The woman who said when she’s really mad at her husband then she regrets marrying him but when she’s not mad, she’s happy and lucky to have him and to be married to him. I feel everyone feels that way sometimes.
My mom always feels regret because my parents fight all the time... But getting a divorce would be so much against the societal norms which is why they're still together
I have a secret I want to confess. My neighbor Took a kitten from its mother at four weeks old (from a farm) . She found out her daughter was allergic and let it roam outside all by itself. She wasn’t willing to give the kitten to someone else to take care of. I spend a lot of time outside in my yard and garden. the poor little kitten would come see me every day. So I would secretly take care of the kitty, bring her inside to get used to my dog, cuddle with her, and take care of her needs. The kitten was terribly neglected by the owner so I told someone. that someone took the kitten during the night. My neighbor asked me if I knew what happened to her cat and I told her I had no idea. The person who took the kitty sends me pictures and updates all the time. The kitty is now living her best life. The only sad part is the neighbor’s kids don’t know what happened to the kitten and they think the kitten probably died. I feel terrible about it but I can’t tell the kids otherwise their parents would find out and I would have big problems with my neighbor.
I’m a huge cat lover and I do think you did the right thing for the cat, but wow those poor kids must be traumatized from the experience :( please find a way to tell them. Maybe get someone to leave a note to the kids somehow saying the cat is safe and in a good home? I just remember my cat running away when I was a kid and not knowing if he was alive or dead completely scarred me until now. You did the right thing for the cat, but wrong thing for the kids.
To the girl with the striped shirt, who tried to kill herself, I am so glad you are stil here. I hope you are getting help, talking to someone, about this. I know that feeling. Again, I am so glad you are here to tell your story.
Sometimes it is healthiest for us to not believe everything we think. We, too, can assume the worst when it’s not always the case. Even if we never get the answers to our greatest fears and anxieties it helps to give others the benefit of the doubt. Try your best to not take any of your feelings surrounding your sister personally. Their is a book that I strongly recommend for you based on these subjects. It is called The Four Agreements written by Don Miguel Ruiz. It’s also available as an audiobook too if you prefer it that way. I hope this helps. 💙
@@nataliamorales7198 I noticed after posting this that I neglected to say something very important. That is that your feelings, no matter what they are surrounding your attempt(s) are just as valid whether you are struggling with forgiveness and self doubt or not. Trust your gut feelings. You are worth it, Natalia. P.S. I have been wanting to learn Spanish and many other languages from around the globe. Have you always been bilingual?
@@nataliamorales7198 Hi there again, Natalia. I am sending this message to thank you for sharing your story. After suggesting that book to you, I ended up going back and rediscovering the magic I found in it earlier. It honestly has been a catalyst for me to make positive changes to the way I live my life going forward. I just want to express my gratitude for playing a big role in this. Seriously, thank you. I hope you are doing well. xo
I was abandoned by every "friend" I had from school. It still hurts, but at the same time I don't give a fuck about them anymore. Also, it's been 10 years, Jesus.
that running over the cat guy, i really hate when people avoid taking responsibility for their actions and acting like it wasnt that big of a deal, he literally says "i kinda ran over it" either you did or you didnt, there is no a little bit or kinda smh :/
LITERALLY AND THEN HE SAID OH WELL?!?! like that’s utterly fucked up and I cannot believe he actually confessed that as if other people would be like oh hahaha that’s normal it happens…. Like it’s a cat, not a bird or something…. Like that’s disgusting
”Oh well” for killing someone’s cat. I understand that mistakes happen, but it someone had run over my cat because of looking at their phone I would hope for more than an ”oh well” from that person. I’m not saying he shouldn’t forgive himself, I just found the wording so disrespectful towards the person who’s cat he killed. I love my cats like family, and looking at his phone was more important than saving a life that could mean the world to someone, like it does to me. 😞 The girl with the pills and the sister broke my heart. You deserve so much better 🙏🏻❤️
Right? He said he saw the cat but then he went like "ohh! there's a cat on the road, I could run over it, but guess what? that's the PERFETC time to check my phone 🤩"
True. Hope she has better friends now than she did then. What kind of friend gets angrier at you than they would at their other friends for accidentally breaking something?
Here's a list that contains all the possible triggers or hard subjects of each people's secret : 0:18 - / 0:26 - / 0:51 - Sexually transmitted disease 1:48 - Suicide attempt 3:05 - / 3:46 - / 4:38 - / 4:56 - Route 91 Las Vegas mass shooting (2017) 5:35 - Car accident 5:56 - Homelessness 6:06 - / 6:22 - / 6:47 - Animal's death 7:20 - / 7:30 - / 7:40 - 'Virginity' 7:51 - Drugs, alcohol 8:25 - / 9:05 - Abandonment I hope it'll help some of you, specially you guys with PTSD ♥
Man. What a dream it would be, to randomly be walking through a city and to cross paths with you. Sharing stories is my passion and having the opportunity to share said passion with you… dang. It would just be amazing.
@@centrifugalmuse oh I know. In fact… all of us Daniel Cooper’s know one another AND the details that play a role in our lives. I hope you’re doing well…. sister.
@@jadeangelos7992 yeah I see a lot of hate for that guy, he said he regretted it and I'm not saying animals are unimportant I'm just saying that it was just a cat, he didn't kill a child, it was a mistake and he genuinely regretted it
@@vid_save Yeah I dont think he was spilling the full secret. How do you see a cat in the road, then pick your phone up at the exact same time then act surprised when you run it over? I'd put money on it that he literally tried to run the cat over. His attitude certainly strikes me as psychopathic.
Yeah same here- there is this girl I used to be so close since recently, I really thought that maybe we were living something, but she suddenly stopped giving me any attention, it's like we're strangers again, and I don't know what to do- apparently I was wrong...
@@Lea-ov8vq wow, i am so sorry to hear that :/ for me it's only been 3 months since we last spoke and i can't help but wonder where everything went wrong
I know its not popular but I apreciate that young man talking about what STD /not protecting yourself can do to you . And harm you in so many ways! Please fuck in a responsible ,healthy way everbody,-cause otherwise you can´t for a long time and you harm other loved ones too ...
To the guy who steals stuff from Target, understand that it is only a matter of time before you get caught, not IF but WHEN you get caught, unless you go to a different Target every time and never go back. And if you keep stealing, when you do get caught they will look at other reports from different Targets and see if you match up. This happened to a friend of mine from Walmart and when he got caught it went from a misdemeanor to a felony in one day. 3 strike rule on shoplifting, and 2 other Walmart reports matched up so he got 3 charges at once. Don't ruin your future on petty theft.
