Texting After Setting A Date

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  • @gabeen1562
    @gabeen1562 3 роки тому +203

    A podcast a day keeps the inner beta male away. Thanks coach

    • @lukehart7225
      @lukehart7225 3 роки тому +6

      You said the words right there man!

    • @TheLouisianan
      @TheLouisianan 3 роки тому +9

      Even when I'm in the groove like I am now I still listen to Corey to keep myself in check

    • @JD-rk2mv
      @JD-rk2mv Рік тому +2

      Fuego

    • @Dhbdhjdbd
      @Dhbdhjdbd 4 місяці тому +1

      🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @witherow80
    @witherow80 3 роки тому +136

    I thought this was called texting after setting dates- not my wife is having an affair

  • @austinnguyen9107
    @austinnguyen9107 3 роки тому +73

    5:14 screw someone else behind your back when she's not happy
    11:08 why spend someone who isn't excited to see you. Who doesn't value the opportunity.
    17:29 takeaway
    19:23 if she flakes, good thing
    19:37 if a woman is comparing you

  • @Max-eo1ik
    @Max-eo1ik 2 роки тому +33

    I’ll set dates that may range from 3-5 days out and won’t reach out to them, unless they contact me and if they do, I keep it short and playful. If I haven’t heard from her before our scheduled date, I may send them a text saying something like “hey, I may be running a few minutes late tonight, so I’ll let you know if I’ll be late”. Works really well.

    • @howtosnatch
      @howtosnatch Рік тому +12

      Women will reach out to you if they are worried that YOU will flake; not the other way around.

    • @wildboystv3013
      @wildboystv3013 Рік тому +6

      Coach specifically says not to do this

  • @cinimodg0251
    @cinimodg0251 3 роки тому +14

    And this ruined my date opportunity with the prettiest girl I knew, it may not be fun but every time it doesn’t work I learn something new

  • @jalandavis530
    @jalandavis530 3 роки тому +38

    I just bought my “She Belongs to the Streets” mug (as well as my “No Drama Allowed” mug)👌🏾

    • @00-CD
      @00-CD 3 роки тому +6

      Come on man, you didn't buy the "Come on man" mug?? lol

    • @griff4899
      @griff4899 3 роки тому +6

      Definitely need the asshole free zone one too. Haha I love mine

  • @ThatBinghamHikes
    @ThatBinghamHikes 3 роки тому +21

    Great topic, texting game has changed during Covid dating. The tangent about affairs is much needed and deserves its own video imho!!! Soooo many guys silent about it as if it’s a mark of weakness or lack of masculinity...

    • @LukaTrenbolon
      @LukaTrenbolon 3 роки тому +4

      It hurts a lot to talk about those thing. I talked about it in "From rock bottom to the top" video and Coach Corey discused it. You can check it out. :)

  • @lousunny5682
    @lousunny5682 3 роки тому +57

    It’s so incredibly sad to me that men find themselves in situations where a long term partner or wife burns them so deeply. Good advice: don’t think you are different. Habitual cheaters are just that.I’ll also add that past behavior predicts future behavior.

    • @00-CD
      @00-CD 3 роки тому

      @Anthony Timmers I also want to add, it is like an addiction you had for years, what i am saying is unless you are willing to repeatedly FORCE yourself to go against what you did for years (keep going through pain, over a long period of time it will get easier to resist) then you will always find yourself cheating.

  • @DOMINICANO786
    @DOMINICANO786 3 роки тому +11

    I don't write comments but Corey changed my life at 18 and I turn 26 in 2 weeks. I lived in 4 states dated beautiful woman across the usa. Let me tell you this book was my Bible when things didn't add up. But females come up to me. Corey you're the man I don't know how beta I'd be without your book and Inspiration videos. I'm from Fort Lauderdale and it's a blessing to spread the wisdom across the usa 🇺🇸🙏 Thanks Corey
    -Brito

    • @rawandmahmood5760
      @rawandmahmood5760 2 роки тому +1

      I discovered this book at 18 as well. I'm happy for your success though, fellow young homie. I'm going follow the path of success just like you did since I'm 20 right now lol. Cheers

