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My regret too, especially after 8 years I was fired anyway, lol. But I was actively planning to leave when that happened so I was glad to go, just mad I couldn’t do it my way.
I’ve been dreaming about quitting (I almost did a year ago, actually told my boss and then I took it back lol) but my fear is that I don’t know what I’m going to do after the fact. People who know what they want to be in life are so fortunate. It’s so hard knowing that you’re not happy where you are and at the same time not knowing where you want to go. I feel so lost.
I am so sorry you feel that way! I would say look inside yourself! What are you passionate about?! I believe if you start there and figure out a way you can share it to the world! Money will come right to you! Hope this helps!
@@MichaelOblitey that’s the thing. I don’t even know what I’m passionate about anymore (aside from taking care of my own kids, but it’s impossible for me to be a stay at home mom right now due to finances) and in between taking care of my family and working two jobs, it’s hard to spare some time to figure out what my passion is. But I’ll get there. Me working hard right now is a part of my exit plan. I’m straightening up my finances right now so that I can free up a lot of time in the future without any worries :)
Lyka that's a tough situation to be in but it's good that you're going the right direction with straightening your finances. Check out this video on finding your passion/purpose: ua-cam.com/video/VddSXnL2Pjw/v-deo.html
@@lykastevens1065 well by the looks of it you have a wonderful plan. Just stick with it! I know it will be hard an all but in the end just don’t give up okay! Also look deep inside yourself I’m sure you will find that thing you are passionate about! Maybe it could be helping stay at home moms? I don’t know, I know there is something you love doing and you will find it!
@@charlesweaver9297 that’s true to certain point. I grew up thinking that failure isn’t an option and therefore we all break the poverty cycle - being an immigrant to this country. I later learned through my co-worker and shocked that they were more or less have options; to break the poverty cycle or not.
I know it can be done I did it myself. I grew up never knowing or meeting anyone wealthy. None of the kids I grew up with ever even considered college as an option. Until one day I met a guy who went from being homeless to owning a construction company and millions in real estate. This guy never graduated high school and had a drug and alcohol problem. Yet he still managed to become a multi millionaire. Then I knew for certain If he can do it I can do the same or better.
The WHY behind quitting is so important + being able to enjoy work life alignment and improve mental and emotional health in the process. Thank you for sharing your story Vincent!
I just resigned from my job a month ago and I really needed to see this video because damn it’s been hard. The reason for my resignation was to stabilise my mental health after a major mental breakdown. I’m taking the rest of the year off to learn mental health techniques before getting back to being an active economic participant again
Love it! I did not actually quit but was laid off.. after that I did not feel like taking up another job! I’m taking time off, relaxing, doing yoga.. learnt Sky Breath Meditation technique which I love! Spending time drawing and painting and spending time on Me.
Pros and cons to everything but betting on yourself is an amazing feeling. Props for fighting through the uncertainty and doubt and for making great content!
Just found your channel, hello! I wanted to quit my job for 2 out of 3 years i was there each day was torture. i was finally convinced to end it december of last year. It was scary and part of me thought i would regret it. I was so happy with daily life, then I landed at an amazon warehouse and hour away and was unhappy about the job and the commute. After 2 months i quit that after i secured my currents job with way better pay and actual benefits and i could not be happier. I'm now a believer on not settling. if you want better then find it. Your happiness is more important
I have been considering quitting for almost two years now and your videos helped me solidify my decision. Thank you for making these videos. And i haven’t quit, yet. I’m building myself a nest and alternative income sources to give me the most prepared leap of faith I can have. Keep up the great work!
This is SO relatable. I have not stayed in many jobs long because ultimately despite the fear, self-doubt and uncertainty that comes with self-employment, I cannot stand to unhappily work for someone else or a company and am way more happy and wealthier when I work for myself and am actually happy doing what I do and don’t feel trapped. I was also lucky to work and save when I was young to afford myself flexibility and autonomy in my 30s. Fear of instability and uncertainty keeps people trapped in jobs they hate.
Let me share this with you guys. In my country, Sierra Leone a lot of people don't mind working for penny, thinking that being an employee earns more respect than having a humble entrepreneurship beginning. And there is no way to succeed if you are afraid of failure.
I’m glad you are able to help people. I also don’t understand people’s inabilities to figure out their own lives and have to watch UA-cam videos to guide their life. It seems a great deal of the population lack intellect needed to survive. It’s probably caused by being baby sat by a TV or computer. God help us.
You don't need to take your work too seriously, it's just a job. Try to pick up a passion or hobby thru arts, culture and/or recreational experiences, it will serve as distraction of your work and make balance of your life..💪👏
If there was anything to take away from this, it was at the 8:39 mark. Make sure you are running towards something instead of running away from something. I think for a lot of people who dream of quitting the 9-5, those feelings probably stem from wanting to run away from the 9-5. But that hopefully shouldn't be a problem so long as it is recognized, and then you can start to think about what you want to start running towards. Awesome video again my man. Look forward to more from you. I bet many who are watching you now (just like myself) are teetering on that fence of should i do it lol.
This really resonated with me as well!!! What an amazing concept and mindset to have. For example have a side hustle that you do on the side and then build it as it is what your running towards! my struggle is that I am the only one working and am a family of 6 (4 kids who are 10 and under, myself and my wife). We rely heavily on the Health Insurance as well, which is another downside to quitting for me. But most of it has been trying to believe in myself if I could really do it...15 years of corporate America is really hard to get away from once you are use to the paycheck to paycheck and then the thought of going into the uncertainty is very overwhelming.
