I’m sorry Eve but I can’t you just act like you didn’t just make an analogy between liking a poorly made croissant and leaving a career you prepare years for….all your law videos were dope though. I hope your new career goes good!! Best of luck 🤞
Trust me Eve, we don’t watch you because you’re a lawyer. There are so many channels that focus on that. We watch you because we love you! Your editing, style, humour, personality, refreshing takes. We watch you cuz you invest yourself into this channel. Do what you like and don’t worry about us, we’ll support you throughout!
This is so cool - normalising moving away from your dream job because it’s not right for you anymore. Like we made decisions about uni/careers at 17 and are expected to just stick with that until we retire?
I remember during high school, my teacher told me that the average person will have 7 different careers in their life. Yet there is still such a big stigma around ‘finishing what you started’ and ‘persevering through the bad’. Good on you for doing your own thing 💗
People don’t talk enough about how courageous quitting something can be. The narrative is always, “she’s so perseverant… she will always finish something once she starts it”. As someone in their 20s who gave up on their “dream career” before I even got the job (even though I worked almost a decade toward it), it’s honestly been the best move I’ve ever made. Love to everyone going through this and “giving up” a path in order to be the best version of themselves when the world is telling us to “never give up on our dreams” ❤️
@@bdh711 i guess everytime that art can't be an full time job cus it can't give you money so you need an other job that you can afford with it you'r art stuff and supplise and if you became an lawyer that will never make a "not artist" you will still an artist till the last day of you'r life even you work as a lawyer
Can't imagine how hard a move like this is when your social media presence is largely based around your career. You've always shown yourself here to be a hard working, creative, empathetic person and what you do for a living is just one interesting aspect of yourself that you can be proud of. I've literally never followed because of law (not in law myself), I followed because I love seeing your creativity and queerness and most of all your drive. I feel seen by how passionate and energetic you are about what you do, and I'm excited for you. You've inspired me in so many ways and I can't wait to see what you do now.
I've quit being a doctor after almost 8 years of training because this felt completely wrong for me. I think it was the best possible decision I could've made, cause now I feel good in what I do. I'm really proud of you for walking away from something that didn't feel right.
I am in my 4th year studying to be a doctor, and I am about to be kicked out of school because I cant finish my exams, never been more scared in my life. You have my RESPECT. It takes a courage to make that sort of decision.
I just dropped out of my Masters course in journalism. I’ve spent four years with my mind set on writing for big papers and magazines but when I started to see the ins and outs of the industry I realised that it wasn’t the right space for me. It’s so confusing when you know other people see that as your identity, but personally I feel really content in my decision (despite having no clue what I’m going to do next!)
@@imogengreig2860 There’s nothing wrong with the industry itself, it just didn’t fit my personality when I realised what it required. I found it v stressful relying on people not in the industry for quotes/photos as they didn’t have the same urgency of my deadline as I did. Others on my course loved the intensity of it though. I also hated having to cut loads of things out of an interview for my word count after someone had opened up to me. Again, it’s a necessity for the job and so many people do it well, it’s just not what I’m looking for!
it would be an UNDERSTATEMENT to say I can relate!! so proud of you for being so brave and open with us!! it takes a lot to know what you DO NOT want to do! and then share it with the world; I remember feeling so nervous when I quit my dream grad job too!! but never felt happier!! prooud offff youuuu Eve. Love Vee xoxoxoxxoxo
As someone who also decided to quit my job as a lawyer recently, I (Em) got quite emotional watching this, especially the part where you talked about realising what made you the happiest and not compromising having a creative outlet. I made the mistake of deprioritising creativity for several years in favour of my career and basically giving up all of my creative outlets to work. It took me a long time to recognise that doing so had made me deeply unhappy (sort of like something inside me had temporarily died), so I am genuinely SO HAPPY to hear you talk about your journey and how you realised what fulfilled you. Really respect your level of self-awareness and wishing you all the best with your new career!
My friend sent me this video because I’m going through the exact same thing. I’m over a year into my TC and hating it. Breakdown after breakdown forced me to realise that I actually don’t like this, so hearing your story is so incredibly helpful to me, knowing that someone else has gone through it. I’ll be quitting next week and it feels so great to say it🥳
Eve. Girl . The way you helped me through my LPC and try to pursue my dream of being lawyer. My journey is not the same as yours but it's funny how this video has come at a moment where I'm asking the same questions to myself. The growth I'm here for it girl. I wish you all the best and thank you for just being real xx
I recently left law too, and also turned 24 this year. Leaving law, sent me into a spiral of questioning my decisions and whether it was the right thing to do and was so depressed for weeks and months, the constant wondering if i would regret it in the future. Ultimately i decided to leave anyways because i can always go back and do law, but i cannot get back wasted time being in an industry that made me miserable. I loved your legal videos but I'm also so glad someone else is in this journey of self discovery with me too , i finally dont feel so alone. I would love more videos on how you ultimately decided to go into the industry you went into, and or what possible plans you have for now.
Eve, I've been following you since my first year of law school, you've been a huge source of inspiration for me. But as my studies come to an end, I am seriously doubting myself and whether I want to become a lawyer. This video is all I needed, there is an entire other world out there outside of big law, and I'm so glad to see brilliant people like you taking a leap of faith and proving that. Best of luck in your future endeavours !
I trained as a historian, moved into big law in my mid thirties and now do a mix of things. Whatever you decide, Emma, your legal studies give you huge insights, skills and will vastly enrich your life and whatever contribution you go on to make, in whatever field. Good luck!
USA lawyer here to say that Biglaw isn’t all the law is, no matter what law schools tell you so it can boost their USNWR rankings when more people go into it
I often feel the same and share the same concerns. After completing the Gdl from 2019-20 I thought that I would grow to like the practical side of law, but felt I needed to take a step back as the GDl drained me. I was literally counting down the weeks to the end of the course. Currently doing the LPC for 6 weeks and am pretty sure i don’t want to be a lawyer. Im liking the course but not the workload and specific training. Been having doubts on whether leaving will mean im a quitter and will leave me with no other purpose.
This video is so validating, I just finished my law degree and feel exactly the same. I don’t think Biglaw/old law is for me and I would love to venture into more creative ways to use the skills I have invested in!
This is one of the rare videos that has really impacted me on UA-cam in quite a while. I relate exactly to how your feeling and it’s so important to talk about these feelings and validating them because there is real and heavy guilt about walking away from a career or degree (in my case) that you’ve put so much of your time and effort into and it’s so hard to walk away even when you know it’s not right for you. Thank you so much for this video, I really needed it and I think a lot of other people need to hear it too
i’m starting law school in the uk this year and your videos have been so inspiring; it’s also so comforting to know that i could one day switch careers if i realise law isn’t for me
I recently quit my engineering job to be an artist, I can relate so much! Well done for making the best decision for you and I’m excited for what this new journey will bring!
I have so much respect and understanding for you. I quit my university studies about half a year ago. I was also studying law and had attached so much pride to studying this subject and actually being the first person in my family to go to uni. I now work in a restaurant, which has been my passion for many years and I have always worked in gastronomy after school. I now know that I made the right decision and I have so much passion for what I am doing. I wish you the best of luck for your future. Do what makes you happy:)
it’s crazy i first subbed to this channel when i was a little pre-law student and eve was just getting out of law school, and now im planning on going into tech instead and eve’s also making that same career transition hehe
So happy for you. I did the same a few years ago and couldn't be happier with the decision. When you feel like you need to stick with something just for the sake of "not being a quitter" you're wasting time that you could be spending actually enjoying yourself.
Confession time! I am a boy living in Slovakia who in no way or form wants to ever study law. I was never interested, but when I came across your channel I enjoyed it. I found it weird because everything you did was definitely not for the demographic that I represent. I never understood why I liked your videos so much, but I guess now I know. I liked the stuff that you made. So if you are ever scared of changing the type of content you make, just remember that there is a huge number of people in your audience like me who never had any connection to law and are interested to see your journey for the future. Good luck hope this helped! :)
I’m 28 and I gave up on my career after years of Misery and it takes a lot of courage, looking for a new role. I follow your videos and I love them so much. You make me feel way less alienated x
I remember briefly talking about this with you at an event in October - you mentioned how you loved the legal tech secondment / maybe pursuing it in the future, Happy for you you’ve chosen your path!
