If it was just me and my boys... absolutely yes! But I could not do that to my wife... at least not now. She is not an outdoor person and likes Goodwill more than my garden... and her bed, and shower, and hair "products", etc. I could easily live without ALL of it. The car, the job, the stores, the crowds, the electronics, most of the appliances and "stuff". Yeah, I could live off the land.
Hey guys. Have you tried nettles? They are seriously a super-food. Use the larger leaves like spinach. Steep the smaller top leaves in hot water to make tea, then eat the steeped leaves! Heat neutralises the sting in seconds. They don't taste of much, so will accept any flavour put their way.
Darling, you aren’t missing a thing. Just go visit your family three or four times a year. You’re living a dream, enjoy it. The fact that it’s hard is part of what makes it worthwhile. Once you get things a little bit farther along, family can come visit you. Stay the course. Blessings.
Thanks for being real. I tried living off grid with my boyfriend. Not to discourage you, but it lasted a year. I worked so hard on the garden and the bugs ate so much. Food was such a hassle, and we just ended up irritating each other. I love your journey and wish you the best. You have friends.
I understand how you feel Nicole my wife is dealing with the same issues. She is Japanese and living in Australia and at this time there is no way she can leave to visit her family in Japan. They are dealing with one of her parents being elderly and in the hospital gravely ill. We have been married for 27 years and still very happily so what you and Jake have is a brilliant foundation but there are some big hoops to leap through believe me. What you are building there dose it include a plan for a third person and a forth further down the road and everything that goes along with that. Wish you and Jake lots of luck for a great future living the life you have chosen!
Nic, these are the best years of your life! Take some time for YOU! Visit your family and your friends! You have been amazing in your work off grid. GO, Girl and have some down time.
It's important to remember, life is a journey, not a destination and you can change your path at any time. If you don't feel "trapped" it makes it easier to shrug off the occasional tough moments.
Reminds me of the holidays I missed while in the US Army. I was always in the field or a war zone. Many of tears through the years. Family is everything.
Aw, breaks my heart to see you so sad. I hope your visit with your family will recharge your spirit. Sometimes, we just have to go home and feel the love that will always be waiting for us. Hugs from Indiana!
Nicole, thAnks for the honesty because I was wondering how you were surviving considering your life before (independent, family, friends, and a job). New adventures are exciting, but you’ll know when it’s time for a change.
Agree. My relationship didn't last because of this exact thing. 5 years together and engaged. We ended it for responsible reasons. She stayed in Canada, Calgary to be exact. I returned to California.
Team Nicole! When I first watched my first video of yours, I first thought these kids are crazy. I couldn’t believe all you were trying to accomplish, thinking to myself well at least she has him. Only to learn that you are his perfect match. Definitely his equal. As far as being home sick? I will only say that your family will always be there for you. I am sure they are so proud of you both....Hey this is what the internet and airplane tickets are for. I feel you are exactly where you belong. You truly made that house a home!! #strongwoman.
I never lived off grid like that. So beautiful where your located ! Cute kittens and so it begins. Your loving caring individuals kitties are a very rewarding addition to any family! You two have it going on for sure! Love that you keep it real unlike so many others on You Tube! Keep it coming you two!
Nicole not all of us are enjoying the festivaties of the 4th of July, there are plenty of us working and wishing we were where you are. I like what one of your viewers said about enjoying where you are, that is the best because we are journeying together. Thanks for sharing, distance is only in the mind.
I agree. Appreciate where you are. Hmm but also realize when you need to move forward. I definitely need to move forward. Been doing practically nothing, just turned 20. I'm looking to drive and get my liscense. I dont want to work a 9-5, but I definitely need to create a flow of income for myself. Im open to do many things and things must work out for the best in my life.
I have been watching your videos from the beginning and this is where I am, I am still catching up. You have matured sooo much Nicole since the beginning of this journey. You are incredibly brave and strong!
Ohhh Nicole I totally get it. I live in a different state as my family, and now going to be even moving further away soon. I miss them so much, but when you do see them it's that more special because you don't see them everyday.
Thank you for being open and honest. Though I found your channel 4 years after this I feel the emotion so much. I live 2500 miles from all my family and miss them terribly.
Awww Nicole, I felt your pain. It is so good you can cry and talk about missing your friends and family. Yes , talking is so therapeutic. My husband was in the Navy and we lived in countries a long way from family and friends, so I know how you feel. Mixed feelings and we need to give each feeling it's space to be. You are doing good. The kittens are growing fast. All those berries look so healthy and good. The bee bite, not so fun. They can sting!!! You both work so hard. Hugs to both. 😺💞
Hang in there Nicole. It's a new beginning for you and those can be scary. So many unanswered questions. But just remember, you have the world watching you, learning from you, and enjoying everything you and Jake are doing. Can't wait for the next video.
