I'm start watching it again. And it's become more beautiful. Since I know all the characters already, I can appreciate others, like cinematography. Background. Sound. I can even see how everyone involved in this series put all their best together to produce one of the best series I ever watched in my entire life. Salud....🙏
And here I foolishly thought I was the only one that gave this much praise to My Mister. I have also watched this drama more than once. I do warn those that love dramas as well. Once I watched this, every drama I ever watched went down in score. I now find it difficult to watch other dramas as well. My Mister is such a beautifully told story about humanity. I've watched numerous other dramas afterwards and have felt disappointed after every single one. I'm no longer easily moved by awkward romances, overly dramatic emotional breakdowns, or predictable tragedies. Watching My Mister and then other dramas is like going from fine dining to fast food. Watch My Mister at your own risk.
to be fair, My Mister is written unlike your usual kdrama ... There is so few kdrama like this..., My Mister is more like human drama from Japan, jdorama poignant life/human drama have so many variant like My Mister type ... :')
I was kinda hesitant on watching My Mister because I heard it was a depressing drama. But I did end up watching it and I loved it. It’s now one of my favorite dramas ever.
I was bawling at the end. Especially, the last few eps hit me so hard, I could not stop watching one eps after another. The show demonstrates the power of caring of others. If Dong Hoon did not pay attention to Ji An, the domino effect may not have started. If the old gentleman who cleans the office did not show his support at Ji An's graduation, if Ji An didn't notice Guang Il's thoughtfulness as a kid... these small kindness can change someone's life and this script captures that so well. The backdrop of the story, each character development, and the props like the wiretapping/earphones, the sandal, the shopping cart, the instant coffee... it is like you are living there with the characters. I've watched a lot of K-dramas but this one hit me the hardest and kudos to those who produced it. If US shows can learn from these creators, I think it would be great for the industry. Thanks for the great review!
I just can't fathom how this young lady can be such a great singer and a great actress at the same time. Also, she's very mature for her age(after listening to her interviews) and a very good person, to boot. And she's lovely as well.
Lee sun kyung just passed away today; 27 Dec 2023 through suicide... He was incessantly questioned for drug use, dropped from dramas, harassed by reporters... How he must have felt... the despair. Korea is one of the worst place to live... the pressures at work, family, socially... even in cyberspace... its netizens are one of the worst... overly judgemental and opinionated without knowing the full story etc. RIP Lee Sun Kyung... great actor.
Its so heartwarming, made me cry so many times. I actually also recommend the korean show Start-Up which seems very different in the beginning, but its so lovely and heart touching.
I couldn't shake the emotions from this drama for months. The acting was superb, it was hard to watch another K drama after this. The best way for me to describe this series is "Slow burn" this series had me watching until the sun came up in the morning. I was emotional and physically exhausted after this one.
Finished watching my mister i have shed lots of tears as it progressed but the ending was really emotional be happy be kind do a good turn karma suttle kindness to think the main actor was a lamb to the slaughter for publicity ratings and money the root of all evil The girl was superb what charisma they both had in this film .it's thought proving to live and be the best you can A must watch for sure again
Thank you for your review, Stephan. It’s true that one feels empty after watching My Mister the first time around. One has to watch it again and again and again. I watched it four times, too. Doing so led me to a totally unexpected experience - I had an illumination of conscience! Not only was I touched and moved to reflect on my life. In those 16 episodes, right before my very eyes, I saw my life play out. Numerous scenes shattered and ripped my heart apart, much like an open-heart surgery, and exposed to me how I have offended God, man and myself - the thoughts, words and acts I should not have done and should have done. Each time I watched it all over again, more of these were revealed and I found myself pausing and, just like Ji-an, saying with utmost remorse the words “I’m sorry” over and over while crying a river. The multitude of sorry misses to show friendliness, respect, understanding, compassion and love for decades were unbearable. I had to go through this suffering of being shown the dark side of me to realize some things - life is really difficult…there are crosses we carry daily...our unkindness makes life more difficult for others…what we say and do are either life-depleting or life-giving…life is not all darkness…there are plentiful moments and chapters in our lives that are true, good and beautiful because we are also true, good and beautiful. With so many promptings of the spirit and numerous aha moments, I decided to write them down as I watched the second and third times. Re-watching and meditating on my notes led me to a deep dive understanding of myself, life, and my faith. When I decided to watch it the fourth time, I had a very clear purpose - healing. And so, there were many instances in almost all episodes, when I would stop and ask God to forgive me and then bless the persons I have caused pain and suffering in small and big ways, especially my husband and mother who recently passed. I begged Him to give me the graces I need to become a better human being so that I will always choose the higher good…so that I will be mindful of the chances that each day presents to me to easing the distress of persons I encounter by simply being kinder…so that from now on I will seek the good in others and in all circumstances. It is unbelievable that My Mister became an emotional detoxification and a spiritual experience for me. It also inspired me to act. I’m now writing songs based on the poignant lessons I learned, the whirlwind of emotions I felt, and firm resolutions I made. I signed up as a member of a prolife organization. I am finally mentoring my seven children because it’s not too late to heal and be magnanimous. I am fired up! Will I watch My Mister the fifth time? Perhaps. But for now, I’m happy. After the fourth watch, just like Ji-an and even Dong Hoon, I have found peace. Thank you for your kindness, the tender attention you gave in reading this.
I agree...it can be quite therapeutical...that's what it was like for me too...just one thing: I didn't mean I felt empty after watching it. I meant other dramas feel quite empty after watching my mister...👍😔
@@ManVsDrama Yup, I misinterpreted it. You're right...one feels empty after watching it. And so, I've decided to stop watching any Korean drama for now. By the way it wasn't just therapeutical. It was transformational. Have a great life.
Agreed, this is one of the best kdramas that not the typical cliche love story. I recommended this to all my friends that got into kdrama since quarantine, some won't watch it because it's pretty sad, but I tell them they are missing out on a masterpiece. It also made me question myself as a whole how to be a better person and not judge people if you don't know anything about them and their struggles after watching some of the more powerful scenes.
Your review is exactly how I have felt since watching it 2 days back and restarted watching within 24 hours. It’s perhaps one of the best dramas I have watched in any language. You rightly said that everything else seems empty and meaningless.
By far the most affecting drama I've seen - not just for a Korean drama but from any source. By the end of the series, you have been through so many emotions that when you see just the smallest clip or still from the programme or hear a song from the soundtrack, every feeling comes flooding back. The acting from all the cast is faultless but IU stands out particularly because of the way she can convey so much with the smallest gesture or expression. Surely she will have seen some parallels with her own upbringing and that adds poignancy to her portrayal. The funeral scene is one of saddest but then ultimately uplifting I've seen. As you say, people should not be put off by the seemingly dark and dry first episode. That is one of the joys of this series is that it takes it time drawing the characters in front of your eyes and pulling you in so you care for all of them. It's a series which benefits from replaying. Second, thid or fourth time round, it still pulls you in - in fact even more so. Class.
yeah...in the context of the drama that's a very moving scene..I love episode 15 the most of all of them! hope you enjoy the scene breakdowns...we're almost at 15 now!
It's so interesting that I felt sorry for her deleting the spy app. It meant to delete an important connection to a person she loves. Listening to his footsteps and his breath helped her against her loneliness.
I think lots of people watch drama to escape from reality but this one just knocks them back to reality and moreover makes them questions and face it. That's the reason people are scared to watch it or they don't like it.
I like the scene dong-hun cried in his house alone. It was the first time that dong-hun shows self-consoling in his deep heart comes in this drama. Throughout the drama, he always had to be kind, helpful, be a good man no matter his beneficence is from his mind or unconsciously learned from society, but real happiness doesn't come from one-sided sacrifice. Thank you for your great review.
This is the best drama in my whole life!!! Thank you so much for bringing this drama to people who have not seen it. After watching it, you would rather see it again than trying to see another.
It's my all-time favorite drama. I watched it in 2018 on tv and there are still no any another drama out yet which can compete with this masterpiece. Everything is so well done and written. Deep talks, teaching about life and person and a very platonic relationship makes this drama one of the bests all times.