Depends on what you steal. There is like this little gift section right next to the main door and those things are pretty easy to steal. But yeah, it is a matter of time before he is caught.
As someone who worked at a Target and was a witness to a repeat thief being interrogated by security and the police, they take it very seriously and are not kind about it. There are cameras Everywhere with facial recognition, and cameras outside that know your car and license plate. You don’t want to get caught doing something like that, they’re a big corporation and they’ll come down on you.
My secret is that I have a “voice” in my head that tells me almost everyone I have ever had a relationship with, friends ect. Only ever does it out of pity. I know it’s not true, but i still seem to believe it.
I have the same voice in my head telling me also that people who act like my friends are with me out of pity or in order to use me but never out of love. It's a very cruel and ruthless voice and I know that it has been there like forever so it is something acquired during early childhood. It makes me distrust people and become introverted, no not only introverted but literally a person with social anxiety disorder. That’s why I started therapy four years ago. It has been better since so I would definitely recommend everyone to do the same, go get help because it sometimes is not easy to learn to love yourself and accept that you are indeed a person who deserves love and respect and who actually IS worthy of being loved. Without a reason.
To the girl who talked about her relationship with her sister: you might never see this, but I want you to live. You're worth it, no matter what your sister thinks.
Agreed. None of us are the products of other people's thoughts. Were someone to tell you that you are a pumpkin, you would not become a pumpkin! Always dare to be yourself and to think your own thoughts.
Lol. There’s 2 sides to every story. A ton of people use threats of self harm and suicide to manipulate their loved ones. Seemingly what she was doing if the sisters first thought was that. Sometimes you just wish they would so you don’t have to worry anymore, or have them hold that over you. 🤷🏿♂️
@@Jesusluvz you’re making assumptions when you have no idea what these ladies are going through. obviously both need help and sounds like they’re working on it, but there’s no point for you to come in here and make a comment that suggests that suicide is somehow valid, regardless of what the situation may be. promote reaching out to mental health resources, not shit like this.
@@Jesusluvz I like how you used that "2 sides to every story" to look like you're trying to be understanding and then immediately assume she's not really suicidal and just manipulating her family. "2 sides to every story" doesn't work when you immediately assume the absolute worst of the other person.
The second guy, I wonder if you ever spoke to your girlfriend about this, as she appears to be the one that gave you chlamydia? And, I am sorry you had to go through that.
1:50 When you walked away, I felt that, and I hope you can find someone who doesn't lie about an STI test. What a horrible experience with dating, but I'm sure you will get a good person. Good people get good people as lovers eventually.
@@wonderbutterfly3 That is what it sounds like. It's just a fictional story she made up about her mom getting into an accident, so she added to the story that she went to jail instead of her mom so she wouldn't feel guilty about writing the story in the first place. No one actually got hurt or went to jail lol.
Thanks for making these videos. It's a great reminder that we are all human. We all have flaws, secrets and have done things we aren't proud of. No one is perfect and we have our own unique identity which makes everyone one of us so special.
Awe😩the girl who took the pills and the sister gave them back.....that is so freaking sad,like she will never forget that and that is so HORRIBLE.. But i hope she knows no matter what she is beautiful and deserves to live !😭
I feel so sad for the girl who attempted. My sibling attempted too several times and I can tell you we don’t always know how to show we care. Sometimes we’re too shook on the moment to realize, or we cope with humor and acting like everything’s normal, and it’s especially hard if in the relationship you’re not very close and don’t usually show affection. I hope your relationship will get better. ❤️
The girl who attempted suicide (idk if theres more then onr person. Talking about girl whose sister threw the bottle at her) Im glad shes still alive now and may god help her with what she needs
If the cat lived, I really hope the owners kept it inside. Most cats get run over and die on the side of the road because their owners are neglectful assholes.
🤔 When I was a teenager riding my bike downhill and laughing, something suddenly flew into my mouth and made me choke! A couple days later, my left cheek began itching nonstop. When the itching worsened, I was taken to ER and x-rayed and a fly was found imbedded deep in my left ear. 🤮
I don't know how this made its way into my feed, but I'm so glad that it did. Watching these have made me feel almost every emotion. Some make me laugh. Some, make me angry. A lot of them make me cry. Lol, some of them make me feel that some people have it easier than others.
I feel so bad for that guy who got STD’s. 😞 I can’t imagine the pain and the guilt he probably felt during that time and knowing that he got that from a girl for fooling around
The girl admitting her suicide problems is such a strong woman it's inspiring to listen to her. I'm trying not to cry right now just thinking about how she struggles.
My secret is that I've shut myself off from love before I ever even experience it because I'm scared of being hurt. I know that if I love once and I lose it I can never love again. So instead of giving my love to people that can treat me right and love me back, I love the ideas of my favorite ASMRists. I listen to their heartbeats and or breathing to lull me to sleep, on my bad days I "talk" to them, when I'm bored I just listen to their words so that I can say I have company over.
This reminds me of what soul pancake used to do back then. But idk how but glad I found this. These wholesome yet like putting yourself out there to be vulnerable videos. These videos are nice actually because in the end. We aren't alone and we all go through different stuff.
I was emotionally abused by my mother and verbally abused by my father but I only blame one of them. My mom and dad divorced when I was in Middle School and bills were tight so my mom never had the money to talk through the divorce with a therapist and she didn't have any close friends because of my dad. Since I was always mature for my age she turned to me to talk through her stress with. There's this type of emotional abuse called Emotional Incest which is when an adult relys on their child for emotional support that should be provided by another adult, usually a parent or spouse. It leaves lasting stress on the child and forces them to grow up too fast since they have to deal with the stress of being an adult. My mom still hasn't realized that her talking about the divorce and our finanaces left me with intense emotional baggage which exacerbated my anxiety and depression. I don't blame her though and I plan to never tell her. My dad was an a**hole who was verbally abusive for most of my life and I blame him for it. However, he was also verbally abused by his father as a kid so I don't know if my dad realizes what he did to me or if he knows it was wrong.
You know what, this is exactly what I'm going thru, everyword of this para really hit me hard.....hope you are well and are able to overcome the trauma
Abusers were usually also abused by others and often don't realize that they are abusive unless their victim(s) report them to the proper authorities or professional counselors.
