I so wish you'd come to my community College, just so that I could meet y'all and have the opportunity to sit in on one of your discussions. I don't think I could handle debating anyone or anything, I'm not good with being put on the spot like that. But I'd love to be there and hear the good facts and information, as well as maybe ask some questions for myself.
What she is stating, don't make no sense. She uses the term misogynistic completely wrong, and she speaks nonsense like "I'm not capable of being a mother without an abortion". That quote makes no sense because if you abort your children, you are not a mother, and if you don't abort your children and/or miscarriage then you are a mother.
I do wonder how well YOU would speak under pressure while flustered with all those people yelling at you. I bet you’ve never even spoken in front of a crowd. Did you comprehend what she meant or are you so simple you hung on the one sentence and not the others to figure out what she meant!? Because I completely comprehended that what she meant was HAVE A CAREER WITHOUT AN ABORTION. I find it amusing that all you could do was break down her words. It certainly doesn’t negate the fact that ABORTION IS MURDER.
In all fairness though, and in the name of “equality”, a man should have the same rights as a woman to legally & FISCALLY “abort” an unwanted pregnancy. If you’re going to allow abortion then it should be at least fair for both parties.
@@Hardcore_Remixer The prolife women suing their own state of Texas badly wanted their children, yet still required the reproductive healthcare called abortion. It's actually a human right, and this "advocacy" irreparably harms them by insinuating prolife people are somehow irresponsible when they aren't. Check for yourself, it's a public case. I'm shocked this channel owner isn't talking about it seeing as it is actually hurting feminism, and prolife women. People they obviously want to fight for. It's odd, very very odd.
@@freedomishavingachoice3020 The fact that it is a human right doesn't make it any more responsible than it is. Besides, the right to live is also a human right. *Human* right. You and I both used to be fetuses. That means fetuses are humans in an early development stage. *Humans* with human rights. This means the human rights also state that, even if requiring some biology knowledge to get it, nobody has the right to make any abortion. And I don't think that having pleasure is more important than avoiding to commit a crime. Yes, taking the life of a human is a crime. Human rights are supposed to apply for every single human, right? Fetuses ARE humans. So it's going 2 ways from here regarding human rights in our debate. Either each of us will have a different (subjective) interpretation (I doubt you would place avoiding murder above pleasure) or just dismiss them because they contradict one another. Or we can get to common ground and agree that abortions are only acceptable in some special situations. I am not exactly pro-life, but rather pro responsability.
I got married just after turning 18. Had my first child at 18, second at 19 then went on to have 2 more later in life. They never prevented me from getting an education or having a career. I have 3 degrees and became a professor. All my kids have gone to college and have married except my youngest who will soon start college. They are a blessing to my life and I wouldn't change a thing. It wasn't easy, but it was very fulfilling. The only obstacles are the ones you put on yourself.
Was the dad in the picture? Did he provide enough money so you could study? Not al woman are that luckey. I am happy for you that everythig turned out great! Abortion should be an option for woman. No woman should have her life plans change for a baby she doesn't even want to he the mom of.
@@SL-gz3dyif you are not having money and you are broke you should’t have sex, stop trying to excuse abort=killing a life just because you have No self control…that’s selfish
@@SL-gz3dy what makes her life more important than that baby? She’s not more valuable just because she’s older. Why didn’t her parents get an abortion?
I notice all the “if you’re a man, you don’t get to speak” people were silent while this guy spoke in favor of abortion. Proof they’re just trying to silence opposing voices rather than standing up for women.
That's because the whole abortion issue is about controle Feminist use it as a tool to overpower men and as a escape from responsibility The government useless it to use the people to fight among each other so they can distract us from the real issues
But I am asking this as a Woman. Why do women have to go through so much in their bodies and be expected to own a business and bring money to the family? Aren't Men called to be the providers and Aren't women meant to be the nurturers? I don't want to work or feel the pressure to provide financially, after Marriage. Atleast, I don't want to the the primary provider. But I don't want to be kicked out of the house if I choose to take care of the kids, my health and my Husband's either. The Proverbs 31 woman is too much for me, as a Christian woman. Men don't have to give birth to babies and have their bodies go through SO much change and weight gain and harmonal imbalances, after birth stress and anxiety. But yet why are women expected to endure and go through all of that and also own Businesses and deal with such work pressure? I am a Christian girl, but I find that so scary and so unfair. I find that as so much pressure on a woman!
@meatymama-lh7pn But Men couldn't handle it, is not an excuse either! The Bible clearly tells Men to protect women and speaks of women as the weaker sex and gender. So stop spewing lies like the pharisees did, who would tie heavy burdens on the necks of those that were feeble, but wouldn't lift a finger themselves! All these lies that Men couldn't handle it, does not align with God's word. When could women handle anything on their own? We all needed God at all points to do all things. The glory does not go to Men or Women, it goes to God who works in us. With God, Men can do much much more than women give them credit for.
@meatymama-lh7pn Of course Men can handle it. Stop attributing to Men as the weaker sex, because it does not align with the Bible. The Bible clearly says that women are to be taken care of and Men are the covering for the women, as they are the weaker sex. The Jezebelistic mindset should be something we need to snap out of. Let Men be Men and let Women be Women. When we put things in disorder, that is when there is trouble. Neither Men nor Women can do anything on their own without God. We all need God anyway. He gets the glory. But Men can do all things as well, through Christ that strengthens them.
Of course Men can handle it. Stop attributing to Men as the weaker sex, because it does not align with the Bible. The Bible clearly says that women are to be taken care of and Men are the covering for the women, as they are the weaker sex. The Jezebelistic mindset should be something we need to snap out of. Let Men be Men and let Women be Women. When we put things in disorder, that is when there is trouble. Neither Men nor Women can do anything on their own without God. We all need God anyway. He gets the glory. But Men can do all things as well, through Christ that strengthens them.
Of course Men can handle it. Stop attributing to Men as the weaker sex, because it does not align with the Bible. The Bible clearly says that women are to be taken care of and Men are the covering for the women, as they are the weaker sex. The Jezebelistic mindset should be something we need to snap out of. Let Men be Men and let Women be Women. When we put things in disorder, that is when there is trouble. Neither Men nor Women can do anything on their own without God. We all need God anyway. He gets the glory. But Men can do all things as well, through Christ that strengthens them.
When you have to be a single mom you don't have the luxery of study and take care of your baby and earn enough money to put a roof above your head. Not all woman are lucky to have family who wants to help. Having a baby you don't want to be the mom of can and will give mental health problems. We just should not force woman to change their future and body for a baby they don't want. Doesn't matter if she wants a carreer or not or if she would be able to do it with a baby or not.
@@thehobbyisttries i got pregnant trough birth control. It happens more often then you would think. I did not have an abortion and my boyfriend did leave me because of that. I had no family to help. I miscarried that pregnancy. I was going to do it alone. But to be fair, i am glad the miscarriage happened brecause my life would been so much harder and that baby would not have had a fair start. Now i have a husband, a home and a daughter with a father who loves her. Adoption is a lot harder then abortion is. Don't think to light about that option. And the body doesn't always bounce back 😅 maybe on the outside. But i had to trow out all my shoes as non of them fit anymore. My ribcase is wider then it was before, my breats look different and i still have pain when sitting in surtain positions. On the ouside i look basecally the same, but it's not how it feels like.
@gol_656 you are verry naif if you thing a ring on someones finger is going to make them want a baby or make the husband stay if the wife get's pregnant.
As a woman who got pregnant at 19 in college, im now 21 and I’m pursuing my dream career with my 2 year old toddler. What an absolutely horrible horrible person and reason to have an abortion. Shame on him. In 2 months I’ll be a high risk OB/GYN sonographer and I went through all the schooling with a baby and toddler. What a pitiful excuse to have an abortion. Truly.
@@larry-kp9spshe need no husband.. It's the guy that are mostly pro-abortion because you guys don't want to take the responsibility of your actions . Keep it up lady.
Education is the all round development of an individual. Just because you know how to read and write doesn't mean you are educated. It is only a small part of it. That doesn't mean you shouldn't get a college degree. You should get it so that you gain knowledge to put it to use that is useful for the development of the society
My mother always told us that me and my sisters are the reason why she worked hard and made it so high up in her job. And I've always admired her for that
Your mom kept going and rose up the ranks of her job so she could provide for you and your sisters, that's a strong, loving and dedicated mother you have!
I was a mother at 16yrs old, I am now 44yrs old still married to the father of my children and a successful bank manager. Tell me you can’t have a career with kids as a woman and I will show you my success doing both.
I think abortion should be legal for other reasons, and woman can absolutely achieve great things being mothers. My own mom had me and my sister, and is a gynecologist who makes good money.
Married to father.... When that it said it's referring to single mothers mostly I'm a single father and I'll tell you what when I was in a relationship I was farther along in my career at 20 years old then I am now at 26 because I've been a single dad for 4 years it is proven that single parents with kids cannot progress as far in career paths as people without children that's proven
@@hazeplagueis2225 dude they have the own mothers to take care of their children. These women talking about having careers when having children but they dont even raise their children lmao
My sister had a baby and it would’ve messed up her college and job. She still raised that kid while in school, proving it’s possible to have a kid and have a great career at the same time
@@KaiCross Men were fleeing their families in droves and now women are doing the same. It's leaving children in peril. Women used to have the courage to face motherhood alone and it seems they've gone the way of men as of late, and are running from it.
Facts!! I got pregnant in college! Refused to abort my baby despite being fed all this garbage about success! I got my degree at 8 months pregnant! Started my career in STEM after a few months and now am back in college for another degree all while being a full time mom.
@@MarshalllWalk3r if women can opt out like that then men should be able to opt out of child support and fatherhood like that, right now abortion is just an extra right for women that men do not have, right side tries to remove that right from both sides and left tries to keep it and encourage it
So maybe it does so for every woman which would make it impossible for them to prove that it is possible. Frankly, I don't even see why this is a considered a problem. Obviously the day only has 24 hours and either that time is dedicated to your children or your job. It's that simple. It would be the exact same for a single dad.
The fact that she equated the SAT to a real job just makes me think she never had a career and became a mother instead. She's just salty that she became a mother early in life while women out there got a career and a wealthy husband. Then essentially retired in a 500k+ house have small kids in their early to mid 30s. Abortion allows most women to freely pursue a career without the limitations that come with child care.
@@happy153ful u clearly missed the whole goddamn point she made. Women can be successful and have successful careers and STILL have babies...omfg. youre dense
yes. These things tend to happen when you have absolutely nothing going on in your brain.. she fumbled a bunch more words if you pay close attention, nothing she says actually makes sense.. it's worrying people cheered for her
I am singing the same song! I was adopted not aborted yeah thank u God! I was born out of date rape too! No worries I trust in God He got me here! I am thankful ;)
@@rockabyeruby0370she said she was born due to a rape date, which means the woman consented to go see a man, and sadly she got violated. The fact you said that, is literally disgusting “nothing to be proud of” she was saying shes happy to be alive considering her being conceived was from a unconcentual sex and didn’t get aborted.
