How to Start a Dream (even when you're scared)

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
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    In this episode of The Charged Life, high performance coach and #1 New York Times bestselling self-help author Brendon Burchard shares how to start a dream that scares you.
    This is Brendon speaking freestyle, recorded in one take without prompter or notes.
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    SUMMARY:
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    People aren’t afraid of starting a dream. They’re afraid of change. Here’s how to get real with ourselves and begin our greatest dreams with boldness:
    1. Be honest.
    2. Get focused.
    3. Create a learning map.
    4. Start with three actions per day.
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    ABOUT BRENDON
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    Brendon Burchard is one of the most followed personal development trainers of our time, and he is in the Top 100 Most Followed Public Figures on Facebook. A #1 New York Times bestselling author, his books include The Motivation Manifesto, The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger, and Life’s Golden Ticket. A car accident at the age of 19 inspired Brendon to turn his life around and follow his dreams to be a writer and trainer. After failing at first - he went bankrupt trying but didnt give up - he became a multimillionaire by the age of 32. Since then, Brendon has dedicated his life to helping others find their charge and share their voice with the world.
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    ABOUT THE CHARGED LIFE
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    The Charged Life is a weekly self-help show full of #motivation, #inspiration, and #high performance strategies with bestselling author, motivational speaker and High Performance Academy founder Brendon Burchard. Filmed in one take, without any notes or prompter, the show has become one of the most viewed direct-to-camera self-help series in the history of UA-cam. It's also been the #1 Podcast in all of iTunes and is regularly in the top podcasts in Self-Help and Health categories around the globe. Subscribe to the free motivational podcast here: itun.es/i66Y78r
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 174

  • @zookiatookya320
    @zookiatookya320 9 років тому +68

    Brendon, I don't remember how I found you, but heres all I know...
    One night I was sitting in my room and I was just so down from how I was handling my life. I had watched this video long before and infact I had watched many videos that you had uploaded, but this night I felt down yet I wanted change...I craved change. So I watched this video, and by the end of it, I put my phone down, wore my clothes, got out of my house, and went for a night jog (for the very first time in my life) and here I am today, studying the course I always failed, while passing it, I have my life set on what I want and how I will get it and partly its all thanks to you my friend. I hope one day I get to motivate my family, and thats when i'll be living......
    THE CHARGED LIFE :)
    EDIT: Guys! Thank you so much for the likes, I'm still going, It has been challenging, but this is life, it is not a straight line, I hope all your journeys are going well, and if not, then please do not give up, you are stronger than you think!

    • @ArlineExcondeRaijmakers
      @ArlineExcondeRaijmakers 9 років тому +3

      Awesome

    • @dikshapoudyal3039
      @dikshapoudyal3039 9 років тому +3

      Thanks for sharing :)

    • @KiloBee777
      @KiloBee777 9 років тому +3

      +Zaia Sarkis That's fantastic. Wishing you the best.

    • @btcmewzik9613
      @btcmewzik9613 8 років тому +3

      +Zaia Sarkis I am on the same road Zaia be bless

    • @moltotravel5416
      @moltotravel5416 8 років тому +2

      +Zaia Sarkis Good Hob keep on it , I'm on the way like you and i have a great hope to reach my goal very soon

  • @stephaniecalzada
    @stephaniecalzada 9 років тому +12

    I was stuck in "learning mode" where all I wanted to do was study the area of my expertise (which for me is hypnosis)... I was learning about online marketing. But I have finally taken the first steps of action and suddenly I'm on a roll. Sometimes it just takes getting things into motion, and once you get started ideas just start to unfold. That's whats happened for me anyway. Just get started! Good luck everyone.

    • @MrShawdedra
      @MrShawdedra 7 років тому +2

      Stephanie Calzada I've been reading for 20yrs and I'm finally about to put in the action. I will be having my first event a vision board party 🙌🏾 I'm also starting a online custom wig making business. I'm so nervous about starting social media but I'm going to conquer it .

