Without Love You Can Save The World - 'Crazy Ex-Girlfriend'

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  • Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
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    Without Love You Can Save The World
    Starring Rachel Bloom, Donna Lynne Champlin, Scott Michael Foster, Vincent Rodriguez III, Pete Gardner, Gabrielle Ruiz, Vella Lovell, Erick Lopez, David Hull
    REBECCA
    10,000 HOURS IN ANYTHING
    MAKES YOU AN EXPERT
    AND I’VE SPENT WAY MORE TIME
    THAN THAT FRETTIN’ OVER GUYS
    I’VE GOT A BFA
    AN MFA
    A PHD IN OBSESSION
    AND NOW I FIND MYSELF
    WONDERING WHY.
    REBECCA
    I COULD HAVE USED THAT TIME TO CURE LEUKEMIA
    I COULD HAVE USED THAT TIME TO CLEAN THE SEAS
    I COULD HAVE TAUGHT SOME TEENS AWARENESS OF BULIMIA
    I COULD HAVE SAVED THE PANDAS, WHALES, AND BEES
    WITHOUT LOVE YOU CAN SAVE THE WORLD
    PUT THOSE HOURS TO GOOD USE INSTEAD
    WITHOUT LOVE YOU CAN SAVE THE WORLD
    SING OUT
    BRANCH OUT
    GET OUT OF YOUR OWN HEAD!
    Hey guys!
    JOSH
    Peace!
    NATHANIEL
    Peace and love!
    REBECCA
    But not love!
    LOVE’S A REAL TIME SUCK
    IT REALLY GETS YOUR MIND STUCK
    ON THINGS THAT LATER ON YOU’LL BE LIKE
    “WHY?”
    LIKE WHEN’S HE GONNA TEXT?
    OR WHEN WILL I SEE HIM NEXT?
    REBECCA / NATHANIEL / JOSH
    THEN SUDDENLY THE LAKES HAVE
    ALL GONE DRY
    AND IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT.
    WITHOUT LOVE
    YOU CAN SAVE THE WORLD
    ALL
    SAVE THE WORLD!
    REBECCA / NATHANIEL / JOSH
    CLEAR SPACE IN YOUR BRAIN FOR BETTER THINGS--
    ALL
    BETTER THINGS!
    WITHOUT LOVE
    YOU CAN SAVE THE WORLD!
    SAVE THE WORLD!
    NOT BEING TIED TO A BED
    CAN REALLY GIVE YOU WINGS!
    PAULA
    CONSERVE YOUR MENTAL ENERGY
    VALENCIA
    TO RESEARCH CONSERVING ENERGY!
    HEATHER
    DON’T RAISE HELL
    HECTOR
    RAISE MONEY FOR LOCAL SCHOOLS.
    HEATHER
    NOW THAT YOU’VE GOT TIME
    NATHANIEL
    TAKE THE LEASH OFF YOUR HOG
    JOSH
    AND USE THAT LEASH TO WALK RESCUE DOGS!
    DARRYL
    LOVE IS BLIND--
    WHIJO
    BUT WITHOUT LOVE--
    DARRYL / WHIJO
    YOU CAN ACTUALLY HELP THE BLIND!
    ALL
    WITHOUT LOVE
    YOU CAN SAVE THE WORLD
    (SAVE THE WORLD)
    FORGET WHO YOU DID
    THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN DO
    (WHAT YOU CAN DO)
    WITHOUT LOVE
    YOU CAN SAVE THE WORLD
    (SAVE THE WORLD!)
    CHANGE DOESN’T START WITH HIM
    CHANGE STARTS WITH YOOOUUU!
    ALL (cont’d)
    IT STARTS WITH YOUOOOOOOO
    NOT WHO YOU SCREEEEEEW
    PAULA
    (NOT WHO YOU SCREW)
    ALL
    IT STARTS WITH YOUOOOOOOO
    WITHOUT LOOOOOVE!

КОМЕНТАРІ • 522

  • @starrynightlight6795
    @starrynightlight6795 4 роки тому +2006

    This song is the counter end from 'We'll never have problems again' and I love how Rebecca goes from one end of the extreme to the other before she finds the middle ground, that's an actual phenomenon with recovering from mental illness. This show is so clever!

    • @1800betterinblack
      @1800betterinblack 4 роки тому +5

      Right

    • @m0m055
      @m0m055 3 роки тому +121

      That’s also a pattern of BPD I believe, all-or-nothing type of thinking.

    • @kr_sh_
      @kr_sh_ 3 роки тому +12

      @@m0m055 yes it is!

    • @kassieschill953
      @kassieschill953 3 роки тому +61

      As someone w/ BPD who related too much to this show, that's definitely a struggle! It's incredible the show portrayed all of these feelings so well.

