Now that I understand this, all I want for him is to be less stressful and for him to know I'm his safe place and I really appreciate him for everything he's done and keep on doing for me. 😘😘😘
It goes without saying but I am not implying you need to have sex with your partner if you don't feel like it; this video is simply about understanding how men's nature works
Guy Tells All this is amazing. Can you please transcribe or put in quotes the part that talks about judgement and labels please. It would be great to see it in words. Ty
Can men not be sensitive that when a woman is feeling so disturbed or stressed that it is a kind of selfish time to ask for sex, more about the man only?
@@FreeJulianAssange23 i'm actually 3 people: me, myself, and I! wow! anywho, no one ever died without sex, therefore it is not a need. logic. learn some breathing exercises. :)
@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 a need is not necessarily something you must have to "not die" a need is something you need to fonction properly. You can stay alive but not fonction properly.
@@Yuno08888 no, a need is something you must have or you will die. no one needs sex to function properly. quite the opposite, often. SEX IS NOT A NEED OR ELSE RAPE IS JUSTIFIED. think. use brain.
the things that you are saying makes sense..but 1 person can't be their partner's savior..that's why both individuals need to be whole in Jesus Christ before entering into a relationship..God bless you..your channel is very honest
I agree with you! Love your comment. I thought I was the only one who didn’t see this as a compliment. This guy in the video is telling women that their vagina is their man’s savior/safe haven/life stress reliever & the women are eating it up as if it’s a compliment to them. I don’t see that as a compliment at all. When have men not used sex(women’s vagina) or drugs and alcohol to relieve them from their own unmanaged emotions and life stresses and used Jesus instead?
The problem is that the end of a ''man's stress' is often the beginning of the womans. This guy has obviously never had a boyfriend-he doesn't understand the stress put on women to have sex when they don't want to. An adult needs to learn to destress themselves instead of laying that on an SO or spouse. A woman is not a bong hit or a punching bag.
Wow you explained this beautiful! I never thought about things like this before... As a woman it’s often so frustrating to me because it seems like guys always have that on their brain... Thank you for the explanation
Hi Jad i know its been a while since u made this vid - which i thought was very insightful 👍🏾 ...i wanted your opinion on this, in the case of "non relationship situations" eg. If 2 people are not established yet having sex - are u still their "safe haven"? or does their want for you take on a different meaning? Hope that makes sense :)
A very important question and I don't know if it was attended to. My reply would be that if someone is in a situation where they need sex for whatever reasons then the right and safe place for it is matrimony. What are your thoughts?
I get it. Im hearing words like “rejuvenate” and Im thinking that men need to understand the spiritual aspects of what you’re saying. After “recharging” yourself inside your woman, just make sure you are pouring that same energy back into her when she needs it most.
Ummm~ ur advise is good, and thank u! But I think there’s a blind spots. For example, we women know intuitively when he wants sex v truly feeling love toward her thus have sex.
Mmmm i undestand its ok but... if i am stressed i just cant feel like it,so.. i cant take it as a compliment if it is not Both undestanding their sexual diferences...
So, tell me this....What have you come to realize about your mate, wife, partner, etc... It is nice to hear you express and speak out for most men (I'm agreeing); however, it would be nicer to hear you tell men what you learned about women in this... Appreciated and TY for sharing.
Females are hard to deal with because you guys are emotional creatures and have high expectations for men majority of the time. Men are simple most of the time and females aren’t, sorry to say but it’s the truth 🤷🏽♂️
Herre has been my 2 cents for the past few years. In 1 in 100 on the gender likes it, it is a personal preference. If 95 in 100 of the gender likes it, it's most likely biology and a needmore than a treat.
Even if it’s a good thing, When you do to much of that good thing it always becomes a problem including asking for sex too much especially at times 2 adults need to be talking & coming up with solutions to real life problems. So the way you do that/ handle adult life issues and stress is to hide in your partner’s vagina/use her vagina to relieve your stress. Men need to grow their own vaginas then if that’s the case, or find more healthy mature ways to handle their own emotions & stress instead of using women to escape their emotions and life stresses. That’s one of the world’s mental problems, too many men are always using women in some kind of ways or drugs & alcohol to relieve them from their own unmanaged emotions or life’s stressors instead of seeking spiritual & professional help. It’s way past time for men to seek Jesus & professional mental help on how to handle life and their own emotions.
