She said he has bugs in his own house and he said "but we not talkin bout me right now." When will Black women recognize that they are only with you to use and/or abuse you.
She was crazy for even arguing with him, once he took his phone out and started recording in my house I would've picked that plate of food up and threw it in the garbage and them put him out of my house never to return again, these brokies be tripping.😡
It's very hard! It's like : "Babe, you're talking to a fool so you're talking too much for the situation. When God said you can not cast your pearls to swine, this is a prime example of what happens when you do.
That big bug he showed is a tree roach. They are common in GA. They have nothing to do with being dirty. You can find them in the cleanest homes and will only see one or two at a time and only a couple times out of the year. They primarily stay outside, though. They come in looking for food and water. If you have an attic, they come in through it. It’s those little roaches in the north that are due to filth, multiply like Bae Bae’s kids and live in your house like they on the mortgage.
Yes! I live near myrtle beach and they're bad! There's also certain plants that attract them during certain times. I saw one crawling on the sidewalk one day. I wanted to stomp it so bad. But little guy was outside just trying to make it so...🤷🏿♀️
He wants her to go to the back when his friends come over AND she pays all the bills?! I'm with her. I'll be damned if I am tiptoeing having to watch what I wear and who I talk to in my own house that I pay all the bills at. He really has some nerve on him
Ok, so let me see if I got this straight..... This is her house, he has no ownership there WHATSOEVER!!!! He pays NO bills IN HER HOUSE!!!! Yet he wants to invite his friends to HER HOUSE!!! He wants to ORDER AND DEMAND that she go in the back in some other room IN HER HOUSE WHERE I’M SURE SHE’S ALLOWING HIM TO STAY!!!! He also wants to be upset over her choice of clothing that she is wearing while relaxing IN HER HOUSE!!!! SERIOUSLY??????!!!!!!!!! Man get outta here!!!! If I was her, the moment he walks out the door I would CHANGE THE LOCKS, Block him on EVERYTHING!!!!! Then I would call the cops and have him arrested for trespassing if he dare even set foot on my property!!!!
OMG! 😲 My first husband used to demand that I stay in our room when his friends came over. He would say it was because he loved me so much and didn't want his friend to see me. It turned out that he was in a relationship with 2 different guys at different times. One of them was also married. (DL) The Universe revealed it in the most unique way. Messy business.
And these are the same bm, that say bw doesn't respect them. Gotta earn respect 1st. She invited him in her home cooked for him and this is her thank you.
This was the comment I was looking for! I detest purposeful ignorance. I don't give a damn if you are rich or poor in the projects or in a mansion if you live in Georgia there has DEFINITELY been a waterbug in every single home! It's inevitable in the South!
@@BlackGirlUnsolved I think I’d rather have roaches than centipedes or scorpions. Had a giant centipede crawl in through an open door. I beat it repeatedly because it would not die.
It's a way to treat a women like a child. It's antisocial behaviors, at a certain age you should have couple friend's that y'all can both interact with socially. Most of them feel that way because they broke and they don't trust their friends.
Aren't large roaches like that common in warmer climates? Yes you remove them if you see them but he's rude for that. If you have the small ones that crawl everywhere then you have a problem.
That Nakers was full of shit! If he lives in Georgia, projects or mansions, waterbugs are notorious! Believe me I know!! He just wanted to shine on her.
Exactly. I live in the southeast, and I know I'm clean. However, a roach or a Palmetto bug will slip in your home when you open the door or window. All they need is a little opening. They want to get out of the heat like everyone else.😊 He's a loser. I bet he probably got a bunch of roaches swept up in a corner and not picked up. I think all women have experienced the one minute you're beautiful, and next, you're ugly. Why? Because you turned a man down, and you weren't rude about it.
Yes.....someone else said that in the comments too. I've never been to the south but I know when I used to go to my dad's country in the Caribbean I would see these HUGE roaches but not many of them at one time. I'd never see more than two at the same time. It had nothing to do with being dirty because my dads family lived well over there. The guy in the video is a two time loser.......he lost a nice woman who cared enough to cook for him (these kangs always complaining that women don't cook) and he blew any chance of a sensible woman giving him the time of day. What a fool.
Exactly, living in Florida you see all kinds of bugs just stroll in, in the warmer weather months. And don't let it rain, they most definitely going to find a way in. 🌧️
So if a woman does something disrespectful and outta pocket, a man can let his anger get the best of him too, and get violent as well? Please tell me this isn't a double standard you have.
I remember years ago (back when I dated BM) I got off work, went to the store bought all the food for a special dinner. Went home made sure the house was clean, smelling nice as usual and cook this dinner. Called dude and told him what I was doing when food would be ready. He said cool. I waited, and waited and waited. My son even asked to eat and I asked him to wait a little longer because we were all going to eat. Long story short dude never showed up or called until days later with an obvious lie that he had car trouble and didn’t call because he thought I would be mad” Honestly what I was upset about was not even that he didn’t show up. It was that I got off work tired and went to the store and spent extra money for the dinner and I made my son wait when dude could have simply told me he didn’t want to come. It was my wasted time and money. These men are inconsiderate, childish and seriously don’t deserve good women. I been gone.
Please, said in love, don't make your child wait for a man who is not your husband. Careful not to stress or sideline the needs of your child as a result of trying to please a man. Said in love....
@@SonjaElizabethTeal If your conclusion is to leave these guys alone then your right on time, your not late for anything. I believe it’s the divine feminine that’s speaking and showing us women worldwide how to protect ourselves cause truly these men are toxic and we’re saving ourselves years of heart ache and pain🌹
@@PureNapture Never said he was starving. Children pick up on the subtle cues of their worth and importance to parents. Just giving a word in love. Take it for what it is.
I stopped eating food made in other people’s homes in 2020 after seeing how many people don’t believe in viruses, bacteria, sanitation or hand washing. But at the same time why did she argue with him, kick that man out as soon as he’s disrespecting you tell him to get out
Absolutely, in some places there will be water bugs. In some states, huge Palmetto Bugs fly. They are like roaches/water bugs. She might live in a very wooded area or have an infested neighbor.
