I listened to your beautiful story. I'm a 64 year old Gay man who came out in 1974. We fought hard every day. Why? So that one day, life would be easier for young Gay people like you. Listening to your story, I felt like it was so worth the struggle. I will be an activist until the day I die. I love the work we did. I'm glad yours is a lighter coming of age story. Normal Gay adolescence (which we never had). Thank you for sharing your experience. Oh, and by the way, it's his loss.
Yeah it's better now in the western countries, but not in many asian ones😥 Anyway, thank you for making the life easier for us at least in those countries❤
UPDATE: Thank you everyone for your sweet comments and the hateful closeted homophobes too. He has a boyfriend currently and is engaged 🙂 My first experience was absolutely thrilling. Will never forget it. I had a massive crush on a football / baseball player in highschool my senior year. He was so beautiful, charismatic and always spoke to everyone. He wasnt those typical show offs like at all. He always treated me so differently than the rest of his friends. Would aim so much attention only to me and he did these cute things that would make my heart melt almost instantly. Out of all his friends he only bought me a present for my birthday. The present was a beautiful necklace embellished with small amethysts (my birthstone) with a real shark tooth. I stil have this necklace with me. Anyways to cut things short, I would always attend his games and by that time we both knew how to drive. After his games would finish and everyone left...we both would wait until the whole stadium was clear. One rainy day he had a game, after it finished, We would walk all the way to the top together and just talk and laugh. Man, his hugs I swear..I would wish it lasted a lifetime. My first kiss was with him. I cant tell you how fast my heart would pound, and his touch would leave me wanting more. We would leave around midnight and walk each other to our cars where we just embraced one another and kissed again....I really miss him. Never got in contact with him after graduation but I do know he is probably playing professional sports at a university. Sad part is he doesnt have any social media, he never gave his number to anyone. I was so scared to ask for it and even express my feelings. But I always hold on to this necklace and it makes me smile because for once....I felt wanted
Thank you. I sure hope I at least see him again. Last time I saw him was in 2012 high school graduation. Went crazy looking for him, even dropped family photos and friends to go look for him and nothing. No where to be found. I sometimes wonder if he even thinks about me ;( he probably already has a boyfriend. But would be great to see him..
I'm in love with your story! I think... any kiss with someone you really love it's like to kiss for the first time. It's a pitty that we dont usually find someone who makes us feel that way tho.
Thank you Marby. No lie, I get emotional about it sometimes. Everything was so perfect and it all just disappeared. I do remember him saying that he didnt come out to his parents. Causes me to overthink and just realize maybe he was just scared and didnt want to bring it a step further with me. Idk, but it was for sure the best year of my life. Just having someone that looked forward to seeing me, made me feel so damn special. I really hope he is doing well..and hope I see him again someday
I experienced that feeling when a touched my crush' hand for the first time in the 12th grade. We were praying and we had to form a circle by holding hands. I felt like i was on cloud 9
My first gay experience was a triple whammy: I discovered love and sex and gayness all at the same time. In retrospect, that was insanely lucky. But it was also emotionally pulverizing. I grew up believing that gayness was so incredibly rare that it was statistically impossible that the feelings I had for other guys were caused by being gay. That's a ludicrous notion today, but this was well before the Internet so I had no clue how to learn what I needed to know. At 22, I took a part-time retail job. Soon afterward, the cutest guy I'd ever seen was hired to work alongside me. After weeks of VERY awkward but friendly conversations and equally awkward "out for drinks" events, we stopped into my place, supposedly for a late snack. The conversation got heavy, focusing on some sad events in his family. I comforted him, and felt intense comfort just from doing that. It got late and he asked if he could stay over. My brain melted. But I had only a twin bed, so I got out an air mattress & sleeping bag for myself and motioned that he should take the bed. Lights out. But we kept talking, and soon he asked if he could sleep in my arms. Of course my brain melted again, but I climbed onto the tiny bed with him and hugged him. Ten minutes later we were both feeling much better, albeit covered in sweat. We hadn't spoken _at_ _all_ except to repeat each other's names. It all suddenly made sense.
I like to fall asleep listening to your videos because your voice is so soothing, but when you up and talk about subjects such as these, my black ass be perkin' up like Scooby Doo sayin, "Hrm???"
My experience goes a little like: In my 3rd year of secondary school I started talking to this guy, we'd never really spoken before and one day I was out for a walk and we just bumped into each other. But something just felt different at that moment. It's hard to describe but I'd never had a full conversation with this guy and then suddenly we're talking like we knew each other years. It turned out we had a ridiculous amount in common and over the next 3 months we were basically inseparable. I definitely had feelings for him, no doubt about it, but being young and insecure I convinced myself it was a new-friend infatuation (I don't know!?). One day we were texting and he asked me if I was straight and I freaked out and instantly replied yes, out of fear. He gave me a funny term he used to describe himself which basically labelled him as bisexual, it was hilarious how younger me flipped out in excitement. I remember a few days later he admitted he had feelings for me and apologized if he was making me uncomfortable. I remember getting so upset that he was apologizing for it and I told him it didn't bother me AT ALL! (As if that wasn't obvious enough). Though after that we talked less mainly because exams were coming. Then we drifted apart for a whole year only to start talking again. After I had this mad decision, I decided go up to him at lunch at start talking again. This time I was determined to admit my feelings. And I did. So began a 6 month relationship in secret and it was both the best and worst experience of my life. 3 years on and it's been the only gay relationship I've had. We were pretty innocent and it was mostly kissing and holding hands. (Awww!) I still talk to him now and then like we're still pals which makes me happy :) I'm off to college soon hopefully to finally meet more people like me and I really want to get into a proper relationship, since now that I'm out of school I don't have to hide it anymore! Funny how these experiences, no matter how small, can completely change your life!
You'll enjoy college. First thing find out if there are any LGBTQ organizations on campus that you can join, as it makes it easier to meet other people who are like yourself. I had pretty good luck living in the dorm, and also met several sex partners (later we became friends) in the dining hall. I look back and am amazed how many men I met and bedded that way. Good times!
Great Job Andrew, You really are a decent guy thanks for not taking the bait some viewers want to know too much. Please keep posting videos we really do enjoy them
Andrew Neighbors Andrew I really enjoy ur story's so much, they inspire me so much but I have a problem, I'm scared to come out to my family, how can I resolve this problem or become more confident to do it, if u reply I would really appreciate it
I was 13, and at summer camp in Coeur D Alene, Idaho in 1990. I already knew I was gay, but had never done anything. We were in cabins for the summer but had a few hiking tent camping nights and one boy we will Call Mikey and I got really close. We were from the same hometown, liked all the same music and we're both on the more mature side of puberty at that age. So we had a lot in common, we talked about things before anything ever happened, we both told each other that we were gay and that we liked each other, but that we were scared because we knew everyone would make fun of us. So on our first hiking trip we knew we would be sharing a tent and the excitement both of us felt was so strong. That hike was probably one of the scariest things I had done up until that point and I didn't really even realize it because my mind was focused on the fact that he and I would be sleeping in the same tent. When we stopped that first night it was by some cliffs on a river, where we were all jumping off before the sun started going down, I remember having to pee and he followed me and we went pee, looking at each other of course and it was so intense, having never seen a boy my own age in that aspect, I was in complete excitement overload. After dinner we all hung around talking, telling scary stories and what ever else teen boys talk about and the counsellors announced it was time for bed. Well as you can imagine we both didn't waste any time getting settled into our tents and we had our tent set up, only a lantern on, and I had my first gay kiss. We had both kissed girls so we had a general idea of what to do, and it was so exhilarating. I was kissing Mikey, and he was kissing me. Things got way more in deoth, but this needs to be pg. So yeah, summer camp, 13, what a summer.
Loved your story & how sweet you were about telling it. I'm a bi female & struggled horribly during my teens until I finally learned to accept myself for who I am. Wish my 1st experience had been as innocent as yours. You're awesome Andrew. xx
Your story brought up a lot of conflicted memories. I had a bad crush on a football player in high school. He was a senior, 2 years older than me and drop dead handsome. I saw him in the locker room twice and he was my definition of masculine. Furry and muscled. I had a bad case of hero worship. He was a nice guy and would say hi to everyone. I never got the chance to talk to him in high school. 2 years later I was in a class with him in college. Before class everyone would sit on a bench waiting for class to start and we would talk. Nothing deep but it was nice. In class he would always sit with a girl he was tight with in high School but he would always sit with me before class. I was a very shy guy by nature and he always drew me out into a conversation. After class we would walk to the parking lot together and he would always pull off his shirt before he got into his car. It was summer in Miami and always hot. I had so many fantasies about him but couldn't work up the nerve to really say something. I was really inexperienced but I knew I wanted to be with him. One day after class we were sitting on the bench talking and he tapped me on the knee and asked if I wanted to come over his place. I didn't know what to do. I ended up saying what for? I immediately regretted it. The conversation fizzled out. I kept thinking as we walked to the car please ask me again but he didn't. The class ended a couple of days later and while we continued to talk, before class he didn't ask me again. I ran into him twice after college but could never work up the nerve. It hurt for years. Being shy can suck. 30 years later and I still regret it and it still hurts. If you're not currently in a relationship you must find your guy. The regret and pain dims with time but it never really goes away. 30 years later and while successful financially and in my career I'm still single and carry and huge empty place in my soul for what I missed. Find him!
My first gay experience was when I was so young, I had around 7 or 8 years old, I didn't know anything about attraction, about love, about passion so it was all so confusing to me. This boy 1 year older than me, used to come to my house for a long time. we cuddled when we where alone seeing TV or just chilling at my room, it was so innocent and honest, I was the younger one so he always had the initiative. It was so weird to feel the comfort and happiness those simple cuddles brought to us, just because that feeling was so new, we couldn't quite understand it but we enjoyed it.
Andrew, this is such a cool story: here you are with your Ph.D. relating perfectly your emotional experience from high school years. This is so good for guys that age now to see and to realize that their gay feelings are perfectly normal for them and that they don't make an obstacle to their careers or lives.........thank, you, bro.............Ray
I saw a gif on my Nintendo dsi of a boy touching himself at age 14. Seeing it excited me bro. I’m thankful fate allowed me to discover a big part of me.
I think it's so cute how the corners of your mouth curl up. It's like you smile so much that they automatically curl up as natural instinct. Anyways, great video👍🏾👍🏾
My first two “gay” experiences occurred when I was 15. The first , I was molested by my girlfriends older brother. The second I was molested by a 68 year old, district court judge and minister who ended up eventually marrying my older brother and his wife and my sister and her first husband . I told no one as the rural town I lived in had only four streets, including the main. After several missteps, I had two wonderful boyfriends in a row, the second being the love of my life who eventually moved across the country to Florida with his ex. I was devastated. I saw him again a few years later, my feelings for him had not changed, I still loved him utterly and completely! He became a very successful model and escort! I miss him everyday.
