Marriage talks with the bros (we all single)
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- Опубліковано 11 лют 2024
- This video we are just chilling lol, needed a break to just chill with the boys lol :) Also audio at the beginning of the video was removed lol but you can take benefit from what the subtitles were saying.
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Had to take out the Islamic audio at the beginning of the vlog due to copyright issues, but the reminder is to lower your gaze, I know it's hard trust me, especially at Uni 😂 but if you fear Allah and you follow His commandments and lower your gaze, Allah will give you a good looking and righteous wife 😄 (Also this video is super old like 3 months ago lol)
Bro tell me about it 😅. (The lowering your gaze thing)
if you are a man, the hardest thing is lowering your gaze, literally near impossible but still possible remember for the very few who have taqwa of Allah
yes good looking and righteous pious wife that does not talk to other men is our goal, beauty is subjective anyway
we should start a challenge of lowering the gaze@@abdurrahmanabdulaziz5900
best thing to do to lower the gaze is honestly just stay home or go to places like nature or to mens gym
i love the friendship group, eating together, chilling together, good brotherhood to keep away from the haram outside and also islamic reminders with them, the balance is just perfect in the vlogs
Fr love this channel ❤
SubhanAllah. The brotherhood in Islam is unreal. Alhamdulillah for Islam.
Please write Allah with capital A
JazakAllahu Khair@@shumayamanwar6766
I wait every monday 5pm for these vlogs, really uplifting my iman, I need to change the people around me and get better friends for real
agreed
Same here bro U not alone
same, I barely watch youtube except for abutorab
Alhamdulillah. Somewhere around the world, Muslim medical students like me are striving real hard to practice the Sunnah and to live intentionally as believers. We're miles apart but the struggles of life bridges that gap. Assalamu alaykum from Philippines. May we be of help to the Ummah and to humanity at large.
I learn a lot from your videos. mashallah you all are so educated about hadiths. Jazakum allahu khair
Allahumma Barik my brother its always nice seeing your vids.
Barkallahu feek for this video
Thank you so much Abutorab that you give us reminders!
I appreciate your work. It helps me to stay connected to my religion.
agreed
You’re a cool dude allahuma barik 😂
May Allah bless you and your whole friend group and may you keep each other good company!
your videos always help me become more religious
7:10 this brother is 100% capping, I have never seen a man that said they want to get married for a pure heart only without looks, even our beloved Prophet SAW told us to look for beauty as this will increase the love you have for one another
Okay😅
Yeah men do prefer women's beauty......but sometimes a women might be good in every other aspects except beauty. I'm not trying to judge men for choosing women for their beauty, but if a woman is genuinely perfect for marriage, she respects elders, she is emotionally strong and has good character and also the person who will marry her is overall pleased by her personality.....then I think it wont be mature enough to reject her only for her looks. Well it's better to live peacefully with an unattractive person rather than being in a toxic marriage with a pretty face. But I agree that everyone should marry the person they find attractive. But some men and women demand beauty too much.
yes you are right actually because most of the times the good looking girls are always problematic and have short temper so go for someone that has the best balance@@nerdrabbit16
Abutorab you just have a very nice soul may Allah bless you allahuma barik
lmao i appreciated this video, because it shows muslim brotherhood/muslim togetherness. there was a lot of humor, but im trying to practice the habit of greeting my friends with a salam in the first place, and that was nice to hear.
this is the epitome of islamic vlogs alhamdulillah
7:31 I love how Zaid is wrong but does not want to admit it, may Allah bless you guys, you are like a couple that argues and disagrees but love each other for Allah's sake
It’s not funny he rolled eyes over a Hadith
May Allah SWT grant us all the best companionship, and also make us the best companion
Ameen
allahumma bark I learn so much through your videos even with the simple references to the ayahs or Hadiths of the qu'ran. you and zaid are my favourite. im a sister, but I find your videos very insightful, especially from the marriage aspect. I wasn't aware that the respected imam had that say on looking for a womans beauty first, then deen. but with yours and the akhis reasoning I completely understand it now. may Allah make you better than what I think of you and may He elevate all of your ranks in jannah. id love to see more videos like this إن شاء الله khair, thank you!
