My friend from the end of the video is mad that some of you are skipping her part. Scroll back up and watch the whole thing or she won’t be my friend any more. 👿
I spent SO long trying to make friends.... like I would literally just ask ‘will you be my friend’ and I failed at that until one day I was avoiding all the people by hiding behind a tree and being lonely and one girl said ‘hey get out from behind that tree you weirdo!’ and now we’re best friends :D
as a homeschooler, i wholeheartedly agree with the description. I like my education but it sure is more difficult to meet new ppl. making friends is a piece of cake in school, don't waste it.
I’m also a homeschooler but I have a bestie right down the road and he goes to public school sooo I’ve basically befriended all of his friends so I’m a very lucky person and I thank god for it I just wanted to tell you I fell you my dear friend
Statistically, most people spend most of their time thinking about themselves. Even if you did completely embarrass yourself, and even if they did notice, they still don't care and will forget about it promptly unless you are already friends or siblings. Take comfort in the knowledge that no one is paying any attention to you 90% of the time.
Could we all take a moment to appreciate Tim Tom's fun, chill animation style? It's so laid back and comfortable, I love it! :D You are such a legend in the animation community Tim Tom, I hope I can make half as entertaining videos as yours one day! :)
In all honesty, I can say with confidence that I have never gone up to somebody and asked if they wanted to be my friend. Usually I would get friends by just waiting for somebody to talk to be, and one day kids did start talking to me. Ever since I have been less shy. I still have social anxiety and 100% agree with him still
@@PLAYplaceprod.church you literally are the 6th person to say this shit and only have one person on your side go to the other comments that say the same shit everyone else saying the same thing as me it's dead let it die
This made me think of how social environment can have a big impact of social skills, for example for my last year of I think elementary school (don't know the school system translate, about age 11 to 12 ) I went to a special ed school while it was not necessary and this impacted my social skills extremely, nothing wrong with those kids but if you're around them 7 hours (and I'm talking severe adhd, autism, down syndrome and other things) and the teacher treat you as less capable you really start to doubt yourself and then you start to talk less and less to people and then you start to isolated yourself cuz you feel inferior and then you need a year of psychologist appointments and then another 2 years of middle school ( age 13 to 15) to come out your shell and even then your social skills are still under developed, so yeah just know you have to try to get good at social things
People like people who take interest in them. Be the friend to others that you want then to be to you. Make an effort to properly communicate. Check on them. Show them they are valued. Just like you would want to be. You are a great person, with a great personality, great spirit, and great sense of humor. Most of these people here are interested in who you are. Take interest in them. You’ll have plenty of great friends. You’ve got this! SN: Social media is not proper communication. Pick up the phone and call more often or at least as much as text.
@@greenisnotprimary to drop bombs, but he keeps on forgetting what he wrote down, the whole crowd goes so loud, he opens his mouth but the words won’t go out
I love that the intro people made it out okay! I was worried about them the whole time!! Now we just need a bonus seen of the kitties all finding their respective owners 😹
I was real quite at high school. I was awkward and loved tech. I made 3 friends in the first year, the first vanished (like GONE!) The second moved away, and the 3rd started driftin away, to a new group. I didnt make propper friends till the final years. We played dnd, played games and hanged out. It took awhile but i did it, i also apparently became popular during those years.....
Ahh this is so relatable! Someone having anxiety and being a pure introvert at heart, it was super hard for me to make friends. I usually was awkward and embarrassed when it came to interacting with someone.
Yay!! Another Tim Tom video! I always love watching your videos Tim, you and your team are incredibly talented! I really like the smooth transitions, the animation, the backgrounds (I had to keep pausing the video to look at the backgrounds because gosh some of them are stunning! Like the misty forest scene at 0:13 the cafe scene at 6:50 and so many other backgrounds, the amount of detail in each different background is really impressive) The way you tell your stories is super engaging and makes the video so fun and interesting! As a fellow victim of social anxiety I can definitely relate to a lot of what you said in the video and the amount of relief I felt on your behalf at 7:05 is immense! But seriously you and you team should be really proud of this video, your amazing! Also spoiler alert for the people who haven’t watched till the end yet: I love that ending! The climber and frog being fine has 100% just made my day :)
I had a couple friends as a kid. Children are just more open to new experiences. Making adult friends is super hard since everyone is on a different schedule and have trauma from past friendships. I literally havent made a single new friend since I left high school like 6 years ago.
