Cameron, I don't know if you know my son, Sam Collins, but he's also FTM and came out to the world this year. I'm sorry you had a bad response (initially) from your mom and stepdad. Being a mom to a transgender kid, I know it was very difficult when Sam first told me but I never disrespected him or tried to "talk him out of it". I'm glad to see that you are doing alot better and I'm glad you are still here. Take care. I'm going to watch more of your videos :) Mama Collins
I just did a small video with Sam a couple months ago :) thank you so much for the comforting words, that means the world to me. He's very lucky to have you.
congrats for being a horrible mother. all children are stupid. you had the bright idea that yours wasnt. it's a parents job to guide your child through correct life choices. you have failed.
Crazy to hear similar stories. I too used to dress up as a boy and put on a wig late at night when everyone was asleep...it was only then that i felt "alive". But yes things do get better...once we embrace the journey things start to fall into place.
I totally relate to you, Cameron. When I came out as trans to my parents, they told me how I was never going to get a job, I was making a rash decision about my life, and my mom would cry herself to sleep every night because of it. I eventually had to escape like you.Glad to know you're here and life is better for you, dude.
It breaks my heart that people do and say those things to their children. I have a 13-year-old stepdaughter, but she's *my daughter*. All I want is for her to be happy, especially as a teenager. As parents we obviously want the softest, easiest path for our children, but if any of my little ones ever said 'Mommy, I don't want to wear a dress, I'm a boy,' or my son says 'I want to wear a dress today,' or either of our eldest girls said 'Mum and Dad, (they're British, raised in the UK, like their dad) I feel like a boy and I want to live as a boy,' it might catch me off guard, but the first thing that pops out of my mouth will probably be 'Yeah? Ok. We love you.'
I feel exactly the same about my kids. They're still pretty young, but I just want them to do and be whatever brings them happiness. Isn't that a parents job? (one of the many jobs anyway) I am crying so hard reading through these comments from all these kids whose parents just don't get it. I'm so sorry for all of you. My best advice would be to try and get your parents to agree to get you in with a good therapist. First, therapy is just a good thing in general. Second, they can help you think through, organize, and understand what you are experiencing and feeling. Third, they can advocate for you to your parents/guardians. Hearing about transexuality from an educated, professional adult whom specializes in the mental and emotional health of your child may be more convincing to them than hearing it from their child them self... (although I would always trust my own child over anyone else... I guess some don't ) I hope that this can help someone. Good luck and remember that you are all valid, amazing human beings no matter what anyone (including your parents and families) think or say! I love all of you for exactly who you are even if I don't know you! Things DO get better. I promise. I attempted suicide MANY times when younger, but I truly love my life today... It gets better.
my mom is not taking me serious. I have to wear lots of makeup because my boss wants me to do it cause we're working in the beauty industry. Ond day I came out of my room and my mom looked at me and she was like "Woooooow" I said "you know that I have to and you know that I don't want this". I just started crying the whole shit off and she asked "honey what's wrong?" I responded that I just don't want to wear it and that I feel very uncomfortable. She was like "yeah but you liked makeup when you were younger and I don't know what just happend right now. your hormones are going crazy I was going through this too when I was at your age" this had me cry even more. She still calls me Livia, she/her and daughter and I want to cry every single time. I am not Livia. Livia is the mask that I put on every day because everyone wants me to be the girl. Okay and now I want to cry again.
Livian Hardin I hope things get better...you need more time to explain that. Your mother knows about your fear about make up, thats a step towards telling her the truth. You are already one step forward!
Livian Hardin see, my mother was the same way, and I've only just started gender therapy after a two year battle with her, not to mention attempts to come out multiple times in the years prior, and I know it seems like it will NEVER improve, that things will NEVER get better, but as a trans guy who was in a very similar position, you eventually just have to realize, "holy fuck. am I actually willing to risk bringing myself to suicide in order to appease those around me?" and once you reach a breaking point, it gets better. you can be true to you, and it WILL be difficult, goddamn will it be hard, let me tell you. but once you finally, finally get at least one parent to accept that this is *REAL* that you need to be taken seriously, you'll feel so much better. my mother doesn't see me as her son, not yet, but she sees that what I'm dealing with is valid, even if she wants to deny it. eventually, you have to put your well-being above the comfort of others and realize that you are worth it. because you are, and you deserve better than the misery your situation is bringing you.
constantinos schinas why do you feel the need to comment this smh whats the point in invalidating a whole community when you’re aware this video is about being trans lmao
I can't believe how calmly you discuss everything you have went through. As a gay man myself, I think I can maybe understand 1% of how you felt when you finally understood who you are, and how insanely brave you were to carry on after everything that happened. Good luck with everything, and have a wonderful life :)
Santa Clause Still you made it! You told the truth that you wanted to be who you really are, not who you look like. Just give them time and don't lose faith!
