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Thanks for your honesty and valuable information Calvin, rather send you money for the Intel than a "scammer", keep up the good work you're helping alot of vulnerable guys!
Asked a Filipina if she had kids and she said "NO". One day I was video chatting with her and some little boy called her Momma from off screen. I said to her that she told me she had no kids. She said her best friend died of cancer and that she was the God Mother and wound up with her friends 2 kids. Sounded like BS so I told her that when I asked if she had kids, that included adopted or foster kids. I cut it off with her because that's a sign of dishonesty to me.
A friend of mine was chatting with a much younger Filipina, she was 20 and VERY beautiful, and he was 50 and not very nice to look at, and she and her family were all for him coming there and marrying her, He owned a good company and he had a lot of money. I tried telling him that she was just using him for his money and to legally get over here to the states because he told me she was so excited about becoming a U.S. citizen. I tried so hard to get him to wake up and see what was really going on, but she had him hooked! He had visited her 3 or 4 times and he believed everything she said. Well, he married her and brought her to the U.S. and she got pregnant the first month, and about a year passed and he caught her with a guy her age, and well, he was now not only married to her but now had a child with her. So about 2 years in she divorced him and wanted the house in Florida, alimony, and child support. And she got all 3. She used him to become a U.S. citizen, then stayed with him long enough to have a child and then take him for every dime she could get. I felt kinda bad for him, but I tried to warn him and he wouldn't listen. You're 100% right, If they talk a lot about wanting to come to the U.S., men better through them back and find a better one because they're not seeing them as a husband, they're seeing them as a green card.
One foreigner that I met came to my house here in the Philippines and told me he allows his girlfriend to visit her ex, another foreigner, to spend the day with his kids. I looked at him like he had two heads and told him that he was crazy to which he responded that he trusts her. The next day he told me she didn't come back until late, though she left in the morning. This same guy then tells me that he used her phone to text the guy, pretending that he was the girl, making sexual comments, to which the ex said yes, let's do that. Still this guy would allow her to go visit him. You can't fix stupid!
You are the best channel by far about Filipinas and Philippines. Everything you say is right in with none of the “everyone is so perfect here” nonsense of most of the other bloggers.
Everything that Sunshine has said is correct 100%. I think there is 1 or 2 questions missing. Have you been married before? Also get proof of no marriage: A Certificate of No Marriage Record (CENOMAR). If you get caught with a married woman it is a prison sentence or her partner may bribe you for money. If they say that they have been to university get them to show you certificates. I dated a filipina who could only show me pictures of her in a graduation outfit and could never find the certificate. The university closed down so she could not get a duplicate. Face time who you are talking to for verification. Never send money until you have visited and confirmed terms. Let her know that you will support her but you will not be supporting her family. Note: Filipinas are very family orientated if she cares about you she will agree but if she gets angry (Tampo) then as Sunshine says just let her go.
Always good nuggets of info Mr Nitty Gritty Man. Really enjoy your gems. You the only one giving boots on the ground sound inside information. Don't stop what you do.
Bro I'm on your 2nd video and in the last week out of all the you tube posts I've been viewing this has been the best straight up no nonsense one I've seen. Thank you
Thanks brother. I only want to be useful and talk to regular people like myself. There’s enough fluff on UA-cam! I appreciate you stopping by. Your intentions are wonderful. We could sure use another good guy over here. Take care and Merry Christmas!
My father lived in Davao for 15yrs he was boots on the ground. Unfortunately he passed in early 2020 buried in a Davao cemetery. Thanks for your videos. I'm moving out there in two years when I turn 62 hope to see you somewhere
Recently discovered your channel. What a revelation. Enjoy your down-to-earth, no nonsense approach. So refreshing to get your “boots on the ground” perspective compared to the stale Dumaguete and Cebu UA-cam expats who pretend to be experts and gurus but know little about the reality of day-to-day life of the average Filipino. You deserve a PhD in common sense for dispensing such valuable advice. Some ideas for future video topics: - Your workout routine - Online Dating site reviews based on you experiences - interviews with ordinary Filipinos/Filipinas
1. How old are you ?(your real age) 2. Are you a virgin/ or a single mother? 3. Do you want a visa/ green card 4. Have you dated a foreigner before 5. How many men are you chatting with online
I’m a little older than you Calvin When I was in my 30s I met a lady in here 20s with a 4 yr old girl . I got together with her and help raise her daughter the girl is 40 today. What I didn’t realize at the time you can never be that child father . If I know this back then I would never got together with her mother . And look for someone with no kids. I do see girl from time to time . At the end of the day you are like any joe out there.
You’re absolutely right and one thing that I tell people about the Philippines is that appreciation and consideration are two things lacking in the culture. Thanks for stopping by today.
As someone who was considered a "foreigner" there living it up in my college years. Like, where were these questions 5 years ago!? Lmao. Idk why UA-cam randomly recommended this video but wow, the memories n life lessons are REAL. I ain't gonna throw shade on anyone but all of your examples happened to me in some way or another. Literally ALL of them, and then some! Lol, if you're out there, be safe!
I've been working on getting there for 7 years now. Built a 2 story unique home, a very popular tree house, a large floating cottage, 3 fishing boats 2 with motors, a cabin in the mountains, we raise pigs, tobacco, goats ,and have the FAMILY'S LOVE COUNTRY STORE AND BOTIQUE. 😀. When I get there after the pandemic is over it will be just a start.my Filipina is in her 30,s.
I agree about dating a single mother. I have a daughter in Colombia and now I’m with a woman in cebu 2 years now. We both accept having a child from another relationship...My pinay is great girl.....I actually embraced the fact that she has a child....I agree 😊 Single moms are women that are really good for a relationship....Thank you my friend😊👍👍👍👍👍
Very straight forward list but so appropriate. Your correct, put them back if they’ve dated an ExPat previously. They’re tainted produce, the wells been tapped. Just take Calvins word on this one. You want your own first at everything. Don’t feel like your invading her privacy by asking the tough questions that need to be asked. It’s critical to you to do this. Take heed here. Again, test, test, and more testing. You can’t ever ask to many questions. All solid questions.
@@calroach1 of course she, that’s normal Protocol. But not all men think to do this as all they see is the exterior and looks. We men must look beyond that and get to the nitty griddy of the girl!
Great video, thanks. I’d recommend to go much further. If you are chatting online, ask everything that comes to mind. And know what you want. No reason to except things you don’t want.