6:34: "But knowing that a feeling is irrational, doesn't magically make it go away, any more than knowing that you're colourblind would magically make you see colours." This allegory was also used in Empty by Jaiden and Boyinaband, and it's a quote that's stuck with me ever since the song came out. It's such a good way to describe how difficult it can be to turn negative thought patterns around.
I find making friends super hard. Like I was hated in school so I never learned to make friends so now that I am an adult I have like no idea. Lucky for me my husband already had friends from high school so I squeezed myself in there... (really he felt bad because they made a D&D group and he knew how much I loved D&D so once they did the 'Wife's can join' he came running home to tell me. Now they consider me a friend). Something weird about me is like I am happy to talk to a random person in like a long line or something as if we are friends and I will even think about how I totally want to hang out with this person, but once we reach our destination I get too nervous and start to think "Nah, she probably only talked to me because she felt like she had to" "I bet she hated talking to me" so I just shut up and never see them again.
Its actually kinda funny that this came out at this time when I had a terrible social anxiety relapse. I spend a few days hating being around some of my best friends bc it felt like every time I said something, I was being judged because people would give me those looks. I honestly don't think I was being that irrational until I locked myself in the bathroom bc I was so sick of one person. And so I set out to just...find a new friend. No sh-t, I was like, Imma find me a new and true bestie so I can feel better about myself. It's going great, guys. I started talking to my brother's friend and things are going well.
This video really means a lot to me. I started the next stage of my life journey at a new school where I was the only newcomer and most everyone else had been there for years. I have ADHD and probably social anxiety too, and I'm always worried that I messed up after every single conversation. My social skills aren't the best, and I feel like I've been struggling to make friends and arrange things outside of school. My hobbies aren't the most common either (drawing, animation, writing, et cetera). Knowing that people I admire (read: most anyone who can draw) struggle with the same things is pretty inspiring. Thanks for that. Edit: you call that thing at 2:50 an icecream cone-? XD
how has it been going now? I moved schools a few years ago feeling really confident and made some awesome friends but got into some stuff with one of them and really lost some of that confidence thinking everyone hated me. Until my last day at school alot of my other friends was saying theyd miss me and how much fun we had... I realise I was doubting myself that whole time 🥲 anxiety just sucks fr
@@flounks2494 Just went to a social event and felt like a trapped animal for the first 15 minutes or so. Talked to one person and felt a bit better, but still am just really bad at socializing, even compared to other new students with ADHD. I think it's a me problem.
making friends in setting where everyone else is already established is super intimidating and difficult. don't get on yourself too much about it. Just be yourself is such an over done cliché, but for good reason. Being yourself won't get you friends right away, but it will get you friends. and they will be true friends and you'll have a much deeper connection. maybe the school or even community center in your town have writing clubs or something you can check out!
Yes sometimes is hard to make friends, the thing that I do to make new friends is this steps: Step 1 scan the room and see who are in groups and and who don’t. Step 2 see that person that looks nervous or is just lonely you got it?.. great Step 3 approach them with a smile and just say hi 👋🏻 Step 4 ask them the basics,their name,age,school, or the place that you are at the moment. Step 5. Every time you see them talk to them don’t just stay standing there ask them about their day or week. Bonus: every time you see someone new in the class or the place you are going) talk to them first then you will gain new friends
Your videos make me feel normal because now I know that I'm not overthinking and I thought I was being dramatic but now I know that I'm not the only one who's like this :)
Tips on how to make friends (On a bus or public transportations) Start by starting a conversation about your favourite topics (example:radios) and sometimes ask where their destination is. Or ask for their opinion on your topic! Talking about jokes too can intrest them in joining your topic
I'm soooo happy to see you back posting again! Also really happy to see how many of us stayed to see if you would come back! Again, so so so happy that you did!
Man this is so reliable. For some reason I always think that I am ruining a friendship with someone despite evidence to the contrary. Maybe I should do the same thing you did. Thanks man!👍
Amazing animation, TimTom!! Wow, as someone who also has a lot of social anxiety, this is SOOOO relatable haha!! Thanks so much for the video and for sharing!! Keep up the great work!😁👍
You know as a teenager that's also a introvert, sure it's sometimes hard to make friends. But, by using my social skills I work and my personality, I manage to have my first ever best friend (at school bc I had a cousin that's the same age as me but a few months older than me, but were best friends.) And will try to make more for my Sophomore year (got done with my freshman year.) And, If TimTom see this try to work on your social skills and conversating in order to make some cool lasting friendships, and I'll do the same to have some cool friends in the future.