    • @stephaniecalzada
      @stephaniecalzada 7 років тому

      dedra robertson That's awesome Dedra! I am so happy to hear that you are taking action. Good luck with the wig making business! I'm sure you will be incredibly successful. Keep me posted!

    • @RoswithaHerman
      @RoswithaHerman 5 років тому

      good luck to you too!

    • @rafaelgomez1989
      @rafaelgomez1989 2 роки тому

      Thanks !!!

  • @BenniChawes
    @BenniChawes 9 років тому +16

    6:30 Yes love that one too (I believe it is: "You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great". Zig Ziglar)

    • @moltotravel5416
      @moltotravel5416 8 років тому

      +Sarah Chawes Yea I think this sentence is very meaningful ...It's reality and it's majic

  • @TheKay830
    @TheKay830 6 років тому +1

    as soon as I graduate this summer I will be running for my own dream.I once had a lot of ambitions and wills for my life....but the reality had beat me miserably. if I can achieve that one dream in my life , I will willing to pay everything to make it come true.

  • @youtuberob
    @youtuberob 9 років тому +3

    Quit my Job today! because of you I do not even feel scared, ready to face the dream! :)

  • @DomsDocs
    @DomsDocs 9 років тому +28

    *Needed to hear this! I'm sure others did too!*

  • @urmyfuture1945
    @urmyfuture1945 7 років тому +3

    Brendan, you are honestly one of the biggest reason I'm on UA-cam every day. thank you 🙏

  • @rosalvamartinez582
    @rosalvamartinez582 8 років тому +7

    I'm glad I came to your channel. I've been afraid to start my own business but watching this, wow! you're a great motivator. thank you

  • @BlkDiesel
    @BlkDiesel 9 років тому +1

    Another phenomenal video and the content is so right on time. Be honest bout your perceived barriers physical or emotional, access what you have to learn, set up the scheduled learning, Set a date for the launch of the vision, take 3 actions daily to continue the vision. "You don't have to great at the start, but you have to start to become great." Zig Ziglar

  • @TrinJeto
    @TrinJeto 9 років тому +1

    Definitely great tips to make a dream a reality. Never expect perfection the first time you start because as counter-intuitive as this sounds, you need to fail in order to succeed.

  • @damiancaesar1686
    @damiancaesar1686 9 років тому +1

    Thank you Brendon, I have started my dream, invested in a course and you help me learn something every day. Some day I hope to shake your hand and say thanks.

  • @Khaledshowe
    @Khaledshowe 9 років тому +3

    You just ROCK,,, you are amazing, actually the fact that there's 500+ likes with no single dislike tells a lot about your genuinity and shows the thru of what you are saying.
    I'm thankful for you and your dreams, otherwise we'd have not know about you.. THANK YOU Brendon

  • @TheSuccessMessenger
    @TheSuccessMessenger 9 років тому +2

    Brendon has to be one of my favorite people in this industry. Phenomenal work.

  • @AccuracyFilms
    @AccuracyFilms 9 років тому +5

    I just discovered your channel and subscribed! Great content. I appreciate all of the great information you shared in this video. Thank you and keep up the great work!

  • @Jamiliadanae
    @Jamiliadanae 9 років тому +11

    This is a wake up call for me..

  • @amberleaf7
    @amberleaf7 5 років тому +1

    8:23 such a gem

  • @danielaugust7166
    @danielaugust7166 9 років тому +2

    This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear. Thank you.

  • @PowerlinehealthProducts
    @PowerlinehealthProducts 8 років тому +1

    Thank you for this Brendon! You are passionate about what you do - keep up the good work... one of my 3 things to do every day will be to watch 1 video like your's each day... :)

  • @OKSooo_TV
    @OKSooo_TV 9 років тому +2

    The absolute best advice I've heard on how to start a dream. I'm so excited to put this into action. Glad I found out about you on Marie Forleo. Thanks for the videos and excellent content!

