The yes man? I would be in L.ove more when he say no no problem in love still .no disrespect about that depends on the individual, both communicate And being there for one another accept what is right or okay . listen ING and peace let one be them selves they may need confirmation to what it is they Re doing accept ur resource or help to make a decision on to what it Is that he or she wants and need to do. Does not have to be do what I said or exact what one said relationship check sounds good. Communion. Updates. Real. Good. I said keep. Bounding throughout the relationship . Thanks to that One
Sooooo true. Sometimes the man you want may not be the man who is actually good for you OR simply, a comparability issue. That does not make him or you bad. You just are not your best selves in that kind of relationship together. 🤷🏻♀️
@Adamu Muhammed Thank you for the kind wish, however, I think it is best if he stays an ex, no matter how much we loved eachother, a bad match may just be that
This has taught me to be honest with myself and that I want a man that is a provider and allows me to sit peaceful in my feminine energy . I can take care of myself but I would love a masculine man that protects and provides . I am going to pray on it . Thank you . No more entertaining men I'm either not attracted to on all levels or who are everything BUT providers lol.
@@HesoRello There are plenty . I'm just looking to secure my bag so I have my own sense of security regardless. I am also celibate which weeds them out pretty fast. The only part of that I agree with are the pseudo-providers that are actually on power trips, abusers or controlling . There are many men that were raised properly to protect and provide but feminism and thinking " toxic masculinity " actually exists as programmed men to contain their masculine attributes and women to behave like men. I dont do that.
Don’t put your focus on the wrong things because if you get a person you THINK you want, you will miss out on the person who will be truly best for you 🙏
It’s so important to be open to listening to your partner. I had to learn this years ago. Listening doesn’t mean just hearing to have a response but really taking into consideration what the other person is saying and truly gaining an understanding of their input.
Being confident, self sufficient, wealthy, debt free has only gotten me a bunch of needy men that either were jealous of me, or wanted what material things they could get from me. They would come to me speaking sweet words of love, etc., but at the end of the day, they were only interested in material things and what I could do for them. I can do bad all by myself; I don't need any help!
What is sad is when a man put everything on you and then calls you a control freak!! 33 years now divorced!! Couldn’t handle the stress I was under. Not to mention I was battling stage 4 cancer at the time with no support!! I have now found my strength and confidence again.
I would never clean my kids rooms, it is their room. I now only have 1 son who is 21 and he does the laundry, washes the dishes and take care of the animals. I take naps as needed and on the weekends, I sleep in , which helps me to recharge. Children need to learn responsibility because I will not be here forever. And I will say when my youngest son, who is 18 was here, he didn't always clean his room, I didn't stress about it, but would close the door and then he finally realized he was going to have to clean his room if it was going to get clean because mom didn't do it and all 3 of my children are very responsible and can take care of themselves and don't have to depend on me, mom. Love your message.I absolutely love to learn new things and I hope when I finished my degree next April that I can take some of your techniques to help those in mental health.
A clean home is part of self care.women feel better to engage in self- care in a clean and inviting home atmosphere.it's not just about staying busy for many women.but your right the effort is not always worth losing your free time over. Thanks Stephen❤
I have had relationships and marriages that I thought were the one's that best fit me. I have now come to the conclusion that God has the right man for me and I am waiting for him.
A woman can show interest, but he needs to not bring negativity. Men who gossip, are dismissive to their woman, and unhealed (constant family drama/past relationships) lack emotional maturity. Laws of attraction will not keep them together. HEALING and therapy are essential nowadays. Too much crap going on in the world to be warring at home.
My guy kept bringing up negativity. I think he did not see it like that. I think he thought he was only helping but. It brought me to defending...it felt like he wanted to control me. Like my father maybe. Idk. .
That’s a feminine male (which is the majority of black American males) raised by a single mommy. A woman cannot teach a male to be a man. Same way a man cannot teach a female how to be a woman.
In the past week, I have been approached by four men. Each walking in different masculine energy. I notice that the more I tap into my feminine the more of high value each men were/was. It's shocking too because after taking a class and watching videos on feminine energy, I just tried the steps and it worked. So now am I not only listening to your words Stephen, I am putting them into action😊😇🤗🤭❤. Pray for me💯.Praying for you everyday 🙏 as well. Keep up the good work! Also I have improved on my morning routine!!! Yay Meeee!!!!!