You have a great thing going and yes there will be hard days. You have something most people dream of just remember to cherish every minute together and love one another but first love yourselves. God bless yall
Remember being away from family for the first time overseas in the military away from all holidays and birthdays and celebrations and niece being born.... It was hard. Then the next year hard but less, then next year still hard but again less. Then less and less. Yep , what was hard made me harder and more mature... What did I get from it all as I now reflect? Appreciation! for everything. I notice growth in me that I notice others don't have. I appreciate things that others miss or take for granted.. Adds character.... I see growth in watching you both... That's why I watch! Keep growing into the remarkable human being you are becoming, the remarkable human being that you are! This is an amazing rewarding wonderful life you chose for yourself.. You are truly living! You both are! And you know it.... We love you for it! And we are also rewarded because of your efforts! Thank you so much for allowing us to be apart of this magical adventure!
Nicole. You are Jakes world. Jake. Nicole is nothing but that world. 1000’s would love nothing but what you two have. Love in all things. What you have millions will never understand. Love you both.
I have official wise words, yep. Theres an old japanese saying "where ever you are, BE there" Enjoy what your doing and the current adventure your taking, family is in your heart. Your mind might miss certain things those memories and spending time in a negative way effects where you are and what your doing now. those sad thoughts dont help, your still close to Oregon and they can come up and visit or you can go visit pretty often...I just highly recommend you BE where you are mind and soul so you dont miss out on the good things you have going. OK wise words over, carry on. and GARDEN ON!!
A girls aloud to miss her family. I moved across the country for my husband. Hardly every got to visit my nana, who raised me. Then moved closer to her and had to watch her die in front of me. Family is everything. I was angry for a long time at my husband. I lost almost 10 yrs away from her for him. So I get how she feels. His dad died 2 months before my momma did. So we grieved together. But I would never do it again. I wish I would have stayed closer to home 😭💔 I’ll never get that time back.
@@juupiissocool I hope she listens. plus this live style is beautiful but , non sustainable. there needs to be a balance . ( I lived over two decades similar to this, It broke us , we divorced and my heart was broken ....and it aged me quickly ) I can never get that time back, + I lost a mom and my sister. Im alone in this world now. Nicole go home, if he loves you he will follow.
Just found you two this morning...We adore you! I grew up in Northern Maine - off the grid in every conceivable way. My lovely wife grew up in a rural area and because we both came from humble beginnings, we decided in our 40's to build our home out of raw land. We have dogs, chickens, pigs, a horse and a quiet place to live where our children help to make this place possible. We are all happy and share the struggle together. What you two are doing is what I wanted over 25 years ago.
That hot dog was well made. I am sorry you get lonely for your family and friends. Hope you get some good mosquito spray soon. When you return to civilization life witl be so easy for you guys.
triumphmanful 😂😂😂 what an ignorant comment. You try going through just one contraction and see how you do. Try taking care of a baby all day, you think it's easy!? Someone taught you that showing emotions is weak, that doesn't mean it actually is. Everyone experiences emotions, it's just that boys are taught to push them down and ignore them. That is not strong. It takes courage to experience strong emotions, maybe you should try it. Or are you too afraid?
Wow I never really thought about that with you and Jake being up there so far away from all your friends and familt that must be so difficult I'm glad you got to tell us how you feel that was so sweet of you
Watching you two in the first 7 videos all I could think was ugh no people besides two-HARD. I used to think what kind of crazy social demented expiriment is this? Lol. Meaning you're doing remarkably well. And we are all in awe.
Great to see some honesty in a post, and for me, it only adds to the quality of your videos. Reality says that on grid or on an off grid adventure, shit happens that has to be coped with, and what we have been used to, our past normality and/or normalities, can disturb us when bits of it/them, or even massive chunks of it/them are missing. The difference between the situations is the sense of adventure that comes with off grid, and it is this and the sense of wonder that comes with exploring your external and internal boundaries that our old forms of normality seem to try to crush. If you go back, then you will start to miss the adventure, and if you do not go back, then the adventure will be in danger of becoming another normal, so human reality says that we can find ways to enjoy both adventures and normality by constantly exploring our own lives and our boundaries, and then wondering about who we have become, off grid and on, and finding out who we can still yet be. Great work, both of you. Those sad and frustrated feelings are called being alive as well as the happy ones.
I can't believe its been 5 years since I first saw this video! How wonderful to have witnessed your familys beautiful journey thus far! God bless you guys & your 3 precious children! 💕🙏🏼🤗
Everything it's gonna be alright no time when you open your eyes and you will see others follow you unto your steps the way you and Jake live the wonderful lifestyle God bless you and today and for ever
I love that you're so real Nicole. You're changing my outlook on life by what you and Jake are doing! You're a wonderful mother and a great woman. You are a role model for many. ☮️💜🤙😘
Jake & Nicole.. glad your keeping a good outlook on things.. even when things go wrong good things still happen. Hang in there Nicole You'll see your family soon. That salad you made looked totally awesome. Yummmm. Very nice.
I have not been home in about 20 years. Missed lots of stuff ,my sister getting married, family members passing, just having a support system around you and I dream of the day I can see my old home again it’s hard but God gives extra strength to those who need it just ask.
It is not easy in deed. I lost my partner 5 months ago, I still have a 6yo son and we live in a city where I dont know too much people. My family is 700km away (8h trip by car) and here I am alone dealing with everyday difficulties, but I appreciate what I have and enjoy every moment I can spend with my family. Things are gonna get better if we act to make it better. BTW I visit my family too by the end of the month yay!
