Tripp this really works . I tried it and I've started good conversations with women . I'm not a shy person but I'm shy to approach a girl/ woman but this really does work thank you
@A He said more than just "say Hi". He said that you should force yourself to start talking to a girl within 3 seconds. He said that if you don't do that your brain starts making up excuses to get it easier for you not to approach her. He also said you should practice it with anyone yoou meet to get better at it and then be more confident when you do it with an attractive girl. He also said that you should think of it as an entertainment and an experiment and that will help you enjoy doing it, instead of being nervous. He said that if you think of it as an entertainment and actually enjoy it, she will feel that and will enjoy it too. He also said you should do it with a strong eye contact and a smile. He said that all of this combined will give you confidence and it will show and she'll feel it and then it won't matter what do you actually say. He finally said you should practice it a lot to get better at it, eventually doing it naturally. I think there's a lot of useful advice there.
The 3 sec Rule is so important. I approached a girl at the train Station a few days ago and i didnt do it quite fast so all these excuses came was quite challenging but worth it :) Ty Tripp :D my Favoriten YT Channel these days 😍
He - Hi, what's us She - Nothing why He - I'm just going around meeting people today (you seem cool so I came to say hello) She - Oh, ok (said in an uninterested manner) .... (Awkward silence) This above is the issue, and not the interaction or opening statement.
I'm a salesman but when it comes to girls, we don't sell my nigga we sort. You sorted her into the category of girls that were not interested. Time to move on to the next
POCKATA that girl has probaby a reason not to hold a conversation with you it may be because she is not in the mood it may be because she has had a bad day it might be that she sees your intention to fuck her so she goes into the defensive mode by telling you that she has a boyfriend and you need to fuck off
POCKATA I would continue the conversation for the practice you could go on with: - How was you day? - So what do you do when you dont have to work/study? - What are you always doing in the weekends? if her answers are very neutral or go with "nothing" then she is either not interested in you or she is actually just a boring person. trust me you dont want to spend time with a person who is so boring, no matter how hot she is Move on! You just got rejected. Its okay. Learn from it and move on. Do your shit. doing your shit and not only concentrating on her will make you even more attractiv to her or other women.
POCKATA so in case of rejection MOVE ON and dont be that guy who is trying to go for months or years through the friendzone to get laid only to find out that she just got a boyfriend and is no longer giving you any kind of attention
POCKATA one more thing. if you were a girl and would see a guy trying to talk with you. what kind of conversation would you hold with him? NOTE: Dont bullshit yourself by saying "any conversation because I am a nice person" imagine 80% of them being fake-nice only to get your number by acting friendly and getting laid so they have a neat story for their friends... yeah. girls dont hate nice guys. they hate the fake-guys who are only nice to them to get something back for it. (mostly sex) and they hate it.
Guys check this out, one of the best things to say, I tested it: "Hey, is there any reason why we shouldn't meet?" So universal and unique, just OWN IT
You know I'm starting to realize that sparking a conversation with a girl isn't necessarily the hardest thing to do. It's having to listen to her yammering on about shit you don't care about that's the hard part.
Tripp, I have a video suggestion: I observed something interesting when I tried talking to a few girls...all the girls I had a conversation with were girls who are attracted to me but the thing is that I am not attracted to all of them! I realised that the execution of my conversation skills with girls depended on the attraction I felt for her! If I found a girl boring, I couldn't come up with anything to say! I feel that I should be able to converse with all girls...even the ones I find boring..because if I can converse with all girls without any resistance...that just means that I am able to empathize with the girl whom I find boring because I understand her psychology and to attract a girl whom I really like, a good understanding of the female psychology will definitely help! and since I consider myself a high quality man, I will feel challenged by a high-quality girl but I need to understand the meaning of a high-quality girl at a deeper level. Taking all these factors into consideration, my suggestion - please make a video on female psychology and what makes a high quality girl! A suggestion to reduce approach anxiety - today I had my master's thesis presentation and I was feeling a bit nervous 15 minutes before the presentation. I thought of the funny roles played by my favourite stand-up comedians and imagined what it would be like to talk like that in the presentation...that got me laughing...next thing I did was check my body language. So visualising hilarious things and blowing them out of proportion helps. A state of self-awareness also helps - observing how nervous energy can manifest itself as weird body moments can help prevent it in the long run...because a girl might see you all funny and get low-quality vibes from you and then her subconscious mind will filter you out before you utter the first word!
Tripp, I gotta hand it to ya, sound logic in every vid! I'm gonna be getting my licence soon and I'll be attending college courses in autumn, so most of your content is gonna be SUUUUUPER helpful for the following months! I know you posted a vid on picking up girls in highschool (thinking about re-watching), but what about picking up girls when... *ulp* Homeschooled?