That's so true, I was confident, stroked his ego, loving, attemtive etc, etc, etc, therefore he must have been the wrong man for me because it did not work.
People in general, respond to a good leader. If someone asks an opinion and never takes suggestions, it feels like not being heard. Using the insights and input with discernment is the key. Personally, I prefer joint decision making for things that will effect me and the relationship. I also enjoy his input and insight into decisions I need to make that are for my path that doesn’t effect him other than knowing he is trusted to have good intentions for guidance
Hello sweetest, I don't mean to intrude your privacy, I came across your profile while going through comments here, I must admit I did stare at your profile for a long time you are looking really good,I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this channel .I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊
Dating is way more fun and different now that I’m applying what I’ve been learning. I tolerate no Bull stuff and I’m approachable. Im so thankful for these videos as well as God, eating by blood type, and support from other women whom I admire. These tips are appreciated.
I’ve been watching your videos when they pop in my feed, but didn’t subscribe or commit until today. I’m happily married and watch, because I want to stay that way. I’ve struggled with the first two things you mention, because I was diagnosed with MS a couple of years ago and use mobility aids and can no longer do many things that I used to find my identity in. I’m learning to embrace my femininely and find confidence in my identity in Christ and not what I can DO.
Honor each other. Important for grown UP MAN & WOMAN. DISCUSS PLANS. HONOR IS ESSENTIAL. LISTEN TO EACH OTHER EQUALLY. IMPORTANT. HONOR EACH OTHERS OPINIONS. ESSENTIAL.
This guy is so great at putting out the truth. I'm Muslim and I listen take and appreciate his advice. It all sounds good to me 😊👍. May God/Allaah bless you for all your good work. Aameen. Thanks.
Let's continue tomorrow I have an appointment to a medical mission cleaning our teeth together with my daughter at 7:am . I appreciate so much some excitement I felt in seeing or listening in your coaching sir Stephan I'm hoping you alway give time or in your available time for not bored I enjoy in your communication sometimes you joke that can make us laugh and very grateful and thankful some movement even a little can make a timing or tuning in your vlog sometimes wrong button I'm hoping it may continues step by step to move forward ok thanks again and God bless to us! Stay safe always and be strong!
God bless you Precious Stephan, what a joy it is to listen attentively as you are speaking Great truths on both sides of the spectrum. May The Great Holy Spirit continue to Empower you Abundantly with more Of our Gods Anointing. You are truly being a blessing to all who take the time to listen and apply these Great Principles and Fruitful Seeds to their lives. You are differently and Amazing Man and don't you ever forget that. As I stated in some of my other comments, my prayer for you is that Our God blesses you with the women He has chosen for you. And that God blesses your Precious Soul with ALL of your hearts desires so that the two of you may Walk out the Greater Assignments and Purpose He has Ordained for you all way before the foundation of the earth, according to His Perfect Timing, Will and Order in The Miraculous and On Time Name of Jesus. Always Love Almeta ❤💥🙏🏿🔥😘
Hey Sweet Butter Cake, have anyone ever told you how beautiful you are? oh I look at your picture and I believe that there's God because only God could have created a woman as beautiful as you are. I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this website.I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊
Stephan you said it right. You must find positivity within yourself to exude it on the outside. Let me just add it can't be Forced Out it Must be Allowed to be Released to come out through your Willingness and Ability to be your own True Self, so find WHO that is and be true to it. 💯❤️
All Major decisions that impact a household need to be discussed and hopefully agreed upon. For instance, my husband wants to build a new business building that is about 300k for everything. We also need a newer house. He wants to build the business first and then buy the house when he can. The thing is this impacts both of us as far as the final decision.