Honestly in so many ways this really spoke to me. I'm studying to be an engineer right now and for the past couple years I've sort of just accepted the fact this is what I'm going to end up doing, given I've already spent so much time working towards it. And It's not that i hate it but I can't say I love it and I haven't really given myself a chance to consider any other possibility....but after seeing this I'm going to really try and explore and find what it is that I want to do. Thanks Eve, I love that you were brave enough to follow your passions despite the fears you had. I hope you know how inspiring that is :)
When I first read that title, I was quite surprised. Like you said, being a lawyer was kind of your thing to me as a viewer. Also the fact that you just got to what felt like the finish line and also starting point for that career last September. But actually watching this, I can relate. Last year, after finishing my Master's, I felt so lost and I still don't know where I'm going. Is creativity and creation a hobby or should it be the center of what I'm doing? I am about to start as a trainee journalist, if I am even taken, but I also just visited an online class about becoming a self-employed wedding planner, am in talks with a remote university about pursuing a PhD and researching representation for (queer) minorities in media, have contacted online media I enjoy about writing/editing/producing for them and always have, at the back of my mind, the idea that I want to "drop out" and start a UA-cam channel or write a book. 2021 was very hard for me and I am just now getting myself together a bit, starting counselling and enjoying art, performative as well as material, getting out of the unemployment slump I have been in for the last six to seven months and all the other stuff that has happened. And now, as you said, I'm not 19 anymore, but I still don't know how to answer when a potential employer asks me what my passions are and what I want out of life. When I was finishing secondary school, it was all so easy: I wanted to make people happy and leave a positive impact on this world. Definitely through parenthood, but ideally also through activism and art and creation. I guess I just need to find my way back there.
Honestly I am just extremely happy that you're doing what YOU want to do. I wish upon no one to be miserable in their position and staying because of external reasons. I also feel that a lot of the criticism people receive when they do a drastic change like this, is criticism from people who maybe would like to do the same thing, but are terrified to do so, that they don't believe they can so why should they believe you can. You are proof that people can. Anyways, I am so happy for you, and I will always support you regardless of what your career is!
This will help so many people see it is completely ok to change careers. At the point you are picking high school courses, even uni courses, you are so young and there are jobs that are yet to be created. Especially at this point in your career, when you have so much ahead of you, it is awesome that you had the courage to make sure it was doing something you love.
I struggled a lot coming to terms with not wanting to do law while studying law at university. Even now as I’m going into the third year I’m still not sure whether I should follow the career path my family expect or do something different that I may enjoy. It’s nice to have this acknowledgment so I know I’m not the only one feeling pressured :) love u eve :))
I've spent almost 10 years in the legal field! Get the degree and after that everything that follows to becoming a lawyer...I found it extremely difficult to change because of family and because of pride and ego like you said. Only after 10 years I had the courage to change...I am now in the graphic design field, learning a lot and couldn't be happier! You are not alone! Good luck! Love from Portugal 🇵🇹
@@victorius6635 Hi! Honestly, I was so done with the legal field that I decided to just quit, started working in a chocolate store that I loved and decided to get a certification. It was a 1 year program where I learned the basics of all classes and we would finish with a portfolio to show.
'Terrified to leave' I am currently struggling with this so much, I have become far too familiar in my current role and have turned down countless jobs through fear of change! I am 100% claiming the positive energy from this video and will try to manifest everything you spoke about 💖💖💖
thank you for letting us know, I think you're incredibly brave to let yourself go through this process of insecurity and fear in order to go after the things you realise are meant for you now. I wish you all the best!! p.s was the croissant that bad
I’m a law student and i fell the same. Maybe i just needed your video to realize that law isn’t for me anymore. I just study law to help my parents in future because “lawyers gain a lot of money”. All that you said in this video help me to think who I am and to deal of the idea that I don’t want to be a lawyer. Thanks. (I’m from Colombia, sorry if my writing is not good as it should).
Proud of you for being able to walk away. I wanted to be in the military my whole life, joined when I was 17 and kept convincing myself I loved it. Never felt so depressed in my life while I was in. Took pretty much a whole year in service to be able to walk away
I'm so excited for you, it took me until my 30s to start making side steps towards Tech, I'm an engineer so it's not so huge a jump, but I dealt with everything you talk about, the sunk cost fallacy got me hard!! Life is full of duplicity, it's short so we should all do what makes us happy, but it's long enough that it's never too late!!!
We’re so proud of you, Eve. You’re wonderful and talented and smart and beautiful, and you will do amazing in whatever you set your mind to! You deserve to be happy and proud of your past, but hopeful and even more excited for you future. You have grown so much over the past few years and I am so proud of you. Your happiness is what matters above all, and we will support you no matter what you do
Eve!!! Thank you for your vulnerability. As someone who “lost” three years of university education because of a change in major, this definitely resonates. Oddly, your channel has always been about *you* to me, since I never had intent to study law. i just loved your personality and the content you make so I stuck around, and always will :-)))) here’s to a new chapter stepping further into ourselves!
Thank you Eve; I have, silently, followed your path during all these years, alongside I was building my own in IP law. Now I am finally studying for the Italian Bar Exam, which is going to be in 2-3 months max, and I'm already panicking about what's coming next, what if I like much more other things to do in life. Well, I don't know what's gonna be, but your courage and strength empowered me for sure to be the best version of myself, no matter what. Thank you for sharing, so much
this is actually really comforting to me, as someone who looked up to you all through my time in bristol law, and then decided after finishing my degree that law wasn't for me. it's nice to know I'm not alone
The timing of this video😭 Eve, thank you so much for being a source of inspiration and comfort. I spent years as a high school student dreaming about studying law & also watching your law videos. Then I actually started studying it and after half a year I realized that I didn’t want to work in the legal profession at all. I loved studying law but I started to hate the idea of having to work in it. So, I quit law and I’m now starting my new degree next week, computer science!! I couldn’t be more happier and I now truly feel my studies and future career will fulfill me. Even though my “ investment” wasn’t nearly as big as yours, I can relate to the sunk cost fallacy. You’re really someone to look up to, for the courage and determination of making hard choices to just become happy in life. Thank you! I can’t wait to see your channel blooming into your true self🌸🌸🍀🤞
Eve, you are so inspirational. I’m currently in my first year of a maths degree and I’ve hated it ever since I started. I’ve wanted to leave but have been pressured by my family and teachers to stay because it’s what I’ve worked really hard for up until this point but my heart just isn’t in it, my mental health has completed plummeted and I just don't feel like I have a purpose at uni. This video has really helped me understand that it *is* okay to quit something and I can’t wait for my new chapter because I'm now in the process of dropping out. I’m so glad that I’ve seen your whole journey from university to now and I can’t wait to see what the future holds for you! 💓💫
This made me cry, cause I’m going through the exact same thing. I watched you since the beginning. I was at uni at the same time as you, i was studying CS and I could relate to you with your enthusiasm about what you were doing/studying/working. I haven’t found my calling yet but I know this role isn’t for me anymore and the pride and ego part was super relatable
this is so incredible to me. like i've always looked up to you anyway, and then your coming out and now this?? it's so so validating for me to know that other queer women that are a little older than me go through everything that i always feared i would go through in the future and then come out of it this happy & victorious. thank you so much for sharing, and for making life seem a little less scary.
Im 24. I spent my many years in creativity. Exploring all sorts of creativity. I started off as a designing student but decided to go to law school last year. Couldnt be happier. Creativity is still a part of me. You should do what makes you feel yourself. Happy for you!
as a college girl in stem who once wanted to do law from the bottom of her heart - i’ve been waiting for this video since i saw your post on linkedin! it’s a constant challenge for me personally because linear progression is tough when stem doesn’t come “naturally” to you, not as much as the skills that come with studying law might have, which is tough on the ego/pride! so thank you for this video, you are a legend & inspiration as always 💙
Saw this a day after it was posted. I followed Eve for a few years now because I, too, had a “wanna be lawyer” phase and her study ethics rlly inspired me. I loved how great her personality was despite being a great law student before. Last year, i stopped wanting to become a laywer because I was a creative writing junior and was so in love with writing and artistry. The more I thought about law school, the more I felt sad because I was going to leave this creative world behind. I stopped watching Eve because I didnt want to feel bad about what i felt. And now she posted this, this video came to me at a perfect time. In the Philippines lawschool admissions are starting and im wondering if im missing out. This video kinda told me that it was okay. Eve was like the universe’s message to me to pursue my passions and stop worrying about the title of being a lawyer. Idk, i just really love you Eve, you really are an inspiration to me. I wish you the best!
Hi! I’m from the Philippines too! As an ex-law student, you really have to want to go to law school. Enough to make so many sacrifices. It’s funny, now that I think of it, I loved the law. I even honestly still do. When I was in law school, I kept failing a lot of my subjects despite the fact that I have worked so hard and studied so hard. Initially I thought I was the problem. So kept ploughing on. Eventually I decided enough is enough, and left law school. And I have never felt so relieved in my life. I went to graduate school instead. I know that I am in a better place now. I never regretted going to Law school. I have learned so much and made so many friends and wonderful memories, yes. But I am ready to do something that can also make a difference, and I know I don’t have to be a lawyer to do that. To be honest I accidentally found Eve’s channel because I wanted to be a really effective student in grad school. Her video on making first class notes have been a huge help! 😊 The best thing about law school is that it’s always there. Take enough time to decide if you really want it. Trust me, if you want it, and if you are meant to be there, the universe will conspire and make it happen. I didn’t even go to law school immediately after graduating from college. I worked.