South Alabama, where I used to live, also. And our home was not dirty!! My husband finally put our dogs and cat in the bedroom with our son and sprayed the s**t out of places under the sink, the cupboard area, the bathrooms, etc. Never saw another one. They're just hard to get rid of once they find a way in. (In our case, they'd come inside via a hole near the plumbing underneath the kitchen sink.)
They stay somewhere trying to make fun and shame someone and especially black women , now why not try and help her to rid her house of it with some kind of pesticide as a Man , but they would rather pull out their phone and record , always trying to be seen , Why not offer to help her find something to rid her house of them, Terminx is a great service pesticide young lady if you see this , but they dont be there to add any way looking for what they can subtract
This is definitely a low blow common though. They love too attack black women, always belittling defaming, trying to lower her self-esteem in any way possible it's disgusting and sad.. I notice lot of foreign women get off on BLM dissing BLW also. I believe it makes BLM and their preference feel superior and entitled too disrespect BLW. BLM think they will be more desirable too them by bashing and disrespecting his (mother's kind), too gain favor with other nationalities. I'm starting too believe it's an agenda being wage against American BLKW, their are too many American BLKM and Foreign Females doing it; they have to be receiving some funds from some unknown agency or something. A lot of them are jealous of black women too, especially if they can not leech off of a BLW, this may be the case He clearly is lacking that he had go to this BLW house too eat, because he doesn't have a job and probably too broke too do the basic (dinner and a movie).. like most employed men would do. He is gonna find fault with her one way or another; by deflecting away from how much of a asshole loser he is.. sitting in her house, complimenting and disrespecting, at the same time,in stead of overlooking the roach issue; addressing it with her later and saying.. thank you for feeding me; I really appreciate you caring for my broke trifling ass. 0:40 0:40
1 bug is not an infestation. It could've been poisoned and came there to die. Also, those are different than the smaller ones that run in packs. TREASONOUS BEHAVIOR!!! He came to take her food and maybe her body & decided to take her pride/ dignity instead; and for what!!!!?
The big recording to expose her.. was a mean “girl” move. The guy trying to shove his girlfriend in the other room because he can’t command the respect from his male friends-Too many black men are becoming freakishly feminine. …..Gossiping, drama driven and INSECURE. They are really good at being the mean ..jealous insecure high school girl role. Sad.
Excellent commentary, and it’s 100% true. These inadequate broke dusties who have to depend on a woman for financial resources are the ones who act the worst. They’re becoming “soft girls” because they want the woman to “spoil” him, but they want to be treated as “the boss”. The harlequin lady letting the guy have it in the skit was HILARIOUS! I was glad that I wasn’t drinking coffee when I saw that because I was laughing so hard. Ladies need to stop entertaining these broke men just so they can say that they “gotta man”. They also need to stop being Barbara the Builder with these bums. If they can’t level up on their own, move along.
Perfectly described the last dusty I had the misfortune of crossing paths with 😅 and he makes fun of me for ‘not having a man’ he is no man he’s a bum who sponges and leeches off women you don’t have a man if your paying all the bills you have company!
I need people to understand having roaches doesn't always mean folks are dirty. We recently had some new neighbors move in and all of a sudden their are roaches in my house, only to find out that the neighbors had bugs and didn't say anything to the complex, they just moved into another unit in the complex. I hate bugs so we are saving money to have this place treated and talk my apartment to court to reimburse our money cause our lease says they are supposed to take care of this and it been at least a year. We live in the desert and their are desert demon spiders and scropians out here. I cant do bugs in the house too.
The opportunist came to eat, and exposed the hand that was going to fed him to the world, and was arrogant about it. He could have said no thanks, but his warped immature nature only knew how to make a tik tok
My question is , why TF was she going back in forth with him? She probably bought the food , prepared it , and he had the AUDACITY to act like that? The moment she saw what he was doing , she should have kicked his dusty AZZ out and blocked his dusty azz phone number. Period.
@@PettyIsMyMiddleName For real......she fell for his nonsense by going back and forth with him. She gave him way too much of her energy and he absolutely loved every minute of it. Some people aren't even worth arguing with.
How is he trying to tell a woman in her home to go to the other room?🤔 Boy I wish a man would say I need you to go to the room so we can chill. Boi whaaa?!!! The lady with the tip incident missed him saying he have the other lady number in his phone. So that wasn’t any waitress that was his side chick so it looked like a grand gesture. I would have confronted him as soon as we made it to the car.
It’s crazy because he was trying to be funny, but I instantly noticed the moment where he changed his mind and actually wanted to stay. He regretted doing that, but she was going off on him so bad instead of begging for his approval ….he didn’t even know how to turn that train around.
Your dinner story reverse triggered me. I dated a Kang that accused me of being a “feminist “ ,one night at a restaurant his card was declined and he asked me to pay, and remarked “you never like to use your credit card”🏃♀️
I don't pay a single bill in our home & my husband would NEVER tell me to "go in the other room" or "change my outfit" while he has company. If anything his friends will just hang out on the back porch to drink beers & talk their shit. He rarely invites ppl over to begin with because our daughter & I enjoy running around our 3 bedroom house like it's a castle 🥰😂 I pray that woman escapes the dust storm.
He acted like she was dirty and had roaches 🙄 these big ones get in everyone’s houses … I’ve seen one come out of my vent. Then it flew at me I almost had a heart attack 😩 my aunt is a minimalist with a spotless house and she gets those big ones too. They call them tree roaches here and say they are around areas with more trees. Both of our houses literally have huge trees in the front but that’s how it is in our area 🤷🏻♀️ you don’t have to be “dirty” to get these . He’s ungrateful too since she just cooked for him 😤
In Florida, we call them Palmetto bugs. They will literally fly at you from a palm tree. That is just a fact of life. The small ones are a problem. Instead of him just picking it up for her, he would rather video it. Wow, what a man! Lol.