Good Sunday the video was very helpful for me and yes I'm now in touch with my feminine side more than ever I used to be very masculine LOL I'm beautiful smart and intelligent confident but men were afraid of me believe it or not little old my point is I resonate with the video I'm more in touch with my feminine side I get asked out all the time and I'm not even going to big places just the grocery washateria etc now knowing exactly who I am I can stand in my power and be more relaxed it took me time to get there but I'm grateful I'm there😇😍💃🙌
This all this....I just came full circle last night on this very topic 1:40 . I was hurting myself over a man I care for but love is questionable. Ive been in question far too long and not handling my life correctly. I knew I needed to move on but in reality what was I even movin on from when this man professed to be nothing more than a friend. 🤷🏾♀️
I've listened to quite a lot of your videos which truly enhanced my ability to become able to decipher knowledge & or rather look at the opposite of the coin that's applicable to my relationship . Thank you for presenting such great viewpoints
Wise words of Wisdom ☯ TY for keeping it real Intentional communication is essential in a successful relationship Active & open listening without interruption Learn to give the benefit of the doubt, innocent until proven guilty Being mindful of a Positive outlook & receptive perspective Persuade without dictation, inspire or motivate with feminine energy Its not what you say but how you say it, be mindful of your tone of voice the words you choose and how it will come across, ya catch more flies with honey instead of vinegar. Exude your femininity to balance your masculine energy that can be off putting to men. Finding balance ☯ Self Care standards is self honouring & discerning Self care structure provides effective time & energy management Attentive, considerate, supportive & nurturing energy feeds a man soul Peaceful, joyful, lighthearted fun energy is fun and enjoyable to be around Surrendering to allow your man to lead, trusting his direction and appreciating him getting you where you want to be.
👌🏾Agreed 10000000%.... One thing that is a TURN OFF is negative energy!!!!!! And I Love CONFIDENCE!!!!! And consistency is SEXY!!!!. Side note, I have an ex(RIP) That want to my mother to talk to her about me and told her..... I'm too nice. Always happy. He thought I was cheating because I didn't question him about things.... Some people are not ready for Confident women!
Very thoughtful points, no master piece missing here. Thank you for a lot of time you spent for introspection and reading then to deliver all that to us women. Lots to practice 🙏
Peace and blessings, family as a woman who values herself, I have no issue embracing my feminine energy. By doing so, I enable my partner to embody his masculine energy, thereby demonstrating trust, respect, and the ideal balance of harmony.
Are there men above 40 still into celibacy 😪. I listen to you and am getting knowledge on how to carry myself. Sometimes I see myself in your messages and laugh at the glaring mistakes of yester year😂. The biggest issue I find is meeting new people with similar belief systems. Any tips ?
Hello sweetest, I don't mean to intrude your privacy, I came across your profile while going through comments here, I must admit I did stare at your profile for a long time you are looking really good,I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this channel .I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you stephen. I will do that once this man decides to stop ignoring my messages..I'll hear him out tell him how I feel and make a healthy desicion from there. Thank you for replying I appreciate it.
This is everything I do just how I am this must be why everyone says im a good women n just love me u really. Helped me heal n feel im 100%/ready n im doing things right thank you
Thank you. I do tend to attract married men and I now understand why. I also despise men who are married and attempt to get with me for whatever reason. And I let it be known that if they don’t want trouble in their marriage they need to go home and hug their wife and treat her well because they may never find anyone else who will put up with their bs. Sometimes it works and sometimes I have to be harsher. It is sad when there are women who “accept their role as the side hoe”.
Obedient MAN IS A GOOD MAN. GROW UP. HONOR EACH OTHER & COMMUNICATION TALK OVER PLANS. TALK OVER. COMMUNICATION. PEACE IS NEEDED. HONOR IS NEEDED. IMPORTANT
I really enjoy and learn a lot from your videos. Thank you. I don't see the link below. I tried to look up the website you said in the video still can't find. Can you help please?.
Hello sweetest, I don't mean to intrude your privacy, I came across your profile while going through comments here, I must admit I did stare at your profile for a long time you are looking really good,I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this channel .I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊
Let's continue tomorrow I'm sleepy ok I appreciate so much listening in your coaching but I'm looking forward for the transcript to write down if may be for clarification and very grateful and thankful to have you all always in this same page defended me whatever disastrous happening in my life. Thanks again. Stay strong always and keep safe. Good late night!
Men points and advices are valued as well but it doesn’t mean we have to do what they stated, we appreciate it but just as you said “There thoughts are valued but that doesn’t mean we have to do as they say”
Ok so stoke his ego…. Compliment him and do all the things in number three however then he becomes cocky…. Big headed, conceited, because of your positive energy…. And then thinks he’s better than you….. what’s that all about?????