    • @alineisnotcrazy1415
      @alineisnotcrazy1415 3 роки тому +6

      Lol "recovering". That's just a ride in the bpd rollercoaster.

  • @RandomBrian
    @RandomBrian 6 років тому +4014

    this song has inspired me to end my happy, stable 2 year relationship in order to achieve my true goal in life: sleeping

    • @Thunder_Jake
      @Thunder_Jake 6 років тому +57

      scream bitch
      Thats tue spirit :3
      (Nice joke i pissed a little)

    • @ablurida
      @ablurida 5 років тому +39

      did he/she snore? steal the blankets? move around a lot? All of it at once? Dunno just curious.

    • @JavierPerez-cx4jw
      @JavierPerez-cx4jw 5 років тому +72

      ablurida Nope the sex was just too good. No one got any sleep

    • @lauramcorbin278
      @lauramcorbin278 4 роки тому +1

      Lolol seriously!!!

    • @Sarah-th9cc
      @Sarah-th9cc 4 роки тому

      lol

  • @MrsLensherrr
    @MrsLensherrr 4 роки тому +285

    it's kinda adorable how there's everyone and then there's nathaniel, tall as fucking sequoia

  • @rachelanderson7841
    @rachelanderson7841 6 років тому +2647

    I love that Valencia caught the bouquet (because she was so eager to get married in season 1) and then callously threw it to the ground. 10/10

    • @angeliquemariel2916
      @angeliquemariel2916 4 роки тому +44

      YESSS I LOVE THAT SO MUCH AND HER HIGH KICK AT 2:54 IS SO FREAKING AMAZING, GABRIELLE SLAYS EVERYTHING SHE DOES!!!!😃😃😃❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏

    • @nawaal164
      @nawaal164 3 роки тому +7

      How does it feel having the same name as a genius

    • @janedoex1398
      @janedoex1398 2 роки тому

      Well i hate to tell you BPD is a life long condition, many , many, many people commit suicide after 2 or 3 decades because therapists won't take them , they sucessfully self diagnosed (9/9) a decade before but read the HATEFILLED COMMENTS AND DECIDE TO NEVER SEEK HELP UNTIL THEY CUT THEIR THROATS AND JUMP FROM A 20 STORE BUILDING. ( THR CUTTING IS SO THEY CAN'T SCREAM AND THE BLOOD LOSS WILL MAYBE ENOUGH TO MAKE THEM NOT NOTICE THE IMPACT.) I am sorry R. I should have seen the signs, sitting across from you but I only knew you 2 weeks! I am still so so so sorry. I'll be there if you know what i mean. It's OUR day now

    • @leftylizard9085
      @leftylizard9085 2 роки тому +5

      Unfortunately that is just in Rebecca's mental musical theater number. In reality, even by the end of season 4 Valencia is still obsessed with getting married, but by that point to her girlfriend Beth instead of Josh

  • @arjc5714
    @arjc5714 6 років тому +2540

    This song has a great idea, but as an aromantic person, lemme tell you that I mostly spend my unused relationship energy on binging shows and excessive sleeping.

  • @amythyst9775
    @amythyst9775 4 роки тому +816

    Broke up with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years this week because I felt I would spend my whole life taking care of him instead of working in what I'm most passionate about.
    This song is surprisingly fitting.

    • @Sarah-th9cc
      @Sarah-th9cc 4 роки тому +6

      omg

    • @matthiasschuster9505
      @matthiasschuster9505 3 роки тому +1

      thank him for that

    • @Kris_AB
      @Kris_AB Рік тому +4

      Two years later, how're things going/how has that decision turned out? Update? 😁

    • @amythyst9775
      @amythyst9775 Рік тому +33

      @@Kris_AB I immediately felt very free and very happy. I then took care of my mom through sickness, bought a paddle board and went on the river every week over the summer, and reconnected with family.
      I'm slowing down and am ready to date again, but it's hard. I learned how to run, and I learned how to protect and care for myself. Now I have to learn how to love, how to work through conflict, and how to discern who will be a good partner through it all.
      He is engaged now, and I'm happy for him. They communicate better than we ever did, and he has grown enough for me to wish him well (not in the kind of ways that I'd want him back though).

    • @rileyhopkins9940
      @rileyhopkins9940 Рік тому +1

      ​@@amythyst9775This is strange, but I'm so proud of you.

  • @marshmallowPillows
    @marshmallowPillows 4 роки тому +455

    I'm mad at how 90% of these songs seem to be a call out to me specifically.

