Dating, Texting & Messaging In Between Dates

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  • How to handle dating, texting and messaging in-between dates, especially when you already have dates set.
    In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who met a girl he has been seeing for the past six weeks on a dating app. He shares details of their physical interactions when they are together as well as some of their texting and social media messaging when they are not. Her interest in him is obviously very high, but he is unsure of himself and how to handle her ever-increasing frequency of messaging even when they already have dates set. He’s worried about her getting bored and talking and texting too much on the phone instead of in person.
    “As a woman becomes comfortable and feels safer in your presence the longer you are together, and as long as her interest is growing, her attraction and attention seeking will increase. This is because as a woman’s romantic attraction for you grows, so will her desire to bond, connect, talk and spend time together more frequently. This is feminine energy. That is why when guys behave this way and start over-texting, messaging and talking on the phone too much, they are acting like feminine women and it starts to turn women off because it ruins the sexual polarity. Men who can’t or won’t exercise emotional self control eventually get ghosted, rejected, friend-zoned and/or start being told by the women they are seeing that they are confused, not ready for a relationship, need time to work on themselves, get their life together, etc. It’s always better if a woman thinks that she likes you more than you like her. If she is always chasing you, you simply never have to worry about getting dumped.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 153

  • @melvin-fitnessproductrevie7082
    @melvin-fitnessproductrevie7082 3 роки тому +314

    It's important to always be happy to hear from her. Never ignore a woman who reaches out to you. Sometimes they just want to talk about their day or how excited they are to see you again. Like Coach says - you are her rock, you are her mountain. I've actually gotten blown off in the past for being too cold and never wanting to talk between dates. If she initiates, you just reciprocate and be happy to hear from her.

    • @spaghettipotsucka2532
      @spaghettipotsucka2532 3 роки тому +4

      I asked someone out and they said “I could see you Wednesday I think😙” what the hell does that mean

    • @worldogameplays
      @worldogameplays 3 роки тому +61

      @@spaghettipotsucka2532 It means she's available on wednesday.

    • @melvin-fitnessproductrevie7082
      @melvin-fitnessproductrevie7082 3 роки тому +27

      @@spaghettipotsucka2532 set up a definite time & place

    • @spaghettipotsucka2532
      @spaghettipotsucka2532 3 роки тому +3

      @@melvin-fitnessproductrevie7082 but she said I think

    • @audiomovies9238
      @audiomovies9238 3 роки тому +20

      @@spaghettipotsucka2532 dude don‘t overthink. As the others said, just set the time and location. Your good bro

  • @quotesfromtheboat
    @quotesfromtheboat 3 роки тому +122

    His girl sounds awesome. My girlfriend of 4 months is all over me every time we're together. With the help of 3% man and Corey's videos, I've let go of any needy, beta behaviour and just trust in the process. It's never failed me.
    Keep being awesome guys and thanks Coach!

  • @VinceUOIT
    @VinceUOIT Рік тому +17

    I’m happy if she’s in my life I’m happy if she’s not in my life! The right people, girl, etc. will want to be in your life! Gentlemen don’t lose sight of this. Lose the sense of control and just go with the flow and you’ll be surprised with the outcomes 😉

  • @strausskarlaaa3221
    @strausskarlaaa3221 3 роки тому +113

    Wake up, listen to Corey in the background as you're making your breakfast. good.

    • @Xeando
      @Xeando 3 роки тому +5

      Same here bro 12h later. Isn't that amazing

    • @johnzachariasrealtor7906
      @johnzachariasrealtor7906 3 роки тому +4

      During morning meal prep every time!

    • @TwIsTeDTeDDy177
      @TwIsTeDTeDDy177 3 роки тому +2

      Hahaha I was doing exactly this while waiting for my date to come downstairs... All I have to say is thanks Corey!

    • @jonkybeats
      @jonkybeats 3 роки тому

      All day everyday

    • @colt7678
      @colt7678 2 роки тому

      Good anakin

  • @slobo5568
    @slobo5568 Рік тому +7

    coach your the man.. 2nd date last night and got 1st place in the indoor olympics.. texted me when she got home at 2AM saying she hopes to see me again.. I slow myself down from over texting.. Keep things short - and set the next date. clock work

  • @2fnbad675
    @2fnbad675 3 роки тому +35

    I've read Coreys book atleast 10 times ( audible ) , plus supplement with videos everyday. Either at work or in the car daily.
    He's opened my eyes , I think every guy is guilty of being in a state of fear and over pursuing. Even though I'm in a relationship I still practice Coreys principles as if I'm still dating my girl. Don't get complacent.