NO. He said, abortion is a tool that allows women to pursue careers. He did NOT say that women cannot have careers while having a baby. You just kicked your own ass with your statement.
@aomana4357 That statement by the guy is wrong. Abortion isn't a tool for women's career or anybody's career for that matter period. It's like saying that murder is a tool... It's wrong.
You absolutely can have a career and be a mother. Absolutely can!! My mum built her business from the ground at home while trying to raise both me and my sister by herself. She now owns her own clothing line and her own shop! I couldn't be more proud of her!!
@@yeetusdeletus3072I am new to the world of politics, but where do you draw the line between living and dead because sperm is living and intentionally blocking it resulting in the cell dying with your logic could be considered murder. This is baffling to me and I will not be shocked if “pro life” becomes anti contraceptive/condom in the future.
@@lightinthedarkness6949 you get a great point. But what about those who get rapped? Abusing relationships ? Minors who get tricked? I agree with you in the condition that we are talking about those who are just careless and stupid. But you have to know that those victims I talk above is also existing woman in these scenarios . I do believe women should have access to abortion, a limited one though .
@@MarshalllWalk3r well if you had 1 working brain cell you will know in these conditions abortion is fine. You just want female to have sex with males without the responsibility
I just can't understand how a woman's womb can be the most dangerous place for a child. GOD has the last word and every knee will bow in judgment. Many go the broad road trusting in recalcitrant opinions and ignorance. I hope you are not one of them.
@@luestrada4697 lol it's not the most dangerous place for a child. Sounds like you're basing everything off views and opinions as well. 🤦🏻♂️ And since you're religious God said murder is wrong so I would refer you back to my original question are you vegan cuz every time you eat a hamburger or steak somebody murdered that animal so you could do it and if God created all living creatures it doesn't matter how you justify your murder it's still murder.. You damn Christians are going to wind up burning in hell with the rest of us heathens.. If it even exist.. here's another question for you, do you believe in freedom of religion?
@@wyattelder97 You make my point on so many levels. You do not know the Word of GOD, it is evident. It takes at least the will of two to have a respectful exchange of opinion. Don’t you think? It does not surprise me that there are those who compare the life of a human being with that of an animal, therefore, let's say, it is not difficult to understand much of the confusion and chaos that exists throughout the world. To the question, you cannot understand the things above if you do not understand those below. To begin with, you would have to show interest and clearly not. In any case, I am in favor of life and if you are too, then I applaud that we agree on that.
“I’m not capable of being a mother without having an abortion.” What does that even mean?? Edit: ive seen some of her other commentary videos and understand where she was coming from now but this sentence genuinely didn’t make sense from this video alone. Some of y’all are unnecessarily vicious.
@@bhazerelli7611 what was she meant to say? She said that with such confidence and didn't correct herself, just because a person talks fast and has confidence doesn't mean they're right though. If you're providing a point, at least correct yourself and not expect people to decipher your jumbled up sentences
@@misslen575 She meant to say she's "not capable of being successful without having an abortion," in other words, she cannot be successful and a mother at the same time. I don't think you've ever truthfully debated someone because you really do tend to slip up even when you sound confident. It happens. Edit: To clear up my comment for the people who are misunderstanding what I said, I think I may have worded this wrong. I was basically saying that Kristen was saying this guy was misogynistic because he was telling her that in order to be a successful woman, she could not also be a mother. Ideally, women should be stay at home mothers, because children flourish the most when they are with their mothers… now, that’s not to say women can’t be good mothers while also having stable, good jobs, but either way, it was completely wrong of him to say a woman can’t be successful while also being a mother. It just isn’t true. She slipped up what she was saying, but essentially she was calling out his ridiculous comment.
@@kayleighdupont5060 bruh I was in my school's debate team and represented my school you tend to stutter and mixup your points but what she said meant something completely different
To all the people wondering, a fetus is a baby. A child. It is something you created. It has some of your genetics, a personality, it’s life; it just needs to grow.
In case you're wondering, a tumor is also made of you, has your genetics. It's something you created and it just wants to grow. How about if the bundle of cells is in your body, putting your life at risk, you get to decide how long you carry it?
A tumor and a child are no where near the same. A tumor can kill you, having a baby will not kill you unless you have complications with birth or something else fairly uncommon while being pregnant. Am I saying other people’s opinions are wrong? No, you can have your own opinion. But my religion isn’t about killing a child for my own benefit. If a woman’s been raped, then my goodness that’s terrible and I would support the abortion, but that is the only scenario in which I do. Otherwise, if you have sex knowing the possible outcome WITH or WITHOUT protection, then you shouldn’t complain saying “Man, I had no idea I’d become pregnant, I’m just going to get rid of it.” Protection is not guaranteed.
@@pooksyy As someone who has carried both babies and tumors in my uterus, I can attest they are very much the same. They cause similar symptoms and are sadly often mistaken for one another. You're also wrong about risk. One, death is not the only risk a woman faces. Women suffer strokes, broken pelvises. They acquire immune system issues and develop conditions like diabetes and hypertension. I was pregnant 8 times in order to get the two children I now have. On my sixth attempt, I went into premature labor at 22 weeks. I was rushed to the emergency room where the nurses couldn't find a blood vessel for tests due to how swollen I was. They resorted to slitting my wrist and I now have the unpleasant memory of the sound of about a pint of my blood splashing on the floor. Four years later, I returned to the hospital to have a grapefruit sized tumor, one that slowly grew for 20+ years inside of me, removed along with my uterus during a hysterectomy. I came away from my experiences knowing I could never impose this on another woman. No matter what the reason is. Pregnancy is a traumatic experience and it should not be forced on anyone. You wouldn't make a cigarette smoker carry a lung tumor just because their actions led to their condition. You have your faith and you should. Your faith should shape your choices and no one else's.
@@ka6459 I’m not even going to bother reading the essay you wrote, apologies if anything important was written there that I missed out on. Charlietta just stated the fact, a fetus is a baby and all that stuff. You said that a tumor is made out of you, which is true, expect for the fact that it’s not a human. The fetus, as I would bet you’re aware of, gets a unique line of genetic code, writing everything about it. That’s what defines a human. Lmk if you want me to elaborate more like that because most of the time, people get what I mean by that, but still act like fucking retards, and then I have to explain further. So to wrap up, in a very high majority of pregnancies, there is no threat to the mother, and it would make you happy to know that usually the fetus is born prematurely, and both are safe c:
I’m so sorry to hear that happened to you. Obviously, I’m not going to shame you on your opinion or your factual evidence. Everyone is entitled to what they believe in and/or think. I’m not the kind of person who will force my Christianity on another person, and I am also not the kind of person to throw my opinion onto another person; hoping they forget their own. Like I said earlier, I’m deeply sorry.
I had my first child when I was 3 months from turning 19. My career went into a pause because came. The decision was for me to go back to school until he went to school. Which we did. And now after so long. I don’t regret anything. Even that decision that was made between my husband and I. Close to 21 years later. My son is attending college. I’m a in the operating room assisting in brain surgery. And my husband is a graphic designer. We all love our lives. And we don’t regret any steps that we took. We all know we did it for us. And now we also have a an 8year old kiddo. Couldn’t be happier. Never sacrificed anything or anyone. And for that we thank the lord everyday.
So you did it with a second parent in general single parents cannot Excell as far in a chosen Career as single parents can argue if you want but study's and statistics show less progression in general compared to single people without kids awesome all you've done but if being single after having kids probably would have changed a lot
@@hazeplagueis2225 Isn’t it supposed to be that way?? With both parents. In my belief marriage comes before having a child. That’s how it’s intended in the household where I grew up. In my husband’s household too. In we apply it to our household too. Our children have grown up with that mentality. You should only marry the person of your dreams. But I know a nurse who became a nurse because her husband got cancer. He was motivation. Then he passed. Left her and their son 13 year old son. She went on to be a professional. She has remained a widow. And her son is now a firefighter at the age of 31. So what’s the excuse there?
@@normajimenez1 not every home keeps 2 parents do you think I wish to hear my 6/4/3 year old sons to cry for there mother it breaks my heart it's not an excuse it's reality I made more money while in a relationship because the benefits it has for the family however not everyone grows up like you with both parents I still pray and thank God for what he does for my family
@@hazeplagueis2225 Everyone has a story to tell. Everyone’s shoes and luggage bag of life is a story to be told. I don’t know your situation, and it’s not for me to know either. But relationships are different in each household. We all pick choose what we want in life. The only thing that’s already chosen for us is our parents the rest we all choose.
must be a sign . instead of worrying about bs like the kardashians or meghan merkle. we are a society that makes billions off of selling women the lie that abortion is health care . and thinking that killing their unborn is a right . open your mind.
My aunt was 16 when she got her first baby. She still got the chance to pursue her career, education and worked hard. Now she is literally the head of one of the biggest companies where we live. This is simply a proof that you don't need to kill your baby (have an abortion) in order to become successful.
What does he have to clarify? He's saying women need abortions in order to have successful careers and that a woman can not have a successful career if they have a child
@@youngconservative how would you feel if you were forced to live with a child that reminds you of a horrible time that happened to you and probably will lead you to somewhere you don't want to be such as depression or suicide no I'm not saying every single time this happens. But you should still have a choice
@@nightmare3455 Why would I kill the only good thing to come out of that situation. I would carry the child full term. And did you know 79% of women who have abortions regret getting an abortion?
How do you know that's a good thing though I'm not saying it's a bad thing but what comes out of it may vary so if it is a bad thing to you(say your not financially stable) even though you care for it it'll only hurt you more in the long run so whether its a good thing or a bad thing it would be best to have a choice I don't look to change your opinion but to at least make people more aware of other problems
@@nightmare3455 because killing something over a bad event is never a better way to resolve the issue. the child can not help that he or she may have been the result of anything other than a planned pregnancy. let the damn child live instead of killing it off. besides, i believe that 1-2 million american families are considering adoption. maybe think for the unborn person instead of yourself all the time. laws are for the unspoken, not for the outspoken. selflessness is appreciated, especially when the other child is at risk.
@@MarshalllWalk3r I am not needy nor demanding. If you don’t want to answer me back then that’s fine. I wasn’t demanding an answer from you anyway. Since you can’t actually give me a counter argument and instead resorted to insult me, it proves that you are the loser here.
