Men Are SECRETLY Testing Women In THESE 7 Ways!
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- Men Are SECRETLY Testing Women In THESE 7 Ways!... In this dating, love, and relationship advice video, I will show you the 7 ways men test women and explain how to win him over. You may see men test women on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this dating advice and ensure you watch the entire video.
If you are asking yourself, do men test women? This relationship advice is meant for you. I don't want you to get confused when a man tests you. I want you to know how men test women, why men test women and the things men test women for, for you to pass these tests and attract great guys to have fulfilling relationships.
I want you to know how to pass a man's tests and how to win him over. I want you to know what men want when they test you. Ensure you embrace this relationship advice to understand men better and know the different ways men test women.
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This guy I'm not even dating asked me for money yesterday to fix his sister's car... I was like wtf?! We not even together, and that's YOUR sister TF?!
Some people have a lot of audacity
He better get the money from his sister
@@bernitapennick5930 RIGHT?! TF he thinks this is!
TF???? Wow.....the nerve and to make it worse he didn't ask for the sake of himself..... asked to get something done for his sister??? And that's IF she was really his sister!!! The fact that he asked YOU periodt!!!! 😮😮😮WOW!!
@@blackgal365 Could be another women just to show sympathy that it’s a family member I had that happened to me with this guys mother, don’t go for the okie doke
I was in a relationship with a guy who asked me for money several times. It got to the point where I had to tell him that I am not an ATM! I don’t respect men who have the mindset of taking and not giving.
That’s a turn off for anyone! Any culture is disgusting!
Several times? Why didn't you tell him to go to hell after the first time!
Even with ATM's you gotta have money in it for it to come out. If he isn't giving you money then he doesn't have the right to ask for it.
@@tiisosedirwa7378😂facts
@@Portia620well, thx for bringing up culture because the guy I was with is from Africa and blamed the economy for his lack of finances and felt I was better off in the US and constantly manipulated me for financial support. I finally had to say No; it hurt but I had to.
Intentionally testing people is immature and comes off as playing games. If a man feels the need to do all that he’s clearly unserious & not serious about the lady he is dating. When a man has serious interest & genuine intentions, really likes a woman & sees value, he won’t want to intentionally put himself in a position where he could lose her.. It also speaks to a man’s insecurity and lack of patience. If he was secure & patient he would know that naturally - time will tell. Things will unfold organically and there will be situations and conversations that will shed a light on what he wanted/needed to see/know.
Agreed!! ❤❤ goes both ways
Completely disagree!! You women have no clue why we men must test women we want to date, in general!
@@MannyLoxx2010 If you want a woman, BE SERIOUS!
This is NOT 3rd grade and we're NOT your teacher!
Did you make this assessment based on One of the points in the video or the entire video? @marciawade9101
Ain’t nobody got time for that bs…try to test the wrong one and get PROCTORED right out…but geaux OFF little boy🤦🏽♀️
When a guy is throwing up other women in your face. Runn!!!! Never look back!!!!
That is a drug
exactly
A drug?@@mstwelvedeadlycyns
i should’ve run before. we’re going 2yrs in a rel now but i really regret it!
If any man tried to test me it would be a wrap. I’m not a gold digger but I’m a successful woman, so if a man pretends to be a bum to ‘test’ me he’s the one who will fail. I expect a man to at least be on my level financially and I don’t feel guilty about that.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience with us. I really appreciate it.
I believe the car test could really backfire! 🚗 If she's willing to accept a guy with a hooptie, he might think he can treat her however he wants, mistaking her kindness for desperation. It's crucial to be your true self and allow others to do the same. If he's worried about falling for a gold digger, throwing a "test" on the first date could come off as offensive. Authenticity is key! If she’s truly shallow, he’ll see that in time and can decide then. That’s what dating is all about!
I agree, he could have just driven a normal common car. Why go to the lengths of driving a bump car?