Hahaha.. I am a bit horrible at convincing that I end up crying because I can't really explain my view properly that some times I find myself getting annoyed and not trusting that person with my idea and I do it myself which then makes me one who has shut them out of my thing... I am definitely going to have to work on my communication skills.
I don't know what's happened with one girl. I saw her eye signals to me. I approached her. We started talking sometimes on her work place when I come. At once meanwhile I found out she has a boyfriend. Before my approaching I heard from her she hasn't boyfriend. She is very kind, smiling, friendly to me. Constantly she asked me something about me, what I do, what's up new in my life, very curious. This is very sweet from her. I am positively surprised.
Please be specific about the control because some men don't understand that the purpose of loving one another is understanding each other love language. Some men feel like once they get into a relationship they know what you need so they tell you how you need to be loved. That totally contradicts the topic. I agree in allowing him to make some decisions so that it takes some responsibility off of me. Masculine and feminine energy is reallll...
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The yes man? I would be in L.ove more when he say no no problem in love still .no disrespect about that depends on the individual, both communicate And being there for one another accept what is right or okay . listen ING and peace let one be them selves they may need confirmation to what it is they Re doing accept ur resource or help to make a
decision on to what it Is that he or she wants and need to do. Does not have to be do what I said or exact what one said relationship check sounds good. Communion. Updates. Real. Good. I said keep. Bounding throughout the relationship . Thanks to that One
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Sooooo true. Sometimes the man you want may not be the man who is actually good for you OR simply, a comparability issue. That does not make him or you bad. You just are not your best selves in that kind of relationship together. 🤷🏻♀️
You're absolutely right!
Whewww facts
Absolutely correct
I’m a witness, very true statement
@Adamu Muhammed Thank you for the kind wish, however, I think it is best if he stays an ex, no matter how much we loved eachother, a bad match may just be that
I firmly believe in no games, no lies, no drama, no secrets. That works best for me, and I have a high quality man who loves me dearly.
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that, thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤
This has taught me to be honest with myself and that I want a man that is a provider and allows me to sit peaceful in my feminine energy . I can take care of myself but I would love a masculine man that protects and provides . I am going to pray on it . Thank you . No more entertaining men I'm either not attracted to on all levels or who are everything BUT providers lol.
You gone be praying for a long time, ain't no grown man gone take care of a grown woman.
@@HesoRello There are plenty . I'm just looking to secure my bag so I have my own sense of security regardless. I am also celibate which weeds them out pretty fast. The only part of that I agree with are the pseudo-providers that are actually on power trips, abusers or controlling . There are many men that were raised properly to protect and provide but feminism and thinking " toxic masculinity " actually exists as programmed men to contain their masculine attributes and women to behave like men. I dont do that.
Yes!
@@HesoRello There are plenty if a woman knows how to be a woman without the nasty attitude
@@HesoRello there out there,I was with one for 18yrs until he passed away,he didn't want me to work and wanted to take care of me
I love when a man is loyal to his mother. ☀️🌺
Don’t put your focus on the wrong things because if you get a person you THINK you want, you will miss out on the person who will be truly best for you 🙏
You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
Well Said 🎯 be mindful of what you really want with self honesty
I love the idea of a communication night! That is a gem!
Communication is definitely key, I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!
It’s so important to be open to listening to your partner. I had to learn this years ago. Listening doesn’t mean just hearing to have a response but really taking into consideration what the other person is saying and truly gaining an understanding of their input.
You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤
I always say ppl listen but do they actually comprehend what's being spoken thats the question
😊 54:09 œ@@MeetStephanSpeaks
Being confident, self sufficient, wealthy, debt free has only gotten me a bunch of needy men that either were jealous of me, or wanted what material things they could get from me. They would come to me speaking sweet words of love, etc., but at the end of the day, they were only interested in material things and what I could do for them.
I can do bad all by myself; I don't need any help!
Attributes men love in women
1. Confidence
2. Positive energy
RESPECTFUL
Feminism
Open-Minded
Attentive
Humorous
Cooperative
"Are you fighting to be heard? Or are you fighting to be obeyed?" THAT'S THE KNOCK OUT QUESTION RIGHT THERE! KAPOW!