How could anybody not love you, you are wonderful and you have helped me through another step of my gay coming out and I feel the gay family coming through to my heart. Love you
Me and my Best Friend were 13 and one night during a sleep over things happened. From 13 to 18 we messed around before school, in school( meet in the bathroom), after school, 4 or 5 times a day. It went on till he left for College and I joined the Navy at 18. We are still buddies and we still hookup if I visit my old hometown. He's married now, kids, but wife lost interest in sex after marriage and they're more like roommates now. At some point we may get together. His kids are growing up fast and I don't want to mess up their family dynamic. We see each other and it's like we are 13 again. He says I am the only Male he has ever been with and I know it as well. We were little horn dogs dude. Lots of Fun in my old tree house! Your a cutie too. Love your stories
I was a senior in h.s. in L.A. I was surprised to learn my h.s. didn't have a gay club. I soon found out the local junior college had a club and they allowed me to join as an honorary member, since I wasn't a student there and it worked out fine and I made a whole group of new friends. They had a dance one night and I went. I was sitting alone by the wall and in walks this tall muscular guy and I instantly said, "I have to have that guy!" We met, danced and then went back to his place and I spent the night. It too was my first gay experience, and it could've have been with a better guy. I was 18 and he was 30, but I had always associated with older people, and I was attracted to older men, so it all worked out. I was only living in California my senior year of HS and then I had to move back to Texas, so we dated during that time, and I flew back for visits, and then it just kind of ended. I had only recently come out and I was like a kid in a candy store with ants in my pants. So many men, so little time! Now I'm 60, so there's no more of that either! At keast I have my partner. We both are survivors of the AIDS epidemic in the 80's and have survived, literally and in our relationship for 35 years now, so I can't complain! 😆
OMG I had a similar experience but with one of my best buddies in high school, we were like best friends and he came over to my house on a weekend, we actually slept in the same bed and give each other bjs and he just avoided me for a week after that incident. Idk listening to you talking about your story made me kinda sad. I really liked him.
@@mikelmontoya2965 Because he feels more stressed (he's less sure ) about it > so he urges to check his fears (that's why he takes initiative above guy who is more or less sure about himself) > and when it proves he panics and goes defensive mode by acting macho. Different reasons: one goes for romantic purpose other for testing purpose.
I like these story times. You're an awesome person for being so understanding to the cute boy who was struggling with his sexuality. Great video Andrew!
Told myself I was straight my whole life until a year ago bad break up and a big client for my job I found out was gay, and one day while we were doing a project for him we kept making eyes at each other he asked my boss if he could take me to do small project at his house and boom! Anyway now we're together close to a year and he's best thing ever happened to me
Beauty Is Skin Deep & Ugly Is To The Bone! It's Not What Is On The Outside Of One, It Is What Is In The Inside & If It Is A Huge Ego That Needs Feeding 24/7 Then There Is A Huge Lack'n Of Substance From The Get Go!
im 59 and I have been growing them since i was 6. Mum got me to help prune usually I have several hundred to several thousand bushes. When it comes to pot growing of them,mix good potting mix, composted cow manure,.finished mushroom compost, ans some good red loam/clay. You need to use large pots.
Andrew, you are really good at story telling! I love how you look straight into camera. You know how to connect with your viewers. It feels like your talking directly to me :). My first experience was in a tent as well during a back yard sleep over at one of my friends in my neighborhood. We started playing a card game and the loser had to remove an article of clothing. Since we were in boxers and a tee shirt already, it didn't take long before one of us was completely naked. I had no idea my friend was into guys because he had a current girlfriend. Although we didn't do anything sexually other than some quick fondling, I know exactly what you meant when you said it was exhilarating. Unfortunately we never talked about it again or had another experience after that night. I thought he was just experimenting and decided it wasn't for him. We kind of drifted apart in high school but he always had girlfriends. Years later when we were both in college, I had heard that he had been outed and his family was not accepting. He ended up moving out of state.
What a sweet story. Thanks for posting it. As an old guy, I really love hearing the experiences of young men who grew up in a more positive environment then I did, and who had less shame and self-hatred going on. I never yould have been able to do anything like that at 13.
My first day at univ, we sat alphabetically in a large lecture hall: I was kneeling on my seat, turned aroiund talking to a guy sitting behind me, when the prof came in I turned to sit in my seat and the guy to my right was holding my hand, just there, in class, completely nonchalantly. He was adorable, sweet, masculine and protective of me. We started to become friends and study together. My room at home now had twin beds in an 'L' configuration, Fleck slept in the left bed, a night table between the heads of the bed. As we were falling asleep in respectiv beds, Fleck reached out and took my hand, put it on his pillow and kissed my hand: it was in credible intense, I was flushed, trembling, this had never happaned to me and I adored him. I took his hand now and put it on my bed and put my cheek on his hand and in a millisecond I had an organism...the intensity of the affection, gentle, warm, unambivalent, was the beginning of a 3 1/2 year non-sexual romance.
Concerning rose bushes, by Winter, just burlap your roses and they'll prove good in hibernation until the weather warms up. Oh and fertiliser made from fish shall help them to thrive. You can find it at Home Depot. Smells awful, but with enough water the smell subsides. Always make sure you water the roses once or twice a week.
*****, no problem Andrew, contrary to popular belief, roses really aren't that hard to grow. Just make sure to prune the buds at an angle when they've begun to wilt, doing so shall promote the growth of new bulbs for flowers. Simply check out some of the P.Allen Smith vids on rose growing, and your balcony shall be filled with them. I prefer the thornless varieties. Cheers and happy gardening. =)
Your experience is very very similar to me. He's a very very hot classmate and one night we decided to touch each other and we are seeing each other in our own places, cuddling very PG13. But when we are leaving his home to town, I tried to talk about it, maybe start a relationship. And he said he's straight and don't want to talk about it. But the weird thing is he get a hard on every time we meet. So I guess Straight Guys are really really fascinating. And after this experience, we have to go back to school after christmas holiday, but the awkward thing is the teacher is arranging the seats and put me next to him, so I just pretty much look after him like a boyfriend and one time I was sick and the next day when I'm back, he misses me a lot. Unfortunately, now he's studying aboard and never talked to me again. I can't say it's sad but still a not too good first experience.
Took me a while to do anything with another person, (guy or girl) and I was quite disgruntled with my current status. I knew I liked guys, but I also still enjoyed girls. (Had never heard of being bi before). Later that year, messed around a bit, tried both "properly" and confirmed the ol bisexual nature within. Worked out pretty dandy.
I guess I'm an exception. When I was 12 puberty hit and I realized I liked guys. It was 1978. It was a little bit of a surprise but I didn't hate myself for it. By 8th grade I had my first bf. He was awesome. He'd come over to my house and stay the night sometimes. I loved him and he did me too. Next year he had to move because his dad got a job in a different state. After 8th grade I just lived my life. I never shouted it out but I didn't stop being myself either. ❤
This is a beautiful story about NORMAL gay sexuality. Most of us especially in my generation never got to do this. We went from desire to quick sex in a dark room! Your experience is the right one!
love your saying "never stop learning". One thing I love about being a nutritionist is my continue education credits for my field. Science is new everyday and is always changing. I think what you are doing is great keep it up man.
Adorable story. Glad you listened to yourself and were respectful of the other dude. Good luck with the rose growing! How are they so difficult to grow?
1:28 So I am confusion. Why is dis one Kansas, but dis one is not Arkansas. AMERICA EGGS PLAIN! EGGS PLAIN! WHAT DO YOU MEAN ARKAN-SAW!? I'm sorry I had to do it.
Mine was at Philmont in Cimarron, NM. One resting camp had a communal shower. It was a good distance from our tents and we had to take a buddy. I went with a guy that I didn't have a crush on but I thought he was ok looking. We walked in and there were barely walls for privacy. We both got naked to take our showers and we both "woke up" from seeing each other. After a few seconds of staring at each other, I ran for hills with my towel covering me. I was too excited, I didn't know what to do. The next 5 or 6 days in the trail were awkward as hell.
my first experience was when I was playing spin the bottle with some friends and I had to kiss the new guy he was really cute so of course I kissed him but it was longer than I and everyone expected turned out that he was gay to and now me and him r going out this happend last year and now I'm fourteen he is the best boyfriend ever😁
Why people always have stereotypes about scouters🙈😂 I told my friend that I'm watching good looking guys, when she asked me what I was doing in this big scout camp, and she was like: scoutboys? Can't be... I was like: well hell yeah they're good looking😂 Like, if there's hot girlscouters, why can't there be hot boyscouters?😌😌 and, I don't know any gay scoutboy😌 and believe me, I've met few hundreds of them🙈😌
My first experience was sophomore year 2015. I was invited to a party by my friend and me and her went to the party duh😂 I was in the bathroom and I heard something weird so I open the bedroom door and a guy was there drinking on his own... I went to sit with him and he looked at me and I recognised him .. he’s the kid that sits at the back on his own in biology.. I started to talk with him we was there talking for hours. I fell asleep on the bed and idk what he did but by the time I woke up He was still sat in the chair drinking. So I said “hey” and he called me lazy blah blah then he got up and lay next to me.. (by this time I didn’t know I was gay never thought about it) so i was there and they he got under the covers and started to drift of asleep so I got out and then he grabbed my hand and pulled me down and kissed me...
All through my years of growing up I wished I had a cute romantic story of me and a crush! Even if it was just for a week or so idk. I love this story time thanks Andrew☺️
Thank you for sharing. Great to hear your first experience. First time I kissed a guy I was so excited my teeth were chattering for ages before and after. All the best with your love life - you're super cute so be discerning :)
Interesting, I am a 74 year old gay man whose story is very similar to yours. You have a sweet spirit and are pleasing to the eyes.. good luck to you, you deserve it. By the way, make sure the roses you choose are the miniature variety as your space is a bit small for the larger size.
First gay experience? Well.....I was 8 and it was with a family member so it wasn't all the giggly anticipation. That did come later your video did take me back many, many years. You tend to forget that particular feeling because as you get older and life takes over that never happens again. That innocence is gone. Cute story and you are adorable as well.
