Why you only love yourself when things are going well
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- Опубліковано 22 тра 2024
- Episode: Why you only love yourself when things are going well
When we live from a love equation that says "I'm only lovable when...", we are being controlled and manipulated. This leads us to invest precious time, energy, and attention on satisfying these conditions and then maintaining them.
No wonder we burn out!
Learn what do about this in today's episode:
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Wow, thank you. This is one of my favorites you have done. I have been trying to figure out why I keep going back when I process something new. I think this is exactly it. I forgot about some of those underlying rules and conditions. They got retriggered.
Im doing a course with Marshall. I've just started to feel after 50 years tools, and someone who really helps. I think its in part because he didnt study this academically, eg for a career. He lived it. And worked out what actually helped. It makes it very real, and life changing.
Nobody understands codependency better than this guy.
Thank you!
Rules and conditions. Wow.
I hate myself even when I get hurt. I need to break out of this.
I was always blamed and punished when I was hurt. Also punished & when I succeeded. They acted like me feeling good about myself was hurting them. It is lose lose for me, and their violent acts were excused by them because it was my fault because of how I am.
@@loverainthunder Holding big care for you in this place and pain. You didn't earn that. Ever!
Thanks sooooo much. Always love watching your video's. (rarely skip them). You are such a gem explaining things and doing it with so much kindness and understanding. Love to know if your (paidO workshops have replays? (living In Australia) ...so i could watch them i my own time?
Yep, they do! You can watch it anytime forever!