Some really great tips for anyone who's nervous about approaching strangers. Especially great for the mindset of experiment and not take it so seriously.
Hey Tripp, so I know most guys have a fear of rejection when approaching women, but I feel like I have the opposite problem. Since I don't have much dating experience, I'm actually scared of taking the next step if she wants to go out with me. Any advice about overcoming this fear so I can actually get out there and get some dates?
probably that's the most " right to the point" advice I've ever got , one should actually just approach rather than thinking about the best way to do it . thanks man I'll be using this advice .
this passage from this book sums it up, the thing that annoys me the most is that if a guy views it as a burden, he either gets labeled as having a victim mentality or viewing it as a burden, he takes action but at the same time viewing it as a burden, won't get him far at all, here it is: “Normally, you are the one who has to begin the initial conversation; you are the one who starts touching her, who takes her number, who calls her up, who tells her where to meet you for a date, who initiates a hug the next time you see her, who takes her to a café, who touches her hand across the table, who goes in for the first kiss, who leads her home, who undresses her, and so on through the many small steps all the way into bed. You are responsible for making things happen since you are the male, so advancing is all on your shoulders. Whenever you feel you are not getting anywhere with a woman, or that things are moving slowly, it is because you are not advancing. If you ever catch yourself thinking something such as, “I am not getting anywhere with this girl,” or “I do not know if she likes me,” then it is time for you to make a move. She will not do it, not even if she wants you, and if she does make a move then she is seducing you, not the other way around. If you are thinking, “Well, but if she wants me, why doesn’t she make a move?” it means you do not understand women very well, what they want, or that you as a male are expected to act like a male - and that she is thinking the exact same thing. All over the world, females grow more frustrated by the day because males they know are interested in them are afraid or do not know how to show it by making a move. Many males lose women because they fail to make a move when they have the chance. When you do have the chance but do not take it, the woman is thinking “Why isn’t he doing anything?” because her mindset does not include the option of doing something herself. She will start thinking that you do not like her, or she will park you in her let’s-just-be-friends spot and look for a real man.” W. Anton One thing i do love about you Tripp, is that sometimes you have empathized with us guys, men, regarding certain gender roles and social-norms, but i figure life, reality is just about having the discipline to do it whether you like it or not
Exactly if you don't approach instantly without second thought, you make a big mistake and every single excuse come into your head. I've examined this and lost many chances.
"hey what's up" I think wouldn't work on the streets of ny - maybe at a bar or place where there is an expectation - in nyc, you have to be on your guard so hey what's up is usually followed by a request for completing a survey or begging for money.
Wow for a guy like me that's decently or pretty confident when talking to girls, I always had trouble approaching them first. When I was young I had friends tell girls that I liked them, for me. I know cringe. Lol but now that I just learned all you have to say is hey what's up and I knew that you were friendly, now I can keep the conversation going in anyway I want! Shiiit thanks man! 👍
I simply approach the girl (completely care-free and outcome independent) and focus on the interaction and say "stop your stop talk" and they laugh because it is surreal and out there, and then they ask you what it means ..(insert clever response here ) i usually say something like "it means stop not talking to me " and it gets the conversation going....theoretically, you can use any opener to start the conversation....
My opener is me just staring at a girl like a psycho and then when she does look at me i say" whats ya lookin at hoe!!" This opener pretty much seals the deal 100 percent of the time
damn tripp imagine if i saw this video and told you "in 2020 you're not gonna like the starbucks line" you would be like "nah ur crazy" well what a time to be alive lmao
If you don't have anything to say to a girl then you're not ready to date. I mean why would a girl want to be with guy who doesn't have anything to say, right? So get more experience, learn more things and become a better version of you.
@@skmb2370 same... It happens to me all the time Like after i have said hi....and compliment her looks... And ask for her name.... What's next to say to keep the conversation going
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Hey Tripp, I know you've probably addressed this issue before. However, how do you A) get over the nerves to go for that killer moment like a kiss or go to the bedroom or B) Stop overthinking everything? I find I can have good conversation with girls, have a load of girl friendship, some I know who likes me but either that I'm not fully attracted to them or have that courage to make that approach. I'm normally confident, extroverted until it gets to that crucial moment.
Hi Tripp! This is very helpful indeed. Funny thing is that I network for a living. So I know how to approach people professionally. However, I freeze when there is even a remote thought that I'm attracted to the woman in front of me. There are women I see in the subway but can never get the courge to make a move. However, if it's ina. Social setting where conversation is most expected, it's easier for me to do this. Example: I'm taking kickboxing class. Noticed a young woman I wanted to speak to from the start. At the end of the class, I went up and started a convo. Couldn't do that the next day with another woman, in the subway. I had a distant gut feeling that she wanted me to say something. I froze! What are your thoughts on this head trash? Thanks.
