If it was just me and my boys... absolutely yes! But I could not do that to my wife... at least not now. She is not an outdoor person and likes Goodwill more than my garden... and her bed, and shower, and hair "products", etc. I could easily live without ALL of it. The car, the job, the stores, the crowds, the electronics, most of the appliances and "stuff". Yeah, I could live off the land.
Thanks for being real. I tried living off grid with my boyfriend. Not to discourage you, but it lasted a year. I worked so hard on the garden and the bugs ate so much. Food was such a hassle, and we just ended up irritating each other. I love your journey and wish you the best. You have friends.
Aw, breaks my heart to see you so sad. I hope your visit with your family will recharge your spirit. Sometimes, we just have to go home and feel the love that will always be waiting for us. Hugs from Indiana!
Nic, these are the best years of your life! Take some time for YOU! Visit your family and your friends! You have been amazing in your work off grid. GO, Girl and have some down time.
Hey guys. Have you tried nettles? They are seriously a super-food. Use the larger leaves like spinach. Steep the smaller top leaves in hot water to make tea, then eat the steeped leaves! Heat neutralises the sting in seconds. They don't taste of much, so will accept any flavour put their way.
Darling, you aren’t missing a thing. Just go visit your family three or four times a year. You’re living a dream, enjoy it. The fact that it’s hard is part of what makes it worthwhile. Once you get things a little bit farther along, family can come visit you. Stay the course. Blessings.
I understand how you feel Nicole my wife is dealing with the same issues. She is Japanese and living in Australia and at this time there is no way she can leave to visit her family in Japan. They are dealing with one of her parents being elderly and in the hospital gravely ill. We have been married for 27 years and still very happily so what you and Jake have is a brilliant foundation but there are some big hoops to leap through believe me. What you are building there dose it include a plan for a third person and a forth further down the road and everything that goes along with that. Wish you and Jake lots of luck for a great future living the life you have chosen!
Reminds me of the holidays I missed while in the US Army. I was always in the field or a war zone. Many of tears through the years. Family is everything.
Nicole not all of us are enjoying the festivaties of the 4th of July, there are plenty of us working and wishing we were where you are. I like what one of your viewers said about enjoying where you are, that is the best because we are journeying together. Thanks for sharing, distance is only in the mind.
I agree. Appreciate where you are. Hmm but also realize when you need to move forward. I definitely need to move forward. Been doing practically nothing, just turned 20. I'm looking to drive and get my liscense. I dont want to work a 9-5, but I definitely need to create a flow of income for myself. Im open to do many things and things must work out for the best in my life.
It's important to remember, life is a journey, not a destination and you can change your path at any time. If you don't feel "trapped" it makes it easier to shrug off the occasional tough moments.
Nicole, thAnks for the honesty because I was wondering how you were surviving considering your life before (independent, family, friends, and a job). New adventures are exciting, but you’ll know when it’s time for a change.
Agree. My relationship didn't last because of this exact thing. 5 years together and engaged. We ended it for responsible reasons. She stayed in Canada, Calgary to be exact. I returned to California.
I never lived off grid like that. So beautiful where your located ! Cute kittens and so it begins. Your loving caring individuals kitties are a very rewarding addition to any family! You two have it going on for sure! Love that you keep it real unlike so many others on You Tube! Keep it coming you two!
Awww Nicole, I felt your pain. It is so good you can cry and talk about missing your friends and family. Yes , talking is so therapeutic. My husband was in the Navy and we lived in countries a long way from family and friends, so I know how you feel. Mixed feelings and we need to give each feeling it's space to be. You are doing good. The kittens are growing fast. All those berries look so healthy and good. The bee bite, not so fun. They can sting!!! You both work so hard. Hugs to both. 😺💞
Do you think folks hate the clickbait bcuz the off grid community is conservative? Most homesteading off grid channels I’ve watched are kinda conservative religious married couples
Am I not merciful ? No I don’t think they are religious at all.. spiritual maybe! it’s just such a great Chanel and content and it’s funny they pose for the clicks
I have been watching your videos from the beginning and this is where I am, I am still catching up. You have matured sooo much Nicole since the beginning of this journey. You are incredibly brave and strong!
Team Nicole! When I first watched my first video of yours, I first thought these kids are crazy. I couldn’t believe all you were trying to accomplish, thinking to myself well at least she has him. Only to learn that you are his perfect match. Definitely his equal. As far as being home sick? I will only say that your family will always be there for you. I am sure they are so proud of you both....Hey this is what the internet and airplane tickets are for. I feel you are exactly where you belong. You truly made that house a home!! #strongwoman.
Hang in there Nicole. It's a new beginning for you and those can be scary. So many unanswered questions. But just remember, you have the world watching you, learning from you, and enjoying everything you and Jake are doing. Can't wait for the next video.
Just found you two this morning...We adore you! I grew up in Northern Maine - off the grid in every conceivable way. My lovely wife grew up in a rural area and because we both came from humble beginnings, we decided in our 40's to build our home out of raw land. We have dogs, chickens, pigs, a horse and a quiet place to live where our children help to make this place possible. We are all happy and share the struggle together. What you two are doing is what I wanted over 25 years ago.
I have official wise words, yep. Theres an old japanese saying "where ever you are, BE there" Enjoy what your doing and the current adventure your taking, family is in your heart. Your mind might miss certain things those memories and spending time in a negative way effects where you are and what your doing now. those sad thoughts dont help, your still close to Oregon and they can come up and visit or you can go visit pretty often...I just highly recommend you BE where you are mind and soul so you dont miss out on the good things you have going. OK wise words over, carry on. and GARDEN ON!!
A girls aloud to miss her family. I moved across the country for my husband. Hardly every got to visit my nana, who raised me. Then moved closer to her and had to watch her die in front of me. Family is everything. I was angry for a long time at my husband. I lost almost 10 yrs away from her for him. So I get how she feels. His dad died 2 months before my momma did. So we grieved together. But I would never do it again. I wish I would have stayed closer to home 😭💔 I’ll never get that time back.
