Mistakes To Not Make During No Contact Period

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  • @Nitronerd
    @Nitronerd 3 роки тому +190

    "I miss you." "I love you." Talking about the past will not work. He's right. Talk about today. Shed the past. Live in today. And don't bring up your dreams of a future. (This is for me.) Work on yourself. The ex doesn't want a product. They want process. Get in the process of improving yourself.

    • @angelinazimmerman9519
      @angelinazimmerman9519 Рік тому

      Alex I am looking forward to going to Hawaii with my best friends. I am so excited! I will be going sky diving, snorkeling, and a luau fun fun fun!!!!😊

  • @bhattsahab
    @bhattsahab 2 роки тому +71

    You are right , it works when you do it so lets focus on other parts of life

  • @Whatspopinn
    @Whatspopinn 4 роки тому +93

    We are not in jail 😂😂😂 I love you ! Best advice ever this channel has some amazing advisors - great work guys!

    • @yukiii1680
      @yukiii1680 4 роки тому +1

      Literally read that as he said it what

    • @ahmadfaraz8863
      @ahmadfaraz8863 3 роки тому

      We are traped, not in jail, way out thoughts hurting during silent period.

  • @aselalovesjoy7368
    @aselalovesjoy7368 4 роки тому +143

    Counting days haha I feel attacked haha

  • @simplykiki9405
    @simplykiki9405 2 роки тому +64

    Your video is helping me through this breakup.
    It's hard for me but I know I will get through this.

    • @Annointed1985
      @Annointed1985 2 роки тому

      Yes you will and next time whenever that is you will see it quicker than ever. Good luck

    • @joansheekey476
      @joansheekey476 Рік тому

      Very hard isent it but no contacted does work. Iv got two stop now for my Owen sake

  • @Jordannnnnnnjones
    @Jordannnnnnnjones 4 роки тому +37

    when you think about when youre in hospital, nearly dying and all your heart needs is your family -- this all seems like bullshit.. you wish that people would just love each other and stop messing around.. wish he would just be there like family someone you can count on, not someone you need to distance from to get back.. this is all so meessed up :(

  • @RampinRabit
    @RampinRabit 4 роки тому +49

    Alex the girls love you even my mum said who is he 😂🤦

  • @pgarza1222
    @pgarza1222 4 роки тому +266

    I literally laughed at myself when you said #3 ! I stopped two weeks ago look at his stuff and even blocked him for a while to stop the temptation and yea man I feel so much better. Growing day by day ! Thank you!

    • @errorzzztv921
      @errorzzztv921 3 роки тому +5

      Me also I can't resist to check her instagram or even her fb hahaha

    • @reshp1926
      @reshp1926 2 роки тому +5

      Does it work positively? Did your ex come back or rather detached more ?

  • @chamomile3620
    @chamomile3620 2 роки тому +51

    i love how you remind us that we are doing this to better ourselves rather than to do this so the other person will miss us and comeback

  • @velephinkosi7468
    @velephinkosi7468 3 роки тому +30

    It's been 1month and 2 weeks since we've separated, and since then he greeted me by what'sup and I responded after an hour coz I still love him, I wanted to ignore him but something deep down inside told me to do it, but since then I haven't spoken to him, I'm trying my best to forget him and move on, I'm even trying to have the new me of a new look 😊

    • @aminamombo8085
      @aminamombo8085 3 роки тому +1

      For me was like that I try to forget but was difficult upto I was sick but my friends help me there is many men's out side there

  • @mercyonaya
    @mercyonaya 3 роки тому +22

    The journey to my No contact starts straight away. My question is how do I deal with his messages and calls if he does

  • @dounialaachir7915
    @dounialaachir7915 3 роки тому +4

    Lol 😆 I like your French accent

  • @nagendrak9429
    @nagendrak9429 3 роки тому +26

    Bro your words are making me mentally strong, thank you so much for your tips

  • @preciousirene3968
    @preciousirene3968 Рік тому +8

    The first day I watched your video my life changed completely and now happy and stress free

  • @floradelinatabuena5015
    @floradelinatabuena5015 4 роки тому +8

    hi my ex leave me instantly and blovk me all in his account .... how will i know if he still want me or miss me