CRAZY! She cooked and served him and made sure he was comfy, and then that. He was disrespectful. I live in an apartment, and had been for 2 years, I don't invite anyone over, and the roaches didn't show up until my neighbors moved in, no matter how much I clean, they are there. This was unfortunate because she did have energy if a good woman .
He disrespected her by discussing her clothes in front of his friends… I question if he was trying to look manly in front of his friends… well then she pointed out that he didn’t have a job and didn’t pay any bills,
He wanted to embarrass her! If he had any respect for himself and he so “high value “ he would had simply dipped out without saying anything! I had dude cook me dinner at his house one day. When he handed me my drink it had a dead baby roach in it. I didn’t want to embarrass him so I said hey I think it’s something in my cup! He took it looked in it and apologized. I didn’t eat the food and he totally understood. I felt like he knew he had bugs but i didn’t need to point it out. I just don’t do folks like that. I still enjoyed his company. 🤷♀️He was a cool dude.
He went over there just to try and make her look bad "expose" her. To what? People have bugs doesn't mean they are dirty. A whole ass snake got into my house, so don't think roaches the only living creatures to somehow keep adapting to ish wouldn't be able to get into ANYONES home. And the fact he said we ain't talking about me right now, sir you just told on yourself. Take the camera home and show us you exposing yourself
If he feels like that he should have entertained his friends outside of the home. That’s not a huge place and he shouldn’t expect her to hole up in a single room while he and his friends hang out for however long. And she pays bills? Come on. Go out with your friends.
He wants to prove to those other dusties that he’s the man even tho he can’t afford all the bills alone 😂😂😂😂 he’s about to lose his roommate about to fuck around and find out
1. It was a water bug, not a roach 2. Recording in someone else home without their permission 3. Wanting respect as a man but refuses to provide 4. Arguing with a child in a man's body. When it comes to children, we aren't debating. Go sit in the corner until you calm down 😂
I live in GA. Those big roaches (water bugs) are common. I’m never surprised if I see one at someone’s house or at a store. He made a big deal about a bug when I guarantee he has them at his home also. Never waste energy just walk him to the door
Excellent examples. The clip that pissed me off the most was the guy who wrecked the lovely dinner date after seeing a roach. I'm dead sure that he wasn't there to share an emotionally intimate home cooked meal, and I'll be it if was smash & run date, he would have had no complaints about one or two roaches. And I'll bet that in his teens, he rarely if ever had dinner at the table with mother and siblings, and rejected her and gave her hell every time she tried to set rules or limits on his behavior. It's obvious to me he's had a LOT of practice creating chaos. I can't blame his parents, I've seen those mindless power struggles too often in my work before I retired.
Exactly what I thought, he came to smash and run. He didn’t want to spend time with her so he wanted to be petty and find a reason to leave cause he probably had no conversation anyway. Cooking for him was going to be way too good for him😡and I bet she could cook too. These guys are pathetic.
Boy that’s a cockroach outside water bugs look how big it is. My father-in-law had a bunch of fruit trees in his backyard. When I tell you the cockroaches used to come inside and he had a damn mansion with a swimming pool, so it was tons of water. This is Georgia. She don’t have a house full of little bitty, German roaches, running all over the food and stuff. I live in an apartment I am obsessed with cleaning when I say “excuse my house I haven’t had a chance to clean this morning” people look around and say clean what. I have literally gone to other peoples homes and started cleaning. It’s just an OCD thing for me. My neighbors downstairs moved out at the time they had roaches the roaches tried to come up and visit me I went directly to the office and they sent out pest control. Once they exterminated the apartment down below they came to do mine. I’ve seen no more bugs. He really did look for something to say about the child apartment. I don’t think it’s gonna work out the way he thought it was though
Instead of constantly arguing with men, like too many Black women do, why not just tell the man to leave. Why do we constantly act like we don't have any other choice but to put up with nonsense? The first man already disrespected the woman by putting her home on "blast". Some women don't have the confidence, intelligence and self love to cut these men loose. At least she had a house and food. Does he?
Yeah, i had a dude look down on my cute little 2 bedroom place - the whole time he was literally living in a sleepout on the bottom level of another familes home - you could constantly hear them walking around and making noise, stuff that! Nahhh, im good - at least my place is mine.
The audacity. You can be the cleanest person, and if you live in an area or have neighbors around who aren't, you will have roaches, ants, and any other vermin in her dwellings.
The $200 tip situation had to be a skit....no one in their right mind would do that or stand for that. I hope after she stopped recording, she kicked him out. SMH. WTF.
Yes there is, it's called winning the Darwin award or also known as testosterone poisoning...lol I vote that we get rid of any and all warning signs...
He wouldn't like the south then.We got giant ass wood roaches!!! You could have 3 maids clean ur house for months an have big traps but if u live in the woods u gunna see a wood roach or a stink bug some home get in ur house
He hated her before he even got there. The "roach" he needs to worry about is the one that looks back at him in the mirror every morning. Dustavious...
A guy tried to switch up on me with the "Ugly" insult after I rejected him. I asked him how I am all of a sudden "ugly" when I was a "beautiful queen" just a few seconds before when he approached me? He said he was just saying whatever to see if he could f*ck me. I just looked him dead in his face and said "So either you're a liar, you're desperate and have no standards. Which is it?" He shut tf and I just laughed and walked away 😂😂😂
Even if its a roach and not a water bug she was being kind and he was very disrespectful for a problem she may not have control over. That's a problem that could've been worked through calmly. Hell Disneyland got mad roaches lol
I will NEVER expose anyone for having roaches. It happens . Clean people have roaches because of their neighbors or because the place just has roaches. He is wack!