@@layla-talmedina5733 omg, first of all, hi po! I hope youre doing okay now despite the pandemic. I cat explain how much I appreciate your message, ate! Its just so scary to be in that phase where you just finished college and you feel like you hav to do something immediately! But, you’re right, there are so many tracks we can take and still do something impactful.For sure, I’ll explore all the opportunities there is for me and just try to be happy while finding that thing that’s meant for me! I hope youre living your best life right now po! Thank you for this inspiring and sweet message! (Hugs! 😭🥰)
Studied four years in university in what I thought was the dream job for me, ended up hating it and being unhappy but sticking with it and hoping one day I would enjoy it - graduated and decided to do something completely different in order to be happy and it was the best decision I’ve ever made :) it was hard and it took time to figure out what I wanted to do, but now I think I’ve found a job I could happily do forever! Listen to your gut and remember it’s your life so it doesn’t matter what other people think :)
I’m 3 weeks away from qualifying as a barrister and I’m right here with things. I do not regret the effort and time put into this career path because how I have a world recognised qualification and have gained so many skills that will be beneficial in most, if not all industries. But I resonate with your comment about putting so much energy into a career that ignored your creative talents. I am a photographer, a published writer, can edit videos, I can make clothes and started polymer clay jewellery 2 years ago. I had time for none of that once I started pupillage. And since being on this journey towards qualification, the closer I got to it, the less time and energy I had to dedicate to the other aspects that make me, me. I took a holiday for a break (as I was severely burnt l out) and when I came back it’s like a light bulb had been switch on.
This just came up in my recommended and I'm very grateful. I am in the same boat as I am drifting away from my current job which is all I wanted to do and something I've put the last 6 years into. Last year was my flop year. I am still finding what I want to do and I hope this year will be happier for me. I've a lot a pressure to continue at my job as it's seen as exciting and impressive which is a nice feeling but it isn't making me happy anymore. I'm so happy that you seem to be so secure in your decision and it gives me some hope for myself. All the best to you
I have watched many of your videos. This is the happiest and most genuine I've seen you look. You almost look relieved to be doing something you enjoy.
great you could do it now … and that you have the clarity. I quit at 43 after having worked as an in-house counsel for 18 years ( but the work was hectic and diverse enough to be like a combination of corporate and litigation law firms). And now am doing something else entirely. But I loved watching you study and you were so effective. Also no skill is ever lost, so it was time well spent. Best wishes for the future.
Oh my god yes this is what I needed I always thought I was going to be a vet nurse so I went to college and then half way through my second year I got to go back to work which was being a waitress at weddings and for a whole summer I was hands on in the weddings and I grew to love them and I realised when I got back to college this wasn’t what o wanted to do so I took the leap and left my course and now I’m going to be going onto an apprenticeship as a wedding planner with my boss so take that leap you may not know where your going to land but you will always land on your feet ❤️❤️
this video is so comforting. I used to watch your channel for motivation in my first year of uni as a neuroscience student that wanted to go into veterinary medicine, but last year in my 3rd year I decided I'd make the switch to art and animation and im so much happier 😭 its crazy to see someone who I looked up to making a similar decision and in a silly way makes me more confident in my decision. wishing you the best!!
blown away by how well you’ve articulated and worded all of the thoughts in your head. you can tell it’s not been easy for you to get here. so proud of your bravery for pursuing what you know is right for you, despite traditional expectations. love you & your channel Eve - you’re pretty damn awesome
Love to see that you’ve made a move that’s best for you. A few months ago I saw you in Kew Gardens and wanted to say to you how much I look up to you but didn’t want to disturb you. I thought about changing my career recently as well but at the time I was in a job that didn’t give me much room to grow. I’m about to start a new job in the same field so I’m going to see how it goes. I’m keeping an open mind, maybe I’ll love it and continue to develop my career in that direction or maybe I’ll realise that’s not what I want to do. I’m just excited to see what’s to come 🙂
I always had a feeling you were going to fall into the creative aspect and I’m really proud that you have! Well done, as it must have been really hard and humbling to admit to yourself and others that law isn’t what you want to do anymore, and that’s okay! ❤️
I changed out of law in my final year of studying last year, so I know exactly how you feel - literally checking the boxes with each of your reasons. I remember starting out my law journey watching your videos, writing down your study tips and excited over your progress within the legal career. It's fascinating because if I rewatch your older videos, I remember what I was like back then too. Grateful you've shared your story and excited to see what comes next!
Thank you for this video. I also resigned from my job as a lawyer after being a solicitor for 2 years and a total of 9 years in the legal journey. I don’t know what the future holds but I am excited for it.
I didn’t click on this expecting to relate, but I did so. Much. Went thru something similar over the pandemic with a whole career change after four years of working towards a goal and felt all the things you described. Thanks for sharing this!!
Thank you for being so raw and honest with us. Also just for the record we don't watch you because you're 'a lawyer' we watch you because we love you! Best of luck with the future ❤️.
I'm so proud of you Eve! The level of self-awareness and thoughtfulness is inspiring. I'm excited to learn more about your career journey and individual growth. We're all here for you at the end of the day
i love all the changes you’re making towards the betterment of your life! i’ve been watching your videos since you were in bristol and it’s been cool to watch you open your life up to us. im in law school in the us, so i understand how scary it can be to turn back after investing so much and it’s reassuring to know life doesn’t blow up if you decide to leave for something else 😭 i really love it when ppl pivot their yt channels from a specific focus to who they are as a person. super excited for whats to come!!
thank you for this! i've spent 4 years hopping from role to role trying to figure out what i want to do, and finally this year I've found that role that like you said makes me feel electric i tend to beat myself up about my lack of progression since i see lots of people around me getting promotions when I've made countless side steps but this video has made me feel a lot more at peace, i have learnt loads from each company, good and bad and if anything it makes my experience so much more diverse than if i had stayed in the same place from the start
This video was so so relatable, especially when you spoke about how specialised careers usually have a very linear progression, however even if you digress from that path, you’re still valid. As a law student from a different jurisdiction who found this channel due to law in generality, I stayed around because of your personality. Your words hit home as I sit here utterly confused and fearful of the future, someone who genuinely doesn’t know who she is as a person. I am grateful that I saw this video today, and I wish you lots of success on this new career path!
Thank you for this honest video, I think it was very brave of you to say this and do what you did. 💕 following your heart is never easy but I think it will alway be worth it.
As someone who trained in a field who's been soul searching for what they really want with life, this video couldn't be any more relatable. Thank you x
i am going through a very dark journey in the last few years and I genuinely think that this video is just what I needed to hear. I hope that I will also have the courage that you had to find your true self.
it made me sad when you said you felt like you might be letting a lot of people down, if anything its made me feel like I don't HAVE to use my law degree, and if I get into practice and it isn't for me then I can do something different, especially with what you said about the transferrable skills learned as a law student. thank you
Eve, I cannot express enough how much I needed a video like this. In 2021 I also had to take a step back, stop for a while to understand what I wanted to do and where I wanted to go. I let go of an academic journey, of a possible career I had invested years, time and money on, because I realised I wasn't happy anymore. I had let my value and my self coincide with career and academics and I was feeling profoundly trapped. As you said, there is so much more to us than what we study and what we do for a job. Now I am on a new trajectory, at times I am scared because what I am doing now is pretty far away from my comfort zone, but I am learning a lot of new things and, most importantly, I am rediscovering myself, my creative side, my hobbies, the person I am when I am not studying/working hard to achieve yet another milestone. Change is tough, it is scary, but I think that, as we grow, we are bound to change at some point, because we are constantly becoming a different version of ourselves. Sending you lots of love from Italy! 🌻💛
I really needed this video. I'm in the final year of my engineering degree and I have to make some big decisions on where I want my career to go, if I want to stick with engineering or move in a different direction. The sunk cost fallacy really hit me, because I have invested so much time, pain and tears into this degree, so it feels like a waste to go somewhere else. Thank you so much for being honest, it must've been incredibly hard to make this decision, but you chose what was best for you, and I find that so inspiring!! This has given me that bit of courage I need to take a risk and know if it doesn't pan out that I'll still be okay! Can't wait to see where your new journey takes you!!!
Hearing your journey is so exciting! I enjoyed hearing your experiences as a law student, but I'm really eager to hear about your evolution/character development and career change to something that more closely aligns with your values. Congrats on the growth and this new career path, Eve!