  • @thomasglover92
    @thomasglover92 3 роки тому +11

    I love this elaboration on the book. The book is great! I've listened to it over 10 times but I a couple of.hears ago I treated it like a rigid rule book. This will be a great help to a lot of guys

  • @Kevin-sq7nm
    @Kevin-sq7nm 3 роки тому +7

    Samba Wayne,
    I’m so glad you did a article on this, definitely something that makes more clarity on the pursuit in the beginning stages of dating. Different women have different levels of attaching themselves to a man based on their initial level of interest. It’s best respond appropriately to whatever level you’re experiencing. Thanks for this article. Keep up the positive influence in the world. Mad love for you my friend. 😎

  • @JimmyJaxJellyStax
    @JimmyJaxJellyStax Рік тому +5

    Texting is a terrible aspect of dating today compared to when people used to phone call each other in those early stages that provided a much more authentic evaluation of connection and energy.

  • @wenisinvietnam
    @wenisinvietnam 3 роки тому +11

    This is such perfect timing for me

  • @evolvetravel1
    @evolvetravel1 3 роки тому +6

    Emotional (and physical) self control for the greatest pay off. Cool, sometimes you just need to hear it ;)

  • @Jen-fq1jz
    @Jen-fq1jz 3 роки тому +35

    This is so true. Ex came back in picture and asked me out… for a week from now. I said “Saturday works better if you have it open?” since I was hoping for a weekend day and I have one short opening then. He said, “sorry! All booked up till then.” Definitely raised my attraction and curiosity! I think he watches Corey… 😆

  • @priyanshkalkal
    @priyanshkalkal 3 роки тому +12

    Book a quote with 😂
    Please show the book a little on how it looks on your next video. Anyways, love your stuff man. Gonna finish the book 2nd time tommorow and start the 3rd read 🙃

  • @SurfGritFit
    @SurfGritFit 3 роки тому +3

    woooowee! I did not see the quotes book coming! It's awesome to come out of 2020 in a positive way with more material and content! 2020 was the year that REALLY separates the 3% man!

  • @Gurubu
    @Gurubu 11 місяців тому +3

    16:39 I love the mountain analogy!

  • @PizzlesTechTime
    @PizzlesTechTime 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for the video Corey! I'm a year in my most life exciting relationship I ever had. These videos keep me on my toes!

  • @mgomilar4318
    @mgomilar4318 7 днів тому

    I tell you one thing as a woman, it's a big turn off for a woman if she feels she is putting effort more and being vulnerable...needs to be mutual attraction and men can take a lead more initiative and not play the game to have her Chase him...with this attitude goodluck out there for a genuine relationship 😢😢Good I came across your video, makes me understand what are the red flags that guy is being a jerk and a player.. mostly all what you said in this video. Thank you

  • @JimmyJaxJellyStax
    @JimmyJaxJellyStax Рік тому +2

    If there are long delays or no responses in the first week - keep the cards open, keeping talking to other people.
    If she hasn't responded in hours or day(s) to your last text and the ball is clearly in her court, DON'T follow-up, talk to other people.
    9/10 the follow-up will turn them off (perhaps even piss them off) and there's already a significant chance the interest just isn't strong. If she's moody in the beginning already - time to get up and go... out of self respect. She comes crawling back weeks later... sorry, too late (if she was doing the ignoring before even getting to know you ).
    They may be too busy, confused, not ready - very genuine things in life - but ultimately they're still certainly not interested enough to float above these things. Perhaps they can't be interested enough yet with all the obstacles in life... same deal. It all bottoms down to the "being mutually interested" taking precedence and being real and free to occur.
    For guys - let the women choose and grow interest in you, don't try to make them (keep texts short and sweet, don't text more than them in the beginning). It goes back to our nature. Even female chimpanzees choose among multiple male chimpanzees, they do the choosing and multiple potential is in our nature for sure. Good things to keep in mind and not stress about.