Bless your heart. What hardships to undergo, just to be you. I am your grandparents generation, and I cannot imagine my adult children treating their children that way. They are adults now, also. I guess I don't understand the ignorance & intolerance, especially by relatives who are supposed to love us. This is 2016, not 1916. I've been blessed with a Godson who is trans. He is an amazing man. I appreciate opportunities to learn more. Thank you for sharing your story. You are helping many.
I never knew he was transgender until I saw this video , this just shows that people can look good however they want to be and people shouldn’t be mean and insulting towards people who are different x
I first saw your story on Facebook and I thought it was amazing, but after watching your video and hearing more about your story, I am truly in awe. You've overcome so much and have come so far and I think that's really inspiring. I am so glad to see you're in a much better place now and I hope things keep getting better for you!
I'm transgender. I am meant to be a boy but I'm to nervous to come out. I don't know if my family would believe me because my older sister is transgender and I don't want them to think that I am copying her when I'm not and I don't want to get bullied at school. I just don't feel comfortable as a girl
I am 17 years old an wanting to become a boy but my family thinks it stupid and won't support me thru it. They basically said I have to be what I was born until they die and That makes me upset because I don't feel like me uk? I have tried to love myself as a girl but I am not happy. I hang out with my friends and laugh but it hit me Friday that I really wasn't happy with the life I am living and that girl everyone sees isn't truly happy. I told my family an they were okay with me being bisexual but when I asked them to cut my hair boyish and transition they freaked and told me how I'm a domination and going to hell. I just need advice on how to deal with this and advice on this. This was hard to write this bc it's a touchy subject but yeah xc you say it will get better but right now I have to pretend to be something and someone I am not.
Kitty Love I totally understand where youre coming from. Its hard when family doesnt accept you for who you are but once you move out of their house you can be your own person and in time they will eventually accept you for who you are. They HAVE TO eventually, they are your family. And just letting you know, hell doesnt exist. They are just trying to scare you to make themselves feel better
Hi! If you feel that you're a boy it's because you're a boy, no matter what other people think or say. It's perfectly normal and okay. The most important thing is your happiness, and your family and friends should realise that. It's very common that they don't understand it at first but progressively they will, don't lose hope. And if someone doesn't accept it and doesn't want you to be happy they aren't worth it. Just don't give up, you're strong and there are many people like you. You are not alone and you deserve all the love.
You're so amazing. I truly think you are a blessing to this world and I'm so happy you pushed through everyone putting you down and not supporting you. ❤Jazz
I'm a girl but curently thinking of it, when I told my mom I wasn't sure she said it's just my hormones, and it hurt that she didn't take me seriously. I don't know what to do
All you can do is wait, keep trying to convince her and keep doing what makes you happy. A lot of parents brush it off as a phase, so it takes time and effort to make them believe otherwise.
I think because you are a teenager she does not take it very seriously what you're telling her. However, if you keep and keep talking to her about it, I think she will come to understand that. Let her know about how you feel when she just thinks its your hormones. Tell her about the pain you feel when she shuts you off like that. I hope she comes around though.
I'm glad you got past such a tough time. Awesome video though, really cool to hear your story. Helps me to understand how my sibling must feel right now.
I'm glad you're free from that monster, you're extremely gorgeous and it's awesome to see how far you've come and how hard you fought to be the man you are today, I hope you have an amazing rest of your week! Xx
You're so strong ❤️ I truly loved your story, very inspirational. You're an attractive, funny, inspirational person and I couldn't have watched a better video this afternoon.
great video, man. this really helped me because i too have a stepdad that just thinks he can overrule everything. i'm glad that you're happy/happier now. you're a cool dude :)
I watched your video and I cried. I am so sorry that you had to go through so much just to become your true self! I cant imagine what it must be like, but know how it feels not to fit in and to feel unaccepted. you are strong and I hope youll follow your dreams, don't give up on yourself!!! 💙💙💙
This is such a crazy coincidence. I saw a post of you recently and knew something seemed familiar. The whole first part you're talking about.. Myspace days, right? ;)
Man. For you to have pushed through what you have is amazing. The fact that someone can change gender is amazing to me. The fact that you made it as far as you have, often alone, is really inspiring. All the best to you.
Thank you for sharing your story!! My 3 year old daughter keeps telling me “I’m a boy, mama” and I want to be able to support them in whatever gender they truly are. It’s hard as a mother only because I’ve loved a “girl” since before they were even born. Guys like you sharing such painful experiences remind me that what I WANT is not as important as what my child NEEDS. Solidarity. Thank you & keep your head up!
There is 1 person in my grade that is a transgender. She was born a boy and now she is a girl. Everyone in my grade supports her and she has so many friends. Many people in my grade announced that they were gay bisexual lesbian and many others. Nobody in my grade cared and they felt the same about them before they told everyone. Overall it doesn't matter if you are gay, you are the same person.
i think im one of the lucky ones because when i came out, my whole family was supportive. i mean my mom, stepdad, sisters, my moms sisters my moms mom, my aunts husband, my moms brother even my cousins. plus my other family from my now dead biological father's side. I'm very lucky. I WISH THE BEST FOR ALL MY TRANS BROTHERS AND SISTERS. i never knew what it was like to deal with not supportive family so this breaks my heart. im glad you're happy!!!