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What is sad is when a man put everything on you and then calls you a control freak!! 33 years now divorced!! Couldn’t handle the stress I was under. Not to mention I was battling stage 4 cancer at the time with no support!! I have now found my strength and confidence again.
I'm sorry to hear about that, but I'm glad you are now on a path to healing 🙌❤
Sounds like he wasn’t the right one for you from the beginning. I pray you are healed.
May God continue to strengthen and heal you... Spiritually, Mentally, Emotionally, Physically, Financially.. in Jesus name.. Amen..⚘ B BLESSED ⚘
God bless you!
I am just learning how to accept and walk in my femininity!!!!!! It is scary but yet eye opening🤗
I would never clean my kids rooms, it is their room. I now only have 1 son who is 21 and he does the laundry, washes the dishes and take care of the animals. I take naps as needed and on the weekends, I sleep in , which helps me to recharge. Children need to learn responsibility because I will not be here forever. And I will say when my youngest son, who is 18 was here, he didn't always clean his room, I didn't stress about it, but would close the door and then he finally realized he was going to have to clean his room if it was going to get clean because mom didn't do it and all 3 of my children are very responsible and can take care of themselves and don't have to depend on me, mom. Love your message.I absolutely love to learn new things and I hope when I finished my degree next April that I can take some of your techniques to help those in mental health.
A clean home is part of self care.women feel better to engage in self- care in a clean and inviting home atmosphere.it's not just about staying busy for many women.but your right the effort is not always worth losing your free time over. Thanks Stephen❤
A clean home feels good.
I have had relationships and marriages that I thought were the one's that best fit me. I have now come to the conclusion that God has the right man for me and I am waiting for him.
A woman can show interest, but he needs to not bring negativity. Men who gossip, are dismissive to their woman, and unhealed (constant family drama/past relationships) lack emotional maturity. Laws of attraction will not keep them together. HEALING and therapy are essential nowadays. Too much crap going on in the world to be warring at home.
You are absolutely right, healing is definitely key!
My guy kept bringing up negativity. I think he did not see it like that. I think he thought he was only helping but. It brought me to defending...it felt like he wanted to control me. Like my father maybe. Idk.
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That’s a feminine male (which is the majority of black American males) raised by a single mommy. A woman cannot teach a male to be a man. Same way a man cannot teach a female how to be a woman.
The REAL power of a man
is in the size of the smile
of the woman sitting next to him.
Super valuable video, you are doing God's work Stephan.
❤ 🙂 thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback!
👏👏👏
Nailed it!
Thank you for your guidance and true understanding of men and woman clarity is golden
In the past week, I have been approached by four men. Each walking in different masculine energy. I notice that the more I tap into my feminine the more of high value each men were/was. It's shocking too because after taking a class and watching videos on feminine energy, I just tried the steps and it worked. So now am I not only listening to your words Stephen, I am putting them into action😊😇🤗🤭❤. Pray for me💯.Praying for you everyday 🙏 as well. Keep up the good work! Also I have improved on my morning routine!!! Yay Meeee!!!!!
Glad to hear that, thank you for sharing 🙏
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Until a man is fully satisfied with a woman he will never see past his own selfish interest!💯
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
That's so true, I was confident, stroked his ego, loving, attemtive etc, etc, etc, therefore he must have been the wrong man for me because it did not work.
🙌🏼👏🏻 ❤️I love your talent Stephan!
People in general, respond to a good leader. If someone asks an opinion and never takes suggestions, it feels like not being heard. Using the insights and input with discernment is the key. Personally, I prefer joint decision making for things that will effect me and the relationship. I also enjoy his input and insight into decisions I need to make that are for my path that doesn’t effect him other than knowing he is trusted to have good intentions for guidance
Most definitely!
Being myself brings me the man thats best for me! Thank you. !
Hello sweetest, I don't mean to intrude your privacy, I came across your profile while going through comments here, I must admit I did stare at your profile for a long time you are looking really good,I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this channel .I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊
Dating is way more fun and different now that I’m applying what I’ve been learning. I tolerate no Bull stuff and I’m approachable. Im so thankful for these videos as well as God, eating by blood type, and support from other women whom I admire. These tips are appreciated.
