This is spot on. The minute they think you can take or leave them, their whole demeanor changes. It seems like when you're not a challenge, they feel some kind of obligation to be with you. If you're busy and enjoying your life, they find you irresistible. Alex, do you think they do this on purpose or is it unconscious?
It’s not about games honestly. You should always stay a Challenge just naturally. Have your own life, own dreams, not answering him right away like hes your everything. Many women change when they like a guy. Actually they become not themselves
Alex you're incredible! You hit the topic right on the spot! Brilliant tips shared, Thanks! ... However, Ive observed that men who often have these strong 'control traits' are oftentimes 'Avoidants' (particularly Dismissive Avoidants). Everything you've described in this video reveals the dance between myself and my boyfriend of 4yrs(I just discovered he started out as a Fearful Avoidant but he's transformed to a Dismissive avoidant 😏)... How will I be able to sustain this 'challenge strategy' long-term to a lifetime partnership, after we get married and he keeps up with his hot and cold attitude in our relationship?... I'm worried about this.. Please respond. Thanks!
I was married to an avoidant for 25 years... didn't realize then he was an avoidant, but I know now. I never had a chance because I didn't know during this marriage
I just wanted to say that the man that I care about I've known him since I was 16 we liked each other back then but neither one of us knew it it but now here I am 71 and hes 75 and when we really started talking again because I've been talking to him on and off for 10 years I express how much I liked him and thought that we would really be good together he backed off so I took your advice and I became distant I didn't text him I told him I didn't like to text he started calling me now he calls me every day sometimes twice A-day and what I had told him is that 1 time when I didn't answer this text he said oh you're not talking to me and I texted him back and said I look I don't sit here by my phone and wait for you too Text me and I said I'm not in love with you I do like you but I have things to do I don't sit by the phone every day and wait for you and ever since then he has changed and I've just become more myself and more relaxed around him and Now he is coming to visit he lives 2 States away and I just want to thank You for teaching me to stand in my own power To be distant at times and to be myself
Hi there! If you want to book a one on one coaching session with Coach Alex, you can do so using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Sir I have a question,what f he send massage to me And wishing me gud luck,then great me a happy new year ,saying he miss me?I want our relationship back again..Do I need to send him back a massage?
9:50 a.m., my ex and I have been playing cat and mouse for 4 years he acts hot and cold, and they he stay away . I feel he is playing me, and I give him all the space to him. I stop calling him, stop texting him, and stop planning time together. I feel there is a connection with us, but what I don't know. We lived together for 9 years and been apart for 10 years. He knows how I feel, but all I get from him he scared of getting hurt again. I did hurt him, we have made our peace, but no cheating was involved
Just love yourself too much, and not be afraid of giving ,but be alert to sense when a man is taking advantage of you, you have to be available to detect any sign of bullshit ,even a small one , pay attention to it and that's when you take an step back .
A guy will not approach a woman unless he finds her attractive so yes, at first they all look for sex. But nobody speak about the fact that us, women need and crave sex as much as men. Our bodies are not a card to play with to get a guy, control him or punish him. Why nobody talk about our bodies having needs! So, speaking from my experience, 30 years old, never been in real relationship. Mostly because every time I get to know a guy better, less I like him and therefore, attraction fades and when they keep pursuing, they become pushy and it pushes me away. So my point is, had I never gone for it in early stage of dating when I actually liked the guy and been attracted to him, I'd have been a virgin until this very moment and as I mentioned before: yes, I want love and intimacy the best but I also want and need sex in it's pure form. I have finally got to the point where I can have physical satisfaction without getting emotionally attached and hurting after it didn't work out. There was, so far only one person that I had strong feelings for and it's been 3 years now since we split. I miss him and being in his arms again is desire but even tho I had many opportunities to do so, because I am emotional attached to him I am not able to just sleep with him and go on with my life. So when it comes to him, I stay away. It is very rare for me to fall in love so waiting for love to enter my life so I can experience physical pleasure would be a life filled with frustration.
