Mistakes I Made in My 20s That I Regret | 5 Mistakes of My Life | Mistakes To Avoid In Your 20s

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  • @SaloniSrivastava
    @SaloniSrivastava  Рік тому +5

    There's someone who's made a profile with my photo and is replying to comments with an opportunity to win free gifts! That is not me. I'll never ask you to message me on Telegram or Whatsapp. Please be careful! :)

  • @Shreddhaa
    @Shreddhaa 2 роки тому +17

    As someone in their 20s, I really appreciated this! I especially resonate with being a people pleaser and having to un-learn caring too much about what other people think.

  • @puja.karmakar
    @puja.karmakar 2 роки тому +18

    At 7:01 , kota factory ka ek dialogue yaad ageya.. 'Maa baap ke decisions sayad galat ho sakte hain, par unki neeyat kabhi galat nehi hota' ❤

  • @richa30aug
    @richa30aug 2 роки тому +26

    That's so relatable,being in a corporate job , totally understand where you are coming from , but then there is always a journey to maturity 😄

  • @kunikanadkarni6006
    @kunikanadkarni6006 Рік тому +19

    that rat race part just was wat i needed to hear right now..i"m in my 3rd year cs and it"s hell lotta competition here and it's taking a toll on me so hearing your advice really means alot , infact writing this comment as soon as i heard this thank you so much for sharing your experiences.❤

  • @chitras3238
    @chitras3238 2 роки тому +8

    I'm in my mid twenties, Your talk was just like my older self advising me!!
    Much appreciate for you being yourself on the social media platform.
    Thank you 💟

  • @faridahmohammed1831
    @faridahmohammed1831 Рік тому +75

    I can’t believe we are so similar!! I definitely agree not to choose career based on their hype. I chose to be a doctor, but now I earned more being a freelancer & online tutoring, and the best part is I love what I’m doing!

  • @salinikanoi874
    @salinikanoi874 2 роки тому

    This is the thing. You are so relatable. I think I have ran behind money, fame and all the gliterry things for quite a long time and now I have realised that a few things might excite but you really don't want/need and that's when you get aligned to your life.

  • @sowmyav6641
    @sowmyav6641 2 роки тому +16

    Not being able to negotiate is a common problem, especially among women! Our self confidence is low and imposter syndrome is much higher. Great advice for young professionals to be aware of it! :)

  • @vnaykmar7
    @vnaykmar7 Рік тому +1

    Giving honest feedback is probably one of the most important things you can do in order to make a person introspect who they are or what they are doing. Thanks it is a life changing habit.

  • @bhavikashah7065
    @bhavikashah7065 2 роки тому +12

    I'll turn 30 in January and even I've been looking back on some of my decisions. Even though my 20s have been tough and filled with a lot of decisions that others don't agree with, I'm so happy about all of them :)

  • @bsp8911
    @bsp8911 2 роки тому +15

    Guilty of these mistakes too! I truly agree that it’s crucial to do the right thing instead of the nice thing in order to prevent future drama! Another solid upload Saloni. Thank you! 😊

  • @anithasingh8764
    @anithasingh8764 Рік тому

    I liked that you shared that you were also condescending to your parents and it is a big mistake to not listen to your parents and not take their advice. Recently even I felt that way because how much information we have access to so easily by just a click makes us feel a certain way but nothing can beat the wisdom, experience, and love of our parents ❤
    Thank you for making this video, I will turn 23 tomorrow and was feeling like I have not done anything worthwhile but this video made me feel hopeful and positive.
    💕

  • @Sera_Vaz
    @Sera_Vaz 2 роки тому +63

    Saloni, this is exactly what makes you a good content creator! You are honest, raw, and relatable. I especially love the fact that you don't wear make up to look perfect and speak perfect things that are not achievable in the day to day life by regular people. Thank you for being this good. We all really appreciate your work.

  • @jinimuzic
    @jinimuzic 2 роки тому +7

    Really like how with all honesty you share. I’m entering second half of my 30s and I can resonate with your mistakes and learning. For me my 30s have helped me to be on a path in life which I enjoy and I know exactly what I want my life to be like. After my MBA I had the same notion which you spoke about and I used to think that I’m an IITian plus MBA then investment banking is for me cause I love numbers..how naive that thought was. I’m happy that my career path lead me to a field in finance where I truly enjoy being around numbers. Probably written too much already. Kudos to u n love ur content ❤️.