I only have 2 friends right now, and those 2 friends are both brothers AND twins of each other, so it's ALMOST like I have 1 friend. At church one day, they talked about how most people probably don't even know what are the struggles that their 5 BEST friends are going through. All I could think of was, "Wow, it's bold of you to assume that EVERYONE has MORE than 5 friends!"
As someone who recently talked to some of my school friends that i havent talked to since before the pandemic started i had nothing to say to my friend and just said "i have no idea about what we should to talk about" and i just sat there feeling very akward and went home hoping id never interact with someone in real life ever again :D
That's what youtube is for. You put on a "near death caught on camera" video and laugh. It's not like your friends did anything in lockdown either. Everyone is starting from scratch
Somehow I made the most friends when I didn't want any and I still have some of them to this day. I was insanely happy when it turned out you made a friend just like yourself, that is some maximum reassurance right there.
The first real conversation I remember having with my boyfriend was when we started talking to each other about our own lives and basically traumadumped for 3 hours x"D later i was super worried I made him feel uncomfortable, but then I thought "hey, crazy idea, maybe he felt like that too?" so I texted him and reassured him that it was fine that he told me a lot. And he texted back saying he was relieved that I'd sent that text!
Ah yes my favorite song “my palms were sweaty, knights are weak, my bishops ready, some guy brought some of his moms spaghetti. I was nervous, but in the surface, I also looked super nervous”
I feel this so hard I have autism and I act weirdly sometimes talk weirdly and I probably look kind of strange too. I can tell if people think I’m weird and a lot of people have no problem expressing it to me so at this time I just take it as a compliment. When I was younger used to be so easy but now it’s hard to make friends with people my age. Adults are surprised at how smart I am and how knowledgeable and talented I am and little kids also like me but people my own age just kind of outcast me. Eventually I just stopped caring or trying anytime they were group discussions I would avoid them simply because I didn’t know what to say I was just spend my time focusing on my studies my instruments my drawings and I was just spend time alone instead of with other people. I’ve always wanted to be cool and accepted but I don’t know when that’s going to happen. At least I’m getting slightly better so kind of proud of myself for that but hopefully sophomore year will be different and not to mention how sad being single is.
Til Tok, you've inspired me so much lately and I wanted you to know that:) I love your videos and they make me laugh. I always relate to your videos. And your one of my favorite UA-cam's
Glad to see another one of your vids man! Can totally relate to the Social Anxiety dude, it sucks. But hey, I guess even with that problem, we still somehow managed to work through it and make friends of our own. Keep up the good work!
As a guy with a strong social anxiety I can agree to every single second of this video, last year I moved homes and it was my first year in a new school and someone from another class turned out to be my neighbour next door so we usually go to and from school in the same way which is kinda long specially when you're alone and not talking to anyone, and still yet I haven't figured out a way to start a conversation or talk with him.
I was like “wow, these stories sounds familiar” and then I was like “Ooh, I probably have social anxiety. Dang, why didn’t I put that together sooner?”
I'm 99% sure I have social anxiety too (never got I checked out so I'm not gonna self diagnose) and I just overthink this wayyyyyyyy too much, I just always have this gut feeling that the person just hates me, IDK why I have issues =P
I lived in Europe and in Europe it's not that hard to make friends like on day there was a new guy in our class and no one was wanting to be his friend until I befriended him and one of my Friends
I literally walk up to random people at my school and try to start conversations with them and people still didn’t want to become friends. It can be frustrating due to being so involved in their friend groups they don’t want to welcome newcomers
I wish someone would walk up to me and just be friendly. I am introverted so I can only make like one friend a year as long as whoever sits next to me is friendly.
I wouldn't have made friends if when I moved here my first friend didn't look at me and go "This one is short af..I'll keep her" and then that's how I made all my other friends
6:22 Wow. I also get that feeling. Allthough i don't in the aftermath, cause i don't wonna bother them even more (because i am conflict shy). Could this mean i have sosial anxiety?