@@juupiissocool I hope she listens. plus this live style is beautiful but , non sustainable. there needs to be a balance . ( I lived over two decades similar to this, It broke us , we divorced and my heart was broken ....and it aged me quickly ) I can never get that time back, + I lost a mom and my sister. Im alone in this world now. Nicole go home, if he loves you he will follow.
You have a great thing going and yes there will be hard days. You have something most people dream of just remember to cherish every minute together and love one another but first love yourselves. God bless yall
Remember being away from family for the first time overseas in the military away from all holidays and birthdays and celebrations and niece being born.... It was hard. Then the next year hard but less, then next year still hard but again less. Then less and less. Yep , what was hard made me harder and more mature... What did I get from it all as I now reflect? Appreciation! for everything. I notice growth in me that I notice others don't have. I appreciate things that others miss or take for granted.. Adds character.... I see growth in watching you both... That's why I watch! Keep growing into the remarkable human being you are becoming, the remarkable human being that you are! This is an amazing rewarding wonderful life you chose for yourself.. You are truly living! You both are! And you know it.... We love you for it! And we are also rewarded because of your efforts! Thank you so much for allowing us to be apart of this magical adventure!
Thank you for being open and honest. Though I found your channel 4 years after this I feel the emotion so much. I live 2500 miles from all my family and miss them terribly.
Ohhh Nicole I totally get it. I live in a different state as my family, and now going to be even moving further away soon. I miss them so much, but when you do see them it's that more special because you don't see them everyday.
Watching you two in the first 7 videos all I could think was ugh no people besides two-HARD. I used to think what kind of crazy social demented expiriment is this? Lol. Meaning you're doing remarkably well. And we are all in awe.
Jake & Nicole.. glad your keeping a good outlook on things.. even when things go wrong good things still happen. Hang in there Nicole You'll see your family soon. That salad you made looked totally awesome. Yummmm. Very nice.
I can't believe its been 5 years since I first saw this video! How wonderful to have witnessed your familys beautiful journey thus far! God bless you guys & your 3 precious children! 💕🙏🏼🤗
Wow I never really thought about that with you and Jake being up there so far away from all your friends and familt that must be so difficult I'm glad you got to tell us how you feel that was so sweet of you
I know this comes late but I’ve just found this amazing channel and wonderful YOU! Sending you tons of hugs for those moments when you need it most. And thank you for being so open, honest and vulnerable. I am so grateful to have come across your journey 😊 xox
It is not easy in deed. I lost my partner 5 months ago, I still have a 6yo son and we live in a city where I dont know too much people. My family is 700km away (8h trip by car) and here I am alone dealing with everyday difficulties, but I appreciate what I have and enjoy every moment I can spend with my family. Things are gonna get better if we act to make it better. BTW I visit my family too by the end of the month yay!
Nicole. You are Jakes world. Jake. Nicole is nothing but that world. 1000’s would love nothing but what you two have. Love in all things. What you have millions will never understand. Love you both.
You guys have been such a HUGE inspiration to me ever since discovering your channel 3 weeks ago! Thank you for helping me get back into my heart center after a seemingly very long winter! Blessings to you xoxo
I love your videos! Nicole I totally understand, It gets really lonely sometimes. Y'all are living the dream, remember you still get vacations- both of you! Rest when you need to and have fun! Love y'all xoxo
Great to see some honesty in a post, and for me, it only adds to the quality of your videos. Reality says that on grid or on an off grid adventure, shit happens that has to be coped with, and what we have been used to, our past normality and/or normalities, can disturb us when bits of it/them, or even massive chunks of it/them are missing. The difference between the situations is the sense of adventure that comes with off grid, and it is this and the sense of wonder that comes with exploring your external and internal boundaries that our old forms of normality seem to try to crush. If you go back, then you will start to miss the adventure, and if you do not go back, then the adventure will be in danger of becoming another normal, so human reality says that we can find ways to enjoy both adventures and normality by constantly exploring our own lives and our boundaries, and then wondering about who we have become, off grid and on, and finding out who we can still yet be. Great work, both of you. Those sad and frustrated feelings are called being alive as well as the happy ones.
I have not been home in about 20 years. Missed lots of stuff ,my sister getting married, family members passing, just having a support system around you and I dream of the day I can see my old home again it’s hard but God gives extra strength to those who need it just ask.
I love that you're so real Nicole. You're changing my outlook on life by what you and Jake are doing! You're a wonderful mother and a great woman. You are a role model for many. ☮️💜🤙😘
Nicole, You're so sweet thank you for your honesty sharing your personal feelings. It's good for your relationship spend time apart from each other. Jake would probably go crazy for the first week or so that you're gone. Look I'm laid up in a hospital bed I don't know what happened. Time just slipped away from me. Most of my family have past away. I guess what I'm trying to say go home create some good memories see your family and your friends. Time is so precious I never consider. Yep I wish you the best Nicole also Jake. Love you guys. Earl XX
Hello Nicole, it definitely sounds like you need a vacation! I just have to say that what you two created there is amazing and not many people could do what yourself and Jake have done! to me you guys are amazing young people! It's by far nothing I've ever done and I'm 59. I watch you guys and wonder what it would be like if I had done the same thing. I highly doubt I would have moved so far north! I know it can be brutal there, but the views you have on your UA-cam channel are so beautiful. Well gotta go and keep the faith, God Bless you both. George
Well done to you Nicol, and Jake for hang in there. I can’t imagine what you are feeling because I don’t like people very much and never feel lonely. But, hats off to you for your bravery and courage to do what you are doing. I sure it is not easy. Sending u guys lost of LOVE & ECOURAGEMENT!