  • @jojointhehouse9292
    @jojointhehouse9292 9 років тому

    This ran a spark through my body and I realized singing is what I'm dieing for I always loved it and maybe soon or someday I will go down the street and sing and see what happens its not all about the fame or money......its about the fans💖and that's what I have to say.

  • @lucasthobias
    @lucasthobias 9 років тому +2

    Brendon, i really like your work. U are what i call a super human. thank you for being a reference for all of us.

  • @liezlwade7234
    @liezlwade7234 9 років тому

    Thank you Brendon for all the valuable wisdom and inspirtation you give to people. Recently, I have just started listening to all of your videos on youtube and I can say, it is already ,making a difference in my days since. So, thank you again, so much!

  • @sanjibdas3541
    @sanjibdas3541 9 років тому

    You are so passionate and energetic throughout your videos.... Really love to watch them.

  • @BrendonChriston
    @BrendonChriston 9 років тому +5

    I found you by searching for people with the same name as me and I'm glad I did! You're a real inspiration. One day I'm going to become the best prankster on UA-cam! I have some big videos planned for this year! My goal for this year is to earn 10,000 subscribers! I have 8 so far, we all have to start somewhere, right? Thanks for the inspiration. Brendon.

  • @fydanyway4221
    @fydanyway4221 9 років тому +7

    thank god i found you brendon

  • @EmekaFilm
    @EmekaFilm 9 років тому

    Awesome new Calls to Action at closing. Your doing a Great Job Brendon

  • @RichflixInc
    @RichflixInc 2 роки тому

    Find at least 3 things to do everyday that takes you one step closer to your dream! Love this Brendon!
    Much love from Bali ❤️

  • @milobar100
    @milobar100 5 років тому +1

    I love listening to you Brendan. You are like the clever, strict father I never had.m

  • @potencializaratitudes7852
    @potencializaratitudes7852 8 років тому +2

    Very good! Thanks.

  • @nelbonm
    @nelbonm 9 років тому

    Your videos are great. Thanks for sharing it with us. The best part of this one was "To do three things each day to move you dreams forward". That's very important.

  • @tsich3226
    @tsich3226 6 років тому +1

    This video is maybe the most valuable video I have ever seen.

  • @chavanvinay
    @chavanvinay 9 років тому +1

    Great video brendon. Keep it up. Long live and keep spreading the word like this.

  • @BrendanMurphy8
    @BrendanMurphy8 9 років тому

    Great! I've been working through the fear idea and what it really comes down to is just discipline and sustained motivation. It's not fear itself - it's sticking to the plan and executing! Always inspirational and worth listening to a few times.

  • @dreamodd
    @dreamodd 8 років тому +3

    Thank you man. You are a true inspiration

  • @msmonroe1020
    @msmonroe1020 7 років тому

    So true I feel that I'm capable of so much more. It's simply a lack of feeling good enough, discipline and drive. I admit I feel that I'm not confident and lack so many things. 😞

  • @jacquelinecurtis712
    @jacquelinecurtis712 9 років тому

    I waited until Today, my Tip Tuesday to listen in........its a new year with purpose and I appreciate the message. #CRUSHIT with Brendon Burchard

  • @PanamanianPrincesa04
    @PanamanianPrincesa04 9 років тому

    "You have to start to be great" I love that! 😊

  • @kunalbansal2722
    @kunalbansal2722 9 років тому +2

    You're great brendon... Thanks for everything!! '...specially life's golden ticket

  • @prabodhdeolekar1228
    @prabodhdeolekar1228 9 років тому +1

    Hi Brendon..one more excellent video.....Please come to India someday Corporate India needs a great thinker like you..

  • @Manjula0209
    @Manjula0209 9 років тому

    Thanks Bredon .. you set me out of the trap .. here i am stepping towards my dream

  • @heidiandthechihuahuas787
    @heidiandthechihuahuas787 5 років тому

    A great Video! I agree that you have to atleast make a start with your dream. One step always leads to the next.New things can be learned every day no matter how small. Making any amount of progress is uplifting.