Agreed
I had a date Sunday and the man asked me to pay when ordering drinks. To be fair, it was our second date and he bought the first round. But that was a deal breaker for me. When it comes to courtship, initial stages, I am not going to pay for anything. Period
It just turns me off.
Like he's too cheap.
Doesn't like me enough.
If I were him I would have paid. But I disagree with the notion that the guy always has to pay. I believe in equal relationships so things should be shared. The woman should at least offer to share the bill too. It is only polite after all. I believe that it is ill-mannered to expect someone else to pay for you in any situation.
If I let the guy pay it is already a sign that I like him at least well enough to do that and be in his debt a little bit. I have no issue paying the bill. I have a real issue to be confronted with unreasonable expectations for a pay back. And if the restaurant etc. is too fancy/expensive, I wouldn't want to go in the first place.
@annestaudacher972 your mindset is why men are low effort
@@annestaudacher972 this was a bar and a second date. No meal. My comment was/is not early stages of dating/courtship the men should pay, especially if he took you out.
@@AnnaWhite-go6nz Yes, I respect your opinion. I just disagree with that, because I do not believe in gender discrimination. I also think that it sends the wrong message. I do not need a man for financial support. Partners should mutually support each other, financially as well. But if that is one of your main goals, then the situation may be different for you. I don't believe in generalisations, either. In my opinion, a differentiated approach to these things is better. Good luck and have a lovely day
You can’t give a man everything when you’re not married him the special stuff for when you’re married!! Marriage is not the end. It’s the beginning of real fun!!! Great s-x and you are there for them every night! ❤
My ex-fiance would judge me on my past relationships that had nothing to do with him and criticize me for everything i did. He would constantly test me and throw my past in my face. He literally would break up with me every week and take his engagement ring back until I finally told him to keep it🤷🏾♀️
Breaking up is a dealbreaker. That guy was clearly manipulative. I think you dodged a bullet. Congrats! I would never take anyone back after a breakup. Always refused when they asked - Thank God!
Dr John Gray author of book "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus"
He talks of the chemistry.
He mentions in our modern-day, men are more on their estrogen side and women are more on their testosterone side.
It's a social issue AND an environmental issue, right? (i.e.; the longterm side effects of ingesting microplastics)
I recently stayed at my friends house that I’ve known for 25 years, during a hurricane. He is like my best friend ! He left to go out of town so I had an entire house to myself. To show appreciation, I cleaned the entire house top to bottom while he was gone. It was nice to see him smile when he walked in knowing that he didn’t have to worry about cleaning. His job is very stressful.
Sometimes you have to take the lead ladies, even though these men will test you. Just be your true and authentic self in every situation/relationship and over time, you will stop trying to impress and things will just click.
Will he and I ever be together? It’s headed that way but I live in the moment and not projecting what I want on to him keeps the friendship light and fun. It is very organic and I like it that way. He doesn’t know that I know he tests me on so many levels lol! But it’s fun to pass his stupid little tests :))
If I like someone ~ I watch how they view themselves in contrast to how they treat others. What would interest me most would be their mannerisms toward things, quality of life, compassion for others, respect & kindness. (Trappings CAN be a telling facade, though.)
Sometimes it’s the woman who has the money. Women have a fear as well as men wanting their money. Btw I love your channel, just discovered it. You explain things very well.
when someone say: am a frugal person, i dont have money for marriage, my woman should have her job, it's a turn off for me. i want a peaceful marriage, if you say you dont have money for that then you're not ready, lets be friends but i'll try to meet other guys, if you then become ready and still want me and i still dont have anyone else then we can be spouse. i like having work and my own money, but if in the future our kids need me i'll prioritize be a housewife for my kids. so my husband should competent for the finance. How frugal are you? i have sensitive skin & body (easy get allergic) my skincare and etc are a bit pricey. if he a frugal person and want me to neglect my needs (switch to any cheaper goods) then he is not for me. so dont say that words only to test me. i'll think that you are not suitable for me.
I feel like you just responded my current circumstance. I want someone who takes my everything seriously. Potential is no longer being allowed in the process of whether or not anyone is a keeper. Keeping it moving. No 50/50.
