Yes I Am A Nigerian Man And No I Am Not A Ritualist, My Side Of The Story Part 2
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I don't think the lady was truthful, there's no a woman who'll want anything from a guy who sacrificed her baby!
Even a man,who makes a woman' to do abortion you hate or stay far ..you want nothing
Exactly
Imagine, that only means a lot about herself
I also don’t believe that he is a ritualist
That lady is too much shame, I feel so sorry for this guy
The fact that he came to say his side of the story says alot..sometimes us women like taking advantage of situations.
Nje
True
True. Because we are used to men not speaking up. I say good for him
Lol
You are a wise woman.
Just want to say I'm sorry to this man, cause I was too fast to say i believe the lady but now I think he is the one who is telling the truth here
I never believed the lady even the expression in her face as she narrated the story
It's hard to tell only these 2 know what happened
Me too
Married a South African. my brother them don't care where you re coming from once you are making money. the storys to take you to court and take over your things will come out. i here passing something like this. but yours is deep. leave it for God
I totally agree
I’m from Kenya , listened to the lady and the man ! My opinion the guy is truthful. Period
This story is so consistent, I believe rhis man 100%
Same here
I know junior like the Pam of my hand ✋ way back, we leave in Lagos same neighbourhood childhood family friends, etc, junior is younger than the woman
Yeah… she seem to be the trouble maker.
I believe the man too
@@AmandaBakwuyethen to say that you must know the woman like the back of your hand
I hate to admit it but the guy's side of the story makes more sense
because its true
I agree. The lady's story wasn't adding up in most cases. The guy may not be perfect, but hey! Who is perfect on earth? I think the bigger problem was the lady.
Yesssss❤
From my perspective. This guy has been a player and Linda was like “not with me” especially after having 2 baby daddies. She got attracted to this guy and made sure she gets pregnant whereas the guy was not there. She was desperate for stability and settling down which I feel sorry for her. So it affected her, she went extra miles to make it work and she relied so much on traditional healers. She also took advantage that this guy is a foreigner and now wants him to pay for getting a permit through her.
All I can say is these two shouldn’t even gotten married or even moved in together but spiritual controls physical (only God knows what happened).
True she should have also worked on herself she has childhood traumas they she should have also seeked help maybe they could have grown to love each other
I couldn't agree more love 🙏🙌✨
she have 2 kids, can SA men go marry a jobless woman with 2 kids, that a big disaster
Linda is evil, most lady with the name Linda are snake like
This is true
Who wants to get divorce settlement from a RITUALIST, especially knowing that the MONEY FROM YOUR DAUGHTER'S DEATH???????? Only a LIAR, a SCAMMER !!!
That lady is way OLDER than this man and had a sinister objective to make money from this marriage from the beginning.
ask again we hate a man that' makes us to do abortion and rulitualist you run as a women
Of course she is lying
She is a very big liar & a gold digger but God will expose her one day.
@@Amor-Zoneshe’s either lying or stupid
So she shud be homeless with her kids 😂😂these two they know what's up and this guy is not innocent
As a South African woman I really felt for her but now I believe this guy, the fact that she hid her 2nd child & pretended to have 1 says it all. Am proud of this guy for coming out & speaking his side, if all she had said was true, he wouldn’t have come out🤞🏻
As modern women we do not like taking accountability for our actions, she must also tell us how the other Babydaddy died. This guy seems like a responsible Man, she’s insecure & was in it for the materials. She’s also disrespectful by leaving the house while her Mother In Law was present, that says a lot about her🤞🏻
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Leaving your kids for a week with a man she apparently doesn’t “trust” speaks volumes
Eyyyy I’m afraid this gents side makes sense and he ANSWERS THE QUESTIONS!! Which the lady couldn’t do 😭
He came prepared
I agree 100%
@@siphiwemasephula9166 don’t waste your time we use common sense here not emotions like you … the guy is saying the truth
@@Kingbob217 who died because of me using my emotions, worse my emotions not yours?? Kufe bani if I may ask?
VERY TRUE
Believed this guy 10minutes into part 1. She is capitalizing on the trending stories of woman being scammed. She is using other woman's pain to push her narrative. This is perfect timing for her to come up with stories so she can get money she didn't work for. He had the right to know what he was getting himself into and he was never granted that. Marrying a woman with 2children is not something to be taken lightly. As much as a woman with kids (myself included) deserves to be loved again, a man deserves to know what he us getting himself into. Her credibility is gone from the jump cuz she kept such a huge thing from him. He was patient with her even though she had more to gain. Let this man rest yho ha a!