I have heard how Chinese men deal with dating. During the chat they usually ask a lady about how many children she has, her education level, her job, and even her income. Usually, people marry people who have the same status level or above. If you are chatting with her overseas you should do a videocall with her at least once. If she is not willing to do that it should be a huge red flag. If she asks for money you should always tell her that you will not give her any money until you are couple and that she updates her status on her facebook page.
Now that's a real talk video again Calvin. You're amazing. I'm not easily had, really not, but I don't vet enough, and you're right to point out we need to, with the right questions to ask to booth. We have options, and it makes no sense to go with someone that's not a match just because she's hot and young... as there seems to be quite a few over there! Real age I would have never thought of this one, but then I wouldn't risk it in the sense if they look too young I'd feel like a pervert. While if they look 22-25 I don't care if when I'm 70 ha ha. But you are right to point out it can be hard to know!
My brother, thank you so much for this definitely Inside information that is totally vital to us looking in that direction. Thank you for doing all that you are to give us a heads up in preparations before being boots on the ground as you are
I can’t understand why anyone, would send money to someone, that they have never met. Also, how do they think of that person as their g/f without meeting them in person. I talk to a Filipina who I met on DIA and one of the first thinks she told me, was this, I don’t want your money ( and in 9 months she hasn’t ask for a penny) and don’t ask me to send nude pictures! Wow, I was shocked that she thought I would ask for pictures of that kind. From that, I deduce that a lot of guys ask for then and are happy to pay. One day, I hope to visit the Philippines and meet this lady but I don’t consider her my g/f, but a good friend.
We do it because we want to reserve the woman and put her into layaway. Only problem is that there are 3 other guys with the same intention. Bottom line is first come first served!
@@almantasj7698 may I suggest that we send absolutely nothing! I’ve been speaking to a woman in the Philippines and she has asked for no money just my respect. I wouldn’t send money to a woman in Europe or the states so why the Philippines!
Excellent response. I am happily married to a Filipina almost 12 years. Your 100% correct in your response. Hope your able to visit the Philippines one day soon and meet your special lady. You have one of the true good Filipina's which is about 5%. Congratulations 😀
Some more pearls of wisdom right here Calvin. Expect that most of the girls on DIA and other sites are single moms, many of them say that in their profiles. Even some of the ones who say no kids, will admit it if you say it’s ok and doesn’t matter. I never heard/ knew about the dating a foreigner before, that might have been useful, but too late now. Keep up the great info.
This video is right on time. I`ve experience 5 of these questions when I was talking to a Filipina needless to say she fail 3 of them I had to cut her loose. Calvin is spot on with these question. Thanks again for another informative vid. Peace my brother and stay safe.
I started chatting with a Filipina about two months ago. Question 1. No, 2, 23 years old, she showed be her certificate of live birth, 3 not a virgin, but no children. 4. She says only chatting with me. 5. She doesn't want to live in the USA. I told her that I am going to live in the Philippines. She likes that. She has her own UA-cam channel, sings, and dances in competitions. The first thing she told me is, I don't want your money, I have my own. But we will see when I get there. Thanks for the video!
Thanks for stopping by. Congratulations and I hate to tell you but they all say that in the beginning. She’s online for a reason sir. There’s millions of handsome Filipino men here who have everything in common with her that she could date - millions. Until you meet her take everything she says with a grain of salt. Good luck. You’re going to need it!
@@calroach1 Yes everything with a grain of salt, thank you for your reply. I will never send money to her and when I get there, if ANYTHING looks fishy, I am out! Thank you again for your videos. Hopefully I will be there in August. I will look you up when I get there!
There are two things you missed, brother. 1. Is she a woman who is only interested in foreign men? Like it or not, there are women here who chat men just for income. They only got to deal with these guys 2-4 weeks every year, but they have income all year. With this arrangement, they might have 5-6 guys who are in love with them. 2. Many women will lie. You can ask anything you want, she will tell you what she wants you to hear. So quite often, the questions are irrelevant. And a third question you might want to look for that you dont need to ask: Does she have a second life... another facebook account, a Filipino boyfriend, etc. I've been the Filipino boyfriend and I can assure you theres a lot of that going on, especially if the man is 60+ years old and lives abroad. Its damn near guaranteed, unless the woman is 40+
Calvin the part of the ladies not knowing how old they are is"mind-blowing and rare in modern american.My great grandmother had that same issue...Her dad was an ex-slave and didn't keep records of his kids birthday...I asked her about it one day and she said that the only reason I knew my birthday was because my parents told me...they had a record of it.. You brought back memories..God bless her memory... Thank you for all that you do...
Great question. I often wonder is the Filipina a myth or a legend? Have we blown this out of proportion? Is she really a goddess or just a new piece of p***y 🤷🏾♂️
Another straight up and informative vlog. Excellent 5 questions brother! I appreciate you sharing all your experience . Greetings from Toronto Canada 🇨🇦.
I had one lady who said she had no kids. I had spoken with her on Whatsapp and some kid came up and called her "Mom". I said HEY! you said you had no kids. She said that her best friend died of Cancer and asked her to raise her kids. Same F'n difference to me (I am pretty sure they were hers). Cut her loose real quick.
My Filipino fiancée already had a hidden boyfriend when I came to meet her and file papers. When I got back to the USA she broke it off and now is married with a baby from her boyfriend.
@johnfoley4023 I didn't know that she had a boyfriend until I got back stateside and found out later that she had become pregnant by him. Apparently she was cheating on me with him and cheating on him with me. She hid it very well.
Their all NBFF, "No boyfriend forever". Until you find out the truth. I had someone try to set me up with a lovely Filipina virgin, never kissed--met her mother the next day and the mother told me she had 3 kids. 🤣🤣🤣 The virgin with 3 babies. All. Good questions. I live in the Philippines and most women didn't want to talk to me after they found out that I was going to stay in the islands
Wise advise Calvin. I'd add that somewhere in all this you should ask her to get a CENOMAR, especially if she has children. If she can't afford to pay the fee pay it yourself. They don't cost much.
Ha ha ha good one, my questions were 1. Have you ever been married 2. Do you have any children 3. How old are you 4. What do you do for a living 5. How many in your family and what do they all do 6. Do you smoke. (I won't pose the rude questions ;-) We married and have been together for 14 years.
One thing that I have found out about Filipinas is that you will never get her to admit that she lied about something. She doesn't view lying in the same sense that you do. To her not telling you everything is different than lying.