Awesome video....!! so motivation Thanks alot friend for so many potent tricks to get a best version out of you to succeed in not just getting a girl but even having a sky touching confidence which does wonders in any interview and/or making new friends.
No. My videos are not about how to drive girls away with non-stop talking and information overload. It's about attraction, escalation and seduction. This is explained in my podcast as well iTunes: www.trippadvice.com/itunes Stitcher: www.trippadvice.com/stitcher
Can we use the 3 second technique wherever we want? Like, in the subway, in the bus , in the shopping center? What if the girl gets alarmed and be thinks I am a creep?
Thank you...what’s up line will probably not work when you walk on the street and she walks towards you to pass by...I have to chase her to stop and say something but what? I was wondering what would be good line in these circumstances
I love girls with tattoos so for instance I talked to a hot girl tonight she was 25 I'm much older than her but anyway I just asked her and complimented her on her tattoos it was a great conversation starter and we talked for about 45 minutes before I got her number and her Facebook all you have to do is compliment them on something namely something you're both interested in show a lot of interest in it ask her a lot of questions and you're in.
1. "Hello" Done. Conversation starter done. 2. Yes, she DOES remember what you say at first, why the heck do you think women say "when we first met, he walked up to me and told me ..." Tripp trippin on his own ignorance =)
Baleur plus girls love it when you remember shit like that, me and my ex became friends and eventually dated because I went up and asked about empanadas and I used to bring it up all the time and it always made her laugh
Great as everytime. 👏But it will be greater if you started comparing between girls from different countries and how to get them. Like the Italian girl, she's very beautiful and priceless that's why it's not easy to get her QUICKLY, but of course not impossible if you have things like self-confidence or being a true bad boy. Tripp, it will be a great video if you did this comparison and its methods. Go on!💖👏👏👏
I have tons of think to talk about whether it is about my journey, my daily basis, work, interesting moment but the issue is when I say hii to a girl, I freak out and literally forget everything even the name of object that she got and I end up being nervous and talking too fast that she doesn't catch nothing of my saying. Please help help
I always compliment their pets. Ask what the name if their pets are. If their pet has not bit me or growled by the three second pet rule, it's a good sign?
some girls are preety ...when we approach to them ....and say hi ...there always a chance that gal will reply ,,may i know u?...or how may i help u ?? what 2 do at that time ??
wasup bro,try to be self amuzing,dont be a comedian but throw in a joke or use a neg ,she says ‘may i know’ implicate she is hitting on you ‘you would be a great police officer like i was about to pee myself when u said that’..my english is not that good but hope u get the sense of what im saying
What's great about women is that they make up about half of the world's population so I'm sure there's another one around to talk to. ua-cam.com/video/stN4ADeuiJM/v-deo.html
Hey, I really do think that us, as guys, should be proactive in what we like/want. There's one thing holding me back though. After a major accident, my vocal cords got damaged so I'm a little afraid of not being able to initiate or carry a smooth conversation, especially with a beautiful girl.
Use non-vocal means of communication until they trust you. Then when you now each other better, you can tell her about your issue and she will be completely understanding.
If I go using the 3 second rule I can already see myself being awkward and creeping the girl out and man I hate making them feel uncomfortable bc they can sense I'm weak lol
What if I'm a big black guy or I belong other ethnicity. I mean a handsome white gay has an easy situation, but if the girl has a bad persumtion about you It's harder to start a comfortable conversation.
These are definitely good advices. But what if a guy, like me, lives in a small town with 30 000 people? I do not have enough girls to practice with. If I start approaching girls everyday, I got a month, tops, before I approached almost everyone and got labeled as a horny loser who bothers every girl.
actually I hv a stuttering problem when I'm talking and I dun feel confident to approach any girls or even guys. I need an advice on this. hope u can help me
Especially when she's with her friends. Most guys are too afraid of talking to a girl when there is another girl around. So when you can do this, you will stand out at that .001% who is not afraid of "the other girl".
Just introduce yourself as soon as you meet them. Believe its ok to just walk away right after. She might get crowded but thats ok. She will get tiered of 99% of guys and come find you.
Don't bother with it. There's plenty of fish in the sea for you to bother with that one. Until she is sure that she's over her ex, don't bother with it.