  • @damianporter942
    @damianporter942 6 років тому +1776

    "it's an asexual utopia" IM ABSOLUTELY HOLLERING

    • @misfittoys5873
      @misfittoys5873 5 років тому +122

      Yeah that line is...misonformed

    • @t.mutabilis2497
      @t.mutabilis2497 5 років тому +56

      @@misfittoys5873 i thought i was the only one bothered by it.

    • @misfittoys5873
      @misfittoys5873 5 років тому +84

      It's just such a tone deaf line and a complete misunderstanding of what asexuality is in a way that's so offensively dismissive. It's a shame cause crazy ex girlfriend was usually very good at subverting stereotypes

    • @if3359
      @if3359 5 років тому +218

      Remember the songs are in Rebecca's mind, it's not the utopia of asexuals but Rebecca picturing giving up sexuality in a utopic way. It shows her misunderstanding what asexuality is, like she also misunderstood her "love triangle" situation and polyamorous relationships. The lines aren't meant to be taken as true/representative of the show's/creators opinions.

    • @amosbehavedcalm
      @amosbehavedcalm 5 років тому +42

      @@if3359 yeah but that one was obvious, this one is kind of dangerous

  • @missa5800
    @missa5800 6 років тому +941

    Nathaniel is so tall. It looks like he's babysitting Rebecca and Josh when they're dancing together , makes me laugh 😁

    • @AlexTheCrayChick
      @AlexTheCrayChick 6 років тому +59

      STOP I CAN’T UNSEE THIS

    • @nekkyharker
      @nekkyharker 6 років тому +31

      He's so stiff, it's hilarious!

    • @miriammiciano8506
      @miriammiciano8506 6 років тому +54

      LIKE A SEQUIOA

    • @tiamatbethlem8747
      @tiamatbethlem8747 5 років тому +6

      you monster that is both too cute and too hilarious

    • @ablurida
      @ablurida 5 років тому +25

      @@nekkyharker he's actually not that stiff for a tall, lean man. Could be way worse. But can we talk about the angle at 2:44 ? His chest looks gigantic for his head.

  • @taliaricher710
    @taliaricher710 4 роки тому +462

    "not being tied to a bed can really give you wings" is going on my list of lines i didn't quite get the first time

    • @pineappleprism1852
      @pineappleprism1852 4 роки тому +3

      Same 😂

    • @daisyterry4408
      @daisyterry4408 3 роки тому +5

      OH SHIT I JUST GOT IT--

    • @oyku3878
      @oyku3878 3 роки тому

      @@daisyterry4408 I dont get it pls xpln

    • @daisyterry4408
      @daisyterry4408 3 роки тому +26

      @@oyku3878 It's mentioned in the show that Rebecca is pretty into BDSM, so the 'tied to a bed' thing isn't only metaphorical.

  • @avafurgele7899
    @avafurgele7899 5 років тому +274

    _but guys she actually did it. she spent a year for herself and focusing on her passion, music!_

  • @baudelaire2218
    @baudelaire2218 6 років тому +1246

    As a person who constantly has a crush on somebody and gets tired of it sometimes I LOVE THIS

    • @camrae4309
      @camrae4309 4 роки тому +14

      Tina Yael Severinovna M. It’s really more frustrating and time consuming than that “butterfly feelings” that‘ constantly stated from having a crush

    • @Keysi_6
      @Keysi_6 3 роки тому +9

      Me too...nut I dont know why...I mean I think maybe I want somome to be happy witj even if I am getting happy alone since I stay away from relationships but now every month I have a crush and say no stop and then fall for another man and make sceenarios so I dont focus on my work and get bad grades

  • @misfittoys5873
    @misfittoys5873 5 років тому +283

    Vincent Rodriguez is such a joyful performer, whatever he does as as Josh he just looks thrilled to be there.

    • @angeliquemariel2916
      @angeliquemariel2916 4 роки тому +11

      That's so true she's so handsome and charming!!

    • @jazmindodds
      @jazmindodds 3 роки тому +32

      I read an interview about how overjoyed he was when he got the part, being expected to be sidelined as an Asian American actor. He probably is genuinely ecstatic!

  • @margarida5571
    @margarida5571 6 років тому +759

    THEN SUDDENLY THE LAKES HAVE ALL GONE DRY AND ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!

  • @jp9707
    @jp9707 5 років тому +506

    "Love is blind,
    But without love,
    You can actually help the blind!"
    Wonderful :D

  • @warwickwagner4797
    @warwickwagner4797 5 років тому +215

    It just shows how much Valencia has changed that when all the couples were being shown (Rebecca and Nathaniel, Darryl and White Josh, Heather and Hector) and Valencia and Josh were shown together, I legitimately wondered what Valencia and Josh were doing together.

    • @angeliquemariel2916
      @angeliquemariel2916 4 роки тому +15

      Me too it was so weird because they dated for so long and then broke up...

