How To Resign From Your Job With Class

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  • @andylacivita
    @andylacivita  4 роки тому +170

    Folks, even resigning from an employer you don't enjoy working for is gut-wrenching. I wanna make sure you know what to do, how to do it, and go out with some style. Join me for this. Also, please SUB to the channel for new videos weekly and live office hours on Thursdays! --Andy

    • @marisolmarcelino6616
      @marisolmarcelino6616 4 роки тому +7

      i have an upcoming final interview this month. I just resigned from my previous job in a private company but i was there for only 2 mos because i decided to focus all my energy in preparing for the interview of this government institution. Is it necessary to state in my interview that i was in a private company for only 2mos? or should i keep it for myself?

    • @piperrenee3933
      @piperrenee3933 4 роки тому

      Hello. How can I reach out to you for some coaching?

    • @mariadent-turner2679
      @mariadent-turner2679 2 роки тому

      I resigned, I guess, all the wrong way. I bought your book but didn't realize there was a chapter on resigning!

    • @vincentkingsdale8334
      @vincentkingsdale8334 5 місяців тому +1

      What if you are a health care professional? The standard is 4 weeks

    • @vincentkingsdale8334
      @vincentkingsdale8334 5 місяців тому +2

      I would never accept a counter offer from my current employer, bc even if they give you more money bc they are understaffed, they will eventually get rid of you when they can.

  • @Anteater23
    @Anteater23 2 роки тому +464

    I’ve resigning tomorrow with no job lined up. I do not care because the job makes me miserable.

    • @elizabethmuronga6962
      @elizabethmuronga6962 Рік тому +67

      I feel you. I’m resigning tomorrow with no plan B

    • @sheelac5977
      @sheelac5977 Рік тому +30

      All the best! Hope you made it through!

    • @Sohai1901
      @Sohai1901 Рік тому +22

      Me soon. But after I go, I just wanna go for my long awaited short overseas vacation undisturbed (keyword)

    • @angelisa368
      @angelisa368 Рік тому +39

      Yes. Sometimes you just have to. Put yourself first. Everything will work out.

    • @pan-angloinsurancebroker9618
      @pan-angloinsurancebroker9618 Рік тому +19

      I love all of you in this thread, much needed, I've been in finance for so long and just want out. Going to resign this Friday and then take a much needed Xmas break after my notice period.

  • @Mawesome111
    @Mawesome111 3 роки тому +627

    I’m planning to resign tomorrow. My boss 100% won’t see that coming. I honestly don’t like him but I am planning to keep it professional and follow your approach. Wish me luck !

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +63

      Yes, keep it professional. Best of luck!! You've got this!

    • @saylibelose9412
      @saylibelose9412 3 роки тому +11

      Same here

    • @mauricioalejandro74
      @mauricioalejandro74 3 роки тому +25

      I’m planning to do the same tomorrow for the exact same reason lmao

    • @Mawesome111
      @Mawesome111 3 роки тому +25

      @@mauricioalejandro74 good luck and keep it professional! Make sure you know what you want. Do you want to resign and leave or ask for a counteroffer. If you want to leave don’t be hesitant. In addition, don’t believe most of the promises you will receive from your boss😂

    • @mauricioalejandro74
      @mauricioalejandro74 3 роки тому +41

      @@Mawesome111 I plan to break the news at 5 pm right before I leave. Lol

  • @lrob5657
    @lrob5657 Рік тому +48

    Resigned yesterday - it’s very easy folks. Kept it short & sweet. Expressed my appreciation & gratitude for helping me get my foot in the door in the industry. Told him verbatim that I was resigning effective today and was willing to stay on for another week or two to help out if he wanted and if not that’s no problem - of course he said don’t worry about. It’s very rare that they take you up on the two weeks in the sales game bc for whatever reason they think you’re going to take clients. Anyway, I’m excited for my new endeavor and now I have a little two week vacation before I start my new job!

  • @mimih5889
    @mimih5889 3 роки тому +55

    resigned this AM! I feel so liberated!

  • @thunderslapped
    @thunderslapped 2 роки тому +87

    I will be putting in my 2 week notice today. I'm nervous as hell! They are great people but I got an opportunity I just can't let pass by. My issue is company loyalty, I've stayed at crap jobs just for the reason I don't want to leave my peers understaffed... but I need to focus on what is best for me..
    Update: I love my new job and am thankful I made that scary step forward. I hope you all had same great experiences.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому +3

      Huge congrats 🎉🎈🍾🎊 Victor!

    • @MissKarina1981
      @MissKarina1981 2 роки тому +4

      @Victor I'm in this boat right now. I dread going to my teaching job, that I just recently started late October. I feel very much like you felt. I love my boss(principal). She is the one who vouched for me since she knew how I worked in the previous school she was Dean at. There are great people and co workers, but one co worker said don't quit because we'll have to step in and pick up the slack. If that isn't telling, I don't know what is. How are you doing in your new role?? Blessings

    • @PhantomDetectivesLLC
      @PhantomDetectivesLLC Рік тому +1

      Two weeks notice is a relic of the past. The days of giving that are outdated like a paper application

    • @jazmineamani6451
      @jazmineamani6451 6 місяців тому +1

      wow im putting in my 2 weeks tomorrow & am in the same scenario :/

    • @thunderslapped
      @thunderslapped 6 місяців тому

      @jazmineamani6451 best decision I made. You got to do what's best for you, the company will continue with or without you. Good luck at your new job! Hope it is awesome!

