The Dark Secret to Make Any Girl Fall in Love with You
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
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Most men believe that if they buy a woman gifts, take her out for dinner, and show her love and affection, they will, according to logic, receive the same amount of love and affection in return. The attractive man, however, understands that his investment in a woman is nowhere near as important as her investment in him. If we consider all the various forms of investment that exist within a relationship, the main forms of investment are: (1) emotional: investing one’s emotions and feelings into someone; (2) time: spent thinking about someone, or time spent with them; (3) physical: sharing physical intimacy with another person; and (4) financial: buying gifts or spending money on someone. All of these forms of investment lead to higher levels of commitment and attraction on the part of the investor.
The man who invests all his time, money, effort, and emotions into one woman values that woman a lot more than the man who makes no investment whatsoever. If you invest in someone, you are much more likely to value that person. Whether your investment is good or bad is beside the point, the feeling of value remains, making it increasingly difficult with each additional level of investment to withdraw your emotions and walk away if the investment turns out to be bad. This is the danger of the sunk cost fallacy, which states that the more you invest in someone or something, the harder it becomes to walk away, even if that investment turns out to be a bad decision. It’s for this reason alone that people find it so hard to exit a relationship, even when the relationship becomes toxic. The idea of leaving someone when so much has already been invested is often too much to bear. Understanding how investment works in relationships will not only protect you from future loss it will also help you build greater levels of attraction.
In pure Machiavellian style, the man who’s selfish encourages women to invest in him for he understands one simple truth: the more a woman invests in him, the more committed she’ll be. If your goal is to ensnare a woman, you must be selfish, you must be ruthless, and you must be willing to take more than you give. Some dark research into attraction shows that women who invest in men by taking risks (as in having unprotected sex) are more likely to value the relationship than if they had taken no risks at all. The charming yet ever selfish rogue builds attraction by getting women to invest in him. He knows only too well that every additional act of devotion and investment brings the woman further under his spell.
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the trick is to never attached to any woman ,then life becomes good
JIREN easy for Jiren to say
SaiyanYonko hahaha everybody can do it
Always, always, always have the quick release mechanism in your brain
You nailed it! Continue to remain emotionally unattached despite the woman’s luring deception.
@@dreambeliever3652 love is war ,the person who falls in love lose
This guy made me realise so many mistakes i made in my past relationships, i wish i had all these knowledge in 2016.
You know now. That will suffice. You won’t make the mistakes of the past again.
I wish this was taught to me in elementary school.
Gregory J Garcia not in schools man, but by your father. Good father figures should teach that, just as shaving or fixing things.
That's why I love this channel
All of us have, my friend. You are certainly not alone.
Invest in yourself and they will invest in you
False
Well said
Rich 804 Facts💯
conan263 Really ?
Yes exactly.
People make fun of "simps" and "nice guys" but it's hard to blame them for their behavior because it's what our feminized society teaches. If you're a man and begin to behave masculine as nature intended, amazing things begin to happen.
We men must focus for our own goals and take the focus out of women and relationships... FREEDOM is a musculine energy and let the woman take care of the relationships..
Mgtow
The point is it's true. Nice guys always finish last. Period.
@@saucegg and what women want?
Jonathan Aditya d
lul it is actually not about nice guy.
it is the misleading definition about 'nice guy'.
nice guy does not mean that you are always available 24 hours for a girl.
you are not her dresses in her cupboard who are available for her 24 hours but not chosen when she wants to hangout.
you are human being who have activities and it is normal to be unavailable for her or anyone at certain time.
being tough on your decision does not make you "not a nice guy".
unfortunately, "being a yes man for her" is a misleading definition of a nice guy which spread everywhere.
trust me, just focus on the list of things what you have to do, be brave to say no even for a girl that you love, give some small surprised about what she loved.
it is not that complicated.
The video doesn't necessarily seem to just refer to nice guys only
This isn't a nice guy. It's a needy guy.
This is the golden truth it’s because girls get turned off when you try hard and put in way to much effort into her! Invest in yourself first let her chase, it’s all emotion for women
Do not please women, let the women please you. A man can’t do a woman’s job
If you make it a habit to treat attention-seeking women like ass, you will notice a significant boost in your confidence levels.
The_Real_ Slender and be that male demon who dominates the female demon
😬😬😬
Less is more
Being the nice guy don’t work no a days I learn it the hard way I’ve became cold.