  • @UwU-vo3gw
    @UwU-vo3gw 3 роки тому +93

    as a lazy aromantic this song always makes me laugh, because that's what everyone think's when they say they wish they were aromantic, and people thinking I do productive things and even important things is so funny
    (also, this is my favorite song)

  • @evanwestfal
    @evanwestfal 6 років тому +333

    Okay, how about Donna's belt/riff at the end. Amazing

    • @erincady282
      @erincady282 6 років тому +14

      i was almost too distracted by heather twirling but yes

  • @nikkie9640
    @nikkie9640 5 років тому +147

    Does anyone else think Nathaniel is so cute in this video?? idk why but seeing him this wholesome is really adorable to me 🥰

    • @bomishinga
      @bomishinga 3 роки тому +11

      Nathaniel is cute in every video

    • @eloramolano8038
      @eloramolano8038 3 роки тому +5

      I see you not listening to Rachel Blooms instructional video 👀

    • @zagorskaewelina
      @zagorskaewelina 2 роки тому +3

      So cute and I love the way he dances with Rachel :) I love such tall and lean man, my husband is like this

    • @ashleycampailla
      @ashleycampailla 2 роки тому +3

      Nathaniel is beautiful in everything he does.

  • @cueintensemusic3403
    @cueintensemusic3403 6 років тому +177

    "Forget who you did think about what you can do" 😂 damn that line is so true

  • @Thunder_Jake
    @Thunder_Jake 6 років тому +595

    Pretty sure rebecca is missing the point again but i cant deny how awesome this song is

    • @jp9707
      @jp9707 5 років тому +125

      Yeah, she's done her thing of taking a good message, then obsessively fixating on it and taking it to an unhealthy extreme... BUT, it's still a fairly positive message at its heart...
      The better, non-extreme version would be, rather than saying (paraphrased) "love is always a waste of time and energy", saying "obsessive love, especially when unrequited, is a waste of time and energy; but if you should happen across love, it can be a nice thing to nurture! Don't feel like you can only be happy in a relationship; spend time nurturing yourself and your hobbies instead of obsessively trying to find someone to be with"
      ... my version's a lot longer and not as catchy, though....

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 5 років тому +1

      @@jp9707 Love your comment!

    • @gensai93
      @gensai93 5 років тому +13

      @@jp9707 You basically just summarized the last episode, I'm going to miss this show .

    • @imheretofindasmr8990
      @imheretofindasmr8990 5 років тому +3

      @@jp9707 Actually I agree more with original lol

    • @1800betterinblack
      @1800betterinblack 4 роки тому +7

      lol i love that she misses the points because it's so realistic

  • @nubisor5042
    @nubisor5042 6 років тому +106

    This may be the only fiction on TV right now that actually benefits the well-being of its viewers.

  • @beckhampang191
    @beckhampang191 6 років тому +277

    @1:47 look at Scott...
    Does this song have a chereography or was it freestyle.

    • @nyxcal
      @nyxcal 4 роки тому +24

      Lmao never saw that

    • @danielaguerrerocardenas1277
      @danielaguerrerocardenas1277 4 роки тому +17

      i've played this video a thousand times and i never saw that till i read your comment lmao

    • @CocoTheCupcake
      @CocoTheCupcake 4 роки тому +12

      I am actually crying, thanks for noticing because I would have missed it

    • @UltimateDorito
      @UltimateDorito 4 роки тому +11

      Wtf that's hilarious

    • @taliaricher710
      @taliaricher710 3 роки тому +12

      hes vibing leave him alone lmao

  • @incanusolorin2607
    @incanusolorin2607 3 роки тому +23

    With all the time I spent watching CXG music videos I could definitely have cured leukemia, cleaned the seas, taught kids about bulimia and saved the pandas, whales and bees.

  • @zippyk8876
    @zippyk8876 6 років тому +560

    Why does this sound like one of those save the children ads that have a lot of famous singers

    • @Etianen7
      @Etianen7 6 років тому +80

      on purpose

    • @MattB0610
      @MattB0610 6 років тому +37

      Yeah I think that’s what they’re getting at

    • @ablurida
      @ablurida 4 роки тому +4

      more like Hair in my opinon

    • @margaritam.9118
      @margaritam.9118 4 роки тому +14

      None, it’s Hairspray “Without Love” song parody :D

    • @emilybrown148
      @emilybrown148 4 роки тому +4

      Margarita M. No, this is a direct parody of the song “We Are the World”

  • @elaynevivi
    @elaynevivi 6 років тому +608

    I feel sad bc I am without a love and not saving the planet also

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 6 років тому +7

      Elayne Oliveira SAME
      Let us try to change the latter, man

    • @e.l.lucychiron
      @e.l.lucychiron 6 років тому +5

      Real shit . 😂

    • @seesawonezerotwosixonenine7154
      @seesawonezerotwosixonenine7154 6 років тому +14

      Elayne Oliveira When this came on I felt kinda bad cause I've been without love for 19 years and I've ended up here watching this show at 4am

    • @aerielblair8333
      @aerielblair8333 6 років тому

      @@seesawonezerotwosixonenine7154 19 years?? :(

    • @maliai1278
      @maliai1278 5 років тому

      Same.