I knew I was attracted to other males from a very young age. But I was about 13 when my best friend at the time, he and his family moved to a house one door down from us. The place had this building that had been built like the Cadillac of chicken coops years before, including wood floors. Not sure the place ever saw chickens as it was mainly dusty. So we cleaned the place out thoroughly, fixed the shutters over the windows so they were secured from inside, and installed a lock inside so that we'd have a "club house. We drug sleeping bags and a few other things to make it our place. One day, Mike asked me if I wanted to play strip poker. I'd never played poker at all but of course said yes. Needless to say, I lost everything, at which point he stripped down and we began to fool around, pretending to be a man and a woman. Every afternoon after school we're rush to the club house and get naked and onto the spread out sleeping bag. Sadly, his father had accepted an job on the Louisiana coast in the oil patch, so late that fall they moved. By this time I knew I wanted men more than women, but it was not until college that I went further (heavy petting they'd call it). But at some point a close married female friend who was having an affair with a college guy my age asked me to spend the weekend with him so she could defuse her husband's suspicions. We went and spent the night at his grandparents house 30 miles away, where everyone was gone. We had a few drinks, smoked a joint, and he excused himself a moment, When he came back he was just in his underwear. Within 5 minutes he suggested we head to his bedroom. That evening I was initiated to the pleasures of oral and anal, my first time for both (but he seemed to be too knowledgeable for it to be his first time, especially performing anal on me). I was so surprised how easy anal came and how good it felt to have a man inside me. That night completely settled any question about my sexuality and I've identified as gay ever since. Just another story from the great state of Arkansas!
My first time was when I was 15, with my best friend. I had a girlfriend at the time, and had always dated girls, but there was someting about Mike that just drew me to him. we went everywhere together, and even used to switch clothes at school just to see if anyone would notice. Anyways my girlfriend was extremely jealous of the time ai was spending with Mike, and she told me it was like we were attatched at the hip, and told me that everyone thought we were butt buddies. Or gay. I of course told her I wasn't. I mean if I was, why would I be dating her? So, I decided to tell Mike about this. He insanely good looking by the way, and on the track team, also baseball team. So i told him that my girlfriend thought we were gay, on a sleep over at his house. So he says, there is one way to find out. He told me I should kiss him, and we would at least figure out if I was gay. Not him. I told him i was not going to kiss him, but totally wanted to after he suggested it. Then of course he had to double dog dare me. So, as much as I tried to resist it. I kissed him. And as soon as that kiss was over we just looked at each other, ad went "oh my god." I mean i had kissed plenty of girls, but kissing Mike was the best kiss ever! Well, the next thing I knew we were making out. And, by morning I had my first sexual experience. A kind of mutual thing if you know what I mean. After that, it was all about him, and my girlfriend broke it off with me because I had no time for her. I had fallen totally in love with Mike. This went on for over a year, until i had to move to another town. I was heart broken. I went on to be gay, and years later found him on facebook. Married with 3 kids.
My 1st almost gay experience, also stopped by societal pressure, was in my dorm room at university. (But, first off, I’d never pressure a straight guy nor even find him attractive). A cute guy insisted on coming into my room every evening and staying talking until very late in the evening. After six months of this, and having heard his most secret confessions, (which will stay with me to the grave as will all such confessions - not re: about imminent hurting self or others, but the rest do), BUT, he suddenly got scared, and next thing I knew, he’d joined a Presbyterian youth group. He convinced my girlfriend at that time to go with him to a weekend camp. She was appalled. Naturally, being an honest and open person, I told her about what was happening and while not excited, she was interested more than anything else, and I think it drew us closer together. It was a different era back in the early ‘80s, and, later, I was married to a wonderful woman for a while. (Again, with full disclosure before marriage), but we were happy until - and after - she met another guy four years later, and I thought he was a wonderful guy with whom she’d be really happy, so we decided he was a better - match and divorced. It, the first guy, the handsome but, honestly, naive guy who was so scared of being gay that he joined a severe Presbyterian group, I cut the relationship off and asked him not to visit me every evening. I really liked him as a person, and he was “all that” physically, it if a gay person wants to play straight due to societal pressure, then I think they should. It may cause them misery, but you have to let them - and, sadly the straight woman who gets stranded in the process 😕 figure this out. We’ll, that may be the attitude of an older generation who grew up when we gay guys could go to jail for 14 years if caught. It was an era of police raids (in Mew Zealand), secret gay bars and nightclubs, and horrible endless anti-gay jokes, etc., plus discrimination.
My first gay experience was with this guy freshman year, we had the same friend group but he went to a different school. We were both closeted at the time and no one knew abt us. I still remember him asking me if I was gay and I thought he was trying to expose me and I asked him and he said he didn’t know, and neither did I. The first time we met face to face was at one of our mutual friends house for a little party and I remember that we were going to get an ouija board and I kinda locked eyes with him to tell him to come down stairs with me. I remember there was a leather couch downstairs and he just touched my face and started to kiss me. It was amazing
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When I was little I used to experiment alot with my friends. To some it may sound crazy, but it all started when I was about 4. I felt sexually attracted to the boys more than to the girls, and with the boys I had more experiences, so I guess that's what eventually led me to turn completely gay. This was many years ago though, I'm turning 22 soon and I have not had any sexual encounter with another guy since I was about 10. I think I had a few chances years later, but I was too nervous and insecure to actually do anything about it, or to actually see them as opportunities. I've remained completely alone all these years, and will probably remain alone for many more, but hey there's more to life than this.
That wasn't experimentation, so much as it was child on child sexual abuse. It may explain your abnormal sexual development. I don't mean that to sound offensive, but you might want to seek treatment for that, if you haven't already.
chs75 How is it child abuse if it was done among children around the same age? No one was coerced or forced to do something they didn't want to do. I really don't mean to argue, I'm not one to think humans are inherently normal in any way shape or form, they become mirrors and carriers of the generation that molded and shaped their minds, from there they carry a new definition of normalcy, so your diction reflects your acute ignorance about human psychology. I'm not an expert, but there's things such as nature and nurture, two things that are not separate from each other. Sexuality isn't something that can be treated or cured, some develop heterosexual attractions, while others develop homosexual attractions, others are unfortunately left with impulses like becoming sexually gratified by seeing people in pain i.e. serial killers. Please do us and yourself a favor, get away with your outdated 1970's pseudo-science, and stop visiting gay-related videos on youtube to spread your unwarranted opinions, that add nothing relevant, insightful, or fruitful into the lives of other individuals. The cells in my body are still reproducing, my blood is still pumping, the trees are still giving out their oxygen, the earth is still rotating on its axis, the sun is still burning out its hydrogen, and the galaxy is still moving millions of miles per hour, and you are here in a minuscule planet doing nothing but sitting in front of an artificial machine that gathers information at light speed, spreading your meek opinions about how the Universe should function. The ego is the biggest lie ever told.
Soundillusions94xyz Child on child sexual abuse is one of the most common forms of childhood sexual abuse. One-third of all child sexual abuse is committed by other children. Because it wasn't a terrifying experience, doesn't mean it didn't have a profound effect on you. The story usually goes that one child is sexually assaulted by an adult and then those children act out on other kids. A 4 year old has no concept of sex or sexually driven activities. Normal childhood exploration is within the realm of "If you show me yours, I'll show you mine". But anything that is 'pleasure' driven was learned, and that is not good. Clearly my response hit a nerve, and your exaggerated response is telling. A child who was sexually "active" from ages 4 to 10, and nothing from 10 to 21 with a sexual trauma history...take that story to any therapist, and you will soon find that nothing I said was related to "pseudo-science". Your story is a very common one, and needs treatment. Not to change your sexuality or anything else in that was in that "word salad" tangent you went on, but to literally re-wire your brain from the trauma that you went through, so that you can function normal with whomever you choose to be with sexually. But right now, a 21 year old who can't function sexually or romantically with another person,and having a trauma history is a problem whether you want to see it that way or not. *"...and you are here in a minuscule planet doing nothing but sitting in front of an artificial machine that gathers information at light speed, spreading your meek opinions about how the Universe should function. The ego is the biggest lie ever told."* Pot meet kettle....
chs75 I wasn't aware about this child-to-child sexual abuse, unless it was forced. I fail to see how I'm traumatized. I visited a psychiatrist a few years ago, I also spoke to a psychologist/hypnotherapist many years ago as well. I've never been diagnosed with PTSD or childhood trauma, or anything related to that. I've spoken to them about my life, my sexuality and my experiences, they were a bit shocked about those sexual encounters when I was little but I wasn't diagnosed with any trauma. I was prescribed a mild dose of anxiety pills a few years ago, but I decided not to take them because I didn't want to depend on them. Something that has been a part of me all my life I guess are anxiety and depression, but no one has ever told me about me being traumatized, I may have been traumatized by a violent environment, a failed marriage and bullying in school, but I don't feel traumatized by my sexuality at all. It seems that you find it odd that my sexual experiences somehow interchanged chronologically. Instead of becoming sexually active during my adolescence, I had sexual activity during childhood. That isn't something I controlled, you seem to be blaming this on me, as if I was the one that caused this, but the truth of the matter is that I've never had a sexual encounter with anyone else since around the age of 10. Sex has avoided me ENTIRELY for these past 10-11 years, and there's nothing I can do about that unless you want me to go on cheap dates, and practice unsafe forms of courtship for a quick, meaningless fuck. I've got a better answer for you. Since I'm older and more capable of understanding abstract concepts and more highly self-aware, I am willingly isolating myself from sex all together. You say I am incapable of romantically and sexually engaging with other people, EXACTLY, you are right, because I'm doing it out of my own volition. I know that I'm incapable of doing so because of who I am, because of my personality. I have other priorities. I look forward to a career and inner growth, self-actualization. I do not look forward to my next hot fuck like most of the people that surround me today and youth in general. Don't get me wrong, I think about sex everyday and I desire for it, I envy those who satiate on it as much as they want, but knowing myself I think it's best for me not to put such a burden on my shoulders, because I know I'm not ready for sex as much as I want it, neither am I ready for a relationship. Some people as abnormal it may seem to you simply aren't made for such things, maybe I've finally gone crazy, but at least I'm not stupid. Pardon the word salad, but you failed to see beyond what was just before your eyes. You weren't thinking about my words, you were simply implying I was talking nonsense, and not really connecting my words with what you said prior. Regardless, thanks for this new info, also please don't throw little insults at me, if you want to have a normal conversation please stay, if not then leave me alone. Something I forgot to mention, I did have a sexual encounter with a woman when I was 15, I reckon it was absolutely terrible though.... It confirmed me that women aren't my thing. That was the only time I actually had sexual intercourse with someone, could even be the last.
