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  • @eyestothesoul304
    @eyestothesoul304 2 роки тому +411

    You can see the shade emanating from Dee before she throws it. 🤣

    • @lexlarae8466
      @lexlarae8466 2 роки тому +13

      Fr 🤣

    • @kingjaydex7464
      @kingjaydex7464 2 роки тому +38

      Mannn she says a lot without saying anything 🤣

    • @Frozenson
      @Frozenson 2 роки тому +13

      Had to breathe it out 😄

    • @emilyash2584
      @emilyash2584 2 роки тому +17

      Yea she wanted to talk SO BAD about that girls eyebrows I know .. but girl was cute

    • @benjaminissac8701
      @benjaminissac8701 2 роки тому +1

      Legendary comment

  • @jahkoeb
    @jahkoeb 2 роки тому +435

    “Breathe out the shade” you know what im using that from now on lol

    • @natenate3353
      @natenate3353 2 роки тому +8

      same 💀

    • @shaz1998
      @shaz1998 2 роки тому +8

      I laughed the exact same time she laughed, I was looking at her for a reaction and ended up laughing at the same time😂😂 Dee is too funny

    • @kk-ed4cr
      @kk-ed4cr 2 роки тому

      lol

    • @Naiibeezy
      @Naiibeezy 2 роки тому

      Same

    • @LegendaryTony.
      @LegendaryTony. 2 роки тому

      1st time I've seen blonde eyebrows on a sister. And now I know why. 🐸

  • @DeniseF
    @DeniseF 2 роки тому +215

    Dee would make a great friend. The downside to that is that she will laugh at your face if you look weird and hurt feelings 🤣🤣🤣

    • @DeeShanell10
      @DeeShanell10  2 роки тому +206

      Lmao nah I don’t do this at all, I let my friends look busted in peace 💀

    • @toodepressedtobelieve.518
      @toodepressedtobelieve.518 2 роки тому +42

      @@DeeShanell10 nah dawg don't be letting people walk around looking busted lmao 😂

    • @DeeShanell10
      @DeeShanell10  2 роки тому +175

      Lol yeahh but what’s “busted” to me clearly isn’t to them, so I let them be. I don’t believe in projecting my own preferences onto my friends/family, if they like it, more power to them ✊🏾 lol

    • @DeniseF
      @DeniseF 2 роки тому +9

      @@DeeShanell10 😅😅😅

    • @toodepressedtobelieve.518
      @toodepressedtobelieve.518 2 роки тому +17

      @@DeeShanell10 i guess you're right 👍

  • @nnachi9203
    @nnachi9203 2 роки тому +212

    Yup, as a friend I can't deny i get jealous of thicker girls being a skinny black girl but that's my best friend, I just couldn't honestly imagining letting that take over to the point I hurt my bestfriend.
    My bestfriend has been with me through so many emotions like... bruh I'd be ready to fight myself if I ever let my jealousy take over like...
    Not only that I think we as humans beings need to learn to admit our emotions im fine with admitting to have jealousy from time to time but that's how you work through emotions admit you have them recognize them and work on changing them. That whole replace your emotion to something else (like angry management) is the same as not deal with your emotions.

  • @cookiedho
    @cookiedho 2 роки тому +52

    The jealousy dynamic thing really does occur EVERYWHERE. Friends, siblings, MOTHERS too... Teachers, classmates whatever I experienced almost all of this.

  • @anthonybattles8026
    @anthonybattles8026 2 роки тому +157

    Real Talk dudes be hating too it happens both ways people don't want to see you win 💯

    • @dionwilliams4598
      @dionwilliams4598 2 роки тому +7

      my homies don’t be like that. but niggas idk ong they be hatin

    • @Smyle001
      @Smyle001 2 роки тому +2

      @Miscellaneous Memes frl its tough love

  • @liloudubois7849
    @liloudubois7849 2 роки тому +127

    Dee is just funny without trying. “She’s very smiley. 😐” has me weak. ( 4:39 )

  • @maxerinjames
    @maxerinjames 2 роки тому +163

    Men act this way too. Men will get mad when other people in their group are getting attention, or if they don't go home with anything. Especially when someone who may not be conventionally more attractive gets more attention. Guys that go out with intention to just smash instead of have fun with friends ruin the night. They end up calling the night trash when they fail, and they end up being the creeps and act inappropriate, almost pushing women to do things they may not want to.

    • @hahahaha--__--
      @hahahaha--__-- 2 роки тому +7

      Never experienced that, unless it was a girl 2 guys liked beforehand. In my groups of friends, they just slowly backed off to let you do your thing, if they noticed it was going somewhere.