  • @glorialoreto
    @glorialoreto 5 років тому +42

    "Change doesn't starts with him, change stars with you"
    My mantra... Loves this song

  • @TheSomeawesome
    @TheSomeawesome 6 років тому +60

    The formation everyone made at the end had me weeping

    • @sativumcoalho3920
      @sativumcoalho3920 6 років тому +1

      The Someawesome I loved that, it was a great special touch of finesse!

  • @milesallen6827
    @milesallen6827 6 років тому +130

    low key expected Greg to be there...

    • @naceiba
      @naceiba 6 років тому +7

      Miles Allen well, technically his back was in the episode :v

  • @isabelantolin8339
    @isabelantolin8339 4 роки тому +28

    I love how she says: why?
    Can't explain it

    • @UltimateDorito
      @UltimateDorito 4 роки тому +3

      Because she says it like Bob Dylan and it's hilarious

  • @gisele3468
    @gisele3468 6 років тому +192

    The 100th song!!! Congratulations, guys. it's utterly BRILLIANT!!!! I'm not going to say my love for the show grows everyday, because I don't want the lakes to dry out or anything like that.

  • @ThatWouldBeCareless
    @ThatWouldBeCareless 4 роки тому +19

    I get so much extra joy from watching Donna Lynne dancing in group numbers. She's just a really fucking great dancer.

  • @diamantXdrache
    @diamantXdrache 6 років тому +108

    Change doesn't start with U. It starts ith C.

  • @Amberk1985
    @Amberk1985 3 роки тому +41

    I love this song. I rewatched this series in pandemic. This is after a year of intense therapy and self work. I see it completely differently now. This show is so how I was. I never noticed.

  • @TheWanderingLPer
    @TheWanderingLPer 3 роки тому +15

    This song is so telling about what Rebecca thinks love is lmao
    The song props itself up as being about love, but 90% of the lyrics are actually about sex, which really goes to show that Rebecca couldn't possibly decouple the two in her mind.

    • @hannalowercase5928
      @hannalowercase5928 2 роки тому +7

      that also would explain better the "asexual utopia", when in reality that would mean no sexual attraction, not romantic love

  • @Andi_andI
    @Andi_andI 4 роки тому +27

    I got dumped 2 weeks ago by the love of my life and ever since then I've been listening to this song at least once a day. It cheers me up and is so empowering. Thanks Rachel Bloom.

    • @fureyize
      @fureyize 4 роки тому +9

      If he/she dumped you, he/she is not the love of your life.

    • @Andi_andI
      @Andi_andI 4 роки тому +3

      @@fureyize You're right. Thank you.

  • @Greymetaphor
    @Greymetaphor 6 років тому +321

    When will those crossed-out heart shirts be available for sale? I'd buy them.

    • @Charharr
      @Charharr 6 років тому +6

      Just ordered mine :D

    • @daveincognito
      @daveincognito 6 років тому +5

      I'm sorely tempted by that and one other shirt, but people might not take it the right way if I wore either of them.

    • @weesalikesmilktea4829
      @weesalikesmilktea4829 5 років тому +2

      @@daveincognito I'm very interested in what the one other shirt is

    • @Hermititis
      @Hermititis 5 років тому +1

      @@weesalikesmilktea4829 maybe Darryl's hoodie version?

  • @cayennepepah
    @cayennepepah 6 років тому +216

    Reminds me of Without Love from Hairspray

    • @Miyako365
      @Miyako365 6 років тому +4

      Yenny Lestari so it wasn't just me! good 2 know lol good 2 know.

    • @daniellepereira4569
      @daniellepereira4569 6 років тому +1

      yes!!!!!

    • @Charharr
      @Charharr 6 років тому +25

      It's also giving off a very hippie vibe, like Hair (the musical).

    • @Ryan4891s
      @Ryan4891s 6 років тому +16

      YUP! It's hair meets hairspray! hhahaha

    • @celia9717
      @celia9717 5 років тому +7

      They did it on purpose, as "Let's have intercourse" sounds like "Thinking out loud" by Ed Sheeran

  • @brianvaira486
    @brianvaira486 6 років тому +35

    The song writers of this show are geniuses. 101 amazing songs.

