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My mom: "You'll turn out straight eventually. I used to experiment with girls too! And then I just decided to be straight." Me: "I decided not to decide."
Also no because sexuality shouldn't infringe on how 'good' you see a relationship to be or even impact on how faithful you perceive a person to be either
Shhh, that's a perfectly valid concern! Instead of the 3,5 billion people most people are potentially attracted to, you are potentially attracted to 7 billion people. You _must_ be more tempted to cheat, numbers don't lie! *Sarcasm off * How did people even come up with that?!
Yeah like most people said they are straight while never even kissing or even had sex( how are most kids straight if they don't know what gender, and sex or having sexual intercourse is), then there's gay people who hid and lied about their sexuality, is now questioning us because straight never questioned their sexuality or had the ability to do so because they were either told by their parents or by society to like the opposite gender and gay people are saying that we are lying about ours because they feared for their safety seems very hypocritical and seem so possessive like why do even care
“Bi women are really straight/Bi men are really gay.” Weird how the common factor in that implying bi people can’t be with women. I could hear that out of most homophobic straight guys’ mouthes, and it screams jealousy. 😏
@@ellouisebadger849 right and men are great and everything, but then, so are women and nonbinary people... like they need to give us more credit here lol
@@Liloldliz And here it took me ages to figure out the obvious because I was like: "Well, surely EVERYONE thinks most women are pretty, right? That's just an objective fact."
@@jozefienvoets2744 I'm asexual and agender, but all the attractions I do have are bi (I recently realized) so same boat, different model. Technically all mine would be straight if I wasn't married because they have a gender and I don't, unless it's another agender person.
Since this just got a like and I therefore remember it a little update. I may not be agender. I felt little to no connection to my body for quite a long time and no awareness of having a gender but two months ago I was still a heavily repressed and dysphoric egg. Whether I'm a non-binary trans femme or a trans woman gender wise is a bit up in the air at the moment. Definitely get gender euphoria from femme things at times and glimmers of feeling femme but I could just be a bit fluid. I'm adopting a wait and see attitude for the moment.
@@erink476 not sure. it might be? Thankfully I am quite confident in the arena of my sexual identity, so I told her off. Hopefully that helps the next person. But I can't stop imagining what that would do to someone with internalised biphobia or someone questioning...
Sure I guess you gotta decide if you're dating someone wether you wanna be in a relationship with them but there's no connection with being bi so idk what your therapist was going for
“today we are getting very bisexual” biness bisexualness bicycles bisexuwhale edit: lol didn’t expect so many likes and comments! thank y’all and thanks for the comments liking my pfp lol! 💗💜💙
"no,you're pan!" I have actually got told this before when I say I would date a trans or nb person without any issue at all. And I don't like it bc I don't have a problem with the label pansexual I just prefer bisexual,it feels more like... Well,me.
Same. I use bi because that's the term I knew growing up. It's just more familiar to me. Every definition I hear sounds like bi is the umbrella term and things like pan and omni are just specific types of bi... or at least that's what it seems like to me anyway
Same! The NB/trans inclusion makes me feel I could be bi, poly, pan, or omni. I'm not genderblind, so I consider myself bi or omni. I use bi the most because I don't feel like explaining omnisexual constantly, but I think it boils down to which flag/label you like the most lol
I agree this channel is a safe one as it doesn’t have homophobic or transphobic people hiding in the comments of comments. Well, at least I haven’t seen any yet. Stay away mean people, this is a nice space.
What really left a small scar on my sexuality was when I was reading a story about how this Gay man came out and realized he is gay. In the end, he said, that he doesn't think Bisexuality exists, because ''It's a phase before you realize your true sexuality''. That was like so disgusting from a fellow LGBT member...
my cat is actually bi! I saw him trying to mate with both a guy cat(Melon) and a girl cat(Fluff) He got as far as to bite their neck, and then both cats ran away Melon even punched him lol
@@starhill6792 Hi just wanted to point out that my cat is also gay, and it's very funny because he always brings his cat boyfriends or crushes in our garden as if he wanted us to meet them it's so adorable
Well dogs are pretty much all gay as their personalities are so masculine regardless of biological sex. Domestic cats have become pretty similar to dogs in personality from constant interactions. Thus, I kind of think dogs and cats don't really have deep issues with sexuality as I presume "romance" with both of their biological sexes feels the same. So I think dogs and cats are probably mostly faucultive bi. Well humans would be like that if we had such similar personalities across biological sex, considering we can often get aroused by someone we meet just through text, without even seeing their body.
Domesticated cats are "naturally" bi in that they'll have sex with the same sex during "heat" - in a similar way certain toads change gender, or can self-impregnate
Being bisexual is like being so in love with a girl and thinking there will never be a man who will ever make you feel anywhere near as good and getting your heart broken then meeting that guy and falling in love with him instead.
As a pansexual. It's easy. Bi people are not attracted to everyone. They are attracted to more than 1 gender. Pansexuals do not care about gender and dont have any preferences. Omni people also love all genders but they have preferences.
Iehw I can't even imagine being attracted to my friends. Yes I love them to death but not in that way. But that is just weird. Why would bisexuals be attracted to their friends and gay and straight people not? That doesn't make any sense.
There's enough stock images of these 3 people I've seen several narratives created. I guarantee they were just doing a photoshoot and did every combination they could think of for each scenario
Me: *most likely going to marry my boyfriend* Also me: *having more girl crushes than guy crushes in my life* Random person on the street: you are straight cause you have a boyfriend
I remember this one video Tom Scott did where his viewers voted on what the best thing was and Bisexuality scored REALLY fucking high on the list (way above Heterosexuality) and that made me so happy.
I knew my mom finally “got it” when she asked whether I liked Peeta or Gale better, then paused, and said “well you might like Katniss best.” ❤️💙💜. Also I have a button that says “Bi, Poly, and still not onto YOU” which I’m too afraid to wear. 😂
Omfg, in the battle of Edward vs Jacob my sister told me to pick a side and I said Bella. My sister yelled at me and told me I couldn't pick Bella, because she wasn't a side. I just told her I wanted Bella to be happy, and my mom told my sister to stop it and I could pick Bella. Bella was the only character I had a shirt of. Best part is I don't even like twilight, I just watched it because it was funny to me.
ok so the way I remember how the flag goes is picture it as a lake, you have a lake (blue), mountains (purple), and the setting sun in the sky (pink). It's probably over the top but it's just how I remember
This was the last video I watched yesterday before finally taking the leap and coming out as bisexual to my family, friends, and coworkers. Thank you for being one of the final nudges I needed to love myself and feel valid. It was 30 years in the making. (Also, because I know you like knowing the ending- I was accepted with nothing but love and varying degrees of indifference!)