Grow up, it’s called biology men have a higher sex drive than women due to testosterone. If you don’t have a penis you will never understand what men go through and it’s not our fault. That’s just the way Mother Nature made us 🤷🏽♂️
I'm so glad I heard this! I started to doubt if my man is only using me for that type of intimacy, but turns out he is just trying to love me in the way he knows how
Thanks for sharing. I have a few questions. What if my boyfriend doesn't care to please me in bed. He get what he wants and finish fast. Whenever we see each other and if we happened not to make love that day, which is rare. He would text me after reminding me we didn't make love today. I feel like I am obligated to give him sex. There is times I just don't feel turn on for it and I still do it for him, so in turn I felt disrespected when he text me about it. Is that a bad relationship or I am thinking too much?
thats bad\ toxic relationship honestly, if he doesnt ask you how good you feel about the sex or what satisfy you and try to please you than that is just plain sexual relation for him as
I really do pray he’s not your boyfriend anymore. Sex is for producing babies & pleasure and that pleasure is for both parties involved PERIOD. If you aren’t enjoying it then ask yourself why tf are you participating in it? Much love and two way pleasure in your future ❤️
I really appreciate this video it gives me a better understanding on this. thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic you do not see to many videos on this. You can tell that your being sincerer on this too not just making this up and that helps me to believe and apply this. Thank you again it really does help give a better understanding. I am new to your channel and looking forward to seeing more. 😁
don't even listen to his garbage. Men coping with stress by using their partner is disgusting. Only immature men cannot cope with daily life and turn to a woman's vagina for "release".. Men can masturbate.
I think WOMEN have the weight of the world on OUR shoulders because we have to Work & pay the bills Equally because men today want a woman to make her Own financial way. Women have to bare the kids & take care of the kids and do the cooking for the ma’am & kids. We have to do pretty much all the cleaning / house keeping. What weight do men decide to carry? I’m sorry but I feel like these new age men are NOT providers & they want Equality. they want to be Equal to women and that is a problem
And also, new age woman holding back and acting clueless and then when a man throws his hands up and gives up, suddenly he is a coward who gave up on love. But trying to connect, suddenly he is a manipulator who only wants sex. All I want is someone who wants me back, at the same time that I want her. Insted I fell in love with a girl that shows interest, but when I show mine she acts clueless. Then when I take the hint of clueless, She suddenly draws hearts in my notebook. Then I ask her out 3 times only to get "Im bussy" responce, and then its my fault I asked another girl out, cause apearently that counts as me breaking her heart, cause I left her for another
I never one's had sex but i will tell you I'm very stressed and i hide it everyday and every moment. But i hurts alot so i have to keep working and pretend everyday day its ok? But its not its very painful even when i laughs with other's I'm in pain even when i smile I'm in pain even when they ask me if I'm ok i pretend im fine but in truth i feel like a raging dragon in my heart and soul?
@ankra12 what are you kidding me those people will jump off the roof and commit suicide before I'm done talking? Besides those people can't really help you? They profit and gain after your suffering so why even bother talking with them?
Well said. I see it as a workout to help recharge the brain and kill the stress also. im single so its like when I go out to bars and theres tons of women Idont seem to want it as much because I'm already relaxed having hot food and a beer
Now that I understand this, all I want for him is to be less stressful and for him to know I'm his safe place and I really appreciate him for everything he's done and keep on doing for me. 😘😘😘
nicely said...ever since l dont have sex and relationships, l am thriving in all aspects of life...lm a female.
It goes without saying but I am not implying you need to have sex with your partner if you don't feel like it; this video is simply about understanding how men's nature works
Guy Tells All this is amazing. Can you please transcribe or put in quotes the part that talks about judgement and labels please. It would be great to see it in words. Ty
That problem is stressful 😣😣😣. He always wants sex! I don't want to have sex all the time but I understand your video.
Something wrong with your hands
Quit making excuses
But y'all don't care about female nature🍒🍑... We like men just don't want/need his nasty 🌰🍆🌰
High respect to you for helping women with actual facts👍🏼
I've heard my man say once that it's a great stress release for him and other times hes said hes really relaxed. 😊💗
Thanks for the understanding. This is one area where sexual frustration occurs
ok pick me
Can men not be sensitive that when a woman is feeling so disturbed or stressed that it is a kind of selfish time to ask for sex, more about the man only?
U haven't watched the video i think
@@hackerbhau1709
I'll bet diamonds vs doughnut holes that she did not.
.now i know i am his oasis in the desert...very informative video! 😊
Sex is not a need, sorry. When you're stressed, it's time to focus on yourself and fix your problems.
You are one person.
@@FreeJulianAssange23 i'm actually 3 people: me, myself, and I! wow! anywho, no one ever died without sex, therefore it is not a need. logic. learn some breathing exercises. :)
No one died without sex u uneducated dum fuck
@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969
a need is not necessarily something you must have to "not die"
a need is something you need to fonction properly.
