My favorite line is the “you’re a virgin who can’t drive” because in an interview the actress said that while filming she was actually a virgin who couldn’t drive
Ooof and the scene in Ant Man where he takes off his shirt after training and he’s buff as hell, and Evangeline Lilly watches him with her head tilted I FELT THAT BECAUSE SAMEEEE
@@candaceisntonline the only problem with that is the first season is already shot. They were able to change sonic because he was an animated characters and he didn’t actually exist in the filmed scenes so it was easy for them to change his design. That’s harder to do with live action actors. Season 2 is when they’d actually be able to do anything about the outfits/color palettes for the characters.
Babes there’s an app called Purple that works this way. You basically take pictures of every piece of clothing you have as well as shoes and they algorithm chooses it for you. Btw, there’s probably more apps like that lol
I mean, Lincoln and MAYBE JFK would have, but no other one would have at least a shred of kindness, respect, and just not being an “invading” hypocrite, for that,.. like “we stole their land and did all this horrific stuff and still do, but anyway ours so no one else is legally allowed unless they follow ALL our ludicrous unrealistic rules. Anyone else is the worst ever.”
@@kaydollar2490 she was alive for many years after this movie before passing away. She was in many movies after that as well. But yeah, thanks for killing the mood. Geez.
You know what I love about this movie? That Cher is genuinely the nicest girl and she is so kind, she might be a lil clueless (duh) but she has a heart of gold, she helps her friends and genuinely cares for them. And she is girly too! I love that, I love that she cares about how she looks and is a FASHION ICON. It shows that a girl can be girly and also be smart an caring. I LOVE THIS MOVIE UGHHH. And also the resolution with Cher and TY, that they didn’t became enemies, but they apologized and solution their issues. Ughhh what a masterpiece.
@@josebarrozo7620 she still cared for her and wanted what was best for her and it’s better that she became her friend rather than just making fun of her
Ik it might not be a big deal for alot of people but this outfit was worn by Jennie from blackpink (K-pop group) sounds weird but many people started wearing this alot after she wore it, I've seen trin's old videos I can figure out she stans twice(K-pop group) but I really didn't know whether she likes blackpink or not but when I saw her wearing this outfit my delulu blink self got happy without a reason 😭
I LOVE TRIN ADDRESSING THE CAR SCENE WITH CHER AND ELTON. it’s such an important topic to touch on. it’s okay to set boundaries about what you’re comfortable with, without feeling guilty. I love you trin!!
Think the reason why we feel bad for the guys in those situations in movies is because of dialogue. The guys get defensive and victimise themselves, and push blame over on the recipient claiming theyve been giving off hints and flirting etc. When you're younger you don't pick up on manipulative behaviour like that, and even when you're older it's nlt necessarily easy to pick up on either.
And the fact that she brought up the car scene with Sandy and Danny in Grease! I always think about that scene and how we're supposed to feel bad for Danny when uhhhh he sexually assaulted her??? So happy Trin brings these things to light👏🏼
nt gen same it was so embarrassing having to do range and simulation esp bc my parents never taught me anything so i didn’t even know how to turn on the turn signal.
I wish she went over the scene where Cher opens up to her dad about the boy she likes (Josh) and he basically tells her any boy would be crazy not to like her, it's so freaking sweet :')
I think cher is a great character yes she’s criticized for being a “dumb blonde” or whatever but i swear her and elle woods show girls that kindness is a trait to be admired and emulated
@@tjc2121 I havent watched Legally Blonde in quite a while so correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't the whole point of the movie to go against the "dumb blonde" stereotype by showing that Elle is actually really smart?
@@tjc2121 i think you misunderstood the point. the fact she acts the way she does is that those character traits should not be qualified as dumb. she is just the way she is and that does not talk about her intelligence. for example I can be super idiotic and be fascinated by pretty things(earings, dresses, shoes, kpop, etc) but on my free time I sometimes read stuff about politics and history, and whatever. I'm also going to college to be a teacher and interested in things like activism, about lots of stuff. i can however say pretty stupid bs and enjoy it. is kinda like the appearance of someone does not change how that someone is.
Speaking of the witty dialogue, I honestly don’t think it’s that far off from how some teenagers talk. I talk like that half the time as a mix of loving characters that are witty and that my family really likes to tease each other. My friend group tends to tease each other a lot as well, and it ends up sounding a lot like this, if not a little more clumsy cuz it’s not scripted
yeah girl meets world also got critiqued for the dialogue being unrealistic too, but at least for me I tended to talk and reflect like the characters did long before I watched it. Especially if the dialogue is almost poetic or rhythmic (ex. Shakespeare) it keeps me interested in it and seems to flow well
Also people have to remember these movies and tv shows are *fiction* so they're allowed a little imagination and for things to be a little unrealistic because, well, that's the whole point. It's fiction. So things like that don't bother me.
@@amberwingtundrawing776 I think it’s because in the book the love interest is the main character’s sister’s brother in law so they’re kinda related but not rlly
can we talk about how josh was looking at her while she was walking down the stairs but he couldn’t have seen her because he was literally facing a wall
You don’t have to apologize when you get to serious topics, it’s really nice to hear you talk about stuff like the Elton scene and go into how it could be perceived. It’s very responsible and admirable 😊
I'm completely on her page when she's talking about feeling bad when saying no. It took me 20 years to realize I can say no to sex. Growing up I was taught by not only movies and tv shows, but even church played a huge factor in my compliance. I think it's that way for a lot of young kids. They are conditioned to believe you have to always be complaint. Movies force that idea, church forces that idea, parents enforce that idea. So kids are always taught to say yes and do what their told and that ends up getting us hurt. As I said, it took 20 years and the man I have now to realize Im allowed to say no. I'm lucky to have the guy Im with. Whenever I don't seem like I want to have sex, he doesn't even ask and assumes my answer is no. It's just cuddles from then on. Ladies, it took me 20 years to find a great guy. One who doesn't pressure me, one who supports me through anything, one that always has my back. It will take time to find your perfect partner, just find one who doesn't make you feel uncomfortable. Find someone who puts your safety and comfortability before their wants and desires.
I’m 20 years old and watch Trin with my 12 year old sister. She doesn’t always listen to me but she Loves Trin so I’m so glad that Trin shared that tidbit about how important consent is and how saying no is okay. My sister has problems with standing up for herself so I’m glad she has such a good role model.