Nicole, thanks for sharing of yourself. Just to remind you, it doesn’t matter where you are, life is hard. Your family and friends know you love them! Stay true to yourself! Cheers, Sean
Nicole is a brave strong girl and Im sure she gets home sick for some of her old friends. Its good she is going home for a little bit to get recharged. You will be fine and glad you have the net to stay in touch with all the people that watch you. You are doing great......... Jake was born in the area and its much harder for you so it will take some time to adjust. To bad you don't have a ham Radio license then you could talk to people all over the world in real time and no internet needed. All you need is some wire for a antenna and a radio but you do need a license. With you located on the island your signal would be great and you can use those tall trees to put a wire antenna hanging from. Something different to do. You can run the radio from one of the batteries.
I know this comes late but I’ve just found this amazing channel and wonderful YOU! Sending you tons of hugs for those moments when you need it most. And thank you for being so open, honest and vulnerable. I am so grateful to have come across your journey 😊 xox
Nicole, You're so sweet thank you for your honesty sharing your personal feelings. It's good for your relationship spend time apart from each other. Jake would probably go crazy for the first week or so that you're gone. Look I'm laid up in a hospital bed I don't know what happened. Time just slipped away from me. Most of my family have past away. I guess what I'm trying to say go home create some good memories see your family and your friends. Time is so precious I never consider. Yep I wish you the best Nicole also Jake. Love you guys. Earl XX
You can trace the sunchokes back with the video you made...their shapes will tell you what is what.. Love the berries...so many of them..can make your own jams and juices
I love your videos! Nicole I totally understand, It gets really lonely sometimes. Y'all are living the dream, remember you still get vacations- both of you! Rest when you need to and have fun! Love y'all xoxo
Do you think folks hate the clickbait bcuz the off grid community is conservative? Most homesteading off grid channels I’ve watched are kinda conservative religious married couples
Am I not merciful ? No I don’t think they are religious at all.. spiritual maybe! it’s just such a great Chanel and content and it’s funny they pose for the clicks
I think I could too. But I'd definitely get a couple of dogs for company, even though I have cats right now because of my schedule. And I don't know of anyone that would join me so I'd have to rely on my dogs and neighbors for company. I'd probably miss my Xbox Live online gaming though.
I've always found it interesting when you move somewhere, friends and family want you to go visit them but, it doesn't seem to work the other way around.
Like your videos,have been watching for a while. Just found out you were in Tempe-cos I currently live in Avondale AZ so you know how hot it is here. Just thought it was funny that you know AZ. Have fun and good luck in your pursuits.
You guys have been such a HUGE inspiration to me ever since discovering your channel 3 weeks ago! Thank you for helping me get back into my heart center after a seemingly very long winter! Blessings to you xoxo
Hi hope it gets better for you...You will have to decide what you really want,being educated it is not the best choice to live as you do..it will not get any easier, as you age and life passes you buy..What do you do when you get too old to continue this life style..I am 71 years old and lived a life as you are now I have nothing and live in a Veteran home..Think about it
I don't think she needs to take advise from you. What about all the people that lived in the city and was very wealthy and got old and died broke in a nursing home? Exactly...
Hey Ron...I'm a retired old vet as well.I poor traveled most of my life and until recently felt the same way you do;Then a friend reminded me of all the wonderful memories I had stored away;simple things that warmed my heart whenever I remembered them.I'll bet you have some too.I hope you find comfortable peace in your memories as I did.Hang in there brother,the best is yet to come...
Nic . . . you are so strong, physically and emotionally. And you are balanced, thus you can show us your pain. I hope as you form new friendships in your community, the loneliness will lessen. Your upcoming trip home to visit family will help.
I'm sorry you're so sad missing family & friends, Nicole. I don't like to see you cry, but you are human & do show your feelings as expected from time to time. I love how honest & real you & Jake are. It's very hard work to live off grid but you guys make it work for each other. I learn a lot from you about food & the environment & appreciate what you are sacrificing. If I were young again & had the drive, not sure so could do it. I am close with my family as you are, but I'm also an identical twin & have never really been separated from my sister unless I was on vacation. I spent a summer in SoCal & missed my first birthday away from my sister that I will never get back. I missed my family too much & never spent time away like that again. People may say I missed/am missing out on a lot, but I can't stay away from my family. I give you lots of credit & I'm thankful that I can watch you guys on your journey, learn, & incorporate what you share about herbs, teas, & home jarring foods. It's wonderful, so thank you both for that. Be well & stay safe. 💞
Poor you. I can understand your emotions. Must be really hard. Good to talk about it. You both are wonderful couple and I salute you for choosing this amazing and adventurous life. Wonder what it would be like in winter living in the yurt.
THIS-WILL HELP-- My dad was a bee farmer for years. Two remedies for bee stings, 1- mud let it dry, 2- the best one unflavored chewing tobacco . Get it wet put it on the sting, rap with Gozo or put on a White sock. The tobacco will help any sting and also with mosquito bites.
