Genesis - No Son Of Mine (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубліковано 26 лют 2009
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    Music video by Genesis performing No Son Of Mine (2004 Digital Remaster).

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  • @supersarah5673
    @supersarah5673 Рік тому +127

    Goosebumps everywhere. To all the rejected children.

  • @DKMORGAN6478
    @DKMORGAN6478 10 місяців тому +45

    35yrs and still dealing with pain of an abusive stepfather and mother. Physical and emotional. But that's ok. Cause it gave me what I needed. Married for 20+ years. Father of 3. Oldest is 20, youngest 11. Still at their side. And married to their mum. I'd rather be rich than wealthy.

  • @ekkelainsalu5204
    @ekkelainsalu5204 3 роки тому +1083

    My parents beat me for nothing every day, and eventually my mother left me. I'm 51 and these wounds are still hurting. This song is so sad and brings back all those painful memories 😢... And I always live through it very strongly when I see violence against children..

    • @gsbornes
      @gsbornes 3 роки тому +51

      I'm sorry. I know is hard. Is kind of the same for me when I hear this song. The videoclip shows very well the feeling of all poeple that had to live that situation.

    • @mennobults6464
      @mennobults6464 3 роки тому +48

      Oh, man, I feel for you. I have never been physical hurt, but I have been ignored. I hope you got a person you have got something special to talk to.

    • @rachidaabouid3694
      @rachidaabouid3694 3 роки тому +4

      @@gsbornes ***de 8

    • @jenniferjones188
      @jenniferjones188 2 роки тому +31

      I am so sorry for you Ekke sometimes songs like this can be upsetting. Thinking of you.

    • @ekkelainsalu5204
      @ekkelainsalu5204 2 роки тому +16

      @@jenniferjones188 thank you dear Jennifer! 🙏

  • @pollyreehal9391
    @pollyreehal9391 Рік тому +242

    Dedicated to anyone that is haunted by a terrible childhood. Dedicated to anyone that has a difficult relationship with their father. The pain is hard to describe but this song does help…… thanks Phil !

    • @8lifeisamovie8
      @8lifeisamovie8 11 місяців тому

      Murray Head - Pity The Child is good song too about childhood.

    • @mikeb3172
      @mikeb3172 10 місяців тому +1

      What helps about this song? He walked out because he was living in fear, then came back and was blamed for not loving living in fear... then he gave in to survive like a slave.

    • @deanwatson9458
      @deanwatson9458 9 місяців тому +1

      My dad ignored me, he to puffed up with pride,

    • @mikekaraoke
      @mikekaraoke 8 місяців тому +1

      @@8lifeisamovie8 Ah yes, from the classic hit musical: Chess!

    • @neilkendall5499
      @neilkendall5499 5 місяців тому +1

      @@mikeb3172 What helps about this song is knowing that others have gone through the same thing, there's some comfort in that.

  • @mywheelchairone69
    @mywheelchairone69 12 років тому +566

    Anyone can be a father,but it takes a real man to be a dad. Best wishes.

    • @mbogi9885
      @mbogi9885 3 роки тому +11

      Sad but true!

    • @olimpiasirbu5928
      @olimpiasirbu5928 3 роки тому +8

      True

    • @sanctuaryism
      @sanctuaryism 3 роки тому +9

      comment deserves 8 k likes in 8 years as it is.

    • @adamwoodward2003
      @adamwoodward2003 3 роки тому +20

      My Dad was a true father and a true man, I know he's looking down on me whenever I listen to Phil's music. I love you dad, R.I.P 🥀🥀💪

    • @marceloinustroza5795
      @marceloinustroza5795 3 роки тому

      Uncomplete thoughts...

  • @katjapilz7500
    @katjapilz7500 3 роки тому +522

    All Genesis songs are masterpieces....

    • @jeff-bg2fn
      @jeff-bg2fn 3 роки тому +17

      Vous avez parfaitement raison.
      C est pourquoi, Genesis est le plus grand et le plus important groupe musical de tous les temps .

    • @lilyfelicis
      @lilyfelicis 3 роки тому +7

      @@jeff-bg2fn nous sommes bien d'accord 😁

    • @jeff-bg2fn
      @jeff-bg2fn 3 роки тому +3

      @@lilyfelicis merci.

    • @dadjaan
      @dadjaan 3 роки тому +7

      Phil Collins confessed, that he misstyped on his Iphone back in the 1990s, as he was texting his friends about the band name: „Hey Guys, what about calling our band Genesis (instead of Geniuses).“
      The iPhone was shocked by this mistake and turned into a standart-keyboard phone again to avoid such mistakes due to touchscreen. Then Apple came and took this idea and re-invented the iPhone again.
      Happy days!

    • @thalysanchez3594
      @thalysanchez3594 3 роки тому +2

      @@jeff-bg2fn disons que ce sont pas seul ;) même si j'aime beaucoup

  • @Birodalom1
    @Birodalom1 4 роки тому +113

    Sometimes the unloved children become the best parents.

    • @leemcauley8432
      @leemcauley8432 3 роки тому +2

      my brother found that he saw me so different to his other siblings... in swore no more hurt...

    • @breatheeasily4013
      @breatheeasily4013 2 роки тому +4

      True

    • @imbranatog85
      @imbranatog85 2 місяці тому +1

      Sometimes...