To add to your dialogue monologue, I feel like dialogue back in the day was so iconic because it was sassy, witty, charismatic, and "cheesy". I mean, look at all of us now, quoting and being in love with the lines in the shows/films back then. But, when movies or shows try to replicate it now, it comes off cringe because of the way they end up executing it.
“There’s no drama on Pinterest” *Pinterest stealing from small artists as she speaks* haha I do agree other than art thieves that Pinterest is pretty peaceful
@@noonstyles3973 me too, in fact most people do, and then unfortunately they use those pretty things as profile pictures or aesthetic posts and never credit the artist because Pinterest doesn’t even credit them. And then the artists lose business and feel like crap that someone’s using their art in an unintended way.
OKAY, I grew up in an abusive household; saying no is VERY difficult for me. I had my VERY first boyfriend at age 25 and I was having my first kiss with him. He then asked me if he can touch me (down there). I was SO nervous, this was my first sexual experience! SO many thoughts going through my mind, "what if he hates me if I say no, what if he breaks up bc I say no, what if he gets mad??? Should I just let him touch me? Oh GOD what do I do???" I was internally panicking, and in a matter of a second, all panic went away because he verbally said, "btw, it's totally fine if you don't want me to!" So I let out a little squeak of a "no, not now." And guess what, he said, "okay!" And we literally cuddled the whole night watching movies and fell asleep. I'm 28 now and were still together! Point is, the right person will NEVER pressure you and if you think they are going to get upset/mad at you when you lay down boundaries, they are NOT the person you want to be with!
sorry bout the audio whoopsie yall!!! LMAO i totally didn’t mean for that background music in the beginning, that’s my outro music and i must’ve pasted it into the beginning by mistake IM RLLY SRRY!!!!
I really love when you get serious sometimes and talk about important issues, like that car scene with Elton and how scenes like this affected you. I'm 25 and I feel like I still needed to hear that. "Setting down your personal boundaries is not hurting someone" is something I might put up on a wall in my room. Thank you! ❤️
Shelby Lalonde They’re not. It’s his 3rd wife’s kid & he’s no longer married to her & hasn’t been for years. In fact, she’s on like 2 husbands after him. So, o linger step siblings.
@@susanmaggiora4800 true they’re not step-siblings in the literal sense but he calls her father dad and calls himself a “brother-type”. Don’t get me wrong, Clueless is awesome but it’s definitely weird
riverdale is unrealistic but in the worst way possible need i remind you of "i dropped out of school at the age of 10 to help my nana sell drugs" "that means you haven't experienced the triumphs and defeats, the epic highs and lows of high school football"
@@sophiewang4205 *in case you haven’t noticed, i’m weird. i’m a weirdo. i don’t f i t i n and i don’t want to fit in. have you ever seen me without this s t u p i d hat? that’s weird...*
yes yes yes about your dialogue rant! in my screenwriting class, we learned that dialogue shouldn't be super realistic and that scripts shouldn't show what we do say irl, but instead what we WISH we had said like hours after a convo and I love that
Thank you so much for talking about how coercion is not consent. This truly hit home for me. About 6 months ago I left a 3.5 year long abusive relationship, and he *respected* my “no’s” but his reaction always made me feel guilty and like I had to give in. Thank you for taking about this, it makes me feel so much less alone. I’m a bit older (22 in a week) and I wish I learned this in therapy when I was younger.
actually for anyone who wants something like cher’s closet machine thing, there’s an app on iphones and ipads called smartcloset and it’s a good bit of work to set up, but it’s soo worth it. you take pictures of all your clothes, you catalog them into the clothing colour, type of clothing, season, and stuff like that, and then when you’re done, you can either scroll through all your clothes and pick an outfit out or you can ask it to randomize you an outfit (you can even specify what you want in it like a top, pants, shoes, etc) and it generates an outfit based on what colours and stuff goes well together
Mona May is the costume designer! She also did Enchanted, Never Been Kissed, The House Bunny, Romy and Michele, and a load of Disney movies like Camp Rock 2 and Stuck in the Suburbs! iconic
even if teenagers don't talk like that, sometimes they probably wish they were that witty and funny in casual conversation. if it was awkward like conversations often are in real life the movie wouldn't be as good
Me explaining why I still don’t have a drivers license at 20 yrs old: *”I have said this many times to people in my life. I have a lot of odds going against me when it comes to driving.”*
I didn’t get mine til I was 25, like I legit procrastinated getting it done for years between work and school and now I’m so comfortable behind the wheel, esp. because I got my license and car in the same week and almost immediately had to drive over the county line every day for a work project.
I'm 15 years old but honestly I'm afraid of the driver's license issue I mean, I get the paranoia to get bumpy or hurt someone. And so far I can't even go by bus because 1. I don't know how to use it at all 2. I can only when it is empty because if it is full I get panic attacks
@@alexandraquiroz1018 mastery and comfort come with practice and time. The best thing for a new driver I believe is routine: driving along the same route, one you’re already familiar with, and night driving. I still to this day prefer driving at night, just empty streets and my radio blasting. Try to preempt high traffic hours by heading out early so you can avoid all that chaos until you’re comfortable. Very few people are “naturals” at driving, it does take some getting used to the depth perception and awareness of the car’s dimensions. Honestly you also might learn better driving with a friend who’s licensed; parents are statistically awful at teaching driving, they can’t get past their own panic and controlling tendencies.
11:30 i like to think of movies by their purpose: whether they should be enjoyed or watched. you don't watch disney princess movies because they're high cinema, and noah baumbach's dialogue is so realistic it can get exhausting to watch. so i rly agree that dialogue doesn't always have to be realistic, that witty banter is fun to watch and it serves its purpose
I love how the bulk of this video, it’s just a commentary on fashion. Honestly, you noticed things I never would have noticed otherwise and it’s great!
thank you so much for bringing up the topic of consent and boundaries in coming off age movies and real life. i have a similar experience to you, when i was younger, i'd watch scenes where the girl would say no to a hot boy and cringe at it. now that i'm older i understand that such reactions easily led me into questionable situations where i'd feel obliged to say yes even when i'd want to say no. you had a very interesting take on how your personal boundaries shouldn't hurt people around you. i even wrote it down to remember it so thank you for your little help :)
@@thelittleunicorn6196 I honestly can't remember much some of the plot to it so I just copied this text from google: Orphan Mary Katherine Gallagher, an ugly duckling at St. Monica High School, has a dream: to be kissed soulfully. She decides she can realize this dream if she becomes a superstar, so her prayers, her fantasies, and her conversations with her only friend focus on achieving super-stardom.