Oh my God! I relate completely to this. It's as if I was telling my story, except, my parents still live together but are separated They pretend to be a family in front of people but they flight constantly at home and they have separate rooms. You can always hear the fights in our house. They're so loud. My mum takes comfort in making me her therapist/ best friend/ parent. I also have baby sisters with down syndrome and I take care of them because my mum is too depressed (and she's always talking about leaving them to me completely if she leaves the house. She's only staying for financial reasons. I have two more sisters (we're five) who just don't help with anything and rely on me to fix everyone and everything and my dad also relies on me to do all the chores and to take care of everyone's needs. So I am made to be a mum for everyone. And it's very exhausting. I have constant anxiety and can't live my own life or make my own choices. I graduated from art a school three years ago but couldn't get a job because who will take care of the kids and the house and my mum If I were busy? I can't get In a relationship because I have no time and am emotionally drained. I can't travel anywhere or go on vacations because I have to take the kids to school and take care of their homework and cook and everything else. I love my sisters very much and that's why I'm putting up with this life. And because I don't complain, my family seems to think I'm made of steel and they put more pressure on me.
I have a secret, my neighbors killed my dog bc they didnt want it mating with theirs, their own dog only trusted me enough to show me where she hid her babies (she hid them bc of her abusive owners) I got tired of them (on another note they tried to steal our four- wheeler when we moved in the first week) anyway I took the dog and her puppies to the pound for them to find a better home
I know this video is kinda old, but I know no one will do something like this in my town so I want to say my secret 😅 I am a closeted pansexual, who is also non-binary, with a partially transphobic mother. When I told her that my new friend was non-binary, she started saying how the grammar was all wrong, and that my friend, who was born a female “only THOUGHT she was non-binary”, and that they’d change their mind later on. My sister had no idea about the lgbtq+ community at the time, and my mother told her that it was what people thought they were. Not how they felt and believed they were. So now, when I become an adult, I’m moving halfway across the world, and hiding my identity from my family. It’s a lot better than being told I only think I’m non-binary and that I’m “too young” to know I’m pansexual.
To that girl with a disturbed relationship with her sister I've been there and still there I really wanna tell you if you're reading this there are people who actually care for you talk to someone I started to go to therapy cause I really don't like to open up and I have recently learned about self love that's recently and I'm fucking 26 God brought us to this world for live for ourselves fuck others and what they think of us or the world what thinks of us you are here for you live for yourself great things will unfold before you and trust me on this you will love life cause you are living it correctly I care for you 💕🙏
My secret is that I’m shy not because I’m afraid of rejection, but because of how my voice sounds. When I was in middle school, people would laugh about how I talked and so I became afraid of speaking to people or meeting people, as I think that people would laugh at me if they heard my voice. Another part to this story is that I was bullied about my teeth too and I couldn’t go to the dentist, so I stopped smiling and talking to people to avoid showing my teeth. I don’t want anybody laughing about my voice or the shape of my teeth. Another secret is that I’m ashamed of not having being able to drive or have my license at 19, because most of people I graduated with and my friends have their licenses. I would always have to ride with them if we had to go somewhere, because no my mom doesn’t know how to drive and my other family members won’t teach me how to drive. I am ashamed of that because I promised myself that I would have my license by the time I was 16. So I feel like a failure that I don’t have my license now and that I still have to ask people to take me places. I lied to my friends and told them that I have my drivers license so I won’t feel so ashamed too. I am taking driving classes now, but I still am ashamed that I do not have a license yet.
I felt the same way, i had a messed up teeth so i never actually wanted to laugh and shit and i was insecure af And about the drivings licence...dont worry, its normal Especially in europe for example, we here arent allowed to start taking lessons untill we are 18 And i finished hs at 19 and got my license at 19...no big deal I also had a driving partner, a 52 year old woman that retired and wanted to get a license Also had a 24-25 year old girl who finished college and didnt have a license yet Its never too late
I found her channel and started scrolling through it and as I was hearing these secrets I realized I have alot of secrets, and now I wish this was something that happened in more places so I might have a chance to share some of the ones I feel like I cant tell anybody
I wouldn't be impressed or annoyed. I passed a Bachelor's degree in law without studying - but in my case (and maybe in that guy's too) it's just an empty qualification on paper. I never reached professional competence and knew I will never want to get a job requiring that degree being completely incompetent (plus I didn't like the field). I always wanted to study maths which is what I've done after getting my life back together and have done those studies very seriously and with hard work and this time I can feel I'm acquiring mathematical skills. The empty paper isn't worth anything.
Can you please do one of those videos where strangers call someone they lost touch with/had a fight /stopped talking it-and try to settle it? Or maybe a video where they have to call someone and tell them what they never had the guts to but always wanted to (Or something like that
my secret is that im afraid of my sister. she has breakdowns all the time and threatens $uic!d3 and hits her head off the wall. my parents wont help her. its so scary. i cant wait till the day i move out. i might have to wait 4 years, but i cant wait.
This sounds really hard. Hope you have some good friends and maybe you can find a school counselor or someone to talk to? You deserve to feel comfortable and safe in your home.
My sister was at the route 91 shooting... she literally had to crawl over dead bodies to get to a safe place to hide... hardest thing I’ve ever had to do is wait for her to call or text and tell us she was ok
7:52 I hope he turns his life around. He may be majoring in engineering but drugs and alcohol will take your life faster than you can blink. Change man. Get better.
6:50 i feel for this girl. Over lockdown, my best friend who had been my best friend for multiple years suddenly stopped talking to me, no matter be it online or irl, she just avoided me. I never got a reason. She even antagonised me to our friend group and watching them all leave when they saw me come over to our usual spot durinc recess was so demoralising. I still dont know what happened. I never did anything that couldve wareanted it.
"I ended up swallowing it, since it was a thing of swallowing gum..." 😂 So true. I think I swallowed at least 25 pieces of gum in my life before I realized it's really not a great idea, lol. Then again, I don't think I've chewed more than 250 pieces of gum in my life, and its been at least 10 years since I have, too! 😅
This is like therapy but without the awkwardness just saying what you want to get off your chest and either leaving or showing your face nothing more nothing less.
My secret: I’m 32… And still don’t know what I want in my life. I just know is that I can’t see myself staying in my home country after these last 4/5 years. I just want to be far away- I honestly don’t care if I lose my citizenship here. There’s so many better places than here. There has to be more to life than what I’m doing now… right?