  • @maqsooddesai1384
    @maqsooddesai1384 Рік тому +195

    What a heart touching voice... Phil Collins... You are a truly unique Legend

  • @dripeta
    @dripeta 2 роки тому +80

    Well the key to my survival
    Was never in much doubt
    The question was how I could keep sane
    Trying to find a way out
    Things were never easy for me
    Peace of mind was hard to find
    And I needed a place where I could hide
    Somewhere I could call mine
    I didn't think much about it
    'Til it started happening all the time
    Soon I was living with the fear everyday
    Of what might happen that night
    I couldn't stand to hear the crying
    Of my mother, and I remember when
    I swore that, that would be the last they'd see of me
    And I never went home again
    They say that time is a healer
    And now my wounds are not the same
    I rang the bell with my heart in my mouth
    I had to hear what he'd say
    He sat me down to talk to me
    He looked me straight in the eyes
    He said:
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    You walked out, you left us behind
    And you're no son, you're no son of mine
    Oh, his words how they hurt me, I'll never forget it
    And as the time, it went by, I lived to regret it
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    But where should I go,
    And what should I do
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    But I came here for help, oh I came here for you
    Well the years they passed so slowly
    I thought about him every day
    What would I do, if we passed on the street
    Would I keep running away
    In and out of hiding places
    Soon I'd have to face the facts
    We'd have to sit down and talk it over
    And that would mean going back
    They say that time is a healer
    And now my wounds are not the same
    But I rang that bell with my heart in my mouth
    I had to hear what he'd say
    He sat me down to talk to me
    He looked me straight in the eyes
    He said:
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    When you walked out, you left us behind
    And you're no son, you're no son of mine
    Oh, his words how they hurt me, I'll never forget it
    And as the time, it went by, I lived to regret it
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    But where should I go and what should I do
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    But I came here for help, oh I was looking for you
    You're no son, you're no son of mine, oh
    You're no son, ha yeah, ha yeah, ha yeah, ha yeah
    You're no son, you're no son of mine, oh, oh

    • @Ge-Coleslaw
      @Ge-Coleslaw Рік тому +3

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @philmac7474
    @philmac7474 3 місяці тому +31

    This song means alot to me. Phil Collins is one of my favourite artists from this era.. My family went through domestic violence and we all, Mum, brother and myself left him behind, but like in this song my Father blamed us, he was never wrong, right up to his passing 4 years ago.. I gave him so many chances to appreciate what he did to us, but never did. I wrote him off and didn't speak to him 3 years before he died.

  • @adamwoodward2003
    @adamwoodward2003 3 роки тому +164

    I love Phil Collins, thank you Dad for introducing me to him. You're no longer here but I am forever grateful for the things you did for me including introducing me to such incredible music 💪💪💪

    • @martamakowska7650
      @martamakowska7650 3 роки тому +2

      My dad also passed and I keep.listebing music he loved it Just feels Good :)

    • @rafaeltiano
      @rafaeltiano 3 роки тому +3

      i can only hope to introduce this to my child... god bless you bro.

    • @adamwoodward2003
      @adamwoodward2003 3 роки тому +2

      @@rafaeltiano cheers dude 👍💪

    • @sandyposs2693
      @sandyposs2693 3 роки тому +2

      The music introduced to us by our cherished parents is music that never loses its beauty or magic, and connects us to them in our heart each time we hear it.

    • @xNoiiRxcCoeuRx
      @xNoiiRxcCoeuRx 2 роки тому

      Weird to comment this under this exact song...

  • @WhatwouldRoddyPiperdo
    @WhatwouldRoddyPiperdo Рік тому +69

    Respect to all survivors out there I left home at 13 in 1997 been through more miles and more lifetimes than most people could even imagine I appear like a grizzled grown man with a story but inside I'm just a broken kid that needs love and never got it even as an adult.

    • @anikajain571
      @anikajain571 7 місяців тому +12

      I feel you. I ran away from my father's home age 13 in '93. Never went back. Found my mum, spent 9 months with her 14-15. Had to leave there too. Was passed around extended family like unwanted baggage till I found my home on the streets of Byron Bay age 15-18. A lifetime of violence, abuse, neglect, abandonment- scars that others can't see but that haunt me day & night & have caused unbearable, seemingly never ending suffering. I'm 46 now, I feel I've lived a thousand lifetimes, & experiences most could never understand & that generally I wouldn't wish them to experience. Now & then I come back this & similar songs - I guess just to find comfort that some one somewhere also understands... ❤ to all who do!

    • @WhatwouldRoddyPiperdo
      @WhatwouldRoddyPiperdo 7 місяців тому +3

      @@anikajain571 We're still here though darlin keep on keeping on ❤️

    • @ogerman1080
      @ogerman1080 2 місяці тому +2

      Обнимаю всех вас! 😢❤

    • @perpetualplatypussy69
      @perpetualplatypussy69 2 місяці тому +1

      I love you ❤️

    • @juliealdcroft8371
      @juliealdcroft8371 Місяць тому

      So sorry .iv been there .we get scared to trust .love .but times change .either stay prisoner or choose freedom .❤

  • @AurasSparsas
    @AurasSparsas 10 років тому +187

    This one gives me shivers down my spine. It's a really strong track. Probably one of my favourite songs by Genesis.

  • @padmac8176
    @padmac8176 2 роки тому +84

    Listening to this song and reading some of the comments from people sharing their stories is making me feel very emotional. I don't care what anyone says I love Phil Collins and Genesis!! To all the mean people out there leave my Phil alone!!

