I Quit My Job as a Software Engineer

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  • Опубліковано 7 лис 2024

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  • @xdiepx
    @xdiepx 5 місяців тому +1

    I’ve been a software engineer for over 10 years and I share your view on changing over to a new field…but I find it so hard to change over. However good luck in your new career

  • @KN-wb6un
    @KN-wb6un 3 місяці тому +1

    You’re basically like a new grad, it’ll be a big learning curve initially but something to get pass like calc 2 or data strictures & algorithms in school. I recommend you taking an on-site role in your first couple years as you can have better support with more senior devs.

  • @startingover7217
    @startingover7217 5 місяців тому +2

    I'm glad you did what's best for you. ❤🎉

    • @MelinaKim
      @MelinaKim  5 місяців тому

      Thank you! I really appreciate your support🥰🙏

  • @Darkforce915
    @Darkforce915 5 місяців тому +1

    thanks for being genuine

  • @PopSantos-nd8jb
    @PopSantos-nd8jb 5 місяців тому +1

    Hello, I’m Brazilian software engineer and I’m studying english with your video. I hope you find your a role that best for your.

    • @treinandoocerebro
      @treinandoocerebro 5 місяців тому

      E eu querendo apenas uma vaga no BR :/

    • @MelinaKim
      @MelinaKim  5 місяців тому

      It's wonderful to hear that you're using my video to study English :) I appreciate your support and wish you all the best!

  • @nbktechworld
    @nbktechworld 4 місяці тому

    Sorry to hear!

  • @BobKane-g6x
    @BobKane-g6x 5 місяців тому +1

    I have two team members under me who transitioned to other roles. One lady quit software engineering to become a business analyst. I was surprised when she told me that. I told her she was doing a fantastic job. All the features assigned to her worked properly and the code reviews were fine. It went something like this:
    Me: Prabba, you are doing a fantastic job. Why switch now?
    Prabba: Yes, I know you see the result, but you don't see all the time I spent on weekends and late hours to get everything working for the next sprint. I have to work until 12 am and weekends for months. The story point says 5, but it's like a 10 for me. I just got married and I barely spend time with my new husband. We haven't had our honeymoon yet due to this project.
    Another lad moved to Data Science.
    Some people just aren't cut out for coding into the night. For me, I wouldn't have it any other way.

    • @MelinaKim
      @MelinaKim  5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for sharing this story and your perspective :) I guess everyone has their own threshold and preferences - some thrive in high-intensity coding environments, while others might find fulfillment in different roles that offer a better balance. It's great that you like it though!

  • @neomangeo7822
    @neomangeo7822 5 місяців тому +1

    Not saying you took the wrong decision at all but there are some things to bring up here. To me most of the issues you said were because you were new to the software engineer role and also company culture and I can give some reasons. My roles have been highly collaborative right from the beginning. Even when I was junior, because I had help from seniors in the office who I got on well with and could ask questions whenever I wanted. Also as you grow in your career, it becomes more and more collaborative as seniors and leads for example are often doing far more collaborating than coding, more meetings and discussions. Also the coding becomes easier when you have experience, I'd bet you were struggling all day solving code problems because the bootcamp wasn't too great and you were not getting help from solid seniors in your role. After a few years the coding becomes the easier part and the real work is just solving problems by collaborating with others. So maybe being a SE isn't for you sure, but hopefully you didn't just quit the entire industry before you even got your foot in the door and know what it is really like or what working for other companies is like compared to the one you were in, but you can always jump back in I expect. Your first job will be nothing like your 3rd or 4th. Every role is different depending on company culture and your experience level and role. Good luck though, hopefully you find the right role for you and it makes you happy.

    • @MelinaKim
      @MelinaKim  5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment. It’s great to hear there are places like where you've been that are more collaborative and offer support from senior engineers. That’s really encouraging to hear, and I’ll keep all of this in mind when taking my next step in the future!