Abutorab may Allah bless you and your companions and reunite you in Jannah
فتت على المقطع بالغلط, بس بسم الله ماشاءالله شو هالمجموعه الحلوة, وشو حلو كيف بصححو لبعض وبذكروا بعض
اللهم ارزقني الصحبة الصالحة
اي والله ما شاء الله عليهم
Your pronunciation in Arabic is so good ماشاءالله
yes because they study the deen
Thankk yoouuuu pleace allways remaind us
keep doing these videos they help a lot
broski too knowledgeable for us, may Allah put barakah in your studies, how was your medical exams zaid?
Every single time when I see how you cooking it’s just relaxing and delicious.
Edit is ❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
May Allah swt bless the brothers and grant them all Jannah ❤❤❤❤
ameen
just a tip for cooking- sharpen your knife so cutting is easier and cleaner, dont use metal on non stick pans and scrape at it as its not good for the pan and you.
Zaid killed me at the hand holding part
😂😂😂🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
May Allah give us all pious and beautiful wives Ameen
Good vibes
4:15 bruv your videos are clear from all these other fake youtubers, you are the best
loool ikr
Great work dear brothers. May Allah bless you all.
ameen islam is the one and only true religion
“Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the coolness of our eyes.” (25:74), ameen
We need longer videos
great vid
Felt so proud when I saw the Somali food 😂
Fam you pranked me i literally thought i became deaf because of your intro😂
copyright issues he said
Subscribed !
13:08 you can tell everyone loves bro
4:14 Ustadh Jamal even knows your videos are the best, keep them up, been following for years, will see you very soon IA
Al-Ahnaf bin Qays (رحمه الله) said:
“Stay away from mentioning women and food in our gatherings, for I hate a man to constantly describe his private parts and his stomach.”
[Abū Bakr Al-Daynūrī, Al-Mujālasah wa Jawāhir Al-‘Ilm 3:44, ]
For unmarried men it is normal to talk about the fitnah of women, many of the salaf have quotes on how they struggled with women, it is just human nature, as for food, no body talks about food unless they fat
this is a statement of the salaf which means it is good to follow it but it is not a must, but talking about women is fine as long as you dont describe their bodies, if you are simply talking about how to deal with fitnah then that is fine, but no where were they talking about the bodies of women or anything haram so this statement does not even apply here, if you put it here for the sake of just reminding people then that is fine but if you did it for the sake of saying that anything said or done in the video is wrong then this does not apply in this context, barkallahu feek.
can you give some context to this please?
7:30 حسب does have many many meanings in the arabic lanaguge actually
abutorab is loved by everyone MA
Jzk Khair
Does anyone know the Nasheed that was being played at the start?
new upload every week, too consistent, brother what is the gym you go to in the video?
you are really good at cooking, that looks like a good sandwhich
If he added rice with some salad on the side, it would have looked like a proper dinner a mother made.
11:03 Abu Torab wrong, article he included says that it does not always relate, meaning majority of the time it does!! May Allah bless abu torab
bro actually reserched the article, legend
Nice
is it just me who enjoyed how he cut his veggies aha. 😂
Allahumabarik
4:54 women like soft hands, touching a woman with soft hands makes them feel better than being touched by hands that are too rough
Assalamualayikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.
That comment about AbuTorab's hands was a violations 😂
What is the nasheed Sound in the beginning?
abutorab you need to get married, you are young and fit now for marriage but it is expensive in todays day and age but you have money mashallah
10:50 he’s right. You’ll find gym guys with “big muscle fibres” not being able to lift half as much as someone that strength trains religiously.
yes abutorab is always right
AMAU students know that ending!
yes that is what I thought of as well
😂true that
he got influenced to much by them
يقول النبي ﷺ في الحديث الصحيح: تنكح المرأة لأربع: لمالها، ولجمالها، ولحسبها، ولدينها؛ فاظفر بذات الدين تربت يداك
12:37 he made a mistake. Kahry in Sha Allah. More moerahs’ja and you wil be there in Sha Allah. May Allah swt bless us
zaid makes mistakes before as well but that is not the point, the point is to look at the screen and the actual ayat
sahih but it is the word of Allah swt and you must say it correctly if it is not possible then just say the translation. But kahry in sha Allah may Allah reward you.