This series was about many things to me. Family, loyalty, love, respect. Redemption and second chances. Surround yourself with good people and your life will be fruitful. I know its fake but I enjoyed it. I cried many times. Great series!!!
Yes, I cannot agree more, it's so moving and painted such a beautiful picture of humanity despite all the darkness of this world. Definitely the best kdrama I've ever watched and it's just make me want to be a little bit better. IU was just so amazing in her acting and that scene she said goodbye to grandma in the morgue, just can't help it with my tears. Thanks for the great review of this underrated show.
The best drama in my life. Sometimes I ask 'Ji-an, are you OK now?' in my mind. It' weird that i talk to imaginary person in drama, but I really hope she'd be happy and live a good life. Can I be a good person? Can I be a "Dear Moon" for someone? Beyond the simple moral issue, acting age and being an adult ... is not simple. It's big quest for life.
My Mister hits you differently. Not just because of the excellent story, characters, lines, acting, and soundtrack, it's also how it makes us reflect deeply on our own lives. Despite all the loss, shortcomings, and struggles we may have, in the end, it's never too late to have gratitude, kindness, and hope for yourself and others in this world. Hwaiting! 💪❤ 12/27/2023 EDIT: May Mr. Lee Sun-Kyun rest in peace. Could only wish his real life self had a happier ending than his character did in the show. Thanks to Mr. Lee for brining us one of the best characters to life within one of the the best Korean dramas. He will be endearingly missed. Hwaiting! 🙏❤
Best drama ever. Every other drama feels all trivial after watching this drama. It was painful to watch but it provided so much healing inside when finished watching.
First watched it when I was 18 and then rewatched it when I am 21 and just like you said, it got even better. The part when everyone sings karaoke just got me so much deeper this time. The way they sing their hearts out through the lyrics is just so beautiful and heartbreaking at the same time. This drama, tbh, I think I can never forget it. It always finds itself a place in my heart.
yeah...not surprising me this..I could watch it on repeat...like listening to my favourite music...because it actually gets better when you already know the story because you see the process more clearly...you probably have a few more rewatches in you. lol
They are basically each other redemption of life. The girl is just too young to handle such a harsh and burdenful life alone include her parent debt, deaf granma, her murdered shark loan's son who has a crush on her before she killed his dad in defense. While he is just underappreciated and mistreated by his cheating wife, biased company and conspiracy of his boss play with his wife. Through peeking on each other life, they found their own salvation by lending a helpful hand and warmth.
My Mister is my favorite Kdrama EVER. IU is a revelation and I hope she does more roles that are this juicy. I highly recommend the drama (not the movie) Mother as a followup. The acting and the story is just...yeah.
I agree with you. I really felt empty after finishing this drama bcz it's truly on another level. I had the same feeling after watching 'Secret Forest' recently. This is another extraordinary drama that I recommend everyone (Season 1 only).
What a great drama. I just finished it. I actually stretched out my watching over several months because I knew I would feel down after it was over. It will be hard to find something to watch right after this! Lee Sun Kyun is great in his part and IU is amazing. Her melancholy looks really hit home. The brothers relationship and the neighborhood relationships are also really nice to watch. Adds just a bit of comedy and also a heartwarming feeling of community. Everybody struggling but also always there for each other. Everything works perfectly including the soundtrack. Great great show. My favorite drama alongside Reply 1988.
Totally agree! Of course it cannot be compared. It is outstanding and unique! Really touched me and I saw all episodes within two days! Later I learned that IU was so extraordinary sensational in her acting, bc it came from her deep inside herself. She has gone through loneliness and depression herself. During the making of My Mister it is told that she was so affected by her own psychological challenges that she got sick and she wanted to quit it. Because everybody at the set cared so much for her, she didn‘t. So she did not play a role, it was more or less real. Watching My Mister, I always thought that this was more than acting. So knowing these things, I on the one hand felt sorry for her, on the other hand I started to sincerely admire her for her pure and genuine character. Must have been a rode on the razorblade for her to stay und the show. Anyway, there are nearly no films or series worldwide, which can keep up with the depth of My Mister! BTW: here in Germany nearly Nobody knows about k-drama, which is a pitty. Talking about it, my friends, family and colleages stare at my as I was an alien. They have no idea what they miss!
ep. #15 when the grandma died. the scene in the morgue was so compelling, putting you into tears as Li-Jian (?) communicate with her grandma, thanking her for having the chance to live with her; her wants to be with her in the afterlife. together with the sign language, very authentic, full of emotions the way she expressed her grief in her grandma's passing.
This drama is just phenomenal. Some scenes left me welling up with tears. I've realized in this drama that directing and screenplay can be so artistic. Kudos to the staff and actors for their hard work! I love it!
I agree with everything you say about this drama. It's profoundly moving and optimistic about the behaviour of people. No other piece of TV has had such a huge effect on me. I found myself reflecting on my behaviour in my life. It is a masterpiece
I totally agree with u. As a Korean, i have watched so many K dramas and this drama to me is No.1...I also watched the entire thing like 3 times..I feel so good there is somone who feels in the similar way to me about this drama
Everything you said about this drama: absolutely YES! I watched this kdrama back in October last year, and it was my first kdrama viewing ever. I was completely captivated and fell in love with the show. I'm actually on my 4th viewing at the moment. I fell in love with the show so much that I started writing a review of it, which turned into an essay. I'm hoping to publish it soon for other lovers of this show who couldn't quite get enough. So in a way, it was amazing for this video to be recommended to me on UA-cam.
A very deep, human and compelling story. A wonderful emotional ride from start to finish. It did remind of In the Mood for Love. Unrequited love, restrained feelings… melancholy at every level. I recommend Flower of Evil as another awesome Kdrama.
I thought I was the only one who was moved after watching this show. But the comments that I see proved me wrong. I loved this show so much each character is unique in their own way and hold so much importance. The director brought each emotion brilliantly. I have never loved any show this much. I cannot get enough of it.. it is a show which makes you want to be kind to each person you meet.. Each of us are carrying heavy burden, caring and being kind to one another can sometimes lighten that load. Amazing truly praises for the creator, director and cast of this show..
My Mister is such a great drama. One of my favourite drama of all time. It can never be praised enough! I watched it last year during lockdown and I devoured it in less than a week. As you said, the writing, the directing, the acting, the soundtrack : all top notch! It's no wonder that I've loved Misaeng and Signal almost as much later on. Ultimately, I love how this drama explores love in so many different aspects : deep bon, almost like soulmates with our two leads, motherly love, brotherly love, love within a community, Ki Hoon's love story with his actress, lost love with Jung Hee and Gyeom Duk the monk, and so on. Human interactions and (inter)connections at its core. Not the same genre at all but if you haven't seen it I strongly recommend Stranger : great writing, directing and acting as well and the background music is a gem ! Up there on my top favourite dramas list with My Mister
You are absolutely right. This is a masterpiece and a"drama for life". And it's interesting that so many people in the comment section mention "Mr Sunshine" as another one of their favourites. Seems they have a similar mindset... I enjoyed "It's okay not to be okay" very much as well which has a completely different vibe, but is awesome, too. Im general, I prefer Korean productions to Western ones because of the real diversity of stories, the acting skills, the often extremely beautiful cinematography / landscapes and especially the lack of political correctness shoved into your face by Hollywood. Even if sth like this is part of the plot like in "Itaewon Class", it's not that plump. So I'm more than happy to have found gems like the dramas mentioned above!
It was hard for me to watch another drama after i watched this one. This drama is so raw. So human. I rewatched ot many times and i still cry when i think about it. IU playing as Lee Ji An did a very good job.
This and Prison Playbook are truly my top two favorites K-Drama of all time! I've been watching K-Dramas since 2007, and these two are my favorites so far. Hope you put Prison Playbook in your next list!