  • @alexandra2536
    @alexandra2536 3 роки тому +67

    Your English language with French accent is sooo cute ! 😁

  • @gyananng5484
    @gyananng5484 3 роки тому +8

    Stop looking at their Instagram profile ..just hilarious 😂

  • @kennykhan8400
    @kennykhan8400 3 роки тому +17

    Its basically being strong and moving onn if they leave let them go period

  • @soravithlor6380
    @soravithlor6380 3 роки тому +11

    No contact take another better than him 😂😂😂😍😍 thank for advice

  • @orumeemmans8289
    @orumeemmans8289 3 роки тому +24

    How I wish I knew this channel months ago.
    Thanks so much.

  • @joviahbirungi9992
    @joviahbirungi9992 3 роки тому +11

    Lol
    So guilty about days counting. Thx Alex. Am no gonna do that again. Never.

  • @lieghnchannel2880
    @lieghnchannel2880 3 роки тому +4

    Alex my boyfriend break me 2days ago.. he have a new girl.. it is possible he come back to me if I do this, I did not text or call him.. can you reply

  • @xoxoaikob
    @xoxoaikob 4 роки тому +23

    I just found this channel and it’s truly amazing ! And so relaxing to watch too without it being boring ! Great job! My ex just broke up with me last night and this morning he texted me “I want to try again at some point” does he really mean this ?

  • @JL-xd4cn
    @JL-xd4cn 3 роки тому +11

    “We are not in JAIL” 😂😂😂😂😂 brilliant great vid

  • @sweetcake007
    @sweetcake007 3 роки тому +4

    My ex broke up with me. I tried no contact and failed miserably. 1 week no contact then I miss him and message him again. It’s been going on for 3months already. He would respond to me every time. Sometimes it feels like we’re friends again. Then he would disappear and not respond again. Unfortunately, he never initiated any conversations with me. I know my problem. I was very impatient. I guess I made too many mistakes after our breakup. Right now, my very focus is letting him go. Hopefully I can do this no contact forever!!

  • @joshritz5556
    @joshritz5556 3 роки тому +40

    I could listen to Alex all day. Seems like a great guy.

  • @teetoms9442
    @teetoms9442 2 роки тому +7

    I even laughed at counting the days! 🤣No time for that! Cut that none sense out of everything including my mind! 😌

  • @rachellewis9251
    @rachellewis9251 3 роки тому +5

    I left him due to lack of respect violence and drug abuse gone no contact and am getting alot of nastiness

  • @ariesbekind270
    @ariesbekind270 4 роки тому +8

    The ex shouldn't be coming back or trying to contact you... I block their behind🙂

    • @blessedsoul949
      @blessedsoul949 2 роки тому

      Blocked them too and it really gives me peace.I don't want him to have the slightest chance of ever coming back. He is the one who chose to leave anyway, not my problem.

  • @mohanade8839
    @mohanade8839 3 роки тому +16

    I am in this no contact period for almost 4 months still I feel the same for him where I left him. He was cheated on me intentionally. After knowing that still I cry for him,I miss him. What to do???

  • @halmamudy1
    @halmamudy1 3 роки тому +2

    And delete and remove anything that remind you about them

  • @ken45y
    @ken45y 3 роки тому +2

    Oops made a few mistakes here

  • @naseemhaider4417
    @naseemhaider4417 3 роки тому

    I do no contact he get crazy and come to me but again does same and he has an other girl friend .I want leave hime but he doesn't let me to go.what should I do.

  • @timmyCOD
    @timmyCOD 4 роки тому +47

    Love your work Coach Alex and team! could we please have more videos on situations with children involved? Thanks!

  • @harinimurali8724
    @harinimurali8724 4 роки тому +15

    we've been in one and off relationship for three years. I blocked him in social media when I started this to fight the urge to reach out. I've been focusing on myself but I kinda hoped I'll receive a text from him on my birthday yesterday. He didn't wish and it disappointed me. Alex, do you think there's still a chance? He didn't reach out even on my birthday..

    • @ishbryant7057
      @ishbryant7057 2 роки тому +3

      How can he if he was blocked. Even if you unblocked him he prob thought he was and therefore didn’t. And guys don’t think like us when it comes to bdays and stuff. I went thru it to when my ex didn’t call me on my bday. But he was a very selfish person.