  • @sheelpatel8932
    @sheelpatel8932 2 роки тому +5

    Could you make a video on how you figured out what exactly you want in life? I am sure it is not something that one can learn in a day but if you can share the habits/daily routines you follow that enable you to reach this point. Loved the video. You are such an honest person to share this on UA-cam. Thank you so much for all the content you create. It makes a huge difference in people's lives. Atleast it has made in mine. ♡

  • @ravneetkour8191
    @ravneetkour8191 Рік тому +1

    You are the best mentor! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and giving us valuable lessons.

  • @madhurivadrevu5059
    @madhurivadrevu5059 2 роки тому

    This was a very helpful video, and the content was not generic but very elaborate and practical. Quite different from other videos out there. Thank you for this

  • @neeharikap5846
    @neeharikap5846 2 роки тому +5

    Beautifully spoken Saloni. I could relate to most of them :) And knowing what I exactly want from my life is something, I am still grappling with. Keep shining ❤

  • @sreelakshmisetturu9172
    @sreelakshmisetturu9172 2 роки тому +2

    I am almost 30 and I just realised I made some of the same mistakes in my 20s. Especially condensending parent. I also realized that I do not want to be in rat race in my 9 to 5 job and focus on learning and getting joy out of it.

  • @tapasyamahanta6210
    @tapasyamahanta6210 2 роки тому

    Amazing video Saloni. Thanks for sharing. Have always looked upto you for inspiration

  • @sudhavinillam-allaboutlife9599
    @sudhavinillam-allaboutlife9599 2 роки тому +1

    I just love the one about kids not valuing their parents' opinions. So true and relatable

  • @likhithanathani8702
    @likhithanathani8702 2 роки тому +9

    You really have great clarity Saloni!- A simple happy fun life.Good decision saying no to investors. Never regret on this thing too. In case you would want people to invest in your business, you will always have, It's not rare opportunity once missed hard to get again. Don't worry about subscribers, you are unique in your space. Your videos resonate with the peacefulness and positivity you have in your life. Keep up the good work!
    PS - I was your subscriber since the near start of your journey in UA-cam space.

  • @suhani9163
    @suhani9163 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much , you have no idea how much you helped me with this video. Thank you ❤️

  • @paakashaasthra3403
    @paakashaasthra3403 2 роки тому

    Oh, This is so relatable.. Much needed.. I should be making some changes. Thank you!

  • @aishbhatt
    @aishbhatt 2 роки тому

    In my 40s now and I have been there where I wouldn’t give feedbacks too . But I realised when your feedbacks are objective and the intention is for betterment everybody takes the feedback well. Just driving back the point is it has to be objective not personal, it has to have thing on what you should do and not what you shouldn’t do

  • @shatakshisonker6881
    @shatakshisonker6881 Рік тому

    Loved this video. Especially your win, it resonated so much!

  • @happyharini4174
    @happyharini4174 Рік тому

    You're amazing Saloni. I took notes from this video and even reflected on what I want and don't want in my life. My heart is full. Thanks for just existing!! I thought you would share many wins at the end. But yes, this is the biggest and best win one can have in their 20s. Love how you spoke in this video. Sending so much love to you! ♥

  • @sakshiwadhwa8868
    @sakshiwadhwa8868 2 роки тому

    From this particular video, I felt you are directly speaking to me. Your mistakes resonated with me. Thank you for making this video.