@@ManVsDrama one vote for Prison Playbook. Definitely a must-watched. Same director with Reply series. The director and the writer also did a drama called Hospital Playlist, also an amazing drama
One of my all time favorite Kdramas. When the drama ended, I literally just sat in place and sobbed. It was an incredibly heart wrenching and heart warming story.
I just rewatched the whole drama a few days ago and it's true that it gets better every time. This drama is such a masterpiece. It's so profound, I'm just thankful for its existence. Btw, Lee Jieun (IU) is going to star in Hirokazu Koreeda's movie, Bonkers. They're starting the filming this month. I'm so excited for that, especially because it's packed with great casts and big names in the industry.
I love this drama series so much. They're friendship was so sweet and I love the growth of the characters through out the series... and tackles so many issues, trust, friendship, platonic love vs. romantic love, poverty, responsibility, passion, following your dreams, adulthood, betrayal, love, mid-life crisis, death, depression, marriage, classism, confidence vs insecurity etc. They're love is alot more pure because it's not based off of selfishness or lust or infidelity.... its the love that you have for a bestfriend although I think Mr. Park was not married it could have become something more because Ji-an was defo in love with im in a more romantic way too. I legit empathized with both of the main characters even though they come from such different walks of life. I love melancholic type stories, dramas and films even music so long as it ends in a satisfying. I also love the storyline between Ji-an and her grandmother it legit made me cry because she was deaf but sacrificed to raise Ji-an when her parents died and how it came full circle with Ji-an struggling to care for her granny after the loan sharks attack her. It made me miss and appreciate my grandmother so much more. Mr. Park was also just a caring loving guy towards his wife and even towards Ji-an in a more platonic way. I loved his integrity and how dedicated he was to his family and wife and that he refused to betray her by cheating even if she betrayed him/took him for granted due to her own insecurities. Just a great drama series all around.
Yeah you're totally right...there's so much in the drama and you probably listed it all. It definitely is one of those rare dramas that go far beyond entertainment... like someone below said: It makes you want to be a better person! :-)
One of the best, if not the best, dramas I've ever seen. I first watched it last August and have watched it 3 times since and each time I see or hear something I missed before which adds a better meaning to the show.
I recently discovered My Mister and fell in love with it. Now watching a second time & gleaning more. Everything you said about this Kdrama is spot on. The acting by all is exquisite, the writing & directing masterful. I am just so sad about the passing of Lee Sun Kyun. Such a loss. Thank you for this analysis.
If u are looking for new K-drama which can take ur mind away when u feel like there is no new other drama that can satisfy u after u watch My Mister, try "The Secret Forest". It is also called "The stranger". It came out season 2 on Netflix. It is very very different genre from My Mister. But so u will love it. And there is Kdrama called "Another Oh Hae Young". It was written by the same writer who wrote My Mister. So u will also enjoy this drama too.
i recently rewatched this, having seen it some time ago and fallen in love with it. the rewatch confirmed how utterly wonderful it is. i've seen 7 or 8 other kdramas, and it's wild how much of an outlier this is in terms of emotional truth, social realism, compelling drama, complex characterisation, etc. it's so much better than everything else in its medium that it's like if american television consisted of The Sopranos, and then 200 shows that were more or less like Suits. you made some interesting parallels here with kieslowski, koreeda, etc. i don't know if i'd consider it quite that elevated - like any kdrama, it has a lot of sequences where you have to watch it at 2x playback speed because it's dragging, it has moments where you wish they had just locked the camera down and kept it as one long take instead of pointlessly cutting, it has moments where you wish the only sound was what's in the scene rather than this overpowering, treacly music. but it is still really special, beautiful, and life-affirming
Mmhh...it's definitely an outlier..all I can say is I've watched it 6 times now...more often than any of kieslowskis films...so something is working for me...😁😁😁thanks for sharing your comments!
It's my favorite too. I'd like to recommend you a few kdramas. 'That's okay, it's love' and 'Mr.Sunshine' They will make you feel quite satisfied. Thank you for the review!
This is a masterpiece, the answer is yes for me, best drama on Netflix ❤️ Everything is incredible, Everyone… IU is wonderful in that kind of acting…. She delivered such a great character here… it’s a lesson of humanity for all of us. Watch out because IU - Lee Ji Eun will be on the next Kore Eda’s movie in Cannes 2022, his first korean movie!
I find myself constantly repeating the last three episodes because of the healing, retribution and the clear expression of love from many of its characters. Very moving scenes, even just the part when Dong-Hoon's mother embraced him outside the bar, proud of her son's achievement, brought tears to my eyes. Yes, I agree that after seeing My Mister, it seems difficult to invest your heart so much on other dramas. Great cast performances, especially IU who admitted she wanted to quit the drama because it made her depressed, as playing Ji-an was far more dark and emotionally heavy compared to her previois works. Lucky for us she finished the series, even landed an award for her performance.
@@rmtagasa I didn't know that about IU thinking of quitting...I can imagine though because she really seemed completely immersed in the role and I know what it's like...it can really feel like it's taking over your life..I've never been in a long drama like this...but even just for a week or two it can really change you...good job she kept going! :-)
Just finished watching! Definitely the best scripts of all K-Drama. With such little romance, this drama managed to bring so much heartache, growth and self-reflection. I even had to write down the quotes from various characters. I wish we all become this wise and this faithful living through this 30,000 years of our lives!
I felt the same way about My Mister. I must say that Extraordinary Attorney Woo has had a deep impact, although so very different. Have loved k-dramas since Secret Garden. Such a treasure load that got many of us through the pandemic. Thank you for your insights!
I agree. There is nothing else on tv like it. It is an excellent show! American movies have lost something, and this seems to have retained it, perhaps even honed it. The acting, and cinematography is just superb. So much so, you want to go into depth of each, and every character. I would describe this movie as an "Echoes" Pink Floyd song, where the theme is empathy... "Strangers passing in the street By chance, two separate glances meet And I am you and what I see is me And do I take you by the hand And lead you through the land And help me understand the best I can?" You could watch a scene, and then replay that very scene from another character's perspective who was in the same room, and it takes on another meaning, another purpose, just as important. They do this on occasion.
So true...I just rewatched the scene iwhen loan shark boy follows her and looks in through the window when dong hoon and her laugh for the first time together...and he looks like a jilted ex boyfriend all of a sudden...it's just what you described...👍🙂
god, this times 1000. im korean i grew up my entire life looking down on korean movies and especially korean shows. they always felt 20 years behind america. but today...dont know wtf is going on with hollywood but its all trash and becoming more trash at an alarming rate. american netflix trash is all garbage also. its no wonder netflix has put so much into korean / international shows now... korean entertainment still is maintaining its integrity in terms of honest effort and honest entertainment. watched this after sky castle and was startled how good they were, especially compared to the korean dramas i had known in my past. to think that im now relying on korean dramas as a source of honestly made proper entertainment..oh the humanity.
Loved this drama too much... Whom u loved so much but can't get him...but still u respectfully love him..and every day u pray for him that he can pass his day happily... It's my feelings towards the drama..and "my mister " song is so meaningful for me..🥰
I absolutely love this drama. In my top 3. Even after watching it, it affected me for a while. My favorite scene was when he was fighting the loan shark. The impact of those words to iu.
Thanks for sharing..I've noticed a few times that sometimes men get into this drama from the beginning and sometimes for women it takes a bit longer to warm up to Lee Ji-An...It's funny...for me from the first episode I developed that protective thing that Dong Hoon later developed. But it could just be my experience :-)
Just finished this drama in a span of 2 days. Most episodes do not have a super strong cliffhanger, but you feel compelled to watch another episode then another...
I’ve just finished watching this drama. My eyes are swollen from crying. I resonated to much with Park Dong-Hoon with his role in the company. Everyone likes him. He is excellent and passionate with his work but scared and not confident enough to climb the corporate ladder. I applaud him for keeping things to himself. I wish I was like that. But maybe that’s the reason why he was so depressed.
I always put off watching this one (even though I'm a big fan of IU) but when I started I couldn't stop until I finished. Many life lessons in different moments of life. I don't remember crying as much in a series as in this one. It hits you hard and right at the right moments.
this show reminded me a lot of Ikiru. Both are 10/10. a korean movie with a similar melancholic feel that also has the villain CEO from this show is spring, summer fall, winter, good movie.