I'm 32 too and since yesterday I don't have contact to my family anymore. Feels like new born.. Starting to live finally... Feels like there's now a lot of space which will be filled with what's supposed to be my life. Maybe that's a help?
no troll 32 years too and "same problem" so I try a little everything and anything, unfortunately, i stayed too long passive because of the personal problems that traumatized me and now I move a lot, I'm not afraid to try several projects and get out of my comfort zone Oh yes, I make sure I don't go out with just anyone but with people that I appreciate and that I am appreciated for who I am, for relationships I don't let my penis dictate my life. Take care guys
The guy who was faking speaking english, he is so cuuuuuuute
He is so cute!
you’re totally right hahaha
I like chicken nuggets :)
@@whatthatbe388 I eat mines with barbecue sauce
@@nikefresh4980 I be eating mines with ketchup but bbq sauce is good too. As long as it’s cold usually gotta have my sauce cold 🥶
The guy who faked English has the best hair. And smile. Jeez.
And the fact that he learned to speak English THAT FREAKIN' WELL in just 6 months is honestly mind-blowing to me.
Beautiful human indeed!
i found him insanely attractive.
Right his laughter is refreshing
4:03 when he turned around 😍😏
How is it possible to fake knowing English without them realizing 😂😂😂😭
Literal definition of fake it to make it😭😂😂
Laughing a lot and saying "Yeah" gets many native English speakers through life. I love that he learned English after this.
@@dariawells7438 this is so very true 😂😭😂
They probably did realize it, but we’re just messing with him
he quoted english movie lines. (he prob had his language subtitles when he was watching)
The woman who said when she’s really mad at her husband then she regrets marrying him but when she’s not mad, she’s happy and lucky to have him and to be married to him. I feel everyone feels that way sometimes.
So true!!!
She s so brave to admit that!
I like chicken nuggets :-)
My mom always feels regret because my parents fight all the time... But getting a divorce would be so much against the societal norms which is why they're still together
I said I think that’s most of us at her part lol
"including the kids" I know I'm not supposed to be laughing but✋🏾😭💀💀 I nearly busted a lung
Me too rofl 🤣
The dramatic face turn too 😭
I have a secret I want to confess. My neighbor Took a kitten from its mother at four weeks old (from a farm) . She found out her daughter was allergic and let it roam outside all by itself. She wasn’t willing to give the kitten to someone else to take care of. I spend a lot of time outside in my yard and garden. the poor little kitten would come see me every day. So I would secretly take care of the kitty, bring her inside to get used to my dog, cuddle with her, and take care of her needs. The kitten was terribly neglected by the owner so I told someone. that someone took the kitten during the night. My neighbor asked me if I knew what happened to her cat and I told her I had no idea. The person who took the kitty sends me pictures and updates all the time. The kitty is now living her best life. The only sad part is the neighbor’s kids don’t know what happened to the kitten and they think the kitten probably died. I feel terrible about it but I can’t tell the kids otherwise their parents would find out and I would have big problems with my neighbor.
You shouldn't feel terrible cuz you did the right thing
I’m a huge cat lover and I do think you did the right thing for the cat, but wow those poor kids must be traumatized from the experience :( please find a way to tell them. Maybe get someone to leave a note to the kids somehow saying the cat is safe and in a good home?
I just remember my cat running away when I was a kid and not knowing if he was alive or dead completely scarred me until now. You did the right thing for the cat, but wrong thing for the kids.
@@Dania.q she said that if she tells them she would be in trouble but I agree with you the kids would feel awful for their cat
maybe you could tell the kids when you move :) i’m glad you did the right thing though
@@Dania.q she can tell the kids if she wants when they're older. hopefully they never get another cat.
Imagine reconizing a voice and knowing a friends's secret...
To the girl with the striped shirt, who tried to kill herself, I am so glad you are stil here. I hope you are getting help, talking to someone, about this. I know that feeling. Again, I am so glad you are here to tell your story.
thank you love. im so glad i kept pushing
Sometimes it is healthiest for us to not believe everything we think. We, too, can assume the worst when it’s not always the case. Even if we never get the answers to our greatest fears and anxieties it helps to give others the benefit of the doubt.
Try your best to not take any of your feelings surrounding your sister personally. Their is a book that I strongly recommend for you based on these subjects. It is called The Four Agreements written by Don Miguel Ruiz. It’s also available as an audiobook too if you prefer it that way.
I hope this helps. 💙
@@stephentyler4352 ive been wanting to purchase that book. I have the spanish copy but i’ll purchase the english today. blessings❤️
@@nataliamorales7198 I noticed after posting this that I neglected to say something very important. That is that your feelings, no matter what they are surrounding your attempt(s) are just as valid whether you are struggling with forgiveness and self doubt or not. Trust your gut feelings. You are worth it, Natalia.
P.S. I have been wanting to learn Spanish and many other languages from around the globe. Have you always been bilingual?
@@nataliamorales7198 Hi there again, Natalia. I am sending this message to thank you for sharing your story. After suggesting that book to you, I ended up going back and rediscovering the magic I found in it earlier. It honestly has been a catalyst for me to make positive changes to the way I live my life going forward. I just want to express my gratitude for playing a big role in this. Seriously, thank you. I hope you are doing well. xo
4:57 _"....I don't take life for granted...I live for me....I live for those people...and I live for the survivors...all of us..."_
Amen. 🥺
The last one hurt my feelings. Abandonment is tough.
I was abandoned by every "friend" I had from school. It still hurts, but at the same time I don't give a fuck about them anymore. Also, it's been 10 years, Jesus.
@@saiko_1 same you just have to move on
Especially if dome in that manner
I really feel her, I'm going through something similar right now and it hurts
@@dianagolban8793 hope everything get better stay strong 💕
that running over the cat guy, i really hate when people avoid taking responsibility for their actions and acting like it wasnt that big of a deal, he literally says "i kinda ran over it" either you did or you didnt, there is no a little bit or kinda smh :/
LITERALLY AND THEN HE SAID OH WELL?!?! like that’s utterly fucked up and I cannot believe he actually confessed that as if other people would be like oh hahaha that’s normal it happens…. Like it’s a cat, not a bird or something…. Like that’s disgusting
He should rotten in jail.