I see your point but Thats not the true in most cases. I only had sex with guys i ended in a relationship with. Because i waited to see if they wanted me and i was a Challenge. Maybe you seek the wrong guys
*Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.*
This is spot on. The minute they think you can take or leave them, their whole demeanor changes. It seems like when you're not a challenge, they feel some kind of obligation to be with you. If you're busy and enjoying your life, they find you irresistible. Alex, do you think they do this on purpose or is it unconscious?
Short answer: Boundaries.
Hello Alex from Greece !! Thank you for helping us so much !!!
Thank you so much for watching!
3:29 4:00 5:00 7:00 stay in control by remaining a challenge 👑
Thank you so much for watching!
It takes a skill to be feminie, receptive and submissive yet staying a challenge for them 😉
Too much work 😂
So basically guys want the challenge/chase all the time. Relationships full of games
I THINK SO. I'M DONE. THAT IS JUST TOXIC!! THEY NEED TO GROW UP!!
Single is better
NO, it just means have a life LOL. Dont make some dumb man your whole world. its not good FOR YOU and men obviously dont like it either.
I am done.🤷🙅🤦
It’s not about games honestly. You should always stay a Challenge just naturally. Have your own life, own dreams, not answering him right away like hes your everything. Many women change when they like a guy. Actually they become not themselves
Lovely news to my ears
Hello I'm Zainab from Sierra Leone I'm enjoying your coaching ❤
Best wishes for a wonderful 2023! ❤️🤗
Best wishes for you as well!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Many thanks ❤️
Game On, Alex! Most relevant video for me from you. Thank you.
Yup less
Of everything makes him wants me even more lol it works!
Alex u r great thanks
Thank you so much for watching!
Alex you're incredible! You hit the topic right on the spot! Brilliant tips shared, Thanks! ... However, Ive observed that men who often have these strong 'control traits' are oftentimes 'Avoidants' (particularly Dismissive Avoidants). Everything you've described in this video reveals the dance between myself and my boyfriend of 4yrs(I just discovered he started out as a Fearful Avoidant but he's transformed to a Dismissive avoidant 😏)... How will I be able to sustain this 'challenge strategy' long-term to a lifetime partnership, after we get married and he keeps up with his hot and cold attitude in our relationship?... I'm worried about this.. Please respond. Thanks!
I was married to an avoidant for 25 years... didn't realize then he was an avoidant, but I know now. I never had a chance because I didn't know during this marriage
mr Alex thanks so much for this video iwas looking for it i watch your videos from Dubai 🙏
Nice advice...shout out
Thank you so much for watching!
thank you alex and happy new year!
You're always welcome! Happy New Year to you too!
Thank you
Thank you so much for watching!
I love how practical you are ❤️👍
Thank you so much for watching!
Very Happy New Year Coach Alex😇😇🥰🥰🥰.
Happy New Year to you too!
You are very good Alex Cormont
Hi Alex from Trinidad
Vos vidéos viennent tjr quand j’en ai fort besoin Merci 😭👌👌
Tenx dear..
great video
Thank you so much for watching!
Alex dis is for me, d one I love is, treating me,
Thank you so much for watching!
I couldn't ,the pain was too much .so l broke up with him.but lm still missing him.
Hello Alex i love you teaching
Thank you so much!
❤️❤️❤️thank you
You're always welcome!
Please turn up the volume
I just wanted to say that the man that I care about I've known him since I was 16 we liked each other back then but neither one of us knew it it but now here I am 71 and hes 75 and when we really started talking again because I've been talking to him on and off for 10 years I express how much I liked him and thought that we would really be good together he backed off so I took your advice and I became distant I didn't text him I told him I didn't like to text he started calling me now he calls me every day sometimes twice A-day and what I had told him is that 1 time when I didn't answer this text he said oh you're not talking to me and I texted him back and said I look I don't sit here by my phone and wait for you too Text me and I said I'm not in love with you I do like you but I have things to do I don't sit by the phone every day and wait for you and ever since then he has changed and I've just become more myself and more relaxed around him and Now he is coming to visit he lives 2 States away and I just want to thank You for teaching me to stand in my own power To be distant at times and to be myself
Question.... So if you get married would the same sort of behaviour apply? Like constant cat & mouse?