@@calroach1 Hahaha, yes they do, but they will never admit that lie. They will just say they didn't tell you everything because they were shy. I saw your video regarding having mistresses but it's more common with Filipinos than foreigners as filipinas tolerate it from them, but will definitely try to destroy your life if you're a foreigner. To try to keep someone on the side in secret is futile unless they live on another island, in a province with no internet. 😂😂
The worst thing is when you can prove to them that they lied about something and they keep denying it. Then they put it on you. Long story short I had a massive argument with an ex about a lie and we fought from the SM Mall in a Grab all the way back to the apartment. I don’t like to fight but this girl use to say to me fighting is good for the relationship. In the apartment I could not get away from her to go and calm down so I said to her it was over because she lie to much and she loves to fight. She stripped all her clothes off jumped on me crying and said baby make love to me. I did not want sex but I did not have the strength to fight her. Sunshine needs to make a video discussing how to end a relationship with a Filipino who is not the one. I have never ended a relationship with a Filipino face to face it has always been on the phone. Reason being in my case they will put the sex on you or just hold onto you until you see it their way and change your mind. Note: They can cry quite easily and the minute you give in the crying all stops.
@@robinshould3366 Yes, that sounds about right. If you're not married to her it is somewhat easier to leave her. There are some Filipinas who feel there is only two ways to keep you, either through sex or having a kid or two from you. Sex is plentiful here and easy to replace, but sharing kids is more complicated. As there are 7102 islands here you can move elsewhere so there's no chance you will run into her with your new gf as there will be fighting going on.
@@jeromebaker2925 Yes Sir, that is 100% correct. I am not sure if it is just my observation and experience. They do not say, "Please" or "Thank you". They only say, "Thank you" when you give them money. Tell me if I am wrong.
Calvin, all your points are very well taken and I commend you for putting it out there for the other subscribers. Regarding asking a filipina if she is a "VIRGIN", in some instances Calvin I have found that it was more tasteful to ask the filipina if she has "EVER" had a boyfriend. The answer to that question should reveal something about her but not always. However, there is nothing to keep the woman from telling a lie and denying it. In Western culture it is a taboo to lie or to tell a lie to your significant other. However, in the Philippines there is no negative moral ramifications for telling a lie. Another words they think it is OK to lie to their companion and see nothing wrong with it if it is convenient for them to do so and it gets them out of hot water. Nowadays in more modern times in speaking for the younger filipinas, individual filipinas will not be as strict about preserving their virginity and let you have a taste of their cookie. However it is a good chance that the older filipinas and or younger filipinas that live in the province or are from the province will still be a virgin. It is a serious, protected, and prized covenant to a filipina that she is able to offer herself to her husband with her virginity still intact and your subscribers should thoroughly understand that. It is a serious emotional trauma for the filipina to lose her virginity to a man and then he up and leave her. As now an older man (70) and if I were single I would not seek a virgin filipina. The virgin filipinas do not possess any carnal knowledge, therefore you will find yourself training them due to lack of experience and maybe reluctant to try different things.
I have an issue with the first-in-first-served idea. It basically means that if there are 3 guys in line and she picks the first then the 3 guys are interchangeable. Instead of dating online and waste time, I would suggest to just fly, date 4-5 filipinas (or more), pick those who are not online and ask all the questions. Then maybe go from 4-5 to 1. And why send money anyways? Are we nuts? What can a girl do from distance to compensate the money she receives? For me the moment they ask for money they are dead. Next.
We knew a Filipina with 4 kids from 4 different fathers. She was engaged to a foreigner and while waiting for her visa we saw her at the beach in Pinas kissing some other guy. She went on to marry the foreigner and immigrate. We didn't bother keeping up contact.
You can ask them all the questions you want but don't expect an honest answer, especially if they think it's going to show them in a bad light. Ask a Filipina about her sexual history? Good luck with that one! For women who like to think of themselves as deeply religious and "God-fearing," the majority of Filipinas seem to have no qualms about lying through their teeth to get what they want. The bar girls in Angeles are probably more honest and upfront than the time wasters, fakes, flakes and money hounds/scammers you'll meet on Filipino Cupid and Pina Love. For me, Filipinas are for recreational use only: no expectations, no drama, no tampos, no lies, no games, no control, no BS, no Green Card. If you want to marry one (why when you can enjoy many?) get a local PI to do a background check + ideally some surveillance (to see what she gets up to when you're not around) before you commit/get in too deep. $300-$500 could save you thousands and a broken heart.
CCTV ...leave a old fashioned tape recorder/ cctv camera .....hire a LIP READER, nanny cam.... in the car etc. in the plant etc...on your pets collar... by pet bird/, puppy poo...etc...LASTLY HIRE A MALE MODEL FOR THE DAY.... see if she flirts with him, in a bad way....
Single moms are good option if you're willing, if not you eliminate a huge percentage of filipinas. "I wouldn't let my dog stay in there" - yeah I've seen some conditions in certain Manila area jails.
Say that again! But a lot of us do because we are too easy on her. We give her a pass and won’t ask the tough questions. Filipinas are a dime a dozen so make sure you get the right one.
Hey man, the choice you make is the chance you take. More often than not, it is the second or third Filipina instead of the 1st one that is the actual right one. And that is just further validation that you were using American standards & beliefs in your initial chose.
Good video 👍 this is good content for the person who has not traveled and used to western woman (they are called simps, in the U.S.) some of us have traveled and know the games played by these woman ....to these woman we the man is the prize NOT her and they know that....that's why they prefer older/western/white men because these types of men are easier to manipulate, once they lay that thing on them ....how do I know this? It was told to me in subic by philippina's while I was stationed there....you give good advice but alot will still fall because that's life ...keep up the good content....just for the guys reading this YOU ARE THE PRIZE, NOT THEM....even though most Western men don't understand but to these philippina's your considered wealthy, even with only your S.S. checks.....when I hear Western men talking about having a budget or needing $2000-$3000 U.S. a month to live in the philippines, I know he's being taken for a cruel ride by his philippina ....there's NO reason you would need more then $1000 a month in the philippines and if you are you should seriously look at your spending habits, because your overspending and being taken for a ride ....
Former US Navy here, you are so right. We would get guys from some little town in the Midwest fall for and marry some bar girl. They would bring them back to the USA and they would find out they were screwing around while they were out on a WestPac deployment. They would hear stories about how they were at the E or O club every night screwing guys.