Yeah by fumbling her words into nonsense, like "I'm not capable of being a mother without an abortion". Having an abortion makes you not a mother, not having an abortion gives you a high chance of being a mother (if you don't miscarriage)
@@thehobbyisttries her point wasn’t clear, it’s irrelevant to the argument lol. “I’m not capable of being a mother without an abortion”, how is this at all relevant? It hardly makes sense in the context…
my grandma was 17 when she had her first kid. 63 years later, she's built an empire for herself, and she's the reason her grandchildren and children get to live a comfortable life. she's more girlboss than anyone who's aborted a fetus for their career needs.
@@michaellarson6936 not always.... And even if abortions were all results of voluntary sex, that doesn't change the fact that you aren't in that person's head and living their life.
I agree, but what does it matter that you are a woman of color? I obviously support and respect you, I am just wondering in what way race was brought up in this dialogue? Please be so kind to clarify for me.
Yes, for any confusion, she intended to say "Like I'm not capable of having a career, without having an abortion", in that HE was claiming she could not be a mother and have a career. Excellent rebuttal Kristan.
😂 it’s actually not an “excellent rebuttal”.. women say the same thing but because a guy said it he’s a “misogynist”! Plenty of women who have high powered careers have opted for abortion or are at least glad the CHOICE is there should they need or want to utilize it. I think you’re confusing a JOB with a CAREER. A lawyer has a career. A doctor has a career. A cashier at Walmart is a job. A waitress has a job. Can women do both?! I think not many can. And those that do or have will tell you as will the children they often leave to their own devices that there’s always a sacrifice in that situation! Either the hours you put in at work, which means you can kiss being partner at a law firm goodbye or that chief of Staff position!! Or your children who you CHOSE to bring into this world are being raised more so by someone else!! No One Can Have It All. Get over it. These are 💯% Facts. Wonder Woman is a fictional character.
How can that be misogynistic if it's what women who engage in it state themselves and do? He isn't wrong. Many do that because of their carriers. She went off on a tangent when he never claimed motherhood impaired a woman's ability. She got offended and didn't even let him land. Her argument should have been that women aren't supposed to do that. The fact is that they do.
@@Andrew-zt3bf What you call rationalizing I call simply stating facts. So is a murder of a clump of cells in the beginning stage, yes it is. Is it murder of a then embryo, yes it is. Then it becomes murder of a fetus, yes it does. However uncomfortable that truth is to some and for others to bear. It’s also an uncomfortable truth and or fact that some women are better off not being mothers, or some people children included were better off never having been born. Some can and or are able to make that very difficult choice.
The real problem is that “careers” have become more important that children. It’s insane to me, a career is something you have so you can support the rest of your life, it isn’t something that should be your whole life.
This is suppose to be a common sense, but the popular ideology is to beat the "men" as in the small percentage of men who got the wealth and owns a Bugatti. It's very unrealistic and making both men and women confused.
@@harry7237 ah yes, exploring sexuality is a great reason to risk getting pregnant when you aren’t ready for a baby. The fact of the matter is that abortion kills a human when she is most vulnerable and every excuse of money and “exploring sexuality” is a sickening reason for a woman to kill her own child. Sex is the only natural way to have children. Don’t want children, then don’t have sex. That’s it. It’s that simple.
@@harry7237 didn’t read the rest, it’s always the same excuses that have been addressed over and over again. People like you are disgusting because you believe killing an innocent human life has any valid reason or excuse and aren’t particularly picky about what that excuse is. You included the whole range I’m sure, from money, to pleasure, to convenience, to the incredibly rare exceptions that all pro-abortion people trot out as if those justify the 98% of abortions for shallow and pathetic reasons. It’s always the same from your guys, you don’t care about life, you’re perfectly happy to sacrifice children on the alter of whatever stupid excuse you can come up with. You’re on the side of the immoral and selfish and I’m tired of hearing all the flimsy excuses for why you think it’s ok to for women to literally kill their own children. It’s disgusting and you’re disgusting for arguing for it.
Excuse me? My mom got my brother at 19 (he is 28 now), and still went to med school and became a doctor/pediatrician. This young man is seriously very brave to state such an opinion. 😅
@@aomana4357 It was not easy, also because there were political conflicts going on in the 90s in the republic of Georgia, it was a harder life, but not impossible to manage. She felt blessed getting my brother bc she loves also kids and as an orthodox Christian family, we view abortion and having children differently. It didn’t make it easy, ofc not, but not impossible. Nevertheless, she felt happy and didn’t view having him as a burden. But she also got married young, at 18. 🤗🤗
@joedirty7176 she always talks crap. I havent heard her make any sense so far. Only thing she does is cringe me the f out bcuz she terribly disrespectful in her tone and also the way she never lets people talk smh Incredibly childish for such a big woman lol
Girl!!! You are my new hero! You verbally took that ignorant "boy" down!!! I am even happier, after watching this, that I support your group financially. Go girl!!
I had a 30+ year career as an occupational therapist Plus I had three children. I never once thought that I needed to have an abortion to have this career. I once was questioned by a female supervisor that wanted to know what I was going to do, after I told her that I was pregnant. I was very surprised by this question and I told her I was going to have the baby.
You probably screwed over your medical office in some way for having a baby. Certainly discontinuance of care with your patients and loss of production for your office are the top two.
My mum had 9 children with my dad and she was a school principal, a farmer, a businesswoman, a member of boards on few companies, a netball player, a community leader .
Not every woman is made the same, some can handle a busy life, taking on a career while raising a child, but for some it’s difficult,mentally and financially, which may be something they’re not ready to tackle on.
How about the amount of money it costs too birth a child and add that too college debt. Your gonna be paying back money your in debt too and paying for housing and bills too raise the child. Not too mention if one of those parents walks out and your on your own handling all of that. Now imagine this is someone who couldn't go too college cause of the cost because they come from a poor family who struggled to raise them add on parental mental illness. It's still our body and taking that choice away and forcing say a teenager into a money pit that could take decades of paying debt too get out of is cruel. I don't support the abortion surgery but the pill at the very early stages with good reason should be allowed for these exact reasons.
If a woman isn't ready to be a parent, perhaps she should not do the ONE thing that could make her a parent. Abortion advocates are choosing to promote genocide over self-control.
You all are despicable monsters. What you've done is advocated for murder. One day it will be used on you, because you just made it legal in so many instances that it can be interpreted for anything
Then those women should avoid getting pregnant. In today's world not only is there birth control like condoms and spermicide which is readily available without need for a doctor. Even then there's the plan B pill just in case both parties forgot protection.
During my study i met a girl/mother of twin girls. Sge had to raise them alone with tge support of her parents cuz her boyfriend left as she got pregnant. She came from the Netherlands, alone with her daughters. Found ofc a babysitter beforehand (a 15yo teen girl), did her 2. Years of study in Switzerland and worked at McDonalds as a side job. Passed everything as Class best, used spare time wisely to enjoy time with her daughters and learning for exams. Now, 5 years later, she's working for one of the biggest pharma industries as Lead in Finances and is happy married. Hugely admired her dedication.
@@MarshalllWalk3r That was the point. Ridicule the bro' for his promiscuous attitude. How many men are tortured with bro' culture machismo when it comes to fornication? Almost all today since the '60s/'70s. Throw it back at 'em. Lordy.
I love how everyone is getting their panties in a twist over her speaking mistake. And then they say she is the unreasonable one for yelling when the pro choice man kept butting in and being an ass during the whole debate. This guy just wants to sleep around and not pay child support.
It's true many of these so called "feminist" men are actually the most misogynistic pigs. They use it as a ploy just to try and score with these women. I've seen it for myself.
@@rapf3087 he uses the logic that women need to have access to abortion to be successful. He is in college and is surrounded by women who aspire to be successful. Using his own ideas, he is surrounded by the women who "need" to have abortions and are the best to sleep with, as there are no consequences to his actions. I'm going to take a guess that he does not plan to become an active father, or a father at all on the basis that most college students don't. Being pro-choice is a major win for him and other college frat guys. I would say that neither the mother nor the father should make the decision to have an abortion, but that's just me. And if it is his opinion that he doesn't want to pay child support, that would bring up this concept called responsibility and consequences, and caring for the human that he consented to create.
I love this lady! I was 18 when I had my son! I have a master’s degree now. I did it. And, I had a crappy husband. 😂 He is now 22, and I love him to pieces.
@@MarshalllWalk3r the problem with your “logic” is the ownership of a gun IS A RIGHT stated in the constitution! Killing another human being because they’re an inconvenience brought on by poor decision making is not listed nor implied in the constitution as a right!
@@thejakker6369 a gun is a tool! This tool allows a woman to keep breathing when she is physically attacked by a boyfriend/ex boyfriend or husband/ex husband, etc! Thus by using said tool in the manner it’s meant she can continue with her career! Get it?
@@bmf572 Actually no, I don't. A study from Harvard shows that guns in the home are most often used against the gun owner or used to intimidate intimates. Also you really think she's gonna get it outta the lock-box in time? OR A husband or boyfriend knows where it is? Because they bought it for her? No, sweety-puddin. I don't get it and neither do you, apparently. Stop watchin She-Hulk or Rings of Power or whatever lesbonian power-fantasy you been watchin and better vet the men you bring back from the bar.... So you don't haveta worry about gettin a gun. I'd be heart-broken if something were to happen to you, darling. Say NO to guns and abeertions! Luv ya!😙
@@MarshalllWalk3r dude. Don’t you know what assuming does? Makes an a.s.s out of U and M.e. And accusations are even worse. Lying is a far stretch. Yeah, obesity isn’t pro life. She needs to help herself. Doesn’t make what she says about considering the life of the child wrong though. Everyone has short comings in their lives. Doesn’t make them liars. It’s called *we’re all growing*
@@MarshalllWalk3r I think eliminating murder and loving, educating, and supporting mothers in need in a REAL way and not just signing women up to damage their bodies and kill their children for convenience and a profit while our nation falls victim to economic and population collapse… Is real growth 🤗 get out of here troll
@@rayna5623 so glad someone else recognizes it. it’s so bad. Like I get second hand cringe from seeing it 😂 it’s debate 101 basics but common sense too. These people rely on quick emotional outbursts to support their lack of objective logic. Either that or they’re trolls.
@@christianolange6950 but he didn’t say that either!😂 he said that it’s a tool that helps women pursue a career that would otherwise be off the table if you are pregnant or have a child… like if you want a job that’s taking your whole day and then you accidentally get pregnant, chances are your going to get an abortion to pursue said career.. that’s what he said.. Sometimes I wonder if everyone is even speaking the same language with the way no one listens to each other.