You can be nice just cant over do it. Control the emotions, dont let them control you
6String Pete below zero is my heart temperature now.
Same.. I don't know why the world is like this. I was straight and true with her and I was a nice guy. Yet there we are I am seeing videos on how to move on.
Isomeric Shift I’ve been there bro, I suggest you watch red pill content like @ stephiscold & alphamalestrategies
@@shortsguru7504 thanks for the tips bro :)
This Girl really loved me and I really loved her, we had a lot of great times together and it was true love... then I woke up and realized I was living in different era
What a sick society
Best comment
😂😂😂
Haha. Its just how human women have been for 1000s of years. But modern stuff such as movies is confusing most people
It's human nature.. this what happened when Eve unleashed evil on the world.
Disgusting society
The simps all around the world need to see this
I don't want to comment because no one will notice it so maybe u or other people may see it here... Dude try to improve your mental and physical endurance/tolerance , and i will tell u how.. Punch a wall a little hard and tolerate the pain and then punch it again with the same hand but the pain should be normal for u , don't get aroused or stressed when u do that u should be calm but not relaxed , when enduring the pain becomes normal to u then think what a normal girl can do to u? try to imagine and believe that they r weak and u can endure every physical damage that they can do to , try to not follow your desires like any ego desires , desire for emotions and satisfaction , itching , staying warm in winter etc.. Once you r able to tolerate greater pain than what a girl/woman can do to u just think of it u can endure all these greater pain then why r u still afraid of them? When u realize how weak their physical damage r to u and u also belief that u can endure everything that they can do to u then u will start to attract woman so terribly strong than even strangers will fall in love/desire to kiss/adore and admire u so much , and the good thing is the power is unlimited , the more u imagine and endure the more u will attract , and the bad thing is u wall also adore/want to kiss them bad too!
I wish someone will see it and understand it
@@seekerx9574 well said. Have seen many of your points in practice.
the simps are so pathetic, ass kissing and white knighting , that they will turn on you for showing them this
-A Simp
Be careful guys ,you pick,not women. Take your time. You aren’t in a rush, they are. And universally women care more about getting and being married than who they are marrying ,and they care more about their children than you. They also know a million more ways to win someone than you do. Never give up, but never give in
Perfect
Deep
@Thanos you pressed 😂😂😂
@Thanos lol where did that came from? 😂😂😂
'you aren't in a rush they are' hilarious and true! Patience lads and good things will come.
This is very true I lost my girlfriend because I was too committed to her
lol. Clown world.
This isnt that accurate. Women are attracted to a man who is emotionally strong, isnt needy/clingy, is kind, but assertive. You do not have to be a jerk or an ahole. Or a self centered narcissist. Never buy her a gift unless you're in a relationship and even then make it rare so it actually means something. Text to set dates then get off the phone. Have a life outside of her. You'll be fine if you follow this
Totally true. I have never been an asshole - but I still have plenty of options because I resist commitment and am honest about putting my own needs first. You don’t have to act or strategize to stimulate stimulate strong emotions within a woman - you can even be ‘nice’ to a degree, but not because you’re seeking approval, because you’re ok with it.
Truth
This is exactly wat this entire channel is about lol seems like the animated story shrunk ur perspective. Everything you said.. is the opposite of wat the “friend zone character” was in the story. We’re all on the same page even if it doesn’t seem like it in this instance
True my friend
Mind chess is still require in a relationship
Lesson for this video: let the person of your interest, invest on you. Make them take risk with you
But how?
Bare back it 😂😂 kidding don't do it. Make her cook for you, clip a gang nail off, wash a shirt for you, blow you for 60 minutes etc
@@ravirajyaguru5905 good question man ! Indeed those things are presented easier than they are. Actually coolness is a social TALENT. We first need to show her we would be able to entertain AND protect her before she is willing to invest in us.
Just don't dedicate your life on getting girls, do what you love and then you'd eventually find one naturally.
Man this a crazy world we're living in right now
It’s 2020. This is the year to realize that.
Hello young men Uncle John here,
remember the old saying "love them and leave them", well it still holds true.
Take it from experienced men, don't waste your time caring about women.
Drop the mic........
A wise man once said, treat them like dirt, and they will stick like mud.
Wow so it is true. Let the women do the chasing, don't do the chasing yourself. I have found myself not chasing women as of late, that's why the ladies are starting to notice me and have started to act flirty around me.
massaging a women's ego is a bad idea to get love.
Dario Spirit really dude? wow dyou think you are cool after saying it? you are an idiot.