  • @mohiths2065
    @mohiths2065 4 роки тому +210

    "Need a fresh start" - I'm totally using it. Thanks for the advice!

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +5

      Good luck 🍀👍!!

    • @FernandoSantos-gz7eg
      @FernandoSantos-gz7eg 3 роки тому +6

      That IS good!! Ive been thinking about this as well for over a year now. I need a fresh start!

    • @haha-cm6pg
      @haha-cm6pg 3 роки тому

      I like it too.

    • @avalonroyce
      @avalonroyce 3 роки тому +6

      I actually definitely feel like I need a fresh start because I'm no longer growing where I am.

    • @ka8155
      @ka8155 3 роки тому +1

      I'm using this too.

  • @bodeans59
    @bodeans59 2 роки тому +73

    Thanks so much for posting this. I will be soon 63 years old, and have been in banking for 37 years. I've had several life changing events over the past couple of years, i.e., death of parents, death of siblings, and it makes you realize what is important in life. And for me now, what is not important to me is remaining with my current employer. I've decided to resign and enjoy the rest of my life.
    Your video has given me inspiration to handle my resignation with class,

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому +6

      Love to hear it my friend. Not, of course, some of the live events you’ve endured in the past few years but that I somehow gave you a bit of insight that helped. 👊

    • @smoothiecutie2277
      @smoothiecutie2277 Рік тому +1

      Great!!!! Hope you are doing well. Posting this comment on 1.25.24.

  • @GeonQuuin
    @GeonQuuin 9 місяців тому +14

    I watched this when i got a job that doubled my salary last year. Im watching this again now after getting a job offer that will double my vacation days from 2 weeks to 4 weeks and a 30% pay bump for a similar mid-level position.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  9 місяців тому +2

      Congrats!!!🍾🎈🎉🎊

    • @BigE-qx1jb
      @BigE-qx1jb 9 місяців тому +3

      Awesome!! Great job

  • @kdlofty
    @kdlofty 4 роки тому +75

    Years ago my boss asked me why i was resigning? (He knew the surface reason why, everybody did). I said, in a word.. YOU. for my career to progress i have to get away from you.

    • @shutit4024
      @shutit4024 3 роки тому +11

      I hate my job and I’m moving but I don’t want these nosy people to know where I’m going to move at and what job I have

    • @kdlofty
      @kdlofty 3 роки тому +16

      @@shutit4024 Don't tell them then. I made that mistake. The next day they rang my new boss trying to cause trouble for me. It worked.

    • @shutit4024
      @shutit4024 3 роки тому +3

      @@kdlofty the next company I am going to be working for, I let them know in advance and they know how most employers are so they don’t care and I made sure not to tell my boss or her minions

    • @mariahconklin4150
      @mariahconklin4150 3 роки тому +6

      Lmao! I should say that to my manager. “I’m resigning not because of you or co workers but because of the owner” in my case it was the pompous owner

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 3 роки тому

      @@kdlofty Exactly- a perfect example.

  • @migueralliart
    @migueralliart 3 роки тому +183

    I've watched several videos of yours and they've helped me a LOT. I'm in aerospace and went from 90k a year to 100k+ now and working 100% remote. I gotta say your videos have changed my life to the point I am accelerating my retirement.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +9

      YES! Orlando, this is so amazing to hear! Big congrats buddy!!

  • @alwaysposh
    @alwaysposh 4 роки тому +113

    This video showed up in my inbox at the right time.

  • @nubiaavalos8430
    @nubiaavalos8430 4 роки тому +139

    Andrew, I had decided leave my retail corporate job two months ago and watched your videos on interviewing do's/dont's, and subscribed of course. I am proud to say that I landed an amazing job that offered me much more than what I was asking. Thank you for all of your guidance, amazing videos and mentorship. - Avalos

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  4 роки тому +7

      Great to hear this Nubia! Huge congratulations on the new role!

  • @JimboReboja
    @JimboReboja 4 роки тому +156

    No job offer. Just moving on with my life and starting my own e-commerce business. I was planning on speaking with my manager tomorrow but it seems like we’re gonna have a 1on1 meeting in about 15 mins and I wasn’t prepared. So here I am. Good luck to me 🤣

    • @shutit4024
      @shutit4024 3 роки тому +17

      How did it go?

    • @jw7075
      @jw7075 3 роки тому +5

      I bet it was flaky….

    • @nicopetut
      @nicopetut 3 роки тому +5

      How did it go?

    • @ShellyBomb
      @ShellyBomb 3 роки тому +4

      11/5/21 Updates please ... ☺

    • @Ladsas
      @Ladsas 3 роки тому +2

      Don't leave us hanging. How did it go?

  • @ginoariel8697
    @ginoariel8697 Рік тому +15

    Call me classless. I resigned with an email (worded it exactly how the vid says you should)but I did not give my supervisor or manager a phone call prior to the email. I hated them that much. Also they were new management after prev one retired.
    They also in turn did not reach out to me to talk about my departure during the final two weeks. Kinda solidified why I was resigning in the first place

    • @MindShiftChronicle
      @MindShiftChronicle 15 днів тому +1

      Absolutely; I don't understand the talk to them first. They probably already know if they're smart enough that you're unhappy in this job...

  • @skykitchen867
    @skykitchen867 2 години тому

    My mother worked for a insurance company for 30 years. Her new boss treated her so badly by finding fault with her work, treating her like a child. She simply resigned and retired. She told me if this ever happened to me, to leave the job with dignity. Fast forward to now, the same thing happened to me! A boss scrutinizing my work, finding fault with everything and I worked in that department for 35 years. I turned in my two week resignation and applied for retirement as well, leaving with dignity. About a year later, I ran into my terrible boss one day at McDonalds and I was civil with her. At the end of the conversation, she said "it was so good to see you" and as I walked away I said "I wish I could say the same" and left her with her mouth open. It felt so good! great video!