"the only person who has something to say with your sexuality is beautiful you". This sentence implies the existence of a really handsome clone of me who can decide my sexual attraction, and I am scared.
Straight people: *sitting in their chairs as intended* Gay/Lesbian people: *sitting in their chairs slightly sideways* Bisexual people: *perching on the backrest or forming a spiral* Pansexual people: *spinning like a record* Asexual people: *levitating* Tag yourselves :D
So a lot of people are telling me that everyone just says they're bi in middle school to be cool or smth after I come out to them, When really I've known I was a bisexual since I was a 3 year old and have had crushes on both boys and girls my entire life-
"The four horsemen of the Bisexual Apicalypse:" Me, who uses all of those hand gestures: oh... I see. For context, I am at a very sexually confusing time in my life.
"You're not bisexual if you haven't dated a..." makes zero sense. Is everyone who is yet to go on a first date Asexual? If you enjoy dating people of one gender but date someone of another gender out of curiosity but decide its not for you are you now bi anyway because you dated both genders? Besides, if you have to date someone of a gender to know you're sexually attracted to that gender then surely that implies that everyone who claims to be straight but has only ever dated one gender of person can't really know.
EX👏ACT👏LY👏 It makes me upset seeing baby bi+ ppl feel like they can’t state their sexuality with certainty because the rules put on us are different than the rules put on straights. Straight ppl are assumed straight out of the womb and don’t have to do anything or prove it to anyone, why should we?
@@mallory1304 Not just baby bi+ people! (Bi+ sounds pretty cool!) I'm Gen-X & I've known I was bi since the Dark Ages, like about 1992, but I don't always feel like I "count" as bi cos I've never had a proper girlfriend & I probably won't, so I don't get prejudice- even tho if someone else said that, I'd tell them it was silly, & if they know they're bi, they're bi, end of. We end up putting those stupid rules on ourselves sometimes, & it sux.
Absolutely no offense, you spoke absolute facts! but Asexuals actually can have romantic relationships, they just don’t want sexual ones. Those who don’t want romantic relationships would be Aromantic : D
Exactly! Whenever anyone asks how I know I’m bi if I haven’t dated anyone I always ask how u knew u were straight before dating gets them every time lol
Where I live, we often have jam made from blueberries and raspberries, called queen's jam. It's way better than either blueberry or raspberry jam. Seeing that wildberry sorbet candle made me realize that queen's jam is bisexual culture at its finest.
Also, when my bf asked me how would I know Im bi when I haven't been with a woman... my answer was, well, how did you know you were straight when you were younger and had never been with a woman?
Think about whether you wanna touch her, if the answer is yes, then you like her, if the answer is no, you want to be her. Now you tell me this, am I pretentious with guys when my heart isn't reacting to no one, or is my heart just on a strike? (i'm demi)
Just had a very long discussion with my coworkers last friday about how I have to "choose a side" and how I can't "keep putting off that decision and hide behind a made up label". I explained to them that I will always stay being bi no matter who I'm in a relationship with. They went on to say that my partner won't feel true love then and how I will hurt them by "keeping the other door open". I just gave up since it was so draining to talk to them. Because of that, this video was such a blessing! I feel a lot better now, bisexuality isn't really accepted in my area and because I refuse to closet myself, lots of people feel like they have to change my mind. I want to normalise being bi so I try to stand strong and videos like this help me to keep going. Thank you Jamie for making quality bisexual content 💕
Today on the bus I saw a cute tall girl and I was like omg she's so pretty, then looked behind her and saw a cute tall boy and I was like omg he's so pretty. I then kinda just quietly said to myself: ...yes...I'm still bi
I’m Pan and I’m in a “straight” relationship with my boyfriend... and my other guy friend was so confused by that and keeps asking me “so your straight but also gay...” oop
I'm bisexual and married to a "straight" man (who actually has more experience with his own gender than I do) and... someone in the Bi community said that relationships like ours are "mixed orientation," NOT straight. I can dig that ✌
I thought I was pan for a long time, and kept keeping the doubts of my sexuality down because I felt bad for saying things like, "I prefer girls more", but now I know I'm bi, and I'm glad that I'm finally happy with my sexuality.
0:23 "Welcome, yes, thank you for clicking on this video, I hope you're gonna enjoy it here today, today we're getting very bisexual.. All the bi- the biness, the bi... sexuallness.... the- bicycles- no, no bicycles.." This intro made my day
This was such a fun video, thank you Jamie!!! Loved it all and made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside as a bi girl who's dating a man and still second guesses her identity
Bisexual energy is simping for cartoon characters in every single game/show where there's hot anime boys and girls Edit: I am pan but I can still relate to this on every level Have yall seen the stardew Valley mod that turns them all into hot anime people? That slapppsss
I feel called out. I’m currently simping for a good chunk of Crash Bandicoot characters because everybody looks gorgeous in the new game. Simping for every genderbend in existence is also bi energy.
Anime has an art style literally trying to make everyone look attractive. I don’t understand how straight or gay people watch anime and are just like, yeah I don’t think half of these people are attractive. I respect it and know it’s true but like, you’re telling me you don’t want to kidnap all of them???
I once dreamt my ex bf as a woman and he/she was hot. Afterwards I asked him if he would still like me, not necessarily being with me, if I was exactly the same in personality but as a guy and he said "absolutely not". That was a shock for me in the moment because it was the first time I realized that not everyone finds all genders attractive and that maybe I wasn't straight after all. Up until then I assumed straight girls see other people like I do, especially with people making jokes like "I would go gay for..." or "I'm not gay but I would totally do this with...", so it took me a while to say confidently that I'm bisexual and not straight. People are saying bisexuals are confusing when straight people make this kind of jokes?
@@vuivraalbastra Eh, I think a lot of people who make those jokes probably aren’t as straight as they think they are. Compulsory heterosexuality and all. (But of course it’s nobody’s place to tell somebody else how to identify!)
