This is my most favorite video on UA-cam!! I love it so much.. As a slightly plump woman who has been rejected by a couple of men who chose the skinny shoe collecting self obsessed taker over me. This video made me cry at the thought that there are men out there that see beauty from within and want that.
Awe.. Don't cry.. You do not need men like those.. At least you found out early that those are the kind of men they are.. Remember when you feel bad that you have to tell yourself that "it is me that have to look into the mirror".. That was their lost not yours.. So smile Dear :}
LOL Thank you Con Nnie for your nice comment. I have been building my confidence for a while after all that past stuff. I will not let it happen to me again. I am who I am :)
These guys didn't reject "you" 'cause they didn't take the time to get to know you. If they had taken the time to get to know you, they would have realized that you're a great person. Their loss, someone else's gain. The same thing has happened to me a few times and when I looked back all I can say is "I dodged that one! Whew!"
Yes I see that now so agree with you Elizabeth's Calender. Through every bad experience I become better.Therefore my boundaries and what I accept for myself also changes for the better.
Yes we'll said. I found a man as my life partner. I had acne, pigmentation that makes me look ugly and he was never judge my outer beauty. He loves me the way looks I am and you know what now he's love makes me get rid of all my skin problems and look more beautiful, he totally changed my life, he gives me an awesome life. Sorry for any mistakes in grammar, I don't have fluency in English. Thank you.
When you first meet someone your not going to see the true person that's not reality. They may be nervous or have 100 things on their mind. Give the person a chance and if after the 3rd date you still see they are not showing compassion then move on. We are all human and it takes time to get to know someone. Good luck every one.
Totally agreed! Just because a woman likes to look beautiful outside doesn't mean she's ugly from the inside. They judge you without trying to know you first. That's disrespect. I have tons of friends who are compassionate from the inside and beautiful from the outside. This is wrong thinking. Very wrong
I'm so happy that there are still guys in this world that realize that looks are not everything and that a pretty girl can become ugly from her personality. Every girl has beauty but an amazing personality can make a not so pretty girl, beautiful. More guys in the world should realize that because eventually looks will fade and you will be stuck with their personality.
and what about girls, not that im talking about every girlon the planet, but like in mi school, im in 12th gradeand like theire are girls that are like beatifull 10, but when you get to now them theur personalities are not what i thought, and with that ive benn single all mi life, i havent had 1 girlfriend, and everyone that i know has,and also that in mi class the girls are more attractive too guys that are well, strong, popular, etc. and im well, dont have a lot of friends, im a gamer and i like anime, so not 1 girl in my class would be interested in me
I agree. Character Vulnerability Loyalty Honesty My sweet man isn’t 6”4 with a washboard for his abs. Neither am I a movie star my any stretch ..... We get one another. He is the gentlest gentleman I’ve met . His goal is to make me happy whatever it takes. My role is to recognize that and reciprocate in my own way . Not the material things matter so much but his gentle heart .
First I thought you were a little stiff and creepy, but then you opened this vault of emotion as you described your idea of beauty and I was blown away. Thank you for reminding me whats important.
I am a compassionate person, narcissist and users saw me a mile away. My ex pretended to be compassionate too just long enough to hook me. NOW my compassion will be reserved and given those who are not trying to manipulate the gift that God blessed me with. Be careful ladies use WISDOM over compassion or you may end up fighting to restore your life.
True compassion shouldn’t be reserved to specific people. God wants us to love all. Did God ever treat others differently? No. He showed compassion to all even those that tormented Him. Don’t let another person influence what your heart feels. That speaks of their character, not yours. Be careful yes, but always give love and compassion to all around you as that is what God wants from all of us. To love one another as you love yourself.
I liked the way you said it; so gentle and kind, not all men want like you ,some good hearted women are treated, used, abused and treat us like shut no respect
YOU ARE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL AND HIGHLY SPIRITUAL MAN WHATEVER WOMAN GETS YOU WILL BE BLISSED. THANK YOU FOR YOUR BEAUTIFUL SOUL. HAVE A GREAT AND AWESOME DAY.
I believe all teen girls are naturally like what you described but from experience they get taken advantage of and then that innocence leaves as they develop into a woman. So we have to act tough to protect and guard ourselves from predators.
Wow! I am amazed at your insight! OMG...you have the wisdom of a much older man. I imagine that every woman falls in love with a heart like yours. Thanks for showing us what a REAL MAN can be. nameste
I loved his presentation.. I thought he was spot on in many ways . But one thing that women or men has to be aware of is the love and compassion that your giving sometimes it's not being received" and you have to know when to just move on.. And hopefully be able to give in that way where it's being appreciated. Because people unfortunately do take advantage of kindness as a weakness.
Everyone is beautiful. Its what you make of yourself that makes someone beautiful. Take care of your well-being, display confidence and show love and compassion. That is what really defines beauty in this world. The only thing stopping someone from being beautiful is what they believe or perceive themselves as.
@@АлиАли-л8в2ь That's dependent solely on the individual. You can choose to be a follower or a leader. Many people stand out both bad and good for their individuality. In my opinion, as long as your individuality is deemed good, righteous, healthy, respectful etc. people tend to gravitate to it with positivity.
@Michelle Sithole No, speak for yourself. For me the only looks that matter to me is how you present yourself, and what makes you you(your personality etc). And by present I mean hygiene, hair, wear, and confidence. One thing I learned about being in the modelling industry, everybody is beautiful. You just have to genuinely care for yourself and wear the sleeve that proves it. That's why I don't model anymore.
Some men want someone deep but they're not going to get it on the first communication. Most of the time that someone asks how was your day the common answer will be "it was fine, thanks". No one will say "I fed 20 homeless people" or "I thought of my departed mother when I saw a lady wearing a coat at the grocery store and I cried". That's TMI. Most women will not open up like that on a first conversation and may not do it until they've gotten to know the man better. I think guys go for looks initially and will stick around a woman they think is hot until he finds out she is a biotch.