    • @preciousfunmi2230
      @preciousfunmi2230 2 роки тому +1

      We are all facing same thing
      Am doing the no contact and also if he likes let him come back i love my self if he leaves me his at lost
      I know he still loves Me because sometimes he try to call me
      Anybody that doesn't want u just leave them and move on with ur life

    • @veekay9977
      @veekay9977 2 роки тому +1

      Harini, why do women always expect men to make the first move?
      If he hasnt wished u on ur bday you take the initiative and wish him on his bday to break the current deadlock between you two.

    • @veekay9977
      @veekay9977 2 роки тому

      @@preciousfunmi2230 you are arrogant

  • @hasinnahjhammy4801
    @hasinnahjhammy4801 3 роки тому +1

    If you dont want to see him he's on the line block him,,

  • @beatriznoreenlabajo4995
    @beatriznoreenlabajo4995 2 роки тому +3

    Dont count the number of days bcos we are not in jaiL..🤣🤣🤣am doing this...
    Thank you Alex..this is really works

  • @blank1505
    @blank1505 3 роки тому +3

    So, does no contact not really mean NO contact? You CAN y talk to them BUT not with history there?
    Can you please clarify

  • @selinamunatsi520
    @selinamunatsi520 3 роки тому +4

    It's now 6 months since my ex left mi & I'm really hurt

  • @brendahjeannette9107
    @brendahjeannette9107 3 роки тому +40

    I actually watch this guy to laugh, he makes me so happy.

  • @moonabutool4456
    @moonabutool4456 2 роки тому +3

    In no contact if u r like me....You will end up loving yourself and moving forward in your life....🥰

  • @justiceforall3973
    @justiceforall3973 2 роки тому +5

    This guy, Alex, is awesome … I can totally keep listening to him. :)

  • @margaretmejia6305
    @margaretmejia6305 3 роки тому +5

    Did the no contact and today was the first day we actually talked like friends it was refreshing for once .

  • @jijipar839
    @jijipar839 3 роки тому +6

    Omg he read my mind , i did a lot of mistakes 🤦🏻‍♀️, how stupid i am

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching! I hope the video was helpful for you.
      Coach Alex

    • @jijipar839
      @jijipar839 3 роки тому +1

      @@LoveAdviceTVCommunity sure it's really helpful, thank u so much

  • @jokath5620
    @jokath5620 3 роки тому +1

    I'm done waiting... He doesn't worth it

  • @ssjaang9284
    @ssjaang9284 4 роки тому +6

    I am going thru a breakup in highschool, and I know that highschool, is just highschool, but ive been looking, and Ive found some of your past videos. And one thing i was thinking about being when I am older is a dating coach, or a break up coach, or something like that. I am just curious as to how that might affect your personal lives, or your love lives. Not really a question about break ups, im just curious

  • @shanmukhi.p6982
    @shanmukhi.p6982 2 роки тому +1

    Are there any one who got back together with ur ex after trying no contact rule?

  • @joswinnoronha1739
    @joswinnoronha1739 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks bro 🥺🥺 for Ur advice , Jesus Christ shower his blessings on Ur family

  • @hussainaabubakar2334
    @hussainaabubakar2334 3 роки тому +3

    Sir, what of during the no contact period she sending you a greeting like" good morning message ". Sir in this case can I answer her or I should ignore her? Thanks a lot for your good work .

  • @enviousod8883
    @enviousod8883 2 роки тому +4

    this dude is fire at convincing you you can do this

  • @maryjinkykolaitis2534
    @maryjinkykolaitis2534 3 роки тому +1

    I have a boyfriend from England then later he not message me for one Months...I'm wondering he is gone no personal broke up or never message me ..real ghost......now I learned all. If he times come back to me is over......I don't want stranger people in my life...once I'm hurt's emough........

  • @manishankartiwari8444
    @manishankartiwari8444 3 роки тому

    What i can do if she block me on whatsapp, on Instagram on calls ..everywhere

  • @sabrinapena1891
    @sabrinapena1891 3 роки тому +8

    “We are not in jail” 😂😂

  • @annitahimooya7962
    @annitahimooya7962 3 роки тому +1

    Why do we move on during the no contact phase

  • @intesarsalim8031
    @intesarsalim8031 3 роки тому +5

    Thanks Alex ..For a wonderful. .informative video. .based on human psychology. ..may God bless you.

