Kota’s Untold Story: “They called me insane for slipping into depression”, Students Share Ordeal
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- Опубліковано 2 лют 2024
- In Kota, where dreams of IIT-JEE and NEET students converge, 31 suicides since January 2023 have marked a somber turn for the city known as 'Shiksha ki Kashi.' Here's our attempt to deep dive on the issues like parental pressure, drug abuse and coaching centers' insensitive handling of students' mental health. Join us on a journey to unveil the untold stories, seeking the truth behind the tragic reality in Kota.
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It's not just kota the reason behind all the deaths. It is our education system. But nobody blames that everyone says student cannot handle pressure. That pressure is literally nothing
I don't really think it's the education system but the high aspirations of parents and comparison with other people (competition).
Yes Absolutely
its high population problem. period
@@harshsinghal4342 that's completely acceptable. And if you are going to stop this will never. Indian parents are like that and they should even somewhere there not to pressurize but to guide them but after all it's because this is a nature. And people don't really respect each others profession they have took some of the occupations and made that superior. And bro the whole cause is education system. We are paying bulk of money to never know how to earn money in future. Because after everything we are just going to learn to earn. Why we are being taught every silly things possible and not the things which are right now there. If you see class 12 practical. All the practicals are taught are not going to value you in your life. We are just being slave. We spend money in tutions, schools. My respect would be on top. When a person will ignore the school and will learn things at home and will learn other activities like learning any sports or any skills
Kota is not the region of suicide or depression or any coaching institute the region behind is all about right guidence by parents need parents education in every school institute.
There r some parents who don't force their children bt there expectations from children r very high.. Nd they says that it's okk if you'll not clear the bt at the same time they'll taunt plus the pressure from the relatives side... That's so traumatizing nd haunting... Everyone can relate who r going to give JEE or NEET or any other competitive exam
My parents are like this 😢
@@tushar_am don't worry I can understand about the conditions u r going through I'm also getting worried these as days r coming nearer bt always keep in mind that don't worry if u fail just keep going never stop.. Ik this time it's hard for me to clear the exam bt I'm not feeling demotivated cuz I'll try try... Why to think about the relatives it our life our decision our future our choice.. Keep going buddy don't stop even if u fail
@@hudaikram2379 buddy I am now in 11th standard And I will be giving neet exam in 2026 ,😃
So best of you dear I am with you don't worry, my friends says that I am a good motivational speaker, I have something for you
"Muskurate the hum chupate the gum tumhe toh waqt batayega kon hain hum"🙂
All the best
@@tushar_am Thank you so much😊
Best of luck for your future work hard keep going don't worry... Everyone's there to support you so don't ever get worried or demotivated ☺
@@hudaikram2379 It's my pleasure 😊😊
I was also a student of kota Allen and when I was going through this phase i went to councellor of allen and you can't believe he was laughing at me because I was crying.....
So sorry you had to go through that, hope you're doing better now
Hope you are ok❤️
How the hell such people become counsellors! They are even worse than bullies.
To mock is ignorance.
Educated fools are nowadays known as psychological counsellors.
Hare Krsna 🙏
How are you feeling now.....are you okay?❤
Unless you have prepared for competetive exams like NEET Or JEE, you will never ever understand how it feels like. You will have suicidal thoughts at least once during your preparation.
😢
yeah..absolutely true
A humble request to the parents
Please don't pressurize your children. Your child's life is more important than a single exam result.
Sometimes it's not parents it's societal pressure like relatives or the environment and this societal pressure is given in Kota where you see intelligent aspirants around you who have scored 99% in 10th or they are very good at studying and people compare them which make them feel depression.
Between I'm a commerce student I don't have any depression this is my thinking.
Jitni technology bhad rhi h utna jayda depression bhi ghar rha h parents are not to blame here
hmmm, really?
I bet 90% of those parents won't be able to handle pressure if they are sent to kota but they expect their children to do so.
Sell land.. take loans.. send kids to Kota.. Get them back in a casket.. Mission Failed Succesfully! If you couldn't make something out of your own lives.. don't put your insecurity on your kids ! Parents are to be blamed for this.. 100%
I understand what you're trying to say but they don't put their insecurity on their kids man. Taking such extreme financial decisions is not easy. But they should listen to their child if they wanna quit staying/studying there
The problem is the intention is not wrong but the way and thought process is
But if they are a success then they become ceo of like google and Microsoft so I think it’s worth it …….