Things can change in a moment. Let yourself be open to the higher power. I suggest you find a way to get guest quarters, but in the meantime save up to go to be with your family and friends.
hi there you can save your plants by getting a very large jar and fill it with water and a little mircular grow, and as the water goes down just add more warm water.and you will see how great they grow.and you can replat them with in a few weeks.also you can grow gooseberries.
It constantly amazes me how some people can take a very short clip of film, mere 'moments' in someones life and Judge them so harshly. Nicole seems like she has a good head on her shoulders and is no ones fool. Instead of 'Trolling' why not try putting your life out there for all to see before you make such harsh judgements on others. Love your vids guys ignore the 'trolls' who probably never do anything more exciting than get out of bed each morning.
The next time you get stung, use a base like baking soda. The sting comes from Formic Acid. Also, if you have it, Plantain (not the banana) is a fantastic healing plant and works great on bee stings.
So sorry Sweetie.When I moved overseas to Europe many years ago I felt the same way.To add insult to injury I didn’t speak their language.I learned enough German to get me through and I did what you are doing, I cried.You are such a brave woman, have a good cry and then get up and put your big girl panties on and do what you do best, go build something! You guys rock!
That's how my grandpas lived in the northern part of Argentina, I was lucky enough to share some. Not easy to live off the grid, but much much easier these days!
Hello Nicole, it definitely sounds like you need a vacation! I just have to say that what you two created there is amazing and not many people could do what yourself and Jake have done! to me you guys are amazing young people! It's by far nothing I've ever done and I'm 59. I watch you guys and wonder what it would be like if I had done the same thing. I highly doubt I would have moved so far north! I know it can be brutal there, but the views you have on your UA-cam channel are so beautiful. Well gotta go and keep the faith, God Bless you both. George
*_Always try to live in a colourful world where flowers are blooming and blossoming, birds are singing in joy; a melodious music is dissolved into the gusts of wind; the swarded land is adorned in the shade of greenery; in the morning the atmosphere resonates with the hum of the dawn chorus of birds; beautiful evening like a shy bride hides her body in the mist; and where your mind is always peaceful keeping your heart full of contentment._*
Pls know your berries. I don’t know if you have high-bush cranberries there but there are two different types of leaves on the bush. One area here there was three different types of-red berries and one ( red baneberry )was poison. Sometimes you have to follow the stem and check the leaves. Love you all.
Jack and Nicole is safe that place? You know dangerous annimals like bears? it is very common to find them in their living place, I hope you be safe there.
Sun chokes will multiply from breaking. Don't count any of them out. They are tough. Replant the parts you can find. Early sprouts can get rabbitcited :)
Could you live off the grid? if yes why and if no why not??
Couldn't! Unfortunately, would love to but too old and handicapped. 😕
No way. Sorry just like my gadgets.... but love watching you guys.
If it was just me and my boys... absolutely yes! But I could not do that to my wife... at least not now. She is not an outdoor person and likes Goodwill more than my garden... and her bed, and shower, and hair "products", etc. I could easily live without ALL of it. The car, the job, the stores, the crowds, the electronics, most of the appliances and "stuff". Yeah, I could live off the land.
I wish i vould go full time.. i lived 1yr. North of Toronto. About 140kms.
Yes . Short answer
Hey guys. Have you tried nettles? They are seriously a super-food. Use the larger leaves like spinach. Steep the smaller top leaves in hot water to make tea, then eat the steeped leaves! Heat neutralises the sting in seconds. They don't taste of much, so will accept any flavour put their way.
Darling, you aren’t missing a thing. Just go visit your family three or four times a year. You’re living a dream, enjoy it. The fact that it’s hard is part of what makes it worthwhile. Once you get things a little bit farther along, family can come visit you. Stay the course. Blessings.
She is missing a chromosome or two .. She is never happy
@@rvdevoe4096 I have noticed that too.
@@rvdevoe4096 she’s a human being and I think it’s so rude and so not empathetic to them as real living people. Feelings are valid.
Thanks for being real. I tried living off grid with my boyfriend. Not to discourage you, but it lasted a year. I worked so hard on the garden and the bugs ate so much. Food was such a hassle, and we just ended up irritating each other. I love your journey and wish you the best. You have friends.
You prolly did something real and should be proud of that learning experience. This show is not real.
Hi. Your not really living of grid! ITS MORE LIKE CAMPING.
I understand how you feel Nicole my wife is dealing with the same issues. She is Japanese and living in Australia and at this time there is no way she can leave to visit her family in Japan. They are dealing with one of her parents being elderly and in the hospital gravely ill. We have been married for 27 years and still very happily so what you and Jake have is a brilliant foundation but there are some big hoops to leap through believe me. What you are building there dose it include a plan for a third person and a forth further down the road and everything that goes along with that. Wish you and Jake lots of luck for a great future living the life you have chosen!
Nic, these are the best years of your life! Take some time for YOU! Visit your family and your friends! You have been amazing in your work off grid. GO, Girl and have some down time.
It's important to remember, life is a journey, not a destination and you can change your path at any time. If you don't feel "trapped" it makes it easier to shrug off the occasional tough moments.
