I remember a time when the Nigerian guys and their Southy girls used to gaslight us saying that Nigerians are not abusive. I’m glad these ladies are coming out and showing us that not all that glitters is gold. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
There's no way someone can be that loud, intimidating, aggressive and not hit women. Most Nigerian men are aggressive to each other these women are just blinded by the bag 💰💰💰💰
This is men's behavior in Africa. I am from senegal and this relates to my history. I have 1 kid and 3 miscarriages because of beating... He was a police officer and not on my favor to get help. I end up running to USA, hired a lawyer and got divorced. Karma is on his back now. It is never easy to leave an abusive partner unless someone opens your eyes. You did well lady. 🎉
@@khangwelokhangwelo6553what are you saying wena? Enjoy isende le Nigerian lakho without insulting women who are voicing out their situations. Uthini? You’re not the only women dating a Nigerian. Siyabazi. Ungazohlanya lana mdidi woknuka!!!!
@@ChantelBeauty-m8u it went stratight over your head ne 🤣🤣ne im a guy chief akiri that what they always tell us sa man this when they dating this man so they must not change now when things are ugly they must have the same energy
but that does not exempt her from being evil at this point in time. They hear the hype around NGN they want to throw every Nigerian under the bus because of their own doing. She must have her cake and eat it, why must SA help her now
Yes they said Nigeria they are the best ,so let them stay and suffer with them,I am sorry I don't feel any thing for them,leave us South Africa alone I beg
Mina as a man i want to encourage women to be wise, i know a heart cannot choose whom to love but if you see red flags please run..leave that man... the sooner the better, yes he people can change for the better but sometimes its too risky to be patient or to wait for him to change
If you take the wrong train or flight, the longer you stay on it and the further you go, the more expensive it becomes to get of and get back. This has nothing to do with trains and flights😢
I read comments and some are blaming Owamie that she hates Nigerians. This ladies are coming to her and relating their life's experiences with those guys . If you are offended then don't watch ,Owamie never forced anyone to come here
A very sweet person,she has helped a lot of people,you can't sleep without eating or sleep outside when you need help, she will make sure that you get all the help that you want
I think this guy is psychotic,but out sister absorbed all that numerous times,what did she make out of this"abhorrent"behaviour, what were you thinking,opting self destructive behaviour..sorry but you brought it yourself,man,please wake up girls even my daughter is going that road,I even send her this footage,hey as an elder are this Nigerians are hypnotizing u,ohh God help our SA daughters!
We love you. Trust me, I know many Nigerian South African marriages that are thriving. Where you meet is very important. If you met him in the nightclubs spending lavishly, I can't really vouch for him.
I love this for our generation of telling their stories to teach the next generation. Our mothers were hiding these things and just endured. This is progressive even though we might judge and say ‘ I would never’ it’s a teachable moment for other people x
@@kogimanthen what? Those Nigerian are yorubas or Hausas, no Igbo men coz those are school drop outs, drug sellers and most of South African women fall for them same as Olivia’s husband is Igbo I know!!!!!
no did sa man ever come to say they saints ninganyi for a fact sa man have been insulted for 10 years now remove us from you kak u all said nigerians are the best so now live with ur best ningasinyeli
no did sa man ever come to say they saints ninganyi for a fact sa man have been insulted for 10 years now remove us from you kak u all said nigerians are the best so now live with ur best ningasinyeli
My husband's daughter had a Nigerian boyfriend, my husband told his daughter, she must forget about him if ever she proceeds with this man. He didn't ever want to him. He actually helped her and she stopped the relationship and listened to her father. They are bad news when it comes to ill treating women. I don't understand why our fall for these guys. It is part of their culture as this lady stated.
True, I'm tired too. If a person have been married for 25 years, why does she keep on mentioning his nationality?? It's irrelevant, because any man is capable. Nna I'm tired of these ladies too, agghhh.