A year ago when I was 15, I got into a similar situation like you. I had thing with this guy, we met up a couple of times and were really good friends. I didn't really had feelings for him and he told me he just wanted to be friends. I was happy about that, because I dont have many friends, I am very introverted. So we met up and we got to his room, where I slightly started feeling uncomfortable. He sat down on his bed and spread his arms open, like he wanted to have a hug. I didn't wanted to make the situation akward so I gave him a hug. He asked me if we want to cuddle (before he would say some pretty self pitty things that no body likes him blabla) I normally dont really cuddle with friends, I dont like the closure to anyone than my parents. But i thought "this is what normal friends do right?" so I agreed to cuddle with him. After a while I got up and was done with cuddling, because I felt uncomfortable. He asked me why i would do than and than he wanted to cuddle more. While we cuddled his hands went to weird places on my body (like butt and waist), places where my friend should not touch me, just a person I love like my boyfriend and he wasn't my boyfriend. I told him to not touch those. He asked me why I was so weird and if I was "ASEXUAL" he also said that this was a totally normal thing to do. He would do it all the time while cuddling with friends. I was like: no, I am not asexual, I just dont want it and stuff. (I know I should just have left by know, but I felt akward all the time and thought that I was just overreacting) So, we began to watch a series (totally unfunny one, but he wanted to watch it and I can't say no to stuff soooo) and he layed his head on my lap, where I didnt feel uncomfortable because he wouldnt toutch my body that way. Later he started to lay down and asked me if I could lay down too, so it would be better for him to watch. This weirdly turned into another cuddling session, where I was (again) feeling weird. THAN he asked me if he could toutch my boobs. (he did really asked, just pointed at them in a weird way) I said no (it would be just weird to freak out at this point, because it was a really calm situation, but I WOULD now if I could time-travel) So he didnt. But later he weirdly brushed with his hands over my boobs and I told him to stop doing that. He was telling me again that it is TOTALLY normal bEcAuSe he is doing this with his friends ALL THE TIME! and that I was asexual and prudish. After a couple of minutes I said I had to go home, he asked me if I could stay and I said no. I quickly went home and felt really guilty on the way. I felt guilty because I thought I should just had said NO louder and that it was my fault. I stopped texting him after that, I wanted to quit the friendship quickly. After a couple of months he asked me if we could met up again and stuff, but I just straight said, I was bussy. To this day, I still have to see him because he is going to my drama class. We talk sometimes. but not more. ALSO thx to anyone reading this, it was a lot I know. I hope you all stay safe. Don't do things that make you uncomfortable, even if you know this person for long.
That must have been crazy uncomfortable! I’m sorry you went through that. I hope you don’t have to interact with him anymore. You don’t need people who don’t respect you in your life. Take care!
your comment about realistic dialogue is so true!!! i see people clowning maddy for talking like she does but honestly that's just part of why i enjoy her so much
That internalized misogyny that leads us to see a girl rightfully protecting herself and think “poor guy” like he’s the victim... Society is the worst. I’d automatically think the same as you when I was younger unfortunately. 😞
YES. "Setting boundaries doesn't hurt anybody" YES. I'm so happy you have a platform where you can say things like this. Hearing that would have been so nice as a kid, because I spent so much time being so afraid of hurting feelings and saying no. I love you so much.
Thank you so much Trin for talking about “saying no”. As a girl (this can happen to guys too) I’ve found myself saying no to guys and feeling bad or me saying no at the beginning then a guy convincing me to say yes. It’s taken me a lot of time to figure out that this was WRONG and that I should have boundaries and if someone can’t respect that they aren’t worth my time and they are a price of 💩.Period. Love you trin❣️
i’ve always had trouble with saying no but now that you’ve brought up the fact that that situations like this are in movies all the time, i realized that i think i experienced the same thing. i feel like in some movies they focus on the person assaulting someone’s feelings so we can feel bad for them, when it should be the other way around. i’ve always had trouble with saying no, whether it be sexual advances or non sexual advances, and it always makes me feel guilty even though i know i shouldn’t. i love when you have these little “serious” talks during movies because it makes me feel so valid because i usually always relate.
I agree with the dialogue in coming of age films comment. I kind of see it more as like.. What do teens want to see? They don't want to see someone who is exactly like themselves they want an exaggerated or unrealistic version. Also, it's kind of like the same thing as bright colours in babies/young kids media. Like in babies media sensory stuff is very helpful for growth. And similarly in young adult media, the tone, the character, the persona of these characters really helps young adults to build themselves, to build their own humour, to build their own personality, I think the characters and dialogue being a bit over the top really helps young adults do this. I also think films need to start being a bit more responsible on how they portray situations if they're targeted at young people because 100% the same I grew up watching Grease literally every single day I broke like 2 VHS tapes and one DVD from watching it over and over I'd watch it no lie like twice a day when I was legit a toddler to like 7. It's a big foundation of my childhood and my experience and oh man did stuff like the car scene where she's like no fuck me up. I grew up thinking like well if we're in a relationship I shouldn't say no, right????? And that's so messed up, films need to really be careful about plot points like that.
your sentiments about boundaries and sympathy for the person applying the pressure rather than the pressured really resonated with me . it’s something that you end up burying as an emotion really often while simultaneously internalizing it . it bleeds out into everything, making you do things you don’t want to, while also being so deep that you can’t dissect it . thank you for talking about this . (also: mean girls being from the perspective of tai shook me to my core)
I also had trouble with saying No to anybody when I was younger especially the car scene. It affected me a lot when I watched this as a kid. Now I know that I can say No when I don’t want to do anything I don’t have to. Love you Trin ❤️
Your convo at 19:21 kinda made me feel better since i went through a similar thing really recently, when i said a big no he flipped out so i really left him with a huge no. Its nice to have someone to relate to Personal lesson: People, always so no directly, dont just say eg. Im not in the mood, some people cant take hints
Thank you, just thank you honestly for your serious conversation in the middle of your reaction. Around 19:20 I just started crying after you said that we shouldn't feel bad for saying no and laying down boundaries. I can't talk to the people around me about my past experiences so I have no one to tell me what I did wasn't wrong, even though someone made me feel like I was. What you said made me feel less guilty about myself and my situation. Your commentary just hit close to home and it was much appreciated, thank you!