  • @AnthonyPuleio
    @AnthonyPuleio 3 роки тому +26

    In my opinion texting in between setting dates is ok when it’s initiated by the girl. No more than 3 text exchanges max

    • @gwgw4143
      @gwgw4143 3 роки тому

      Yep

    • @billb3066
      @billb3066 3 роки тому +2

      great point, respond back in a couple of hours to remain mysterious/challenge and it also show you're not a cold fish, keep it short and light, she's seeking you're presence

    • @saketautee2329
      @saketautee2329 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah you're right. It should be natural.. And it's not like that we should ignore them.. If you're a phone addict and still not texting her then it's a bad idea.. Be natural😀

    • @shanep3867
      @shanep3867 3 роки тому +4

      This is the correct strategy. every time I have ignored a woman after setting dates it has ended in cancellation 100% of the time. 2 to 3 texts max, and make it fun and light banter at most. I have had more fun dates and first date sex using this

  • @shanep3867
    @shanep3867 3 роки тому +22

    In my experience If i set a date and dont text, she doesn't text at all then uses my non communication as an excuse to cancel the date. And this has been my experience with using this. I think it's important to maybe respond to 1 or 2 texts while the dating waiting period is happening, But not over do it. Not everything corey wayne says is gospel. As a matter of fact i'm starting to think if he has any experience with women at all. Sure don't put them on a pedestal, Don't be so needy and clingy, But if you think ignoring her is going to win her over, You are having yourself on.

    • @rawandmahmood5760
      @rawandmahmood5760 2 роки тому

      Do you respond later then she usually does? Cause I'm going out with a girl who texts between dates but she takes a long ass time to respond. It doesn't bother me at all but shouldn't i take the same amount of time as her to respond, if not longer?
      This shit confuses me lol.

    • @kianzasmommy11
      @kianzasmommy11 2 роки тому +1

      This is very reasonable advice. Ignoring, with me, as a 38 year old woman, would highly likely end up with me being turned off.

    • @rixieplur
      @rixieplur Рік тому +1

      @@kianzasmommy11yeah i definitely take his lack of communication as a clue that he is deselecting himself. I genuinely feel bored and don’t see the need to get glammed up for someone who is not even intentional in getting to know me. Most likely someone who wants to have dinner with beautiful company for entertainment.

    • @asurxh
      @asurxh Місяць тому

      I see you have women agreeing with you in the comments..if you have women agreeing with you, then your advice is probably wrong.
      Most women don't understand what actually attracts them..
      They say they want this type of guy, but they are sleeping with guys who are the exact opposite of what they say...
      Most women have been taught what should attract them, and they may say that on the surface, but on an instinctual level, they know what they like and that will always defeat everything.
      There's a reason good guys don't get laid... There's a reason most unemotional and indifferent men are having sex with all the women..bc they are attracted to them and can't understand why.
      While Corey's book isn't to be followed as gospel, his philosophies and fundamentals are founded in truth.. but they are only a guideline..it's still up to the man to be smooth and use the fundamentals as just part of his overall game plan.

  • @jmd12127
    @jmd12127 3 роки тому +28

    You should send only ONE text after setting a date, and that is a simple confirmation text on the day of your date. “Hi Gretchen, just confirming that we’re on for drinks tonight at 6pm at Moe’s. See you then.” That’s it. I know it disagrees with Coach Corey’s philosophy of not confirming dates, but it allows you to IMMEDIATELY weed out the girls with low interest (who will almost ALWAYS flake on you) from the quality women with high interest - and also prevents you from driving to the venue, only to sit there alone like an asshole because you didn’t have enough confidence to firmly assert yourself and remind her of the date. I know Corey will change his mind on this eventually. 😉

    • @armageddon8237
      @armageddon8237 3 роки тому +8

      @jim121272 I agree with this. I have found with COVID and the current state of affairs with online dating, etc. women are flakier than ever! If you are a high-value man, as we should aspire to be, you should be putting a premium on your time

    • @jmd12127
      @jmd12127 3 роки тому +7

      @@armageddon8237 Yep, 100%. Also, she deals with flaky guys all day, just like we deal with flaky women. She doesn’t yet KNOW that we’re high-value men of our word until she’s been on a date with us. By showing her early on that you’ll honor your initial commitment, she will come to trust you and appreciate the fact that you’re holding yourself AND her accountable to the commitment you both made to the date.