First ever thanks for sharing. Value a person for who they are and not what they have. People will hurt you but it's a part of the learning, testing and pruning process. A beautiful woman is not seen only with the naked eyes. Beauty fades, a tender heart can easily be seen by a praying man/woman connected to his father. A beautiful compassionate woman are reserve, you will not find them shopping. These woman keep themself busy caring for others and observing what next I can do to make this world a better place.
Ladies I completely agree with this guy, Im a happily married man of 10 years now. He is right that men see women differently than you do. When a man sees a woman and he is interested in her looks dont matter very much at all. When I met my wife it wasnt her looks that attracted me it was her personality. Even before that the most beautiful women I met had nothing to do with their looks. When men want sex we only look at looks, when we want more we dont care about looks.
Dont care about looks... Oh, please. Why you guys say such things only to please women, or impress them? Of course we care about looks, but not JUST looks!
Thanks, I feel that I'm the woman you've described as having compassion, one who shines and one with soft heart. Keep on inspiring women with soft heart!
Do not try to be someone else. God made us to be who we are. Don't try to impress others. If they don't like the way you looks, Too Bad!!! Be yourself, be compassionate & have a good heart, love life that’s how God created us. Do things that will make you comfortable & happy...Life is short, it's up to you & me to make it sweet. Life doesn't require that we be the best, only that we try our best👌👍Blessings to All🙏🤝✌☄☄☄☄
@@evanescencelight6767 the Bible says only fools say there’s no God, the main reason for this is because of how much of sin they indulge, so they alienate their mind from God. Anyhow I’d love to hear your thoughts on this argument FOR Gods existence or maybe you can even disprove it and tell me how science debunks God ua-cam.com/video/XjHhtWL_3Og/v-deo.html
If he is man he can't be gentle and should not be.... He should be hard... Also if he is gentle he is not man.... Sorry to disappoint... He is she.... I mean she has to be gentle... Woman.....
I am the same. Tend to fall in love for broken men, that end up hurting me. We have a saying in my country that good people have no luck. I see it true over and over. I see these women grab some good guys then cheat on them and be such bitches. Sometimes I say I wish I could be more mean, bitchy but can't. I tend to be so honest. This guy speaks the truth for 50 years ago. People look at aging as ugly, meekness as weak. Whatever.
Same here, i always gave everything i have, i have no reservation, because i believe that is true love, giving and loving him...but i always end up hurting...
@@blackwidowotilia What hes trying to say is compassion comes before attraction, and love has no age limit. You can feel just as good about yourself at age 50 as you can at age 20, if your a compassionate person without a big ego.
This is literally the best video on youtube which describes real beauty... This is exactly the advice I was searching for! Thank you for being so honest... This brightened my day!
Wow, I am a 62 year old woman. This was amazing! It's what I needed to hear. While I look just fine I feel men have overlooked my stronger qualities such as depth and compassion.I wish I'd met more men like you! Thank YOU.
Sorry - don't agree. He judges this good looking girl so harshly on what came out of her mouth. Perhaps she was just nervous - it doesn't mean she doesn't have compassion and isn't a nice person. I think he should lighten up!.
Wht ur saying is so true but its not the same for 90% of guys. What they need is outer beauty only, they have nothing to do with women’s heart or kindness or their behavior or innocence :)
Definitely goes both ways. Us females feel the same way about men. They could be so attractive, handsome, fit and as soon as you hear them start talking. Its all about him. Turn off!!! I enjoyed this video he has a very good point. Looks is not everything. Which shouldn't be confused with not taking care of yourself. We can't just say ok I'm going to eat whatever I want even tho its unhealthy and not exercise. Beauty comes from caring for yourself mind, body and spirit. I like this video.
Ive met men who asked me they dont know why their failling in love i told them before he chooses a woman he should see and choose her for Her honesty Loyalty Compassion Kindness Giving Calmness Positive Careing Loving Integrity Morals Values
The physical apperance of a person is what we noticed first, we tend to be attracted to people who are good looking but actually being beautiful isn't the one that gets you a guy. Always remember that character is the most important thing that every woman should have because it's the only thing that won't fade in time.
So profound... :) Most people say self-confidence is what men really likes. Compassion? Wow, this is the first time I heard from a man. I love the heart connection part. What comes from the heart goes to the heart...love it! Thanks a lot!
Wow yes Wow I just tuned in to this amazing , beautiful , caring , loving , handsome man...inside and out! You made me cry. I am 64 years old, I am still looking for my amazing man. I have all those things I want to GIVE to just one man. Its hard, but I keep trying. I see and have been taking notes, studying you know with Adam Adole, and many others, but YOU have blown them all away, with just your few inspiring words. I will follow you, to the very edge.. and hopefully learn...thank you so, so , so , so much, God bless you. Sally
That is a really great point!! I think chemistry matters to a certain extent, but....a heart, a person who has passions, a person who is striving for something, a person who cares about being a good person, and a person who stimulates me intellectually is very very important as well. If that is not there the physical attraction is GONE. I was raised by men in my family that told me LOOKS ARE EVERYTHING! SO I REALLY APPRECIATE THIS VIDEO FROM A MAN. I remember thinking if that was true I am not sure if I even want to find a man. I mean I have been told that I am good looking to others, but if that is ALL that matters that is a total turn off.
Hi, thanks for the reminder! Sometimes I get the "pull away" issue when I like someone. Probably out of fear of rejection. But if I focus on compassion and being my genuine self it doesn't matter, regardless if it is returned or not. Inner beauty should be shared. Just like in this video :-)
Being a beauty Queen and a sister of 4 brothers who climbs trees (still) I do confirm this line of thinking men want inner beauty inside out. It makes the outside look better no matter the outside. A woman who is deep, thinking polite and well read who appreciates people in general and life.
Omg!!! That’s the first time I’ve heard that compassion is the most beautiful thing guys want in a woman. Amazing!! My male friend, not quite my boyfriend yet, knows how much I respect him and he knows how compassionate I really am. The feeling is mutual so I quess I’m doing everything right!!