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
Have it. (Confidence) It still attracts some who want just what they want Stephan, you know what I mean. Your content is great! 💕
🙏 I hope this video has been helpful to you!
Hi Stephan
Have a great and blessed day ❤️
❤ 🙂 Thank you very much and may you have a great and blessed day as well!
Great job explaining 👏👏👏👏👏👏thanks again keep it coming
Glad you enjoyed the video, I'll keep them coming ❤ be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I sure will
It's so true healthy relationship, leading love, leadership .....everyday I learn a lot and I correct my self you are Amazing person Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
My pleasure ❤
Positive speech Stephan, very interesting.
❤ 🙂 thank you!
You give advice that makes so much sense. Thank you!
My pleasure ❤ don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing
I’ve been watching your videos when they pop in my feed, but didn’t subscribe or commit until today.
I’m happily married and watch, because I want to stay that way.
I’ve struggled with the first two things you mention, because I was diagnosed with MS a couple of years ago and use mobility aids and can no longer do many things that I used to find my identity in.
I’m learning to embrace my femininely and find confidence in my identity in Christ and not what I can DO.
Honor each other. Important for grown UP MAN & WOMAN. DISCUSS PLANS. HONOR IS ESSENTIAL. LISTEN TO EACH OTHER EQUALLY.
IMPORTANT. HONOR EACH OTHERS OPINIONS.
ESSENTIAL.
This guy is so great at putting out the truth. I'm Muslim and I listen take and appreciate his advice. It all sounds good to me 😊👍. May God/Allaah bless you for all your good work. Aameen. Thanks.
Let's continue tomorrow I have an appointment to a medical mission cleaning our teeth together with my daughter at 7:am . I appreciate so much some excitement I felt in seeing or listening in your coaching sir Stephan I'm hoping you alway give time or in your available time for not bored I enjoy in your communication sometimes you joke that can make us laugh and very grateful and thankful some movement even a little can make a timing or tuning in your vlog sometimes wrong button I'm hoping it may continues step by step to move forward ok thanks again and God bless to us! Stay safe always and be strong!
God bless you Precious Stephan, what a joy it is to listen attentively as you are speaking Great truths on both sides of the spectrum. May The Great Holy Spirit continue to Empower you Abundantly with more Of our Gods Anointing. You are truly being a blessing to all who take the time to listen and apply these Great Principles and Fruitful Seeds to their lives. You are differently and Amazing Man and don't you ever forget that. As I stated in some of my other comments, my prayer for you is that Our God blesses you with the women He has chosen for you. And that God blesses your Precious Soul with ALL of your hearts desires so that the two of you may Walk out the Greater Assignments and Purpose He has Ordained for you all way before the foundation of the earth, according to His Perfect Timing, Will and Order in The Miraculous and On Time Name of Jesus.
Always Love Almeta
❤💥🙏🏿🔥😘
Hey Sweet Butter Cake, have anyone ever told you how beautiful you are? oh I look at your picture and I believe that there's God because only God could have created a woman as beautiful as you are. I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this website.I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊
Great topic! Thank you for educating me! You’re an angel! GOD BLESS YOUR HEART❣️🙏🏽❤️
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 and may God bless your heart as well!
Stephan you said it right. You must find positivity within yourself to exude it on the outside. Let me just add it can't be Forced Out it Must be Allowed to be Released to come out through your Willingness and Ability to be your own True Self, so find WHO that is and be true to it. 💯❤️
As a divorcee...I agree 1000%! Not one lie was told.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Ahh we need more of u!!!!!!! 💜
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
Stephan's videos are my morning espresso. I love listening to these when working
Lordy, truth hit me in multiple ways. Thank you for amazing insight with tactful delivery :)
Oh my….Mr. L. Many aren’t ready or Willing to receive this Truth. ✅ Great Messages here. 💯🥰🌸
I believe that a healthy relationship is equal and equality.
I totally agree with everything your saying. Thanks for explaining it the way you started this video.
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
Denng Stephan, you are speaking the truth! Thank you for your advice.
My pleasure ❤
I love to have my man too take control, that lets me know that he knows what he's doing, and I trust his suggestions on things
Your commentary on self care is on point. How I am loving your channel!
Thank you for this!!