  • @nataliavillalobos2130
    @nataliavillalobos2130 6 років тому +174

    This is so great. And Donna Lynne at the end, perfection.

  • @fairytailgirl123
    @fairytailgirl123 6 років тому +100

    Best reason to be single
    Thanks Rachel

  • @gregolas5873
    @gregolas5873 5 років тому +29

    I think this is my favorite song from the whole show. Absolutely legendary. Pure joy. Utter silliness. So. Much. Talent.

  • @Paraplegicoctopus-jh3mn
    @Paraplegicoctopus-jh3mn 5 років тому +9

    ''Love is blind but without love, you can actually help the blind''!! Lol, gold!

  •  6 років тому +83

    i'm gonna blast this song until i eventually stop being into my crush

  • @katara5083
    @katara5083 5 років тому +8

    "change starts with you... not who you screw" amazing philosophy

  • @felixborreguero1866
    @felixborreguero1866 6 років тому +69

    Honestly, I had pretty high expectations for the 100th song, and this does not disappoint. GREAT job! and congrats!

  • @melcherrie
    @melcherrie 6 років тому +21

    Why is my fave part of this video Rachel and Nathaniel failing to hold hands at 1:42

    • @noracozadd6929
      @noracozadd6929 6 років тому +12

      My fav part is at 1:47, nathaniel's solo dance :D

    • @BernardoPatino
      @BernardoPatino 5 років тому +3

      team Nathaniel forever idgaf

  • @gamestyle2054
    @gamestyle2054 6 років тому +26

    Imagine just taking a walk in the park while they’re filming this.

  • @cady7312
    @cady7312 2 роки тому +7

    As an ace/aro person I approve this message

  • @vixxcelacea2778
    @vixxcelacea2778 4 роки тому +7

    I love that she had so many revelations till she hit a stable realistic one. It shows very well how people go through stages of believing things and very often when we understand our current beliefs aren't ideal, we often go all the way the other direction, which is actually just black and white thinking.
    It's very easy to hear something as a suggestion of change and try to do everything opposite of what you were doing.
    It also shows the extremes people like Rebecca have to process to try to find answers.

  • @JarOfHeat100
    @JarOfHeat100 2 роки тому +33

    let me tell you tht the first time i heard this song i didn't know i was asexual (look guys it's hard to prove a negative) and i was like: damn the song is right, why do people waste so much time? like why for you guys is so hard to stop focusing on finding a relationship??!! finally a song that gets it.
    the irony of watching this without realizing people feel sexual attraction. i'm still mad at myself: why didn't i get it that i was asexual hearing this??! why?!

    • @Alicia-zf3nq
      @Alicia-zf3nq 2 роки тому +6

      Same here! I spent all my time in high school wondering why others wasted their time being obsessed about relationships instead of studying like me. Turns out I'm aromantic and asexual and didn't realise others weren't consciously choosing to experience romantic and sexual attraction.
      By the way, happy Ace Week!

  • @raininess
    @raininess 6 років тому +12

    Nathaniel's eyebrows at 1:54 X'D That gets me every time.

  • @roseeskew551
    @roseeskew551 4 роки тому +10

    "Not being tied to a bed can really give you wings" don't call me out like this lol

  • @kittyquiqui
    @kittyquiqui 6 років тому +11

    'Without Love- Hairspray' + 'Heal the World- Michael Jackson' ❤️🙅🏻‍♀️ lol

  • @quanguc6332
    @quanguc6332 6 років тому +4

    love is blind but without love you can save the blind. This show never stops getting better!!!!

  • @SHyperice
    @SHyperice 2 роки тому +4

    love how this has been my anthem in and out for the last years

  • @EmakunMisha
    @EmakunMisha 2 роки тому +3

    I cant stop singing this song.
    Peace... peace and love... but not love xD

  • @anleg98
    @anleg98 6 років тому +6

    i just went thru yet another breakup and this is the only thing cheering me up right now thanks i guess

  • @CagedKittyFriends7
    @CagedKittyFriends7 6 років тому +16

    Why does this show put out the songs when I'm drunk and stuck in the feels relevant to the songs? This is too real

  • @WiiAsian
    @WiiAsian 2 роки тому +3

    "Change doesn't start with him - change starts with you!" really is what I need to hear when I get too dependent on my husband. lol