That is awesome that you can see that in people. I don't think all guys are like you unfortunately however you yourself are an inspiration and if you spread this kind of deepti and insight to the world I hope other guys catch on. Xox
Are you married now? Your video was in 2012 and it is now 2019! I know you must have met your Ruth! Because you are truly a Boaz.....compassionate, genuine, kind-hearted, respectful, honorable and humble! Should I say more? 🤗
Thank you. This is so reassuring. I love it that you think and feel the way you do about what beauty and attractiveness really is. I hope women hear this and start cherishing this in them more, we all lack more compassion, warmth and deep connection in communication and less superficiality, fakeness, and selfishness. Thank you so much again, this is just lovely
Is that why so many men fall in love with me in the first week. The downside is them being possessive, controlling and trying to dominate me. Then when I want out they keep calling me. Why I stayed covered up. I do set boundries. I just want to feel safe with a man again emotionally.
Love is light and when you are love and when you are compassion you are light and then you shine and when you shine people see you!! Thank you this is exactly what it is thank you!! so much!! you rock!!!!!!!!
I believe we are a reflection of those we meet and the reason you can feel others love is because you're full of love yourself. Thank you for sharing your knowledge of what real love looks like.
Thank you for this. You’re so right about compassion. We all need to show compassion, whether we are men or women. Maybe the reason it’s so attractive is that compassion is probably the same or similar as unconditional love...just a thought 🤔
Buyer beware... If you buy this con job you will attract guys that have endless wants . Best you find someone that knows the value of a fair exchange in all aspects of life. Love, like, respect etc are earned by the people you choose to have in your live. Don't thow your pearls to the swine. Proceed with caution.
Hello Jad... You are just the sweetest person that I have met in a long time.... Your heart and your mind are simply beautiful....I have 5 sons my oldest is 33....I love each and everyone of my beautiful sons...they too have standards simular to yours. They love there mom with there whole heart and soul....I tried to educate my son's to treat all people equally with consideration patience understanding compassion friendly and approachable....I didn't want my son's to fear women instead they make pretty good buddies.....if I don't say so myself.... I am so pleased to have stumbled on to your site.....yes yes yes the whole world needs a little love, a little understanding, a little patience, having an open mind, and quite simply .... We all need to treat others they same way that we would like to be treated and understood. Good work....keep it coming..... Namaste Mary
Thank God. A guy speaking something sensible. . Apart from sex. . Don't know abt other guys . But your idea for a beautifull girl just blew me away. Good looking guy speaking beautifull words. . Wow.
I don't know dear dude if ure the only one on this planet...im this person you say lv light compassion. ..i had only narcissist experiences from all men i came across...i then realised we must be discerning and learnt to mind only whats my business.both men and woman cld be anything far from what they portray. ..so we keep our selves , our heart and nature to preserve ourselves..save the pain trauma cheat lie...and be real in this fancy cruel world. Truth prevails..lv heals...compassion helps. Self responsibility protects and provides. Ty for your speech. It was like a movie dialogue.
you know, i felt so guilty, realising that i fell in love with you (online) in the first instance....today I'm happy that i did because i found guy (real life ) which has the same values as you....thank you, dude, for speaking out-you're helping us!
You are so profound and compassionate too and you can not be more right !! it's is from the 💕that you have to speak from ....I am so touched thst you are talking about this beautiful way ...to younger girls ...I will share it with other ladies .Sending you .Namaste ,light & peace ..
Your voice is so profound!!! Love it! My man is younger by a lot . I am not rich. What he loves me about is about my heart; my passion for advice and nature and the way I take care of him even at a long distance . We have been in LDR for 9 months. He is a keeper for me and he is talking about me like you describe a woman.
Guys are easily attracted to beautiful women but being beautiful doesn't mean in physical appearance only. It's so important for women to possess a good character because it will make a man fall in love with you even more. Don't worry if you are not that good looking for as long as you have a compassionate heart to love someone and every guy would be chasing after you.
I just felt like you were speaking about me... I am exactly the type of girl you are speaking about... I love giving without expecting anything in return. I'm born with this nature.
Such a Great Video ! And absolutly True...But i have one Thing to add to this ..A women WHO Really Are compassioned and soft and Kind and These Kind of Things a Men often will feel insecure and dont cherish her Kindness he will find her such as Boring if she Will Never give u a Contra and just Be Kind and Soft...i Hope u Know what i Mean
That was so true...being compassionate and empathetic is so important for every person not only females...it is only where you can feel the heart....You're good-looking...
Your opinion is Extremely valued and touched my heart. The men I've met I actually did give my heart to, unfortunately, I found that those men were only looking for a badge, and were not truly willing to be honest with them.selves, cause when we broke up, they never saw their mistakes and the a year or two later, they admitted what I said when I left was true, apologised, and I just cry cause what waisted energy and I'm still single. Personally, theres not a lot of men like you. Do you have a single uncle I can talk to? Lol, well anyways, go love your girl boy, love her hard and stay close. Great advise sweety, much ❤
I appreciate your main message of compassion and personality, but I don't see what's wrong with saying "My day's good. I was just going shopping. Omg, I was going with friends ..." It seems rather shallow to judge a person on nothing but a few sentences of brief small talk.
You cant say that 90% of men are not like this. In my opinion the majority are like this once they are mature enough and ready for a serious relationship. If you think all men are jerks then maybe you should try looking at the other men. Obviously you are attracted to the jerks since you think 90% of them are jerks maybe you should approach some decent guys. The jerks will become gentlemen once they find the one!