  • @thesaexplorer
    @thesaexplorer Рік тому +11

    This is probably the greatest advice out there. I have another job lined up that starts a little under a month but I honestly like the company I work for and my coworkers/ boss (i just dont like my job role). I on the other hand want to give a 3 weeks notice because I respect my co workers and want to give enough time to have someone be brought on board and give a smooth transition. I've been dreading talking to my boss about resigning because we get along well and this feels like a break up in a sense. I'll just go straight to the point and not leave any gaps for him to make a counter offer or convince me to stay

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  Рік тому +2

      Glad it helped! If you're looking for more on this, especially the part about your gap in time between the jobs, check out the more full and current version here: ua-cam.com/video/UTtm7niqqB8/v-deo.html

  • @oinkpiggin
    @oinkpiggin 3 роки тому +113

    Another tip : Apply the same strategy of sharing to your co-workers when you quit. I think it is fine (not obligated) to share with your "friend" co-workers in a few months later after you already settle down in the new job. But nonetheless, less sharing is always the best option.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for sharing!!

    • @natthebratster
      @natthebratster 2 роки тому +23

      This is absolutely true as many coworkers are additional ears to management. Great tip!!

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому +2

      👊👊👊

    • @TheLightworkz
      @TheLightworkz 2 роки тому +5

      😂😂 I’m not telling anyone anything and for those that have my number it’s “ohhh I’m taking time off to figure out next steps”, they are like sieve’s where I work.

    • @ceg496
      @ceg496 2 роки тому +3

      @@andylacivita you're totally right! I do believe even when co workers can be great friend and collègue and sharing fraternity it's good not to say too much the moment you resign and told the more information after you start your new job.

  • @daveliale3178
    @daveliale3178 2 роки тому +138

    The hardest part is contemplating quitting your job. It can be just as stressful as the job itself. Believe me, any company you quit we be just fine without you. You either quit or not.

  • @TonyZmex
    @TonyZmex 2 місяці тому +15

    Forget the two weeks notice , that is not valid anymore. Quit and give the date that you think is best for you and your mental health.

  • @b1gl0u96
    @b1gl0u96 2 роки тому +4

    I’m putting my two week notice tomorrow and I needed reassurance that I am doing the right thing for me and my career. Wish me luck!

  • @СтроительФриз-р2ж
    @СтроительФриз-р2ж 4 роки тому +31

    So spot on, it's kinda scary😂
    Recently thought about how to leave my current job, and just 1 day later, this👌
    Thanks❤

  • @MrVnick1
    @MrVnick1 4 роки тому +119

    I gave two months because I liked my managers, ended up needing my job back and got it. Don’t burn bridges.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  4 роки тому +10

      Good for you!!

    • @haha-cm6pg
      @haha-cm6pg 3 роки тому +2

      Two months or two weeks?

    • @MrVnick1
      @MrVnick1 3 роки тому +3

      @@haha-cm6pg Months

    • @dwaconsulting1609
      @dwaconsulting1609 3 роки тому +5

      The best advice ever! I found myself in the same situation as you. My old company welcomed me back with open arms, and told me they were happy I came back.

    • @GiGiChosen
      @GiGiChosen 3 роки тому +9

      You won’t need a bridge if you have a boat 🚤

  • @Mr300millz
    @Mr300millz Рік тому +2

    I've worked for a small company for almost three years. I love the people because we've grown so close. However, I've reached the sealing. I've been given an offer at a bigger company with better career growth prospects. I hate the fact that I'm leaving the guys, but I need to think for myself in 20 years time when I have a family to take care of. Thanks for the vid. I know my speech now

  • @chuckmaddison2924
    @chuckmaddison2924 11 місяців тому +3

    I just walked in on my last day of vacation and said I can no longer work there with my back.
    That is true.
    But the mental damage and toxic environment were also major factor but didn't tell them that.
    Been there over 20 years.

  • @andresalderete
    @andresalderete 8 місяців тому +5

    What Andrew says is the right think and dont even give any reason why leaving, even if you want to stick it to them because you got a better position and salary. Even though is tempting to do it, dont burn bridges when you leave places, even though some managers deserve to be stick with a fork.

  • @dougmydek68
    @dougmydek68 Рік тому +3

    I put in my two weeks yesterday with a company I have enjoyed working for over the past year. This morning my manager blows up my phone and e-mail wanting to talk about my decision, first thing they did was make it my problem by saying I shouldn’t have blind sided them and immediately wanted to know how they could make it better(though I don’t believe they can), especially after they denied my yearly 3% increase in April and am now requesting an extra 6/hour.

  • @MEUProductions
    @MEUProductions 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you so much for this. I’m quitting my job today. I have a really good relationship with everyone, and my new job is just a huge step up professionally for me. I want to tell them why, and the feedback to tell them things they can’t address is huge. Thank you.

  • @milfinu
    @milfinu 13 днів тому

    I used my last two weeks of PTO, and during the final two days, they were given a 2-day notice. I have no regrets about my decision. I already had another job lined up, though I was nervous about the transition. Still, I believe I made the right choice. There was no action taken regarding difficult coworkers hindering my ability to perform, and the company did nothing to address the issues or make improvements.

  • @gaberondon8757
    @gaberondon8757 3 роки тому +16

    Listen to this just before I walked into my boss’s office. Thanks for the advice!