Sunshine I Love your channel as always you be telling the truth from your opinion on many subjects.!! Thanks for all your information as to when the Philippines open up I will be seeking information from you maybe through a private chat and etc.??
Thanks, Calvin. Just saw this video today 10/15/21 and used these questions on a Filipina I met online a few days ago. When I asked her how old she really was, she said she was 25 and not 33 as her dating profile indicated. She apologized for lying, and asked me to please accept her, but that was a big red flag for me so I’m going to have to cut her loose. And it’s a shame too because I was beginning to like her personality… Thanks again, Calvin!
I've asked all five questions and 9 out of ten lies about everything, some May lie and tell the truth weeks later, some tell the truth about some things, but it's rare that you will get one to tell the truth about everything, some just flat out cop an attitude if you ask more than 3 questions, I understand some of the reasons but it's borderline game
1.) Have you ever dated a foreigner before? Has he visited you? 2.) How old are you really? 3.) Are you a virgin? 4.) How many men are you chatting with online? 5.) Do you want a visa? Do you want to come to my country?
I am 5 min in and can tell you are one sharp man. I loved going to the Philippines and enjoyed their country. However, these men that go on and on how all the women there are beautiful, amazing, honest, caring, angels blah blah blah are either not realists or just too damn into this "happy" fantasy. Listen, my ex had many good qualities but she was a woman. I am a man and believe me, I am just a decent guy but have my share of quirks also. Relationships are difficult and marriage even more so. You are sharing everything with a person and it gets real very fast. I just couldn't stand being with a woman that did not know how to talk about our challenges, did not know how to share her feelings with me instead of going to her girl friends about everything. I was patient and waited for several years. She was with someone else right after our divorce. Worst decision of my life and I really loved her. She thought she loved me but that is not love in my book.
Man thanks for sharing your story it is so helpful and you expressed it so well. It’s what we all experience with Filipinas or will experience. My marriage fell apart for the exact same reasons!!! And now she’s pregnant by another man and our divorce isn’t final, hell we haven’t filled yet. I don’t believe in coincidences. Your story here is what I needed today. Can’t thank you enough.
You have to ask about debts and obligations too. Either way we pick our poisons and so do they. But pick your poisons wisely. I did pretty well but my complaint is I hate being broke but my wife seems to have a vow of poverty. It’s cultural, I find many people don’t understand what could happen when you spend too much money. Not everything is a scam but philosophical differences.
1. Have you ever dated a foreigner before? - If yes, run away 2. How old are you really? - Most don't know their actual age 3. Are you a virgin? - Many will hide children 4. How many men are you chatting with online? - She's probably chatting with 3-4 5. Do you want a visa, do you want to come to my country?
Your first rule makes sense but seems kind of strict and a little bit unfair. If they’ve had even 1 foreign boyfriend before. Considering many Americans dating them are divorced once or twice one bf seems a little lopsided. We have baggage too. For example I’m talking to one amazing filipina, a filipina among filipinas if you will. So kind, caring, thoughtful, sweet and super respectful, more so than normal. Her first and only bf a foreigner who came to date her, slept with her bc she was a virgin and then went to the next girl. She hasn’t dated or slept with a man since. I’ve had several girlfriends over the years all long term and divorced too. If she can accept my past I think I owe her the chance too at least. I get there’s always exceptions and your rule is probably a good rule in general.
Thanks for stopping by. You have to understand, Filioinas don’t want you if you have dated several Filipinas! Its not the same as being divorced inyour country. She doesn’t mind. Filipinas who have dated foreigner will always be comparing you to them. But don’t say I didn’t warn you!
Your dropping knowledge Sir. I do have a question for you. Some of the Filipina's I have been chatting to have spent time abroad working. I'm 54 and my age cuff is 35 for a Filipina. Any other questions I should be looking for?
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Thanks for your honesty and valuable information Calvin, rather send you money for the Intel than a "scammer", keep up the good work you're helping alot of vulnerable guys!
Thanks brother I appreciate you.
Got me over here rollin around laughing. You don't know it, but there's 4 of y'all putting her in lay-a-way! 🤣 🤣 🤣
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Same thing in Thailand too
I know firsthand, I lived there for 3 years......
That part was HILARIOUS. The brother definitely keeps it real!
Asked a Filipina if she had kids and she said "NO". One day I was video chatting with her and some little boy called her Momma from off screen. I said to her that she told me she had no kids. She said her best friend died of cancer and that she was the God Mother and wound up with her friends 2 kids. Sounded like BS so I told her that when I asked if she had kids, that included adopted or foster kids. I cut it off with her because that's a sign of dishonesty to me.
Boots on the ground....go to a college....go to a library... a bookstore... a church....
A friend of mine was chatting with a much younger Filipina, she was 20 and VERY beautiful, and he was 50 and not very nice to look at, and she and her family were all for him coming there and marrying her, He owned a good company and he had a lot of money. I tried telling him that she was just using him for his money and to legally get over here to the states because he told me she was so excited about becoming a U.S. citizen. I tried so hard to get him to wake up and see what was really going on, but she had him hooked! He had visited her 3 or 4 times and he believed everything she said. Well, he married her and brought her to the U.S. and she got pregnant the first month, and about a year passed and he caught her with a guy her age, and well, he was now not only married to her but now had a child with her. So about 2 years in she divorced him and wanted the house in Florida, alimony, and child support. And she got all 3. She used him to become a U.S. citizen, then stayed with him long enough to have a child and then take him for every dime she could get. I felt kinda bad for him, but I tried to warn him and he wouldn't listen. You're 100% right, If they talk a lot about wanting to come to the U.S., men better through them back and find a better one because they're not seeing them as a husband, they're seeing them as a green card.
One foreigner that I met came to my house here in the Philippines and told me he allows his girlfriend to visit her ex, another foreigner, to spend the day with his kids. I looked at him like he had two heads and told him that he was crazy to which he responded that he trusts her. The next day he told me she didn't come back until late, though she left in the morning. This same guy then tells me that he used her phone to text the guy, pretending that he was the girl, making sexual comments, to which the ex said yes, let's do that. Still this guy would allow her to go visit him. You can't fix stupid!
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Your friend is a fool. But there are many out here!!
@@mogatdula Yes, very much so! I tried to warn him, but of course he brought her to my house to confront me. After that I gave him no further advice.