    • @jmd12127
      @jmd12127 3 роки тому +6

      @@HiddenHandMedia On the contrary, only a few women will bother confirming dates with you, and those are the ones who have high interest in you. Go ahead, don’t bother confirming your dates - but don’t bother showing up for them either, because many women will expect YOU to take the lead, and will flake on you by doing a no-show…then blame YOU for not confirming the date. This applies mostly to first and second dates, since once you have some kind of relationship with her, she’s much less likely to flake.

    • @jmd12127
      @jmd12127 3 роки тому +6

      @@HiddenHandMedia Let me ask you this: When you get a call from your contractor, doctor, dentist, or attorney confirming an appointment for the next day, do you accuse them of feminine behavior? They know their time is valuable, and they don’t want people to flake on them and miss the appointment. Therefore, not confirming a date equates to not valuing your own time.

    • @jmd12127
      @jmd12127 3 роки тому +8

      @Eli Lis Wrong. I can see already that you’re coming from a place of fear and passiveness. Waiting for HER to confirm is giving HER control of the situation. You’re the man, so why are YOU so afraid to assert yourself? Be the leader, not the follower. She’ll actually respect you more for it.
      You clearly also don’t value your time. Why do doctors, dentists, and attorneys call you to confirm appointments? Because their time is valuable, and they don’t want to be flaked on and have their time wasted. So not confirming dates is synonymous with not valuing your own time.
      You guys seriously need to learn some game. Enjoy sitting at the table by yourself, bud!

  • @enriqueemmanuelli4529
    @enriqueemmanuelli4529 3 роки тому +13

    Coach! Love the daily videos please keep them coming!

  • @lilJamaica
    @lilJamaica 3 роки тому +17

    I set a date several days in advance.
    She proceeded to text me none stop for days and losing her “shit” because I took to long to reply one time.
    I canceled the date, then she started threatening me! 🤣
    I blocked her!
    Thanks Coach you saved me a boat load of drama.!

  • @jeffstone7912
    @jeffstone7912 3 роки тому +5

    No point trying to work things out with a cheating wife. Move on. Work on yourself. Find a purpose in life. Be a good father. Be open to meeting a better woman.

  • @NateInYoState
    @NateInYoState 3 роки тому +7

    Coach is close to 500K subs and I've been watching the growth for a minute now! LETS GO COACH COREY WAYNE!!!!

  • @evanhiggins7298
    @evanhiggins7298 2 роки тому +1

    If you're familiar with his work, this is a good video to listen as a refresher

  • @alisalloum3680
    @alisalloum3680 3 роки тому +14

    1.25 speed .
    You’re welcome 😉

  • @aqadaptiveintelligence
    @aqadaptiveintelligence 3 роки тому +14

    It says a lot when a dating coach as successful as Corey Wayne chooses to stay single indefinitely...

    • @rimspin2410
      @rimspin2410 3 роки тому +2

      Yes but, who will pass on the bloodline? Millions of years of evolution to get to makes Corey Wayne, then it just stops? Sad.

    • @WildBillHickums
      @WildBillHickums 3 роки тому +7

      @@rimspin2410 Bloodlines are really insignificant compared to what you do and influence during your time alive imo.

    • @aqadaptiveintelligence
      @aqadaptiveintelligence 3 роки тому

      Well if Corey doesn’t have at least a couple secret love babies with all these Hang out, Have Fun, Hookups... I’d be very surprised lol

  • @macioluko9484
    @macioluko9484 3 роки тому +3

    @9:25 The same is true for everyone, especially politicians. Sadly, they almost never get jolted into doing the difficult, right decisions.

  • @trevorvantiel453
    @trevorvantiel453 3 роки тому +2

    The limited time offer....Absolutely classic! Corey thanks for taking the time and making your videos. Fine tuning every day. All the best stay safe.