I'm not bi but I love being one of Jamie's spuds, and my partner has an antidote to "you have to choose": she's polyamorous and has one partner from each end of the gender spectrum.
As a pansexual, I apologize to all the bisexuals who were told "No, you're pansextual!" That's got to be so frustrating and it makes me sad that we can't always get along because someone feels the need to step on someone else's identity (for what reason WTF knows). Just go with your gut and go by (bi hehe) what makes you comfortable and who you see yourself as. The attempt of erasure of either is absolutely silly and it helps nobody at all. Just be you and support each other with positivity and validation.
sometimes I feel like I'm faking being bisexual and I should just pick a side but then I watch a movie or a TV show and I see everyone in it and then I'm like oh my God everyone is so beautiful and I want to give everyone hugs and bake them all cookies and then I realize that I'm actually bisexual
That's SO a thing, isn't it! I think "oh, I'm mostly straight", then I watch something & I'm like, "I'm swooning over an awful lot of girls for a straight girl..." :D
@@beth7935 anyway, the idea that sex is somehow not wholesome is a misguided idea imo. ofc, it can take place in ways that harm people, but as long as it is consensual and safe? what is supposed to make it dirty, ynkow
Where my multisexual fam at My Bi brethren 💖💜💙 My Pan peeps 💖💛💙 My Poly peeps💖💚💙 And my Omni allies💖🖤💜💙 (They don't have the correct colors for Omni I tried my best)
👡👒🕶👖👗 My representation of omni flag I feel like most ppl don't know about omni It's okay if you don't know Just be supportive and not ignorant I'm omni btw
The bi-erasure thing is why I love legends of tomorrow so much, they have so many bi characters and at least one of them actually says she's bi a few times.
So I just discovered your channel like...yesterday. And a few things: 1) They make me smile 2) You and Shaaba are adorable and also make me smile 3) Now that I've finally found an intro into bi culture I feel like I'm legally obligated to cuff my pants now...??? 4) Part of Bi Bingo should be an assumption of non-monogamy. Like, I--a cis woman--had been married to a cis man for 6 years when I came out to my dad and he immediately asked how my attraction to women works in the context of a monogamous marriage. (He finally got it when I explained that he doesn't go around picking up women even though he's married.) But mostly, your videos have really helped me. As a bi woman in a straight-passing, monogamous marriage to a straight cis man, only having had one (long distance) same-sex partner who later came out as trans, I've often felt like I'm not "gay enough" for the LGBTQ+ community. At pride a couple years ago I was talking to someone, mentioned my husband, and immediately she asked "oh, so you're an ally?" So...yeah. Videos like this make me feel seen and feel valid at times when I don't feel gay enough, and don't really feel like I have a legitimate connection with queer culture. Thanks. :)
As a bisexual I can confirm that I am still baffled by the fake pocket concept. Why make a pocket that's only there for show?! What joy does it bring you?
The one about watching a movie where everyone is cute reminded me of how obsessed I used to be with The Mummy (1999). 😂 Especially Rachel Weisz's character definitely had an influence on the type of woman I'm into.
it's kind of crazy for me to think how when i was younger i had a lot of internalized biphobia saying stupid shit like "i wouldn't date a bisexual person" and i'm bi... i really want to slap my younger self lol
my younger self was the sane way and wen i realized how bi i am my brain was like "well shit-" srrsky tho i think my brain just wanted to see how long i could go without realizing 😂
"So how did you find out you were Bi?" Me: [remembers the time i changed positions on a chair for 3 hours nonstop]. . . Zuko from avatar. . . Edit: also Ty lee in the amber island episode
I always start sitting in a chair properly but end up either sitting on the edge (which works great for my cat as he can sit behind me) or slumped down so far that getting up can sometimes be problematic LOL!
me sitting and watching this with a bob haircut, beanie, turtleneck t-shirt combo, eyeliner, cuffed pants, and an iced coffee despite the winter weather : oh, you called?
Is "turtleneck tshirt combo" wearing a tshirt over some kind of long-sleeved top? Cos a truly frightening number of these stereotypes fit, & that's my goddamn UNIFORM... but really, I just haven't acknowledged that the 90s ended :D
Down with Fake Pockets.
Down with the fake pocket Monarchy!
real pockets only >:0
We will storm the clothing companies with our witchcraft pockets!
Ayyy, OT, was just watching you before I clicked on this notification *finger guns*
Delete the fake pockets real pockets are far better
"You're confused"
I mean yeah, constantly. But what does that have to do with my sexuality?
I can relate
Thats fantastic.. also same tho
Lol
relating to this in a spiritual level
I spat out my metaphorical juice 😅
“So does that mean you’ll sleep with me?”
I’m bi mate, not desperate
Daaaaaaamn! 🤣🤭
Yooooooooooooo 🤣
"Oh not a chance, I have standards"
Professionals have standards
"officer, here is where the murder occured"
My mom: "You'll turn out straight eventually. I used to experiment with girls too! And then I just decided to be straight."
Me: "I decided not to decide."
Woah your mom might also be bi
Your mom got some internalized biphobia right there
Think of how easy it would be for people who have to live with homophobic family members to ‘just decide to be straight’.
@@angiewinchester3384 Oh I know... my mom's so far in the closet, she's somewhere in Narnia...
I've news for your mom 😭🥳
'isn't your partner worried you'll cheat?' No because she trusts me and she is also bi
Your as likely to cheat as a straight person
DATING OTHER BI PPL IS GREAT
Also no because sexuality shouldn't infringe on how 'good' you see a relationship to be or even impact on how faithful you perceive a person to be either
Shhh, that's a perfectly valid concern! Instead of the 3,5 billion people most people are potentially attracted to, you are potentially attracted to 7 billion people. You _must_ be more tempted to cheat, numbers don't lie!
*Sarcasm off * How did people even come up with that?!
@@LieutenantSheep it's amazing to be partners with a fellow bisexual! We connect on crushes in a way two straight partners never can!
Jamie: "Here is a bisexual bingo"
Also Jamie: *moves the squares all over the screen so you can't do them as a bingo board*
I thought that was odd as well
doubles as a puzzle
@@colinouille2786 it doesn't double as anything if it can't do one of the functions lol
@@gaanadelrey solve puzzle, play bingo
@@gaanadelrey shhhh logic isn't welcome here /j
i have a bi joke: "Bisexuals mention their sexuality in every conversation, bi"
Bi then
buh bi
LMAO BI 💀
Bi guys, im going to bed
hahah bi hahah
“You’re not really bisexual if you haven’t dated a...”
