I got sick with diabetes & felt so bad on a trip I went with the narcissist & knowing I didnt feel well he purposely took me walking throught the streets looking for the restaurant the weather was hot & humid & I wasn't used to this type of weather. I told him over & over to get a taxi & I would pay for it cause he was so cheap to even pay for a taxi but he refused. I finally got fed up with him & when he took me to the restaurant he started going off on me humiliating me for $20 I had asked him for years ago for gas because I had forgotten my wallet at home. He wouldn't stop insulting me & belittling me over that incident years ago. The waiter finally came over & told him to stop talking to me so rude & mean & the waiter offered me a glass of wine on the house so I could relax & ignore him. He finally left that night & I didnt go back to the room with him instead I left to go enjoy the time alone in hotel lobby. The worse experience of my life to deal with such a evil person like him
Amazing how similar they are; my ex poisoned me, drugged me, left me at emergency room alone but I couldn't move fentanyl he gave me and didn't tell me you & I have eerily similar experiences with thus sick thing. I didn't put it together the adrenaline rush, the high, the smirk...all the things he did that I couldn't understand. Thank you so much ❤
Wow, you're telling my life story. Almost every detail, from being sick and abused all the way to autoimmune disorders. Even the" I guess I'm a bad boyfriend/ wife comment! It's scary how similar the stories are from victims, and how uncanny the narcs are in their diabolic operations. Thank God for opening our eyes, I can't imagine recovering without faith.
They itch to be have you in this condition….. it’s a narcs dream to have in the weakest condition ….. they get supply when they say their not going to help you……. They kick and spit on you when your the lowest
He left me a week after picking me back up from the previous discard over a cancer scare I had. He said I was a burden to people and I “bummed him out.” He said I could have handled my fears differently. All of this was said while I had a visible lump in my right armpit. If it had turned out to be cancer, he told me there was no point in being with me. Even after finding out it was just a weird infection of sorts and not cancer, he still up and left. Things didn’t go “smoothly” for him. Off to the next supply he went.
My heart goes out to you, I too have been in similar situations with my ex husband. It’s absolutely horrendous. Thank you for your courage and transparency. If anyone reading my comment is going through this with a current partner, please understand this is not love. You are in real danger. Make a plan and find a safe way to leave.
So sorry he left you alone after your surgery, the way he used you and then left !! The smirk is unnerving, putting it mildly !! The harm a narc causes are immesurable !! Mental, Emotional, Physical, Spiritual, Financial, incalculable damage, intentionally !!! Malicious beyond a reasonable person's beliefs ......... ( How could she do that ? ) I have asked myself, many, many times ..... ( How could she do that ? ) Heartbreaking, Soul Shattering Betrayal !!!
I had surgery the next day and i was telling my narcissistic gf about it, how I was really nervous etc. Her response was stop talking about it I don’t care. She didn’t even pretend to care for a bit. It was such an inconvenience for her to have me talk about it. Yet she always wanted comfort when she was feeling down. It’s so obvious now. Thank you for helping me understand it
ABSOLUTELY TOTALLY AND EXACTLY TRUE,THE NARCISSIST ONLY LIKES THE SUNSHINE DAYS AND WHEN RAINMY DAY THEY WILL GRAB THE UMBRELLA AND START DEVALUATE YOU AND DISPERSE……😢
Being in a relationship with a narcissist was incredibly challenging. While I would extend support to my ex-wife for her health, I've learned the importance of self-care. I went through a traumatic experience after being discarded 11 months ago and even faced legal issues, but I came out stronger. Now, as I heal, I'm grateful that the lessons I've learned protect me from being drawn back into a harmful situation. I haven't forgotten the challenges I faced, and they serve as a reminder of my own strength and resilience
My wife hated when I was sick. Her need for money had me pushing through injuries and working huge amounts of overtime until my body broke down. She moved out and I was supposed to follow but she pulled out all the money for moving and abandoned me to be homeless. I am trying to sell the house and survive but she keeps stealing the rent money.