@@luisfernando5998 that's not the point here actually, it's about pressurizing kids
@@coraline2006 if u can preassure ur kids to possibly become the next google ceo, wouldn’t u do it ? Or would u let them live a worse lifelong earning like 10k inr per month ….. I will pressurize my kids like in a pressure cocker because if they make it out they will be big if they don’t they will die either way even if not pressurized due to society preassure to find job, earn money etc.
You know I take tuition of a 9 year old kid. Recently, he stood 2nd in his class & scored around 96% in his standard 3 annual examination. But, still his mother is unsatisfied 😢.
She tells me that he has scored only 3 out of 5 in essay in English, but the topper girl of the class has scored 5 out of 5. She gave me clear instructions to make his child much able to score 5 out of 5 in essay. She has given me a time duration of upto June. She said, "Main chahti hoon ki mera bachha sabse aage rahe."
Note: The child has scored 78 out of 80 in English. The deducted 2 marks have been deducted in the essay only. Just think about her obsession regarding making her child top.😮
These kind of kids get frustrated 😔 of their parents as they grow young in their life. Parents' this very behaviour creates a mental gap between parents & child.
Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child.
This is the reason why I have decided not to have kids in the future. The more kids the more competition will be and more youths will commit suicide.
Yes... nation need people like u... hope everyone's inspiration from u
😂😂 kya
😂😂😂
Ignorant people can laugh all they want but the core reason behind such competition is overpopulation
i also dont want to have kids not for this reason tho i just wanna adopt kids and make their life better instead of going through all that intese labour pain i want to be a mother but i cant tolerate pain so i would rather adopt
Even after knowing how the students are suffering, elders are so cruel towards them...this is the main lead that drive them to end. Why are they blaming them and treating them as a liability instead of helping? Humanity is becoming rare nowadays.
Kota institutes makes assumption that only who study books will excel in lives. Everyone have one thing to do in life.
I’m also pcm student
But I’m avg in studies
Was good till 10th grade but 11&12th seem very difficult
But still I try my best Everyday
Sometimes I spend hours wasting time and then regret but it’s okay it’s a part of the journey
Having 12th boards in 3 days please wish me luck 🍀
things were good till 10th grade, now every single thing is disturbed .
anyway, best of luck for your exams!!!
All the very very best dear🎉
Good luck dear....!!!!! Focus more on easier subjects like Chemistry and English. This will help in increasing the overall score..!!!
bro i relate with you so muchhh
good luck bro
Bro that's bullying 🗣️💀
This message was very well needed.. thank you India Today. I'm only in grade 9th and feel terrified by the sight of this. When did the 'coaching hub of India' become the 'suicide capital of India'??! It is indeed true that the students are mentally pressurized to achieve high but why nobody puts light in the real problem here?! That's our education system which forces fellow students to fall into such a situation where a student will put an end his/her life.
I really really hope tht the new education policy will bring about some positive changes for us. Moreover, parents should atleast try to understand what potential their child holds, everybody is not meant to become an engineer or doctor from IIT or AIIMS !
Parents should not force the career they wish to be on their children. They should support what children are interested in
Very true ..let them go to there own choice
The the children will become like auto drivers
@@luisfernando5998 To my knowledge no auto drivers are interested to study, Here l'm only mentioning for students who want to pursue different courses according to their interests 🙂
This generation of parents didn't face dipression or forced by parents to get good marks so its our duty to be a good parens now because no one can change a thought of a parent the will just force their child to reach the level which no one reached in their bloodline
@@luisfernando5998 no they won't. They would be much better humans.
Kota is not the reason behind these deaths...The main reason is our fucked up education system and our parents' fucked up mentality. I am doing neet preparation from my hometown and guess what, I have serious mental health issues mainly because of my parents, especially my dad. My parents don't give a shit about my mental health. They only care about NEET. For them its totally fine if I die but its not fine if I dont get a seat in MBBS . I am not exaggerating. This is the truth. Because of my parents I am literally regretting being born. The only thing I have ever wanted was supportive parents but I guess it was too much to ask for.
us bhai us kya kre
Fruits of overpopulation
Bhai be strong 🤗u are great
I'm sorry. I hope you have someone you can actually reach out to and be real with your feelings. If not then keep believing in your faith whether in God or universe, whomsoever. You will come out stronger and tougher. More power to you ✊🏻✊🏻
same
Kudos to India Today for doing this report. I hope this video reaches masses and helps save many young lives.