My favorite line is the “you’re a virgin who can’t drive” because in an interview the actress said that while filming she was actually a virgin who couldn’t drive
If that isn't me then I don't know what is
Alicia Silverstone or Brittany Murphy?
You gotta love Brittany
Brittany is dead she was a legend
One actress of "Bridgerton" cited that line abt her character and the character's bff 🤣🤣
me: attracted to paul rudd in the 90's
me: still attracted to paul rudd in 2021 because that man barely ages
Even if he did age he's a total cutie
Ooof and the scene in Ant Man where he takes off his shirt after training and he’s buff as hell, and Evangeline Lilly watches him with her head tilted I FELT THAT BECAUSE SAMEEEE
he’s literally a vampire
@@ccamilacedeno maybe...
He is a dilf
netflix shouldve hired clueless’s costume designer for winx
I know right Mona may is a genius
Netflix should have made a good Winx movie and respect the actual animation
@@natl5692 EXACTLY! I think we should attack the show like everybody attacked the sonic movie so they change it lol
@@candaceisntonline the only problem with that is the first season is already shot. They were able to change sonic because he was an animated characters and he didn’t actually exist in the filmed scenes so it was easy for them to change his design.
That’s harder to do with live action actors. Season 2 is when they’d actually be able to do anything about the outfits/color palettes for the characters.
@@natl5692 WAIT THERES A MOVIE???
Trin talking about Cher’s hair like her’s isn’t just as perfect !!!!
She was like “it has body and it moves” hers was literally doing the exact same thing!!!
Bruh exactly! I was looking at her in the corner of the screen like "are you not seeing what I see?"
Exactly!!! I was like Trin your hair is literally from a shampoo commercial wdym 😭
Thats what i was thinking!
"coercion is not consent" well said Trin, everyone needs to hear that regardless of their age, and the earlier you hear that the better
I can’t believe that in 2021 the computer dressing thing doesn’t exist. Someone make it right now.
Babes there’s an app called Purple that works this way. You basically take pictures of every piece of clothing you have as well as shoes and they algorithm chooses it for you. Btw, there’s probably more apps like that lol
@@ccm1049 I hate the app
@@ccm1049 is it called "pureple"? that's the only one i could find
@@mayo597 yeah probably I think it got auto corrected.
@@ccm1049 omg just downloaded
I’ve always been kind of mad that no politician has ever said, “It does not say RSVP on the Statue of Liberty” during a debate on immigration
I mean, Lincoln and MAYBE JFK would have, but no other one would have at least a shred of kindness, respect, and just not being an “invading” hypocrite, for that,.. like “we stole their land and did all this horrific stuff and still do, but anyway ours so no one else is legally allowed unless they follow ALL our ludicrous unrealistic rules. Anyone else is the worst ever.”
“It’s not harmful at all to set your boundaries.” Our girl is out here preaching!
"You're a virgin who can't drive"
Brittany Murphy years later : "At the time I was a virgin who couldn't drive"
Tea
Isn’t she.. you know, dead?
@@kaydollar2490 she was alive for many years after this movie before passing away. She was in many movies after that as well. But yeah, thanks for killing the mood. Geez.
@@BohemianAnthem I guess you’re welcome
@@kaydollar2490 😒😒😒😒😒😒
You know what I love about this movie? That Cher is genuinely the nicest girl and she is so kind, she might be a lil clueless (duh) but she has a heart of gold, she helps her friends and genuinely cares for them. And she is girly too! I love that, I love that she cares about how she looks and is a FASHION ICON. It shows that a girl can be girly and also be smart an caring. I LOVE THIS MOVIE UGHHH. And also the resolution with Cher and TY, that they didn’t became enemies, but they apologized and solution their issues. Ughhh what a masterpiece.
And I Loved That They Normalized Teens That Don’t Lose The V Card So Early
Actually she only made Tai her friend because she took pity on her.
@@josebarrozo7620 she still cared for her and wanted what was best for her and it’s better that she became her friend rather than just making fun of her
ok but i never noticed that girl was stealing the yard decorations, thank you trin lmao
It's a reference to the source material, Emma by Jane Austen
Why does Trin slay every outfit she wears like even if she were to wear the most basic outfit she’d still look hella good lol
omg i know right
Ik it might not be a big deal for alot of people but this outfit was worn by Jennie from blackpink (K-pop group) sounds weird but many people started wearing this alot after she wore it, I've seen trin's old videos I can figure out she stans twice(K-pop group) but I really didn't know whether she likes blackpink or not but when I saw her wearing this outfit my delulu blink self got happy without a reason 😭
I don't even know 💞
trin the trendsetter 🤾🏽♀️
@@JungkooksWhore. i’m a blink too and it makes me happy to see two of my favorite girls twinning! i rly wanna buy this outfit too one day
Trin talking about Cher's hair like LOOK AT YOURSS
RIGHT her hair is so beautiful
I LOVE TRIN ADDRESSING THE CAR SCENE WITH CHER AND ELTON. it’s such an important topic to touch on. it’s okay to set boundaries about what you’re comfortable with, without feeling guilty. I love you trin!!
I agree with trin I had a ex who would try to make me do something that I didn't want to do
Think the reason why we feel bad for the guys in those situations in movies is because of dialogue. The guys get defensive and victimise themselves, and push blame over on the recipient claiming theyve been giving off hints and flirting etc. When you're younger you don't pick up on manipulative behaviour like that, and even when you're older it's nlt necessarily easy to pick up on either.
And the fact that she brought up the car scene with Sandy and Danny in Grease! I always think about that scene and how we're supposed to feel bad for Danny when uhhhh he sexually assaulted her??? So happy Trin brings these things to light👏🏼
I had the same thing as trin it’s nice to see I wasn’t alone cos I’ve now felt super guilty for thinking that
I love trin my favorite video that she made was the after we collided dud that was so funny I wached it twice
Trin matching her outfits to the movie is her version of Dylan matching his lighting 😌and I’m so here for it
Omg yeeees
A fellow Asian bisexual woman that can’t drive I’m living for this rep
nt gen same it was so embarrassing having to do range and simulation esp bc my parents never taught me anything so i didn’t even know how to turn on the turn signal.
asian bisexual women who can't drive gang rise up
I’m not Asian but I too am bisexual and can’t drive, may I join 🥺
@@vi_cesario I have been summoned
I am an Asian bi-romantic sometimes woman and I felt that!!!