I have watched many kdramas and none has left me with so any emotions like this one. The fact that I have had to look up more content about the drama and come to youtube looking for how people reaction to be comforted knowing I AM NOT the only one reeling from the aftermath of My Mister. Thank you for this video you put all the things I felt and thought into words. What an absolute masterpiece!
It's the best and also my favorite Korean drama I've seen so far. The main man character (Lee Sun-Kyun) is also a huge and very, very popular actor in Korea and worldwide. He also was the main man actor in the ''Parasite'' movie, which won everything on every film award like Golden Globe, Oscar and ... and last but no least IU, she is also a very, very famous singer in Korea and also an actress. The other actors in ''My Ahjussi'' are also famous.
few short clips on youtube recommendation caught my attention one night, especially the music video of the main theme song . so I gave it a try and oh boy.. even Shakespeare would be a big fan of this. I dont think any drama will top this one. the level of detail, the dynamic of this drama tops cloud atlas easily.
Yes, you are right. After watching this drama, am having a hard time watching other drama and rested my heart and mind for sometime. This affected me so much in so many ways. Gave me reasons to rethink about life and living and loving. I can't choose a particular scene as my favorite because this drama is the best on my list. Although, four scenes that struck me the most; 1. The scene at the temple where the monk, Sung-un mentioned, "your heart is the window to how you see the world". Simple words yet so powerful. 2. The brothers discovered his wife's infidelity and Dong-hoon was telling his brothers that they aren't helping but instead, their reactions were adding more burden to him. Very common scene to close-knit family ties. 3. Dong-hoon alone in his apartment after his wife left to visit their son. Ji-an has already left for another job. Being alone gave him the opportune to cry his heart out. 4. At the cafe, Ji-an back to Seoul, she heard and followed a familiar tone of voice to the patio. It's so heartwarming! This drama really, has set up my standard. Incomparable!❤️
If I may add, the scene when Ji-an together with Dong -hoon visited her grandmother. I cried so hard watching this scene. It was like a flashback to my younger self. An olderman in my 20's whom my grandmother adored. I remember her telling me...... "Should you decide to marry him, I would like to come back home". She went back to the US. I didn't end up marrying the older guy.😔
I have just found your channel as I was looking for video essays on kdramas and I found this. This is gold. Im so glad people outside of the typical k-fan sphere are appreciating this art. Personally, I really wanted to make my own type of video essay highlighting the cinematography of this drama as its just...wonderful I'll probably use this video as reference if I end up making it! Thanks so much man. Another drama i highly highly recommend if you haven't watched already: move to heaven.
I finished the show last week for the first time and my only regret is that I binged the last 3 episodes. But after watching your video and reading come comments I wil watch it again soon. It’s a great show
My Mister was classy and unforgettable. I watched it when It was airing in 2018. The two-month immersive experience made the characters as if my relatives. Now I still watch some of the clips here and there to appreciate the goodness and beauty of Ji An and Ahjussi. Other terrific Korean dramas I would like to recommend: Crime thrillers: The Guest, The Train (involving two parallel worlds), Secret Forest. Live Up To Your Name was a magnificent medical and time travel drama. Hooray.
Thanks for sharing your experience! I know "Live up to your name" and I really enjoyed it...not perfect but a lot of fun somehow! Secret Forest keeps being mentioned...mmmhh...might be one I have to check! thanks
Don't forget the humor too. The scenes between the ex-director/janitor and the failed actress are side-splitting funny. I also tell people "Best television I've EVER seen."
I have watched it twice. Each time it makes you sad. Character of Park Doon Hoon really makes you feel gloomy. Story is crafted beautifully. More than words spoken, expressions brought by actors are overwhelming.
Their voice is art. Imagine the drama, in the first 9 episode the both leads never smile but when the episode that they are drinking beer that is the first time they smile. The drama is the best kdrama the emotion is crazy. Despite of limited lines they able to show the depth of emotion.
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RIP Lee Sun Kyun! Definitely gone too soon!
I am so so sad.
What a tragedy
😭😭😭
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So sad to realize that was the actor in this beautiful series!
After watching this drama, I wanted to be a good adult.
Totally. Same here! At least better :-)
be kind to everyone, you never know who’s stalking you lol
same!
same
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I'm a full grown man. I never cried like this before.
Lol..me too I almost got teary just recording this video and talking about it👍😜
👍👍👍👍👍
Me too, I adored thos show, and it thouched me deeply.
this drama is unique because its got no romance yet gives loudest heartbeats and full of love to its viewers. best drama ever.
the most romantic non romance kdrama i've ever watched lol
everything does feel empty after this drama. like wow
Yeah...that's why I went straight back and watched again from the beginning...👍😜
Yes, nothing compares. The very best, nothing comes close.
I'm start watching it again. And it's become more beautiful. Since I know all the characters already, I can appreciate others, like cinematography. Background. Sound. I can even see how everyone involved in this series put all their best together to produce one of the best series I ever watched in my entire life.
Salud....🙏
Have you tried My Liberation Notes? Incredible series and I think it's the same director?
@@ernestomoreno4409 I did and I loved it but it was not as good as My mister
And here I foolishly thought I was the only one that gave this much praise to My Mister. I have also watched this drama more than once. I do warn those that love dramas as well. Once I watched this, every drama I ever watched went down in score. I now find it difficult to watch other dramas as well. My Mister is such a beautifully told story about humanity. I've watched numerous other dramas afterwards and have felt disappointed after every single one. I'm no longer easily moved by awkward romances, overly dramatic emotional breakdowns, or predictable tragedies. Watching My Mister and then other dramas is like going from fine dining to fast food. Watch My Mister at your own risk.
Lol! You hit the nail on the head! Thank you 👍🤓
It's exactly that. We are si many to feel that.
Very well said
lol... you're right tho
to be fair, My Mister is written unlike your usual kdrama ...
There is so few kdrama like this..., My Mister is more like human drama from Japan, jdorama poignant life/human drama have so many variant like My Mister type ... :')
I was kinda hesitant on watching My Mister because I heard it was a depressing drama. But I did end up watching it and I loved it. It’s now one of my favorite dramas ever.
Totally...it's not escapism fairytale time travel stuff but it's really misleading to call it depressing...it's very warm and uplifting
I was bawling at the end. Especially, the last few eps hit me so hard, I could not stop watching one eps after another. The show demonstrates the power of caring of others. If Dong Hoon did not pay attention to Ji An, the domino effect may not have started. If the old gentleman who cleans the office did not show his support at Ji An's graduation, if Ji An didn't notice Guang Il's thoughtfulness as a kid... these small kindness can change someone's life and this script captures that so well. The backdrop of the story, each character development, and the props like the wiretapping/earphones, the sandal, the shopping cart, the instant coffee... it is like you are living there with the characters. I've watched a lot of K-dramas but this one hit me the hardest and kudos to those who produced it. If US shows can learn from these creators, I think it would be great for the industry. Thanks for the great review!
great points here...and yes..US shows can learn a lot!
I just can't fathom how this young lady can be such a great singer and a great actress at the same time. Also, she's very mature for her age(after listening to her interviews) and a very good person, to boot. And she's lovely as well.
Lee sun kyung just passed away today; 27 Dec 2023 through suicide... He was incessantly questioned for drug use, dropped from dramas, harassed by reporters... How he must have felt... the despair. Korea is one of the worst place to live... the pressures at work, family, socially... even in cyberspace... its netizens are one of the worst... overly judgemental and opinionated without knowing the full story etc. RIP Lee Sun Kyung... great actor.
I feel like the rest of the world is starting to imitate this
The true beauty of this K-drama cannot be put into words. Just go and watch it. Spot on
I have never been so connected to a show ever in my life. Thank you “My Mister” for teaching me so much. I recommend this to absolutely everyone!