It's great you had the courage to take this step! I think it's insane we are expected to know that one thing we want to do as a job and not experiment with different career paths
Hi, Eve- I'm a lawyer in the USA who thought of quitting many times. Seems like I just stumbled on your law school videos 1-2 years ago so it's surprising that this video just showed up on my youtube. Good for you to be able to quit and pursue your true passions! You'll do well wherever you channel your energy!
I love that this is such a common trend now. I got my undergrad in engineering. I decided my second to last semester that I wanted to pursue theatre instead bc I have always loved it. I’m in a masters program for theatre now!! If anyone is hesitant to take the leap, you got this! ❤️
I have had a similar experience with choosing between what I'd started and what people wanted me to finish, versus what I was actually really passionate about and what gave me energy You are such an inspiration, how you are deciding to prioritise your own happiness above expectations ~ still working on it
From the first time I clicked on your law school vids before, you continue to prove that people on the internet are just as the same as everyone else. Thank you for being a 100% genuine on the internet. ❤️❤️ we'll always be behind your back cheering u on ✨🍂🎉
You were THE person I looked up to when doubting my law career. I just started my own pet care services company last year after leaving a terrible work environment. On February 1st 2022, I withdrew from my studies to pursue my company full time because it is doing so successful that I am overwhelmed with how busy I am every single day. I am so happy and grateful every morning I wake up. The timing is insane. You’re going to do amazing, and you always were Eve ❤️ all the best from Canada ❤️
I quit law school after being in it for 3 years and I can absolutely relate to you. If there is a big part in us that tells us we are on the wrong track of life it's a sign of our internal guidance that we are meant to do something better. ❤️
I've felt that my whole life. I am in my 3d year of law and questioning my choice, but I am 28 and I don't know what I could do to earn an income in another way right now. Law school + working extra takes so much of my time and energy that I don't know how I could learn another skill/trade right now... I have dreams of writing a novel but it I'm scared to give up on law.
One of your videos helped me with my LNAT, and now in I’m in my second year of uni panicking about what’s after law school, and again you’ve helped me at a really scary time of my life. So thank you!! You don’t need to be a lawyer to have an impact or to help people. Looking forward to everything you do next! God bless xx 🥰🥰❤️❤️
this is incredible. whatever career you're in, you're doing such a great job with everything and so many people, myself included, can relate to many parts of this. super happy for you !!!
Hey eve, first of all I just want to say you’re very brave. Changing is a very hard thing to do . I am incredibly happy to say that you gave me courage to withdraw from law school. Even though I’m just finishing my first year in law school but my passion for law vanished long ago and hate to admit that was real. I hate change because it really bring you out from your comfort zone. Pretending or force to like something that you don’t actually like is really unhealthy. I am proud to say I’m pursuing a path I really love which is writing. I hope that anyone that need that words of encouragement. Change is scary but it is worth it.
Watching this video one day after I applied for masters in Eng Lit, after getting into Bar last year. What a coincidence, just when I was over thinking everything and wondering how'd I tell my parents about this decision of not being an advocate anymore your video popped on my feed. This is a sign. 🌼
This is so inspiring. I’m a second year law student and watching my friends scramble for a vacation scheme and training contract pressured me into doing the same, but I know that my heart isn’t in it, and there’s another career that I’m far more interested in pursuing. Pride, ego and sunk cost fallacy plays such a big part in a specified field like law, but I hope to move forward into something different that better suits who I am today and not who i imagined to be when I was 16 when I decided to go to law school.
SUBSCRIBED! This is the first of your videos that I've stumbled across and I resonated with so much of it. I quit my job as an Actuary in 2020 and so much of what you said you felt rings true with me. Not wanting to throw away the years of hard work for highly specialised exams, then realising that it wasn't a waste of time because the skills I'd learned in the job were highly transferrable, especially. I ended up going into Digital Marketing which is something I'd never envisaged myself doing, because like you said, certain subjects are valued more highly in our education system than others, so we force ourselves to become round pegs when really we're square pegs. I'm so glad you found something that's more authentic to who you are as a person, thank you so much for sharing x
I feel like so many of us needed this video. I'm turning 20 this year and am going into my 2nd year of studying psychology but have no idea if it's right for me at all. Thank you Eve for showing us that it's okay to make a leap to do what we feel is best for us - and that it's okay to change our minds about things. xx
I'm about to start my 10th year of studying psychology and sometimes I still wonder if it's right for me 😂 I'm going to give it a go as a career, but this video gives me comfort that everything will be okay even if psychology turns out not to be right for me.
I really get where you’re coming from. I studied law and realised, that I would never be happy with myself, no matter how much time and energy I invested. I let my social circle drift away and was basically a shell. Then I exmatriculated Uni and I’m currently in my second year of my training of being a police officer - my life really has changed but definitely for the better. Much love from Germany ☀️
I subscribed many years ago because of an interest in the journey to being a lawyer - I stayed because of the wonderful creativity in your vlogs. I’m old (52} but your words are causing me to pause & think. All the best Eve & I’m looking forward to the creativity release in 2022 (& beyond). Kevin.
When I say I relate to you 😭😭😭 I wanted to study design initially but due to peer pressure and the whole society around me decided to go with law even tho I knew it wasn’t me however I have realised it as well and I decide to go back to what makes me happy and grateful , and I am so glad that more of us are putting happiness and mental health above . MORE POWER TO YOU
Twenties aren't about succeeding, they're about setting yourself to succeed. To make mistakes, learn what you like and what you don't and now is the best time to learn and do that. Keep going, you can do this!
exactly!!! no time spent learning anything is time lost or wasted, whatever you spend your time doing it makes you into who you are, no matter what you do or don't end up doing with it. the job i had wasn't my dream job, but choosing to quit and go back to school wasn't something i ever saw myself doing either. until i did, and i'm loving it so far. i'm just going with the flow at this point. i don't even have an end goal. the goal is just to be enjoying myself now, and feel good about what i'm doing now.
I love you so much, Eve. And I'm so proud of you. Back in 2019, I was looking for youtuber lawyers cos I wanted to become one (tho that went out the window, lol) and I found you. The more I watched your videos, the more I loved you for more than just you being a lawyer. You have such a beautiful peronality and your creativity here has inspired me so so much you just don't know. Idk if you'll even read this, but yeah. I just thought I'd let you know since I usually don't comment. We're here for you.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Omg Eve I honestly relate. In September I started first year at uni doing law and I realised how quickly it wasn’t for me and how unhappy it made me, despite wanting to be within a legal profession since I was 11 years old. Now this coming September, I’ll be doing Film and TV production because similarly I thrive doing something creative. I’ve hardly done anything relating to this subject at all except doing a daft short film with mates and I thoroughly enjoyed it. However, I always pushed the thought of a creative subject away due to pressures from school. Just goes to show how schools and society push school students into a ‘traditional’ or ‘intellectual’ jobs, instead of supporting students with their ultimate passions or supporting them in something they’ve never tried before. So thank you for sharing this, it’s a relief to relate with someone and I’m glad you’re happier! x
shocked and grateful for how kind these comments are, thank you
Wow I quit my job recently as well! But I’ve not got a role lined up and researching what I can do next. Have just added you on LinkedIn x
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we admire your transparency and honesty SO MUCH! and some of these skills are very transferable to having a podcast (just saying)
I’m sorry Eve but I can’t you just act like you didn’t just make an analogy between liking a poorly made croissant and leaving a career you prepare years for….all your law videos were dope though. I hope your new career goes good!! Best of luck 🤞
@@AirCheco2345 that’s what sunk cost fallacy is though?
Trust me Eve, we don’t watch you because you’re a lawyer. There are so many channels that focus on that. We watch you because we love you! Your editing, style, humour, personality, refreshing takes. We watch you cuz you invest yourself into this channel. Do what you like and don’t worry about us, we’ll support you throughout!
I couldn't agree more!
Yes! I never wanted to be a lawyer but I came for the studying tips and stayed for her personality!
thank you for explaining it so well!! 🤍
truth !!
This 100% 💗
This level of self-awareness is incredible. Happy for you Eve and looking forward to see you grow in this new direction!
This is so cool - normalising moving away from your dream job because it’s not right for you anymore. Like we made decisions about uni/careers at 17 and are expected to just stick with that until we retire?
Sunk cost fallacy!
@@eunyuli completely !!!
THIS.
This comment!