18 year old me whos never been in a relationship
Well...
Solidarity
With that logic we are aro/ace (dunno about you, but I'm definitely not)
Same here.
same
Yeah like most people said they are straight while never even kissing or even had sex( how are most kids straight if they don't know what gender, and sex or having sexual intercourse is), then there's gay people who hid and lied about their sexuality, is now questioning us because straight never questioned their sexuality or had the ability to do so because they were either told by their parents or by society to like the opposite gender and gay people are saying that we are lying about ours because they feared for their safety seems very hypocritical and seem so possessive like why do even care
What Jamie says: goodbye
What I hear: good, bi
Me: crying because yes, yes I am a good bi thank you
thank you for putting this in my head
I want a dog who I can call a good bi.
I love this comment! You should make a meme out of it
@@peacefulleopard8016 who's a good bi? Who's a good bi? Is it you? Is it you??
LMAO
"I'm a mixed berry sorbet" just thought you all should know.
Good for you! Im... what's the code for confused as f-?
@@phoenixandco.8033 What do you mean? If you watched the video you will know what i meant, what you confused about?
@Kirah Newton I think they meant that they are confused about their sexuality
@@lillyfenton7689 Oh haha yea, i didn't think about that :/
@@kirahnewton7684 it's fine person
Bisexual female life is wanting a cute gf but getting a fluffy haired gamer bf 😅
I didn’t expect to get called out like this, lol
Other way around for me
*laughs in single*
Wait what that's literally what happened to me
*laughs in has cute trans fluffy haired gamer bf*
I met a guy who called himself "Pi" (pan/bi). As a bi girl myself, I couldn't resist making the joke... "As long as you don't ask me for a 3.14-some."
Threesomes are nice, though. But 3.14-somes... Let's just say that I don't know what 0.14 of a human is, and that I definitely don't want to.
Brilliant 💖💜💙
As a bisexual, panoramic.. Ima steal it
OMG 👏🏻😂💜
Best comment ever award right here --> 🥇
“Bi women are really straight/Bi men are really gay.” Weird how the common factor in that implying bi people can’t be with women. I could hear that out of most homophobic straight guys’ mouthes, and it screams jealousy. 😏
Honesty I hear gay men and lesbians saying the same thing
@@rorolilred as an omnisexual i can relate.
basically all bi people are assumed to prefer men 😐😂
@@ellouisebadger849 right and men are great and everything, but then, so are women and nonbinary people... like they need to give us more credit here lol
@@Liloldliz And here it took me ages to figure out the obvious because I was like: "Well, surely EVERYONE thinks most women are pretty, right? That's just an objective fact."
"you'll end up being gay or straight one day!" oH YEAH? * marries an enby person *
Your goals are beyond their understanding
Me, pan: ends up marrying bigender person
I’m bisexual and nonbinary so no matter who I end up dating, it’s always gonna be gay
@@jozefienvoets2744 I'm asexual and agender, but all the attractions I do have are bi (I recently realized) so same boat, different model. Technically all mine would be straight if I wasn't married because they have a gender and I don't, unless it's another agender person.
Since this just got a like and I therefore remember it a little update. I may not be agender.
I felt little to no connection to my body for quite a long time and no awareness of having a gender but two months ago I was still a heavily repressed and dysphoric egg. Whether I'm a non-binary trans femme or a trans woman gender wise is a bit up in the air at the moment. Definitely get gender euphoria from femme things at times and glimmers of feeling femme but I could just be a bit fluid. I'm adopting a wait and see attitude for the moment.
The "you'll have to choose eventually" thing? Yeah, my therapist said that to me once 🎉🙄
wow. I think that might actually be malpractice?
@@erink476 not sure. it might be? Thankfully I am quite confident in the arena of my sexual identity, so I told her off. Hopefully that helps the next person. But I can't stop imagining what that would do to someone with internalised biphobia or someone questioning...
@@crazyhairsinger exactly.
sounds like a horrible theripist im sorry no
Sure I guess you gotta decide if you're dating someone wether you wanna be in a relationship with them but there's no connection with being bi so idk what your therapist was going for
“today we are getting very bisexual”
biness
bisexualness
bicycles
bisexuwhale
edit: lol didn’t expect so many likes and comments! thank y’all and thanks for the comments liking my pfp lol! 💗💜💙
*pfp is everything*
This is what it means to be a true bisexual
Lol, I dunno why, but that whole section gave me Markiplier "Was that the Bi?!" vibes.
I have to draw a bisexuwhale now
buy shrek shoe all
I love how the title just has a mere mention of bisexual and I come running 🏃♂️
Edit: I didn’t think I’d get so many likes/comments 😅 I love y’all ❤️
Yep
Same though. Lol
Same ✌
SAME LMFAO
Same
when i came out as bi to my mother she was just like "me too" (i just think this is funny so i wanted to share it)
Aww I love that
"no,you're pan!"
I have actually got told this before when I say I would date a trans or nb person without any issue at all. And I don't like it bc I don't have a problem with the label pansexual I just prefer bisexual,it feels more like... Well,me.
Identify how you want words are weird IMO
Same. But from now on I will just be a mixed berry sorbet!
Same. I use bi because that's the term I knew growing up. It's just more familiar to me. Every definition I hear sounds like bi is the umbrella term and things like pan and omni are just specific types of bi... or at least that's what it seems like to me anyway
Same! The NB/trans inclusion makes me feel I could be bi, poly, pan, or omni. I'm not genderblind, so I consider myself bi or omni.
I use bi the most because I don't feel like explaining omnisexual constantly, but I think it boils down to which flag/label you like the most lol
As a baby bisexual, I very much appreciate this little safe space on the internet. Thanks everyone for being awesome 🥰
@@cloudiiblossom yeah sure
I know what you mean, the little safe space in the internet made me so happy when I first realised my sexuality
I agree this channel is a safe one as it doesn’t have homophobic or transphobic people hiding in the comments of comments. Well, at least I haven’t seen any yet. Stay away mean people, this is a nice space.
Hey lovely people! I love how sometimes old comments I forgot all about resurface :) happy pride month everyone!
Baby bisexual too but super nurvouse about it cause of all the biphobia.