i wanted to be maths professor, now i am a neet dropper,, just because of parent ,,i was made to take pcb in 11th ,now i am fked,i don't know what will happen to me..just wishing i this doesn't happen to me..
same
Bhaii to pcm le leti 😭
Your math dont work in business lyf
apna best toh, agar nhi hua toh fir dusre options dekhna, parents ko pta nhi aajkal kya pagalpan chad gyi hai, kabhi ajib thoughts mat lana thikhai? go for maths degree im sure u will enjoy it aur parents ko manana warna revolt krna, apne interests keliye lado, im sure at some pt they will understand, stay strong buddy!
hey thanks for this video .........right now I am in kota and my JEE MAINS attempt 1 (29th shift 1) not went so well ............and i am was thinking of rubbish things and even I practiced writing a suicide letter even but ended up making it a motivational message ........right now I am in 12th and even Today i thought of drop and all but now I am gonna revise my syllabus gather my courage will pray to god and I will start studying ☺once again.................I am so thankful for this video
Are you okay??
Don't think of suicide or something I'm also in 12th and have given JEE on 29 Jan shift 1 you know what when I went to the centre it was 5am and while travelling to the city I was crying I can't explain the regret of that moment.....my examination also didn't went good and I didn't scored a good percentile and even my bestfriend got very good score as board exams are going on so when we go to school everyone congratulates her and I feel myself ignored and looser.....everytime i feel depressed but never written any suicide letter or something I know I will learn from my mistakes and do my best next time this is my life I have to create my own story and hope you also will❤❤❤
this was a comment in another video:
"One day after my suicide"
The day after my suicide, I loved my mother even more, when I saw her crying on the floor of my room, hugging my clothes with my photos scattered around her, I saw so much love past the tears in her eyes.
The day after my suicide, I felt how much my father loved me, no matter how hard it was, in the midst of so much sadness, he spoke to me with tears in his eyes about how proud he was of me and how much he loved me.
The day after my suicide, I saw Tumble (my furry best friend) was more incredible than I could imagine. Everytime someone came home, he would run to the door excited to see me, and seeing that it was not me, would lay down in front of the door and continue waiting for me.
The day after my suicide, I felt the love of my sister when I saw her sitting in her room with eyes full of tears. She remembered the times we played, talked and argued together in our beautiful childhood. Treasured moments.
The day after my suicide, I felt how important I was to my best friends. They were looking at all our pictures together...remembering the laughs we shared.
The day after my suicide, I felt the sorrow in my teachers. They blamed themselves for not noticing.
At night I went to the morgue to look for myself and said: "So many dreams we had", "So many loved ones", "So many people to meet", "You had so many people that loved you, yet you threw it all away?", "You have to have a lot of courage to take your life. Why didn't you use that courage to win?"
Thank goodness that was just a vision.
Remember: You are still here and can change your life forever. You are better than you think you are. Prettier, smarter and stronger.
Make this yours. Save it to notes and read it later.
Disclaimer: This is not my story I just wanted to spread it because maybe it helps.
stay strong okay!!! You are very talented, smart and im sure ur an amzing person, Nahi hua toh koi baat nhi life bohot lambi hai kabhi give up nhi karna. oppuritunities aati rahengi just make sure u give ur best for everything
This thoughts and memories in young age never leaves even if you came so far in life but it will still hurt a lot.
I hope you will be able to forget it with time and fill your memories with happy thoughts. Best of luck 🌟👍
Crazy how less people realize this.
Reservation system also is one of the big reasons for Unreserved student's stress.
Absolutely correct!!! It's literally fucked up system in India
Many say SC St they deserved it, but they don't. The rank of unreserved & sc st difference is like 12 th class kid & 5th class kid. Itna bhi difference nhi hona chahiye
Parents know that for a seat of 1000 ,more than 20 lakhs apllicants apply for the exam yet they want their own kid to crack NEET/IIT just for that topper tag status! There are so many options nowdays and you can even earn a lot through digital marketing, content creation, software programming, AI and what not.