My friend from the end of the video is mad that some of you are skipping her part. Scroll back up and watch the whole thing or she won’t be my friend any more. 👿
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lol
I c e c r e a m
Subway I don't have Twitter but yeah I don't even have Minecraft on any newer devices still have it on the Xbox 360
done, I think
I spent SO long trying to make friends.... like I would literally just ask ‘will you be my friend’ and I failed at that until one day I was avoiding all the people by hiding behind a tree and being lonely and one girl said ‘hey get out from behind that tree you weirdo!’ and now we’re best friends :D
Cool story
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Online I just told someone, “you’re my friend now” and it worked
ahaha
Why so hard 😐
7:33 At first I was impressed by Tim's insane acrobatic skills, but then...
Then I saw the frog. *A true specimen.*
lol
Oh hey Jess
Jess!
I was watching ur channel today
I find the frog to be very datable, in fact we are dating as we speak
LOL WHAT THE HECK XD
as a homeschooler, i wholeheartedly agree with the description. I like my education but it sure is more difficult to meet new ppl. making friends is a piece of cake in school, don't waste it.
Its alot harder when people have accused you 3 times of saying racial slurs and start rumours about you.. (defo aint speaking from experience)
I'm in school and well making friend isn't easy. Maybe I'm just not great to be aroud
I’m also a homeschooler but I have a bestie right down the road and he goes to public school sooo I’ve basically befriended all of his friends so I’m a very lucky person and I thank god for it I just wanted to tell you I fell you my dear friend
Knowing what the problem is doesn’t make it disappear. It just makes it possible to deal with the problem.
Statistically, most people spend most of their time thinking about themselves. Even if you did completely embarrass yourself, and even if they did notice, they still don't care and will forget about it promptly unless you are already friends or siblings.
Take comfort in the knowledge that no one is paying any attention to you 90% of the time.
Could we all take a moment to appreciate Tim Tom's fun, chill animation style? It's so laid back and comfortable, I love it! :D
You are such a legend in the animation community Tim Tom, I hope I can make half as entertaining videos as yours one day! :)
first step to making good videos, is making videos!
@@BoiseFreerunner You're very right! Working hard on videos every day! :)
Hello There
@@CopperStarToons Yes, but don't overwork.
@CopperStarToons i found you here😊🤣
It's okay, TimTom. Many people suck at making friends. Many others suck at friends. I know I for one suck friends. We all go through similar ordeals.
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ayo?????
U what!?
😭
Bro?
In all honesty, I can say with confidence that I have never gone up to somebody and asked if they wanted to be my friend. Usually I would get friends by just waiting for somebody to talk to be, and one day kids did start talking to me. Ever since I have been less shy. I still have social anxiety and 100% agree with him still
When the world needed him the most,
He came back and tried to make new friends…
Please stop with the "when the world needed him most" bull shit it's getting old dude
@@ANXreflex Who the hell cares
@@PLAYplaceprod.church you literally are the 6th person to say this shit and only have one person on your side go to the other comments that say the same shit everyone else saying the same thing as me it's dead let it die
@@ANXreflex when the world needed ANXreflex the most they stabed us in the back
@@ANXreflex its different, i know we both are tired of these comment, but, this comment is more different and unique.
I cannot express in words how relatable this is... minus shaking hands over chess. You're on your own with that one unfortunately.
This made me think of how social environment can have a big impact of social skills, for example for my last year of I think elementary school (don't know the school system translate, about age 11 to 12 ) I went to a special ed school while it was not necessary and this impacted my social skills extremely, nothing wrong with those kids but if you're around them 7 hours (and I'm talking severe adhd, autism, down syndrome and other things) and the teacher treat you as less capable you really start to doubt yourself and then you start to talk less and less to people and then you start to isolated yourself cuz you feel inferior and then you need a year of psychologist appointments and then another 2 years of middle school ( age 13 to 15) to come out your shell and even then your social skills are still under developed, so yeah just know you have to try to get good at social things
the beginning made me laugh WAY more than it should’ve
It hit harder than that car
People like people who take interest in them. Be the friend to others that you want then to be to you. Make an effort to properly communicate. Check on them. Show them they are valued. Just like you would want to be. You are a great person, with a great personality, great spirit, and great sense of humor. Most of these people here are interested in who you are. Take interest in them. You’ll have plenty of great friends. You’ve got this!