@@lulamalemoen5500 thank you
She's just cruel nje..I'm so disappointed in her noma ngingamati
I thought the same
Ninja I'm a man but I don't believe men, our fathers are the reason why we are a broken generation...for me I don't buy his story at all
@@elvisndlovu1232 are u ignoring the fact that this woman lied about a child ?
I believe this guy 🤞🏽
I knew she is a liar.She just wants money the guy is giving her a house that she would have never owned cause she is a failure mara she is still fitting😂As ladies we a busy making our own money she is busy claiming what she never worked hard for😂
@@sparrow62210imagine hun, Yoh! Her NERVE ! 😳
But ur sisters proved otherwise,iam not trying to support him as my fellow country guy.but he's innocent
Me too
This guy looks very cool. I think I believe him. You can't just disappear like that for a week and come back and your husband don't know her where about often and often?
😢 There Are Loopholes Here
The Lady Lied About The Other Child 🙌🏽😮She Is Driving Porche And Wearing Expensive Clothes But She Was Not Taken Care Of 🤦🏽♂️ I Think She Is Taking Advantage Of This Guy Because He Is Nigerian
Right!! 😒😒💯💯
I think she resents the guy for not actually falling in love with her.
It is a game lol, divorce can be messy. She cleary wanted sympathy from the public and she got it. But she was hoping he does not come out with his side
@@queenm2723 forcing love ai😒
Even if i think he is a ritualist for sure ,i believe this guy
*I said this before & I'm still saying it, this guy is innocent his crime was to meet a gold digger. I thank God he didn't end up being killed by izinkabi njengabaye abafwt*
Yoh tht lady.... Dander honestly
How do you know that she is a gold digger?
@@edithozobia6989 *How do you know she is not a gold digger*
@@edithozobia6989she is a goldigger who hid two previous kids, threw away morning after pills and didn’t drink them because she was digging gold. Disgusting!
@@Amor-Zone she is a diamond digger
I believe everything this guy is saying, this is what South African ladies are doing to Nigerians, once they buy properties and having expensive cars, they start making up stories of this guy is this and that, why she didn't leave the guy when they were still staying in a flat not having what he has now, ai
True iv seen a number of such story's especially between Nigerian and south African ladies
@@evabanda8504 I honestly feel sorry for Nigerians living in south Africa, cus this ladies use power of police towards them cus they know most South Africans hate Nigerians
True❤
Yes, the stories might be true but I think this is now a scheme for them to get money from these foreign guys.
AFTER THIS INTERVIEW I NOW BELIEVE WHEN ELDERS SAY DONT ENTER INTO MATTERS OF 2 PPL
Stay away o
True
Right.....I was thinking through this interview, where do we enter here? These two did each other bad nje.
It's true
True stay away
I don't know why I'm feeling this way, but I'm starting to believe this man.
If she can hide her own child, what more is she lying about?
Children mummy🤔 even on this podcast she only mentions this guy’s kids only
She mentioned that she had one child before meeting this guy
@busisiwemichelle5391 Yes , she did mention it, but she never mentioned her son she had before meeting the guy, too.
Basically, she had two kids before meeting the guy, who fathered her 3rd born.
The lady has 3 kids in total.
@@huberthamogotsi6424 she is evil, she used muti on the guy and she is even older than the guy
Me2 I’m starting to believe the guy
To some extent, this man is telling some truth. Sometimes, some spouses can be so insecure and end up drawing up wrong conclusions
true ..what was she doing ..Linda mmm
She accused him of being a ritualist who sacrificed their daughter for wealth. She accused him of being a narcissist
And remember that men are not as out spoken as women
@@deemoteka6755 yes, he was visibly nervous in the begging of part 1
I know Nigerian men are very good at taking care of their wives,I don't understand where she got all those things she was talking about eee
I believe this guy because Owami didn’t prep him on the questions that will be asked, he is consistent with his story and answers. Anyone speaking for over 2hrs will have a dry throat so comments talking about him clearing his throat and his body language is just being bias because ubhuti wabantu is Nigerian so as SAs we conclude without listening that he is lying haiboooo
However, the lady had already created the content of the story, his just replying to what was said about him. Also, his just painting the lady as a bad person and him been the good person, his just a narcissist. I'm not in favor of the lady, listen to him he contradicted himself multiple times. Anyways, the two of them deserve each other mara ubuthi unamanga.