  • @MartinRodriguez-qk4hc
    @MartinRodriguez-qk4hc 2 роки тому +129

    This song touches my scars...
    I am the eldest of three brothers and I always felt responsible for them, our father was an alcoholic and violent man; he was looking for any excuse to leave the house and go drinking.
    Many nights, we spent not knowing if he was going to be okay, or if someone would come home in the morning to bring us the news that he had died... in one of his usual bar fights.
    When he arrived at two, three or four in the morning, my mother always waited for him (she loved him despite everything), undressed him and helped him shower, and gave him a plate of hot food.
    No matter what I did to please my father, he never seemed to be happy with me and never missed an opportunity to let me know, it was common for him to make fun of me and say something hurtful. He always let me down, breaking his promises.
    With time and the advancement of his alcoholism, he became more violent. I remember once, on Mother's Day, after giving to our mom a gift, suddenly and without knowing why, he punched her in the face and left her with a black eye.
    I started to wish at night that he wouldn't come back to our house... and I stayed up many times, because of my brothers and my mother, because I was scared for them, and that made me stay alert.
    Sometimes, crying, I asked God to take him away and never come back.
    I loved my father... but I couldn't take this situation anymore.
    One night I heard him arrive... And then there was only silence. My mother hadn't stayed to wait for him that time, and she was sleeping. But hearing nothing, I had a bad feeling...
    I went to my parents' room and found him on top of my mother, trying to force her to have sex. He was holding her by the neck and hitting her, but she didn't stop fighting.
    What could I do at that moment?
    He was a thirty-five year old man and I was only thirteen...
    I ran towards him and rammed him; I hit him so hard with my shoulder that I knocked him off the bed. I don't know where I got the strength from.
    He got up furious and wanted to hit me, but the shame took over him and he started crying, he dressed quickly, apologized to us and left the house.
    I never left my home, as the protagonist of this song did. I stayed to take care of my mother and my siblings, and as soon as I was old enough to work I took care of everything.
    My father left us permanently, at that moment, he abandoned our mother and left. Many years passed before I was able to forgive him. I recently started talking to him again.
    We don't have a great relationship, but I still have affection for him.
    Time and the ability to forgive can heal a man's heart.

    • @jamienkate
      @jamienkate Рік тому +6

      i lived through the same with my father. he was lost in his addiction after leaving the paras, spent many years overseas leaving my mother and me and sister alone. turned out my mother was a bit of a flirt and i was left alone and my sister had to raise me. i once caught my mother giving oral sex to my sisters boyfriend. i was 7. my parents seperated and i went with my dad and step mum and my sis stayed with my mother. my dad got better thanks to my step mother. he used to rob my piggy bank for scotch. even got a evening job at the pub he drank in to pay his bar tab. so we moved away. he is sobar now. but as a young child i missed my dad. im only now getting him back

    • @patrickmokone9019
      @patrickmokone9019 Рік тому +6

      Your story is so touching,but all is well brother, God is watching.🙏🙏.

    • @philtaylor8814
      @philtaylor8814 Рік тому +1

      👍

    • @peternemeth1777
      @peternemeth1777 Рік тому +4

      That was moving. Thanks for sharing. Thanks to God I had a good relationship to my father without violence. But I met people that lived through similar stories than you.

    • @ikemkrueger
      @ikemkrueger Рік тому +3

      You're a man of honor.

  • @mysterio952
    @mysterio952 3 роки тому +111

    May all abused souls here find their peace

  • @brabhamF1
    @brabhamF1 3 роки тому +167

    Back when music was made for the art and was allowed to be longer than 2 minutes 35 second and still got played on the radio.

    • @seagreentangerine2065
      @seagreentangerine2065 3 роки тому +4

      Thank God they played this on Absolute Rock FM recently 🙏🏻💞

  • @umbrellacorp.1037
    @umbrellacorp.1037 4 роки тому +141

    The whole album is a masterpiece.

    • @mikekaraoke
      @mikekaraoke 4 роки тому +9

      Yeah-We Can't Dance album is a classic!

    • @TheOpus55
      @TheOpus55 4 роки тому +7

      "Fading Lights" became their beautiful and very powerful swan song...

    • @aldoterrana2027
      @aldoterrana2027 2 роки тому +2

      I like a musiques ! 💞

  • @lordscheie5388
    @lordscheie5388 4 роки тому +625

    2020 ... This song is a timeless masterpiece

  • @jlombard4895
    @jlombard4895 2 дні тому

    Story of my childhood years, i remember seeing this as a kid and gave me comfort knowing someone voiced this rejection and mental &physical abuse in a family😊.

  • @steinnilsen8675
    @steinnilsen8675 10 років тому +320

    This song is so depressing yet so awesome at the same time

    • @WilliamJeromeSperber
      @WilliamJeromeSperber 10 років тому +2

      I wonder how a band singing about this kind of things could sell so many records...

    • @bcc91
      @bcc91 10 років тому +23

      Jérôme Nicolas Because there's not only joy on our lives. Lots of people have gone through what he says on the song or wanted to do so.

    • @WilliamJeromeSperber
      @WilliamJeromeSperber 10 років тому

      yes, you're right, it's not as if my parents had ever been abusive.

    • @alexanderstefanov6474
      @alexanderstefanov6474 9 років тому +5

      Well put and a truly great song from the best band ever

    • @bernardjoseph2409
      @bernardjoseph2409 9 років тому +8

      Don't love darkness. Love Christ sacrifice for the forgiveness of sins// God bless you//

  • @oliverkrieg6733
    @oliverkrieg6733 4 роки тому +52

    Es tut weh, zu sehen, wie so ein brillianter Sänger alt und schwach wird...😔 mein ganzes Leben haben seine Lieder mich begleitet. Möge er noch lange seine Stimme brillieren lassen können...😊

    • @wolfgang8818
      @wolfgang8818 3 роки тому +3

      Ganz Deiner Meinung 🤔 ich persönlich, finde die geplanten Live Auftritte nicht gut 🤔

    • @williknapp422
      @williknapp422 2 роки тому +4

      Mir geht es genauso. Seine Musik begleitet mich schon immer. Er ist einfach ein wundervoller Künstler. ❤️

    • @DocRock67
      @DocRock67 2 роки тому +2

      @@wolfgang8818 Die aktuellen Genesis-Gigs sind großartig, und Phils Stimme ist von Tag zu Tag besser gewordenen! Ich hoffe sehr, dass die Tour wie geplant fortgesetzt werden kann und im kommenden Jahr vielleicht doch Konzerte in Europa hinzukommen.