“I feel like my tee-shirt is more big trans energy than big bisexual energy”
My brain: “BIG ENERGY”
Big Energy industry trying to sell us vibes at a higher price
What really left a small scar on my sexuality was when I was reading a story about how this Gay man came out and realized he is gay. In the end, he said, that he doesn't think Bisexuality exists, because ''It's a phase before you realize your true sexuality''. That was like so disgusting from a fellow LGBT member...
Yeaaah, people are asses even in this community... I feel your pain.
tbf it can be a crossroads for some people, but I don't understand why some people feel the need to bash us for just liking both
I guess if you started out gay and ended up bi, then gay is just a phase? /s
People: You have to pick a side
Me, a Non-binary, Biromantic, Gemini: I've never made a real decision in my life, and I don't plan on starting now.
I’m also a Gemini ♊︎
@@fern8018 GANG GANG
As a bisexual gemini, I confirm
my cat is actually bi!
I saw him trying to mate with both a guy cat(Melon) and a girl cat(Fluff)
He got as far as to bite their neck, and then both cats ran away
Melon even punched him lol
Pretty sure my cat is gay
Not sure if that’s relevant but yeah
@@starhill6792 Hi just wanted to point out that my cat is also gay, and it's very funny because he always brings his cat boyfriends or crushes in our garden as if he wanted us to meet them it's so adorable
Well dogs are pretty much all gay as their personalities are so masculine regardless of biological sex. Domestic cats have become pretty similar to dogs in personality from constant interactions.
Thus, I kind of think dogs and cats don't really have deep issues with sexuality as I presume "romance" with both of their biological sexes feels the same. So I think dogs and cats are probably mostly faucultive bi. Well humans would be like that if we had such similar personalities across biological sex, considering we can often get aroused by someone we meet just through text, without even seeing their body.
Domesticated cats are "naturally" bi in that they'll have sex with the same sex during "heat" - in a similar way certain toads change gender, or can self-impregnate
@@danielcrafter9349 Even when their genitals have been taken off ? (Il don't know what's the actual word for it)
Say it with me folks,
You DON'T _need_ to be a 50/50 bi
To be bi
for me it's like: 1:01....lmao....this just hits the nail for me :D
Precisely, you can have a preference
Me, whose preference seems to be a sliding scale: :D
“a little game of bisexual bingo”
r/pansexual: “W E H A V E B E E N S U M M O N E D”
“You aren’t bi if you haven’t dated....”
I’m not bi, i’m lesbian, but by that logic i’m asexual.
Same apparently
And aromantic
lol people also say “how do you know if your ace/aro if you have never tryed dating anyone. “
This game is rigged.
Being bisexual is like being so in love with a girl and thinking there will never be a man who will ever make you feel anywhere near as good and getting your heart broken then meeting that guy and falling in love with him instead.
im pansexual but that-
describes me so perfectly BAHAHAHA
i feel like that's oddly specific
@@cinniemon it is oddly specific.
Foreshadowing?
@@themagicalmess4742 If referring to my own life experiences is forshadowing
The "No, you're pan" actually triggered my fight or flight response
And then they get the “you’re actually bi” like it’s annoying and like people just can’t win
“You’re bi.”
“Okay.”
“You’re pan.”
“....”
“You’re bi”
“Shouldn’t I deci-“
“You’re pan.... you... you are lesbian”
( ˙-˙ )
I hate it so much 😭
As a pansexual. It's easy. Bi people are not attracted to everyone. They are attracted to more than 1 gender. Pansexuals do not care about gender and dont have any preferences. Omni people also love all genders but they have preferences.
@@dolliexzo I mean yeah I think that’s pretty much the basic idea although people should just use whatever they think is comfy for them
“I just wanted to show a little bit of pansexual love in this”
Thank you, we appreciate it
"Isnt your partner worried you'll cheat" comes from the assumption that you cant be friends with people you might be attracted to, which is 🌈wrong🌈
Iehw I can't even imagine being attracted to my friends. Yes I love them to death but not in that way. But that is just weird. Why would bisexuals be attracted to their friends and gay and straight people not? That doesn't make any sense.
Title: big bisexual energy
My girlfriend: *aggressive clicking*
People : "You have to pick a side."
Me, a non-binary, bisexual Libra : "I have found the Perfect Poise, and I don't intend to break it."
Me, a bisexual polyamorous gemini: why not both?
Me, a bisexual, bipolar Libra: You _really_ don't want to see what happens when I pick a side. Trust me.
Me a bi Hufflepuff INFP Libra: I can't I'm indecisive and a hopeless romantic, I can meet a person in a bus and I could imagine getting old with them.
Me, a bicycle : "But I gotta keep pedaling!"
me, a genderfluid, bisexual, capricorn: why not everything?
I feel so called out rn. The “why does my back hurt” meme is literally how I’m sitting.
I remember fellow kids whose parents divorced and the mother "became lesbian". I only recently realised that they might've been bi...
About that last meme:
There is actually a series of these images. But the story of them ends with the two women getting married.
Itt's like a whole narrative, i like how (perhaps even unwittingly) the stock image people did that lmao
I was looking in the comments to see if anyone would mention this
There's enough stock images of these 3 people I've seen several narratives created. I guarantee they were just doing a photoshoot and did every combination they could think of for each scenario
Me: *most likely going to marry my boyfriend*
Also me: *having more girl crushes than guy crushes in my life*
Random person on the street: you are straight cause you have a boyfriend
Haha same...
:(
Same!😱
"Why are you bi, just choose a gender"
Well karen why are you biracial just choose a race
Well shannon whyare you bilingual just chpose a language
I remember this one video Tom Scott did where his viewers voted on what the best thing was and Bisexuality scored REALLY fucking high on the list (way above Heterosexuality) and that made me so happy.
I knew my mom finally “got it” when she asked whether I liked Peeta or Gale better, then paused, and said “well you might like Katniss best.” ❤️💙💜.
Also I have a button that says “Bi, Poly, and still not onto YOU” which I’m too afraid to wear. 😂
That’s brilliant!
HUNGER GAMES
Omfg, in the battle of Edward vs Jacob my sister told me to pick a side and I said Bella. My sister yelled at me and told me I couldn't pick Bella, because she wasn't a side. I just told her I wanted Bella to be happy, and my mom told my sister to stop it and I could pick Bella. Bella was the only character I had a shirt of.