You can stay alive but not fonction properly.
@@Yuno08888 no, a need is something you must have or you will die. no one needs sex to function properly. quite the opposite, often. SEX IS NOT A NEED OR ELSE RAPE IS JUSTIFIED. think. use brain.
the things that you are saying makes sense..but 1 person can't be their partner's savior..that's why both individuals need to be whole in Jesus Christ before entering into a relationship..God bless you..your channel is very honest
I agree with you! Love your comment. I thought I was the only one who didn’t see this as a compliment. This guy in the video is telling women that their vagina is their man’s savior/safe haven/life stress reliever & the women are eating it up as if it’s a compliment to them. I don’t see that as a compliment at all. When have men not used sex(women’s vagina) or drugs and alcohol to relieve them from their own unmanaged emotions and life stresses and used Jesus instead?
@@nicknation9114 Thank You... 🤗 🙏📿🛐🕊️✌️☮️🏳️
This is THEE BEST description of a sexual relationship, I've ever heard put into words❤❤❤
Interesting you use the word Oasis in your videos...my boyfriend is the only guy who's ever genuinely fallen in love with me and he calls me that
This is nice
Sorry but you're absolutely wrong. It depends entirely on the person whether it be a man or a woman. You're just speaking for yourself here.
The problem is that the end of a ''man's stress' is often the beginning of the womans. This guy has obviously never had a boyfriend-he doesn't understand the stress put on women to have sex when they don't want to. An adult needs to learn to destress themselves instead of laying that on an SO or spouse. A woman is not a bong hit or a punching bag.
Wow you explained this beautiful! I never thought about things like this before... As a woman it’s often so frustrating to me because it seems like guys always have that on their brain... Thank you for the explanation
It seems good to judge and separate yourself from alot of people, but not who you love, and who loves you.
Hi Jad i know its been a while since u made this vid - which i thought was very insightful 👍🏾 ...i wanted your opinion on this, in the case of "non relationship situations" eg. If 2 people are not established yet having sex - are u still their "safe haven"? or does their want for you take on a different meaning? Hope that makes sense :)
A very important question and I don't know if it was attended to. My reply would be that if someone is in a situation where they need sex for whatever reasons then the right and safe place for it is matrimony. What are your thoughts?
I get it. Im hearing words like “rejuvenate” and Im thinking that men need to understand the spiritual aspects of what you’re saying. After “recharging” yourself inside your woman, just make sure you are pouring that same energy back into her when she needs it most.
Ummm~ ur advise is good, and thank u! But I think there’s a blind spots. For example, we women know intuitively when he wants sex v truly feeling love toward her thus have sex.
His advice sucks.
@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 thank you... You are the first to say this....
gross....I'm not having sex if I'm constipated or not in the mood.
Mmmm i undestand its ok but... if i am stressed i just cant feel like it,so.. i cant take it as a compliment if it is not Both undestanding their sexual diferences...
So, tell me this....What have you come to realize about your mate, wife, partner, etc... It is nice to hear you express and speak out for most men (I'm agreeing); however, it would be nicer to hear you tell men what you learned about women in this... Appreciated and TY for sharing.
Females are hard to deal with because you guys are emotional creatures and have high expectations for men majority of the time. Men are simple most of the time and females aren’t, sorry to say but it’s the truth 🤷🏽♂️
You are preaching to the Choir My Brother.👊🏼👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Herre has been my 2 cents for the past few years.
In 1 in 100 on the gender likes it, it is a personal preference.
If 95 in 100 of the gender likes it, it's most likely biology and a needmore than a treat.
Thank you 🙏
hey I am going to get married soon when get back from I am a woman and my job is a flight attendant I just wanted to know is sex hurts for a woman
No is good for man and woman
Thank you! I really needed to hear that. 💕
DOPAMINE
I don't think I want to be used for stress relief.
Thank you Sweetheart. I like your Humility. I feel it in your voice. Love...Peace
You are such a Beautiful HUMAN BEING!!!!
Even if it’s a good thing, When you do to much of that good thing it always becomes a problem including asking for sex too much especially at times 2 adults need to be talking & coming up with solutions to real life problems. So the way you do that/ handle adult life issues and stress is to hide in your partner’s vagina/use her vagina to relieve your stress. Men need to grow their own vaginas then if that’s the case, or find more healthy mature ways to handle their own emotions & stress instead of using women to escape their emotions and life stresses. That’s one of the world’s mental problems, too many men are always using women in some kind of ways or drugs & alcohol to relieve them from their own unmanaged emotions or life’s stressors instead of seeking spiritual & professional help. It’s way past time for men to seek Jesus & professional mental help on how to handle life and their own emotions.