All Major decisions that impact a household need to be discussed and hopefully agreed upon. For instance, my husband wants to build a new business building that is about 300k for everything. We also need a newer house. He wants to build the business first and then buy the house when he can. The thing is this impacts both of us as far as the final decision.
Thank you! Great message.
Glad you enjoyed it thank you for your response and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
This film is an goldmine ❤🙏 thank you
My pleasure ❤
Good Sunday the video was very helpful for me and yes I'm now in touch with my feminine side more than ever I used to be very masculine LOL I'm beautiful smart and intelligent confident but men were afraid of me believe it or not little old my point is I resonate with the video I'm more in touch with my feminine side I get asked out all the time and I'm not even going to big places just the grocery washateria etc now knowing exactly who I am I can stand in my power and be more relaxed it took me time to get there but I'm grateful I'm there😇😍💃🙌
This all this....I just came full circle last night on this very topic 1:40 . I was hurting myself over a man I care for but love is questionable. Ive been in question far too long and not handling my life correctly. I knew I needed to move on but in reality what was I even movin on from when this man professed to be nothing more than a friend. 🤷🏾♀️
I've listened to quite a lot of your videos which truly enhanced my ability to become able to decipher knowledge & or rather look at the opposite of the coin that's applicable to my relationship . Thank you for presenting such great viewpoints
Great content! True Words!
Thank you Stephan. I'm finally moving on - I've found my confidence. 🙏❣
Wise words of Wisdom ☯ TY for keeping it real
Intentional communication is essential in a successful relationship
Active & open listening without interruption
Learn to give the benefit of the doubt, innocent until proven guilty
Being mindful of a Positive outlook & receptive perspective
Persuade without dictation, inspire or motivate with feminine energy
Its not what you say but how you say it, be mindful of your tone of voice
the words you choose and how it will come across, ya catch more flies with honey instead of vinegar. Exude your femininity to balance your masculine energy that can be off putting to men. Finding balance ☯
Self Care standards is self honouring & discerning
Self care structure provides effective time & energy management
Attentive, considerate, supportive & nurturing energy feeds a man soul
Peaceful, joyful, lighthearted fun energy is fun and enjoyable to be around
Surrendering to allow your man to lead, trusting his direction and appreciating him getting you where you want to be.
You're absolutely right, communication is definitely key, thank you for sharing!!
Salute bro I definitely share these videos in the salon I work at we he having these conversations in your videos are so on point on understanding
Absolutely. I can not manage to just be in the saying yes yes without expressing my own opinion. I might as well just die before I become that woman.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
👌🏾Agreed 10000000%.... One thing that is a TURN OFF is negative energy!!!!!! And I Love CONFIDENCE!!!!! And consistency is SEXY!!!!. Side note, I have an ex(RIP) That want to my mother to talk to her about me and told her..... I'm too nice. Always happy. He thought I was cheating because I didn't question him about things.... Some people are not ready for Confident women!
Good words.. Thank you...
My pleasure ❤
Accept ING. And embrace. Works both ways too in a sense too
Thanks for the info
Wow ! Great video with very useful information ... I've learnt a lot as I need to lower my masculine energy level.
Indeed, it really helps when you embrace that!
Very thoughtful points, no master piece missing here. Thank you for a lot of time you spent for introspection and reading then to deliver all that to us women. Lots to practice 🙏
Peace and blessings, family as a woman who values herself, I have no issue embracing my feminine energy. By doing so, I enable my partner to embody his masculine energy, thereby demonstrating trust, respect, and the ideal balance of harmony.
Powerful, very helpful nuggets for true
I do enjoy your perspectives and observations!
Are there men above 40 still into celibacy 😪. I listen to you and am getting knowledge on how to carry myself. Sometimes I see myself in your messages and laugh at the glaring mistakes of yester year😂. The biggest issue I find is meeting new people with similar belief systems. Any tips ?
Agreed 💯
Excellent video! Very educational and informative! ❤❤❤💯
Hello sweetest, I don't mean to intrude your privacy, I came across your profile while going through comments here, I must admit I did stare at your profile for a long time you are looking really good,I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this channel .I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊
Great teaching!!!!
Love Leadership and Control aren't the same.