  • @d0rk
    @d0rk 5 років тому +1

    I’m so happy to listen to this again

  • @josebaez9066
    @josebaez9066 7 років тому

    Brendon,you are great ,your episode always bring something possitive in my life ,keep like that.

  • @samanthashelton9420
    @samanthashelton9420 9 років тому

    No words can describe how Your words never fail me. Can't thank you enough , namaste xx

  • @alexshchet
    @alexshchet 9 років тому

    Brendon, I watched it 1,000,001-th time. I start my morning with this. I go to bed watching this.

  • @CocoTiu
    @CocoTiu 7 років тому

    I am on fire now. I need to come back to this video again and again and again

  • @MsNalder1
    @MsNalder1 7 років тому

    Thanks sooo much Brendon you said exactly what I needed to hear to give me that nudge to get started!!

  • @veronyinyin
    @veronyinyin 9 років тому +2

    Thank you Brendon...the funny thing is, it's easy to help someone get started on their dream but I can't start any of my dreams... :(

    • @cartoonprofessor
      @cartoonprofessor 9 років тому +2

      If you follow Brendons advice and do three things each day towards your dream, no matter how small or great, you will be getting started on "YOUR" dream. Go for it, take this advice and do it! :-)

    • @veronyinyin
      @veronyinyin 9 років тому

      Thanks for your advice cartoonprofessor :)

  • @andypeperaijapape3856
    @andypeperaijapape3856 6 років тому +1

    Thank you very much Brendon

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 3 роки тому

    Thank you, Brendon. My challenge is time management. I need to get my priorities in order first. Then move on from there.

  • @licheng7956
    @licheng7956 9 років тому +3

    Man, you are amazing.
    I'm going to ask some people to check you channel or wether they could make a mot. Vid about you!
    :)

  • @kade99TV
    @kade99TV 9 років тому

    WOW! I've realized that all those excuses I have are not to cover fear. Fear is also an excuse for me... So what I really cover is lack of commitment, laziness.

  • @sedrickbanks3789
    @sedrickbanks3789 9 років тому

    Brother your videos are super...I love your mindset and how you share your knowledge in such simple terms. I am just starting out as a Motivational Speaker/Coach and I could not ask for better guidance. Thank you!!

  • @Heavy-metaaal
    @Heavy-metaaal 9 років тому +1

    I love your sense of humor.

  • @op_mandela
    @op_mandela 8 років тому +4

    You are doing a good job by this video of yours... well don

  • @alexshchet
    @alexshchet 9 років тому

    Love it! It hits the nail on every point. Excellent! Thank you soooooooo much!

  • @RoswithaHerman
    @RoswithaHerman 5 років тому

    Amazing video Brendon! This is the best way to make me find motivations when i lack it!

  • @nes.keybar
    @nes.keybar Рік тому

    you give me ispiration, really ! Thank you for being yourself

  • @alexshchet
    @alexshchet 9 років тому

    I watched 1,000,000 times. It's amazing. I dunno know how to thank you for this.

  • @iveca91
    @iveca91 9 років тому

    I can relate to so many of your points. Great video !

  • @SrwpkMX
    @SrwpkMX 7 років тому +1

    Brendon do you have a video on how to make a learning journey map in detail?

  • @adamking4913
    @adamking4913 7 років тому

    Mines hard. Im in highschool(sophomore) and right now i really want to be in the military. I really think it would be good to give me purpose in life and to help people. Im so interested in movies and videos about real military tactics and stuff like that. Honestly i want to be a navy seal or in the marines. Those are some big dreams. But also, my parents dont want me to enlist in the military. Im so stuck because all i can think about is joining and helping people in life, but at the same time im worried it might be the wrong choice in life.