”Oh well” for killing someone’s cat. I understand that mistakes happen, but it someone had run over my cat because of looking at their phone I would hope for more than an ”oh well” from that person. I’m not saying he shouldn’t forgive himself, I just found the wording so disrespectful towards the person who’s cat he killed. I love my cats like family, and looking at his phone was more important than saving a life that could mean the world to someone, like it does to me. 😞
The girl with the pills and the sister broke my heart. You deserve so much better 🙏🏻❤️
That guy pissed me off so much, acted like the cat was some kind of old toy or something.
As a cat lover it hurt me to hear it too 😢
Right? He said he saw the cat but then he went like "ohh! there's a cat on the road, I could run over it, but guess what? that's the PERFETC time to check my phone 🤩"
I know :( Mine are literally my children, it would hurt me so much if someone said that, no respect😓
Sooo disrespectful
The broken speaker at the sleep over girl is a genius 👍🏻👏🏻🤣🤣
Ikr
True. Hope she has better friends now than she did then. What kind of friend gets angrier at you than they would at their other friends for accidentally breaking something?
@@ville666sora
Indeed 💯👍🏻
Here's a list that contains all the possible triggers or hard subjects of each people's secret :
0:18 - /
0:26 - /
0:51 - Sexually transmitted disease
1:48 - Suicide attempt
3:05 - /
3:46 - /
4:38 - /
4:56 - Route 91 Las Vegas mass shooting (2017)
5:35 - Car accident
5:56 - Homelessness
6:06 - /
6:22 - /
6:47 - Animal's death
7:20 - /
7:30 - /
7:40 - 'Virginity'
7:51 - Drugs, alcohol
8:25 - /
9:05 - Abandonment
I hope it'll help some of you, specially you guys with PTSD ♥
thank you for this! I guess abandonment could be one too for the last one
^^^
thank u sm, i heard the girl say “the day of my suicide attempt” and instantly had to pause the video :)
can you tag the one before the homeless man for car accident?
This is so nice of you! 😊
Man. What a dream it would be, to randomly be walking through a city and to cross paths with you. Sharing stories is my passion and having the opportunity to share said passion with you… dang. It would just be amazing.
I think she sets up at Balboa Park in San Diego
@@CC-kj3hc only 1,802 miles away 🦅 ✈️ 🎈
Your name is exactly the same as my little brother. Weird.
@@centrifugalmuse oh I know. In fact… all of us Daniel Cooper’s know one another AND the details that play a role in our lives. I hope you’re doing well…. sister.
@@call_me_cooper lol so weird. You even joke like him. I’m doing well, broski. Hope you’re well too ♥️
7:00 this guy makes me mad. Too complacent, unemotional, this is why you pay close attention and drive slowly when you see animals on/near the road
exactly. dude dont use that fucking phone dring driving. god’s sake
it was just a cat lmfao
@@jadeangelos7992 stfu what
@@jadeangelos7992 yeah I see a lot of hate for that guy, he said he regretted it and I'm not saying animals are unimportant I'm just saying that it was just a cat, he didn't kill a child, it was a mistake and he genuinely regretted it
@@alexandriawhite2482 this is called human supremacy. To you animals are less important but to them it’s their life. Do better
that one with thre sister throwing that bottle back at you. the fact she did that is just so cruel and belittling. im sorry you experienced that
Maybe she was a child/teen and didn't fully understand the situation
I smiled the whole time when the Panama fake language guy spoke. Cute smile 😊
i love the guy that faked that he knew english his energy is just great
The guy who who lived on top of a bar…his exit from the mic was epic 😂
Including the mundane confessions is such a good editorial decision
Guy who ran over the cat has no remorse. I bet he still looks at his phone everything when he drives
i know, he spoke as if it was a funny story and not him literally killing a cat
He should get some help, he is showing a lot of sociopathic behaviors
Right! He ruined it when he ended with “oh well”
@@vid_save Yeah I dont think he was spilling the full secret. How do you see a cat in the road, then pick your phone up at the exact same time then act surprised when you run it over? I'd put money on it that he literally tried to run the cat over. His attitude certainly strikes me as psychopathic.
Bruh yall need to chill out it was a confessions of something he did wrong. PsYcHoPaThIc TeNdEnDeNcEs bruh calm down lmao
to the girl in the green flannel - recently my best friend of nearly ten years ghosted me with no explanation. i feel your confusion and pain :/
same thing happened to me. i don't know why close friends all of a sudden just disappear, or show no interest. so sad :(
That's terrible... And so sad
Yeah same here- there is this girl I used to be so close since recently, I really thought that maybe we were living something, but she suddenly stopped giving me any attention, it's like we're strangers again, and I don't know what to do- apparently I was wrong...
The same happened to me with my childhood best friend, it's been years since I heard from her.. I hope she's okay
@@Lea-ov8vq wow, i am so sorry to hear that :/ for me it's only been 3 months since we last spoke and i can't help but wonder where everything went wrong
I know its not popular but I apreciate that young man talking about what STD /not protecting yourself can do to you . And harm you in so many ways! Please fuck in a responsible ,healthy way everbody,-cause otherwise you can´t for a long time and you harm other loved ones too ...
To the guy who steals stuff from Target, understand that it is only a matter of time before you get caught, not IF but WHEN you get caught, unless you go to a different Target every time and never go back. And if you keep stealing, when you do get caught they will look at other reports from different Targets and see if you match up. This happened to a friend of mine from Walmart and when he got caught it went from a misdemeanor to a felony in one day. 3 strike rule on shoplifting, and 2 other Walmart reports matched up so he got 3 charges at once. Don't ruin your future on petty theft.
probably, but if you're smart about it idk
It's not really that simple though is it. Maybe he can't afford to buy enough.
Depends on what you steal. There is like this little gift section right next to the main door and those things are pretty easy to steal. But yeah, it is a matter of time before he is caught.
@@orphanoforbit7588 It is very simple. If he gets caught, his life is ruined.
As someone who worked at a Target and was a witness to a repeat thief being interrogated by security and the police, they take it very seriously and are not kind about it. There are cameras Everywhere with facial recognition, and cameras outside that know your car and license plate. You don’t want to get caught doing something like that, they’re a big corporation and they’ll come down on you.
The first one is like I want to push everyone to the water even the kids and smiles for the camera after saying that.
Littlebit grazy if you ask me.