Glad you know that. Focus on your skills and people will call you a genius one day. Giving up on your life because of an exam is stupid. Find a way or may one but stay strong ✊🏻✊🏻
My heart breaks 😢😢😢😢 Please India, wake up. This needs to stop
Well, I am living in kota from the last 10 months as a jee droppeer and can relate with most of the points stated in the video . This city fucked my mental health a lot and put me through preety many situations in which I just wanna die,there are several moments when i was at my hostel balcony and just wanna jump (I don't go there at the balcony now ) .I had seen my one friend trying suicide (he ate a large no of sleeping pills) but somehow he survived . I am one of those 7% and 8% people who tried smoking and drinking, most likely as a escape , but ya left it pretty soon, thankfully much before being addicted to it. Most of your friends here will see you as just a competition to them .The teacher here will demotivate u till the fact that if you fail IIT u can't even make a good living and see this as a way to motivate the kids , like tf??? Can't u find any better way to motivate your students.
Stay Strong! Everything will fine ❤️
Bhaii tu pakka bahut zyada smart ass kid hoga jiske board mein 99 ayein honge naur tabhi tu msg likh raha hai sab nahi honskte sharp brain super humans
I suggest you come back home and mat prepare Karo is lappu exam ke liye
Kota mat jaon padhne ghar pe padh. Lo apne
@@rohansaini3293 Yeah absolutely no it doesn't matter if you're in Kota or home you just need environment and you can crack any evam if you've perseverance to do so.
This, folks, is called good investiegative journalism.
They need to understand , it's not just Kota . Its our education system
Thanks this is underrated but will inspire many
I m also a neet aspirant i couldnt stop my tears coming out after watching this..this hits hard to every aspirant
Stay strong. Times are rough, just give your best and know your worth. You deserve to happy in all times, in your success and in your failure because each time your dreamt and tried. Best of luck. Find ways or make one but don't give up. ❤❤
My preparation was good but in between something happened I completely lost my focus now I can't do anything more than crying or anything I don't know whom to explain and what but what I can tell is that I can't breathe I can't sleep from past 1 week I wake up every 20minutes ..idk why it's happening but it's happening can't help @@19.subhisrivastava46
what is wrong with adults for gods sake iit and neet isnt the only roadmap for success I WILL DEFINE MY SUCCESS ps this was the best investigative journalism i have seen in my life
I understand parents tell us for our good. I accept it. I honestly want to say that our parents say "Hamne duniya dekha hai" is just not relevant these days. They don't know that "duniya badal gaya hai". They just don't understand it, and we can do nothing about it. All we can do is accept that they come from the times where there was no availability of many basic amenities.
We are the first generation who have started our lives with all the basic amenities like food, water, money and a house to live. So our parents who have seen their parents struggle to get these amenities, will definitely think that having these in "our children's life" will give them a good life. They are not wrong, but they are wrong too. They need to understand that there are many more career prospects, but they won't. They can do better, but they did what they could.
EGO ISSUES. Can't help it out. All we can do is, as people of this generation, share our thoughts with each other, and not with parents. I remember doing so and i regret it. They will instead blame only you. Indian parents can't take it when someone questions their parenting. Realize, that its not been a lot of time since we got independence. India has a long way to go.
And what i noticed is, the parents of west atleast try to bridge the gap with the present generation, whereas our parents, atleast majority of them dont even care!!. So should we blae them for this? this is both a YES and a NO. Thats how they were brought up.
Please, to all my dear gen Z people whose parents never understand of them (atleast 97% of them)
We are the first generation to have access to multimedia and large networks of information. Let "us", being the present generation, break this chain and be better parents!
Though i accept that our parents are absolutely wrong when it comes to mental health of their children!
I agree bro
I'm going through something similar
I know that I can't crack neet but I've been trying to crack it
This year it'll be my 4th attempt
And I'm already feeling dead inside
I've seen my parents cry
That's the only reason why I keep going, for my parents. That's it
But now I can't take it anymore
I don't know what to tell my parents
I am not made for this
I surely know that, but seeing my parents face, I shut myself up and keep trying again.
It seems it's all fruitless
Don't know what to do
I'm done
I can't fake my smile and laughter anymore
I just can't take it anymore
I read an article in the New York Times about Kota. It made me obsessed about this topic. thanks for diving in the topic and sharing the details. It helped me a lot to understand the situation and make my obsession lower.
Please don't stop your curiosity as these channel, media , institute are blaming parents but as students for 4 years there , i want to say that mains reason for depression is peer pressure and those teacher *who brainwashed students and says nothing is bigger than IIT* such things trigger more towards suicide
@@mathematicsman7454 There is a really brutal competition. that is really difficult to bear.