I am very interested in your perspective. Quitting my job is my ultimate goal, because it means I can support myself from my passion. My biggest worry of doing so is that my passion would then have added pressure to focus on income making it feel forced and feel like a job again. Also, the social stigma would be huge, I don't know how I would even go about telling my foreign parents lol.
First of all I can relate to you about the foreign parents. My parents were born and raised in Accra, Ghana. Second it def is a huge leap to go after your passions and it being your source of income. My advice, and this is just advice lol, focus on providing value and service to your customer. I have come to realize that when you chase money it leaves, but if you chase providing service and value to others, then money will chase you! Hope that helps!
@@MichaelOblitey That is very good advice! Thank you! I believe you are completely right but I have personally seen many people swayed toward easy money and now just don't seem happy! I guess it takes some sort of willpower or something not to do so.
@@JacobKustra Agreed! It takes courage to step outside your comfort zone into uncharted waters. But if you stick with it, at the end of the day you will come out on top! The microwave mentality never works in the end!
That's true - there's always the worry of your passion turning into something that you no longer enjoy doing because you're being compensated for it. Hopefully we'll be able to find a balance with this. The situation with your parents is tough and I can 100% relate since my parents were born in China. Are you able to try to start your passion project and maybe make a decent amount of income first before you officially quit? That way you show your parents that it's a feasible path
@@VincentChan that’s very true! It’s my plan to first show a “proof of concept” and hope that makes it easier for them to understand. But they are so traditional I don’t think they will like it because it’s not something they understand. But perhaps they will and I am worrying for nothing! Either way I have a while before I need to truly worry about that, but working at it one day at a time!
When you step off the plantation (Corporate America) all entrepreneurs go through a phycological and emotional shift that is more akin to a roller coaster with more doubts and lows than highs for a time. This is often not talked about and I applaud you for circling back and discussing it. Escaping the plantation has always been scary, exhilarating, dangerous, stressful, and absolutely rewarding. Thank you for covering this part of the escape!
Just subscribed and it was because I genuinely enjoyed you presenting the content. Also my favorite quote from the video is "Make sure you are running towards something, rather than away from something.". I, myself, quit a very stable job a year ago due to burn out and had been there almost 5 years. Yet, no regrets and recovering. Thanks for the channel.
I sincerely believe that it is easier for young people to quit their jobs than someone my age. I always wanted to have my own business, but I didn't have the guts to do it. I have a job that is not very creative and I still have difficulty with the hierarchy, but I have a good salary and a pension fund. I have thought many times to have my own UA-cam channel to talk about issues of people in their 50s. People still have dreams at this age, nothing is over until the end. Thank you for bringing up sensitive topics such as regrets about leaving a job. Life is not a quiet river, but it is worth living.
I just found your channel because I am planning to quit my job to take on UA-cam full time. So lucky I found this video. Just a reminder - it’s really easy for us to be hard on ourselves! People want to watch you so don’t take it so rough ^.^ you made me laugh but a lot of sense as well. Continue to strive for your goals! Inspired by this so thank you.
Impostor Syndrome is so normal when going freelanced but it’s just a feeling of being unprepared or the classic “not good enough”. But the best way to overcome this is identifying where do you need a bit more research or just let your self fail and modify ✨🙏🏻
I come back to your videos after every new release. I'd expect the usual talking points that every other youtube makes about similar themes but yours really stands out and always exceeds my expectations. Your topics touch on things that most people are afraid to express; it gives comfort to a lot of people to know someone out here feels the same way. Thank you for sharing Vincent!
I started following you yesterday, and have watched several videos. You're doing great . I quit my job 2 weeks ago, I want to do whatever I want, I believe in my own journey .Btw ive realized that nothing is more important than health.
LOVE talking about this sort of thing from both sides, because it can be so draining doing things you hate but that stability feels so safe 🙏 Thank you for sharing a very balanced explanation
I feel you bro. Every risk you take, there's a negative...but use them as a stepping stone to blessings 🙌🙏✨💯... I am a intra/extra-vert, but whatever makes it happens for you, we're supporting you 100%...
Thank you for this. In an odd way it has reassured me I made the right choice. I too have recently quit my job in finance after 15 years to go after a different dream. The circumstances around me quitting leave me feeling quite bitter about the whole situation but you reminded me about something. Its not always about what's in it for me, its what can I bring to the table for others.
I'm still keeping my 100k a year job because I like to buy things with out looking at the price. I don't have to worry about my utility bills, my mortgages, and most importantly, I like to buy properties and be a landlord!!!
Hi Vincent, I like the name Vincent, any how I am glad you uploaded this video. I worked from 1978 to 2015 years I put in my retirement papers and at first it was like wow, no more job to go to. However, I did have money coming in from all those years of working. I felt free. Relief joyful and a since of accomplishment I arrived. I was of a course 57 years of age and time flew by so fast I just celebrated 7 years being retired. Now, it is like I have lot of time and I do not need to work; I am also introvert I always been that way. So, when I feel I need go see somebody I take a walk and there people all over the place so, going for a walk help out a lot with the feeling cut off from people and even watching you tube videos help me realize there many people at home watching a screen most likely by themselves but I realize I am not a lone there 7 billion people all over this earth. Thank you for sharing your thoughts in this video.
Imposter syndrome is so real. I hope you stay positive and I know you will! You’re a great teacher, I really appreciate your content especially the actionable steps you provide.
I worked at call centers for three years, during which I started and finished a Masters degree. It was a very stressful period in my life, and it felt like working two full-time jobs at times. Use whatever time you can spare to develop a new skill set relevant to the career you want until you're ready to transition. That, marrying rich or playing the lottery are the only things you can do to improve your lot.