  • @SanderJanssenBSc
    @SanderJanssenBSc 3 роки тому +4

    Read your book 4 times and just ordered it online to support you! Keep up the great work I can't wait for the book to come in so I can keep on learning 🤟🏾

  • @davidaustin8424
    @davidaustin8424 3 роки тому +10

    So basically, if the girl texts you before your dates, it means she has a high level of interest and it’s okay to text at that point so long as you’re not coming off as needy

    • @billb3066
      @billb3066 3 роки тому +3

      exactly, it was her idea, keep it short and light to remain mysterious/challenge, take a few hours to respond and if after 7pm wait until next morning to respond

    • @livingingratitude7377
      @livingingratitude7377 3 роки тому +2

      keep itbelow 3 texts though to remain mysterious and you know, having a life. dont have a full convo

    • @davidaustin8424
      @davidaustin8424 3 роки тому +1

      @@lexicon4u I’ve noticed this as well

    • @davidaustin8424
      @davidaustin8424 3 роки тому +3

      @@lexicon4u I know Corey Wayne’s method is to not talk before the date to see if she’s going to keep it or whatnot, but for me personally I don’t like wasting my time if they’re not going to end up showing up. I’ll send a meme, or randomly start the conversation. Because of two reasons. 1. I’ve had multiple dates not show up because they thought it wasn’t a thing since we didn’t talk that day. And 2. Because shit changes I don’t want to find out right before the date that it’s canceled. Like it just now happened to me. A stripper I was supposed to hook up with tonight now has to watch her kids.

    • @davidaustin8424
      @davidaustin8424 3 роки тому +3

      @@lexicon4u yeah she’s just a hookup buddy so I don’t care. It’s not that it’s too ballsy, it’s just that I’ve found WAY more success in this particular scenario to maintain contact up until the actual date

  • @beeboy6173
    @beeboy6173 3 роки тому +6

    My lysDexia read the title as "Sexting Afrer a Date". And boy did I think this was gonna be a wild ride...

  • @Jonesislearning
    @Jonesislearning 3 роки тому +5

    What if you set the definite date and never hear from them even before the date. Do you text them and hour before…How do you avoid wasting your time and driving all the way to the date for a flake?

  • @lawofmagnetism
    @lawofmagnetism 3 роки тому +5

    Woman marry men hoping they will change, men marry woman hoping they will stay the same.

  • @ad6417
    @ad6417 3 роки тому +8

    "Free meal, attention, ego stroke"...as an older woman who does not intend to marry again I can confirm this is what I'm looking for with dating. Coach is correct. But I'm upfront about wanting to be casual.

  • @LukeBCtown
    @LukeBCtown 2 роки тому +5

    The minute i started this video a girl i had set a date with and left alone texts me 🤣😂

  • @Successfulfiger
    @Successfulfiger 3 роки тому +5

    I deal with this as well , I just wanna say females nowadays LOVES to talk about whatever the hell ..
    and after you finish from the topic ! Get ready for repeat 🤦‍♂️. No solution with them at allll

    • @ad6417
      @ad6417 3 роки тому

      Men are no better. Men constantly text me Hi or WYD everyday until our date and then I don't like them because I realize they are boring. I even tell men to not text and they do it anyway. Next.

    • @Successfulfiger
      @Successfulfiger 3 роки тому

      @@ad6417 haha idk u gotta be lucky game

  • @maricadjuric2249
    @maricadjuric2249 3 роки тому +8

    You changed My life for the good. Gretings from the Balkans.

    • @TheRealViktorP
      @TheRealViktorP 3 роки тому

      Im from mk😁

    • @kingslavd661
      @kingslavd661 3 роки тому +2

      Koji grad?

    • @maricadjuric2249
      @maricadjuric2249 3 роки тому +1

      @@kingslavd661 Doboj. Musko sam inace, nije moj profil :D

    • @kingslavd661
      @kingslavd661 3 роки тому +1

      @@maricadjuric2249 dobro, nema veze. Interesantno je upoznati Balkance na neocekivanim mjestima

  • @cptdurr
    @cptdurr 3 роки тому +3

    i pressed like, now im going to watch 👍

  • @abstract-thoughts
    @abstract-thoughts Рік тому +2

    So, how do you handle her texting between dates if she's not a flake? Lol it wasn't really clear but I gather you do a short text convo then find a way to end it?