Thanks. I hope the people who haven't watched it will hopefully read comments like yours too if they don't want to rely on my opinion alone! 👍😉
Its so heartwarming, made me cry so many times. I actually also recommend the korean show Start-Up which seems very different in the beginning, but its so lovely and heart touching.
I couldn't shake the emotions from this drama for months. The acting was superb, it was hard to watch another K drama after this. The best way for me to describe this series is "Slow burn" this series had me watching until the sun came up in the morning. I was emotional and physically exhausted after this one.
I'm so sad and heartbroken. Rest peacefully. Thank you for sharing your talent with the world.
Finished watching my mister i have shed lots of tears as it progressed but the ending was really emotional be happy be kind do a good turn karma suttle kindness to think the main actor was a lamb to the slaughter for publicity ratings and money the root of all evil
The girl was superb what charisma they both had in this film .it's thought proving to live and be the best you can
A must watch for sure again
Not best drama on Netflix, it’s best drama in general.
Thank you for your review, Stephan. It’s true that one feels empty after watching My Mister the first time around. One has to watch it again and again and again. I watched it four times, too. Doing so led me to a totally unexpected experience - I had an illumination of conscience! Not only was I touched and moved to reflect on my life. In those 16 episodes, right before my very eyes, I saw my life play out. Numerous scenes shattered and ripped my heart apart, much like an open-heart surgery, and exposed to me how I have offended God, man and myself - the thoughts, words and acts I should not have done and should have done. Each time I watched it all over again, more of these were revealed and I found myself pausing and, just like Ji-an, saying with utmost remorse the words “I’m sorry” over and over while crying a river. The multitude of sorry misses to show friendliness, respect, understanding, compassion and love for decades were unbearable. I had to go through this suffering of being shown the dark side of me to realize some things - life is really difficult…there are crosses we carry daily...our unkindness makes life more difficult for others…what we say and do are either life-depleting or life-giving…life is not all darkness…there are plentiful moments and chapters in our lives that are true, good and beautiful because we are also true, good and beautiful.
With so many promptings of the spirit and numerous aha moments, I decided to write them down as I watched the second and third times. Re-watching and meditating on my notes led me to a deep dive understanding of myself, life, and my faith. When I decided to watch it the fourth time, I had a very clear purpose - healing. And so, there were many instances in almost all episodes, when I would stop and ask God to forgive me and then bless the persons I have caused pain and suffering in small and big ways, especially my husband and mother who recently passed. I begged Him to give me the graces I need to become a better human being so that I will always choose the higher good…so that I will be mindful of the chances that each day presents to me to easing the distress of persons I encounter by simply being kinder…so that from now on I will seek the good in others and in all circumstances.
It is unbelievable that My Mister became an emotional detoxification and a spiritual experience for me. It also inspired me to act. I’m now writing songs based on the poignant lessons I learned, the whirlwind of emotions I felt, and firm resolutions I made. I signed up as a member of a prolife organization. I am finally mentoring my seven children because it’s not too late to heal and be magnanimous. I am fired up!
Will I watch My Mister the fifth time? Perhaps. But for now, I’m happy. After the fourth watch, just like Ji-an and even Dong Hoon, I have found peace.
Thank you for your kindness, the tender attention you gave in reading this.
I agree...it can be quite therapeutical...that's what it was like for me too...just one thing: I didn't mean I felt empty after watching it. I meant other dramas feel quite empty after watching my mister...👍😔
@@ManVsDrama Yup, I misinterpreted it. You're right...one feels empty after watching it. And so, I've decided to stop watching any Korean drama for now.
By the way it wasn't just therapeutical. It was transformational. Have a great life.
@@ManVsDrama I have started and stopped other multiple drama series because they seem in authentic compared to My Mister.
Agreed, this is one of the best kdramas that not the typical cliche love story. I recommended this to all my friends that got into kdrama since quarantine, some won't watch it because it's pretty sad, but I tell them they are missing out on a masterpiece. It also made me question myself as a whole how to be a better person and not judge people if you don't know anything about them and their struggles after watching some of the more powerful scenes.
Totally...I rarely say this but masterpiece is the only word that describes this! It's just getting people to not get put off by the first episode! 👍😆
That is so true. Masterpiece.
Your review is exactly how I have felt since watching it 2 days back and restarted watching within 24 hours. It’s perhaps one of the best dramas I have watched in any language. You rightly said that everything else seems empty and meaningless.
It's a great one to rewatch...I missed many subtle things first time around👍😎
By far the most affecting drama I've seen - not just for a Korean drama but from any source. By the end of the series, you have been through so many emotions that when you see just the smallest clip or still from the programme or hear a song from the soundtrack, every feeling comes flooding back. The acting from all the cast is faultless but IU stands out particularly because of the way she can convey so much with the smallest gesture or expression. Surely she will have seen some parallels with her own upbringing and that adds poignancy to her portrayal. The funeral scene is one of saddest but then ultimately uplifting I've seen. As you say, people should not be put off by the seemingly dark and dry first episode. That is one of the joys of this series is that it takes it time drawing the characters in front of your eyes and pulling you in so you care for all of them. It's a series which benefits from replaying. Second, thid or fourth time round, it still pulls you in - in fact even more so. Class.
That scene where she deletes the spy app and his footsteps sound goes away gave me goosebumps and was I think the best scene I have ever seen ^^
yeah...in the context of the drama that's a very moving scene..I love episode 15 the most of all of them! hope you enjoy the scene breakdowns...we're almost at 15 now!
I noticed too! What great editing
It's so interesting that I felt sorry for her deleting the spy app. It meant to delete an important connection to a person she loves. Listening to his footsteps and his breath helped her against her loneliness.
I think lots of people watch drama to escape from reality but this one just knocks them back to reality and moreover makes them questions and face it. That's the reason people are scared to watch it or they don't like it.
I like the scene dong-hun cried in his house alone. It was the first time that dong-hun shows self-consoling in his deep heart comes in this drama. Throughout the drama, he always had to be kind, helpful, be a good man no matter his beneficence is from his mind or unconsciously learned from society, but real happiness doesn't come from one-sided sacrifice. Thank you for your great review.
Lee Sun Kyun next level acting in that scene. Such an amazing talent. What a waste that he is gone.
This is the best drama in my whole life!!! Thank you so much for bringing this drama to people who have not seen it. After watching it, you would rather see it again than trying to see another.
The best kdrama forever
Certainly seems like the writers & directors masterpiece so far! Lets hope they do more together👍🙂
It's my all-time favorite drama. I watched it in 2018 on tv and there are still no any another drama out yet which can compete with this masterpiece. Everything is so well done and written. Deep talks, teaching about life and person and a very platonic relationship makes this drama one of the bests all times.
absolutely!
This series was about many things to me. Family, loyalty, love, respect. Redemption and second chances. Surround yourself with good people and your life will be fruitful. I know its fake but I enjoyed it. I cried many times. Great series!!!
Totally a masterpiece. The best drama I've ever watch.
This is one of those shows that really does make you feel like you'll never watch anything that even comes close, ever again.
and so far I have to say it's proven true! 👍🙂
Yes, I cannot agree more, it's so moving and painted such a beautiful picture of humanity despite all the darkness of this world. Definitely the best kdrama I've ever watched and it's just make me want to be a little bit better. IU was just so amazing in her acting and that scene she said goodbye to grandma in the morgue, just can't help it with my tears. Thanks for the great review of this underrated show.
The best drama in my life. Sometimes I ask 'Ji-an, are you OK now?' in my mind. It' weird that i talk to imaginary person in drama, but I really hope she'd be happy and live a good life. Can I be a good person? Can I be a "Dear Moon" for someone? Beyond the simple moral issue, acting age and being an adult ... is not simple. It's big quest for life.
My Mister hits you differently. Not just because of the excellent story, characters, lines, acting, and soundtrack, it's also how it makes us reflect deeply on our own lives. Despite all the loss, shortcomings, and struggles we may have, in the end, it's never too late to have gratitude, kindness, and hope for yourself and others in this world. Hwaiting! 💪❤
12/27/2023 EDIT: May Mr. Lee Sun-Kyun rest in peace. Could only wish his real life self had a happier ending than his character did in the show. Thanks to Mr. Lee for brining us one of the best characters to life within one of the the best Korean dramas. He will be endearingly missed. Hwaiting! 🙏❤
you're right. I've never seen a drama that reaches so deep..