Damn man. I'm so sorry you've been through all that. I couldn't imagine, I don't mean this in a "I pity you" way but I have a lot of respect for you putting your story out there to help others
Thanks for sharing your story. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that crap to get to where you are now. My stepchild just came out to us about being trans, I couldn't be more proud of him for being honest with himself and with us. Trying to learn everything I can to help make the transition as smooth as possible.
i am born a female. i have always felt more connected to male characters.. in 2015 i started to feel like i shouldn't be a female. i felt like it was wrong and that i was supposed to be in a male body. i put it off until september of this year, and it's been crushing me since then. i've had multiple episodes of severe depression, and have cut myself 4 times now. i go to a single gender school, so i just feel alienated from everyone there. i sit by myself during class and lunch, but i sometimes hang out with 2 girls im friends with. i guess what im trying to say is, i just wish i was able to be me, roman. not rebekah. my parents and grandparents are very transphobic, and would probably disown me for a bit if i told them how i feel. i'm so glad that you had the chance to be someone you want to be. i'm sorry you were depressed so much too
So proud of you for sharing your story on the internet. You're a brave person and I hope that everyone has the courage to perceiver and hold on like you did.
I am a straight 46 year old woman with 1 grown kid. I couldn't imagine telling my kid those things. (hugs) I'm so sorry your family don't understand. I see how it could be devastating to a mom. I hope you find your way in life. (hug)
these kind of videos are so interesting to me. I as a cisgender, wouldn't be able to understand much of what it's like to be transgender if people like you weren't there. You're awesome. Also, you made it! You've had such a hard time and you can now say that you canbe who you are.. :)
Man...you've gone through so much. I came out for a whole year now and I am working my way pretty close to getting on T and getting top surgery...hopefully I will get on it by the end of this year....My mom is very supportive and I have been seeing all these doctors....and I just can't wait to get top surgery cuz then I can finally be free(in a way) because I have a pretty large chest and I have been wanting to get rid of it since 6th grade or so. I don't have torture myself in the heat by wearing layers and stuff.
This really hit home with me, you're such a strong person and I think it's amazing that you've done this all by yourself especially when everyone was discouraging you. I admire you and how hard you worked for all of this ❤ you're a great guy and I'm happy things are going good for you. Stay strong dude.
Thank you for sharing your story, it is so inspiring. It was so good to hear that the story ended on a positive note. Also, I loved the way your voice changed to a more hopeful one once you started to talk about how things were getting better.
Depending on your state, you might have to talk with a gender therapist first. But otherwise, look for informed consent clinics within your area. I'm learning myself too, but those can work without having to go to a gender therapist first.
never think your life is not important enough to live. You seem to be an amazing person never give up hope things will get better and never let anybody bring you down, if you are happy that is all that matters.
Honestly I've been scrolling through these comments and I've hardly seen any hate comments, which I think is really great. I'm so glad that you've made so much progress! :)
ohhhh maaannnnn I've been looking for you! I saw you on instagram last year and this year I started to have gender dysphoria. I was searching ftm transition videos and I saw you! I'm so so so happy to find you!!! I'm so proud of you hunny
you are such a role model for people and parents who judge people for being trans. also your friend doesn't deserve you as a friend and your dad is just an idiot, but you should not try to kill your self and thank God your still here as a big insperstion for many people trans and not trans thank you, you really inspired me because I never new about being transgender and if anyone else told me they would have turned it into something bad. I think many people agree with this and thank you and continue making videos and be proud😁😁😁 all the best from CANADA!!!!🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦
Thanks for sharing the story. I'm sorry you've had such a rough life :/ I've been wanting to change for a long time, and seeing this video lets me know it's possible. But I have no idea what to do. How did you start changing?
you have basically the same story as me. it makes me feel like im not alone in this world. I'm also ftm and its been a struggle and people have told me its all in my head and that i'm just sick. this just makes me feel sooo so much better. Much love to you
I am so sorry you have been through all of that and I am genuinely happy you are finally finding happiness in your life!! Thank you for sharing your story Cameron
You have no idea how less alone your story made me feel. Almost everybody that I know (who is lgbt+q) always seem to have nothing but acceptance stories... my parents arn't really that way. I just wanted to say thank you for sharing because it really did help me. I respect you for getting through that, and I found comfort in your story because I finally felt that I could relate to someone. I just- I had to say this. Thanks.
OMG, this is the best video I've ever seen from an LGBTQI community! It is so sincere and special! I am so glad you are happy and in charge of your own life right now. I think nothing can compare with that feeling of freedom and ability to just do whatever you want! Thanks a lot for sharing your story; as you can see it inspires and motivates a lot of people. You look very handsome and I wish you all the best!!! Never give up and forget what other people think; your own choices matter more to your life than anything else.
