evolving from GIRLHOOD to WOMANHOOD | growing up / change, becoming a woman, & feminine energy
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- Welcome to 𝘈 𝘉𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘠𝘰𝘶 podcast by lifestyle, wellness, & self help youtuber - Fernanda Ramirez. in this weeks episode, we're getting vulnerable! this has been a topic that's really been on my mind recently.. and that is transitioning from GIRLHOOD to WOMANHOOD! this means embracing change, feeling comfortable with the idea of growing up, and not only that, but being EXCITED to mature and dive into your woman era!!! we talk about how to channel your feminine energy & step into your power ✨✨
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live you guys!! hope you enjoyed it:) I randomly just realized at the end is really cut up? like it doesn’t flow??? rip something went wrong in the editing, and I didn’t realize I hope it’s not too noticeable😢😢😢
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i was sad@@anastasiavolkova7713
I’m obviously not a lady, but I love seeing women support each other ❤
It’s so crazy that this is the topic you decided to talk about because recently I’ve been feeling like im changing and its been slightly overwhelming. I’m 20 and so many new things are happening in my life but I haven’t really processed that fact that I’m way past high school, way past my younger self era, and it’s just so fun that we are discovering who we are in our 20s together. I love you forever!
Same gurl I’m turning 20 in like 2 weeks n I’ve changed so much n really discovering myself n loving myself but watch us grow n pop off😌💅🏾✨
Growing up as a woman is incredible, we know ourselves better, are free to create our ideal vision of life, which is less accessible when we're teenagers, because we live under our parents' roof therefore we lack not only maturity but also perspective on life :)
Love this new style with no script! I am 22 year old girl and just trying to find my path so this was very relatable for me. Great vid!
So glad!
this helps so much! i just turned 18 and for a sec i felt kind of like my "fun years" were done. but this put it into perspective and i'm so excited to grow as a person!
I can't explain how badly I needed this video 💖💖💖💖💖💖💕
Oh my gosh, I love this topic. I have felt like I have been in limbo with becoming a woman and still feeling like a girl. I am 25 now, but I have always been working on becoming my best self since a very young age. However, life sent a lot of curve balls my way that made it difficult to follow what I thought was the right path and timeline. I have learned now that we all have different timelines, and just because we grow up a lot in one area doesn't mean we have to grow up in every area. It's okay to be a woman at work and in some relationships while still being a girl at home and with the right people. It's all about learning balance and boundaries and being okay with where you are at and the things you have learned. Everyone's journey is different and just as unique as they are.
Ahh I love this podcast! It just keeps getting better and better every new episode! 🥰🤍
thank you!💕
fern this was such a wonderful episode, and such perfect timing! the first half I was thinking to myself she must've been inspired by the barbie movie, how interesting that was how you already were talking about that topic back in June!! I love how we all have been valuing girlhood and womanhood and you Fernanda are one of my biggest inspirations, you truly inspire me to prioritize my self care, and express my creative and happy side. I truly feel connected to you, as I am a libra as well and I just relate so much to you. thank you for this amazing podcast, for further inspiring women or anyone listening even more. 💖💖💖💖💖
The lighting in this video is immaculate💛
this was such a touching podcast I feel like this resonates w me so much thank you I was so depressed in my senior year of high school, bc I hated the idea of growing up but now almost 2 years later, now just turned 20 in January I feel excited abt the future n growing up older n more in tune w myself n maturing
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Girl hearing this has really helped me process how I feel about being 20! I just turned 20 and I have been struggling with my personal growth as a young adult and getting out of that phase that has kept me from elevating myself. This talk has helped me realize that I need to give myself grace for my teen years and move past the things that were from my teen years. I’m learning to let go of old baggage and place myself into a new era where I embrace my growth and let my 20s be a “do over” similar to what you said about rebranding. I’m not sad of letting it go I just don’t know where to go now, like I struggle with finding my style as a young adult and things that may seem small to others like my go to everyday makeup! I’m glad you made this because it’s given me an opportunity to self reflect and move forward! thank you 🩷
Yesss I was crying with you. I’m 22 years old going through womanhood and not doing well with the thought of moving out. I plan on moving out a couple months from now I already have an apartment and I’m super excited but also scared, I’ve been with my family my whole life. Im also neurodivergent so it’s extra hard for me. I got this though! We got this!