All I can say is Nigerians can be sweet byt at same time coniving nd plotters womanizers etc so ladys date thrm if u can also play the same games. The Naija women know their guyz nd they know how to play eachother. Women from countrys outside nugeria it doesn t mean bc u all Live nd come from Africa you are the same, Never u nrver ever the same guyz. Bottom line if u cannit play the Nigerian coniving tricks nd games stay away. You ladys work gor yr own moneys stop falling for men bcause of their money nd sweet ralks. Most of these issues come bc of Greed of Money it makes u ladys loose yr senses to extent where u cannot Judge Wisely handsome nd money comes with its own Troubles. Nigerians who trully love their children always (when they end the relationship) will take their children to be raised in nigeria bc they say Nugeria s culture, education, sharpness etc is the best nd they will become winners raised up in Nigeria. Lets just hope the children will never 4get their mothers.
You can marry a foreigner for 20 yes she has his foreign wife they are just using you guys pls love yourself guys da when we tell you guys you tell us we are jealous 😮😮
The way people do not fear God, him including God in this letter meanwhile he lives an unGodly lifestyle. Guys God is not to be tolled with, stop this thing of using His name loosely!!! I pray this woman gets the healing and peace she deserves, no one should ever go thru that, stay prayed up sisi, God will restore you and your kids ❤
Are there South African women who are happily married to Nigerian men? Or South African men who are happily married to Nigerian women? Can we also hear from them?
Thank you for that question compassionQueen! Negative voices are usually louder than positive voices. When you generalize a country of 250 million people by few you encountered, you are either unexposed or uneducated 😊 I bet there are a lot of more horrible SA husbands but they like to always say ‘ Nigerian husband’
South African men are the most violent and brutal men in the history of Africa. You can even Google it. There's more gender based violence in South Africa than any other country in Africa. The crime rate in SA is the highest in the world so I don't know about South African men but I can never even date them.
She looks like a nice person..she is beautiful may she find healing 🙏.....i realised that we as people do not react the same to abuse, once dated this guy that tried to slap me stopped himself half way ,i never reacted , never showed how mad i was ..i just went home blocked his number and deleted everything of his....2 years after met him aound town ,when he asked what happened between us i was like im not about that life God created me even he has never tried to slap me so who are you?? Because from there it will only escalate
Let's Just Support Sesi Owami Because We Love Her And We Want Her To Grow ❤ But I Don't Really Feel Sorry For These Women They Know What They Are Getting Themselves Into 🙌🏽
@@christopheroscar6058its because women have too much rights in South Africa , that is why there's high rate of divorce. South Africans need a lot of sex education to be able to learn to prevent pregnancy.
@@christopheroscar6058The problem is being loud. Find your person wherever you want seat down and shut up! They were too loud rubbing their "perfect" choice to even good S.A men and that was uncalled for and disrespectful to our S.A good men. Generalizing all S.A like you are doing now. Find your person black, yellow, purple etc and SHUT UP! 49:44 50:42
exactly, even growing up we were warned. I know my dad made it a point to tell me that "DO NOT EVEN THINK OF GOING INTO ANYTHING WITH THOSE PEOPLE" I have always just had that at the back of my mind. Many will see this lady's story and still go ahead because of money but one thing for sure, it always ends in tears.
What a beautiful soul,devil doesnt chase after an empty vessel ,im shocked and hurt hleng God wll restore what locusts have eaten in your life,Oli baby,i dnt know you personally, please love on those babies !you will reap the fruits of your labour i swear,God halahle his own,loved u nono 49:14
South African men have into zabo ezi snaks 😂, but I prefer them shem. My brothers from other African countries will be loved from a distance, and Uncle Cyril will hug them for me at the African Union meetings ...
Owamie Owamie! You’re way ahead of your time with covering social issues. I saw other channels are starting to cover the love scammers topic as well. You go girl! 👌👌👌
Im a SA man im so shocked to hear that even the African brothers are abusive cause the always say that they are cultured they know how to take care of a woman. It has been said that the reason why SAcn man are beating women is because they live without a father but im shocked to see that those claim to be cultured are the one talking about and this is funny.
This lady is beautiful, I don't know why they throw themselves to a ma Nigerians leaving abobhuti bethu lana,a local is better because you will deal with him accordingly
We love you my sister and we are behind you. You are so brave. And beautiful. Life changes things will get better❤❤. Keep praying 🙏 we are praying for you and the kids. Focus on your businesses you will succeed.