Here's a good pick up line you see a pretty girl at a Starbucks and you ask hey do you know where the nearest Starbucks is and then see how she reacts and then you can say oh I use that pick up line all the time maybe I should ask for the next nearest coffee bean & tea leaf
I get to nervous approaching while I'm talking to girls and ive don't know how to get from normal conversation to something a little more interesting for the both of us (plus my voice sounds like sh*t and I mumble alot)
I hate that conversation is like a chore. If I talk like I really talk, I think I'm too sarcastic and right to the point of what I want. I don't know what is going on here. I'm scared of me starting a conversation. Women never start a conversation with me. What the hell.
If you dont have a venue that gives you the ability to revisit with the female for a while this is a wasted effort. Not only do women travel at a different pace than men, but they all seem to be taken nowadays and unless you are a smooth talker and can make such an interesting proposition that can get you in her pants... all of this is a wasted effort and she will drag it along at her pace if she didnt reject the initial effort. Normally, you have to earn her trust and in doing that, you definitely need to be interesting and continue following up with interesting things to say to her. Theyre like sponges that feed off of your energy and need to follow your direction. Its not always easy for the nicer looking guys. Sometimes we make them so nervous and anxious that they run away.
tried talking to a girl yesterday on a bus and when i asked for her name.. (spoiler alert its gonna get super awkward) she said her name, i said mine... and I SHOOK HER FUCKING HAND LIKE YOU DO WHEN YOU IDK GO FOR A JOB INTERVIEW AND IT WAS AWKWARD AS FUCKKKKKK what am i supposed to do? just ask her name then say mine? that is pretty cheap IMO
Tripp this really works . I tried it and I've started good conversations with women . I'm not a shy person but I'm shy to approach a girl/ woman but this really does work thank you
@A He said more than just "say Hi". He said that you should force yourself to start talking to a girl within 3 seconds. He said that if you don't do that your brain starts making up excuses to get it easier for you not to approach her. He also said you should practice it with anyone yoou meet to get better at it and then be more confident when you do it with an attractive girl. He also said that you should think of it as an entertainment and an experiment and that will help you enjoy doing it, instead of being nervous. He said that if you think of it as an entertainment and actually enjoy it, she will feel that and will enjoy it too. He also said you should do it with a strong eye contact and a smile. He said that all of this combined will give you confidence and it will show and she'll feel it and then it won't matter what do you actually say. He finally said you should practice it a lot to get better at it, eventually doing it naturally. I think there's a lot of useful advice there.
“Tell me a little about yourself”
Me (nervous as hell): I was born at a very young age...
The 3 sec Rule is so important.
I approached a girl at the train Station a few days ago and i didnt do it quite fast so all these excuses came was quite challenging but worth it :)
Ty Tripp :D my Favoriten YT Channel these days 😍
He - Hi, what's us
She - Nothing why
He - I'm just going around meeting people today (you seem cool so I came to say hello)
She - Oh, ok (said in an uninterested manner)
....
(Awkward silence)
This above is the issue, and not the interaction or opening statement.
I'm a salesman but when it comes to girls, we don't sell my nigga we sort. You sorted her into the category of girls that were not interested. Time to move on to the next
POCKATA that girl has probaby a reason not to hold a conversation with you
it may be because she is not in the mood
it may be because she has had a bad day
it might be that she sees your intention to fuck her so she goes into the defensive mode by telling you that she has a boyfriend and you need to fuck off
POCKATA I would continue the conversation for the practice
you could go on with:
- How was you day?
- So what do you do when you dont have to work/study?
- What are you always doing in the weekends?
if her answers are very neutral or go with "nothing" then she is either not interested in you or she is actually just a boring person. trust me you dont want to spend time with a person who is so boring, no matter how hot she is
Move on! You just got rejected. Its okay. Learn from it and move on. Do your shit. doing your shit and not only concentrating on her will make you even more attractiv to her or other women.
POCKATA so in case of rejection MOVE ON and dont be that guy who is trying to go for months or years through the friendzone to get laid only to find out that she just got a boyfriend and is no longer giving you any kind of attention
POCKATA one more thing.
if you were a girl and would see a guy trying to talk with you. what kind of conversation would you hold with him?
NOTE: Dont bullshit yourself by saying "any conversation because I am a nice person"
imagine 80% of them being fake-nice only to get your number by acting friendly and getting laid so they have a neat story for their friends...
yeah. girls dont hate nice guys. they hate the fake-guys who are only nice to them to get something back for it. (mostly sex) and they hate it.
Guys check this out, one of the best things to say, I tested it:
"Hey, is there any reason why we shouldn't meet?"
So universal and unique, just OWN IT
Okeej BET IM AT THE SKATING RINK WIT BA BITC*ES ALL AROUND IMA USE THIS RIFHT NOW😆🔥🔥🔥
@@steveogocrazy1462 how did it go?
somebody: hey whats up?
me: the sky...