  • @kobusingyemaureen5806
    @kobusingyemaureen5806 2 роки тому +2

    Your advice Alex is working for me ,am a Uganda but am recovering from my heart break

  • @daisybudikova
    @daisybudikova 2 роки тому +8

    You make me laugh! 😂😂 Love it

  • @LoveTOOlearn
    @LoveTOOlearn 4 роки тому +2

    My wife is seeing a guy I was locked up with in jail I did alot of bad things in our marriage and she always gave me chances and now its been two months and sometimes she would straight ignore me and I'd blow her up beg for her back I noticed when I didn't our convos were better she filed for divorce. Think we have two kids together and I was a step dad to her first three she would tell me she loved me still call me babe and once and a while stop being like that she has now blocked me on social media snap chat tik tok and I'm wondering if I can get her back she wanted me to change for years basically the lying and I was a drug addict who introduce her to drugs we have been clean now and what blows my mind is this guy shes having a relationship with is pretty much me! But he's a cheater I lived with him in a sober living house for addicts and he would cheat on his girlfriend anytime they got into a argument I talked to her yesterday and she was being rude I was calm I didn't know how serious they were and I messaged the guys boss who works for the church and program we were in and he lost his job so now shes all mad at me and asking me to change it but its true he ruined a marriage even more after I was seriously working on changing my self she even told me she was proud of me the other day for not messaging him and going to work even thoe I'm an emotional wreck I want to text or call her so bad and I ended up texting her today cuz my father was taking to the hospital for his arms and legs being numb and I got no response from her for years she stood by my side hoping I'd change our sex life went away the connection and once and she would say stuff to me that made me feel like she wanted to get back together and now because I did that and he lost his job she won't talk to me she said if I ever want to talk to her again to tell that guy I was lying I am so lost 5 years of marriage gone and I'm determined to do whatever I have to please help! Thank you

  • @aurorasoto5985
    @aurorasoto5985 2 роки тому +1

    I'm one those persons I will give you chances but when someone pushes that red button that's it. That person is cut off my life. Even if this person is in front of me they are invisible to me. I don't care if they are engaged in the conversation with the same person I treat them as they are no longer around. I move on .... Cold but it helps me because I know especially if they are still wearing the same fake clothes.

  • @sheikhdanial4308
    @sheikhdanial4308 3 роки тому +3

    Yes sir I really need your help, I'm from Hong Kong

  • @princesslabina5133
    @princesslabina5133 3 роки тому

    I’m chatting from America I would like to work with you

  • @jazmineelnaji8493
    @jazmineelnaji8493 4 роки тому +8

    i love his accent 💛 i assume he's french

  • @beatricechin2748
    @beatricechin2748 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks so much..I learned a lot ..but please my situation is complicated..my ex turns to be my neighbour..I really want to ignore him but he keeps showing up..I ignore him but he kips texin me"hi,hey,u don't wanna to me"etc pls wat can I do

  • @jeffbecker9515
    @jeffbecker9515 3 роки тому +4

    We have been dating for 5 years. I want to try the no contact rule to make her realize and appreciate what she has/had. She takes me for granted and controls our sex life. That is not as frequent as it used to be and she uses the frequency to her advantage.
    I have keys to her place. Should I go there, grab my belongings and leave the keys on the counter when she is at work then ignore her texts and calls ? What if she says "are you breaking up with me" when I start to pull away ? What should I reply back with ? Should I say that I need a break ?
    Thanks

  • @flowieedenn
    @flowieedenn 3 роки тому +2

    Lolll 😂, I didn't realize how dumb I was until he told me these things 😂🙄

  • @wanderlusterer442
    @wanderlusterer442 2 роки тому +3

    Do this to better yourself not better your ex. Strength to all going through it.

  • @waleedantulay3419
    @waleedantulay3419 3 роки тому +1

    Hi I've been married for 12 years ....made some bad decisions in my marriage( no cheating) now my wife has moved and taken her home contents with her ....I've even helped her moving some stuff....I've tried no contact but it's difficult when the kids has moved in with her and taken all there stuff even home content and clothes...I see her and kids everyday.......how do I get her to leave the place she's renting at and move in with me at the house I've just bought for us.....been separated now for a month?