The story I wanted to hear. For her to be calling even PA shows how desperate this situation is.I saw another fighting for rent also calling for Gayton🤔
even Imagine not having to enjoy all your money for the rest of your life because a portion needs to be set aside for traveling to their country to visit or just have the family see you, their son and grandkids. Hai no shem
The truth is this woman is foolish a person who is abusing you and cheating in you but you still build apartments in Lagos for him foolishness at its peak
Igbo people hardly marries outside their tribe, is very hard, even in Nigeria they don't mingle with other tribe how much more when you from another country
@TheeMsutu it's the truth ,ayhi same South African women don't listen. They think with their punanis and when shot hits the fan balokhe bebangela thina isicefe
I knw Olivia and she used to mock other Nigerian co wives and I’m 1 of them to be honest I dnt feel sorry for her. She used to act like big madam to a point u will feel like ur husband dnt love u and staff now she’s calling operation dudula for wat🙄this1 na drama Queen.
Niyaphapha nani sisters. Angithi when you are seriously and madly in love with these things you call us names, you say asibheji , asinaluthando and all that crap. You even say asinikhweli kamnandi njengalezi zinto. Hlalani lapho!!!
You are beautiful and intelligent my lady so you will come out victorious! God is always good Just trust in him He makes way where there is no way at all
Owami thank you dear eyy im so dissapointed the way things are happening here yazi all the stories you have hosted for our sis and Naijas hubby they all are like the same actually and even worse beating our sis is too much where will we run too? even me too im even scared to say yes to my proposal Igbo man whom he is still in Naija...
Sis, I am a Nigerian. Let me advise you. There are good and bad people everywhere. I don't know his intention, but you must do a thorough investigation on him. Have you met him physically? You said, he's still in Naija. I guess all your discussions are online. You can't accept such proposal yet. If he's not residing where you are, you must take your time to know his true intention.
Haibo sista sorry to hear that Thanks for sharing your story i wish all the best you and your kids. .....all can say church ⛪️ is business there were you evils people
I don’t understand why people are mad Jolofinah’s are the once that are coming to her podcast to VENT.. The title is RIGHT THERE.. why are you here watching?
I just can't handle it if a woman got beaten no matter who is wrong or right or lie or telling the truth. I can't handle it if a woman got beaten up by a man there must be other ways of dealing with the problems you facing in your marriage I just hope God can help this woman no more beating please let the sister go in peace. She must get a divorce ask for probono or something just be safe. This is for every woman across the globe. No beating please.
Sisters after hearing ur story,😢 i now understand, please persue that issue of your mother's house..if u have proof please persue it for you n ur brother,..all the best.
Red flags were always there from beginning but olivia ignored them i mean if a person beat you in a way that he put your life in danger that person is a monster... You've been through a lot dear
But as women we really need to get to a point where we say enough is enough,this guy was beating her all their married life and she went ahead and had 4 kids?the youngest is 5 years old,she should have stopped having kids when she had the Twins.
Thank you Owami for inviting her to your studio. I could not understand her when she was in distress crying 😭 She is articulate and narrates her story well. I wish her strength. 🙌🏽
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Ninja signing in🙏🏼. Im the one who mentioned you on her post(tik tok)❤🎉🎉🎉
I remember a time when the Nigerian guys and their Southy girls used to gaslight us saying that Nigerians are not abusive. I’m glad these ladies are coming out and showing us that not all that glitters is gold. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
There's no way someone can be that loud, intimidating, aggressive and not hit women.
Most Nigerian men are aggressive to each other these women are just blinded by the bag 💰💰💰💰
Question is why now? I am not buying their stories nje
but then South African men are just as abusive nje. Men are men.
@@Ayamangalisaurasalts most of these men have already gotten what they needed from these women.( Citizenships & using them to concile their crimes)
Not all are abusive and abuse has nothing to do where you come from ! I am sure there are some South Africans that are abusing their partners..