I hope someone sees this message..do you call a man out on his behaviour or do you just away..what is the best outcome here?
Address that in a calm loving positive manner and let him know how you feel about that!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you stephen. I will do that once this man decides to stop ignoring my messages..I'll hear him out tell him how I feel and make a healthy desicion from there. Thank you for replying I appreciate it.
Shonuff! Showing interest n flirting really peeks a man’s interest
This is everything I do just how I am this must be why everyone says im a good women n just love me u really. Helped me heal n feel im 100%/ready n im doing things right thank you
Glad I could help!
Thank you. I do tend to attract married men and I now understand why. I also despise men who are married and attempt to get with me for whatever reason. And I let it be known that if they don’t want trouble in their marriage they need to go home and hug their wife and treat her well because they may never find anyone else who will put up with their bs. Sometimes it works and sometimes I have to be harsher. It is sad when there are women who “accept their role as the side hoe”.
Stephan I just did that tonight...showing interest...let's see where that takes me.
You are 💯💯💯💯 Thank you soooo much!! 🙏🏼💕😉
This is all 100% accurate!!
Love this right very well know how to talk to one another so true
Great tips Steph ❤😍
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
Obedient MAN IS A GOOD MAN. GROW UP. HONOR EACH OTHER & COMMUNICATION TALK OVER PLANS. TALK OVER.
COMMUNICATION. PEACE IS NEEDED. HONOR IS NEEDED. IMPORTANT
I really enjoy and learn a lot from your videos. Thank you.
I don't see the link below. I tried to look up the website you said in the video still can't find. Can you help please?.
Hello sweetest, I don't mean to intrude your privacy, I came across your profile while going through comments here, I must admit I did stare at your profile for a long time you are looking really good,I give Thanks to God For coming across your lovely profile on this channel .I am Crosby and i will be so happy if you could reply my message..thank you sweets 😊
@@johnwheeler5819 hi??? Are you Crosby or John Wheeler...Thank you for your sweet compliments.
Honor each other!!!
Thank you 🙏
Yes.. I agree with the quote.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
I have a sign in the house that says “Sweetness of speech increases persuasiveness”
What you said in this video was spot on and amazing, Stephan 😁🤩😎!!!!
Teach Brother! Aerve each other! Everyone!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Let's continue tomorrow I'm sleepy ok I appreciate so much listening in your coaching but I'm looking forward for the transcript to write down if may be for clarification and very grateful and thankful to have you all always in this same page defended me whatever disastrous happening in my life. Thanks again. Stay strong always and keep safe. Good late night!
Always ask God 🙏
💯 yes!
Men points and advices are valued as well but it doesn’t mean we have to do what they stated, we appreciate it but just as you said “There thoughts are valued but that doesn’t mean we have to do as they say”
Ok so stoke his ego…. Compliment him and do all the things in number three however then he becomes cocky…. Big headed, conceited, because of your positive energy…. And then thinks he’s better than you….. what’s that all about?????
First u need to Stay away from narcissist immature men.
I experienced this.
Yes you have to recognize what type I f man you are dealing with before you "cast you pearls before swine".
Listen to all of what he says.
I’m glad this was in your spirit 🙏🏽💙
🙏 Thank you!
Hahaha.. I am a bit horrible at convincing that I end up crying because I can't really explain my view properly that some times I find myself getting annoyed and not trusting that person with my idea and I do it myself which then makes me one who has shut them out of my thing...
I am definitely going to have to work on my communication skills.
I don't know what's happened with one girl. I saw her eye signals to me. I approached her. We started talking sometimes on her work place when I come. At once meanwhile I found out she has a boyfriend. Before my approaching I heard from her she hasn't boyfriend. She is very kind, smiling, friendly to me. Constantly she asked me something about me, what I do, what's up new in my life, very curious. This is very sweet from her. I am positively surprised.
I told my lover how I felt after 5 years n he texted me and we went and had a good time just like we do he dint back off or runaway
Amen! Thank you!
Please be specific about the control because some men don't understand that the purpose of loving one another is understanding each other love language. Some men feel like once they get into a relationship they know what you need so they tell you how you need to be loved. That totally contradicts the topic. I agree in allowing him to make some decisions so that it takes some responsibility off of me. Masculine and feminine energy is reallll...