@@leratolebethe6699 please state the contradictions he made, be specific, someone pushed the owner of the house out and claimed his properties and then brought in children she got from another man to humiliate his children in the father house, he suffered and built, put false accusations on him that he is a ritualist without proof, do you know how painful it’s to lose your first child, Is she your friend, show me your friends and I will tell you who you are. I pray what happened to that man never happened to you, South Africa the world is watching you.
Wisdom
@@leratolebethe6699 I hear you but it doesn’t give us the right to play devils advocate just because the lady came 1st to bring her side of the story
She is lazy and a gold digger
I’m a South African lady and I know wherever there’s a situation involving a South African lady and a Nigerian man, a South African lady will play victim whenever she can’t get her way because the root of their relationship is the lady trying to benefit from the guys finances. This isn’t fair and we should hold our sisters accountable for being abusive and manipulative to these men. We should call our sisters out
thank you
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It is VERY GOOD for the Nigerian man. Some of these foolish ones boast in Nigeria that they prefer non-Nigerian women😂😂😂😂. A Nigerian woman BUILDS HER MATRIMONIAL HOME, she will HARDLY do a quarter of what this South African woman has done to him😂😂😂. So, let him enjoy his non-Nigerian wife😂😂😂😂😂.
Meanwhile this showhost STOP EATING TOO MUCH DAIRY, you are irritating our ears with the constant throat-clearing.
Mhhhh some ladies
Take advantage but what I know easy come easy go
thank you sweetheart you are the best princess for that it seems that you love our South Africa and our Zulu name thank you again sister 💯🧚💖💕💞💝✊🙏✌️
Someone asked this lady on tiktok tht how come she wants half on her divorce yet she claims it was frm sacrificing their child. Now she wants to get to get things frm this marriage to support the other kidz she had b4 meeting this guy. Ai ai she mst get it right so tht we dont support the wrong side, we wont take side or hate this guy jst bcz he is Nigerian no
Him being Nigerian should not be a factor. He is a human being and has the right to be heard. Something is very off about this woman's entire story. She herself was a red flag from the start. She had more to gain from the beginning more than this guy ever had to gain.
my thoughts as well,she should have left everything and ran for her life
@@lulamalemoen5500 yes nana, so true and she is nt working, so if she claims half ,she will get things she never worked hard for ,all she wants is money without working
@@mellowdeemukabi8901 true ,her staying with someone who is a ritualist doesn't make sense and she still calls him and ask to sort things out , Hai khona
Well, she is not stupid.
I believe this guy.
Same . My spirit tells me he is being truthful
Owamie, you should do this often. Reach out to the accused and asked them to come and respond.
If they dont want, mention it to us that.
In this case, guy is the one who reached out.
It's always better to hear the other side of the story...big ups to the gentleman for availing urself and tell Ur side...kanti guyz y'all shud accept when things are over,the whole drama was so unnecessary
The only reason she's accusing him of being a ritualist is because she went to check at some spiritual place, and the marabout told her "he is a ritualistic and he killed their two months old daughter for money ritual".The baby probably had what is called " Cot death" (due to aspirations of fluids into respiratory tracts, when a baby is laid flat in a cot/ bed, immediately after feeds).
But yet she wants to keep her "daughters blood wealth by a ritualist"..! Isn't that ridiculous!
She is much older (streetwise girl, with secret 2 old children, from 2 different fathers), wanted money & love by (assumed rich) Nigerians, and she trapped him with a pregnancy on "a one night stand " forgetting that he must have his own lovers then.
Unfortunately, he loved & wanted to have children, hence appealled she kept the pregnancy...probably hoping love may come in, along the line.
She was enjoying the wealth, except lack of love, (they were incompatible - different orientation and unmet expectations), and of course, the man has to purse where his heart & love is...which is definitely not with her!
Now when the reality sets in, the relationship can't work, coupled with the unfortunate loss of the two-month old child, she's now on revenge mission...defamation, to get back at him..."if I can't have him, I'll destroy him, no woman can have him" kind of!
All these years, Linda never saw any ritualist acts nor tendency by him, none wgatsoevein the house, over the years. Even all the cars & the house were gotten before the birth of the late baby! . Accusation is now simply based on her "visit to a seer, to find out the cause of daughter's death" (Isn't that fetish of Linda too?), and claimimg she was "told by the seer that he's the killer & a ritualist"..!
What a sweet destructive revenge; greedily collect all he's ever laboured legitimately for, and "since he doesn't love me, if I can't have him, no woman will have him - I'll destroy his reputation"..!