@@jamiemcdaniel6577 good luck.
6:08 is spot on!! This is where games and testing backfire and can actually cheat people from true connection
Exactly!
Yep!!!
Yes my ex said that,he said to me about 3 months ago I'm trying to figure you out,I had no idea what that meant and didn't ask,but I know it didn't work out, Single life is Beautiful ❤❤❤
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Exactly, just put they’re money where their mouth is that’s what I used to do
I'm 30 seconds in but let me guess 'give him space' will come up and I totally agree with it 😊
@janjISMYnametruths
I give them space. Permanently! Lol
Thanks!
This is too much. I see why so many women don’t want to date at all.
Ignorance! Agree
That would be ME. I do not have the mental energy
@ me either. Thinking about dating other races. Never did that before can’t hurt.
That’s why understanding men is important and men understanding women. Because we are both looking out of different windows
@ I agree
I agree with you, Stephan, about not painting an inaccurate financial picture with people. I practice that now with other people in my life.
That’s good to hear man
Agreed but also don’t share your income!! I think many men end up with wrong gals! Vampires!!
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is Father Akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.
I just searched for Father Tunde Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤
Healthy advice. Love that you’re open minded in a functional way
5:33 exactly what I was thinking!! I dont value cars and when I get picked up in a nice car, I just take it as a green flag that the man wanted something and worked for it. That being said, I'd be disappointed if I guy I liked showed up as a different person. And I think even women who value high-income, dont like when a man believes his money is such a large determining factor of his worth.
Stephan this video is one of my favorites . Every female should watch it to understand the dating process
My ex is a man with severe mommy issues and expected me to take care of his anxiety & sleep issues all at the same time, expecting me to show up for him in supporting him while his father was unwell. I prayed night after night for his father's well-being, prayed for his own well-being and success. Took a step back from him because taking care of him was draining the hell outta me physically. He had the absolute audacity to call me selfish, snuck around and went talking to his former fwb, who he also remains friends with.
Wow. My situation was like that no one sick, mommy issues. Long story short he was hooked on gambling, so we not together now. He still trying to get in my lane. I'm trying to stay friends, but he still acting like we still together. I'm not sure how to handle this. .
@@gloriapearson64 keep him blocked, remain no contact.
Leave him or speak to him about how you perceive his behaviour as mommy issues and how you both can work on that. Also express how you do not want him to speak to his former friends with benefits as it crosses your boundary. Regardless of how he sees this woman, he must respect and take your feelings into account. If he chooses to not remove his former friends with benefits out of his life. Then know that is plain disrespect to you and your relationship considering his past with this woman. Remember that this is not a normal friendship. They clearly have slept with each other before so they clearly have these in appropriate feelings towards each other. If he does not respect this boundary, then please respect yourself and leave.
@@gloriapearson64 you’re doing him a favour and also may be giving him hope by continuing to entertain him.
Men need clear signs concerning forms of communication, as most of the time they are socialised to be more direct. Not giving him any sort of time of day or attention would clearly communicate to him that you do not want him as a future potential partner or friend.
Ask yourself these questions:
Do you still want him as a friend? Are you comfortable with his gambling addiction, even as a friend? Do you want someone like that really in your life and you handle that?
Once you’ve answered these questions, make your decision then take those steps to match that.
There are women that love to be provocative and there is nothing wrong with that. Men that like provocative women should be with women that are provocative in their appearance. I'm reserved in my dressing. I don't have things hanging out, never have and will not. I believe you can be sexy and classy without things hanging out. I'm a woman of God and my first priority is to please God .. All the best
Thank you for sharing 🙏
To each their own. I think find line between sexy and trash. Trash for the bedroom! 😂❤.
I think we should be covered head to toe in public anymore!!!! Sick of cheating men!! Weak men and women! 🤢
@@Portia620 yes, I can be all the freak my man wants, but when I'm out and about I want to keep it sweet and decent..