Thanks, India Today for making this report. I genuinely cannot believe how parents actually force their children so hard and make them think, "oh, im second in place and not first, im such a failure, i should die." Like, if you did not go to kota, then why pressurize ur child? They didnt want to go there by themselves, (unless they actually did) but YOU pressurized them. And they didnt ASK to be born. It was your choice. YOURS. So u should know how to raise one child and give it its freedom.
Anyway, if anyone is going through selfharm or depression, i hope the best for you. Your parents might not be by your side, but thousands of people on the internet, even if they dont even know your name, will support you. Also, good luck on exams if they are upcoming. Heres some hearts: ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I studied in a very common middle class school which was not very competitive and my parents thought it would be good to take me for a 'crash course ' for preparing for board exams and I went to the next City for 10 days during my study leave for vigorous training. After the first test, that teacher said I had a mental problem because I didn't know the basics of maths! My mother started crying and I was just surprised! then I was very clear what I was good at and what I wasn't. So I left that coaching centre in 4 days. I took up humanities for higher secondary and I enjoyed my studies and became school topper just 'automatically'. I graduated from TISS and I'm working as a psychologist and make sure no person I come across undermine their uniqueness and preciousness.
Don't let others determine your value. If a 2000 rs is crushed or soiled , still you get the things worth 2000s and not for 50 rs because it is certified by the RBI governor to be that valuable. You are also sealed as God's creation as most precious and irreplaceable. When you are afraid, search for the truth and trust in that
Yes accepting the truth is hard or sad but always leads towords the right path
Interesting topic. Please make more documentaries like this for the welfare of society. We are moving too forward,we need to pause and embrace the nature and life
If i had a chance to hug anyone in the world, i would hug all the people who are suffering from this Sh!t. Life is so much more than a Stupid f!cking exam. Maybe in this timeline, you can be happy.
Just make sure to give equality to all jobs. I want to become a physicist but due to inequality of income the society wants me to be a doctor.
Foreign countries don't have this issue.
Even if I top neet my heart will always seek for physics.
Last year i was in kota ...and i was mentally sick at that time ...i went to my mentor in allen ....and "he professionally said to me competition to tough hai hi nhi ho rhq to chod do " and he just ignored me despite of listening to me ! At that day i felt nobody is going to take care for your mental health, you alone have to dealt with your depression or situations!
Pressure starts from 10th, parents are more keen about their self respect in the society and BEING A STUDENT I CAN CONCLUDE THAT India is not a good place to persure our own dream, so Believe me even if i try to fight my father for my dreams there no use, because my father has many other supporters but im the only one and at the end its obvious that i have to follow dad............ I tried to make my dad understand that IIT AND NEET ARE not the only prof as i want to go for military but as a girl my parents are not at all willing for it. here I represents everystudent who has social pressures.... Remember even if your mom agrees India is A PATRIARCHAL SOCIETY so dads agreement is a must, even if dad agrees SOCIETY JUDGE, the only way to achieve our dreams in first follow our parents and then persue and thats what im gonna do, listen to my dad and then persue my dream later
Pls stop . MARKS ARE NOT ONLY THE WAY TO LIVE. PARENTS PLS STOP . DONT PUSH THEM.. PLSSSS🙏🙏 bahut kuch hai life mai. Only getting admission. Is not inportant . Allow children to do what tgey want. Children dont have pressuure. Never compare yourself. . All cabt be doctor. All cant be engineer. Pls go back. If not able to do 🙏 life is beautiful❤
I don't understand why why the parents give them so much pressure....let them go to there own way.... childrens are not their property...plz stop doing ...life is for living happily
the Suicide notes are Heartbreaking to read 💔
I request everyone to watch this before deciding to give JEE and NEET.
Someone ikwas an iitian , he was mentally disturbed n suffered a lot. So he completed his graduation n he started leaning towards spirituality, n left everything . I was like its nice that he is focusing on himself but my mom was like childrens hv no worth for their parents nowadays, they spent so much on their kids , n they want freedom from everything which is very wrong (said by my mother). N she does def know that it is their kid who works so so hard to achieve something big , while struggling mentally. She thinks its wrong for a child to hv an opinion n decide, ofc he had his reasons to not work 9 -5 n she's the one who calls this generation selfish(cuz their kids r not settled enough to "look after them when they r old ". She thinks only parents put in efforts for their "children's well being , successful life" but most of the parents would have given up on jee or neet , it would hv been to much for them to handle. Are our parents living their lives through us? Giving no freedom or choice, what r we supposed to do ?