  • @arielleanneferrer4209
    @arielleanneferrer4209 3 роки тому +8

    What a healthy advice✨

  • @beckystopford7352
    @beckystopford7352 3 роки тому +2

    Have watched the mistakes in no contact video-I haven’t made any mistakes though..nearly 2 weeks no contact..but neither of us said it was over.So I’m thinking he just doesn’t give a shit?He does the no contact thing to me every time he goes home for 2 weeks a time every time so what is going on?feel like I’m just being played or used...

  • @liztowers2058
    @liztowers2058 Рік тому

    what you focus on grows so ignore him and thoughhts of him and FOCUS ON YOURSELF !!!!! and watch, after a while you wont even want them back !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SPACE IS NEEDED TO see people CLEARLY @@@

  • @limji679
    @limji679 4 роки тому +2

    need your view coach
    there is a religion problem in our relationship and she lost feeling for me. after 3 weeks i texted to her that i changed my religion before a month and i dont want to scare you by saying on that time and asked her would you like to reconsider our relationship. but she doesnt responding to it she just says i will look into it later for straight 3 days. and she doesnt even seen my last text i sent and muted all my story and post but not blocked yet. yeah i asked many time to answer it. i never contacted her its been 4 days. she hasnt seen or replied.
    i just asked her will it going to work or not anything is fine but she not saying anything
    what should i do now coach

  • @PraveenKumar-ne1wt
    @PraveenKumar-ne1wt 4 роки тому +1

    My ex reaching me repeatedly..I didn’t answered ..She got hurt with my unanswered calls and text .She told me that ;she would never contact me ..Will she pull away from me 😢.Is ignoring all the texts and calls completely in no contact is a bad idea or good! I’m afraid to loose her now 😶..She told me that she won’t disturb me again due to the reason I didn’t answered her texts and calls ..Will she pull away further ?? Help me LATV..!

  • @togodbetheglory9725
    @togodbetheglory9725 3 роки тому +1

    What if she Text me,,what should I do,,not to answer her?? , what if she gets tired of trying and finds someone else,,

  • @mawarputih9072
    @mawarputih9072 3 роки тому +4

    We are not in jail 😃😃 .... Motivated me , thanks 🙏

  • @deepubagrecha
    @deepubagrecha Рік тому +1

    Hi coach alex good morning have a nice day 😊❤🎉love u coach,ur advice is awesome to listen and follow

  • @bridgettedy3957
    @bridgettedy3957 3 роки тому +1

    I break my NC today. I texted him today if he can fetch me but he just ignore me🥺 My heart 🥺
    I hope I can find a job right away to make myself busy. Hey, Can you be my friend? I need someone to talk to🥺

  • @roseandrews8523
    @roseandrews8523 3 роки тому +2

    I'm just here for your accent.

  • @samikhan-gf9hm
    @samikhan-gf9hm 2 роки тому +1

    Dude i dont care even if i have any issues in my relationship i just want to hear you talk xD.

  • @therealtulip
    @therealtulip 2 роки тому +11

    I love how you say MEEH-stakes with emphasis on the mee! 😊
    And besides, I find your videos very valuable and helpful. Thanks!

    • @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473
      @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 Рік тому

      Right he is so adorable! Seems to be a honest high quality genuine man He is so cute with his accent ❤️🙏🏿

  • @janezulu6471
    @janezulu6471 3 роки тому +2

    The problem is that his relatives likes calling me by the end of conversation we end up talking about him.

  • @punithaaaaaa
    @punithaaaaaa 2 роки тому

    Hey Alex
    We study in same place so should I speak to him or just ignore him infront?
    He left me fr other girl .is there a possibility of me getting him back?

  • @sathi7501
    @sathi7501 3 роки тому +1

    He broke up with me after 6month relationship. Its me who did the wrong. He thought himself being cheated. I tried hard to make him understand how much i love him and say sorry again again and promise that i don't do anything wrong again but he didn’t give me a second chance. I love him so much and want him back.He also loved me so much. And did a lot for me. I saw your vedios and know about no contact rule. I am trying to follow your rules but It's hard to continue. sometimes i feel fear loosing him and confused about his coming back again.
    What should i do now?

