If you’re wondering how long the relationship with the narc will go on for
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- Опубліковано 21 жов 2024
- Narcissists are like parasites and will never let go, if possible, of their victims. #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic
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Crying, screaming, fighting, cursing, sitting and having long drawn out conversations and telling them how bad they're making you feel is liquid gold to them! It gives them tremendous amounts of energy. They simply gobble it up and use it to love bomb someone else and cheat on you🤷🏾♀️
And your so horrible to them !
Oh my, so much this. They use it as justification to cheat on you, often in cruel ways.
They're scum they really are, but I choose to forgive them.
You are correct. They’re sick beyond comprehension.
I think because they go into relationships for validation/supply and they are self centered and many lack empathy, when you are telling them how much they hurt you, they don’t really feel bad for you or relate to you like a non narcissistic person would. When you are telling them they hurt you, they just view it as further proof in their minds you are the bad one for making them feel bad about themselves and you are not the idealized partner they thought you were during the love bombing phase. Their perfect partner would never be upset with them. So they will say you drove them to cheat later on. The only role you serve in these relationships is to fluff up their ego. They will seek out validation/supply from others, instead of work on the relationship/themselves. The relationship is always one sided. They can’t or won’t validate your feelings. If they have been incredibly hurtful, they already have been devaluing you in their minds.
Yes, true. The level of not caring about hurting you emotionally is incomprehensible. They keep hurting you non stop, it is terrifying how a human being can not care about hurting other human being. They kill the relationship by a thousand small cuts which drain the life force out of you.
So true, the narcissist would have empathy for totally strangers but not for anyone close to them.
Facts
I'm realizing this
Empath learns to stop giving people that don't deserve it from them.
"Its not exhausting for them with no empathy". For sure. It's fuel.
Anyone can pretend to be nice, sad, however NO ONE pretends to be hurtful and horrid, 😄🤸
That’s one of truest things someone could say
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 so well put ✌🏻
I remember the first time I confronted my husband for withdrawing his affection. Literally, the day after we were married and he had a lifeless look on his face, like nothing is there. I knew something was wrong and did torment myself for the first few years. Finally discovering the reason for his behavior has been liberating.
I def thought I could make him love me enough to change. Of course, I found out otherwise after 3.5 yrs of hell and misery
Same!!! Was married for 3.5 years as well but dated for 5 years. The whole time I knew something was wrong but I wanted to have faith that people could change and at one point I thought she was changing and working herself, and then found out it was all a facade and was in fact a narcissist!
good idea....thank's.....I will buy a lottery ticket 🙂
It will go on as long as you allow it to.
Reality check: Evil is a real thing,& a narcissist is evil at heart.
That's why your misery is their "supply" , imo.
Only God can conquer evil!
This is so true. They will always come back to hurt you
That’s what I did, thought if I loved him enough he would heal!
They don’t heal. They don’t even understand that word.
Yeah same. And yeah right !!
I love how you put these people in their place. Your channel saved me! I would have continue giving her chances hoping she's going to change one day
She won't. Accept it. Nothing to do with you. Remember she chose you because you are good looking or highly intelligent or both. Social media has distorted her value. Her ego is the problem. If she gets too much in her ego, the really low vibrational beings will be attracted. That's where this gets really ugly. Get out while you can.
as long as you are willing to be the super empath doormat for the narcissist, the relation-shit could last for multiple lifetimes lol 😆
Hi thanks. And how about if you are super galactic nova sigma empath?
@passerby6168 if that's the case, consider yourself an heirloom for the narcissist, to be passed on from generation to generation lol 😆
@@carparthero lol
@passerby6168 it's funny for me because i got two mental shit-kickings before earning my stripes.
it's also funny for me when i see and hear people in-person or around the way on the net, that after all the signals are there, and with all the education available on YT, still living in denial while the narc gleefully continues to take full advantage of people. 🤷♂️
You’re 100 percent correct! If it ever ends, it’s up to you.
True, the projection source, it doesn't matter who they are. Which means we can still be who we are. And why not.
Some people like me I waiting until my daughter is 16 or 17 so so she won’t have go live with him after time we want to go no contact I want to go no contact. I’m protecting her from him right now when I divorce him he will have no to dump his crap on but her she 15 she see what’ve does she know what he like I don’t want him a ruin her chances of getting in a good schools my daughter works hard at school he will try to destroy her life she’s 17 or 16 she could tell a judge I don’t wanna go live with him and actually somebody might listen to her. I sure don’t stay will him because I want to he has made me sick I just hope I can get better after I leave him
🙏for you and your daughter. Stay strong 💪🏻
Mega spot on!
I really enjoy your content, it should be longer videos. you are very well spoken.
The things you've said are always on my mind. Thank you Dani!!
My Ex would have me begging and pleading and would threaten to call the Police or even pretend to call the Police if I didn't leave. Then when I did the same thing 9n another occasion he'd give me love and affection. Is it any wonder I became Trauma-Bonded and confused etc?? 🍒
How about 36 years!!
Anytime is TOO long
Brilliant Danielle they don't care about us empathic people truth teller's the thing is when we say or tell them something,they no were telling them that's how it was,they try to look for other ways of how it could be,but deep down they no we were telling them the truth, 🌹
All this is 💯 true 🥂
What if it was vice versa.wvm and not mvw.
1:00 like an emotional btk...
Just study the Ted Bundy case.