Came on here after hearing it on Spotify and 😂 I love your “character” energy, passion and excitement you carry I LOVE. As a 21 year old also blossoming .. this video gave me the reassurance of what I am going through is normal and I am not alone. IT IS A BEAUTIFUL process. Thank you for this 🩷
thank you beautiful!!!!
first off, i wanna say thank you so much for this episode! im super grateful and proud to say that, as you are a public figure and influencer, i call you my role model:), not only because you are a bit older than me, but it’s just the way on how you embrace your energy and personality. i didn’t know how much i’ve needed this episode til now. you are literally the only podcast host that i watch😭, and i have to admit, i’ve only been watching your main channel for maybe the past year and a half now? but in that past year, you have helped me grow so much, mostly mentally. i can’t imagine how my life would be rn if i haven’t started watching you🩷 you truly are a queen, Fern! i feel so connected to you even tho idk you personally and we haven’t met in person, but i hope i get to one day! your friends (and everyone in your life) are so blessed to have you, they deserve you and you deserve them:) im so sorry for my long ass comment lols. but im thankful to call you my favorite youtuber and i love you so so much, you have no idea🩷🩷
The commitment of this woman is beyond amazing 💜
thank you!
Am so excited to grow so freaking excited to see me leaving the teen I always think about what I should do in the future what kind of woman I wanna be this video really inspired me and am not gonna think about the future anymore having fun is what I love the most I mean if you’re reading my comment plz have fun I already wasted half of my teenage now am 17 I still have more to go so let’s have fun and let the word say what it wants
Btw the quality of the video is a chef kiss 🌷
It was awesome, I'm 21 from Peru 🇵🇪 and going to start my Pre professional practices for graduating university. And it just hit me how fast and close I'm to adulthood (if I'm not there already) jaja I feel like 16 girl and I was overwhelmed. Thank you so much by talking this topic ❤️
i just turned 20, this podcast was soo needed
My day just got better 💜💜
I’m literally excited every Thursday morning (European time) to watch your podcast. Every time I feel like I’m in a bad head space you help me get over it. Can you maybe do a video about the right mindset as a content creator? Like how to believe in yourself more and keep crafting instead of looking at others. As a streamer I feel so judged by other streamers sometimes for my numbers etc. And that keeps me from staying creative.
11:50 was so spot on. i find myself constantly looking back at pictures of myself from when i was literally 14/15 and wonder why i don’t look the same. i felt so much more confident in myself then & it really makes me struggle so much more now. putting on jeans that used to fit me like a glove & now i can’t even get past my legs. my size changing has really effected me mentally and just has made me feel like i’m so big. but reality is, i’m just growing. i’m not going to stay the same little size forever. i feel like a lot of women can relate to this feeling & i hope you guys know you are not alone in it! we are all just growing and changing and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that. thank you for making that comment fern 🤍 u really made me open my eyes up a bit more
I enjoyed watching this video. This was such a great topic to discuss. This was really helpful and inspiring. 💕
Thank you so much!
I’m only 17 & watching you helps me a lot on my journey! thank u💘
I'm so glad!
Fernanda I’m so proud of you I love both channels and I wait for your episodes all the time you literally are a huge inspiration to me I’m only 14 but I’m in love with your videos and concepts I really adore you and think you’re such a pure and great person please keep being you and being amazing loving seeing you grow into this amazing lovely women you are 🫶🫶
🥹i love you sm!
I loved this sm 💕😭
Love your podcasts QUEEN😍 thank you I appreciate your existence 🥹❤️
I just want to say thank you so much and I am so grateful for you and your podcast, you have helped me grow so much and I am so proud of myself for how far I have come, your videos help me get through, and I was speaking to my therapist about you and she has recommended you to teens she talks to and you have also helped them a lot so thank u ❤️
The hair tie in the background!!!🤣😂
ughhh i know😔😂
@@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA Hello girl, I am an Arab girl. Can I translate your videos into Arabic on my UA-cam channel?
tysm for this video fernie!