    • @hahahaha--__--
      @hahahaha--__-- 2 роки тому +5

      @@ramboxworld1405 Guess i had nice friends, we helped each other instead, only trash talk you might get, was if you found a particularly ugly girl, and the end of the night, after way too much alcohol. And even then it only be in the following days, and not that night.
      Back your friends up, we men got it hard enough all ready, make your friends look good, if they making any progress. You will also notice all of you start performing better in the long run, if you give each other optimal working conditions. =)

    • @newaccount.7058
      @newaccount.7058 2 роки тому +5

      Never in my life seen that before I guess me and all my bro’s just built different

    • @maxerinjames
      @maxerinjames 2 роки тому +32

      Loving all the replies of people doing the "I'm not like that" comments.

    • @hahahaha--__--
      @hahahaha--__-- 2 роки тому

      @@maxerinjames Scare thought is, that maybe we not like that? Plenty of fish in the sea dude, dont have to hate on you, just because you catch the first one...

  • @madatcolorless7050
    @madatcolorless7050 2 роки тому +66

    As a dude I truly don’t feel no kind of way if a girl approached someone im with instead of me, that’s true cornbillion shit.

    • @Smyle001
      @Smyle001 2 роки тому +11

      fr, we all in dis together

    • @Londonlink
      @Londonlink 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly and there is a 99.9% chance she got friends with her so ill play wing man no problem even if the friend less attractive

  • @Sofritho
    @Sofritho 2 роки тому +31

    Imagine your friend being mad cause the attention was on you, ON YOUR BIRTHDAY LMAO like what. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @imanigordon6803
    @imanigordon6803 2 роки тому +74

    It happens to guys too but guys are more likely to cheer bros on cause we be lucky if any of us get play 😂

    • @thatkidkgosi
      @thatkidkgosi 2 роки тому +18

      Dudes be proud of each other

    • @leodanysperez1261
      @leodanysperez1261 2 роки тому +4

      Shit I chear my homies on when they get some play haha

    • @vibez.no.cartel
      @vibez.no.cartel 2 роки тому +13

      Not really, guys throw shade out of jealousy through "jokes", I've literally seen it happen. My friend who's abit more shy and reserved will get alot of attention. But the loud and outgoing ones who usually get the most attention will feel a type of way and talk over him. Men do it too but it's just a bit more subtle then women because they don't want to come off as no bitch.

    • @Londonlink
      @Londonlink 2 роки тому

      Facts 💯bro you everywhere 😂😂

    • @imanigordon6803
      @imanigordon6803 2 роки тому

      @@Londonlink hey again bro 😂 I didn’t see your discord I think I missed it or something

  • @xxarianahiltonxx5116
    @xxarianahiltonxx5116 2 роки тому +126

    The dating scene is competitive for biological reasons. So, your closest friends may act like your enemies just to get what they want. It's The Mating Game: Human Edition.

    • @AV218_
      @AV218_ 2 роки тому +43

      True, but as ppl we’ve evolved beyond thinking like we don’t have a conscience. Any person, male or female, who doesn’t have enough self control to humble themselves in situations like this is just insecure imo

    • @RavenDots115
      @RavenDots115 2 роки тому +6

      Yea but they are grown adults in a modern society so they have to know how to be mature. It’s not an actual mating ritual so no need to act all Immature about not getting attention. Those people need to grow up.

    • @xxarianahiltonxx5116
      @xxarianahiltonxx5116 2 роки тому

      I'm not saying that we aren't more intelligent. We can make decisions for ourselves for sure, but biology still plays a part in how we act too. Our brains tell us how to move and releases oxytocin which activates the feelings of attraction (trust too). This can cause the feeling of jealousy as well when there are other potential dates are around. Now, I'm not saying you have to let these feelings take over you, but it is natural to feel this way when you are around someone you like and have not established anything concrete yet.

  • @theyoungjourney
    @theyoungjourney 2 роки тому +29

    The shade starts in Dee’s eyebrows, then she rolls her eyes, Nd she laughs then looks off shady as hell😂

  • @obiejetochukwu8145
    @obiejetochukwu8145 2 роки тому +10

    …and it’s not always about being super attractive, it’s about looking approachable. Super attractive girls be walking like their shit smell of roses, and no guy has time for that. If you look friendly and approachable, you will be approached.