This is men's behavior in Africa. I am from senegal and this relates to my history. I have 1 kid and 3 miscarriages because of beating... He was a police officer and not on my favor to get help. I end up running to USA, hired a lawyer and got divorced. Karma is on his back now. It is never easy to leave an abusive partner unless someone opens your eyes. You did well lady. 🎉
nono ninganyi ninganyi what happen to nigerian are better ninganyi don now change nigerian man are the best
@@khangwelokhangwelo6553what are you saying wena? Enjoy isende le Nigerian lakho without insulting women who are voicing out their situations. Uthini? You’re not the only women dating a Nigerian. Siyabazi. Ungazohlanya lana mdidi woknuka!!!!
@@ChantelBeauty-m8uyaphambana lo Satan uzobona xa emnyisa lama Naija wakhe
@@ChantelBeauty-m8u it went stratight over your head ne 🤣🤣ne im a guy chief akiri that what they always tell us sa man this when they dating this man so they must not change now when things are ugly they must have the same energy
@@khangwelokhangwelo6553 yoooh askies I misread your comment wrongly. sorry buti wam 🙏🏽 I thought it was a lady defending nigerians. ❤️
I know this lady. She’s a beautiful person inside and out.
but that does not exempt her from being evil at this point in time. They hear the hype around NGN they want to throw every Nigerian under the bus because of their own doing. She must have her cake and eat it, why must SA help her now
You can tell she's a humble person
They say Nigerian man are loving I think they are strategic.
Loving = Money
God bless you for this…….
Yes they said Nigeria they are the best ,so let them stay and suffer with them,I am sorry I don't feel any thing for them,leave us South Africa alone I beg
Yes bastrategic 😮
Very strategic.
Mina as a man i want to encourage women to be wise, i know a heart cannot choose whom to love but if you see red flags please run..leave that man... the sooner the better, yes he people can change for the better but sometimes its too risky to be patient or to wait for him to change
Ladys leave the Nigerians for their Nigerian women they understand eachother nd thrir coniving ways.
Can you be my man?
If you take the wrong train or flight, the longer you stay on it and the further you go, the more expensive it becomes to get of and get back. This has nothing to do with trains and flights😢
@@thembilenkabinde2907 😜
I read comments and some are blaming Owamie that she hates Nigerians. This ladies are coming to her and relating their life's experiences with those guys . If you are offended then don't watch ,Owamie never forced anyone to come here
A very sweet person,she has helped a lot of people,you can't sleep without eating or sleep outside when you need help, she will make sure that you get all the help that you want
The husband will be here soon with his side of the story
We won’t listen 😂
@@elizabethsilas3191😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 my thoughts exactly.
😂😂😂😂
I think this guy is psychotic,but out sister absorbed all that numerous times,what did she make out of this"abhorrent"behaviour, what were you thinking,opting self destructive behaviour..sorry but you brought it yourself,man,please wake up girls even my daughter is going that road,I even send her this footage,hey as an elder are this Nigerians are hypnotizing u,ohh God help our SA daughters!
This lady is Articulate hle, very fluent and has a good choice of words.❤️❤️❤️...Queen Ninja your questioning 🔥😍👌
Why did she end up marrying the worst foreign national, a Nigerian?
All these ladies married to Nigerian men have the same narrative
They must face the music, bayalayeka
Nigerians does not love us for the first time i dont know why thina sithandana nabo 😢😢😢😢
Yimali babe 😘
U lie
We love you. Trust me, I know many Nigerian South African marriages that are thriving. Where you meet is very important. If you met him in the nightclubs spending lavishly, I can't really vouch for him.
Leave Igbo men they are bulls!!!! Yoruba are the sweetest
Ladies don't let a man show you more than once that they don't want you
I knew we were going to get the story ngapha….Owani for president 😂❤🤩
I love this for our generation of telling their stories to teach the next generation. Our mothers were hiding these things and just endured. This is progressive even though we might judge and say ‘ I would never’ it’s a teachable moment for other people x
OUR WOMEN, PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM BO EKECHWUKU!!!🇳🇬
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hahahahhaaaaaa
Weitse keng Wena Owami neh!!!! You are truly a Gem kore being a Ninja ain’t a waste .