@@christianolange6950 well accidental in a sense of maybe the condom broke or maybe a forgotten birth control.. I mean you can take accountability for these things for sure.. but that has nothing to do with the literal statement he made which basically said that if you have an unplanned pregnancy, and are trying to pursue a time consuming career, one is likely to get an abortion if they really want that job over a baby… wether you agree with abortion or not that is a true statement… someone who is willing to get an abortion would most likely have one to pursue a career she otherwise couldn’t if pregnant?
I’m a mother and also still having a successful career. You can do both. I had my 5 year work anniversary when my son was 6 months old. I am on a hybrid schedule, and he is only at a daycare for 2 days a week. Which has been so great for him, he has been improving with his skills and developing new ones each day he goes. I’m pursuing a career in Surveying. Soon I will be enrolling back in school to become a licensed Surveyor. The end goal is to have my own business like my father. Having a child is not a road block. It is motivation to improve your life and to keep going.
That's not what he said. "Paper and pen are tools that help you study" "That is such a studyphobic statement" "Wait, what?" "Are you saying that I'm not capable of studying without paper and pen?" "No!" "That's exactly what you're saying."
@@KO-zi2xf If dumb had a sound it would be her, she can't even speak properly. firstly she can't even use the term misogynistic correctly, and she says "I'm not capable of being a mother without an abortion" which makes 0 sense. Don't be a sheep, don't just agree because everyone else agrees too, use facts presented by the video.
When I got pregnant at 17,I wanted my baby so bad. All of my closest friends were ready to support me no matter what plan I choose but I knew I wouldn't be able to feed them,be stable enough to make sure they have a healthy childhood and a happy life. Giving up for adoption isn't a choice here either. It was either a "yes" or "no". My bf knew I wanted a baby too but we both also knew we weren't ready. So,we decided to abort. It took a heavy poll on both of us. We felt like we lost something. something we both were supposed to love and protect. something that proved the love we had for each other. And no,we don't live in the US so it's different here but at the end of the day,you never know someone's story.
only get pregnant when you have a stable family, don't fuck around knowing that you aren't ready for it, everyone is accountable for their action, poor babies had to face that kind of situation
@@lye27 What if someone doesn’t want kids? So they should be celibate just cause you say so? Contraceptions are not 100% and we live different lives to what was normal back then. It was probably not that hard to wait till marriage if 20y old were getting married. Now getting married at 20 is risky because people change a lot in their 20s. It scares me that I could not access abortion if I accidentally got pregnant. Having a child changes your life completely and if you don’t have family that can help you, it’s hard to manage to study/work when having a child. It’s not really a baby at 10 weeks, and most definitely not a baby like in 2 days after fertilisation. Even in the Bible (the old testament) it says if someone kills your fetus they should pay you money as if that was just stealth, in case of killing a child the price was higher to pay to the parent. No sane woman wants an abortion, there are crazy ones out there but crazy people are everywhere. Abortion is not a work of the devil, it’s a matter of lesser bad, and it should be upon the woman to decide Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.
@@lye27 thank you. Tell them facts. You were not ready for a baby but got pregnant y not prevent the pregnancy initially by using contraceptive like most couple does?
@@sweetlifeofanundercoverfis879 No, they are toxic and abusive because they will coerce women into thinking that they should be free to do whatever they want with their bodies which means they should have unprotected sex all the time and it will be okay as long as she can just get an abortion from a dirty, hazardous facility that can potentially cause more health problems for the woman post-abortion.
He was speaking the truth and she tried to pull him down calling him baseless labels such as a misogynist. She had no key statement that can back her point.
Go watch our video of all the craziest conversations from that day at OSU.
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I so wish you'd come to my community College, just so that I could meet y'all and have the opportunity to sit in on one of your discussions. I don't think I could handle debating anyone or anything, I'm not good with being put on the spot like that. But I'd love to be there and hear the good facts and information, as well as maybe ask some questions for myself.
Chubby with glass is really gorgeous😍
Lol all hyped up on "human being"
Sometimes an abortion saves the mothers life physically not mentally
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What she's stating IS what feminism should be
What she is stating, don't make no sense. She uses the term misogynistic completely wrong, and she speaks nonsense like "I'm not capable of being a mother without an abortion". That quote makes no sense because if you abort your children, you are not a mother, and if you don't abort your children and/or miscarriage then you are a mother.
She is soo feminist for wanting women to suffer wow
I do wonder how well YOU would speak under pressure while flustered with all those people yelling at you.
I bet you’ve never even spoken in front of a crowd.
Did you comprehend what she meant or are you so simple you hung on the one sentence and not the others to figure out what she meant!?
Because I completely comprehended that what she meant was HAVE A CAREER WITHOUT AN ABORTION.
I find it amusing that all you could do was break down her words.
It certainly doesn’t negate the fact that ABORTION IS MURDER.
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@@rapf3087she prolly meant " i cant have a career and be a mom at the same time" 🤷🏻♀️ thats what i got from her
That guy simply wants a way out if he gets a girl pregnant...
Smart man.
In all fairness though, and in the name of “equality”, a man should have the same rights as a woman to legally & FISCALLY “abort” an unwanted pregnancy. If you’re going to allow abortion then it should be at least fair for both parties.
Well that is a perfect reason to support abortions.
@Jase, why do you consider promiscuous men smart?
Exactly! He doesn't want to deal with his own actions or consequences. This dude ain't no man.
She is a REAL feminist.
is that good or bad
@@balloon6528 good
A feminist who doesn't run from the responsability of her own consent. We need more like her.
@@Hardcore_Remixer The prolife women suing their own state of Texas badly wanted their children, yet still required the reproductive healthcare called abortion. It's actually a human right, and this "advocacy" irreparably harms them by insinuating prolife people are somehow irresponsible when they aren't. Check for yourself, it's a public case. I'm shocked this channel owner isn't talking about it seeing as it is actually hurting feminism, and prolife women. People they obviously want to fight for. It's odd, very very odd.
@@freedomishavingachoice3020 The fact that it is a human right doesn't make it any more responsible than it is.
Besides, the right to live is also a human right. *Human* right. You and I both used to be fetuses. That means fetuses are humans in an early development stage. *Humans* with human rights. This means the human rights also state that, even if requiring some biology knowledge to get it, nobody has the right to make any abortion. And I don't think that having pleasure is more important than avoiding to commit a crime. Yes, taking the life of a human is a crime.
Human rights are supposed to apply for every single human, right? Fetuses ARE humans.
So it's going 2 ways from here regarding human rights in our debate. Either each of us will have a different (subjective) interpretation (I doubt you would place avoiding murder above pleasure) or just dismiss them because they contradict one another. Or we can get to common ground and agree that abortions are only acceptable in some special situations.
I am not exactly pro-life, but rather pro responsability.
I got married just after turning 18. Had my first child at 18, second at 19 then went on to have 2 more later in life. They never prevented me from getting an education or having a career. I have 3 degrees and became a professor. All my kids have gone to college and have married except my youngest who will soon start college. They are a blessing to my life and I wouldn't change a thing. It wasn't easy, but it was very fulfilling. The only obstacles are the ones you put on yourself.
Was the dad in the picture? Did he provide enough money so you could study? Not al woman are that luckey. I am happy for you that everythig turned out great!
Abortion should be an option for woman. No woman should have her life plans change for a baby she doesn't even want to he the mom of.
@@SL-gz3dyif you are not having money and you are broke you should’t have sex, stop trying to excuse abort=killing a life just because you have No self control…that’s selfish
@@SL-gz3dy not all women are that lucky because they choose wrongly.
@@SL-gz3dy what makes her life more important than that baby? She’s not more valuable just because she’s older. Why didn’t her parents get an abortion?
@@SL-gz3dyever heard of like adoption?
I notice all the “if you’re a man, you don’t get to speak” people were silent while this guy spoke in favor of abortion. Proof they’re just trying to silence opposing voices rather than standing up for women.
Exactly! And as an Ohioan we claim none of these students. 😂
Straight up lol
That's because the whole abortion issue is about controle
Feminist use it as a tool to overpower men and as a escape from responsibility
The government useless it to use the people to fight among each other so they can distract us from the real issues
Nice catch!👍👍👍
@@MarshalllWalk3r if you’re in favor of abortion as one of the choices, then the distinction is moot.
Someone call the police, because Kristan just verbally murdered that dude.
Pro life is just killing the baby when its born because guess whats gona happen if u bully a mother to keep a unwanted child
Ya.. eXACTLY!!
No
Lol
No she made a fool of her self what she did was not feminism. What she is doing is wrong.
The Proverbs 31 woman was a true feminist who was a wife, mother, a business owner, helped the poor, and well respected in her community.
But I am asking this as a Woman. Why do women have to go through so much in their bodies and be expected to own a business and bring money to the family? Aren't Men called to be the providers and Aren't women meant to be the nurturers? I don't want to work or feel the pressure to provide financially, after Marriage. Atleast, I don't want to the the primary provider. But I don't want to be kicked out of the house if I choose to take care of the kids, my health and my Husband's either. The Proverbs 31 woman is too much for me, as a Christian woman. Men don't have to give birth to babies and have their bodies go through SO much change and weight gain and harmonal imbalances, after birth stress and anxiety. But yet why are women expected to endure and go through all of that and also own Businesses and deal with such work pressure? I am a Christian girl, but I find that so scary and so unfair. I find that as so much pressure on a woman!
@meatymama-lh7pn But Men couldn't handle it, is not an excuse either! The Bible clearly tells Men to protect women and speaks of women as the weaker sex and gender. So stop spewing lies like the pharisees did, who would tie heavy burdens on the necks of those that were feeble, but wouldn't lift a finger themselves! All these lies that Men couldn't handle it, does not align with God's word. When could women handle anything on their own? We all needed God at all points to do all things. The glory does not go to Men or Women, it goes to God who works in us. With God, Men can do much much more than women give them credit for.
@meatymama-lh7pn Of course Men can handle it. Stop attributing to Men as the weaker sex, because it does not align with the Bible. The Bible clearly says that women are to be taken care of and Men are the covering for the women, as they are the weaker sex. The Jezebelistic mindset should be something we need to snap out of. Let Men be Men and let Women be Women. When we put things in disorder, that is when there is trouble. Neither Men nor Women can do anything on their own without God. We all need God anyway. He gets the glory. But Men can do all things as well, through Christ that strengthens them.
Of course Men can handle it. Stop attributing to Men as the weaker sex, because it does not align with the Bible. The Bible clearly says that women are to be taken care of and Men are the covering for the women, as they are the weaker sex. The Jezebelistic mindset should be something we need to snap out of. Let Men be Men and let Women be Women. When we put things in disorder, that is when there is trouble. Neither Men nor Women can do anything on their own without God. We all need God anyway. He gets the glory. But Men can do all things as well, through Christ that strengthens them.