This is higher level stuff here. A lot of men are also not compassionate at all so they would not be attracted to women like this because they don’t even recognize what it is- they mistake it for weakness pretty quickly and move on to the women who act like bitches to cover up their own insecurities. Human Beings- in general need to cultivate a deeper character and get in touch with their souls but not just to find a man. I could say the same things on my channel but just direct it towards the Ascension which is now happening on planet earth that the majority is still unaware of. In fact- I’m going to do an entire series on how to cultivate a character and yes, suffering is essential for this as well as opening the heart chakra. People who have a closed heart chakra are not capable of feeling this deeply. Great Video. You’re cute and real💗
Hi there : ) I really appreciate the sentiment of your video. From a realistic standpoint though, I will say this. You lost me at the point that you said men want us to give and give and give. Unfortunately, so do sociopaths and narcissists. I know this is your deal, but let me add a tip for those who keep giving and giving and giving to no avail. Stop. If someone doesn't want what you have to offer, move on. If you feel uncomfortable trust your intuition. Do not harbor negative vibes from other people. When its genuine it will feel good. You wont keep wondering what he wants you wont keep giving and giving. Be kind, be authentic. Be happy with exactly who you are as a person and self asses because you want to and when you want to create goals and vision and ultimately follow through. BeYOUtiful. You don't have to be a glow-worm to be happy. Happy women remain at ease. That is the key. ( I will watch the rest of the video now: ) Thank you. You are very sweet and I love your romanticism.
Sierra Castro Wow.. very insightful and important words indeed. You are absolutely right. Some women have a problem of not knowing when to stop giving.. I have overlooked this in my video.. I will definitely make a video soon addressing the topics you have so wisely elaborated on above. Many thanks
I also was triggered when he expressed this in that way , having had hard learning experiences of giving with no reciprocation . However I felt that his heart was flowing in an energy that felt real and grounded so I continued to listen and feel the essence of what he actually is conveying . Which for me really brought things back into perspective. Being in the dating world at 47 I really needed this reminder that it is my compassionate essence that is most desirable . The man of my desires will walk beside in this vein ... with ease ... it also reminded that ... that these are exactly the things I find most beautiful in a man ... i have this saying ... I will know it when I feel it. I found it super interesting that you mentioned Vocal tonal qualities because I absolutely do this ... I can tell much about a person by the tone of their voice. As you described it , it made sense that the higher pitch would be more head based because the energy has not traveled through the deeper resonance of the heart , for whatever reason in that person’s life . I think it is important to note that this does not devalue the person as a human being. It just means the resonances are not in alignment . I saw a great tuning fork analogy on s Gaia movie the other day called the “ electrobody “ it showed how if you activate a tuning fork it will activate other tuning forks that are of the same resonance , without those forks having to be strike , but will not activate the ones that are of a different resonance . This being activated by another’s vocal tonal qualities I believe is a manifestation of this energetic .
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This is my most favorite video on UA-cam!! I love it so much.. As a slightly plump woman who has been rejected by a couple of men who chose the skinny shoe collecting self obsessed taker over me. This video made me cry at the thought that there are men out there that see beauty from within and want that.
Awe.. Don't cry.. You do not need men like those.. At least you found out early that those are the kind of men they are.. Remember when you feel bad that you have to tell yourself that "it is me that have to look into the mirror".. That was their lost not yours.. So smile Dear :}
That did not make any sense.. I am just saying.. Be happy in being you..
LOL Thank you Con Nnie for your nice comment. I have been building my confidence for a while after all that past stuff. I will not let it happen to me again. I am who I am :)
These guys didn't reject "you" 'cause they didn't take the time to get to know you. If they had taken the time to get to know you, they would have realized that you're a great person. Their loss, someone else's gain. The same thing has happened to me a few times and when I looked back all I can say is "I dodged that one! Whew!"
Yes I see that now so agree with you Elizabeth's Calender. Through every bad experience I become better.Therefore my boundaries and what I accept for myself also changes for the better.
Yes we'll said.
I found a man as my life partner. I had acne, pigmentation that makes me look ugly and he was never judge my outer beauty.
He loves me the way looks I am and you know what now he's love makes me get rid of all my skin problems and look more beautiful, he totally changed my life, he gives me an awesome life.
Sorry for any mistakes in grammar, I don't have fluency in English.
Thank you.
That's so beautiful! 💖 ☘️ 🌹 😊 👌
That's a one in a million guy 😀
You were NEVER ugly, you are NOT ugly! You are beautiful!
You are so pretty
"BEAUTY IS NOT IN THE FACE; BEAUTY IS A LIGHT IN THE HEART." ~KAHLIL GIBRAN
I agree! physical beauty fades, but who you are inside what matters.
That's right Terry ! 'A Beautiful Face will age, and a perfect body will change, but a beautiful soul will always be a beautiful soul. '
right on
Men will leech out everything out of the giver who even gives him a kid and then he runs after a woman who is half his age or hotter. Red pill.
Both help
When you first meet someone your not going to see the true person that's not reality. They may be nervous or have 100 things on their mind. Give the person a chance and if after the 3rd date you still see they are not showing compassion then move on. We are all human and it takes time to get to know someone. Good luck every one.
I agree with you.
Totally agreed! Just because a woman likes to look beautiful outside doesn't mean she's ugly from the inside. They judge you without trying to know you first. That's disrespect. I have tons of friends who are compassionate from the inside and beautiful from the outside. This is wrong thinking. Very wrong
I wish all men think like this gentleman.
I'm so happy that there are still guys in this world that realize that looks are not everything and that a pretty girl can become ugly from her personality. Every girl has beauty but an amazing personality can make a not so pretty girl, beautiful. More guys in the world should realize that because eventually looks will fade and you will be stuck with their personality.
***** yeah but you can stil be good person
and what about girls, not that im talking about every girlon the planet, but like in mi school, im in 12th gradeand like theire are girls that are like beatifull 10, but when you get to now them theur personalities are not what i thought, and with that ive benn single all mi life, i havent had 1 girlfriend, and everyone that i know has,and also that in mi class the girls are more attractive too guys that are well, strong, popular, etc. and im well, dont have a lot of friends, im a gamer and i like anime, so not 1 girl in my class would be interested in me
I believe that's what women find beautiful in men, too. Innocence. Compassion.
I agree!
Amber Gardner I agree. I think same applies for both men and women.
Amber Gardner so right!😍😍😍😍
I agree.
Character
Vulnerability
Loyalty
Honesty
My sweet man isn’t 6”4 with a washboard for his abs. Neither am I a movie star my any stretch .....