I love you guys. I am 73 yrs old and when i was younger this was my dream. I cant now unfortunately but i can live it through you. Thank you.
Reminds me of the holidays I missed while in the US Army. I was always in the field or a war zone. Many of tears through the years. Family is everything.
Not real war.
Aw, breaks my heart to see you so sad. I hope your visit with your family will recharge your spirit. Sometimes, we just have to go home and feel the love that will always be waiting for us. Hugs from Indiana!
or have family and friend experience your adventure.Tell them bring a tent and a sleeping bag and stay as long as the wish
i like jake he is a good man and you 2 belong together
Nicole, thAnks for the honesty because I was wondering how you were surviving considering your life before (independent, family, friends, and a job). New adventures are exciting, but you’ll know when it’s time for a change.
Agree. My relationship didn't last because of this exact thing. 5 years together and engaged. We ended it for responsible reasons. She stayed in Canada, Calgary to be exact. I returned to California.
V Cottn you gave to Nicole a great live comment for his future.
Bless your heart Nicole. Use all that grace you have for those days of feeling lonely.
YOU BOTH HAVE SO MUCH STRENGTH.MY FOREST ANGEL,YOU also gives me strength i never know ihad to start my own garden.be safe be blessed.
Team Nicole!
When I first watched my first video of yours, I first thought these kids are crazy. I couldn’t believe all you were trying to accomplish, thinking to myself well at least she has him. Only to learn that you are his perfect match. Definitely his equal.
As far as being home sick? I will only say that your family will always be there for you. I am sure they are so proud of you both....Hey this is what the internet and airplane tickets are for.
I feel you are exactly where you belong. You truly made that house a home!!
#strongwoman.
You choose you're own way thru life. Love who you are, Who you chose to be with, and Where you both chose to be, and enjoy.
I never lived off grid like that. So beautiful where your located ! Cute kittens and so it begins. Your loving caring individuals kitties are a very rewarding addition to any family! You two have it going on for sure! Love that you keep it real unlike so many others on You Tube! Keep it coming you two!
Nicole not all of us are enjoying the festivaties of the 4th of July, there are plenty of us working and wishing we were where you are. I like what one of your viewers said about enjoying where you are, that is the best because we are journeying together. Thanks for sharing, distance is only in the mind.
I agree. Appreciate where you are. Hmm but also realize when you need to move forward. I definitely need to move forward. Been doing practically nothing, just turned 20. I'm looking to drive and get my liscense. I dont want to work a 9-5, but I definitely need to create a flow of income for myself. Im open to do many things and things must work out for the best in my life.
Oh to be so young and have a clue. Good luck and blessings to you.
Thank you for your heartfelt honesty and confession. Balance + Family
I have been watching your videos from the beginning and this is where I am, I am still catching up. You have matured sooo much Nicole since the beginning of this journey. You are incredibly brave and strong!
Ohhh Nicole I totally get it. I live in a different state as my family, and now going to be even moving further away soon. I miss them so much, but when you do see them it's that more special because you don't see them everyday.
Thank you for being open and honest. Though I found your channel 4 years after this I feel the emotion so much. I live 2500 miles from all my family and miss them terribly.
Awww Nicole, I felt your pain. It is so good you can cry and talk about missing your friends and family. Yes , talking is so therapeutic. My husband was in the Navy and we lived in countries a long way from family and friends, so I know how you feel. Mixed feelings and we need to give each feeling it's space to be. You are doing good. The kittens are growing fast. All those berries look so healthy and good. The bee bite, not so fun. They can sting!!! You both work so hard. Hugs to both. 😺💞
Hang in there Nicole. It's a new beginning for you and those can be scary. So many unanswered questions. But just remember, you have the world watching you, learning from you, and enjoying everything you and Jake are doing. Can't wait for the next video.
Not only the garden. You are also a success Nicole. Always!
You have a great thing going and yes there will be hard days. You have something most people dream of just remember to cherish every minute together and love one another but first love yourselves. God bless yall
We did. Both growing up and again as adults. We decided we like hot water.
Remember being away from family for the first time overseas in the military away from all holidays and birthdays and celebrations and niece being born.... It was hard. Then the next year hard but less, then next year still hard but again less. Then less and less. Yep , what was hard made me harder and more mature... What did I get from it all as I now reflect? Appreciation! for everything. I notice growth in me that I notice others don't have. I appreciate things that others miss or take for granted.. Adds character.... I see growth in watching you both... That's why I watch! Keep growing into the remarkable human being you are becoming, the remarkable human being that you are! This is an amazing rewarding wonderful life you chose for yourself.. You are truly living! You both are! And you know it.... We love you for it! And we are also rewarded because of your efforts! Thank you so much for allowing us to be apart of this magical adventure!
Learning the area around you is very important. Know what resources you have available to you. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you!
Thanks for sharing Nicole, for sharing, that was an amazing session. Keep up the Great Videos!
Nicole. You are Jakes world. Jake. Nicole is nothing but that world. 1000’s would love nothing but what you two have. Love in all things. What you have millions will never understand. Love you both.