  • @beaucei6003
    @beaucei6003 2 роки тому +5

    That jealousy in relationships is weird af. I know a guy that purposely dates women that are less attractive than him because he doesn’t like her getting more attention than him. Real shit. & not even like attention from other men trying to pursue her, I mean attention from anybody, like other females, gay men etc. for example, if someone were to compliment his girls outfit or her hair or say she was pretty or something he’d be over in the corner with his had raised like, “what about me?” Type shit. Lol.

  • @catierollins8493
    @catierollins8493 2 роки тому +15

    Lol @ the girls saying I’m not that big…

  • @trippy7xtee185
    @trippy7xtee185 2 роки тому +8

    i looked at them blond eye brows and seen dee face im like aww shit

  • @Nakiimushi
    @Nakiimushi 2 роки тому +6

    I cannot relate, my friends have always been supportive and we all have different tastes in guys anyway 😅

  • @saranqhee1645
    @saranqhee1645 2 роки тому +21

    I’m sorry but I busted out laughing around the 8:30 mark. 😂

  • @janellegrant1897
    @janellegrant1897 2 роки тому +6

    Narcs aka narcissists are blatantly cold from their emotional body, heavily judgmental on oneself seeking for perfection. And critical on others regarding anything one is doing. Nothing is never enough for a narc, they continuously are striving for better then what they have bc gratitude/appreciation/ humbleness doesn’t exist for these people. “I’m right and you’re wrong” complex. Accusatory and those external from them are always to blame.

  • @haileymiller2521
    @haileymiller2521 2 роки тому +17

    Dee speaking straight facts

  • @amanfinally20
    @amanfinally20 2 роки тому +23

    I’m just glad I’ve been watching Dee so long that when she’s laughing and keeping in the shade, I be knowing exactly what she laugh shading 😂 😂

  • @spiderman61603
    @spiderman61603 2 роки тому +20

    Naw dudes hate if they are interested in the same girl. However overall guys try to support because guys rarely get asked like that in the first place

  • @walnutbread777
    @walnutbread777 2 роки тому +8

    that deep breath took me tf out 😭😭

  • @aaronvod
    @aaronvod 2 роки тому +9

    Yes Dee I’m a lgbtq male and me and my bestie go out and he’s a bit thicker than me and he gets more attention. It doesn’t bother me at all , i hype him up . I don’t go out looking for hooks ups or the random lay at the bar . I got to make sure he’s okay because ppl can be sketchy . I also get told because I look “modelesque” and I come off as intimidating , I welcome it because you can’t half step to me . It doesn’t ruin the night we still have a blast . I still dance on people and everything , I just don’t take them home . We’re a dynamic duo and I feel it’s our energy that attracts people . But the group we were with literally left the club because we were getting so much attention last night and having fun .

  • @Frozenson
    @Frozenson 2 роки тому +2

    Really appreciate your honesty

  • @_Saraaah_
    @_Saraaah_ 2 роки тому +3

    Not breathe out the shade 😭😭💀

  • @tristanlouis4861
    @tristanlouis4861 2 роки тому +2

    🤣🤣🤣 I swear i love Dee! She out here breathing out shade🤣🤣🤣

  • @tristanlouis4861
    @tristanlouis4861 2 роки тому

    Great message at the end tho💯

  • @lexlarae8466
    @lexlarae8466 2 роки тому +2

    Haven’t been this early on a Dee video in a minute.

  • @mimiandy1683
    @mimiandy1683 2 роки тому +1

    I was acquainted with a few women, who had conceited personalities and exhibited envy/pettinees, when they weren't given the "Queen Bee" treatment by other people.

  • @ryxnnsfr
    @ryxnnsfr 2 роки тому +2

    the girl that mentioned her eyelash had me weak af

  • @AV218_
    @AV218_ 2 роки тому +1

    Shady Dee strikes again!

  • @aaronvod
    @aaronvod 2 роки тому +3

    Again im a dude I WOULD NEVER LEAVE MY FRIEND AT A CLUB OR BAR ALONE . Red flag 🚩

  • @felidaunknown5923
    @felidaunknown5923 2 роки тому

    This happened to me so many times, once my best friend (at the time) told my crush I liked him because he was checking me out, worst part was my crush was my cousins best friend, that was the moment I stopped talking to her.

  • @DarkRome28
    @DarkRome28 2 роки тому +1

    I know a comment about homegirl's eyebrows was on the tip of Dee's tongue 🤣🤣

  • @Alex_Hampshire
    @Alex_Hampshire 2 роки тому +3

    I’m male and the fat friend and this definitely happens to us too.