Dude you make me want to come out so bad already if you can go through all of that and finally be happy then there is hope for me too Thank you for posting this! :)
I looked up " How to look masculine and be a girl " and this video came up. The website said look for a role model and then I looked at videos and this one came up... I'm not joking the where he said I didnt have a lot of friends and looked to online friends and not knowing what trans meant.... and the journey to realizing you want to be trans like me. I think I found my inspiration in what I want and will make me happy. Thank you so much!
This was put out like a year ago, so I'm sorry for commenting but I'm personally so proud of you. Thanks for sharing your story. That takes a lot. I'm glad none of those attempts worked, the world would really be missing out.
It's awesome how you've been throught everything, your stepfather, your "friends".. and that, right now, you can talk about how happy you are and how much you are enjoying the moment. I think that that's how you know how much it worth it.
Cameron, I don't know if you know my son, Sam Collins, but he's also FTM and came out to the world this year. I'm sorry you had a bad response (initially) from your mom and stepdad. Being a mom to a transgender kid, I know it was very difficult when Sam first told me but I never disrespected him or tried to "talk him out of it". I'm glad to see that you are doing alot better and I'm glad you are still here. Take care. I'm going to watch more of your videos :) Mama Collins
I just did a small video with Sam a couple months ago :) thank you so much for the comforting words, that means the world to me. He's very lucky to have you.
oh, awesome! I'm glad. Keep it up. You're brave and strong.
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congrats for being a horrible mother. all children are stupid. you had the bright idea that yours wasnt.
it's a parents job to guide your child through correct life choices. you have failed.
TimeForAReview congratulations on being a horrible human being.
Crazy to hear similar stories. I too used to dress up as a boy and put on a wig late at night when everyone was asleep...it was only then that i felt "alive". But yes things do get better...once we embrace the journey things start to fall into place.
i'm glad someone understands.
Cole Ryals sameee
Colton Ryals thank you so much you inspired me I love you so so much thanks
Colton Ryals I'm a girl .. But I wanna be boy .. Idk why my parents aren't supportive ..😥
Everybody Me Too. Hopefully the people in this world will understand you.
I totally relate to you, Cameron. When I came out as trans to my parents, they told me how I was never going to get a job, I was making a rash decision about my life, and my mom would cry herself to sleep every night because of it. I eventually had to escape like you.Glad to know you're here and life is better for you, dude.
Toby your an amazing person!❤️💖
Thank you :)
You guys are the reason why I super love the LGBTQ
It breaks my heart that people do and say those things to their children. I have a 13-year-old stepdaughter, but she's *my daughter*. All I want is for her to be happy, especially as a teenager. As parents we obviously want the softest, easiest path for our children, but if any of my little ones ever said 'Mommy, I don't want to wear a dress, I'm a boy,' or my son says 'I want to wear a dress today,' or either of our eldest girls said 'Mum and Dad, (they're British, raised in the UK, like their dad) I feel like a boy and I want to live as a boy,' it might catch me off guard, but the first thing that pops out of my mouth will probably be 'Yeah? Ok. We love you.'
This makes me sad sm..my mom (I'm 13 rn) won't accept the fact that I wanna be a boy..I wish I had a mom n stepdad who accepted me for who I am D:
I feel exactly the same about my kids. They're still pretty young, but I just want them to do and be whatever brings them happiness. Isn't that a parents job? (one of the many jobs anyway) I am crying so hard reading through these comments from all these kids whose parents just don't get it. I'm so sorry for all of you. My best advice would be to try and get your parents to agree to get you in with a good therapist. First, therapy is just a good thing in general. Second, they can help you think through, organize, and understand what you are experiencing and feeling. Third, they can advocate for you to your parents/guardians. Hearing about transexuality from an educated, professional adult whom specializes in the mental and emotional health of your child may be more convincing to them than hearing it from their child them self... (although I would always trust my own child over anyone else... I guess some don't ) I hope that this can help someone. Good luck and remember that you are all valid, amazing human beings no matter what anyone (including your parents and families) think or say! I love all of you for exactly who you are even if I don't know you! Things DO get better. I promise. I attempted suicide MANY times when younger, but I truly love my life today... It gets better.
Colleen Riordan ty this helped me sm..;-;
øøf øøf I really hope it did. I also REALLY hope things work out for you. Good luck, honey! :)
Colleen Riordan ty!
When some people are hella hot as both genders but I'm a hardcore potato just as one gender 😂😅😭
Me
Sally Johnson literally same tho hahahah
Sally Johnson me too
baha same
Sally Johnson lol same
my mom is not taking me serious. I have to wear lots of makeup because my boss wants me to do it cause we're working in the beauty industry. Ond day I came out of my room and my mom looked at me and she was like "Woooooow" I said "you know that I have to and you know that I don't want this". I just started crying the whole shit off and she asked "honey what's wrong?" I responded that I just don't want to wear it and that I feel very uncomfortable. She was like "yeah but you liked makeup when you were younger and I don't know what just happend right now. your hormones are going crazy I was going through this too when I was at your age" this had me cry even more. She still calls me Livia, she/her and daughter and I want to cry every single time. I am not Livia. Livia is the mask that I put on every day because everyone wants me to be the girl. Okay and now I want to cry again.