Oh crap yes! I was married to mine had a small toddler, he got sick vomiting then within an hour I caught the same thing, I repeatedly called the ex narc at work,..& he finished his shift before coming home,..then verbally bashed me for the mess & needing him. These meat suits are demonic,..he's remarried now,..& not even a full year of marriage she left,..but threw the grape vine I found out she went back for more. She needs to ride out her own journey,..it's just I know how the story ends. Great video, glad I joined ur channel, still need healing from the years of toxic soup I was in.
I know how you feel my ex narc when i broke my patella in my knee cap and i couldnt walk and in a wheel chair he would push me into the wall and the same with me forced sex on me he walked out on me to thank you so much for your videos they are really good❤
That is so disgusting what he did to you. Absolutely disgusting. My ex fiancé narcissist was really horrible yo me as well. 1 and half years after the discard I’m just starting to heal. That narcissistic smirk is evil. She showed up at the park where I walk my dog. She smiled at me, I think it was her idea of a hoover. I just completely ignored her and me and my lovely dog went home.
Thank you, this was a major final step listening to you just now to help me finish healing. I am so sorry how he treated. I don’t have words for what he did to you. This man is not a man, but he is an empty shell of darkness. This made me shake listening to what happened to you. Wow, in shock and thankful I got out when I did. God bless you for sharing this information and your story. ❤
I needed this comment. I've been crying for days plagued with thoughts of the abuse that people thought was necessary. No one deserves to experience these types of traumatic events.
@@doniellejolie You may never know the extent of how many individuals you have helped through your pain. I tell people that a covert Narcissist is so good and so believable when it comes to their role of a prince, it is scary. I felt alone for along time because this individual was so charming, he made people think I was the looloo one. The Narc is a master of brain washing and which leads to ups and downs of emotions, numbness and confusion. I don’t have high blood pressure and I went to get a checkup one time and they told me my blood pressure was significantly elevated (normally I am low), yet I was calm as can be sitting there. I am praying for you right now and I am sorry about those people that turned their backs on you, they will see one day what your ex is made of and hopefully they will acknowledge and apologize to you for turning their back. We love deeply and we hurt deeply, but we will continue to heal the best we can. But the Narcissist has a life sentence of never knowing what it feels like to be joyful, love others, having compassion for others… ♥️
Was bad for a year and needed an operation she walked all over me and then told me she wasn’t happy and wanted a divorce 2 weeks before an operation she wanted to remain friends me and our child were devastated I haven’t spoke to her or seen my wife for 10 weeks total no contact I have someone in the middle to deal with so I can see our child I will never forget or forgive this women and will never speak to her again she is dead to me no one ever disrespects me like that after I treat my wife with such love and respect
How do get rid of them??? 7 years divorced he is still harassing me and angry as hell because I moved on and in love with a beautiful loving man. Worst I am remember … when I gave birth to my son I got sick a week later, fever and ended up in the hospital over night. He would not let me stay another night and forced me to walk out to the parking lot alone in pain. Refused to help me check out , just sat in the car, the nurse felt embarrassed for me. I knew at that point I was gonna be a single mom. I have been and now I want to move he wants to suddenly go from a weekend party dad to full time by taking me to court and lying about his dirty lifestyle so he can take the one true love of my life away.My son. He is sick and his friends are the same. He teaches my son fowl manners and how to hate me. Luckily my son knows the truth at 11 and says stop! Walks away l. He knows real love and sees his fathers anger. So wish me luck to finally move off this island with my son so we can be healthy together.
OMG!!!!! i had my first hip replacement huge surgery...doc said no sex take it easy....first day home from the hospital my narc who is a doctor...had sex with me while i was saying i shouldnt be doing this and he just smirked and didnt say a word just kept on having sex....this was at the very beginning so i was still being love bombed or i would have handled it differently knowing what i know how...he could care less about me just wanted his fix......
I got sick with diabetes & felt so bad on a trip I went with the narcissist & knowing I didnt feel well he purposely took me walking throught the streets looking for the restaurant the weather was hot & humid & I wasn't used to this type of weather. I told him over & over to get a taxi & I would pay for it cause he was so cheap to even pay for a taxi but he refused. I finally got fed up with him & when he took me to the restaurant he started going off on me humiliating me for $20 I had asked him for years ago for gas because I had forgotten my wallet at home. He wouldn't stop insulting me & belittling me over that incident years ago. The waiter finally came over & told him to stop talking to me so rude & mean & the waiter offered me a glass of wine on the house so I could relax & ignore him. He finally left that night & I didnt go back to the room with him instead I left to go enjoy the time alone in hotel lobby. The worse experience of my life to deal with such a evil person like him
Nasty man...