Vincent, would you consider making a video about health, dental, eye insurance when self employed ? Rarely anyone talks about this and I think you’ll do a great job explaining this topic to us :)
I hope that your goal of teaching students about personal finance happens, that would’ve been amazing when I was younger. Thank you for this awesome video! Good vibes from Canada 🇨🇦
Don't stress, I personally am very captivated by what you have to say in your videos, and I am sure that anyone who watches them feels the same way. Keep up the good work.
Thanks for the video. I am planning to quit in 6 months when I reach my nest egg goal. I plan to trade and maybe volunteer somewhere a few hours a week. I know my dogs will be happy about it 😂.
Hey, you are doing amazing work. I personally relate to a lot of things and experiences you shared coming from a similar place but its important to point out that you are doing amzing work really. Many youtubers are out there just to promote fake content and trick people into paid promotions just for money but you are doing impressive job with your humor, videos, energy, valuable content. Just don't overthink and stay positive. Things get really lonely on the entrepreneurial journeysometimes and fears are valid and for that we can all chat in our youtube community and uplift and support others who are making a positive impact on the world. Best of luck. :)
I dont miss my coworkers. I have 3 young children that keep me entertain. I love the 10-12 hours at home and can do it all day, everyday as soon as i dont have to drive for 3 hours day to and from work.
Thank you for just being raw and honest Vincent. Really needed to hear this reality from someone who‘s been there and currently working on this new season of his life.
Thank you for the inspiring sharing, Vincent! I’m planning it after working for several years. I think I can contribute more by starting my own business and spending time wisely with families and friends!
The best quote is to make sure you’re running to something instead of away from something. I voluntarily took early retirement in March 2021. It was very difficultly at first to keep the focus on my purpose. I still work on it but definitely I am much happier! I could only have done it by saving early and living within my means. I love your channel! You are wise beyond your years!
I went freelance as a video editor last year and I love everything about it. Should've done it years ago. There's only one downside for me, and it's your #2 biggest regret. I used to make friends at work and meet wonderful people to date. Now I can't cause I'm sitting at home working for 9 hours a day. Plus I moved to a new city to be closer to family and cut my rent in half. Having a tough time finding new friends and dates!
For the algorithm! Off the charts, I think it is awesome that you are comfortable in your own skin, put a spin of humor on finance and career which is very appreciated :) Also we all appreciate your honesty that some people don't talk about, especially finance in society being somewhat still taboo.
You got my attention! I saw one of your videos and subscribed. I assure you that you will reach the ultimate success on UA-cam. I will be here longterm and hope you maintain the work life balance as an entrepreneur, something that eludes us in Corporate America.
I really like to listen to your videos recently and normally I never comment on UA-cam, but I feel like your video really stand out. You have a lovely voice and I find your videos interesting to watch all till the end. Maybe because I can also relate to you as an introvert, planning way ahead and so on 😁 Keep going!
I plan on finding a career where I am emotionally fulfilled in 2022. I am working on getting all my debts paid off, so I can not be in the mindset of owing someone else, but me owing myself peace, happiness, and abundance.
doesn't exist...you will only be "fulfilled" when you work for yourself..hard to grasp, but if you live or die by your own hand? you can really get busy living...most jobs suck, they only last a year or so and most industries will be gone nearly in the same time frame...you gotta be in something that people need everyday
@@andrefecteau that is the truth, and I am looking at being my own boss. I have noticed everywhere I have worked has only been ok for about a year, then something happens, and I want to get away from that job. Thanks for that comment. It's just more of a confirmation to me that I need to be an independent worker!
@@dollarbilllife3905 yep, I gotta start a channel soon to tell ya'll "it's normal"...after a year you should know if your future is there or not...eventually? you gotta go solo, then create your own product that you sell...until then? You are radio gaga
No worries Vincent, it always works out. Left my last company in 2007 to be a GC in Cali as a residential remodeler. Got my license in the worst economy to start this kind of business. Best thing I ever did. I depend on me that's all. Keep going lil fighter.😎✌🙏🙏😁 I think you'll be fine...
Most regrets of quitting are because it wasn't thought out to begin with. This is my weekly topic for my own subscribers. Career. One thing that can really bring a person into depression is 40 hours a week of hating their job. The job is literally almost half of the waking life. The problem many people have is that they have a craving for security. The person will tolerate being unhappy if that is their normality. People would rather have secure bitterness than the fear of stepping off the cliff. The fact is that you can change your career anytime. At 40 or 50. I once knew a car salesman of 30 years who did really well but started to hate his job--so became a nurse at 57. He is now a travel contractor. His friends told him he would be 57 by the time he got licensed as an RN. He told them he would be 57 anyway. So he will now spend the next ten years doing something he likes instead of something he hates. But you have to decide if it is life on the sea you hate or just that ship you're traveling on. In other words--do you hate your trade or just the company you're at? But whatever you aren't happy with you must change and continue to advance yourself. Hope this helps someone---Charles.
Your videos are very refreshing, I rarely watch any kind of finance videos bc for the most part they come across as disingenuous, scammy, and/or just have a way of making you feel guilty about yourself. So far your advice has been practical, realistic, honest and intriguing from your own personal anecdotes, your motives for making the channel and simply your personality lol :) just subbed
I want to quit my job and told my colleague. I have so many things to do, my boss has been kind enough to help me, telling me to list down documents that are missing for every staff,reaching out to various parties to request them to return my email. Now I basically just cleaned up other people's mess with missing records, I think if the previous staff had maintained proper records,my job would have been easier. I am just 2 months almost 3 months into my first job.