  • @imheretofindasmr8990
    @imheretofindasmr8990 4 роки тому +7

    I must confess this to somebody
    I was very much like Rebecca, a really obsessed ex girlfriend who's doing real crazy shit (like, someone could call the police) to get her lover back and suffered from depression also and really almost everything in this show, especially the most unbelievable shit was like a nostalgia for me. Now it's been 5 years since I broke up with this love of mine and I still love her, and if I had a chance to be with her by suddenly moving to other town, I guess I'd do it haha. BUT I'm also a very passionate scientist and I have my own dreams and goals about "saving the world" and making it a better place with the power of science. And THIS SONG literally helped me so much through my life because for me it's not funny or stupid or hyperbolised. For me it's ACTUALLY a choice between "obsessive love" and "saving the world" and every time I think of this unhappy love and spend my time on this, I'm stealing the time I could be studying, volunteering, researching and thinking about other people and about nature. So just thank you, Rachel, for this :)

  • @gregorianallanheavans8095
    @gregorianallanheavans8095 2 роки тому +2

    Paula's Husband deserved to be in here singing along. It's the only couple not entirely featured. I wanted to see him dancing hahaha

  • @TigerPrawn_
    @TigerPrawn_ 6 років тому +2

    I love the way Valencia sings "To research conserving energy" at 2:17

    • @angeliquemariel2916
      @angeliquemariel2916 4 роки тому

      ME TOO I LOVE HER VOICE SO MUCH!!!!❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😃😃😃😃

  • @atypicalwallflower5934
    @atypicalwallflower5934 Рік тому +2

    Listening to this on Valentine’s Day cause it’s very helpful lol. Rebecca is the most relatable character I’ve ever seen and this show is incredibly well done representation of BPD/mental illness and mixing that all in with musical theatre is amazing it’s an absolute masterpiece❤️

  • @musicaltheatrelover4717
    @musicaltheatrelover4717 4 роки тому +5

    The Video: “Change starts with youuuu...”
    Me: “C-H-A-N-G-E... Nevermind.”

  • @jasobres
    @jasobres 6 років тому +370

    Is it true that this is CXG's 100th musical number?

    • @SebiTheHunter
      @SebiTheHunter 6 років тому +20

      Yup

    • @crowrao2924
      @crowrao2924 6 років тому +3

      Well that's what they said!

    • @mymistrust
      @mymistrust 6 років тому +30

      Whoever gave this comment its 101st like, take it back, we had a perfect number.

    • @imaguy5112
      @imaguy5112 6 років тому +23

      Yes, this is why all the cast is in this musical number 🙂

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 6 років тому +3

      Xavier Vids Too late, man :(

  • @emilbrain121
    @emilbrain121 3 роки тому +1

    As an aro in volunteer science stuff..
    Thx, I'm working on it

  • @comsatteur6893
    @comsatteur6893 6 років тому +22

    My being single is now validated thx

  • @pacificostudios
    @pacificostudios 2 роки тому +1

    Rebecca's "Crazy Eyes" mania is on full display here, again. It is so characteristic of Rebecca. First she takes a BPD approach to being in love, and then she takes a BPD approach to rejecting love.

  • @MusicMeg2012
    @MusicMeg2012 6 років тому +7

    My favorite ensemble number so far! This cast is saving my world

  • @marianatashasilva
    @marianatashasilva 3 роки тому +4

    is it bad if i want to get a tattoo of the crossed heart because im in that exact place 🥺💖
    such a good show 🙏🏼

  • @TheCoreClause
    @TheCoreClause 6 років тому +13

    I never get tired of hearing new material, Thank you Crazy Ex Girlfriend Team

  • @seleniummoon
    @seleniummoon 6 років тому +24

    What if my love for this show is eating up all my time?

    • @Hermititis
      @Hermititis 5 років тому +8

      Don't think about it too hard (too, too hard).

  • @alexissey4023
    @alexissey4023 2 роки тому +1

    I feel so stupid, I knew this, I’ve FELT and THOUGHT this before, but it’s like I forgot all about that. I’m so glad I came across this right now again, I needed this.

  • @sebastiancaro6296
    @sebastiancaro6296 6 років тому +15

    Where's Rachel Bloom's Nobel prize??

  • @TigerPrawn_
    @TigerPrawn_ 6 років тому +6

    This. Is. Amazing. Actually nearly all crazy ex girlfriend songs have such beautiful or gutsy melodies that are amazing and could be really classic songs if it weren't for the fact that the lyrics are hilarious! Favourite song this season I think. ♥

  • @samanthabarth5537
    @samanthabarth5537 5 років тому +3

    it's been over a year and it just hit me that that this reminds me of disney's friends for change

  • @juliawatkins7974
    @juliawatkins7974 4 роки тому +4

    as an ace i like this

  • @willemijnmadeleine7164
    @willemijnmadeleine7164 Рік тому +1

    Together with No one else is singing my song my favourite comfort songs of the show ❤

  • @alinecarvalho3615
    @alinecarvalho3615 6 років тому +8

    Amei essa música!! Amo essa série!! 😍😂😍😂

  • @majshkdt
    @majshkdt 4 роки тому +1

    3:03 Paula is everything lol

  • @camilacastillo7855
    @camilacastillo7855 2 роки тому +1

    This perspective is why i love Being Ace

  • @JosefTrejbal
    @JosefTrejbal 6 років тому +114

    Yay for Asexual/Aromantic shout out. :) Well, sort of, considering this is just a Rebecca's POV song.