Livian Hardin I hope things get better...you need more time to explain that. Your mother knows about your fear about make up, thats a step towards telling her the truth. You are already one step forward!
juliazwei well I told her that I wanted to transition but yeah she thinks that it's just a phase.
Does she think that being gay for example is just a phase too?
juliazwei Fun fact; no. I don't really see why being gay is more serious than being trans.
Livian Hardin see, my mother was the same way, and I've only just started gender therapy after a two year battle with her, not to mention attempts to come out multiple times in the years prior, and I know it seems like it will NEVER improve, that things will NEVER get better, but as a trans guy who was in a very similar position, you eventually just have to realize, "holy fuck. am I actually willing to risk bringing myself to suicide in order to appease those around me?" and once you reach a breaking point, it gets better. you can be true to you, and it WILL be difficult, goddamn will it be hard, let me tell you. but once you finally, finally get at least one parent to accept that this is *REAL* that you need to be taken seriously, you'll feel so much better. my mother doesn't see me as her son, not yet, but she sees that what I'm dealing with is valid, even if she wants to deny it. eventually, you have to put your well-being above the comfort of others and realize that you are worth it. because you are, and you deserve better than the misery your situation is bringing you.
The video started played and a little voice inside my head just screamed "OH MY GOD HE'S HOT" 😂😂😂
Nia Nelson same
Nia Nelson same....
hi
LOL
Nia Nelson yessss!!😂👅
Your voice is so relaxing to me 😍
Right❤
Cynthia Gillum same
puff, girls
Cynthia Gillum ikr!! ☺️🙂
he looks really good. I would of never guessed you were born female
she*
she will always bear this bitchy girly arrogant look. because she will always be a girl, no matter how many surguries and horrific hormone treatments.
constantinos schinas why do you feel the need to comment this smh whats the point in invalidating a whole community when you’re aware this video is about being trans lmao
He's on testosterone
Actually i can easily tell that she is female.Her mannerism is way too womanly.
Can we talk about how cute he is?
am I the only one watching this that isn't trans?
im not trans it was in my recommended
I'm not
Katiecat1999 lmao
MzCaribbeauty i
I'm not trans or gender fluid or non-binary or anything like that. I'm just a cis woman that might be a bit gay lmao
I can't believe how calmly you discuss everything you have went through. As a gay man myself, I think I can maybe understand 1% of how you felt when you finally understood who you are, and how insanely brave you were to carry on after everything that happened. Good luck with everything, and have a wonderful life :)
I am coming out as Transgender (FtM) to my family tomorrow. I am so excited and nervous at the same time
Santa Clause HOW DID IT GO??
Phanic! At The (Dil)sco Not well.. That's all Imma say.. 😢
Santa Clause Still you made it! You told the truth that you wanted to be who you really are, not who you look like. Just give them time and don't lose faith!
No Cause Year later, any better?
How'd it go!?!? Wow respect !
Bless your heart. What hardships to undergo, just to be you.
I am your grandparents generation, and I cannot imagine my adult children treating their children that way. They are adults now, also.
I guess I don't understand the ignorance & intolerance, especially by relatives who are supposed to love us.
This is 2016, not 1916.
I've been blessed with a Godson who is trans. He is an amazing man. I appreciate opportunities to learn more.
Thank you for sharing your story. You are helping many.
I kinda have a crush on you lol
Loobou 😂😂😂 same
Arleen Billy lesbiasn?¿ idk jaja
Loobou totally same .
Aqua Bear12 lol
straight
I never knew he was transgender until I saw this video , this just shows that people can look good however they want to be and people shouldn’t be mean and insulting towards people who are different x
I first saw your story on Facebook and I thought it was amazing, but after watching your video and hearing more about your story, I am truly in awe. You've overcome so much and have come so far and I think that's really inspiring. I am so glad to see you're in a much better place now and I hope things keep getting better for you!
It's great to hear a fellow trans guys story, thank you for sharing it.
Thanks for sharing Cameron. I'm sorry for what happened with your stepdad, but people who truly love you will support you. :)
I'm transgender. I am meant to be a boy but I'm to nervous to come out. I don't know if my family would believe me because my older sister is transgender and I don't want them to think that I am copying her when I'm not and I don't want to get bullied at school. I just don't feel comfortable as a girl
SniperRecons I just wanted to ask, how are you doing now?
I'm 4 you so much. I'm 61 and I just want you to know that someone of my age can b 100% in support of LGBT+ rights. I feel and am proud of u.