I rewatched the movie awhile back and realized that even though her dad was busy he was such a good dad to Cher
I wish she went over the scene where Cher opens up to her dad about the boy she likes (Josh) and he basically tells her any boy would be crazy not to like her, it's so freaking sweet :')
Trin said “sorry I’m too gay to drive” and honestly, biggest same ever
Same 😂
Ikr??
Sis When I First Started To Learn The Basics Of Driving, I Crashed Into Two Bushes, A Pole And My Mom's Other Car 🤡
@@hailey-rosevintora6211 damn
I thought you were about to say “I’m so gay I can’t even drive straight” 😂
Well that too but-
I think cher is a great character yes she’s criticized for being a “dumb blonde” or whatever but i swear her and elle woods show girls that kindness is a trait to be admired and emulated
@@tjc2121 I havent watched Legally Blonde in quite a while so correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't the whole point of the movie to go against the "dumb blonde" stereotype by showing that Elle is actually really smart?
@@tjc2121 the whole point of the movie is that she doesn’t fit that stereotype
@@tjc2121 i think you misunderstood the point. the fact she acts the way she does is that those character traits should not be qualified as dumb. she is just the way she is and that does not talk about her intelligence. for example I can be super idiotic and be fascinated by pretty things(earings, dresses, shoes, kpop, etc) but on my free time I sometimes read stuff about politics and history, and whatever. I'm also going to college to be a teacher and interested in things like activism, about lots of stuff. i can however say pretty stupid bs and enjoy it. is kinda like the appearance of someone does not change how that someone is.
@@tjc2121 they were correcting you to help you not make you feel stupid
@@tjc2121 some people might have only read your comment and not the replies like chill out
Speaking of the witty dialogue, I honestly don’t think it’s that far off from how some teenagers talk. I talk like that half the time as a mix of loving characters that are witty and that my family really likes to tease each other. My friend group tends to tease each other a lot as well, and it ends up sounding a lot like this, if not a little more clumsy cuz it’s not scripted
yeah girl meets world also got critiqued for the dialogue being unrealistic too, but at least for me I tended to talk and reflect like the characters did long before I watched it. Especially if the dialogue is almost poetic or rhythmic (ex. Shakespeare) it keeps me interested in it and seems to flow well
Also people have to remember these movies and tv shows are *fiction* so they're allowed a little imagination and for things to be a little unrealistic because, well, that's the whole point. It's fiction. So things like that don't bother me.
i think my way of speaking has been affected a lot by these witty coming of age films lol
your commentary is everything trin!!! loved the serious topics you discussed within such a classic movie- love you!
Can we talk about Paul Rudd never ageing though...? The man is magic, I swear
He's in his 50s but looks 27 max. It's crazy.
Paul Rudd is the new Ralph macchio
HE LITERALLY LOOKS THE SAME its like he never aged
Hes a vampire confirmed?
it's because he's unproblematic ❤︎
Trin talking about Cher’s hair is literally me talking about her hair every single video
I feel like they shouldve just made Paul Rudd a family friend instead her ex step brother bc that weirds me out. Other than that, love this movie!
It’s weird it’s based on the book Emma and he was just a family friend in that so don’t know why they did that
@@emmagwynne1965 that makes it weirder, why would they add that?
@@amberwingtundrawing776 I think it’s because in the book the love interest is the main character’s sister’s brother in law so they’re kinda related but not rlly
Yesss or like intern for her dad’s firm, any of those ideas would’ve been better
Kaeya H. 1000000% agree it was strange even when I was like 10 watching it for the first time 😭.
"I don't wanna see how people talk in real life because *I talk to people in real life* " ok no need to brag trin pls 😫
"Coercion is NOT consent." 👏🏿👏🏾👏🏽👏🏼
Thank you, Trin, you Queen!
I feel like this is the first time I've heard Trin explicitly say that she's bisexual and I'm so proud of her for it 🥺
If you watch one of her earlier Q & A’s she mentions it.
I’m literally obsessed with trin matching her outfit to the movie. this outfit is iconic.
Fun fact: the guy who played Elton was originally up for the role of Jack in Titanic. You can see his screen tests with Kate Winslet on UA-cam.
Jeremy Sisto
can we talk about how josh was looking at her while she was walking down the stairs but he couldn’t have seen her because he was literally facing a wall
He just felt how good she looked through some presence 😂
thank u for talking about Brittany Murphy I feel like she's not talked about enough
Clueless and Legally Blonde are my ultimate feel good movie
Whenever I feel so down this is what I go for
Ultimate power movie
Same! Also mean girls and easy A
@@annakaplan1251 omg I love Easy A
yass girl same!!! Also 10 things I Hate about you ❤️
person on screen: does anything
trin: "this is like glee when"
“People can’t see that I’m gay while driving” - Trin Lovell 2021
You don’t have to apologize when you get to serious topics, it’s really nice to hear you talk about stuff like the Elton scene and go into how it could be perceived. It’s very responsible and admirable 😊
how is she getting prettier every video I-
I'm completely on her page when she's talking about feeling bad when saying no. It took me 20 years to realize I can say no to sex. Growing up I was taught by not only movies and tv shows, but even church played a huge factor in my compliance. I think it's that way for a lot of young kids. They are conditioned to believe you have to always be complaint. Movies force that idea, church forces that idea, parents enforce that idea. So kids are always taught to say yes and do what their told and that ends up getting us hurt. As I said, it took 20 years and the man I have now to realize Im allowed to say no. I'm lucky to have the guy Im with. Whenever I don't seem like I want to have sex, he doesn't even ask and assumes my answer is no. It's just cuddles from then on. Ladies, it took me 20 years to find a great guy. One who doesn't pressure me, one who supports me through anything, one that always has my back. It will take time to find your perfect partner, just find one who doesn't make you feel uncomfortable. Find someone who puts your safety and comfortability before their wants and desires.
I’m 20 years old and watch Trin with my 12 year old sister. She doesn’t always listen to me but she Loves Trin so I’m so glad that Trin shared that tidbit about how important consent is and how saying no is okay. My sister has problems with standing up for herself so I’m glad she has such a good role model.
I was looking for a comment saying this I’m so glad Trin did that :)
THIS MOVIE IS THE BEST IVE WATCHED IT A MILLION TIMES AND LM ONLY 13
Yassss omfg yesss I am 15 and I know this movie like the back of my head
@@lilyrae6268 same
The back of my hand i think you mean 😂
ME TOO LMAOO THEY SHOULDNT HAVE PUT IT ON NETFLIX
omg you could me by daughter lol
trin: imma fight these stereotypes
also trin: dang these stereotypes got handsss!