I was a tall fit young white Guy with square shoulders and blond hair ( I can’t give my age for legal reasons) On my way home, I dared to walk through a well-known small Gay pick up area in my home City, I got caught looking intensely at a certain red haired fit guy, as He saw me I walked quicker, but then I got the courage to go back through again. As I walked back He was waiting around a corner to surprise me, this time I saw Him and jumped, He knew by this I was most likely interested. He followed me, soon caught up and was walking quickly getting beside me, He said how are you ? we talked and then He said can we go somewhere ? I said yes, He said we can just practice, I said OK. He put His hand on my back briefly, this was comforting. We went to a wooded private area, I learnt His name was James, He began to feel with the flat on His hand around my zipper, He gave me very light kisses to my neck I’d never known any of this before. I could not resist doing the same to James. He told me that it’d be better if I could go to His home. I just went with James He was friendly and warm. At His home He bjd me thoroughly, I was sapped and drained of all I could shoot out. We agreed to meet up again. Three days later I revisited His home this time we sat together for some time on His Sofa, James told me He had been working hard at exams and was a trainee Lawyer, He also said He had a big load to get rid of. James loved doing oral & I’d never experienced such sensual physical attention. I loved handling Him because this was so new to me. We continued to have meet ups, to me James was such a cool stunning Guy, He talked to me about bum Sex, or bum-chumming we called it. James told me about doing anal wash-outs and the benefits of lubricant, before getting started. He was always anal-licking me, then fingering firmly. He gave me the fluid for the wash-out, then we both showered and bathed together. After this we went to bed, James slipped into me like a pro. I loved it, we often met up and did more of the same things.James was like a Mother Kangaroo, I was the younger Kangaroo He had me in His pouch/pocket. Eventually James told me that He was going to leave for work purposes, He said he had a dear friend called Robert and He wanted to put me with Rob, and that Rob loved doing bjs, I had to agree to keep my history with James a secret from Rob. We went out for coffee and as planned Rob was there already.I was blushing He was a lush adorable sweet Guy. I had no idea what I was in for (after James disappeared) Rob was sitting down and had me standing before Him as He was sapping me dry, Rob could not get enough He always planned a break with TV & drinks then got me back to it for a second turn, He wanted every drop. Rob surprised me by insisting that I chum Him. As soon as I’d learnt to get into Rob I quickly finished. Looking back on these two Guys I remember that they were always enthralled that what I had was much bigger than what they had, through them I’d learnt to give and take, love & adore. Rob was a young teacher, I saw Him a year later with a group of six form college students, some were older than me. One of these male College students was later to run after me, He wanted to hang out with me, He said I know “you were close to Rob” I made out I didn’t know what He meant and declined. Iam now happily & faithfully married with three children but I recommend that any young guys who read this should be very willing to “get them off” and get the experience before the chance goes away
I came across your content while looking for something to listen to while I worked on a project. I'm having a really good time listening (and watching when I can...I mean...DAMN...you be cute. Thanks for the posts.
Loved the quote “questionable places”. I LOL so hard. Great story. My first experience was with the son of one of my mom’s coworkers, but it was way more the PG-13.
I unfortunately haven't really had a gay experience with another guy even though it seems like everyone else did, even when they were years younger than I am. By the way, when I first saw the picture for the video I thought you were Mark Miller for a second.
I am starting to talk to a cute guy on facebook from school, but i have like no reason to talk to him personally because we don't even know the same people, and if i start to talk and walk to him on school my friends wouldn't like it... also no one knows i'm gay, is kinda weird because i know he looks at me on the corridors, because once i looked at him and he was already looking at me, i only spoke to him once and we did a weird thing with out hands because he came and tried to take my hand i only did a hi thing with mine LOL, i pretend i don't see him in the corridors because his friends already look at me weird, because i unintentionally bumped into one of them when i was walking distracted and they must think i am an asshole also i said something playing with my friends that they must have thought i was being rude, something like 'Out of my way' just playing with them(my friends), but those guys thought it was with them and now they must hate me. LOL
super76 I talked to him early today(on school) and he asked me to help him with some tests and stuff, it was cool, and some of my friends even joined us to study, but his friends kept their distance, they sure don't like me also we talked about some tv series and other things. I found out that he has a peculiar voice and he seems really calm, hell, sometimes i thought he couldn't even talk anymore.
Andrew, first of all, Happy New Year to you, your family, and your fans! 🥳😷 OK, forgive me but, I couldn't help smiling when you said you and your BSA tentmate heard someone and just "jerked away"! I also love your use of the term "spooning", a term I remember my grandparents using in the '40s & '50s. Now, being your own grandparents age, I thought I'd better check Wicki on its current usage. I smiled again trying to envision two young boys, in separate sleeping bags, having a go at doggie-style. Thanks for bringing back some great memories of my own scouting days, btw ...another reason to smile.
Andrew, always love watching your videos!My first gay experience was when I was 17 and I remember feeling so nervous when the guy kept asking me if I have ever kissed a guy or been with one. He kept scooting closer on my friends couch (we were staying at his place that night) and then I randomly turned to him and he kissed me...so we started making out and I knew that pretty much confirmed I liked guys. My friend said he saw us kissing but didn't say anything until a few months later haha.That guy ended up being a huge prick and ruined a friendship I had with this one girl who was my friend for like 8 years (she has since then apologized to me). But I have had better experiences with guys after that so it's all good :)
I grew up in a small town near Fayetteville, AR and have slowly related to alot of your stories. Thank you for posting these, it is nice to hear similar stories and have someone completely down to earth and humble that you can relate to. Now if only you were as tall as me... haha
Tbh honest I was also at boyscout camp when i discovered my sexuality. I always thought i liked girls but when i hit about 13 i started messing around with my best friends..just playful stuff at first i didnt really think it was gay...but then i took a shower at camp with another guy that i had gotten close to..we had bottoms on but what i saw was enough for me to realize i was liking what i was seeing. It was the craziest feeling id ever felt. Guess it was lust. 😂
Aw, the puppies don't click and cuddle? Another cool video, Andrew. Seriously great storytelling skills. Best wishes as you get started at work! June 1? I would be so cool to have an optometrist that was so easy on the eyes and made my heart flutter! ;)
I was 13 It's was a guy that lived down the street he was cute to me I knew I liked guys but he wasn't sure we kissed in my backyard in the shed I loved it I was so happy that we kissed then we felt each other it felt right I knew then he was the guy for me we had puppy love for about 2 years till he moved away
I listened to your beautiful story. I'm a 64 year old Gay man who came out in 1974. We fought hard every day. Why? So that one day, life would be easier for young Gay people like you. Listening to your story, I felt like it was so worth the struggle. I will be an activist until the day I die. I love the work we did. I'm glad yours is a lighter coming of age story. Normal Gay adolescence (which we never had). Thank you for sharing your experience. Oh, and by the way, it's his loss.
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Thank you for what you did and do to make our time on earth better. 🏳🌈
Thank you for your hard work❤️🏳️🌈
Yeah it's better now in the western countries, but not in many asian ones😥 Anyway, thank you for making the life easier for us at least in those countries❤
i came out in 77 and can relate to all that you said.
UPDATE: Thank you everyone for your sweet comments and the hateful closeted homophobes too. He has a boyfriend currently and is engaged 🙂
My first experience was absolutely thrilling. Will never forget it. I had a massive crush on a football / baseball player in highschool my senior year. He was so beautiful, charismatic and always spoke to everyone. He wasnt those typical show offs like at all. He always treated me so differently than the rest of his friends. Would aim so much attention only to me and he did these cute things that would make my heart melt almost instantly. Out of all his friends he only bought me a present for my birthday. The present was a beautiful necklace embellished with small amethysts (my birthstone) with a real shark tooth. I stil have this necklace with me. Anyways to cut things short, I would always attend his games and by that time we both knew how to drive. After his games would finish and everyone left...we both would wait until the whole stadium was clear. One rainy day he had a game, after it finished, We would walk all the way to the top together and just talk and laugh. Man, his hugs I swear..I would wish it lasted a lifetime. My first kiss was with him. I cant tell you how fast my heart would pound, and his touch would leave me wanting more. We would leave around midnight and walk each other to our cars where we just embraced one another and kissed again....I really miss him. Never got in contact with him after graduation but I do know he is probably playing professional sports at a university. Sad part is he doesnt have any social media, he never gave his number to anyone. I was so scared to ask for it and even express my feelings. But I always hold on to this necklace and it makes me smile because for once....I felt wanted
This warms my heart tbh, hopefully yours paths cross again soon :)
Thank you. I sure hope I at least see him again. Last time I saw him was in 2012 high school graduation. Went crazy looking for him, even dropped family photos and friends to go look for him and nothing. No where to be found. I sometimes wonder if he even thinks about me ;( he probably already has a boyfriend. But would be great to see him..
I'm in love with your story!
I think... any kiss with someone you really love it's like to kiss for the first time. It's a pitty that we dont usually find someone who makes us feel that way tho.
Thank you Marby. No lie, I get emotional about it sometimes. Everything was so perfect and it all just disappeared. I do remember him saying that he didnt come out to his parents. Causes me to overthink and just realize maybe he was just scared and didnt want to bring it a step further with me. Idk, but it was for sure the best year of my life. Just having someone that looked forward to seeing me, made me feel so damn special. I really hope he is doing well..and hope I see him again someday
what a story. i think you should look for him because guys like this..i m pretty sure they re like fifteen in the world.. regards.
Isn't it amazing . . . how just holding hands with someone . . just a touch . . . can be such an intense thrill !!
So true Laurence. I was privileged to experience that feeling for 38 years with my partner.
I wouldn't know.
I guess it would be.
I experienced that feeling when a touched my crush' hand for the first time in the 12th grade. We were praying and we had to form a circle by holding hands. I felt like i was on cloud 9
Can't relate😢
My first gay experience was a triple whammy: I discovered love and sex and gayness all at the same time. In retrospect, that was insanely lucky. But it was also emotionally pulverizing.
I grew up believing that gayness was so incredibly rare that it was statistically impossible that the feelings I had for other guys were caused by being gay. That's a ludicrous notion today, but this was well before the Internet so I had no clue how to learn what I needed to know.
At 22, I took a part-time retail job. Soon afterward, the cutest guy I'd ever seen was hired to work alongside me. After weeks of VERY awkward but friendly conversations and equally awkward "out for drinks" events, we stopped into my place, supposedly for a late snack. The conversation got heavy, focusing on some sad events in his family. I comforted him, and felt intense comfort just from doing that.