I needed this! I turned 20 on august 4th. right now I feel scared bc I am not a teen anymore and I don’t know what I need to become. I liked how you made this video it really helped me feel better!!.
fernanda!! i love you so much and i will love your content no matter what type of aesthetic or era you get into❤ i will support you no matter what and i'm sure so many fans will as well. I subscribed to you because I want to grow with you and it's absolutely wonderful to see you grow as a human and as a person! pls dont care abt the comments like "why are u dressing like ur 30" like what is even so bad about the age 30 every age is beautiful and meaningful
i will continue supporting u fernanda❤
My validation shouldn't matter but I just want to put it out that I really appreciate these deep talks
This is so relevant to me rn
you are my role model fernanda
I LOVE YOU!!
Lately I’ve been thinking of this and you helped me find a way to respond. I love so much your content and you helped me thank you for posting this episode it was amazing like all the others you always give me energy to do things and I love it thank you🎀🩷
love you !!!💗
Thank u for you energy❤🌺
THANK YOU SO MUCH I💗💗
IM LITERALLY IN LOVE W U
UR AMAZING
I wanna be like you, you’re incredible 🥹
my family started hating me since I started changing and started taking care of myself and my mental health .... I used to be that quiet shy kid and always scared am 20 years old now and am not even allowed to go out of the house alone and I don't even have friend and am not allowed to contact my cousins because I don't even know them ... am always locked in four wall it's so annoying and I feel depressed.
hi fernanada!! could you make an episode on self help books? the best self improvement books to read as a female! thanks xx
Great idea!
off topic but where is the necklace from and what is it called hahha♥️♥️♥️
You’re the best ❤️🫶🏻
You're the best slayy😍
Can you make a video on becoming independent & talk about things like moving out how you figured and are figuring out adulthood and things you can do to like grow up // do big life changes tips
I love youuuuuu❤
Love your podcast! ❤😍
Yay, thank you!
we’re happy and excited to see you grow and experience life, but I think some of us are a bit worried that youll be sucked up in the influencer world and become like everybody else- which is still understandable. When brands come to you and offer you what sounds like a dream life it’s hard to turn down, but nevertheless, it’s also why a lot of UA-camrs fall off and are no longer interesting i.e. Emma Chamberlain. what’s sad is most girls throw away all of their innocence and their old life away for a life that is lonely and extremely damning to one’s soul.
best of luck!❤
Awesome podcast, so many facts. But the black hair tie on the right side laying on the carpet had me like that 😳 all the time. 😂 ADHD
omg I thought I was the only one feeling this way because everyone around me seems to be doing just perfectly and im having my 19th y/o crisis 🥲but this video made feel normal again ❤I just realized that I was a people pleaser and that everything I did or wanted to be was based on other peoples validation to the point I couldn't recognize myself and I hated me, I deleted social media and started a mental health journey, I have learned so many things about myself and growing up, im not hopeless anymore but can't wait to see what the future brings, blessing everybody.
This inspierd me❤ love you.
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we need involving from childhood to girlhood 😂😂😂
🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽love your videos 😍😍
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Fernanda, you're what every gen Z girl needs 😍😍 apart from Christ of course
hehehe i love you!!!!
@@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA Hello girl, I am an Arab girl. Can I translate your videos into Arabic on my UA-cam channel?
I don't think I can ask this really but what actually makes you a full woman (no I'm not talking about trans stuff) but like, is having my period making me a woman, or anything else I really don't know! Does it happen when you turn 18, I'm asking as a 13 year old so I know that I'm not old in the slightest but I just don't know. I was forced to grow up mature and sadly sexual so I don't know what the difference between being a woman and being a girl
hi ily :) 💝🫂
How old do hou like GROW UP LIKE GROOOOWWW UPPP
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Teenhood is overrated also putting any date on a “prime” is not cool. Everyone is on their own path and has their own timeline. I feel telling everyone the best years of their life is a certain time pushes social pressure and makes people feel worse who are having a hard time and think this is the best years and it’ll only get worse. Also feel unsuccessful and that they’re missing out. Or pressuring people to do things out of social pressure not because they actually want to.