  • @konkangirl9571
    @konkangirl9571 Рік тому +2

    Your biggest achievement was very nice. Thankfully, I'm in late 20s and after exploring & experimenting a lot with career, Finally I got clarity about what exactly I want, what exactly I should do to reach there. 😊

  • @sayleeraut
    @sayleeraut 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for all the amazing videos that you make❣

  • @neethunandan7209
    @neethunandan7209 2 роки тому +3

    Your mistakes are so relatable with mine. That salary thing was so true in my case. I have really gone crazy with my personal relationship mistakes, please create a content on how to deal with personal relationships. Thanks

  • @anujayadav6448
    @anujayadav6448 Рік тому

    This is the first vedio of yours that I am watching, the title is just so genuine as we all go through this phase but lot of people don’t accept that they were dumb at one point of time. And, you have such a positive smile 😊

  • @mamatamathkar3264
    @mamatamathkar3264 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing this video. I could relate with many of them. This was very inspiring and honest video. 🙏🏼

  • @saiprarthana8121
    @saiprarthana8121 2 роки тому

    Thank you Saloni. Just love watching your videos ❤️

  • @NehaSharma-tp9xt
    @NehaSharma-tp9xt 2 роки тому

    I feel so motivated and confident listening to you. You are such a calm inclusive person ❤️❤️

  • @prathibaleo7938
    @prathibaleo7938 2 роки тому +11

    These are some amazing lessons to inculcate right away !! Also, it’s never too late to realise your mistake and then to come out of it ❤️

  • @meditationmantra6658
    @meditationmantra6658 2 роки тому

    Hey saloni thanks for the video.
    I too had realised that making money is not everything in this rat race which has formed by society years ago.We need to work,enjoy and embrace our lives with whatever we have.
    To everyone I would suggest slowing is growing we need to hold on,watch,learn and take things in slower pace rather a rat race.
    All that we need is a life which is fulfilled with small happiness and peace.

  • @priyadarshiniravi6147
    @priyadarshiniravi6147 2 роки тому +11

    This video just arrived at the right time! All points were very much relatable, Saloni! You have inspired me so much that i started journalling! It's really helping me in many aspects and above all, it gives me a sense of satisfaction! :) Thanks much for sharing such valuable life changing lessons!

  • @drawingacademy9160
    @drawingacademy9160 2 роки тому +36

    After dropping 3 years and not getting a mbbs seat my parents still forcing me to drop one more year and I've lost all interest in medical field and taking my parents advice turned my life into horror. When we look back we think we could've made right decisions by listening to our parents but that's not the always case. According to my parents advice except a doctor no one else can or will get successful in their life.

    • @60.padmini9
      @60.padmini9 2 роки тому +1

      Lots of strength to you!

    • @jananis9414
      @jananis9414 Рік тому +3

      such a strong queen ❤️you are!more power to you🤎🤎..take a field which you desire and make the world you desire.💜💜💜.good luck!!🧡🧡🧡

    • @preetikhan4528
      @preetikhan4528 Рік тому

      So what are your plans for now?

    • @wishlist827
      @wishlist827 Рік тому

      Same condition so what career u choosee

    • @drawingacademy9160
      @drawingacademy9160 Рік тому +2

      @@wishlist827 i have joined bsc nursing.

  • @kpsk1627
    @kpsk1627 Рік тому

    Thank you for an insightful video. You have earned a subscriber. I wish you all the best for your future endeavours.

  • @TheSindhusharma1
    @TheSindhusharma1 2 роки тому

    So so on point...
    Thank you for this video ❤️❤️

  • @neetaloungani3634
    @neetaloungani3634 Рік тому

    I really liked this video..this is your very first video that i am watching, thanks to youtube!

  • @SonaliS
    @SonaliS 2 роки тому +5

    It’s takes guts to reject such big investors Saloni. This shows how much of true you are to your principles and how much of a clarity you have in your life ❤️ Kudos to you Saloni 🔥

  • @vasantha6252
    @vasantha6252 2 роки тому

    Being not so nice to my parents is a mistake i did in my early 20s now i am in my late 20s. I am experiment with a lot of things and still figuring out what i really want.

  • @ahanamanjunath9550
    @ahanamanjunath9550 Рік тому

    As i am in my mid 20`S this video is so very relatable. Thank u for sharing this by letting us know where to focus and what is completely baseless.