@@joshua50101 lol he is right tho
Ah ok simp
@Dario Spirit mind fucking is more important than vagina fucking.
@@joshua50101 Bro as an older friend 24 actually i will give you advice always when you are with girl:
#1 tell her always truth
#2 try to be independent
#3 try to be funny
#4 in the first date tell her you are a virgin even if you dont that 99.9% make her laugh and your points rises up
#5 then tell her a truth you joking or not
Skip #1 If you just wanna sex
A woman should be a complement to your life,not the focus
I've read Atomic Attraction and I think it is really good! This subject however I find hard to implement in real life. Obviously you don't want to be needy, buying gifts and being too available. But you also don't want to be an asshole and not care completely like the guy in the video. It's hard to find the sweet spot in between with your actions.
Marcus B These videos are pathetically made, and too simple. There are a lot of factors that come into attraction. And a lot of girls actually want a guy that gives them a fun time, and shows them love affection, and validation. Just dont overdo it. Be confident, have a high self worth, and be busy with things that arent her. This video shows two extremes, and neither one is what most girls want.
Esme eisen - I have been married over a decade now and I can tell you first hand: this video is more accurate than you realize.
Focusing on my wife she gets bored and becomes neutral in everything in out life. But the SECOND I become neutral and don't come check on her of ask about her she is compelled to show me love.. Because she is no longer takes me for granted.
And that's the point.
Wome do not employ logic in relationships. Just emotions. If they are confident they consider the case closed and stop working. But if they have doubts they work to fix them because they enjoy the reassurance of having a man checked on their to-do list.
You cannot give them that.
You have to CONSTANTLY make sure they know they are not 1st or even 4th on your list of things you like to do otherwise you are done.
Don't ask her about her day so often. Cut back on compliments (even point out other women you saw or heard about like she's just an acquaintance) and she will never have that confidence.
And that will make her work to keep you.
This video is dead accurate..
.... Unless you wish to be a simp..
@@esmeeisen9919 lol you know nothing. Guys this video is correct if not you learn by doing the mistake like I did.
mams1701 100% facts
Better to be the asshole
I find it easy to do the right things with girls I'm not overly keen on, but when I'm seriously keen on a girl I start to make all the mistakes 🙈
This is why you NEVER stay friends with an ex. Treat her for exactly what she is; an ex.
Love unconditionally. Love freely, so no one feels caged and forced.
Yeah, exactly, it's the same with men falling in love with women. It works both ways. That's why you want a relationship that's as close to 50/50 as you can or one that is slightly in your favor. That way you're both attracted, in love, and committed to each other.
🔥🙏🏾🔥
Women expect the men to do ALL the work. It's never 50/50.
@@SL2797 wrong..married 25 years. It's always been 50 50
the more attention you give to something. the more you value it. not just women but in life.
I don't care who you are, you can't make ANY woman fall in love with you.
Actually that is the hard truth. You cannot control someones feelings
This man who is always in charge reminds me of my sister's husband. They've been married 30 years. But that's his natural way. He's not an affectionate person and he doesn't worship my sister and never did and if she's wrong he'll tell her. Just think we're all pretty strong with our friends and co-workers and family. We don't fall to pieces if we don't get validation from them. Frankly we don't care. It's the same way with a girlfriend.
Why would anyone want a relationship that completely centers around a single person? If you want someone slaving off for you, then you have no empathy, and if you are the one slaving off, then you have no self respect. The only healthy relationship is reciprocal, so you should test for that. Just kick anyone out who does not reciprocate.
Remember all of the asshole guys you ran into they are still that nice guy but one day got smart and realized that this is the only way to keep her. Inside he hates making her cry but knows he has to play this role to keep her.
Thats me
Na some of us truly are self centered men. And it works in my favor.
The more I learn about women the more I love my parrot..Greetings from Colombia 🇨🇴 south America..
I lost interest towards girls after learning all this
Happy Valentine's Day!
Thanks for this amazing video chris ❤
how do I contact you?
The Gautam Raj show Through my website
We get it, you're using the no contact on your subscibers.
We missed you and your videos.
"talk soon" ;-)
Glad you're back Chris... Hearing from you after so long... Happy valentines day... Animation story was superb...👌
dont hesitate to show a woman you want her!!! its ok to express that you want her but after you show it THEN let her chase you if she comes to you its ok if not no problem someother will want you.