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I remember during high school, my teacher told me that the average person will have 7 different careers in their life. Yet there is still such a big stigma around ‘finishing what you started’ and ‘persevering through the bad’. Good on you for doing your own thing 💗
People don’t talk enough about how courageous quitting something can be. The narrative is always, “she’s so perseverant… she will always finish something once she starts it”. As someone in their 20s who gave up on their “dream career” before I even got the job (even though I worked almost a decade toward it), it’s honestly been the best move I’ve ever made. Love to everyone going through this and “giving up” a path in order to be the best version of themselves when the world is telling us to “never give up on our dreams” ❤️
Yesssss. I left a PhD program and never looked back. Doing my dream job now.
WhT was your" dream job"
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Prech 💯💯
I'm 27 and I'm a lawyer. I feel exactly the same. I enjoy drawing and painting. I'm thinking of quitting my job every single day
I’m not a qualified lawyer yet but a paralegal and I love doing pixel art. My heart is more in pixel art than law.
@@bdh711 then pursue you’re passion. I’m getting more senior. Sometimes I despise my job but i cannot quit due to the money.
@@bdh711 i guess everytime that art can't be an full time job cus it can't give you money so you need an other job that you can afford with it you'r art stuff and supplise and if you became an lawyer that will never make a "not artist" you will still an artist till the last day of you'r life even you work as a lawyer
I feel the same way :(
i wanted to do something art related but now i want just something normal lol
Can't imagine how hard a move like this is when your social media presence is largely based around your career. You've always shown yourself here to be a hard working, creative, empathetic person and what you do for a living is just one interesting aspect of yourself that you can be proud of. I've literally never followed because of law (not in law myself), I followed because I love seeing your creativity and queerness and most of all your drive. I feel seen by how passionate and energetic you are about what you do, and I'm excited for you.
You've inspired me in so many ways and I can't wait to see what you do now.
Congrats on becoming more yourself. It's a real achievement. Best of luck!
this is so sweet comment!
I've quit being a doctor after almost 8 years of training because this felt completely wrong for me. I think it was the best possible decision I could've made, cause now I feel good in what I do.
I'm really proud of you for walking away from something that didn't feel right.
I am in my 4th year studying to be a doctor, and I am about to be kicked out of school because I cant finish my exams, never been more scared in my life. You have my RESPECT. It takes a courage to make that sort of decision.
Happy for you that you made this decision! In a similar position and curious to know what you're doing now if it's ok to ask?
@@Yousef-eh8qq sure it's no problem. Currently I'm teaching English as second language)
cool! what o you o now?
@@zdoriksandorik Nice! I've thought about doing this as well from time to time.... All the best with it
I just dropped out of my Masters course in journalism. I’ve spent four years with my mind set on writing for big papers and magazines but when I started to see the ins and outs of the industry I realised that it wasn’t the right space for me. It’s so confusing when you know other people see that as your identity, but personally I feel really content in my decision (despite having no clue what I’m going to do next!)
How come it wasn’t the right space for you? I’ve only started thinking about journalism recently and it seems really interesting and fulfilling.
@@imogengreig2860 There’s nothing wrong with the industry itself, it just didn’t fit my personality when I realised what it required. I found it v stressful relying on people not in the industry for quotes/photos as they didn’t have the same urgency of my deadline as I did. Others on my course loved the intensity of it though. I also hated having to cut loads of things out of an interview for my word count after someone had opened up to me. Again, it’s a necessity for the job and so many people do it well, it’s just not what I’m looking for!
it would be an UNDERSTATEMENT to say I can relate!! so proud of you for being so brave and open with us!! it takes a lot to know what you DO NOT want to do! and then share it with the world; I remember feeling so nervous when I quit my dream grad job too!! but never felt happier!! prooud offff youuuu Eve. Love Vee xoxoxoxxoxo
It's Vee baby!!!!! 😍
As someone who also decided to quit my job as a lawyer recently, I (Em) got quite emotional watching this, especially the part where you talked about realising what made you the happiest and not compromising having a creative outlet. I made the mistake of deprioritising creativity for several years in favour of my career and basically giving up all of my creative outlets to work. It took me a long time to recognise that doing so had made me deeply unhappy (sort of like something inside me had temporarily died), so I am genuinely SO HAPPY to hear you talk about your journey and how you realised what fulfilled you. Really respect your level of self-awareness and wishing you all the best with your new career!
My friend sent me this video because I’m going through the exact same thing. I’m over a year into my TC and hating it. Breakdown after breakdown forced me to realise that I actually don’t like this, so hearing your story is so incredibly helpful to me, knowing that someone else has gone through it. I’ll be quitting next week and it feels so great to say it🥳
I hope you finished your tc. It would be good to round off that chapter of your life with it completed rather than dropped more than half way
Eve. Girl . The way you helped me through my LPC and try to pursue my dream of being lawyer. My journey is not the same as yours but it's funny how this video has come at a moment where I'm asking the same questions to myself. The growth I'm here for it girl. I wish you all the best and thank you for just being real xx
I recently left law too, and also turned 24 this year.
Leaving law, sent me into a spiral of questioning my decisions and whether it was the right thing to do and was so depressed for weeks and months, the constant wondering if i would regret it in the future. Ultimately i decided to leave anyways because i can always go back and do law, but i cannot get back wasted time being in an industry that made me miserable. I loved your legal videos but I'm also so glad someone else is in this journey of self discovery with me too , i finally dont feel so alone.
I would love more videos on how you ultimately decided to go into the industry you went into, and or what possible plans you have for now.
Eve, I've been following you since my first year of law school, you've been a huge source of inspiration for me. But as my studies come to an end, I am seriously doubting myself and whether I want to become a lawyer.
This video is all I needed, there is an entire other world out there outside of big law, and I'm so glad to see brilliant people like you taking a leap of faith and proving that.
Best of luck in your future endeavours !
I trained as a historian, moved into big law in my mid thirties and now do a mix of things. Whatever you decide, Emma, your legal studies give you huge insights, skills and will vastly enrich your life and whatever contribution you go on to make, in whatever field. Good luck!
USA lawyer here to say that Biglaw isn’t all the law is, no matter what law schools tell you so it can boost their USNWR rankings when more people go into it
I often feel the same and share the same concerns. After completing the Gdl from 2019-20 I thought that I would grow to like the practical side of law, but felt I needed to take a step back as the GDl drained me. I was literally counting down the weeks to the end of the course.
Currently doing the LPC for 6 weeks and am pretty sure i don’t want to be a lawyer. Im liking the course but not the workload and specific training. Been having doubts on whether leaving will mean im a quitter and will leave me with no other purpose.
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This video is so validating, I just finished my law degree and feel exactly the same. I don’t think Biglaw/old law is for me and I would love to venture into more creative ways to use the skills I have invested in!
This is one of the rare videos that has really impacted me on UA-cam in quite a while. I relate exactly to how your feeling and it’s so important to talk about these feelings and validating them because there is real and heavy guilt about walking away from a career or degree (in my case) that you’ve put so much of your time and effort into and it’s so hard to walk away even when you know it’s not right for you. Thank you so much for this video, I really needed it and I think a lot of other people need to hear it too
i’m starting law school in the uk this year and your videos have been so inspiring; it’s also so comforting to know that i could one day switch careers if i realise law isn’t for me
I recently quit my engineering job to be an artist, I can relate so much! Well done for making the best decision for you and I’m excited for what this new journey will bring!
@Oliva Robusto also at least 270k people like her art because look at those subscribers😂
@Oliva Robusto “said no one ever”
You rock Temi! Your art is amazing! You do real life portraits SO well!
@Oliva Robusto hater mentality
Your journey is so inspiring, Eve. Such a good reminder that nothing’s set in stone and you don’t need to stick to one vocation for any reason!!
I have so much respect and understanding for you. I quit my university studies about half a year ago. I was also studying law and had attached so much pride to studying this subject and actually being the first person in my family to go to uni. I now work in a restaurant, which has been my passion for many years and I have always worked in gastronomy after school. I now know that I made the right decision and I have so much passion for what I am doing.
I wish you the best of luck for your future. Do what makes you happy:)
it’s crazy i first subbed to this channel when i was a little pre-law student and eve was just getting out of law school, and now im planning on going into tech instead and eve’s also making that same career transition hehe
So happy for you. I did the same a few years ago and couldn't be happier with the decision. When you feel like you need to stick with something just for the sake of "not being a quitter" you're wasting time that you could be spending actually enjoying yourself.
Confession time! I am a boy living in Slovakia who in no way or form wants to ever study law. I was never interested, but when I came across your channel I enjoyed it. I found it weird because everything you did was definitely not for the demographic that I represent. I never understood why I liked your videos so much, but I guess now I know. I liked the stuff that you made. So if you are ever scared of changing the type of content you make, just remember that there is a huge number of people in your audience like me who never had any connection to law and are interested to see your journey for the future. Good luck hope this helped! :)
I’m 28 and I gave up on my career after years of Misery and it takes a lot of courage, looking for a new role. I follow your videos and I love them so much. You make me feel way less alienated x
I remember briefly talking about this with you at an event in October - you mentioned how you loved the legal tech secondment / maybe pursuing it in the future,
Happy for you you’ve chosen your path!