I would NEVER let a man live with me in my house. I expect a man to provide for me. But, if I somehow lost mine and did, you better believe I'm making the rules. You're going to dictate what I do and where I go somewhere I pay the bills. That first man was so disrespectful. He had no right to film her home without permission and put her on blast like that.
Ladies stop doing so much talking with these dusty dudes and cut them off. Y’all are part of the problem. You going back and forth with these dudes moving them in and doing the most stop it. Y’all so desperate for a man you accept anything.
This 🤡 First of all , roaches are not always associated with filth. The larger ones can enter during certain seasons , especially warmer months. A few years ago when I moved back home bc my elderly parent asked me to help him out , I would see these large roaches. I cleaned my azz off and couldn’t get rid of them. So eventually I called an exterminator and he told me it’s not always a filthy situation. In fact , there was a certain tree outside the house that attracted them and eventually some would enter the home. That dude is ridiculous. This is why I have eliminated EVERYONE in my life that can’t live without social media. Social media and clout chasing is one hell of a dr$ug. And let’s not even talk about the mental state of people watching too much social media, they ALL sound the same .
I lived in a gated community next to doctors and I found a roach in my house. sold that house to a Dr. too. and I was in the desert in Arizona. and we still had roaches from time to time.
Also. The dude who was crying about what she had on wanted her to turn around and say, "Show them" on video. He wanted her to go in another room because of his boys but show her body off to the world.
Dude is very disrespectful and mean. He should have not been recording anything. He only did that to embarrass her smh. She put all that effort into cooking for him just to be treated like shit. She should have snatched that plate away from him and put his sorry ass out super fast. She deserves a dude that is more mature and will treat her alot better!!!
The guy telling his GF to go to another room in _her_ house, where she pays the bills is *WILD* Imagine telling a woman what she can wear\go in _HER_ house??? Bruh, if u don’t like it… GTFO 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
She said he has bugs in his own house and he said "but we not talkin bout me right now." When will Black women recognize that they are only with you to use and/or abuse you.
She was crazy for even arguing with him, once he took his phone out and started recording in my house I would've picked that plate of food up and threw it in the garbage and them put him out of my house never to return again, these brokies be tripping.😡
This 👆🏾. That plate would have been in the garbage with the quickness and out my house.
In my head I already told him to get out. I'm not going back and forth with someone that does not live in my house.
Yup and call the cops if he doesn't leave.
Exactly
That's the common sense thing to do.
That roach clearly came with him😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
They do bring your roaches to your house. I had this happen twice and cost lots of money too.
They are twins 😂
He was the roach.
Lol😂😂😂
@@woodswal💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯😂😂😂
It's hard to listen to these women argue with losers. Smh
Very hard. I just told a good friend yesterday to PLEASE stop going back and forth with these Nakers!
Pay them dust!
They detest
to be ignored!
Way too gracious and you can hear sadness & pleading to be heard in her voice, she doesn't deserve this.
Show him the door
It's very hard! It's like : "Babe, you're talking to a fool so you're talking too much for the situation. When God said you can not cast your pearls to swine, this is a prime example of what happens when you do.
You foolishly believe that you're talking to another human being.
He’s jealous of her.
Yep, petty too.
I said the same thing. Jealous.
Absolutely.
@@missam3404 Why is he at her house then. She doesn’t have a gun to his head. He wants to “expose” her bcs he doesn’t want anybody else over there.
And 🌈 that roach saved her.
the only roach i see is the one eating her food
😂😂😂😂
Well said, friend.
Best comment! 🏆🏆
😂😂😂😂😂
But she was saying the wrong words...she meant to say "get the fuk out now"
That part!
That's all she needed to say. She kept arguing. Guarantee he called her when he got home.
I like how he blurs his friends faces to protect their identities, but shows the gf face in order to shame her IN HER HOUSE 🙄
While simultaneously looking like a broke joke. 😂
That's why if you're single, no one can tell you how to dress.
And they are forever telling women to submit to them.
Pure comedy 😄
Exactly! All they would be submitting to is poverty, use and @buse. 🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️
@@kitkinder6439poverty is an upgrade! If u from Sudan w dem UNICEF ⛺️
That big bug he showed is a tree roach. They are common in GA. They have nothing to do with being dirty. You can find them in the cleanest homes and will only see one or two at a time and only a couple times out of the year. They primarily stay outside, though. They come in looking for food and water. If you have an attic, they come in through it. It’s those little roaches in the north that are due to filth, multiply like Bae Bae’s kids and live in your house like they on the mortgage.
Exactly! Especially in the basement
Yes! I live near myrtle beach and they're bad! There's also certain plants that attract them during certain times. I saw one crawling on the sidewalk one day. I wanted to stomp it so bad. But little guy was outside just trying to make it so...🤷🏿♀️
Yes
😂😂😂😂 They be looking for shelter down here during the rainy season
They have big bugs in Tennessee too
“You need to respect your man”. I’m tired of this patriarchy. What about her?? Why can’t you respect her by letting her be??
Right, why do some men equate respect with obedience?
One of the reasons I don't invite them nowhere and especially not into my house!
They will 😳 embarass TF out of you every time.
Never invite them in your house, they'll make it their house soon as they get comfortable
Never show a man your home and sanctuary. They will always make up sht
@@Cateyes767Yep.
They steal too ..had some take a purse out of my house and jewelry
He wants her to go to the back when his friends come over AND she pays all the bills?! I'm with her. I'll be damned if I am tiptoeing having to watch what I wear and who I talk to in my own house that I pay all the bills at. He really has some nerve on him
Ok, so let me see if I got this straight..... This is her house, he has no ownership there WHATSOEVER!!!! He pays NO bills IN HER HOUSE!!!! Yet he wants to invite his friends to HER HOUSE!!! He wants to ORDER AND DEMAND that she go in the back in some other room IN HER HOUSE WHERE I’M SURE SHE’S ALLOWING HIM TO STAY!!!! He also wants to be upset over her choice of clothing that she is wearing while relaxing IN HER HOUSE!!!! SERIOUSLY??????!!!!!!!!! Man get outta here!!!! If I was her, the moment he walks out the door I would CHANGE THE LOCKS, Block him on EVERYTHING!!!!! Then I would call the cops and have him arrested for trespassing if he dare even set foot on my property!!!!