  • @TheSwiftFalcon
    @TheSwiftFalcon 3 роки тому +41

    I recently resigned. Things are a bit different in my country, so the notice period is 3 months. There's nothing wrong with my current job, boss or employer, but I got an offer which was simply more exciting for me, and for once I wanted to pursue a different opportunity. I was completely upfront about why I accepted the offer, and my boss let me know that I would be welcome back if should want to.
    If I had been dissatisfied with my current job, I might have been a little bit less forthcoming about my reasons, but I believe you should always be honest, polite and professional. There is nothing to be gained from slamming the door, other than a tarnished reputation.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +1

      Well said!

    • @carladw3380
      @carladw3380 3 роки тому +4

      3 months resignation period. Wow, that’s a long resignation period.

    • @MrAndersson579
      @MrAndersson579 3 роки тому +1

      @@carladw3380 same here in Sweden. Im going to resign tomorrow

    • @Raison_d-etre
      @Raison_d-etre 2 роки тому +1

      @@carladw3380 I guess in some places people don't hate their jobs as much.

  • @jwalk23
    @jwalk23 3 роки тому +15

    Great video! I'm getting to ready to submit mine. I enjoyed working at the university. My wife and I decided to move closer to our family.

  • @jbilotta
    @jbilotta 3 роки тому +6

    That's exactly how I feel - give the news personally over the phone or in person. Then give the formal note to said people and anyone that was a part of the hiring process.

  • @dougsweldingfabrication953
    @dougsweldingfabrication953 9 місяців тому +1

    THANK YOU brother.... I'm nervous about doing this. But your video has helped.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  9 місяців тому

      Hang in there buddy! You got this!

  • @micahthedutch
    @micahthedutch 3 роки тому +27

    Andrew, the amount of free content you provide that changes lives is astounding. I have personally benefited from a lot of your free content the last few weeks and will be picking up some of your paid material to support your work.
    On timeframe, I find myself with a compelling job offer and I just started a week of vacation. My new employer is fine with starting in 3 weeks instead of 2. Do I resign while on vacation and offer 3, or wait to tell them until I'm back and only offer 2?
    EDIT: just found this answered in another post. 10 working days is the respectful approach and that's what I'm staying in my resignation letter.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +2

      Happy to hear this, Micah! Best of luck and enjoy your vacation!

    • @micahthedutch
      @micahthedutch 3 роки тому +2

      Actually just heard back this evening after my counter. They came close to my request and I am excited about working for the company so I agreed and start in a few weeks. Appreciate your wisdom in this great content. I've been raving to friends and colleagues about you. You are so underrated I don't know how that sub count isn't 3-4 times higher.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +1

      @@micahthedutch Micah!! Yeah baby!! Huge congratulations 🎈🎉🎊🍾 to you. I’m so happy to be able to support you a little on your journey. Yes, please share me with your friends! 👊👊👊

    • @calvin9187
      @calvin9187 2 роки тому +2

      @@andylacivita the last sentence is super sus

  • @erinwallace6747
    @erinwallace6747 2 роки тому +6

    3:50 - 4:15 is a piece of incredible advise that no other video I have found has recommended. I will be using this. Thank you for the advice

  • @georgiabrown9576
    @georgiabrown9576 2 роки тому +6

    I am resigning from a job and it’s a little harder due to the fact I had gotten this job through a family friend and that family friend is my bosses boss. I am using everything you had talked about and I want to keep it as professional as possible even though my relationship with my boss is very friendly and non professional. I hope he doesn’t take it the wrong way. Wish me luck!

    • @Casilocapuntocom
      @Casilocapuntocom 2 роки тому +3

      In that case I would put emphasis in my personal growth and how important to me is that new path I am taking, if your boss is a friend or considerate enough, will understand and support you.

  • @M0v304n
    @M0v304n 5 місяців тому +1

    My last day today !!! ❤ got a job lined up Monday thanks to youuuuu❤

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  5 місяців тому

      Congrats!!!!🍾🎊🎉🎈

  • @madelinecoyston432
    @madelinecoyston432 2 роки тому +3

    Hi Andrew, I am currently a teenager working my first job, your videos have been very helpful. I have had my current job for going on 6 months and put all my effort into my job, my employers are very good and my boss is lovely but I have too many commitments and need to finish school. This and the work schedule I received (I work everyday we are open, regularly scheduled) just make the job unattainable for me. Recently my coworkers and I received an email that we could not request time off during the month of march as my boss would be away and we’d need all hands on deck. (There are 6 of us total) Unfortunately my school commitments have me out of town during that time and I am handing in my two weeks notice this week. Thank you for the confidence and advice!
    I should clarify I wouldn’t be out of town the entire month obviously, just 3 days that would be out of my vacation time

  • @priyankaghosh2528
    @priyankaghosh2528 3 роки тому +4

    I felt a relief after watching ur video...as i was thinking about resigning bt i was confused how to talk about it with them as i am not enjoying working at my workplace currently...thank you so much

  • @terrancepinkney777
    @terrancepinkney777 2 роки тому +7

    Perfect timing I have to do this in two days and I definitely wanted to be professional about it because of the length of time spent at my current company. Thanks Andrew!

  • @sayyer10
    @sayyer10 4 роки тому +8

    Just spoke to my immediate Sales Manager this morning about my intention to resign giving 2 weeks notice just 1 month into my new job as I don’t feel I can adapt to their sales tactics. Happy that I took the right step after watching your video.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  4 роки тому +1

      Glad to hear this!!!