Honestly in so many ways this really spoke to me. I'm studying to be an engineer right now and for the past couple years I've sort of just accepted the fact this is what I'm going to end up doing, given I've already spent so much time working towards it. And It's not that i hate it but I can't say I love it and I haven't really given myself a chance to consider any other possibility....but after seeing this I'm going to really try and explore and find what it is that I want to do. Thanks Eve, I love that you were brave enough to follow your passions despite the fears you had. I hope you know how inspiring that is :)
When I first read that title, I was quite surprised. Like you said, being a lawyer was kind of your thing to me as a viewer. Also the fact that you just got to what felt like the finish line and also starting point for that career last September. But actually watching this, I can relate. Last year, after finishing my Master's, I felt so lost and I still don't know where I'm going. Is creativity and creation a hobby or should it be the center of what I'm doing? I am about to start as a trainee journalist, if I am even taken, but I also just visited an online class about becoming a self-employed wedding planner, am in talks with a remote university about pursuing a PhD and researching representation for (queer) minorities in media, have contacted online media I enjoy about writing/editing/producing for them and always have, at the back of my mind, the idea that I want to "drop out" and start a UA-cam channel or write a book. 2021 was very hard for me and I am just now getting myself together a bit, starting counselling and enjoying art, performative as well as material, getting out of the unemployment slump I have been in for the last six to seven months and all the other stuff that has happened. And now, as you said, I'm not 19 anymore, but I still don't know how to answer when a potential employer asks me what my passions are and what I want out of life. When I was finishing secondary school, it was all so easy: I wanted to make people happy and leave a positive impact on this world. Definitely through parenthood, but ideally also through activism and art and creation. I guess I just need to find my way back there.
Honestly I am just extremely happy that you're doing what YOU want to do. I wish upon no one to be miserable in their position and staying because of external reasons. I also feel that a lot of the criticism people receive when they do a drastic change like this, is criticism from people who maybe would like to do the same thing, but are terrified to do so, that they don't believe they can so why should they believe you can. You are proof that people can. Anyways, I am so happy for you, and I will always support you regardless of what your career is!
This will help so many people see it is completely ok to change careers. At the point you are picking high school courses, even uni courses, you are so young and there are jobs that are yet to be created. Especially at this point in your career, when you have so much ahead of you, it is awesome that you had the courage to make sure it was doing something you love.
I struggled a lot coming to terms with not wanting to do law while studying law at university. Even now as I’m going into the third year I’m still not sure whether I should follow the career path my family expect or do something different that I may enjoy. It’s nice to have this acknowledgment so I know I’m not the only one feeling pressured :) love u eve :))
I've spent almost 10 years in the legal field! Get the degree and after that everything that follows to becoming a lawyer...I found it extremely difficult to change because of family and because of pride and ego like you said. Only after 10 years I had the courage to change...I am now in the graphic design field, learning a lot and couldn't be happier! You are not alone! Good luck! Love from Portugal 🇵🇹
Hi Rita, how did you transition into graphic design?
@@victorius6635 Hi! Honestly, I was so done with the legal field that I decided to just quit, started working in a chocolate store that I loved and decided to get a certification. It was a 1 year program where I learned the basics of all classes and we would finish with a portfolio to show.
'Terrified to leave'
I am currently struggling with this so much, I have become far too familiar in my current role and have turned down countless jobs through fear of change! I am 100% claiming the positive energy from this video and will try to manifest everything you spoke about 💖💖💖
thank you for letting us know, I think you're incredibly brave to let yourself go through this process of insecurity and fear in order to go after the things you realise are meant for you now. I wish you all the best!!
p.s was the croissant that bad
I’m a law student and i fell the same. Maybe i just needed your video to realize that law isn’t for me anymore. I just study law to help my parents in future because “lawyers gain a lot of money”. All that you said in this video help me to think who I am and to deal of the idea that I don’t want to be a lawyer. Thanks. (I’m from Colombia, sorry if my writing is not good as it should).
Your writing is really good, I hope you find what you want to do
are you still a law student?
Proud of you for being able to walk away. I wanted to be in the military my whole life, joined when I was 17 and kept convincing myself I loved it. Never felt so depressed in my life while I was in. Took pretty much a whole year in service to be able to walk away
I'm so excited for you, it took me until my 30s to start making side steps towards Tech, I'm an engineer so it's not so huge a jump, but I dealt with everything you talk about, the sunk cost fallacy got me hard!!
Life is full of duplicity, it's short so we should all do what makes us happy, but it's long enough that it's never too late!!!
We’re so proud of you, Eve. You’re wonderful and talented and smart and beautiful, and you will do amazing in whatever you set your mind to! You deserve to be happy and proud of your past, but hopeful and even more excited for you future. You have grown so much over the past few years and I am so proud of you. Your happiness is what matters above all, and we will support you no matter what you do
Eve!!! Thank you for your vulnerability. As someone who “lost” three years of university education because of a change in major, this definitely resonates. Oddly, your channel has always been about *you* to me, since I never had intent to study law. i just loved your personality and the content you make so I stuck around, and always will :-)))) here’s to a new chapter stepping further into ourselves!
Thank you Eve; I have, silently, followed your path during all these years, alongside I was building my own in IP law. Now I am finally studying for the Italian Bar Exam, which is going to be in 2-3 months max, and I'm already panicking about what's coming next, what if I like much more other things to do in life. Well, I don't know what's gonna be, but your courage and strength empowered me for sure to be the best version of myself, no matter what. Thank you for sharing, so much
Buona fortuna!
this is actually really comforting to me, as someone who looked up to you all through my time in bristol law, and then decided after finishing my degree that law wasn't for me. it's nice to know I'm not alone
As someone choosing their masters rn and feeling super lost I can't tell you how reassuring this video is, thank you so so much
The timing of this video😭 Eve, thank you so much for being a source of inspiration and comfort. I spent years as a high school student dreaming about studying law & also watching your law videos. Then I actually started studying it and after half a year I realized that I didn’t want to work in the legal profession at all. I loved studying law but I started to hate the idea of having to work in it. So, I quit law and I’m now starting my new degree next week, computer science!! I couldn’t be more happier and I now truly feel my studies and future career will fulfill me. Even though my “ investment” wasn’t nearly as big as yours, I can relate to the sunk cost fallacy. You’re really someone to look up to, for the courage and determination of making hard choices to just become happy in life. Thank you! I can’t wait to see your channel blooming into your true self🌸🌸🍀🤞
Eve, you are so inspirational. I’m currently in my first year of a maths degree and I’ve hated it ever since I started. I’ve wanted to leave but have been pressured by my family and teachers to stay because it’s what I’ve worked really hard for up until this point but my heart just isn’t in it, my mental health has completed plummeted and I just don't feel like I have a purpose at uni. This video has really helped me understand that it *is* okay to quit something and I can’t wait for my new chapter because I'm now in the process of dropping out. I’m so glad that I’ve seen your whole journey from university to now and I can’t wait to see what the future holds for you! 💓💫
This made me cry, cause I’m going through the exact same thing. I watched you since the beginning. I was at uni at the same time as you, i was studying CS and I could relate to you with your enthusiasm about what you were doing/studying/working. I haven’t found my calling yet but I know this role isn’t for me anymore and the pride and ego part was super relatable
Wow I went from Law to CS. What are you doing now if you don't mind me asking 😅
@@deadgoblin4 still a developer but I think I want to get into UX now.
this is so incredible to me. like i've always looked up to you anyway, and then your coming out and now this?? it's so so validating for me to know that other queer women that are a little older than me go through everything that i always feared i would go through in the future and then come out of it this happy & victorious. thank you so much for sharing, and for making life seem a little less scary.
Im 24. I spent my many years in creativity. Exploring all sorts of creativity. I started off as a designing student but decided to go to law school last year. Couldnt be happier. Creativity is still a part of me. You should do what makes you feel yourself. Happy for you!
as a college girl in stem who once wanted to do law from the bottom of her heart - i’ve been waiting for this video since i saw your post on linkedin! it’s a constant challenge for me personally because linear progression is tough when stem doesn’t come “naturally” to you, not as much as the skills that come with studying law might have, which is tough on the ego/pride! so thank you for this video, you are a legend & inspiration as always 💙
what are you studying in stem? Why can't you study law?