  • @christophermerian3198
    @christophermerian3198 Рік тому +21

    Lyrically this is at its best - I was rejected by my parents.. I can relate to this so much - makes me cry

  • @alexestrada77
    @alexestrada77 3 роки тому +48

    1991 what a wonderful year for music!! I never forget Genesis! Thank you for this masterpiece 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @mcbean1200
    @mcbean1200 8 років тому +1479

    Phil Collins for me, is definitely up there in the top 5 artists of all time

  • @whander2004
    @whander2004 2 роки тому +6

    “They say that time is a healer
    And now my wounds are not the same”
    I agree and now I finally found peace with my father until is too late. He is 75 years now and we love each other after almost 40 years

  • @andywebster7511
    @andywebster7511 11 місяців тому +4

    I’m the black sheep
    Of my family (married the opposite religion and failed) but my father was and is always there for me ❤

  • @johncarloshuancaguerra2941
    @johncarloshuancaguerra2941 9 місяців тому +4

    I was the child running away, looking for answers. Now I can understand how it is to be a father, nobody is free of these situations when you say something that can hurt a child's heart.

  • @naivan12
    @naivan12 3 роки тому +6

    thank you father. you are amazing to me....i am blessed to have you.

  • @WheresmywingsRedBull
    @WheresmywingsRedBull 2 роки тому +7

    When I first watched this video, I cried so much and all those bad memories flooded my mind.
    My childhood was horrible, I lived in fear of my parents and still to this day, I am scared from my early days.
    Beautiful song.

  • @barbarabiondi310
    @barbarabiondi310 4 дні тому

    Awesome album .... I love it still in 2024 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bolesawabutko4241
    @bolesawabutko4241 3 роки тому +24

    I from Polen, and despite i speak on English just medium, I feel a feelings. When I read lyrics in my language, I cryed. (sorry, if i bad wrotte, but i can't ;) )

  • @Martin9476
    @Martin9476 4 роки тому +43

    The early nineties - when pop music still ruled.

  • @wghd6782
    @wghd6782 Рік тому +3

    When I was a kid before and I learned English I never understood why my father had this song on heavy rotation. After finally having learned the language I got it. From there on I couldn’t look in eyes the of my fathers father again.
    Pops will never admit it, but he stopped listening to this song once his piece of filth father finally was gone. I just wish I got a little bit earlier.

  • @Repomidnight
    @Repomidnight 9 місяців тому +2

    My brother and I used stay with my Dad every second week. He hated our existence, and would rather not see us at all. He bashed us and did all matter of sadistic things to us. Constantly told, he hated us. Remember hearing this song at 10yrs old, on a Sunday morning in Australia, whilst staying at his place. It certainly hit home. Tough to listen to, but it’s a very moving song.

  • @roughhdiamond168
    @roughhdiamond168 2 роки тому +6

    This song reminds me of turning up to see my grandma age 13 on my own after being in Northern Ireland for 4 years. He opened the door and said 'who are you'. He died suddenly in September. I am torn between pain and sheer anger.

  • @clarencetrumble-lovegod1188
    @clarencetrumble-lovegod1188 6 років тому +393

    I'm so lucky to have fantastic parents.

  • @lisadavie5819
    @lisadavie5819 11 місяців тому +14

    I bloody love this song. I didn't discover it until I was about 18-19. So 1999-2000. Love Genesis and Mike & The Mechanics aswell as Phils solo stuff.

  • @jeffm6080
    @jeffm6080 5 років тому +59

    I haven't talked to my father in 20 years. This video hits home.

    • @medomax7786
      @medomax7786 4 роки тому +3

      like me

    • @gokumetrix80
      @gokumetrix80 4 роки тому +7

      I haven't talked to my father in 23 years.. and i am 23 years old.

    • @phildodo7236
      @phildodo7236 4 роки тому

      @@gokumetrix80 omg feel you😋

    • @zawarchaudry4886
      @zawarchaudry4886 4 роки тому +2

      Hadn't ever talked to my father and now he's dead

    • @carolefleurot1545
      @carolefleurot1545 4 роки тому +2

      @@zawarchaudry4886 mine too..Do you have regrets? :-(

  • @UnbendedKnee
    @UnbendedKnee 11 місяців тому +11

    As a musician at heart I wish I had the ability to reach so many people and help them in difficult times with songs like these. Music truly is a gift.

  • @martinbolton6700foxhunter
    @martinbolton6700foxhunter 7 років тому +634

    I worked on this video with Genesis. You could feel the emotion on the set.

    • @Cashiyado
      @Cashiyado 6 років тому +28

      oh really ? sounds very intresting. (: How was it to work with Phil, Mike and Tony ?

    • @checkmagik
      @checkmagik 6 років тому +25

      What an honor, what a thrill, that must have been a beautiful and strong experience.

    • @viantzpradz4771
      @viantzpradz4771 5 років тому +6

      Great Martin!!!

    • @martycaeran6443
      @martycaeran6443 5 років тому +5

      Amazing!

    • @noelscammell662
      @noelscammell662 5 років тому +7

      Was the god of drums
      Chester Thompson on drums in this ?

  • @neilwhitear9203
    @neilwhitear9203 7 років тому +182

    This might not be one of the most well know Genesis songs, but one of their best, Phil Colin's brings such emotion to this song.