  • @xRedSock
    @xRedSock 2 роки тому +5

    8:20 Girl looked like some fcking Character from Lord of the Rings, but the wish Version, i feel you

  • @063lots9
    @063lots9 2 роки тому +26

    I see why women almost always prefer male friends over female friends after this video

  • @Kevn112010
    @Kevn112010 2 роки тому +4

    Yeah be aware of People who act weird when positive things are happening for you

  • @soundcloudofficial5930
    @soundcloudofficial5930 2 роки тому

    You ain’t shhhh 😂😂😂, you know what I’m talkin about, that second laugh you couldnt hold in 😂😂😂😂

  • @LegendaryTony.
    @LegendaryTony. 2 роки тому +2

    Damn, there's people out there who get jealous and spiteful of the person they're with? 🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @leodanysperez1261
    @leodanysperez1261 2 роки тому

    This does happen with guys but not that much, hell I cheer my friends on when they get some play, and they cheer me on when I get some.

  • @NOBLEPAIGEPATRICK
    @NOBLEPAIGEPATRICK 2 роки тому +23

    girls friendships be messy lol

  • @jhayabusa9344
    @jhayabusa9344 2 роки тому +1

    It’s all about approachability. Guys don’t have these issues typically. We tend to recognize the most desirable friends and adjust our tactics.

  • @jaylon9981
    @jaylon9981 2 роки тому +3

    😂😂 dee so shady

  • @squarebeetle_3
    @squarebeetle_3 2 роки тому +2

    O.35 dee, theres a huge difference between a "THICK" woman and a "FAT" woman. You cant put both in the same category, great vid, stay grinding

  • @Maggiewuvsrufus
    @Maggiewuvsrufus 2 роки тому

    11:00 u just blew my mind dude fr

  • @THEE.apples
    @THEE.apples 2 роки тому +1

    Lmao not Storm

  • @xenozero
    @xenozero 2 роки тому +2

    Naw , wit us dudes , when the big guy gets some love we hype!!!!

  • @reborn6268
    @reborn6268 2 роки тому +4

    8:15 I promise you I didn't hear a word of that story 🤷

  • @themadusacascadeguy8941
    @themadusacascadeguy8941 2 роки тому

    Dees shade power level is soo high that sometimes she loose control. She has to breath tyhe shit out

  • @Esoteriques
    @Esoteriques 2 роки тому +1

    BREATH OUT THE SHADE NAURRRRR

  • @thekid6278
    @thekid6278 2 роки тому

    1:19 - we gas you up so quick 😂

  • @borealisterreed8925
    @borealisterreed8925 2 роки тому

    8:15, Not me see the shade written across her face😂😂. I laughed before her!

  • @mckdink
    @mckdink 2 роки тому +2

    Yeeeeeeeah Dee this happens among us guys too lol not just the women
    I've been the guy who got the attention if a woman at the bar that one of the guys in my group had his eyes on, and he got mad and actually tries to C-block... And she noticed it and he got even MORE pissed lol... So he started being petty all night long 😂😂😂
    I remember me & her were playing pool together and he kept coming up and messing with our game and messing with the balls on the table cuz he was hatin LMAAOOOOO

    • @amethysting3389
      @amethysting3389 11 місяців тому

      wow. maybe if he talked to other girls he could have been happy.

  • @zeus9715
    @zeus9715 2 роки тому

    Men have the term wingman for a reason. Women have Anchors.

  • @Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman
    @Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman 2 роки тому +26

    This shit happens with men too.

    • @chelsea9641
      @chelsea9641 2 роки тому

      Really. I’m kinda surprised

    • @TheIcemanthomas
      @TheIcemanthomas 2 роки тому +1

      It’s happens with bigger guys who get girls or short guys who get more girls than taller guys.

    • @HappyAlientv
      @HappyAlientv 2 роки тому +14

      Facts. Alot of times they'll start roasting you and bringing up shit acting like its funny. At least thats what happened to me.

    • @063lots9
      @063lots9 2 роки тому +19

      @@TheIcemanthomas the difference is men are more likely to call it out and be like "bro wtf" while women will just have a whole passive-aggressive war with each other for months lmao

    • @xxarianahiltonxx5116
      @xxarianahiltonxx5116 2 роки тому

      Yep. I've seen it with my single guy and girl friends when we go out to bars. I was like damn, why ya'll gotta be petty? The night isn't over. There are still plenty of women and men here. But I get it. It's hard for some to get dates, so the atmosphere immediately becomes competitive.