Saw this a day after it was posted. I followed Eve for a few years now because I, too, had a “wanna be lawyer” phase and her study ethics rlly inspired me. I loved how great her personality was despite being a great law student before. Last year, i stopped wanting to become a laywer because I was a creative writing junior and was so in love with writing and artistry. The more I thought about law school, the more I felt sad because I was going to leave this creative world behind. I stopped watching Eve because I didnt want to feel bad about what i felt. And now she posted this, this video came to me at a perfect time. In the Philippines lawschool admissions are starting and im wondering if im missing out. This video kinda told me that it was okay. Eve was like the universe’s message to me to pursue my passions and stop worrying about the title of being a lawyer. Idk, i just really love you Eve, you really are an inspiration to me. I wish you the best!
Hi! I’m from the Philippines too! As an ex-law student, you really have to want to go to law school. Enough to make so many sacrifices.
It’s funny, now that I think of it, I loved the law. I even honestly still do. When I was in law school, I kept failing a lot of my subjects despite the fact that I have worked so hard and studied so hard. Initially I thought I was the problem. So kept ploughing on. Eventually I decided enough is enough, and left law school. And I have never felt so relieved in my life. I went to graduate school instead.
I know that I am in a better place now. I never regretted going to
Law school. I have learned so much and made so many friends and wonderful memories, yes. But I am ready to do something that can also make a difference, and I know I don’t have to be a lawyer to do that.
To be honest I accidentally found Eve’s channel because I wanted to be a really effective student in grad school. Her video on making first class notes have been a huge help! 😊
The best thing about law school is that it’s always there. Take enough time to decide if you really want it. Trust me, if you want it, and if you are meant to be there, the universe will conspire and make it happen. I didn’t even go to law school immediately after graduating from college. I worked.
@@layla-talmedina5733 omg, first of all, hi po! I hope youre doing okay now despite the pandemic. I cat explain how much I appreciate your message, ate! Its just so scary to be in that phase where you just finished college and you feel like you hav to do something immediately! But, you’re right, there are so many tracks we can take and still do something impactful.For sure, I’ll explore all the opportunities there is for me and just try to be happy while finding that thing that’s meant for me! I hope youre living your best life right now po! Thank you for this inspiring and sweet message! (Hugs! 😭🥰)
Studied four years in university in what I thought was the dream job for me, ended up hating it and being unhappy but sticking with it and hoping one day I would enjoy it - graduated and decided to do something completely different in order to be happy and it was the best decision I’ve ever made :) it was hard and it took time to figure out what I wanted to do, but now I think I’ve found a job I could happily do forever! Listen to your gut and remember it’s your life so it doesn’t matter what other people think :)
What do you do now?
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I’m 3 weeks away from qualifying as a barrister and I’m right here with things.
I do not regret the effort and time put into this career path because how I have a world recognised qualification and have gained so many skills that will be beneficial in most, if not all industries.
But I resonate with your comment about putting so much energy into a career that ignored your creative talents.
I am a photographer, a published writer, can edit videos, I can make clothes and started polymer clay jewellery 2 years ago.
I had time for none of that once I started pupillage. And since being on this journey towards qualification, the closer I got to it, the less time and energy I had to dedicate to the other aspects that make me, me.
I took a holiday for a break (as I was severely burnt l out) and when I came back it’s like a light bulb had been switch on.
This just came up in my recommended and I'm very grateful. I am in the same boat as I am drifting away from my current job which is all I wanted to do and something I've put the last 6 years into. Last year was my flop year. I am still finding what I want to do and I hope this year will be happier for me. I've a lot a pressure to continue at my job as it's seen as exciting and impressive which is a nice feeling but it isn't making me happy anymore. I'm so happy that you seem to be so secure in your decision and it gives me some hope for myself. All the best to you
I have watched many of your videos. This is the happiest and most genuine I've seen you look. You almost look relieved to be doing something you enjoy.
great you could do it now … and that you have the clarity. I quit at 43 after having worked as an in-house counsel for 18 years ( but the work was hectic and diverse enough to be like a combination of corporate and litigation law firms). And now am doing something else entirely. But I loved watching you study and you were so effective. Also no skill is ever lost, so it was time well spent. Best wishes for the future.
u should make a podcast. You have great ideas and thoughts on different things (and topics). SO proud of you Eve
Oh my god yes this is what I needed I always thought I was going to be a vet nurse so I went to college and then half way through my second year I got to go back to work which was being a waitress at weddings and for a whole summer I was hands on in the weddings and I grew to love them and I realised when I got back to college this wasn’t what o wanted to do so I took the leap and left my course and now I’m going to be going onto an apprenticeship as a wedding planner with my boss so take that leap you may not know where your going to land but you will always land on your feet ❤️❤️
this video is so comforting. I used to watch your channel for motivation in my first year of uni as a neuroscience student that wanted to go into veterinary medicine, but last year in my 3rd year I decided I'd make the switch to art and animation and im so much happier 😭 its crazy to see someone who I looked up to making a similar decision and in a silly way makes me more confident in my decision. wishing you the best!!
blown away by how well you’ve articulated and worded all of the thoughts in your head. you can tell it’s not been easy for you to get here. so proud of your bravery for pursuing what you know is right for you, despite traditional expectations. love you & your channel Eve - you’re pretty damn awesome
Love to see that you’ve made a move that’s best for you. A few months ago I saw you in Kew Gardens and wanted to say to you how much I look up to you but didn’t want to disturb you. I thought about changing my career recently as well but at the time I was in a job that didn’t give me much room to grow. I’m about to start a new job in the same field so I’m going to see how it goes. I’m keeping an open mind, maybe I’ll love it and continue to develop my career in that direction or maybe I’ll realise that’s not what I want to do. I’m just excited to see what’s to come 🙂
I always had a feeling you were going to fall into the creative aspect and I’m really proud that you have! Well done, as it must have been really hard and humbling to admit to yourself and others that law isn’t what you want to do anymore, and that’s okay! ❤️
I changed out of law in my final year of studying last year, so I know exactly how you feel - literally checking the boxes with each of your reasons. I remember starting out my law journey watching your videos, writing down your study tips and excited over your progress within the legal career. It's fascinating because if I rewatch your older videos, I remember what I was like back then too. Grateful you've shared your story and excited to see what comes next!
Thank you for this video.
I also resigned from my job as a lawyer after being a solicitor for 2 years and a total of 9 years in the legal journey.
I don’t know what the future holds but I am excited for it.
I didn’t click on this expecting to relate, but I did so. Much. Went thru something similar over the pandemic with a whole career change after four years of working towards a goal and felt all the things you described. Thanks for sharing this!!
Thank you for being so raw and honest with us. Also just for the record we don't watch you because you're 'a lawyer' we watch you because we love you! Best of luck with the future ❤️.
I'm so proud of you Eve! The level of self-awareness and thoughtfulness is inspiring. I'm excited to learn more about your career journey and individual growth. We're all here for you at the end of the day
i love all the changes you’re making towards the betterment of your life! i’ve been watching your videos since you were in bristol and it’s been cool to watch you open your life up to us. im in law school in the us, so i understand how scary it can be to turn back after investing so much and it’s reassuring to know life doesn’t blow up if you decide to leave for something else 😭 i really love it when ppl pivot their yt channels from a specific focus to who they are as a person. super excited for whats to come!!
thank you for this! i've spent 4 years hopping from role to role trying to figure out what i want to do, and finally this year I've found that role that like you said makes me feel electric i tend to beat myself up about my lack of progression since i see lots of people around me getting promotions when I've made countless side steps but this video has made me feel a lot more at peace, i have learnt loads from each company, good and bad and if anything it makes my experience so much more diverse than if i had stayed in the same place from the start
This video was so so relatable, especially when you spoke about how specialised careers usually have a very linear progression, however even if you digress from that path, you’re still valid. As a law student from a different jurisdiction who found this channel due to law in generality, I stayed around because of your personality. Your words hit home as I sit here utterly confused and fearful of the future, someone who genuinely doesn’t know who she is as a person. I am grateful that I saw this video today, and I wish you lots of success on this new career path!
Thank you for this honest video, I think it was very brave of you to say this and do what you did. 💕 following your heart is never easy but I think it will alway be worth it.
As someone who trained in a field who's been soul searching for what they really want with life, this video couldn't be any more relatable. Thank you x
i am going through a very dark journey in the last few years and I genuinely think that this video is just what I needed to hear. I hope that I will also have the courage that you had to find your true self.
it made me sad when you said you felt like you might be letting a lot of people down, if anything its made me feel like I don't HAVE to use my law degree, and if I get into practice and it isn't for me then I can do something different, especially with what you said about the transferrable skills learned as a law student. thank you
Eve, I cannot express enough how much I needed a video like this.