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 3 роки тому +4

      Yes best to cut your losses and resign right away if new job isn't a great fit. Then you can avoid listing it on your resume too.

  • @reyon33
    @reyon33 3 роки тому +39

    The only reason I watched this video is to see if I did it right. I did every one of my resignation the right way. I gave them the reason they cannot meet, I want to work closer to home (pre COVID), I want to work in a different field. Just remember once you are resigning, you have the upper hand, but don’t over play it. Just resign and move on. This is a reason they are the EX.

    • @SunBrya
      @SunBrya 3 роки тому

      So on point here. Good for you.

  • @shadeyaaliyah1586
    @shadeyaaliyah1586 3 роки тому +3

    I just need a fresh start. Using this MONDAY!

  • @shamalinevgi4333
    @shamalinevgi4333 2 роки тому +14

    No because I am smart & I am not gonna tell you anything until I know I am gonna leave lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Amazing video Thanks a lot! Love from India ❤

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому +1

      Lol, so glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for your kind words.

  • @GonzaloRubio.
    @GonzaloRubio. Рік тому +4

    Thanks for the advice man it's always tricky quitting, This is my first resignation letter I've ever written.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  Рік тому +2

      You got this buddy. Lots of luck and congrats on the new job!

  • @Frissdas1207
    @Frissdas1207 3 роки тому +6

    The correct answer is always to leave to opportunities that align with your career goals. Anything else usually gets you marked as non-rehire.

  • @longlivechina7538
    @longlivechina7538 2 роки тому +3

    Really glad found your channel dont feel like jumping off the bridge anymore

  • @VirtualShepherdOfficial
    @VirtualShepherdOfficial Рік тому

    I think I overthink these things. I want to be respectful, but I am also being paid less then those I am supervising and in a not so good environment. This really is a simple and classy way to address this without making it a big deal. Thank you! Personally awaiting my next steps.

  • @rubberneck9680
    @rubberneck9680 2 роки тому +1

    I work a job that is unsafe and took another job offer. We have had 6 people injured in the last month and people being forced to work triple shifts for no good reason. I feel that my safety is more important and going into this new job without a busted knee is most important. I am thinking about resigning without a notice because the situation continues to deteriorate

  • @vwmullen
    @vwmullen 4 роки тому +6

    A previous job of mine required 3 weeks notice in the Employee Handbook if you wanted to leave in good standing. Meaning you get your unused PTO pay out (legal to withhold in my state since it's in the handbook) or if you want to be eligible for re-hire in the future.
    It's probably an edge case, but there are times where 2 weeks isn't the right choice.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  4 роки тому +2

      Yes, of course. Comply with your corporate rules.

    • @shutit4024
      @shutit4024 3 роки тому +1

      How am I supposed to know to give my 2 weeks notice if my job don’t even have an employee handbook or anything in the job stating that? All I know is at my job we have to give a 30 day notice to take a vacation for a day or week I was told it goes by that ( Radom person on the Internet told me) so I guess I was supposed to give a 30 day notice?

    • @boyhitzcar
      @boyhitzcar 3 роки тому

      @@shutit4024 No. If no handbook, just give the industry standard 2 weeks.

    • @RCooke357
      @RCooke357 Рік тому

      Disagree. You don’t have to give the notice they suggest in the handbook if you’re in an at will state. Give the 2 weeks. You’ll screw yourself.

  • @dirtjumpbikes
    @dirtjumpbikes 2 роки тому +1

    I’m resigning my job tomorrow. I love my current company but it’s 1:15hr away and the new job is closer + higher title and 45% bump. It’s my first job so it’s a little gut wrenching to leave because I made friends there, but I gotta do what’s best for my career.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому

      You gotta do it Saqar! Good luck!!!

  • @nba2kfanman21
    @nba2kfanman21 6 місяців тому +2

    I quit my job with e-mailing a letter of resignation and with a physical copy. They did not care. No exit interview and misinformation on my last day of bernefits.

    • @TaxingIsThieving
      @TaxingIsThieving 5 місяців тому +1

      You mean false promises?

    • @nba2kfanman21
      @nba2kfanman21 5 місяців тому

      @@TaxingIsThieving My last day of benefits were incorrect.

    • @TaxingIsThieving
      @TaxingIsThieving 5 місяців тому

      @@nba2kfanman21 I was let go from a job of over 2 years, no exit interview. I resigned from my next job after a month and was offered an exit interview. Mad.

  • @5ive762
    @5ive762 2 роки тому +2

    Feeling very confidence after watching. Thankyou for this video. Much love.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому

      That's great to hear. You are so welcome!

  • @gussta1
    @gussta1 3 роки тому +28

    This is great advice because if the shoe was on the other foot, your company would blow you out in two seconds. Say you're leaving in a nice way, done.

  • @debgib007
    @debgib007 2 місяці тому

    This was a good video.
    I am putting in my two weeks, due to lack of hours.

  • @Kagome811
    @Kagome811 2 роки тому +5

    I’m dreading having this conversation and this video helped me think of my game plan and put my mind at ease. Thank you!

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому +2

      Glad it was helpful! You've got this!

  • @lizziemiss945
    @lizziemiss945 2 роки тому +2

    My last job, I gave two weeks and they were so gracious. Invited me out to a fancy lunch on my last date. The job afterwards, I ended up hating. 2 months in I gave my two weeks and they cut it short by a week. I had originally asked them I wanted to resign immediately but could stay for a week or two if needed. They asked me to rewrite the letter to say I wanted resign in two weeks. Made the right choice in leaving lol

  • @alexp247365
    @alexp247365 3 роки тому +40

    Manager: "Ok, let's talk about your end of year review and compensation" Me: "I don't know how long you have allocated for this meeting, and that there is no real good way to say this. So, I'm going to just say this. "I'm giving you my two weeks notice." ... Silence on his part over the phone.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +7

      Always good to give your two weeks notice.