Was this woman sober or under the influence of anything that might alter her conscious reality when she failed the test??? Bc on the real, That’s one f-Ed up man to intentionally set his woman up to fail when it’s suppose to be a man’s job to protect the female from predators who want to just use her.. Ask yourself this, Would you do that to your little girl? 🤔
Yeeeeeeeessssss, I agree 💯!
I told them !!! No kissing!!! No s-x for long time!!!! Honestly wait till marriage!!!! Best to wait
cant agree more.❤
This list was legit. Great advice.
I’m glad you found it helpful
Thank you Stephan, I liked this video alot. Indeedd, just be yourself, there is your power.
🙌 I’m glad you enjoyed it
Thank you Stephan, you are such a blessing ! God bless you ❤
My pleasure 😊 and thank you
I’m sorry I don’t chase men. I’m traditional. He didn’t reach out to me, he kept playing this game so I cut him off. He already knew I liked him back. He liked me first but I am not going to play any games. He wasn’t even my type but I still gave him a chance. I started catching feelings like he was but I felt he wasn’t putting enough energy, bc of his pride. He said I matched everything he wanted in a woman but yet would get mad that I didn’t let him over step my boundaries. I was just trying to protect myself. I’ve only been in one relationship ever and I don’t casually date men. I do however get attention from men who want something serious with me and that I guess got him angry. Even though I was just honest, understanding and patient with him. He wanted to humble me bc of how I got attention. I wasn’t looking for it. He also knew I don’t sleep around, I’m pretty modest and im also a God fearing woman. Idk why I fell for him but I did. All I wanted was for him to put in more effort, I didn’t do anything at first, I held back all my feelings bc i needed to see what his actions would say first, I cut him off and I cried but he’ll never know how I felt. I’m just not going to allow anyone to play games with me. I could tell he was used to toxic women and playing games. Def wasn’t my type but I just grew to care for him. I know I deserve better but it still hurt. He told me he was used to women also chasing him and I never did any of that so I could tell he’d get mad over me not texting him. Yet I said ok I’m a traditional woman, I don’t chase men. I was upfront. I told him yes I’m interested in you back. Then he tried to love bomb me. I liked it but I didn’t allow him too. I loved it yes but I was trying not too move so fast. Calling me his wife like what. All that did was make me feel nice and I had to catch myself from falling for words. He was just so cocky. He wanted me to text him and reach out to him. I did once and he just tried to play more games. Nope. I remained quiet. I liked him alot but he was such a cocky person. I told him what kind of person I was so idk why he started to get so mad and treat me so cold. Just bc I didn’t chase him but yet he couldn’t keep away from me. I done mind showing effort but this all happened before we even had the chance to meet up in person 😂 like what. Nah I cut it off. It hurt bc we had been talking for months but he had his chance and he just “testing Me”
I even put off other dates just bc I wanted to see him but I really do feel his pride got in the way a lot. Like how you mad I’m not chasing you huh
I am a giver naturally but we gotta be dating consistently or in a relationship before I start to also invest. I invested my feelings into this but he never knew. I held back bc I didn’t want to just be in a situationship but I still ended up hurt. This was my first talking stage and I’m never doing that again
NOW y cant I get a NICE GUY LIKE YOU!!!! oh my man!!! Love yr mature heart and personality. Ect. Love yr laugh!!! My cousin boyfriend of 6! Years. Is just using Her!!!! I showed her many times how shes suppose to be treated. But shes not letting go!!! Shes 58! Hes much younger. I cud write a book on them! Lord put ah hand!
Thank you for writing in 🙏
Sooo sad!
Good to know I’m on the right path!
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30:29 this situation would scare me AF!!! i would loose all my trust about what kind of ppl i got myself with. friends who would betray their friends, a guy who is obviously not good at choosing his friends..
at this point i would be out the door, never to be seen again
Stephan, I’m not sure where’s the best place to give you feedback but you have given so much to your audience with these insightful videos of explaining (some!) men to (some!) women… geez… thanks a million! I find it truly interesting. When we’ve grown in an environment that forces a perspective it’s really difficult to come out of it… I know these days women are not so dependent on men to have a meaningful life, in some places in the world nothing at all really! This shapes the mind more than we would think but evolutionarily speaking we’re all still deeply wired to some ancient genes so respect for that too, we mustn’t forget.