  • @bynahelemaal
    @bynahelemaal 2 роки тому

    I’ve experiened this from the outside perspective, as a guy! went up to the ‘hot girl’s’ friend and the hot friend thought I was walking up to her! when she realized I wasn’t… attitude changed and she went all out, callin me too ugly to be even talking to them etc… people looking at me like damn…😬
    And her friend I was trying to talk to seemed too afraid to stand up to her friend… I’m still bummed about that, cause I should’ve ignored her and just asked her friend for her number anyways…

  • @BrooklynDaDon1
    @BrooklynDaDon1 2 роки тому

    8:40 girl them eyebrows

  • @TheMitchZone
    @TheMitchZone 2 роки тому +1

    8:22 Dee's shady A$$ be wilding sometimes bruh. You shady asf for that Dee, fr. 🤣🤐💀🙊

  • @JusloveKAY
    @JusloveKAY 2 роки тому

    Aye I’m early😌

  • @daniellaboucaud3020
    @daniellaboucaud3020 2 роки тому

    I related to this but my friends be happy for me actually I know I'm not everybody type and I dont mind it s/s to my girls thou

  • @user-kz9lv4mt4f
    @user-kz9lv4mt4f 2 роки тому +2

    5:48 lesbian and gay bars😌(gay bars are more fun though imo)

  • @camillelaurenmusic
    @camillelaurenmusic 2 роки тому +2

    5:49 no cap tho!!

  • @eastmonroe
    @eastmonroe 2 роки тому +2

    8:14 Who else cannot stop staring at her eyebrows?

  • @imaniriley6519
    @imaniriley6519 2 роки тому +2

    I had an old bestie that when we were talking to a group of guys and she seen that some of them were showing the rest of us attention then she would start trying to tell our business or talk down about us to the guys trying talk to us. She was very insecure and had to put the rest of the best friend group down just to build her self up in front of other men

  • @Being_Water
    @Being_Water 2 роки тому

    Dudes ain’t got time for that. We be way too just big upping the homie that’s getting the play to be jealous and shit 😂

  • @itsvickyyb
    @itsvickyyb 2 роки тому

    react to grilling with Castillo

  • @SamiDaComposer
    @SamiDaComposer 2 роки тому +1

    In the friend group I was the one that didn’t get play like that(I was quite too)but in the end I bagged bad females they couldn’t get which was weird cuz they had everybody but that one bad female they couldn’t get and it happened that the bad female actually fw me but I’ve had niggas hate me for that and I be like bro u just had 30 females now u mad cuz I got of the baddest of them all like bruh chill I just got 1 or 2 bruh and not only that female friends I had felt sum type of way when I had baddies too which is weird to me

    • @amethysting3389
      @amethysting3389 11 місяців тому

      wow your friends sounded like they never wanted anything good to happen to you. They wanted you to be the ugly guy that propped up their ego. I hope you are no longer friends with them.

    • @Divinebabalon
      @Divinebabalon 10 місяців тому

      💀💀the hysteria in this comment is hilarious

  • @jz23gaming17
    @jz23gaming17 2 роки тому +1

    Why did she dye her eyebrows 🤔🤔🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @Jrocka7x
    @Jrocka7x 2 роки тому

    It’s less common with men, but it for sure happens. Lol

  • @24leu
    @24leu 2 роки тому +3

    how can that be your true friend if they feel that way deep down. people always stay in shit friendships and then complain afterwards when everything goes wrong

  • @Londonlink
    @Londonlink 2 роки тому

    It's not certain people it's the person who thinks they are more attractive be upset when the "less attractive friend gets play"

  • @alexsugut9517
    @alexsugut9517 2 роки тому +2

    Why y’all be hanging out with these people

  • @chasehlee7197
    @chasehlee7197 2 роки тому

    Why is homegirl trying to look like Raiden from Mortal Kombat?

  • @countsekou490
    @countsekou490 2 роки тому +2

    But why continue the lie of women do t compete with each other? Competition can be healthy

  • @BrooklynDaDon1
    @BrooklynDaDon1 2 роки тому

    Some guys are the same.. especially gays

  • @slippyquack7672
    @slippyquack7672 2 роки тому +1

    Never thought I'd be saying this corny shit but.. it's the eyebrows for me... yikes.

  • @hahahaha--__--
    @hahahaha--__-- 2 роки тому +1

    And with guys, its only an issue if its a girl they both really like beforehand. #guysweknowhowtobefriends

  • @quitnn
    @quitnn 2 роки тому +2

    Yall girls and guys need to stop dyeing your eyebrows too. It looks ridiculous. Like clown vibes