    • @NextLevelWomanhood
      @NextLevelWomanhood 3 роки тому +10

      The exact same thing happened to me on my last job. Reviews and raises were supposed to happen in January. When she finally got around to it in March, I told her don't bother. I'm resigning. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @dennisbbb
      @dennisbbb 3 роки тому +5

      After multiple attempts asking for a raise, finally got called in to discuss. Manager: “Let’s see, you’ve been here for 12 years and you’ve been a tremendous help to our company. We are happy to offer you a $5,000 bump up to your salary.” Me: “oh wow.. umm that’s ok, KEEP IT, I think you need it more than me. Here’s my 2 weeks notice.” Manager was silent. And i went straight home. Next 2 weeks was the silence. Last day he didn’t even show up to work to bid farewell. Wow i guest there’s not return bridge.

    • @DriveandThrive
      @DriveandThrive 3 роки тому +7

      @@andylacivita nah two weeks notice is ridiculous. Amazing companies have belred that into the work culture. They will not give us 2 weeks notice if we're fired.

  • @TheMNBlackBear
    @TheMNBlackBear Рік тому +5

    I'm a janitor. I doubt there is a way to start, work or quit the job with class. People look down on you like a piece of turd no matter what you do. I'm giving no notice. The truth is, we are slammed hard. I am just one of three people left in a department with eight+ positions (the + represents the four part timers we're supposed to have but do not have). We're so desperate they're now talking about bringing in a contractor to pick up the slack. I started an LLC, my own cleaning company, and told them to contract me to take care of the weekend shift, for which there is not one person to cover it. They refused, saying they only need mandatory overtime me to cover it whenever they wish. And if they bring in the contractor of their choice, my role in the department will change entirely and I will no longer be doing my job, but something else.
    Give me one good reason why I should give notice before quitting.

  • @xg3400
    @xg3400 3 роки тому +10

    Nothing but truth and knowledge. Thanks for the advice!

  • @oscar66810
    @oscar66810 6 місяців тому +1

    I resigning tomorrow and have mixed emotions. I love the people and the work. Reason, I'm leaving is to be closer to family. I feel terible about leaving. I have made great friends. But family is more important.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  6 місяців тому +1

      You’ve got a good heart. That WILL take you to good places.

  • @DR-xc6um
    @DR-xc6um 2 роки тому +1

    The tip about saying something they cannot address is gold. Used it during my resignation chat and worked like a charm. Conversation short and sweet.

  • @breezyveezy1
    @breezyveezy1 3 роки тому +1

    Was just writing my resignation from my nursing job. Thanks!

  • @muffinsavior3004
    @muffinsavior3004 4 місяці тому +1

    I quit my job and went out professionally!

  • @MrVisde
    @MrVisde 2 роки тому +2

    Great tips! Make sure you have your new offer in writing before letting your current employer know.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому

      Glad you enjoyed it! Yes, a written job offer provides confirmation.

  • @kenwigginsii6065
    @kenwigginsii6065 2 роки тому +1

    I’m resigning after receiving another position that meets my needs future wise. If I get a counter offer, I doubt I take it anyway. It’s about money, yes. I would get a higher salary, unlimited overtime, daily overtime, which pays after 8 hours everyday and $100 every Saturday I work, which I get in a bonus check at the end of the year. I don’t want to work on Sundays. At the new position, I don’t work ANY Sundays. That’s very important to me based on my spiritual beliefs. We work based on weather conditions. However, if the weather is bad, we can still work in the warehouse or something. I’m tired of working 2 weeks and don’t have anything left for me after paying bills. This position is weekly payouts. But we will see. I will keep you updated. Thanks!

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому

      That's great to hear! Yes, please keep me posted. :)

  • @bernsfindsandmore7636
    @bernsfindsandmore7636 2 роки тому +3

    If my new company wants immediate start, all I can offer is one week. I understand the 2 wks but I am not giving up a better opportunity just for courtesy cause they would walk me out without any cause.

  • @missnlahi
    @missnlahi 9 місяців тому +4

    "Employers don't like to be fired. They wanna let you go on their time, not your time." 😂😂 So true

  • @abu56097
    @abu56097 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks Andy, your video is really inspiring and also reminds me about why did i look for job at the first place

  • @Cybinized
    @Cybinized 16 днів тому

    Some places have policies where they won't pay you your remaining Personal Time Off unless you give a notice equal to or greater than how much time you accrue in a year. Let's say I get 4 weeks vacation time a year, 150 hours at 37.5 a week. I have to give 4 weeks notice or they keep whatever vacation time I have accrued whether it's 2 hours or 200...so look into that before you put in a two week notice.

  • @schuylergeery-zink1923
    @schuylergeery-zink1923 4 роки тому +7

    It was so funny my sister resigned from her car sales position to go back to school recently. Their protocol is to resign the same day (so you’re not taking leads for 2 weeks or doing nothing).

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  4 роки тому +3

      It's simply a different type of organization. Many of these exist for sure.

  • @joshuachaires7220
    @joshuachaires7220 Місяць тому

    At will employment means both the employer and employee can terminate the relationship at any time. Two weeks is a courtesy not a requirement that has to be earned by the employer.