DE3 Invoker HA! Ha! very funny....
What if you are not outdoors?
then i would be up cuz im fly so high
Somebody: Hey, what's up ?
Me: Sorry gotta go first pick midas Legion
lol xD
You know I'm starting to realize that sparking a conversation with a girl isn't necessarily the hardest thing to do. It's having to listen to her yammering on about shit you don't care about that's the hard part.
lol
Prof. Genki thank you. I need to learn how to buddy slam them
Tripp, I have a video suggestion: I observed something interesting when I tried talking to a few girls...all the girls I had a conversation with were girls who are attracted to me but the thing is that I am not attracted to all of them! I realised that the execution of my conversation skills with girls depended on the attraction I felt for her! If I found a girl boring, I couldn't come up with anything to say! I feel that I should be able to converse with all girls...even the ones I find boring..because if I can converse with all girls without any resistance...that just means that I am able to empathize with the girl whom I find boring because I understand her psychology and to attract a girl whom I really like, a good understanding of the female psychology will definitely help! and since I consider myself a high quality man, I will feel challenged by a high-quality girl but I need to understand the meaning of a high-quality girl at a deeper level. Taking all these factors into consideration, my suggestion - please make a video on female psychology and what makes a high quality girl!
A suggestion to reduce approach anxiety - today I had my master's thesis presentation and I was feeling a bit nervous 15 minutes before the presentation. I thought of the funny roles played by my favourite stand-up comedians and imagined what it would be like to talk like that in the presentation...that got me laughing...next thing I did was check my body language. So visualising hilarious things and blowing them out of proportion helps. A state of self-awareness also helps - observing how nervous energy can manifest itself as weird body moments can help prevent it in the long run...because a girl might see you all funny and get low-quality vibes from you and then her subconscious mind will filter you out before you utter the first word!
in Soviet Russia conversation start you
Yeah. It’s easier there.
i wish
you know what's crazy, i do direct, in person sales, and your tips work like a CHARM...
Great ice breakers my man.
Tripp, I gotta hand it to ya, sound logic in every vid! I'm gonna be getting my licence soon and I'll be attending college courses in autumn, so most of your content is gonna be SUUUUUPER helpful for the following months! I know you posted a vid on picking up girls in highschool (thinking about re-watching), but what about picking up girls when... *ulp* Homeschooled?
Okay, so every video other than the ones about high school and college will help you. Which is great because that's most of them.
2:45
Her: Um...Hey?
Me: 6...7...8...9..10...
LOL
Some really great tips for anyone who's nervous about approaching strangers. Especially great for the mindset of experiment and not take it so seriously.
Hey Tripp, so I know most guys have a fear of rejection when approaching women, but I feel like I have the opposite problem. Since I don't have much dating experience, I'm actually scared of taking the next step if she wants to go out with me. Any advice about overcoming this fear so I can actually get out there and get some dates?
probably that's the most " right to the point" advice I've ever got ,
one should actually just approach rather than thinking about the best way to do it .
thanks man I'll be using this advice .
Good student here.
this passage from this book sums it up, the thing that annoys me the most is that if a guy views it as a burden, he either gets labeled as having a victim mentality or viewing it as a burden, he takes action but at the same time viewing it as a burden, won't get him far at all, here it is: “Normally, you are the one who has to begin the initial conversation; you are the one who starts touching her, who takes her number, who calls her up, who tells her where to meet you for a date, who initiates a hug the next time you see her, who takes her to a café, who touches her hand across the table, who goes in for the first kiss, who leads her home, who undresses her, and so on through the many small steps all the way into bed. You are responsible for making things happen since you are the male, so advancing is all on your shoulders. Whenever you feel you are not getting anywhere with a woman, or that things are moving slowly, it is because you are not advancing. If you ever catch yourself thinking something such as, “I am not getting anywhere with this girl,” or “I do not know if she likes me,” then it is time for you to make a move. She will not do it, not even if she wants you, and if she does make a move then she is seducing you, not the other way around. If you are thinking, “Well, but if she wants me, why doesn’t she make a move?” it means you do not understand women very well, what they want, or that you as a male are expected to act like a male - and that she is thinking the exact same thing. All over the world, females grow more frustrated by the day because males they know are interested in them are afraid or do not know how to show it by making a move. Many males lose women because they fail to make a move when they have the chance. When you do have the chance but do not take it, the woman is thinking “Why isn’t he doing anything?” because her mindset does not include the option of doing something herself. She will start thinking that you do not like her, or she will park you in her let’s-just-be-friends spot and look for a real man.” W. Anton
One thing i do love about you Tripp, is that sometimes you have empathized with us guys, men, regarding certain gender roles and social-norms, but i figure life, reality is just about having the discipline to do it whether you like it or not
nobodysperfect06 great comment!