I've always found it interesting when you move somewhere, friends and family want you to go visit them but, it doesn't seem to work the other way around.
triumphmanful 😂😂😂 what an ignorant comment. You try going through just one contraction and see how you do. Try taking care of a baby all day, you think it's easy!? Someone taught you that showing emotions is weak, that doesn't mean it actually is. Everyone experiences emotions, it's just that boys are taught to push them down and ignore them. That is not strong. It takes courage to experience strong emotions, maybe you should try it. Or are you too afraid?
What a great video, danged good looking chow, and super looking cookout people! Love seeing what you did and do each day is great. Nicole, I’m almost 75 y/o and pets, people, things we wished had been closer to, prevented us from getting hurt, stung, bitten, etc. but this things that drag us down pass soon enough, thank goodness. This is another great video, thanks for sharing!
Nicole, thanks for sharing of yourself. Just to remind you, it doesn’t matter where you are, life is hard. Your family and friends know you love them! Stay true to yourself! Cheers, Sean
Poor you. I can understand your emotions. Must be really hard. Good to talk about it. You both are wonderful couple and I salute you for choosing this amazing and adventurous life. Wonder what it would be like in winter living in the yurt.
That's how my grandpas lived in the northern part of Argentina, I was lucky enough to share some. Not easy to live off the grid, but much much easier these days!
So sorry Sweetie.When I moved overseas to Europe many years ago I felt the same way.To add insult to injury I didn’t speak their language.I learned enough German to get me through and I did what you are doing, I cried.You are such a brave woman, have a good cry and then get up and put your big girl panties on and do what you do best, go build something! You guys rock!
Thank you so much Nicole, for your honest sharing here! I've been considering pursuing this life-path for several (sick & tired of city life) years; & all that stopped me was separation from family issues... you 2 are an awesome team for this life-adventure togeather; but it's OK(!) to need some private time, away, to reconnect with loved ones & friends (& a well earned) break from the "constant struggle" of the pioneer-homesteading life (the isolation... weighs on your soul!!! it's Not for everyone. But; a break may completely revitalize & rejuvenate your deep desire to pursue such a life-path! So I hope you-2 realise you're not "joined at the hips" for evermore now, & can take (& sometimes Need) breaks from the lifestyle (&from each other) now & then, & perhaps regularly, each season! 😊 - it's not a "Commitment competition " ... everyone thrives from a balanced-life - I hope your love allows you to give one another the gift to pursue that optimal life; both when togeather & when apart! 👍
I'm sorry you're so sad missing family & friends, Nicole. I don't like to see you cry, but you are human & do show your feelings as expected from time to time. I love how honest & real you & Jake are. It's very hard work to live off grid but you guys make it work for each other. I learn a lot from you about food & the environment & appreciate what you are sacrificing. If I were young again & had the drive, not sure so could do it. I am close with my family as you are, but I'm also an identical twin & have never really been separated from my sister unless I was on vacation. I spent a summer in SoCal & missed my first birthday away from my sister that I will never get back. I missed my family too much & never spent time away like that again. People may say I missed/am missing out on a lot, but I can't stay away from my family. I give you lots of credit & I'm thankful that I can watch you guys on your journey, learn, & incorporate what you share about herbs, teas, & home jarring foods. It's wonderful, so thank you both for that. Be well & stay safe. 💞
THIS-WILL HELP-- My dad was a bee farmer for years. Two remedies for bee stings, 1- mud let it dry, 2- the best one unflavored chewing tobacco . Get it wet put it on the sting, rap with Gozo or put on a White sock. The tobacco will help any sting and also with mosquito bites.
Awe Nicole hugs to you it's good to be real with your feelings. You will see them soon. I know your parents and Jake's parents are so proud and happy for ya'll. Hugs from Savannah, Georgia Carol Williams
You guys are so inspiring. My husband knows this is my dream to be on a mountain next to my family in Hawaii. To be off grid, embracing nature and all it has to offer. The ups the downs. I’d take it all!!!😊
Awwww such a touching confession about missing friends & family💗 Ughhh, I loved being barefoot outside, but no more after I did the same thing you did. Stepping on the bee was yikes!! Then I felt awful because it died 😢 Great vlog!!
Nicole is a brave strong girl and Im sure she gets home sick for some of her old friends. Its good she is going home for a little bit to get recharged. You will be fine and glad you have the net to stay in touch with all the people that watch you. You are doing great......... Jake was born in the area and its much harder for you so it will take some time to adjust. To bad you don't have a ham Radio license then you could talk to people all over the world in real time and no internet needed. All you need is some wire for a antenna and a radio but you do need a license. With you located on the island your signal would be great and you can use those tall trees to put a wire antenna hanging from. Something different to do. You can run the radio from one of the batteries.
I can see a visit coming forth with your family and friends Nicole. Its It's tough when apart. I come from a very close knit family of 8 siblings. We lost our eldest brother two years ago to cancer. My mother passed away last November. The only good thing is we are all within a 20 mile circumference of one another and we all visit each other on Holidays and make special get togethers from time to time. With both parents gone and the eldest brother, all i can offer is visit your family while you have them. Once their gone thats it, all you left is memories. You and Jake are an awesome couple , kove your channel. You seem to accomplish everything you set out to do . I pray God Blesses you both and keeps you safe. Take care and enjoy your weekend.
Everything it's gonna be alright no time when you open your eyes and you will see others follow you unto your steps the way you and Jake live the wonderful lifestyle God bless you and today and for ever
Like your videos,have been watching for a while. Just found out you were in Tempe-cos I currently live in Avondale AZ so you know how hot it is here. Just thought it was funny that you know AZ. Have fun and good luck in your pursuits.
That hot dog was well made. I am sorry you get lonely for your family and friends. Hope you get some good mosquito spray soon. When you return to civilization life witl be so easy for you guys.
The next time you get stung, use a base like baking soda. The sting comes from Formic Acid. Also, if you have it, Plantain (not the banana) is a fantastic healing plant and works great on bee stings.