Nah it's just intrusive thoughts. Everyone gets them
Yeah, I might be exaggerating but I think he needs therapy
i think it was a joke or just intrusive thoughts, otherwise they wouldn't turn around for the camera LOL
@@brendie7098 lmao if you take that serious and really believe a therapy is needed........the only one who needs one is you. 😂
I actually found that kinda funny ngl
My secret is that I have a “voice” in my head that tells me almost everyone I have ever had a relationship with, friends ect. Only ever does it out of pity. I know it’s not true, but i still seem to believe it.
that voice is really cynical. im so sorry, that’s really hard. especially to know it’s false, but still seem to think it. yeah that’s rly tough :(
I dont care or know if you are a Christian or not but i want you to read Isaiah 53 which was written 700 BC yet it talks about Jesus Christ
I have the same voice in my head telling me also that people who act like my friends are with me out of pity or in order to use me but never out of love. It's a very cruel and ruthless voice and I know that it has been there like forever so it is something acquired during early childhood. It makes me distrust people and become introverted, no not only introverted but literally a person with social anxiety disorder. That’s why I started therapy four years ago. It has been better since so I would definitely recommend everyone to do the same, go get help because it sometimes is not easy to learn to love yourself and accept that you are indeed a person who deserves love and respect and who actually IS worthy of being loved. Without a reason.
I have that too sometimes, you're not alone x
To the girl who talked about her relationship with her sister: you might never see this, but I want you to live. You're worth it, no matter what your sister thinks.
Agreed. None of us are the products of other people's thoughts. Were someone to tell you that you are a pumpkin, you would not become a pumpkin! Always dare to be yourself and to think your own thoughts.
Lol. There’s 2 sides to every story. A ton of people use threats of self harm and suicide to manipulate their loved ones. Seemingly what she was doing if the sisters first thought was that. Sometimes you just wish they would so you don’t have to worry anymore, or have them hold that over you. 🤷🏿♂️
@@Jesusluvz you’re making assumptions when you have no idea what these ladies are going through. obviously both need help and sounds like they’re working on it, but there’s no point for you to come in here and make a comment that suggests that suicide is somehow valid, regardless of what the situation may be.
promote reaching out to mental health resources, not shit like this.
I hate this stupid shit
@@Jesusluvz I like how you used that "2 sides to every story" to look like you're trying to be understanding and then immediately assume she's not really suicidal and just manipulating her family. "2 sides to every story" doesn't work when you immediately assume the absolute worst of the other person.
The second guy, I wonder if you ever spoke to your girlfriend about this, as she appears to be the one that gave you chlamydia? And, I am sorry you had to go through that.
Thoraya, thank you for existing. Really.
Thank You for that, she's so amazing!
@@tebogokhalostudios she sure is!!
1:50 When you walked away, I felt that, and I hope you can find someone who doesn't lie about an STI test. What a horrible experience with dating, but I'm sure you will get a good person. Good people get good people as lovers eventually.
Person at 2:48, I'm so glad you are ALIVE! I hope you are also glad you are alive. You are alive for a purpose. You are precious. God loves you.
The woman that went to jail for her mother is a real one!
I didn't get it.. she made up the story? And mother doesn't know?
I thought she ended up writing about the story (published book?) but didn’t tell her mom...now I have to go back and listen lol
@@wonderbutterfly3 That is what it sounds like. It's just a fictional story she made up about her mom getting into an accident, so she added to the story that she went to jail instead of her mom so she wouldn't feel guilty about writing the story in the first place. No one actually got hurt or went to jail lol.
She didn't go to jail. She wrote a story. To be honest I don't get it.
The girl in the striped shirt...I feel so bad for her. I can hear the hurt holy crap I can’t imagine having to go through that.
Thanks for making these videos. It's a great reminder that we are all human. We all have flaws, secrets and have done things we aren't proud of. No one is perfect and we have our own unique identity which makes everyone one of us so special.
3:49 I hope having this confidence I'm literally living in France for almost 1 year and still can't have friends because of the language :)
I feel so bad for everyone, I hope you all get better...
Even the girl who pooped in a cat’s litter box at 7:35?
Even for that asshole that run over that poor cat? The worst kind of human.
Even for the girl who's chewing gum came out of her nose? 🤣
Awe😩the girl who took the pills and the sister gave them back.....that is so freaking sad,like she will never forget that and that is so HORRIBLE.. But i hope she knows no matter what she is beautiful and deserves to live !😭
I feel so sad for the girl who attempted. My sibling attempted too several times and I can tell you we don’t always know how to show we care. Sometimes we’re too shook on the moment to realize, or we cope with humor and acting like everything’s normal, and it’s especially hard if in the relationship you’re not very close and don’t usually show affection. I hope your relationship will get better. ❤️
Acting like it.s normal must be the worst for the person attempting suicide.
Thoraya you are a blessing to allow everyone to become open and release themselves to the world.
The girl who attempted suicide (idk if theres more then onr person. Talking about girl whose sister threw the bottle at her)
Im glad shes still alive now and may god help her with what she needs
That frat boy dude is living it up. I like his motto “Whatever works” That’s how I’m winging it through school.
I really hope that cat didnt die from that stupid guy's actions. That is so not a "oh well" moment. That cat is a (or was a) living being.
Very hard not to judge. What a douche "Oh well."
If the cat lived, I really hope the owners kept it inside. Most cats get run over and die on the side of the road because their owners are neglectful assholes.
Miss THORaya keeps striking us with her lightnings. Girl, Thank you dor making these AMAZING videos. Much love!
Watching those series makes me realize that i'm not the only one whose life is f🎶cked up. And it feels better at least.
The girl with the Las Vegas shooting I thought she was going to say her boyfriend died or something and that’s why it changed her life for the better
Same
you inspire me to be a better person thanks for being you. Love You💛💛💛
its always so hard to believe that actually everyone you ever "interviewed" has/had to go through such hard times
That woman who sneezed out the gum is just bragging. She is just trying to make me feel bad that I can't do that.
I'm still trying to figure out how sneezing gum out of your nose would be considered a"secret".
I sneezed out a cucumber piece once, so maybe its also possible with gum?:D
🤔 When I was a teenager riding my bike downhill and laughing, something suddenly flew into my mouth and made me choke! A couple days later, my left cheek began itching nonstop. When the itching worsened, I was taken to ER and x-rayed and a fly was found imbedded deep in my left ear. 🤮
@@Esmeralda-gt6uf That hurts just thinking about it.
I just wanna say, Have a great day everyone. STAY POSITIVE. Much love Thoraya keep doing U!