Ninja signing in,I’ll watch later ❤️
Maku markishwe iregister bahlali!! let's like before watching Ninjas.❤️❤️❤️
We are here lala
✅
Pay attention to your dreams. Even in Bible times God spoke to people through dreams
Thank you owamie for another great episode ❤️Thus far I haven’t seen any Nigerian that’s here to build SA. They are just here to destroy😤😡
U r smart
Destroying everything..... And I mean everything
Nigerians are lecturers at your universities.
Doctors at your hospitals
@@kogimanthen what? Those Nigerian are yorubas or Hausas, no Igbo men coz those are school drop outs, drug sellers and most of South African women fall for them same as Olivia’s husband is Igbo I know!!!!!
So many great Nigerians in SA. Please let’s not generalize.
Even South African men does the same to SA women, I guess men don’t love us ladies 😢
no did sa man ever come to say they saints ninganyi for a fact sa man have been insulted for 10 years now remove us from you kak u all said nigerians are the best so now live with ur best ningasinyeli
no did sa man ever come to say they saints ninganyi for a fact sa man have been insulted for 10 years now remove us from you kak u all said nigerians are the best so now live with ur best ningasinyeli
Yes they do this is not about citizenship
For your home in Soweto go to Marshall Street or moja love go to their offices in Rosebank Mall ...you will get your home back.....
Shame she seem so sweet yaz.....im so glad she left that nonsense of rubbush man😢
My husband's daughter had a Nigerian boyfriend, my husband told his daughter, she must forget about him if ever she proceeds with this man. He didn't ever want to him. He actually helped her and she stopped the relationship and listened to her father. They are bad news when it comes to ill treating women. I don't understand why our fall for these guys. It is part of their culture as this lady stated.
It's not only Nigerian man who I'll treat women
African man
Why do Igbo men like shouting so much? 😂😂😂 haii I'm not their target market because I talk back and scream back and hit back 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂not hit back chile
@_.hlengi I know I would 🤣🤣🤣🤣 before he removes his hand from my face, I would've already slapped him back
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
even yoruba men
@@ma-unimoikangoa2256 hectic 😁😁
we are honestly tired of these women though, acting victim after the finances dry up and their banks find new accounts...
Abi oh their men are what she is saying now too
U know all this nigerian wives are not lyyyyyyying 🤞
@GossiphiveEnt I’m disappointed in you
True, I'm tired too. If a person have been married for 25 years, why does she keep on mentioning his nationality?? It's irrelevant, because any man is capable. Nna I'm tired of these ladies too, agghhh.
All I can say is Nigerians can be sweet byt at same time coniving nd plotters womanizers etc so ladys date thrm if u can also play the same games. The Naija women know their guyz nd they know how to play eachother. Women from countrys outside nugeria it doesn t mean bc u all Live nd come from Africa you are the same, Never u nrver ever the same guyz. Bottom line if u cannit play the Nigerian coniving tricks nd games stay away. You ladys work gor yr own moneys stop falling for men bcause of their money nd sweet ralks. Most of these issues come bc of Greed of Money it makes u ladys loose yr senses to extent where u cannot Judge Wisely handsome nd money comes with its own Troubles.
Nigerians who trully love their children always (when they end the relationship) will take their children to be raised in nigeria bc they say Nugeria s culture, education, sharpness etc is the best nd they will become winners raised up in Nigeria. Lets just hope the children will never 4get their mothers.
Your studio setup is the best yhoooo I can't get over it. ❤
You can marry a foreigner for 20 yes she has his foreign wife they are just using you guys pls love yourself guys da when we tell you guys you tell us we are jealous 😮😮
Imagine how this ladys children are being treated in Nigeria away from their mother.
It’s weird. Yall are with these men for so long…then suddenly the only thing that matters is that he’s Nigerian? Did you just find out? Come now
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It’s weird, it’s like they want people to be on their side on the basis of xenophobia
The way people do not fear God, him including God in this letter meanwhile he lives an unGodly lifestyle. Guys God is not to be tolled with, stop this thing of using His name loosely!!! I pray this woman gets the healing and peace she deserves, no one should ever go thru that, stay prayed up sisi, God will restore you and your kids ❤
I'm so happy right now.🎉🎉😂😂Re rata ditaba phela
Are there South African women who are happily married to Nigerian men? Or South African men who are happily married to Nigerian women? Can we also hear from them?