I would never even pay half of the bills in a household . She’s wild taking care of a grown man … AND he’s ungrateful
OMG! 😲 My first husband used to demand that I stay in our room when his friends came over.
He would say it was because he loved me so much and didn't want his friend to see me.
It turned out that he was in a relationship with 2 different guys at different times. One of them was also married. (DL)
The Universe revealed it in the most unique way.
Messy business.
@@synthiamiller5990 Yeah if she even wanted to go nude its her home who is he to invite people over in the first place
@@greengoddess6355exactly what i thought one of his “homeboys” was his boo and he was getting SUPER JEALOUS 😂 glad you came out of that situation ok 😊
And these are the same bm, that say bw doesn't respect them. Gotta earn respect 1st. She invited him in her home cooked for him and this is her thank you.
Exactly.
That was a water bug. That’s not the same as house roaches/infestation.
This was the comment I was looking for!
I detest purposeful ignorance. I don't give a damn if you are rich or poor in the projects or in a mansion if you live in Georgia there has DEFINITELY been a waterbug in
every single home!
It's inevitable in the South!
@@SonjaElizabethTeal, Fl has them way more.
@@SonjaElizabethTealexactly. The college I stayed out had a centipede infestation and let me tell you. I cried.
@@BlackGirlUnsolved I think I’d rather have roaches than centipedes or scorpions. Had a giant centipede crawl in through an open door. I beat it repeatedly because it would not die.
Why didn't he just dispose of it tho?
These fools are telling women where to go in their own homes is ridiculous.
It's a way to treat a women like a child. It's antisocial behaviors, at a certain age you should have couple friend's that y'all can both interact with socially. Most of them feel that way because they broke and they don't trust their friends.
This is some treasonous ass behavior you're exposing to the world AB.
They have been doing this ish for decades, I'm just happy BW are finally starting to see who these ignorant males really are
Aren't large roaches like that common in warmer climates? Yes you remove them if you see them but he's rude for that. If you have the small ones that crawl everywhere then you have a problem.
That Nakers was full of shit! If he lives in Georgia, projects or mansions, waterbugs are notorious!
Believe me I know!!
He just wanted to shine on her.
Exactly. I live in the southeast, and I know I'm clean. However, a roach or a Palmetto bug will slip in your home when you open the door or window. All they need is a little opening. They want to get out of the heat like everyone else.😊
He's a loser. I bet he probably got a bunch of roaches swept up in a corner and not picked up.
I think all women have experienced the one minute you're beautiful, and next, you're ugly. Why? Because you turned a man down, and you weren't rude about it.
Yes.....someone else said that in the comments too. I've never been to the south but I know when I used to go to my dad's country in the Caribbean I would see these HUGE roaches but not many of them at one time. I'd never see more than two at the same time. It had nothing to do with being dirty because my dads family lived well over there. The guy in the video is a two time loser.......he lost a nice woman who cared enough to cook for him (these kangs always complaining that women don't cook) and he blew any chance of a sensible woman giving him the time of day. What a fool.
Exactly, living in Florida you see all kinds of bugs just stroll in, in the warmer weather months. And don't let it rain, they most definitely going to find a way in. 🌧️
That plate would be flying across the room the moment I saw him recording. That convo was too long.
So if a woman does something disrespectful and outta pocket, a man can let his anger get the best of him too, and get violent as well? Please tell me this isn't a double standard you have.
I remember years ago (back when I dated BM) I got off work, went to the store bought all the food for a special dinner. Went home made sure the house was clean, smelling nice as usual and cook this dinner. Called dude and told him what I was doing when food would be ready. He said cool. I waited, and waited and waited. My son even asked to eat and I asked him to wait a little longer because we were all going to eat. Long story short dude never showed up or called until days later with an obvious lie that he had car trouble and didn’t call because he thought I would be mad” Honestly what I was upset about was not even that he didn’t show up. It was that I got off work tired and went to the store and spent extra money for the dinner and I made my son wait when dude could have simply told me he didn’t want to come. It was my wasted time and money. These men are inconsiderate, childish and seriously don’t deserve good women. I been gone.
And though I'm late to the party
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I'm right behind you, Sister.
Other Women can HAVE these dusty "Kangs"!
Please, said in love, don't make your child wait for a man who is not your husband. Careful not to stress or sideline the needs of your child as a result of trying to please a man. Said in love....
@@SonjaElizabethTeal If your conclusion is to leave these guys alone then your right on time, your not late for anything. I believe it’s the divine feminine that’s speaking and showing us women worldwide how to protect ourselves cause truly these men are toxic and we’re saving ourselves years of heart ache and pain🌹
@@MsFunexperienceI’m sure he wasn’t starving. Take the story for what it is.
@@PureNapture Never said he was starving. Children pick up on the subtle cues of their worth and importance to parents. Just giving a word in love. Take it for what it is.
I stopped eating food made in other people’s homes in 2020 after seeing how many people don’t believe in viruses, bacteria, sanitation or hand washing.
But at the same time why did she argue with him, kick that man out as soon as he’s disrespecting you tell him to get out
He looks so demonic
Yes he do😢😢
😂 He looks like one of those dirty ones that bring roaches to your home .
If you knew she had roaches, why is he still over there.
Roaches like moist locations.Its a issue on Hawaii from what I hear.
Absolutely, in some places there will be water bugs. In some states, huge Palmetto Bugs fly. They are like roaches/water bugs. She might live in a very wooded area or have an infested neighbor.
New your & Vegas too, especially in Vegas.