SN: Social media is not proper communication. Pick up the phone and call more often or at least as much as text.
This is why you are my favorite youtuber. You are so relatable and so entertaining and funny at the same time.
I laughed so hard at “one guy brought his mom’s spaghetti. I was nervous” 😂
But on the surface
He was calm and ready to drop bombs,
he looks calm and ready
@@greenisnotprimary to drop bombs, but he keeps on forgetting what he wrote down, the whole crowd goes so loud, he opens his mouth but the words won’t go out
@@IamJosh26 he’s choking now, everybody’s joking now, the clock’s run out, times up over BLOW!
I love that the intro people made it out okay! I was worried about them the whole time!! Now we just need a bonus seen of the kitties all finding their respective owners 😹
I was real quite at high school. I was awkward and loved tech. I made 3 friends in the first year, the first vanished (like GONE!) The second moved away, and the 3rd started driftin away, to a new group. I didnt make propper friends till the final years. We played dnd, played games and hanged out. It took awhile but i did it, i also apparently became popular during those years.....
I feel like making friends as a kid was so much easier lmao
Because you just get put in a group and are forced to spend ~8 hours a day together. Very effective
Also you only need to say "Do you like puppies?" and make friends with the first person who says/yells "Yes!"
It isn’t. Lmao. Can confirm
It isn't
-a homeschooled kid
It isn't.
Ahh this is so relatable! Someone having anxiety and being a pure introvert at heart, it was super hard for me to make friends. I usually was awkward and embarrassed when it came to interacting with someone.
You are 1 of the few youtubers that continually make me laugh With every single video that I watch of yours.
You know its gonna be a good day when tim tom uploads!
Yes
Yay!! Another Tim Tom video! I always love watching your videos Tim, you and your team are incredibly talented! I really like the smooth transitions, the animation, the backgrounds (I had to keep pausing the video to look at the backgrounds because gosh some of them are stunning! Like the misty forest scene at 0:13 the cafe scene at 6:50 and so many other backgrounds, the amount of detail in each different background is really impressive) The way you tell your stories is super engaging and makes the video so fun and interesting! As a fellow victim of social anxiety I can definitely relate to a lot of what you said in the video and the amount of relief I felt on your behalf at 7:05 is immense!
But seriously you and you team should be really proud of this video, your amazing!
Also spoiler alert for the people who haven’t watched till the end yet:
I love that ending! The climber and frog being fine has 100% just made my day :)
You made my day! I sent this to the team. Thank you so much for the kind words :)
@@TimTom Gosh I’m so honoured! Thank you Tim! You really are wonderful!
@@TimTom Why not ask Friendship experts?
Like me🙂
I had a couple friends as a kid. Children are just more open to new experiences. Making adult friends is super hard since everyone is on a different schedule and have trauma from past friendships. I literally havent made a single new friend since I left high school like 6 years ago.
6:34: "But knowing that a feeling is irrational, doesn't magically make it go away, any more than knowing that you're colourblind would magically make you see colours."
This allegory was also used in Empty by Jaiden and Boyinaband, and it's a quote that's stuck with me ever since the song came out. It's such a good way to describe how difficult it can be to turn negative thought patterns around.
As a person who hasn't had a friend for a long time, I'm glad you at least made some friends in your life that you still hang out with. 🙂
Your lying if you don’t have a single friend
@@IsaiahPicks I don’t know if that person is lying.
But it is very possible to have zero friends, I’m the perfect example.
@@Sergio-wc1wn do you have a family member or pet your close with
I did Make Some Friends At Gym And School and It has Been Nice...
We can be friends bro
0:00 TIMTOM. THE ONE PIECE REFERENCE. RESPECT. Zoro, Sanji and Luffy. Amazing. Thanks for the advice as well!
This is so relatable for me. I suck at making friends due to my social anxiety and my painful shyness lol
It's okay,I too can relate on that path. I used to have some friends back in primary,but now it's much harder in high school.
@@mikewapowski yep to be honest I'm better friends with my rabbits than humans lol
What's funny about that?