Eh ehm
Hi, want to speak like 👍 you .
this could not have come at a better time!🤍🥹every podcast episode is so relevant, i look forward to it every week
Im 19 turning 20 this year and I feel this pressure that I have to grow up when mentally I still feel like a teenager and it's crazy because in my teen years, I couldn't wait to be 20 I thought i would have it all figured out. I am constantly changing and growing out things too. This video is so relatable :)
Same. Here I am, about to turn 23 in two weeks, trying to watch a million videos about growing up because I feel like a 13 year old who's allowed to legally drink😭
I’m so stuck on being a teenager because I never really got to live my years I was so depressed and I feel like I’m stuck living in nostalgia. I want to move forward and learn about becoming an adult and becoming stable. I want to learn to cook more, save money better, understand more about taxes, bills, laws, insurance & all that.
Your like 35. Get over it. Learn to cook and clean and be an actual person? It's not hard buddy. Fuck are you on about your still stuck? move on adlay.
When I was buying snacks for the Barbie movie three women that were in her 50s were giggling and being silly and that caught my attention. But when I saw that every single one had something pink I couldn´t stay quiet cause I´m the type of person that when I see something that is pretty to me, I say it, no matter if they are strangers. So I asked them if they were gonna see the Barbie movie and that their outfits were fire and they asked me and my friends to take a photo, I took the phone and they all said "no but let´s all take it together". Then in the movie when Barbie tells the older woman "you´re beautiful" as soon as she saw her, I cried. Cause to me that is one of the pilars of being a woman. Won´t forget that memory, it really screams sisterhood :)
Thank you fern for inspiring us in your own story to share to all of the people who watch your podcast love you from Philippines💎
The barbie movie reminded me SO MUCH of manifestelle's channel, who talks a lot about stepping into your feminine energy and being a girls' girl even with having negative interactions with other women and honestly just touches on everything you touched on in this one video. I'm 18 and it's been amazingly helpful in helping me move from my high school years (which were online for the last couple years) into getting a job and finding friends and choosing a partner all in a way that allows me to relax into my feminine energy and feel safer. I just thought I'd share since it might help some people watching, or even Fern herself, since we're all here trying to navigate this weird and beautiful thing we call being a woman and it's helped me a whole bunch. Much love, as always, loved the episode and the barbie talk and the passion in the beginning
I'm 19 going 20 all my life I've been wanting to grow up now I realise we never stop growing up, evolving, re-branding, & that it's not bad to sometimes be more "childish" or "grown up" cuz there's no way of being one way or another, I've been going through stuff on my personal friendships how I view them what people I want close etc, & I've been only watching u & wizard Liz, Tam Kaur, Alessia cuz those are the type of women I want to become & sometimes you'll find people older than u that u thought u could rely on & find out they're not the right person to get advice! To all the beautiful girls out there that feel lost no matter the age u don't have to be a certain size, have only one style have X type of personality what makes us human is the constant transformation we go through! Much love we'll find our paths❤
The way I knew this episode was inspired by the barbie movie. I absolutely loved the movie, it really hit home. It healed my inner child, I felt like I was 6 again. What an experience it was, whole time sitting in the theatre I was like "oh how I love being a woman". Also loved this episode so much, it's such an interesting topic to discuss about. Honestly it's so heartbreaking to see women bring down women, we've just got each other we gotta stick close and root for each other. I'm always a girls' girl. I love my girls so much. Everyone needs to watch this movie, I've been seeing so many people saying that the movie was antimen but they literally missed the whole point of the movie. Even though everything was so called perfect in the barbieland shit went down which proves that both of the extremes can be harmful. We women and men gotta thrive together and respect each other equally
Yes that’s what I thought 😂
Listening to this I got goosebumps and teary eyes, it´s more than okay to be sensitive overall, that´s beautiful. Loved this episode
Fern this episode was very inspirational!
I‘m a 35years content creator (have been working in the field for 12 years) and it was SO interesting to listen to someone that is in this phase right now. I think it was harder for you, as many people have those lovely carefree university years to segway into adulthood. You went directly to a dream career most dont have even after university. You have to deal with so much stress and objectification every day, still you keep being so motivated and positive. Enjoy those transition years, the 20ies will be the best years of your life.