To add to your dialogue monologue, I feel like dialogue back in the day was so iconic because it was sassy, witty, charismatic, and "cheesy". I mean, look at all of us now, quoting and being in love with the lines in the shows/films back then. But, when movies or shows try to replicate it now, it comes off cringe because of the way they end up executing it.
“There’s no drama on Pinterest” *Pinterest stealing from small artists as she speaks* haha I do agree other than art thieves that Pinterest is pretty peaceful
I’m on political pinterest there’s always fighting and drama
Pinterest is where I go to look at pretty things
@@noonstyles3973 me too, in fact most people do, and then unfortunately they use those pretty things as profile pictures or aesthetic posts and never credit the artist because Pinterest doesn’t even credit them. And then the artists lose business and feel like crap that someone’s using their art in an unintended way.
@@winter333 yeah it sucks
its a crime to not say “uhg as if” together with cher
"You don't need a reason to say no to something" I needed to hear that
Trin: I’m gay
Me: does your boyfriend know?!
Trin: I’m bisexual
Me: 😯
In fairness, I'm a bi, too, and I call myself gay all the time. And I am married to a cis man :D
who's her boyfriend? lowkey new to her fandom just curious lol.
@@marimuradyan3650 someone named Ryan? Does it matter?
@@Yukinoomoni oh it doesn't I was just curious :)
@@marimuradyan3650 sorry x_x
OKAY, I grew up in an abusive household; saying no is VERY difficult for me. I had my VERY first boyfriend at age 25 and I was having my first kiss with him. He then asked me if he can touch me (down there). I was SO nervous, this was my first sexual experience! SO many thoughts going through my mind, "what if he hates me if I say no, what if he breaks up bc I say no, what if he gets mad??? Should I just let him touch me? Oh GOD what do I do???" I was internally panicking, and in a matter of a second, all panic went away because he verbally said, "btw, it's totally fine if you don't want me to!" So I let out a little squeak of a "no, not now." And guess what, he said, "okay!" And we literally cuddled the whole night watching movies and fell asleep. I'm 28 now and were still together! Point is, the right person will NEVER pressure you and if you think they are going to get upset/mad at you when you lay down boundaries, they are NOT the person you want to be with!
That's really sweet, glad it turned out well
thats really sweet omg 🥺 i know its literally the bare minimum but u always hear of people that just dont respect boundaries whatsoever
I’m glad for you and hope you are out of that and things are better now!(: and exactly, as it should be!
Coming back to this video and forgot I left this comment! I'm still with him and it's been 5 years together and going strong~ :)
@@adoresessy101 i hope the best for you two 😭❤️
You skipped the iconic "Calven Klein."
"Looks like underwear!"
Moral of the story, Cher’s style was ahead of her time😌
A lot of People don’t know this but clueless is actually an adaptation of Jane Austen’s “Emma“
Yes!!!!!!!!!
Including the quasi incest?
@@AJ-pu9jq well yeah i’d say it’s the same degree of “it’s *technically* not incest“ lmao
@@AJ-pu9jq not really in emma, josh aka mr knightley is emma's brother-in-law's brother.
Aaaahhhhh I just learnt something! I never read Emma but I saw the Bollywood adaptation "Aisha" and yeah it's indeed the same plot!
sorry bout the audio whoopsie yall!!! LMAO i totally didn’t mean for that background music in the beginning, that’s my outro music and i must’ve pasted it into the beginning by mistake IM RLLY SRRY!!!!
Pls I need the links to your clothes but they're not thereee, that fit is way to cute for me not to buy
It’s ok trin💞
it’s completely fine! did something go wrong with it? :)
no worries :,)
It’s oki 👍🏼
I really love when you get serious sometimes and talk about important issues, like that car scene with Elton and how scenes like this affected you. I'm 25 and I feel like I still needed to hear that. "Setting down your personal boundaries is not hurting someone" is something I might put up on a wall in my room. Thank you! ❤️
That hair... FLOWY today, love it girl
I thought I was the only one simping Over her hair 😬
“””average audience viewer”” you mean a dude? Just say it, we’re all thinking it!!! Guys criticize these female characters so hardddd
Ok I get that this movie was based off of Jane Austen’s “Emma” but WHY DID THEY HAVE TO BE STEP SIBLINGS😀
Shelby Lalonde They’re not. It’s his 3rd wife’s kid & he’s no longer married to her & hasn’t been for years. In fact, she’s on like 2 husbands after him. So, o linger step siblings.
@@susanmaggiora4800 true they’re not step-siblings in the literal sense but he calls her father dad and calls himself a “brother-type”. Don’t get me wrong, Clueless is awesome but it’s definitely weird
yeah and hes in college shes in hs?
@@SoloDust fr like it would’ve been so easy to make their relationship Um... oh I don’t know.... NOT ILLEGAL AT THE VERY LEAST
ex step siblings, no blood relation and his brother isn't married to her sister like in Emma.
trin being mean to her bf every chance she gets is hilarious 😂
I read this after she called him a virgin loser🤣
This video:
50% Trin quoting the movie word for word
50% Trin obsessing over the outfits
That's me when I watch this movie
Trin's casual bisexuality as a fem presenting woman gives me LIFE, feeling very represented and i like it
"i don't like people talking like they talk in real life" and that's on Riverdale ✨
riverdale is unrealistic but in the worst way possible need i remind you of "i dropped out of school at the age of 10 to help my nana sell drugs" "that means you haven't experienced the triumphs and defeats, the epic highs and lows of high school football"
@@sophiewang4205 *in case you haven’t noticed, i’m weird. i’m a weirdo. i don’t f i t i n and i don’t want to fit in. have you ever seen me without this s t u p i d hat? that’s weird...*
🤣🤣
yes yes yes about your dialogue rant! in my screenwriting class, we learned that dialogue shouldn't be super realistic and that scripts shouldn't show what we do say irl, but instead what we WISH we had said like hours after a convo and I love that
like quicker/wittier comebacks etc.
Trin really just called her boyfriend a virgin loser, I'm dead 😂💀
Soon to be Ex...
