leveling myself up has naturally allowed me to change my environment and who I surround myself with. I am very picky now!
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Exactly same here even at work.
My spirit needed this video the titled captured me
Amen 🙏🏼
I simply say consider the source.
They talk about everyone.
There are two ways to approach this ! The dark side way to handle this is to deny everything 🤣 it depends !
Im glad you also said we can come back reputation wise with family. Because sometimes we need to make things right 😊
This conversation reminds me of that movie "you again" with Jaime Lee curtis, where the popular girl marries the nerd's brother.
I used to watch you all the time a few years back in high school you really shaped my mindset for the better🤍 I gotta catch up on the videos I live this one!
Wow, I'm so glad I found this channel from the historic beauties channel! Thank you for these videos Hopefully they'll help me to level up a little and refine myself to be honest I needto put some effort and more high quality value into myself
My in laws love to talk badly about me to my husband. The first sentence you spoke is making me think twice about the backbiting.
You are such an amazing soul. Thank you so much for helping the people to be their best version. Blissings to and yours and all the best to you.🥰🤗😘🙏🏽👸🏾
Hello beautiful!! Love this channel also !!!
Thank you so much for watching love 😍💖
🤎 Brilliant video Karine! Who you hang around with is important as you are the average of the main 5 people you hang around with.
I recently left a toxic job as they would have damaged my professional reputation because the department I was in, commits Gross Misconduct.
Wish me luck in getting a new job with better professionalism.
Thanks again for this video ❤
🤎🤎 Love your channel 🎉 Thank you Karine
Tbh put God before all, let them talk focus on your focus, even your biological mother can make up rumours and lies about you if your mother who carried you for 9 months can lie on your name and project filthy rumors on you then anyone can lie about you
This is my whole life.
as for me, i dont care about "opinions" (hateful comments, rumors...) of others. people hate me, people love me, great, idc am just a human being. my circle is small, just my people.
but still its a very nice topic to think about.
when it comes to business, im trying to not attach my name to it in general (?) there is always a way as far as you want to be successful. i just know ama good person thats it :) why care too much? I also form an opinion from my experience of people and just say "I don't know this person so I can't really say anything"
I do, however, respect the criticism.
It helps in the process of leveling up
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How to actually change a reputation that is actually your own fault. I had a friend that I owe money to, and took some time to reimburse. I was supposed to reimburse one week later but didn't have yet and was going through stuff. I am not going to play victim because I should have known I couldn't reimburse in time, because of the situation she ended up insulting me and my family and had people calling me to threaten me. I blocked her because I didn't even want to talk to her, I didn't reimbourse yet at the time I blocked her.When I was able to pay back I just send it without saying nothing. How do you even go about that?
Apologize and reimburse them, give them extra if you can swing it (if not just give back what owed), be genuinely sorry for how you’ve acted, and then accept how they respond. Genuinely convey your sincerity
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🤎🤎🤎 you know I’m here girl, I love your videos on both channels 🫶🏾
🤎Great Information!
🤎 Please make beauty videos :)
So true. Reputation is everything.
White is YOUR color, Queen Karine.🤍👑🤍👑
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Yes, loved this. 🤎 Please do a video of levelling up through dressing. 🤎🤎
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