Thank you so much for your superb advice! It really helps! Keep it up!
An ice breaker would be to ask where things are. Like if you're at a grocery store ask a cute guy or girl where you could find where stuff is
Exactly if you don't approach instantly without second thought, you make a big mistake and every single excuse come into your head. I've examined this and lost many chances.
"hey what's up" I think wouldn't work on the streets of ny - maybe at a bar or place where there is an expectation - in nyc, you have to be on your guard so hey what's up is usually followed by a request for completing a survey or begging for money.
Wow for a guy like me that's decently or pretty confident when talking to girls, I always had trouble approaching them first. When I was young I had friends tell girls that I liked them, for me. I know cringe. Lol but now that I just learned all you have to say is hey what's up and I knew that you were friendly, now I can keep the conversation going in anyway I want! Shiiit thanks man! 👍
Hey man, wonderful videos . The opener i use is "stop your stop talk," it always makes them laugh and invest.
MrMuffinhead22 can you explain?
I simply approach the girl (completely care-free and outcome independent) and focus on the interaction and say "stop your stop talk" and they laugh because it is surreal and out there, and then they ask you what it means ..(insert clever response here ) i usually say something like "it means stop not talking to me " and it gets the conversation going....theoretically, you can use any opener to start the conversation....
MrMuffinhead22 your a genius
My opener is me just staring at a girl like a psycho and then when she does look at me i say" whats ya lookin at hoe!!" This opener pretty much seals the deal 100 percent of the time
ALLDAYUBUM LMAO 😂😂😂😂😂😂
starting a conversation isn't very convenient for everybody and for me it's not easy because I haven't found the right girl yet
Per Egilson then start talking to any girl so that when you do meet someone you really like them it won’t be a problem talking to them
Dude you're a legend 🐐🐐🐐
Her: What's up?
Me: Everything that's not down!
You nailed it Tripp.... It's the fear of approaching women that makes guys ask for opening lines. Though great advice I would follow it right away.
damn tripp imagine if i saw this video and told you "in 2020 you're not gonna like the starbucks line" you would be like "nah ur crazy" well what a time to be alive lmao
yo tripp, my problem is not the approaching, my problems is what to talk about with the girl
Likewise
If you don't have anything to say to a girl then you're not ready to date. I mean why would a girl want to be with guy who doesn't have anything to say, right? So get more experience, learn more things and become a better version of you.
Tripp Advice i mean like, its a random girl, i can same some stuff but themes will run out, what else can i do
@@skmb2370 same... It happens to me all the time
Like after i have said hi....and compliment her looks... And ask for her name.... What's next to say to keep the conversation going
Hey Tripp, I know you've probably addressed this issue before. However, how do you A) get over the nerves to go for that killer moment like a kiss or go to the bedroom or B) Stop overthinking everything?
I find I can have good conversation with girls, have a load of girl friendship, some I know who likes me but either that I'm not fully attracted to them or have that courage to make that approach. I'm normally confident, extroverted until it gets to that crucial moment.
jah raga But then when you going in for a kiss is always going to be nerve recking. That's what makes it sooo good.
jah raga just go for it if you have the feeling I have found when I just go for it it almost always works out and often even better than you think
By practicing with girls that don't make you nervous.
Hi Tripp! This is very helpful indeed. Funny thing is that I network for a living. So I know how to approach people professionally. However, I freeze when there is even a remote thought that I'm attracted to the woman in front of me. There are women I see in the subway but can never get the courge to make a move. However, if it's ina. Social setting where conversation is most expected, it's easier for me to do this. Example: I'm taking kickboxing class. Noticed a young woman I wanted to speak to from the start. At the end of the class, I went up and started a convo. Couldn't do that the next day with another woman, in the subway. I had a distant gut feeling that she wanted me to say something. I froze! What are your thoughts on this head trash?
Thanks.
Awesome video....!!
so motivation
Thanks alot friend for so many potent tricks to get a best version out of you to succeed in not just getting a girl but even having a sky touching confidence which does wonders in any interview and/or making new friends.
That's what it's all about. Becoming the best version of you.
I'll just keep my eyes closed so I don't have to look at anyone haha
can you do a video of how to keep a conversation flowing like you can talk to a girl for years without stopping basically please?
No. My videos are not about how to drive girls away with non-stop talking and information overload. It's about attraction, escalation and seduction. This is explained in my podcast as well iTunes: www.trippadvice.com/itunes
Stitcher: www.trippadvice.com/stitcher
Thanks!