At any rate he's a Nigerian - "call a dog a bad name in order to destroy it"..!
But remember Linda, you have a son between you both; think of his future & reputation, when he grows up & gets to know all this your manipulation of a "younger" husband..!Internet sure does not forget!
Well said...
This is a scripture itself 😂😂
@@Allwell823 very true. That baby died of cot death. That's why you don't leave new Borns sleeping there in another room while you are on the other side. You have to check them corner to corner or take the baby blankets where you are and you have to turn them and see if they are breathing.
so glad we didn't have to wait too long for part 2
Owamie pls call them be there together
This was a very toxic household😒😒
I agree
From the on set
..and I'm afraid most of the fingers are pointing at mama's. She just became bitter after realizing the guy wasn't into her at all. Actually, now it seems like she even trapped him with the first pregnancy, knowing how naija men love their kids.. ayyy Linda
I'm telling you, they've never enjoyed their marriage...
@@norahmaleka-lt8uv at all! 🤞🏽🤞🏽
So she’s using TikTok and other platforms to get his attention since he blocked her?. 😭😭🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️😮💨
She’s on a smear campaign. 💔
Yebo..I agree
I saw that through her eyes and narration of her story that there’s loopholes. This man must sue her for defamation of character
Geez this woman thoh😂😂😂😂the reasons y men kill us bcoz of this bad behavior
I saw a confused woman I didn’t know she was seeking his attention God and she still calls for peace
She is no different from the women who cry false rape. Disgusting!
The way I felt sorry for the lady 😳 at this point I'm just in shook! I'm so happy that this guy was given the opportunity to tell his side of the story🙏
I’m taking back my words, I believe him
Me too
Justice for the boychild she is taking advantage that guy he is foreigner 😢😢😢she has a lot of dirty laundry hayiii
She's busy accusing this man of being a ritualistic, I think she herself is a ritualist in disguise
@@saeedamahomed4969 that's what came to my mind, and all the lies she told trying to trap this guy
@@saeedamahomed4969 even she said the guy was player wara wara ,but it's sounds like she was not a wife material at all,how can you slept with someone and blocked him with no reason, hiding her 2kids ,informing her husband's friends to use muti,going out groove ,hayiii it's a lot shame selfishness, manipulation, deformations for character as well
I'm telling she's a red flag period 😅
You must be foreigners
As a Nigerian, its so painful that being a Nigerian has become a crime especially in South Africa. No one created themselves and no one chose where to be born. I pray God helps him
He never loved that woman. They should’ve just had the kid and coparent. This is a consequence of forcing things 😬
we know when we are loved ..girl saw lifestyle
Don't forget at the time he was illegal in the country and she helped him legalise his stay. Maybe that's how he was able to legalise his "business" as well coz they were partners so it was convenient to take her to business meetings.
Why did he prefer keeping his money in the house rather than the bank and pay bills in cash especially dealing with big amounts of cash
I agree with you.
When a man admits you are not his type he's basically saying you forced yourself on him, he prefers others.
There’s a lot I can say on my TikTok page and I chose not to I can tell people what you did to my mum and what you did to my sister and how you would remind me that my mum is a bitch and how when you and my mum have fights you would go crazy to a point where even your own son is afraid of you
Love or hate Owami but my gosh you cant ignore the growth in every facet. From her use of the english language, her reading ability (she used to joke about how she reads English), video quality, confidence, nje the glow up. Im so proud of this woman especially when you know how she started. GROWTH!!!❤
I love you ❤
According to what I've gathered, there was no love in this marriage, devorce is the only solution left for them.
This is why short men should stick to shorter women. A women towering over a man can cause inbalance in some sort of way.
Haibo 💀😂😂
@@Xiomarazitha 🤣😂🤣 s
Beeeeeeeeen saying 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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When you never meet a narcissist you are so lucky
When you stay with a narcissist that is a giver you benefit a lot as well from them that is a fact.
@@NokwaziButhelezi-vd8jw True hey and what more worse is him doing it again coz ppl already fallen for his lies when he never loved her from the beginning..
That’s very true and there are also many women who are also narcissists
@@slindilemahlobo5934 Go sit down, this lady used muti to hold this guy
@@mispo6512 stupid and evil, reaping were she did not sow
This is way i wanted the other side of the story.. Now we need the 3rd one which is the truth that’s them coming together with 1 story🙈😅 YOU GET😂
You get 😂
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😂😂😂😂yes, we get
U want the Owamie studio ablaze 😂
Bona the equation needs the 3rd story to balance
mina i believe 80% of what this Guy is saying and 20% goes to what the Lady said 🤞🏽
This is deep
If he doesn't end up suing or getting some form of retribution, this will allow more women to continue this kind of manipulative tactice - which would be devastating on a social scale.