Hello Jake and Nicole, I am living in Spain and you really got me hooked with your life. I think you are both fantastic and I really admire what you did, it's fantastic. I wish I had to luck you both have. Nicole, please don't give up you are a really wonderful person and you have a man who really loves you. I am always alone and all day I watch your films. You are both an inspiration so keep it up, you are a truly wonderful couple. Oh, I am from Malta 61 yrs old but live in Spain. Please do not give up but keep it up, your so lucky. God bless you and stay safe. regards Michael p.s. to the hater You are hateful cause you are jealous for them, get real and let them live there life. After all, what is there to hate they really live a wonderful life.
You can trace the sunchokes back with the video you made...their shapes will tell you what is what.. Love the berries...so many of them..can make your own jams and juices
Be strong Nicole, take it as challenges in life being away from family n friends n ur comfort zone. What u n jake doing is really amazing . Look After each other , respects compromise n honest . Everyone have their days , fights it with lots of things that occupied minds . Goodluck n be strong . Wish u all u all the best n happiness always . God bless u n jake always .
Nic . . . you are so strong, physically and emotionally. And you are balanced, thus you can show us your pain. I hope as you form new friendships in your community, the loneliness will lessen. Your upcoming trip home to visit family will help.
Aw Nicole, I'm going through a similar situation where I had moved to a first home with my fiance out of state away from everyone and as much as I love being in my own woods, it gets really lonely for me too. I hope this helps you feel less alone in some way? I think what you guys are doing is amazing and I enjoy your videos and the love you guys have for each other
I've been powering through all your videos. You guys are so awe-inspiring. You make me want to do more and be more creative with nature. Keep making these they are awesome.
Nicole sweetie...So sorry to see you so sad. Going through times of low vibration seems to be an unavoidable part of the human condition. Even Type A go-getters are entitled to an occasional day of bittersweet tears to release anxiety and loneliness. Perfectly normal considering the enormous challenges and lifestyle changes you are going through. I see I'm now harvesting several of those very same herbs you are harvesting... so you see, you are really not alone...we are all in accord and connected in many small subtle ways. Your flower salads look beautiful and delicious! Don't worry about the sunchokes. They can take a lot of abuse and still come back quickly. Sending you both lots of good thoughts and wishing you happy days ahead!
Oh Nicole you make me so sad seeing you sad. I know how you are feeling, missing your family and friends. It will be okay, you will see them soon. I loved and missed my family and friends too, when I moved away from everyone. They lived far away overseas and in those days it was very expensive to keep in touch by phone. So I wrote letters that took one month or more to get back a reply. The first time I saw your video when you were leaving Oregon, I felt sad for you and your parents. Because I also was sad and missing my children, one who lives in Seattle WA and 2 others up in Canada. I am so happy when they come visit. You will be so happy when you visit your family, you deserves this break. Big hugs, good luck and god bless!
Just set a schedule of communication with your family! If you know every Wednesday afternoon you will talk with them it will help so much! Text on a regular basis, my gosh there are so many ways to communicate compared to my days. I was in Colorado, and my phone bills (land lines) were astronomical, my dad's health went to heck and I was really going crazy because I had no other way to communicate. You said you would be seeing them at the end of the month. Oh my gosh you can deal with this!! Are you still doing your yoga class? See what other local activities you can fit in - create a meet up day with a new local friend, pal or acquaintance (s). If nothing else a coffee break with strangers, library meet up - what ever you can create to see others, just make a "visit someone day" to break the routine. Is there a local senior lady that has lived her life on the island? Make friends with her - she will possibly share tons of history, gossip and good times. You can deal with this and not feel lonely. Take a break day from the work just to communicate with others.
if you ever get stung by a bee..rub dirt, soil on the area. it should releive the pain of the dart. new follower, just finished watching this video and now on to ep.36.. Wishing you guys peace love and the strength to continue creating this wonderful home for fox! namasté!
Could you live off the grid? if yes why and if no why not??
Couldn't! Unfortunately, would love to but too old and handicapped. 😕
No way. Sorry just like my gadgets.... but love watching you guys.
If it was just me and my boys... absolutely yes! But I could not do that to my wife... at least not now. She is not an outdoor person and likes Goodwill more than my garden... and her bed, and shower, and hair "products", etc. I could easily live without ALL of it. The car, the job, the stores, the crowds, the electronics, most of the appliances and "stuff". Yeah, I could live off the land.
I wish i vould go full time.. i lived 1yr. North of Toronto. About 140kms.
Yes . Short answer
Thanks for being real. I tried living off grid with my boyfriend. Not to discourage you, but it lasted a year. I worked so hard on the garden and the bugs ate so much. Food was such a hassle, and we just ended up irritating each other. I love your journey and wish you the best. You have friends.
You prolly did something real and should be proud of that learning experience. This show is not real.
Hi. Your not really living of grid! ITS MORE LIKE CAMPING.
Aw, breaks my heart to see you so sad. I hope your visit with your family will recharge your spirit. Sometimes, we just have to go home and feel the love that will always be waiting for us. Hugs from Indiana!
or have family and friend experience your adventure.Tell them bring a tent and a sleeping bag and stay as long as the wish
Nic, these are the best years of your life! Take some time for YOU! Visit your family and your friends! You have been amazing in your work off grid. GO, Girl and have some down time.
Hey guys. Have you tried nettles? They are seriously a super-food. Use the larger leaves like spinach. Steep the smaller top leaves in hot water to make tea, then eat the steeped leaves! Heat neutralises the sting in seconds. They don't taste of much, so will accept any flavour put their way.
Darling, you aren’t missing a thing. Just go visit your family three or four times a year. You’re living a dream, enjoy it. The fact that it’s hard is part of what makes it worthwhile. Once you get things a little bit farther along, family can come visit you. Stay the course. Blessings.
She is missing a chromosome or two .. She is never happy
@@rvdevoe4096 I have noticed that too.
@@rvdevoe4096 she’s a human being and I think it’s so rude and so not empathetic to them as real living people. Feelings are valid.