Can we use the 3 second technique wherever we want? Like, in the subway, in the bus , in the shopping center? What if the girl gets alarmed and be thinks I am a creep?
Congrats on 400K
I am seeing the same girl for 7 months every couple day in the bus , I can't open a conversation now can I ?
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Did you watch the video?? If not then watch it again you pus nugget. Lmao محمد عبد النور 3
you can start any time basically what Tripp Said!
Now you can! What's up? Good luck buddy. This video is shit
Hey What's up!
* proceeds to bring out pepper spray *
Thank you...what’s up line will probably not work when you walk on the street and she walks towards you to pass by...I have to chase her to stop and say something but what? I was wondering what would be good line in these circumstances
I love girls with tattoos so for instance I talked to a hot girl tonight she was 25 I'm much older than her but anyway I just asked her and complimented her on her tattoos it was a great conversation starter and we talked for about 45 minutes before I got her number and her Facebook all you have to do is compliment them on something namely something you're both interested in show a lot of interest in it ask her a lot of questions and you're in.
1. "Hello" Done. Conversation starter done.
2. Yes, she DOES remember what you say at first, why the heck do you think women say "when we first met, he walked up to me and told me ..."
Tripp trippin on his own ignorance =)
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Baleur plus girls love it when you remember shit like that, me and my ex became friends and eventually dated because I went up and asked about empanadas and I used to bring it up all the time and it always made her laugh
Baleur that's true I hear girls talking about first time encounters a lot
You always on point
Great as everytime. 👏But it will be greater if you started comparing between girls from different countries and how to get them. Like the Italian girl, she's very beautiful and priceless that's why it's not easy to get her QUICKLY, but of course not impossible if you have things like self-confidence or being a true bad boy. Tripp, it will be a great video if you did this comparison and its methods. Go on!💖👏👏👏
Not all girls from the same country are the same.
Tripp Advice Yes of course okay. Just comparing between girls is interesting. Also here in Egypt we have different types of girls. 👍
I have tons of think to talk about whether it is about my journey, my daily basis, work, interesting moment but the issue is when I say hii to a girl, I freak out and literally forget everything even the name of object that she got and I end up being nervous and talking too fast that she doesn't catch nothing of my saying. Please help help
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Hey Tripp.. how will I start a conversation with girls in social media like fb..
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Hoping for ur direction ☺
That's really a great pick up line. I love it
Hey what’s up- best opener ever
I always compliment their pets. Ask what the name if their pets are. If their pet has not bit me or growled by the three second pet rule, it's a good sign?
some girls are preety ...when we approach to them ....and say hi ...there always a chance that gal will reply ,,may i know u?...or how may i help u ?? what 2 do at that time ??
wasup bro,try to be self amuzing,dont be a comedian but throw in a joke or use a neg ,she says ‘may i know’ implicate she is hitting on you ‘you would be a great police officer like i was about to pee myself when u said that’..my english is not that good but hope u get the sense of what im saying
thanks buddy .....
So how do you get to convince her to give you the phone number
Hands on good useful stuff.
How do I do it when I've already screwed up and don't seem interesting anymore?
What's great about women is that they make up about half of the world's population so I'm sure there's another one around to talk to. ua-cam.com/video/stN4ADeuiJM/v-deo.html
Hey, I really do think that us, as guys, should be proactive in what we like/want. There's one thing holding me back though. After a major accident, my vocal cords got damaged so I'm a little afraid of not being able to initiate or carry a smooth conversation, especially with a beautiful girl.
so my question is, how do I start a conversation with a girl with my "issue?"
Use non-vocal means of communication until they trust you. Then when you now each other better, you can tell her about your issue and she will be completely understanding.
Tripp Advice good advice. my follow up question however, is; what does "non-vocal" communication mean?
Yeah guys believe in yourself. Good video.
If I go using the 3 second rule I can already see myself being awkward and creeping the girl out and man I hate making them feel uncomfortable bc they can sense I'm weak lol
I wait for girls to start conversation with me. I believe in' Ladies First' theory
Guys the (3) second rule is kidda hard to do but with practice it's going to be a lot easier.
What if I'm a big black guy or I belong other ethnicity. I mean a handsome white gay has an easy situation, but if the girl has a bad persumtion about you It's harder to start a comfortable conversation.
Yeah right. Try telling that to all the handsome white guys who have been students of mine. They say the total opposite. It's all in your head man.
I've heard varied response that people say the guys have to do 90 percent of the talking in the beginning or first few minutes
These are definitely good advices. But what if a guy, like me, lives in a small town with 30 000 people? I do not have enough girls to practice with. If I start approaching girls everyday, I got a month, tops, before I approached almost everyone and got labeled as a horny loser who bothers every girl.