Your videos are hitting home for me, and it’s like a I have a friend who’s going through what I’m going through. On different scales, but regardless. Well structured, sounding, looking videos. Keep it up!
I recently quit a 10 year career job to start on my own. To keep finances going I got a part time job as a delivery driver (which has ended up as nearly full time ranging from 6am to 11pm shifts, not in one go lol). Feel so busy with that and a small online ecom store at the minute so I'm keeping on going and hopefully they will pay out one day :D
Awesome video Vincent. I quit my job this month to focus on building my business. I'm a graphic designer on a journey to build a branding agency. It is kind of scary but also a relieve at the same time. We just need to keep moving forward and work towards our goals. If anyone is thinking about quitting and you are paying your own bills just be sure to have some money saved up. Whether you're building a business or looking for a new job keep pushing and you'll make it 👊
The thing jeff bazos said is exactly what i do, every time i face hardship. Imagine you are in your deathbed and looking at your life. Don’t live like it’s your last day on earth, live to have a life that satisfies you in your deathbed.
I've always been self employed, but am in a phase now of quitting my original business and starting a new one. It comes along with similar feelings of fear and 'going it alone'. One of the best things I've found to do is find new industry groups and people working in similar fields to connect with!
Lots of insight here. I put a longggg pause of entrepreneurship for alot of reasons you mentioned: - Isolation - Lack of security, regular pay schedule - Being obsessed with business success 24/7 - Trading free time for hobbies or relaxing to work on the business Ultimately it was taking over my life. BUT I did learn a TON about business & digital marketing. So there are pros and cons.
Your idea for teaching young ones about personal finance is really great. Honestly, I really wish I have the knowledge about personal finance at a tender age. Maybe I won't be struggling this much right now.
Hi Vincent, the struggle and anxiety is real! Every freelancer or company owner can relate to that. The experience you are taking from editing videos and being in front of a camera are very valuable and you can decide anytime to offer your services to a company, if needed. There will always be work for someone creative and dedicated as you! I suppose that is the only security we can draw from life - that we have the capacity to respond to whatever challenge we face in a creative and solution oriented manner. Good luck on your journey.
I love this video! I love the idea of financial freedom but i actually love what I do at work. if I can have my own practice, seeing my patients and setting my own schedule and work time ~ that's the dream!
I must say your jokes are quite entertaining (I giggle and smile continuously through your videos) in addition to the very valuable content you put out there; thank you!
Money is only one aspect of life, it is temporary, it can come and go. Good health is the most valued asset and priceless. Freedom from not becoming an employee is nice.
Comment what song I should sing next!
Let's be friends on IG :) I respond to every DM! instagram.com/hivincentc/. Please beware of scam imposter accounts pretending to be me. This is my ONLY IG account.
Beyond the sea, bobby darin?
Ave Maria
While you're on the 90s references, might I suggest an old school Backstreet Boys song
Something K-pop
Hello...sir..can u help me
"When you quit, make sure that it's because you're running towards something, not running away from something" 🙌🏻
The only thing I regret about quitting is that I didn't do it 10 years ago.
hahaha
Wow 😳🥺
My regret too, especially after 8 years I was fired anyway, lol. But I was actively planning to leave when that happened so I was glad to go, just mad I couldn’t do it my way.
Up.
Daaaamn 😂
I’ve been dreaming about quitting (I almost did a year ago, actually told my boss and then I took it back lol) but my fear is that I don’t know what I’m going to do after the fact. People who know what they want to be in life are so fortunate. It’s so hard knowing that you’re not happy where you are and at the same time not knowing where you want to go. I feel so lost.
Same
I am so sorry you feel that way! I would say look inside yourself! What are you passionate about?! I believe if you start there and figure out a way you can share it to the world! Money will come right to you! Hope this helps!
@@MichaelOblitey that’s the thing. I don’t even know what I’m passionate about anymore (aside from taking care of my own kids, but it’s impossible for me to be a stay at home mom right now due to finances) and in between taking care of my family and working two jobs, it’s hard to spare some time to figure out what my passion is. But I’ll get there. Me working hard right now is a part of my exit plan. I’m straightening up my finances right now so that I can free up a lot of time in the future without any worries :)
Lyka that's a tough situation to be in but it's good that you're going the right direction with straightening your finances. Check out this video on finding your passion/purpose: ua-cam.com/video/VddSXnL2Pjw/v-deo.html
@@lykastevens1065 well by the looks of it you have a wonderful plan. Just stick with it! I know it will be hard an all but in the end just don’t give up okay! Also look deep inside yourself I’m sure you will find that thing you are passionate about! Maybe it could be helping stay at home moms? I don’t know, I know there is something you love doing and you will find it!
*Every family has a person who breaks the chain of poverty and exceeds every expectation possible...*
I hope you be that person my friend. 🖤
every family lol
Most people don't even think it's possible because they never even met anyone who has done it let alone have a family member who has done it.
@@charlesweaver9297 that’s true to certain point. I grew up thinking that failure isn’t an option and therefore we all break the poverty cycle - being an immigrant to this country. I later learned through my co-worker and shocked that they were more or less have options; to break the poverty cycle or not.
I know it can be done I did it myself. I grew up never knowing or meeting anyone wealthy. None of the kids I grew up with ever even considered college as an option. Until one day I met a guy who went from being homeless to owning a construction company and millions in real estate. This guy never graduated high school and had a drug and alcohol problem. Yet he still managed to become a multi millionaire. Then I knew for certain If he can do it I can do the same or better.
The WHY behind quitting is so important + being able to enjoy work life alignment and improve mental and emotional health in the process. Thank you for sharing your story Vincent!
couldn't have said it better myself!