  • @grandmamary622
    @grandmamary622 6 років тому

    Thank you for these videos. Iam really trying to learn... you make it interesting to me and make me want to do it. THANK YOU!

  • @daftwombat1211
    @daftwombat1211 8 років тому +4

    When you look up lucid dreaming and find this guy

  • @CocoTiu
    @CocoTiu 7 років тому

    Brendon has changed me too. I feel that he is my good friend though we never met

  • @andreasjohannson6573
    @andreasjohannson6573 8 років тому

    Boom, and almost no one can escape Brendons inspiring power once more ;-). Thanks.

  • @ABOIDAHO
    @ABOIDAHO 9 років тому

    Need to watch this everyday.

  • @Skrinkle1111
    @Skrinkle1111 9 років тому +1

    Absolutely genius!

  • @zgzgzghuhuhu8215
    @zgzgzghuhuhu8215 6 років тому

    wow!
    this is exactly what i need at the moment!
    thank you very much 😊😇

  • @agnesforis6012
    @agnesforis6012 9 років тому

    Dreams can become true !!
    Thanks !

  • @rhoda2226
    @rhoda2226 9 років тому +1

    I'm zoomin' and dialin', this is my thing, I got it!!! Things are developing well!! Me and Jesus gonna do it!!! I'm scheduling. Tell your dear wife to give you an extra squeeze for me. Three actions? Yes Sir

  • @RestuSudyatmika
    @RestuSudyatmika 9 років тому

    Thank you Brendon for the great video!!!

  • @iSugarHeart
    @iSugarHeart 9 років тому

    Ahh damn the begining is just... bullseye. I realized that i have no dreams and therefore no goals i do love life but its difficult to be motivated or to stay happy without no dreams.. thanks for info.

  • @mioqlassact7653
    @mioqlassact7653 9 років тому

    3:09 Hahaha, spot on Johnny Drama :)

  • @hamidrahmani9052
    @hamidrahmani9052 6 років тому

    You are amazing! U r like a pump station, each time I watch you i get my engine filled. Thanks))

  • @ogorcristian7063
    @ogorcristian7063 9 років тому

    Thank you Brendon.

  • @pastrychef2495
    @pastrychef2495 6 років тому

    Brendon you are so brilliant. And say the right things at the right time. I want to live the charged life Brendon !~

  • @TrevorShredder
    @TrevorShredder 9 років тому

    Absolutely accurate & amazing. Thank you, always!

  • @mizztanjo
    @mizztanjo 8 років тому +1

    How did you learn about "talking to people"..or talking to a camera? Getting over that social anxiety?

  • @jaitipwun2782
    @jaitipwun2782 9 років тому

    Thank You Brendon, i really like your video it motivates me.
    I was always confuse about that what to do in order to start my dream.
    Thank you again.

  • @Carrie771000
    @Carrie771000 9 років тому +1

    Your videos help so much - thank you :-)

  • @NorthstarAmerica
    @NorthstarAmerica 4 роки тому

    I really enjoyed seeing you at Funnel Hacking Live 2019... That was awesome...!🔥🔥🔥 The message here in this video is phenomenal, and I appreciate you sharing it...!🌟💯🌟
    #StartABusiness #FunnelHackingLive #FunnelHackingLive2019

  • @dwightperry
    @dwightperry 8 років тому

    Great video it's like you are reading my mind. Thanks

  • @salimtobin
    @salimtobin 9 років тому +6

    Hi Brendon i really like your videos...they are truthfully MOTIVATIONAL,
    But, i just have a question,,,what would YOU do if you were Qualified to chase your dream,,,you have the required skills,The Ability,The Capability The Desire,The Potential,,,,and the only thing which is preventing you to pursue your dream is the set of rules that are basically made by your MOTHER COUNTRY??,and,the lack of financial support to Get outside your land to live your dream ??