Sue on what grounds? In the end he paid lobola and he has a child with the lady. They lived together as husband and wife. So unfortunately the lady will benefit from this 'marriage'
@mecharamorula4660 on the grounds on defamation. He's in the media space, any false rumors or information could harm his bag.
If he has proof of certain things she had said that are false. He can sue.
To my understanding the lady came in this relationship with lies about hiding kids number 1 , she wanted home in this young man , that's why she never drink the morning pill and she just wanted to control him which was not working for her and this guy is hurting inside I can tell he stayed with this lady because of his child not because love , and he was doing all out because he just wanted to stay what ever because of the child
Don’t forget kid number 2 😂😂 she already had 2
He gave this guy muti and it has expired
@@JustinClark-r4zI thought about that 😂😂😂😂 she can't even renew because God works overtime
@@JustinClark-r4zShe went away and came back echebe inwele, definitely she went to do amuthi
Someone said, instead of doing uber eats with LV. Why didn't she sell LV if she was that desperate?
To whom at what price
Second hand market places like yaga exiat
She was a gold digger
She was trying to embarrass him too because she knew people will see her. She claimed to do stokvels with what money if she didn’t have a cent???
@@nosim7440 Uber eats money
Now it'd seem like, Ms. Linda just hated the fact that she fell for a guy who just wasn't into her, so she fought tooth and nail to stay in his life, but this further aggravated the problems because they already weren't jellying...kuningi bo!
l hear you , he was never into her and Linda did say when they met he was quiet..after some time it became toxic ..there's was no love ..it was clear we know when we are loved as human beings
I also see that this is the problem. Girl forced this relationship. Obvs when you force things, you will feel mistreated when guy isn't affectionate and stuff. I am not saying she wasn't mistreated. Men can be very mean when they do not like you. From her side she also made it seem like this guy trapped her.
I agree with you, I think she is doing all this because she feels she wasted a lot of time trying to get this man to love her and it didn't happen. Now she wants to get something out of the time she invested. There was never love here they both said it.
I concur
Kuningi guys
Now that I have watched part 2 , I believe the man 🌚🌚🌚 his explanation makes complete sense and makes her story make sense
True
This lady is taking advantage because this guy is foreigner, she is wearing expensive clothes but she claims she was not taken care of
That was my issue too with her, driving nice cars but saying you not taken care off
Did you see that woman 's nails😅
Did you see her nails? You'd know wassap
@@PrincessSiziba-s7fi just said the same thing minutes seconds ago
Wabona why as people who don't have kids it is better for us to have kids with someone who doesn't have kids?
Totally agree ma'am!!
@@Nxsta125 💯
Yes plz aii ngoba kuningi😮
@@maseratiZulu22 kuningi 😪
there is no way in the world i want to be with a woman with kids. Now he will deal with the pain
He must sue her for the accusations. I listened to all 3 parts of her story and there's nothing substantial to backup the ritualist accusations
True
Same here I thought I was not being understanding but honestly that lady is lying
True, I was expecting to hear that she found a shrine, or charms or anything. But nothing.
@@Ultraviolet5567 exactly!
All she said is what she heard from other people, imagine 😂😂
The lady was also a serious problem
@@norahmaleka-lt8uv yes, I don't like someone who is nt working to claim 50% on divorce, knowing she did nt contribute, she had a house help yet not working ai ai, she was a liability in this relationship and she want a luxurious life
True,they deserve each other
Yes
They are equal 😅
Sound like it😮
This story makes sense now..yhoo and i was expecting a monster hey 😒😂
Nigerians be careful oooooo , our sister's are disappointing hle.
When a Mgulukudu meets a Mgulukudu. I feel like they were using each other 😮
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Highly possible... I dated a Nigerian guy, their always looking to benefit
Ufihla abantwana bakho endodeni yhoooo hayi, Let's (as women) normalize working hard for our kids. You are a mother of 3 kids but you're busy following indoda ephandayo around instead of focusing on building an empire or a warm home for your kids!
@@nosiphompepo9434 there's proof tht she convinced another lady to use muthi to control her man ,manje sekathi her hubby is a rutualist
Please Owami assist them so that there can be peace between them.