I just resigned from my job a month ago and I really needed to see this video because damn it’s been hard. The reason for my resignation was to stabilise my mental health after a major mental breakdown. I’m taking the rest of the year off to learn mental health techniques before getting back to being an active economic participant again
Congrats to you! I'm getting ready to put in my 2 week notice to take a month off before my new job. Best of luck to you!
Love it! I did not actually quit but was laid off.. after that I did not feel like taking up another job! I’m taking time off, relaxing, doing yoga.. learnt Sky Breath Meditation technique which I love! Spending time drawing and painting and spending time on Me.
economic participant 😅
@@robithevampire it was supposed to be funny thanks for getting it
High 5! Same here.
Both my kids became self employed. It’s hard but they’re getting by and growing their businesses, in spite of the pandemic. I’m very proud of them.
What type of self employment?
@@ttran5083 he said business
@@ttran5083 probably escorting or selling drugs
@@Hansu6 he said self employed
Pros and cons to everything but betting on yourself is an amazing feeling. Props for fighting through the uncertainty and doubt and for making great content!
Thank you so much Joey!! Appreciate you watching :)
Betting on yourself….excellent concept!
Thanks for this comment. I needed that 🙏
You're on fire with these vids dude. Amazing editing
Thanks Cole appreciate it man :)
Just found your channel, hello! I wanted to quit my job for 2 out of 3 years i was there each day was torture. i was finally convinced to end it december of last year. It was scary and part of me thought i would regret it. I was so happy with daily life, then I landed at an amazon warehouse and hour away and was unhappy about the job and the commute. After 2 months i quit that after i secured my currents job with way better pay and actual benefits and i could not be happier. I'm now a believer on not settling. if you want better then find it. Your happiness is more important
👏👏👏 can relate to each day going to work is like torture. 😬
I have been considering quitting for almost two years now and your videos helped me solidify my decision. Thank you for making these videos. And i haven’t quit, yet. I’m building myself a nest and alternative income sources to give me the most prepared leap of faith I can have. Keep up the great work!
You got this Serg!! Looking forward to your future comment where you say you made the plunge :)
This is SO relatable. I have not stayed in many jobs long because ultimately despite the fear, self-doubt and uncertainty that comes with self-employment, I cannot stand to unhappily work for someone else or a company and am way more happy and wealthier when I work for myself and am actually happy doing what I do and don’t feel trapped. I was also lucky to work and save when I was young to afford myself flexibility and autonomy in my 30s. Fear of instability and uncertainty keeps people trapped in jobs they hate.
Couldn't have said it better myself Charlotte!
Let me share this with you guys. In my country, Sierra Leone a lot of people don't mind working for penny, thinking that being an employee earns more respect than having a humble entrepreneurship beginning. And there is no way to succeed if you are afraid of failure.
OMG I started UA-cam because of the minimum regret reference. Great video!
That's awesome thanks man!
Same here
lol lets be real. You started cause the money is good
I’m glad you are able to help people. I also don’t understand people’s inabilities to figure out their own lives and have to watch UA-cam videos to guide their life. It seems a great deal of the population lack intellect needed to survive. It’s probably caused by being baby sat by a TV or computer. God help us.
You don't need to take your work too seriously, it's just a job. Try to pick up a passion or hobby thru arts, culture and/or recreational experiences, it will serve as distraction of your work and make balance of your life..💪👏
Thanks for the tips!
If there was anything to take away from this, it was at the 8:39 mark. Make sure you are running towards something instead of running away from something. I think for a lot of people who dream of quitting the 9-5, those feelings probably stem from wanting to run away from the 9-5. But that hopefully shouldn't be a problem so long as it is recognized, and then you can start to think about what you want to start running towards. Awesome video again my man. Look forward to more from you. I bet many who are watching you now (just like myself) are teetering on that fence of should i do it lol.
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This really resonated with me as well!!! What an amazing concept and mindset to have. For example have a side hustle that you do on the side and then build it as it is what your running towards! my struggle is that I am the only one working and am a family of 6 (4 kids who are 10 and under, myself and my wife). We rely heavily on the Health Insurance as well, which is another downside to quitting for me. But most of it has been trying to believe in myself if I could really do it...15 years of corporate America is really hard to get away from once you are use to the paycheck to paycheck and then the thought of going into the uncertainty is very overwhelming.
I am very interested in your perspective. Quitting my job is my ultimate goal, because it means I can support myself from my passion. My biggest worry of doing so is that my passion would then have added pressure to focus on income making it feel forced and feel like a job again. Also, the social stigma would be huge, I don't know how I would even go about telling my foreign parents lol.
First of all I can relate to you about the foreign parents. My parents were born and raised in Accra, Ghana. Second it def is a huge leap to go after your passions and it being your source of income. My advice, and this is just advice lol, focus on providing value and service to your customer. I have come to realize that when you chase money it leaves, but if you chase providing service and value to others, then money will chase you! Hope that helps!
@@MichaelOblitey That is very good advice! Thank you! I believe you are completely right but I have personally seen many people swayed toward easy money and now just don't seem happy! I guess it takes some sort of willpower or something not to do so.
@@JacobKustra Agreed! It takes courage to step outside your comfort zone into uncharted waters. But if you stick with it, at the end of the day you will come out on top! The microwave mentality never works in the end!
That's true - there's always the worry of your passion turning into something that you no longer enjoy doing because you're being compensated for it. Hopefully we'll be able to find a balance with this. The situation with your parents is tough and I can 100% relate since my parents were born in China. Are you able to try to start your passion project and maybe make a decent amount of income first before you officially quit? That way you show your parents that it's a feasible path
@@VincentChan that’s very true! It’s my plan to first show a “proof of concept” and hope that makes it easier for them to understand. But they are so traditional I don’t think they will like it because it’s not something they understand. But perhaps they will and I am worrying for nothing! Either way I have a while before I need to truly worry about that, but working at it one day at a time!