Yes, always remain a challenge. They need to still continue to earn you.
Thank you Alex, how can i have a personal conversation with you ??
Hi there!
If you want to book a one on one coaching session with Coach Alex, you can do so using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
But ty for your passion
Thank you so much for watching!
Well it's too late I already pushed him away and he pushed me away a long time ago.
Soo, is there a period after dating I could finally be my real normal loving self?
Good morning sir
I did all of this I f finally broke it off he never contacted me
Thank you sir I Ned this one..very helpful for my Healing process from break up..
Thank you so much for watching! I'm always happy to help.
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Sir I have a question,what f he send massage to me And wishing me gud luck,then great me a happy new year ,saying he miss me?I want our relationship back again..Do I need to send him back a massage?
9:50 a.m., my ex and I have been playing cat and mouse for 4 years he acts hot and cold, and they he stay away . I feel he is playing me, and I give him all the space to him. I stop calling him, stop texting him, and stop planning time together. I feel there is a connection with us, but what I don't know. We lived together for 9 years and been apart for 10 years. He knows how I feel, but all I get from him he scared of getting hurt again. I did hurt him, we have made our peace, but no cheating was involved
I'm sorry to hear this! Are you still going through this?
I give him nothing.. I remain cold ... not that it works although he is my house
Bonjour Alex,
Vous êtes en France ?
hello
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Mm this is ok, but you can tell more and then you will get more likes.
Thank you..
Just love yourself too much, and not be afraid of giving ,but be alert to sense when a man is taking advantage of you, you have to be available to detect any sign of bullshit ,even a small one , pay attention to it and that's when you take an step back .
Thank you so much for watching and for your input!
Yeeeeees this is what i am doing right now. I went to greece living my life and he is on fire confused😂😂😂
So after we do this when do we actually see them lol?
I don’t disagree. It just seems like modern day relationships are a Machiavellian struggle. Not a mutual partnership. Why bother?
Too long to wait find another guy
How do I get a guy to start send me pitcher of him and tex again after it stop
Single is better
A guy will not approach a woman unless he finds her attractive so yes, at first they all look for sex. But nobody speak about the fact that us, women need and crave sex as much as men. Our bodies are not a card to play with to get a guy, control him or punish him. Why nobody talk about our bodies having needs! So, speaking from my experience, 30 years old, never been in real relationship. Mostly because every time I get to know a guy better, less I like him and therefore, attraction fades and when they keep pursuing, they become pushy and it pushes me away. So my point is, had I never gone for it in early stage of dating when I actually liked the guy and been attracted to him, I'd have been a virgin until this very moment and as I mentioned before: yes, I want love and intimacy the best but I also want and need sex in it's pure form. I have finally got to the point where I can have physical satisfaction without getting emotionally attached and hurting after it didn't work out. There was, so far only one person that I had strong feelings for and it's been 3 years now since we split. I miss him and being in his arms again is desire but even tho I had many opportunities to do so, because I am emotional attached to him I am not able to just sleep with him and go on with my life. So when it comes to him, I stay away. It is very rare for me to fall in love so waiting for love to enter my life so I can experience physical pleasure would be a life filled with frustration.
I see your point but Thats not the true in most cases. I only had sex with guys i ended in a relationship with. Because i waited to see if they wanted me and i was a Challenge. Maybe you seek the wrong guys
Not true wtf 😂😂😂😂😂
You're wrong :-)
❤❤ looooove you
Thank you so much for your support!
Good morning sir