Step 1: be attractive
Step 2: look at step 1
Your comments always funny dude. Did you ever get your money back from that scammer kaliforniakid ?
Clorox Bleach sounds like a jerk .
I have to admit i have very ugly faces, but trust me i can get any woman that i like.
Even that does not help
@@yato5794 teach me how pleaseeee
Chasing a girl that will be yours for only the moment is suicide.
While it might be helpful to some hearing this applied to relationships, it's hardly groundbreaking to say that human beings care more about things they've applied themselves to. It's not just women, and it's not just relationships; it's why people frequently don't give a shit about breaking or forgetting to return others' things, and why we're protective of the things we've put money, time, or effort into, including our beliefs and our possessions.
Just a friendly reminder that you DON'T need any woman's fleeting "love" (better known as Approval) to have a happy and fulfilled life as a man ☺️👍
I don't get it.. You'd think it'd be the other way around: attraction leads to investment, not investment leads to attraction
To all reading this comment
Read a book called
"How to be a 3% man"
Women are starting to make sense to me now which is crazy
Thanks
Summarize in short... If possible plzzz. It will be really helpful 😭😭😭
Ye i agree
I've just bought it and I'm half way through, apparently you have to read it 15 times so everything sinks in
@@chrisaubrey1950 lol
You have to mix pain with a little pleasure. Ever heard of tough love?
First...Make your Heartbroken then you will automatically will become the magnet of girls.Believe me it true
been there brotha 100% works lol, also try Cold showers, lifting weights, interminent fasting, no fap and prayers, see it for your self and your going to transform into jesus 2.0
Damn on point! But some guys get broken but didn't learn anything. Hahahah poor guys
I swear bro, getting heartbroken is a blessing in disguise. You can learn a lot from this experience.
@@Spider-Man23737 agreed
@@Spider-Man23737 my heart was broken after 12 years relationship. im cold and emotionless. i hate myself for being like that. i wanna be the old blue pilled guy in a healthy relationship but these days are over. society changed
You are the Big brother most guys need these days, I have watched many videos on how to attract a girl, how to make a girl fall in love with you and blah blah blah........ But this video shows the reality, this video showed me the light
Thanks for opening my eyes brother!!
Time and validation is men only currency
I got your point but the other guy was way too off! Just keep the balance and everything will be fine
Who wants that?? Better two souls that love eachother!!
Just wanna say thank you! Since I discovered your videos back in April, it’s been an avalanche of info from not just you, but other videos from others that came up in recommended . I wasn’t even looking for such videos, nor did I know dating and life coaches existed. You guys just randomly popped up in my recommended, and just in time for when I needed all the advice. I bought your book back then and been watching your videos since. Keep up the good work!
My first girlfriend now my wife is Jocelyn! 💕 I'm happily married & madly in love with her alright! Thanks for sharing! Peace out! God bless you!
Do you have any childern? If yes. Are you sure ?
@Alex Llg thanks for the heads up, she can't cheat. Why you ask because she always takes me every single day where ever she goes. Plus I'm the one holding her phone since her pants doesn't have any pockets. She always lets me answer her phone calls or text.. And the money is in my atm as well as the passbook. Thanks for the concern, I truly appreciate it. Take care & have a nice day!
@@DynamiteKid1224 Yikes, that came across as really insecure.
You married your FIRST girlfriend?? Lol.
@@TravelWithBradley nope she always lets me hold her phone because she doesn't have a pocket on her pants plus I always carry her bag for her since she finds it heavy. Don't jump to conclusions Bro. Thanks.
And the Moral of the Story is:
Life is a Gift. But Living is a Series of Cost/Benefit Analyses. And the Near Certainty of the Headache and Heartache that a female will give you will NEVER be worth the Value that you give to her.
I never married. No kids (at least none that I know of). Stayed focused on my career. Saved and invested my money wisely instead of wasting it on the Money Pit euphemistically known as "dating." And as a result...retired comfortably at age 55 with more money than I can even think about spending the rest of my Life. So much so in fact, that I'm kicking myself for not retiring 13 months earlier. Doing so would have probably made my Jerk Boss have a second heart attack...who knows...maybe even The Big One. Had that occurred, I would have had my very own Special Ceremony at his grave. Just me and a 12 pack of beer ROFLMBO
If I were not living as a Happy Recluse and actually "put myself out there," I'm afraid to think of the Gold Diggers who would be after me for one...and only one...Reason.
MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) Forever!
Did you have any female companionship during that time?