  • @happycook6737
    @happycook6737 3 роки тому +16

    I think it is best to NOT tell why you are moving on. Better to be gracious and say how much you've enjoyed working there and being a part of the team. I never give a reason why because very important to never, ever burn bridges. Plus some industries are so small that everyone knows everybody so best to keep my mouth SHUT!

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому

      Always best not to burn bridges! You never know when your paths may cross again.

    • @avalonroyce
      @avalonroyce 3 роки тому

      So then how do you phrase it or answer them when they ask why.

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 3 роки тому

      @@avalonroyce I just repeat how much I appreciated being a part of the team and say again what I had already said. If pushed a 3rd time, I lean slightly forward and lower my voice volume a little and say, "Thank you for your time." My industry is far too small to ever say the real "why". I will be changing jobs in April. I don't have to explain or justify my choices to anyone. 😀

    • @avalonroyce
      @avalonroyce 3 роки тому +2

      @@happycook6737 Thank you! I'm 23 and fairly new to this stuff.

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 3 роки тому

      @@avalonroyce If I could go back in time to when I was 23!!! I would tell myself, find a way to do everything the cheapest way possible and save/invest most of my money. I wasted so much on clothes, make up, hair, eating out, etc. Find a job with pension after 25 years of service like military. I envy those who get that money paid monthly for rest of their lives!

  • @LifewithSusy
    @LifewithSusy 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you for this video as I will be putting in my 2 weeks on Monday without plan B and I am ok with that at the moment. What if the reason you’re leaving is because of the unmanageable workload that I have inquired in the last 2.5 yrs for help, but management indicates no one is applying? I can no longer handle the workload. What do I say then? Thank you for your insights

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +3

      I applaud you for leaving and you should if that’s how you feel! I would not mention anything about the workload.

  • @veganmermaidyogi3299
    @veganmermaidyogi3299 Рік тому +1

    Andy! The interview King.

  • @mikelally97
    @mikelally97 3 роки тому +5

    Two weeks notice is a courtesy, not an obligation. Companies don't always give employees two weeks notice before they fire them or lay them off. So don't feel morally obligated to extend them a courtesy they don't consistently extend themselves. Honestly, one week's notice is more than enough...especially if you've thought ahead and documented how to do particularly nuanced parts of the job and if you've organized your files etc within a shared folder. The company functioned just fine before you arrived. They'll function just fine after you leave. My rule is to give 1 week notice. Then use the second week to focus on yourself, re-charge, and get mentally prepared for the learning curve and cultural adjustment that will undoubtedly come with the new job. Fresh starts work best when one has a fresh mind, fresh attitude, and fresh outlook.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +2

      Mike. You first sentence is definitely true. There are no obligations unless your signed employment agreement specifies a particular notice period. Many do. You should do this not for the employer but for all the other EMPLOYEES at the organization. Not to mention, the world is small and you want to leave with impression you are a good employee. Those current employees will scatter and work at other companies you might want to get into.

  • @Bluemortal001
    @Bluemortal001 3 місяці тому +1

    great advise. just found this channel. good tips and content! new subscriber

  • @SurfFishingFan66
    @SurfFishingFan66 3 роки тому +26

    Thanks Andy! I would also advise them to read their employee handbook to know and understand what the company's policy is becuase some companies may require 3 weeks and if 3 weeks are not given, the employee could lose out on receiving some benefit, for example compensation for their remaining unused PTO/vacation days. I didn't hear you mention that in this video. Just sayin'.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +1

      You’re welcome!!

    • @tonyherdina9142
      @tonyherdina9142 2 роки тому

      Check the state laws where you live. In some states employers are not required to pay you for unused PTO.

    • @ninamc6116
      @ninamc6116 Рік тому

      Yeah they all try to get you on the 30 days notice. I’m a nurse in a more professional field & I just transitioned to a new position. If you give 27 days notice they try to screw you over. It’s ridiculous. We’re mandated to give 30 days! Not 4 weeks, not 26 days. Drives me absolutely crazy!

  • @divineconnections5602
    @divineconnections5602 3 роки тому +2

    Great channel! ❤️ Thank you!! My upcoming resignation would actually be a transfer to a different department-same company. I am a nurse working in a clinic inside a hospital. Felt I needed to share my desire to transfer with my current leader (after 20 years) because my current leader would find out anyway. I am sure my new manager within the organization would consult my current manager.
    5 years ago I even talked with my current leader about my desire to look for other opportunities. She understood and was supportive. Please explain how to resign if it’s a transfer within the company.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  3 роки тому +4

      You’re not resigning but transferring. This is something that should be handled inside the organization and both units should be aware of this. I would simply be communicating with both sides.

  • @mynameisjeff830
    @mynameisjeff830 Рік тому +1

    I just recently heard of informing your current employer that you plan on applying for a different job , then give a notice. Not sure why that's something that people should do but I didn't do it because it's not a requirement. I gave a two week notice respectfully.

  • @mikebean.
    @mikebean. 3 роки тому +1

    This the best video I could find on the topic

  • @workingshlub8861
    @workingshlub8861 3 роки тому +7

    i gave my boss two weeks notice and he asked why and i told him i was going back to school......total lie..i hated the place but he has alot of connections in my field so no sense burning a bridge...