  • @TheADRIANOVALENTINO
    @TheADRIANOVALENTINO 3 роки тому +4

    "COM ON MAN.."🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    Even contemplating the thought of salvaging the relationship after shes cheated on you then moved out and got another boyfriend..
    Dont think that Alpha males always attract great women, if they spot this behaviour they have zero tolerance and walk away no questions asked. Its not your fault if you attract someone whos flakey or irrational. Its only your fault when you continue to disrespect yourself after the fact you have not walked away. The moment you feel and see the cracks, dont think should or shouldnt you,dont doubt yourself or let anyone else gaslight you and put things into your head, just get up and walk away. That will be your true test of masculinity.

  • @karna5998
    @karna5998 3 роки тому +1

    It's been so long that I've watched your video, it's good to be back

  • @Secretary.of.Education
    @Secretary.of.Education 3 роки тому +13

    I set a definite date with a girl on Tuesday for Friday. Generally, I think the best strategy is to not reach out unless she texts you. Than generally the morning of the date, I'll send a funny meme or funny soft text or inside joke that'll remind her of our date. If you don't hear back...assume it's off and find a plan B. This morning...the girl actually texted me an inside joke reminding me of tonight (not that I'd forget). But this seems to reduce flakiness by quite a lot.

    • @howtosnatch
      @howtosnatch Рік тому +1

      Women will reach out to you if they are worried that YOU will flake; not the other way around.

  • @dahnger
    @dahnger 3 роки тому +3

    You're the best coach

  • @annagranta
    @annagranta 2 роки тому +2

    If a man asks me out a week in advance, it's a bit weird if he doesn't text at all until the date. Approx. 2 times in between would signal me he is interested and thinking of me. If he wouldn't text to confirm the date the evening before, I assume the date is off and make plans with myself or my girlfriends.

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  2 роки тому +17

      Needy

    • @annagranta
      @annagranta 2 роки тому +2

      ​@@CoachCoreyWayne No, it's not needy at all for him to text 2-3 times in a week. That signals interest, and we want to date interested men only.

    • @Ernest1010
      @Ernest1010 2 роки тому +15

      @@annagranta why aren’t you texting him? Also shows low interest on your end to be fair

    • @rodneyesqueda6763
      @rodneyesqueda6763 Рік тому +3

      The fact that he set up another date already shows he is interested in you. No need to keep texting what can be said during the date

    • @annagranta
      @annagranta Рік тому

      @@Ernest1010 Men with plenty of testosterone in their blood love the chase. Why should I take that fun away from them? (this is a rhetorical question) :)

  • @nealmcdaniel7876
    @nealmcdaniel7876 3 роки тому +1

    Another great one. Thanks!

  • @abstract-thoughts
    @abstract-thoughts 3 роки тому +2

    What about after setting a date, they keep texting but about more in depth get to know you topics?

    • @I-Am-Wonderful
      @I-Am-Wonderful 16 днів тому +1

      Great questions, we’ll talk when we meet. I gotta go now. See you at…

  • @christianfranci3927
    @christianfranci3927 3 роки тому +1

    What do you guys recommend if you set up a definite date with a girl and she ghosts you before the date even happens? Mainly confused because I would bring up going out and they would sound excited, no hesitation nor any hesitation giving me their number but come the day they completely go ghost.

    • @sydthekid816
      @sydthekid816 3 місяці тому +1

      Ngl she was probably nervous and overthink the date

  • @damonbaird1173
    @damonbaird1173 3 роки тому +2

    Read the textbook, pass the test.