Lol she probably building the empire through men, these streets girls very dangerous
Baninzi who hide their kids if it’s more than one yah I know such ladies especially laba badyola with very traditional men.that time laMadoda abo baya Abuser
She still wants free life 😂😂😂 she didn’t take those morning after pills on purpose
Divorce is messy yoh! 😢
Especially when you are a gold digger who thought she was securing the bag
@@Vv-fl2rm 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 hey uhambe kabi usisi
Yes , bt our Gender aa sana
Part 2 got me. My question to the woman is why do you want things from a sacrifice of your child? Why not leave this man with his dirty money if its dirty.
Also you two seems like you just have fights. Yall go for counselling and solve this problems. Yall have a child for God sake. What is this....
I think she also wants to console herself and restart her life with some money. The daughter has already died so she also wants to gain something
I asked that question on her interview... She should leave the blood money and walk away
I was gonna say the same thing also,why not leave this mens dirty money and walk away and find some work for herself and children,eish this woman not telling the whole truth.
The lady is using social media to tarnish this guy. She must find some counseling and anger management.
I believe this guy. The woman lost my trust the moment this guy said she hid her second child from him.
So u mean this guy loved her?
Yea that woman lost me there too...
So automatically yall believe him? 😂😂😂
@@slindilemahlobo5934 did she love him? They just met, fucked and got a kid. The marriage was for convenience for their child cos she threatened to abort Haiboo wena!!!
@@Missfab86exactly! Why would she lie about 1 child but tell him about the other? N who says he’s telling the truth?
Eish guys kunzima, after this episode they should now both come together😂 but im serious, for the sake of ngwana (the child)...they should come to the show so that we can now properly solve the problem
Exactly..💯😅😅
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Justice Elvis Ndlovu, as it please this court your honour 🤣🤣🤣
Surely😂😂😂 as online in-laws 😂😂we need to resolve this issue 😂😂😂
@@letushilaalina amen ninja 🤣🤣🤣
As a man, sometimes i think we should not be given voices or an opportunity to speak for ourselves...rather, we should learn to quiet and act on solving our problems....if he is innocent, i think he should give the wife 50% of what he owns and move on... talking or explaining himself will never solve anything
The world needs more smart man like you.
Hence y’all become bitter, abusive and commit crimes. Please speak my brother ❤️🙏
Nje yazi
If it's true what she said, she can't take the money of a ritualist
@@siphamandlamkhize9766very true
You handle this well O. Big ups
One thin about "other" street girls no matter how hard u try they can never change,,Im glad this guy came out to give us his side his story and i believe him
It’s easier to believe our fellow South African sister than a Nigerian brother. I’m sorry to say that I believe this man.
They need to come be interviewed together. At this point even a lie detector test is needed coz my jaw dropped in both their sides of the story. Don’t even know where I stand now. But what’s clear is that they both had their own demons and weren’t ready for that marriage!
Please
You are the only one who has said the right thing. These two people are both evil
"I am a spiritual person" if this is the spirit of the living God, one will never engage in sexual relationships, one night stands ext.
Spiritual is not necessarily Christian
@@Nunec Excaulty my point.
Are all Christians without sin? 🤔🤔... I want to meet the saints you are referring to. Some have not yet done it yet/still "V" but not humble,not respectful or treat others good, or maybe not having pure hearts,some still do it by themselves and maybe not with someone... In simple words...👉🏾..not yet doing it doesn't proof that one serves the living God....
@@ramonaramona9477 I am one one of those Chriatians that sin. The point here is about Spirit of God. My point remains that the man said he is spiritual. That can be any spirit, If I operated in the Spirit of God, which is the Holy Spirit, I will not do the things I do. I am let by my flesh and that makes me a sinner. I can never changed God's truth.
@@tinychefness3546 The spirit of God can be there but we are mortal beings and we can fall into sin. Even those called woman and man of God sin,yet their God given gifts remain... So I think that he can be let by it and still fall weak to an attack, plus the lady had her agenda (like a spirit of Jezabel at work) which is why she didn't take the morning after...
Aducated woman they don't do these if she was a working class all these things were not going to happen.
It’s educated
Dankoooooo🎉🎉🎉
You can't even spell.
It shows that girl is illiterate, period
@khetimthembu8465 akere they are under the impression that South African women are not educated
Now that I’ve listened to both sides….The lady I doubt her story
I hope just let her take 50%,go for DNAs and also sue the lady for defamation of character
The lady played us.