South Alabama, where I used to live, also. And our home was not dirty!! My husband finally put our dogs and cat in the bedroom with our son and sprayed the s**t out of places under the sink, the cupboard area, the bathrooms, etc. Never saw another one. They're just hard to get rid of once they find a way in. (In our case, they'd come inside via a hole near the plumbing underneath the kitchen sink.)
They stay somewhere trying to make fun and shame someone and especially black women , now why not try and help her to rid her house of it with some kind of pesticide as a Man , but they would rather pull out their phone and record , always trying to be seen , Why not offer to help her find something to rid her house of them, Terminx is a great service pesticide young lady if you see this , but they dont be there to add any way looking for what they can subtract
This is definitely a low blow common though. They love too attack black women, always belittling defaming, trying to lower her self-esteem in any way possible it's disgusting and sad.. I notice lot of foreign women get off on BLM dissing BLW also. I believe it makes BLM and their preference feel superior and entitled too disrespect BLW. BLM think they will be more desirable too them by bashing and disrespecting his (mother's kind), too gain favor with other nationalities. I'm starting too believe it's an agenda being wage against American BLKW, their are too many American BLKM and Foreign Females doing it; they have to be receiving some funds from some unknown agency or something. A lot of them are jealous of black women too, especially if they can not leech off of a BLW, this may be the case He clearly is lacking that he had go to this BLW house too eat, because he doesn't have a job and probably too broke too do the basic (dinner and a movie).. like most employed men would do. He is gonna find fault with her one way or another; by deflecting away from how much of a asshole loser he is.. sitting in her house, complimenting and disrespecting, at the same time,in stead of overlooking the roach issue; addressing it with her later and saying.. thank you for feeding me; I really appreciate you caring for my broke trifling ass. 0:40 0:40
I wish I would have learned early the mental trauma from men like this is extremely emotionally draining.
He dgaf! Just looking for something to exploit! He can’t afford big spray it out his budget
He cracked me up he said we're not talking about me right now😂😂😂
Deflected quick. He brought her down to make her feel less than him.
1 bug is not an infestation. It could've been poisoned and came there to die. Also, those are different than the smaller ones that run in packs. TREASONOUS BEHAVIOR!!! He came to take her food and maybe her body & decided to take her pride/ dignity instead; and for what!!!!?
The big recording to expose her.. was a mean “girl” move.
The guy trying to shove his girlfriend in the other room because he can’t command the respect from his male friends-Too many black men are becoming freakishly feminine. …..Gossiping, drama driven and INSECURE.
They are really good at being the mean ..jealous insecure high school girl role. Sad.
Excellent commentary, and it’s 100% true. These inadequate broke dusties who have to depend on a woman for financial resources are the ones who act the worst. They’re becoming “soft girls” because they want the woman to “spoil” him, but they want to be treated as “the boss”.
The harlequin lady letting the guy have it in the skit was HILARIOUS! I was glad that I wasn’t drinking coffee when I saw that because I was laughing so hard.
Ladies need to stop entertaining these broke men just so they can say that they “gotta man”. They also need to stop being Barbara the Builder with these bums. If they can’t level up on their own, move along.
Perfectly described the last dusty I had the misfortune of crossing paths with 😅 and he makes fun of me for ‘not having a man’ he is no man he’s a bum who sponges and leeches off women you don’t have a man if your paying all the bills you have company!
I need people to understand having roaches doesn't always mean folks are dirty. We recently had some new neighbors move in and all of a sudden their are roaches in my house, only to find out that the neighbors had bugs and didn't say anything to the complex, they just moved into another unit in the complex. I hate bugs so we are saving money to have this place treated and talk my apartment to court to reimburse our money cause our lease says they are supposed to take care of this and it been at least a year. We live in the desert and their are desert demon spiders and scropians out here. I cant do bugs in the house too.
Just use cockroach gel, my friend is a pest controller and swears by it.
It’s crazy effective
He is mad because he thought she was stealing his pet. 😂😂😂😂😂
He probably brought that roach to her house. They travel.
The opportunist came to eat, and exposed the hand that was going to fed him to the world, and was arrogant about it.
He could have said no thanks, but his warped immature nature only knew how to make a tik tok
I hope she took that plate of food and threw it in the trash and put him out of her house
@PrettyBones-ho4rq Agreed.
My question is , why TF was she going back in forth with him?
She probably bought the food , prepared it , and he had the AUDACITY to act like that?
The moment she saw what he was doing , she should have kicked his dusty AZZ out and blocked his dusty azz phone number. Period.
@@PettyIsMyMiddleName For real......she fell for his nonsense by going back and forth with him. She gave him way too much of her energy and he absolutely loved every minute of it. Some people aren't even worth arguing with.
How is he trying to tell a woman in her home to go to the other room?🤔 Boy I wish a man would say I need you to go to the room so we can chill. Boi whaaa?!!!
The lady with the tip incident missed him saying he have the other lady number in his phone. So that wasn’t any waitress that was his side chick so it looked like a grand gesture. I would have confronted him as soon as we made it to the car.
Why choose him? Mannnnn, look at his eyes.....they say it all......There are nuts and bolts missing.
But he's still standing there arguing about some roaches when he said he was going to leave 🙄
It’s important to value and accept being single then to devalue yourself for a lousy kang just to say you’re in a relationship.
He disrespected HER by inviting his friends to HER home without HER permission and expecting her to leave.
The nerve. He probably be at his HOMIES house with MADD ROACHES playing NBA2k in the middle of his living room😂😂😂😂
It’s crazy because he was trying to be funny, but I instantly noticed the moment where he changed his mind and actually wanted to stay. He regretted doing that, but she was going off on him so bad instead of begging for his approval ….he didn’t even know how to turn that train around.
You are absolutely right!!!
@@switzer_no_switzing Yes! He was very much willing to just blow them roaches off the food and see it thru! Played hisself!
@@SRobinson-hr6me 🤣🤣🤣💨🪳
He needs to give her back her food and she should have kicked him out her house.