    • @jadedemotions9891
      @jadedemotions9891 6 років тому +2

      Sanuja Rajasinghe Invisible Touch is awful. Mediocre album too with an exception of maybe Domino

    • @manischkreativ8868
      @manischkreativ8868 4 роки тому +1

      Oh that one is known like shit over here. All-time airplay back then - even in the mid 2000s

    • @lorrainebarry7184
      @lorrainebarry7184 2 роки тому

      for me too

  • @janmariuskruger1482
    @janmariuskruger1482 17 годин тому

    One of the best ever made!

  • @roryjamieson8439
    @roryjamieson8439 2 роки тому +15

    I never understood this song when I was just a child but now I understand it all. Very moving.

  • @KondzioGDI
    @KondzioGDI 7 років тому +221

    one of best Genesis songs ever :)

    • @JulioCesar-gw4li
      @JulioCesar-gw4li 5 років тому +5

      Excelente
      Tema

    • @stephencolgate8510
      @stephencolgate8510 4 роки тому +1

      Love

    • @malbaap278
      @malbaap278 11 місяців тому

      De la Época de Oro Excelente letra y sobre todo el. Ritmo es Único Inolvidable es lo primero que llega al fondo de tu ser.

  • @MsFanmail
    @MsFanmail 8 років тому +461

    Genesis such a talented band with amazing songs

  • @pogo5289
    @pogo5289 14 днів тому

    I am 43 now...I feel the song more than ever...I am a father...my daughter is 16...I was a sad child...she will not be...if I give my life for it...❤

  • @musik1494
    @musik1494 2 роки тому +6

    that time (80s to early 90s) was magical in every way! Unfortunately, we only notice this in retrospect

  • @RichaPatranabis
    @RichaPatranabis 7 років тому +73

    The cinematography... You can almost feel his stress and emotions ;-;

  • @Canaldomauricionoriega
    @Canaldomauricionoriega Рік тому +26

    Absolute Classic. One of the best Genesis songs of any formation.

  • @bob7165
    @bob7165 2 роки тому +2

    Well the key to my survival
    Was never in much doubt
    The question was: how I could keep sane
    Trying to find a way out?
    Things were never easy for me
    Peace of mind was hard to find
    And I needed a place where I could hide
    Somewhere I could call mine
    I didn't think much about it
    'Til it started happening all the time
    Soon I was living with the fear everyday
    Of what might happen that night
    I couldn't stand to hear the crying
    Of my mother
    And I remember when
    I swore that that would be the
    Last they'd see of me
    And I never went home again
    They say that time is a healer
    And now my wounds are not the same
    I rang the bell with my heart in my mouth
    I had to hear what he'd say
    He sat me down to talk to me
    He looked me straight in the eyes
    He said
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    You walked out, you left us behind
    And you're no son, you're no son of mine
    Oh, his words how they hurt me
    I'll never forget it
    And as the time, it went by
    I lived to regret it
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    But where should I go
    And what should I do?
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    But I came here for help
    Oh I came here for you
    Well the years they passed so slowly
    I thought about him everyday
    What would I do, if we passed on the street
    Would I keep running away?
    In and out of hiding places
    Soon I'd have to face the facts
    We'd have to sit down and talk it over
    And that would mean going back
    They say that time is a healer
    And now my wounds are not the same
    But I rang that bell with my heart in my mouth
    I had to hear what he'd say
    He sat me down to talk to me
    And he looked me straight in the eyes
    He said
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    When you walked out you left us behind
    And you're no son, you're no son of mine
    Oh, his words how they hurt me
    I'll never forget it
    And as the time, it went by
    I lived to regret it
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    But where should I go and what should I do?
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    Well I came here for help - oh I was looking for you
    You're no son, you're no son of mine oh
    You're no son ha yeah, ha yeah, ha yeah, ha yeah, ha yeah
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    You're no son of mine
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    You're no son of mine
    You're no son, you're no son of mine
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    You're no son of mine
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh

  • @TheCaptain64
    @TheCaptain64 2 роки тому +3

    Violence can be verbal as well, had the most loving dad in the world, unfortunately we lost him when he was just 42 to cancer (The wrong parent died) , mum was loving but unfortunately very controlling, shouty angry n mad and could be very physical especially towards my younger sisters , until I got to be about 12 and could stop her, but then mum would tell dad and I had to face him in the the other room, but dad God bless him knew what mum was and he would pretend to shout at me whilst smacking a pillow or cabinet and I would pretend to scream n cry, I'm sick to death of hearing how we must be respectful toward women as boys n men, love them care for them treat them right , yet all my life nearly 60yrs I have seen women be violent or instigate it then play the victim or woman card , stopped seeing mum 10yrs ago even at nearly 80 she is still the same , stopped seeing her for fear I would hurt her for all the torment and crap she has caused and the division in the family through her actions and ability to make people believe she is telling the truth and right , but hey as a man I suppose its all my fault .

  • @RaineCarosin
    @RaineCarosin 9 років тому +4

    I had to play this song because I'm besides myself... That boy who flew the 'plane into the mountain side is "no son of mine"... Oh, the emotions that come too late... 'Scuse me for reaching out, but there must be others who are horrified and God only knows how false I feel because I have to carry on living and cannot give that boy the hiding of his life before he could even think of hurting others... Oi... My heart cries for and with you... but it doesn't change anything... lots of love... Thanks for posting this song... Much appreciated...