  • @puja7533
    @puja7533 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks for your advice. It's seems I've to be hard more otherwise this period have no value. Wanna try to focus on myself

  • @sumeetm110
    @sumeetm110 4 роки тому +3

    Hi
    My ex broke up saying we need to build a friendship, as friendship was missing in our relationship.
    So will this really work? Or am I gonna lose love in this process.

    • @blessedsoul949
      @blessedsoul949 2 роки тому +1

      My ex told me the same but when I looked back and remembered all the nasty things he had said and done to me.I blocked him and walked away without looking back. Infact his breaking up with me made me realize the kind of person he was- a narcissist!!

  • @katieshine8432
    @katieshine8432 4 роки тому +3

    Hi Coach, me and my man is on no contact for over 3 weeks now. And I decided to do the radio silence now.. Just wanted to know if I'm doing it right?

  • @sherylrender5131
    @sherylrender5131 2 роки тому

    It's 6/14/22 and I want to start the no contact on 6/15/22,but what do I do when it's his birthday 7/2/22.do I not congratulations him?this my separated spouse I'm talking about?

  • @ryanpaulsalazar7727
    @ryanpaulsalazar7727 3 роки тому +1

    My Ex messaged me after a week of our break up. It was my fault why we broke-up. He wished me all the best to my future and also at the end of the text he said "Maybe we can catch up for a coffee sometime". We were together for 6years, and his message made me confused and sad again. Can anybody please tell me if he is also struggling to move on?

  • @scarletlady3727
    @scarletlady3727 2 роки тому +1

    The give time to homeless people caught me off guard

  • @crystalclimenhage7159
    @crystalclimenhage7159 3 роки тому +1

    God im dping all of the above

  • @thisloop
    @thisloop Рік тому

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 if we dont count it how can we know that we improve ourselves? when we finally reach into 90 days, we wanna scream like yeeeessssss i did it! Congrats to myself, finally i move on

  • @belindagarita1883
    @belindagarita1883 3 роки тому +4

    Hi! Mr. Alex Cormont...yep..so true..i guess everyone needs to follow your advices on this topic..though it is hard but these are very helpful for those "no contact " situations...i appreciate it much.! Have a lovely weekend and God bless !!

  • @irenepreetsingh2197
    @irenepreetsingh2197 3 роки тому

    What if he is also watching this channel n he is waiting for me to call him while am also busy waiting for his call🤔🤔 i think we will die waiting for eachother.i wish ge dont watch this

  • @prakashjadhav3805
    @prakashjadhav3805 3 роки тому

    my dear sir my name is Prakash jadhav I'm staying in Mumbai India and she was from other countries we meet at social media than we exchange our phone number we msg on what's aap daily msg she proposed to me and I accept her request but she blocked me on all social media what happened I don't know more it's real love or fake plz suggestion me I am following NC rule from 90days above she not replying me now what I do

  • @dinzpink44
    @dinzpink44 2 роки тому

    hard understand your accent,but your video are INTERESTING

  • @sharaclerk1964
    @sharaclerk1964 2 роки тому

    Hi alex I blocked him from every contact is that okay

  • @sivaprasad5502
    @sivaprasad5502 2 роки тому

    Uppolam varilla uppilittathu.
    Nerile varatha onnineyum viswasikkan manasu innu madikkunnu.

  • @darksideofthebright4284
    @darksideofthebright4284 2 роки тому +1

    Shift this energy dynamic, Gents. You'll see how things can radically change, most of a time on Your favour

  • @robphillips4856
    @robphillips4856 2 роки тому

    I need your help so much. I'm a fool. I love this woman so much and I have broken this rule. I only want her,but I'm tired of being a fool. Please help me

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  2 роки тому

      Hi Rob,
      I would love to help you. I hope you can book a coaching session with me so we can go more in depth with this.
      www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/

  • @selvijagan7541
    @selvijagan7541 3 роки тому

    plz...reply me..a man with mad mind,aggressive, over headed can come back after breakup ..by doing this no contact method. Plz reply me.im helpless i really loving him ...