So many minds are loosing their capacity because of this pressure
Thank you INDIA TODAY.. ❤
I am also a student in one of the known institute in Kota. I came yesterday from kota because it is so depressing and difficult to live in Kota but this all thing is not just because of pressure or studies like if you ask me I will told you peoples a lot of facts and problems about kota. Everything has its cons and pros so as kota has
This video must be watch by aspirants 😢
I also feel the same
Don't know how to get out of this trap😢
Just believe in your self and u will surely reach success I am quite young right now and may not know the pain to give advice but everything will end well 👍
Kota : a living hell !!
Us bro us
Remember children, Never ever give up. Let the whole world be against you, but when you yourself give up, the journey stops. So be the fighter that you are. Never ever give up. Never ever give in to the foolish demands of the world around you. Just wait for the wheel of fortune turn and start blessing you all with abundance. Forgive the people around you who have no idea what a diamond you all are in your own world. Good luck to all of you. Celebrate life. Enjoy education. Help one another. Above all, smile. This too shall pass. God bless.
Thank you for this ❤
Most of the parents forcing their kids to become doctors and engineers aren't it themselves. If they think its that easy to secure a seat why don't they give a trial first. Why forcibly throw young minds into fields the parents have absolutely basic knowledge about? Absolute bs. Also the parents should try listening to their kids atleast once in their life. Thinking the kid is putting up a fake act is not going to help u or your child get anywhere, nor does it make you a smart parent.
Absolutely true
Parents love us so much ❤❤❤
Vo nhi chahte ki hum 10,000 ki naukari ke liye dhakke khaayen vo nhi chahte ki jo unhone face kiya vo hum face karen
Future time toh bina achhi job se aur bhi mushkil hoga 😢😢😢
i am lucky that my dream is to be a doctor so my parents dont have to force me , i have always found peace in biology only , even thinking of being an engineer is nightmare for me, because i hate physics, even upsc is scary .. i totally hated geogrphy in 10th, after which i chose pure science and thankfully they wnt me to be a doctor too, so i am thankful to God...
I love physics tbh, not biology
i feel lucky
i have my mother who wants me to become someone I want to.
Many of these students would have excelled in other fields but got ruined because they listened to their parents and society and let it dictate their lives
The Problem with Tuition Classes is that they do very exhaustive coaching. If the syllabus of NEET and IIT is constrained to one Book of NCERT the sense of Confusion will be reduced. If different Publications are referred then different perspectives of different Scientific Researches comes at Play, which makes the study more confusing.
going to malls is seen as depression. They need to fire these assholes and invest more on the Childs safety and making them feel like home in the hostels with friendly staff. India can only be athama nirbar only if its young minds can see that jee and neet are just exams and not there life
wishing that there was so no fear or pressures...and that students could breathe i am in the pressure of under boards.....which are starting in 2 days...and so many place require good grades in boards ..IIT harvard oxford..and so much more ok for ivy leagues you can compensate with SAT and other achivements..but it is still sooo..no breathable, frightning & taraumatizing
isnt it a truth that even cutoff marks can be in a good range rather than being so high always,and if we really seek deeper, we can see a fact that due to the rapid pressure and competitive environment set up in a coaching center many students forget that they r humans, which ultimately leads to a condition of they doing exceptionally well by forgetting their social and metal wellbeing as compared to a norm and set the cutoffs at much much higher standards ,so even a good student feels demotivated then because he scored a bit less than the best ones..'
It's not the fault of Kota , coaching centres or even parents but the system cause it's only designed to produce followers not leaders and ceo's, change it , give results, parents will know automatically
Please make the subtitles a bit slower. I don't understand the sentences as people in this video talked so fast
Life me, khud life se badhkar or kuch bhi nhi...jee is an exam uske liye jee jaan lgado but not at the cost ki jeena hi chordo❤️💯
🤣chumtiye padhai kar ye sabh timepass hai .
Even sometime i get suicidal thought to much pressure parents never understand
Remember there is a sunrise after sunset. Don't think about what will happen in the future as it's not in your control. But You have this present , only think about it and start hard work.