I was SEARCHING for this comment
ic4ru5 ..stfu
When
@@bunbohue9235 26:38
"I've learned not to scream while passing a big truck" haha thats amazing and I completely relate
if an 18 year old saying “when i grow up i want-‘’ isn’t the most realistic representation of an “adult” idk what is-
Thank you so much for talking about how coercion is not consent. This truly hit home for me. About 6 months ago I left a 3.5 year long abusive relationship, and he *respected* my “no’s” but his reaction always made me feel guilty and like I had to give in. Thank you for taking about this, it makes me feel so much less alone. I’m a bit older (22 in a week) and I wish I learned this in therapy when I was younger.
*“ppl make fun of pinterest moms” gee willikers !! society putting down another thing women do*
why did I read this in a voice I didn’t even know I can do
why did I read "gee willikers" in the same way cory said "deeeelivery" in that's so raven lmao
can’t you see that im icy? SAME LIKE WTFF???? I have a hidden Midwestern accent ?????
Trin: “I’m only 5’8”
Me: *cries in 4’10*
Lol I'm 4'9... We're both smol ☺️
actually for anyone who wants something like cher’s closet machine thing, there’s an app on iphones and ipads called smartcloset and it’s a good bit of work to set up, but it’s soo worth it. you take pictures of all your clothes, you catalog them into the clothing colour, type of clothing, season, and stuff like that, and then when you’re done, you can either scroll through all your clothes and pick an outfit out or you can ask it to randomize you an outfit (you can even specify what you want in it like a top, pants, shoes, etc) and it generates an outfit based on what colours and stuff goes well together
her hair is everything it’s literally perfect
Mona May is the costume designer! She also did Enchanted, Never Been Kissed, The House Bunny, Romy and Michele, and a load of Disney movies like Camp Rock 2 and Stuck in the Suburbs! iconic
im tired of adults being like "tEeNaGeRs DoN't TaLk LiKe ThAT" um... sometimes we do
Honestly they should hire teenagers for the script writing if it has to have teens in it
What do you mean adults? I hear other teens saying that-
Wait- do Americans actually talk like that?
on occasion i've had my moments with my friends :)) (obviously we cant do that all the time, but sometimes the timing works excellently)
even if teenagers don't talk like that, sometimes they probably wish they were that witty and funny in casual conversation. if it was awkward like conversations often are in real life the movie wouldn't be as good
I- I'm so shook that you're 18. I'm 19 and I assumed you were like 20/21 I can't believe you're younger than me
Me explaining why I still don’t have a drivers license at 20 yrs old: *”I have said this many times to people in my life. I have a lot of odds going against me when it comes to driving.”*
Same now I don’t feel alone 😭
I didn’t get mine til I was 25, like I legit procrastinated getting it done for years between work and school and now I’m so comfortable behind the wheel, esp. because I got my license and car in the same week and almost immediately had to drive over the county line every day for a work project.
@@BlackXSunlight I JUST registered for a permit and have to wait 3 months (due to covid), but this comment is comforting to hear!
I'm 15 years old but honestly I'm afraid of the driver's license issue
I mean, I get the paranoia to get bumpy or hurt someone.
And so far I can't even go by bus because
1. I don't know how to use it at all
2. I can only when it is empty because if it is full I get panic attacks
@@alexandraquiroz1018 mastery and comfort come with practice and time. The best thing for a new driver I believe is routine: driving along the same route, one you’re already familiar with, and night driving. I still to this day prefer driving at night, just empty streets and my radio blasting. Try to preempt high traffic hours by heading out early so you can avoid all that chaos until you’re comfortable. Very few people are “naturals” at driving, it does take some getting used to the depth perception and awareness of the car’s dimensions. Honestly you also might learn better driving with a friend who’s licensed; parents are statistically awful at teaching driving, they can’t get past their own panic and controlling tendencies.
11:30 i like to think of movies by their purpose: whether they should be enjoyed or watched. you don't watch disney princess movies because they're high cinema, and noah baumbach's dialogue is so realistic it can get exhausting to watch. so i rly agree that dialogue doesn't always have to be realistic, that witty banter is fun to watch and it serves its purpose
NEVER apologize for makings a Glee reference. Also, you're totally right.
I love how the bulk of this video, it’s just a commentary on fashion. Honestly, you noticed things I never would have noticed otherwise and it’s great!
I NEVER noticed she was stealing the yard decorations at the party😂😂
If you like interesting dialogue, I really recommended Gilmore Girls! The dialogue is super unique and snappy!
thank you so much for bringing up the topic of consent and boundaries in coming off age movies and real life. i have a similar experience to you, when i was younger, i'd watch scenes where the girl would say no to a hot boy and cringe at it. now that i'm older i understand that such reactions easily led me into questionable situations where i'd feel obliged to say yes even when i'd want to say no. you had a very interesting take on how your personal boundaries shouldn't hurt people around you. i even wrote it down to remember it so thank you for your little help :)
Can you do an "Ella Enchanted" commentary or a "Superstar" commentary.
Bro, Ella Enchanted is my everything
@@tegan6554 that movie was my childhood. i watched it over and over and over.
What’s superstar about? And I loved Ella Enchanted when I was younger omggg
@@thelittleunicorn6196 I honestly can't remember much some of the plot to it so I just copied this text from google:
Orphan Mary Katherine Gallagher, an ugly duckling at St. Monica High School, has a dream: to be kissed soulfully. She decides she can realize this dream if she becomes a superstar, so her prayers, her fantasies, and her conversations with her only friend focus on achieving super-stardom.
SUPERSTAR YES
A year ago when I was 15, I got into a similar situation like you. I had thing with this guy, we met up a couple of times and were really good friends. I didn't really had feelings for him and he told me he just wanted to be friends. I was happy about that, because I dont have many friends, I am very introverted. So we met up and we got to his room, where I slightly started feeling uncomfortable. He sat down on his bed and spread his arms open, like he wanted to have a hug. I didn't wanted to make the situation akward so I gave him a hug. He asked me if we want to cuddle (before he would say some pretty self pitty things that no body likes him blabla) I normally dont really cuddle with friends, I dont like the closure to anyone than my parents. But i thought "this is what normal friends do right?" so I agreed to cuddle with him. After a while I got up and was done with cuddling, because I felt uncomfortable. He asked me why i would do than and than he wanted to cuddle more. While we cuddled his hands went to weird places on my body (like butt and waist), places where my friend should not touch me, just a person I love like my boyfriend and he wasn't my boyfriend.