I understand how you feel Nicole my wife is dealing with the same issues. She is Japanese and living in Australia and at this time there is no way she can leave to visit her family in Japan. They are dealing with one of her parents being elderly and in the hospital gravely ill. We have been married for 27 years and still very happily so what you and Jake have is a brilliant foundation but there are some big hoops to leap through believe me. What you are building there dose it include a plan for a third person and a forth further down the road and everything that goes along with that. Wish you and Jake lots of luck for a great future living the life you have chosen!
Reminds me of the holidays I missed while in the US Army. I was always in the field or a war zone. Many of tears through the years. Family is everything.
Not real war.
Nicole not all of us are enjoying the festivaties of the 4th of July, there are plenty of us working and wishing we were where you are. I like what one of your viewers said about enjoying where you are, that is the best because we are journeying together. Thanks for sharing, distance is only in the mind.
I agree. Appreciate where you are. Hmm but also realize when you need to move forward. I definitely need to move forward. Been doing practically nothing, just turned 20. I'm looking to drive and get my liscense. I dont want to work a 9-5, but I definitely need to create a flow of income for myself. Im open to do many things and things must work out for the best in my life.
Oh to be so young and have a clue. Good luck and blessings to you.
It's important to remember, life is a journey, not a destination and you can change your path at any time. If you don't feel "trapped" it makes it easier to shrug off the occasional tough moments.
Nicole, thAnks for the honesty because I was wondering how you were surviving considering your life before (independent, family, friends, and a job). New adventures are exciting, but you’ll know when it’s time for a change.
Agree. My relationship didn't last because of this exact thing. 5 years together and engaged. We ended it for responsible reasons. She stayed in Canada, Calgary to be exact. I returned to California.
V Cottn you gave to Nicole a great live comment for his future.
I never lived off grid like that. So beautiful where your located ! Cute kittens and so it begins. Your loving caring individuals kitties are a very rewarding addition to any family! You two have it going on for sure! Love that you keep it real unlike so many others on You Tube! Keep it coming you two!
Bless your heart Nicole. Use all that grace you have for those days of feeling lonely.
YOU BOTH HAVE SO MUCH STRENGTH.MY FOREST ANGEL,YOU also gives me strength i never know ihad to start my own garden.be safe be blessed.
Awww Nicole, I felt your pain. It is so good you can cry and talk about missing your friends and family. Yes , talking is so therapeutic. My husband was in the Navy and we lived in countries a long way from family and friends, so I know how you feel. Mixed feelings and we need to give each feeling it's space to be. You are doing good. The kittens are growing fast. All those berries look so healthy and good. The bee bite, not so fun. They can sting!!! You both work so hard. Hugs to both. 😺💞
Good job this might be the first thumbnail that's not clickbait.
Rural Ridez616 the only one
Do you think folks hate the clickbait bcuz the off grid community is conservative? Most homesteading off grid channels I’ve watched are kinda conservative religious married couples
Am I not merciful ? No I don’t think they are religious at all.. spiritual maybe!
it’s just such a great Chanel and content and it’s funny they pose for the clicks
Speak for yourself....nichole's always clickbait....only more so when scantily clad....
You never seen a woman before Rural?
Learning the area around you is very important. Know what resources you have available to you. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you!
I have been watching your videos from the beginning and this is where I am, I am still catching up. You have matured sooo much Nicole since the beginning of this journey. You are incredibly brave and strong!
Team Nicole!
When I first watched my first video of yours, I first thought these kids are crazy. I couldn’t believe all you were trying to accomplish, thinking to myself well at least she has him. Only to learn that you are his perfect match. Definitely his equal.
As far as being home sick? I will only say that your family will always be there for you. I am sure they are so proud of you both....Hey this is what the internet and airplane tickets are for.
I feel you are exactly where you belong. You truly made that house a home!!
#strongwoman.
Hang in there Nicole. It's a new beginning for you and those can be scary. So many unanswered questions. But just remember, you have the world watching you, learning from you, and enjoying everything you and Jake are doing. Can't wait for the next video.
Just found you two this morning...We adore you! I grew up in Northern Maine - off the grid in every conceivable way. My lovely wife grew up in a rural area and because we both came from humble beginnings, we decided in our 40's to build our home out of raw land. We have dogs, chickens, pigs, a horse and a quiet place to live where our children help to make this place possible. We are all happy and share the struggle together. What you two are doing is what I wanted over 25 years ago.
I have official wise words, yep. Theres an old japanese saying "where ever you are, BE there" Enjoy what your doing and the current adventure your taking, family is in your heart. Your mind might miss certain things those memories and spending time in a negative way effects where you are and what your doing now. those sad thoughts dont help, your still close to Oregon and they can come up and visit or you can go visit pretty often...I just highly recommend you BE where you are mind and soul so you dont miss out on the good things you have going. OK wise words over, carry on. and GARDEN ON!!
cocopufer, excellent words especially in our world.
A girls aloud to miss her family. I moved across the country for my husband. Hardly every got to visit my nana, who raised me. Then moved closer to her and had to watch her die in front of me. Family is everything. I was angry for a long time at my husband. I lost almost 10 yrs away from her for him. So I get how she feels. His dad died 2 months before my momma did. So we grieved together. But I would never do it again. I wish I would have stayed closer to home 😭💔 I’ll never get that time back.
@@juupiissocool I hope she listens. plus this live style is beautiful but , non sustainable. there needs to be a balance . ( I lived over two decades similar to this, It broke us , we divorced and my heart was broken ....and it aged me quickly ) I can never get that time back, + I lost a mom and my sister. Im alone in this world now. Nicole go home, if he loves you he will follow.
Thank you for your heartfelt honesty and confession. Balance + Family
This is actually one of my favorite episodes. Thank you. Keep up the great work!