  • @xiolxiol1704
    @xiolxiol1704 11 місяців тому

    So I can make an impromptu resignation. Great help! 👏

  • @CathRas95
    @CathRas95 3 роки тому +2

    can't give 2 weeks as my new boss needs me to start week from Friday - I am letting them know in the AM - feel bad that it isn't an "official" two weeks, but I need to leave a bad situation .. wish me luck

  • @CG-jm2zp
    @CG-jm2zp Рік тому +1

    Putting in my notice tomorrow. Should I tell my employer where I’m going to be working?

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  Рік тому +1

      You don’t need to. Actually, I have a newer video on my channel, titled eight steps to quit your job the right way!

  • @r9153
    @r9153 24 дні тому +2

    Please tell me how to handle a toxic boss who acts very negative after you put in your 2 weeks' notice. Thanks in advance.

    • @EB-gt1pq
      @EB-gt1pq 5 днів тому +1

      Try to keep your distance, maybe. That’s what I did with my psycho boss. I maintain my professionalism, but also ignored her when I could.

    • @r9153
      @r9153 5 днів тому

      @EB-gt1pq That definitely makes a lot of sense. 🤔 Thank you!

  • @DriveandThrive
    @DriveandThrive 3 роки тому +62

    You DO NOT need to give 2 weeks notice. I wish people would stop this. They won't give you 2 weeks notice when you are fired.
    Try this when you're fired: demand 2 weeks notice from the firing period.

    • @adarateranroldan
      @adarateranroldan 3 роки тому +1

      😂

    • @Crunch-E
      @Crunch-E 3 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @slytherin1481
      @slytherin1481 2 роки тому +2

      From what I’ve always been told, it’s best to check your contract for this, most standard contracts will state that you must give 2 weeks notice if quitting
      But the idea is that if they fire you, than they already have the plans set to replace you, so they don’t need 2 weeks.
      It’s not about being nice to the employee, it’s about the company
      You can ask for 2 weeks but they aren’t obligated to give it to you

    • @cincuenteando
      @cincuenteando 2 роки тому

      THAT’S WHAT I SAY!!! I agree with you.

    • @aaronmcdonald2877
      @aaronmcdonald2877 2 роки тому

      Australian standard is 4 months in the contract.

  • @crawfordcritiquecontentmar3302
    @crawfordcritiquecontentmar3302 2 роки тому +1

    So I just accepted an offer for double my current salary, yet I love my job, it’s just the money could be better. Honestly, idk if I’m going to love this new position and culture as much. I have a great relationship with my boss and I’m sure he’d be more than supportive, however, I want to test the water without resigning. So I can either work both jobs and hope the scheduled meetings won’t conflict with one another (more than likely will happen) OR take a leave or sabbatical until I know for sure the new company is worth it. Money isn’t everything…culture and peace of mind are essential. I’m torn

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому +1

      Stick to what makes you happiest. Money isn’t everything as long as you have enough that’s good enough!

  • @thomasLMK
    @thomasLMK 2 роки тому +2

    Different country has different length of notice period. A manager here (in Malaysia) requires minimum 3 months notice.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому +1

      Yes. Without question. Do what is customary for your area!

  • @matthewchapman2494
    @matthewchapman2494 Рік тому +1

    That's the thing about resignation... You...are in essence.... quitting. And when you have built relationships and friendships... its not something taken lightly. It cannot be used as a strategic tool...for. Money or anything else. When you Are committed to moving on..., you will gain much more respect from employers as well as New opportunities.

  • @TaxingIsThieving
    @TaxingIsThieving 5 місяців тому

    Pretty sure it depends how long you've been there 2:32 When I was let go, that was exactly the bluntness they delivered me. So absolutely, in future, I will be returning the favour. 4:30

  • @Nighthawk613
    @Nighthawk613 4 роки тому +5

    Just recently found your channel. You have so much great advice that gives me a ton of confidence when i get to the interview part. However, right now its getting to the interview part. Covid has made companies so much more picky, and I got my 5th rejection today

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  4 роки тому +2

      Hang in there Tyler. You got this!

  • @mellimel1174
    @mellimel1174 2 роки тому +4

    Andrew, what can a person do to combat the guilt of leaving an organization for another, especially if the current one is small and it is difficult for them to find a replacement? And what if they want more than two weeks, when that is all you can give.

    • @andylacivita
      @andylacivita  2 роки тому +9

      Keep in mind, nothing lasts forever and you need to evolve as a person. They were fine without you before you joined and they’ll manage without you after you’re gone!

  • @jamesdime6865
    @jamesdime6865 2 роки тому +1

    Was hard for me to resign because my boss is super sensitive. She takes it personally but we got through it peacefully.

  • @TheChannelD
    @TheChannelD Рік тому +1

    This is what I really needed. Thanks!

  • @brianadlich4406
    @brianadlich4406 Рік тому +1

    I already don’t like my job but after this year they will no longer buy back unused vacation time. I have too many hours so I think I’m going to make my last day be dec 29 and sell back the vacation time. And get out. Plus they keep threatening me with performance even though I’ve told em it’s too much and that like so many others in this position quit or get fired. Last year 1/3 of the associates quit.
    I work for a large corporate investment firm. I’m not willing to risk all that vacay time getting lost bc I get fired for unreasonable expectations. Plus the extreme multitasking we do is really affecting me mentally. I’m close to all the employees. I am pretty sure almost all elate looking for a new job.
    I’ve saved up a couple years living expenses so I’m just gonna take a sabbatical.

  • @lukegould8881
    @lukegould8881 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you sir, this has helped me immensely

  • @notorious.0217
    @notorious.0217 2 роки тому +1

    I have an interview coming soon this video came in handy

  • @Pepster_p
    @Pepster_p 5 місяців тому +1

    Literally what I’m doing right now