Best part is I don't even like twilight, I just watched it because it was funny to me.
Oh dear, I NEED A BUTTON LIKE THAT! And I'd totally wear it because I'm 51 years old and do not care what anyone thinks of my queerness.
ok so the way I remember how the flag goes is picture it as a lake, you have a lake (blue), mountains (purple), and the setting sun in the sky (pink). It's probably over the top but it's just how I remember
Honestly, same with the pan flag! Pink sunset, yellow for the sun itself, and blue for a lake!
@@izzygalax oooo that's really smart thank you
@@izzygalax I was just going to say the same thing!
@@izzygalax Yellow can be a dune of sand. ^^
Or you go from lightest to darkest xD
This was the last video I watched yesterday before finally taking the leap and coming out as bisexual to my family, friends, and coworkers.
Thank you for being one of the final nudges I needed to love myself and feel valid. It was 30 years in the making.
(Also, because I know you like knowing the ending- I was accepted with nothing but love and varying degrees of indifference!)
The bisexual energy is so insane it is melting my heart and reforming it into a mixed berry candle 😏
Jamie: "I am... never gonna give you up. Or hurt you"'
Me: "But you let me down"
as someone who came out as bi like a week ago i’m VERY excited for this :D
@Thomas Bohlen congratulations on coming out, mate! have a wonderful day :^)
@@justicefordannyphantom7126 you’re so nice ahh!! thank you!!
Ahh thats awesome!! (From a fellow bi 😁)
Congrats 💖💜💙💖💜💙💖💜💙💖💜💙
I hope the people you meet are as accepting as the people in my life (very accepting)
My bi goal, I want to get a t-shirt that says "I'm not gay but my boyfriend is"
"the only person who has something to say with your sexuality is beautiful you". This sentence implies the existence of a really handsome clone of me who can decide my sexual attraction, and I am scared.
i would let her decide 😳😳😳 i mean uh nothing
@@stevie8271 I understand you...I mean what ?
Straight people: *sitting in their chairs as intended*
Gay/Lesbian people: *sitting in their chairs slightly sideways*
Bisexual people: *perching on the backrest or forming a spiral*
Pansexual people: *spinning like a record*
Asexual people: *levitating*
Tag yourselves :D
Omnisexual people: spinning around but counterclockwise
Okay sorry, but....
Pansexual : ✨YOU SPINN ME RIGHT ROUND, BABY RIGHT ROUND-✨
@@windcrystal1349 that was exactly what I was going for
DUDE I SPIN IN MY CHAIRS SO MUCH OMG LMAO
Perched on the chair, but levitating-
I literally give up on my sexuality nothing seems to fit lmao
i see you everywhere wh
Maybe you are... Everything
nice pfp
I SEE YOU EVERYWHERE WHAT
“Labels are for canned fruit” -KrisPnatz :)
So a lot of people are telling me that everyone just says they're bi in middle school to be cool or smth after I come out to them,
When really I've known I was a bisexual since I was a 3 year old and have had crushes on both boys and girls my entire life-
"The four horsemen of the Bisexual Apicalypse:"
Me, who uses all of those hand gestures: oh... I see.
For context, I am at a very sexually confusing time in my life.
I also use all of them(I don't use thumbs up often but it still happens) and I'm ace lol
@@sylphsmovingstories3986 OMG same! XD hello my fellow ace 👉👉 lots of love from a ace bi weirdo ✌
"You're not bisexual if you haven't dated a..." makes zero sense. Is everyone who is yet to go on a first date Asexual? If you enjoy dating people of one gender but date someone of another gender out of curiosity but decide its not for you are you now bi anyway because you dated both genders? Besides, if you have to date someone of a gender to know you're sexually attracted to that gender then surely that implies that everyone who claims to be straight but has only ever dated one gender of person can't really know.
Then you arent straight either or anything iys just like i am bi myself
EX👏ACT👏LY👏
It makes me upset seeing baby bi+ ppl feel like they can’t state their sexuality with certainty because the rules put on us are different than the rules put on straights. Straight ppl are assumed straight out of the womb and don’t have to do anything or prove it to anyone, why should we?
@@mallory1304 Not just baby bi+ people! (Bi+ sounds pretty cool!) I'm Gen-X & I've known I was bi since the Dark Ages, like about 1992, but I don't always feel like I "count" as bi cos I've never had a proper girlfriend & I probably won't, so I don't get prejudice- even tho if someone else said that, I'd tell them it was silly, & if they know they're bi, they're bi, end of. We end up putting those stupid rules on ourselves sometimes, & it sux.
Absolutely no offense, you spoke absolute facts! but Asexuals actually can have romantic relationships, they just don’t want sexual ones. Those who don’t want romantic relationships would be Aromantic : D
Exactly! Whenever anyone asks how I know I’m bi if I haven’t dated anyone I always ask how u knew u were straight before dating gets them every time lol
Where I live, we often have jam made from blueberries and raspberries, called queen's jam. It's way better than either blueberry or raspberry jam. Seeing that wildberry sorbet candle made me realize that queen's jam is bisexual culture at its finest.
Big Scandinavian Energy 😂✋🏻
Wish I had some right now
@@northerndestination In my case, just to be geographically exact, Nordic energy. 😀
Wait that's an actual thing? I assumed it was made up for Valheim. Cool stuff.
Also, when my bf asked me how would I know Im bi when I haven't been with a woman... my answer was, well, how did you know you were straight when you were younger and had never been with a woman?
I was reading a book earlier today and the main protagonist of it stated flat out stated that he was bisexual and I just lost it-
PLEASE TELL ME WHAT BOOK THIS IS
@@randommeowthekitty6482They never replied🥲🥲🥲
"Do I like her or do I want to be her?"
me. always.
Ok same tho
Think about whether you wanna touch her, if the answer is yes, then you like her, if the answer is no, you want to be her. Now you tell me this, am I pretentious with guys when my heart isn't reacting to no one, or is my heart just on a strike? (i'm demi)
Damn, being genderfluid makes this question so much harder!!! Especially when the answer is just "Yes."
Ohno
Just had a very long discussion with my coworkers last friday about how I have to "choose a side" and how I can't "keep putting off that decision and hide behind a made up label". I explained to them that I will always stay being bi no matter who I'm in a relationship with. They went on to say that my partner won't feel true love then and how I will hurt them by "keeping the other door open". I just gave up since it was so draining to talk to them.