David Ivins Thank you! 💜
You have a great thing going and yes there will be hard days. You have something most people dream of just remember to cherish every minute together and love one another but first love yourselves. God bless yall
Remember being away from family for the first time overseas in the military away from all holidays and birthdays and celebrations and niece being born.... It was hard. Then the next year hard but less, then next year still hard but again less. Then less and less. Yep , what was hard made me harder and more mature... What did I get from it all as I now reflect? Appreciation! for everything. I notice growth in me that I notice others don't have. I appreciate things that others miss or take for granted.. Adds character.... I see growth in watching you both... That's why I watch! Keep growing into the remarkable human being you are becoming, the remarkable human being that you are! This is an amazing rewarding wonderful life you chose for yourself.. You are truly living! You both are! And you know it.... We love you for it! And we are also rewarded because of your efforts! Thank you so much for allowing us to be apart of this magical adventure!
Thank you for being open and honest. Though I found your channel 4 years after this I feel the emotion so much. I live 2500 miles from all my family and miss them terribly.
Hi Nicole, enjoying the videos and may I say that you are a natural beauty....Jake is a lucky guy.
Good Friend Thank you. 💜
I love you guys. I am 73 yrs old and when i was younger this was my dream. I cant now unfortunately but i can live it through you. Thank you.
Ohhh Nicole I totally get it. I live in a different state as my family, and now going to be even moving further away soon. I miss them so much, but when you do see them it's that more special because you don't see them everyday.
Watching you two in the first 7 videos all I could think was ugh no people besides two-HARD. I used to think what kind of crazy social demented expiriment is this? Lol.
Meaning you're doing remarkably well. And we are all in awe.
Thank you Nicole for being real.
Yay for no clickbait on this video! I truly admire you Nicole and appreciate your rawness.
We did. Both growing up and again as adults. We decided we like hot water.
Thanks for sharing Nicole, for sharing, that was an amazing session. Keep up the Great Videos!
Jake & Nicole.. glad your keeping a good outlook on things.. even when things go wrong good things
still happen. Hang in there Nicole
You'll see your family soon. That salad you made looked totally awesome. Yummmm. Very nice.
I can't believe its been 5 years since I first saw this video! How wonderful to have witnessed your familys beautiful journey thus far! God bless you guys & your 3 precious children! 💕🙏🏼🤗
Wow I never really thought about that with you and Jake being up there so far away from all your friends and familt that must be so difficult I'm glad you got to tell us how you feel that was so sweet of you
I know this comes late but I’ve just found this amazing channel and wonderful YOU! Sending you tons of hugs for those moments when you need it most. And thank you for being so open, honest and vulnerable. I am so grateful to have come across your journey 😊 xox
I appreciate you guys honesty and being real which is one of the main reasons why we enjoy your videos.
You choose you're own way thru life. Love who you are, Who you chose to be with, and Where you both chose to be, and enjoy.
It is not easy in deed. I lost my partner 5 months ago, I still have a 6yo son and we live in a city where I dont know too much people. My family is 700km away (8h trip by car) and here I am alone dealing with everyday difficulties, but I appreciate what I have and enjoy every moment I can spend with my family. Things are gonna get better if we act to make it better. BTW I visit my family too by the end of the month yay!
consider taking your child back and living close to your family. in the big picture, the support is invaluable.
Love your journey, Nicole you’re so adorable... love watching your vlog. Been away myself...
Umm Salma Thank you! 💜
Nicole thank you for being real. Love and light to you✨💙✨
Nicole. You are Jakes world. Jake. Nicole is nothing but that world. 1000’s would love nothing but what you two have. Love in all things. What you have millions will never understand. Love you both.
Not only the garden. You are also a success Nicole. Always!
You guys have been such a HUGE inspiration to me ever since discovering your channel 3 weeks ago! Thank you for helping me get back into my heart center after a seemingly very long winter!
Blessings to you xoxo
I love your videos! Nicole I totally understand, It gets really lonely sometimes. Y'all are living the dream, remember you still get vacations- both of you! Rest when you need to and have fun! Love y'all xoxo
Great to see some honesty in a post, and for me, it only adds to the quality of your videos.
Reality says that on grid or on an off grid adventure, shit happens that has to be coped with, and what we have been used to, our past normality and/or normalities, can disturb us when bits of it/them, or even massive chunks of it/them are missing.
The difference between the situations is the sense of adventure that comes with off grid, and it is this and the sense of wonder that comes with exploring your external and internal boundaries that our old forms of normality seem to try to crush.
If you go back, then you will start to miss the adventure, and if you do not go back, then the adventure will be in danger of becoming another normal, so human reality says that we can find ways to enjoy both adventures and normality by constantly exploring our own lives and our boundaries, and then wondering about who we have become, off grid and on, and finding out who we can still yet be.
Great work, both of you. Those sad and frustrated feelings are called being alive as well as the happy ones.
I have not been home in about 20 years. Missed lots of stuff ,my sister getting married, family members passing, just having a support system around you and I dream of the day I can see my old home again it’s hard but God gives extra strength to those who need it just ask.
Definitely dry red raspberry leaves to make tea. It's high in magnesium, potassium, iron and b-vitamins and very soothing, particularly for women. ;-)
I love that you're so real Nicole. You're changing my outlook on life by what you and Jake are doing! You're a wonderful mother and a great woman. You are a role model for many. ☮️💜🤙😘
Nicole,
You're so sweet thank you for your honesty sharing your personal feelings. It's good for your relationship spend time apart from each other. Jake would probably go crazy for the first week or so that you're gone. Look I'm laid up in a hospital bed I don't know what happened. Time just slipped away from me. Most of my family have past away. I guess what I'm trying to say go home create some good memories see your family and your friends. Time is so precious I never consider. Yep I wish you the best Nicole also Jake. Love you guys. Earl XX
Thank you for being so REAL Nicole! Love you!