  • @Eatmeatthereforeiam
    @Eatmeatthereforeiam 2 роки тому +19

    I've done everything almost by the book and I've got a woman who is behaving just like Corey says. We haven't even gone on our 1st date yet (this Saturday) and she's reaching out to me every day. It's weird and I like it because I'm indifferent. If she contacts me great, if she doesn't great. I am almost divorced (wife left) and this new female is prettier and smarter than the ex, and nicer. I'm hoping that I keep doing more things right than wrong because this gal is better than any female I've ever had. It's almost like the universe is conspiring with me to improve my life. I'm making more $$ than I've ever made too. My next step is to get my career moving in the right direction. Even though I'm making more $ than ever, I don't like my job.

  • @jaypietersen6093
    @jaypietersen6093 3 роки тому +7

    Some women want the call back after a text. My girlfriend comments on this at least once a month (been together 3 years) how she loves when I call back after she sends a text.She loves that I call instead of texting back even more so when she has to wait for my response. Think of yourself like a crack dealer.Not right away, don't drop everything. Even if we have a date set, as Coach points out after a point you are her rock. She just wants to hear your voice. Don't overdo it, and do playfully tease her about needing to hear your voice.

  • @MrJamiewilliams1
    @MrJamiewilliams1 3 роки тому +8

    Girls hated that we didn’t tx much before a date and they would cancel because we didn’t talk? I would tx her when she txed me. This has happened about 4\5 times

    • @jaymoney9643
      @jaymoney9643 Рік тому

      Do you think she would flake on Bad Bunny if he didn’t text between dates? No! You need to focus on making definite dates with women of medium to high interest.

  • @danjsilve
    @danjsilve 2 роки тому +2

    Great analogy with the mountain. I need to be a mountain. I am the mountain. Done. :-)

  • @alphainteractions3408
    @alphainteractions3408 3 роки тому +33

    Keep texting to a minimum during the dates. High value men let women do the texting and chasing.
    Irish Redpill Coach

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 2 роки тому +5

      High value women never pursue, they attract. Gentlemen you're acting as women now, prepare to be alone and single FOREVER. Congratulations, you're going your own way

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 Рік тому +2

      @@wdrumz you know, I once tried to be the woman that was doing the pursuing to prove I was not like the other women. Very quickly I learned that I was worth to be pursued and that men that want you, claim you, is about reciprocity of course. I can start with an inviting smile but never again approaching a man, unless circumstances allow it. Women that do the pursuing are with men that don't want them or are desperate. A beautiful woman or goddess energy always attracts the male.

    • @WLJ1287
      @WLJ1287 Рік тому

      @@marte1376 for sex not for a relationship

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 Рік тому

      @@WLJ1287 and why as a woman would I find convenient having sex with a loser that only wants that? I know perfectly you guys only want that. You're gonna pay for it first

  • @davidp2888
    @davidp2888 3 роки тому +36

    She should be initiating about 80-85% of the time. Make her miss you but don't ignore her.

    • @FloorXClean
      @FloorXClean 3 роки тому +10

      Lol not sure what age of women’s you are hanging out. But this young generation 80% chance that they wont start chatting with any guys... they are been treated like queen for so many simps

    • @StrongwNewman
      @StrongwNewman 3 роки тому +3

      @@MuhammadAliGOAT correction you all wrong. She's either into you or not. Never ignore women on purpose. You'll get blown off. Women will chase you have if deemed worthy of being chased.

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 2 роки тому +5

      Terrible advice. Women want to feel special and guys, a woman basically thinks all the way around, a man must be the leader and only she will show more interest if she feels safe with you but the moment she feels she's being taken for granted, the moment she disappears. Women are not chasers, that's from low effort dudes. Huge red flag if a man wants it

    • @patrickbateman4062
      @patrickbateman4062 Рік тому

      @@marte1376 If a man is making dates with you and seeing you consistently how is that not showing interest?

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 Рік тому +1

      @@patrickbateman4062 he must ask for it. It's not a good sign when men don't make first move and overall ask a woman out, very important in the beginning and specially if there's no label.

  • @RioShiroGaming
    @RioShiroGaming Рік тому

    Master of Women mind! Your the real G Corey 🤟

  • @kristenglamour4023
    @kristenglamour4023 3 роки тому +7

    Love the beard 👍🏾

  • @leeireland885
    @leeireland885 3 роки тому +16

    Best advice is if your date goes well, delete her number and all traces from your phone and that way, you can ruin it. That way she will always come to you because you can't message her even if you want to

    • @whatsupdog2727
      @whatsupdog2727 3 роки тому +6

      This is a funny joke 😂😂

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 2 роки тому +4

      Only do this if you didn't like the woman and want to let her go truly.