Same to you! Have a great new month too! 💫
@@larryshipper8070 same man same
3:47 You should do a sit down convo with him...also find out if he's single...asking for a friend. 👀 lol
I don't know how this made its way into my feed, but I'm so glad that it did. Watching these have made me feel almost every emotion. Some make me laugh. Some, make me angry. A lot of them make me cry. Lol, some of them make me feel that some people have it easier than others.
The guy from China is lit!!! He’s still passing chemical engineering though, whatever works 😆
I don't think doing drugs and drinking alcohol every single day is lit
Do you thing that smoking drugs is cooool? Do you think that doing alcohol is cooool?
He sounds hot🔥😭imagine smoking weed, and drinking alcohol, and still being able to pass. Dang! BRAINS!!!
Exactly he’s so smart without trying either
How is he still passing?! I could not. Hahahaha
The girl with the suicide attempt is terribly sad,she was quite literally looking for someone to see her & help & her sister/mom just ignored her
I feel so bad for that guy who got STD’s. 😞 I can’t imagine the pain and the guilt he probably felt during that time and knowing that he got that from a girl for fooling around
He gave me a great PSA of why , it super important to stay safe. & protected when having sexual intercourse OMGGG !
Of course, always blame the women for STDs 🙄
@@idfcatalltbfh2847 delete your comment wth 😭
The girl admitting her suicide problems is such a strong woman it's inspiring to listen to her. I'm trying not to cry right now just thinking about how she struggles.
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Yooo did you see Pewdiepie reacted to one of your videos???!
your videos are so touching i love them!
Big hug for my favorite human hero!
U have agift, im really impressed by the way u are able to connect with people deeply, and ur social experiments are way distinct.god bless 👏🙌
Strangers are so interesting. Everyone has a story.
My secret is that I've shut myself off from love before I ever even experience it because I'm scared of being hurt. I know that if I love once and I lose it I can never love again. So instead of giving my love to people that can treat me right and love me back, I love the ideas of my favorite ASMRists. I listen to their heartbeats and or breathing to lull me to sleep, on my bad days I "talk" to them, when I'm bored I just listen to their words so that I can say I have company over.
It's called limerence. That's like a fantasy relationship you have so you can avoid having a real (and sometimes hurtful) relationship
What an absolute inspiration
5:45 Wow. SHE IS SO BRAVE. BLESS HER SOUL.
1:48 they sounded like they were in so much pain:( broke my heart
03:47 well done man that's amazing!! You speak it so well
2:20 I want to give her a hug 😩
This reminds me of what soul pancake used to do back then. But idk how but glad I found this. These wholesome yet like putting yourself out there to be vulnerable videos. These videos are nice actually because in the end. We aren't alone and we all go through different stuff.
I was emotionally abused by my mother and verbally abused by my father but I only blame one of them.
My mom and dad divorced when I was in Middle School and bills were tight so my mom never had the money to talk through the divorce with a therapist and she didn't have any close friends because of my dad. Since I was always mature for my age she turned to me to talk through her stress with. There's this type of emotional abuse called Emotional Incest which is when an adult relys on their child for emotional support that should be provided by another adult, usually a parent or spouse. It leaves lasting stress on the child and forces them to grow up too fast since they have to deal with the stress of being an adult. My mom still hasn't realized that her talking about the divorce and our finanaces left me with intense emotional baggage which exacerbated my anxiety and depression. I don't blame her though and I plan to never tell her.
My dad was an a**hole who was verbally abusive for most of my life and I blame him for it. However, he was also verbally abused by his father as a kid so I don't know if my dad realizes what he did to me or if he knows it was wrong.
You know what, this is exactly what I'm going thru, everyword of this para really hit me hard.....hope you are well and are able to overcome the trauma
I know exactly how you feel. That's the way it is sometimes with me too.
Abusers were usually also abused by others and often don't realize that they are abusive unless their victim(s) report them to the proper authorities or professional counselors.
Oh my God! I relate completely to this.
It's as if I was telling my story, except, my parents still live together but are separated
They pretend to be a family in front of people but they flight constantly at home and they have separate rooms. You can always hear the fights in our house.
They're so loud.
My mum takes comfort in making me her therapist/ best friend/ parent.
I also have baby sisters with down syndrome and I take care of them because my mum is too depressed (and she's always talking about leaving them to me completely if she leaves the house. She's only staying for financial reasons.
I have two more sisters (we're five) who just don't help with anything and rely on me to fix everyone and everything and my dad also relies on me to do all the chores and to take care of everyone's needs.
So I am made to be a mum for everyone.
And it's very exhausting.
I have constant anxiety and can't live my own life or make my own choices. I graduated from art a school three years ago but couldn't get a job because who will take care of the kids and the house and my mum If I were busy? I can't get In a relationship because I have no time and am emotionally drained. I can't travel anywhere or go on vacations because I have to take the kids to school and take care of their homework and cook and everything else. I love my sisters very much and that's why I'm putting up with this life.
And because I don't complain, my family seems to think I'm made of steel and they put more pressure on me.
You need to live for yourself.
I love these so much. New sub because Of how eye opening this can be on mental health.
That guy who ran over a cat is a psycho. "Oh welll." Bro you ran over a cat, that is not something to say "Oh well" about.
The variety between these stories is astounding
I feel for everyone who have so much secret weight on their shoulders and no one to share it with. I just want to hug you all❤️
8:52 “You know what? That sounds reallyyyy accurate” 😂😂😂😂
I have to say thoraya, i prefer when you ask strangers a question more then this format.
But still great video as always :p
But doesn’t she have different series? This is just a series of her general videos
@@InTheSix22 yeah but recently she does a lot of this one
@@hugodasilva198 fair enough
My secret is that I am fearless and extroverted on the outside but, paranoid and scared of everything on the inside.