I love your content. It's been super helpful and eye-opening, and I'm glad there's someone honest and caring like you who can give females a male perspective.
Told my guy I chipped my front tooth and he was not faded I told him I felt I gained some unwanted weight and he still wasn’t faded he like me regardless 🤷🏽♀️ I also love him for him‼️
Thank you for sharing this 🙏
Rare! True love!
"Tests" are deceptive and basically a trap 😅 Because whether your response is satisfactory or not all depends on the other person's point of view. Meaning one person's pass is another's fail, depending on their mindset. I think people can often sense when another's behavior is off and they're being "tested." So entertaining that is like a set up to fail in my opinion, in even attempting to "pass a test." You could pass and then they move the goalposts. All because they really don't like you regardless. So to me anybody that tries to manipulate me by using a "test" is childish in my estimation. There's a difference between vetting - using wisdom and common sense to realistically evaluate your compatibility with someone - versus setting up some artificial scenario that may or may not work according to plan. I think people should first work on themselves to be the most healed and best at people skills that they can be, before seeking a mate. Then use wisdom in how they meet prospective partners and interact with them, but be yourself. Because what you need is someone who you truly mesh with, if you want the relationship to last. That doesn't mean it's okay to act like a jerk and again we should vet people heavily - there's nothing wrong with observing and using common sense. But if someone isn't ready to be open and vulnerable with you and wants to try to heavily "test" you which inherently involves deception, then they probably see red flags and already don't like you as a result, or they aren't ready for a relationship at all and are somewhat delusional 🤷🏽♀️😂
I stopped reading at test and immature! I agree!!! They failed the test! nEXT!! No one has time for bs!
@@Portia620 100 percent! 🤝🏽✨
Thank you so much watching your videos has helped me improve with men.
Wonderful 🙏
Always be honest
Absolutely!
I was never will again
Excellent video & topics👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💯💯💯
Thank you very much
@@MeetStephanSpeaks you’re welcome 👍🏼
This is informative. You always are spot on. Stay blessed.
Thank you 😊 I appreciate that
I don't believe in carnal petty testing, but I think that discussing what the opposite gender is trying to evaluate in the other is a good topic of discussion.
What’s so wrong about wanting your partner to be financially stable? For me personally, if I’m not that great with money, I would hope to find a partner that was good with finances. Not because I want their money, but because if both of us have the same issue (with being bad with finances) then I just don’t think that makes a great team and could lead to issues down the line. I think it’s about balance and knowing your own weaknesses and finding those strengths in someone else. That’s smart & I think men get too wrapped up into money that they forget to see the forrest through the trees.
Agreed!
Thank you for this presentation❤
Always my pleasure 🙏
The biggest test of my life is when we were out and he left his cellphone with me while going to get our drinks😂 I passed but man was that stressful😅
Why?
I wish I knew this sooner but I know better now thank you
😊Great content, Stephan!!!😊
Thank you for sharing sweetheart. I am going to need for you to keep going. I'm loving every bit of it😍💜🥰🙏💪🙌
Thank you for your support
@@MeetStephanSpeakssweetheart the pleasure is mine🥰😘
ATTENTION ALL WOMEN:
WHATEVER YOU DID AND WHOMEVER YOU SPENT YOUR TIME WITH BEFORE YOU MET A MAN IS NONE OF THIER BUSINESS.......TELL THEM THIS AND MAKE SURE THEY UNDERSTAND THAT THEY ARE NOT ABOVE REPROACH OR ENTITLED!!!
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This is so good! Plain and simple
I like the simple things in life
Many do
If he's dating other women you shouldn't want him to choose you and definitely not look out for him. Don't make yourself an option. You should be the priority and then you can pour into it.