Yeah me too
“Everyone from the intro was fine. The only thing that got hurt was my feelings”
basically me when I try to make friends
You know the parties good when you see the straw hats and Zoro didn’t get them lost
XD
I find making friends super hard. Like I was hated in school so I never learned to make friends so now that I am an adult I have like no idea. Lucky for me my husband already had friends from high school so I squeezed myself in there... (really he felt bad because they made a D&D group and he knew how much I loved D&D so once they did the 'Wife's can join' he came running home to tell me. Now they consider me a friend). Something weird about me is like I am happy to talk to a random person in like a long line or something as if we are friends and I will even think about how I totally want to hang out with this person, but once we reach our destination I get too nervous and start to think "Nah, she probably only talked to me because she felt like she had to" "I bet she hated talking to me" so I just shut up and never see them again.
So would you be my friend
@@marya60 ehhhhhhhhhhhh
i have friends but can’t make new ones sadly
this is relatable for me 🥲
Its actually kinda funny that this came out at this time when I had a terrible social anxiety relapse. I spend a few days hating being around some of my best friends bc it felt like every time I said something, I was being judged because people would give me those looks. I honestly don't think I was being that irrational until I locked myself in the bathroom bc I was so sick of one person. And so I set out to just...find a new friend. No sh-t, I was like, Imma find me a new and true bestie so I can feel better about myself. It's going great, guys. I started talking to my brother's friend and things are going well.
sucks that u went/goin thru such tough shit, great that u found a new frond! Hope it all goes well!! YAYYY take care!!
You haven’t even posted and seven years
I could go on and on about my failed attempts at making friends in college.
This video really means a lot to me. I started the next stage of my life journey at a new school where I was the only newcomer and most everyone else had been there for years. I have ADHD and probably social anxiety too, and I'm always worried that I messed up after every single conversation. My social skills aren't the best, and I feel like I've been struggling to make friends and arrange things outside of school. My hobbies aren't the most common either (drawing, animation, writing, et cetera). Knowing that people I admire (read: most anyone who can draw) struggle with the same things is pretty inspiring. Thanks for that.
Edit: you call that thing at 2:50 an icecream cone-? XD
Nope! That's a torch.
@@TimTom yes
how has it been going now? I moved schools a few years ago feeling really confident and made some awesome friends but got into some stuff with one of them and really lost some of that confidence thinking everyone hated me. Until my last day at school alot of my other friends was saying theyd miss me and how much fun we had... I realise I was doubting myself that whole time 🥲 anxiety just sucks fr
@@flounks2494 Just went to a social event and felt like a trapped animal for the first 15 minutes or so. Talked to one person and felt a bit better, but still am just really bad at socializing, even compared to other new students with ADHD. I think it's a me problem.
making friends in setting where everyone else is already established is super intimidating and difficult. don't get on yourself too much about it. Just be yourself is such an over done cliché, but for good reason. Being yourself won't get you friends right away, but it will get you friends. and they will be true friends and you'll have a much deeper connection. maybe the school or even community center in your town have writing clubs or something you can check out!
Yes sometimes is hard to make friends, the thing that I do to make new friends is this steps:
Step 1 scan the room and see who are in groups and and who don’t.
Step 2 see that person that looks nervous or is just lonely you got it?.. great
Step 3 approach them with a smile and just say hi 👋🏻
Step 4 ask them the basics,their name,age,school, or the place that you are at the moment.
Step 5. Every time you see them talk to them don’t just stay standing there ask them about their day or week.
Bonus: every time you see someone new in the class or the place you are going) talk to them first then you will gain new friends
0:15 honestly if someone climbed up a cliff with their bare hands just to be my friend I’d immediately become their freind
Yeah but why does that cliff look like a picture from botw
Its from i cliff bar (litterly)@@philipmcdonald8839
BRO... THE FROG THOUGH 🐸
YASSS
What frog
That was a sad part
Why did you put one piece of judgment in the background
5th comment
Your videos make me feel normal because now I know that I'm not overthinking and I thought I was being dramatic but now I know that I'm not the only one who's like this :)
For the first time for me, I’m having trouble making friends but my brother helped me and we been making friends :)
For the first time for me, I'm having trouble making friends but my brother helped me and we been making friends :)
I have this problem, told it to my brother so he can help, you know what he said? “Maybe youre the problem”
@@MOMAZOSPATO classic sibling moment
“Will I make any friends?”
“No, stupid!”