@@daebak7370 Yes, I was in a Relationship. It ended in 2013. Now that I'm retired, I have all the time in the World to kick myself for not ending it before I did. And yes, I was the one who ended it. Every man has his breaking point.
Just one example: I had ten jobs in my Career, five I loved and five I hated. She made me quit two of the jobs I loved, said she would end our Relationship if I didn't. I caved both times, and in retrospect I hate myself for having done so.
Dom Jervis Boss shit mayne!
Many people said that u need to find a companion when ur life is unstable. When u already get a good life, u feel u dont need companionship.
@@domjervisYes! When you do what they want, you're screwed! Ask me how I know...
Long story short, don't consider them as important or think too hard on how to keep them attracted. See whether they are capable of proving to you they are keepers and then invest your time.
You only know what you truly want when you know yourself well and enjoy your life without needing a partner to enjoy it with.
It's the lesson I've learnt and trust me this is the harsh truth.
I agree with everything except the not making her kum part, you don't make her kum she'll find someone who will.
Make sure it's reciprocal...
I can relate.
Got a woman who cry in my shoulders over her cheating bf.
I was sincere to her and help her find internship then job. After all I've done, she goes back to her bf who is proud of her three gfs. Right on front of me, leaving me alone.
Never again.
I learn my lesson:
Be an asshole
Be a cheater
It's what women want.
Next time mentor a young man.
low quality women.
It’s a good win win situation. If she’s with you, you win. If she doesn’t want to be with you but you have things to do in life, you’d also win. It’s really not hard to understand.
The animated stories are so cool
ur thing scared the shit out of me
drew j what the fly
To sum it up:
MARRY YOUNG
TREAT THEM BAD
TELL THEM NOTHING
This comment section is awesome!
In other words don't simp
I found comment section is more knowledgeable than video..
"Whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them."
Matthew 13:12
I dont get it
@@MP-ct8em it means the rich get richer, and the poor get poorer.
@Oliver Allan the context was the last judgement and virtue resulting in better situation, lack of virtue = lack of rewards and fake virtue no good.
This feels like i just replayed my last 5 years
Clarification: Not giving a woman attention to win her over will only work if: 1) She feels a lot of attraction towards you. 2) Has issues with self-esteem and confidence.
So, if she actually has her ego in the stratosphere, when you don't give her attention she will dump you, tell you that she will look for a "REAL MAN", and then find herself a simp who will follow her every demand.
then you win anyway, you want to be in a relationship as 2 adults, not someone who's looking for a dog
I love your book taught me some valuable lessons
Hands down, u have the best channel on these topics.
never beg for love
What if the mere thought of getting into a relationship with anyone is so much of a risk that they dont
In Mexico we have this phrase “never give to a woman all of your money nor all your love” extremes are always bad.
I usually don't comment but this video is 100 percent right..
Well, guess that means I’m gonna be single for a long while. I don’t care if I die a virgin, if someone needs my help, they get my help, if I want to be as kind as possible, I’ll do it with fervor. The *last* thing I will ever do is bend my ideals to get laid.
Simp
Simp
Chris Mora You guys are fucked up😂😂😂😂😂
You should try the advice. And see the magic unfold
@@donearl04 you think so
But when does it tip over where she decides you just hurt her? And where does this investment start?
Just found your video. From now on, im trying to practice this, pray for me to get her heart in your way
You are not getting this if “your still trying to get her heart” she should be trying to get yours
@@jakemf1 youre right man. its been day 3 and got nothin. LoL
@@mupicap7927 Hold strong 3 days is nothing look at your life and find things to do
@@mupicap7927 3yrs now, how did it go?
We Indians got all the girls because we are romantic and dramatic like in the Bollywood movies. We are so talented.we can dance, we can sing, we can act , we can cry anytime we want. We are kings of acting.
Tu zada bol Diya re baba
It is so true! When I invest in a girl I don’t get her, when I don’t invest and I’m cheap I get some. I know is weird.
Im 22 never been in relationship i wish my 13yo self knew this
Don't go into a relationship in your 20's (unless you find a high value, unused woman). Build something up for yourself instead. You'll never have more time and carelessness in your life than in your 20's.