Its also interesting when the narcissist is the one being sick, using any tactic to squeeze all the time and energy out of you
Amazing how similar they are; my ex poisoned me, drugged me, left me at emergency room alone but I couldn't move fentanyl he gave me and didn't tell me you & I have eerily similar experiences with thus sick thing. I didn't put it together the adrenaline rush, the high, the smirk...all the things he did that I couldn't understand. Thank you so much ❤
Can relate to all of this. 🙏 Thank you x
Wow, you're telling my life story. Almost every detail, from being sick and abused all the way to autoimmune disorders. Even the" I guess I'm a bad boyfriend/ wife comment! It's scary how similar the stories are from victims, and how uncanny the narcs are in their diabolic operations. Thank God for opening our eyes, I can't imagine recovering without faith.
They itch to be have you in this condition….. it’s a narcs dream to have in the weakest condition ….. they get supply when they say their not going to help you……. They kick and spit on you when your the lowest
He left me a week after picking me back up from the previous discard over a cancer scare I had. He said I was a burden to people and I “bummed him out.” He said I could have handled my fears differently. All of this was said while I had a visible lump in my right armpit. If it had turned out to be cancer, he told me there was no point in being with me. Even after finding out it was just a weird infection of sorts and not cancer, he still up and left. Things didn’t go “smoothly” for him. Off to the next supply he went.
My heart goes out to you, I too have been in similar situations with my ex husband. It’s absolutely horrendous. Thank you for your courage and transparency.
If anyone reading my comment is going through this with a current partner, please understand this is not love. You are in real danger. Make a plan and find a safe way to leave.
So sorry he left you alone after your surgery, the way he used you and then left !!
The smirk is unnerving, putting it mildly !!
The harm a narc causes are immesurable !!
Mental, Emotional, Physical, Spiritual, Financial, incalculable damage, intentionally !!! Malicious beyond a reasonable person's beliefs .........
( How could she do that ? )
I have asked myself, many, many times .....
( How could she do that ? )
Heartbreaking, Soul Shattering Betrayal !!!
I had surgery the next day and i was telling my narcissistic gf about it, how I was really nervous etc. Her response was stop talking about it I don’t care. She didn’t even pretend to care for a bit. It was such an inconvenience for her to have me talk about it. Yet she always wanted comfort when she was feeling down. It’s so obvious now. Thank you for helping me understand it
I was getting a kidney transplant, my ex - wife narc did not even show up, she was having sex with someone she meet at the extended stay.
100 percent accurate .
ABSOLUTELY TOTALLY AND EXACTLY TRUE,THE NARCISSIST ONLY LIKES THE SUNSHINE DAYS AND WHEN RAINMY DAY THEY WILL GRAB THE UMBRELLA AND START DEVALUATE YOU AND DISPERSE……😢
Being in a relationship with a narcissist was incredibly challenging. While I would extend support to my ex-wife for her health, I've learned the importance of self-care. I went through a traumatic experience after being discarded 11 months ago and even faced legal issues, but I came out stronger. Now, as I heal, I'm grateful that the lessons I've learned protect me from being drawn back into a harmful situation. I haven't forgotten the challenges I faced, and they serve as a reminder of my own strength and resilience
My ex after my hysterectomy….same thing.
My wife hated when I was sick.
Her need for money had me pushing through injuries and working huge amounts of overtime until my body broke down. She moved out and I was supposed to follow but she pulled out all the money for moving and abandoned me to be homeless. I am trying to sell the house and survive but she keeps stealing the rent money.