Because of that, this video was such a blessing! I feel a lot better now, bisexuality isn't really accepted in my area and because I refuse to closet myself, lots of people feel like they have to change my mind. I want to normalise being bi so I try to stand strong and videos like this help me to keep going. Thank you Jamie for making quality bisexual content 💕
You are valid and your coworker is completely clueless. Keep on being your lovely true self ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜.
May the Bi'es be wise...💜💙💗
"Oh, well then, after getting a partner you should become asexual. After all, a door is a door" :v
Thanks for staying strong, I'm sure your example is a shining beacon of hope for other closeted people around you. ❤️
That's like saying you could hurt your partner because other people of the same gender exist
Today on the bus I saw a cute tall girl and I was like omg she's so pretty, then looked behind her and saw a cute tall boy and I was like omg he's so pretty. I then kinda just quietly said to myself: ...yes...I'm still bi
“If you like the sound of Raycon”
I see what you did there
I’m Pan and I’m in a “straight” relationship with my boyfriend... and my other guy friend was so confused by that and keeps asking me “so your straight but also gay...” oop
Bi🤜🏽🤛🏼pans : being labelled as straights for being in a hetero relationship
Saaaame! I married a cishet man and confused my whole family. 😂
@@Anon-pq6jd ikr
And then people are like "ok just don't date me"
Sarah just because I'm bi doesn't mean that I don't have standards!
I'm bisexual and married to a "straight" man (who actually has more experience with his own gender than I do) and... someone in the Bi community said that relationships like ours are "mixed orientation," NOT straight. I can dig that ✌
I thought I was pan for a long time, and kept keeping the doubts of my sexuality down because I felt bad for saying things like, "I prefer girls more", but now I know I'm bi, and I'm glad that I'm finally happy with my sexuality.
Me: maybe im straight... maybe im just gay
My Partner: Im literaly nonbinary, both of those wouldnt make sense
me: Yeah but like- what if I was
Pan???
@@sophiemelchiorri4542 yep
hello fellow pan
@@madalynburke4749 Hello :D
do you have a cartoon Patton pfp? That's hecking adorable
Me: comes out to my Christian cousin
Her: supports me
Me: *now i can make gay jokes*
REALLY THOUGH!!
Yaaaaaaaayyyyy Good for you! I'm glad she supports you 👉👉
0:23
"Welcome, yes, thank you for clicking on this video, I hope you're gonna enjoy it here today, today we're getting very bisexual.. All the bi- the biness, the bi... sexuallness.... the- bicycles- no, no bicycles.."
This intro made my day
me literally sitting half way falling out of my chair watching this
Same omg I just realised that as soon as I read this comment
Omll samee
im sitting like the pic at 8:38
Same I felt so called out lol
I literally just flipped around in my seat, whether it be from me being bi or from my adhd.. That is up for you to find out
I'm pan, and it annoys me when i see someone tell a bi person they're pan or vice versa. Take them at face value, it's not your sexuality
6:11 I needed to hear that, thank you x
This was such a fun video, thank you Jamie!!! Loved it all and made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside as a bi girl who's dating a man and still second guesses her identity
Im a bi girl and my bf is a pan guy. We are happy af and just because we’re ✨hetero✨ we’re both valid and so are you ❤️
That’s cute! I also like your profile picture
Yes, ✨hetero✨ not ‘straights’ but ✨💫 heterosexual💫✨
you guys arent het if you are bi and ur bf is pan,,, dont say that bc that erases both ur sexuality and ur bf's sexuality!!
Bisexual energy is simping for cartoon characters in every single game/show where there's hot anime boys and girls
Edit: I am pan but I can still relate to this on every level
Have yall seen the stardew Valley mod that turns them all into hot anime people? That slapppsss
True-
WHY THOUGH?! 90% OF MY CRUSHES ARE CARTOON CHARACTERS-
Yes absolutely my first female crush was Shego from Kim Possible
I feel called out. I’m currently simping for a good chunk of Crash Bandicoot characters because everybody looks gorgeous in the new game. Simping for every genderbend in existence is also bi energy.
NOT 5th grade me simping for all the vocaloids
You, Jamie, have made my "Top Ten UA-camrs I Want To Meet" list! I love your humor and your caring spirit.
I didn't notice how incomplete my life was until he mentioned 'bisexual bingo'. Dang that just felt right.
Anime has an art style literally trying to make everyone look attractive. I don’t understand how straight or gay people watch anime and are just like, yeah I don’t think half of these people are attractive. I respect it and know it’s true but like, you’re telling me you don’t want to kidnap all of them???
I'm sorry this is too relatable I came out to myself as bi after seeing some anime characters
Right. Not anime, but I just can't comprehend how gay, lesbian or straight people don't find all genders attractive. Makes no sense to me.
Jessie and James from Team Rocket.
Just.... *gestures while doing peace signs in one hand and finger guns in the other* T H E M
I once dreamt my ex bf as a woman and he/she was hot. Afterwards I asked him if he would still like me, not necessarily being with me, if I was exactly the same in personality but as a guy and he said "absolutely not". That was a shock for me in the moment because it was the first time I realized that not everyone finds all genders attractive and that maybe I wasn't straight after all. Up until then I assumed straight girls see other people like I do, especially with people making jokes like "I would go gay for..." or "I'm not gay but I would totally do this with...", so it took me a while to say confidently that I'm bisexual and not straight. People are saying bisexuals are confusing when straight people make this kind of jokes?
@@vuivraalbastra Eh, I think a lot of people who make those jokes probably aren’t as straight as they think they are. Compulsory heterosexuality and all. (But of course it’s nobody’s place to tell somebody else how to identify!)
I'm not bi but I love being one of Jamie's spuds, and my partner has an antidote to "you have to choose": she's polyamorous and has one partner from each end of the gender spectrum.
As a pansexual, I apologize to all the bisexuals who were told "No, you're pansextual!" That's got to be so frustrating and it makes me sad that we can't always get along because someone feels the need to step on someone else's identity (for what reason WTF knows). Just go with your gut and go by (bi hehe) what makes you comfortable and who you see yourself as. The attempt of erasure of either is absolutely silly and it helps nobody at all. Just be you and support each other with positivity and validation.