Thank you for that question compassionQueen! Negative voices are usually louder than positive voices. When you generalize a country of 250 million people by few you encountered, you are either unexposed or uneducated 😊 I bet there are a lot of more horrible SA husbands but they like to always say ‘ Nigerian husband’
@@kunbiakins God bless you!
South African man hardly marry outside south Africa
Take that tenant to kukithi la on moja love the tenant will be given an eviction letter u can’t be struggling when u have a house
Let me suffer with my unemployed south African, at least he doesn't beat me😢
😂😂😂😂 please bring your phone 🫴
😂😂
Sandile Mantsoe Murdered Pulane. Tshegofatso was, a science graduate was murdered last week so chill😳
South African men are the most violent and brutal men in the history of Africa. You can even Google it. There's more gender based violence in South Africa than any other country in Africa. The crime rate in SA is the highest in the world so I don't know about South African men but I can never even date them.
Jollofinas won't like it...leave those Satan's alone😂😂
She looks like a nice person..she is beautiful may she find healing 🙏.....i realised that we as people do not react the same to abuse, once dated this guy that tried to slap me stopped himself half way ,i never reacted , never showed how mad i was ..i just went home blocked his number and deleted everything of his....2 years after met him aound town ,when he asked what happened between us i was like im not about that life God created me even he has never tried to slap me so who are you?? Because from there it will only escalate
Jollofs boys go for a control button first...they are surgical about it too,it's not an overnight thing😂😂🥱
Childhood trauma unchecked produces more trauma.
100%
What a sweetheart. 🌸such a beautiful soul.✨May God heal her heart and bless her path. 🧚
Let's Just Support Sesi Owami Because We Love Her And We Want Her To Grow ❤
But I Don't Really Feel Sorry For These Women They Know What They Are Getting Themselves Into 🙌🏽
Very
She's telling the truth about their behaviour. It's sad ❤❤
There where bragging about them today South African are rejoicing they used to bash their SA man throughout the internet KARMA
what about SA men behaviour you guys have the highest divorce rate and teenage pregnancy
@@christopheroscar6058its because women have too much rights in South Africa , that is why there's high rate of divorce. South Africans need a lot of sex education to be able to learn to prevent pregnancy.
I have learnt my lesson from both sides 🤷
@@christopheroscar6058The problem is being loud. Find your person wherever you want seat down and shut up! They were too loud rubbing their "perfect" choice to even good S.A men and that was uncalled for and disrespectful to our S.A good men. Generalizing all S.A like you are doing now. Find your person black, yellow, purple etc and SHUT UP! 49:44 50:42
These women were warned about Nigerians
But they don't listen, woman don't like listening
exactly, even growing up we were warned. I know my dad made it a point to tell me that "DO NOT EVEN THINK OF GOING INTO ANYTHING WITH THOSE PEOPLE" I have always just had that at the back of my mind. Many will see this lady's story and still go ahead because of money but one thing for sure, it always ends in tears.
What about South African men? Beating and raping their women and children 24/7. It's a men issue.
Not only Nigerians go watch Lekau's wife interview he is a South African.
@user-oe5ri6pe2z Of course everyone can be an abuser but I thinks they are abit worse
My sister,I wish you strength and peace. This too shall pass. It's not only Nigerian men doing this. Our own South African men are doing this. ❤
What a beautiful soul,devil doesnt chase after an empty vessel ,im shocked and hurt hleng God wll restore what locusts have eaten in your life,Oli baby,i dnt know you personally, please love on those babies !you will reap the fruits of your labour i swear,God halahle his own,loved u nono 49:14
I'm feeling sorry for your kids, this is traumatizing the kids, is damaging their minds.
South African men have into zabo ezi snaks 😂, but I prefer them shem. My brothers from other African countries will be loved from a distance, and Uncle Cyril will hug them for me at the African Union meetings ...