It got late and he asked if he could stay over. My brain melted. But I had only a twin bed, so I got out an air mattress & sleeping bag for myself and motioned that he should take the bed. Lights out. But we kept talking, and soon he asked if he could sleep in my arms.
Of course my brain melted again, but I climbed onto the tiny bed with him and hugged him. Ten minutes later we were both feeling much better, albeit covered in sweat. We hadn't spoken _at_ _all_ except to repeat each other's names.
It all suddenly made sense.
I like to fall asleep listening to your videos because your voice is so soothing, but when you up and talk about subjects such as these, my black ass be perkin' up like Scooby Doo sayin, "Hrm???"
Hahahah same
Literally me
"Hrm???" I died. This comment is perfect.
+gerald barton same 😂😂😂
Oh, mah, gawsh...
For an organization that used to ban gays, I had quite a few experiences in Boy Scouts. :P
You my friend are the definition of Thug Life😂
Ditto ;)
You're a legend
Hey the founder was gay! Baden Powell
LMAO!
The cute giddy face you get when remember parts of the story was adorable haha
Konner L. Especially when you exp something similar 😳
Takes one to no one I guess🌈
My experience goes a little like:
In my 3rd year of secondary school I started talking to this guy, we'd never really spoken before and one day I was out for a walk and we just bumped into each other. But something just felt different at that moment. It's hard to describe but I'd never had a full conversation with this guy and then suddenly we're talking like we knew each other years. It turned out we had a ridiculous amount in common and over the next 3 months we were basically inseparable.
I definitely had feelings for him, no doubt about it, but being young and insecure I convinced myself it was a new-friend infatuation (I don't know!?). One day we were texting and he asked me if I was straight and I freaked out and instantly replied yes, out of fear. He gave me a funny term he used to describe himself which basically labelled him as bisexual, it was hilarious how younger me flipped out in excitement. I remember a few days later he admitted he had feelings for me and apologized if he was making me uncomfortable. I remember getting so upset that he was apologizing for it and I told him it didn't bother me AT ALL! (As if that wasn't obvious enough).
Though after that we talked less mainly because exams were coming. Then we drifted apart for a whole year only to start talking again. After I had this mad decision, I decided go up to him at lunch at start talking again. This time I was determined to admit my feelings. And I did. So began a 6 month relationship in secret and it was both the best and worst experience of my life. 3 years on and it's been the only gay relationship I've had. We were pretty innocent and it was mostly kissing and holding hands. (Awww!) I still talk to him now and then like we're still pals which makes me happy :) I'm off to college soon hopefully to finally meet more people like me and I really want to get into a proper relationship, since now that I'm out of school I don't have to hide it anymore! Funny how these experiences, no matter how small, can completely change your life!
Ry The Zoo Guy that's such a beautiful story! for a second i thought you were setting up for a sad ending lol
Ry The Zoo Guy what did you do at college my guy
Awe I love reading all these stories! This is definitely made my night!
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You'll enjoy college. First thing find out if there are any LGBTQ organizations on campus that you can join, as it makes it easier to meet other people who are like yourself. I had pretty good luck living in the dorm, and also met several sex partners (later we became friends) in the dining hall. I look back and am amazed how many men I met and bedded that way. Good times!
These stories are so cute. I enjoy story time whether or not they are intimate.
Great Job Andrew, You really are a decent guy thanks for not taking the bait some viewers want to know too much. Please keep posting videos we really do enjoy them
Andrew Neighbors Andrew I really enjoy ur story's so much, they inspire me so much but I have a problem, I'm scared to come out to my family, how can I resolve this problem or become more confident to do it, if u reply I would really appreciate it
I was 13, and at summer camp in Coeur D Alene, Idaho in 1990. I already knew I was gay, but had never done anything. We were in cabins for the summer but had a few hiking tent camping nights and one boy we will Call Mikey and I got really close. We were from the same hometown, liked all the same music and we're both on the more mature side of puberty at that age. So we had a lot in common, we talked about things before anything ever happened, we both told each other that we were gay and that we liked each other, but that we were scared because we knew everyone would make fun of us. So on our first hiking trip we knew we would be sharing a tent and the excitement both of us felt was so strong. That hike was probably one of the scariest things I had done up until that point and I didn't really even realize it because my mind was focused on the fact that he and I would be sleeping in the same tent. When we stopped that first night it was by some cliffs on a river, where we were all jumping off before the sun started going down, I remember having to pee and he followed me and we went pee, looking at each other of course and it was so intense, having never seen a boy my own age in that aspect, I was in complete excitement overload. After dinner we all hung around talking, telling scary stories and what ever else teen boys talk about and the counsellors announced it was time for bed. Well as you can imagine we both didn't waste any time getting settled into our tents and we had our tent set up, only a lantern on, and I had my first gay kiss. We had both kissed girls so we had a general idea of what to do, and it was so exhilarating. I was kissing Mikey, and he was kissing me. Things got way more in deoth, but this needs to be pg. So yeah, summer camp, 13, what a summer.
Are you guys (still) together
No, he ended up moving to Hawaii shortly after, broke my little heart.
jason Shores Aw, I'm sorry.
Thomas Djamaluddin wtf
Thomas Djamaluddin wtf how old were both of you and is that psycho in prison
Loved your story & how sweet you were about telling it. I'm a bi female & struggled horribly during my teens until I finally learned to accept myself for who I am. Wish my 1st experience had been as innocent as yours. You're awesome Andrew. xx
Has somebody said before that this guy is a mixture between mark & ethan, or i'm a visionary?
OMG
Wow omg i froze for a moment hahaha
OMG!!!
It looks like it
OMG. I would actually say more of a Ethan than a Mark. But yeah, holy crap. Either way, I will never look at Andrew the same way.
Tell us about your other experiences 🙊😂
I Agree
Lol same^
Jack Gritty what?
@@Jackgritty28 stfu
Your story brought up a lot of conflicted memories. I had a bad crush on a football player in high school. He was a senior, 2 years older than me and drop dead handsome. I saw him in the locker room twice and he was my definition of masculine. Furry and muscled. I had a bad case of hero worship. He was a nice guy and would say hi to everyone. I never got the chance to talk to him in high school. 2 years later I was in a class with him in college. Before class everyone would sit on a bench waiting for class to start and we would talk. Nothing deep but it was nice. In class he would always sit with a girl he was tight with in high School but he would always sit with me before class. I was a very shy guy by nature and he always drew me out into a conversation. After class we would walk to the parking lot together and he would always pull off his shirt before he got into his car. It was summer in Miami and always hot. I had so many fantasies about him but couldn't work up the nerve to really say something. I was really inexperienced but I knew I wanted to be with him. One day after class we were sitting on the bench talking and he tapped me on the knee and asked if I wanted to come over his place. I didn't know what to do. I ended up saying what for? I immediately regretted it. The conversation fizzled out. I kept thinking as we walked to the car please ask me again but he didn't. The class ended a couple of days later and while we continued to talk, before class he didn't ask me again. I ran into him twice after college but could never work up the nerve. It hurt for years. Being shy can suck. 30 years later and I still regret it and it still hurts. If you're not currently in a relationship you must find your guy. The regret and pain dims with time but it never really goes away. 30 years later and while successful financially and in my career I'm still single and carry and huge empty place in my soul for what I missed. Find him!
My first gay experience was when I was so young, I had around 7 or 8 years old, I didn't know anything about attraction, about love, about passion so it was all so confusing to me. This boy 1 year older than me, used to come to my house for a long time. we cuddled when we where alone seeing TV or just chilling at my room, it was so innocent and honest, I was the younger one so he always had the initiative. It was so weird to feel the comfort and happiness those simple cuddles brought to us, just because that feeling was so new, we couldn't quite understand it but we enjoyed it.
TobiChan huh thats kinda what happened to me as well. I think i was 6 though. And i was the one who initiated.
Chicken Hands Lol I was six too when it first happened. I felt weird cuz I thought I was the only one
@@codywong4400 y'all are fucked up in the head.
Thats called incest, kiddies
@@smittywee8277 incest is a sexual relation between individuals of the same family 😭 which I committed at a very young age at that
Where are y’all now ?
Andrew, this is such a cool story: here you are with your Ph.D. relating perfectly your emotional experience from high school years. This is so good for guys that age now to see and to realize that their gay feelings are perfectly normal for them and that they don't make an obstacle to their careers or lives.........thank, you, bro.............Ray
My first gay experience:
Where is it?
Same here
Same
@@tonythegreat4275 sure maybe no homo
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I saw a gif on my Nintendo dsi of a boy touching himself at age 14. Seeing it excited me bro. I’m thankful fate allowed me to discover a big part of me.
I think it's so cute how the corners of your mouth curl up. It's like you smile so much that they automatically curl up as natural instinct. Anyways, great video👍🏾👍🏾
I do think that too, also I notice his perfect curve cupid's bow. :)
His curve lips is so adorable. and i feels so bad and apologize to ever think wante to kiss him
1:13 "I was in boyscouts" this could either go two ways for your first gay experience. lol
In most cultures the parent would disown the child if it was gay 🌈
My first two “gay” experiences occurred when I was 15. The first , I was molested by my girlfriends older brother. The second I was molested by a 68 year old, district court judge and minister who ended up eventually marrying my older brother and his wife and my sister and her first husband . I told no one as the rural town I lived in had only four streets, including the main. After several missteps, I had two wonderful boyfriends in a row, the second being the love of my life who eventually moved across the country to Florida with his ex. I was devastated. I saw him again a few years later, my feelings for him had not changed, I still loved him utterly and completely! He became a very successful model and escort! I miss him everyday.
Molested? I mean I can get the 68 year old but someone who is just a bit older then you and you were already a teen?
Wait this judge and minister married your brother, his wife, sister and her husband. That’s 4 people wtf I’m confused
@@justinmoore3217 He was the one who married them he was the guy in the middle of the bride and groom.
Being molested is not a gay experience." One is consensual, one is a crime.
You "pretended" to fall asleep? Oh you little devil you.