I recommend to make a documentary on the city SIKAR RAJASTHAN same culture of neet and jee coaching it is the same story over here but it is kept untold because of the negligence of media and the money power of coaching institutes
Kota is the best place for those who are determined towards their goal.
As I am too studying in Kota, the best thing that I learnt is to not take stress in any situation and handle pressure.
Very good. Different people different experiences. But everyone is trying and that's all what matters. Negative people are everywhere, avoid them and be full of ambition. May all your dreams come true ☘
Thank god i made it out.never gonna give any indian competitive exam ever again
What??"that was my dream to go to Kota for jee preparation,I have not even told my family about my dream."(but now I am scared of going)I don't want these habits 😢😢
Not everyone is having parental pressure talk about societal pressure also
I had no idea that mental health is a taboo in india….never in my life i ever acted insane but once i did my family …my mom called me insane ….like how am i insane
Hostel owner, Coaching institutes, School/Colleges with parents ofcourse are the most guiltiest.
I have been in depression too, Now, it's average or little high still & completed my bachelor's degree anyhow even I was tired.. 😫
same after 2 years of bachelors i noticed that i took wrong subject and i failed in semester exams but somehow cleared the remaining exams and completed my degree. No one will understand how depressed i was.
Competitive exams are only for students who have "competitive nature + sharp focus + consistency"
Not all students are made for competitive exams
I have completed class 10th... I was doing good till my pre boards... I was scoring really well... And i was the top scorer of my class... Untill the day comes... 2 weeks before my board exams
I was week in hindi and i never even cared about it cause i score really well in other subjects
Literally some words of my hindi teacher hurted me like anything... My hindi tuition teacher expected a lot of score... My parents started to expect more than 490. But i know i may even lose 20 marks in hindi. Thats when i feared about my exam... The first time... I locked myself in room and cried like anything... Hindi was the first exam and i literally lost 15 marks... I cross checked it in online... Where i started to lose hope...
Class 10th was over but i scored 92 % in pre board exams... But now im sure that i wont even cross 450 marks... This decline in marks... Health and wellness is just by my parents, teachers and tutors expectations...
Don't know how much their expectations will affect my future career... But I'll try my best not to break their expectations... I promise you mom... I will try my level best 👍
If our education system and infrastructure were good enough, there would be no need for coaching classes to begin with. It's all a business
Education system is worst. In future I will never let my children go to school. To waste their precious time in which they are suppose to learn everything and adapting anything easily. I will let my child learn every single stuff like sports computers and other innovating things
Bro its not about school even china has same problem and if we don't have coaching we will do this kind of things in school only jee prep from school itself
How?
Why every parents & a child apply for such exams?
Stable career
Life in foreign country
Big chunk of income salary
Many perks n benefits
Flexibility
Promotion
Field which seems more relevant
Excellent working environment in job
Maths as one of difficult subject
Some becomes Government Doctor
_These are some reason our parents Run behind for._
13:53 😢 I still hate myself looking at mirror..but I am trying, doing will recover & come out as best or better person.
Most importantly,
Respect towards that job or post.
Whoever is you. But pls never thoughr of judgement of people who himself not worthy. Worth your life.
Every life is worthy …who are you to decide if your worth it or not?
I am from Pakistan and it is killing me that he does not have any expectations with me that I am going to pass mdcat but once he said that mdcat was the best solution the best field but you are not going to pass and I feel like I ruined my life and now there is nothing I can do 😭😭😭😭
you guys know what it is easier to become a politician than getting good grades in kota
SO DREAM BIG>
Koi matlab nahi in sab chijo ka maa baap samje ge he nahi
Also skill based education karni hogi jee iit waleim ne kitna pressure dala hai
75 % above in boards
High cuttoff
Mismanagement
90 percentile to qualify for advance
90 se nivhe ache college band hohaye hai mains mein bhi
Only 2 attempts
Syllabus as huge as the universe
Man said chotta doctor hoga to chalega
Matlab doctor to hona hi chahiye 😢😢
F the teachers in coaching centres and F the parents who pressurize the kids to be their future ATM.
I was in kota 2009-2010.... we also had the pressure but we didn't have smart phones or social media back then.... I guess it was a + point....
Expectations are making them feel like a loser.