Of course Men can handle it. Stop attributing to Men as the weaker sex, because it does not align with the Bible. The Bible clearly says that women are to be taken care of and Men are the covering for the women, as they are the weaker sex. The Jezebelistic mindset should be something we need to snap out of. Let Men be Men and let Women be Women. When we put things in disorder, that is when there is trouble. Neither Men nor Women can do anything on their own without God. We all need God anyway. He gets the glory. But Men can do all things as well, through Christ that strengthens them.
You can be a mother and become successful in life at the same time. You don't have to kill an innocent life just to achieve your goals. Thats insane
Yes, thank you
When you have to be a single mom you don't have the luxery of study and take care of your baby and earn enough money to put a roof above your head. Not all woman are lucky to have family who wants to help. Having a baby you don't want to be the mom of can and will give mental health problems. We just should not force woman to change their future and body for a baby they don't want. Doesn't matter if she wants a carreer or not or if she would be able to do it with a baby or not.
@@thehobbyisttries i got pregnant trough birth control. It happens more often then you would think. I did not have an abortion and my boyfriend did leave me because of that. I had no family to help. I miscarried that pregnancy. I was going to do it alone. But to be fair, i am glad the miscarriage happened brecause my life would been so much harder and that baby would not have had a fair start. Now i have a husband, a home and a daughter with a father who loves her.
Adoption is a lot harder then abortion is. Don't think to light about that option. And the body doesn't always bounce back 😅 maybe on the outside. But i had to trow out all my shoes as non of them fit anymore. My ribcase is wider then it was before, my breats look different and i still have pain when sitting in surtain positions. On the ouside i look basecally the same, but it's not how it feels like.
@gol_656 you are verry naif if you thing a ring on someones finger is going to make them want a baby or make the husband stay if the wife get's pregnant.
@gol_656 I don’t understand that way of thinking…what difference does a signed bit of paper make?
As a woman who got pregnant at 19 in college, im now 21 and I’m pursuing my dream career with my 2 year old toddler. What an absolutely horrible horrible person and reason to have an abortion. Shame on him. In 2 months I’ll be a high risk OB/GYN sonographer and I went through all the schooling with a baby and toddler. What a pitiful excuse to have an abortion. Truly.
No one cares that you got pregnant.
Where's your husband?
Congratulations what an amazing story, thank you for being a mother and a Dr helping women and children 🙏
@@larry-kp9spshe need no husband.. It's the guy that are mostly pro-abortion because you guys don't want to take the responsibility of your actions .
Keep it up lady.
@@USpeople1776 it's not amazing. She got knocked up and the kid don't have a daddy. It's sad for the kid.
That guy is proof that a College Education does not make you an intellect.
Very true.
You forget that most of these guys don’t even graduate. The loudest are the forever freshman 😂
They can be .. but education is no guarantee to turn anyone to an intellect....
Education is the all round development of an individual. Just because you know how to read and write doesn't mean you are educated. It is only a small part of it. That doesn't mean you shouldn't get a college degree. You should get it so that you gain knowledge to put it to use that is useful for the development of the society
She graduated in college. You don't generalize everyone.
As a representative of the male community we would like to disown him
If abortion is legal men can waive their parental rights without telling the mother.
I second the motion 🙋🏿♂️🙋🏿♂️.
He's barely a men...probably heard his daddy saying that either his biological daddy or the other one he calls daddy
Lol
Good to have you back sergeant 🫡
He's just confirmed that abortion is child sacrifice
My mother always told us that me and my sisters are the reason why she worked hard and made it so high up in her job. And I've always admired her for that
Your mom kept going and rose up the ranks of her job so she could provide for you and your sisters, that's a strong, loving and dedicated mother you have!
I was a mother at 16yrs old, I am now 44yrs old still married to the father of my children and a successful bank manager. Tell me you can’t have a career with kids as a woman and I will show you my success doing both.
So what did you sacrifice to get though who watched your children, who stayed home who helped you when you needed to pursue those things?
I think abortion should be legal for other reasons, and woman can absolutely achieve great things being mothers. My own mom had me and my sister, and is a gynecologist who makes good money.
Married to father.... When that it said it's referring to single mothers mostly I'm a single father and I'll tell you what when I was in a relationship I was farther along in my career at 20 years old then I am now at 26 because I've been a single dad for 4 years it is proven that single parents with kids cannot progress as far in career paths as people without children that's proven
@@hazeplagueis2225 dude they have the own mothers to take care of their children. These women talking about having careers when having children but they dont even raise their children lmao
@@Vyond-v4g you ever heard of baby sitters or family willing to help? You act like you made a point
My sister had a baby and it would’ve messed up her college and job. She still raised that kid while in school, proving it’s possible to have a kid and have a great career at the same time
That’s what an actual empowered woman is
When women stopped doing this, they ceased to be strong. Women are now weak like men.
@@sistergiblits7795 huh
@@KaiCross Men were fleeing their families in droves and now women are doing the same. It's leaving children in peril. Women used to have the courage to face motherhood alone and it seems they've gone the way of men as of late, and are running from it.
@@sistergiblits7795 It’s sad.
Boy pretty much called his own mother a failure with his "logic".
That's feminism I could stand behind
Same 🤣
Me too love this brave women
yess this is true feminism 👏
@@Nothing-ek2mu abortion is fundamental of TRUE feminism so no.
But you would take my bodily autonomy away. You wont allow me to have use my own mind.
Facts!! I got pregnant in college! Refused to abort my baby despite being fed all this garbage about success! I got my degree at 8 months pregnant! Started my career in STEM after a few months and now am back in college for another degree all while being a full time mom.
you better listen to Kevin Samuels. You still in a hole 🤣
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Good on you girl! Praying for you, your little one and your financial blessing also!
And I doubt you would have it any other way, right? Any regrets? Good for you to go against what everyone else said to do. ❤
God bless you! You have my full respect!
I Don't understand people. If u don't want kids, don't have sex. Period
"Abortion is a tool that allows women to pursue careers."
He shouldn't have student loan forgiveness.
All those feminist girlies that were screaming obscenities in her face two minutes ago, went into autopilot after hearing her girl boss his ass🤣
@@MarshalllWalk3r I think y'all are the ones who need therapy. we aren't the ones advocating for killing other human beings.
@@MarshalllWalk3r planned parenthood was originally made as a blacks eugenics company called the negro project. You must love that
@@MarshalllWalk3r if women can opt out like that then men should be able to opt out of child support and fatherhood like that, right now abortion is just an extra right for women that men do not have, right side tries to remove that right from both sides and left tries to keep it and encourage it
Haha yes they sure did.
I think everyone went silent because she sounded stupid!
I can have a career without the sacrifice of my children. Now having kids did naturally change my priorities, but thats totally fine with me.
So maybe it does so for every woman which would make it impossible for them to prove that it is possible. Frankly, I don't even see why this is a considered a problem. Obviously the day only has 24 hours and either that time is dedicated to your children or your job. It's that simple. It would be the exact same for a single dad.
Why didn't she close her legs then?
I'm literally praying for my priorities to change too.
You sound like a reasonable person
Yes Brittany you definitely speak for all women put there who are struggling. Since it's fine with you, it's definitely fine with everyone else.
"you just got my feminist all mad" love it 💜
Not a feminist. Feminists don't take women's rights away.
I fully believe she could beat his ass on any SAT
"I'm not capable of being a mother without an abortion". Isn't that a paradox?
The fact that she equated the SAT to a real job just makes me think she never had a career and became a mother instead. She's just salty that she became a mother early in life while women out there got a career and a wealthy husband. Then essentially retired in a 500k+ house have small kids in their early to mid 30s. Abortion allows most women to freely pursue a career without the limitations that come with child care.
Wtf? She didn't equate the SAT with a career. She was saying that she's smarter than that guy. How many fetuses have you killed so far?
@@happy153ful u clearly missed the whole goddamn point she made.
Women can be successful and have successful careers and STILL have babies...omfg. youre dense
yes. These things tend to happen when you have absolutely nothing going on in your brain.. she fumbled a bunch more words if you pay close attention, nothing she says actually makes sense.. it's worrying people cheered for her
@@happy153ful so do condoms and with condoms, you're not killing anyone.
That statement insults all the wonderful women who are successful in their careers while being mothers.
As a person who was adopted as an infant (instead of being aborted) I’m glad there are still a few women out there like this.
Happy to hear you are alive and well! Who knows, mabye you wouldn’t be here today 😢
I am singing the same song! I was adopted not aborted yeah thank u God! I was born out of date rape too! No worries I trust in God He got me here! I am thankful ;)
@@pamelanovelli1239that's something to be proud of babe....
I mean either way if your mom aborted you you wouldn’t even know a thing
@@rockabyeruby0370she said she was born due to a rape date, which means the woman consented to go see a man, and sadly she got violated. The fact you said that, is literally disgusting “nothing to be proud of” she was saying shes happy to be alive considering her being conceived was from a unconcentual sex and didn’t get aborted.
She's already kicking his "behind" with her statement.
You go girl! 👏👏👏
NO. He said, abortion is a tool that allows women to pursue careers. He did NOT say that women cannot have careers while having a baby. You just kicked your own ass with your statement.
@aomana4357 That statement by the guy is wrong. Abortion isn't a tool for women's career or anybody's career for that matter period. It's like saying that murder is a tool... It's wrong.
You absolutely can have a career and be a mother. Absolutely can!! My mum built her business from the ground at home while trying to raise both me and my sister by herself. She now owns her own clothing line and her own shop!
I couldn't be more proud of her!!
@@lightinthedarkness6949 it's simply called ACCOUNTABILITY
@@yeetusdeletus3072I am new to the world of politics, but where do you draw the line between living and dead because sperm is living and intentionally blocking it resulting in the cell dying with your logic could be considered murder. This is baffling to me and I will not be shocked if “pro life” becomes anti contraceptive/condom in the future.
@@lightinthedarkness6949 you get a great point.
But what about those who get rapped? Abusing relationships ? Minors who get tricked?
I agree with you in the condition that we are talking about those who are just careless and stupid.
But you have to know that those victims I talk above is also existing woman in these scenarios .
I do believe women should have access to abortion, a limited one though .
@@MarshalllWalk3r those who cannot should close their legs then, or be a house wife
@@MarshalllWalk3r well if you had 1 working brain cell you will know in these conditions abortion is fine.
You just want female to have sex with males without the responsibility
You can kill because you want a career? Willful blindness, pure evil.
So I take it you're a vegan.....
I just can't understand how a woman's womb can be the most dangerous place for a child. GOD has the last word and every knee will bow in judgment. Many go the broad road trusting in recalcitrant opinions and ignorance.
I hope you are not one of them.