I had a guy at my church tell me “I don’t date” so I guess what he was alluding to was he only has sex with women. Good thing I dodged that bullet!
I think that age is a HUGE factor in a man or woman's feeling like they need to "test".
To a certain extent. Past experiences and bad advice play a huge role.
“You probably thinking they all play games” 😂😂 indeed Stephanlmao 😂
Thank you 🙏 God bless you. This was very good teaching!
Another great video!! 👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you, I appreciate that
I knew a very rich guy that would tell women he worked at the 99 cent store and he drove a bucket! lol! That was his test!
Can you do a video on - how to make him be comfortable and himself around you .
Yes I will make that happen
I think ill be okay in these situations ❤😅 I just wanna be healthy and work on becoming a healthy couple no matter what
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I needed this
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This was a very good video ❤
So, we all are testing all. So sad.
I hate the “game” too
Unfortunately too many are
God has unconditional love. Most people do not, if we are being honest. Also, love has conditions. it just depends on the person/people. No games, learn the person by spending time. Open awareness is key 😊😅😂❤ ❤❤❤
Love should be unconditional, but relationships should not.
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Thank you for your videos. ❤
Thanks Stephan
You’re welcome ❤
Don't worry! I like to say the word ridiculous as well 😄🤦🏽♀️🙏🏽💚
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🫶🏻🫶🏻 Gracias!
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I ❤ youuu so muuchh😅 so sad I missed you here in Orlando 🙁
😊 thank you, I’ll be back next year
@@MeetStephanSpeaks ahh he replied! 🫶 I'll definitely keep a better eye out next time! Much love ❤️
He needed to choose better! Glad he had one good one.
A lot of us women make good money and would prefer a man that can relate. I think a gentleman should pay for dinner on the first date. I think going dutch on the first day is inappropriate but that's just my opinion.
Being modest is a big deal for God. Women clothing.
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My brother my friend you're show's are wonderful my brother i all ways love your shows 😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅
💕 Shoutout to Mr. AlmondJoy. You already know. 😉✋🏼💯
🙏❤️ thank you
I am not auditioning. Either come out the gate ready to race on the real track or stay in the barn.
I asked my man how much debt he has (cause I have zero), and he was completely open and honest with me. Turn ON babe!
@shanagale5898 Thank you so much for sharing this. I don't have any debt either and I won't marry someone who plans on living in unrepentant debt. (Except for maybe a house for a season.). My boundary on this is to let a woman know by the second date if it is not already known.
If you are in a relationship it is right to tell your man or woman about your past relationships
Thank you for your feedback
Nowadays Women's are so innocent.we trust on man so fast and they're always play games for their views and like.they west all women's life.and after says we were playing the games . please woman protect your self from these types of men's
Honestly there are a lot of people on both sides playing games
Some of us get turned off by chronically broke dudes because we don't want to be a sugarmomma. A couple of my exes were always broke. There was always an excuse to bum money and they'd be broke again two days later. One was always in-between jobs and lie about why he got fired (he was lazy and always late), but the second ex finally went and got a pay raise and at least tried to fix it.
I told them !!! No kissing!!! No s-x for long time!!!! I need a commitment !!
I don’t like it when men try to impress me with their toys; says “I’m insecure”.
A lot of people would agree with yoy
I hope there are some men and women who don't play these games. So childish, and it gives a bad name to men and to women. I rather be on my own than being with someone who plays game. WHAT HAPPENED TO HONEST COMMUNICATION BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE??
Well said 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks 💜💜🙏
Why is our culture all about males and females competing with eachother? What happened to guys approaching, assessing for compatibility and either moving forwards or moving on?
I dealt with 4 women who cut me off after the first date because I didn’t try to have sex with them , that’s when I learned the new dating culture wasn’t dating with a purpose. It was after I came out a 7 year relationship, that’s when I learned about the new dating scene
Some women prefer minimalists.
I think the body count matters in terms of knowing if this person used protection and they are free of STI's or knowing what kind of sexual values they have.