I am 17 years old an wanting to become a boy but my family thinks it stupid and won't support me thru it. They basically said I have to be what I was born until they die and That makes me upset because I don't feel like me uk? I have tried to love myself as a girl but I am not happy. I hang out with my friends and laugh but it hit me Friday that I really wasn't happy with the life I am living and that girl everyone sees isn't truly happy. I told my family an they were okay with me being bisexual but when I asked them to cut my hair boyish and transition they freaked and told me how I'm a domination and going to hell. I just need advice on how to deal with this and advice on this. This was hard to write this bc it's a touchy subject but yeah xc you say it will get better but right now I have to pretend to be something and someone I am not.
Kitty Love I totally understand where youre coming from. Its hard when family doesnt accept you for who you are but once you move out of their house you can be your own person and in time they will eventually accept you for who you are. They HAVE TO eventually, they are your family. And just letting you know, hell doesnt exist. They are just trying to scare you to make themselves feel better
Hi! If you feel that you're a boy it's because you're a boy, no matter what other people think or say. It's perfectly normal and okay. The most important thing is your happiness, and your family and friends should realise that. It's very common that they don't understand it at first but progressively they will, don't lose hope. And if someone doesn't accept it and doesn't want you to be happy they aren't worth it. Just don't give up, you're strong and there are many people like you. You are not alone and you deserve all the love.
Kitty Love Thats the reaction I am scared of from my parents
TheonlyHoneyBadger Aitana García thank y'all
TheonlyHoneyBadger Aitana García thanks
You're so amazing. I truly think you are a blessing to this world and I'm so happy you pushed through everyone putting you down and not supporting you.
❤Jazz
thank you so much, your words mean so much to me
This is so cool. I think it's really inspiring to see people who can be comfortable being themselves.
i'm so proud of how far you've gotten. you are such an inspiration. keep going strong. i'm happy for you 💕
I'm a girl but curently thinking of it, when I told my mom I wasn't sure she said it's just my hormones, and it hurt that she didn't take me seriously. I don't know what to do
T. It's fine. You are who you are. No one can change that. God bless
All you can do is wait, keep trying to convince her and keep doing what makes you happy. A lot of parents brush it off as a phase, so it takes time and effort to make them believe otherwise.
I think because you are a teenager she does not take it very seriously what you're telling her. However, if you keep and keep talking to her about it, I think she will come to understand that. Let her know about how you feel when she just thinks its your hormones. Tell her about the pain you feel when she shuts you off like that. I hope she comes around though.
he looks like mac miller
mac millers cute lil brother
AJ lol he’s more cuter and hoter than Mac Miller
AJ hotter*
Cause he was a angel😭
great video man! you know you're touching lives when ur vids make ppl tear up lol. awesome to hear where you were and where you are now.
thanks dude :)
Can I just say you are so good looking :)
thank you :) means a lot to hear that!
@@CameronRusso21 i need to meet u
I'm glad you got past such a tough time. Awesome video though, really cool to hear your story. Helps me to understand how my sibling must feel right now.
I'm glad you're free from that monster, you're extremely gorgeous and it's awesome to see how far you've come and how hard you fought to be the man you are today, I hope you have an amazing rest of your week! Xx
You're so strong ❤️ I truly loved your story, very inspirational. You're an attractive, funny, inspirational person and I couldn't have watched a better video this afternoon.
thank you for watching and listening to me :)
great video, man. this really helped me because i too have a stepdad that just thinks he can overrule everything. i'm glad that you're happy/happier now. you're a cool dude :)
thanks man. sorry to hear that. some people are just bad seeds, no helping them when they don't think anything is wrong with them. hope all is well!
Gosh your personality is extremely attractive. I really hope you are in better place now.
I watched your video and I cried. I am so sorry that you had to go through so much just to become your true self! I cant imagine what it must be like, but know how it feels not to fit in and to feel unaccepted. you are strong and I hope youll follow your dreams, don't give up on yourself!!! 💙💙💙
This is such a crazy coincidence. I saw a post of you recently and knew something seemed familiar. The whole first part you're talking about.. Myspace days, right? ;)
Yes hahah
Man. For you to have pushed through what you have is amazing. The fact that someone can change gender is amazing to me. The fact that you made it as far as you have, often alone, is really inspiring. All the best to you.
youre so fucking strong and i am so proud of you, thank you for being so brave throughout life and for making this video. lots of love
Thank you for sharing your story!! My 3 year old daughter keeps telling me “I’m a boy, mama” and I want to be able to support them in whatever gender they truly are. It’s hard as a mother only because I’ve loved a “girl” since before they were even born. Guys like you sharing such painful experiences remind me that what I WANT is not as important as what my child NEEDS. Solidarity. Thank you & keep your head up!
your stepdad seems like a complete jerk... I'm sorry you went through this
yeah, he's a bad seed. i don't speak to him anymore.
Cameron Russo that's good to hear! Thank you for sharing your story.
Allison justice
Chelsea M. Yes?