May Allah bless you for the correction, we all need the Qur'an or any mistakes made needs to be corrected without hesitation as it is kalam of Allah and the hadith as well need to be corrected@@kjokhg8063
this is the difference between our deen and other religions, we actually correct the mistakes but the non muslims bring more mistakes in their books
We need more shoib
Yesss
😂😂😂😂 the whole vlog was just jokes
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7:28 lmao
We're all single 😂😢
Nooo abo torab is rightt iss hasab not nasb i searched about this
yes he was right, he has a lot of knowledge and he wouldn't speak without knowledge when it comes to the deen
0:21 bro licking his lips in the sauna 😂😂😂
Making me feel hungry
same
Axi the beginning of blog has some problems with sound
he said he removed it due to copyright
Bro it’s like Zaid is an uncle with a bunch of teenagers
Also the audio is so bad (not talking about the beginning just in general) no offense but as someone from another country it’s a little hard to understand the British accents sometimes. Mashllah great content tho
? audio is perfect for me
bro benching 80kg for reps? mad impressive, what is your bodyweight
watch his previous vlogs he is 57kg
Wallahi it's actually sad and ridiculous to see sisters criticise and ridicule these brotherly gatherings and talks. It's literally planning out a halal life yall 😂
4:02 I don't think the shaykh is swearing by his life. You have probably translated it wrong. Swearing by other than Allah is shirk. Barak'Allah feekum
Omd why does that zaid guy think he has so much knowledge bc he speaks the Arabic language like relax. Does he realise he could end up in hell for thinking with arrogance
abutorab has higher knowledge than zaid in regards to islamic matters, this is well known by the way
lets be kind but again zaid is not very knowledgeable so at the end of the day it is normal to make mistakes, we are all humans, but what matters is that when someone is wrong they are corrected as this is the religion of Allah, Abutorab corrected him and that is fine
chill, no need to be so rude and harsh, zaid is a great brother, he gets is right and he gets it wrong and he has been corrected by abutorab and even by the people in the comment section, he will learn from his mistakes
0:01 Allah akbar. In somehow accidentally I was watching youtube stories with a girl in bikini and stuff and then right next was your video with the saying to lowering your gaze as believer. Oh man 0:01
this is a sign from Allah and a blessing perhaps
Great content as always , Ma’sha’Allah….but are we just going to ignore that he put yogurt and dried onions on the baris? Brother…that’s a war crime 😶
youghurt is fine but i dont know about dried onions but eeryone has different taste
The way you chop these vegies is a bit traumatazing 😂😂😂
But im shure it was delicious
he needs a wife to do it for him, you can volunteer
@@arkimanthor5509 you now i'm not gonna lie that's what I thought at first when i saw it🤣🤣🤣
but i don't mean to volunteer why don't you volunteer
It was narrated by abu hamza anas ibn malik rahimatula that the prophet Mohammed s.a.w said your not a good muslim until you wish your brother what you wish for yourself
You can find the hadith in bukhari and muslim
Sooo what do you think???
if you are unmarried you should get married to him and cut his veggies for him@@SumaiyaStojanovic
@@SumaiyaStojanovic I think we all wish for our brothers good nurtured and pious wives (and righteous pious God-fearing Husbands for the sisters) who will be the backbone of the Muslim ummah (its why umm is in the word they are the pillars of family, virtue and a provision from the Most High) I know you each were being snarky towards each other but we should want goodness for all of us may Allah Hafid you both
15:20 I know for a fact you got yourself cancelled like 10 times at least in the vlog 🤣🤣
3:59 looking fit here
Im not single mate im married 🤣🤣🤣🤣
1 wife might not be enough, go for 2
@@abdulqasim5970Who are you to say how many wife’s are optimal?
calm down he was probably joking, but Islam allows 4 women and many women get divorced and need someone to take care of them so multiple wives is fine@@joehaa6616
7:00 the having a look at her without hijab is such a wild opinion to me, it feels like a violation of my privacy, it’s sooo uncomfortable to take it off when you’ve been wearing if your whole life ygm
yes but this is for your future husband not some random dude trying ot see your hair
Why do his vegetables look so… natural. I don’t know if I’m trippin but they don’t look like that in America
Whaaat… what do they look like in America? Lol…. 😮
How can I join your brotherhood bro?
build your own in your local area, lets all do this IA
Zaid is single , alhamdulillah ...im glad to hear that ...