Best drama ever. Every other drama feels all trivial after watching this drama. It was painful to watch but it provided so much healing inside when finished watching.
I'm writing this comment after watching this series 3 times already. You basically echoed what I feel about this drama. Thanks!
First watched it when I was 18 and then rewatched it when I am 21 and just like you said, it got even better. The part when everyone sings karaoke just got me so much deeper this time. The way they sing their hearts out through the lyrics is just so beautiful and heartbreaking at the same time. This drama, tbh, I think I can never forget it. It always finds itself a place in my heart.
yeah...not surprising me this..I could watch it on repeat...like listening to my favourite music...because it actually gets better when you already know the story because you see the process more clearly...you probably have a few more rewatches in you. lol
They are basically each other redemption of life.
The girl is just too young to handle such a harsh and burdenful life alone include her parent debt, deaf granma, her murdered shark loan's son who has a crush on her before she killed his dad in defense.
While he is just underappreciated and mistreated by his cheating wife, biased company and conspiracy of his boss play with his wife.
Through peeking on each other life, they found their own salvation by lending a helpful hand and warmth.
My Mister is my favorite Kdrama EVER. IU is a revelation and I hope she does more roles that are this juicy. I highly recommend the drama (not the movie) Mother as a followup. The acting and the story is just...yeah.
I agree with you. I really felt empty after finishing this drama bcz it's truly on another level. I had the same feeling after watching 'Secret Forest' recently. This is another extraordinary drama that I recommend everyone (Season 1 only).
Best Drama ever.
Paulo Coelho praised it equally.
What a great drama. I just finished it. I actually stretched out my watching over several months because I knew I would feel down after it was over. It will be hard to find something to watch right after this!
Lee Sun Kyun is great in his part and IU is amazing. Her melancholy looks really hit home. The brothers relationship and the neighborhood relationships are also really nice to watch. Adds just a bit of comedy and also a heartwarming feeling of community. Everybody struggling but also always there for each other.
Everything works perfectly including the soundtrack.
Great great show. My favorite drama alongside Reply 1988.
Totally agree! Of course it cannot be compared. It is outstanding and unique! Really touched me and I saw all episodes within two days!
Later I learned that IU was so extraordinary sensational in her acting, bc it came from her deep inside herself. She has gone through loneliness and depression herself. During the making of My Mister it is told that she was so affected by her own psychological challenges that she got sick and she wanted to quit it. Because everybody at the set cared so much for her, she didn‘t. So she did not play a role, it was more or less real.
Watching My Mister, I always thought that this was more than acting. So knowing these things, I on the one hand felt sorry for her, on the other hand I started to sincerely admire her for her pure and genuine character. Must have been a rode on the razorblade for her to stay und the show.
Anyway, there are nearly no films or series worldwide, which can keep up with the depth of My Mister!
BTW: here in Germany nearly Nobody knows about k-drama, which is a pitty. Talking about it, my friends, family and colleages stare at my as I was an alien. They have no idea what they miss!
It's funny..oddly my whole family has become avid kdrama watchers. My dad loves "my mister" too...thanks for your comments!
ep. #15 when the grandma died. the scene in the morgue was so compelling, putting you into tears as Li-Jian (?) communicate with her grandma, thanking her for having the chance to live with her; her wants to be with her in the afterlife. together with the sign language, very authentic, full of emotions the way she expressed her grief in her grandma's passing.
I believe that's episode 16..last episode..at least on netflix..it's true..those scenes are very moving...
So so sad.... it really hit me on that episode
Totally agreed with what being said about My Mister.
This drama is just phenomenal. Some scenes left me welling up with tears. I've realized in this drama that directing and screenplay can be so artistic. Kudos to the staff and actors for their hard work! I love it!
I agree with everything you say about this drama.
It's profoundly moving and optimistic about the behaviour of people.
No other piece of TV has had such a huge effect on me. I found myself reflecting on my behaviour in my life. It is a masterpiece
Same here...👍😎
On point. Everything you said. This is like the golden standard of kdrama for me.
this is the best drama in my life.
thank you
mine too! Thanks!
I totally agree with u. As a Korean, i have watched so many K dramas and this drama to me is No.1...I also watched the entire thing like 3 times..I feel so good there is somone who feels in the similar way to me about this drama
Everything you said about this drama: absolutely YES! I watched this kdrama back in October last year, and it was my first kdrama viewing ever. I was completely captivated and fell in love with the show. I'm actually on my 4th viewing at the moment. I fell in love with the show so much that I started writing a review of it, which turned into an essay. I'm hoping to publish it soon for other lovers of this show who couldn't quite get enough. So in a way, it was amazing for this video to be recommended to me on UA-cam.
Yeah it's like they're listening to you right? 👍😃 I hope you get it published soon! I already like the topic! 👍
A very deep, human and compelling story. A wonderful emotional ride from start to finish. It did remind of In the Mood for Love. Unrequited love, restrained feelings… melancholy at every level. I recommend Flower of Evil as another awesome Kdrama.
I thought I was the only one who was moved after watching this show. But the comments that I see proved me wrong. I loved this show so much each character is unique in their own way and hold so much importance. The director brought each emotion brilliantly. I have never loved any show this much. I cannot get enough of it.. it is a show which makes you want to be kind to each person you meet.. Each of us are carrying heavy burden, caring and being kind to one another can sometimes lighten that load. Amazing truly praises for the creator, director and cast of this show..
My Mister is such a great drama. One of my favourite drama of all time. It can never be praised enough! I watched it last year during lockdown and I devoured it in less than a week. As you said, the writing, the directing, the acting, the soundtrack : all top notch! It's no wonder that I've loved Misaeng and Signal almost as much later on.
Ultimately, I love how this drama explores love in so many different aspects : deep bon, almost like soulmates with our two leads, motherly love, brotherly love, love within a community, Ki Hoon's love story with his actress, lost love with Jung Hee and Gyeom Duk the monk, and so on. Human interactions and (inter)connections at its core.
Not the same genre at all but if you haven't seen it I strongly recommend Stranger : great writing, directing and acting as well and the background music is a gem ! Up there on my top favourite dramas list with My Mister
you summarise it so well! thanks S.
You are absolutely right. This is a masterpiece and a"drama for life". And it's interesting that so many people in the comment section mention "Mr Sunshine" as another one of their favourites. Seems they have a similar mindset... I enjoyed "It's okay not to be okay" very much as well which has a completely different vibe, but is awesome, too. Im general, I prefer Korean productions to Western ones because of the real diversity of stories, the acting skills, the often extremely beautiful cinematography / landscapes and especially the lack of political correctness shoved into your face by Hollywood. Even if sth like this is part of the plot like in "Itaewon Class", it's not that plump. So I'm more than happy to have found gems like the dramas mentioned above!
Still crying. I cant move on
It was hard for me to watch another drama after i watched this one. This drama is so raw. So human. I rewatched ot many times and i still cry when i think about it. IU playing as Lee Ji An did a very good job.
even just the music can set me off these days haha 👍😎
This and Prison Playbook are truly my top two favorites K-Drama of all time! I've been watching K-Dramas since 2007, and these two are my favorites so far. Hope you put Prison Playbook in your next list!
Omg..if i keep going here I'll never stop watching...Haven't watched Prison Playbook yet...guess it's on the list! :-)
@@ManVsDrama Yash! Looking forward for your reviews 😊🙏
@@ManVsDrama one vote for Prison Playbook. Definitely a must-watched. Same director with Reply series. The director and the writer also did a drama called Hospital Playlist, also an amazing drama
One of my all time favorite Kdramas.
When the drama ended, I literally just sat in place and sobbed. It was an incredibly heart wrenching and heart warming story.