  • @HariPrasad-jw5jv
    @HariPrasad-jw5jv 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing video... you need lots of courage to admit one 's mistakes... your experience is definitely useful for all...I particularly like " I don't want to become multimillionaire ...I want to keep my life simple and chill... Thanks for sharing

  • @coolcheetful
    @coolcheetful Рік тому +1

    Very candid video as always.
    Many of us have made same mistakes in our 20s. I can literally feel so so relatable now 😅

  • @Eshapanditbornfree
    @Eshapanditbornfree 2 роки тому

    I will turn 30 next year 😍🥰. And this video has inspired me to just look back, acknowledge my mistakes and move on in the right path

  • @g.v.9261
    @g.v.9261 2 роки тому

    Thankyou for this ❤️

  • @navyakamarsu6523
    @navyakamarsu6523 Рік тому

    Beautiful video as usual 💗💗 I would looove to watch a video on what kind of life you want and don't want ! :)) Cheers!

  • @abduljouhar01
    @abduljouhar01 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your experience ♥️🔥

  • @HRMaah
    @HRMaah 2 роки тому +2

    Relatable to your point on - Salary negotiable. I am highly underpaid now.

  • @discoverlife1376
    @discoverlife1376 2 роки тому

    You sounded like an angel to me .Thank u so much for the Video..more power to you❣️

  • @gellijayalakshmiharika2937
    @gellijayalakshmiharika2937 Рік тому

    loved your video diiii, Thank you for letting us know

  • @tanmaysingh6614
    @tanmaysingh6614 Рік тому +4

    Hey Saloni , your mistakes are exactly xeros copies of mine 😂😂 specially the fifth one , it took me 5 years and multiple failures to figure out what i like doing .. i am 27 (just had birthday 2 weeks back) and on my way to do which i love doing .. have fun!! you are the best

  • @jayanair4237
    @jayanair4237 2 роки тому

    Brave girl. The best part is your expression of words and thanks for sharing. Lovely video.

  • @shifa3991
    @shifa3991 2 роки тому

    Very helpful! Please make more videos like this

  • @ondemandlearning1555
    @ondemandlearning1555 Рік тому

    Few of the mistakes I made it too like yours.. so much relatable.. And m sure it gonna help lots of youngsters..

  • @vaishnavik4450
    @vaishnavik4450 2 роки тому +1

    I will turn 29 in november. I can totally relate to every single point you made in the video. Even I have started thinking a lot about my life and how can I work on my mistakes. Its always a new day to start fresh and grow. I guess👍.

  • @shamimashabnam8444
    @shamimashabnam8444 Рік тому

    That's lovely learnt a lot thank you so much

  • @adityajha3611
    @adityajha3611 Рік тому

    Subscribing. Very nice content!

  • @sayanbiswas_sports
    @sayanbiswas_sports Рік тому +2

    I can relate so much. Throughout the video I was thinking it me speaking there. BTW I'm now 19.
    This is one of the best(for me)and practical video I have seen on UA-cam. ♥️

  • @pragatinaik9912
    @pragatinaik9912 Рік тому

    This video helped me soo much ❤️ thankyou 🥺❤️.

  • @vasudhak6741
    @vasudhak6741 2 роки тому

    Very honest video. I think you were very right not to compare with other youtubers. You are very authentic and unique.

  • @savitagyanchandani
    @savitagyanchandani 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Saloni for sharing your real scenarios and you don't know how much precious these advices are for me. Really adore the person you are ❤️❤️

  • @arundhatisharma880
    @arundhatisharma880 Рік тому

    Your videos are very soothing and helpful 😊😊😊✨✨✨

  • @swetapatnaik8504
    @swetapatnaik8504 Рік тому

    Nice one.

  • @luckyoptimus705
    @luckyoptimus705 Рік тому

    Ur biggest win is my best lesson ever heard😍😍
    Ur such a humble and great inspirable soul lots of love😍 , u have given me alot of positivity to mine especially.. i was also working on my entrepreneur journey... Thq so much

  • @jas1532
    @jas1532 2 роки тому

    Such an honest and enlightening video 👍

  • @muneerafaiz
    @muneerafaiz 2 роки тому

    Gem of a person.. Looking forward to take up your course

  • @Leisuretimelifestyleshorts
    @Leisuretimelifestyleshorts 2 роки тому

    1st tym in your channel. Absolutely loved it and subscribed too 👍

  • @srijitadatta7786
    @srijitadatta7786 Рік тому

    Beautiful vlog so far.... wishing happiness health and peace for you in abundance 💜🧿