That had me laughing so hard!
your one of my favourite animators keep up the incredible work
Tips on how to make friends
(On a bus or public transportations)
Start by starting a conversation about your favourite topics (example:radios) and sometimes ask where their destination is. Or ask for their opinion on your topic! Talking about jokes too can intrest them in joining your topic
Thank you so very much for putting music credits in description. Common courtesy's like that make life worth living.
I dunno man you where pretty easy to talk to when we met XD
“We need surgery.” Was so innocent and I love it.
I'm soooo happy to see you back posting again! Also really happy to see how many of us stayed to see if you would come back! Again, so so so happy that you did!
Man this is so reliable. For some reason I always think that I am ruining a friendship with someone despite evidence to the contrary. Maybe I should do the same thing you did. Thanks man!👍
5:02 I was thinking “huh, I should look for the ice-THERE IT IS!!”
Amazing animation, TimTom!! Wow, as someone who also has a lot of social anxiety, this is SOOOO relatable haha!! Thanks so much for the video and for sharing!! Keep up the great work!😁👍
You know as a teenager that's also a introvert, sure it's sometimes hard to make friends. But, by using my social skills I work and my personality, I manage to have my first ever best friend (at school bc I had a cousin that's the same age as me but a few months older than me, but were best friends.) And will try to make more for my Sophomore year (got done with my freshman year.) And, If TimTom see this try to work on your social skills and conversating in order to make some cool lasting friendships, and I'll do the same to have some cool friends in the future.
I only have 2 friends right now, and those 2 friends are both brothers AND twins of each other, so it's ALMOST like I have 1 friend. At church one day, they talked about how most people probably don't even know what are the struggles that their 5 BEST friends are going through. All I could think of was, "Wow, it's bold of you to assume that EVERYONE has MORE than 5 friends!"
As someone who recently talked to some of my school friends that i havent talked to since before the pandemic started i had nothing to say to my friend and just said "i have no idea about what we should to talk about" and i just sat there feeling very akward and went home hoping id never interact with someone in real life ever again :D
That's what youtube is for. You put on a "near death caught on camera" video and laugh.
It's not like your friends did anything in lockdown either. Everyone is starting from scratch
I’m so glad you made sure that everyone from the intro was fine.
0:37 😂 was not expecting that 😂
Somehow I made the most friends when I didn't want any and I still have some of them to this day. I was insanely happy when it turned out you made a friend just like yourself, that is some maximum reassurance right there.
The first real conversation I remember having with my boyfriend was when we started talking to each other about our own lives and basically traumadumped for 3 hours x"D later i was super worried I made him feel uncomfortable, but then I thought "hey, crazy idea, maybe he felt like that too?" so I texted him and reassured him that it was fine that he told me a lot. And he texted back saying he was relieved that I'd sent that text!
Ah yes my favorite song “my palms were sweaty, knights are weak, my bishops ready, some guy brought some of his moms spaghetti. I was nervous, but in the surface, I also looked super nervous”
When he made his version of Eminem's song's lyrics I died of laughter
Edit : ITS GOOD TO HAVE U BACK TIMTOM!!!
I feel this so hard I have autism and I act weirdly sometimes talk weirdly and I probably look kind of strange too. I can tell if people think I’m weird and a lot of people have no problem expressing it to me so at this time I just take it as a compliment. When I was younger used to be so easy but now it’s hard to make friends with people my age. Adults are surprised at how smart I am and how knowledgeable and talented I am and little kids also like me but people my own age just kind of outcast me. Eventually I just stopped caring or trying anytime they were group discussions I would avoid them simply because I didn’t know what to say I was just spend my time focusing on my studies my instruments my drawings and I was just spend time alone instead of with other people. I’ve always wanted to be cool and accepted but I don’t know when that’s going to happen. At least I’m getting slightly better so kind of proud of myself for that but hopefully sophomore year will be different and not to mention how sad being single is.
As another autistic person, I don’t make friends with people my age, I’m 12 and I’m friends with all my teachers, but no one my age.
Til Tok, you've inspired me so much lately and I wanted you to know that:) I love your videos and they make me laugh. I always relate to your videos. And your one of my favorite UA-cam's
Glad to see another one of your vids man! Can totally relate to the Social Anxiety dude, it sucks. But hey, I guess even with that problem, we still somehow managed to work through it and make friends of our own. Keep up the good work!