The lady who went to jail for her mom ❤
I don’t know why but I love the background music. It just makes everything better
You must look in the background here an old man is speeding on his chair 5:42
Thoraya, you are gold in this arena. Such a pleasure. Please don't get over pressured. Just be you. Peace.
i hope the girl in the striped shirt is happy and well. she seems like such a sweet person 💝
To the girl who has a bad relationship with their sister , im sending you a huge hug ! Wish I could talk to you so we could cry together
Thank you bby :’), if you ever need anyone to talk to my ig is @napsterina
I have a secret, my neighbors killed my dog bc they didnt want it mating with theirs, their own dog only trusted me enough to show me where she hid her babies (she hid them bc of her abusive owners) I got tired of them (on another note they tried to steal our four- wheeler when we moved in the first week) anyway I took the dog and her puppies to the pound for them to find a better home
I have goosebumps.. thank you for these amazing videos! ♥️
I know this video is kinda old, but I know no one will do something like this in my town so I want to say my secret 😅
I am a closeted pansexual, who is also non-binary, with a partially transphobic mother. When I told her that my new friend was non-binary, she started saying how the grammar was all wrong, and that my friend, who was born a female “only THOUGHT she was non-binary”, and that they’d change their mind later on. My sister had no idea about the lgbtq+ community at the time, and my mother told her that it was what people thought they were. Not how they felt and believed they were. So now, when I become an adult, I’m moving halfway across the world, and hiding my identity from my family. It’s a lot better than being told I only think I’m non-binary and that I’m “too young” to know I’m pansexual.
To that girl with a disturbed relationship with her sister I've been there and still there I really wanna tell you if you're reading this there are people who actually care for you talk to someone I started to go to therapy cause I really don't like to open up and I have recently learned about self love that's recently and I'm fucking 26 God brought us to this world for live for ourselves fuck others and what they think of us or the world what thinks of us you are here for you live for yourself great things will unfold before you and trust me on this you will love life cause you are living it correctly I care for you 💕🙏
The woman who took her mother's place in jail... You are amazing
For real. Everytime they turn arround I smile. I just smile.
Same for me 🙂
I really apreciate what u do we need more ppl like u u are such a beautiful person
My secret is that I’m shy not because I’m afraid of rejection, but because of how my voice sounds. When I was in middle school, people would laugh about how I talked and so I became afraid of speaking to people or meeting people, as I think that people would laugh at me if they heard my voice. Another part to this story is that I was bullied about my teeth too and I couldn’t go to the dentist, so I stopped smiling and talking to people to avoid showing my teeth. I don’t want anybody laughing about my voice or the shape of my teeth.
Another secret is that I’m ashamed of not having being able to drive or have my license at 19, because most of people I graduated with and my friends have their licenses. I would always have to ride with them if we had to go somewhere, because no my mom doesn’t know how to drive and my other family members won’t teach me how to drive. I am ashamed of that because I promised myself that I would have my license by the time I was 16. So I feel like a failure that I don’t have my license now and that I still have to ask people to take me places. I lied to my friends and told them that I have my drivers license so I won’t feel so ashamed too. I am taking driving classes now, but I still am ashamed that I do not have a license yet.
I felt the same way, i had a messed up teeth so i never actually wanted to laugh and shit and i was insecure af
And about the drivings licence...dont worry, its normal
Especially in europe for example, we here arent allowed to start taking lessons untill we are 18
And i finished hs at 19 and got my license at 19...no big deal
I also had a driving partner, a 52 year old woman that retired and wanted to get a license
Also had a 24-25 year old girl who finished college and didnt have a license yet
Its never too late
I found her channel and started scrolling through it and as I was hearing these secrets I realized I have alot of secrets, and now I wish this was something that happened in more places so I might have a chance to share some of the ones I feel like I cant tell anybody
While being able to pass Chemical Engineering while doing that is impressive, it makes me annoyed because of how hard I have to work for my grades
I wouldn't be impressed or annoyed.
I passed a Bachelor's degree in law without studying - but in my case (and maybe in that guy's too) it's just an empty qualification on paper. I never reached professional competence and knew I will never want to get a job requiring that degree being completely incompetent (plus I didn't like the field). I always wanted to study maths which is what I've done after getting my life back together and have done those studies very seriously and with hard work and this time I can feel I'm acquiring mathematical skills. The empty paper isn't worth anything.
doing drugs may help you get that degree since you know, you be experienced with the substances xd jk
4:33 how could you not like this guy, his smile is cute as, and that hair. 💕
The person that slept in their grandmother's bed made me laugh so hard
Can you please do one of those videos where strangers call someone they lost touch with/had a fight /stopped talking it-and try to settle it? Or maybe a video where they have to call someone and tell them what they never had the guts to but always wanted to (Or something like that
my secret is that im afraid of my sister. she has breakdowns all the time and threatens $uic!d3 and hits her head off the wall. my parents wont help her. its so scary. i cant wait till the day i move out. i might have to wait 4 years, but i cant wait.
This sounds really hard. Hope you have some good friends and maybe you can find a school counselor or someone to talk to? You deserve to feel comfortable and safe in your home.
Are you okay?
My sister was at the route 91 shooting... she literally had to crawl over dead bodies to get to a safe place to hide... hardest thing I’ve ever had to do is wait for her to call or text and tell us she was ok
7:52 I hope he turns his life around. He may be majoring in engineering but drugs and alcohol will take your life faster than you can blink.
Change man. Get better.
6:50 i feel for this girl. Over lockdown, my best friend who had been my best friend for multiple years suddenly stopped talking to me, no matter be it online or irl, she just avoided me. I never got a reason. She even antagonised me to our friend group and watching them all leave when they saw me come over to our usual spot durinc recess was so demoralising.
I still dont know what happened. I never did anything that couldve wareanted it.
"I ended up swallowing it, since it was a thing of swallowing gum..." 😂 So true. I think I swallowed at least 25 pieces of gum in my life before I realized it's really not a great idea, lol. Then again, I don't think I've chewed more than 250 pieces of gum in my life, and its been at least 10 years since I have, too! 😅
This is like therapy but without the awkwardness just saying what you want to get off your chest and either leaving or showing your face nothing more nothing less.
I’m scared for the Chinese man, what if his parents somehow end up seeing this?
1:50 😓 broke my heart
My secret: I’m 32… And still don’t know what I want in my life. I just know is that I can’t see myself staying in my home country after these last 4/5 years. I just want to be far away- I honestly don’t care if I lose my citizenship here. There’s so many better places than here. There has to be more to life than what I’m doing now… right?
I'm 32 too and since yesterday I don't have contact to my family anymore. Feels like new born.. Starting to live finally... Feels like there's now a lot of space which will be filled with what's supposed to be my life.
Maybe that's a help?
no troll 32 years too and "same problem" so I try a little everything and anything, unfortunately, i stayed too long passive because of the personal problems that traumatized me
and now I move a lot, I'm not afraid to try several projects and get out of my comfort zone
Oh yes, I make sure I don't go out with just anyone but with people that I appreciate and that I am appreciated for who I am,
for relationships I don't let my penis dictate my life.
Take care guys