We get one another.
He is the gentlest gentleman I’ve met .
His goal is to make me happy whatever it takes. My role is to recognize that and reciprocate in my own way . Not the material things matter so much but his gentle heart .
@@gratitude5740 how beautiful. That would be like an incredible dream.
First I thought you were a little stiff and creepy, but then you opened this vault of emotion as you described your idea of beauty and I was blown away. Thank you for reminding me whats important.
looool so true! hahahah
hahaha i agree :P
This is a very cool dude.
I always imagine that I am a bright light in a dark dreary world...that's one of the most charasmatic things about me... my energy and compassion!
I am a compassionate person, narcissist and users saw me a mile away. My ex pretended to be compassionate too just long enough to hook me. NOW my compassion will be reserved and given those who are not trying to manipulate the gift that God blessed me with. Be careful ladies use WISDOM over compassion or you may end up fighting to restore your life.
You are right... 100% truth
True compassion shouldn’t be reserved to specific people. God wants us to love all. Did God ever treat others differently? No. He showed compassion to all even those that tormented Him. Don’t let another person influence what your heart feels. That speaks of their character, not yours. Be careful yes, but always give love and compassion to all around you as that is what God wants from all of us. To love one another as you love yourself.
I liked the way you said it; so gentle and kind, not all men want like you ,some good hearted women are treated, used, abused and treat us like shut no respect
Lets love God first and the rest will overflow from within us i.e compassion,love,kindness,light name them all and without Jesus its impossible.
Ya Jesus freaks are an immediate turn off.
❤️👍
@@steelman1506 I hate that term! And if it's true I guess I'm a turn off...I dont push my faith on anyone else but I do love The Lord!!!!
Amen !
Yes this is right first God first ok
I love the way he thinks but most men don't think that deeply .
your right nowadays its very few that man really care about our feeling as woman. but anyway nobody is perfect
Liz sings Yes.
dont give up Dawny cos Ive met lots of really nice guys with deep big hearts
my hubby is like this.
thats so true
YOU ARE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL AND HIGHLY SPIRITUAL MAN WHATEVER WOMAN GETS YOU WILL BE BLISSED. THANK YOU FOR YOUR BEAUTIFUL SOUL. HAVE A GREAT AND AWESOME DAY.
Love hearing a young man describe what is so important, the feminine essence and heart.
You're just one of the few men who has love and compassion. Few men do or understand its depth and knows not how to appreciate it
Good Job and thanks.
I believe all teen girls are naturally like what you described but from experience they get taken advantage of and then that innocence leaves as they develop into a woman. So we have to act tough to protect and guard ourselves from predators.
Wow! I am amazed at your insight! OMG...you have the wisdom of a much older man. I imagine that every woman falls in love with a heart like yours. Thanks for showing us what a REAL MAN can be. nameste
Rebecca Marina Messenger namaste
You're right, beauty can't be seen outside, it comes from the heart
I loved his presentation.. I thought he was spot on in many ways . But one thing that women or men has to be aware of is the love and compassion that your giving sometimes it's not being received" and you have to know when to just move on.. And hopefully be able to give in that way where it's being appreciated. Because people unfortunately do take advantage of kindness as a weakness.
agree
I was about to say the same thing
So true..... unfortunately......
Have to much he took everything from me
Elzy Arnold yes you are right.
If a girl is ugly but compassionate and innocent, men would never throw a glance on her. That's a tough world.
Everyone is beautiful. Its what you make of yourself that makes someone beautiful. Take care of your well-being, display confidence and show love and compassion. That is what really defines beauty in this world. The only thing stopping someone from being beautiful is what they believe or perceive themselves as.
@@iCurvaceous I agree but only to some extent. There're beauty standards we all fall for
@@АлиАли-л8в2ь That's dependent solely on the individual. You can choose to be a follower or a leader. Many people stand out both bad and good for their individuality. In my opinion, as long as your individuality is deemed good, righteous, healthy, respectful etc. people tend to gravitate to it with positivity.
I've noticed that man are more on looks
@Michelle Sithole No, speak for yourself. For me the only looks that matter to me is how you present yourself, and what makes you you(your personality etc). And by present I mean hygiene, hair, wear, and confidence. One thing I learned about being in the modelling industry, everybody is beautiful. You just have to genuinely care for yourself and wear the sleeve that proves it. That's why I don't model anymore.
My husband said what he loves about me it's everything..
Some men want someone deep but they're not going to get it on the first communication. Most of the time that someone asks how was your day the common answer will be "it was fine, thanks". No one will say "I fed 20 homeless people" or "I thought of my departed mother when I saw a lady wearing a coat at the grocery store and I cried". That's TMI. Most women will not open up like that on a first conversation and may not do it until they've gotten to know the man better. I think guys go for looks initially and will stick around a woman they think is hot until he finds out she is a biotch.
I agree
First ever thanks for sharing. Value a person for who they are and not what they have. People will hurt you but it's a part of the learning, testing and pruning process. A beautiful woman is not seen only with the naked eyes. Beauty fades, a tender heart can easily be seen by a praying man/woman connected to his father. A beautiful compassionate woman are reserve, you will not find them shopping. These woman keep themself busy caring for others and observing what next I can do to make this world a better place.
This is a real man. I wish most guys could think like him.
Ladies I completely agree with this guy, Im a happily married man of 10 years now. He is right that men see women differently than you do. When a man sees a woman and he is interested in her looks dont matter very much at all. When I met my wife it wasnt her looks that attracted me it was her personality. Even before that the most beautiful women I met had nothing to do with their looks. When men want sex we only look at looks, when we want more we dont care about looks.
Dont care about looks... Oh, please. Why you guys say such things only to please women, or impress them? Of course we care about looks, but not JUST looks!
Thanks, I feel that I'm the woman you've described as having compassion, one who shines and one with soft heart. Keep on inspiring women with soft heart!