Same as those who plays with "R" word
Yazi I feel the same too😮😮
She wants to be seen as rich yet she cameto this guy for money due to this mentality of falling for Nigerians bcz they are supportive and do give money .
She did😂😂mara I never believed her😂
Im yr big fan from Namibia.yr videos are so educative and interesting keep up the good work..
Yeyi she played us big time😂
I was chilling here with my cup of tea and blacket 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Same here love in bed eating fruits
I believe you my brother, i pray for healing in your life & to find a woman God intended for you🙏
This Abuu man, better get a DNA for all them kids. And his ashamed they moered this poor Abu man...this is really sad.
Am a Nigerian but I will never make this sought of mistake pregnant or no pregnant rather buy tickets go back home Nigeria marry from my town not even from Lagos go to my province and get a woman of my statue I don't want no drama and heart break or disappointment no disrespect s.a but will never marry from here I have seen a lot and heard a lot I learn from other people mistake and save my self the drama. I have 3 friends in Durban that married the best women ever in s.a and happily married for more than 15years but the percentage of those good ones is too low maybe 15% out of 100% I can't gamble with my future.
How many of such incidents have you heard?Apart from the popular one from u.k and u.s recently, let's call spade a spade and not be defensive okay.
Don't do this...because South African women who have been victimized can talk about Nigerian men and it won't be nice...it's not a nationality thing, it's individuals..
Come back nigeria and marry a Nigerian, don't get urself involved with a SA woman. They don't deserve you guys come back and marry I. Nigeria.
when he asked help with their divorce ,then u know he means business.
Normally they have to dirvoce and if she is not after the money she can say u can leave with ur money or she is the one to leave period
This was a union of two toxic people who I doubt they ever loved each other, it was all about convenience & it back fired terribly to both,....I MUST ADMIT, I don't know what to believe here! 😮
This is starting to sound like another AKA/ ANELE situation..hope nobody dies here soon, God forbid 🚫
I agree with you
True there was no foundation for the marriage so it was a matter of time before it collapsed
Okay now so far I feel like these are two people who got married with intention to gain something from the relationship, the guy probably just wanted spousal Residence Permit and the lady seems like she has self esteem issues, so she needed validation, money and the fancy life. The lady knew that this man doesn't love her. If a man loves you, he'll definitely make time for you and not give the phone to a friend to talk to you because he's busy?😅 Probably now that the guy has his permit, has been in SA long enough and have a child, he qualifies for a permanent residence, he wants out but the lady doesn't want to lose the riches, more so apparently she doesn't want work, so she doesn't want to let go. This is a toxic relationship, they both aboused each other, especially emotionally, both of them are dodgy with the physical abuse question.
This is a Nigerian like movie script, they must just make a film and make more money and leave us out of it.
Ladies Owamie has been saying, be financially independent so that when these 666s decide to leave, you still can start life somewhere.
I heard on her interview that when she went out for 2 weeks that she would call her husband to remind him to fetch the 'kids' from school and I thought Owami would ask how many kids They have because she said her husband didn't want them to stay with her older child
In the video, she posted whilst calling him out, she sounded strong and powerful. She came on the show, played the victim, and spoke softly. She narrated her story in a suggestive manner. And most of the people who believed her did so because he is Nigerian.
Sadly for Nigerians, this is quite true. If he was from anywhere else the reactions would have been less biased.
When it comes to him saying she doesn’t want to work; she just wants money.
I’m sorry, but I agree with him.
At least he did admit that his verbally abusive and short tempered.
She was asked was he abusive she stuttered whereas it was a Yes or No answer, Owami had to even change her question yhuuu that woman
How do you hide your child from your own husband. This lady is dangerous
They both wanted to use each other, him to get papers and she to get money, but when they both had enough of each others bad character, now he wants divorce and she wants half of what he is not willing to give. I believe his story.....she lied about him being a ritualist. Pple will believe the lies because he is Nigerian.
My guy you are telling the truth.