  • @carolinelutz397
    @carolinelutz397 4 роки тому +2

    2:28 the only duo of WJ and Darryl. Let's appreciate

  • @mariantoniameschino4141
    @mariantoniameschino4141 2 роки тому +2

    I'd buy those t-shirt.

  • @kevinloffler7441
    @kevinloffler7441 4 роки тому +1

    that reminds me so much of the song "once more of feeling" from BUFFY where tara sang for willow (the setup espec)

  • @JonathanB824
    @JonathanB824 4 роки тому +6

    as an aromantic (and borderline) person, i actually agree with the message of this song. besides there are other kinds of love that are less time consuming, that are just as, if not more fulfilling than the romance kind

  • @vivianvasquez9355
    @vivianvasquez9355 6 років тому +6

    THIS IS TRUE THOUGH.

  • @katyh852
    @katyh852 6 років тому +2

    I appreciate Paula's hairbands being the same colour as the heart on their shirts

  • @elizabethbrown2705
    @elizabethbrown2705 5 років тому +4

    I should listen to this every day until I learn to stop wasting time waiting on guys

  • @boulettebickyfish
    @boulettebickyfish 3 роки тому

    I adore how this song sounds so romantic and then has these lyrics. I know it’s the whole point but it’s truly brilliant, and actually kinda moving

  • @alfjgist
    @alfjgist 4 місяці тому

    This song is absolute genius because when you stop and think about it for five minutes, it really makes sense but at the same time, it doesn’t make sense at all

  • @Saltywinterchild
    @Saltywinterchild 3 роки тому +1

    Doctor Damn!!

  • @mymistrust
    @mymistrust 6 років тому +1

    This show better have 10,000 hours of extras on their DVDs.

  • @DreamnEnjoy
    @DreamnEnjoy 3 роки тому +1

    I just realized I get some Aquarius vibes from the musical Hair in this video. It only took me a bajillion replays but here we are.

  • @alexandrahernandez2941
    @alexandrahernandez2941 Рік тому +1

    This is my aromantic anthem ☺️

  • @abcjme
    @abcjme 6 років тому +1

    This one's especially deep. Bravo. Seriously, bravo.

  • @xtino
    @xtino 6 років тому +80

    I love this song!
    I still really want Rebecca and Nathaniel to be endgame!

    • @fruitsbasketforlife4362
      @fruitsbasketforlife4362 6 років тому +1

      InfiniteWolf yup. Same...but I’m not holding my breath. lmao

    • @xtino
      @xtino 6 років тому +1

      ive gotten my hopes wwaayy too high lol

    • @RebeckyMiguel
      @RebeckyMiguel 6 років тому +15

      I'm glad they had her recognise the behaviours so it didn't become completely impossible - she hasn't closed that door. I know the whole point of the show is that we shouldn't be "shipping" people, but I do love that Nathaniel is smart and appreciates the attributes her BPD gives her, because she's still going to be the same person in the long run, she's just learning to process and manage better. With MH - and all relationships of course - you need people who love who you are when you're on top form, but are also able to handle when you're not, and Nathaniel seems like in the long run he has the potential for that, especially if they both communicated openly and worked together to find a healthy balance. Nathaniel also has his own "underlying issues to address" with regard to relationships and self-image/worth - I wonder if some of why he was so okay with Rebecca's obsessiveness is that he hasn't ever had that level of affection/appreciation from his parents etc.? He made it clear that their relationship wasn't how he normally felt/acted around people he dated. I wonder if we'll see Dr. Akopian back (I hope so!)

    • @xtino
      @xtino 6 років тому

      i couldn't of said it better

    • @aaronmichael1201
      @aaronmichael1201 6 років тому +6

      I wanted to be endgame until the season finale. He's just as toxic for her as Josh was, just in a very different way. He completely enables her in every negative, toxic way, despite loving her very much.

  • @pippylunalove
    @pippylunalove 6 років тому +135

    It's more of an aromatic utopia but that's just me nitpicking

    • @ChrisT-uj4uy
      @ChrisT-uj4uy 3 роки тому +18

      I think you mean *aromantic, but that's just me nitpicking

    • @alicesophie123
      @alicesophie123 3 роки тому +9

      @@ChrisT-uj4uy nah it just smells really good!

  • @KalokerinesDiakopes1
    @KalokerinesDiakopes1 4 роки тому +1

    Nathaniel's smile is everything!