😢😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂he will hug them for you
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Owamie Owamie! You’re way ahead of your time with covering social issues. I saw other channels are starting to cover the love scammers topic as well. You go girl! 👌👌👌
Im a SA man im so shocked to hear that even the African brothers are abusive cause the always say that they are cultured they know how to take care of a woman. It has been said that the reason why SAcn man are beating women is because they live without a father but im shocked to see that those claim to be cultured are the one talking about and this is funny.
That is a lie Infact our South African man are ways better than them
This lady is beautiful, I don't know why they throw themselves to a ma Nigerians leaving abobhuti bethu lana,a local is better because you will deal with him accordingly
We love you my sister and we are behind you. You are so brave. And beautiful. Life changes things will get better❤❤. Keep praying 🙏 we are praying for you and the kids. Focus on your businesses you will succeed.
HAIBO GET POLICE AND REMOVE THAT TENANT !!!!
Ladys remember not all Africans/Blacks are the same.
It's hard to get the good one because one rotten potato makes all the bag of patatoes rotten
It's hard to get the good one because one rotten potato makes all the bag of patatoes rotten
Common sense sistas...do u think a person can just leave Nigeria n come to south africa for love mara...is obvious dey r here to make money
The story I wanted to hear. For her to be calling even PA shows how desperate this situation is.I saw another fighting for rent also calling for Gayton🤔
Honestly guys, besides money? What good is there in dating Nigerian men? Honestly. and im not even judging, just trying to understand
Nothing zero. Dololo
speaking English all day every day😂😂😂😂😂ngiyadlala😑
even Imagine not having to enjoy all your money for the rest of your life because a portion needs to be set aside for traveling to their country to visit or just have the family see you, their son and grandkids. Hai no shem
The truth is this woman is foolish a person who is abusing you and cheating in you but you still build apartments in Lagos for him foolishness at its peak
Yoh 💔 your words 😢. May God bless you and heal whatever that makes you say such words
Red flags will always be there....
Your daughter threatened suicide if you don’t drop the charges against her abusive dad… umtwana we Nyoka, inyoka indeed.
Yhoo!!! Cabanga
Nyoka
@@florenceradamba225 Black mamba
She seems like a sweet soul
Thank you for sharing your story Mama, with so much GRACE🤌🏼🫶🏼
Yena she has so much grace Shem
The devil works hard but you work harder O🔥
It's sad that she's going through all of these things,kodwa chaa cc niyawubezelela udodi
Igbo people hardly marries outside their tribe, is very hard, even in Nigeria they don't mingle with other tribe how much more when you from another country
You Mara naye even after he beat her kids she still stayed 😭😭😭😭😭like what was her deal breaker /turn off 😭
Owamie where do you get these ladies 😮😮let me watch
The jollofinas are becoming xenophobic 😂
😂😂😂😂😂 karma
How many times has society warned us women about Nigerians !! We grew up sikhuzwa ngabo nina nigijime niziphonse kuwona ! Anisiyeke ngesicefe tuu
@TheeMsutu it's the truth ,ayhi same South African women don't listen. They think with their punanis and when shot hits the fan balokhe bebangela thina isicefe
Nna my problem is when they mention “God” yhooo i roll my eyes.
The lady she is so calm.. May she plz find healing
I thought Nigerian men are God's send to some South African women, who diss our Men..
When they say don't go there u go guys 😢😢😢la lapisha
Jollofinas: Nywe, nywe, nywe nigerian men knows how to treat women 😂😂😂
Jollofs and jollofinas are tiring
😂😂😂weeeee
Nonsense,you're laughing to someone's misfortune,i don't blame you. Remain in ur tembisa location
😂😂😂
But they do know how to treat women😅
I knw Olivia and she used to mock other Nigerian co wives and I’m 1 of them to be honest I dnt feel sorry for her. She used to act like big madam to a point u will feel like ur husband dnt love u and staff now she’s calling operation dudula for wat🙄this1 na drama Queen.
Safe space Phumie, tell us more
Woza nazo Phumie kwenzakalani?