I have official wise words, yep. Theres an old japanese saying "where ever you are, BE there" Enjoy what your doing and the current adventure your taking, family is in your heart. Your mind might miss certain things those memories and spending time in a negative way effects where you are and what your doing now. those sad thoughts dont help, your still close to Oregon and they can come up and visit or you can go visit pretty often...I just highly recommend you BE where you are mind and soul so you dont miss out on the good things you have going. OK wise words over, carry on. and GARDEN ON!!
cocopufer, excellent words especially in our world.
A girls aloud to miss her family. I moved across the country for my husband. Hardly every got to visit my nana, who raised me. Then moved closer to her and had to watch her die in front of me. Family is everything. I was angry for a long time at my husband. I lost almost 10 yrs away from her for him. So I get how she feels. His dad died 2 months before my momma did. So we grieved together. But I would never do it again. I wish I would have stayed closer to home 😭💔 I’ll never get that time back.
@@juupiissocool I hope she listens. plus this live style is beautiful but , non sustainable. there needs to be a balance . ( I lived over two decades similar to this, It broke us , we divorced and my heart was broken ....and it aged me quickly ) I can never get that time back, + I lost a mom and my sister. Im alone in this world now. Nicole go home, if he loves you he will follow.
Thank you Nicole for being real.
Just found you two this morning...We adore you! I grew up in Northern Maine - off the grid in every conceivable way. My lovely wife grew up in a rural area and because we both came from humble beginnings, we decided in our 40's to build our home out of raw land. We have dogs, chickens, pigs, a horse and a quiet place to live where our children help to make this place possible. We are all happy and share the struggle together. What you two are doing is what I wanted over 25 years ago.
Yay for no clickbait on this video! I truly admire you Nicole and appreciate your rawness.
This is actually one of my favorite episodes. Thank you. Keep up the great work!
David Ivins Thank you! 💜
Thank you for being so honest.
That hot dog was well made. I am sorry you get lonely for your family and friends. Hope you get some good mosquito spray soon. When you return to civilization life witl be so easy for you guys.
Hi Nicole, enjoying the videos and may I say that you are a natural beauty....Jake is a lucky guy.
Good Friend Thank you. 💜
I know you miss your family but you're a great strong beautiful woman
triumphmanful 😂😂😂 what an ignorant comment. You try going through just one contraction and see how you do. Try taking care of a baby all day, you think it's easy!? Someone taught you that showing emotions is weak, that doesn't mean it actually is. Everyone experiences emotions, it's just that boys are taught to push them down and ignore them. That is not strong. It takes courage to experience strong emotions, maybe you should try it. Or are you too afraid?
Wow I never really thought about that with you and Jake being up there so far away from all your friends and familt that must be so difficult I'm glad you got to tell us how you feel that was so sweet of you
Watching you two in the first 7 videos all I could think was ugh no people besides two-HARD. I used to think what kind of crazy social demented expiriment is this? Lol.
Meaning you're doing remarkably well. And we are all in awe.
I appreciate you guys honesty and being real which is one of the main reasons why we enjoy your videos.
Great to see some honesty in a post, and for me, it only adds to the quality of your videos.
Reality says that on grid or on an off grid adventure, shit happens that has to be coped with, and what we have been used to, our past normality and/or normalities, can disturb us when bits of it/them, or even massive chunks of it/them are missing.
The difference between the situations is the sense of adventure that comes with off grid, and it is this and the sense of wonder that comes with exploring your external and internal boundaries that our old forms of normality seem to try to crush.
If you go back, then you will start to miss the adventure, and if you do not go back, then the adventure will be in danger of becoming another normal, so human reality says that we can find ways to enjoy both adventures and normality by constantly exploring our own lives and our boundaries, and then wondering about who we have become, off grid and on, and finding out who we can still yet be.
Great work, both of you. Those sad and frustrated feelings are called being alive as well as the happy ones.
I can't believe its been 5 years since I first saw this video! How wonderful to have witnessed your familys beautiful journey thus far! God bless you guys & your 3 precious children! 💕🙏🏼🤗
Definitely dry red raspberry leaves to make tea. It's high in magnesium, potassium, iron and b-vitamins and very soothing, particularly for women. ;-)
Everything it's gonna be alright no time when you open your eyes and you will see others follow you unto your steps the way you and Jake live the wonderful lifestyle God bless you and today and for ever
I love that you're so real Nicole. You're changing my outlook on life by what you and Jake are doing! You're a wonderful mother and a great woman. You are a role model for many. ☮️💜🤙😘
Love your journey, Nicole you’re so adorable... love watching your vlog. Been away myself...
Umm Salma Thank you! 💜
Jake & Nicole.. glad your keeping a good outlook on things.. even when things go wrong good things
still happen. Hang in there Nicole
You'll see your family soon. That salad you made looked totally awesome. Yummmm. Very nice.
Nicole thank you for being real. Love and light to you✨💙✨
That's the most colorful salad I've ever seen. So beautiful.
I have not been home in about 20 years. Missed lots of stuff ,my sister getting married, family members passing, just having a support system around you and I dream of the day I can see my old home again it’s hard but God gives extra strength to those who need it just ask.