So sad he was just trying to help you all along
Those blue-green eyes are STUNNING 💕
There is 1 person in my grade that is a transgender. She was born a boy and now she is a girl. Everyone in my grade supports her and she has so many friends. Many people in my grade announced that they were gay bisexual lesbian and many others. Nobody in my grade cared and they felt the same about them before they told everyone. Overall it doesn't matter if you are gay, you are the same person.
i think im one of the lucky ones because when i came out, my whole family was supportive. i mean my mom, stepdad, sisters, my moms sisters my moms mom, my aunts husband, my moms brother even my cousins. plus my other family from my now dead biological father's side. I'm very lucky. I WISH THE BEST FOR ALL MY TRANS BROTHERS AND SISTERS. i never knew what it was like to deal with not supportive family so this breaks my heart. im glad you're happy!!!
Damn man. I'm so sorry you've been through all that. I couldn't imagine, I don't mean this in a "I pity you" way but I have a lot of respect for you putting your story out there to help others
i'm so happy that you're doing good and that you eventually got out of that situation, it really is inspiring 💖
I swear I wasn't crying when the video started 😭 If you ever need to talk to someone or just feel like having another friend, i'm here 😊
i appreciate that so so much! likewise, i'm here if u need someone to talk to :)
No Matter What Always Love Yourself 😭💖💖
So Inspirational
I'm happy that u didn't pass away, I'm sorry that u had suffered for a long time!( You are a strong individual baby!)
goodness im so glad you survived all of this. you're so strong for all of this. i dont really know you but im proud of you.
I guess it's nice to be who you feel you're supposed to be.
wish I had the same luck...
Main Character - hey, it is never too late to start (:
Thanks for sharing your story. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that crap to get to where you are now. My stepchild just came out to us about being trans, I couldn't be more proud of him for being honest with himself and with us. Trying to learn everything I can to help make the transition as smooth as possible.
i am born a female. i have always felt more connected to male characters.. in 2015 i started to feel like i shouldn't be a female. i felt like it was wrong and that i was supposed to be in a male body. i put it off until september of this year, and it's been crushing me since then. i've had multiple episodes of severe depression, and have cut myself 4 times now. i go to a single gender school, so i just feel alienated from everyone there. i sit by myself during class and lunch, but i sometimes hang out with 2 girls im friends with.
i guess what im trying to say is, i just wish i was able to be me, roman. not rebekah.
my parents and grandparents are very transphobic, and would probably disown me for a bit if i told them how i feel. i'm so glad that you had the chance to be someone you want to be. i'm sorry you were depressed so much too
milk tea I really hope that all works well, for you!! Please be strong!! I know how you feel!!One day you'll be the person you want to be~♡
thank you so much... good luck to you as well ❤️❤️
milk tea Thank you~
you're welcome♥ I think you can start being "tomboy"...in a slowly way, so they would not notice a really big change^^
So proud of you for sharing your story on the internet. You're a brave person and I hope that everyone has the courage to perceiver and hold on like you did.
You're such a strong person, hats off to you.
I am a straight 46 year old woman with 1 grown kid. I couldn't imagine telling my kid those things. (hugs) I'm so sorry your family don't understand. I see how it could be devastating to a mom. I hope you find your way in life. (hug)
I love this
these kind of videos are so interesting to me. I as a cisgender, wouldn't be able to understand much of what it's like to be transgender if people like you weren't there. You're awesome. Also, you made it! You've had such a hard time and you can now say that you canbe who you are.. :)
Man...you've gone through so much. I came out for a whole year now and I am working my way pretty close to getting on T and getting top surgery...hopefully I will get on it by the end of this year....My mom is very supportive and I have been seeing all these doctors....and I just can't wait to get top surgery cuz then I can finally be free(in a way) because I have a pretty large chest and I have been wanting to get rid of it since 6th grade or so. I don't have torture myself in the heat by wearing layers and stuff.
This really hit home with me, you're such a strong person and I think it's amazing that you've done this all by yourself especially when everyone was discouraging you. I admire you and how hard you worked for all of this ❤ you're a great guy and I'm happy things are going good for you. Stay strong dude.
This is so inspirational! Thank you so much for sharing this!
thank you for watching!
Thank you for sharing your story, it is so inspiring. It was so good to hear that the story ended on a positive note. Also, I loved the way your voice changed to a more hopeful one once you started to talk about how things were getting better.
how did you start on testosterone? I have been wanting to for all my life but been afraid to ask doctors where I live, can I get some advice please
You have to go through your doctor.
like a referral letter?
Depending on your state, you might have to talk with a gender therapist first. But otherwise, look for informed consent clinics within your area. I'm learning myself too, but those can work without having to go to a gender therapist first.
You look great honestly. Like, damn dude. Your story is honestly so inspiring, and I'm really happy that you're still here!❤️ You're a brave man.
I support this with all my heart and soul.
never think your life is not important enough to live. You seem to be an amazing person never give up hope things will get better and never let anybody bring you down, if you are happy that is all that matters.