Thank you love! ❤️
Hello Nicole, it definitely sounds like you need a vacation! I just have to say that what you two created there is amazing and not many people could do what yourself and Jake have done! to me you guys are amazing young people! It's by far nothing I've ever done and I'm 59. I watch you guys and wonder what it would be like if I had done the same thing. I highly doubt I would have moved so far north! I know it can be brutal there, but the views you have on your UA-cam channel are so beautiful. Well gotta go and keep the faith, God Bless you both. George
Awesomely clean living, free and keeping fit.. Blessed than most of your followers, family and friends.. God bless and take care..
Thank you for being so honest.
Well done to you Nicol, and Jake for hang in there. I can’t imagine what you are feeling because I don’t like people very much and never feel lonely. But, hats off to you for your bravery and courage to do what you are doing. I sure it is not easy. Sending u guys lost of LOVE & ECOURAGEMENT!
I've always found it interesting when you move somewhere, friends and family want you to go visit them but, it doesn't seem to work the other way around.
Great job you two!You have come along way and you should be very proud.
I know you miss your family but you're a great strong beautiful woman
triumphmanful 😂😂😂 what an ignorant comment. You try going through just one contraction and see how you do. Try taking care of a baby all day, you think it's easy!? Someone taught you that showing emotions is weak, that doesn't mean it actually is. Everyone experiences emotions, it's just that boys are taught to push them down and ignore them. That is not strong. It takes courage to experience strong emotions, maybe you should try it. Or are you too afraid?
What a great video, danged good looking chow, and super looking cookout people! Love seeing what you did and do each day is great. Nicole, I’m almost 75 y/o and pets, people, things we wished had been closer to, prevented us from getting hurt, stung, bitten, etc. but this things that drag us down pass soon enough, thank goodness. This is another great video, thanks for sharing!
Nicole, thanks for sharing of yourself. Just to remind you, it doesn’t matter where you are, life is hard. Your family and friends know you love them! Stay true to yourself! Cheers, Sean
Poor you. I can understand your emotions. Must be really hard. Good to talk about it. You both are wonderful couple and I salute you for choosing this amazing and adventurous life. Wonder what it would be like in winter living in the yurt.
i like jake he is a good man and you 2 belong together
That's how my grandpas lived in the northern part of Argentina, I was lucky enough to share some. Not easy to live off the grid, but much much easier these days!
So sorry Sweetie.When I moved overseas to Europe many years ago I felt the same way.To add insult to injury I didn’t speak their language.I learned enough German to get me through and I did what you are doing, I cried.You are such a brave woman, have a good cry and then get up and put your big girl panties on and do what you do best, go build something! You guys rock!
Thank you so much Nicole, for your honest sharing here! I've been considering pursuing this life-path for several (sick & tired of city life) years; & all that stopped me was separation from family issues... you 2 are an awesome team for this life-adventure togeather; but it's OK(!) to need some private time, away, to reconnect with loved ones & friends (& a well earned) break from the "constant struggle" of the pioneer-homesteading life (the isolation... weighs on your soul!!! it's Not for everyone. But; a break may completely revitalize & rejuvenate your deep desire to pursue such a life-path! So I hope you-2 realise you're not "joined at the hips" for evermore now, & can take (& sometimes Need) breaks from the lifestyle (&from each other) now & then, & perhaps regularly, each season! 😊
- it's not a "Commitment competition " ... everyone thrives from a balanced-life - I hope your love allows you to give one another the gift to pursue that optimal life; both when togeather & when apart! 👍
I'm sorry you're so sad missing family & friends, Nicole.
I don't like to see you cry, but you are human & do show your feelings as expected from time to time.
I love how honest & real you & Jake are.
It's very hard work to live off grid but you guys make it work for each other.
I learn a lot from you about food & the environment & appreciate what you are sacrificing.
If I were young again & had the drive, not sure so could do it.
I am close with my family as you are, but I'm also an identical twin & have never really been separated from my sister unless I was on vacation.
I spent a summer in SoCal & missed my first birthday away from my sister that I will never get back. I missed my family too much & never spent time away like that again.
People may say I missed/am missing out on a lot, but I can't stay away from my family.
I give you lots of credit & I'm thankful that I can watch you guys on your journey, learn, & incorporate what you share about herbs, teas, & home jarring foods. It's wonderful, so thank you both for that.
Be well & stay safe. 💞
THIS-WILL HELP-- My dad was a bee farmer for years. Two remedies for bee stings, 1- mud let it dry, 2- the best one unflavored chewing tobacco . Get it wet put it on the sting, rap with Gozo or put on a White sock. The tobacco will help any sting and also with mosquito bites.
Awe Nicole hugs to you it's good to be real with your feelings. You will see them soon. I know your parents and Jake's parents are so proud and happy for ya'll. Hugs from Savannah, Georgia Carol Williams
You guys are so inspiring. My husband knows this is my dream to be on a mountain next to my family in Hawaii. To be off grid, embracing nature and all it has to offer. The ups the downs. I’d take it all!!!😊
Awwww such a touching confession about missing friends & family💗 Ughhh, I loved being barefoot outside, but no more after I did the same thing you did. Stepping on the bee was yikes!! Then I felt awful because it died 😢 Great vlog!!
Stay honest...you are doing great! We use to pick many gallons of wild raspberries every summer, by far my favorite fruit.
Nicole is a brave strong girl and Im sure she gets home sick for some of her old friends. Its good she is going home for a little bit to get recharged. You will be fine and glad you have the net to stay in touch with all the people that watch you. You are doing great......... Jake was born in the area and its much harder for you so it will take some time to adjust. To bad you don't have a ham Radio license then you could talk to people all over the world in real time and no internet needed. All you need is some wire for a antenna and a radio but you do need a license. With you located on the island your signal would be great and you can use those tall trees to put a wire antenna hanging from. Something different to do. You can run the radio from one of the batteries.
I can see a visit coming forth with your family and friends Nicole. Its It's tough when apart. I come from a very close knit family of 8 siblings. We lost our eldest brother two years ago to cancer. My mother passed away last November. The only good thing is we are all within a 20 mile circumference of one another and we all visit each other on Holidays and make special get togethers from time to time. With both parents gone and the eldest brother, all i can offer is visit your family while you have them. Once their gone thats it, all you left is memories.