When you step off the plantation (Corporate America) all entrepreneurs go through a phycological and emotional shift that is more akin to a roller coaster with more doubts and lows than highs for a time. This is often not talked about and I applaud you for circling back and discussing it. Escaping the plantation has always been scary, exhilarating, dangerous, stressful, and absolutely rewarding. Thank you for covering this part of the escape!
Thank you so much!
Sounds like the ‘struggle is real’ towards financial and personal independence, but still sounds worth it!
Just subscribed and it was because I genuinely enjoyed you presenting the content. Also my favorite quote from the video is "Make sure you are running towards something, rather than away from something.". I, myself, quit a very stable job a year ago due to burn out and had been there almost 5 years. Yet, no regrets and recovering. Thanks for the channel.
I sincerely believe that it is easier for young people to quit their jobs than someone my age. I always wanted to have my own business, but I didn't have the guts to do it. I have a job that is not very creative and I still have difficulty with the hierarchy, but I have a good salary and a pension fund. I have thought many times to have my own UA-cam channel to talk about issues of people in their 50s. People still have dreams at this age, nothing is over until the end. Thank you for bringing up sensitive topics such as regrets about leaving a job. Life is not a quiet river, but it is worth living.
@kokocrunch40 wow, thank you very much. 😁
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@@Anthonyikani Thanks 😁
You should definitely start the UA-cam channel
I just found your channel because I am planning to quit my job to take on UA-cam full time. So lucky I found this video. Just a reminder - it’s really easy for us to be hard on ourselves! People want to watch you so don’t take it so rough ^.^ you made me laugh but a lot of sense as well. Continue to strive for your goals! Inspired by this so thank you.
Impostor Syndrome is so normal when going freelanced but it’s just a feeling of being unprepared or the classic “not good enough”. But the best way to overcome this is identifying where do you need a bit more research or just let your self fail and modify ✨🙏🏻
Thank you Aryh! That’s a great suggestions. Appreciate it :)
I come back to your videos after every new release. I'd expect the usual talking points that every other youtube makes about similar themes but yours really stands out and always exceeds my expectations. Your topics touch on things that most people are afraid to express; it gives comfort to a lot of people to know someone out here feels the same way. Thank you for sharing Vincent!
Thank you so much Billie! I appreciate your support and comment :)
I started following you yesterday, and have watched several videos. You're doing great . I quit my job 2 weeks ago, I want to do whatever I want, I believe in my own journey .Btw ive realized that nothing is more important than health.
Health is the real wealth! Congrats, I resigned yesterday!
Can't relate to this more after leaving my job six months ago to start my own business. Thanks for making relatable and useful content!
8:39 Make sure you're running toward something, rather than away from something. - Love this! 👏
You are so open and not afraid of being completely honest. You aren't an imposter in any way. Please, keep on.
Thank you so much for watching :)
*It always seem impossible until it's done.*
_~Nelson Mandela_ 📚
LOVE talking about this sort of thing from both sides, because it can be so draining doing things you hate but that stability feels so safe 🙏 Thank you for sharing a very balanced explanation
I feel you bro. Every risk you take, there's a negative...but use them as a stepping stone to blessings 🙌🙏✨💯...
I am a intra/extra-vert, but whatever makes it happens for you, we're supporting you 100%...
Everything you talked about is currently what I’m going through lol glad I’m not alone in this
Your channel is really well produced and very watchable!
I love the idea of planning things out ahead of time. Best way to prepare for the best possible outcome!
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You are doing great man. I love the soft approach and straight honesty you offer.
thank you for watching
Thank you for this. In an odd way it has reassured me I made the right choice. I too have recently quit my job in finance after 15 years to go after a different dream.
The circumstances around me quitting leave me feeling quite bitter about the whole situation but you reminded me about something.
Its not always about what's in it for me, its what can I bring to the table for others.
I'm still keeping my 100k a year job because I like to buy things with out looking at the price. I don't have to worry about my utility bills, my mortgages, and most importantly, I like to buy properties and be a landlord!!!
Hi Vincent, I like the name Vincent, any how I am glad you uploaded this video. I worked from 1978 to 2015 years I put in my retirement papers and at first it was like wow, no more job to go to. However, I did have money coming in from all those years of working. I felt free. Relief joyful and a since of accomplishment I arrived. I was of a course 57 years of age and time flew by so fast I just celebrated 7 years being retired. Now, it is like I have lot of time and I do not need to work; I am also introvert I always been that way. So, when I feel I need go see somebody I take a walk and there people all over the place so, going for a walk help out a lot with the feeling cut off from people and even watching you tube videos help me realize there many people at home watching a screen most likely by themselves but I realize I am not a lone there 7 billion people all over this earth. Thank you for sharing your thoughts in this video.
Imposter syndrome is so real. I hope you stay positive and I know you will! You’re a great teacher, I really appreciate your content especially the actionable steps you provide.
I guess now your new work friends can be fellow youtubers. Subbed!
Thanks Mike and Matty! Appreciate it :)
I work in a call center and this channel is giving me hope to one day achieve financial independence ❤️
You can do it!
I worked at call centers for three years, during which I started and finished a Masters degree. It was a very stressful period in my life, and it felt like working two full-time jobs at times. Use whatever time you can spare to develop a new skill set relevant to the career you want until you're ready to transition. That, marrying rich or playing the lottery are the only things you can do to improve your lot.