I told him to not touch those. He asked me why I was so weird and if I was "ASEXUAL" he also said that this was a totally normal thing to do. He would do it all the time while cuddling with friends.
I was like: no, I am not asexual, I just dont want it and stuff. (I know I should just have left by know, but I felt akward all the time and thought that I was just overreacting)
So, we began to watch a series (totally unfunny one, but he wanted to watch it and I can't say no to stuff soooo) and he layed his head on my lap, where I didnt feel uncomfortable because he wouldnt toutch my body that way. Later he started to lay down and asked me if I could lay down too, so it would be better for him to watch. This weirdly turned into another cuddling session, where I was (again) feeling weird.
THAN he asked me if he could toutch my boobs. (he did really asked, just pointed at them in a weird way)
I said no
(it would be just weird to freak out at this point, because it was a really calm situation, but I WOULD now if I could time-travel) So he didnt. But later he weirdly brushed with his hands over my boobs and I told him to stop doing that. He was telling me again that it is TOTALLY normal bEcAuSe he is doing this with his friends ALL THE TIME! and that I was asexual and prudish. After a couple of minutes I said I had to go home, he asked me if I could stay and I said no. I quickly went home and felt really guilty on the way. I felt guilty because I thought I should just had said NO louder and that it was my fault. I stopped texting him after that, I wanted to quit the friendship quickly. After a couple of months he asked me if we could met up again and stuff, but I just straight said, I was bussy. To this day, I still have to see him because he is going to my drama class. We talk sometimes. but not more. ALSO thx to anyone reading this, it was a lot I know. I hope you all stay safe. Don't do things that make you uncomfortable, even if you know this person for long.
That must have been crazy uncomfortable! I’m sorry you went through that. I hope you don’t have to interact with him anymore. You don’t need people who don’t respect you in your life. Take care!
trin is a time traveler confirmed
your comment about realistic dialogue is so true!!! i see people clowning maddy for talking like she does but honestly that's just part of why i enjoy her so much
That internalized misogyny that leads us to see a girl rightfully protecting herself and think “poor guy” like he’s the victim... Society is the worst. I’d automatically think the same as you when I was younger unfortunately. 😞
YES. "Setting boundaries doesn't hurt anybody" YES. I'm so happy you have a platform where you can say things like this. Hearing that would have been so nice as a kid, because I spent so much time being so afraid of hurting feelings and saying no. I love you so much.
When trin her hair up omg that was literally the cutest quick ponytail I've ever seen
Fr, I wanna try and learn to do that, it's sooo cute but its complicated for me idk whyyy🥺😖
@@lizmunoz8155 my hair does not allow that ughh I wish tho
@@alyssawilson8172 Maybe that's why it's so difficult for me🤔
TRIIIIN, it will be awesome if you do Pride and Prejudice🙆♀️
I can not believe she called Rick Astley, “Rick roll” because of the trend... what has this generation become 😆
you should make a podcast. your voice is so nice and i realized when you were talking about boundaries that i could just listen to you talk for hours
IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE TURN IT UP‼️‼️‼️
"im so sorry for making a glee reference"
No, i'm just upset that you think the goddess Cher is like Tina
exactly lol
Thank you so much Trin for talking about “saying no”. As a girl (this can happen to guys too) I’ve found myself saying no to guys and feeling bad or me saying no at the beginning then a guy convincing me to say yes. It’s taken me a lot of time to figure out that this was WRONG and that I should have boundaries and if someone can’t respect that they aren’t worth my time and they are a price of 💩.Period. Love you trin❣️
i’ve always had trouble with saying no but now that you’ve brought up the fact that that situations like this are in movies all the time, i realized that i think i experienced the same thing. i feel like in some movies they focus on the person assaulting someone’s feelings so we can feel bad for them, when it should be the other way around. i’ve always had trouble with saying no, whether it be sexual advances or non sexual advances, and it always makes me feel guilty even though i know i shouldn’t. i love when you have these little “serious” talks during movies because it makes me feel so valid because i usually always relate.
Oh to be in a rich teen friend group in California, and my only personality trait is ✨nepotism ✨
I agree with the dialogue in coming of age films comment. I kind of see it more as like.. What do teens want to see? They don't want to see someone who is exactly like themselves they want an exaggerated or unrealistic version. Also, it's kind of like the same thing as bright colours in babies/young kids media. Like in babies media sensory stuff is very helpful for growth. And similarly in young adult media, the tone, the character, the persona of these characters really helps young adults to build themselves, to build their own humour, to build their own personality, I think the characters and dialogue being a bit over the top really helps young adults do this.
I also think films need to start being a bit more responsible on how they portray situations if they're targeted at young people because 100% the same I grew up watching Grease literally every single day I broke like 2 VHS tapes and one DVD from watching it over and over I'd watch it no lie like twice a day when I was legit a toddler to like 7. It's a big foundation of my childhood and my experience and oh man did stuff like the car scene where she's like no fuck me up. I grew up thinking like well if we're in a relationship I shouldn't say no, right????? And that's so messed up, films need to really be careful about plot points like that.
your sentiments about boundaries and sympathy for the person applying the pressure rather than the pressured really resonated with me .
it’s something that you end up burying as an emotion really often while simultaneously internalizing it . it bleeds out into everything, making you do things you don’t want to, while also being so deep that you can’t dissect it .
thank you for talking about this .
(also: mean girls being from the perspective of tai shook me to my core)
I also had trouble with saying No to anybody when I was younger especially the car scene. It affected me a lot when I watched this as a kid. Now I know that I can say No when I don’t want to do anything I don’t have to. Love you Trin ❤️
miss out on one of Trin’s uploads? “Ugh! As if!”
Your convo at 19:21 kinda made me feel better since i went through a similar thing really recently, when i said a big no he flipped out so i really left him with a huge no. Its nice to have someone to relate to
Personal lesson: People, always so no directly, dont just say eg. Im not in the mood, some people cant take hints
elton had no business being THAT attractive 🖐🙄 ESPECIALLY BECAUSE OF HIS CHARACTER 💔
Thank you, just thank you honestly for your serious conversation in the middle of your reaction. Around 19:20 I just started crying after you said that we shouldn't feel bad for saying no and laying down boundaries. I can't talk to the people around me about my past experiences so I have no one to tell me what I did wasn't wrong, even though someone made me feel like I was. What you said made me feel less guilty about myself and my situation. Your commentary just hit close to home and it was much appreciated, thank you!