Oh crap yes! I was married to mine had a small toddler, he got sick vomiting then within an hour I caught the same thing, I repeatedly called the ex narc at work,..& he finished his shift before coming home,..then verbally bashed me for the mess & needing him. These meat suits are demonic,..he's remarried now,..& not even a full year of marriage she left,..but threw the grape vine I found out she went back for more. She needs to ride out her own journey,..it's just I know how the story ends. Great video, glad I joined ur channel, still need healing from the years of toxic soup I was in.
I know how you feel my ex narc when i broke my patella in my knee cap and i couldnt walk and in a wheel chair he would push me into the wall and the same with me forced sex on me he walked out on me to thank you so much for your videos they are really good❤
I am so sad for your pain and abuse, oh my gosh.
Omg honey, I am so sorry that you went through all of that . my heart aches with you , sweetling 😢😭🫂
They're demons
That is so disgusting what he did to you. Absolutely disgusting. My ex fiancé narcissist was really horrible yo me as well. 1 and half years after the discard I’m just starting to heal. That narcissistic smirk is evil. She showed up at the park where I walk my dog. She smiled at me, I think it was her idea of a hoover. I just completely ignored her and me and my lovely dog went home.
Thank you, this was a major final step listening to you just now to help me finish healing. I am so sorry how he treated. I don’t have words for what he did to you. This man is not a man, but he is an empty shell of darkness. This made me shake listening to what happened to you. Wow, in shock and thankful I got out when I did. God bless you for sharing this information and your story. ❤
I needed this comment. I've been crying for days plagued with thoughts of the abuse that people thought was necessary. No one deserves to experience these types of traumatic events.
@@doniellejolie You may never know the extent of how many individuals you have helped through your pain. I tell people that a covert Narcissist is so good and so believable when it comes to their role of a prince, it is scary. I felt alone for along time because this individual was so charming, he made people think I was the looloo one. The Narc is a master of brain washing and which leads to ups and downs of emotions, numbness and confusion. I don’t have high blood pressure and I went to get a checkup one time and they told me my blood pressure was significantly elevated (normally I am low), yet I was calm as can be sitting there. I am praying for you right now and I am sorry about those people that turned their backs on you, they will see one day what your ex is made of and hopefully they will acknowledge and apologize to you for turning their back. We love deeply and we hurt deeply, but we will continue to heal the best we can. But the Narcissist has a life sentence of never knowing what it feels like to be joyful, love others, having compassion for others… ♥️
I’m so sorry 🫂🫂 I identify with you sooo much❤️. I was so in the dark for 13 years.
Was bad for a year and needed an operation she walked all over me and then told me she wasn’t happy and wanted a divorce 2 weeks before an operation she wanted to remain friends me and our child were devastated I haven’t spoke to her or seen my wife for 10 weeks total no contact I have someone in the middle to deal with so I can see our child I will never forget or forgive this women and will never speak to her again she is dead to me no one ever disrespects me like that after I treat my wife with such love and respect
How do get rid of them??? 7 years divorced he is still harassing me and angry as hell because I moved on and in love with a beautiful loving man. Worst I am remember … when I gave birth to my son I got sick a week later, fever and ended up in the hospital over night. He would not let me stay another night and forced me to walk out to the parking lot alone in pain. Refused to help me check out , just sat in the car, the nurse felt embarrassed for me. I knew at that point I was gonna be a single mom. I have been and now I want to move he wants to suddenly go from a weekend party dad to full time by taking me to court and lying about his dirty lifestyle so he can take the one true love of my life away.My son. He is sick and his friends are the same. He teaches my son fowl manners and how to hate me. Luckily my son knows the truth at 11 and says stop! Walks away l. He knows real love and sees his fathers anger. So wish me luck to finally move off this island with my son so we can be healthy together.
So terrible the narc left me for dead . I didn't know why then why but yes he was getting someone else pregnant .
❤
This story teiggered me soooo much! Some crap stories i had.
He was raping you! That's a big one they do too
I love you ❤
OMG!!!!! i had my first hip replacement huge surgery...doc said no sex take it easy....first day home from the hospital my narc who is a doctor...had sex with me while i was saying i shouldnt be doing this and he just smirked and didnt say a word just kept on having sex....this was at the very beginning so i was still being love bombed or i would have handled it differently knowing what i know how...he could care less about me just wanted his fix......