@@jeromebaker2925 you did right by letting him go. People infected with bad luck should be treated as those infected with a virus!
Getting a honest answer out of a woman you got a better chance of winning the lottery..
I love your channel simply because you are being yourself.
You are the best channel by far about Filipinas and Philippines. Everything you say is right in with none of the “everyone is so perfect here” nonsense of most of the other bloggers.
Everything that Sunshine has said is correct 100%. I think there is 1 or 2 questions missing. Have you been married before? Also get proof of no marriage: A Certificate of No Marriage Record (CENOMAR). If you get caught with a married woman it is a prison sentence or her partner may bribe you for money. If they say that they have been to university get them to show you certificates. I dated a filipina who could only show me pictures of her in a graduation outfit and could never find the certificate. The university closed down so she could not get a duplicate. Face time who you are talking to for verification. Never send money until you have visited and confirmed terms. Let her know that you will support her but you will not be supporting her family. Note: Filipinas are very family orientated if she cares about you she will agree but if she gets angry (Tampo) then as Sunshine says just let her go.
"A Certificate of No Marriage Record" I learned this the hard way. It wasn't with a pinay, but I learned the lesson nonetheless.
Thank for being on our side, Calvin!
Man, you're the Realist Of The Realist and you are much appreciated(:
Keep them coming man. Great Content. It is greatly appreciated.
Aloha brother! Hope all is well with you.
@@calroach1 All good here . Just waiting for the world to go back to somewhat normal. You take care man.
Always good nuggets of info Mr Nitty Gritty Man. Really enjoy your gems. You the only one giving boots on the ground sound inside information. Don't stop what you do.
Bro I'm on your 2nd video and in the last week out of all the you tube posts I've been viewing this has been the best straight up no nonsense one I've seen. Thank you
I'm 50 and at 60 I'm considering retirement there, I'm not focused on romance but finding a small family to care for really apeals to me. Respect
Thanks brother. I only want to be useful and talk to regular people like myself. There’s enough fluff on UA-cam! I appreciate you stopping by. Your intentions are wonderful. We could sure use another good guy over here. Take care and Merry Christmas!
You are a very informative handbook Calvin. You are awesome. No sugar coating information.
My father lived in Davao for 15yrs he was boots on the ground. Unfortunately he passed in early 2020 buried in a Davao cemetery. Thanks for your videos. I'm moving out there in two years when I turn 62 hope to see you somewhere
My condolences to your family on the loss of your father I hope he found happiness in his last year's!
Good luck
I really appreciate your straight talk, cutting through the chase, and keeping it real
Damn, you need to change the title of your channel to Coach Sunshine Shoulders! Thank you for sharing the knowledge and saving our dumb asses Calvin.
😃😃😃 that’s funny brother
Recently discovered your channel. What a revelation. Enjoy your down-to-earth, no nonsense approach. So refreshing to get your “boots on the ground” perspective compared to the stale Dumaguete and Cebu UA-cam expats who pretend to be experts and gurus but know little about the reality of day-to-day life of the average Filipino. You deserve a PhD in common sense for dispensing such valuable advice.
Some ideas for future video topics:
- Your workout routine
- Online Dating site reviews based on you experiences
- interviews with ordinary Filipinos/Filipinas
1. How old are you ?(your real age)
2. Are you a virgin/ or a single mother?
3. Do you want a visa/ green card
4. Have you dated a foreigner before
5. How many men are you chatting with online
😆 5. How many men are you chatting with online?
@@calroach1 great 👌 list
I know that the Chinese guys and Koreans know the secret to getting Filipinos because I see them with the prettiest girls all the time.
@@robinshould3366 £$$$$$
I know one of the reasons is ££$$€€¥¥. Is that all 😂😂😂
My wife successfully held down a full-time job here and completed a 4 year part-time degree while working. She out-performed me by a mile.
I’m a little older than you Calvin When I was in my 30s I met a lady in here 20s with a 4 yr old girl . I got together with her and help raise her daughter the girl is 40 today. What I didn’t realize at the time you can never be that child father . If I know this back then I would never got together with her mother . And look for someone with no kids. I do see girl from time to time . At the end of the day you are like any joe out there.
You’re absolutely right and one thing that I tell people about the Philippines is that appreciation and consideration are two things lacking in the culture. Thanks for stopping by today.
@@calroach1 It’s sad that we live in cancel culture
I appreciate all your help my brother keep up the good works
As someone who was considered a "foreigner" there living it up in my college years. Like, where were these questions 5 years ago!? Lmao. Idk why UA-cam randomly recommended this video but wow, the memories n life lessons are REAL. I ain't gonna throw shade on anyone but all of your examples happened to me in some way or another. Literally ALL of them, and then some! Lol, if you're out there, be safe!
I appreciate honesty keep up the good work.
I've been working on getting there for 7 years now. Built a 2 story unique home, a very popular tree house, a large floating cottage, 3 fishing boats 2 with motors, a cabin in the mountains, we raise pigs, tobacco, goats ,and have the FAMILY'S LOVE COUNTRY STORE AND BOTIQUE. 😀. When I get there after the pandemic is over it will be just a start.my Filipina is in her 30,s.
I agree about dating a single mother. I have a daughter in Colombia and now I’m with a woman in cebu 2 years now. We both accept having a child from another relationship...My pinay is great girl.....I actually embraced the fact that she has a child....I agree 😊 Single moms are women that are really good for a relationship....Thank you my friend😊👍👍👍👍👍
Very good questions to ask Calvin! thanks for constantly challenging us to use our brain, keep us on our toes brother!
Thanks brother. If I am able to help just one man with my limited knowledge over here then I’ve done my job!
Once again, incredibly important and very informative session.
Very straight forward list but so appropriate. Your correct, put them back if they’ve dated an ExPat previously. They’re tainted produce, the wells been tapped. Just take Calvins word on this one. You want your own first at everything. Don’t feel like your invading her privacy by asking the tough questions that need to be asked. It’s critical to you to do this. Take heed here. Again, test, test, and more testing. You can’t ever ask to many questions. All solid questions.
Absolutely brother because she’s going to test test test you and then test some more!
@@calroach1 of course she, that’s normal Protocol. But not all men think to do this as all they see is the exterior and looks. We men must look beyond that and get to the nitty griddy of the girl!
Great video, thanks.
I’d recommend to go much further. If you are chatting online, ask everything that comes to mind. And know what you want. No reason to except things you don’t want.
Absolutely!!