    • @SomeKindOfTease
      @SomeKindOfTease Рік тому +1

      This can be a big mistake.
      It's not an accurate science.

  • @lousunny5682
    @lousunny5682 3 роки тому +2

    Like this video!! So much fun.

  • @tyui10
    @tyui10 3 роки тому +3

    You’re a genius

  • @slvs7776
    @slvs7776 3 роки тому +3

    Just ordered your book👍

  • @carlaspinwall4247
    @carlaspinwall4247 Рік тому +1

    I have my insta set up that shows my interests. Doesn't give too much away. I just send the there. If they share the love of outdoors and fitness then they tend to stay. If they don't it's like pre selection in my favour as I don't want to be with someone lazy.

  • @arturzdebik8057
    @arturzdebik8057 3 роки тому +4

    Corey but if She text you everday even in sixth week, trying makeing this oportunity to meet each other more frequently will make her bored and slowly decay attraction isnt it? Women need Space and isolation form you, answering text with trying to hang out that much wont kill her attraction in long run?

    • @georgemcdougall7260
      @georgemcdougall7260 Рік тому

      This is what confuses me lol… what’s your update on this topic?

  • @RebelSyntax
    @RebelSyntax 3 роки тому +1

    I am at this point with an ex right now where I am just about to stop responding to her text. She is leaving me no choice ol flaky ass. Not making me a priority, putting me on the back burner etc etc.. She is definitely pushing me harder and harder into "friend zone". She admittedly stalks my face book, compliments me on how good I look etc etc.. She refuses to give me an opening to set definite date plans. Is totally not responsive to me suggesting she come over and tell me about the stuff she wants to text or talk to me about. It's getting to the point where I am losing all respect and attraction I had for her. Uggg.. wtf is wrong with women ffs...

  • @markm.j.lewandowskijr1171
    @markm.j.lewandowskijr1171 3 роки тому +5

    Mug idea "No Robot Zone"

  • @lestatvamp8865
    @lestatvamp8865 3 роки тому +1

    Right on time

  • @struttingbirdlofi
    @struttingbirdlofi 3 роки тому +2

    Dat mountain analogy tho...

  • @rah1735
    @rah1735 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @Felamily
    @Felamily 6 місяців тому

    should i like one of her storys?

  • @Anonymous-is2nl
    @Anonymous-is2nl 3 місяці тому

    So is it okay to text at all between dates?

  • @happygolucky9004
    @happygolucky9004 Рік тому +5

    "most women sleep with the guy by the second or third date" - not true. Most of the women I know don't feel comfortable doing that. Sex is very risky for women and someone who values their body will want to get to know the guy first.

    • @Rock545451
      @Rock545451 Рік тому +3

      Women you know is not representative of the population.
      He's pretty spot on and it's a good indicator. Barring extraordinary circumstances, if a woman isn't sleeping with you by the second or third date, it's actually a red flag that her sexual attraction isn't strong enough and she's possibly going to use the man as a provider.
      Men want to be with women that are so attracted to them that they will break these sorts of waiting rules. That's the point. And if you apply what the book teaches, then that's what will happen its women that have a high level of interest.

    • @happygolucky9004
      @happygolucky9004 Рік тому +4

      @@Rock545451 I think you are missing the point in that it's not a matter of a woman breaking "rules." It's about how comfortable she is and that getting to know someone takes time. A woman of good character wants to get to know a man before she sleeps with him regardless of how attractive she finds him. That's the difference between trying to just sleep with a woman and actually looking for a good relationship.

    • @Rock545451
      @Rock545451 Рік тому +2

      @Happy GoLucky self-imposed rules. Also, I reject the implied notion that a woman sleeping with a man on the second or third date is of poor character.
      And just because we sleep with a woman in that timeframe absolutely doesn't mean that we aren't looking for a relationship. The norm these days is that exclusivity and official status comes after sleeping together for a while. I don't know if you're in some third world country or whatever but that's how it is in the United States - at least the metropolitan areas here.
      The people I know and myself, our serious relationships all started that way. The reality is that the vast majority of women who even say otherwise will quickly drop their panties with sufficient attraction present, no matter how much they openly deny it like you are right now.