Yes people are watching because you’re both entertaining and educational. Thanks for sharing! -Kali
Thank you so much
I am so glad you learned this EARLY in your life. I was 42 when I figured it out! Great video! Thanks for sharing!
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Vincent, would you consider making a video about health, dental, eye insurance when self employed ? Rarely anyone talks about this and I think you’ll do a great job explaining this topic to us :)
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Obamacare worked great for me.
I hope that your goal of teaching students about personal finance happens, that would’ve been amazing when I was younger. Thank you for this awesome video! Good vibes from Canada 🇨🇦
Thank you so much for watching Morgan :) appreciate you and your comment
Vincent been watching your videos for a couple days now and I am Hooked dude. extremely relatable thought process you have. Please keep them coming
I have the same keyboard as you. I'll interpret that as a sign of great things to come...
It is :D
I absolutely love the honesty and comedy in between the serious and empowering talk
Very relatable 👍
Don't stress, I personally am very captivated by what you have to say in your videos, and I am sure that anyone who watches them feels the same way. Keep up the good work.
As a gen z who works at amazon, I was not prepared for jeff bezos with hair.
LOL
So how's Amazon? I'm about to start soon. Have you moved up really fast? How much are you getting paid? Is it hard to work there and is it worth it?
Keep growing Vincent🙏
Really love your videos dude. Sometimes feels lonely when I have similar thoughts and Internet reminds me others like me are out there!
Thanks for the video. I am planning to quit in 6 months when I reach my nest egg goal. I plan to trade and maybe volunteer somewhere a few hours a week. I know my dogs will be happy about it 😂.
That’s so awesome!! You got this :) your doggos must be so excited
Hey, you are doing amazing work. I personally relate to a lot of things and experiences you shared coming from a similar place but its important to point out that you are doing amzing work really. Many youtubers are out there just to promote fake content and trick people into paid promotions just for money but you are doing impressive job with your humor, videos, energy, valuable content. Just don't overthink and stay positive. Things get really lonely on the entrepreneurial journeysometimes and fears are valid and for that we can all chat in our youtube community and uplift and support others who are making a positive impact on the world. Best of luck. :)
I dont miss my coworkers. I have 3 young children that keep me entertain. I love the 10-12 hours at home and can do it all day, everyday as soon as i dont have to drive for 3 hours day to and from work.
Thank you for just being raw and honest Vincent. Really needed to hear this reality from someone who‘s been there and currently working on this new season of his life.
Thank you for the inspiring sharing, Vincent! I’m planning it after working for several years. I think I can contribute more by starting my own business and spending time wisely with families and friends!
The best quote is to make sure you’re running to something instead of away from something. I voluntarily took early retirement in March 2021. It was very difficultly at first to keep the focus on my purpose. I still work on it but definitely I am much happier! I could only have done it by saving early and living within my means. I love your channel! You are wise beyond your years!
When I poop it was on my company’s dime. I can no longer say that is my only regret.
One of my favorite time of day
I went freelance as a video editor last year and I love everything about it. Should've done it years ago.
There's only one downside for me, and it's your #2 biggest regret. I used to make friends at work and meet wonderful people to date. Now I can't cause I'm sitting at home working for 9 hours a day. Plus I moved to a new city to be closer to family and cut my rent in half. Having a tough time finding new friends and dates!
Excellent communication skills, great humor, necessary topic-Finance!!! How can you lose!! Best to you.
For the algorithm! Off the charts, I think it is awesome that you are comfortable in your own skin, put a spin of humor on finance and career which is very appreciated :) Also we all appreciate your honesty that some people don't talk about, especially finance in society being somewhat still taboo.
You got my attention! I saw one of your videos and subscribed. I assure you that you will reach the ultimate success on UA-cam. I will be here longterm and hope you maintain the work life balance as an entrepreneur, something that eludes us in Corporate America.
I think we all have have this feeling sometimes
From the moment I clock in a can't leave my desk, unless it's for my breaks, so I don't get the office banter anyway 😢😂
Looking forward to it!
I really like to listen to your videos recently and normally I never comment on UA-cam, but I feel like your video really stand out. You have a lovely voice and I find your videos interesting to watch all till the end. Maybe because I can also relate to you as an introvert, planning way ahead and so on 😁
Keep going!
I plan on finding a career where I am emotionally fulfilled in 2022. I am working on getting all my debts paid off, so I can not be in the mindset of owing someone else, but me owing myself peace, happiness, and abundance.
doesn't exist...you will only be "fulfilled" when you work for yourself..hard to grasp, but if you live or die by your own hand? you can really get busy living...most jobs suck, they only last a year or so and most industries will be gone nearly in the same time frame...you gotta be in something that people need everyday
@@andrefecteau that is the truth, and I am looking at being my own boss. I have noticed everywhere I have worked has only been ok for about a year, then something happens, and I want to get away from that job. Thanks for that comment. It's just more of a confirmation to me that I need to be an independent worker!
@@dollarbilllife3905 yep, I gotta start a channel soon to tell ya'll "it's normal"...after a year you should know if your future is there or not...eventually? you gotta go solo, then create your own product that you sell...until then? You are radio gaga
No worries Vincent, it always works out. Left my last company in 2007 to be a GC in Cali as a residential remodeler. Got my license in the worst economy to start this kind of business. Best thing I ever did. I depend on me that's all. Keep going lil fighter.😎✌🙏🙏😁 I think you'll be fine...
Thanks so much Mike!!
This video is so relatable 😩 love your vids !
I really appreciate your work, knowledge, application and steps you go over. You have a lot of great content and keep going Vincent.