I think we don't need to blame the girl or this guy because we don't know who's telling the truth 🤞 both of them are defending themselves, and it's rare to hear a witch admitting that I'm a witch, that's my 2 cent advice
Fully agree with you
“Clear conscience fear no accusation,” powerful! I hope this is the case. Great job Owamie but I would have appreciated you asking this guy how he thinks he’s contributed to this messy situation coz throughout this interview not once did he take responsibility, not that he needed to if he felt he did everything accordingly. This guy should also know that divorce doesn’t necessarily mean resolution but it could mean the beginning of the plot growing thicker.Remember there’s someone hurt and they say hurt people hurt others. From what this guy said he went to his house and there were men at his house who claimed to be the ex’s brothers or family that he didn’t know and they wouldn’t let him into his own house. Please advise this young man to stay away from his ex. I would suggest that he even go to the maintenance court just to make things easier for himself
I’m just here for Muphandi studio’s quality🔥🔥 Ma’am👏🏾👏🏾
This guy should bring receipts, we want that voicenote, the "fraudulent settlement" and everything he kept on saying "I can show you"
Haibo...where's the lady's proof that she brought?, the two people are both not make sure, why does ugirl want money of a ritualist...personally i dont think that he is a ritualist but might be involved in selling some not so legal substances coz which business afforded them all these luxuries in just 10 yrs
@@vunw542 you needed to have read my other comment 1st my dear.
But he did mention that he have the evidence including voicenotes. I think Owami should have allowed him to play them or show
And stuff, and stuff. Lol 😂 You don't need a lie detector. This guy is a pathological liar and only came on this program to protect his image. He never cared about his wife and used his baby daughter as a sacrifice for monetary gains. I don't buy what he says about being a Christian or having people pray for him. I don't believe anything he says. I would need to see proof.
We always believed women however men should cry ,cry guy u have been through alots
Hearing from both sides of the story moral lesson : never be quick to judge.. Fear women
For the fact that she hide the a child from that time the marriage,relationship was over
Man speak out, for the mere fact that you are a Nigerian brother, i know us souther sisters will judge you. This is your story and you deserve to be heared as well. I wish you both healing ❤️ 💕 and good life going forward.
She’s a liar. Bro leave these SA women alone with their Sangomas. I believe this man’s side of the story 100%.
The man is a ritualist he sacrificed your daughter but you still want 50 percent of what the man owns which comes from rituals and sacrifice make it make sense plz
I have listened to both sides of the story. I feel sorry for the man and I believe him. I think is a gold digger.
Ngaze ngazithanda izindaba zabantu bethuna 😢😢
Ngimi loyo😂😂
Jongaaaaa... i am invested 😅😂... like ive dropped everything 😂😂😂
Yazini😂😂😂😂😂
Koko nam ndibukele the whole day😂😂😂
Yey I even want to give them advice 😂
Owamie I think you should call both of them same time
They will fight infront of the camera
We certainly don't want to see WWE shem. Already from their stories there's a lot of toxicity so imagine while they are in the same room.
@@petuniamokhutsoane6828we want ahhhhhh😅😅😅😅we are tired of blame and lies
Jerry Springer stuff
lol she can invite 2 male nijas to the studio in case they fight 😂😂
I think she didn't drink the morning after to trap the guy into marrying her and later took the guy to her sangoma friend and tell him he needs to marrying her. Nah fam
I won't judge anyone if I was in her shoes I was going to walk away and start all over inviting people in your problems just making it worse.
I know both of these people and all I’m gonna say is this woman was a control freak.Anyone who knows them know that it looked like he’s scared of her whenever they were together
Secondly she used to drink and smoke when she was pregnant(I have proof)…might be why they lost their child at two months old
Btw I’m South African so yall please don’t think ke buwella the guy because ha ke mo buwelle
Ngwanyana o was just there for vibes
Owamie are you seeing this!!!
Also the woman’s daughter used to tell almost everyone she comes across how terrible her mom is and how she always wants everything done her way..She used to tell people that the mom doesn’t take care of them,doesn’t do things around the house and how much she hates her for abandoning her
The girl only started living with her mom about two to three years ago..They tried staying with her like four years ago but they took her back to Linda’s mom’s house because she(the daughter) was disrespecting linda’s husband
They must come to the interview together
Yes
Struu... because I don't believe that guy
@@karaboramadie1713This guy is playing victim honestly I don’t believe a word his saying!!!!
I knew from the first part of the lady's story that she was not telling the whole truth, how do you want to get a settlement from a husband whom you claim is a ritualist? this guy can not be a ritualist ,I am glad he is able to say his own side of the story... Mr man do everything to settle her out of social media...
Exactly
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Especially the part where she said after her daughter’s passing another lady said it’s not normal…she should have just said she went straight to the Sangoma & stop making up stories. It seems she’s into Sangomas & muti for sure
Her mind is to divorced this man for a property
I believe him. I have a spiritual gift since birth and there’s no ritualistic element here. Sisters energy on the other hand is a completely different story, she is very conniving and manipulative. Osile period
I believe this guy the girl was after the money