    • @happygolucky9004
      @happygolucky9004 Рік тому +1

      @@Rock545451 Well some might consider New York City to look like a third world country. But having lived in both Boston and NYC and grown up in New England I've actually found it to be the opposite. Most of my friends feel pressured to sleep with guys early but most of them don't feel comfortable with that.
      The party girls I know who have been habituated to not listen to themselves will sleep with guys early but usually feel crushed if the guy doesn't call back. I'm really lucky in that the guys I've dated in the past were very understanding of wanting to take things slow. The best relationships I've had were with great men who let me get to know them and didn't take it as a sign of disinterest if I took my time.

  • @amandamandy7762
    @amandamandy7762 2 роки тому +3

    I'm learning about you men.... 😁 2nd date sex! I must be so old school....no way! Bed hopping.... isn't nice and I'm no prude I'm sexy as but 2nd that's a robot no care! I also don't want to have to analyse every move. We want safe, secure, adoration, care, respect and trust and also a man that sparks happen inside. To look and think oooòoo ..... what I don't want is aloof, ignoring for days to get the hierarchy, a man who acts like he's the prize....no, we re simple, we want thoughtfulness and to know you're not looking over our shoulders to see who's next in line or Mr games .. 😁 jog on

    • @formalhault5820
      @formalhault5820 2 роки тому

      Well you'll remain single then.

    • @amandamandy7762
      @amandamandy7762 2 роки тому

      @@formalhault5820 perhaps you're right... no point being uncertain, thanks for your honesty though 👍

    • @formalhault5820
      @formalhault5820 2 роки тому +1

      @@amandamandy7762 gotta get realistic and play the game. Also only 11 percent of people find sparks on first dates and generally that doesn't come from a man being "nice"..
      Boredom can ensue.

    • @amandamandy7762
      @amandamandy7762 2 роки тому

      You're right, I don't expect sparks tbh and the problem fur me has been that because I'm in my 50s most have background issues and I won't take those on. Younger no baggage. Older divorced and background. Fair enough I have to expect this. Perhaps my Mr right will never be found because on dating sites there's too many fickle choices and you get to the point of not having to put up with anything from both sides, but, like you said perfectly.....then I will remain single ... it's very depressing but also liberating. I just want to get off this dating and maybe one day meet my match because I am real.... just not happening for a lot of people....look how many on dating sites. My day you'd meet at work or in a bar and only have a few choices...now we ve got hundreds !

    • @islandknight6105
      @islandknight6105 2 роки тому

      @@amandamandy7762 lol … I’m 55 and got more baggage than a fully loaded Boeing 747! 😳🤔🥹

  • @colt7678
    @colt7678 2 роки тому +3

    The new background is sick

  • @growing367
    @growing367 3 роки тому +4

    *Hang out*
    *Have fun*
    *Hook up*

  • @user-tg9qv9qq3h
    @user-tg9qv9qq3h Рік тому

    Would you date your girlfriend’s daughter?

  • @jand8303
    @jand8303 3 роки тому +2

    Go out on a date in her natural environment! In the streets!

  • @jalil3192
    @jalil3192 3 роки тому +3

    First

    • @jerelminter
      @jerelminter 3 роки тому +6

      You won't be the last. You know I can't for the life of me understand why some of you think it's so important to be the first person to comment on a video. What's the point ? Do you want a cookie or a gold medal for that ?

  • @thepsychicspoon5984
    @thepsychicspoon5984 3 роки тому +2

    Are you the guy that says.
    "Remember, smoke weed everyday"?

  • @marte1376
    @marte1376 2 роки тому +6

    This is crap and why people get get confused this days. This is the kind of advice to hook up and being a cheap men. Dates on a man's place is low effort and only acceptable when there's a commitment and not even. When a man is interested he spends money in the woman he wants to impress. This is the advice women get, a man's heart is in his wallet. I don't care what men say, because they always proof with their actions it is true. Women take it slowly, let him invest. And guys, women feel so turned off when they're the chasers. Do you want a feminine woman, be a masculine man? This sounds like men acting as ladies and the two of you not doing anything. I prefer being alone than with a bunch of guys that act exactly as me

    • @Rock545451
      @Rock545451 Рік тому +1

      Lol you have no idea what you're talking about and need to read the book

  • @sunnydayz3577
    @sunnydayz3577 5 місяців тому +1

    I am a woman and I can tell you that this advice is whack. This will not work with women 🙄

  • @acesneights9310
    @acesneights9310 3 роки тому +45

    Couldnt have come at a better time!