I just rewatched the whole drama a few days ago and it's true that it gets better every time. This drama is such a masterpiece. It's so profound, I'm just thankful for its existence. Btw, Lee Jieun (IU) is going to star in Hirokazu Koreeda's movie, Bonkers. They're starting the filming this month. I'm so excited for that, especially because it's packed with great casts and big names in the industry.
I heard that from another subscriber...super excited about that...they should be a great match..
I love this drama series so much. They're friendship was so sweet and I love the growth of the characters through out the series... and tackles so many issues, trust, friendship, platonic love vs. romantic love, poverty, responsibility, passion, following your dreams, adulthood, betrayal, love, mid-life crisis, death, depression, marriage, classism, confidence vs insecurity etc. They're love is alot more pure because it's not based off of selfishness or lust or infidelity.... its the love that you have for a bestfriend although I think Mr. Park was not married it could have become something more because Ji-an was defo in love with im in a more romantic way too.
I legit empathized with both of the main characters even though they come from such different walks of life. I love melancholic type stories, dramas and films even music so long as it ends in a satisfying. I also love the storyline between Ji-an and her grandmother it legit made me cry because she was deaf but sacrificed to raise Ji-an when her parents died and how it came full circle with Ji-an struggling to care for her granny after the loan sharks attack her. It made me miss and appreciate my grandmother so much more.
Mr. Park was also just a caring loving guy towards his wife and even towards Ji-an in a more platonic way. I loved his integrity and how dedicated he was to his family and wife and that he refused to betray her by cheating even if she betrayed him/took him for granted due to her own insecurities. Just a great drama series all around.
Yeah you're totally right...there's so much in the drama and you probably listed it all. It definitely is one of those rare dramas that go far beyond entertainment... like someone below said: It makes you want to be a better person! :-)
One of the best, if not the best, dramas I've ever seen. I first watched it last August and have watched it 3 times since and each time I see or hear something I missed before which adds a better meaning to the show.
You nailed exactly why this show is a masterpiece of human drama.
I recently discovered My Mister and fell in love with it. Now watching a second time & gleaning more.
Everything you said about this Kdrama is spot on. The acting by all is exquisite, the writing & directing masterful. I am just so sad about the passing of Lee Sun Kyun. Such a loss.
Thank you for this analysis.
If u are looking for new K-drama which can take ur mind away when u feel like there is no new other drama that can satisfy u after u watch My Mister, try "The Secret Forest". It is also called "The stranger". It came out season 2 on Netflix. It is very very different genre from My Mister. But so u will love it.
And there is Kdrama called "Another Oh Hae Young". It was written by the same writer who wrote My Mister. So u will also enjoy this drama too.
Thanks...I'll check them out..I'll definitely want to see more from this writer so I might look for another oh hae young first👍
I love that two dramas as well. I hope you'll react to it also.
One of the best Korean dramas. You won't be disappointed.
i recently rewatched this, having seen it some time ago and fallen in love with it. the rewatch confirmed how utterly wonderful it is. i've seen 7 or 8 other kdramas, and it's wild how much of an outlier this is in terms of emotional truth, social realism, compelling drama, complex characterisation, etc. it's so much better than everything else in its medium that it's like if american television consisted of The Sopranos, and then 200 shows that were more or less like Suits. you made some interesting parallels here with kieslowski, koreeda, etc. i don't know if i'd consider it quite that elevated - like any kdrama, it has a lot of sequences where you have to watch it at 2x playback speed because it's dragging, it has moments where you wish they had just locked the camera down and kept it as one long take instead of pointlessly cutting, it has moments where you wish the only sound was what's in the scene rather than this overpowering, treacly music. but it is still really special, beautiful, and life-affirming
Mmhh...it's definitely an outlier..all I can say is I've watched it 6 times now...more often than any of kieslowskis films...so something is working for me...😁😁😁thanks for sharing your comments!
It's my favorite too. I'd like to recommend you a few kdramas. 'That's okay, it's love' and 'Mr.Sunshine'
They will make you feel quite satisfied. Thank you for the review!
Mr. Sunshine is phenomenal! Love it! The other one keeps popping up in my feed so sooner or later I won't be able to resist! 😜
Yes finally someone acknowledged" that's okay it's love " it's really good
I’m glad I’m not the only one who loved it it was insanely good a masterpiece
This is a masterpiece, the answer is yes for me, best drama on Netflix ❤️ Everything is incredible, Everyone… IU is wonderful in that kind of acting…. She delivered such a great character here… it’s a lesson of humanity for all of us.
Watch out because IU - Lee Ji Eun will be on the next Kore Eda’s movie in Cannes 2022, his first korean movie!
Won the award for moral representation.
What's your favourite episode from my mister? Let me know in the comments!
Favorite episode has to be the grandmother's viewing/funeral. The gesture from everyone being there for her was so touching.
The one where she leaves, so sad.
Every episodes picturing how Ji-an take care of her grandma. They really touch my deepest place in my heart. So beautiful.
I find myself constantly repeating the last three episodes because of the healing, retribution and the clear expression of love from many of its characters. Very moving scenes, even just the part when Dong-Hoon's mother embraced him outside the bar, proud of her son's achievement, brought tears to my eyes. Yes, I agree that after seeing My Mister, it seems difficult to invest your heart so much on other dramas. Great cast performances, especially IU who admitted she wanted to quit the drama because it made her depressed, as playing Ji-an was far more dark and emotionally heavy compared to her previois works. Lucky for us she finished the series, even landed an award for her performance.
@@rmtagasa I didn't know that about IU thinking of quitting...I can imagine though because she really seemed completely immersed in the role and I know what it's like...it can really feel like it's taking over your life..I've never been in a long drama like this...but even just for a week or two it can really change you...good job she kept going! :-)
Just finished watching! Definitely the best scripts of all K-Drama. With such little romance, this drama managed to bring so much heartache, growth and self-reflection. I even had to write down the quotes from various characters. I wish we all become this wise and this faithful living through this 30,000 years of our lives!
So true...Thanks for commenting! Hope you'll enjoy my scene breakdowns as well! S.
Yes, this is a very good series. A really really rare good drama. Cannot even describe my feelings, it's beautiful, beautiful, beautiful...
I felt the same way about My Mister. I must say that Extraordinary Attorney Woo has had a deep impact, although so very different. Have loved k-dramas since Secret Garden. Such a treasure load that got many of us through the pandemic. Thank you for your insights!
I agree. There is nothing else on tv like it. It is an excellent show! American movies have lost something, and this seems to have retained it, perhaps even honed it. The acting, and cinematography is just superb. So much so, you want to go into depth of each, and every character. I would describe this movie as an "Echoes" Pink Floyd song, where the theme is empathy...
"Strangers passing in the street
By chance, two separate glances meet
And I am you and what I see is me
And do I take you by the hand
And lead you through the land
And help me understand the best I can?"
You could watch a scene, and then replay that very scene from another character's perspective who was in the same room, and it takes on another meaning, another purpose, just as important. They do this on occasion.
So true...I just rewatched the scene iwhen loan shark boy follows her and looks in through the window when dong hoon and her laugh for the first time together...and he looks like a jilted ex boyfriend all of a sudden...it's just what you described...👍🙂
god, this times 1000. im korean i grew up my entire life looking down on korean movies and especially korean shows. they always felt 20 years behind america. but today...dont know wtf is going on with hollywood but its all trash and becoming more trash at an alarming rate. american netflix trash is all garbage also. its no wonder netflix has put so much into korean / international shows now... korean entertainment still is maintaining its integrity in terms of honest effort and honest entertainment. watched this after sky castle and was startled how good they were, especially compared to the korean dramas i had known in my past. to think that im now relying on korean dramas as a source of honestly made proper entertainment..oh the humanity.
Best drama ever
Loved this drama too much... Whom u loved so much but can't get him...but still u respectfully love him..and every day u pray for him that he can pass his day happily... It's my feelings towards the drama..and "my mister " song is so meaningful for me..🥰
Yeah..the whole soundtrack is quietly amazing!