Great work! Thank you!
I like the way you keep it 100% real. Another great video
Thanks.
I have heard how Chinese men deal with dating. During the chat they usually ask a lady about how many children she has, her education level, her job, and even her income. Usually, people marry people who have the same status level or above. If you are chatting with her overseas you should do a videocall with her at least once. If she is not willing to do that it should be a huge red flag.
If she asks for money you should always tell her that you will not give her any money until you are couple and that she updates her status on her facebook page.
Now that's a real talk video again Calvin. You're amazing. I'm not easily had, really not, but I don't vet enough, and you're right to point out we need to, with the right questions to ask to booth. We have options, and it makes no sense to go with someone that's not a match just because she's hot and young... as there seems to be quite a few over there! Real age I would have never thought of this one, but then I wouldn't risk it in the sense if they look too young I'd feel like a pervert. While if they look 22-25 I don't care if when I'm 70 ha ha. But you are right to point out it can be hard to know!
My brother, thank you so much for this definitely Inside information that is totally vital to us looking in that direction. Thank you for doing all that you are to give us a heads up in preparations before being boots on the ground as you are
What a waste of time,they age like milk!
I can’t understand why anyone, would send money to someone, that they have never met. Also, how do they think of that person as their g/f without meeting them in person. I talk to a Filipina who I met on DIA and one of the first thinks she told me, was this, I don’t want your money ( and in 9 months she hasn’t ask for a penny) and don’t ask me to send nude pictures! Wow, I was shocked that she thought I would ask for pictures of that kind. From that, I deduce that a lot of guys ask for then and are happy to pay. One day, I hope to visit the Philippines and meet this lady but I don’t consider her my g/f, but a good friend.
We do it because we want to reserve the woman and put her into layaway. Only problem is that there are 3 other guys with the same intention. Bottom line is first come first served!
@@almantasj7698 may I suggest that we send absolutely nothing! I’ve been speaking to a woman in the Philippines and she has asked for no money just my respect. I wouldn’t send money to a woman in Europe or the states so why the Philippines!
Excellent response. I am happily married to a Filipina almost 12 years. Your 100% correct in your response. Hope your able to visit the Philippines one day soon and meet your special lady. You have one of the true good Filipina's which is about 5%. Congratulations 😀
Some more pearls of wisdom right here Calvin. Expect that most of the girls on DIA and other sites are single moms, many of them say that in their profiles. Even some of the ones who say no kids, will admit it if you say it’s ok and doesn’t matter. I never heard/ knew about the dating a foreigner before, that might have been useful, but too late now. Keep up the great info.
This video is right on time. I`ve experience 5 of these questions when I was talking to a Filipina needless to say she fail 3 of them I had to cut her loose. Calvin is spot on with these question. Thanks again for another informative vid. Peace my brother and stay safe.
Thanks brother but we have to put them through the wringer cause she is going to test you like crazy.
I started chatting with a Filipina about two months ago. Question 1. No, 2, 23 years old, she showed be her certificate of live birth, 3 not a virgin, but no children. 4. She says only chatting with me. 5. She doesn't want to live in the USA. I told her that I am going to live in the Philippines. She likes that. She has her own UA-cam channel, sings, and dances in competitions. The first thing she told me is, I don't want your money, I have my own. But we will see when I get there. Thanks for the video!
Thanks for stopping by. Congratulations and I hate to tell you but they all say that in the beginning. She’s online for a reason sir. There’s millions of handsome Filipino men here who have everything in common with her that she could date - millions. Until you meet her take everything she says with a grain of salt. Good luck. You’re going to need it!
@@calroach1 Yes everything with a grain of salt, thank you for your reply. I will never send money to her and when I get there, if ANYTHING looks fishy, I am out! Thank you again for your videos. Hopefully I will be there in August. I will look you up when I get there!
There are two things you missed, brother. 1. Is she a woman who is only interested in foreign men? Like it or not, there are women here who chat men just for income. They only got to deal with these guys 2-4 weeks every year, but they have income all year. With this arrangement, they might have 5-6 guys who are in love with them.
2. Many women will lie. You can ask anything you want, she will tell you what she wants you to hear. So quite often, the questions are irrelevant.
And a third question you might want to look for that you dont need to ask: Does she have a second life... another facebook account, a Filipino boyfriend, etc. I've been the Filipino boyfriend and I can assure you theres a lot of that going on, especially if the man is 60+ years old and lives abroad. Its damn near guaranteed, unless the woman is 40+
Great information Calvin!
Calvin the part of the ladies not knowing how old they are is"mind-blowing and rare in modern american.My great grandmother had that same issue...Her dad was an ex-slave and didn't keep records of his kids birthday...I asked her about it one day and she said that the only reason I knew my birthday was because my parents told me...they had a record of it.. You brought back memories..God bless her memory... Thank you for all that you do...
and learn to spot a liar by body languages before you ask... watch it here on youtube. it's your best friend...
Link?
Hello again Calvin and family!
Thanks for sharing this great video! Looking forward to your next one... May the Lord be with you/Ned 🌹👏🌹
God bless you Ned snd continued success, good health and spirits!
@@calroach1 🌷🙌🌷
Awesome content man! Another question I would suggest adding is "Why aren't you married". It got me out of a few tricks!
Great question. I often wonder is the Filipina a myth or a legend? Have we blown this out of proportion? Is she really a goddess or just a new piece of p***y 🤷🏾♂️
Another straight up and informative vlog. Excellent 5 questions brother! I appreciate you sharing all your experience . Greetings from Toronto Canada 🇨🇦.
Welcome brother! Thanks for stopping by today and I’m glad you enjoyed the video.
I had one lady who said she had no kids. I had spoken with her on Whatsapp and some kid came up and called her "Mom". I said HEY! you said you had no kids. She said that her best friend died of Cancer and asked her to raise her kids. Same F'n difference to me (I am pretty sure they were hers). Cut her loose real quick.
You on the mark you are right man dam all you say is correct.
Glad I saw your video! I'm at Stage 1 right now....
I hope you are doing well and staying safe my friend! Thanks for sharing stay blessed! 🤝👌👍😎
My Filipino fiancée already had a hidden boyfriend when I came to meet her and file papers. When I got back to the USA she broke it off and now is married with a baby from her boyfriend.
Dodged a Bullet, Brother. !
Carry on good Sir
@@welkcubnairb1478 Amen to that. thank you.