Any time is tea time, spill the tea ma'am !!!
Go deeper
Wena are still with your jallofina?😊
Any words that don't match with actions are straight up manipution...& that's on Periodt⚠️
When i saw her video i was like i need Owamie to interview her😂
Same😂
Niyaphapha nani sisters. Angithi when you are seriously and madly in love with these things you call us names, you say asibheji , asinaluthando and all that crap. You even say asinikhweli kamnandi njengalezi zinto. Hlalani lapho!!!
The very same women was braging of driving Nigerians cars around always eating on expensive restaurants
Personally I am slowly failing to sympathize with these women.
Really sorry for what you went through, i dont want to sound insensitive...Kodwa yekan lamasonto enu, kanti nifuna ukutshelwa yonkinto nina..
Those guys never disappoint xem 😂😂😂
Owamie ask this lady to get a letter of authority for her house in Mdeni and she must call XRepo. He will evict the lady fast fast.
She doesn’t want to go home she still wants the life style provided by the abuser South African women 😮
Lol kannete
You are beautiful and intelligent my lady so you will come out victorious!
God is always good
Just trust in him
He makes way where there is no way at all
Keep these exclusives coming ninja ❤❤❤
Owami thank you dear eyy im so dissapointed the way things are happening here yazi all the stories you have hosted for our sis and Naijas hubby they all are like the same actually and even worse beating our sis is too much where will we run too? even me too im even scared to say yes to my proposal Igbo man whom he is still in Naija...
Turn that proposal down ,don't date these foreign men ,they are here to hustle they have no love
Sis, I am a Nigerian. Let me advise you. There are good and bad people everywhere. I don't know his intention, but you must do a thorough investigation on him.
Have you met him physically? You said, he's still in Naija. I guess all your discussions are online. You can't accept such proposal yet. If he's not residing where you are, you must take your time to know his true intention.
We need SA wives stories too
Yhoo whee nna I'm tired of Chiddimà's brothers hle 😵💫
😂😂😂😂😂Abuti wa mang ???
@@pamelakhabo843 Chichi's brothers chomi 😂🤣🙄
Abo pap and spinach😂😂😂
Nigerian man shows u guys flym shym😂😂😂most of woman cme hre dey cry abt Nigerian Man😂😂😂
Something about her, probably God and she will be fine.. sending her more strength 🫶🏼
Haibo sista sorry to hear that Thanks for sharing your story i wish all the best you and your kids. .....all can say church ⛪️ is business there were you evils people
I don’t understand why people are mad Jolofinah’s are the once that are coming to her podcast to VENT..
The title is RIGHT THERE.. why are you here watching?
I just can't handle it if a woman got beaten no matter who is wrong or right or lie or telling the truth. I can't handle it if a woman got beaten up by a man there must be other ways of dealing with the problems you facing in your marriage I just hope God can help this woman no more beating please let the sister go in peace. She must get a divorce ask for probono or something just be safe. This is for every woman across the globe. No beating please.
Sisters after hearing ur story,😢 i now understand, please persue that issue of your mother's house..if u have proof please persue it for you n ur brother,..all the best.
Ninja how come you haven't covered the Lekau story
I agree she should
Madam speaker has already covered
Yes we wanted to hear the whole story from the best of the best ❤
Linda u are so brave , may God protect you ❤❤❤❤
Owamie you are good at this 🙌
Operation Dudula Nhlanhla Lux..." did you even vote madam 😮😮
She seems like a very nice lady 😢❤i hope everything works out for her
Red flags were always there from beginning but olivia ignored them i mean if a person beat you in a way that he put your life in danger that person is a monster... You've been through a lot dear
She’s so pretty omg🥹
Yes she does 🥰
you are quality content !!!
But as women we really need to get to a point where we say enough is enough,this guy was beating her all their married life and she went ahead and had 4 kids?the youngest is 5 years old,she should have stopped having kids when she had the Twins.
Thank you Owami for inviting her to your studio. I could not understand her when she was in distress crying 😭 She is articulate and narrates her story well. I wish her strength. 🙌🏽