Josh Popichak I pretended to be hella sleepy
Lol
How could anybody not love you, you are wonderful and you have helped me through another step of my gay coming out and I feel the gay family coming through to my heart. Love you
Me and my Best Friend were 13 and one night during a sleep over things happened. From 13 to 18 we messed around before school, in school( meet in the bathroom), after school, 4 or 5 times a day. It went on till he left for College and I joined the Navy at 18. We are still buddies and we still hookup if I visit my old hometown. He's married now, kids, but wife lost interest in sex after marriage and they're more like roommates now. At some point we may get together. His kids are growing up fast and I don't want to mess up their family dynamic. We see each other and it's like we are 13 again. He says I am the only Male he has ever been with and I know it as well. We were little horn dogs dude. Lots of Fun in my old tree house! Your a cutie too. Love your stories
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I was a senior in h.s. in L.A. I was surprised to learn my h.s. didn't have a gay club. I soon found out the local junior college had a club and they allowed me to join as an honorary member, since I wasn't a student there and it worked out fine and I made a whole group of new friends. They had a dance one night and I went. I was sitting alone by the wall and in walks this tall muscular guy and I instantly said, "I have to have that guy!" We met, danced and then went back to his place and I spent the night. It too was my first gay experience, and it could've have been with a better guy. I was 18 and he was 30, but I had always associated with
older people, and I was attracted to older men, so it all worked out. I was only living in California my senior year of HS and then I had to move back to Texas, so we dated during that time, and I flew back for visits, and then it just kind of ended. I had only recently come out and I was like a kid in a candy store with ants in my pants. So many men, so little time! Now I'm 60, so there's no more of that either! At keast I have my partner. We both are survivors of the AIDS epidemic in the 80's and have survived, literally and in our relationship for 35 years now, so I can't complain! 😆
My first gay experience was in a tent in my mom and dad's backyard with one of the neighbor Farm boys
You are the 1 one person who helped me come out so i just wanted to say thank you
OMG I had a similar experience but with one of my best buddies in high school, we were like best friends and he came over to my house on a weekend, we actually slept in the same bed and give each other bjs and he just avoided me for a week after that incident. Idk listening to you talking about your story made me kinda sad. I really liked him.
And he played runescape too lol
I can relate to this :/
What happend after that?? D:
Marby Super Coin it seems like the friend freaked out. It's weird how the one that takes the lead usually is the one more in denial that freaks out xD
@@mikelmontoya2965 Because he feels more stressed (he's less sure ) about it > so he urges to check his fears (that's why he takes initiative above guy who is more or less sure about himself) > and when it proves he panics and goes defensive mode by acting macho. Different reasons: one goes for romantic purpose other for testing purpose.
I like these story times. You're an awesome person for being so understanding to the cute boy who was struggling with his sexuality. Great video Andrew!
Told myself I was straight my whole life until a year ago bad break up and a big client for my job I found out was gay, and one day while we were doing a project for him we kept making eyes at each other he asked my boss if he could take me to do small project at his house and boom! Anyway now we're together close to a year and he's best thing ever happened to me
You are quickly becoming one of my favorite UA-camrs! I love the stories you tell and the adventures you go on. You are an incredible person!!!
ahhh you're so gorgeous
Thomas In Action yes he is!!
Amen man
Thanks i know i am
Beauty Is Skin Deep & Ugly Is To The Bone! It's Not What Is On The Outside Of One, It Is What Is In The Inside & If It Is A Huge Ego That Needs Feeding 24/7 Then There Is A Huge Lack'n Of Substance From The Get Go!
im 59 and I have been growing them since i was 6. Mum got me to help prune usually I have several hundred to several thousand bushes. When it comes to pot growing of them,mix good potting mix, composted cow manure,.finished mushroom compost, ans some good red loam/clay. You need to use large pots.
Andrew, you are really good at story telling! I love how you look straight into camera. You know how to connect with your viewers. It feels like your talking directly to me :).
My first experience was in a tent as well during a back yard sleep over at one of my friends in my neighborhood. We started playing a card game and the loser had to remove an article of clothing. Since we were in boxers and a tee shirt already, it didn't take long before one of us was completely naked. I had no idea my friend was into guys because he had a current girlfriend. Although we didn't do anything sexually other than some quick fondling, I know exactly what you meant when you said it was exhilarating. Unfortunately we never talked about it again or had another experience after that night. I thought he was just experimenting and decided it wasn't for him. We kind of drifted apart in high school but he always had girlfriends. Years later when we were both in college, I had heard that he had been outed and his family was not accepting. He ended up moving out of state.
What a sweet story. Thanks for posting it. As an old guy, I really love hearing the experiences of young men who grew up in a more positive environment then I did, and who had less shame and self-hatred going on. I never yould have been able to do anything like that at 13.
Aww that was so sweet and innocent. I couldn't stop smiling. Thanks for another great video :)
How about a video about your real first gay experience that went all the way?
JesseLCH that would be cool, but this was freaking cute anyway
I’m 72 never thought I’d be 72 I still love everyone I’ve ever loved.
Love you ya old fuck
Definitely keep doing these revealing, personal storytimes. Feels like hanging out with a good friend.....good luck this week c patients!
My first day at univ, we sat alphabetically in a large lecture hall: I was kneeling on my seat, turned aroiund talking to a guy sitting behind me, when the prof came in I turned to sit in my seat and the guy to my right was holding my hand, just there, in class, completely nonchalantly. He was adorable, sweet, masculine and protective of me. We started to become friends and study together. My room at home now had twin beds in an 'L' configuration, Fleck slept in the left bed, a night table between the heads of the bed. As we were falling asleep in respectiv beds, Fleck reached out and took my hand, put it on his pillow and kissed my hand: it was in credible intense, I was flushed, trembling, this had never happaned to me and I adored him. I took his hand now and put it on my bed and put my cheek on his hand and in a millisecond I had an organism...the intensity of the affection, gentle, warm, unambivalent, was the beginning of a 3 1/2 year non-sexual romance.
Concerning rose bushes, by Winter, just burlap your roses and they'll prove good in hibernation until the weather warms up. Oh and fertiliser made from fish shall help them to thrive. You can find it at Home Depot. Smells awful, but with enough water the smell subsides. Always make sure you water the roses once or twice a week.
*****, no problem Andrew, contrary to popular belief, roses really aren't that hard to grow. Just make sure to prune the buds at an angle when they've begun to wilt, doing so shall promote the growth of new bulbs for flowers. Simply check out some of the P.Allen Smith vids on rose growing, and your balcony shall be filled with them. I prefer the thornless varieties. Cheers and happy gardening. =)
+sublimelyh70 😊
Your experience is very very similar to me. He's a very very hot classmate and one night we decided to touch each other and we are seeing each other in our own places, cuddling very PG13. But when we are leaving his home to town, I tried to talk about it, maybe start a relationship. And he said he's straight and don't want to talk about it. But the weird thing is he get a hard on every time we meet. So I guess Straight Guys are really really fascinating. And after this experience, we have to go back to school after christmas holiday, but the awkward thing is the teacher is arranging the seats and put me next to him, so I just pretty much look after him like a boyfriend and one time I was sick and the next day when I'm back, he misses me a lot. Unfortunately, now he's studying aboard and never talked to me again. I can't say it's sad but still a not too good first experience.
sounds hot
+juztin a it is
straight my ass
Took me a while to do anything with another person, (guy or girl) and I was quite disgruntled with my current status. I knew I liked guys, but I also still enjoyed girls. (Had never heard of being bi before). Later that year, messed around a bit, tried both "properly" and confirmed the ol bisexual nature within. Worked out pretty dandy.
"Sorry Mum, don't watch this Mum" at 7mins 30 when basically the whole story has been said anyways...funny as 😭
i've had almost no experience like that, it's soul crushing and so lonely, but when I did it was great and i never wanted it to end.
the "pretending" to fall asleep was cute. i might try that 😂
I guess I'm an exception. When I was 12 puberty hit and I realized I liked guys. It was 1978. It was a little bit of a surprise but I didn't hate myself for it. By 8th grade I had my first bf. He was awesome. He'd come over to my house and stay the night sometimes. I loved him and he did me too. Next year he had to move because his dad got a job in a different state. After 8th grade I just lived my life. I never shouted it out but I didn't stop being myself either. ❤
Is this really what I do all night... listen to stories of people’s gay experiences, and cry myself to sleep because I haven’t had mine.
Andrew Neighbors k I’ll let 7 know when it happens as well as what it was like.
Laughs in Balenciaga has it 🥺
This is a beautiful story about NORMAL gay sexuality. Most of us especially in my generation never got to do this. We went from desire to quick sex in a dark room! Your experience is the right one!
Cant get over how cute your mouth is =)
I know, he has beautiful lips. They are perfectly shaped.
-They're like The Jokers, only attractive.
What makes it different than any other mouth?
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But everything lmao
George Harrison Yep.
I could listen to you all day. The way you talk is just amazing. Keep it up. 👍
My first experience was 3 days ago, so we met and chatted together and then he came out to me and we kissed. He is adorable and so hype
Im bisexual
love your saying "never stop learning". One thing I love about being a nutritionist is my continue education credits for my field. Science is new everyday and is always changing. I think what you are doing is great keep it up man.
Adorable story. Glad you listened to yourself and were respectful of the other dude. Good luck with the rose growing! How are they so difficult to grow?
Roses grow best with full sun. Watch out for aphids.
I just cant stop watching ur lips...
嘿嘿 Me too,tf.
嘿嘿 OMG ME TOO. ME TOO AF!! lIKE I Was DROOLING
Dude, I thought I was the only one! He has the most beautiful lips ever!
哈哈，一样一样😄
Wtf me too 🤣
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So I am confusion. Why is dis one Kansas, but dis one is not Arkansas. AMERICA EGGS PLAIN! EGGS PLAIN! WHAT DO YOU MEAN ARKAN-SAW!?
I'm sorry I had to do it.
Andrew, that was a great story and so similar to my first experience. I really enjoy watching your posts. You are an inspiration to all of us.
Mine was at Philmont in Cimarron, NM. One resting camp had a communal shower. It was a good distance from our tents and we had to take a buddy. I went with a guy that I didn't have a crush on but I thought he was ok looking. We walked in and there were barely walls for privacy. We both got naked to take our showers and we both "woke up" from seeing each other. After a few seconds of staring at each other, I ran for hills with my towel covering me. I was too excited, I didn't know what to do. The next 5 or 6 days in the trail were awkward as hell.
That's so funny.
OMG I've been to Philmont twice, I love it. that's so funny though
Same!
musta been at baldy camp lol I remember those showers
That feeling you had when he moved tents..... I remember that exact emotion.
my first experience was when I was playing spin the bottle with some friends and I had to kiss the new guy he was really cute so of course I kissed him but it was longer than I and everyone expected turned out that he was gay to and now me and him r going out this happend last year and now I'm fourteen he is the best boyfriend ever😁
That's cute 💕
So happy for you🏳️🌈😁
you are still with him?🤣
It's always nice to hear stories like these. Being gay in my country is so effed up
Way to prove the stereotype that boy scouts are gay.