@johnfoley4023 I didn't know that she had a boyfriend until I got back stateside and found out later that she had become pregnant by him. Apparently she was cheating on me with him and cheating on him with me. She hid it very well.
Thanks dude you make a lot of sense 👍
Their all NBFF, "No boyfriend forever". Until you find out the truth. I had someone try to set me up with a lovely Filipina virgin, never kissed--met her mother the next day and the mother told me she had 3 kids. 🤣🤣🤣 The virgin with 3 babies. All. Good questions. I live in the Philippines and most women didn't want to talk to me after they found out that I was going to stay in the islands
Thanks for sharing your experience brother we need to hear it!
Yup, you're no ticket to America.
Was her name Mary?
Thank You 🙏
Spittin the truth again and again, Calvin :)
Wise advise Calvin. I'd add that somewhere in all this you should ask her to get a CENOMAR, especially if she has children. If she can't afford to pay the fee pay it yourself. They don't cost much.
Ha ha ha good one, my questions were
1. Have you ever been married
2. Do you have any children
3. How old are you
4. What do you do for a living
5. How many in your family and what do they all do
6. Do you smoke.
(I won't pose the rude questions ;-)
We married and have been together for 14 years.
Thanks for watching out for your fellow man
One thing that I have found out about Filipinas is that you will never get her to admit that she lied about something. She doesn't view lying in the same sense that you do. To her not telling you everything is different than lying.
Wow. And boy do some of them lie!
@@calroach1 Hahaha, yes they do, but they will never admit that lie. They will just say they didn't tell you everything because they were shy. I saw your video regarding having mistresses but it's more common with Filipinos than foreigners as filipinas tolerate it from them, but will definitely try to destroy your life if you're a foreigner. To try to keep someone on the side in secret is futile unless they live on another island, in a province with no internet. 😂😂
The worst thing is when you can prove to them that they lied about something and they keep denying it. Then they put it on you. Long story short I had a massive argument with an ex about a lie and we fought from the SM Mall in a Grab all the way back to the apartment. I don’t like to fight but this girl use to say to me fighting is good for the relationship. In the apartment I could not get away from her to go and calm down so I said to her it was over because she lie to much and she loves to fight. She stripped all her clothes off jumped on me crying and said baby make love to me. I did not want sex but I did not have the strength to fight her.
Sunshine needs to make a video discussing how to end a relationship with a Filipino who is not the one. I have never ended a relationship with a Filipino face to face it has always been on the phone. Reason being in my case they will put the sex on you or just hold onto you until you see it their way and change your mind. Note: They can cry quite easily and the minute you give in the crying all stops.
@@robinshould3366 Yes, that sounds about right. If you're not married to her it is somewhat easier to leave her. There are some Filipinas who feel there is only two ways to keep you, either through sex or having a kid or two from you. Sex is plentiful here and easy to replace, but sharing kids is more complicated. As there are 7102 islands here you can move elsewhere so there's no chance you will run into her with your new gf as there will be fighting going on.
@@jeromebaker2925 Yes Sir, that is 100% correct. I am not sure if it is just my observation and experience. They do not say, "Please" or "Thank you". They only say, "Thank you" when you give them money. Tell me if I am wrong.
Calvin, all your points are very well taken and I commend you for putting it out there for the other subscribers. Regarding asking a filipina if she is a "VIRGIN", in some instances Calvin I have found that it was more tasteful to ask the filipina if she has "EVER" had a boyfriend. The answer to that question should reveal something about her but not always. However, there is nothing to keep the woman from telling a lie and denying it. In Western culture it is a taboo to lie or to tell a lie to your significant other. However, in the Philippines there is no negative moral ramifications for telling a lie. Another words they think it is OK to lie to their companion and see nothing wrong with it if it is convenient for them to do so and it gets them out of hot water.
Nowadays in more modern times in speaking for the younger filipinas, individual filipinas will not be as strict about preserving their virginity and let you have a taste of their cookie. However it is a good chance that the older filipinas and or younger filipinas that live in the province or are from the province will still be a virgin. It is a serious, protected, and prized covenant to a filipina that she is able to offer herself to her husband with her virginity still intact and your subscribers should thoroughly understand that. It is a serious emotional trauma for the filipina to lose her virginity to a man and then he up and leave her. As now an older man (70) and if I were single I would not seek a virgin filipina. The virgin filipinas do not possess any carnal knowledge, therefore you will find yourself training them due to lack of experience and maybe reluctant to try different things.
love it man, you are real
Great questions. Wrote these in my notes
I have an issue with the first-in-first-served idea. It basically means that if there are 3 guys in line and she picks the first then the 3 guys are interchangeable. Instead of dating online and waste time, I would suggest to just fly, date 4-5 filipinas (or more), pick those who are not online and ask all the questions. Then maybe go from 4-5 to 1. And why send money anyways? Are we nuts? What can a girl do from distance to compensate the money she receives? For me the moment they ask for money they are dead. Next.
Thanks for the info. Respectfully
you are the real man
You kept it real and: let me add game recognize game when dealing with a filipina💯
Thanks good info from Brooklyn E.N.Y 👍
We knew a Filipina with 4 kids from 4 different fathers. She was engaged to a foreigner and while waiting for her visa we saw her at the beach in Pinas kissing some other guy. She went on to marry the foreigner and immigrate. We didn't bother keeping up contact.
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Bro your 50+? You are jacked! Look at the guns! I hope I look that good when I'm 50
You can ask them all the questions you want but don't expect an honest answer, especially if they think it's going to show them in a bad light. Ask a Filipina about her sexual history? Good luck with that one! For women who like to think of themselves as deeply religious and "God-fearing," the majority of Filipinas seem to have no qualms about lying through their teeth to get what they want. The bar girls in Angeles are probably more honest and upfront than the time wasters, fakes, flakes and money hounds/scammers you'll meet on Filipino Cupid and Pina Love. For me, Filipinas are for recreational use only: no expectations, no drama, no tampos, no lies, no games, no control, no BS, no Green Card. If you want to marry one (why when you can enjoy many?) get a local PI to do a background check + ideally some surveillance (to see what she gets up to when you're not around) before you commit/get in too deep. $300-$500 could save you thousands and a broken heart.
CCTV ...leave a old fashioned tape recorder/ cctv camera .....hire a LIP READER, nanny cam.... in the car etc. in the plant etc...on your pets collar... by pet bird/, puppy poo...etc...LASTLY HIRE A MALE MODEL FOR THE DAY.... see if she flirts with him, in a bad way....