@@luestrada4697 lol it's not the most dangerous place for a child. Sounds like you're basing everything off views and opinions as well. 🤦🏻♂️
And since you're religious God said murder is wrong so I would refer you back to my original question are you vegan cuz every time you eat a hamburger or steak somebody murdered that animal so you could do it and if God created all living creatures it doesn't matter how you justify your murder it's still murder.. You damn Christians are going to wind up burning in hell with the rest of us heathens.. If it even exist.. here's another question for you, do you believe in freedom of religion?
@@wyattelder97 You make my point on so many levels. You do not know the Word of GOD, it is evident.
It takes at least the will of two to have a respectful exchange of opinion. Don’t you think? It does not surprise me that there are those who compare the life of a human being with that of an animal, therefore, let's say, it is not difficult to understand much of the confusion and chaos that exists throughout the world.
To the question, you cannot understand the things above if you do not understand those below. To begin with, you would have to show interest and clearly not. In any case, I am in favor of life and if you are too, then I applaud that we agree on that.
@@luestrada4697 I don't make your point, you just avoided the question. So, I'll ask again. Do you believe in freedom of religion?
“I’m not capable of being a mother without having an abortion.” What does that even mean??
Edit: ive seen some of her other commentary videos and understand where she was coming from now but this sentence genuinely didn’t make sense from this video alone. Some of y’all are unnecessarily vicious.
LMAO
It was a slip of the tongue. I'm sure you've done it, all humans have lol.
I suspect you know what she meant to say.
@@bhazerelli7611 what was she meant to say? She said that with such confidence and didn't correct herself, just because a person talks fast and has confidence doesn't mean they're right though. If you're providing a point, at least correct yourself and not expect people to decipher your jumbled up sentences
@@misslen575 She meant to say she's "not capable of being successful without having an abortion," in other words, she cannot be successful and a mother at the same time. I don't think you've ever truthfully debated someone because you really do tend to slip up even when you sound confident. It happens.
Edit: To clear up my comment for the people who are misunderstanding what I said, I think I may have worded this wrong. I was basically saying that Kristen was saying this guy was misogynistic because he was telling her that in order to be a successful woman, she could not also be a mother. Ideally, women should be stay at home mothers, because children flourish the most when they are with their mothers… now, that’s not to say women can’t be good mothers while also having stable, good jobs, but either way, it was completely wrong of him to say a woman can’t be successful while also being a mother. It just isn’t true. She slipped up what she was saying, but essentially she was calling out his ridiculous comment.
@@kayleighdupont5060 bruh I was in my school's debate team and represented my school you tend to stutter and mixup your points but what she said meant something completely different
Murder is a tool that that allows crime lords to pursue a life of leisure and luxury.
To all the people wondering, a fetus is a baby. A child. It is something you created. It has some of your genetics, a personality, it’s life; it just needs to grow.
In case you're wondering, a tumor is also made of you, has your genetics. It's something you created and it just wants to grow. How about if the bundle of cells is in your body, putting your life at risk, you get to decide how long you carry it?
A tumor and a child are no where near the same. A tumor can kill you, having a baby will not kill you unless you have complications with birth or something else fairly uncommon while being pregnant. Am I saying other people’s opinions are wrong? No, you can have your own opinion. But my religion isn’t about killing a child for my own benefit. If a woman’s been raped, then my goodness that’s terrible and I would support the abortion, but that is the only scenario in which I do. Otherwise, if you have sex knowing the possible outcome WITH or WITHOUT protection, then you shouldn’t complain saying “Man, I had no idea I’d become pregnant, I’m just going to get rid of it.” Protection is not guaranteed.
@@pooksyy As someone who has carried both babies and tumors in my uterus, I can attest they are very much the same. They cause similar symptoms and are sadly often mistaken for one another. You're also wrong about risk. One, death is not the only risk a woman faces. Women suffer strokes, broken pelvises. They acquire immune system issues and develop conditions like diabetes and hypertension. I was pregnant 8 times in order to get the two children I now have. On my sixth attempt, I went into premature labor at 22 weeks. I was rushed to the emergency room where the nurses couldn't find a blood vessel for tests due to how swollen I was. They resorted to slitting my wrist and I now have the unpleasant memory of the sound of about a pint of my blood splashing on the floor. Four years later, I returned to the hospital to have a grapefruit sized tumor, one that slowly grew for 20+ years inside of me, removed along with my uterus during a hysterectomy. I came away from my experiences knowing I could never impose this on another woman. No matter what the reason is. Pregnancy is a traumatic experience and it should not be forced on anyone. You wouldn't make a cigarette smoker carry a lung tumor just because their actions led to their condition. You have your faith and you should. Your faith should shape your choices and no one else's.
@@ka6459 I’m not even going to bother reading the essay you wrote, apologies if anything important was written there that I missed out on. Charlietta just stated the fact, a fetus is a baby and all that stuff. You said that a tumor is made out of you, which is true, expect for the fact that it’s not a human. The fetus, as I would bet you’re aware of, gets a unique line of genetic code, writing everything about it. That’s what defines a human. Lmk if you want me to elaborate more like that because most of the time, people get what I mean by that, but still act like fucking retards, and then I have to explain further. So to wrap up, in a very high majority of pregnancies, there is no threat to the mother, and it would make you happy to know that usually the fetus is born prematurely, and both are safe c:
I’m so sorry to hear that happened to you. Obviously, I’m not going to shame you on your opinion or your factual evidence. Everyone is entitled to what they believe in and/or think. I’m not the kind of person who will force my Christianity on another person, and I am also not the kind of person to throw my opinion onto another person; hoping they forget their own. Like I said earlier, I’m deeply sorry.
I had my first child when I was 3 months from turning 19.
My career went into a pause because came.
The decision was for me to go back to school until he went to school.
Which we did.
And now after so long.
I don’t regret anything. Even that decision that was made between my husband and I.
Close to 21 years later. My son is attending college. I’m a in the operating room assisting in brain surgery. And my husband is a graphic designer.
We all love our lives. And we don’t regret any steps that we took.
We all know we did it for us. And now we also have a an 8year old kiddo. Couldn’t be happier.
Never sacrificed anything or anyone.
And for that we thank the lord everyday.
That's beautiful! Thank you for sharing
So you did it with a second parent in general single parents cannot Excell as far in a chosen Career as single parents can argue if you want but study's and statistics show less progression in general compared to single people without kids awesome all you've done but if being single after having kids probably would have changed a lot
@@hazeplagueis2225
Isn’t it supposed to be that way?? With both parents.
In my belief marriage comes before having a child. That’s how it’s intended in the household where I grew up. In my husband’s household too.
In we apply it to our household too.
Our children have grown up with that mentality.
You should only marry the person of your dreams.
But I know a nurse who became a nurse because her husband got cancer. He was motivation. Then he passed. Left her and their son 13 year old son.
She went on to be a professional.
She has remained a widow.
And her son is now a firefighter at the age of 31.
So what’s the excuse there?
@@normajimenez1 not every home keeps 2 parents do you think I wish to hear my 6/4/3 year old sons to cry for there mother it breaks my heart it's not an excuse it's reality I made more money while in a relationship because the benefits it has for the family however not everyone grows up like you with both parents I still pray and thank God for what he does for my family
@@hazeplagueis2225
Everyone has a story to tell.
Everyone’s shoes and luggage bag of life is a story to be told.
I don’t know your situation, and it’s not for me to know either.
But relationships are different in each household.
We all pick choose what we want in life.
The only thing that’s already chosen for us is our parents the rest we all choose.
She destroyed that soy boy
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Nah go him
She just shrieked "misogyny" like a blue hair
Any man that is pro abortion is a beta male and not a real man.
@@500ccRabbitno she defined misogyny for the actual thing it ism
Why does UA-cam think these are the types of videos I want to watch???
Because they are📸📸📸
must be a sign . instead of worrying about bs like the kardashians or meghan merkle. we are a society that makes billions off of selling women the lie that abortion is health care . and thinking that killing their unborn is a right . open your mind.
To open your eyes
Maybe he knows that you need 😌
@@e_m_o_c_l_e_W Nuh uh
My aunt was 16 when she got her first baby. She still got the chance to pursue her career, education and worked hard. Now she is literally the head of one of the biggest companies where we live. This is simply a proof that you don't need to kill your baby (have an abortion) in order to become successful.
Im still waiting for the part where she allows him to clarify...
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Shouldn't need to, Abortion is wrong
What does he have to clarify? He's saying women need abortions in order to have successful careers and that a woman can not have a successful career if they have a child
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He doesn’t need to clarify. She’s won.
THIS is real feminism❤️❤️ this is what I stand for. THANK YOU
Real feminism is letting women chose whatever they want to do with their own lives/careers/sex life
As an Ohioan we claim none of those students.
@@MarshalllWalk3r You think you can deny a child’s right to life? Horrible.
@@youngconservative how would you feel if you were forced to live with a child that reminds you of a horrible time that happened to you and probably will lead you to somewhere you don't want to be such as depression or suicide no I'm not saying every single time this happens. But you should still have a choice
@@nightmare3455 Why would I kill the only good thing to come out of that situation. I would carry the child full term. And did you know 79% of women who have abortions regret getting an abortion?
How do you know that's a good thing though I'm not saying it's a bad thing but what comes out of it may vary so if it is a bad thing to you(say your not financially stable) even though you care for it it'll only hurt you more in the long run so whether its a good thing or a bad thing it would be best to have a choice I don't look to change your opinion but to at least make people more aware of other problems
@@nightmare3455 because killing something over a bad event is never a better way to resolve the issue. the child can not help that he or she may have been the result of anything other than a planned pregnancy. let the damn child live instead of killing it off. besides, i believe that 1-2 million american families are considering adoption. maybe think for the unborn person instead of yourself all the time. laws are for the unspoken, not for the outspoken. selflessness is appreciated, especially when the other child is at risk.
“The best argument against democracy is a 5 minute conversation with the average voter”
Yep, why our Founders were against it, and why it isn't anywhere in our Constitution. They don't even teach the difference now, by design.
Who said that??
@@MarshalllWalk3r so I am a fascist for stating the truth?
@@MarshalllWalk3r if you think I am wrong then explain to me why I am wrong. Give me a counter argument instead of calling me fascist.
@@MarshalllWalk3r I am not needy nor demanding. If you don’t want to answer me back then that’s fine. I wasn’t demanding an answer from you anyway.
Since you can’t actually give me a counter argument and instead resorted to insult me, it proves that you are the loser here.
Can we all just talk about BIRTH CONTROL for a second? Let's spare ourselves the lifelong regret and trauma of an abortion
I thought about this, wrote some long comment but then thought nevermind
Yes, but if you don't want to have a child, the safest thing to do is, to not be active?
exactly! or keep it in your pants.