A drama that is both simple and extraordinary at the same time
I want IU to do more and more such dramas 🥰
I absolutely love this drama. In my top 3. Even after watching it, it affected me for a while. My favorite scene was when he was fighting the loan shark. The impact of those words to iu.
the thing about their bond isn't the romance that we all knew in kdramas, I saw them as buddies and I liked that
The best of my 50 years old life.
Make sure to watch the best K-drama.
For your information, I am an old Korean man.ㅠㅠ
Thanks for sharing..I've noticed a few times that sometimes men get into this drama from the beginning and sometimes for women it takes a bit longer to warm up to Lee Ji-An...It's funny...for me from the first episode I developed that protective thing that Dong Hoon later developed. But it could just be my experience :-)
50이 노인이라니 ㅠㅠ
40중반 코리안맨 입니다. 아파서 병원 갔더니 젊으셔서 금방 나을거란 얘기를 많이 들었습니다. 개인적으로는 어색한 순간이었지만 주변 병원 평균 환자 연령을 보니 납득이 가더군요. 올드맨이란 생각은 살짝 전환 하세요!!
@@ManVsDrama As a woman I think you are right.
I would suggest "Heaven's Garden" as a movie you may enjoy.
Just finished this drama in a span of 2 days. Most episodes do not have a super strong cliffhanger, but you feel compelled to watch another episode then another...
I’ve just finished watching this drama. My eyes are swollen from crying.
I resonated to much with Park Dong-Hoon with his role in the company. Everyone likes him. He is excellent and passionate with his work but scared and not confident enough to climb the corporate ladder.
I applaud him for keeping things to himself. I wish I was like that. But maybe that’s the reason why he was so depressed.
Its almost year, but i cannot move on from this drama
I always put off watching this one (even though I'm a big fan of IU) but when I started I couldn't stop until I finished. Many life lessons in different moments of life. I don't remember crying as much in a series as in this one. It hits you hard and right at the right moments.
totally...it reaches parts of you no other drama I know if has ever reached! :-)
Mr Sunshine and my mister are my two fav dramas off all time. Try watch Because this is my first life, this drama is well written too.
Yes, Mr sunshine is also great...I'll have a look for the other one you mention!!
@@ManVsDrama waiting for your review
Watch dear my friends. Its a very underrated gem!
Same. Couldn't agree more!
this show reminded me a lot of Ikiru. Both are 10/10. a korean movie with a similar melancholic feel that also has the villain CEO from this show is spring, summer fall, winter, good movie.
I have watched many kdramas and none has left me with so any emotions like this one. The fact that I have had to look up more content about the drama and come to youtube looking for how people reaction to be comforted knowing I AM NOT the only one reeling from the aftermath of My Mister. Thank you for this video you put all the things I felt and thought into words. What an absolute masterpiece!
Thanks for sharing ..you might enjoy the scene breakdown series!
It's the best and also my favorite Korean drama I've seen so far. The main man character (Lee Sun-Kyun) is also a huge and very, very popular actor in Korea and worldwide. He also was the main man actor in the ''Parasite'' movie, which won everything on every film award like Golden Globe, Oscar and ... and last but no least IU, she is also a very, very famous singer in Korea and also an actress. The other actors in ''My Ahjussi'' are also famous.
This drama still holds a special place in my heart. I wanna watch more similar to this.
few short clips on youtube recommendation caught my attention one night, especially the music video of the main theme song . so I gave it a try and oh boy.. even Shakespeare would be a big fan of this. I dont think any drama will top this one. the level of detail, the dynamic of this drama tops cloud atlas easily.
You're right ..it's definitely got elements you could well find in a Shakespeare play 👍😎
Yes, you are right. After watching this drama, am having a hard time watching other drama and rested my heart and mind for sometime. This affected me so much in so many ways. Gave me reasons to rethink about life and living and loving.
I can't choose a particular scene as my favorite because this drama is the best on my list. Although, four scenes that struck me the most;
1. The scene at the temple where the monk, Sung-un mentioned, "your heart is the window to how you see the world". Simple words yet so powerful.
2. The brothers discovered his wife's infidelity and Dong-hoon was telling his brothers that they aren't helping but instead, their reactions were adding more burden to him. Very common scene to close-knit family ties.
3. Dong-hoon alone in his apartment after his wife left to visit their son. Ji-an has already left for another job. Being alone gave him the opportune to cry his heart out.
4. At the cafe, Ji-an back to Seoul, she heard and followed a familiar tone of voice to the patio. It's so heartwarming!
This drama really, has set up my standard.
Incomparable!❤️
If I may add, the scene when Ji-an together with Dong -hoon visited her grandmother. I cried so hard watching this scene. It was like a flashback to my younger self. An olderman in my 20's whom my grandmother adored. I remember her telling me...... "Should you decide to marry him, I would like to come back home". She went back to the US. I didn't end up marrying the older guy.😔
@@oliviaveronicamontiel9651 ahh..that's such a nice reference...thanks for adding that!
@@ManVsDrama ❤️
I have just found your channel as I was looking for video essays on kdramas and I found this. This is gold. Im so glad people outside of the typical k-fan sphere are appreciating this art. Personally, I really wanted to make my own type of video essay highlighting the cinematography of this drama as its just...wonderful I'll probably use this video as reference if I end up making it! Thanks so much man.
Another drama i highly highly recommend if you haven't watched already: move to heaven.
Do it! Thanks for the good vibes...hope you enjoy the scene breakdown series!
I finished the show last week for the first time and my only regret is that I binged the last 3 episodes. But after watching your video and reading come comments I wil watch it again soon. It’s a great show
Yeah when you binge it's great.but this is the only drama I've ever seen that gets better everything I watch it.👍😎
I will say I agree 100% about this being a great drama, watched it 2x and even seen more the second time around. I saw it differently.
My Mister is my favourite series of all time. And I think it is a true masterpiece.
My Mister was classy and unforgettable. I watched it when It was airing in 2018. The two-month immersive experience made the characters as if my relatives. Now I still watch some of the clips here and there to appreciate the goodness and beauty of Ji An and Ahjussi. Other terrific Korean dramas I would like to recommend: Crime thrillers: The Guest, The Train (involving two parallel worlds), Secret Forest. Live Up To Your Name was a magnificent medical and time travel drama. Hooray.
Thanks for sharing your experience! I know "Live up to your name" and I really enjoyed it...not perfect but a lot of fun somehow! Secret Forest keeps being mentioned...mmmhh...might be one I have to check! thanks
@@ManVsDrama Stranger is even better than Signal and Voice.
Thanks. I need non popularity-based recommendation like this
Amazing story! Great performances by all. I will watch it again. Wow wow. Totally agree with this review. Thank you ..
Thanks for commenting! Next video is going to be a reaction and breakdown of my favourite scene from Episode 4! :-)
It was absolutely amazing and beautiful
Totally next level story acting and direction
Absolutely agree!
Don't forget the humor too. The scenes between the ex-director/janitor and the failed actress are side-splitting funny. I also tell people "Best television I've EVER seen."
Yeah that story line is funny and super moving too...the actress is fantastic too!
I have watched it twice. Each time it makes you sad. Character of Park Doon Hoon really makes you feel gloomy. Story is crafted beautifully. More than words spoken, expressions brought by actors are overwhelming.
I remember crying in all the episodes of this drama:'( .. definitely one of the best k-dramas I've ever watched.
can imagine...funny thing is the more often you watch it the more moving it is..because you know the whole journey !
@@ManVsDrama agree with u it's a good method :) but my heart isn't tolerate its final again and again....
ahh..but the final is so beautiful and uplifting??? 🤔
@@ManVsDrama yes i know i know but i get upset when i finish watching then I listen to the OSTs and ease the separation.🤭
@@rahimeyldrm1638 haha...it's called "Missing My Mister" syndrome... prescription is OST! haha
Their voice is art. Imagine the drama, in the first 9 episode the both leads never smile but when the episode that they are drinking beer that is the first time they smile.
The drama is the best kdrama the emotion is crazy. Despite of limited lines they able to show the depth of emotion.