Do not try to be someone else. God made us to be who we are. Don't try to impress others. If they don't like the way you looks, Too Bad!!! Be yourself, be compassionate & have a good heart, love life that’s how God created us. Do things that will make you comfortable & happy...Life is short, it's up to you & me to make it sweet. Life doesn't require that we be the best, only that we try our best👌👍Blessings to All🙏🤝✌☄☄☄☄
G.od is made up like Santa.
Amen
@@alanastone5241 then I’d love to hear your rebuttal for this argument buddy. If not don’t reply
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There’s no god but okay..
@@evanescencelight6767 the Bible says only fools say there’s no God, the main reason for this is because of how much of sin they indulge, so they alienate their mind from God. Anyhow I’d love to hear your thoughts on this argument FOR Gods existence or maybe you can even disprove it and tell me how science debunks God
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only one word..
A true gentleman
I think that's 3
"gentleman"
If he is man he can't be gentle and should not be.... He should be hard... Also if he is gentle he is not man.... Sorry to disappoint... He is she.... I mean she has to be gentle... Woman.....
As woman are gentle not man...... There is no gentleman if he is man.. Woman is gentle..... Man is hard...
Gentleman is not the opposite of hard. A gentleman is hard with whom he needs, but is also kind, polite, and honorable to others.
I'm too compassionate and too much of a "giver" and I continually get burned. Still haven't learned my lesson yet.
I am the same. Tend to fall in love for broken men, that end up hurting me. We have a saying in my country that good people have no luck. I see it true over and over. I see these women grab some good guys then cheat on them and be such bitches. Sometimes I say I wish I could be more mean, bitchy but can't. I tend to be so honest.
This guy speaks the truth for 50 years ago. People look at aging as ugly, meekness as weak.
Whatever.
Same here, i always gave everything i have, i have no reservation, because i believe that is true love, giving and loving him...but i always end up hurting...
Yes, I'm too compassionate, often call that I have good heart and I am a kind soul....still single.
me 3
@@blackwidowotilia What hes trying to say is compassion comes before attraction, and love has no age limit. You can feel just as good about yourself at age 50 as you can at age 20, if your a compassionate person without a big ego.
This is literally the best video on youtube which describes real beauty... This is exactly the advice I was searching for! Thank you for being so honest... This brightened my day!
Wow, I am a 62 year old woman. This was amazing! It's what I needed to hear. While I look just fine I feel men have overlooked my stronger qualities such as depth and compassion.I wish I'd met more men like you! Thank YOU.
I know this is November 13, 2019, but this man is SPOT ON! What a beautiful soul he is!
Today is December 13, 2019 on a Friday...A very Lucky Day!
Sorry - don't agree. He judges this good looking girl so harshly on what came out of her mouth. Perhaps she was just nervous - it doesn't mean she doesn't have compassion and isn't a nice person. I think he should lighten up!.
We need more males like him in this world!
I wish all men were like you
Amen God bless them all
Madridista Girl A Real Man
isn't he`s selling his videos right there?
you are a man thats why you value those things, but unfortunately there are so many boys out there. Tough to find a man nowadays.
Zahra Liang keep looking someones out there for everyone
Zahra Liang ur right
Wht ur saying is so true but its not the same for 90% of guys. What they need is outer beauty only, they have nothing to do with women’s heart or kindness or their behavior or innocence :)
True
@@ScholarlyAmbitions No, there's not.
We girls too want a boy who is compassionate n caring ...bt I met all selffish boys in my life till now ...
Hahahahaha real
It’s called the familiarity principle in psychology. You different guys? Hangout in a different group...
"That depth that I can dive into and enjoy."! His expression is priceless :) Well said!
Definitely goes both ways. Us females feel the same way about men. They could be so attractive, handsome, fit and as soon as you hear them start talking. Its all about him. Turn off!!! I enjoyed this video he has a very good point. Looks is not everything. Which shouldn't be confused with not taking care of yourself. We can't just say ok I'm going to eat whatever I want even tho its unhealthy and not exercise. Beauty comes from caring for yourself mind, body and spirit. I like this video.
You make me almost cry, Im a value woman and I feel happy listening a man talk in that way.
Simple be a lady and you get a good man or be a bitch and you get a bad man or no man at all...
Ive met men who asked me they dont know why their failling in love i told them before he chooses a woman he should see and choose her for
Her honesty
Loyalty
Compassion
Kindness
Giving
Calmness
Positive
Careing
Loving
Integrity
Morals
Values
Im a compassionate and a giver person, that is why i found my soulmate!
The physical apperance of a person is what we noticed first, we tend to be attracted to people who are good looking but actually being beautiful isn't the one that gets you a guy. Always remember that character is the most important thing that every woman should have because it's the only thing that won't fade in time.
best said.
Yes i agree
So profound... :)
Most people say self-confidence is what men really likes.
Compassion? Wow, this is the first time I heard from a man. I love the heart connection part. What comes from the heart goes to the heart...love it! Thanks a lot!
Wow yes Wow I just tuned in to this amazing , beautiful , caring , loving , handsome man...inside and out! You made me cry. I am 64 years old, I am still looking for my amazing man. I have all those things I want to GIVE to just one man. Its hard, but I keep trying. I see and have been taking notes, studying you know with Adam Adole, and many others, but YOU have blown them all away, with just your few inspiring words. I will follow you, to the very edge.. and hopefully learn...thank you so, so , so , so much, God bless you. Sally
That is a really great point!! I think chemistry matters to a certain extent, but....a heart, a person who has passions, a person who is striving for something, a person who cares about being a good person, and a person who stimulates me intellectually is very very important as well. If that is not there the physical attraction is GONE. I was raised by men in my family that told me LOOKS ARE EVERYTHING! SO I REALLY APPRECIATE THIS VIDEO FROM A MAN. I remember thinking if that was true I am not sure if I even want to find a man. I mean I have been told that I am good looking to others, but if that is ALL that matters that is a total turn off.
I Applaud You....Well Said!
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i can tell your connected to yur heart... you have alot of compasion
Hi, thanks for the reminder!