I love your videos. Don't doubt yourself. You have a gift and your voice is so soothing. I love your jokes. 😄 Keep up the good job.
6:55 I love that idea!!!!
Please do it I'm just 13 years old right now and watching these videos because it's sooo entertaining to me.
Most regrets of quitting are because it wasn't thought out to begin with. This is my weekly topic for my own subscribers. Career. One thing that can really bring a person into depression is 40 hours a week of hating their job. The job is literally almost half of the waking life. The problem many people have is that they have a craving for security. The person will tolerate being unhappy if that is their normality. People would rather have secure bitterness than the fear of stepping off the cliff. The fact is that you can change your career anytime. At 40 or 50. I once knew a car salesman of 30 years who did really well but started to hate his job--so became a nurse at 57. He is now a travel contractor. His friends told him he would be 57 by the time he got licensed as an RN. He told them he would be 57 anyway. So he will now spend the next ten years doing something he likes instead of something he hates. But you have to decide if it is life on the sea you hate or just that ship you're traveling on. In other words--do you hate your trade or just the company you're at? But whatever you aren't happy with you must change and continue to advance yourself. Hope this helps someone---Charles.
Someone like you will never want for money. Self doubt is natural. Kudos for taking the bold step. Best of luck, Vincent.
What's worse than the great resignation is the great loss of values in society.
Your videos are very refreshing, I rarely watch any kind of finance videos bc for the most part they come across as disingenuous, scammy, and/or just have a way of making you feel guilty about yourself. So far your advice has been practical, realistic, honest and intriguing from your own personal anecdotes, your motives for making the channel and simply your personality lol :) just subbed
I appreciate that! happy new year!
I’m learning so much from you! I Appreciate your transparency and how you keep it real. Keep doing what you’re doing you’re changing lives. Thank you.
You are very funny and entertaining. I am enjoying your videos and I am learning things so it’s a win win. Thanks!
I am way more appreciative of his honesty than I am impressed people flashing their wonderful life.
I found out about your channel just a few weeks ago. But I absolutely love your content! Probs to you
I want to quit my job and told my colleague. I have so many things to do, my boss has been kind enough to help me, telling me to list down documents that are missing for every staff,reaching out to various parties to request them to return my email. Now I basically just cleaned up other people's mess with missing records, I think if the previous staff had maintained proper records,my job would have been easier. I am just 2 months almost 3 months into my first job.
You didn't quit, you just transferred to a better job 😎
You ROCK! Thank you for being so open and vulnerable with your viewers!
Thank you so much for watching chelsea!!
Looking back quitting was the best decision
Your videos are hitting home for me, and it’s like a I have a friend who’s going through what I’m going through. On different scales, but regardless. Well structured, sounding, looking videos. Keep it up!
I recently quit a 10 year career job to start on my own. To keep finances going I got a part time job as a delivery driver (which has ended up as nearly full time ranging from 6am to 11pm shifts, not in one go lol). Feel so busy with that and a small online ecom store at the minute so I'm keeping on going and hopefully they will pay out one day :D
Very interesting video and I like the reality of what you’re saying.
Awesome video Vincent. I quit my job this month to focus on building my business. I'm a graphic designer on a journey to build a branding agency. It is kind of scary but also a relieve at the same time. We just need to keep moving forward and work towards our goals. If anyone is thinking about quitting and you are paying your own bills just be sure to have some money saved up. Whether you're building a business or looking for a new job keep pushing and you'll make it 👊
I left the private sector for the public sector as an Architect in Aviation Planning. It’s the best damn move I’ve made since graduating in 2006.
DUDE! You have grown so much in 1 YEAR. OKAY? IT'S INCREDIBLE. I BELIEVE IN YOU. AND KUDOS TO YOUR FILMING AND EDITING SKILLS. THEY ARE MY FAVOURITE
Thank you so much!!
Thanks for sharing. Success is your path for sure.
The thing jeff bazos said is exactly what i do, every time i face hardship.
Imagine you are in your deathbed and looking at your life.
Don’t live like it’s your last day on earth, live to have a life that satisfies you in your deathbed.
I've always been self employed, but am in a phase now of quitting my original business and starting a new one. It comes along with similar feelings of fear and 'going it alone'. One of the best things I've found to do is find new industry groups and people working in similar fields to connect with!
Lots of insight here. I put a longggg pause of entrepreneurship for alot of reasons you mentioned:
- Isolation
- Lack of security, regular pay schedule
- Being obsessed with business success 24/7
- Trading free time for hobbies or relaxing to work on the business
Ultimately it was taking over my life.
BUT I did learn a TON about business & digital marketing.
So there are pros and cons.
Your idea for teaching young ones about personal finance is really great. Honestly, I really wish I have the knowledge about personal finance at a tender age. Maybe I won't be struggling this much right now.
Hi Vincent, the struggle and anxiety is real! Every freelancer or company owner can relate to that. The experience you are taking from editing videos and being in front of a camera are very valuable and you can decide anytime to offer your services to a company, if needed. There will always be work for someone creative and dedicated as you! I suppose that is the only security we can draw from life - that we have the capacity to respond to whatever challenge we face in a creative and solution oriented manner. Good luck on your journey.
I love this video! I love the idea of financial freedom but i actually love what I do at work. if I can have my own practice, seeing my patients and setting my own schedule and work time ~ that's the dream!
I must say your jokes are quite entertaining (I giggle and smile continuously through your videos) in addition to the very valuable content you put out there; thank you!
Wow, thank you!
Money is only one aspect of life, it is temporary, it can come and go. Good health is the most valued asset and priceless. Freedom from not becoming an employee is nice.