    • @ethandavid20121955
      @ethandavid20121955 9 років тому +1

      Raine, Though I do sympathise with your point and comment, it is very valid, However, We must also take into consideration his state of mind, Some one must of noticed something odd about him, To take you own life is bad enough, but to take your own and take company with you is horrific, Far too many memories of 9/11 for me,
      The sad fact is this lad was not in the right frame of mind to ride a push bike, never mind fly an aircraft with 150 people on it, A very tragic and sad state of affairs, My thoughts are with the family's who lost loved ones in the needless tragedy,
      But you are right, No son of mine is very apt

    • @RaineCarosin
      @RaineCarosin 9 років тому

      David Moyes Thank you for helping me through this... you are very kind... The other thing that hit me between the eyes that he was born on the same day as me, only about 21 years later... It's a new day for us all and time drags me onwards... Thank you for your shoulder... These things... mmmm... I have strength to go on... Oi... :-/ I can only cling to my Faith in these days of mine...

    • @ethandavid20121955
      @ethandavid20121955 9 років тому +2

      Raine Carosin Have Belief Raine, Trust in your soul and your God, whoever you perceive him or her to be, Be strong, Life is full of challenges, Hopes and despairs, But belief in yourself and your faith Will carry you through, I know, I am that Soldier, I have been in some very dark and dangerous places in my life, seen, done and witnessed things no young man should see or do, Mankind can be cruel and heartless one second and full of compassion and understanding the next, This Tragic event shows that this young man was in a very dark place, but did not have the strength or belief in himself to get through the dark to the sunlight, There is always hope, never stop believing in yourself or the belief that there is light at the end of the tunnel, believe me, there is always light, just be patient and fight the demons, you will win in the end

  • @shaungray4643
    @shaungray4643 2 роки тому +3

    This is for all fathers, even when our son took the wrong path,.He is always my son and I love him.

  • @deejaydoubleyou1966
    @deejaydoubleyou1966 7 місяців тому +4

    This track really gets me, and I had a great relationship with my dad. Must be heartbreaking for those who didn’t or still don’t. Why are so many guys angry all the time?!!

  • @coolnamebro
    @coolnamebro Місяць тому +4

    The way the chorus comes recklessly crashing in after the ominous, intense buildup perfectly illustrates the helplessness and bewilderment of a paternally abused child. Phil has said the song wasn't written from experience as he had a very happy childhood, which makes the band's empathic artistry even more affecting.

    • @stevem-h3562
      @stevem-h3562 Місяць тому +2

      makes you wonder where he got it from then, if it wasnt from experience, because man for those of us who walked that road, it resonates like a muthaf.....

  • @MultiWobble
    @MultiWobble 2 роки тому +9

    Hits as hard as it did back in the day

  • @bobh1528
    @bobh1528 3 роки тому +1

    I had a rough upbringing my dad used to take everything out on me drunk beatings I lost both my parents last year it kills hearing this but makes me realise it was because I was the one in wrong dad made me the man I am today my kids come before anything I'd do anything to go bk just to hear him shout at me for one day as I grew and started to calm down stop being one of idiots off rails we had a bond nobody could break god I miss mum and dad so much it kills everyday being without them

  • @user-kg5dp7zw9e
    @user-kg5dp7zw9e 2 місяці тому +1

    I've followed your career ever since I was a raw 16year old freaking out at Saturday nights rock discos at the Universities.

  • @veeb7583
    @veeb7583 8 років тому +6

    Phil Collins best songwriter ever LIVETH!

  • @jamilaandersson4778
    @jamilaandersson4778 Рік тому +12

    All Songs With Best Phil Collins And Genesis Are Timeless Masterpieces

  • @marionjung3157
    @marionjung3157 Рік тому +2

    Göttlich,wie eh und je .Love you oll

  • @icoughran7068
    @icoughran7068 3 роки тому +3

    There is no rule book when you become a parent, you just do the best you can with the knowledge you've got, some people suck at it, others excel. Be the best you you can be, and hopefully you'll leave a wonderful legacy.
    Thank you Genesis and Phil Collins for being the story book of my life - always! ❤

  • @chrisodillman3355
    @chrisodillman3355 5 років тому +43

    Shout out to the guys who had to hear those words from their dad's.

  • @denisekelly6072
    @denisekelly6072 2 роки тому +12

    I have been a fan of Phil Collins for over 40 years and I went to my first concert in high park a few years ago and his voice and looks have no changed, Phil Collins is the best and greatest song now as he was years ago.
    Keep it up

    • @mikekaraoke
      @mikekaraoke Рік тому

      + Genesis, as this is is a Genesis song lol
      How about them and their projects outside of it like the great: Mike + the Mechanics??

  • @user-mr5bp9ty8m
    @user-mr5bp9ty8m 12 днів тому

    RESPECT TO A HUGE ARTIST.
    THANK YOU PHIL..
    Greetings from GREECE

  • @anthonykingshott7628
    @anthonykingshott7628 2 роки тому +17

    I have grown to love this man,
    Honesty, regret, loss, adoration and a cheeky spot on the drums
    I have to agree- massive 80s icon

  • @Tanzman78
    @Tanzman78 8 років тому +25

    I remember watching this at my 12th or 13th birthday, it was approx 4am and on an all night music channel, I'm now 37 and still love this song so much. Genesis, one of the greatest.

    • @andi73c
      @andi73c 8 років тому +1

      +Tanzman78 Me too ... listening this on the radio when I was about 17... and been like that boy but it passed away thanks God!!! :) and now it's fine! :)))

    • @martyg8137
      @martyg8137 8 років тому +2

      Me too I got this album for my 10th birthday :) Genesis

    • @frfickteuchalle
      @frfickteuchalle 6 років тому

      Tanzman78 like me 🙂 im 37 now

    • @christinecolgate7884
      @christinecolgate7884 3 роки тому

      Love English

    • @christinecolgate7884
      @christinecolgate7884 3 роки тому

      Love English Norfolk feeling fine today

  • @Evidence1
    @Evidence1 7 років тому +156

    - _oh, his words how they hurt me, I'll never forget it_

    • @pinobalducci1899
      @pinobalducci1899 6 років тому +1

      Dein vater war dein vater du bist du 👍

    • @sashakamiressler8073
      @sashakamiressler8073 6 років тому +10

      This sentence is my favorite part.