    • @kvs7876
      @kvs7876 3 роки тому +3

      💯 percent agree

    • @ElronHumpperdink
      @ElronHumpperdink 3 роки тому

      I am not needing it at the moment, but literally thought “does he have (insert this video) type of video yet?” to learn in advance. Dope.

    • @nemanjakurlagic4621
      @nemanjakurlagic4621 3 роки тому +5

      There's just something so soothing in knowing that many people go through same situations as you.

  • @carlfreiermuth5424
    @carlfreiermuth5424 3 роки тому +27

    Yes he's making the common mistake that guys do when they've only read the book once or twice. If you're trying to use the ideas in the book as techniques, trying to manipulate the girls attraction level, she will pick up on it and it will turn her off. The book is not about manipulating and techniquing a girl into liking you.. it's more of a philosophy about ALLOWING her to explore spending time with you when those doors of opportunity open. In my opinion it's good to listen to the audiobook dozens of times and I do enjoy listening to the videos he puts up. Most of us already know some of the things in the book but if we are learning and start to second-guess or worry about losing the partner then of course we manifest that loss. Just have a good time. Hang out have fun and hook up. Simple. What you want also wants you ❤️

  • @thebealers2102
    @thebealers2102 3 роки тому +29

    Two weeks in and going great. I really enjoy the fact that you don't give pick up bullshit advice but actually explain how a healthy relationship seems to work best. Very good work dude

  • @cdoggsmcgriff2786
    @cdoggsmcgriff2786 3 роки тому +15

    Hmmm. Something just dawned on me. I was thinking of an analogy of selling something online like a truck for example. If Someone expressed interest in the truck with a text this is good. But if I then started sending texts like "want to come see the truck today?" "It's a great truck! This is a great deal. Text me back to arrange to see it" or "Ok yes come see the truck on Saturday (and it's currently Monday)" and you text everyday confirming they still want to see and buy the truck. This would naturally cause doubt in the buyer that I am to desperate to sell the truck and therefore the truck loses its appeal.

  • @fabianpatrizio2865
    @fabianpatrizio2865 3 роки тому +14

    I guess I was over texting after we'd had 2 dates.................her excuse was "my toilet just broke so I cant call you right now, neighbour is helping"....that was 3 weeks ago.....ah well :)

    • @rl3656
      @rl3656 Рік тому +2

      😂wtfff

    • @rrwa7052
      @rrwa7052 3 місяці тому

      😂😅😂

  • @cdoggsmcgriff2786
    @cdoggsmcgriff2786 3 роки тому +14

    Yes I agree to a certain point and that is it seems that in the first few days/weeks the man has to keep the texts going or the woman vanishes. So, I guess what you are saying is it doesn't help for the man to keep moving things along if the woman is not reaching out on her own that much?

    • @Hhhh22222-w
      @Hhhh22222-w 3 роки тому +7

      Yeah pretty much, unless she's really into you, at the start the man does most of the pursuing, until she starts initiating only then can the man slowly back off, then she does most of the pursuing

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 2 роки тому

      @@Hhhh22222-w a woman that is pursuing is a waste of time. It's not about pursuing but you both sharing the same interest, it's ok to have a little chase once in a while but allowing a woman to be the chaser is from lazy men, prepare to be dissolved from her life. A woman wants to feel that she's the only one, if she's pursuing, where is the cherish there?

    • @hmanfilms
      @hmanfilms Рік тому +3

      @@marte1376 what women say they want and what they are actually attracted to/respond to are different. They may say they want a man who is constantly texting, buying flowers, etc, but they end up dumping those guys and thinking they’re weak or turning them into friends. They’re attracted to the guy who is harder to get a hold of because he’s busy in the gym, building a business, living a purpose, yet will take the time to give her love and affection and a fun date. Just from experience

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 Рік тому +1

      @@hmanfilms at least personally I'm attracted to GENTLEMEN, who pay for dates, who is not afraid to complementing me in my face and in public, who is affectionate, LOYAL, HONEST, transparent, hardworking, with ambitions in life and so on. Not an unavailable guy that want "the fun". Fun for me is compromise and EFFORT. Because I do the same, I prove myself.
      In love there's always risk and I'm not afraid to make the leap of faith, but some people just don't have integrity, ethics and civility in love. So I prefer to have a dog that will be 100% loyal 😂❤

  • @carstuff4u942
    @carstuff4u942 3 роки тому +11

    I miss the "donate on your web tool bar" he used to say.