There are Bollywood actors and Kriket players in India. There are many ways rather than these exams. And the examples at the end of the video is clear. So why they end their life? without knowledge and the pressure made by themselves and their circumstances which isn't correct and doesn't reflect reality. Is there anyone who can explain to me I am making a research.
Why students want addmission in IIT ?
This is not even a question, India is the country with highest population and major proportion of it is youth. Indian college/universities don't even stand in top 100 of whole world (only IIT are in it), and if you don't want to become Engineer or Doctor that means that you don't deserve good education in India. No doubt that their are FEW people who have done great things in their carrier but it's only FEW.
If you want to save your youths then start treating every field equally, provide quality education.
No one understands students feelings ( depression)
Hostel not taking much responsibiloty. They themself pressurizing them. They giving mental issues them
They speak well, as a doctor trust me when I say if you have good communication you can take over the world
Please don't stop your curiosity as these channel, media , institute are blaming parents but as students for 4 years there , i want to say that mains reason for depression is peer pressure and those teacher *who brainwashed students and says nothing is bigger than IIT* such things trigger more towards suicide
Weather its a 60%or less or more .The real truth is how much the student has worked hard but log, society, caste system nhi smjhte hai .They just judge by the numbers which cannot decide anyone's future. This is just because of the worst education system wecare having in our india and of course some teachers.
Sabse bara pressure parents create krte hai parents shuru se bolte hai ki medical hi karana hai science hi lena i was also the same i was never intrested in science but always wanted to be in Arts subjecys like history is my favorites and anthropology etc due to which i watsed 4 years of drops
@@mehaksharma6004 I have done my graduation from ignou and I have enrolled for masters in ignou itself will do something diffrent I stand against my parents will and I asked them I will follow my dreams not yours I never wanted to became doctor they don't talk me properly but I am okay with that
@@mehaksharma6004 I am requesting you to speak clearly to your parents this dropper era is totally a trap please otherwise you will also lose your precious years and follow your dreams
@@mehaksharma6004 dekho 1 mahine ki baat hai phle to focus se apna 100% dedo uske baad 4 5 din phle analyse krna ki kya pasand hai tumhe Agar intreset nahi hai to please avoid krna drop lena or admission nikalte hai Indira Gandhi National Open University se atlease admission to krwa lo tum usme bsc me uske baad tmhare pass or raste khul jaenge
@@karishmasah2580 ok thanks for your advice
i am preparing for jee actually
bro if im not gonna make it i can play piano so fking good
i know im not earning that big but i will be happy
i can musics and tracks too i can produce music
umm yeah the plan seems bad bro tbh☠
5:38 thats my Sakhi ❤
Never thought that engineering test would be that hard kudos to these guys take a lot of love from Pakistan 🇵🇰
meanwhile me watching this video when failed to commit suicide
Make video of "Alternatives"
Especially those which doesnt require entrance test...
Even those who fail to secure seat in state medical colleges committ suicide
Ye sab sahi hai par
Kota esi place bhi nhi hai rank produc krta hai kota
Jin students ki rank aati hai ya fir salection hote hai un sab se ek bar puchho ki vo kitna study krte the kitne time Tak kiya tab reality pta chalegi
Jin students se itna afurt nhi mara jata vo depressed ho jate hai last me
They run behind Marks gaining not behind how to study if they learn how tu study definitely they succeed
Every one can't affurt
I saw my friend which stydy up to 16 hr now he is in medical College
That's why kids should be taught Hinduism and bhagavad gita at early age. To remove them of delusions of life.
Wth man this is all because now a days parents who care more about samaz kya khega then their kids . Bro in my opinion the person who wanna clear NEET will clear it if he / she really want to .
I just wanna ask you is this really your dream ??
Because if it is then you will never ever once will think about suicide bro......
Take care of yourself even if no one does...fkk SAMAZ BRO THEY CAN'T DO ANYTHING IN THEIR LIFE THEMSELVES SO HOW CAN YOU LISTEN TO THEIR NONSENSE ?
KEEP FIGHTING
Hamare parents humme apna aap ko dekthe hame pressurise krte ha jee karo neet karo ye karo vo karo biards me acha marks lao average bacha kuch bol nhi pata rich bache buisness karke life settle krte ha par koi middle class ka bacho ka dard nhi samazte bache ka man arts lene ka ha par science dilva deta ha competition parents pressure sab bache ko mentally weak kar deta ha result hamara samne