Love that. Abortion isn't the "tool" that guy was talking about, birth control is.
Unfortunately rapists are not aware of it
My guy was pro abortion until I screamed and he saw our baby at 6 weeks.
This woman is not to be toyed with. She kicked his butt lol
by not allowing him to speak?
Yeah by fumbling her words into nonsense, like "I'm not capable of being a mother without an abortion". Having an abortion makes you not a mother, not having an abortion gives you a high chance of being a mother (if you don't miscarriage)
@@thehobbyisttriesEnglish must be ur third language or worse cuz that statement she said is irrelevant to the argument
@@thehobbyisttries her point wasn’t clear, it’s irrelevant to the argument lol. “I’m not capable of being a mother without an abortion”, how is this at all relevant? It hardly makes sense in the context…
@@thehobbyisttries also, don’t make fun of other people when u can’t take it back urself lol.
"Do you know what misogynism is?"
"....."
"Sorry next question!"
Whst time stamp?
@@bogartmotomoto8222 "whst"
I straight up applaud this woman.
my grandma was 17 when she had her first kid. 63 years later, she's built an empire for herself, and she's the reason her grandchildren and children get to live a comfortable life. she's more girlboss than anyone who's aborted a fetus for their career needs.
That dude is such an embarrassment. That is all.
No he's not 🤣
It is an embarrassment to think that you understand why someone would make such a personal decision as to have an abortion. It's not your decision.
@@cmcm193 was their decision to have ex
@@michaellarson6936 not always.... And even if abortions were all results of voluntary sex, that doesn't change the fact that you aren't in that person's head and living their life.
@cmcm still their fault. Im tired of excuses aint nobody in this world that does not know ex results in babies
Periodt.. as a black woman i fully accept and love this woman
I agree, but what does it matter that you are a woman of color? I obviously support and respect you, I am just wondering in what way race was brought up in this dialogue? Please be so kind to clarify for me.
I need some clarification as well. Please enlighten us what skin color had to do with this statement.
KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED!!!!
Yes, for any confusion, she intended to say "Like I'm not capable of having a career, without having an abortion", in that HE was claiming she could not be a mother and have a career. Excellent rebuttal Kristan.
I appreciate the clarification
😂 it’s actually not an “excellent rebuttal”..
women say the same thing but because a guy said it he’s a “misogynist”! Plenty of women who have high powered careers have opted for abortion or are at least glad the CHOICE is there should they need or want to utilize it. I think you’re confusing a JOB with a CAREER.
A lawyer has a career. A doctor has a career. A cashier at Walmart is a job. A waitress has a job.
Can women do both?! I think not many can. And those that do or have will tell you as will the children they often leave to their own devices that there’s always a sacrifice in that situation! Either the hours you put in at work, which means you can kiss being partner at a law firm goodbye or that chief of Staff position!! Or your children who you CHOSE to bring into this world are being raised more so by someone else!! No One Can Have It All. Get over it. These are 💯% Facts. Wonder Woman is a fictional character.
How can that be misogynistic if it's what women who engage in it state themselves and do? He isn't wrong. Many do that because of their carriers.
She went off on a tangent when he never claimed motherhood impaired a woman's ability. She got offended and didn't even let him land.
Her argument should have been that women aren't supposed to do that. The fact is that they do.
@@coffeecrimegal5968
Still murder though, however you want to rationalize it…
@@Andrew-zt3bf What you call rationalizing I call simply stating facts. So is a murder of a clump of cells in the beginning stage, yes it is. Is it murder of a then embryo, yes it is. Then it becomes murder of a fetus, yes it does. However uncomfortable that truth is to some and for others to bear. It’s also an uncomfortable truth and or fact that some women are better off not being mothers, or some people children included were better off never having been born. Some can and or are able to make that very difficult choice.
The real problem is that “careers” have become more important that children. It’s insane to me, a career is something you have so you can support the rest of your life, it isn’t something that should be your whole life.
This is suppose to be a common sense, but the popular ideology is to beat the "men" as in the small percentage of men who got the wealth and owns a Bugatti. It's very unrealistic and making both men and women confused.
It's common sense to be financially stable before taking care of someone else 🤨🤨
@@harry7237 then the woman should keep their private parts private and not get pregnant until they are stable enough to raise children.
@@harry7237 ah yes, exploring sexuality is a great reason to risk getting pregnant when you aren’t ready for a baby. The fact of the matter is that abortion kills a human when she is most vulnerable and every excuse of money and “exploring sexuality” is a sickening reason for a woman to kill her own child. Sex is the only natural way to have children. Don’t want children, then don’t have sex. That’s it. It’s that simple.
@@harry7237 didn’t read the rest, it’s always the same excuses that have been addressed over and over again. People like you are disgusting because you believe killing an innocent human life has any valid reason or excuse and aren’t particularly picky about what that excuse is. You included the whole range I’m sure, from money, to pleasure, to convenience, to the incredibly rare exceptions that all pro-abortion people trot out as if those justify the 98% of abortions for shallow and pathetic reasons. It’s always the same from your guys, you don’t care about life, you’re perfectly happy to sacrifice children on the alter of whatever stupid excuse you can come up with. You’re on the side of the immoral and selfish and I’m tired of hearing all the flimsy excuses for why you think it’s ok to for women to literally kill their own children. It’s disgusting and you’re disgusting for arguing for it.
That's a true feminist, get em girl!!!
If women don’t want kids, then just don’t open up your legs
Rape is real!
Excuse me? My mom got my brother at 19 (he is 28 now), and still went to med school and became a doctor/pediatrician. This young man is seriously very brave to state such an opinion. 😅
So having a baby helped your mom get into med school, or do you think it made it more difficult for her?
@@aomana4357 It was not easy, also because there were political conflicts going on in the 90s in the republic of Georgia, it was a harder life, but not impossible to manage. She felt blessed getting my brother bc she loves also kids and as an orthodox Christian family, we view abortion and having children differently. It didn’t make it easy, ofc not, but not impossible. Nevertheless, she felt happy and didn’t view having him as a burden. But she also got married young, at 18. 🤗🤗
I love Kristan so much. She always has the BEST comebacks.
@joedirty7176 she always talks crap. I havent heard her make any sense so far. Only thing she does is cringe me the f out bcuz she terribly disrespectful in her tone and also the way she never lets people talk smh Incredibly childish for such a big woman lol
@joedirty7176 in ur first coment u admitted she didnt know whay mysogyny meant. You dont make sense either. Im not suprised lol
@joedirty7176 all good lmao
Yeah and she speaks non sense like "I'm not capable of being a mother without an abortion"
@@thehobbyisttries im never uncomfortable around big women. What is your point besides being childish and useless? 🤣
His voice is the epitome of the second year college student
Who didn’t get laid his freshman year so he came up with a new strategy.
Or 18-65 year old Democrat voter
@Joe Swanson I didn’t even say anything about her, I just said that his voice sounded funny
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Funny thing is she has kids and is still doing this. She is proof that you don't need an abortion to have a job
"I owe my career to the sacrifice of my child to the god Moloch, praise his name"
LOL this is the truth!!!
@@MarshalllWalk3r What?
Lmaooo
@@MarshalllWalk3r uh what?
@@MarshalllWalk3r Like what though?
Girl!!! You are my new hero! You verbally took that ignorant "boy" down!!! I am even happier, after watching this, that I support your group financially. Go girl!!
qq
I had a 30+ year career as an occupational therapist Plus I had three children. I never once thought that I needed to have an abortion to have this career. I once was questioned by a female supervisor that wanted to know what I was going to do, after I told her that I was pregnant. I was very surprised by this question and I told her I was going to have the baby.
You probably screwed over your medical office in some way for having a baby. Certainly discontinuance of care with your patients and loss of production for your office are the top two.
My mum had 9 children with my dad and she was a school principal, a farmer, a businesswoman, a member of boards on few companies, a netball player, a community leader .
God bless you and your Mum 🙏
"Psalm 127:3"
A baby truly teaches the heart how to love. You feel GOD'S disappointment when children don't listen.
I Knew You Before I Formed You In Your Mother's Womb. GOD.
dude tried to be the "empathic, fighting for women's rights and totally not simping" kind of guy and was flabbergasted when they rejected him
And he is, and people mistaked it for being misogynistic which is exactly the opposite reason he was there in the first place.
His expression was like, “But I’m on your side!!!” 😧
Not every woman is made the same, some can handle a busy life, taking on a career while raising a child, but for some it’s difficult,mentally and financially, which may be something they’re not ready to tackle on.
How about the amount of money it costs too birth a child and add that too college debt. Your gonna be paying back money your in debt too and paying for housing and bills too raise the child. Not too mention if one of those parents walks out and your on your own handling all of that. Now imagine this is someone who couldn't go too college cause of the cost because they come from a poor family who struggled to raise them add on parental mental illness. It's still our body and taking that choice away and forcing say a teenager into a money pit that could take decades of paying debt too get out of is cruel. I don't support the abortion surgery but the pill at the very early stages with good reason should be allowed for these exact reasons.
If a woman isn't ready to be a parent, perhaps she should not do the ONE thing that could make her a parent. Abortion advocates are choosing to promote genocide over self-control.
You all are despicable monsters. What you've done is advocated for murder. One day it will be used on you, because you just made it legal in so many instances that it can be interpreted for anything
Ahh why is abortion a first call before abstinence?
Then those women should avoid getting pregnant. In today's world not only is there birth control like condoms and spermicide which is readily available without need for a doctor. Even then there's the plan B pill just in case both parties forgot protection.
"Kill the baby, pursue your dream job" sounds so
narcissistic and evil
The one who looks to other women for attention to get praised as if he is an ally, the hypocrisy
Do you know what hypocrisy is???
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It shows he had good intentions for other people to agree with, not hypocrisy.
During my study i met a girl/mother of twin girls. Sge had to raise them alone with tge support of her parents cuz her boyfriend left as she got pregnant. She came from the Netherlands, alone with her daughters. Found ofc a babysitter beforehand (a 15yo teen girl), did her 2. Years of study in Switzerland and worked at McDonalds as a side job. Passed everything as Class best, used spare time wisely to enjoy time with her daughters and learning for exams. Now, 5 years later, she's working for one of the biggest pharma industries as Lead in Finances and is happy married. Hugely admired her dedication.
Bro' just wants snizz w/o the responsibility.
@@MarshalllWalk3r That was the point.
Ridicule the bro' for his promiscuous attitude.
How many men are tortured with bro' culture machismo when it comes to fornication?
Almost all today since the '60s/'70s.
Throw it back at 'em.
Lordy.
@@MarshalllWalk3r get lost.