    • @gingernuju
      @gingernuju 6 років тому +8

      But I came here for help, oh I came here for you

    • @magnusvonrohein812
      @magnusvonrohein812 3 роки тому

      same I can say ...I will never forget ...

    • @magnusvonrohein812
      @magnusvonrohein812 3 роки тому

      @@pinobalducci1899 aber es gibt Aussagen, die Du nie vergessen wirst ...seine letzten Worte als er in meinem Arm verstarb... Du hast versagt ...

  • @blazertr3b803
    @blazertr3b803 4 роки тому +4

    Now I’m 52 remember when this came out lost my dad 1979 mum in 1983 then went into care lost myself by 17 had r t a accident 3 years to walk again was a junkie after that for 25 years been clean 12 years now off drink drugs still listen to this as a child but an adult now I understand 😎❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👊👊👊👊👊

  • @piterfan2010
    @piterfan2010 20 днів тому

    You can't do better. The voice, the sense of melody, the nerv... Brilliant musician with an awesome career. Long live, dear Phil! We appreciate you so much!!!

  • @nathey
    @nathey 9 років тому +29

    I love this song, but it chokes me up....'' but I came here for help, oh i was looking for you'' and still got rejected by his father for walking out in the past. I feel so bad for the son, lost and confused living with the regret for running away from his abusive father. Even after obtaining the courage to return. His heart in his mouth as he pressed the bell.....just damn......brilliant song writing.

    • @la7dfa
      @la7dfa 3 роки тому +2

      I can relate to all of this. My father was an abusive alchoholic and time never healed my wounds... I did not even visit him at the hospital when he was dying of cancer, or went to his funeral. Now he is dead, buried and I am still numb and wish I had a father who was able to show he cared in his living years... (I am sure he wanted/did) Its no hope of ever getting that fulfilled. All I can do now is to try to do the best for my own sons.

  • @MsFanmail
    @MsFanmail 9 років тому +56

    Genesis most serious and powerful song so love this group

    • @karli_yt5285
      @karli_yt5285 9 років тому +3

      MsFanmail me too. I am so in love with Genesis, everybody in the band contributed with such a strong and unique manner. Some time ago I didn`t like the Albums after the departure of Steve Hackett, but even a lot of the commercial songs in the eighties are fantastic, this is in particular

  • @GracesGarden80
    @GracesGarden80 3 роки тому +19

    Phil Collins is brilliant as was Genesis. This era gave us some great songs including I wish it would rain. That’s an epic masterpiece. There’s so much hate for him, but he’s an incredible musician. It’s like it’s “uncool” to like him which is bollocks. I love everything from any Jazz to Chance the Rapper and from Royksopp to Deftones! And yes, I love Phil Collins....... and a bit of Sade!

  • @francoisjeansaudrodriguez1961
    @francoisjeansaudrodriguez1961 Рік тому +2

    GENESIS
    "No son of mine"
    Well the key to my survival
    Was never in much doubt
    The question was, how I could keep sane
    Trying to find a way out?
    Things were never easy for me
    Peace of mind was hard to find
    And I needed a place where I could hide
    Somewhere I could call mine
    I didn't think much about it
    'Til it started happening all the time
    Soon I was living with the fear everyday
    Of what might happen that night
    I couldn't stand to hear the crying
    Of my mother, and I remember when
    I swore that that would be the last they'd see of me
    And I never went home again
    They say that time is a healer
    And now my wounds are not the same
    I rang the bell with my heart in my mouth
    I had to hear what he'd say
    He sat me down to talk to me
    He looked me straight in the eyes
    He said
    "You're no son, you're no son of mine"
    "You're no son, you're no son of mine"
    "You walked out, you left us behind"
    "And you're no son, you're no son of mine"
    Oh, his words how they hurt me, I'll never forget it
    And as the time, it went by, I lived to regret it
    "You're no son, you're no son of mine"
    But where should I go and what should I do?
    "You're no son, you're no son of mine"
    But I came here for help, oh I came here for you
    Well the years they passed so slowly
    I thought about him everyday
    What would I do, if we passed on the street
    Would I keep running away?
    In and out of hiding places
    Soon I'd have to face the facts
    We'd have to sit down and talk it over
    And that would mean going back
    They say that time is a healer
    And now my wounds are not the same
    But I rang that bell with my heart in my mouth
    I had to hear what he'd say
    He sat me down to talk to me
    He looked me straight in the eyes
    He said
    "You're no son, you're no son of mine"
    "You're no son, no son of mine"
    "When you walked out, you left us behind"
    "And you're no son, you're no son of mine"
    Oh, his words how they hurt me
    I'll never forget it
    And as the time, it went by
    I lived to regret it
    "You're no son, you're no son of mine"
    But where should I go and what should I do?
    "You're no son, you're no son of mine"
    Well I came here for help, oh I was looking for you
    "You're no son, you're no son of mine oh"
    "You're no son" ha yeah, ha yeah, ha yeah, ha yeah, ha yeah
    "You're no son, you're no son of mine"
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    You're no son of mine (oh, oh)
    (Oh, oh) You're no son of mine (oh, oh)
    You're no son (oh, oh), you're no son of mine (oh, oh)
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    You're no son of mine (oh, oh)
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Oh, oh
    Fonte: Musixmatch
    Compositores: Anthony Banks / Phil Collins / Michael Rutherford

  • @SexyCurvyGirl
    @SexyCurvyGirl 6 років тому +38

    genesis masterpiece

  • @Tulloful
    @Tulloful 6 років тому +11

    "We can't dance" best album ever... Magical

  • @chashague9269
    @chashague9269 4 роки тому +7

    I ve read a lot of the comments below & my heart goes out to the many of you who have suffered such things . May you find happiness , solace & peace , you deserve it . Chas .