    • @Cameron-rx4gi
      @Cameron-rx4gi 3 роки тому +8

      and the intro music that deafened you, gotta love it

  • @petermoore5000
    @petermoore5000 3 роки тому +8

    Great f***n video! I've been single for a while now, and have put some walls up and not even entertained the idea of a real, nice, relationship. But it's time to get back on the horse. I have a feeling we've evolved to be in great, monogamous, relationships.

  • @Daggerworda
    @Daggerworda 3 роки тому +6

    Good advice, also I wonder if they do this when they like you so that you have to think about them rather than the other girls you may be chatting with lol

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 3 роки тому +9

    I’ve been with my girlfriend for six months. From day one she was all over me but lately it seems like she may be a little less attracted to me. She owns three businesses and has been very busy with keeping up with work demand and her family and friends have been stressful lately. We usually talk once a day on the phone and see each other on the weekends. Are used to get the thinking of you text messages during the day but not anymore. I’m thinking I should back off and let her contact me when she wants to. Damn this Is emotionally stressful.

    • @quotesfromtheboat
      @quotesfromtheboat 3 роки тому +18

      Yep, read the book. You don't need to talk on the phone every day. Mix things up, sounds like things are getting too predictable. Where's the mystery?

    • @CreatingExcellence
      @CreatingExcellence 3 роки тому +24

      Not only back off a bit, turn your focus on yourself. Get to the gym, hang out with a buddy you haven’t seen, attend a positive seminar or meditation meeting etc. As she starts turning her attention more towards you again then take her along on your journey. Surprise her and plan an evening of something she enjoys. If she likes art, find something in the arts. Whatever you do, do NOT text or call her more. Do NOT be up her ass sounding needy like most guys do. This is where “what would James Bond do” should be your motivation to get in the right space. Breathe and enjoy life, everything will come to you.

    • @martinmayfield1932
      @martinmayfield1932 3 роки тому +12

      If you’re feeling stressed out about your relationship, then you’re focused on yourself. Def read the book. Love is supposed to be playful and fun.

    • @Hhhh22222-w
      @Hhhh22222-w 3 роки тому +11

      She's busy and you two have a routine, you need to break your routine and add some unpredictability into it

    • @Brian_Barby
      @Brian_Barby 3 роки тому +4

      "Indifference makes the difference"- Coach You're allowing it to be emotionally stressful, you should not care one way or another, focus on your mission and your drive, you're awesome so you know she'll get in touch with you when she can. Give her the gift of missing you, if her interest is high she'll wonder what happened to you and reach out.

  • @ramonmendez1757
    @ramonmendez1757 3 роки тому +2

    He should've said... C'mon over and bring your dog too, so we can hang out together; today i just wanna go Doggystyle!😂😎🐕‍🦺😈

  • @berineayala4767
    @berineayala4767 3 роки тому +4

    Such truth!! Thank you for your advice and work Corey

  • @pakk1
    @pakk1 3 роки тому +2

    I follow the book well but recently she mentioned that she would like to hear from me once a week so past two weeks I have randomly. butI'm afraid it might hurt the attraction we are exclusive been awesome just trying to stay in the right energy we been together 8 months

    • @rrwa7052
      @rrwa7052 3 місяці тому

      Wow, that's a new one.

  • @Brandi.Nicole
    @Brandi.Nicole 3 роки тому +2

    Dayum Corey has a book! In print! 🙌🤘😎

  • @newchannelization
    @newchannelization 3 роки тому +1

    Corey hahahaha you stop it, dont make me laugh like a buttercup with that dog comment

  • @jjmartinez753
    @jjmartinez753 2 роки тому +2

    When you say take things slighty slower than her, can we apply that to our physical actions? for example: when walking down the sidewalk maybe walk a little slower than her?