JK
+Andrew Goes Places add me on snap char I needxadvice
You made me spray tea on my desk
Tyler Boothman me
Same boat as Andrew actually :3
Why people always have stereotypes about scouters🙈😂 I told my friend that I'm watching good looking guys, when she asked me what I was doing in this big scout camp, and she was like: scoutboys? Can't be... I was like: well hell yeah they're good looking😂 Like, if there's hot girlscouters, why can't there be hot boyscouters?😌😌 and, I don't know any gay scoutboy😌 and believe me, I've met few hundreds of them🙈😌
Liked how genuine you were, and no drama.
My first experience was nothing like that.
My first experience was sophomore year 2015.
I was invited to a party by my friend and me and her went to the party duh😂 I was in the bathroom and I heard something weird so I open the bedroom door and a guy was there drinking on his own... I went to sit with him and he looked at me and I recognised him .. he’s the kid that sits at the back on his own in biology.. I started to talk with him we was there talking for hours. I fell asleep on the bed and idk what he did but by the time I woke up He was still sat in the chair drinking. So I said “hey” and he called me lazy blah blah then he got up and lay next to me.. (by this time I didn’t know I was gay never thought about it) so i was there and they he got under the covers and started to drift of asleep so I got out and then he grabbed my hand and pulled me down and kissed me...
All through my years of growing up I wished I had a cute romantic story of me and a crush! Even if it was just for a week or so idk. I love this story time thanks Andrew☺️
Loved the video Andrew! I bet that guy is kicking himself right about now.
That was so sweet and natural. Sadly he got cold feet and wasn't ready, but it gave you such a wonderful memory!
Thank you for sharing. Great to hear your first experience. First time I kissed a guy I was so excited my teeth were chattering for ages before and after. All the best with your love life - you're super cute so be discerning :)
Interesting, I am a 74 year old gay man whose story is very similar to yours. You have a sweet spirit and are pleasing to the eyes.. good luck to you, you deserve it. By the way, make sure the roses you choose are the miniature variety as your space is a bit small for the larger size.
give us a *CAR TOUR* I'd love to see it :p like if you agree!
First gay experience? Well.....I was 8 and it was with a family member so it wasn't all the giggly anticipation. That did come later your video did take me back many, many years. You tend to forget that particular feeling because as you get older and life takes over that never happens again. That innocence is gone. Cute story and you are adorable as well.
I went all the way for the first time yesterday...I'm still sorting through my feelings..,but DANG it was good
It's a whole rush of feelings. Good for you to sort them out and understand what you like.
Jguy365 that's how it is. Things go up from there
The way the light hits his eyes is breath taking
Yo I had the same experience with my crush , I never thought brown eyes would look a Perfect 😭 but he said he was straight so ....
I knew I was attracted to other males from a very young age. But I was about 13 when my best friend at the time, he and his family moved to a house one door down from us. The place had this building that had been built like the Cadillac of chicken coops years before, including wood floors. Not sure the place ever saw chickens as it was mainly dusty. So we cleaned the place out thoroughly, fixed the shutters over the windows so they were secured from inside, and installed a lock inside so that we'd have a "club house. We drug sleeping bags and a few other things to make it our place. One day, Mike asked me if I wanted to play strip poker. I'd never played poker at all but of course said yes. Needless to say, I lost everything, at which point he stripped down and we began to fool around, pretending to be a man and a woman. Every afternoon after school we're rush to the club house and get naked and onto the spread out sleeping bag. Sadly, his father had accepted an job on the Louisiana coast in the oil patch, so late that fall they moved. By this time I knew I wanted men more than women, but it was not until college that I went further (heavy petting they'd call it). But at some point a close married female friend who was having an affair with a college guy my age asked me to spend the weekend with him so she could defuse her husband's suspicions. We went and spent the night at his grandparents house 30 miles away, where everyone was gone. We had a few drinks, smoked a joint, and he excused himself a moment, When he came back he was just in his underwear. Within 5 minutes he suggested we head to his bedroom. That evening I was initiated to the pleasures of oral and anal, my first time for both (but he seemed to be too knowledgeable for it to be his first time, especially performing anal on me). I was so surprised how easy anal came and how good it felt to have a man inside me. That night completely settled any question about my sexuality and I've identified as gay ever since. Just another story from the great state of Arkansas!
Listening to him talk just makes me melt, literally
Damn, now I regret not joining boy scouts.
Ikr
I legit just said the same thing then saw your comment lmaooo
You would be shocked if you knew what went on in the scout troop I was in in the late 1960's. Seemed like almost every boy fooled around.
Your story is so beautiful, it melted my heart! And dude!! Your lips are beautiful!
My first time was when I was 15, with my best friend. I had a girlfriend at the time, and had always dated girls, but there was someting about Mike that just drew me to him. we went everywhere together, and even used to switch clothes at school just to see if anyone would notice.
Anyways my girlfriend was extremely jealous of the time ai was spending with Mike, and she told me it was like we were attatched at the hip, and told me that everyone thought we were butt buddies. Or gay.
I of course told her I wasn't. I mean if I was, why would I be dating her?
So, I decided to tell Mike about this. He insanely good looking by the way, and on the track team, also baseball team.
So i told him that my girlfriend thought we were gay, on a sleep over at his house. So he says, there is one way to find out. He told me I should kiss him, and we would at least figure out if I was gay. Not him.
I told him i was not going to kiss him, but totally wanted to after he suggested it. Then of course he had to double dog dare me. So, as much as I tried to resist it. I kissed him. And as soon as that kiss was over we just looked at each other, ad went "oh my god."
I mean i had kissed plenty of girls, but kissing Mike was the best kiss ever! Well, the next thing I knew we were making out. And, by morning I had my first sexual experience. A kind of mutual thing if you know what I mean. After that, it was all about him, and my girlfriend broke it off with me because I had no time for her. I had fallen totally in love with Mike. This went on for over a year, until i had to move to another town. I was heart broken.
I went on to be gay, and years later found him on facebook. Married with 3 kids.
😭😭the last part
Omggg,how are y'all now ?😭😭
Hope y'all are doing good?
My 1st almost gay experience, also stopped by societal pressure, was in my dorm room at university. (But, first off, I’d never pressure a straight guy nor even find him attractive). A cute guy insisted on coming into my room every evening and staying talking until very late in the evening. After six months of this, and having heard his most secret confessions, (which will stay with me to the grave as will all such confessions - not re: about imminent hurting self or others, but the rest do), BUT, he suddenly got scared, and next thing I knew, he’d joined a Presbyterian youth group. He convinced my girlfriend at that time to go with him to a weekend camp. She was appalled. Naturally, being an honest and open person, I told her about what was happening and while not excited, she was interested more than anything else, and I think it drew us closer together. It was a different era back in the early ‘80s, and, later, I was married to a wonderful woman for a while. (Again, with full disclosure before marriage), but we were happy until - and after - she met another guy four years later, and I thought he was a wonderful guy with whom she’d be really happy, so we decided he was a better - match and divorced. It, the first guy, the handsome but, honestly, naive guy who was so scared of being gay that he joined a severe Presbyterian group, I cut the relationship off and asked him not to visit me every evening. I really liked him as a person, and he was “all that” physically, it if a gay person wants to play straight due to societal pressure, then I think they should. It may cause them misery, but you have to let them - and, sadly the straight woman who gets stranded in the process 😕 figure this out. We’ll, that may be the attitude of an older generation who grew up when we gay guys could go to jail for 14 years if caught. It was an era of police raids (in Mew Zealand), secret gay bars and nightclubs, and horrible endless anti-gay jokes, etc., plus discrimination.
You sure are a handsome young man, I'm sure you can get any guy you want I really enjoy your videos, keep up the good work
My first gay experience was with this guy freshman year, we had the same friend group but he went to a different school. We were both closeted at the time and no one knew abt us. I still remember him asking me if I was gay and I thought he was trying to expose me and I asked him and he said he didn’t know, and neither did I. The first time we met face to face was at one of our mutual friends house for a little party and I remember that we were going to get an ouija board and I kinda locked eyes with him to tell him to come down stairs with me. I remember there was a leather couch downstairs and he just touched my face and started to kiss me. It was amazing
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Haven't had any experiences yet...not even a single look from other guys. Guess I just have to keep waiting for my special moment. ^_^
This is the most relatable story ever. The same thing happened to me. Literally same. Crazy.
When I was little I used to experiment alot with my friends. To some it may sound crazy, but it all started when I was about 4. I felt sexually attracted to the boys more than to the girls, and with the boys I had more experiences, so I guess that's what eventually led me to turn completely gay. This was many years ago though, I'm turning 22 soon and I have not had any sexual encounter with another guy since I was about 10. I think I had a few chances years later, but I was too nervous and insecure to actually do anything about it, or to actually see them as opportunities. I've remained completely alone all these years, and will probably remain alone for many more, but hey there's more to life than this.
That wasn't experimentation, so much as it was child on child sexual abuse. It may explain your abnormal sexual development. I don't mean that to sound offensive, but you might want to seek treatment for that, if you haven't already.
chs75 How is it child abuse if it was done among children around the same age? No one was coerced or forced to do something they didn't want to do. I really don't mean to argue, I'm not one to think humans are inherently normal in any way shape or form, they become mirrors and carriers of the generation that molded and shaped their minds, from there they carry a new definition of normalcy, so your diction reflects your acute ignorance about human psychology. I'm not an expert, but there's things such as nature and nurture, two things that are not separate from each other. Sexuality isn't something that can be treated or cured, some develop heterosexual attractions, while others develop homosexual attractions, others are unfortunately left with impulses like becoming sexually gratified by seeing people in pain i.e. serial killers. Please do us and yourself a favor, get away with your outdated 1970's pseudo-science, and stop visiting gay-related videos on youtube to spread your unwarranted opinions, that add nothing relevant, insightful, or fruitful into the lives of other individuals. The cells in my body are still reproducing, my blood is still pumping, the trees are still giving out their oxygen, the earth is still rotating on its axis, the sun is still burning out its hydrogen, and the galaxy is still moving millions of miles per hour, and you are here in a minuscule planet doing nothing but sitting in front of an artificial machine that gathers information at light speed, spreading your meek opinions about how the Universe should function. The ego is the biggest lie ever told.
Soundillusions94xyz Child on child sexual abuse is one of the most common forms of childhood sexual abuse. One-third of all child sexual abuse is committed by other children. Because it wasn't a terrifying experience, doesn't mean it didn't have a profound effect on you. The story usually goes that one child is sexually assaulted by an adult and then those children act out on other kids. A 4 year old has no concept of sex or sexually driven activities. Normal childhood exploration is within the realm of "If you show me yours, I'll show you mine". But anything that is 'pleasure' driven was learned, and that is not good.