Your dinner story reverse triggered me. I dated a Kang that accused me of being a “feminist “ ,one night at a restaurant his card was declined and he asked me to pay, and remarked “you never like to use your credit card”🏃♀️
Seems he was the "feminist " expecting you to pay!
Oh I thought your money didn't matter tho?!
The dude TELLING THAT WOMAN 😂😂 to go in the room "IN HER OWN HOUSE!" And to top it off SHE PAYS THE BILLS!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
I don't pay a single bill in our home & my husband would NEVER tell me to "go in the other room" or "change my outfit" while he has company. If anything his friends will just hang out on the back porch to drink beers & talk their shit. He rarely invites ppl over to begin with because our daughter & I enjoy running around our 3 bedroom house like it's a castle 🥰😂
I pray that woman escapes the dust storm.
They are so violent verbally & physically!
He acted like she was dirty and had roaches 🙄 these big ones get in everyone’s houses … I’ve seen one come out of my vent. Then it flew at me I almost had a heart attack 😩 my aunt is a minimalist with a spotless house and she gets those big ones too. They call them tree roaches here and say they are around areas with more trees. Both of our houses literally have huge trees in the front but that’s how it is in our area 🤷🏻♀️ you don’t have to be “dirty” to get these . He’s ungrateful too since she just cooked for him 😤
Oh no. If one flew at me, I’d have a heart attack too. 😓😓but that’s good to know about tree bugs.
In Florida, we call them Palmetto bugs. They will literally fly at you from a palm tree. That is just a fact of life. The small ones are a problem. Instead of him just picking it up for her, he would rather video it. Wow, what a man! Lol.
Thank goodness for Angry Biracial channel!
thank you
CRAZY! She cooked and served him and made sure he was comfy, and then that. He was disrespectful. I live in an apartment, and had been for 2 years, I don't invite anyone over, and the roaches didn't show up until my neighbors moved in, no matter how much I clean, they are there. This was unfortunate because she did have energy if a good woman .
😑If I were her, I would have asked him to leave. That was too much dialogue for me.
He disrespected her by discussing her clothes in front of his friends… I question if he was trying to look manly in front of his friends… well then she pointed out that he didn’t have a job and didn’t pay any bills,
The nerve of this guy.she has a pest all right.
He wanted to embarrass her! If he had any respect for himself and he so “high value “ he would had simply dipped out without saying anything! I had dude cook me dinner at his house one day. When he handed me my drink it had a dead baby roach in it. I didn’t want to embarrass him so I said hey I think it’s something in my cup! He took it looked in it and apologized. I didn’t eat the food and he totally understood. I felt like he knew he had bugs but i didn’t need to point it out. I just don’t do folks like that. I still enjoyed his company. 🤷♀️He was a cool dude.
So, why is he staying???????
Because he set her up to shaming her.
Dude, hella smirked when she asked it's a good look for her to reach into her purse and pay.
Plus, he stood like a child
He went over there just to try and make her look bad "expose" her. To what? People have bugs doesn't mean they are dirty. A whole ass snake got into my house, so don't think roaches the only living creatures to somehow keep adapting to ish wouldn't be able to get into ANYONES home. And the fact he said we ain't talking about me right now, sir you just told on yourself. Take the camera home and show us you exposing yourself
If he feels like that he should have entertained his friends outside of the home. That’s not a huge place and he shouldn’t expect her to hole up in a single room while he and his friends hang out for however long. And she pays bills? Come on. Go out with your friends.
Or stop hanging out and get a better job so he can help pay the bills or better yet MOST of the bills
@@dollhouseq1530 He should be paying all of the bills, not just most of em.
He wants to prove to those other dusties that he’s the man even tho he can’t afford all the bills alone 😂😂😂😂 he’s about to lose his roommate about to fuck around and find out
It sound like she pay ALL the bills, honestly. She said I pay the bills and he surely did not disagree or say "so do I"
Sis, exactly. All I heard were crickets 😂
$200 tip baby and yo lady paid the bill 😂
1. It was a water bug, not a roach
2. Recording in someone else home without their permission
3. Wanting respect as a man but refuses to provide
4. Arguing with a child in a man's body. When it comes to children, we aren't debating. Go sit in the corner until you calm down 😂
All he did was reveal who he was. He thinks he embarrassed her but he just exposed that no woman should ever trust him to come inside her home again.
I live in GA. Those big roaches (water bugs) are common. I’m never surprised if I see one at someone’s house or at a store. He made a big deal about a bug when I guarantee he has them at his home also. Never waste energy just walk him to the door
Excellent examples. The clip that pissed me off the most was the guy who wrecked the lovely dinner date after seeing a roach. I'm dead sure that he wasn't there to share an emotionally intimate home cooked meal, and I'll be it if was smash & run date, he would have had no complaints about one or two roaches. And I'll bet that in his teens, he rarely if ever had dinner at the table with mother and siblings, and rejected her and gave her hell every time she tried to set rules or limits on his behavior. It's obvious to me he's had a LOT of practice creating chaos. I can't blame his parents, I've seen those mindless power struggles too often in my work before I retired.
Exactly what I thought, he came to smash and run. He didn’t want to spend time with her so he wanted to be petty and find a reason to leave cause he probably had no conversation anyway. Cooking for him was going to be way too good for him😡and I bet she could cook too. These guys are pathetic.
Boy that’s a cockroach outside water bugs look how big it is.
My father-in-law had a bunch of fruit trees in his backyard. When I tell you the cockroaches used to come inside and he had a damn mansion with a swimming pool, so it was tons of water. This is Georgia. She don’t have a house full of little bitty, German roaches, running all over the food and stuff.
I live in an apartment I am obsessed with cleaning when I say “excuse my house I haven’t had a chance to clean this morning” people look around and say clean what.
I have literally gone to other peoples homes and started cleaning. It’s just an OCD thing for me.
My neighbors downstairs moved out at the time they had roaches the roaches tried to come up and visit me
I went directly to the office and they sent out pest control. Once they exterminated the apartment down below they came to do mine. I’ve seen no more bugs.