Single moms are good option if you're willing, if not you eliminate a huge percentage of filipinas.
"I wouldn't let my dog stay in there" - yeah I've seen some conditions in certain Manila area jails.
Hahahah you're right, good questions to ask the pinay.
Spot on Brother
.....I don't want to go 1/2- way around the world....for nothin'.....!!
Say that again! But a lot of us do because we are too easy on her. We give her a pass and won’t ask the tough questions. Filipinas are a dime a dozen so make sure you get the right one.
Hey man, the choice you make is the chance you take. More often than not, it is the second or third Filipina instead of the 1st one that is the actual right one. And that is just further validation that you were using American standards & beliefs in your initial chose.
Good video 👍 this is good content for the person who has not traveled and used to western woman (they are called simps, in the U.S.) some of us have traveled and know the games played by these woman ....to these woman we the man is the prize NOT her and they know that....that's why they prefer older/western/white men because these types of men are easier to manipulate, once they lay that thing on them ....how do I know this? It was told to me in subic by philippina's while I was stationed there....you give good advice but alot will still fall because that's life ...keep up the good content....just for the guys reading this YOU ARE THE PRIZE, NOT THEM....even though most Western men don't understand but to these philippina's your considered wealthy, even with only your S.S. checks.....when I hear Western men talking about having a budget or needing $2000-$3000 U.S. a month to live in the philippines, I know he's being taken for a cruel ride by his philippina ....there's NO reason you would need more then $1000 a month in the philippines and if you are you should seriously look at your spending habits, because your overspending and being taken for a ride ....
Former US Navy here, you are so right. We would get guys from some little town in the Midwest fall for and marry some bar girl. They would bring them back to the USA and they would find out they were screwing around while they were out on a WestPac deployment. They would hear stories about how they were at the E or O club every night screwing guys.
Sunshine I Love your channel as always you be telling the truth from your opinion on many subjects.!! Thanks for all your information as to when the Philippines open up I will be seeking information from you maybe through a private chat and etc.??
Sure brother no problem I will help you as much as I can.
"I wouldnt my dog stay in these jails"
....oh shit. Note to self: dont get locked up.
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Thanks brother!!!
Thanks, Calvin. Just saw this video today 10/15/21 and used these questions on a Filipina I met online a few days ago. When I asked her how old she really was, she said she was 25 and not 33 as her dating profile indicated. She apologized for lying, and asked me to please accept her, but that was a big red flag for me so I’m going to have to cut her loose. And it’s a shame too because I was beginning to like her personality… Thanks again, Calvin!
Great content!
Good advice Calvin
You rock!!
I've asked all five questions and 9 out of ten lies about everything, some May lie and tell the truth weeks later, some tell the truth about some things, but it's rare that you will get one to tell the truth about everything, some just flat out cop an attitude if you ask more than 3 questions, I understand some of the reasons but it's borderline game
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1.) Have you ever dated a foreigner before? Has he visited you?
2.) How old are you really?
3.) Are you a virgin?
4.) How many men are you chatting with online?
5.) Do you want a visa? Do you want to come to my country?
I am 5 min in and can tell you are one sharp man. I loved going to the Philippines and enjoyed their country. However, these men that go on and on how all the women there are beautiful, amazing, honest, caring, angels blah blah blah are either not realists or just too damn into this "happy" fantasy. Listen, my ex had many good qualities but she was a woman. I am a man and believe me, I am just a decent guy but have my share of quirks also. Relationships are difficult and marriage even more so. You are sharing everything with a person and it gets real very fast. I just couldn't stand being with a woman that did not know how to talk about our challenges, did not know how to share her feelings with me instead of going to her girl friends about everything. I was patient and waited for several years. She was with someone else right after our divorce. Worst decision of my life and I really loved her. She thought she loved me but that is not love in my book.
Man thanks for sharing your story it is so helpful and you expressed it so well. It’s what we all experience with Filipinas or will experience. My marriage fell apart for the exact same reasons!!! And now she’s pregnant by another man and our divorce isn’t final, hell we haven’t filled yet. I don’t believe in coincidences. Your story here is what I needed today. Can’t thank you enough.
Good video
Thank u so much bro...
Well said bro .
You have to ask about debts and obligations too. Either way we pick our poisons and so do they. But pick your poisons wisely. I did pretty well but my complaint is I hate being broke but my wife seems to have a vow of poverty. It’s cultural, I find many people don’t understand what could happen when you spend too much money. Not everything is a scam but philosophical differences.
Sunshine just tells you the way it is.
1. Have you ever dated a foreigner before?
- If yes, run away
2. How old are you really?
- Most don't know their actual age
3. Are you a virgin?
- Many will hide children
4. How many men are you chatting with online?
- She's probably chatting with 3-4
5. Do you want a visa, do you want to come to my country?
No such thing as a 21 year old virgin in the Philippines 🇵🇭😉😘😉
Your first rule makes sense but seems kind of strict and a little bit unfair. If they’ve had even 1 foreign boyfriend before. Considering many Americans dating them are divorced once or twice one bf seems a little lopsided. We have baggage too.
For example I’m talking to one amazing filipina, a filipina among filipinas if you will. So kind, caring, thoughtful, sweet and super respectful, more so than normal. Her first and only bf a foreigner who came to date her, slept with her bc she was a virgin and then went to the next girl. She hasn’t dated or slept with a man since. I’ve had several girlfriends over the years all long term and divorced too. If she can accept my past I think I owe her the chance too at least. I get there’s always exceptions and your rule is probably a good rule in general.
Thanks for stopping by. You have to understand, Filioinas don’t want you if you have dated several Filipinas! Its not the same as being divorced inyour country. She doesn’t mind. Filipinas who have dated foreigner will always be comparing you to them. But don’t say I didn’t warn you!
Hear! Hear! Thank you for pointing that one out.
Thanks
Being in love makes gives everyone a temporary psychosis. Brain error. It needs a malware removal after a while
Better to get boots on the ground first. To many scammers online. Easy to get one if your here.
I have a secret weapon... I have NEVER been in love. I am immune to love.
I was a 3-4 before for two years ...now im a 1-2 again lol
Your dropping knowledge Sir. I do have a question for you. Some of the Filipina's I have been chatting to have spent time abroad working. I'm 54 and my age cuff is 35 for a Filipina. Any other questions I should be looking for?