Small towns can be a challenge. That's why I always suggest practicing in a city with a large population. It's always easier with more people around.
"small town... 30 000 people" man there's like 1.8k people in my town hahahaha
Your channel should be named Tripps Amazing Advice
I'll think about it. Thanks.
It's not his. He's ripping others off
A good topic to start a conversation with a girl is quantum physics I find.
actually I hv a stuttering problem when I'm talking and I dun feel confident to approach any girls or even guys. I need an advice on this. hope u can help me
Work on that with a speech therapist while studying attraction. Then you will be ready.
So Tripp Should I use it even if she are with her friends? Or do you have some other ways?
Especially when she's with her friends. Most guys are too afraid of talking to a girl when there is another girl around. So when you can do this, you will stand out at that .001% who is not afraid of "the other girl".
Yo trip, can you do a video on playful teasing when you first meeting her?
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trip what should i do and bring when a parents of the girl invited me to meet them on their house?
charles albano Flowers. Any kind that stand out except maybe roses
Just introduce yourself as soon as you meet them. Believe its ok to just walk away right after. She might get crowded but thats ok. She will get tiered of 99% of guys and come find you.
Hey Tripp big fan. my question is that how I approach a girl for being in a relationship who once cheated by a guy? whom she still loves
Don't bother with it. There's plenty of fish in the sea for you to bother with that one. Until she is sure that she's over her ex, don't bother with it.
hmmm interesting
I'll try that today!
I used this in the middle of class during school and it didn't work
What's up? Works every time
Here's a good pick up line you see a pretty girl at a Starbucks and you ask hey do you know where the nearest Starbucks is and then see how she reacts and then you can say oh I use that pick up line all the time maybe I should ask for the next nearest coffee bean & tea leaf
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I get to nervous approaching while I'm talking to girls and ive don't know how to get from normal conversation to something a little more interesting for the both of us (plus my voice sounds like sh*t and I mumble alot)
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I'll try this tomorrow and I'll let you know how it went, Tripp.
mahairman So how did it went?
I haven't seen any attractive girls in my town since then.
nah brother that's the 3sec.
"Hey, what's up"...."have you read the most recent issue of Cosmo....." :/
I hope I don't drop my food while approaching her or I have to think about the "5 second" rule also. =)
It's 3 seconds dip
I hate that conversation is like a chore. If I talk like I really talk, I think I'm too sarcastic and right to the point of what I want. I don't know what is going on here. I'm scared of me starting a conversation. Women never start a conversation with me. What the hell.
What to do if a girl ignores and move straight ahead intentionally without even noticing?
Well in that case I don't think there's much you can do. Find another girl
Tripp, the amaizing..
First approach, start a conversation and then walk away
Trip Idk why but I just love you!! I love your begining "hey its Trip from Tripadvice.com.....
Hi Tripp, I like your advice better that Corey Wayne. :)
can u do how to be funny video and how to tease her?
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In this case seeing is believing..Time for action.
Trippe you men that we should try wait boys . Haha then wie would like boys steat girls . 😂😂😂
If you dont have a venue that gives you the ability to revisit with the female for a while this is a wasted effort. Not only do women travel at a different pace than men, but they all seem to be taken nowadays and unless you are a smooth talker and can make such an interesting proposition that can get you in her pants... all of this is a wasted effort and she will drag it along at her pace if she didnt reject the initial effort. Normally, you have to earn her trust and in doing that, you definitely need to be interesting and continue following up with interesting things to say to her. Theyre like sponges that feed off of your energy and need to follow your direction. Its not always easy for the nicer looking guys. Sometimes we make them so nervous and anxious that they run away.
Curtis Mathis Bullshit
tried talking to a girl yesterday on a bus and when i asked for her name.. (spoiler alert its gonna get super awkward) she said her name, i said mine... and I SHOOK HER FUCKING HAND LIKE YOU DO WHEN YOU IDK GO FOR A JOB INTERVIEW AND IT WAS AWKWARD AS FUCKKKKKK
what am i supposed to do? just ask her name then say mine? that is pretty cheap IMO
Is it just me or does Tripp Kramer look like David Schwimmer
In my town "hey whats up" would get you a rejection faster than the 3 second rule!
Joseph Busch lol
Re 3x secd rule
.. you walk automatically like a robot to the girl .. just walk .. don t think
"Hey, what's up?"
Worst way to start off texting, but best way to start off a real life conversation? Geez
Man is like u read d mind really nic..
Eliminate choice and Lord knows y'all need him so accept him and watch todd white
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5th thumbs up... thanks. 👊👊👊
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How about, hey "wazzzzaaaaaaaaap".
one idea for new video How to start conversation on phone once we get the number
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