@@MarshalllWalk3r abortion is not a human right if it violates another person
@@MarshalllWalk3r when does a fetus, if not a person, magically become one then
@@MarshalllWalk3r it's still dependent on the mother, silly. that's just basic science
It's a tool to not take responsibility for my actions
I love her!!! Yeah Girl!!! Our ability to have children & provide for them with our bodies is AMAZING!!
“THATS EXACTLY WHAT YOU SAID!”
-literally not what he said at all
It is
Bro doesn't listen
@@itadori-ice2945 he didn’t
@@moonflower-7 he did
It’s exactly what he said.
It’s time for women to be women again, and men to be men again. Enough of this sad pathetic behavior.
Facts
“I need to fix a mistake I made by murdering a human to get ahead in life” all psychopaths
I love how everyone is getting their panties in a twist over her speaking mistake. And then they say she is the unreasonable one for yelling when the pro choice man kept butting in and being an ass during the whole debate. This guy just wants to sleep around and not pay child support.
they out here focusing on the unimportant part and not the main issue because she’s making valid points they can’t counter. 🤣
It's true many of these so called "feminist" men are actually the most misogynistic pigs. They use it as a ploy just to try and score with these women. I've seen it for myself.
Is it not the women choice to abort the child or not? not the mans? also if he doesn't want to pay child support it's still a valid opinion.
@@rapf3087 he uses the logic that women need to have access to abortion to be successful. He is in college and is surrounded by women who aspire to be successful. Using his own ideas, he is surrounded by the women who "need" to have abortions and are the best to sleep with, as there are no consequences to his actions. I'm going to take a guess that he does not plan to become an active father, or a father at all on the basis that most college students don't. Being pro-choice is a major win for him and other college frat guys. I would say that neither the mother nor the father should make the decision to have an abortion, but that's just me. And if it is his opinion that he doesn't want to pay child support, that would bring up this concept called responsibility and consequences, and caring for the human that he consented to create.
You can tell that dude is hazed af from all the weed he’s been smoking
I love this lady! I was 18 when I had my son! I have a master’s degree now. I did it. And, I had a crappy husband. 😂 He is now 22, and I love him to pieces.
If abortion is a tool to allow women to have careers then a gun is a tool that allows women to continue having a career too!
😅😅
@@MarshalllWalk3r the problem with your “logic” is the ownership of a gun IS A RIGHT stated in the constitution! Killing another human being because they’re an inconvenience brought on by poor decision making is not listed nor implied in the constitution as a right!
What?
@@thejakker6369 a gun is a tool! This tool allows a woman to keep breathing when she is physically attacked by a boyfriend/ex boyfriend or husband/ex husband, etc! Thus by using said tool in the manner it’s meant she can continue with her career! Get it?
@@bmf572 Actually no, I don't.
A study from Harvard shows that guns in the home are most often used against the gun owner or used to intimidate intimates.
Also you really think she's gonna get it outta the lock-box in time?
OR
A husband or boyfriend knows where it is?
Because they bought it for her?
No, sweety-puddin. I don't get it and neither do you, apparently.
Stop watchin She-Hulk or Rings of Power or whatever lesbonian power-fantasy you been watchin and better vet the men you bring back from the bar....
So you don't haveta worry about gettin a gun.
I'd be heart-broken if something were to happen to you, darling.
Say NO to guns and abeertions!
Luv ya!😙
This is the kind of guy who will betray his friends just to impress girls
“Sorry, you just got my feminist all mad.” I love that so much.
@@MarshalllWalk3r body shaming because you can’t refute anything she brought up.
@@MarshalllWalk3r dude. Don’t you know what assuming does? Makes an a.s.s out of U and M.e. And accusations are even worse. Lying is a far stretch.
Yeah, obesity isn’t pro life. She needs to help herself. Doesn’t make what she says about considering the life of the child wrong though. Everyone has short comings in their lives. Doesn’t make them liars. It’s called *we’re all growing*
@@mamajo5867 bruh they tried that with me too. some people's entire arguments are based on ad hominems and idiocy, smh.
@@MarshalllWalk3r I think eliminating murder and loving, educating, and supporting mothers in need in a REAL way and not just signing women up to damage their bodies and kill their children for convenience and a profit while our nation falls victim to economic and population collapse…
Is real growth 🤗 get out of here troll
@@rayna5623 so glad someone else recognizes it. it’s so bad. Like I get second hand cringe from seeing it 😂 it’s debate 101 basics but common sense too. These people rely on quick emotional outbursts to support their lack of objective logic. Either that or they’re trolls.
“That’s exactly what you just said ☝🏻😃”
I’m pretty sure he didn’t 😂
He didn’t say that in the slightest and she’s like 🤓🤓🤓🤓👵🏻👵🏻👵🏻👵🏻👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼 that’s exactly what you just said
Yes saying that women need an abortion to have a career is antiwomen
@@christianolange6950 but he didn’t say that either!😂 he said that it’s a tool that helps women pursue a career that would otherwise be off the table if you are pregnant or have a child… like if you want a job that’s taking your whole day and then you accidentally get pregnant, chances are your going to get an abortion to pursue said career.. that’s what he said.. Sometimes I wonder if everyone is even speaking the same language with the way no one listens to each other.
@nutterbutterpop8193 accidentally get pregnant? You mean women have accountability
@@christianolange6950 well accidental in a sense of maybe the condom broke or maybe a forgotten birth control.. I mean you can take accountability for these things for sure.. but that has nothing to do with the literal statement he made which basically said that if you have an unplanned pregnancy, and are trying to pursue a time consuming career, one is likely to get an abortion if they really want that job over a baby… wether you agree with abortion or not that is a true statement… someone who is willing to get an abortion would most likely have one to pursue a career she otherwise couldn’t if pregnant?
I’m a mother and also still having a successful career. You can do both. I had my 5 year work anniversary when my son was 6 months old. I am on a hybrid schedule, and he is only at a daycare for 2 days a week. Which has been so great for him, he has been improving with his skills and developing new ones each day he goes.
I’m pursuing a career in Surveying. Soon I will be enrolling back in school to become a licensed Surveyor. The end goal is to have my own business like my father.
Having a child is not a road block. It is motivation to improve your life and to keep going.
And the little boy walked away because he was just had. 👍🏻😂
Dude even he looked thrilled after you said that.
He kinda smirked actually.
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The vaccine RISKS a 20th booster!!!
im in love with her..her voice of righteousness
That's not what he said.
"Paper and pen are tools that help you study"
"That is such a studyphobic statement"
"Wait, what?"
"Are you saying that I'm not capable of studying without paper and pen?"
"No!"
"That's exactly what you're saying."
Thank you!!!! If your pro-choice or Pro-life we can all agree she got ‘Em good!
Straight up facts
Oops... You probably meant pro Life or pro Death....that's actually the truth of it....and yes she got him good.
Actually it's pro Life or pro Death...the other is just a cop out.
I am pro-reality.
Bodily Autonomy a copout? Its the closest thing to a "god given" right that exists...
She’s arguing to argue. She knows that single moms do not have time for school especially those with no help from family
EXACTLY ! that’s my fucken point!
Don’t get pregnant then. Sex is a very deliberate task, that is taken as just 3 minutes of fun these days.
dude can’t speak without telling himself “right?” every 5 seconds
If dumb had a sound, it would be his voice.
He doesn’t truly believe what he’s saying so he constantly needs others to affirm his position. Classic cult behavior
@@KO-zi2xf If dumb had a sound it would be her, she can't even speak properly. firstly she can't even use the term misogynistic correctly, and she says "I'm not capable of being a mother without an abortion" which makes 0 sense. Don't be a sheep, don't just agree because everyone else agrees too, use facts presented by the video.
he literally said it one time
AYO that was a clean roast. Respect
A boy trying to explain abortion.
I actually don’t know what side their both on, all I hear is yelling 💀
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My thought exactly. This entire video is just a mess
When I got pregnant at 17,I wanted my baby so bad. All of my closest friends were ready to support me no matter what plan I choose but I knew I wouldn't be able to feed them,be stable enough to make sure they have a healthy childhood and a happy life. Giving up for adoption isn't a choice here either. It was either a "yes" or "no". My bf knew I wanted a baby too but we both also knew we weren't ready. So,we decided to abort. It took a heavy poll on both of us. We felt like we lost something. something we both were supposed to love and protect. something that proved the love we had for each other. And no,we don't live in the US so it's different here but at the end of the day,you never know someone's story.
I’m so sorry but i hope your ok now ❤
only get pregnant when you have a stable family, don't fuck around knowing that you aren't ready for it, everyone is accountable for their action, poor babies had to face that kind of situation
@@lye27 Facts
@@lye27 What if someone doesn’t want kids? So they should be celibate just cause you say so? Contraceptions are not 100% and we live different lives to what was normal back then. It was probably not that hard to wait till marriage if 20y old were getting married. Now getting married at 20 is risky because people change a lot in their 20s.
It scares me that I could not access abortion if I accidentally got pregnant. Having a child changes your life completely and if you don’t have family that can help you, it’s hard to manage to study/work when having a child. It’s not really a baby at 10 weeks, and most definitely not a baby like in 2 days after fertilisation. Even in the Bible (the old testament) it says if someone kills your fetus they should pay you money as if that was just stealth, in case of killing a child the price was higher to pay to the parent.
No sane woman wants an abortion, there are crazy ones out there but crazy people are everywhere. Abortion is not a work of the devil, it’s a matter of lesser bad, and it should be upon the woman to decide
Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.
@@lye27 thank you. Tell them facts.
You were not ready for a baby but got pregnant y not prevent the pregnancy initially by using contraceptive like most couple does?
I love her so much. This is a REAL feminist!
Serena Williams won the Australian Open while pregnant. That alone disproves his point.
this is exactly the type of men i run away from
woke men who always talk about abortion and feminism somehow are always toxic or abusive..
they are toxic and abusive because they respect your rights?
maybe because...ABORTION IS ABUSE....and murder
@@sweetlifeofanundercoverfis879 yes
@@sweetlifeofanundercoverfis879killing a child isn’t a right it is a crime no matter what you say it will still crime
@@sweetlifeofanundercoverfis879 No, they are toxic and abusive because they will coerce women into thinking that they should be free to do whatever they want with their bodies which means they should have unprotected sex all the time and it will be okay as long as she can just get an abortion from a dirty, hazardous facility that can potentially cause more health problems for the woman post-abortion.
Kid was trying to fit in and shit backfired. This is amazing
He was speaking the truth and she tried to pull him down calling him baseless labels such as a misogynist. She had no key statement that can back her point.
@@reeee422 “Baseless labels.” She didn’t need to have a key statement. That kid made a fool of himself. 💀
@@reeee422 red lamp light
Mad respect for Kristan!!! 👏🏻👏🏻
I don’t get her point. That’s not misogynistic.