It's fine, it's not yout fault
And shout outs to all the pan folk being told "No you're bi!"❤
i love it when he says ‘hey spuds!’
it always makes me smile 😃!
sometimes I feel like I'm faking being bisexual and I should just pick a side but then I watch a movie or a TV show and I see everyone in it and then I'm like oh my God everyone is so beautiful and I want to give everyone hugs and bake them all cookies and then I realize that I'm actually bisexual
That's SO a thing, isn't it! I think "oh, I'm mostly straight", then I watch something & I'm like, "I'm swooning over an awful lot of girls for a straight girl..." :D
is baking cookies a code for anything? because my thoughts wouldn't be just as wholesome haha
@@janinebohl7488 I hope not because that's not how are use it.
@@janinebohl7488 Ha, mine either, but everyone's _meant_ to be completely wholesome :D
@@beth7935 anyway, the idea that sex is somehow not wholesome is a misguided idea imo. ofc, it can take place in ways that harm people, but as long as it is consensual and safe? what is supposed to make it dirty, ynkow
I'm literally wearing the bi flag colours right now, pink hair/pink top, purple jeans, and blue sketchers ❤️💜💙
YES. That sounds like such a cute outfit too.
@@ladyopaleye hehe thankies, if only comments let you upload pics
@@ladyopaleye oh and need I mention my jeans are cuffed, and shirt tucked *bisexuality intensifies*
@@Zephyr616 I believe at this point you are officially just a bi pride flag. Your new responsibilities include waving around and looking amazing.
Purple jeans? I think I've never seen purple jeans. I love it.
The whole bisexuals sitting in chairs thing is completely true and that’s so funny
Where my multisexual fam at
My Bi brethren 💖💜💙
My Pan peeps 💖💛💙
My Poly peeps💖💚💙
And my Omni allies💖🖤💜💙
(They don't have the correct colors for Omni I tried my best)
Pan here!!!
Bi here! Thank you!
Poly here! Let’s goooo
A fellow pancake here!
👡👒🕶👖👗
My representation of omni flag
I feel like most ppl don't know about omni
It's okay if you don't know
Just be supportive and not ignorant
I'm omni btw
"there can never be too many yellow" a true hufflepuff right there xD
Music of choice "dance of the sugar plum fairy" I'm loving this more every second
Loved the memes. Also, you have the loveliest, most positive energy that is so infectious. I don't think I've smiled this much in ages 🥰
When he said big bisexual energy he wasn't lying
The bi-erasure thing is why I love legends of tomorrow so much, they have so many bi characters and at least one of them actually says she's bi a few times.
God, I love that show.
So I just discovered your channel like...yesterday. And a few things:
1) They make me smile
2) You and Shaaba are adorable and also make me smile
3) Now that I've finally found an intro into bi culture I feel like I'm legally obligated to cuff my pants now...???
4) Part of Bi Bingo should be an assumption of non-monogamy. Like, I--a cis woman--had been married to a cis man for 6 years when I came out to my dad and he immediately asked how my attraction to women works in the context of a monogamous marriage. (He finally got it when I explained that he doesn't go around picking up women even though he's married.)
But mostly, your videos have really helped me. As a bi woman in a straight-passing, monogamous marriage to a straight cis man, only having had one (long distance) same-sex partner who later came out as trans, I've often felt like I'm not "gay enough" for the LGBTQ+ community. At pride a couple years ago I was talking to someone, mentioned my husband, and immediately she asked "oh, so you're an ally?" So...yeah. Videos like this make me feel seen and feel valid at times when I don't feel gay enough, and don't really feel like I have a legitimate connection with queer culture. Thanks. :)
As a bisexual I can confirm that I am still baffled by the fake pocket concept. Why make a pocket that's only there for show?! What joy does it bring you?
“Why does my back hurt”
**picture showing stick person sitting in chair**
I’m sitting like that right now and I feel called out
Title: "Big Bisexual Energy"
Me: I have been summend
hi! if nobody (on youtube) knows who your are, whats the point of claiming the title of "Big Bisexual Energy"?
"I have a bisexual cup"
I felt like there was fun joke about that but couldnt think of one.
The one about watching a movie where everyone is cute reminded me of how obsessed I used to be with The Mummy (1999). 😂
Especially Rachel Weisz's character definitely had an influence on the type of woman I'm into.
it's kind of crazy for me to think how when i was younger i had a lot of internalized biphobia saying stupid shit like "i wouldn't date a bisexual person" and i'm bi... i really want to slap my younger self lol
my younger self was the sane way and wen i realized how bi i am my brain was like "well shit-" srrsky tho i think my brain just wanted to see how long i could go without realizing 😂
"... i really want to slap my younger self lol"
Don't we all?
"So how did you find out you were Bi?"
Me: [remembers the time i changed positions on a chair for 3 hours nonstop]. . . Zuko from avatar. . .
Edit: also Ty lee in the amber island episode
Y e s .
YES.
Me: Peace and finger guns 24/7
Mine was EVERYONE FROM STARKID. Watch those musicals, y’all, they’re SO GOOD
I always start sitting in a chair properly but end up either sitting on the edge (which works great for my cat as he can sit behind me) or slumped down so far that getting up can sometimes be problematic LOL!
once we had a sub in class who said i have to sit normally 🥲🥲🥲
when he started singing it just sent me 😭 also, yellow is infinite
For some reason this popped in my head. “It ain’t no lie, baby I’m BI BI BI BI” by *NSYNC. LOL the things that go on in my head.
me sitting and watching this with a bob haircut, beanie, turtleneck t-shirt combo, eyeliner, cuffed pants, and an iced coffee despite the winter weather : oh, you called?
Is "turtleneck tshirt combo" wearing a tshirt over some kind of long-sleeved top? Cos a truly frightening number of these stereotypes fit, & that's my goddamn UNIFORM... but really, I just haven't acknowledged that the 90s ended :D
My brother and I used to always get scolded for never sitting properly in our chairs.
Yeah, were both bi. ♡
As a bisexual, I spend hours of my day sitting at my desk crosslegged playing videogames, then wonder why my knees hurt 🤣🤣
Can we take a moment to appreciate Luz Noceada? Our Bisexual Witch Q U E E N
Y e s
Also Enid from OK KO?
Oh yeah, and professor Venomous (same show)
Both bisexual icons :)
And Lord Boxman being pan (same show again)
@@semisentiententity5486 Y E S!
“I just wanted to show a little pansexual love in this... becauzz... I just wanted to”