  • @bhavnagupta9025
    @bhavnagupta9025 2 роки тому

    Really liked you talking about your biggest win of realization

  • @rupakolhatkar
    @rupakolhatkar 2 роки тому

    Your content is always genuine and that's what I like. 👍

  • @sheetalverma1781
    @sheetalverma1781 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for all the amazing videos that you make. You literally are that elder sister that I never had!❣

  • @poojadewangrajpal
    @poojadewangrajpal 2 роки тому +1

    "Even if it is negative... it can be kind" 🦋😎

  • @SatarupaDas2302
    @SatarupaDas2302 2 роки тому +1

    Mistake 2 kind of reminded of a book I read called Know Your Value by Mika Brzezinski, it's something a lot of women do without even realizing.

  • @sonuprasad8425
    @sonuprasad8425 2 роки тому +1

    Well- thought and honest.

  • @deepar729
    @deepar729 2 роки тому

    Wow this video is worth the watch 👍👍

  • @niveditakundu2555
    @niveditakundu2555 2 роки тому

    I'm so happy that i have found your channel.. i wish I found it sooner..but still ❤️❤️❤️ I too am an economics major..and well... It's a confusing place to be at tbh.

  • @OlgaPogozheva
    @OlgaPogozheva 2 роки тому

    Nice sit & talk session :) loved the point about parents. I think I had the same problem? But then most of the young people do.

  • @sweathashanmugan9360
    @sweathashanmugan9360 Рік тому

    I really loved this video..🧡

  • @aswathypleela6226
    @aswathypleela6226 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much 💙💙

  • @deekshapoojary9513
    @deekshapoojary9513 2 роки тому

    Always resonate with your thoughts.

  • @chaoticlue
    @chaoticlue Рік тому +6

    As a person in my early 20s, I related the most to not knowing what I want to do with my life... I seem to have many interests but none that I can call... 'Yes this is what I want to become in life'. Any thoughts on this?

  • @user-rw4do9po5n
    @user-rw4do9po5n 2 роки тому +1

    True about advice from parents,it's best for you but you realise it later specially girls realise only after marriage because most of the time in-laws advise is for their benefit not yours realised it hard way....best part of the video was the win and I totally agree it's not worth running around chasing big targets at the cost of your health and peace of mind...👍😊

  • @kruza8630
    @kruza8630 Рік тому

    Thank you so muchh

  • @nikitaraut1870
    @nikitaraut1870 2 роки тому +1

    You never fail to motivate me ma'am! Just love your content❤️

  • @Aishwarya_Romil
    @Aishwarya_Romil 2 роки тому

    Very true and worthy advices 🙂👍

  • @debajanidas5102
    @debajanidas5102 2 роки тому

    You have always been unique and your content screams quality and value! Thankyou so much for this insightful video! :)

  • @zunaira_Iqbal00
    @zunaira_Iqbal00 Рік тому +1

    Hi saloni....am from Pakistan...u r such good motivation and inspiring for me ....I really appreciate the way u speak and really wanna meet u bcz I think u r pure , loyal and as simple the way we all are from inside 💠 juts love ur vibes
    May u progress more and more

  • @venieaswar2845
    @venieaswar2845 2 роки тому

    Very excellent explanation and informative video saloni

  • @ambicadeshpande6377
    @ambicadeshpande6377 2 роки тому

    I like you so so much that I didn’t like the title I was so dumb. I admire you a little too much. Much love ❤️

  • @niyatishah9531
    @niyatishah9531 Рік тому

    Would love to know how did you break that into steps & from where did you get the clarity of the things about what exactly you want & you don't want from your life. I think that would be the great advice to have in our 20's.

  • @gaurisathish8932
    @gaurisathish8932 2 роки тому

    I genuinely need help to know for myself what exactly i want & what exactly i don't

  • @anjalishah4986
    @anjalishah4986 2 роки тому

    Love you content.

  • @artigite3136
    @artigite3136 2 роки тому

    Superb, ur awesome 💝

  • @sangamithraisurya5174
    @sangamithraisurya5174 2 роки тому

    You create quality content which inspires us. Thank you for this video.

  • @gayathrisrandomstuffs9281
    @gayathrisrandomstuffs9281 2 роки тому

    Excellent content ❤