In 2021 I also had to take a step back, stop for a while to understand what I wanted to do and where I wanted to go. I let go of an academic journey, of a possible career I had invested years, time and money on, because I realised I wasn't happy anymore. I had let my value and my self coincide with career and academics and I was feeling profoundly trapped. As you said, there is so much more to us than what we study and what we do for a job. Now I am on a new trajectory, at times I am scared because what I am doing now is pretty far away from my comfort zone, but I am learning a lot of new things and, most importantly, I am rediscovering myself, my creative side, my hobbies, the person I am when I am not studying/working hard to achieve yet another milestone.
Change is tough, it is scary, but I think that, as we grow, we are bound to change at some point, because we are constantly becoming a different version of ourselves.
Sending you lots of love from Italy! 🌻💛
I really needed this video. I'm in the final year of my engineering degree and I have to make some big decisions on where I want my career to go, if I want to stick with engineering or move in a different direction. The sunk cost fallacy really hit me, because I have invested so much time, pain and tears into this degree, so it feels like a waste to go somewhere else. Thank you so much for being honest, it must've been incredibly hard to make this decision, but you chose what was best for you, and I find that so inspiring!! This has given me that bit of courage I need to take a risk and know if it doesn't pan out that I'll still be okay! Can't wait to see where your new journey takes you!!!
Hearing your journey is so exciting! I enjoyed hearing your experiences as a law student, but I'm really eager to hear about your evolution/character development and career change to something that more closely aligns with your values. Congrats on the growth and this new career path, Eve!
It's great you had the courage to take this step! I think it's insane we are expected to know that one thing we want to do as a job and not experiment with different career paths
Hi, Eve- I'm a lawyer in the USA who thought of quitting many times. Seems like I just stumbled on your law school videos 1-2 years ago so it's surprising that this video just showed up on my youtube. Good for you to be able to quit and pursue your true passions! You'll do well wherever you channel your energy!
I love that this is such a common trend now. I got my undergrad in engineering. I decided my second to last semester that I wanted to pursue theatre instead bc I have always loved it. I’m in a masters program for theatre now!! If anyone is hesitant to take the leap, you got this! ❤️
I have had a similar experience with choosing between what I'd started and what people wanted me to finish, versus what I was actually really passionate about and what gave me energy
You are such an inspiration, how you are deciding to prioritise your own happiness above expectations ~ still working on it
From the first time I clicked on your law school vids before, you continue to prove that people on the internet are just as the same as everyone else. Thank you for being a 100% genuine on the internet. ❤️❤️ we'll always be behind your back cheering u on ✨🍂🎉
You were THE person I looked up to when doubting my law career. I just started my own pet care services company last year after leaving a terrible work environment. On February 1st 2022, I withdrew from my studies to pursue my company full time because it is doing so successful that I am overwhelmed with how busy I am every single day. I am so happy and grateful every morning I wake up. The timing is insane. You’re going to do amazing, and you always were Eve ❤️ all the best from Canada ❤️
I quit law school after being in it for 3 years and I can absolutely relate to you. If there is a big part in us that tells us we are on the wrong track of life it's a sign of our internal guidance that we are meant to do something better. ❤️
I've felt that my whole life. I am in my 3d year of law and questioning my choice, but I am 28 and I don't know what I could do to earn an income in another way right now. Law school + working extra takes so much of my time and energy that I don't know how I could learn another skill/trade right now... I have dreams of writing a novel but it I'm scared to give up on law.
One of your videos helped me with my LNAT, and now in I’m in my second year of uni panicking about what’s after law school, and again you’ve helped me at a really scary time of my life. So thank you!! You don’t need to be a lawyer to have an impact or to help people. Looking forward to everything you do next! God bless xx 🥰🥰❤️❤️
this is incredible. whatever career you're in, you're doing such a great job with everything and so many people, myself included, can relate to many parts of this. super happy for you !!!
Hey eve, first of all I just want to say you’re very brave. Changing is a very hard thing to do . I am incredibly happy to say that you gave me courage to withdraw from law school. Even though I’m just finishing my first year in law school but my passion for law vanished long ago and hate to admit that was real. I hate change because it really bring you out from your comfort zone. Pretending or force to like something that you don’t actually like is really unhealthy. I am proud to say I’m pursuing a path I really love which is writing. I hope that anyone that need that words of encouragement. Change is scary but it is worth it.
Watching this video one day after I applied for masters in Eng Lit, after getting into Bar last year. What a coincidence, just when I was over thinking everything and wondering how'd I tell my parents about this decision of not being an advocate anymore your video popped on my feed. This is a sign. 🌼
You have no idea how much re watching this video has done for me! It has really put things into perspective for me!
This is so inspiring. I’m a second year law student and watching my friends scramble for a vacation scheme and training contract pressured me into doing the same, but I know that my heart isn’t in it, and there’s another career that I’m far more interested in pursuing. Pride, ego and sunk cost fallacy plays such a big part in a specified field like law, but I hope to move forward into something different that better suits who I am today and not who i imagined to be when I was 16 when I decided to go to law school.
SUBSCRIBED! This is the first of your videos that I've stumbled across and I resonated with so much of it. I quit my job as an Actuary in 2020 and so much of what you said you felt rings true with me. Not wanting to throw away the years of hard work for highly specialised exams, then realising that it wasn't a waste of time because the skills I'd learned in the job were highly transferrable, especially. I ended up going into Digital Marketing which is something I'd never envisaged myself doing, because like you said, certain subjects are valued more highly in our education system than others, so we force ourselves to become round pegs when really we're square pegs. I'm so glad you found something that's more authentic to who you are as a person, thank you so much for sharing x
I feel like so many of us needed this video. I'm turning 20 this year and am going into my 2nd year of studying psychology but have no idea if it's right for me at all. Thank you Eve for showing us that it's okay to make a leap to do what we feel is best for us - and that it's okay to change our minds about things. xx
I'm about to start my 10th year of studying psychology and sometimes I still wonder if it's right for me 😂 I'm going to give it a go as a career, but this video gives me comfort that everything will be okay even if psychology turns out not to be right for me.
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i say this every time,, but the cinematography omg,,, tech 100% seems like the best move, i'm so happy you're happy
I really get where you’re coming from. I studied law and realised, that I would never be happy with myself, no matter how much time and energy I invested. I let my social circle drift away and was basically a shell. Then I exmatriculated Uni and I’m currently in my second year of my training of being a police officer - my life really has changed but definitely for the better. Much love from Germany ☀️
I subscribed many years ago because of an interest in the journey to being a lawyer - I stayed because of the wonderful creativity in your vlogs. I’m old (52} but your words are causing me to pause & think. All the best Eve & I’m looking forward to the creativity release in 2022 (& beyond). Kevin.
we missed you 💛 remember every accomplishment starts with the decision to try, and you are happy which is what counts
When I say I relate to you 😭😭😭
I wanted to study design initially but due to peer pressure and the whole society around me decided to go with law even tho I knew it wasn’t me however I have realised it as well and I decide to go back to what makes me happy and grateful , and I am so glad that more of us are putting happiness and mental health above .
MORE POWER TO YOU
Twenties aren't about succeeding, they're about setting yourself to succeed. To make mistakes, learn what you like and what you don't and now is the best time to learn and do that. Keep going, you can do this!
this is honestly the most helpful thing i've read in a while, thanks
@@bookishgem No problem!
@Oliva Robusto Not immature at all not my fault you can't see the bigger picture.
exactly!!! no time spent learning anything is time lost or wasted, whatever you spend your time doing it makes you into who you are, no matter what you do or don't end up doing with it. the job i had wasn't my dream job, but choosing to quit and go back to school wasn't something i ever saw myself doing either. until i did, and i'm loving it so far. i'm just going with the flow at this point. i don't even have an end goal. the goal is just to be enjoying myself now, and feel good about what i'm doing now.
I love you so much, Eve. And I'm so proud of you. Back in 2019, I was looking for youtuber lawyers cos I wanted to become one (tho that went out the window, lol) and I found you.
The more I watched your videos, the more I loved you for more than just you being a lawyer. You have such a beautiful peronality and your creativity here has inspired me so so much you just don't know.
Idk if you'll even read this, but yeah. I just thought I'd let you know since I usually don't comment.
We're here for you.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Omg Eve I honestly relate. In September I started first year at uni doing law and I realised how quickly it wasn’t for me and how unhappy it made me, despite wanting to be within a legal profession since I was 11 years old. Now this coming September, I’ll be doing Film and TV production because similarly I thrive doing something creative. I’ve hardly done anything relating to this subject at all except doing a daft short film with mates and I thoroughly enjoyed it. However, I always pushed the thought of a creative subject away due to pressures from school. Just goes to show how schools and society push school students into a ‘traditional’ or ‘intellectual’ jobs, instead of supporting students with their ultimate passions or supporting them in something they’ve never tried before. So thank you for sharing this, it’s a relief to relate with someone and I’m glad you’re happier! x