Sometimes I get the "pull away" issue when I like someone. Probably out of fear of rejection. But if I focus on compassion and being my genuine self it doesn't matter, regardless if it is returned or not. Inner beauty should be shared. Just like in this video :-)
Being a beauty Queen and a sister of 4 brothers who climbs trees (still) I do confirm this line of thinking men want inner beauty inside out. It makes the outside look better no matter the outside. A woman who is deep, thinking polite and well read who appreciates people in general and life.
Amazing, I've never been explained to something the way you've done it.
Chapeau from France!!
You are a real man. kisses !!
Omg!!! That’s the first time I’ve heard that compassion is the most beautiful thing guys want in a woman. Amazing!! My male friend, not quite my boyfriend yet, knows how much I respect him and he knows how compassionate I really am. The feeling is mutual so I quess I’m doing everything right!!
Erika Hernandez Would you know how to treat him if you had him?
Erika Hernandez
Erika Hernandez amen!! Real man status!!
That is awesome that you can see that in people. I don't think all guys are like you unfortunately however you yourself are an inspiration and if you spread this kind of deepti and insight to the world I hope other guys catch on. Xox
Real nice way to put this, the words and descriptions. I now understand more about why men go for real plain girls.
Are you married now? Your video was in 2012 and it is now 2019! I know you must have met your Ruth! Because you are truly a Boaz.....compassionate, genuine, kind-hearted, respectful, honorable and humble! Should I say more? 🤗
Wow. What a great guy
Thank you. This is so reassuring. I love it that you think and feel the way you do about what beauty and attractiveness really is. I hope women hear this and start cherishing this in them more, we all lack more compassion, warmth and deep connection in communication and less superficiality, fakeness, and selfishness. Thank you so much again, this is just lovely
Is that why so many men fall in love with me in the first week. The downside is them being possessive, controlling and trying to dominate me. Then when I want out they keep calling me. Why I stayed covered up. I do set boundries. I just want to feel safe with a man again emotionally.
Thank you for your fantastic video! I love your attitude about true beauty! Wow! Let it shine!
HOLY MACARONI YOU ARE AMAZINGLY GOOD LOOKING (SORRY, JUST HAD TO SAY IT)
Love is light and when you are love and when you are compassion you are light and then you shine and when you shine people see you!! Thank you this is exactly what it is thank you!! so much!! you rock!!!!!!!!
I believe we are a reflection of those we meet and the reason you can feel others love is because you're full of love yourself. Thank you for sharing your knowledge of what real love looks like.
Thank you for this. You’re so right about compassion. We all need to show compassion, whether we are men or women. Maybe the reason it’s so attractive is that compassion is probably the same or similar as unconditional love...just a thought 🤔
Many guys and women are like the girl you just described as lacking compassion. Equality is very important.
You sirrrrrr, have an extreeeeemly sexy voice...
yaaassss
🔥💦💦💦
and sexy eyes and real feeling about what he says
+Salma Chikhaoui Everything about this man is sensuaaaallll....
BeautyLilya SHUT THE FUCK UP this site is for men NOT women 😠😠😠😠
Buyer beware...
If you buy this con job
you will attract guys
that have endless wants .
Best you find someone
that knows the value
of a fair exchange
in all aspects of life.
Love, like, respect etc
are earned by the people you choose to have
in your live.
Don't thow your pearls
to the swine.
Proceed with caution.
You are not shallow. You've got depth. Compassion IS beautiful. Love does shine.
Hello Jad...
You are just the sweetest person that I have met in a long time.... Your heart and
your mind are simply beautiful....I have 5 sons my oldest is 33....I love each and everyone of my beautiful sons...they too have standards simular to yours. They love there mom with there whole heart and soul....I tried to educate my son's to treat all people equally with consideration patience understanding compassion friendly and approachable....I didn't want my son's to fear women instead they make pretty good buddies.....if I don't say so myself....
I am so pleased to have stumbled on to your site.....yes yes yes the whole world needs a little love, a little
understanding, a little patience, having an open mind, and quite simply .... We all need to treat others they same way that we would like to be treated and understood.
Good work....keep it coming.....
Namaste
Mary
Thank God. A guy speaking something sensible. . Apart from sex. .
Don't know abt other guys . But your idea for a beautifull girl just blew me away.
Good looking guy speaking beautifull words. . Wow.
great!
Stop watching reality shows and learn to be a REAL human being.
I don't know dear dude if ure the only one on this planet...im this person you say lv light compassion. ..i had only narcissist experiences from all men i came across...i then realised we must be discerning and learnt to mind only whats my business.both men and woman cld be anything far from what they portray. ..so we keep our selves , our heart and nature to preserve ourselves..save the pain trauma cheat lie...and be real in this fancy cruel world. Truth prevails..lv heals...compassion helps. Self responsibility protects and provides. Ty for your speech. It was like a movie dialogue.
you know, i felt so guilty, realising that i fell in love with you (online) in the first instance....today I'm happy that i did because i found guy (real life ) which has the same values as you....thank you, dude, for speaking out-you're helping us!
I love you, I agree so much with your definition of beauty; I can even feel your heart as you speak......incredible!!!!!
Thank you!
Men are attracted to looks fIrst
that girl impersonation HAHAHAHAHAHHA GOT ME DED
I never met a guy like him. He is awesome, wonderful
You are so profound and compassionate too and you can not be more right !! it's is from the 💕that you have to speak from ....I am so touched thst you are talking about this beautiful way ...to younger girls ...I will share it with other ladies .Sending you .Namaste ,light & peace ..
Awesome ... Interesting and authentic facts .. thank you for sharing ... Enjoyed watching ..
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ETERNAL BEAUTY IS FOUND IN A HEART...
Wow! What a depth of soul from someone so young and so handsome.
Only God can make a perfect woman and a perfect man.
Humans on their own is not perfect.
God is perfect.
Your voice is so profound!!! Love it!
My man is younger by a lot . I am not rich.
What he loves me about is about my heart; my passion for advice and nature and the way I take care of him even at a long distance .