  • @grantiscornholio15
    @grantiscornholio15 3 роки тому +3

    Texting after setting a date: DON’T

    • @shanep3867
      @shanep3867 3 роки тому +11

      yeah good luck with that. It fails 100% of the time

  • @marianpotcovaru1609
    @marianpotcovaru1609 3 роки тому +2

    Hey, Corey,
    I fucked up big time, because I didn't listen to your advice.
    Called her first time, few months ago, she said she is not ready, just got out of a relationship. I told her call me when you want to go out.
    Two weeks after, got in touch again. Same stuff. I told her same thing..
    On first of march sent her flowers at college dorm. Apparently she did not think it was me. Yesterday I let her know it was me. She said thank you. In the evening I invite her to a restaurant, whenever She is free. She was not that happy about it. Then, I got a voice mesage, telling me She wants me to leave her alone and she was just being friendly. I answered back : Thank for going out of your way so hard, to break my heart.. If the flowers are some trouble, just throw them away.
    You were right, never call again when She does not want to keep you.
    Lesson learned.

    • @jackLoveX
      @jackLoveX Рік тому +1

      incel vibes 😂😂😂

  • @darthcodzombie38
    @darthcodzombie38 3 роки тому +2

    Talking her right out of going out with you.

  • @ewingpropertytenant
    @ewingpropertytenant 3 роки тому +2

    The subject person of the video should look inside his life, what you focus on expands, has he become uncentered/unsure so he is attracting women who are unsure, perhaps maybe some of these women are mirroring. Happened to me, it pays to take a step back

  • @pavlospapamanolis8951
    @pavlospapamanolis8951 3 роки тому +2

    Great work as always!

  • @Bblock150
    @Bblock150 3 роки тому +1

    Coach what kinda car you drive?

    • @Bblock150
      @Bblock150 3 роки тому +1

      @E.V.A V2000 I kinda have a feeling he doesnt have a car and just uber's everywhere

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  3 роки тому +11

      Urban assault vehicle

    • @Bblock150
      @Bblock150 3 роки тому

      @@CoachCoreyWayne you seem more like a prius guy 😂

  • @dannyg2774
    @dannyg2774 2 роки тому

    Bro good vid but u took too long getting to the video title

  • @priyanshkalkal
    @priyanshkalkal 3 роки тому +4

    Funny enough the much views i get on my videos in a year, he got in a minute XD

  • @ColdForceNorse
    @ColdForceNorse Рік тому

    Video starts a little bit after 8:00

  • @johnzachariasrealtor7906
    @johnzachariasrealtor7906 3 роки тому +1

    It seems these days men have to be red pill until they find a woman who isn’t insecure and actually adds value to our lives.

    • @ad6417
      @ad6417 3 роки тому

      Women have same problem. Older men are very insecure and boring and just want a wife replacement.

  • @TrOlLkInGs14
    @TrOlLkInGs14 3 роки тому +7

    I asked a girl when is she free to go out and she she responds with "I'm busy this week with midterms but next week I should have some free time" and I respond with "great ! Just let me know what day so we can set a definite date " and she responds with "yay! And sounds great!" and it's the next week now and she hasn't texted me.. did I messed up?or was suppose to text her ?

    • @DJSTUX93
      @DJSTUX93 3 роки тому +13

      How did you messed up?
      Use common sense guy

    • @saketautee2329
      @saketautee2329 3 роки тому +5

      Yes you did.. you Should've asked what day next week and not - "let me know" .. 😅 your reply was bit robotic.

    • @akarathehechithajaaya1465
      @akarathehechithajaaya1465 3 роки тому

      Cringe just let me know

    • @TrOlLkInGs14
      @TrOlLkInGs14 3 роки тому +1

      @@saketautee2329 working on it lol this why I'm asking.. got alot to learn still

    • @saketautee2329
      @saketautee2329 3 роки тому +2

      @@TrOlLkInGs14 dude..we all got to learn alot but I say we learn philosophy of coach and stay natural about our responses... You should approach her now and ask like Hey.. what's up.. let's catch up this week.. Something like that will do😀

  • @HairyHands
    @HairyHands 3 роки тому

    truth

  • @Caesar-nx9uv
    @Caesar-nx9uv 3 роки тому +1

    ❤️

  • @keshansham8932
    @keshansham8932 3 роки тому +1

    I'm here

  • @saketautee2329
    @saketautee2329 3 роки тому

    Ohh my god how bad woman she is😠

  • @apxl8r1
    @apxl8r1 3 роки тому

    6th