Brother, you have such a beautiful spirit. God bless you xo
Honestly I've been scrolling through these comments and I've hardly seen any hate comments, which I think is really great. I'm so glad that you've made so much progress! :)
Im glad that you have the 💪 to be who you are.Btw your handsome ❤.Stay the way you are because its better being yourself than anyone else.
ohhhh maaannnnn I've been looking for you! I saw you on instagram last year and this year I started to have gender dysphoria. I was searching ftm transition videos and I saw you! I'm so so so happy to find you!!! I'm so proud of you hunny
Where in Massachusetts are you from? I live in MA as well and go to Boston all the time. I would love to be your friend haha c:
the north end!
DoseofDrama I live in providence I need some new great friends where in Massachusetts are you both located? Let’s get coffee
I live North MA too!
you are such a role model for people and parents who judge people for being trans. also your friend doesn't deserve you as a friend and your dad is just an idiot, but you should not try to kill your self and thank God your still here as a big insperstion for many people trans and not trans
thank you, you really inspired me because I never new about being transgender and if anyone else told me they would have turned it into something bad.
I think many people agree with this and thank you and continue making videos and be proud😁😁😁
all the best from CANADA!!!!🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦
Thanks for sharing the story. I'm sorry you've had such a rough life :/
I've been wanting to change for a long time, and seeing this video lets me know it's possible. But I have no idea what to do. How did you start changing?
the first thing i had to do was move out. then i started gender therapy
Hiroshi Julius love your profile picture
Odachin thanks, fellow hetalian ;D
you have basically the same story as me. it makes me feel like im not alone in this world. I'm also ftm and its been a struggle and people have told me its all in my head and that i'm just sick. this just makes me feel sooo so much better. Much love to you
You are very brave to tell your story. I appreciate a lot. You're a very interesting person and a great guy. kisses from Argentina
I'm so glad you are still alive! This video is so inspiring!!
Great story so inspirational
thank you so much!
I am so sorry you have been through all of that and I am genuinely happy you are finally finding happiness in your life!! Thank you for sharing your story Cameron
I SEEN A PICTURE OF YOU GOING AROUND ON FACEBOOK WITH YOUR STORY AND OMG I FOUND YOUR UA-cam
Thanks dude :)
X Traps X im not judging anyone. As i said you might look better than him but tbh no one should care about looks.. it should be pesonality
You do you. And be happy. no more trying to overdose. the world, the universe needs you
This boy is so so handsome, my oh my.
You have no idea how less alone your story made me feel. Almost everybody that I know (who is lgbt+q) always seem to have nothing but acceptance stories... my parents arn't really that way. I just wanted to say thank you for sharing because it really did help me. I respect you for getting through that, and I found comfort in your story because I finally felt that I could relate to someone. I just- I had to say this. Thanks.
So happy for you 💞
OMG, this is the best video I've ever seen from an LGBTQI community! It is so sincere and special! I am so glad you are happy and in charge of your own life right now. I think nothing can compare with that feeling of freedom and ability to just do whatever you want! Thanks a lot for sharing your story; as you can see it inspires and motivates a lot of people. You look very handsome and I wish you all the best!!! Never give up and forget what other people think; your own choices matter more to your life than anything else.
How could anyone thumbs this down?
Dude you make me want to come out so bad already if you can go through all of that and finally be happy then there is hope for me too Thank you for posting this! :)
thank you for sharing your story ❤
I looked up " How to look masculine and be a girl " and this video came up. The website said look for a role model and then I looked at videos and this one came up... I'm not joking the where he said I didnt have a lot of friends and looked to online friends and not knowing what trans meant.... and the journey to realizing you want to be trans like me. I think I found my inspiration in what I want and will make me happy. Thank you so much!
you are a hero to me👌
This made me cry
I loved your story, and it was inspiring in a way. Thank you for sharing.
Hearing stories from other transgender people makes me feel less alone.
wow, never knew a youtuber who used to pose or roleplay as they call it now. it really is an excape from real life
hahaha yeah i did it for sooooo long
Cameron Russo so did I, I actually just stopped last year 😳
you're really inspiring and i just want to hug you
you are really cute , 😍 . and i appreciate you sharing your story with the world
I am so proud of you, Cameron
Aw. You're so freakin cute. Glad you're doing good. :-)
This was put out like a year ago, so I'm sorry for commenting but I'm personally so proud of you. Thanks for sharing your story. That takes a lot. I'm glad none of those attempts worked, the world would really be missing out.
just wanna say that your amazing😊😊
mylifeasgracie f Ikr,
GOOD FOR YOU CAMERON...WAY TO GO!!! I'm very proud of you! You have great strength! ☺️
holy guacamole you're so beautiful man
It's awesome how you've been throught everything, your stepfather, your "friends".. and that, right now, you can talk about how happy you are and how much you are enjoying the moment. I think that that's how you know how much it worth it.