Grow up, it’s called biology men have a higher sex drive than women due to testosterone. If you don’t have a penis you will never understand what men go through and it’s not our fault. That’s just the way Mother Nature made us 🤷🏽♂️
So true.
Very true
I'm so glad I heard this! I started to doubt if my man is only using me for that type of intimacy, but turns out he is just trying to love me in the way he knows how
Thanks for sharing. I have a few questions. What if my boyfriend doesn't care to please me in bed. He get what he wants and finish fast. Whenever we see each other and if we happened not to make love that day, which is rare. He would text me after reminding me we didn't make love today. I feel like I am obligated to give him sex. There is times I just don't feel turn on for it and I still do it for him, so in turn I felt disrespected when he text me about it. Is that a bad relationship or I am thinking too much?
thats bad\ toxic relationship honestly, if he doesnt ask you how good you feel about the sex or what satisfy you and try to please you than that is just plain sexual relation for him as
@@ayubseeed Thank you
I really do pray he’s not your boyfriend anymore. Sex is for producing babies & pleasure and that pleasure is for both parties involved PERIOD. If you aren’t enjoying it then ask yourself why tf are you participating in it? Much love and two way pleasure in your future ❤️
@@nicknation9114 thank you! I already broke up with him. It was a relief!
@@dreamingoftravel465 I apologize for the lost... And your heartache... 💔... I hope all's well... 🛀🛌💅💆♀️💆♂️🧘♀️🧘♂️💐🌹🌷🥀🍵🥗🥘🍎🍊
I really appreciate this video it gives me a better understanding on this. thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic you do not see to many videos on this. You can tell that your being sincerer on this too not just making this up and that helps me to believe and apply this. Thank you again it really does help give a better understanding. I am new to your channel and looking forward to seeing more. 😁
don't even listen to his garbage. Men coping with stress by using their partner is disgusting. Only immature men cannot cope with daily life and turn to a woman's vagina for "release".. Men can masturbate.
So true!!
Makes me miss my LDR man.
What happened?
Helped a lot bruh!!
So true!❤️🔥💯
Thank you so much I definitely needed to hear this from a man’s perspective 😊
I say sometimes to my gf for doing sex but he reject this she did not like sex
Wow sex is deep topic thanks a millions. super helpful.keep the excellent work.give us more videos.
thanks
Why dont you use your hand
Much respect for this man. Very insightful information.
GOOD VIDEO...HOPE THIS HELPS SOME WOMEN
That's why many men go to bars, brothels, etc.
I think WOMEN have the weight of the world on OUR shoulders because we have to Work & pay the bills Equally because men today want a woman to make her Own financial way. Women have to bare the kids & take care of the kids and do the cooking for the ma’am & kids. We have to do pretty much all the cleaning / house keeping. What weight do men decide to carry? I’m sorry but I feel like these new age men are NOT providers & they want Equality. they want to be Equal to women and that is a problem
I mean, blame feminizm for equality
And also, new age woman holding back and acting clueless and then when a man throws his hands up and gives up, suddenly he is a coward who gave up on love. But trying to connect, suddenly he is a manipulator who only wants sex. All I want is someone who wants me back, at the same time that I want her. Insted I fell in love with a girl that shows interest, but when I show mine she acts clueless. Then when I take the hint of clueless, She suddenly draws hearts in my notebook. Then I ask her out 3 times only to get "Im bussy" responce, and then its my fault I asked another girl out, cause apearently that counts as me breaking her heart, cause I left her for another
Men don't care about a woman's income
I never one's had sex but i will tell you I'm very stressed and i hide it everyday and every moment. But i hurts alot so i have to keep working and pretend everyday day its ok? But its not its very painful even when i laughs with other's I'm in pain even when i smile I'm in pain even when they ask me if I'm ok i pretend im fine but in truth i feel like a raging dragon in my heart and soul?
What about therapy?
@ankra12 what are you kidding me those people will jump off the roof and commit suicide before I'm done talking? Besides those people can't really help you? They profit and gain after your suffering so why even bother talking with them?
Truth 🙌
Superb
Interesting 🤔
Wow this video was very helpful well done buddy I really appreciate 👏 👍 😀
I don't disagree
Let me guess the bus driver gave him a hard time on the way home, or his wee gamer friends got nasty, mummy don't like you
Well said. I see it as a workout to help recharge the brain and kill the stress also. im single so its like when I go out to bars and theres tons of women Idont seem to want it as much because I'm already relaxed having hot food and a beer
You got everything in your 1min
Well said!!
That's why I think Men need to have more than one Wife because Women are too darn stubborn.
Why not pay for a prostitute or buy yourself a sex toy.