We have been in LDR for 9 months. He is a keeper for me and he is talking about me like you describe a woman.
I like the way this man think. Yes, love is powerful. It makes a difference.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Beautiful soul Beauty is in the eye of a beholder
Guys are easily attracted to beautiful women but being beautiful doesn't mean in physical appearance only. It's so important for women to possess a good character because it will make a man fall in love with you even more. Don't worry if you are not that good looking for as long as you have a compassionate heart to love someone and every guy would be chasing after you.
Man you are so awsome. I like the way you express the truth. Not to many men or women know whats missing for a good relationship.
I just felt like you were speaking about me... I am exactly the type of girl you are speaking about... I love giving without expecting anything in return. I'm born with this nature.
Such a Great Video ! And absolutly True...But i have one Thing to add to this ..A women WHO Really Are compassioned and soft and Kind and These Kind of Things a Men often will feel insecure and dont cherish her Kindness he will find her such as Boring if she Will Never give u a Contra and just Be Kind and Soft...i Hope u Know what i Mean
you understand spiritual conection ...heart conection...thats a only way....thaks....you have soft heart...
God bless your Heart, Genuine, soulful man!
Thank you for every word you said... You sounded very genuine and very spiritual....I appreciate this video 🙏🏾
That was so true...being compassionate and empathetic is so important for every person not only females...it is only where you can feel the heart....You're good-looking...
You are so wonderful and encouraging" God bls and lots of love#peace# a well
light comes from God, Jesus is love only he can change hearts
Jasmine Betancourt I agree
Jasmine Betancourt true. But remember that he can only change it. If you really want him too.
Jasmine Betancourt amen u r so right
Jasmine Betancourt we have to choose love,Jesus... He has the power, but we have free will. Through our suffering we come to know love. Its true.
Amen😇
do you happen to have a much older identical twin who thinks just like you?
Or just an older brother who thinks like him
Your opinion is Extremely valued and touched my heart.
The men I've met I actually did give my heart to, unfortunately, I found that those men were only looking for a badge, and were not truly willing to be honest with them.selves, cause when we broke up, they never saw their mistakes and the a year or two later, they admitted what I said when I left was true, apologised, and I just cry cause what waisted energy and I'm still single. Personally, theres not a lot of men like you.
Do you have a single uncle I can talk to? Lol, well anyways, go love your girl boy, love her hard and stay close.
Great advise sweety, much ❤
So real .....live love and keep the compassion going
I appreciate your main message of compassion and personality, but I don't see what's wrong with saying "My day's good. I was just going shopping. Omg, I was going with friends ..." It seems rather shallow to judge a person on nothing but a few sentences of brief small talk.
Wow a very beautiful message for women, thanks!
And it is a message to impress women, indeed. Forget about most of it.
You cant say that 90% of men are not like this. In my opinion the majority are like this once they are mature enough and ready for a serious relationship. If you think all men are jerks then maybe you should try looking at the other men. Obviously you are attracted to the jerks since you think 90% of them are jerks maybe you should approach some decent guys. The jerks will become gentlemen once they find the one!
He said it best. Wise man.
This is higher level stuff here. A lot of men are also not compassionate at all so they would not be attracted to women like this because they don’t even recognize what it is- they mistake it for weakness pretty quickly and move on to the women who act like bitches to cover up their own insecurities. Human Beings- in general need to cultivate a deeper character and get in touch with their souls but not just to find a man. I could say the same things on my channel but just direct it towards the Ascension which is now happening on planet earth that the majority is still unaware of. In fact- I’m going to do an entire series on how to cultivate a character and yes, suffering is essential for this as well as opening the heart chakra. People who have a closed heart chakra are not capable of feeling this deeply. Great Video. You’re cute and real💗
Hi there : ) I really appreciate the sentiment of your video. From a realistic standpoint though, I will say this. You lost me at the point that you said men want us to give and give and give. Unfortunately, so do sociopaths and narcissists. I know this is your deal, but let me add a tip for those who keep giving and giving and giving to no avail. Stop. If someone doesn't want what you have to offer, move on. If you feel uncomfortable trust your intuition. Do not harbor negative vibes from other people. When its genuine it will feel good. You wont keep wondering what he wants you wont keep giving and giving. Be kind, be authentic. Be happy with exactly who you are as a person and self asses because you want to and when you want to create goals and vision and ultimately follow through. BeYOUtiful. You don't have to be a glow-worm to be happy. Happy women remain at ease. That is the key. ( I will watch the rest of the video now: ) Thank you. You are very sweet and I love your romanticism.
Sierra Castro Wow.. very insightful and important words indeed. You are absolutely right. Some women have a problem of not knowing when to stop giving.. I have overlooked this in my video.. I will definitely make a video soon addressing the topics you have so wisely elaborated on above. Many thanks
I also was triggered when he expressed this in that way , having had hard learning experiences of giving with no reciprocation . However I felt that his heart was flowing in an energy that felt real and grounded so I continued to listen and feel the essence of what he actually is conveying . Which for me really brought things back into perspective. Being in the dating world at 47 I really needed this reminder that it is my compassionate essence that is most desirable . The man of my desires will walk beside in this vein ... with ease ... it also reminded that ... that these are exactly the things I find most beautiful in a man ... i have this saying ... I will know it when I feel it. I found it super interesting that you mentioned
Vocal tonal qualities because I absolutely do this ... I can tell much about a person by the tone of their voice. As you described it , it made sense that the higher pitch would be more head based because the energy has not traveled through the deeper resonance of the heart , for whatever reason in that person’s life . I think it is important to note that this does not devalue the person as a human being. It just means the resonances are not in alignment . I saw a great tuning fork analogy on s Gaia movie the other day called the “ electrobody “ it showed how if you activate a tuning fork it will activate other tuning forks that are of the same resonance , without those forks having to be strike , but will not activate the ones that are of a different resonance . This being activated by another’s vocal tonal qualities I believe is a manifestation of this energetic .
Wow...your perfectly said about woman's beauty is compassion in her heart...God bless...😊👍✌