Being 35, it is really hard being a content creator where everyone around you seems so young and perfect, but in the end no matter how old you are: Always be proud of yourself and love yourself ❤
you are so beautiful. Everything about you. Your aura is amazing and so positive and i get drawn into all your videos. Thank you so much for making these. I'm going through bettering myself and just listening to you explain life or even talk through your emotions and thoughts is so eye opening and soul opening!!! i'm graduating highschool this year and this video is what i need to hear. Just knowing you are going through the same things as us is comforting. Honestly thank you and keep your soul positive🩷
honestly loveee your podcasts SO MUCHHH !! you’re so comforting and fun to listen to💝 I think u should do a podcast that’s like “before you date” but with female friendships if that makes sense lol (?) so much love for u fern 💖💖
Was waiting for this...made my week
Love you girl and your girl squad
LOVED this episode Fern ❤ I'm 16 and I find this topic so interesting! Your take on maturing has made me more excited to get older and experience new things, while enjoying the present moment too ofc! 💕💕
Can we have a prodcast on being confident and less insecure in a relationship
✨️✨️Document your journey and document your process and be proud of it ,and not look back at any stage of your life in like kind of cringe at it cuz that was the best that you could do with the knowledge that you had at that time ✨️✨️🪻
I love 🩷 going to work on doing a rebranding. Didn't know you were so close to me 😊 I'm in Portland. I've discovered you not too long along and you encourage me to be better! Thank you, I'm excited for this journey for us 🥰 Keep inspiring Queen
omgggg you really took my podcast recommendation into consideration, i love that! i love you girl! thank you for your story! ❤
I’m turning 19 in 3 months and everything I’ve been through in the past 2 years has opened my eyes from me being wild at 17 and drinking every weekend to now being a mother and actually having to grow up I love it because now I think logically and actually think before I do anything I feel like a women I’ve changed and grown up so much already and I am so proud
incredible, truly incredible ❤❤
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I love your podcasts sm!!
I thought I was tripping at the end of the podcast version bc of the cuts. Came to UA-cam to see that it’s the same 😂😂 anyways I love you sm and who you are as a person is sooo inspiring!! I look forward to these podcasts and your videos every week!!
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS and uploading it on UA-cam. This message and how you shared it has to be heart and SEEN. You are an AMAZING girl AND woman Fernanda!
Omg I was just thinking about this! I’m 22 and realizing how my transition from girlhood to womanhood is a bit tougher than I thought but I know it’ll be worth trying to become the woman I want to be rather than not trying at all. This journey will be the best thing that’s happened to us that are trying ❤
can u please make an episode of how to manage a savings account im so confused on how this works and i want ur guidance please help and make a pod 4 it!
Can you speak about yor experience with the men plz 🙏+i really love you fernanda❤😙
Hi gurl
This was so inspiring and relatable ❤
GIRLLL HOW ARE YOU SO WISE LOLLL!!! i'm 21 myself and I feel like I couldn't have said anything better!! you touched on some topics I haven't even thought about lol! we love podcast fern
Please said Hola😂❤
There is two quotes I LOVEEE:
1. “Today is the oldest you've ever been, and the youngest you'll ever be again.” ― Eleanor Roosevelt
2. “Do not complain about growing old. It is a privilege denied to many.” - Mark Twain
As 26 y/oftentime catch myself in thinking about past and time when I was teenager. It was amazing, but now is even better - life is blessing.
Love your podcast, keep going girl!! 💗
You are an example of beauty with brain. I don't care about your IQ. You are so emotional intelligent. I grew up as an only child. I don't really have friends or family who will support me emotionally. You are my truly internet big sister. I learn a lot from you. Your family and friend would be so lucky to have you in their life. Stay healthy and happy💌🌷💕 Keep up the good work!
This is perfect!! So many of us are struggling with this especially with the abundance of advice online. Thank you for sharing your experience.
just moved into my new place, near work, post college :') change like this is so so overwhelming and I think I needed this, thank u