  • @adamwoodward2003
    @adamwoodward2003 3 роки тому +28

    My God I love this song, its a really powerful story and you can feel all the emotions, a true classic.

  • @wartberg111
    @wartberg111 2 роки тому +3

    this Brings bat memory With my and my stepfahter! this is the Song of my live

  • @SuperAdmc
    @SuperAdmc 5 років тому +14

    By far one of best Genesis songs ever :-)

  • @dars5229
    @dars5229 Рік тому +1

    My dad is the best man I've ever known, but his dad... I could tell you stories but I won't because he was so bad, you'd think they were made up. Suffice to say, my dad had no positive father figure in his life. Which must have scared the crap out of him when he became a dad, because he had nothing to draw on. And yet, he was perfect. This song makes me think about the shit he went through and how unfair it was on him.

  • @user-pn4qi7wz4n
    @user-pn4qi7wz4n Рік тому +1

    Помню в 90-е както ехал в междугороднем автобусе и ночью услышал эту песню....казалосьвесь автобус спал а песню пели для меня....с тех пор влюбился в эту композицию...эх молодость

  • @Niftified
    @Niftified 4 роки тому +8

    The Queen's favourite song at the moment.

  • @coastmansingha9980
    @coastmansingha9980 3 роки тому +6

    My Father actuary said these words to me. He is now dead and I am 64 years of age. When he said them, I was a mere teenager so they did not hurt. Yet they do now. I know he did not mean them literary I am too much like him but yet so different. It’s a shame we never reconciled and learnt to understand each other better.

  • @samikalastaja
    @samikalastaja Місяць тому

    2:33 the melody feels incredibly beautiful

  • @noelscammell662
    @noelscammell662 5 років тому +7

    Play it loud
    Play it proud
    What a song

  • @AurasSparsas
    @AurasSparsas 7 років тому +11

    One of my favourites of all time.

  • @v.s.vchannel9597
    @v.s.vchannel9597 4 роки тому +59

    Песня на века. Столько эмоций в одной песне, просто через край. Бесподобная операторская работа

    • @Ahmet4165
      @Ahmet4165 2 роки тому +1

      это точно

    • @mikmeta5373
      @mikmeta5373 Рік тому

      true will win ! vivat russia ! history happen again ! west and ukraine are fascistic !

  • @andywebster7511
    @andywebster7511 9 місяців тому +2

    This song is dedicated to all those folks who had a family breakdown ❤

  • @rumenmihaylov2556
    @rumenmihaylov2556 8 місяців тому +3

    Soory for all Children ...........

  • @andretavares6827
    @andretavares6827 7 років тому +172

    this song is so real to me keeps me saine keeps me grounded makes me a better father in every way i had a shit father now i have a child and she is the world to me i die for her music helps alot thank you for this one

    • @sabins4270
      @sabins4270 4 роки тому +2

      👨‍👦❣

    • @akiramenai4973
      @akiramenai4973 4 роки тому +4

      Being a child and being a parent are completely different. Glad you know the treasure you have.

  • @judicator3441
    @judicator3441 10 років тому +21

    who cant like genesis?! they are too good to even breath the same air as us!

    • @CrAzYpOtHeAd420time
      @CrAzYpOtHeAd420time 10 років тому +3

      the amount of views on this video don't do Genesis justice
      The amount of people I know who wouldn't know who Genesis are, it's just not right!

    • @kallemick
      @kallemick 10 років тому +1

      Drake Johnson I have been listening to genesis since i was 16 :) (Im 18 now) and i even showed some of my friends their songs

    • @FiniteRich
      @FiniteRich 3 роки тому

      Thing is with genesis is people will find their stuff now and in the future (if we have one!) and be like “holy shit.. this is awesome” they are timeless

  • @melaniehosny4811
    @melaniehosny4811 7 місяців тому +5

    My own parents don't care if I'm alive or dead so I can relate to this song very personally.

    • @klade77
      @klade77 6 місяців тому +1

      Sorry to hear that. But a powerful song this is.

  • @patrickjay1400
    @patrickjay1400 3 роки тому +11

    This song hits home for me. A great song but very emotional. Brings back alot of painful memories

  • @oxcart4172
    @oxcart4172 8 років тому +185

    Great song. makes me wonder how many people are going through similar crap

    • @sidbaksh3260
      @sidbaksh3260 4 роки тому +7

      More than you can imagine. People should be submitted to a psychological examination, because there are more abusers out there than people fit to procreate.

    • @kubankdesigns
      @kubankdesigns Рік тому

      You are so right.. tragically..

    • @nataliejones5081
      @nataliejones5081 12 днів тому +1

      My friend was one of them she had a bad childhood lucky i had a great one

  • @brigittetelesnobrega1750
    @brigittetelesnobrega1750 4 роки тому +3

    I listened to this song while growing up and now with 38 realized it was about my past. Worst part is you don't even know what a normal family is, like you think that is normal and every one gets that kind treatment so you will never talk about it.

  • @stephanieclarke6925
    @stephanieclarke6925 4 роки тому +10

    You can feel the pain in the lyrics. Amazing song

  • @stoonybridge
    @stoonybridge 2 роки тому +1

    Can not believe it's been thirty years

  • @PurpleInTheDeep
    @PurpleInTheDeep 10 років тому +82

    A very powerful song!