I’VE NEVER RELATED SO MUCH ON A SPIRITUALLY LEVEL THAN I HAVE AFTER WATCHING THIS VIDEO
I feel ya. At this point, I don't even wanna make any friends
It took so long for him to upload this… but it was TOTALLY WORTH IT!!
And plus, of course timtom’s peanut brain is ALWAYS right!!
Disappointingly relatable 😅
agrEEEEEED
Way to relatable,wayy to relatable
Disappointingly relatable 😅
Me too
same
I love how timtom added one piece in the background
Thank you for this. I have social anxiety even though I still go to social gatherings and it's more than just being afraid to meet people in person
Legend has it, that frog is still that dude's hood ornament to this day.
Tim: I WANNA MAKE A FRIEND
Tim Again: *eats himself*
Adviser: Just don't think about it!
Me: Gee thanks, my fears have evaporated, amazing. You're SO good at your job.
I love your content it just keeps getting better and better!
As a guy with a strong social anxiety I can agree to every single second of this video, last year I moved homes and it was my first year in a new school and someone from another class turned out to be my neighbour next door so we usually go to and from school in the same way which is kinda long specially when you're alone and not talking to anyone, and still yet I haven't figured out a way to start a conversation or talk with him.
another great timtom video! now my day is better.
It’s been awhile since this man last upload it looks awesome, keep up with the great work bro! 💚
I used to live right next door to my granny, however. I moved to BSI at 2014 but my granny still lives with me today.
Is anyone going to talk about how he hasn’t posted for seven months!!!!!
We all need more TimTom!!!
yeah
Good animation takes time.
I was like “wow, these stories sounds familiar” and then I was like “Ooh, I probably have social anxiety. Dang, why didn’t I put that together sooner?”
The part when he eats his self Is so funny I can’t stop laughing and putting it back
I'm 99% sure I have social anxiety too (never got I checked out so I'm not gonna self diagnose) and I just overthink this wayyyyyyyy too much, I just always have this gut feeling that the person just hates me, IDK why I have issues =P
When the world needed him the most, he came back
facts
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Every video he posts someone says this it's getting really old come up with some new shit
I lived in Europe and in Europe it's not that hard to make friends like on day there was a new guy in our class and no one was wanting to be his friend until I befriended him and one of my Friends
I literally walk up to random people at my school and try to start conversations with them and people still didn’t want to become friends. It can be frustrating due to being so involved in their friend groups they don’t want to welcome newcomers
I wish someone would walk up to me and just be friendly. I am introverted so I can only make like one friend a year as long as whoever sits next to me is friendly.
I wouldn't have made friends if when I moved here my first friend didn't look at me and go "This one is short af..I'll keep her" and then that's how I made all my other friends
"If I cant make friends, at least I can make content"
Legendary quote
TimTom coming back is one of the best things that has ever happend.
always worth the wait.
Honestly I’ve gotten to the point where I’m fine with having no friends and being all alone… I keep telling myself
Timothy, did you eat the cookies? No mamma! Are you lying timothy? No mamma! Yes you are timothy, and you know what that means... AAAAAAHH
"We would've laughed and laughed and found out that all the chess pieces were inside us all along."
-TomTom
My palms were sweaty
Nights are weak
My bishops: ready
One guy brought some
of his mom's spaghetti
Like for Lose yourself:)
:0
Wdyk (what do ya know)
Me too!
Welcome to having socal anxiety and being a introvert!
*le cries in almost friendless *
When the world needed him most he returned
6:22 Wow. I also get that feeling. Allthough i don't in the aftermath, cause i don't wonna bother them even more (because i am conflict shy).
Could this mean i have sosial anxiety?
0:00-0:28 this happens to me every time I try to make a friend.
Tell me why at 1:50 it starts to sound like that one Eminem song
Cause it was
Ok
Same bro, same... I'm awkward, that's why I turn to the internet a rapidly growing community for angry redditors! I mean, nice people! Hehehe...
4:44 bro I could not stop laughing 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Man it’s been such a long while since you’ve made a video I watched this as soon as possible I love your animations
Why did the kid from 6:46 remind me so much of Nico Di Angelo? (From Percy Jackson) is it just me lol
Yay, froggo and climber guy are okay! I’ll be your friend TimTom
2:40 noo
Help I'm dead on the floor 🤣
Hahahaha!