You and Jake are an awesome couple , kove your channel. You seem to accomplish everything you set out to do . I pray God Blesses you both and keeps you safe. Take care and enjoy your weekend.
Everything it's gonna be alright no time when you open your eyes and you will see others follow you unto your steps the way you and Jake live the wonderful lifestyle God bless you and today and for ever
Like your videos,have been watching for a while. Just found out you were in Tempe-cos I currently live in Avondale AZ so you know how hot it is here. Just thought it was funny that you know AZ. Have fun and good luck in your pursuits.
Totally feel you I don’t get to see my family all the time. I was lucky to have my family come see me during the 4th
That's the most colorful salad I've ever seen. So beautiful.
That hot dog was well made. I am sorry you get lonely for your family and friends. Hope you get some good mosquito spray soon. When you return to civilization life witl be so easy for you guys.
It takes a while to get used to yourself but you're getting there don't give up - great posts - beautiful people !
The next time you get stung, use a base like baking soda. The sting comes from Formic Acid. Also, if you have it, Plantain (not the banana) is a fantastic healing plant and works great on bee stings.
Hello Jake and Nicole,
I am living in Spain and you really got me hooked with your life. I think you are both fantastic and I really admire what you did, it's fantastic. I wish I had to luck you both have. Nicole, please don't give up you are a really wonderful person and you have a man who really loves you. I am always alone and all day I watch your films. You are both an inspiration so keep it up, you are a truly wonderful couple. Oh, I am from Malta 61 yrs old but live in Spain. Please do not give up but keep it up, your so lucky. God bless you and stay safe.
regards
Michael
p.s. to the hater
You are hateful cause you are jealous for them, get real and let them live there life. After all, what is there to hate they really live a wonderful life.
You can trace the sunchokes back with the video you made...their shapes will tell you what is what..
Love the berries...so many of them..can make your own jams and juices
Someone else may have said this: Use LED lights under the van to ward off mice. This is what camping folks do with RVs. Apparently it works.
Be strong Nicole, take it as challenges in life being away from family n friends n ur comfort zone. What u n jake doing is really amazing . Look
After each other , respects compromise n honest . Everyone have their days , fights it with lots of things that occupied minds . Goodluck n be strong . Wish u all u all the best n happiness always . God bless u n jake always .
Love what you are doing. My hat is of to you good luck and my God bless you on your journey.
Nic . . . you are so strong, physically and emotionally. And you are balanced, thus you can show us your pain. I hope as you form new friendships in your community, the loneliness will lessen. Your upcoming trip home to visit family will help.
Love y’all videos. Hang in there sweetheart, take a vacation, meditate, then re-group. Love you guys
nice vid. thanks for keeping it real Nicole!
Aw Nicole, I'm going through a similar situation where I had moved to a first home with my fiance out of state away from everyone and as much as I love being in my own woods, it gets really lonely for me too. I hope this helps you feel less alone in some way? I think what you guys are doing is amazing and I enjoy your videos and the love you guys have for each other
I've been powering through all your videos. You guys are so awe-inspiring. You make me want to do more and be more creative with nature. Keep making these they are awesome.
Nicole sweetie...So sorry to see you so sad. Going through times of low vibration seems to be an unavoidable part of the human condition. Even Type A go-getters are entitled to an occasional day of bittersweet tears to release anxiety and loneliness. Perfectly normal considering the enormous challenges and lifestyle changes you are going through. I see I'm now harvesting several of those very same herbs you are harvesting... so you see, you are really not alone...we are all in accord and connected in many small subtle ways. Your flower salads look beautiful and delicious! Don't worry about the sunchokes. They can take a lot of abuse and still come back quickly. Sending you both lots of good thoughts and wishing you happy days ahead!
Oh Nicole you make me so sad seeing you sad. I know how you are feeling, missing your family and friends. It will be okay, you will see them soon. I loved and missed my family and friends too, when I moved away from everyone. They lived far away overseas and in those days it was very expensive to keep in touch by phone. So I wrote letters that took one month or more to get back a reply. The first time I saw your video when you were leaving Oregon, I felt sad for you and your parents. Because I also was sad and missing my children, one who lives in Seattle WA and 2 others up in Canada. I am so happy when they come visit. You will be so happy when you visit your family, you deserves this break. Big hugs, good luck and god bless!
I can totally understand how you must feel at times. It's great that you will be going home for a visit soon.
I have a sage plant that is 3 years old. Gives me a lot! I sent you some, already dried.. on stem. And some Columbine seeds...
Gwen Strong Aww Thank you so much!! 💜
How much of the “worth” price do you have to come up with?? I put 2 bucks... but will remember to 0 it next time... have a good weekend!
You must be strong for your soul , Know thy self is hard not being in perfect conditions
Just set a schedule of communication with your family! If you know every Wednesday afternoon you will talk with them it will help so much! Text on a regular basis, my gosh there are so many ways to communicate compared to my days. I was in Colorado, and my phone bills (land lines) were astronomical, my dad's health went to heck and I was really going crazy because I had no other way to communicate. You said you would be seeing them at the end of the month. Oh my gosh you can deal with this!! Are you still doing your yoga class? See what other local activities you can fit in - create a meet up day with a new local friend, pal or acquaintance (s). If nothing else a coffee break with strangers, library meet up - what ever you can create to see others, just make a "visit someone day" to break the routine. Is there a local senior lady that has lived her life on the island? Make friends with her - she will possibly share tons of history, gossip and good times. You can deal with this and not feel lonely. Take a break day from the work just to communicate with others.
if you ever get stung by a bee..rub dirt, soil on the area. it should releive the pain of the dart. new follower, just finished watching this video and now on to ep.36.. Wishing you guys peace love and the strength to continue creating this wonderful home for fox! namasté!