  • @ooogabooga5111
    @ooogabooga5111 5 місяців тому +4

    bootcamps are a huge scam, if you want to get into IT ... take 2 years in the min. Learn all the fundamentals, enjoy them, and then start looking to areas where you want to work. If you try to become a factory outlet from a bootcamp, you will eventually hate work that you are doing as you never found it urself. Also software engineering is not just "web development" but thats how boocamps paint the picture. Also if you can't sit infront of a laptop doing coding all by urself, don't get into IT. Btw all the very best to your next adventure in life.

    • @MelinaKim
      @MelinaKim  5 місяців тому +1

      I appreciate your advice. It's true that bootcamps have a mixed reputation, and they might not be the best path for everyone. I'm sure your insights will be helpful to anyone considering bootcamps or entering the IT industry :)

  • @furqantarique3484
    @furqantarique3484 5 місяців тому +1

    I don't want to be jobless and i like to try software engineering

  • @helloiqbal23
    @helloiqbal23 5 місяців тому

    Well, based on your strength I think you should try product management roles, your understanding in software development will also helps

    • @toast_dev
      @toast_dev 5 місяців тому

      I definitely agree! Maybe your previous job just simply wasn't for you. I know for a fact if you worked at a company like Netflix, for example, you will have a different story.

    • @MelinaKim
      @MelinaKim  5 місяців тому

      Thank you both for your encouragement and suggestions! Product management is definitely one of the areas I'm considering :)

  • @redwall1521
    @redwall1521 5 місяців тому +1

    "this isn't a clickbait video"
    literally goes on to explain a very unique situation about how a non CS major/"actual" software engineer got burnt out and quit, when most software engineering jobs aren't like this. Literal definition of clickbait

    • @neomangeo7822
      @neomangeo7822 5 місяців тому

      I had a different experience too. Her role sounded really bad and most jobs aren't like that. If you are a grad/junior you should have seniors at hand to help with problems, preferably a mentor. Also some companies have no idea and throw difficult stuff at juniors when they are not yet really capable. It means they are spending all day and night tackling coding problems and it is hugely draining and time consuming. Combine that with no mentor and no wonder some SE just get burnt out instantly. It could also be that the bootcamp she went to was really not good and did not prepare her well.

    • @MelinaKim
      @MelinaKim  5 місяців тому +1

      Well I thought it's not a clickbait video as long as I actually did what the title says (quitting my software engineering job) and shared my own experience. I understand everyone might have different definitions of clickbait. Anyway, I appreciate you all sharing your experiences!

  • @ayanrosey8597
    @ayanrosey8597 Місяць тому

    That does not sound like a good manager at all. They should advocate for your progression and career journey rather than being an extra wall

  • @PorterPickUp
    @PorterPickUp 5 місяців тому +7

    Sounds like a pretty normal case of a woman preferring to work with people instead of things (code). Nothing wrong with that. I hope you find a role that you find satisfaction in.

    • @ShaleWhark
      @ShaleWhark 5 місяців тому +7

      There’s a lot of men that left to do more communicative or interactive work with others as well. Idk why even say it’s another case for woman 🤔

    • @adammorra3813
      @adammorra3813 5 місяців тому +5

      Gender has nothing to do with it

  • @stopusinaar
    @stopusinaar 22 дні тому

    I don't think management are great at helping people. They are under pressure from a higher management and generally just give advise

    • @MelinaKim
      @MelinaKim  21 день тому +1

      Yeah it can be tough when management is under pressure and not fully supportive. I managed to switch my career and I’m happy with my current job now, although making UA-cam videos is my favorite!

    • @stopusinaar
      @stopusinaar 21 день тому

      @@MelinaKim Glad your enjoying making videos 😀

  • @chenkaihong
    @chenkaihong 5 місяців тому +1

    people quitting, am even in yet wkwkwkw

    • @MelinaKim
      @MelinaKim  5 місяців тому

      It's never too late to start! 😊