@@DDoonniiXX im 24 virgin never have a girlfriend. Thanks for this. I was about to harm myself
Spend your 20s focusing on your career, goals, hobbies, fitness and a property. Don’t worry about all the couples around you, by the time you are 30 they will all highly likely be separated anyway. Then when you’re 30 you’ll have found that your self investment will pay off so much. Besides, people chase you when you are focused on yourself anyway. Especially women 🤷♂️
@@ericonelavancena9492 being a virgin isnt bad
That's why you should always encourage your loved one to do things for you, building up attraction but not giving her everything she wants unless she is willing to do as much for you. Never settle for less and always be ready to leave for someone else if she doesn't put in enough effort. And if you do, let her know it so she understands what she lost. Make her suffer your absence. That way, if it ends with your other love later (don't sabotage it!!!) and you are still kind of interested, you can come back, check if she's single and see if she's interested in hanging out with you. Make her work for you and then, if you think she has earned you, treat her with proper love and respect, and don't be a jerk!
Because if you are this kind of jerk i will hunt you down and kill you. Maybe not literally, but by collecting and exposing your dark secrets to everyone. I don't care what you do to me in return. I AM Justice and I AM Love. And very Alpha. Have a nice day! ☺️❤️
my life is already between work and home. I don't chase any women and no women chase me in return. how can I find anyone then without making a move?
I miss you Chris Canwell! You are the cool uncle who knows all the tricks. Such an inspiration!
So many guys readily believing this. What is shown here also works for men. We people don't value things that come too easily. That is why the jerk gets more attention. Irl being a jerk or a too nice guy both has bad results. Nice guys watching this don't jump from one extreme to another i've tried this. You can't build long lasting relationships with either of them. Most important thing is while sexual attraction has some few mindgames going on, don't let your whole relationship become all about mindgames and "establishing dominance"- it ruins the genuinity of the relationship. The most important rule to me is balance in all things. If you keep it, you will be eligible for practically everything. Cheers.
You have the greatest voice for storytelling... Love it!
Claus Mikkelsen thanks, I appreciate it!
I was thinking the same.
I once wondered how the mind of a woman works. Then I threw 3 cats in a bag and shook it up really well. I have complete knowledge now of their minds.
So funny, when you don't care it starts working
This channel should be in cartoon network so that kids grow the right way and be happy 🔥
Happy Valentine’s Day Chris
The true dark secret of women right here.. The truth hurts, but will always, guaranteed - set you free.
This is really important advice. ..man must empress it if the want to endure good long lasting relationships
I’m currently living this, I’m nice to this woman friend all the time, she texts me every day all day but when I ask to see her at night she always declines me, we have slept together before but she says she rather keep it as just friends
Never chase a relationship
This is good advice, as long as you've got that combination of looks, personality, money and social status that women find attractive; otherwise they won't care. Basically be the best version of yourself that you can be, then make them chase you and never act like a supplicant.
OMG! This was crazy! But true.
Ok, but how do you get women begin and continue investing into you in the first place?
By being wealthy, or handsome, or having an amazing personality. (And before any of these, dress smartly, be polite, shower every day.)
Easy don't give her all the validation that these weak men give her. Looks and money has nothing to do with it. Make her feel insecure and play with her emotions. Make her think she got you then pull back on her. When she thinks you're going left you go right. Give her uncertainty.
@@stevechristie2569 I gotta work on the showering everyday part lol. 🧟♂️
Okay but what the hell happened to courtship!!?
If only I knew that 20 years ago 😜😂😂😂🤣👍
Even sugar, when taken too much, tastes bitter.
ya but not long after you crave it even more.
Stay woke Gents!
Treat‘ Em mean keep’em keen...
I hope you explain that there are women with healthy attachment styles who are worthy of attention and those with unhealthy attachment styles, who are in effect psychologically broken, and not suitable for relationship?
@@neotek303 this video isn’t about that
Women are attracted to strong dominate men and repulsed by weak nice guys who are accomodating. She wants to accomodate the man so he can provide and she can be the shorter weaker one and be pretty and supportive so she can act and be femine. It has nothing to do with attachment style as women vote with their feelings. In this video Cole was the bad ass who engages her emotions even if he is a jerk because it means provider for her babies.
The moment you realize that this video is talking about a specific kind of woman ( the one who is attracted to whom she cannot have and has deep emotional issues) , you realize that you dont want that girl . See these days more and more people are depressed and have emotional issues and hence it might work out for a lot of them girls ;) But you know better than that dear reader , dont you ?
This is so awesome! You always nail it! Period.
I would've ended the friendship then and there.
She will put a guy on Xbox or Playstation over you in real life, believe that. Chicks can be sick guys