Why
@@la-nyarichardson483 i can ask الله give him to me
there isa reason he is single, probably wont settle for anyone below a certain threshold
@@arkimanthor5509 correct
not glad to hear that, he needs to get married, all men struggle with the fitnah and the prophet may peace and blessings be upon him told us to get married young if we are able to
مافي عرب ؟
9:34 why is this vlog so hilarious?
4:47 love seeing zaid exposed, but that was sus wont lie
May God protect you, I love you in God
Allah, just say Allah, it is better than just saying God
Allah
4:57 zaid is suffering
We need to find him 4 wives
This bro is like 5'3". It's gonna be hard for you, man.
No it won't be hard, I will explain why, the average man who is 5 foot tall is very hard for them to get married because they are small and they are also average. Now make this man be a practicing man with a lot of islamic knowledge which means that practicing sisters are more likely to get married to this person, now on top of that add money, which abutorab is very successful with his business, he pays his own tuition fees and also watch how much money he spends in his vlogs (a bit too much and it is not good islamically but that is a different topic). Also he did mention in his tiktok once that sisters were sending him marriage requests and he is very popular in university. On top of that he is physically fit, a lot of men have physical conditions which spouses only find out after unfortunately, so overall, this is a message to all short men that your chances are harder for marriage but with dua and with hard work where you become rich and well known, it becomes normal for people to get marriage requests.
Also brother, this was an unnecessary comment and your account has music on top of that which shows that you are not a practicing muslim so my advice is please refrain from talking about others especially when those people are better and more successful that you in every way.
@blitzgaming7015 I ain't reading allat, the fact that you wrote so much must mean ur a short king too.
It's OK, bro. I'm 6ft4, so I can relate 😂
that is good that you are 6ft4 my brother, may ALLAH bless you more but why the arrogance?@@GigaFloyd
@riponbasho731 I'm not arrogant. I'm being humorous. This guy called me a "non practicing muslim" because I have videos on my channel that have music in them.
Same size hands as a girl 😂😂😂
😂😂🤣🤣
You should cut the olives and have them on their own without adding them as they have a strong taste.
everyone at University watches your videos
3:57 older brother? thought you were only child for some reason
I thought the same too 😭 he gives off major only child vibes 😭
he just doesnt show his family on camera i guess and i respect that as people who usually do that have tendency of dayouth to show their sisters amd other family members@@mizmiza.
AbWtorab
It is spelled SaLmon but pronounced Samon, akhi.
Looks are important but always choose deen if the deen is right she will automatically care about her appearance
Sad situation a hajji bro Married for beauty wealth social freedom status to a Christian by name women
She wants nothing to do with his religion or culture or family members
Every Ramadan Eid he forces his disabled widow mother to provide him with his two Meals 3 course meals during Eid
His mother took him to hajj reminds him of his prays Zakat fasting
While his chosen spouse her reminds him of her birthday her Xmas her Valentine’s Day her Mother’s Day her anniversaries
He going mentally Insane for fear of being divorced in old age and never seeing his son again all because he choose dunya over the hearafter
you are so right wallahi, a good pious woman will try her best to please her husband
@@arkimanthor5509 no, to please Allah
6:44 what is PJG
Dont worry bro 😂
Pcp - pneumocystis jirovecii pneumonia. Often seen in pts w poorly controlled HIV i.e. AIDS
basically a sex type of disease you get
Lol. What happens to "lower your gaze"
they can lower their gaze and still talk about marriage, they never ever speak to girls even at Uni, I know this myself, abutorab is very well known at Uni and zaid is literally approached by girls every day for marriage and he always lowers his gaze
@@arkimanthor5509 No. You cannot simply "lower your gaze" whilst simultaneously trying to figure out whether you are attracted to the woman in question. There is a certain amount of gazing required.
yo abutorab you working too hard, if you keep on going, all fathers will be lining up for you to take their daughters, give us poor men a chance