Awesomely clean living, free and keeping fit.. Blessed than most of your followers, family and friends.. God bless and take care..
It is not easy in deed. I lost my partner 5 months ago, I still have a 6yo son and we live in a city where I dont know too much people. My family is 700km away (8h trip by car) and here I am alone dealing with everyday difficulties, but I appreciate what I have and enjoy every moment I can spend with my family. Things are gonna get better if we act to make it better. BTW I visit my family too by the end of the month yay!
consider taking your child back and living close to your family. in the big picture, the support is invaluable.
Nicole, thanks for sharing of yourself. Just to remind you, it doesn’t matter where you are, life is hard. Your family and friends know you love them! Stay true to yourself! Cheers, Sean
Nicole is a brave strong girl and Im sure she gets home sick for some of her old friends. Its good she is going home for a little bit to get recharged. You will be fine and glad you have the net to stay in touch with all the people that watch you. You are doing great......... Jake was born in the area and its much harder for you so it will take some time to adjust. To bad you don't have a ham Radio license then you could talk to people all over the world in real time and no internet needed. All you need is some wire for a antenna and a radio but you do need a license. With you located on the island your signal would be great and you can use those tall trees to put a wire antenna hanging from. Something different to do. You can run the radio from one of the batteries.
Keeping it real and authentic!
I know this comes late but I’ve just found this amazing channel and wonderful YOU! Sending you tons of hugs for those moments when you need it most. And thank you for being so open, honest and vulnerable. I am so grateful to have come across your journey 😊 xox
Nicole,
You're so sweet thank you for your honesty sharing your personal feelings. It's good for your relationship spend time apart from each other. Jake would probably go crazy for the first week or so that you're gone. Look I'm laid up in a hospital bed I don't know what happened. Time just slipped away from me. Most of my family have past away. I guess what I'm trying to say go home create some good memories see your family and your friends. Time is so precious I never consider. Yep I wish you the best Nicole also Jake. Love you guys. Earl XX
Great job you two!You have come along way and you should be very proud.
You can trace the sunchokes back with the video you made...their shapes will tell you what is what..
Love the berries...so many of them..can make your own jams and juices
I love your videos! Nicole I totally understand, It gets really lonely sometimes. Y'all are living the dream, remember you still get vacations- both of you! Rest when you need to and have fun! Love y'all xoxo
Good job this might be the first thumbnail that's not clickbait.
Rural Ridez616 the only one
Do you think folks hate the clickbait bcuz the off grid community is conservative? Most homesteading off grid channels I’ve watched are kinda conservative religious married couples
Am I not merciful ? No I don’t think they are religious at all.. spiritual maybe!
it’s just such a great Chanel and content and it’s funny they pose for the clicks
Speak for yourself....nichole's always clickbait....only more so when scantily clad....
You never seen a woman before Rural?
Yah NO click bait 👍
I can live off grid because I'm not use to technology and I love the outdoors it's my life.
That's really cool. I know I can do it. I just need to learn and adapt.
I need Dunkin Donuts and Mickey D's.
I think I could too. But I'd definitely get a couple of dogs for company, even though I have cats right now because of my schedule. And I don't know of anyone that would join me so I'd have to rely on my dogs and neighbors for company.
I'd probably miss my Xbox Live online gaming though.
Nicole pack your bags take some me time FOR YOU .
These guys will be divorced within five years. Really.
Seth Weiss agree 100%
Cold wet mud will help stop the burning. You should keep benedryl on hand for allergic reactions.
I've always found it interesting when you move somewhere, friends and family want you to go visit them but, it doesn't seem to work the other way around.
Like your videos,have been watching for a while. Just found out you were in Tempe-cos I currently live in Avondale AZ so you know how hot it is here. Just thought it was funny that you know AZ. Have fun and good luck in your pursuits.
Moving firewood with a wheelbarrow is so much easier than carrying it as is using a wood splitting wedge for such large pieces, just saying ;-)
Stay honest...you are doing great! We use to pick many gallons of wild raspberries every summer, by far my favorite fruit.
You have the good life. The city is the rat race, infected with a lot of drama. Serenity is where it's at...
nice vid. thanks for keeping it real Nicole!
You guys have been such a HUGE inspiration to me ever since discovering your channel 3 weeks ago! Thank you for helping me get back into my heart center after a seemingly very long winter!
Blessings to you xoxo
Hi hope it gets better for you...You will have to decide what you really want,being educated it is not the best choice to live as you do..it will not get any easier, as you age and life passes you buy..What do you do when you get too old to continue this life style..I am 71 years old and lived a life as you are now I have nothing and live in a Veteran home..Think about it
I don't think she needs to take advise from you. What about all the people that lived in the city and was very wealthy and got old and died broke in a nursing home? Exactly...
Hey Ron...I'm a retired old vet as well.I poor traveled most of my life and until recently felt the same way you do;Then a friend reminded me of all the wonderful memories I had stored away;simple things that warmed my heart whenever I remembered them.I'll bet you have some too.I hope you find comfortable peace in your memories as I did.Hang in there brother,the best is yet to come...