Clearly my response hit a nerve, and your exaggerated response is telling. A child who was sexually "active" from ages 4 to 10, and nothing from 10 to 21 with a sexual trauma history...take that story to any therapist, and you will soon find that nothing I said was related to "pseudo-science". Your story is a very common one, and needs treatment. Not to change your sexuality or anything else in that was in that "word salad" tangent you went on, but to literally re-wire your brain from the trauma that you went through, so that you can function normal with whomever you choose to be with sexually. But right now, a 21 year old who can't function sexually or romantically with another person,and having a trauma history is a problem whether you want to see it that way or not.
*"...and you are here in a minuscule planet doing nothing but sitting in front of an artificial machine that gathers information at light speed, spreading your meek opinions about how the Universe should function. The ego is the biggest lie ever told."* Pot meet kettle....
chs75 I wasn't aware about this child-to-child sexual abuse, unless it was forced. I fail to see how I'm traumatized. I visited a psychiatrist a few years ago, I also spoke to a psychologist/hypnotherapist many years ago as well. I've never been diagnosed with PTSD or childhood trauma, or anything related to that. I've spoken to them about my life, my sexuality and my experiences, they were a bit shocked about those sexual encounters when I was little but I wasn't diagnosed with any trauma. I was prescribed a mild dose of anxiety pills a few years ago, but I decided not to take them because I didn't want to depend on them. Something that has been a part of me all my life I guess are anxiety and depression, but no one has ever told me about me being traumatized, I may have been traumatized by a violent environment, a failed marriage and bullying in school, but I don't feel traumatized by my sexuality at all.
It seems that you find it odd that my sexual experiences somehow interchanged chronologically. Instead of becoming sexually active during my adolescence, I had sexual activity during childhood. That isn't something I controlled, you seem to be blaming this on me, as if I was the one that caused this, but the truth of the matter is that I've never had a sexual encounter with anyone else since around the age of 10. Sex has avoided me ENTIRELY for these past 10-11 years, and there's nothing I can do about that unless you want me to go on cheap dates, and practice unsafe forms of courtship for a quick, meaningless fuck.
I've got a better answer for you. Since I'm older and more capable of understanding abstract concepts and more highly self-aware, I am willingly isolating myself from sex all together. You say I am incapable of romantically and sexually engaging with other people, EXACTLY, you are right, because I'm doing it out of my own volition. I know that I'm incapable of doing so because of who I am, because of my personality. I have other priorities. I look forward to a career and inner growth, self-actualization. I do not look forward to my next hot fuck like most of the people that surround me today and youth in general. Don't get me wrong, I think about sex everyday and I desire for it, I envy those who satiate on it as much as they want, but knowing myself I think it's best for me not to put such a burden on my shoulders, because I know I'm not ready for sex as much as I want it, neither am I ready for a relationship. Some people as abnormal it may seem to you simply aren't made for such things, maybe I've finally gone crazy, but at least I'm not stupid.
Pardon the word salad, but you failed to see beyond what was just before your eyes. You weren't thinking about my words, you were simply implying I was talking nonsense, and not really connecting my words with what you said prior. Regardless, thanks for this new info, also please don't throw little insults at me, if you want to have a normal conversation please stay, if not then leave me alone.
Something I forgot to mention, I did have a sexual encounter with a woman when I was 15, I reckon it was absolutely terrible though.... It confirmed me that women aren't my thing. That was the only time I actually had sexual intercourse with someone, could even be the last.
henry burton What does that mean for me then?
What a smart, interesting, decent guy. I like you a lot.
I was a tall fit young white Guy with square shoulders and blond hair ( I can’t give my age for legal reasons)
On my way home, I dared to walk through a well-known small Gay pick up area in my home City, I got caught looking intensely at a certain red haired fit guy, as He saw me I walked quicker, but then I got the courage to go back through again. As I walked back He was waiting around a corner to surprise me, this time I saw Him and jumped, He knew by this I was most likely interested. He followed me, soon caught up and was walking quickly getting beside me, He said how are you ? we talked and then He said can we go somewhere ? I said yes, He said we can just practice, I said OK. He put His hand on my back briefly, this was comforting. We went to a wooded private area, I learnt His name was James, He began to feel with the flat on His hand around my zipper, He gave me very light kisses to my neck I’d never known any of this before. I could not resist doing the same to James. He told me that it’d be better if I could go to His home. I just went with James He was friendly and warm. At His home He bjd me thoroughly, I was sapped and drained of all I could shoot out. We agreed to meet up again. Three days later I revisited His home this time we sat together for some time on His Sofa, James told me He had been working hard at exams and was a trainee Lawyer, He also said He had a big load to get rid of. James loved doing oral & I’d never experienced such sensual physical attention. I loved handling Him because this was so new to me. We continued to have meet ups, to me James was such a cool stunning Guy, He talked to me about bum Sex, or bum-chumming we called it. James told me about doing anal wash-outs and the benefits of lubricant, before getting started. He was always anal-licking me, then fingering firmly. He gave me the fluid for the wash-out, then we both showered and bathed together. After this we went to bed, James slipped into me like a pro. I loved it, we often met up and did more of the same things.James was like a Mother Kangaroo, I was the younger Kangaroo He had me in His pouch/pocket. Eventually James told me that He was going to leave for work purposes, He said he had a dear friend called Robert and He wanted to put me with Rob, and that Rob loved doing bjs, I had to agree to keep my history with James a secret from Rob. We went out for coffee and as planned Rob was there already.I was blushing He was a lush adorable sweet Guy. I had no idea what I was in for (after James disappeared) Rob was sitting down and had me standing before Him as He was sapping me dry, Rob could not get enough He always planned a break with TV & drinks then got me back to it for a second turn, He wanted every drop. Rob surprised me by insisting that I chum Him. As soon as I’d learnt to get into Rob I quickly finished. Looking back on these two Guys I remember that they were always enthralled that what I had was much bigger than what they had, through them I’d learnt to give and take, love & adore. Rob was a young teacher, I saw Him a year later with a group of six form college students, some were older than me. One of these male College students was later to run after me, He wanted to hang out with me, He said I know “you were close to Rob” I made out I didn’t know what He meant and declined. Iam now happily & faithfully married with three children but I recommend that any young guys who read this should be very willing to “get them off” and get the experience before the chance goes away
chris Lambert gay
I came across your content while looking for something to listen to while I worked on a project. I'm having a really good time listening (and watching when I can...I mean...DAMN...you be cute. Thanks for the posts.
more gay story time!!!
Loved the quote “questionable places”. I LOL so hard. Great story. My first experience was with the son of one of my mom’s coworkers, but it was way more the PG-13.
I unfortunately haven't really had a gay experience with another guy even though it seems like everyone else did, even when they were years younger than I am. By the way, when I first saw the picture for the video I thought you were Mark Miller for a second.
It will happen! And the MEM comparison is certainly not insulting to either of them.
I am starting to talk to a cute guy on facebook from school, but i have like no reason to talk to him personally because we don't even know the same people, and if i start to talk and walk to him on school my friends wouldn't like it... also no one knows i'm gay, is kinda weird because i know he looks at me on the corridors, because once i looked at him and he was already looking at me, i only spoke to him once and we did a weird thing with out hands because he came and tried to take my hand i only did a hi thing with mine LOL, i pretend i don't see him in the corridors because his friends already look at me weird, because i unintentionally bumped into one of them when i was walking distracted and they must think i am an asshole also i said something playing with my friends that they must have thought i was being rude, something like 'Out of my way' just playing with them(my friends), but those guys thought it was with them and now they must hate me. LOL
It sounds like you do have something to talk to him about personally. I hope you can soon tell your friends and be yourself. Cheers and good luck H1
super76 I talked to him early today(on school) and he asked me to help him with some tests and stuff, it was cool, and some of my friends even joined us to study, but his friends kept their distance, they sure don't like me also we talked about some tv series and other things. I found out that he has a peculiar voice and he seems really calm, hell, sometimes i thought he couldn't even talk anymore.
I know this is random and weird, but I'm just so curious, pls let me know how this works out :)
Andrew, first of all, Happy New Year to you, your family, and your fans! 🥳😷
OK, forgive me but, I couldn't help smiling when you said you and your BSA tentmate heard someone and just "jerked away"!
I also love your use of the term "spooning", a term I remember my grandparents using in the '40s & '50s. Now, being your own grandparents age, I thought I'd better check Wicki on its current usage. I smiled again trying to envision two young boys, in separate sleeping bags, having a go at doggie-style. Thanks for bringing back some great memories of my own scouting days, btw ...another reason to smile.
Andrew, always love watching your videos!My first gay experience was when I was 17 and I remember feeling so nervous when the guy kept asking me if I have ever kissed a guy or been with one. He kept scooting closer on my friends couch (we were staying at his place that night) and then I randomly turned to him and he kissed me...so we started making out and I knew that pretty much confirmed I liked guys. My friend said he saw us kissing but didn't say anything until a few months later haha.That guy ended up being a huge prick and ruined a friendship I had with this one girl who was my friend for like 8 years (she has since then apologized to me). But I have had better experiences with guys after that so it's all good :)
I grew up in a small town near Fayetteville, AR and have slowly related to alot of your stories. Thank you for posting these, it is nice to hear similar stories and have someone completely down to earth and humble that you can relate to. Now if only you were as tall as me... haha
From Arkansas
Tbh honest I was also at boyscout camp when i discovered my sexuality. I always thought i liked girls but when i hit about 13 i started messing around with my best friends..just playful stuff at first i didnt really think it was gay...but then i took a shower at camp with another guy that i had gotten close to..we had bottoms on but what i saw was enough for me to realize i was liking what i was seeing. It was the craziest feeling id ever felt. Guess it was lust. 😂
Aw, the puppies don't click and cuddle?
Another cool video, Andrew. Seriously great storytelling skills. Best wishes as you get started at work! June 1? I would be so cool to have an optometrist that was so easy on the eyes and made my heart flutter! ;)
I was 13 It's was a guy that lived down the street he was cute to me I knew I liked guys but he wasn't sure we kissed in my backyard in the shed I loved it I was so happy that we kissed then we felt each other it felt right I knew then he was the guy for me we had puppy love for about 2 years till he moved away
LOL you just got me thinking of my first gay experience,keep up the good work....You're RAD!!!
Such a cute story!
A not dissimilar story that I have heard before. The heartbreak of self-discovery.
I wish I could say that I had something like this at that age.