He really did look for something to say about the child apartment.
I don’t think it’s gonna work out the way he thought it was though
I wish this was internationally televised I’m tired of how we are treated.
Instead of constantly arguing with men, like too many Black women do, why not just tell the man to leave. Why do we constantly act like we don't have any other choice but to put up with nonsense? The first man already disrespected the woman by putting her home on "blast". Some women don't have the confidence, intelligence and self love to cut these men loose. At least she had a house and food. Does he?
Yeah, i had a dude look down on my cute little 2 bedroom place - the whole time he was literally living in a sleepout on the bottom level of another familes home - you could constantly hear them walking around and making noise, stuff that!
Nahhh, im good - at least my place is mine.
The audacity. You can be the cleanest person, and if you live in an area or have neighbors around who aren't, you will have roaches, ants, and any other vermin in her dwellings.
I cant lie, I HATE roaches....but I KNOW roaches don't automatically mean Dirty House
That man knew that waitress for sure. I think it was more that just thinking she was attractive
Why go back and forth??? Put his azz out ✌️
Kick him out. Why is he filming her? He could have had that conversation in private.
The $200 tip situation had to be a skit....no one in their right mind would do that or stand for that. I hope after she stopped recording, she kicked him out. SMH. WTF.
Stay away because they are not the face you see 24/7
There is no no know cure for ignorance!
Yes there is, it's called winning the Darwin award or also known as testosterone poisoning...lol
I vote that we get rid of any and all warning signs...
He wouldn't like the south then.We got giant ass wood roaches!!! You could have 3 maids clean ur house for months an have big traps but if u live in the woods u gunna see a wood roach or a stink bug some home get in ur house
Indeed! We had pecan trees in the yard and those big roaches could fly! Absolutely no indication of lack of cleanliness
And tiny sugar ants!
@@23rdpsalm_._ an I swear they are immune to all any traps an baits !!!!
Those stink bugs are straight squatters 😂
He hated her before he even got there. The "roach" he needs to worry about is the one that looks back at him in the mirror every morning. Dustavious...
Why didn’t the 1st guy go into his pockets and set up a monthly pest control service.
Male adult children… narcissistic tendencies. Wow!!!
He thought he was getting off trying to expose her. He probably doesn’t have his own home
He probably brought the roaches😂😂
I'm mixed and my daddy told me since I was little that I own no one an explanation on what I am. Bc I'm me and that's all I need to be.
How is he still sitting there?!?! Get the EF out!!!! NOW 😡
A guy tried to switch up on me with the "Ugly" insult after I rejected him. I asked him how I am all of a sudden "ugly" when I was a "beautiful queen" just a few seconds before when he approached me? He said he was just saying whatever to see if he could f*ck me. I just looked him dead in his face and said
"So either you're a liar, you're desperate and have no standards. Which is it?"
He shut tf and I just laughed and walked away 😂😂😂
Somebody need to lay hands on the man with the $200 tip because he think Issa game baby we got bills and playing
Even if its a roach and not a water bug she was being kind and he was very disrespectful for a problem she may not have control over. That's a problem that could've been worked through calmly.
Hell Disneyland got mad roaches lol
I will NEVER expose anyone for having roaches. It happens . Clean people have roaches because of their neighbors or because the place just has roaches. He is wack!
I would NEVER let a man live with me in my house. I expect a man to provide for me. But, if I somehow lost mine and did, you better believe I'm making the rules. You're going to dictate what I do and where I go somewhere I pay the bills.
That first man was so disrespectful. He had no right to film her home without permission and put her on blast like that.
Ladies stop doing so much talking with these dusty dudes and cut them off. Y’all are part of the problem. You going back and forth with these dudes moving them in and doing the most stop it. Y’all so desperate for a man you accept anything.
Only roach I saw was the one with 'OFF' on its shirt....
Why they yelling? Put down MY food and leave MY house.
This 🤡
First of all , roaches are not always associated with filth.
The larger ones can enter during certain seasons , especially warmer months.
A few years ago when I moved back home bc my elderly parent asked me to help him out , I would see these large roaches. I cleaned my azz off and couldn’t get rid of them. So eventually I called an exterminator and he told me it’s not always a filthy situation. In fact , there was a certain tree outside the house that attracted them and eventually some would enter the home.
That dude is ridiculous. This is why I have eliminated EVERYONE in my life that can’t live without social media. Social media and clout chasing is one hell of a dr$ug. And let’s not even talk about the mental state of people watching too much social media, they ALL sound the same .
That's right no matter how clean you are you will get roaches or any type of bugs....
He just wanted to get some free content off of her. He thought he came to eat twice and failed greatly because now he just exposed himself 🤡🤣
There's a lot of insecure men.
I lived in a gated community next to doctors and I found a roach in my house. sold that house to a Dr. too. and I was in the desert in Arizona. and we still had roaches from time to time.
Sis respectfully you dodged a nuke
1 or 2 of those types show up almost everytime it rains. Once recently one of them things flew. I was out.😂
He made himself seem worthless and remedial
Also. The dude who was crying about what she had on wanted her to turn around and say, "Show them" on video. He wanted her to go in another room because of his boys but show her body off to the world.
$200 tip 😩 and he didn't pay the bill 💵 help it make since - I rather struggle on my own stay single deal with this shid 🎉
You’re a good man. 👏👏👏 I wish more men were raised like you. Bravo Sir.
Dude is very disrespectful and mean. He should have not been recording anything. He only did that to embarrass her smh. She put all that effort into cooking for him just to be treated like shit. She should have snatched that plate away from him and put his sorry ass out super fast. She deserves a dude that is more mature and will treat her alot better!!!
The guy telling his GF to go to another room in _her_ house, where she pays the bills is *WILD*
Imagine telling a woman what she can wear\go in _HER_ house???
Bruh, if u don’t like it… GTFO 🤣😂🤣😂🤣