    • @Pmdm80
      @Pmdm80 9 років тому +2

      well, that's what I thought before I started to chase my dream, depending on whatever you would like to do just get started, do it put a date and keep going until you finish it you are going to get good enough and improve yourself in the process to discover new people, to talk, to present, to pitch learn fast and move on and then eventually money will get to you!, trust me!

    • @DrCJones
      @DrCJones 9 років тому +1

      SALIMOS MILOZOVIC Read the book 4 Hour Work Week, or go to the blog fourhourworkweek.com/blog/ to get ideas on how to overcome those obstacles. Start looking all over for ways other people (even others from your country) have figured it out. What are your thoughts *****?

    • @OldCameras
      @OldCameras 9 років тому +3

      SALIMOS MILOZOVIC You can't live your life according to somebody else' rules. I know it may seem hard, but the most difficult part is to start. I've done this very recently, and I am happy I did. Find a very small thing you can do towards your goal, and just do it. Don't worry if you fail or succeed. Just do it and see. Good luck.

    • @salimtobin
      @salimtobin 9 років тому

      A Torrent of Videos Christen Jones Pedro Muller Thank you guys! i do appreciate your comments ,but believe me it`s REALLY challenging(more than you could ever think) to REALIZE a DREAM in a THIRD WORLD COUNTRY,because it`s almost impossible to PASS,to SKIP or to just IGNORE the RULES and move on because these rules are made by a WHOLE CORRUPT AUTHORITY/SYSTEM,,,and pursuing your DREAM means that you as a simple civilian trying to STAND AGAINST A WHOLE CORRUPT SOCIETY that DO NOT WANT YOU TO FULFILL YOUR DREAMS,,,

    • @karenjackson6885
      @karenjackson6885 9 років тому

      SALIMOS MILOZOVIC What is it you are wanting to do? What is it that your dream is?

  • @maso0994
    @maso0994 8 років тому

    You the man Brendon!

  •  9 років тому

    really inspiring... awesome.

  • @reemhalimeh9140
    @reemhalimeh9140 7 років тому

    You're awesome man!!

  • @KraftNem3000
    @KraftNem3000 9 років тому

    flawlessly

  • @dr.anandambandyopadhyay5901
    @dr.anandambandyopadhyay5901 2 роки тому

    Challenge accepted Brendon..will start 3 simple things from tomorrow...
    I promise..

  • @ankitanand3811
    @ankitanand3811 9 років тому

    Thanks Sir.

  • @MANiKANtaDOANYTHING
    @MANiKANtaDOANYTHING 9 років тому +4

    The Charged Life......

  • @djsamsmite
    @djsamsmite 7 років тому

    This was good. I'm subscribing

  • @safaayousef8253
    @safaayousef8253 9 років тому

    I really love your videos,,, l learned a lot from it,, and every thing i want i find it here,, and i study English Literature in university ,, so i hope to learn from your language and accent....

  • @verat.6339
    @verat.6339 3 роки тому

    Great video Brendon 👏😎

  • @ddileo6
    @ddileo6 9 років тому

    Great Video what a positive messages! ! Thanks for all you do!! I have android and "kindle as well as audible "are there resources on either of those sources?

  • @mythoughts500
    @mythoughts500 9 років тому

    Superb!!!!

  • @realperson7514
    @realperson7514 5 років тому

    I have many dreams and many ideas, I'm not scared or uncertain, etc.. it's lack of money lots of it!

    • @amberleaf7
      @amberleaf7 5 років тому +1

      You don't understand basic human psychology. It's called excuses. Brandon didn't have a lot of money when he started. Neither did Tony Robbins, not millions of others who achieved success. Your mindset needs to be changed.

  • @dwashington170
    @dwashington170 9 років тому

    Hi, I love this video..... This is a wonderful. My start date is March 2, 2015. Thank you!

  • @d0rk
    @d0rk 7 років тому

    I felt lost until watching this again.

  • @shahinansari6234
    @shahinansari6234 3 роки тому

    I love zig ziegler's quote.