    • @lankdup
      @lankdup 2 роки тому

      just make sure you let her know to not be close to the street, itll drive her crazy doing that, then spit a smart remark, tell her " i have to protect you ill get hit first if a car drives by" and just look at her and laugh

    • @ClipsbyDaylight-xd6tm
      @ClipsbyDaylight-xd6tm 8 місяців тому

      @@lankdupthat wasn’t a smart remark, that was quite literal and cliche as can possibly be. You don’t need to tell her, she knows.

  • @PentaKillMedia
    @PentaKillMedia 10 місяців тому +1

    "Book a quote session" damn it Corey! 😂😂

  • @despachantecentral3841
    @despachantecentral3841 3 роки тому +2

    BEST COACH EVER.. MANY THAKXX

  • @greenarrow5802
    @greenarrow5802 3 роки тому +1

    Hey Corey what’s the outro music you use at the end

  • @gymgainsbeginners
    @gymgainsbeginners 2 місяці тому

    Best way to have self control is to watch 100 corey wayne videos during the 2-3 days before a date 😂

  • @zApoiii
    @zApoiii 3 роки тому +1

    Need some help for any 3%. Met a girl on a dating app, we texted (s*xting etc) for a week, she reached out 100% of the times. Tried making a date but she doublebooked and canceled last min, she was sorry. We met the week after and had sex first date. She texted a lot after too for a couple days. Tried making a date couple days after for following week but got answer ”we can see” after this I got less texts from her and when she reached out again I asked her again, said she was busy this week and I asked what about next week? still kind of the same response or just dodged the question. This was 5 days ago. Have I done anything wrong? and when she reaches out again should I ask her when she is free or let her do the asking?

    • @davisb5199
      @davisb5199 2 роки тому

      Yes you asked too much bro

    • @zApoiii
      @zApoiii 2 роки тому

      @@davisb5199 Don’t think so. Think she just wanted a ONS tbh. Anyways other girls on the line now

  • @veganrican606
    @veganrican606 3 місяці тому

    I got the I'm not ready to date line twice from the same girl. She wasn't available, and I over pursued. Wish I knew this stuff before I dated her.

  • @vincentslusser9205
    @vincentslusser9205 2 роки тому +1

    Great stuff

  • @Bohorockerchic925
    @Bohorockerchic925 3 роки тому +1

    Can you touch upon how men in their 40s have extremely low sex drives?

    • @croatiancroissant28776
      @croatiancroissant28776 2 роки тому

      At 43, my sex drive is as high as it’s ever been. That’s how it is for most guys I know that are my age. It tends to go up with girlfriends I’m really into physically, and goes down with girlfriends I’m just not physically attracted to, but more emotionally attracted to.
      Sounds like you’re picking bad matches in that department.

    • @georgemcdougall7260
      @georgemcdougall7260 Рік тому

      Eat more red meat / animal fat

    • @MrMLBson09
      @MrMLBson09 2 місяці тому

      Eat meat, eggs, get a half hour of sun tanning a day, workout and do cardio regularly on a schedule. Do not drink tap water, buy 5 gallon purified jugs, stay away from alcohol and smoking and drugs. Get 8 hours of sleep. That's it. Stay away from prescription drugs.

  • @janitoalevic
    @janitoalevic 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the info

  • @interiorstyle0708
    @interiorstyle0708 2 роки тому +3

    Are there any videos where you give the women advise?

  • @gabrielrod1253
    @gabrielrod1253 3 роки тому +2

    I just reply with a thumbs up emoji when I get pictures or videos. It avoids giving her validation which makes them pull away and difficult to handle. No more beta validation in 2021 is my goal. Corey : one previous comment asked whether you'd include the 'She belongs to streets' saying in your quote books. But I don't think this is really a quote . Lol.

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 2 роки тому +2

      Doing this is dumb. If you ignore her, she'll ignore you, women want to feel adored, if you can't another will. This is insane. I hope you're good about being single the rest of your life and basically any men wanting to hook up is for the streets, which is the 99% of you for little exceptions

    • @ClipsbyDaylight-xd6tm
      @ClipsbyDaylight-xd6tm 8 місяців тому

      Straight up. If a women presents herself in an attractive way directed to you, she wants your attention. You don’t need to worship her like a weirdo, but give the girl a compliment, you’re talking to her cause you’re into anyways, right? How incel could you be.

  • @odawg7483
    @odawg7483 9 місяців тому +1

    Read the book 10-15x there’s is not shortcuts to success!