I completely understand that perspective
You can ask for an STD test before getting involved and ask what they expect, etc. Some people change so what they did at 19 isn’t the same at 45. Should they really be judged for that?
@@someoneyoudontknow7705 that's why you ask questions
@@someoneyoudontknow7705u assume someone’s is judging… 😂. It gives probably of having infection.
@@someoneyoudontknow7705common sense and I read way too much medical stuff but yes having one parent could land you with std. testing is best option
I am very conservative
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What do you do when i as the woman almost ALWAYS initiates? Does it mean hes not that interested? He alwaya moves his schedule around when i ask to see him but im used to guys at least planning a few dates
Stop initiating.
Couch these man are not predictable I have been in a relationship for a year and half thinking that he's texting me end up getting tired of it he's not even providing empty promises he try to manipulate me with my kids I told him to stop t he's going to far
I’m sorry to hear you’re dealing with that
@@MeetStephanSpeaks pray for me my brother I don't know where I do it wrong
You nailed it at 24:00-24:23 when you were talking about how you know of some women who are an IG model and you would think that they can have any man they want, they have it all, they don't have any problems finding the right man, etc., I completely relate. I am blessed to have the gift of beauty and I struggle in the employment aspect of my life because there are some jobs that WORK FOR ME and I have to turn to it when I am in survival mode and in serious need to support myself but I DEFINATELY can NOT find the man who is right for me. I have to constantly work towards achieving goals in the employment aspect of my life because that matters tremendously in the relationship & marital aspect of my life.
A married guy in the past we had an affair this had to end but five months later he is trying to keep the friendship my barriers are up and I am waiting to just block it. Unfortunately there is love there
STEPH❤,
THE COUPLE WHERE THE GUY TOLD HER HE WOULD GET HER CAR FIXED AND SHE TOOK IT TO HER FRIEND TO FIX SIMPLY MEANS: SHE THINKS SHE'S SMARTER THAN HIM AND WHEN HE GIVES A SUGGESTION TO HER, SHE CHANGES THE PLANS BECAUSE SHE FEELS SHE HAS A BETTER IDEA TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM 😮😮😮. .....
HE SHOULD BASICALLY TELL HER THAT SINCE SHE HAS ALL THE ANSWERS AND SOLUTIONS TO HER PROBLEMS WHY BOTHER ASKING HIM 😮😮😮😮😮
My ex offered to take my car to fix a dent and scratch on the left side back door . U trusted him with my car and he took it to the cheapest repair shop. When he returned the car I had to go back to the agency service center to have the whole job done all over again : the door had a weird shape , the paint was visibly much more different than the rest of the car ; they also damaged the hydraulic of the boot and the boot door came down on my back and hurt me . 😊 I had to pay much more than i would have initially. And then he asked me for 7000 $ to pay for his son wedding 🙃.
My question about money is, is it supposed that men should pay always for dinner, drinks in the early dating?
Men need to be honest if they are really "giving" as they say all around the board.
Indeed
@@MeetStephanSpeaks je étre en ligne
✨Even if it’s my homegirls man , my girls man come around I’m out “ hey girl I holla @you later “ .. samething with my man if I’m around my mans homies eyes to the curb , speak if I’m spoken to and that’s still limited to a minimum . 🤷🏽♀️✌🏽💯💃🏾✨
The best “test” you can do is to be 💯 yourself. If they like that then that’s all you need to know.
Why test someone in imaginative scenarios that don’t even apply to who you are or what you’d do in a certain situation? That’s stupid.
Being yourself is definitely the best approach to take
When I hear the term "car"...it could merely be an energy, because it takes drive...a person can have a nice attitude or vice versa, come in too fast or too slow...
Thank you for watching
If a woman has different men, you call them "promiscuous".
If a guy does it, you say he's single, can do what he likes.
An OUTSTANDING guy.
Funny.
Men, don’t be game players. Women, don’t use men. Treat people how you want to be treated and don’t let people use you or mistreat you.