Nic . . . you are so strong, physically and emotionally. And you are balanced, thus you can show us your pain. I hope as you form new friendships in your community, the loneliness will lessen. Your upcoming trip home to visit family will help.
I'm sorry you're so sad missing family & friends, Nicole.
I don't like to see you cry, but you are human & do show your feelings as expected from time to time.
I love how honest & real you & Jake are.
It's very hard work to live off grid but you guys make it work for each other.
I learn a lot from you about food & the environment & appreciate what you are sacrificing.
If I were young again & had the drive, not sure so could do it.
I am close with my family as you are, but I'm also an identical twin & have never really been separated from my sister unless I was on vacation.
I spent a summer in SoCal & missed my first birthday away from my sister that I will never get back. I missed my family too much & never spent time away like that again.
People may say I missed/am missing out on a lot, but I can't stay away from my family.
I give you lots of credit & I'm thankful that I can watch you guys on your journey, learn, & incorporate what you share about herbs, teas, & home jarring foods. It's wonderful, so thank you both for that.
Be well & stay safe. 💞
I have a sage plant that is 3 years old. Gives me a lot! I sent you some, already dried.. on stem. And some Columbine seeds...
Gwen Strong Aww Thank you so much!! 💜
How much of the “worth” price do you have to come up with?? I put 2 bucks... but will remember to 0 it next time... have a good weekend!
Poor you. I can understand your emotions. Must be really hard. Good to talk about it. You both are wonderful couple and I salute you for choosing this amazing and adventurous life. Wonder what it would be like in winter living in the yurt.
THIS-WILL HELP-- My dad was a bee farmer for years. Two remedies for bee stings, 1- mud let it dry, 2- the best one unflavored chewing tobacco . Get it wet put it on the sting, rap with Gozo or put on a White sock. The tobacco will help any sting and also with mosquito bites.
Things can change in a moment. Let yourself be open to the higher power. I suggest you find a way to get guest quarters, but in the meantime save up to go to be with your family and friends.
hi there you can save your plants by getting a very large jar and fill it with water and a little mircular grow, and as the water goes down just add more warm water.and you will see how great they grow.and you can replat them with in a few weeks.also you can grow gooseberries.
dont worry dear every thing is gonna be ok .
It constantly amazes me how some people can take a very short clip of film, mere 'moments' in someones life and Judge them so harshly. Nicole seems like she has a good head on her shoulders and is no ones fool. Instead of 'Trolling' why not try putting your life out there for all to see before you make such harsh judgements on others. Love your vids guys ignore the 'trolls' who probably never do anything more exciting than get out of bed each morning.
The next time you get stung, use a base like baking soda. The sting comes from Formic Acid. Also, if you have it, Plantain (not the banana) is a fantastic healing plant and works great on bee stings.
So sorry Sweetie.When I moved overseas to Europe many years ago I felt the same way.To add insult to injury I didn’t speak their language.I learned enough German to get me through and I did what you are doing, I cried.You are such a brave woman, have a good cry and then get up and put your big girl panties on and do what you do best, go build something! You guys rock!
Someone else may have said this: Use LED lights under the van to ward off mice. This is what camping folks do with RVs. Apparently it works.
That's how my grandpas lived in the northern part of Argentina, I was lucky enough to share some. Not easy to live off the grid, but much much easier these days!
Hello Nicole, it definitely sounds like you need a vacation! I just have to say that what you two created there is amazing and not many people could do what yourself and Jake have done! to me you guys are amazing young people! It's by far nothing I've ever done and I'm 59. I watch you guys and wonder what it would be like if I had done the same thing. I highly doubt I would have moved so far north! I know it can be brutal there, but the views you have on your UA-cam channel are so beautiful. Well gotta go and keep the faith, God Bless you both. George
thank you for sharing this, it maks you , i don't know why, a part of family
A log splitter would be a good addition
And time saverqq
Then you have to worry about gas
It takes a while to get used to yourself but you're getting there don't give up - great posts - beautiful people !
*_Always try to live in a colourful world where flowers are blooming and blossoming, birds are singing in joy; a melodious music is dissolved into the gusts of wind; the swarded land is adorned in the shade of greenery; in the morning the atmosphere resonates with the hum of the dawn chorus of birds; beautiful evening like a shy bride hides her body in the mist; and where your mind is always peaceful keeping your heart full of contentment._*
That little girl is a working machine!! Jake you are a lucky guy.
Pls know your berries. I don’t know if you have high-bush cranberries there but there are two different types of leaves on the bush. One area here there was three different types of-red berries and one ( red baneberry )was poison. Sometimes you have to follow the stem and check the leaves. Love you all.
Jack and Nicole is safe that place? You know dangerous annimals like bears? it is very common to find them in their living place, I hope you be safe there.
Totally feel you I don’t get to see my family all the time. I was lucky to have my family come see me during the 4th
Bless you darling. Keep going. X
You must be strong for your soul , Know thy self is hard not being in perfect conditions
Sun chokes will multiply from breaking. Don't count any of them out. They are tough. Replant the parts you can find. Early sprouts can get rabbitcited :)